Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1211 - Maverick Got his Wife into Hotwifing but Now he Wants to Change Things Up?!

Episode Date: September 2, 2025

Maverick got his wife into hotwifing and now he wants to change things up and he called in to talk all about it.  Tune in to hear all the details including what their sex life was before they started exploring, how and why he started sharing hot pics of his wife online secretly with other guys and how they’d share their wives too, how far he went with it before he told his wife and how she reacted, how he brought up starting an Onlyfans and how she felt about that, what led them to them both getting off on the hotwife scenario, their first trip to a swingers resort and what went down, the photographer/bull they met who did a boudoir shoot and the MFM threesome and exactly what went down, the next bull they met and what went down, how his wife met with him for a solo hotwife date  and how and why that hook up made him realize he wasn’t that into the hotwifing dynamic, what he realized he’s looking for instead, how his wife feels about him being with another female and how that has changed over time plus a whole lot more. Their Onlyfans can be found here: https://onlyfans.com/u185542627 **To see HOT pics of MAVERICK'S WIFE plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To get 10% off Drive Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2528-anonymous⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Use code: ANONYMOUS to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14-day money-back guarantee ⁠https://uberlube.com/discount/Strictly⁠ For 10% off Uberlube aka the BEST Lube EVER, use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://viia.co/STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Try VIIA and use code STRICTLYANON for great SEX and sleep ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order To get $15 OFF your female oxytocin arousal tablets and more, use code STRICTLY here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/xLQ3Jv⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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their pictures of their wives with him and he was really into it and then eventually he brought that up to his wife. She was like, okay, and they kept doing that and then they started role playing, being with other people and then they went to a swingers club or swingers resort and they dabbled there and then they started in only fans just for like fun. They didn't really promote it that much, but they just did it like for fun just to get people like watching them because they both get off on that. And then they started doing it in real life. They met with a, a couple bulls, talks about those experiences. They're set to meet with a couple this weekend to do a couple swap because it turns out

after doing the whole hot wiping thing for a long time, he's not into just doing that. Now he wants to experience being with another woman himself as well. His wife is down for that. This is a couple, like I said, it's been together since high school now and we're very vanilla and now they're living their best life. It's a super interesting story. The whole journey you're going to hear about all of it. so I'm going to get right to oh he talks about how hot his wife is the whole time I have hot picks of her over on my Patreon so if you want to see them join my patron is patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast but anyway I'm going to get right to be right back on with Maverick oh hey Maverick welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast how are you today I'm doing awesome how are you good I like your name Maverick I've had another Maverick on he was a bull you're you're a guy that would like probably call in a bull you do have a wife and you have an interesting journey

with your wife because you start out like kind of, you know, secretly sharing her pictures and stuff with other people. Like you had that kink of sharing your girl with other people. And then eventually you guys started, I guess, you know, you're going to tell the whole story, but you started talking about it somehow it came up and eventually you started doing it. She now has an only fan. You guys are hot wifing. You know, and there's been, you know, you're going to talk about the good, the bad and the ugly, right? That's what we're going to hear about the whole journey.

Yep, and absolutely. I think that's kind of the unique part. There is an ugly aspect to it or a medium aspect to it that I thought was kind of a unique part of the story to share. I like that. You know, I'm a realist, right? I don't want to act like this is the fucking movies here. So I always love a gone wrong story or a story that's very realistic in that, you know, things are not always a straight line. Sometimes people think, you know, they want to live in fantasy land that everything, you know, happens so easily.

But whatever. So, okay, so now let's start with where you guys are at. How long have, I know you're 39, because I said you sounded so young to me on the phone, but like how long have you and your girl been together or married? So we've married since 21 years old. Oh, wow. Dating it at 15 years old. Oh, my God.

Did you guys ever break up and fuck other people? This is why you guys are got to fuck other people now. That's right. And not even once. We've been joined at the hip ever since we started dating in high school. Wow. And, yeah, I got married and have a beautiful family life. Wow.

Okay. So you meet your girl. Now, are you guys Vanilla the whole time, have kids and all that stuff? Like this whole hot wiping and everything start recently? Yep. So we've been vanilla as can be up until maybe three or four years ago, which is kind of where the story starts. Okay. But never had a college years, never had a hoe phase, never been with anybody else.

We were always just so happy with kind of what we were doing. Love that. We never really knew there was an outer world. until we got introduced to it slightly, I guess. And then the sexy story kind of begins. Yeah, but let me just ask you a quick question about your vanilla sex. Was it just like always you guys just had great chemistry for each other and sex was really great even if it was vanilla?

I mean, it was just always like super great between the two of you. Yeah, honestly, that's totally true. My wife's always been amazing in bed. There's never been limitations. We've played and we thought we were kind of doing everything. And I would say it was really vanilla. I mean. Compared to the people.

my show. I get it. Yeah. A hundred percent. So nothing, I mean, we always had funds. We'd have sex outdoors. We'd have sex five, six, seven times a week. I mean, it was always amazing. But it wasn't to whatever we call this level. Okay. So start the story wherever you think is the best part, you know, is I'm assuming it's when you start. I would say maybe a little bit before you start sharing picks on telegram and all that stuff. Because like when do you realize that you're even interested in that secretly? You know, I think what it really comes down to is being that we've only ever been with each other, I think I got to a point in my life where I was like, fuck, there's got to be, or I should say,

I'll see somebody walking down the street and they'll make that lust feeling like, wow, that lady is super hot or super sexy. And I would explore porn and masturbate and really enjoyed looking at what it was out there, but I never had any desire to cross a line, a cheating line. Right. That was not in me in any way. So eventually, maybe, you know, 39 now, maybe getting into the 30 number, you know, we start finding online platforms, something like a Reddit. Is my memory, it's kind of where it started, where I kind of got introduced to this world where people would go and share sexy photos of themselves or of their wives or whatever.

