Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1182 - NAUGHTY CONFESSIONS: She Got a Hot Massage from a Woman, His GF has a CRAZY Fetish, He Enjoys D and More

Episode Date: July 30, 2025

Tune in to hear a bunch of naughty confessions and then hear Kathy’s take on them. You’ll hear first a girl who had a naughty massage by a female while on vacation, then from a guy whose wife and he just had their first Stag Vixen experience by accident, then from a bi guy who loves d***, as well as hear from a guy whose girlfriend has the craziest fetish. Then you’ll hear Kathy talk about the confessions as well as discuss the one time Erica got a naughty massage on vacation and exactly what went down, the new bi guy Erica and her husband might hook up with, how and why women can sometimes feel shame after doing something super hot an dhow Erica experiences that sometimes, how she gets past it and how Kathy’s show has helped her get past it too, how Erica can get off on giving head, how and why some guys are way better at giving head to a woman then others, how and why size if important to Erica and her fave thing to do in the bedroom plus a whole lot more. **To see HOT pics ERICA plus pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712  Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed.  Sponsors: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://liferx.md⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Start your transformation now and get $50 OFF your first month, use code: ANONYMOUS ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To get 10% off Load Boost and Drive Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2520-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Use code: ANONYMOUS to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14-day money-back guarantee  Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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is the one I have on my show. She always like kind of sometimes out confessions people because what we do on confessions episode is we listen to a confession, then me and Erica talk about it. And she always can relate to these confessions because she's a girl that's kind of been there, done that. First, we hear from a bi girl that's had a hot massage with a woman. She talks about that. And then we, the next we hear from a bi guy, a typical guy that loves to suck dick,

and he goes on and on about that. and then we hear from a guy who's him and his wife wound up being a stag and vixen, but it happened by accident. And what happened to his wife the first time when they drove home is what me and Erica talk about a lot with that one. And then we hear from a guy whose girlfriend has a fetish. Typically, I'm talking to guys with fetishes, but his girlfriend has a pacifier fetish. Okay.

It's not about being a baby or anything like that, but for some reason she likes pacifier. He gets really detailed about the whole pacifier fetish. And because Erica happens to. not only be a girl who loves sex and does a lot of crazy things. She happens to be a therapist, too. So she goes on about the passenger fetish, the pacifier fetish. She talks a lot about her fetishes and her oral fixation. She talks about, you know, how she gets off on blowjob. She talks about a happy ending massage she got. I mean, like, you hear a lot of confessions from Erica on this too. Because after, like I said, each confessor, me and Erica get on and talk about that, talk about them. So there's a lot to

this episode, you're going to love it, so I'm going to be right back on with the first confession. Hey, Kathy. I am a long-time listener, and I decided I'm going to call in. You actually spoke to my boyfriend. He goes by Mr. Wonderful, but I wanted to give you my side of the story. I am this kind of other half to his person, I guess, but my story is a little bit different. I've been in the lifestyle now for probably three, four years post a long-term, very, very vanilla relationship and after that I decided that I was just going to explore my cakes to figure out what I like I realized that I am a bisexual I've had so much fun hooking up with women and from that I actually was in Prague one time this is one of

my like most fun stories but I was in Prague it's prostitution's legal there I had a neuro-machine massage and had probably one of the sexiest experiences with a female that I've ever had. I have done multiple three-sums with play partners, onto sex clubs. I have just honestly with my best life. So yeah, you spoke to my boyfriend. I decided I was going to call in because I'm on a work trip and has spent the weekend in New York and I'm on day four of my little like kind of sex capades and I've had some really crazy fun experiences during this little trip and thought, you know what, fuck it. I'm going to call because I love this podcast and giving my side of story. With that being said, too, Mr.

Wonderful and I finally had our first threesome together. So we just recently hooked up with a girl and that was such a fun experience. In New York, I have been on a little bit of a tear, hooking up with some very interesting guys getting domed a little bit. I'm a submissive. So it's been a very fun experience here in New York because I think guys are very more, much, much more dominant than my hometown. But I would love to talk more about it and hope that. Okay, so now listen, Erica, I know that you have fooled around with women before, right?

But you wouldn't say that you're really into that. Like, you really like Dick, okay? You're like the girl. Like, people should go hear your story. I mean, last time I think you confessed to doing a glory hole with like eight Dix and in there with you, right? Right. That might have been me, yes. Yeah, but do you like pussy too as much as Dick?

I do. Oh, you do? I do. I would definitely say I'm bisexual. I think I'm actually more sexually attracted to women. Really? But, yes. I look at a woman and I'm more physically sexually attracted.

Like for men, I have to like them. I can do all of that naughty stuff, but like, I don't just look at a guy and think like, oh, I want to fuck him. Oh, yes. No, no. I think I totally go. You mean like, you mean like, you don't just look at a guy and be like, oh, my God, his chest is so hot. I want to fuck him and get wet. But you could look at a girl's body and just get, oh, my God.

