Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1209 - Vladimir on How he Became Multi-Orgasmic
Episode Date: August 30, 2025Vladimir called in to talk all about how he became multi-orgasmic. Tune in to hear all the details including his early journey into spirituality and self help and how that led him to the book he read ...that changed his life and what it was all about, how he learned to do kegels and mind control to help him have better orgasms, how and when he was able to have multiple ones, how he doesn’t always jizz at same time he’s having multiple orgasms, how and why he doesn’t get depleted after his multiple orgasms like he would after one, the three finger method you can use to not have jizz come out when you cum and how and why that saves energy, how he can now have an energetic orgasm without physical touch, the steps to have multiple orgasms yourself plus a whole lot more. **To see HOT pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://vb.health To get 10% off Drive Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY https://bluechew.com Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON https://viia.co/STRICTLYANON Try VIIA and use code STRICTLYANON for great SEX and sleep https://butterwellness.com/ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order https://beducate.me/pd2520-anonymous Use code: ANONYMOUS to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14-day money-back guarantee To get $15 OFF your female oxytocin arousal tablets and more, use code STRICTLY here: https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/xLQ3Jv Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website: http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Vladimir emailed me and called in. He's a, you know, he's a super interesting guy that figured out how to
become multi-orgasmic. Now, I know some women are multi-orgasmic and I'm very jealous of those women
because I have not been able to master it, okay? But I didn't realize that guys can master it too.
And he has and he figured it out. And it wasn't like it just happened out of nowhere, okay?
He went on a journey. He read a book and then he read some more and learned some more and
figured it all out. And that's what he talks about. He talks about the book that he read. It was called
the multi-orgasmic man. And from there, he learned how to work his energy in his body. He talked
specifically about what he learned to do the first step, the second step, and then, you know,
eventually what brought everything together. And now he is a multi-orgasmic man that has like crazy orgasms
that could last for 10 minutes. And he talks all about it. He also talks about how he learned to not
jiz when he's orgasming. He's very specific about what you do and where you put your fingers.
It's called the three finger something or other. He talks about it. I think I was like,
wow, you just sold people on that because a lot of women don't like to swallow come. So if you could
come while she's blowing you and stop that jizz from coming out, like what a great thing, right?
He's going to tell you exactly what to do to make that happen. It's super interesting.
It's not like it took them years to figure out how to become multi-orgasmic. It was just like a few
months. So it's an interesting story. You're going to learn some stuff here. So I'm going to be right back on
with Vladimir. Hey, Vladimir. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today?
I'm great. How are you, Kathy? Good. I'm slightly obsessed with your name. I've been doing my show for a long time. I have all
the same nothing names on all the time. You know, but I've never, I don't think I've ever had a Vladimir on. So I'm like,
oh, I like this made-up name. I mean, they're all fake names, you know, but what you're here to talk about,
is multiple orgasms for men.
You know, you typically hear about, you know, women who could have multiple orgasms.
I'm not one of them.
I'm even impressed with women that can have multiple orgasms.
But it's very rare that I've ever heard that a guy could have multiple orgasms.
Like typically, you know, they come, they go limp, and then they got to wait a little while,
and then they could get it back up.
But you are able to have multi-orgasms, correct?
That is correct, yes.
You were like, I can come for 10 minutes straight.
I can, yes.
It's not something that I was born with.
Okay.
Something that I've learned.
Yes.
And you're going to teach my listeners how to do it.
This is a how-to.
I'm going to try.
Yeah.
Well, let me just get a little backstory before you go into your whole thing because you're
really going to be guiding this thing because it's informational from your standpoint.
But are you a married guy?
How old are you?
Sure, sure.
I am 46 years old.
I am married.
Okay.
have a kid. I've been married for seven years and the kid is six years old. It happened very
quickly, but we were happy. Yeah. How long did you learn this trick? Yeah, that trick I've learned
probably 20 years ago. Oh, okay. About 15, 20 years ago. Okay. So what made Vladimir start looking
into something like this.
Right.
Let's go all the way back.
Okay.
I was on like a self-development spiritual path.
And I was really into learning about, you know, religion and self-development and spirituality
and chakras and yoga.
Yeah, I like that.
I got into all of that and I got into it very heavily.
And to this day, I probably spent maybe.
be $100,000 on just the whole self-development courses and stuff like that.
And it paid off and it gave me like sort of like grounded, you know, self-love, all of those
things I've kind of experienced.
I didn't come from like a healthy family.
I come from Eastern Europe, hence the name Vladimir.
Right.
Right. And, you know, divorced parents and all of that.
So I wasn't like a happy inside of me person, you know.
Right.
So I needed that. I really needed.
I didn't like the standard psychology, you know, just laying on a softball staring at the ceiling.
Talking to someone, yeah.
I was like you.
I went, I like read all the books that Oprah started to talk about, like, you know, 20 years before she
talked about them. Like, I was always into self-help, but I went your same route very early on. I always felt
like, you know, that went a little bit deeper and beyond, you know, that kind of stuff.
Yeah, exactly. Meditation, you know, self-awareness. I actually used to teach for a little bit,
doing some, you know, all of that. So, like, I was a student, and at the same time, I was trying to
spread the knowledge, whatever works for you. You kind of feel like teaching that to other people,
because they're like, this is my way, this is happy.
I achieved the happiness doing this, you know,
you should do, you know, sort of a thing.
Yeah, I love that.