And at that point, it was like, oh, here's a photo of my wife. And I don't remember the Reddit or the subs or anything like that. But I just put them out there and just got into chatting with people. about it. And I kind of found that I enjoyed showing my wife off. She's super hot, super sexy, and that turned me on. So kind of that exhibitionist style almost from just a sharing photos perspective. To me, that was taboo. That was crossing a line in itself, but it was really a lot of fun. Let me ask you this. At this point, your wife did or did not know that you were sharing her pecs? She did not know. Okay. Did you feel a little guilty about that? Did you feel like you were

doing something wrong? Did you think like, oh, it's no big deal? I probably challenge myself, you know, with that question all the time. I was probably like, it's not that big of a deal. You know, I probably didn't show face at the beginning. And it was probably just like her body. But wait a second. You eventually showed her face? Yes. But that would just kind of start the next chapter. Okay. Okay. In my, my thought, because, you know, in the Reddit world, it was just kind of fun to share. But Reddit quickly turned into the, that platform of K-I-K, I think they call it, K-I-K. And then there's also the other one called Telegram, which is the one I gravitated towards.

And Telegram, it was kind of cool because you could share stuff and you could do timers and you could delete chats and you can do all these things. And somewhere in there, maybe we were fast-forwarding until three or four years ago, I would have certain buddies who I felt like we developed a friendship with and I would share faces, face photos or whatever. And I felt comfortable doing that. And yeah, and then there was all these other telegram groups where maybe 20, 30, 50 people were in them. And they would all share their wives.

And then I kind of quickly found out like, wow, there's thousands upon thousands, if not hundreds of thousands, people doing this. Can you believe? So what are the odds that my wife's going to get caught in our small town? And luckily, that's been, that's been, we've been fortunate this all time. Yeah. Let me ask you a quick question. And you seem like a very good storyteller. So after this question, I'm just going to let you fucking do your thing.

But question, like when you're, because, you know, you're not only sharing your wife. There's a lot of other guys sharing theirs as well. Like, what were you most turned on in that scenario? Was it the sharing of your wife and the guys reacting? Or did you also like seeing their wives? Was it both? Or was it more so just doing sharing your wife with them? I think it was definitely seeing the other wives too.

Okay. And putting a real face, a real person, a real connection as distance and this. as fake as it may be. And the feeling of, hey, here's my wife, let me see your wife. And you would verify with people. So, like, you would do a live photo with the other person on the chat and saying, hey, this is Mike, so and so. Or not last names or nothing, but like, hey, this is Mike.

I'm a real person. This is really my wife. Here's a vanilla photos of us. And they would do the same. So you have a real connection with that person to the degree of, for as much as you can, you feel like you're actually chatting with the right person and not just a photo collector who are just sharing random photos of women. Yeah.

So there was that personal connection. And then... And it is super naughty and taboo that you're like seeing someone else's wife. You know what I mean? It's different than just like a naked girl. You could see naked girls all the time. But this is someone's wife. And I just think that that adds a thing, something to it that you're not going to get just

seeing a random girl naked that if you picked her up on Instagram. You know what I mean? Single and ready to mingle. Definitely. definitely and there's that connection there's that personal connection as if i was to see that person in the grocery store walking with his wife him and i would lock eyes and be like oh i've seen your wife naked and again this isn't a local thing but you have that feeling as though that could happen oh interesting and there's there's a there's a funness in that yeah okay so as much as it was fun showing off my wife and hearing their reaction because my wife is smoking hot i mean she's very good looking she's fit all the things great so it's fun reading all the compliments and

kind of maybe it's like egotistical to feel like oh i do have the sexiest wife out here totally and that that that felt good but then it was also sexy to see a different body type and and eventually it's not just photos but it's videos you send videos of them fucking or of doing certain things or the cum shots and all these things and that was super hot and then this is actually kind of an underlying part of my whole story i believe and eventually my wife's story too we also kind of felt like in a weird way, by us showing off our sex life to people, it was inspiring other couples to have sexy sex lives. Okay. So you left out the part where she's in the know at this point. You're saying that we, now she knows? Well, I'll stay back and say that eventually when we fast forward,

my wife gets on board with that mindset too. Okay. But I've always kind of felt like, hey, it's fun showing off my sexy wife and encouraging guys to get their wives to be sexy also. Okay. And then if I fast forward maybe like six months into this experience, I get my wife to understand what I'm sharing. So I tell her, I say, hey, babe, how would you feel if I shared your tits with some guys I met online? And I don't remember the full conversation, but it was like, you know, what is this? How does this work? And I show her Reddit.

And I'll say, look, you know, you can share photos of your wives. And I won't show your face, nothing like that. And she said, all right, sounds great. Or whatever she said. But you didn't tell her that you have. had been doing it though like you didn't come clean and say you were doing it you just said hey would you mind if i started to do it was that the conversation you know i don't remember the words but i'm sure she could pick up what i was putting down want to have better sex and be more confident in the

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You know, I don't remember the words, but I'm sure she could pick up what I was putting down. You know, I, I, I, I, I, well, there's two different things you're putting down, either the truth or you're fucking lying, you know what I mean? Were you putting down the truth? No, I won't say that I was like, hey, I'm in these chat groups right now sharing your photos of everybody. It was more like I was already doing it.

Hey, babe, how would you feel if I started doing this? And kind of read her reaction, read her body language on it. And since she was like open to it, then I'll quickly get her up to speed with where things were at. Okay. where I have the telegram and I'm sharing her photos with other men with sexy wives. Okay. So then you say, okay, not only am I going to share them there, I'm going to go on to telegram and I'm going to do it. So you come clean about everything.

But did she ever find out eventually that you were doing this behind her back for a while? Yeah, definitely. And it wasn't like a blow up or nothing like that. It was like when I started sharing the Reddit and the telegram, and we spent most of the time on telegram, I would let her know the photos I was sharing. and she had the mindset of whatever you want, babe, sounds great. You know, just don't do anything stupid. So there was never like, oh my God, you did this without me knowing.

It was always like, we've always had so much trust and love with one another that she kind of always says like, whatever you think, babe. I'm definitely kind of the driver of the group and she's always the supportive one and just trusts whatever I'm doing. That you're not going to be disrespecting her. That's right. Right. Okay, cool. Okay. So now you're on Reddit and you're sharing and she knows.

She's in the no now and you're both. And now is she getting off on it or is she just like do whatever you want for you? And she's like happy you're satisfied with it. Or is she getting into it too? Yeah, definitely the latter. She's just doing it for me. She's allowing me to do it for me. And, you know, we grew up.

