Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1231 - FACT OR FICTION: Chad’ Wife Sleeps with Other Guys for Him

Episode Date: September 24, 2025

Chad’s wife sleeps with other guys for him and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear him discuss all the details including their first mfm threesome and who they had it with, the friend... she hooked up with and what went down with him, her co-worker that she hooked up with and how that caused problems for her and for their marriage, how and why they stopped for many years and why they started hotwifing again, why he got into hotwifing back when they first started vs. why he’s into it now,  the hall pass he gave her and how that started things up again, the guy she met on Ashley Madison and what went down with him, the twins she had sex with and what went down with them, what’s she looking for now, what he wants her to do next plus a whole lot more. **To see HOT pics CHAD'S WIFE plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To get 10% off Drive Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2528-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Use code: ANONYMOUS to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14-day money-back guarantee ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://uberlube.com/discount/Strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code: STRICTLY for 10% off Uberlube aka the BEST Lube EVER ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order To get $15 OFF your female oxytocin arousal tablets and more, use code STRICTLY here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/xLQ3Jv⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:00:00 I change everyone's voices, just send me an email, Strictly Anonymous Podcasts.com, or go to my website, Strictly Anonymous Podcast.com, and click on Be on the Show. If you want to call the Confessions hotline and leave a naughty confession, you could do that 247. The number's 347-4-7-4-5-79. That's 347-4-203579. Some of those confessions make it on to a Confessions episode where me and Erica or another co-host talk about them. All the rest go on to my Patreon. Now my Patreon is a really great deal, especially if you don't like my intros. They get all my episodes early ad free and now intro free. Okay. You also get to see all the hot anonymous picks of all of my guests plus you get Q&As plus you get if you sign up I will throw in complimentary access to my Discord. I offer a couple to
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Starting point is 00:02:04 They tell you everything you need to know is on SDC.com. If you want the free trial, use my code 377-1-2, or the easiest thing to do is go to the description and click. I'm like, oh, and I want to tell you about my Patreon. Sometimes if you go and Google it yourself, you're not going to see it because it's like 18 plus. So just click on the link in the description to find. find my patron and it'll take you where you need to be. Okay, today I have on Chad. I don't know why I was
Starting point is 00:02:30 like not believing some of his story. And eventually I'm just like just do your thing and just tell your stories. And I, you know, I know people are going to trash me because every time I question somebody, they're like, oh, Kathy. So it's going to be one of those. Chad called in to talk about his wife. They've been together since the dawn of time. She hooks up with other people. She did it in the beginning of their marriage, and then they had a stop in the middle of it, and then she's picked it up, and she's fucked twins, and she's fucked, you know, other younger guys, and she's fucked guys that he knew. That's how it all started, and he tells all those stories.
Starting point is 00:03:09 Like I said, I was, like, leery of this story for some reason because he was a little confusing to me, and I feel like I've had a lot of people who have confused me lately, so I'm like, is my ADHD and worse or something? I don't know what's fucking going on. am I like picking up on something. You're going to have to tell me in the comments. I'm sure it will get trashed people are so mean to me. People will be like, oh, you ruined it, blah, blah, blah, but I'm curious of what people think. This is a hot wiping story. He's got a lot of stories, so you're going to listen to them. And so anyway, and he's had his wife knows he's calling in, so he's going to send me
Starting point is 00:03:41 some picks that she has up on Ashley Madison, because that's where she finds guys now. She's a gilf with the hall pass. If you want to see those, those are over on my Patreon. All the links are in the description. But anyway, I'm going to get right to and be right back on with Chad. Welcome to the Strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm fine, Kathy. Thanks for having me. Thanks for calling in, Chad.
Starting point is 00:03:59 I was just telling you you're going to love the episode I just posted with Dr. David Lay. He wrote a book in 2009, which to me was very ahead of the game called Insatiable Wives, the Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them. That was the tagline. And it was all about hot wiping. He's like a Ph.D. Clinical psychologist who studied sex and hot wiping and cuckles and all that shit.
