Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1180 - Sandy and Jay Are Now Hotwifing and They Both Couldn’t Be Happier

Episode Date: July 28, 2025

Sandy and Jay wound up hotwifing recently and they couldn’t be happier and they called in to talk all about it. Tune in to discuss hear all the details including how and why Jay became super jealous of Sandy and how it eventually turned him on, how he secretly started googling hotwife porn and when he finally admitted it to Sandy, how she felt about it when he told her, how they eventually went onto some apps and what they did on them at first, the first guy she flirted with and how they both felt about it, the first bull they found and how and why Jay was super nervous at first, exactly what went down during their first hook up and how they both felt afterwards, how and why Jay loves to video tape all the hook ups, why Sandy eventually started playing solo and exactly what went down during one of her solo hook ups, their reclaiming sex and what they dig most about it, the type of guys Sandy looks for and likes to hook up with, how and why SAndy is not into having Jay hook-up with women and how he feels about it, how they’re now looking for couples and what Sandy wants to do with them plus a whole lot more. **To see HOT pics of my SANDY and JAY plus my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712  Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed.  Sponsors: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://liferx.md⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Start your transformation now and get $50 OFF your first month, use code: ANONYMOUS ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To get 10% off Load Boost and Drive Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2520-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Use code: ANONYMOUS to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14-day money-back guarantee  Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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but they are a super fun couple sandy and jay they are like into hot wiping they're perfectly suited because Sandy's done into seeing him with other girls, but he loves seeing her with other guys. And it wasn't always that way. The way he figured out he was into the whole hot wiping thing was like through his jealous nature. He was always a very jealous guy. He explains it. And then something happened between them. And then something happened between them that like made him start being horny for her with other people. I'm not going to tell you what it was. You're going to have to listen. But it's super interesting how it came about and how he got into it. Eventually he wound up telling her.

They role-plated out. She talks about how she felt at first, you know, and then how they eventually went online and dipped their toes into it and then eventually had their first experience with a guy. It was a great first experience. They talked all about that. And then it was a little bit downhill. They talk about some bad experiences, but then they talk about, you know, how they have played solo.

She's played solo with the first bull. She talks about that experience. They talk a lot about how great the reclaiming sex is. Jay is a typical guy who loves to see his wife with someone else. He does like to get involved. They've done threesomes. He does like the MFM situation. But he also loves when she plays solo.

He loves the anticipation and he loves videos. They tape all of their interactions with each other for their private viewing. They love to watch afterwards. It's a typical hot wife scenario, but their whole story and journey of how they got there are super interesting. They're a hot couple. They're in my Discord if you want to see them. It's a super interesting story, so I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Sandy and Jay. Hey, Sandy, Sandy, Sandy and Jay. I actually made, you wanted to be called Sammy, but I'm like, Sammy's not enough of a girl name,

so I changed it. I'm calling you Sandy. Sandy and Jay are on the phone. A married couple. Sandy's a hot wife. Jay's a guy who loves a fucking hot wife or hot wifing, right? I'm assuming. That's why you guys have the setup. I got both. of you on the call. Now, typically before I start taping, I do tell the guy, like, listen, my call, my listeners love to hear the girl talk, right? So make sure you let Sandy talk. But sometimes when I say that, the guy doesn't talk at all. So, you know, hopefully both of you will chime in here when necessary. But, like, someone's going to start off and give me the scoop on, like, where you guys are at now. Like, how long you've been married and how long

you guys been hot-wifing for? All right. I'm Jay. We have been married. for four years together for 13. Oh, okay. What took you so long to get married? I couldn't get my shit together. I was struggling with a little bit of substance issues, and I had to kind of get my life together. Oh, okay.

So, and it doesn't, I mean, it doesn't matter to me, but I'm just wondering. All right, so you've been together for all that time. How long have you been into this kind of lifestyle? So me and Sandy have been very, our sex life has been amazing. I would say what, six months ago,

ish? That we started? Yeah. Well, we had our first, like, experience. We had our first bowl in March, but we've talked about it back like September of 24, we started talking about it. He approached me and kind of brought it up

and it just kind of of went from there. Well, since we only have six months of experience left, let's work up to that. Because I think it's always, like, I think a big, like an interesting part of a couple's story is the buildup and how, you know, Sandy got down with the idea how it came up. Like, when did this come up? Like, who was the first person that brought this up in your relationship? I know you said you always had great sex.

Like, were you always talking about like the hot wiping scenario or like, how did it come up for you guys? No, I was extremely. jealous. I can't believe, like, when I brought this up to her, I thought she was going to faint. So when me and my wife and I had took a break for about two and a half years because I couldn't figure out my shit. And during that two and a half years, I would catch myself just sitting there wondering who she was sleeping with, who she was dating at the time. Yeah, I got it growing crazy in your head jealous about it, right? Thinking about it. But it turned me on as well. Like, I would

find myself on sites looking for people that looked like her and just kind of just imagining it was her. But the odd part was is I would give her so much grief about dating these men. Yeah, but let me ask you this. So you were always jealous, right? It wasn't until you had that break that you were thinking about it obsessively that you wound up turning it into a turn-on. Is that like when it kind of switched? Like you were always a jealous guy and then it became a turn-on? Or did you become jealous and turned on by it all at the same time? I was a jealous guy and it became a turn on for sure. Yeah, that's what I've heard before and it makes sense.

So you were always like a super jealous guy. So now you're on a break. This is your girl. You can't get it together. So you're still pining over her, right? But you're not with her. So you're obsessively thinking about it with other guys and starts to turn you on. Yes.

Okay. And was that surprising to you considering you were such a jealous dude? Oh my gosh. It was insane. I was like, how can this be a thing? but I tell you what, it drove me nuts for a long time. And it actually took me about a year and a half, two years after we got back together for me to even bring up that that was a thing.