I mean, to kind of put context into her style, you know, we've only been with each other. She doesn't masturbate or hadn't masturbated. She probably even didn't think guys masturbated, frankly, up until really late. late, well, in the most of recent years, did she realize I was part of the man's daily habits oftentimes? Okay. And so she's kind of oblivious to so much stuff. And so I think maybe at this point in the journey, she's realizing, oh, okay, guys,

get off on this and they like this. And the way I'm doing it in my eyes and in her eyes, it's in a respectable kind of way because I'm updating her. Not with every post, not every conversation, because frankly, she doesn't want to know about that. Even to the day, she doesn't care to know about that. But that's just kind of where we got to in the trading side. So wrapping this all back in, it got to a point where I really enjoyed with Telegram was helping guys talk to their wives about having sexy adventures. And so often it would be like, guys, you'd be like, oh, my wife never wants to have sex. My wife never would work out to

look like that or whatever. And I've got enjoyment of being like, well, have you tried buying her a piece of lingerie off Amazon and telling her how good she looked. And things that I've kind of absorbed and listening to the podcast and stuff over years, I've like tried to practice with it in my real life. Okay. And so it's kind of fun to help somebody get to a sexy spot in their marriage and then I get to see the photos from it. Oh, interesting. And that was probably the excitement that probably excited me the most. Yeah. So that's definitely, I'm glad I asked that question before because there is an aspect of, like a A lot of times the hot wiping guys, you know, they just want to share their wife. It's not so much an exchange, you know, but you do like peeking into that other wife's life and that guy with his wife too. I mean, that is a big kink of yours. Absolutely. Absolutely. And I think it probably stems because, you know, to this day, I've only been with my wife.

Yeah, I got it. So it was like the idea of like, oh, that's, you know, what other an ass looks like or titt look like. And again, far from just, you know, looking at porn. Yeah. But you have, I feel like there's more of a connection in the telegram world. So how do you take this now to the next level? So I probably trade and chat and have fun with it for up until, say, maybe a year and a half ago, one and a half years ago. And at some point, I say to her in bed, I said, babe, have you ever heard of an Only fans before? And I'll never forget. Her response was, yeah, she had heard of it.

or maybe we had talked about it before. And I say, well, what do you think about me starting an only fan's for us? And she pauses and thinks. And this is like somewhat, we're not having sex in this moment. We were in bed. We were talking about it. But I don't think we were like deep into having sex or anything. And she goes, well, it's not a no.

And then within like four days, I was having her signed a piece of paper to start the the only fans. Okay. And she signed it. And from that point on, we had an only fan. Oh, wow. Okay. So what was going to be in your only fans? You and her fucking and sharing the same shit that you were sharing, like, online with those guys.

Now you're going to be putting it in an only fans and sharing more. Yep. Okay. Yep. Yep. And the thing that I liked about only fans I learned was that you can put up these geo fences. So you can exclude certain states or even countries. Oh, I didn't know that.

That's interesting. You can do that? Yeah. So we exclude our home state. Smart. And so now I was able to have kind of a new safety fence up to make it. Nobody in our state cannot follow our only fans. Okay.

And that worked out. I felt good about that. And mind you, we weren't showing face on Reddit. I don't know if I was clear about that. So I had these little safety points somewhere. But now that we were on OnlyFans, I felt better because it was behind a paywall. My wife and I had this feeling that we were going to be able to kind of know who was following. and we had the idea that, you know, they had to pay in order to see this stuff.

And if they came here to see it, then, you know, they came looking for us, kind of a mindset. And so the only fans was super fun. And it was really, I mean, it was under her account, but I managed it. And I did all the posting. I did all the stuff. And we were never big OnlyFans creators. I mean, maybe we'd get to 60, 80, you know, followers or fans at some point. but it was just a fun hobby.

We would just photograph and video when we were having fun and posting that. We didn't go out of our way to make crazy content. Okay. So we did that and that was fun. And then fast forward to, well, really, I'd say maybe summer of last year, I kind of shared with her that I listened to certain podcasts. They were like Swinger podcasts or Hot Wifing Podcasts. And I was just engaged and kind of learning more about it.

And every now and then I would send her an episode to listen to her. I'd say, hey, you should listen to this podcast at this minute mark or something. And again, I was just kind of planting seeds just to kind of see where, how she would accept kind of this fantasy that I was slowly putting on her about us not having an open marriage or not being swingers even, but just having these other playful experiences involving other people. Okay. And there was this one podcast where she listened to it. and it was super sexy. And basically the episode was about this husband wife, hot wife, and they had a bull with them on their vacation to a swingers resort in our state.

And it was a super sexy podcast and it definitely turned my wife on. And that was kind of like the first opportunity to plant that seed with her, that I was kind of asking her for permission to maybe have a bull or a third person in our relationship. to enjoy for a night. So not so much a relationship, but like just like a sexy bull hot wiping situation. Okay. So we did that.

But how did she feel about it? Like did she have a lot of questions for you? Was she like, what the fuck? Was she turned off? She said she was kind of turned on by it, right? I think she was turned on by it, but didn't have the ability to articulate that. Okay.

It was she probably was processing, over processing in her mind. Yeah. Kind of like, okay, how do I approach this? How do I, I think her idea in her head was, how do I show support, although I'm so confused on what we're even talking about. Right. It's probably what my wife was thinking in that moment. Okay.

So no real big questions, right, ask, no big conversations about it. It was just kind of sexy. But the day we listened to that podcast together, we had a little drive ahead of us. So it was like a 20-minute drive and ended up being amazing car sex. So she was so turned on by the podcast that we were fucking on the side of a dirt road. And I was getting blown while a car was driving by. That's when I finished. And she was so excited.

She was so turned on by it. And I think that was the turning point of her being really open and finding this all really hot and sexy. Right. Because listen, she must have been turned on by the fact that maybe this is something she'd do in real life more so than just the podcast, right? Maybe. Yeah, I think maybe at this point, I think for both of us, I think it was more of just the idea and the fantasy and the talk. And in that moment, it was just us too in the car. Yeah. But the idea and the dream of what it could become someday.