Starting point is 00:04:19 And he had so many interesting facts about it. You have that kink, obviously, because you're, girl is a hot wife. Okay. It didn't start that way. It just kind of morphed into it. Okay, well, that's the story that we want to know. Like, how did it morph into it? How long you've been married? You're married, right? This is your wife, right? It'll be 45 years in September. Okay, Chad. So tell me, you know, give me a, like, how long you've been hot wiping for? First, let's get the snapshot where you're at now, and then we'll go back to how it morphed. the hot wifing actually about 18 20 years ago oh a long time ago so you guys been doing this you've been doing this before dr david lee wrote his buck maybe
Starting point is 00:05:02 well she kind of it was kind of a hall pass thing with a co-worker okay well let's go all the way back okay because you're doing this a long time ago and most people weren't okay so you're married how's your life before she gets a hall pass and why does she get a hall pass let's go back to that moment because that's when things changed? Yeah, well, it's, we started dating when she was 16, so we've been together 50 years. Yeah, why not get a whole pass? You know what I'm saying? You should both get whole passes. Exactly. You should have a hall pass too. You guys only fucked one person your whole life. Yeah, well, I had a drag. What a drag. Yeah, I had a long time girlfriend before we met. Okay, so you had two. And we were off and on for five years before we,
Starting point is 00:05:48 got married. And so I didn't know she'd been with anybody but me. Okay, well, people make fun of me for never being married. And I'm like, like, I don't look at people that are married to the same person in the whole life is the biggest fucking thrill in life. I don't know. That's so great. But anyway, okay, so you, you know, you guys have been together for a dawn of time. I love those kind of couple. Because I do believe that that kind of foundation is really great to have going into any kind a non-monogamous scenario because you know you kind of like met that person it's very rare that you meet someone that young and stay with them your whole life but it happens and when it happens and it's good that's a great foundation so how does the past come into play well we did a threason
Starting point is 00:06:30 with a buddy of mine well how did that come into play chad you got to like give me details well you know lead into the story like i you know at some point you have this vanilla relationship with this girl that you met when she was 16, she probably never fucked any other guys. How does she wind up in bed with your friend? Well, I had slept with his wife before they got married. Okay. And I went out with his sister who went to school with my wife. And I ended up eating her out one night. And so when it came up, the threesome came up, I didn't know my wife had ever been with anybody but me. I thought maybe she'd like to be with something. How did the threesome come up? Well, I have my side. She has her side. And so, you know, the happy wife, happy wife.
Starting point is 00:07:23 No, I don't know. You've got to explain because I don't know what you're talking is. You know what you're fucking talking about. My memory is she brought it up. Her memory is I brought it up. So it's been kind of a contentious how it happened. So we don't fight about it. We don't talk about it. It just happened. I picked him because I'd, slept with his first wife and his sister. Well, I ate her out, but didn't sleep her. And so I thought my wife wanted somebody bigger. He's a bigger guy than me.
Starting point is 00:07:51 So, you know, we hadn't come over my dad. How did you know he was bigger than you? And how do you go to your friend? How do you know that your friend has a bigger dick than you? And how do you go to your friend and say, hey, I ate your sister out and I fucked your wife? So now you could fuck my wife? Like, how does you decide your friend and not like some stranger?
Starting point is 00:08:07 Why are your friends? I felt like I owed it to him because I was with his wife and his sister. Well, that's a weird. That's a weird payback thing. But your friend might have been happy. So what do you do, call him up and say, hey, dude, you want to fuck my wife? He was one of those, he was a player. And he was going, his marriage was on the rocks.
Starting point is 00:08:30 And I knew they were getting ready to get divorced. And he probably wasn't getting any at home. And so we talked about it. And he came over one day and she walked out in her nightgown. and he looked at her and I said, if she comes in here, we just should jump her. And she came back in and so we jumped her. And that's kind of how it went down.
Starting point is 00:08:45 Okay, but did you talk to your wife about this beforehand? Did she know she's coming out and the friend's going to jump her? Yeah. And I've forgotten, but she said if she sat between us, then she was good to go. And so she came out and sat between us. What was going on in your sex life before this? Were you guys young like in your 20s and this is just like drunk and fun? I mean, how old were you guys when you're doing this whole scenario?
Starting point is 00:09:06 Because it just seems to come out of nowhere. She was early 20s. I'm five years older than her. So you're really young and horny. You're just young. It's like 20 something girl stuff. Like, oh, have a three-some kind of fun thing. Okay. That makes a little bit more sense than like a 40-year-old doing that. Yeah. So then I asked her, you know, how it was. And she said it was okay. And I thought, okay. She goes, well, it would have been more fun if I could have picked the guy. And I said, okay, well, who would you want to do it with? And And I had a co-worker that she liked and she said, how about him? And so.