Right. Oh, so you kept it a secret because you're like. Oh, yeah. Right. But you were horny for it the minute you, like, clicked into it? Yes. Right. And what was it about it?

Like, was it, you know, did you start watching Hot Wife porn? Did you just start imagining when you were thinking about it, were you thinking of her with other people? like how are you getting off on it secretly without her knowing about it? So when we were together, I had taken a bunch of pictures and I would kind of use my imagination. But then I would start looking up cheating wife was a big one. Wife sharing was another one I would look up. And like I said, I would find myself looking for women that looked exactly like her.

And I was like, huh, this is pretty interesting. Even the vaginas. Especially the vaginas. Right, because you really wanted to live out that scenario. Yep. Yeah, that's what it was about. So interesting. Yeah. Okay. And so now, when does he eventually cop to it? And Jay, what was going on with you that you finally decided to bring it up? And then, Sandy, you're going to tell me exactly how you felt when he did bring it up. So we had gotten into talking about a little bit of anal action for me. I kind of wanted her to play with me. And I think that kind of opened the door for me. to share more of my like sexual curiosities with her.

Okay. And after that, pretty much the conversation just kept rolling. Yeah, but let me just ask you like that specific time that you said, like, did you say, hey, I've been like fantasizing about you being with other people or I get off on cheating? Like, do you remember how you phrased it? And then Sandy, tell me how you felt when he brought it up. Because I think that's like a weird thing if you don't know that this exists and a lot of people don't know that it exists to hear your guy say.

Yeah, no. So I had no idea it was a thing. I was very like in when I was younger in high school, like middle schoolish, I was very promissuous and, you know, very high sex drive, you know, multiple partners. So but then when I met my husband, you know, we were still on fire. But, you know, we had kids and then I wasn't as crazy for it. So when he brought up, you know, the whole fantasizing and, you know, adding in someone else or, you know, because he was really just like, I would love to see you get fucked. And I was just like, what?

Like, what do you mean? Yeah. Like, what do you mean that that's what you want? Because, again, like, when we were separated, he was so jealous. So it was like, I had PTSD almost. Like, I didn't believe him that that's what he wanted. and then I kind of turned into like a protector of his feelings for him because I thought that, you know, that he was crazy and like, yeah, maybe it's a fantasy, but when fantasy meets reality, like it wouldn't, you know, I was scared it was going to hurt him. So we talked for a while about it and then he went on one of the sites.

And so we just kind of like explored the sites, didn't really reach out. it took a little bit to get used to seeing all the dicks like on the apps because like I didn't really watch porn like I was very you know I'm we have a great sex life so it was you know I just didn't really I didn't have all the extra input you know like the porn the websites the all that so it was a bit of a shock factor but now I mean I wouldn't want it any other way Yeah, but so take me back to that time where you start to wrap your head around it and now you're on the apps. And what are you doing on the apps? Are you like posting picks of yourself and like kind of, are you open at that point to meeting like guys? Are you putting it out there that you want to meet people? Like, were you ready to do that or were you just on the apps like secretly looking at people? Like I don't get it.

Yeah. So when we started the app, we just kind of like put in our bio like new here, just kind of looking. I mean, we would flirt with people for fun. but like I wasn't like really ready to actually like meet someone yet. It was more like dipping my toes in, you know, seeing what it would be like, seeing my emotional reactions like to someone responding to me or reaching out to me, checking on Jay to make sure that, you know,

the messages wouldn't trigger him because like our marriage at the end of the day is top priority. So it was, you know, really slowly, slowly easing into it. it. But now, I mean, it took maybe like every week we would progress levels. You know, I mean, it did not take long at all. So I mean, we turned it into like, hey, we're new-ish, Stag Vixen, like we're looking for a bull, hit us up, definitely post the pictures. We have a few videos on the SDC. But now we're, yeah, we're looking. We're, it's everything. Right, but okay, but so, but now you're doing everything. We'll get to your experiences, but when do you take it from just being on there doing this stuff to actually like meeting people?

And like when you just saw, like how did you decide to move forward with this in real life like it, where you were like ready to meet a guy? Okay, for sure. So we were at a family reunion up somewhere and me and my husband decided to go to a strip. club because I had been before for like a my bachelor's party we went so I told him like hey I want to go with you because I think that that would have been like a really soft start to what it would kind of be like to be with someone he went to the bathroom well we got to the strip club I had a few drinks I'm enjoying the dancers he's staring at me and then I see you know a guy at the bar and I'm like oh, he's, you know, he's kind of cute, and I look at Jay, and he looks at me, and he says,

I'm going to go to the bathroom. And I'm like, what? So he told me to, like, go up by this random guy at the bar while he was in the bathroom. And I did. I mean, we didn't really talk. Like, I looked at him. He looked at me. Maybe smiled. But, like, I wasn't, I wasn't really sure how to act or react, but then when Jay came out of the bathroom, he was, you know, the eyes right on me. I was smiling because it just

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And now, do you? Yeah, keep going. Sorry. So, like, that, it went over well, which just kicked it up. I mean, we got back to the hotel. The most amazing sex, we actually got caught by my father-in-law in the backseat of our SUV, fooling around before. we even got like made it into the hotel wow so you guys were so horny just from you sort of doing that

little flirtation with the stranger at the strip club yes interesting but but you know what's interesting about that to me is like you know other couples who are listening you know you could like maybe just like do that kind of stuff and just do that and look how much it turns you out you know what I mean it's like why not have a little fun and it didn't even lead to anything right it's so safe right and vanilla but it added something so much so that you guys couldn't keep your hands off each other. Yes. Yes.