Our tits are hot. I'm horny for her. Yeah, I got that. Yeah. Yeah. It's like, women are just so beautiful and soft and sensual that it's definitely, you know, like visually so much more appealing to look at a woman than a man. Yeah, totally. I agree. And like, listen, I mean, she talked about how she got like a, like a massage with a happy ending from a woman. I had a friend here and also one of my friends nannies who's this older woman like straight off the boat from South Africa. Yeah. Who literally got a happy ending from a guy. Like he fingered her at the end. And she told me. Yeah. Can you believe? Like I never knew that it happened for women. But this is like she got the massage from her the woman in Prague, which I guess is legal. But like that sounds like straight up.

porn to me. It does. I'm just wondering like just what it would be like, especially if it's a super hot woman and she was more involved like climbing on top of you and all the things like that that is definitely a fantasy of mine now. But I heard that. Yeah. Well, listen, they have all that porn out there. I wonder how far they went. Like, you know, what did the happy ending sort of herself. She called it some sort of like, I don't know what the word she used. I can't. It was like hard to understand her. She called it a neuromassage. What it?

Like a neuromassage? I don't know what that means, but she said it was like the hottest experience she ever had. Have you had any, I know that you had, and we're going to do a whole episode about it because you have some hot stories coming up. And typically you wind up confessing and you probably will. But I'm making you save your cuck cake a confession for an episode. Didn't you have an experience with a woman recently? I had a couple of experiences with a woman. But yes, I've had.

I was recently with a cupcake and I was also recently with a pregnant woman. Oh, okay. See, this is where you're like, I don't know, like, if I hold my cupcake story, I don't, like, what am I going to confess to? You forgot that you were with a pregnant check? Oh, my God, Erica. You didn't ask. You always.

You have to ask me. I'll be specific question. No, but you know what? I was confident. I said, don't worry, Erica. This is what I said before we start doing. I said, don't worry. I bet you anything one of these confessions is going to prompt.

something from you. Well, and I will say I have had one happy massage before, but it wasn't from a woman. It was from a man. Oh, really? Okay. First, tell us to talk about the pregnant female and then talk about the man. Okay. Well, I feel like the pregnant

female, it's better for the episode. Like, they'll save it for the episode. Oh, okay. Because it's like a whole story. Which one? The pregnant lady. It was a whole story. Oh, so we'll say that for the cupcake is what you're saying. Yeah.

Okay, sorry everyone. She's really teasing you, but there's nothing wrong with that. Sorry, you're going to have to wait for her episode. It's going to be up soon. We're taping it like in a couple days. Yeah, that episode will not disappoint. Yeah. But I was actually out on a vacation with my ex-husband.

This was during my vanilla life when I got the happy ending massage. Oh, okay. And I'm not even sure that my current husband knows this story. So this may be a little bit of a surprise. But we were getting massages just in, I'm like the little. living room of a villa that we were staying in and the guy that walked in i swear to god kathy he looked like a surfer born star like if you think of and i know i just i wasn't that sexually attracted to men exactly it's funny but he had just kind of like sandborne hair it's like shoulder

length he was wearing like a loose fitting button down shirt with it like kind of unbutton so you could see his chest and he was giving me a massage It was a couple's massage. My ex-husband was actually right there. And I just kind of moved his hand over to my pussy. What? Wait, wait, wait. But like, how do you go for him, like, just regularly massaging you to knowing that he would be okay with you literally moving his hand over to your pussy?

Like, was he giving you guys? I didn't know he was going to be okay with it. I just kept inching his hand over. over like he was rubbing my legs my thighs and I just kept moving it over until he was there. Did he look surprised? Did you even see his face? I was face down. Oh my God.

He has told this story so many times to his friends. I'm telling you. And they high five him. But wait a second. Walk me through it. So you keep moving because I find the happy ending massage thing like a turn on. I think there's something hot about being naked in front of a total stranger, right? and then massaging you and then them going like and starting to like go down whatever you know

I think it's like a hot thing but I've never like I don't really like massages so it's not like I've ever been in that position to get horny was this the first massage that you ever like got turned on by yes it was the first massage I've ever done any first and last I've never done this before yeah I got it after hey guys you ever wish you could blow a bigger load to really impress your girl Well, listen up because I know a supplement that's specifically designed to increase your volume, improve the taste of your sperm, and give you better orgasms. And it's called load boost by VB health. Now, listen, I know load boost works because it is the supplement that porn stars use to increase their loads. It's doctor formulated, science-backed, and made in the USA. It's packed with ingredients that support

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before. Yeah, I get it. After. But yeah, I was I was definitely just turned on. And, And I'm not typically a risk taker. I'm somebody that, like, doesn't really put myself out there in that way. But, like I said, he was so hot. And I was already in that mode of, like, wanting to explore. And that's, it just happened. And he just moved his hand. Like, he moves his hand along with my hand until he was rubbing my pussy.

And I just very quietly got off. Like he had the sheet. You know how they kind of moved the sheet so that your ass isn't completely sticking out? Like I was still kind of covered, but his hand was down in there. Oh my God. Was he fingering you just playing with your clip? Were you totally wet? He was just playing.