Yeah, so I was in all of that.
And I came across this book on Dow.
I think it's written with a T, Tom, but pronounced with D.
And the book was called Multiple Orgasm Men.
Oh, interesting.
And it was in line with.
all of the meditation stuff, all of the self-development and all of the, you know, energy and all of that.
So I got into that book.
And what I was talking about is, first of all, the Tao comes from like 500 BC, so it's been around.
It's the same guys that created acupuncture.
So it's not something new.
And what they're talking about is that there is this energy that comes up.
through your spine and then goes down through the front of your body.
Okay.
And there are two schools, one the Tao and one is the Kundalini from India.
Yeah, that's what I know of.
Yeah, I know that name.
Right.
They're kind of similar, but slightly different.
I'll talk about a difference a little bit later.
Okay.
But back then, 20 years ago, I started to practice that.
So basically what they're saying is that,
orgasm, the male orgasm, is two things.
First of all, yeah, you get the normal stimulation,
the blood flows into the organs,
then you have the orgasm where the sperm comes out,
you have the like the pre-com and the actual sperm,
one comes from the balls, one comes from the prostate,
and then you get the babies.
But at the same time, there is a energy,
Right? And we feel some guys, unfortunately, they feel it only in their genitals.
And other guys feel it in their entire body. I've never been one of those guys that feels it in only genitals. I've always had those big orgasms, like a full body orgasm, yes.
Oh, that's interesting. Ever since you were orgasm and you always felt it full body?
I think so. Maybe a few times. Yeah, I think so. I don't remember ever.
feeling it like it's always being like intense you know intense and rocking and you know blood
flowing into my brain and like who you know luckily I don't know maybe I've lived some many
life and and it just was there always yeah so but when I started to pump that and so there's exercise
I think these days people know it as a caggle exercise
size.
Yep.
I don't know that there's kegles for guys, but there are.
Yeah, so it's a similar thing.
So this book was talking about how you contract your PC muscle, right?
And so there is this PC, I forgot the name of it.
Everybody can look at it.
But it is basically like around your balls, around your anus and the perineum, all of those muscles.
It's PC muscle.
and so you pump it you pump it you pump it and you feel the energy coming up and then you try to pump it in a way that it goes up your spine
now what happened to me is that immediately I felt that it didn't go up and I was like a very good student I was like okay I got to achieve it and it took me
I think I was back then I just broke up with my girlfriend and I had like all the time in the world and I remember just sitting there
for probably three, four months every day for like 30 minutes an hour, maybe multiple sessions a day.
I was just trying to break through that block in my spine.
Yeah.
So it took a while basically to get.
And finally it started to happen.
It's kind of like it was like a little hole and started to come up.
And I mean, these days, it's just so easy for me to just one pump and sort of this energy
it goes up all the way to the to my brain.
So then you, so basically once you have that channel opened, during sex, they recommend to not come all
the way to orgasm, but sort of get to that point of like right there pre and sort of stop
and pump that energy up into your brain.
Oh, interesting.
That happens during sex.
So that, and they call it orgasm.
I would call it orgasm too, but it's very, very mild.
Like, it's not like one of those mind-blowing, expensive fireworks orgasm.
It's just like a little wave that goes up.
It's very pleasant.
And what it does, first of all, it's very healing for the body.
It's very good for your body.
It's very good for your organs.
a lot of sicknesses go away.
It's very good for your mind.
It calms you down because if you have all your energy in your mind, in your brain,
and nothing in your body, then you run into these, you know, heady people.
They don't feel anything.
They cannot feel love.
They cannot feel grounded.
They don't feel inside of their body, which is very important.
So, yeah.
So it's very important to open.
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So, yeah, so it's very important to open that channel.
And then once a lot of energy goes up into your brain, according to Dow,
it's very important to push it down into your organs in front of your body channel.
So they're talking about how when the embryo is formed, there are two sims going in the back and in the front.
Like your spine, if you look from the back, it's sort of like a sim.
Right.
And then if you look at like a pregnant woman, sometimes they get this like a black line in the belly.
So that's the other sim that is being formed when the embryons is being formed in the valley.
So basically there are these two channels.
And the way you connect the two channels is through touching the palate in your mouth with the tongue up.
Oh, you mean the top of your mouth, the top of the inside of your mouth with your tongue while you're sending.
And that's when you're sending it back down is what you're saying.
Down, exactly.
Oh, interesting.
Exactly.
Very specific.
Very, very specific.
Yeah, there were basically physicians.
Yeah, right, right.
And so this is the difference between the Tao and the Kundalini people from India
is that with Kundalini, they talk about just going and connecting to the divine and pushing the energy up into your brain and sort of in a space.
but Dow noticed that when that happens,
a lot of energy stays in the brain.
They call it like a Kundalini syndrome.
People sort of get like literal crazy.
Oh my God, that's so funny.
Like high on it because it's all there.
Exactly, exactly.
Yeah, they're a little like high.
Like, oh, it's great.
That makes sense.
So that happens there.
So to Taoist, it's important to push it.
down and what's amazing about that is your body stores and it's very important to push it down
all the way to the naval and naval and all the organs behind it it's a good storage place for that
energy because if you store it somewhere else like in your brain that's a problem but
storing it in the naval area then your body when it needs it for something like life you
know, you will take that energy from there.
It's like a good storage for it, like your hard drive.
Interesting.
Very interesting, yeah.