And it was really safe. It was really safe. Like, I think you hit the nail on the head with like that word. Yeah. You know, so I mean that that night was incredible. So right, I mean, on the way home from that trip, we were already like, let's pick a date, get a sitter. We got to find someone like now. Now let me ask you this, Jay.

like when this was going to be like now that you're going to find a real guy the first guy is this something where like how is like what's the hot wife scenario that turns you on the most like do you want to be there watching are you going to join in do you want her to go play solo like what did you guys decide to do as your first like scenario like a hookup so the first scenario i wanted it i wanted to be there because first and foremost i want her to be safe and i don't want to just send her out with some stranger yeah and i'd Did find out after our first experience, I do prefer the MFM, just a threesome. I love the spit roasting with my wife. She is nice and curvy, so it's nice to get all those views. But since then, I do let her go on solos with our first bowl. The first guy, since because you know him by now. Yeah. Right.

Okay, but it didn't start off that way. No, not at all. Yeah, okay. No. So our first experience with that bowl was about two. months after the reunion. I think we finally found one and we settled. We found a sitter. And we decided we were just going to meet him at the hotel. We were going to go out to dinner first. And I'm shitting a brick. You are? You are?

Yeah. I'm freaking the hell out. Wait, but what are you freaked out on? And then we got to ask how Sandy was feeling. But what are you freaked out? Are you worried about how you're going to feel? Are you just worried about? Okay. Okay. Interesting. Yes. It's that post not clarity like, oh, shit. Yeah. What if a. Because I go back to these. This is pre-nut clarity you're having. And I go back to insecurities too. I dealt with insecurities for the longest time. So, oh shit, am I going to lose my favorite thing in this entire world just from this one decision? And that goes back to, ever since we started all this, the communication, everybody talks about that.

The communication is insane. We over-communicate. And I love it. And I even talk to my vanilla friends. I'm like, they're complaining about their wives. I said, well, did you open your mouth about what you need? Yeah. It's really that simple.

Exactly. So why isn't it that simple? I think it's the fucked up thing. So, yeah, I was anxiety-ridden, but I was glad to be there with my best friend. You know what I mean? But let me ask you this, Sandy. How did you pick this guy? What was it about him that made you say, yeah, that's the guy I'm going to fuck?

It was for sure the dick. Oh, okay. Are you like a size queen? I am. I am. Yeah, I mean, we'll get into it later, but like we're finding out that not, like, not everyone with a big dick can really like use it. Yeah.

The right way. So I'm like I started off as a big size queen, but now I'm like, eh, you know, it's not the most important thing. Yeah, that's interesting. But so, but the first guy, this guy, you did see his package. He was well hung, and that was a big part of why you picked him. Yeah, well, Jay actually picked him. Oh.

So, yes, yes. Jay, he picks the potential ones and then sends them to me. So he sent that profile, and I was just like, yes. Then we talked because I have to have, like, I'm the type of hot wife that I need, like I need to know that they want me, that they think that I'm hot, that it's, you know, So he gave that. Mm-hmm. And then it was just, we didn't talk to too much leading up to it because I didn't, like, in the

beginning, I was super aware of, like, communicating with the Bulls and how much and, like, what is the right amount? I never want to send a mixed signal. I don't, you know, like, I'm a big overthinker also. Mm-hmm. So, like, I didn't, we didn't really talk. And that night, actually, like, Jay just met him down. at the bar in the hotel and I just laid there and just waited.

Like I couldn't even, I didn't even want to see him. I didn't want to talk to him. Like I almost just wanted to be blindfolded. Yeah, I got it. Yeah, I just wanted to be there. But he was really cool. He was really cool. So, I mean, that's why we go on solos with, well, why I go on a solo with him,

because he is just a cool person and we have a good time. You're lucky right out of the gate that you've. found a great first experience, right? Well, it almost kind of set us up to fail, though, Kathy. Yeah, of course. It was downhill from there. Yeah, we're like, what the fuck? Yeah, that's what happens when you start at the top of the mountain.

But let's get your top of the mountain story first before we hear the bad stories. So, like, what happens? Like, you're there. You don't know what to expect. You're like, I'd rather, like, you're just hoping everything just starts to happen, right? I mean, what does happen when he walks in the room? Oh, gosh. So I think he walks in and then I told him.

that we had condoms because we brought we bring condoms we bring lobes we bring water bottles we bring you know we're very accommodating we have the playlist so I think that I because I also when I get nervous I just kind of talk also so and I had a few drinks which helped so I think if I remember correctly I mean he just kind of like walked it and I just looked at him and just started like laughing like a nervous laugh like looked at Jay like are we really like this. is happening right now and they both were like yeah and I'm like all right so I just I think I was already naked oh while you're waiting for him yeah I think I was butt naked already or I just had a shirt on I can't remember but then I just kind of like laid there and just what I think the bull kind of started it off right

he started going down on me. I'm looking over at Jay, like making sure that he's okay, like just staring at. I'm kind of smiling like, you know, like, are we, this, should we continue? Like, it's all good. And he's sitting there super fucking hard. Yeah. Loving every second coming. He's touching me, grabbing my boobs.

Just it's, yes. And Jay, how is it for you? I mean, this is finally happening in real life with your. girl right in front of you. Top of the fucking mountain. That is my throne. Yeah. That little chair in the corner.

Oh my God. So funny. You sitting there watching? Just taking in the view. Yes. Yes. It was kind of awkward though. Like I felt so weird because I couldn't imagine being a bull and having a camera like

up your asshole trying to get a nice angle. Oh, why? Because you were filming it? Yes. Yes, that's a big part of my thing, especially on her solos. Just, you know, if you can, just take a little video clip. Yeah. That's all I really need.

Yeah, I get it. And the guy was cool with it. The guy was cool with it. Yes, he was. They usually all are as long as you don't get their face. Exactly. Obviously, I respect all of them. I feel like if they weren't, that might be like a deal breaker for us just because we enjoy it so much.