He was just playing with my clip. And yeah, I was so turned on, especially because my husband was right there. And I never told him. Like I said, I don't even know that I've ever told this story before in general. Yeah, you don't even remember it. Like, I mean, this just prompted you like what we were talking. Yes, just, yes, hearing that. And so you never told your husband after, like, when you guys were done, you didn't say anything.

So that is so fucking naughty. Because you basically cheat, that's like a little bit of a cheating kink right there. That is, yes, for sure. But maybe he was getting jerked off to at the same time and you didn't know it. It's possible. I hope he was. Did he have a girl or a guy massaging him? He had a girl and I had a guy.

I mean, maybe you guys were in a happy. ending place and you just didn't know it. Maybe. She was a little, I will say I definitely got the hotter of the two. I don't think guys care when they go to a happy ending massage. I don't think so. I mean, Kathy guys don't really care in general. They will find something in general.

Like they're like, oh, she has big kits. Okay, it's fine. Yeah, that's what I always bring up Arnold. I always bring up Arnold with his maid. You know, everyone's like, how could Arnold Schwarzenegger fuck that lady? I'm like, I know why. Okay, he kept looking at her tits. He was like, I want to see those huge tits.

You know what I mean? He doesn't see them like jiggle, jiggle. He's kind of been there, done that, had the hottest bitches in town. Why not go for someone with the biggest tits you've ever seen? Because she was like really well in doubt. Yes, yes. I bet that she was freaky too. Of course.

Like, you know, those girls, like, if you get a girl who's like really happy to be fucking guy, she will do anything. Yeah. I just think that guys could get into, like, it doesn't necessarily, like, have to be, like, the face has to be so great. You know what I mean? And that's why I always make this comment about nannies, because I see, like, nannies walking around. And I know that women are like, oh, yeah, that's great. Like, they're not attractive, like hire them. But I'm like, but did you look at their body? Like, she's walking around with an hourglass figure. She looks like Kim Kardashian. I don't care of her faces it, too. Your husband might want to fuck her because of her body. He doesn't care about her face. He's not taking her home for Thanksgiving. Exactly. Exactly. He's just going to like press her head down into the, to the band-banger from behind you. He's just fucking care. So if you want to keep your guy from cheating on you, babysitters, nannies, make sure they have the worst, most unattractive body because it's not about the face. Okay. It's not about the fucking face. I think this is my tip to all them wise. Suck your husband's dick. And hopefully then you won't have to worry about it. Oh, wow, wait until I'm saving the really weird one to the end.

It's a fetish thing and it has something to do with sucking someone's dick. And he tells you what kind of girl they get to have the best dick sucker around. So we'll get to that one. But let's get to the next confession now that we're like, all we did was like, we told, you told a better confession this girl. She, you know, you told a better massage story. Let's get to the next confession. I'm not trying to one up her.

I swear. You always do. It's a good thing. Hold on. Let's get the next confession. Hey, I just want to talk about how I've always really been into Sugginger Guys' Dix. I've started probably back in high school with a friend, and then when Craigs was out,

I would explore that, find guys kind of my same age and hit him up. And usually we just trade blow jobs back and forth, bisexual, so I like women just as much as like men and pretty much just like men for the sexual parts of them. But, yeah, I've set a lot of dick now. I've known a lot of guys that do this. And so, like, going up, I just kind of like, everybody kind of does it in a way. So, and I think I started probably eight years ago, probably longer than that, maybe nine years ago. I had my first black dick.

He was a younger skinny guy, like a probably 20, 19, 20 years old. Biggest dick I ever seen in my life, like the size of my forearm. And I've never been in his dorm room. I'm sucking his dick and just having my mouth flooded with all this come. And I really liked it. I like getting coming in my mouth. I like when they come on my face. I like when I think I found a couple times with couples and different kinds of couples,

male and female couples or male male couples. I've had dreams that way where I'll come over. And usually the guy is by, they definitely advertise it, but we'll go over. And, you know, time when we're supposed to be fucking, I'll probably lick his day for something. And probably the hottest time is whenever he pulls out and I go to stick it back in, but I suck it a couple times. She was riding them, and she reached back and, like, shoves my head down on his dick, telling me to suck it, and just made it really hard.

And so it turned me on a lot. I like doing that, and I've really gotten into black guys. I like BBC. Probably my favorite thing to do is hook up with black goods and suck her dick. And recently, probably, I would say, in the last year, I've started to get into anal, and more or less, I'm more of the one who likes to take it up the ass. And so usually either I want like a black dude to fuck me or kind of a femme feminine guy. I have two regulars that I fuck or let fuck me and suck their dicks.

One's 31. He's a black dude. Real muscular. It bit really well. Dicks probably about eight inches long. He comes over. We do just about anything. You know, I suck his dick, get it hard, ride it, bend over, doggy style.

And, you know, now that we became comfortable with each other and know each other, well enough to know that we're safe. I've let him come in my ass without a con of the last three times. And then the femme guy that's also in my town, we've all gotten together. So this guy sounds a little bit like you. He loves dick, okay? He talks about dick sucking. He loves that.