And I have to say, like, after I've been doing it, it's like, wow, like, I have more
energy, you know, you just practice it.
And the practice now becomes, like, super easy.
Like, I could be standing in a line, Trader Joe's, and, like, pump it up.
And, like, who, I have more energy, you know.
Wow, that's so interesting.
So even though it's like you could use that during sex, like, you could also.
use it to give you just regular energy during the day kind of thing. I mean, you can move that
energy around once you start to learn how to do it. It's just a matter of if you're doing it
while you're having sex, then you're using, then it becomes like a sexual thing.
Exactly. Yeah. First of all, you will never, ever have those premature education problems.
I mean, I'm 46. I don't have that problem anyways. But, you know what I mean? Like younger guys.
Yeah.
You know, yeah, I remember when I was 19, like, oh, my God, what happened?
What happened?
Right, right.
But luckily, at 19, you can do it over and over again, and it's like, but besides the point.
Yeah.
So, yeah, you can, and it's like, it makes you present.
Mm-hmm.
It makes you more loving because the energy goes into all of your chakras and goes to your heart.
so you become more deep and more loving to your partner when it goes to your stomach you become like
that's where the wisdom comes in you know the gut feeling you know they they talk about right yeah
so so it's amazing now so these are as I said the Taoist orgasms right and as I said they're not
like highly like they're not explosion they're very pleasant
but they're mild in my personal experience.
Right. Okay.
Now, when we talk about Kundalini orgasms, they're similar.
They also go up from the bottom to up the spine, to the brain.
But if I have like a regular orgasm, I've learned to sort of separate.
So there is a spot.
It's kind of hard to explain.
You have to feel it.
and through these practices you can get to feel it.
But I basically learned to feel where the energetic part of the orgasm comes,
as opposed to the ejaculation part.
Right.
And I'm able to sort of go into that spot with my attention
and continue sort of letting that explosion.
So normally for guys it's like maybe eight seconds because they're like maybe three explosions.
Yeah.
That happens.
I've learned to keep that spot exploding.
Because you're like controlling the energy.
You learned how to like take it and manipulate it yourself.
Exactly.
Right.
Exactly.
And once those first three explosions happen, I'm able to go with my intention,
into the spot and
continuing
exploding
and it's
freaking unbelievable
like I can go on
and on and on
and it's like
and it goes more and more and more
then it goes down down down
but then it goes up and up and up and up
and up and like I can be
flapping there going into like a bridge
pose like it's so freaking
intense Kathy it's unbelievable
like it just goes on
and on and on.
Like, why I said 10 minutes?
Yeah.
Because I just get tired.
It could be an hour, but it's just, it's not sustainable.
Yeah, it could be forever.
But my body is just convulsing in this incredible, pleasurable experience.
And it just like, I had one of my ex-goffriends when she saw it first time.
She's like, nah, you pretend.
And this is not possible.
Like, what are you doing?
Yeah, she wasn't jealous.
She was, yeah, she was a jealous type.
But like my wife, she was like, wow, this is incredible.
Like other people saw it and like, like, wow, this is moving.
Like it's just like what I go through is just probably maybe the best feeling experience
that anybody can have in this human existence.
But I have a million questions and I want you to keep talking.
But like my first question to you is that.
Like, you know, because you started off saying you read this book and the multi-orgasmic man.
Now, did this, was it this book that told you to put these two things together, the kundalini and the Tao?
Or were you the one who put these things together and figured it out?
Great question.
And there's a second part of this.
Oh, okay.
I had a girlfriend who could do this.
She was one of those women that could go into this sort of orgasmic friend.
Yeah.
And could have like 200 orgasms.
Wow.
Did you meet her like in a yoga studio or something?
Was she like on your same path?
She had to have been, right?
She was one of those very conscious, very connected people.
Yeah, yeah, I get it.
Uh-huh.
A very amazing person.
And after I practiced this Taoist part, as I said, those orgasm was kind of mild.
Yeah.
Then I started to date her.
And she could do this.
And as I was becoming more sensitive to myself through all these practices, through meditation, yoga and all of that,
I've developed this very good empathic ability.
And when she was doing it, I was like observing her.
And I'm like, wow, this is amazing.
But I could sort of feel her.
And eventually, maybe we were after dating her for a couple of months, you know, we were having sex and all that.
it was wonderful.
There was one moment when it just happened for me.
Oh, without you even trying.
Without, I mean, I was kind of trying to attune myself to her energy.
Right, but it wasn't like you were trying to have multiple orgasms.
You were just like following her lead.
Kind of, yeah.
Okay.
Yes.
So it was like a two-part thing.
One, I was like doing all these exercises and getting to like little orgasms.
And then I sort of had like this guide, I would call her, right?
Right.
Who could do it.
And just by being with her, by just watching her and empathically connecting her, I figured it out within myself.
Well, where's your fucking book then?
I mean, you know, you need to do the multi-orgasmic guy book yourself because you took it to a whole other level.
Right?
I mean, because it's not like you learned it from that book.
you kind of learned, like that book was like the appetizer, and then your girl, like, sort of, you know,
created the whole meal. I mean, that really was how you took it to the next level and was able to
have, like, intense all over multi-orgasms. Correct. Yeah. Correct. There are, like, I never have to do
it myself because I'm already there, but I know there are Kundalini activation. Yes. Classes, lessons.
Yeah. I'm actually, like, right now, we've.