It's super hot. I'm telling you, just thinking about it and planning and thinking there's a possibility. that could happen could be could totally change the game i think and that's exactly what it was yeah and and we lived in that for the story we'll run out for about you know six more months we lived in that space yeah where we we talked about it every night or you know every other every few nights or whatever and we were just enjoying the taboo fantasy talk totally just as as if somebody was actually there with us in the room and and i would tease sometimes like we have a little little little game that we play where I have a job in town. She'll be at home during the day and we will text

each other a little avocado emojis. I don't know why it's an avocado. What is that? Is that a pussy? What's the avocado? I have no idea why we chose that one, but it's basically like, come home now. It's time to fuck. Oh, interesting. Okay. And so we would play with that. I would be like, okay, fine, but I have a surprise for you. You know, blindfold yourself when I get home. And eventually that got to her thinking, you know, oh shit, if you're bringing home another person, I need more of a heads up. Okay. And we lived in that space for a long time. And just having the ideas and the threat, or not even threat, but the ideas and the- The possibility.

The possibility. That this is going to really happen. Yeah. And it was so hot. It's so sexy. And we enjoyed that a lot. We really, really enjoyed that. Right. So now she's really gearing up. She's fully involved. And then fast forward to maybe last October, we ended up deciding to take a trip to that Swingers resort that we heard on the podcast. Oh, okay.

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So it's for us it's quite a drive. We had a half day of a drive to get there. And so we're driving there. We know it's a swingers resort. Like we know, we don't know anybody there. We've never talked to swingers. We have no swinger friends. We don't even like the label of Swinger.

We're just our own two people on this little adventure. And we know, we figure it's going to be, you know, nudity and all this stuff. But we don't know what to expect. Yeah. So we get there and we realized rather quickly, okay, nobody's wearing any clothes. Okay, cool. We're good with that. So, and it's like maybe 4 o'clock in the afternoon.

And I'll say we weren't staying in a night there. We were staying at a different nice hotel. And I don't want to drag this around too long. But we were at a different hotel and we were just going to EDR for the day. Okay, cool. Just to like dabble. Hey, are we safe here or are we getting the fuck out of here? I think that's smart.

You have like a backup plan. Right. You had your five-star hotel on the side with your nice. Just so make sure. That's how I would be. And so sorry to confuse everybody, but let me back up one more step. Yeah, sure. We get down to Palm Springs the first day, and the first thing we do is we go on a hike, as we're outdoorsy people, and we know it's like an adult atmosphere, just like the Palm Springs area in general.

So we end up doing this beautiful hike and ended up taking really sexy photos underneath the waterfall, naked photos underneath the waterfall that we found. And she ends up swimming in this little watering hole fully nude. And a couple of people are walking by. And she doesn't really make much of a big deal out of it. Like I was actually kind of more protective and kind of like, behave, like somebody's coming. Yeah.

And she's kind of like, whatever, I don't care. And that was actually really kind of an interesting step before the next day to see kind of where she was at, you know, mentally with all this. So we had a really fun day there. the next day we can do the EDR thing we show up get to the pool everybody's naked all right cool and so we get naked and we're in the pool and and i'm sure people have talked about before but the lifestyle community that people are so friendly so outgoing so nice and kind and everybody just starts talking to us like like we were fully clothed and it was no big deal whatsoever and they were so

welcoming and they could probably well they could tell really quickly this is our first time to the resort. But we just, we hit it off with a lot of people. Nobody we found sexually appealing necessarily. Okay. But it was just fun conversation, communication. I'm sure we talked about the lifestyle here and there and just had a good time doing it and hanging out there. Right. But no hookups that time or anything. You just went and you like enjoyed yourself like watching. Did you see people like fucking and stuff like that? Yeah. So during the day, it was just pool time. And nighttime comes and at this resort they have a playroom and then they have like this maze and like where sex just happens all over the place we ended up kind of holding hands and walking into the

playroom seeing what's going on and there was this a couple fucking you know off on one bed and there was a bed open so i grab her we start kissing we start fucking right away and her and i were totally into it my wife and i and uh we were just had a great time just the two of us and we were going for probably 20, 30 minutes, just enjoying ourselves. And people are watching us and more or less standing over us, not in a creepy or not in our space. But they were just telling they were just watching and almost like you're waiting for us to invite them in. Okay. But we never did.

And we just enjoyed ourselves the whole entire time, didn't finish, nothing like that. But it was a great time. And we just played it on the bed. Listen, most people don't fuck in front of other people in a public place. So I think that, like, you know, from being very vanilla and only with the same person, I feel like that's a big step. Like a lot of people will never wind up doing something like that in their whole life, you know? So you did do something that first time.

Yeah, absolutely. And so, and then we walk through the maze, just kind of like feeling the energy. Like, where is everybody out in this thing? And, you know, you see everybody doing everything there is to do. And then we ended up, for that night, we ended up stopping at the maze where there's a glory hole. and I put my cough through the glory hole and she gets me super quick to finish. And I knew it was my wife on the other side of the glory hole, but it was a fun little thing. She didn't have anybody else, and nothing like that.

It was just me and her using the space for our own sexual fantasy. And I don't even know if we knew what a glory hole was at that point. But we understood what it was supposed to be. And that's how we finished that Palm Springs strip. And it was all positive. So that was last October-ish. then we decide and actually i think it's important or it's interesting to say on the drive home we're talking to each like hey how was that for you like how was it for me we were really had good

conversation about the whole thing and i remember my response was kind of like it was fun it wasn't necessarily like mind-blowing life-changing experience it was like hey and that was fun I could see doing it again. But if I went in with like an eight expectation, I probably drove home with like a six on where it actually landed. Okay, good to know. So I'm kind of like figured it up for myself. And meanwhile, my wife is just the supportive, loving person,

just going with the flow, basically. She's like along for the ride. A hundred percent. Okay. Which is through throughout our entire life, marriage, family. You know, she's just like, cool. Yeah. We're just, we're just.

That way. Anyway, so we drive home. Probably nothing really happened. The only fan stuff, nothing, no photos were taken, nothing like that, nothing got posted. I think we probably shared some photos just from our Palm Springs hike that we did. Nothing crazy. And everything was kind of mellow throughout the winter, cold, just kind of mellow, just did our own thing. Still amazing sex between us. But then, at whatever point, we decided, hey, it's time for another sexy vacation. So we book another trip to Palm Springs. And somewhere along the way, I floated this, actually, going back to Palm Springs, one of the people we met are still friends of ours today, vanilla friends, more or less. I mean, we know about each other's lifestyles, but we just stay in touch. They told us about a Swinger's

website, that website, Cassidy. Okay. So coming home from Palm Springs, maybe within a month or some, we start the Cassidy webpage, just our profile, just to see who else is out there, what are they doing, kind of a thing and how does these hookup sites work? We create a profile. It's 99% me doing it. A wife knows I'm doing it, but she's not involved in any way. And then when we decide it's time for another sexy vacation this past spring, we decide we're going to go to Joshua Tree down south. Again, other side of the state from us.