I was wondering when he said that the guy's dick was so big, it was like the size of his forearm. And then he's like, and I was like sucking it. And there was come in my mouth. I'm like, how did you put that in your mouth? How do you get those big dicks in your mouth, Erica? You could talk to that. Do you like to shove a huge one in your mouth? Like, is that a turn on?

Yes. Oh, it is. Yes, I love big dicks. I am a size queen through and through, and I'm not a big girl. I'm only five, too, and I'm, you know, fairly small in general. But I love a big dick. I love a big dick with my mouth, my pussy, and my ass. Like, I just love big dicks.

Yeah, and I think once you go like that way, it's hard to get back. Look at one of my first boyfriends had the biggest dick I've ever seen. And I was like, you know, roped into being a size queen for so long. And I was lucky enough to find like good booty club guys that had like bigger dicks, you know. But I always found it hard to find ones that were really that big. This guy seems to have a lot because he's doing BBC. He says he's got a lot of black guys. I mean, now he's like getting fucked in the ass.

I wonder if he's dating anybody. I don't know. I don't know. Yeah. I mean, do you get, do you guys? When you guys hook up with guys, do you get a lot of by guys that you hook up with? I mean, I wouldn't say a lot, but I would say that it's definitely something that we enjoy. And I think that there are a lot more by guys out there.

My husband and I recently started talking to a guy who does have a big black cock. And in his profile, he said he was straight. But he left little breadcrumb. Like clues that may be, you know, like I'm straight, but adventurous and into trouble. different things. And so that's kind of like the wink, wink. That's what he said. That's what this guy said.

Most of them don't advertise it, quote, okay. Yes. You just have to kind of know. And then once we start talking to him, turns out he tops, he bottoms, he hooks up with guys one-on-one, he does it all. But in his profile, he says straight. Right. And I think that that's okay.

Because like what he's trying to say is like, if you want me to just come over and fuck the girl, he will, right? But he kind of leaves it open to the people that get the breadcrumbs and go ask further because he knows those people are down, right? Like you guys, when you fat, like, who brought up the conversation? Like, do you suck dick? Like, how did that come up? Basically, I said to him, like, oh, you're adventurous. Like, what does that mean?

And so then he just kind of starts sharing like, oh, you know, I'm fine. So they usually start off with like, well, I'm fine. Like if it's DVP and like my cock's, you know, touching your husband's cock, like I'm totally good with that. Like, oh, okay. Like, what if, you know, I have both of you in my mouth. I'm doing like a double barrel blow job. How do you feel about that? And then it just kind of evolves.

Like, oh, what about this? What about that? And then all of a sudden it's, oh, yeah. Also, I'll fuck your husband and ass if he wants it. Like, okay, that's a long way from straight. So, I mean. Wait, are you going to hook up with that? Are you guys going to hook up with this guy?

I don't know. I mean, we've talked. He is a little bit like geographically inconvenient because he is about 45 minutes to an hour away from us. And honestly, I don't like to travel for Dick. But I definitely think that my husband in particular would be done with us exploring a little bit more with him. Because he, he was very attractive. He is a black guy with a big dick and sounds extremely adventurous. Does your husband like when the guys have bigger dicks?

Because he will sometimes once in a while kind of do some stuff with guys. Yeah, I mean, bigger is hard to find because my husband's like nine inches and thick. So I'm not really. So it's a little bit hard to like when you're already a one percentiler to find that, you know, extra 0.5%. It's hard to find. I mean, there's been some guys that have been thicker or a little bit longer, but I wouldn't say anyone's been, you know, greatly larger than him. But he'll suck a dick. He will.

Right. Right. Okay. And but like, like this guy, do you guys not have that in your profile? Like, do you also say he's straight, but he's adventurous? Like, how do you kind of put that out there? Do you leave that off the tape, like off your profile, but only bring it up with people that you think are down? I think we're pretty, like, we don't like.

We don't like to buy into the stigma that's in the lifestyle about bisexual men. And my husband, I don't think, considers himself bisexual. He considers himself more like heteroflexible as far as like he's in an erotic situation. He will engage with a man, but he's not looking for like a one-on-one encounter or, you know, like a relationship with a man. So we just kind of go from there. It's not something we hide it. That's not really something we advertise either. more like heteroflexible as far as like he's in an erotic situation he will engage with a man but he's

not looking for like a one-on-one encounter or you know like a relationship with a man so we just kind of go from there it's not something we hide it that's not really something we advertise either right listen I think if everyone just started to fucking put it out there you would see so many profiles change because I know because I talk to these people that there are so many guys out there there, just as many guys that are into guys as women are into women, right? It's just there still is a little bit of that stigma. Like, you just proudly cop to the fact that you fucking love women. You're by, whatever, you know?

And like with the guy, it's always like just a lot longer of an explanation of what they are, what they're into because I think it's just, unfortunately, there's still a little bit of a stigma. You know, I wonder like this guy, I mean, he sounds like he seems to say, and I do think it's true that a lot of guys when he was younger were doing the same thing. Like I can't tell you how many stories I hear of people like in high school hooking up. Circle jerks, jerking all with their friends. You know, shit was going down, you know.