Right. You like to watch afterwards. That's a part of the turn on. That is my biggest turn on. Yeah, I got it. He watching them constantly. Right, but you joined in this time, right? Yes.

Okay. Usually, if we're going to meet a bowl for the first time, I'm going to join in because I want to be there because I can really pick up on her facial cues. So our second bowl was not a very good experience. And I was glad I was right there with her because I picked up on her facial cues and I kind of was able to just shut it down. Okay, yeah, we're done here. But that first time, did you guys take turn fucking her? Like, were you, like, interested in, like, this sloppy seconds thing? Did you like any kind of, like, cream pie action?

Like, you know, what was that MFM-3-some like once you got involved? So I was pretty much, it was a lot of spit roasting. Yeah. We would flip-flop between that. Uh-huh. And then afterwards, I kind of wanted to let them enjoy their time. Once I knew that she was comfortable. Yeah.

kind of step back and let them have their time. Yeah. You're really enjoying the hot wife's name. Yes. Yeah. That's like your thing. And you're obviously very visual, right? Because like you like to watch the film of it later, the same thing as you sitting on the chair watching it while you're there, right? A hundred percent. Yeah, yeah. Cool. So that was top of the mat. And then the next guy was terrible and you shut it down because you could read her properly, right? Yes. Okay. Okay. I mean, you've only been out of for six months, but it sounds like you've had a lot of experiences. So start, you know, give him to me.

It's not like one experience in six months. No. No. Since March or since May, it's been about once a month. Okay. So now after that first bull, did you continue to see him and just keep looking for other people as well? Yes. So actually, we met with him and then, yeah, probably about a month later, Jay was like,

do you want to hit him up for a solo? Oh, okay. No, it was probably a couple weeks and then maybe I was thinking about it for maybe a week or so. And then I said, are you sure? Like, because this is, like, this is going to be new. Like, I'm going to go by myself. Yeah. But he was, he was cool with it.

I was a hot mess. Like anxiety. My stomach was hurting throughout the day. Like, just thinking about going by myself. but yeah because that's a whole new thing right yeah yeah for sure because you're not going to be sitting there waiting you're going to kind of have to initiate you're walking into a place right like it's a whole it's a lot of firsts for you yes and our rule number one was no solos yeah and how quickly did that go out the window right out the fucking window what do you think made you change your mind jay was it

just because you got so horny for the whole situation that you're like now just do this and you trusted the guy so you felt okay with it 100%. And I think I was like come drunk because the reclaiming after the first time was insane. Really? It was like a prostate orgasm. Really? Like a whole body. A whole body.

I was shivering. Wow. It's hard to explain. So you felt like maybe doing solo that's going to be a new thing. It's going to bring back that like first time experience like kind of thing? Yeah, in a way, I think it's more just a logistical thing. Like, because we have two smaller children, so finding a sitter is hard. So to kind of get my fix, I said, honey, would you like to go hang out with our bowl?

Right. You'll stay with a kid. Yeah. Now, Sandy, were you like thinking it could be hot in a way, too? Because it's like solo and it's a different experience, like, where you turn? on by the whole solo thing or just freaked out by it at first? I think I was more turned on than freaked out. Because now I really like, like, for the first solo, I didn't really have like a ritual

or anything like that. You know, I just kind of showed up and I just kind of like sat there. Like, I think I got there a little too early or I was rushed. So it was, I don't know, it was just interesting. For the first, though, I didn't really have like a ritual or anything like that. You know, I just kind of showed up and I just kind of like sat there. Like, I think I got there a little too early or I was rushed. So it was, I don't know, it was just interesting.

So then I just, I'd sat there and yeah, I mean, I'd wait and, you know, the anxiety, I'd be on FaceTime with Jay the whole day. Did we do that the first time? Yes. Okay. Then yes. we were on FaceTime like the entire time. He took screenshots like as I'm doing my hair, my makeup.

I also love the solos because then I bring the ringlight and like take pictures in the hotel room. So I like the change of scenery. Yeah. But yeah, now it's, I have a whole process now. I'm like, I went on a solo last night. I wasn't nervous. I left, what a good like two hours before. Stopped and got something to drink.

Stop and got, you know. know, some dinner for myself, hung out in the room. Next time I want to bring a swimsuit because that's one thing that I don't do is bring a swimsuit just to use the pool and the hot tub. When you're done, you mean like take advantage of the hotel amenities when you're finished? Yes. Yes. Oh, my God.

Wait, talk me through that first solo experience, though. Like how did, how was it? What went down when you entered? Like, were you, so you're, you get there ahead of time. And so the bull is entering again with you already in the room, right? Yes. Okay. Yeah. So the first time I was butt naked again, he knocked down the door and I just opened it. I peeked my head around and then I just kind of flung it open and then he comes in and he's, he's not like shy, but he's more, he's just quieter. So it's like he just kind of like looked at me and like smiled. And I just said, you know, like, hi. Because I am, I am very loud. I'm very talkative. I'm. I'm very talkative. I think I'm funny. So it was like,

it's always really interesting with him because he's so opposite. Yeah, yeah, yeah. What I, because I also explain, like I, I did tell him like,

hey, it is my first solo. So like, I'm going to need you to take the lead or I'll want you to take the lead. Like, that would make it more comfortable for me. Yeah. So he just pretty much said,

like, all right, I hear you, like I got you. And so he came in. And then I just, you know, I'm already naked.

so I just laid on the bed. And then he just starts eating me out. And then I started to blow him. I did not come. Is kissing on the table in these scenarios? No. Okay. No.

No. And that's, I'm glad you brought that up because there's so much like that goes on that I forget about. I think for that first, so he tried kissing. Like he was from behind trying to kiss like up my neck. Yeah.