I'm trying to get my wife to activate it.
We've done a couple of sessions, but it hasn't happened.
But, like, she's amazing.
She's great, but she doesn't have that.
Like, I love having sex with her, but she doesn't have that yet.
So we're practicing.
Yeah.
Do they use psychedelics for that sometimes?
I don't think so.
No, no.
Like, that's the beauty of all of that.
Right.
You can get there without that, right?
Like, that's what they do.
Yeah.
Yeah.
The reason why I said that is because I remember, like, when I was growing up, ecstasy became all the rage.
And maybe now they call it MMA or whatever.
It's the same shit.
I don't know.
But like, ecstasy was something that people like took all the time.
And supposedly a lot of people would have like lower back pain afterwards.
And I was, I remember someone saying something about it.
Like it's like because it is working on that kundalini area.
But it's like using this drug to do it.
Right.
But like the whole point is that you could do that and get to that bliss and that feeling like without using a fucking drug.
Right.
And that's what, like, those practices that you were doing is all about.
Exactly.
I've done ecstasy in my earlier days, for 30s.
And, yeah, it's up there.
But then, of course, you know, it's ecstasy will fuck you up.
Like, you'll be dead.
Yeah, no, I remember thinking, like, I would never do that because I was into all the stuff that you were doing.
And I'm like, oh, that's going to fuck up your kundalini.
Like, that's not what you want to do.
It's like the quick fix, but it's not really.
It's like a Band-Aid end.
It could cause problems because you don't want to fuck with that part.
So you know, what I can tell you is like that with drugs, with ecstasy.
I have this thing.
So imagine you want to go to Everest.
And as a normal person, what you're going to do is like, okay, I'm going to just like work out.
I'm going to learn everything about going up there.
I'm going to become strong.
It's going to take me two years to do this.
And then you do it.
Yeah.
And taking ecstasy is like hiring a health.
helicopter to get you up there.
I knew you were going to say that.
I knew it.
Yeah.
Yeah.
It's like that.
But it doesn't make you a better person.
Exactly.
Yeah.
You didn't get in shape.
You didn't get in shape.
You didn't like work on your willpower and gain more.
Like all that great stuff that you get from all the journey, right?
Mm-hmm.
Like what you learned from all these practices.
And probably like literally not only give you multiple orgasms, but change.
changed your life in so many other ways, right? It's like a domino effect. If you're more in your
body and you learn how to control that energy, don't you become more able to control other things
in your life, too, in a positive way? Of course, of course. The relationship that I have right now
with my wife, which is like loving and respectful and supportive, it didn't come from me taking
ecstasy. It's because of all these practices, for sure. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, to become empathetic as a
man is a great quality to have, right? Because a lot of times it's something that some guys lack.
Sorry to say. Very much. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. Absolutely. When I was like 20 years old, I destroyed so many
relationships. And I was like, what the fuck? I love this woman, but I say things and I think it's
going to give me one result, but it gives me the other one. I know, what's going on? I didn't stand. It was
very painful. Yeah. Very painful.
you know and it took it took many years and as I said like probably hundred thousand dollars to
like get to this point of like okay bettering yourself yeah but let me ask you this when you're
having all these orgasms like are you ejaculating with all of them are you ejaculating at the
end do they go together like what's happening with like you like jizzing at the same time
I like you
A little scrappy.
A little scrappy.
It could be both.
Yeah.
Yeah, it could be both.
I could ejaculate.
I could not.
Sometimes ejaculation helps me to go up into this high point
and then continue even higher with the energy thing.
Yeah.
Sometimes I don't ejaculate at all and just having sex.
And that's the great part about this
is that like with guys
We're very like goal oriented
Like okay we're going in we're having sex
She needs to come one time two times
And then I come
You know like when you do all these practices
The goal orientation kind of goes away
And you're more connected to like the pleasant feeling
Like basically it's like going from your left hemisphere
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Feeling like basically it's like going from your left hemisphere,
which is logic and goal orientation,
to like right hemisphere.
sphere where you just in the moment connected in the pleasure.
Right.
So you could enjoy an orgasm without ejaculation, whereas probably some guys, if they don't
have that release, it's not complete, correct?
Correct.
They feel like it's not, oh, and you know, another thing that happens, you do not, you know
how guys, like when they ejaculate, they were, oh.
Yeah, that was giving me my next question.
Also, post-nut clarity.
We'll talk about that next.
But yeah, they want to just like pass out.
Yeah.
They do.
A lot of guys do.
That doesn't happen anymore because when you have all those orgasms, the energy keeps flowing.
And it's just there.
So you're not as depleted.
You still depleted because you just, you know, worked out for whatever minutes.
Yeah.
Right?
You're still tired.
But you definitely not shut down.
And another thing that happens, so Dao is talk about not, so you can have orgasm and you can sort of, how to explain it?
So it's like you have orgasm, your full orgasm, like a normal guy does.
But you can do a certain thing.
It's called a three finger lock where you don't lose sperm.
Oh, you push, you keep it, like your finger over the top.
So even if you need to ejaculate, it doesn't.
come out?
Right.
So you, there is a spot in the perineum, where the sperm flows out of your penis, not
my penis, not your penis.
Yeah, I know that's why I have all these questions I don't have a penis.
I act like I do, but I don't.
Like a guy.
Go on.
Right.