And a lot of guys, it has happened to where they just are still not talking about it for some reason, which is weird. Right. Because I wonder if this guy lives a double life or if he's out and proud. I think the younger generation is a little bit different. But, you know, I had to put a by guy in here because, you know, I got to tell you when I air those episodes, they get a lot of downloads because there's a lot of guys that are into it. Okay, that's the fucking truth of it all. If you do, your guy does go further. I'm going to have to have him back on because I've had

your guy on too. We got to get his story. But I'm not forgetting about the pregnant woman and the cupcake story we're getting next week. But let's get to the next confession. My wife and I have been in a stagged, fixing relationship for the last almost two years. We started totally accidentally with a guy whose house we went over to. And, quite frankly, it was amazing. That night when it was happening, we were supposed to just dance and bump around a little bit. And the next thing you knew, those were coming off. Oral sex was happening.

Full vaginal was happening. Life was happening. It was amazing. But that night I knew that nothing would be the same. That night we came home. She cried on the way home. She didn't expect that to happen. She'd never done anything like that before.

But from then on, she's had sex with 13 other guys. In the last two years, we've had many, many, many adventures. and we've had a lot of fun together. Now, we are, we work very sensitive jobs, so we can't, like, expose what we really are. But I just was calling to say, if you're interested, you know, this could be actually a really great interview. We both are very, like, extremely talkative people.

As a matter of fact, we work jobs that require a lot of talking. So we're very comfortable talking. We've done it all in the last almost two years. We've done double penetrations. We've done DVP. And it's just I love watching her. getting pleasure. Compersion is definitely my thing. Yeah, I'm definitely going to have this guy on, by the way. Yeah. I emailed him to make an appointment. I think what stuck out to me the most about

this confession is the fact that his wife cried on the way home, right? Did you ever feel in the beginning of you starting to explore your sexuality? Because you're a woman who really embraces doing whatever the fuck you want when it comes to sex without worrying about what people think, right? Because there is that stigma that's like for women, the stigma is, you're a fucking slut, horror, less than if you like sex too much, right?

Like that's the thing that's put on women. So I think that's where women keep shit under wraps, right? They're so, like guys have to pretend they're not,

and it's a guy, women have to pretend they don't like sex and, you know, it's such a dumb thing. Guys don't fare well because of that stigma,

right? Because half these girls are walking around repressed for no reason. Right. Oh, I know. I mean,

I feel so bad from time to time. I don't think it's like I'm on the own just because I've embraced a part of me. me doesn't mean that there aren't times where I feel bad or I feel guilty or I think like, what the fuck am I doing?

But at the same time, I'm very happy in myself. I'm very empowered. I'm very like comfortable in what I'm doing and who I am. But as a woman, like you said, there's so many women who don't even know how to orgasm at all or can't. figure out like what feels good for them sexually. And then to go from that to like multiple partners. I mean, that's kind of the like the spectrum of sexuality for a woman. But at the same time, like the one that isn't enjoying sex is more normalized than the one

who is very empowered and very safely being a slut. And so I think as a woman like we're constantly, you know, battling inside of like what's okay and isn't okay. Yeah and who perpetuates that like guys really right it's more like a big stigma that men always put on like when I was growing up like I always make jokes about how everyone thought I was like super slutty when I was younger and I didn't do anything leaving close to what anybody that calls into my show did but all I do was like I'd fuck guys that I wasn't dating and I fuck more than one guy at the same time not in the same room but like you know at the same time maybe had two different guys I was banging you know and I didn't care and I talked about sex that's it

And I was like the biggest whore. Right. Why? And now the girl, every girl is like me. You know, it's like normal. But I never really understood it. But that was like the reason why all these other girls were like not like me back then. Why?

It's like I think it's because they just were too afraid because they weren't going to like, I never had a desire to get married and have kids. Like I just wanted a kid, but I never wanted a husband. So I didn't have to worry about it. You know, but most girls when they're younger do have that desire in them. And I think at a certain time, especially when I was growing up, you knew as a woman, like if you were labeled a whore, you're not getting, you're not getting a ring on it. Like, there's no ring coming your way. Like guys would say to me, Kathy, you're the kind of girl you fuck, not the kind of girl you marry, right? I always have obsessed with like, I'm like second wife

material, not first wife material. Second wife material is always like hotter, sexier. I mean, it's terrible to say, you know what I'm saying? No, I get there 100%. And I, even today, like, so I had a conversation with my boyfriend, actually like two weeks ago. My boyfriend. By the way, Erica's married. You gotta hear her stories. Yeah, go on.

So we had been on a play party and I can save some of those stories for my episode too. But like the woman that he thought, like she had a tighter vagina than I do. And afterwards he was like, well, she's only been in the lifestyle for a few months. That's why. And I was like, wait, wait, wait. No. No, maybe she never had kids. Maybe she never had kids.

That because honestly, the more you fuck, I think supposedly the tighter your pussy. Yes. And it's kind of, it's like twofold. So one, the vaginas and muscles. So the more that you exercise it, the tighter it's going to be. But also, as a woman, like, the more empowered in your body you are and the more that you just kind of like relax and let yourself experience pleasure, the more that those muscles are actually going to relax a little bit and allow you to enjoy that pleasure.