But I could feel like the way, you know, where he was going, it was like, I think he's trying to get to my face. Yeah. So that was a little awkward. I didn't address it. I just kind of kept my head tilted the other way while he was, you know, doing what he was doing. But can I ask you why? Like, did you and Jay discuss no kissing on the table?

Or is it because you can't, like, get into kissing a guy that you're not, like, you know, have feelings for? Like, why were you, like, not into it? So I think that we probably just set that boundary just as like a kissing can be intimate type thing. Yeah. But like now I, even with that first bowl, like trying to kiss me, like it really, like I think I would not be able to kiss someone that's not my husband. Like I just, their tongue in my mouth, their tongue can be everywhere else. Right.

In my mouth. Kissing. You're not into it. I got it. Yes. Okay. Yeah. Mm-hmm. So no kissing, but you did everything else. How long did that session last with him in the hotel room?

Oh, my gosh. I think it was like 45. Mm-hmm. Now, is Jay directing? Is he just there watching? Are you talking to them, Jay? Or just watching and jerking off? I don't know. So this was on her solo. So I was at home jerking off. But I thought you're on FaceTime. Oh, your daughter on FaceTime while she's with the guy. She videos. Yeah. She just videos it. So the FaceTime with you, though, happens before the bull gets it. Yep. So I'll sit there, watch her, put her makeup on, just keep her company. Oh, okay, but then you go off. You don't want to see it live. You want to, like, anticipate it.

Anticipate it, and then I want to be able to watch it 20 times a day and not get work done every day. Literally. Every time I come by him, he's got it. And he is a master of disguise because it'll sound like he's watching something, like a TV show on his phone. Yeah. But then when I go to look, it's really our videos.

Oh my God, that's hilarious. A good old picture in a picture. Yeah, that's so fucking funny. Wait, so when you're home, though, let me ask you this. Does it turn you on, like, just, like, is the anticipation of not knowing and, you know, does not knowing what's going on and waiting at home turn you on to? Like, is that a little bit of foreplay for you? Yes.

I am hard the entire time she's gone. Yeah. That's what I've heard for people that are into that kind of kink, you know? Yep. So for you, that's your four-pley. Like, you're getting off on the fact that you don't know and that you're wondering and all the thoughts. And then you get the scoopage, like you get a live, a video of exactly what went down. Like, I'll beg her before she leaves.

Just send me a couple snippets to get me through the 30 minutes until you get home. Oh, my God. That's so funny. You ever tease him? I'm like, no, I'm not sending you anything. No, I would never. I'm sorry. She almost did last night. No, I'm sorry. Someone like Jay might be into tease and denial too. He might get even more off on it.

You never know. Some people are like that. Yeah. You probably would be. Yeah, try it one. Try it one day. Torture him. Even more. Give him blue balls. Okay, wait. So that first video when you did the solo play, did you realize like, oh my God, I like this too? Yes. I did. And funny story is the first solo. I actually. the whole video was in slow-mo. Wow, you did that by accident or on purpose? Yes, yes, it was on accident. Oh, my God.

And then I panicked. I was so filled with fear that, like, it was, you know, because that's, I really want to give him that video from, you know, because I, I prefer all of us together just because I love sharing it with Jay. So it's like the video is like, that's extremely important. important for me to get that for him. Of course.

So because this is an experience with your husband. It's not just like you solo play, right? Like it's the three of you together, even though he's not there. And the video is what brings him in. So if you don't have that video, it's like you just fuck some random dude without him. Exactly. Exactly. That makes sense.

Well, you just have to press fast forward, right? You just got to forward the video, right? And then you're like at normal speed. Yeah, I was able to figure out to change the speed. Yeah. Thank God. Yeah. Oh, my God.

That's so funny. and then good reclamation like good reclaiming sex after that one too yes it's it's it people downplay how good that is or maybe they don't explain it enough it's it's not just sex i feel like when she gets back from these dates it's like it's a totally different kind of it's not fucking it we're literally making love i'm taking back my favorite thing that it's like who'd i hear someone say it's like having a porch It was on your podcast. Oh, yeah, yeah.

No, I know it was a Fitwife Jewel. She said it's like you loan your Porsche out because you love it so much. And then you get it off. She is my sports car. Yeah. She is my favorite thing in the fucking world. I love that analogy. You want to know why because if you listen to my show, you've probably heard some people talk about how,

oh, I don't like the reclaiming word because it seems like, oh, someone took my wife and I have to get her back. Like they see it as a negative. But the way she described it when she put it in that scenario with the Porsche, it really showed that it's not a negative thing. I've never thought of it as a negative, you know, but some people are like, I don't like that. I like reconnecting instead of reclaiming, you know, everyone has their own idea of what it means, but I love that Porsche analysis she made. Yes, I'm reclaiming, I'm taking back what's mine. Right, but you didn't like lose it. Exactly. You know what I mean? You loaned it because

you love it so much. That's what she was, that's like, that's why that analogy was so perfect because I think even people if you just said oh i you know i i'm getting her back like people could still read into that in a negative way like you know you so no one took your wife from you you handed her over in happiness to and you know please enjoy this as much as i do kind of thing like the yes yeah yeah it's not a negative but some people put that negative spin so that was like a great and that's how you experience it a hundred percent well and the best part i think the reclaiming for me is no one will ever fuck me the way that my husband fucks me like no one knows my body the way that my husband knows my body so it's just like it's almost like my i feel like my body knows when it's home and like when it's with jay and so it's like that also is what sets off

that reclaiming session after it's like my body knows like you are with your person like it's just it's a whole other level It's just, it's such a deep connection. It's insane. And it lasts for a long time. Yeah, that's what I've heard. Like, so for days you can like get off on like one scenario? Yes. For sure.