So there is a spot that you can sort of, you can push and you will have those.
contractions in that area which normally gets the sperm out of your penis but because
you're pushing on that spot it stays inside and what's good about it according to
that you know one of the reason why why guys like want to sleep right away is because
it takes enormous amount of energy to produce sperm to produce for the body
to produce sperm.
Yeah.
And when you have your normal, like an orgasm without ejaculating, then you don't lose as much energy.
Yeah, that's interesting.
Because I do remember there was like some whole movement or talk about how, you know,
guys who do like chronic masturbation or, you know, they're releasing their chi too much.
You know what I mean?
Like you don't want to let it go as much.
It sort of can deplete you.
and energy and all that kind of stuff.
So that's the concept you're talking about.
Yes, yes.
But another great thing is that, for example,
like, for example, my wife doesn't like the taste of sperm, right?
So I could, like, come without, like, ejaculating in her mouth.
Oh, my gosh, she must be so happy.
Yeah.
I mean, so many women actually don't like this.
the taste of sperm, right?
Yeah.
Like, it's a great tip for everybody.
Like, you can find that spot right there.
It takes a little bit of practice to find it.
How do you know that you found it?
Because, like, listen, I think, like, what, I think you just sold that.
I mean, we have a lot of different things you're teaching people how to do.
But I think you just sold a lot of guys on the fact of, like, you know, being able to
orgasm without jizzing in your girlfriend's mouth so she doesn't, like, have to stop.
And I don't even know.
I swallow.
I don't care.
I'm always like, what do girls do?
Like, spit it out in the middle.
Like, you know, so to avoid all that, like, I think it's kind of great that a guy could
figure that out.
How do you find that spot or how do you know you're in the right place?
Right.
So the spot is in the perineum.
Perineum is the taints.
Right between your balls and your anus.
Yes.
So it's somewhere there.
Mm-hmm.
It's there and you use three fingers.
Yeah.
And when you orgasm, you, if you're feeling,
fingers are there, you will feel pumping.
Oh, interesting.
Yeah, yeah.
I'm going to try this next time I'm blowing my guy and I'm going to put my, I'm going to try
and do it for him.
Yeah, yeah.
I mean, it makes sense, right?
There is a pump that needs to pump the sperm out of the penis.
And you will feel it.
And you have to apply enough pressure not to hurt.
Right.
And enough to block it.
Good thing about it is not exactly.
like a pump, so it's not going to hurt. Because like if you pump and close it, right, you can think
of pressure going out. Yeah. But actually, all that system is not built exactly like that.
You, it is safe. Right. It's not going to cause pain. It's not going to cause inflammation.
What Taoist recommend is that if you want to impregnate a woman, they recommend not to use the sperm
that was there for years, for example, if you always do it.
Right?
So let's say you want to like ejaculate fully and then wait.
So that load needs to be sort of expelled.
And then the freshly produced sperm shoot impregnative woman.
Wait, do you know how?
Because I always, like, first of all, until I tried to have a baby,
I had no idea that my eggs were as old as I was.
Like I just thought I made new eggs every month.
I mean, this is how fucking clueless I was about.
No, there's a hundred, 128 eggs.
Yeah, I didn't know that about my own body.
So I don't know anything about guys sperm.
Okay, but I do know that what my, you know, thinking was that like,
oh, guys producing new sperm every day.
But what you're saying is there's like older sperm like in line in the front of the line
and you want to get rid of those first because what will come out second and third is like
the better sperm.
I believe so.
I'm not a doctor.
Don't quote me on that.
No, no.
I know.
But I believe so.
Yeah.
That's what we're saying.
Right.
I mean, but that's what they teach is to let it, like, if you want to impregnated someone,
wait for like the second or third load is what you're saying, right?
The brand new sperm, basically, correct.
But the brand new sperm isn't the first sperm that comes out.
Yeah, like if you were like not ejaculating for, let's say, six months because you were
doing that three-finger lock, then it's going to stay there forever for as long as you don't.
Right, right.
where it's not going to go anywhere it's still in your balls yeah yeah yeah that's interesting wait let me ask
you this like when you're like alone jerking off versus like having sex with a woman or is this
kind of experience different can you do the multi orgasms when you're jerking off and
the same kind of experience and when you're with a woman absolutely you can i would say that it's
much better with the woman because her energy is something that you can at the same
same time connect and use to fuel that orgasm even more.
Right.
And can you do it like, is it so intense?
Like, can you do it with, I mean, not touching yourself like that?
Like you said you could like use that energy and sort of get a kick while you're standing in line.
You know what I mean?
Is it something?
Have you ever been able to have an orgasm without touching your dick?
That energetic orgasm, yes.
Yeah.
I can, like, do it literally right now.
Like, I just go there with my intention.
And it just got energy is being created and it shoots up throughout my whole body.
And it's very pleasant.
Right.
So where would a guy, how would a guy start with this?
Would you say, oh, get that book?
Would you say start with the steps that you talked about in the beginning?
Like, if you were, like, if some guy's listening right now and he's like, I want to get on this,
like, what would you say is the first thing he should start practicing him?
I would say start practicing with the keggle.
exercise, which is contracting the PC muscle.
Right.
And seeing and feeling that energy going up your spine.
Right.
And just like imagining it, right?
If they can't feel it at the beginning, right?
Correct.
You imagining it.
But your imagination means you like visualizing images in your mind.
It's not that.
It's more of a feeling.
You have to be able to feel what's going on in your body.
Right.