If you are stressed or like feeling all pent up inside, your vagina like naturally like tightens up. That's actually a sign that you're not in your body. So we even in the lifestyle are celebrating like quote unquote tightness. As if she's more pure. Right. Right. Exactly. Oh my God.

Did that bother you? I just had to set the records today with him. I was like, actually. I had to pull off the actually. and just do some education. But, you know, that, you know, it's perpetuated even amongst men who like slutty women. It's just ingrained within us. And so I'm happy that his wife's, like, had that experience and then kept going.

Like, she didn't just, like, linger in the shame of what she had done. Like, she actually seemed to get past it. And now it sounds like they've had a lot of really great experiences. And I'm excited to hear their story. Yeah, 13 guys, DVPs. D.P. Like all that kind of good stuff. What will be really funny?

Erica is when he does come on my show. And she talks, says, oh, no, she was crying for happiness on the way home because maybe that's what it was. We're just assuming she was crying because she felt slutty. True. True. And I just love the fact that he's, yeah, yeah. But he's like kept tabs on how many guys it's been to.

13. Very serious. Well, listen, I mean, I talk to a lot of couples. And, I mean, you know, most of the time, these things are very. planned out and they happen over time. This was something that happened by accident, really, like he said, but it really changed their course of their relationship. And I hope she comes on the call, too, to talk about it because I think I need to make sure that we were right that she was crying for the reason we thought she was crying. She might have been crying for happiness.

I don't know. I don't think so because he said, but then on, she still went on with it. So I think it was kind of that shame thing. And it's obviously. Honestly, the last thing I'm going to say is like when I used to like fuck guys, like, I had this one guy that would always try and like his friends would just like walk in while we were banging and stuff. And I'd be like, get the fuck out. But I know that like he was like down with that and he was just always trying it out. Because it was only like with him. His friends was like join in. And he was down with it. But I was like, but I would always fantasize about two guys. Right. And I would mark up a DP and all that stuff. But I was like I can never do it in real life. You know, like I just feel like I'd have to take like 10 showers. But I have to say after doing my show for. so long and talking to people like you and talking to everybody else and, you know, just growing up myself and being in a totally different place and feeling different about myself. Like, I feel like I totally would be with two guys at the same time now and not feel anything bad about it. You know what mean? I think it was more like a shame thing back then because I was turned on by the thought of it. But I was like I could never do it in real life. But I think I would now. I really feel

very different about it. Well, Kathy, I have two great guys. I can send your way. Just say the word and I will put them on a train right to New York for you. If I'm really desperate for a good episode, we'll have to do it. Maybe like your 2000. Oh, my God, hilarious. All right, let's get to the next confession. Yeah, they just started listening to your podcast today, actually. And I wanted to call because I feel like this is a weird area for people having explored.

But my wife, when we first got together, she was very embarrassed. to tell me, but I don't know why, because I think it's super sexy. She has an oral fixation, and she likes to sup the pacifiers while we have intercourse. Like when we're having sex, she, her favorite thing is to suck a pacifier while I lick her vagina. It has nothing to do with like a baby thing, no diapers, or I'm not really into that. It's each their own, but that's not what it is. likes to collect the pacifiers, the mainly adult ones. They have adult pacifiers online.

She probably has, I don't know, like 30 of them. She likes to collect them. I don't know why. It's super cute. I think it's super feminine. I love it. I don't mind it at all. And she likes when I give it to her, her pacifier when she is laying down and she tells

in a wicker vagina, suck her foot while she's stuck in a pacifier. I don't mind it. She has always had a oral fixation. suck on different things and my dick first and foremost to the men out there. Long story short, if you've never had your dick sucked by a girl that enjoys sucking, like enjoys sucking a pacifier or practices on a passifier, she sucks that head of your cock, oh, oh boy, like it, you, it's pretty intense. She's sucking it the head of it and it's very pleasurable, feels very nice.

But yeah, I know there's a huge community on Reddit for it. Like I said, I've since then gotten off of it, but there's definitely a few pictures of my wife floating around on Reddit with a pacifier in her or around her or something. Yeah. So I feel like my wife has a pretty good fetish and I feel like we both do now. So well, you have a good day in this. And continue to listen to your podcast. Thank you.

Have you as a therapist ever heard about a pacifier fetish? I mean, it is, you know, listen, you could understand how someone would be like, you know, addicted to a pacifier, right? Yes. And I think it can be like a couple of different things. on the oral fixation. Some people, especially if they have like some sensory sensitivities or concerns like they might like suck on their shirt or suck their thumbs even as like an older adult. Yeah. So I can see how maybe that that would be like one one way. In other ways,

we talked about this prior, but like you get into that little space. So there, there is a mental head space that some people go like within their kink journey where they are like regressing. In a, like, yes, regressing to a younger age than what they are. And it doesn't really have anything to do with like, like, something bad. Yeah. It's just that they go to a place either because they want that inner child to be sued through that experience or they want to go to that space because that's where they feel safe or their partner kind of just has a very nurturing presence.