So it's a spot we can get to where we feel, you know, safe from seeing anybody, anything like that. And as we do that, I think we do like a rendezvous or something and Cassidy, and I end up talking to a gentleman who said, hey, what do you think about you guys having fun and I'll be your photographer? And he's like a professional portrait photographer. So we end up to establish this relationship with this guy who shows us all his proofs and his portfolio of all the stuff he does. And he does like artistic photos and landscape photos and portfolio

portrait photos and it's obvious to me that he's also a bull but more than anything he was like hey I'll come out there and we'll do some boudoir shots which is something that was always really sexy sounding to my wife and I we don't want to ever pay the money to actually

do it but we thought hey this could be a win-win and so we make it down south Joshua Tree area and this guy ends up meeting us out there and we have about an hour and a half of a lot of fun of him being a super professional, uh, boudoir photographer for us. And he just takes the classiest, sexiest photos of my wife. And it is a great ice break here. It was a way for us to

get to know him and, and kind of get sexy without, you know, cross, you know, getting too deep into it and just feeling everybody out. And we do that. And then it was time for the hot tub, of course. And we all jump in the hot tub and they end up starting kissing. And then, we end up having an amazing fuck session in this like dome one of those dome houses and joshua tree underneath all the the lights and everything underneath the stars actually it was daytime so whatever it was the views were just incredible and we had a great hour and a half session of a our first male female male play session now that was all on the table or did it just happen sort of

impromptu. Like, I mean, did you know going in that this was the time where she was going to be able to fuck someone else and she was okay with it and she was down, were there any rules or anything? Or did it just wind up happening? No, it was definitely on the, it was on the plan. It was the plan for us to meet this bull. We all had talked via telegram. So at this point, my wife has a chat. I have a username. I have a username and he had a username. And we had group chats going for maybe whatever, two or three weeks prior to this day. Okay. Were there any rules that you had going in with her with the guy or was everything okay? Like, any no kissing or anything like that? Great question. And we talked about that at length. And we had no rules. No rules. We talked about kissing. We talked about the idea and everything was kind of like,

yeah, as long as everybody seems comfortable and fine, we're good with it. Okay, cool. And it's a great time to ask that question because I was reading the hot tub, it started off them kissing. And I was just kind of there watching. And I was like, oh, this is kind of hot, you know, her sitting on his lap and this, that, the other. And we ended up having, then we ended up going to the room or to this dome house. And we were filming. And we told the guy that, hey, do you mind if we filmed this for our only fans' content, too? He was 100% on board. So we had three different cameras set up.

And we were just, he was holding a camera, I was holding a camera. And we were just having a great time fucking and playing and doing everything imaginable. that male-female would do. I guess there's some limitation of that. But everything was spit-roasting to her going back and forth to us trading off inside her pussy. We were doing it all. Not DP, but, I mean, basically we were having a great time

just the three of us playing in every way. How was it for you? This is like the first time you're finally fulfilling, I mean, it's kind of major what you guys are doing. This is the first time you're seeing your girl fuck someone else. It's the first time she's fucking someone else. yeah it was it was i just say it was fun like it was a good time yeah but it was i was never like oh my god this is so fucking amazing i can't control myself i never had those overwhelming emotions okay

it was i definitely had that compersion thought where i was like this is so much fun how awesome my wife is getting fucked right now and how much she's enjoying it i will say though a big part of me in this moment i had the protective husband feeling most of the time Because like there was a time where she was just getting pounded extremely hard and I wasn't turned on by that. I was more like, oh my God, is this too much? And I was looking for an opportunity to throw in the towel. Not because I was bothered by her, him fucking my wife. No, you were worried that maybe she wasn't enjoying herself and you needed to do something about it, right? Like you're just taking care of your girl. Yep. 100%. And we kind of had like a green orange red rule or a thing. So. I was like, hey, babe, we would say, you know, how you feeling? And she'd be like green or orange or red. And that would be the scenario of like, hey, jump in and stop this from happening. Yeah.

But she was always in the green. Whatever I asked the question, she was always in the green. And again, to paint the picture of my wife, she's always so just going with the flow. Yeah. She's such a yes woman. Yeah, but you got to worry about people like that because sometimes you're like, are you just always saying yes even when you don't want to, right? Exactly.

Right. It's hard to know with people like that, you know, because they're too nice. Yeah. Yep. Yep. That's her all the way through. Yeah. But it was an amazing time.

We got some great, great photos and videos. And, I mean, it was amazing. I end up putting a massive cum shot on her, which is one of my talents. And then he couldn't quite do the same. Where is a cum shot that you like, like on her face, on her tits, on her pussy? All over. You bring it on. I would say her pussy is fantastic, except for I can't see it.

And so I love seeing the vulgarness of a rope just going clear over her head. Oh, yeah, that's funny. I mean, a mouthful. We have a lot of fun with all that part of it. Okay. And then he had to kind of work to finish. And I was kind of like, it was a little bit of an ego thing also, I guess, there. But regardless, it was all super fun.

And that was like on the second night of the trip. we were there for a whole other day and we just fucked like rabbits nonstop for the next day and a half. And so we were both really turned on by it. It was really a positive, fun experience. And then we were driving home,

we talked about it and it was kind of the same thing. It was like, hey, that was a lot of fun. All positive. You know, I didn't necessarily feel like it was the change my life. I have to start doing this every weekend kind of a thing. But I think maybe at that point, too, I was a little bit more like,

okay, I'm ready to maybe get another female in here versus just the male. Okay. And but I didn't, I've heard this in podcast too and I didn't want it to come off like I was giving her the male just so I could get the female. Yeah. Like I was really careful to not,