Starting point is 00:09:38 She's not afraid to tell you that she's like interested in your co-worker? No. Okay. And so he lived out of town. We invited him. We actually double-dated, set him up with her sister. And he spent the night and her sister went home. And so.
Starting point is 00:09:55 Wait a second. Wait a second. You know, I hope you're not telling fucking stories. Okay, listen. You know, this, she picks, not only does she. She picked this guy that she wants to fuck. She also says, let's set him up with my sister. And I want to fuck him after he gets home on the date with my sister?
Starting point is 00:10:09 I don't understand. Yeah. Yeah. Well, I don't either. But her sister wasn't interested. She went home. He felt he was crashed on the couch. No, no, no.
Starting point is 00:10:17 But she, this is a guy she had already picked ahead of time. But she also said, let's also set him up with my sister. But I want to fuck him to? Yeah. Okay. Yeah. You'd have to ask her what her. Yeah, I wish she was on this call.
Starting point is 00:10:31 Well, she's home. about 10,000 years ago. Let's speed it up. Okay, go on. So we did that and then we moved and we're gone for a while, came back to town and then it came up again. I had another friend who was large, was known for being large. And we invite him over to getting a hot tub one night. And when we lived in Florida, they had a club called Jack and Jill. And it's where you just went in and masturbated. It wasn't a swap thing. And I thought, well, that sounds kind of, you know, fun without swapping.
Starting point is 00:11:11 You know, it's kind of dip your toe in the water thing. And so I told her, I said, why don't you give him a hand job when he comes back to the hot tab? And so he got back in and she started playing with me and I closed my eyes. And next time I opened my eyes, she was giving him a blowjob. And I said, well, if you're going to do that, let me, so I got behind her and started doing her doggy style. And he started screaming. He was going to come. And I came in her at the same time.
Starting point is 00:11:37 And it just kind of clicked in my head after that. I was like, wow, that was hot. Mm-hmm. Okay. And so then I just sounds like you guys just started hotwifing like out of nowhere. No rules, no regulations, no conversation. Just any time she's fucking down. She just wants a big dick.
Starting point is 00:11:55 Yeah. I mean, just three times. But we invited him back a few times. No, but I mean, there was no rules or anything. anything like everything not at that no not at that time okay and actually the only thing in my head I didn't like the kissing thing and but we never talked about it
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Starting point is 00:13:50 And a big thanks to Bluechu for sponsoring the podcast. Yeah, I mean, just three times, but we invited him back a few times. No, but I mean there was no rules or anything, like everything. Not at that. No, not at that time. Okay. And actually, the only thing in my head, I didn't like the kissing thing, but we never talked about it.
Starting point is 00:14:13 Now it's like, you know, it's part of it. I don't care. But back then, that kind of bothered me. But she came home from work one day and she goes, we got a problem. And I'm like, okay, what's that? And she's, I had shaved my beard, no beard, no mustache. She goes, there's a guy at work. It's got this goate thing.
Starting point is 00:14:31 I really like, I want you to grow it. And I'm like, okay. And so I suffer from delayed ejaculation. It takes me forever. And so when we'd be having sex, I'd say, hey, you know, if you can get me to come in two minutes, I'll let you fuck the guy from work. And it kind of worked. And so we were kind of playing that scenario.
Starting point is 00:14:53 And then one day I come in the bathroom and she's getting all dressed up. And I'm like, well, you're up to you? She goes, I'm going to go meet that guy from work. And I'm like, what? And she goes, yeah, I got a date. And I said, were you even going to tell me about it? And she's like, yeah. Like, boy, I went as you're going out the door afterwards.
Starting point is 00:15:12 And so I let her go. And they spent the afternoon together and he couldn't get it up. So she's like, I, you know, I'm going to give him another try. He's going to go get some Viagra. And so I let her go again. She, they hooked up. She come home. and it was okay.
Starting point is 00:15:36 I didn't really get into it that much, but she kind of lost it, went off the deep end. And we had some really real troubles there. What are you talking about? I mean, all of a sudden she's off the deep end. What happened?