Oh my God. When he walks in, I just like, I stare at him instantly just get wet. Just like I have to have him. And like it turns into just craving. Like I can't get enough of it. Right. So like maybe like that guy is like your appetizer, but when you get home, like that's your main course.

Yes, exactly. That's that you're not finished, right? Like with that, right? Right. Like you finish with your husband. Yes. Right. Yes.

And so there's always the reclaiming. Now, tell me about other guys that you met up. I mean, we know about this bull and he's the only one you played solo with, right? But tell me about some other MFM threesomes you had with other guys. So the second one we had was. was he was huge like bigger than the first one like ab- well I don't know that it's abnormally for me it seemed abnormally huge but he came he wanted to talk like sit down have a drink before we played so that was new to us also because our first one you know he just came in the room and I was ready

to go right so me and Jay are at the hotel already our bowl comes we're sitting at the bar he comes in the bar, we sit, we talk. I don't know that I prefer that because it just seemed like we're not there for friends. We're there to have sex. And I like to message before so that I don't like have to do that so that I don't have to sit and talk to you for a half hour before you fuck me. Yeah, I get it. So we sat, had a few drinks and then went up to the hotel room. I think that he was very nervous.

I don't know. We are a very humble couple, but we're also good looking. So I don't know if, like, he, I don't know if he was thrown off or if he's ever been with someone that was like me, but it was just constant. Like he was constantly, you look so good. In the middle of what, me giving him head, he's telling me that it's the greatest thing he's ever experienced. Like, oh, my gosh, you're so good at that.

But it's like, it's not dirty talk. It's like conversation. And so I would stop and say thank you. Yeah. And I'm just like looking at Jay like, come on. Like what is going on? And then he went down on me and he bit me. What?

And I flinched. Yes. Like I don't, it wasn't. Maybe it was just that it was definitely teeth. I don't know if he was like trying to play. Like if he did it on purpose. purpose or not, but I flinched and then he said, sorry. Yeah, no, no, no, I've been with guys like that. They'll try it out because they want to see if that's, you know, if you're down, right? Because

that's a guy that wants to fucking hurt you. And there's nothing wrong with that, but like, I've had guys try to go there and I'm like, no fucking way. And they stop, right? But they'll do it once without asking, right? And just to see. And, you know, there's probably some girls that are like, oh my God, do that again, you know, because some people like it, you know? Right. Yeah. Yeah. So go on. But was he not a good-looking guy? No, he was good-looking. Yeah.

He was good-looking. And so that's why we've gotten younger bulls both times, so I don't know if it's like if that has anything to do with it either. But yeah, no, he was good, like, there was nothing wrong with him. He was, you know. How old are you guys? And how old are these bulls? I should have asked that in the beginning.

33-34. Yeah. You guys? Yeah. Okay. And the bowl, I think, was 30. The bad bowl was 30. And our regular is 23.

Oh, wow. 23-year-old. Like, what is this 23-year-old, like, on an app looking for couples to fuck? It's so interesting to me. I have been the same thing. Yeah. Yeah, I found out on Reddit. I'm like, I still don't understand how people fucking use that site.

Yeah, yeah. People do, though, for sure. It's funny because like when I was growing up that you know there just wasn't this like the internet didn't exist. So no guys that I knew would have been able to even do that if they wanted. That's because I'm thinking like I had guy friends when I was in my 20s and they would tell me what they did. But none of them were like, oh yeah, I'm going to fuck a couple, you know. And I don't tell me. I would have been like what the fuck.

But now it like goes down and that guy's pretty. I mean, listen, he knows how to handle himself at 23. He was like your favorite bull so far, right? Yeah. Super polite. and it was real awkward when I saw him at work. What do you mean? Oh, I forgot about that.

So I worked construction, and he also works construction. And I showed up to a job for one day. And I was walking across the building, and I seen him across the building. I was like, no fucking way. I saw him walking past me. I just put my finger in front of my mouth and said, please don't say anything to anybody. And what did he?

Of course, he was like, No problem. Exactly. And then that night I set up a solo day for them too. Oh my God. That's so, oh my God. You guys are naughty. Does anyone know that you guys are doing this besides, you know, your bulls?

We have one friend, a couple of ours that are friends that have been in the lifestyles for quite a few years now. Now, who told them first? Did they tell you that they were in the lifestyle and then you told them like, hey, we're getting into like hot waiving? like who offered up this information first? So they're very open about it. And I remember talking to my wife about it. And we were going back and forth about not telling them because we, this is something so crazy to us that it's, you know, you don't want anybody to know. With my job, like, I work for the city that we live in.

So if, like, it would just be a nightmare. Like I have a higher position. So like I'm always terrified. I'm still even sometimes like currently every few weeks I'm like I get paranoia. Like should we be doing this? Like is it too much? Like should I even have anything out there? Because it's just scary because it can, you know, this is something fun for us that we enjoy. But it's not accepted in the majority of people's, you know, it's not acceptable. So. Yeah, it's unfortunate because it is And listen, it's your own private business Most people don't know what Anyone's doing behind closed doors in their bedroom So why should people know what you're doing? You know?

But let me ask you this. Is your videos and stuff like I don't even know whether like Do you guys have like an only fan or are you posting stuff anywhere online? Like when you say you're out there, how are you out there? On a couple of the sites. What sites? We post it. We use your promo code for SDC. Oh, okay.

Let's give out the SDC code. it's 3771-2 or go to the description click on like SDC you get a free trial then you could sign up so you have stuff on SDC and set okay but let me ask you this is your stuff like the face your faces in it on SDC we have the profile with the password that we put our faces on there just because that made it so much more convenient I was getting so sick of sending pictures separately. So on that website, it's just really easy to just say, here's my password, look at my face, whatever. Right, but you vet those people before you give them the password just to make sure it's not the person down the street from you, right? Yes, for sure.