A, have that in my core beliefs. But then even if that end up being something I wanted, I didn't want to try to cash that ticket. Because I never wanted to be like, hey, babe, I did this for you. You got to do this for me. Because it was always me pushing this more so than her asking for. it. Okay. That's smart. So, but, but in my core, that's probably what I was hoping for, you know, next. Yeah. So we drive home. It's all great. And then maybe a month later so,

we're like, hey, we're on Cassidy and people are hitting us up more, more frequently now. And we end up finding a bull local to our house. And I find him first. And we chat on telegram and have good conversation. Everything seems fine. And we end up booking, we end up inviting him to come out on the boat with us during a lake day. So my wife and I, we went to take the boat out. We did some wake surfing, had a lot of fun. And we invited this guy to meet us out on the boat. And this would be another, this would be our second male, female, male experience. And what is this bull like? I mean, is he a younger guy too? Is he older? Is he super fit? Like, what's your girls like what does she look for in her guys or what do you guys what kind of guys you pick yeah so i think the answer that question comes at the end of this story

oh okay so keep going as far as as far as what she's looking for but this this guy here he was a solo male uh worked you know blue collar kind of guy strong enough but not overly fit not overly healthy but but i mean he's a good looking diet guy i'm sure he's he's good okay so we ended up taking him out into this private cove and having a great session but I will say at the end of that session, I was a little bit more like, yeah, I'm kind of over this now. Like, this has been enough of the bringing in the mail kind of a thing. And my wife actually kind of said the same thing on the boat ride home. Next thing you know, and again, that guy, wife and I, prior to that event, we had group conversations via telegram.

So there was a connection that started that way. And then when I drive home, wife said, yeah, I'm kind of over this too. it maybe if we do this again i want like a really fit sexy guy and i'm like perfect that makes sense for me too i mean i'm not gay or by or anything like that but i appreciate a guy being healthy and sexy more so than somebody who's not so i was like yeah if we ever do this again that's kind of what i would look for also but a turning point in our story is probably right now because my wife and this guy end up continuing to chat via telegram so they stay in connection they have their own personal group chat going with me not involved. And I was okay with that. We had our group chat going and they had a private one,

but I was okay with that because Wifi likes to do the daily chats and daily check-ins every morning, and I have to go to work and I just can't be distracted all day. So I said, it's fine. You guys do your own chat. So maybe two months after that date we had, she asked me like, hey, what do you think about hot wifing? And I asked, yeah, it sounds super sexy. And he's like, well, this guy is available tonight like what do you think and impromptu laying in bed getting ready for bed i'm like baby if that sounds fun to you i'm fully supportive and you should you should do it so hot wifeing meaning her playing solo with him that's right that's right so i was super supportive and i said baby that sounds fun to you i'm 100% on board and so uh he ends up texting me on telegram hey are you sure you're okay

with this. Yep, I'm okay with this. That's great. So he drives 20 minutes to come to our house, picks my wife up, and they have a play session in his truck down the road a little ways. And I'm, so I'm sitting in bed, just kind of kids are already asleep. And I'm just kind of watching them, you know, where they're located to make sure they're safe and everything like that. And I felt safe at this point. And so they had their first hot wife date. And she said it was super fun. She comes home. You know, I'm looking forward to that reclaim sex that everybody talks. about and for me it was like a five minute fuck session finished and I was like hey I'm ready for I'm ready for bed and so I didn't really get the same massive excitement that you might hear

from other stories well maybe that's just not your kink most listen most guys that are very into the hot wafing thing they don't really care about another girl coming in I think you're not so much like that guy but and there's tons of people that aren't just into that and they're more like what you would call that word that you don't like swingers or just people that have open relationships but the real people that are really into hot wifing they typically like that's all they care about they don't want like to get a girl in they don't need variety that's all they want so that's probably not just like your only kink you're probably just more of an open relationship type of guy yep and that was that that was the learning lesson yeah because at the end of that i was like

babe so i'm glad you got to do that i'm glad that was fun but i got to be honest like Like, this wasn't my thing. Like, I did not, I mean, as much as I liked it, I love the idea of compersion. And that's true to an extent, I did not, you know, walk around with a boner for the next day or whatever. And were you even turned on when you were at home? Because typically, like, the guy would be really turned on, you know, with that, if you have that kink. And I wasn't, frankly. Yeah.

I mean, and I was expecting myself to be. And I bet even to a level I wanted myself to be. but I realized that wasn't really, you know, what got me excited. And it was funny because, I mean, if I look back at the beginning, I had more fun showing my wife off and maybe the hiddenness or the secretness of showing her off in photos and videos on Telegram. But when it came down to really doing it, it wasn't the same excitement level as it was trading the photos.

Well, you know what? This is why I'm so glad I asked that very specific question, which to me now makes so much sense in this whole story, which is like what about the sharing and getting pictures was like the turn on for you? You know what I mean? You were also like, and you were very specific. It was also the seeing the other why.

So you had that curiosity of other women always since the beginning. A typical hot wife guy would be like sharing his guy, his girl. That would have been the answer. Do you know what I'm saying? Yep. Yeah. So go on. Yeah, so I think, you know, as I think about all these thoughts and emotions that I've had,

it's like, to your exact point, I love the idea of being involved with another couple. I think is what my, because I don't want to do anything to ever lose the fantastic group. My wife is, we're the best for each other. And so no desire to ever do anything to jeopardize that, but maybe still have the desire of like, that we always say those college years that we skipped, where we could go somewhere and play with another couple, whether it's a house party or a male female, male female date or whatever it may be, where there's mutual fun on both of us versus me just watching. Right. How does she feel about you with another girl? I mean, have you, I don't know if we're

at the end of like what you guys have done. Are we there yet? I don't know. You tell me. Yep, we're just about there. I'll shoot in a point to say, I skipped over. If we go about, back to the male female male conversation we had in Joshua Tree. The only time I felt awkward there was when I was watching them kiss. Oh, interesting. And I thought at that moment, they're like, okay, this has to be a new rule. No kissing. I thought the kissing was the part that I didn't like, but I think what it was more of is I didn't like not being involved. Right. Mm-hmm. So it wasn't the kissing aspect necessarily, but it was fact that I'm sitting there with my dick in my hand, just watching a show. And I was like,

Yeah, this isn't really doing it for me. Totally. But it wasn't the intimate part of it. It was the being bored or just being a spectator. Yeah, for sure. That wasn't my thing. And that's not a lot of guys thing. A lot of guys wouldn't be into just sitting there watching.