And it's different from, you can use imagination, but it's not, it's not bad.
You have to be able to viscerally feel it.
Right.
And put your attention there.
So you're saying, do those kegels and push the energy up from the base of your spine up, correct?
Correct.
Correct.
Into your brain, like through the back of your head, through your neck, in the top of your head.
And how will someone know when that's working?
You have to feel it.
Right.
But I mean, eventually does it feel like something more explosive than in the beginning when you first try, right?
Because I can't imagine that the first time you do it, you feel this thing that you're saying you feel, right?
Like, doesn't it take time?
Yeah, as I said, it took me like three months of very, like, good regimen to be able to pump it up all the way to the brain.
Right. And at the same time, I was like into all these meditation practices. So it was like a path of connecting to myself.
Right. And developing ability to feel my body. Right. And now you're doing these Kiggles without a hard on. You're not jerking off. Like this isn't something you're doing when you're watching porn. Correct. Yeah. It doesn't have, correct. You could do it without any.
sexual arousal or you could do it with sexual arousal.
I would say sometimes sexual arisal could help because there's already blood in there
flowing and there's already energy so if you could practice getting that energy up the spine
so you're not going to come as fast, which is good for the woman, right?
And you're going to clear that energy and you're going to heal yourself in the process.
as opposed to just, you know, walking off.
Right.
And so after they start, finish with the kegles,
if they're starting to feel like going up to their brain
and they're feeling those little explosions,
what do they do next again?
Like what would you say?
Right.
So if you feel that energy is all the way to the brain,
and if you feel dizzy but not like in a pleasant way,
because you can have like a little dizziness
and that means that your energy is going all,
the way up and it's fueling your brain, which means you have more energy there.
It's going to give you clarity.
It's going to have you like think more positive thoughts.
But if you get to the point where it's like, oh, I feel pressure, that's when it's time
for you to take that energy from the brain and push it down through the front of your body
into your navel.
So that's how you know when you're at that next step.
which is the good place to be.
Mm-hmm.
Absolutely.
And how did you learn that?
If that wasn't in the book, you just learned that.
It is.
Yeah.
Oh, it is.
It is.
So it is kind of like when you get to that point where you start to feel uncomfortable,
now you've learned how to push all the energy you need to then push down, right,
and get to the next level.
Correct.
Right.
And then how do they push it down again?
The book talks about it's called Inner Smile.
Oh, right, the tongue.
Yeah, the tongue, right.
But there is this intention that you should put to touch the palate at the top of your mouth with your tongue.
And then take that energy from the brain and sort of with this internal smile, push it down through the front of your body into your navel.
Right.
Do you feel stupid at first doing this kind of stuff?
Yes.
Yeah.
Yeah, absolutely.
Yeah.
Yeah, I mean, Western culture is not very open-minded.
Yeah.
And, you know, but I think I got lucky in some ways because I grew up in Eastern Europe
and people are more open to the stuff over there.
And then moving to America, like, I have to.
two cultures than me, and it's like, I'm just more open-minded to all of that. And my mom was
a psychic, so I grew up in people waving hands in the air and seeing crazy things.
Oh, that's kind of interesting. Would she give you readings?
Yes, like, she was the first palm reader in whatever, 1990s in our city.
Oh, I love all that kind of stuff. I believe in that kind of stuff. I mean, unfortunately,
the sad thing about people like that is there's so many.
people, you know, because you could just like fucking lie and say you're a psychic or you
read, you know. And so there's so many people and frauds out there that ruin it for the
real deal people. You know, I do believe that people have, listen, everyone I think is intuitive
to a certain degree, right? And some people have a gift, just like anyone could play the
piano, but some people have the gift, right? They're just like virtuosa. That's like your mom, right?
We all have a little intuition. Like you said, that gut feeling, we're all a little bit psychic.
gig. Everyone has signs of it in their life.
But some people have, I believe some people have the gift and they are seers.
It's just there's so many frauds out there, you know, but I believe in that stuff.
So now when the person, so like, listen, I say do you feel stupid at first?
Because like, you know, there is a feel, I think when you start to like switch off from being like
really present and in your head and being more, you know, open to this kind of stuff, it might feel
uncomfortable.
But if you push through that, eventually you don't feel stupid and you feel more comfortable and
you can let go.
And this is the kind of stuff you've.
could learn and if you go there in practice, you could push past that uncomfortable thing in the
beginning and should push past it. So usually when you start all of this, a lot of stuff that is
stored that is negative in you, we'll start coming up because you're touching it. You're touching it,
right? Like if you need to clean out your garage that you've been storing stuff for years,
right? There's dirt, there's, you know, and all of that's going to be on you, sort of.
Yeah, it's like when you do a liver detox or any kind of detox in your body, right?
You feel worse.
That's a normal process, right?
It could be, yeah.
It could be unpleasant.
It could be worse.
But you believe that there is like a greater thing on the other side.
You go through it and once you get there, like, oh my God, I've been missing this.
I didn't know what I was missing.
Yeah, you're having 10-minute orgasms and they keep going and you're having like a lot of them.
You said it took about three months to get the energy to the top of your head.
How long to get the energy down?
After that it's easier.
Yeah, getting energy down is easier.
Right.
Good question.
Right.
So you max that out.
And then you met that girl and learned how to put it all together and was able, started to have multiple orgasms.
Yeah, even more like after ejaculated or after the normal orgasm, I was able to extend it into 10 minutes.