Right. Okay. So you're pretty locked down, though. Like, your stuff is out there, but not really out there. I mean, it's locked behind these paywalls, whereas if someone was on those sites and found you, they were doing the same thing you are. So how they got you? Right. Right. Yeah, exactly. Right. Okay. Okay. So that guy that was like compliment. I mean, you did start out the conversation saying you really like to know that guys are like super into you. So like I would assume that the guy that's over complimenting you, maybe because it was just too much that that would turn you on because he's so into you. Yeah. It gave up.

If it came through more confident, it would have been a turn on. Oh, I see what you're saying. Yes, it came through. It was very like anxious, nervous, like. Timid. Timid. Yes. Very soft.

Like it wasn't like. it was not confident right yeah he's saying you're oh my god you're so hot like question mark like he can't believe he's with you yeah yeah yeah yeah oh my god poor guy and i i i picked him because he had a massive dick oh and i was like oh shit now is she not gonna want to talk to guys of massive dicks because she's gonna have like oh is he gonna be bad too but well jay is that what you prefer to i mean i asked her if she was a size queen but a lot of times guys that are like you, Jay, that have this, you know, kink, they really like the guy to have like a really big dick, like it's a part of it.

A hundred percent. Yeah. Somebody explained it to me once why, but, you know, and I thought, oh, that was such a great explanation, but you explain why, you know, to me, your reason, your reasoning for why you want that guy to have a huge dick. I think it's a man thing because bigger is better, right? So obviously a bigger dick's going to feel way better for her. Yeah, that's what it's about.

Right, because some people would think some people have like made comments like I've heard oh you letting any guy that lets the other guys fuck his wife like must be weak or something like no they're actually more you know they're very secure because most of the time like what you just said is true they want a guy that's bigger better than them because they want like you have to be very secure to pass your wife on to somebody like that right? But that's like a part of the turn on like you want her to be enjoying herself. That's what it's about. A hundred percent yes. Right. It's not coming from any kind of instant. security. So bigger, better, like, you just think that she's going to enjoy yourself more with the bigger dick. Right. And I already, I'm not upset with what I have either. Right. So it's, yeah, I figured she could handle a little bit bigger than me. Yeah, that's so funny. So, so any other experiences you want to tell me about that stand out? No, not really. We have one coming up next Friday. Oh, my God. Have you guys thought of like going, do you, do you, do you, ever think to get like involved more in the lifestyle or because I typically think the people that are into hot wiping don't really go to a lot of times they don't get fully into the lifestyle too

as far as like you know going to swinger clubs and stuff like that but is that on in the your future at all the wife has been talking about for two months we signed up for a playhouse near where we live that she keeps looking at events and we're definitely going to make her way down there our uh other friends in the lifestyle actually said you know, know if you guys want us to bring you down there just to kind of get you comfortable we're not going to play it together but just so you have people there and uh i definitely think we're going to take them up on it i think it would be a blast oh okay now let me ask you this sandy do you have any part of you that would like to see jay with another woman or no okay no okay god no i don't know how

women do it i don't know how they do it i give them so much credit and like because i i can't like i get i'm very jealous and i don't know yeah so no that's always been a thing like that's why even reaching up to couples was kind of like when we first started i was like a hard now like we're only looking for single males yeah but now even the couples are starting to kind of entice me are for me to just be like the sub with them. Oh, okay. Now, would you hook up with a woman? Have you ever done that?

I've done it in the past. Not something that I, it doesn't turn me on thinking about it. But like if I was with another couple and like she was going down on me, I wouldn't stop her. I wouldn't go down on her. I don't think. I'm a bit of a princess. She's a pillow princess and a half.

But you'd love to be shared with it by a couple while you're, while Jay watches. Yes, that sounds hot. Right. And I have to say, because when I used to have a YouTube channel and I used to post episodes like this where the girl starts talking like you do, you know, that he can't be with anyone else, but you want to be with other guys. You want to be shared by couples, but, you know, no fucking touching for Jay. But most of the time, you know, the guys that are into this kink, they could care less. They don't want to fuck other girls. Is that the case with you, Jay? Like you have, you're fine with having those rules on you like you're, you can't be with other women, but she could be with other guys and the couples herself. I could give two shits. I got my Porsche in the garage. I know where it's at. I love the analogy. Exactly.

That's what it's about. That's why you said fight with people online because they'd be like, oh, it's not fair. It's like, it doesn't matter what it's fucking fair. It's about like how each person feels and how the other person feels about it. You know what I mean? Like you, you guys are perfectly suited for each other because Sandy likes to fuck other guys for you.

You know, it's brought you guys closer. She's very jealous. Doesn't want to see you fuck other girls. Turns out you don't want to do that. So perfect. Everyone's happy. What's the fucking problem? Nothing at all.

Right. So and for you, Jay, like getting going to like a party or a playhouse or something without just be super fun for you because you can see your girl with other guys and that's how you guys would roll in that kind of situation. Is that like what you're going for? Yeah. And I kind of like peacocking every once in a while. Like I said, I, walking around naked.

Yeah, I'm like I'm happy with my dick. So I would not mind having sex with her in front of a bunch of people. Oh, yeah, that's a whole other things. And then I was also going to ask Jay, like, because you're a very visual person, do you think that, like, being able to see other people like fucking in front of you too also would be a turn on? Are you allowed to say that in front of Sandy? Sandy are you going to be jealous if he says yes?

No, he can say whatever he wants. I think it would entice me. Yeah. But if I'm there with Sandy, it's going to be about her. And I'd be so worried that I would make her feel uncomfortable, that I would just be locked on to her the entire time. Because at the end of all this, maybe subconsciously this is for me. My reasoning for all this is for her and her pleasure. I want her to experience things and have fun.