And that probably further gets proven by when it was a hot wife thing. It was me just sitting in bed waiting, nowhere near the action. I was like, all right, this is kind of boring. You know, I didn't get the excitement of it. Yeah. And so anyway, so the last part of the story is going to be an untold story because as we were on Cassidy and we've been on Cassidy, she ended up, actually, excuse me, it wasn't through Cassidy. It was part of a group chat we were all on on Telegram. My wife is included as well with other guys.

It's actually a swingers group. And she ended up finding this gentleman who's a little bit older, very good professional career and a very sexy. a long, long-term Brazilian girlfriend. And we're set to have our first couples, male-female, male-female date just this week, actually. Oh, interesting. Okay. So this Friday, they're going to be flying into town. We're going to pick them up at the airport.

We're going to have fun Friday. And we've had tons and tons of group chats. The four of us and the wife and the other girl and I directly and my wife and this other guy directly. they're chatting personally and it's going to be a sex-filled couple days. Everything from dinner to going out on the boat and having fun, just kind of doing boating things, but then coming back to their vacation rental and playing and we have the highest expectations.

And I'll say I'm most excited about this date coming up than ever before. Yeah, I can imagine. I imagine. I used to play with a female. Yeah. Yeah, totally. And now is your wife totally down with you being with another female? and also is she interested in being with the female herself?

Two great questions. Yes to both. But up until, I would say up until the first or second bowl date that we had, she was always very clear that she is, doesn't want me with another lady. She would say like, I would kill that lady or whatever. Just kind of those not serious, not literal, but, you know, just like, I don't want to use another girl. Yeah.

Okay, cool. And I totally accepted that. And that kind of goes back to where I was saying. I don't want to cross any of those lines. But now at this point, she's 100% on board and encouraging. And it'll be interesting to see if it's like what her reaction is after the date. Is she kind of like, that was super sexy or she might be like, all right, you had your fun now too. Maybe this is where the road ends for us in the lifestyle.

And that very well could be where our road. ends. You know, I can see her thinking, us both thinking, okay, she got to have fun with two, three other people. I had my fun with somebody else and we're just not into it anymore, but at least it's kind of even now. You know, not like scoring, but like, you know, we both had an adventure. And that very well could be the end of it. And if that's how it works out, I sincerely believe that's the way it's meant to work out and all good. But we're definitely full planning on swapping and we're going to be in the same room. We're going to share partners and be in different rooms. So everything's on the table. No, no limitations. She's super hot. This Brazilian girl,

I mean, all Brazilian girls are beautiful. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. She's gorgeous. Yeah. And then, and then ironic, so, about the girl, girl play, up until yesterday morning, I had understood through the boyfriend, through the partner, that she wasn't really into girls. So it's kind of like where my wife was, like, hey, we can play in the same space. We can have, we'll touch each other when we're crossing paths, but the focus isn't going to be on each other kind of a thing. But just yesterday, I had texted the female and I said, hey, so on a scale of one to five, you know, how much would you be interested in oral giving or receiving with my wife? And her response was five, exclamation point, which caught me way off guard. I wasn't thinking that was on the table.

Yeah, that's good. So last night, as my wife and I were having fun, I asked her, I said, hey, so I was talking to her last night's other girl, and she had said five on the scale of how interested she would be with, you know, playing with you. And my wife's response was basically like, babe, we're going to check off all the boxes this week. Like any fantasy that any of us have, now's our time to do it. Yeah, I'm curious of how you guys are going to feel. after that, like, is it going to be so great that you're like, okay, we never have to do that again? Or is it going to be so great that you're going to be like, oh, my God, I want to do that again. You know, it's interesting.

You sound so, like, opposite an addict. You know what I mean? As an addict myself, I'm like, I can't imagine stopping something that I like. You know what I mean? But you're like fine with it. You're like, you know, maybe we'll stop or whatever. And I love that. I mean, you know, like at the end of the day, you guys are so happy with each other.

If this is all you do and you try to have been there, done that, you could, possibly see yourself stopping after this great experience of being totally okay with that. It's not like, oh, you open Pandora's box and you can never go back. That's right. And the foundation, which I led to share the message is like we have a foundation of love and trust and family first more than anything. Yeah. And as long as we just talk about it and communicate through it, it's not like any of this

could actually harm our family life. No, that doesn't seem possible. I'm just mesmerized by the fact that you feel like you could literally, after you just like did these few experiences, go back to being vanilla. Yeah. And I believe that's possibly so true. I don't know if I'm even looking for that to be true. And I don't know how it'll work out.

I'm curious. We've got to do a part too. Yeah. The only thing I'm definitely positive about is that whether good, bad, or ugly, you know, it's just going to be something we just talk it out. And we've had it. They always say there's ups and downs in the lifestyle and communications, everything. And that's definitely been our experience from whatever you call the dynamic that we have.

We've had some points where we communicate through things that we felt uncomfortable with. But we're able to, you know, figure it out and get grounded again and not let any of that fall into our family life. And it's been very simple, frankly, to separate the two. Yeah, listen, I didn't hear much. that much drama at all in your story. You know, it seems like you guys are very much on the same page. It seems like, listen, you know, you are driving the train, right? She's along for the ride, but you're very respectful of her. You are very in love with her. Like, you're doing everything from that place. And so there's no pushing her to do anything. You know, there's no doing anything before you're supposed to.

So I think you're driving correctly. She's cool enough to be along for the ride. And, you know, You guys are having fun. I mean, I don't, like I said, I didn't hear a lot of problems or big roadblocks that you guys sort of faced, you know? And I think sometimes when you do have a couple on who have been together since the dawn of time, like that real strong foundation really helps. You know what I mean? Like, you guys have been together forever, right? No one's going anywhere. Yeah.

Yeah. And that was the other reason I wanted to show the story, too, is because frankly, I hear so many stories on your podcast and elsewhere where it's like, this is their second marriage or third. third marriage and I was waiting to hear more stories like where's the where's the story from the happy couple at the beginning. No, I have those. I have those too. Yeah. I need to find those. I love those stories. I just went I don't know if you listened to my episode I just posted with Dr. David Lay. He wrote like a book called Insatiable Wives and he studied non-monogamy. You know, he's a PhD therapist. He's super smart and we talked about it and we talked about, you know, the difference between couples who have been together a really long time.

compared to like people who do it right from the get-go and all that kind of stuff. It's interesting. But yeah, I have, I love those stories and I have those stories on a lot. And it's not typically like those people never do it right from the get-go, right? It's like they met when they're 15 and maybe when they're 40, they start doing it just like you. So no, I have probably like a hundred of those episodes on. And I love those stories because I've heard them before, you know, and then, so if it's not that, it's the second or third marriage, right? But definitely the ones who fare really well, I think are the couples like you. And we talked about this, the ones who have been together from the beginning.