There are classes.
Like if you go online, if you look for Kundalini activation classes, you'll see videos of group classes where these women just flop like a fish and go into bridge poses from all of that energy.
It's insane.
It's pretty intense there.
And it's real.
A lot of people don't believe it.
Like they look at the video and like, ah, this is bullshit.
You know, you're just faking it.
It's real.
I know I've experienced.
It is very real.
But people who are skeptics, people who are close-minded, they don't want to believe it.
They want to stay in their own world.
And, you know, that's one of the reasons all of this.
It doesn't make it into the mainstream.
Because, listen, mainstream is all about noise.
You know what I mean?
And creating all this noise to distract people.
And so many people have all this noise and all this distraction that it never allows them to get to these other places.
And I think that that's by design, you know.
And, you know, and that's for a purpose to keep you, like, dumb and repressed, you know, and
it's sad.
But question, do you stay hard this whole time?
Like, you're having multiple orgasms.
Is it because you're never ejaculating or, like, are you going up and down as far as, like,
the erection, or is it staying hard because that energy is staying in there in the blood flow?
Great question.
So when if I decide to for example like have sex with my wife and then
Have orgasm and then continue to 10 minutes
It's gonna I'm gonna ejaculate like a normal person does
Right
sperm comes out and my dick goes down like a like a normal 46 years old dude
But after that I can plugging into that energetic space and
keep the energetic orgasms going and go into the full pleasure mode.
Right.
Even though you're soft is what you're saying.
Even though I'm soft already by that point.
So within, yeah.
Those last 10 minutes of energetic orgasms, I'm not going to have a hard dog.
Oh, interesting.
So you're not like fucking through that 10 minutes.
Like, what do you do?
Yeah.
Probably not because it's more like a,
I have to go within myself.
Yeah.
Like I have to go inside of myself and connect to that spot.
So for some moment, I want to sort of go into somewhat meditation and connect there.
So I close my eyes.
I lay next to my wife.
And she's there.
She's supporting me.
And I could feel her energy in that space.
but I'm not having sex with her.
It's like my orgasm.
Oh, wow, that's kind of interesting.
And she was okay, first time you kind of put that out there?
I mean, yeah.
I mean, it's my pleasure.
She loves women to see my pleasure.
Why wouldn't she?
Just like men who want to please women
and want to have women orgasm 100 times.
You know, she's there for me.
Right.
She likes to see you, please.
Like, she like, your pleasure.
It's her pleasure, right?
It's her pleasure, exactly.
Right.
So you suggest guys to maybe go out and buy that book or look for those classes online.
I'm sure they have virtual stuff, right?
Yeah, yeah.
Basically, there are two resources.
One is Taoism and one is the kundalini.
Right.
Both places.
And that's the whole tantric kind of sex thing, right?
So tantric is more kundalini.
Yeah, right.
Taoism is a separate.
teaching. So one is China,
one is India. Right.
But you studied both, and that was the
I studied both.
Yeah. Correct.
And I had a good guide.
Like if you're not going to
succeed through books,
through whatever,
maybe find
those Kundalini activation
classes where there are people
who do this and they can help
you energetically. Because, like
for example, as I said,
We were trying to get my wife to do this.
Yeah.
And what happens there in the session, she just comes over, and there is, it was a guy,
and he was basically like going around her, waving his hands, trying to get that energy up.
He was going into the altered state of mind.
He was sort of meditative state himself.
And he was kind of like just trying to get her energy into that.
space and first session she said she could feel energy in the bottom area but then on the second
session she could feel that that energy came up to her third chakra which is solar plexus yeah so
there was like a movement from first to second session but it hasn't gone all the way up to her brain
so eventually we're going to go back which has been busy but um that's kind of how it happens as i said
Like it takes time.
And the guy said usually takes three, you know, somebody two, three sessions, four sessions pretty quickly according to him.
But I don't know.
That's not bad.
That's not bad at all.
Yeah.
The session was like 60 bucks.
So it's not super expensive.
No.
And do you think it makes you like a better lover because you're more in tune with your energy so you're more in tune?
Because I think the best lover is like, you know, and you know, I'm sure.
you've been with women who are like this and for me it's like a guy that goes down to me and I'm like
he just like knows what the fuck he's doing it's not like he he has the right moves it's like he
knows the energy right it's like a girl that gives a great blowjump she just knows like like
you could connect with the energy of somebody else when you're more connected yourself I think and
I think that that's what separates the really great lovers from the it's the same like if you're
getting a massage you know sometimes you're getting massage from someone they know exactly where to go
what to do like they're in tune with your energy right so I would
assume that if you really working on yourself that way and you're so in tune with yours,
like you said, you became empathetic. So now you could feel other people's energy, right?
Exactly. So I can tell you what I could do with my ex because she was so developed.
Yeah. I could make her calm without touching her. Wow. Yeah. Like it was that, like,
the connection that we had and the mastery of her body and my body was like amazing. Like this.
is not something that I've heard from anybody, I think.
Maybe a few people, but yeah, it's amazing.
It's amazing.
Well, maybe when your partner learns to connect a lot more with herself, it will be the
same thing, right?
Because you're already there, right?
You know how to manipulate the energy.
It's just a matter of her learning it too, which I think is like really cool.
Send me a link.
Send me the title of that book again.
I think I found it online.
I googled it while you were talking.
called like the multi-orgasmic man.