Starting point is 00:15:51 She told him it was going to be just for fun, and he agreed. And then he left his wife and started calling the house and wanted her to leave me. And it got real. Well, how did she go off the deep end? not him. How did she go out? You said she went off the deep end. She couldn't stop
Starting point is 00:16:06 talking to him. They were calling each other. So you had no rules about playing solo and she just decided to do it without your permission one day and you're like fine, you let her go and then eventually her and the guy start copping feelings after their second time. Yeah, kind of that way.
Starting point is 00:16:23 Okay. And so we did some counseling and went through some what was going on with her and this guy? She doesn't. see him? Briefly, and she told me she wasn't attracted. I think probably it was just something I was doing. I don't know. What do you mean something you were doing? Maybe I, you know, because we'd been married at that time, what, 20, 27 years, maybe I wasn't paying enough attention to her. I wasn't talking to her enough. I've always worked two jobs. I'm not home a lot. And so there was probably
Starting point is 00:16:58 something that I wasn't given her that he was. Yeah. Well, the minute she's Like getting ready for a date is when you should have been concerned. Yeah. But, you know, I was hoping that I was going to get the girl-girl thing, you know, if I gave her the guy-guy thing enough and it never worked out. So you never got a free pass. All this time she's banging these guys, you would like to have some stuff happen for you, which is a girl-girl thing. But that never is allowed that you guys don't, she's not into that? Why not?
Starting point is 00:17:31 It's just not her thing. But she knows it's your thing? And she doesn't care? It's become, it's become, I've got to the point where I get more satisfaction out of pleasing her than I don't care about. Okay, but over the years you've tried and she just is like, I can't do it, I'm too jealous. And I think she really wanted to and she tried, but she just couldn't, she couldn't do it. How did she try? We had got on a website, a chat room, hot wife chat room, and we met some people.
Starting point is 00:18:01 and we got together and there was like four couples and all the guys there wanted to watch their wife bang somebody else and all the wives there didn't want their husband touching anybody else so we all just sat around the farm and looked at each other. So, okay. But she asked one of the girls to join us
Starting point is 00:18:24 and apparently it was a no-go. So that was the closest we ever got. Okay, come on. And so, and so, anyway, a friend of mine came by one day and he was telling me about his buddy called him up and was into the hot-wifing thing. How did these conversations come up with guys? How does your guy bring this up to you?
Starting point is 00:18:47 I don't know. It's just guys talk about sex more than anything, I guess. I don't think so. But he was... I think girls do more so than guys. All your guy friends are talking about letting their wives fuck other people to you? Well, there's a group of them that I run around with it or like that. But anyway, he said that he had this friend and they blindfolded his girlfriend.
Starting point is 00:19:12 And he took three guys that worked with him over there. And she gave them all blow jobs while they were blindfolding her. And I thought that's the hottest damn thing I've ever heard of. And so between that and my buddy in the hot tub, I kept telling her, I'd like to watch you suck somebody's dick again. And she's like, eh, I don't know. I don't know. I don't know.
Starting point is 00:19:33 And so I was going to... How do you get past the whole thing of her falling for the guy and now you're like back in action letting her fuck other guys like, do it? Well, I wasn't really opposed to her being with him. And it could have been a long-term thing if he hadn't turned into such an ass. So you didn't really get mad at her.
Starting point is 00:19:50 It was more like you felt like he was the more inappropriate one because you did say she went off the deep end. We had to go to therapy. And you just like, you're fine to just go back to letting her bang other guys. Like do you create rules then? like you still allow her to go play solo? About the only rule I have is no overnight.
Starting point is 00:20:08 Okay. She can go play if she wants to. You're a very trusting guy. After she wound up falling for a guy that she played solo with twice and went off the deep end, you don't mind her going off and playing solo again? You're never worried that that will happen again. No, no. Okay.
Starting point is 00:20:25 I mean, she told me that she says, I'm the only. only guy that's ever given her an orgasm out of all the guys she's been with. I never understand that. Why is somebody banging all these guys if they're not even having orgasms? But some people say it's great even if you don't have an orgasm. I guess I don't know. I know that I'm the wrong one in this scenario. Yeah, she says that too, but she also says it's in her head. She can't really, you know, she's nervous about it. It's different. She's comfortable with me. And she's always treated me like royalty. So it was just a bump in the road, I thought.