Right. So if me staring at other people is going to make her uncomfortable, absolutely not. I don't need to watch them. Right. You could care less. Your second in this scenario. But let me ask you this, Sandy, do you think if you saw him, like, watching another couple? Like, would that bother you? Do you know?

I think it probably, I think the first reaction would be jealousy and irritated. But I think that would turn into, like, I think that that would subside and that it would be more of a sexual energy and it would get, it would be exciting. Yeah, because let me ask you this, Sandy. Are you visual at all? Do you think that if you like, No. You don't think that maybe being in a club watching other people fuck and then like maybe you would be turned on

then you and your guy like fucking two in front of them and then you would not just like it wouldn't just be him watching that couple it would be you guys together watching them. Yeah, I'm not anywhere near as visual. So that I would probably be more like oh my gosh because it's like I'm almost how am I? I'm like I tell you. Jay Aldous?

She's not like, And's attention. That's her. No, but I'll also. She's a peacock too. Two peacocks walking through the club. Yes. Yes, but I'm also,

I can be like shy. So I can like text all these dirty things, but like I won't be able to like look at him and say it to his face. So I'm also very like, I don't know if that's closeted or if it's just like, I'm like, oh no, like I shouldn't be watching people have sex. Like that's my first initiative.

show, but I'm like, deep down, it's, you know, I'm turned on. So I don't know. It's weird. Yeah, well, listen, there's a part of you that is dying to go to this place. You're the one that's been looking it up, right? I mean, I really, I think you're going to be very surprised at yourself. I would bet money if I was like, you know, putting money down. I bet money on the fact that you wind up going and eventually over time, like, you're down for it. I don't know. I just have a feeling you might wind up sort of realizing something else you know i believe you yeah i can see it yes because why else if you really don't want to see other couples you don't want to see him like why are you driving you guys straight to that playhouse place like what is what is it about that experience that

you want to do if you're not into any of the scenarios that would go down well i guess maybe that's a thing maybe i don't really i i haven't looked into it i i haven't looked into it i I'm, so I don't really know. I, in my head, I picture maybe like a dance floor with music and then like playrooms. So, like, I envisioned going, dancing and having some drinks, finding a single male and then the three of us going in a playroom. Oh, okay. So I don't. Just about like having a, like a night out experience and being able to live out your hot wife scenario as well while you're there.

Okay, that makes sense. Yes. Yeah. I'm still curious. What? What fantasy did I have? About the line at the door. You said you would like to have a line at the door with guys waiting for you.

You told me that. Yeah, see, you're a little bit more naughty, though, than you think, or that you remember, that you know. Yes, I know I'm super naughty. I just will deny it. Yeah, you need to let me know. You need to call the Confessions Hotline after your first time, because this. I don't think it's going to take you long. I wonder what winds up happening over time with you guys.

Listen, I know, though, that when people are into the hot wiping thing, like you guys, they typically stay that way. I don't know that you're going to be like couple swapping and all that kind of stuff, you know, but I just wonder if maybe Sandy you'll be open to other things. I don't know. Yeah, I think down the road, I mean, for me, right now, Jay with anyone else is a hard note, but I mean, I'm also extremely open-minded. and if Jay really genuinely like had a fantasy that this is what he wanted, you know, I think down the line,

I mean, there's, anything could really be possible, I think. I don't know that we really have any limits. It's like right when we, we are boundary pushers, we usually go zero to a hundred with everything we do. Yeah, that's what I mean. It'll probably be wild. Yeah, like, I mean, listen, you're just like when you were saying before like, oh, I don't know. This is kind of in me, but maybe I'm shy. I mean, you just started all this stuff.

Like, you're just really coming into your own. So, you know, it could just be like you're not there yet, but eventually you will be. You're just getting in touch with all these parts of yourself and letting yourself express them and be fully into them and everything. So who knows what happens, but it will be interesting. Now, you guys listen to my show. I would love if you send like some pics for Patreon anonymous picks, but nothing X-rated. X-rated. The X-ray stuff goes on my Discord and I'll give you free access to that. You can post whatever you want over there and have fun.

If you want to send me our rated picks for my Patreon, I'll post those there. And then I will give you free access to see all the comments. And then I'll give you free access, though, to my Discord forever for you to go in there and have fun too. Sweet. Yeah. We posted a couple of pictures in the Discord. Oh, you're already in there. Yeah.

Oh, okay. Now you'll be able to, listen, when your episode airs, you're going to have to post in the guest channel. I'll give you guest role access. But when your episode air, you'll say, hey, we're Sandy and Jay from episode whatever. And you'll be able to post your picks in over there. Okay, but you could tease people and tell them you just, you know, taped with me and all that kind of stuff and the people will be looking forward. If you want to, I mean, it's up to you because you're already in there. I love to tease people.

Oh, okay. So tease them to tell them. You just talk to me and like they have to hear your whole story because they already have the visuals, right, of you guys. Yeah. You said you were hot. I've never seen you guys, but you said you were hot. So my Discord people are already probably drooling over you. So they're going to be anticipating your episode.

And it doesn't disappoint. So thank you guys so much for calling in that you guys were fun to talk to you. And I'm so curious, like what you're going to be doing. doing a year from now. So we'll get a part two eventually. Yes, we will. Okay. Good luck with everything. Thank you, Kathy. Bye you guys. You guys are cool. Bye. Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly anonymous confession, secret sex lives of total strangers is now available, not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audio book. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my

show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gang being girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person. And they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't, really call it like a total erotica book. Think like penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories. 17 of them. They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format. And finally, the audiobook is available.

coming out August 25th, but you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint, okay? There's no way you get into my Discord any other way than getting the link from me. Okay, I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other.

And that's what you get to do there. You could post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you can. win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total strictly anonymous community and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the ebook, or the paperback. Send it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's strictly anonymous

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