The multi-orgasmic man.
The multi-orgasic man, right?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And somebody else, right?
Douglas.
Somebody else.
Yeah.
Okay.
So that's the book.
And then if somebody, I'm going to put a link to that book if people want to find
it, right?
And then, I mean, if somebody wants to go look for a guide, which I think is
always super helpful.
I mean, you sound kind of like wired like me and that you're very curious and you
like to do the work and you want to like help yourself and then help others.
So you go looking for all that information.
but you know the truth is most people aren't like us okay they don't want to do any of that stuff themselves right so they
guide is super helpful for most people i mean that's why you know there's less teachers than there are people
that need guides right like that's so i think a lot of people would benefit from being you're hiring
somebody to help them do yeah i think so and there's also the same authors they wrote a couple other books
uh one for couples and there's a lot of a lot of stuff for women too oh really like for the same
Like, like, what kind of books?
Like, let me look at, let me go.
Yeah, like similar concept, similar concept like Kegel exercises and how women's body work.
And there's a lot of stuff.
I haven't gone deep into that because I personally don't need it.
But, you know, you could, as a woman, you could benefit from it.
Yeah, this one guy, that Montauk, I mean, he wrote tons of things, the multi-organismic woman.
The same stuff for women, for men, he's talking about for women, too.
he's right and obviously it would work same way right correct yeah yeah yeah i love it okay
i'm gonna put a link to that yeah go on yeah please do and like uh if you look at videos of montakcia
the way he looks at his whatever seven years old is incredible like he's been practicing this
for all his life and he's achieved like amazing things like you look at this guy like wow
like he's never been sick in his life you know things like that you hear like we don't believe it
right away, but I believe it.
I like to believe.
And he's a good spokesperson is what you're saying.
Like, you look at him, he's not like an overweight, old man with, you know, a walker.
He's like.
Right, right, right.
Obviously, it fucking works.
He'll kick your butt in seven.
No, but I, listen, I look at things like that.
Like, I'm sorry, I'm not going to go work out at the gym and have someone train me that has a
not a fucking killer body, you know?
I mean, I think it's important.
If you're the master of this, like, you should reflect it, right?
and you're saying that he really does.
And if he looks that good at 70 and something,
he's figured something out, right?
Because most people don't fucking look good at 70.
Exactly.
Yeah, I love it.
I'm going to be Googling him.
I love this kind of information.
I think it's super interesting.
I'm going to put a link to that book in the description.
You know, I started a whole Sexual Health Saturday series,
like just to give people information on different things,
you know, because I think like people, you know,
because I like talking about stuff like this too,
besides like this the regular stuff I talk on my show you know just life stories I'm really
into this kind of stuff too so that's what my sexual health Saturday series is all about being
able to have these kinds of conversations too because this is just as interesting like I'm
interested in a lot of things I'm like the weirdest most curious person that ever lived but like
you know so I I like to talk about other things besides just the other sex stuff on my shows you know
so this is like super this was a super fun conversation uh you know I'm going to look into these books
for myself. I love this kind of stuff. So thanks for calling in and I hope some of my listeners go and
practice it. And then if anyone does, you could come on the show and talk about your experience and
talk about how you did it, right? Yeah, yeah. I appreciate it. Yeah, thanks. Happy to share. Yeah,
I love it. Thanks so much for calling in. I love when people think out of the box to be on my show to
you know, because a lot of times it's like people telling their life story. I'm glad that you were like,
oh, this would be a good topic because it is. I don't go looking for people to be on my show. It's like,
I just take whoever, you know, people email me.
And I'm like, read the email and I'm like, okay or no.
And so I'm just glad that you did because it's super interesting.
Now, I don't know if you want to send a pick, anonymous picks for my Patreon, you know,
to prove that you're living the life that you're working out towards.
I don't know if you want to.
But you can.
I'll give you free.
I'll think about it.
Yeah, but you don't have to.
But I will give you free access to my Patreon for a month to see the comments as well as free access to my Discord,
which is like a super naughty place.
So if you want to go in there, you can.
but I'll give you a free link to it.
For calling it.
But thanks, Vladimir.
Thanks so much for calling it.
This was fun.
Yes.
Thank you, Kathy.
Thanks.
Bye.
Bye-bye.
Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book,
it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession,
Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers,
is now available not only in paperback and e-book,
but you can pre-order the audiobook.
It's still not going to be out until August 25th,
but you can pre-order it.
The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show.
I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show.
Like there's a hot wife story.
There's a cuck queen story.
There's a cuck story.
There's a gang-being girl story.
Like I said, 17 stories.
And they're all told in the third person.
And they're all true.
I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person.
And I wouldn't really call it like a total.
Erotica book. Think like Penthouse Letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like
erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories. 17 of them.
They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two and then skip
around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format. And
finally, the audiobook is available coming out August 25th. But you could pre-order it now.
And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord.
My Discord does not disappoint, okay?
There's no way you get into my Discord any other way than getting the link from me.
Okay, I give it to people who buy my book.
There's tons of people in there.
Everybody shares content with each other.
And that's what you get to do there.
You can post your own pictures and videos.
There's tons of channels.
We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of money.
It's a super fun place to be.
It's a total strictly anonymous community and you will love it.
I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord.
It's private, like I said.
All you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook,
the ebook or the paperback.
Send it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com.
That's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com.
And I will send you the link to Discord.
So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in.