And so they regress back into that space. And that is something that I experienced with my husband, not with, pass fire, but with his thumb. So I can definitely relate to what they're saying. For me, it's not a sexual act. It's a very, like, soothing, nurturing act. It sounds like they do some, like, fucking and whatnot, which every couple, the kink is going to end up being a little different. I've also been at parties where I've seen adults wearing, like, onesies and diapers and pacifiers. And that's something that, like, is not personally a kink of mine, but I know that individuals have that kink and and they like to have that like space to express themselves.

Yeah, like he says it has nothing to do with the diaper thing and everything. Yeah. He knows that community, but he does say that she's, she's really good at giving head because she's sucking on his dick like it's a pacifier. I think maybe you should go get yourself a pacifier. Maybe. I will say the last time I went to the dentist, I was getting my teeth cleaned. Yeah.

And the hygienist was like, you have the strongest lip muscles I've ever encountered. It's like cleaning like my front teeth. And she's like, goddamn, like your lip muscles are so, so strong. And I'm thinking, oh, let's see all those big dicks I suck all the time. You are kidding me. How would she even know? What the fuck were you doing when you were getting your teeth cleans? It's just things that stay happy.

but I guess my lip muscles are, you know, unmatched. Oh, because you do love, you could get off, like, you could have orgasms from blowing guys, correct? I can. I can, yeah. I'm really turned on. And I, you know, and I do love to suck dick. Like, I'm not somebody that loves to receive oral. Like, it's like, oh, really?

Yeah, like, there's some guys that are, like, really great at it. So I'm not, like, opposed to it, but it's not something that's, like, on the menu. Really? What do you prefer? like what's your favorite thing on the menu if you could only have one thing when it comes to like hooking up with a guy one thing the menu is like these this is what's on the menu oral sex anal sex vaginal sex you giving him a blowjob him going down on you like what's the only you could only have one thing on the menu what do you pick oh probably me riding a guy

that's probably like my top thing yeah penetration but like closely like for me for play is giving oral like giving a blowjob is a hundred percent foreplay for me and I get like soaking wet from it like I will be giving my guy a blowjob and then just climb on top

of him and slip my cock get like slip my cock that I'm about the right that now belongs to me into my pussy yeah so yeah that's I mean it is I think I have an oral fixation as well it just doesn't manifest you know

with pacifier use. But I love sucking cock. It's so arousing. It's so satisfying for me. And, you know, my guys don't complain about it. And didn't you learn how to have an orgasm from a dick in your mouth from Susan Bratton? Was that you?

It was your show, Kathy. Thank you. Yeah. What did she teach you? Yeah. Teach everyone. There's that little, like, right past your palate. There's like a soft spot in your mouth at the roof of your mouth.

And if you just use that area to, like if you stroke it with a cock, you can squirt from that. If you're very aroused. Yeah, interesting. You know what I'm going to try. So that like, you know, because I'm flicking my tongue on that part and you can feel it's kind of ticklish, right? Like there's sensation.

There's nerves in there, right? So that's what you're stimulating, that area right on the top of your mouth, right? Yes. That's what you're stimulating. So I think that women, again, it comes back to being in your body. it comes back to communicating with your partner and allowing yourself to experience pleasure in a variety of ways. Like I think too often like couples fall into that right of like, oh, okay, we're going to do like oral or oral set and then like fuck. And that's that's all you do rather than just exploring different things.

Like there's a lot of times where my husband and I don't have like PIV sex. We're doing other things. What do you mean? What's P.OB? Like we'll do like PIV. P.I.B. P. P.I. P. P. P. P. P. P. P. P. P. P. P. P. P. . . Oh.

. . Oh. . In vagina. Yeah, P-I-B. You know, because we'll be just exploring different things. Like, I love to suck his nipples and stroke his cock at the same time. Like, that to me is so erotic.

Yes. Yeah, that's a little bit like a pacifier in a bottle or something. I don't know. There's a little oral fixation there. Something in your hands, something in your mouth. Yes. I just enjoy his body. And I enjoy when he enjoys my body.

So it doesn't have to be like following a script every time. Yeah, no. And I think that that's the worst thing. I get into because I typically like in between if I'm, you know, dating someone, like I have like booty call guys and I'm very sort of loyal. I just like one guy and I just going to fuck that same person. I have them for years typically. But like each one is very different and I will get in a massive, like, you know,

like Tommy, my old co-host. Like yeah. I mean, I never even kissed him. He never went down. down on me. We just fucked always. Or sometimes he'd finger me because he had dick fingers. And typically I'm not into anyone fingering me because I don't like pokey pokey things, but I loved when he fingered me. But lately, I'm trying to rewire my brain into different things and I'm getting into fingering. And you don't even have to have dick figures. And I don't know why, but I think it's just like a relaxing into it and