And you just met that right person and you're going to be with that person forever. Because that foundation, like I said, makes everything like sort of like it did like that foundation. So is like security. Like no matter what you go through or what happens, you'll be able to make it through, you know. But it doesn't sound like anything as bad as happened anyway. No, it hasn't. And actually it's funny. One thing I just thought of when you said this, the book, I haven't.

listen to that podcast yet, but the unsational. It's great. Honestly, that's where my wife is right now. From the last hookup that we did, the male, the one in Joshua Tree, through the hot wife and the highs and lows of that have hurt me to explain. I didn't like it. Yeah. My wife literally has gone to the unsationable sexual status. Like, I can't, she, I literally was looking to, I was the one with the higher libido. up all the way until a couple years ago.

Now I can't keep up. Like, I'm literally the one saying, hey, babe, like, we just, like, have a night off and just go to bed because I don't want to stay up late again. Oh, wow, that's so funny. And this is where maybe, you know, she's getting even more turned on than I am because I fucking can't control it anymore. Like, there's not a point in the day where I can't text her and be like, hey, let's fuck. And she's like, good, get over here. Yeah, yeah.

It's nonstop. Yeah, that's great. that actually has been a very real outcome from this experience too. Yeah, so it turns out she's like just as horny. And I think a lot of women, you know, have... But she didn't feel like maybe it was okay for a while, sorry to cut you off. Of course. Maybe she was like in a box and she's like, I can't feel this way.

I'm not supposed to feel this way. You know, the upbringing, the whole thing. Yeah. And then all of a sudden like the box opened, the Pandora's box, like you had kind of state where I was looking at it from my perspective. Maybe from her perspective, she's like, okay, now I get, I understand the playfulness that this can be when it wasn't even, it was under such a deep locking key

that I broke through apparently, but it is open now. Maybe she didn't even know. Maybe she had no idea. You know what I mean? She probably had zero clue that she would be into any of this. And that's what me and that guy,

David, sort of spoke about, like, because he was saying that it just seems like it's so much more common now and so many more people are doing it. And he was like, I just wonder,

is it that so many people were doing it back when he wrote the book because he wrote the book in 2009, you know, and they just weren't talking about it or are more people doing it now. And I personally think more people are doing it now because it's, it's big more people are talking about it, more people are sharing podcasts more, you know, and I think that people that never even knew they had this kink are starting to realize

it by listening to stories, by hearing about other people's experiences, you know, and these same, those same people would have never even thought about it or gone there in even their imagination or fantasy if they didn't know that it existed, you know? And look, that's a very, that's very, true with your wife. Yeah, and probably allowed that it's okay to feel that way. Oh, yeah, especially for women. Come on. You know what I mean like women. And that's what's so great about being open and starting to have conversations about sex with your partner and making them feel comfortable about it, especially women, to be honest and open.

And same with women for men. You know what I mean? Men can, you know, have all their thoughts. And sometimes they're so petrified to bring it up to their partner because the last thing you want to hear is someone to be like, ew. And for a woman, the last thing she wants to be like, And Sahir is like, oh, you're such a fucking whore. You know, I mean, why do you give such good head? You know, it's like, why do you like sex so much? What's wrong? You know, there is a double standard.

So, but, you know, she's doing it with you. And I think that that's like the best way to do it. She's, you know, there's nothing wrong with what's what you guys are doing. She's doing it with her best friend, her partner, you know, her husband. Yep. And that would probably be my advice, if I could, even to other guys listening, it's like, if you want your wife, if you want to try to play these things, obviously you can't convince anybody to do anything but encouraging like just plant the seeds yeah like i always say it starts great it always starts well with a back massage you can't go wrong

giving a great back massage to your wife and then just and so little ideas how do you feel about this and i feel like that gate opens up or that that that little seed opens up so much if you can start from a grounded place and just have the conversation and i remember how awkward it was to start these conversations back in the day. But now I now I feel super comfortable to have these conversations. Yeah. And my wife was the epitome of the vanilla wife that would never do anything like this. Exactly.

And now I and now I can't control her. Yeah. It's great. It's great. And she's super horny for all of it. And she're having a great time and what's wrong with that? You know what I mean? Nothing wrong with that.

So listen. You're already on my Patreon. So I don't know if you want to submit. Does your wife know you're calling into a podcast? She knows you listen to a podcast. Yeah, she does, but we haven't got into detail about what I told her We might promote our only fans or something. Yeah, oh, you have to give out your only fans and I'll put your link in Yeah, sure

So I just want people to know on Patreon though, like on Patreon, I can't do links anymore. I'd take out all my links. I had to change everything because I'm like 18 plus over there. So your Patreon link can't be an only fans, but so say it clearly now for my Patreon people, but the link will be in my podcast. So that's where most people are. So tell you give people your only fans info. So basically it's at Lake Lovers One. Lake Lovers One, the number one? That's right. Okay, Lake L-A-K-E Lovers. Lake Lovers One, the number one. Okay, I'll put that, send me the link for my, for the, you know, the episode show notes.

So people driving could just go click on that to check out your wife. You talk about how hot she was. If you want to send me an anonymous picks of your wife for my Patreon, as long as she knows, you know the deal. You could send me those. are rated, nothing X-rated, and then, you know, you could do whatever you want on Discord. You're obviously probably in there, too, already, I don't know. Yeah, I've dabbled in it.

I haven't done much posting, but I've looked around and entertained myself for a few hours. Yeah. Did you put your wife in the booty contest we have right now? I have not yet, but she would win, so it wouldn't be fair. Well, you went 100 bucks. Why not? But anyway, yeah, you could go on there and post pics if you want. want to when your episode airs. I'll let you know when it goes. Thank you so much for calling in.

I loved your story. It was super interesting. Awesome. Thank you so much. It was fun. Yeah, awesome. Bye, Maverick. All right. Bye back. Bye. Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly anonymous confession. Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audio book. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story.

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