changing my brain and getting more turned on thinking about it because I used to be very anti it. And I think that sometimes getting in a. rut physically, then just creates the rut mentally, and then you're like trapped. You know what I mean? And you got to like rewire yourself. Right. Right. So what's your current guy like? Like is he exploring? Oh, it's like we could do oral all day long and we cannot do anything else. It's a problem because he is like the like when he went down on me the first time, I was like what the fuck? Like I talk on my bedicated ad that there's like a bedicated course you could take and it's literally like an oral sex course. And just so you know, I'm beducated. I say this on the ads. Like you literally see

the person doing it. Like there's pussy and the mouth and they're licking it. Like it's like real live people. Yeah, really teach you that way. I think it's great. And so I always look at the courses. I don't pitch something to my people like that I don't know or don't believe in. You know, and they have like this conalinguish course. And they have all these different moves, like 10 different moves you could do. And I got to tell you guys like take the fucking bed educated course. You think you just go down on a girl. I had millions of guys go down on me in my life. And I'm not like you. I loved oral sexy. It's like pizza. Even bad, it's good. I like anything, just regular oral sex, good for me.

But when this guy went down on me, he had these moves that I had never experienced before. And he pulled them out of his pocket, like one after the, I'm like, what the fuck is going on? It was like the best oral sex I ever had. Like, it does make a difference. Like you can become like a conalinguist connoisseur with all these different moves. Like I said, you could just like go down to me regular and one move I'll get off. but this guy had 10 moves. There's like 10 moves on the bedricade course.

And so, you know, I was like, oh my God, you got to start fucking me because like I've just been having oral sex for so long. I'm so into it, you know, and so like I could be like, oh, on the menu, I'm just taking this because it's so good and then I'll forget about everything else and then I'll just be wired into that. It's like anal. If I get into like that part of my body being turned on, I'll be like really into it all the time, you know?

So recently I was like, we just have to start fucking. You know what I mean? because now I'm really into I'm really into penetrative sex you know because I was like inter-Orl so he's been the same guy for a long time so it's the same shit you know now is he like what how big is his dick

like an average size guy no it's thick it's thick and big now I've known him for a long time and it got shorter as he got older like a little bit okay okay which is better for me because he could fuck me from behind because I do not

like for my cervix to be touched when I'm like banging a guy. So, you know, I always made jokes. Like, you know that your dick is small if I'm like asking you to fuck me from behind. Because when I be with a guy and he wasn't that big, I'd be like, fuck me from behind and it would be better. But when I was with a guy that was really big and long like, no way could I take it. I don't want to feel that feeling. So, but now he can. Somehow it got shorter. But it didn't lose its girth. I like girth. And so typically my beautiful guys, the guys I really stick with for a long time, like, you know, they have. And, you know, they have. something going on that the sex is really good enough for me to stay there. That's the only reason why I'm there.

Right. I had one guy who I fucked for a little while and he was advertised. Yeah. But his head game was insane. Head game like you mean him going down on you? Yeah. Yeah. Mm-hmm. You have one of those. I have one. Yeah. And it was really, it was really good. And it's hard because, you know, I think my husband always wants to please me. the best, but certain guys just have it. The oral thing. Yeah, totally. Just like you have it with it. Just like, you know, I'm sure guys will be like, oh my God, that was the best had you ever, they ever had with you, right? And they've gotten blowjow from a million people. It's just like a thing. I wondered if my guy took a course. He would never admit it to me. You know what I mean? Because I was like, where did you learn?

Like, what the fuck? Like, there's no way. You know what I mean? Like, are you studying porn? Like, I don't know. But there literally are courses. People should go to fucking educated. I think you get like 14. I forget what my ad is for, but they really have these moves and it does make a difference. I think people can get better at the game. Oh, I agree. Right? I agree. And I wonder if he had a woman who like really walked him kind of through step by step. Because if you look at porn, they're like wagging their tongue around the clit and all this shit. Like that's not going to do anything for me. Like no, no, no. You need to be like devouring me. I was going to be. It's like, it's going to be. It's not going to be. Is that exact work? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, that like loving it. And I'm sorry, it's very rare that you see someone going down on someone.

To me, in porn that looks like they're enjoying it. Like that tongue looks too tight. They're moving it around. They're barely getting in there. I'm like, you're not even enjoying this. Like, I want to see the real fucking deal. Like, that's what I mean. My guy loves to go down on girl.

Like he's obsessed. So, and you can feel it just like that's probably why you give great hat because you love it. You know what I mean? And that's a part of it. But I got to say, on top of him loving it, It is the freaking moves. There are moves that you can learn.

So everyone go get bedicated. Everyone stay tuned because Erica's episode with what are you going to tease on the next episode? You're going to give us stories about pregnant women, cupcakes. Just to give the list real quick. Pregnant women, cupcakes, glory holes, sex parties, lots of things. I've got a lot, a lot. Because we haven't had an episode, just you and me for a while. Yeah, we need to do it.

I've been wasting you on these confessions and I always get good ones. I knew you'd come up with something on this one. We got the hot massage story. That's going to be included, but that was your confession this time. But we're going to do your whole episode and it'll be up probably this Monday. So stay tuned for more on Erica. And thanks Erica for calling in and doing this episode with me. You're the best.

Thanks so much, Kathy. I'll talk to you soon. Thanks. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now a not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my

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