Starting point is 00:21:05 And so I thought it would be fun. I printed up this Hall Pass thing and gave her, because I was out of state a lot helping her friend work on a cabin that had been flooded. And then I started watching cuck holding videos with the cages and shit. So I bought a cage and had her put it on me. I told her she could use the Hall Pass while I was gone. And so the first couple of days, she just calls me and talks normal and nothing happened and then about the third day she
Starting point is 00:21:37 texted me and said she had message this guy from work and I was going to go see him and I thought my heart was going to pound out of my chest I was like oh my god and that's all I could think about till I got home of happiness or jealousy or both what's what's oh my god a little of everything probably I mean it was just so exciting to have you know when you've been with the same to that. Yeah, when you're with the same person forever, you know, we've done about everything. Hell, I got a blowjob from her in the haunted mansion at Disney World, you know, so we're just trying to find something to spice things up. And well, it sounds like you're doing a lot to spice up. I mean, since the dawn of time, since you guys been together in your 20s, you've been having
Starting point is 00:22:20 threesomes, fucking coworkers, having solo play, you know, it's not like your vanilla couple. No, and it gets better. Okay. Keep coming. I'm not going to interrupt you. It gets better. So anyway, she ends up hooking up with this guy from work. And she comes home and I'm on cloud nine. I mean, I can't wait for her to get home. And we fucked like rabbits for three months. And but she wasn't really attracted to him. So she didn't want to go back. He was rather small, smaller than I am. And so she wasn't into doing it again. And so I'm like, well, who, you know, is there somebody else? And she's like, no, not really. And, uh, And so I listened to one of your episodes and heard the girl talking about her friend picking up guys on Ashley Madison that were younger. And here she's 66 and I said, maybe we should try that. So I put an ad on and she started getting just crazy number of messages. And we found a kid that was close by and we met him locally.
Starting point is 00:23:26 But he ate her out for about 20 minutes. And then when she asked him if he wanted, she wanted her to play with him, she started rubbing his dick through his underwear and he came in his pants. So that was the end of that. But she had another guy contact her and said, hey, I see you're into threesomes. Would you be interested in identical twins? Let me, can we slow it down? Because I feel like you're all the way at the point like of yesterday, right? I mean, she's 66.
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Starting point is 00:26:22 What happens between 20 and 66? Okay. I don't know. There was like a couple stories. but like, you know, how do you work up to now we're at she's 66? I don't get it. Yeah, well, there was a lot of, well, after the bump in the road, there was close to, what, 15 years in there where we didn't do anything. Okay, so when I said you go from her doing that to not even caring that she's with other people, you're like, yeah, I'm not jealous. I mean,
Starting point is 00:26:50 that's when you're supposed to say, oh, no, there was like 15 years where we didn't do anything because of that. Like, that's where it didn't make sense to me. Do you get it? Like, I, I, I kind of asked you that like five minutes ago. Do you remember? Well, I don't think it was me. It was her, so I can't really speak for her. I mean, I've always, after the, well, you kind of have to speak for her because you're telling us in the Yor guy's story. Okay. Well, I mean, why did it stop for 15 years? You completely trusted her, even though that happened, like, and you were fine for her to play, but she didn't want to anymore for 15 years? Okay. I think, I think she was scared because she, you know, it didn't go well.
Starting point is 00:27:28 So she didn't want to go through it again. It was emotionally, I lost like 20 pounds because I thought I was going to lose her. And so I just wonder how you come back from that right from the get-go being like, yeah, go play, but she doesn't. I mean, are you positive that maybe you were happy for that 15-minute break too? No, no, I've always been. You lost all this weight, fear of losing her. You're not like the, you know, one year later, a little nervous or gun-shy for her to go fuck other guys?
Starting point is 00:27:55 Yeah, well, okay. So we kind of separated for a week or so, and she'd come back. We'd get together. Then we'd get apart. And I thought, and it's crazy because I came home because I didn't want her fucking anybody else. And so now I want her fucking other guys. So it's just really confusing.
Starting point is 00:28:17 Not really. It shouldn't be that confusing. I mean, it's very sort of like, you know, it should be very black and white. Like, I don't know. You're saying that you were really jealous when it happened. so much so that you lost so much weight. You were so paranoid, but then you were fine with her going and banging other people right afterwards, but you didn't do anything for 15 years.
Starting point is 00:28:37 Yeah, no, we didn't. It was dead's time. And we talked about it. And, you know, we watched porn together. It's usually always a guy, on girl, guy, guy, girl. You know, the cuckold poem, how I didn't know what hot wiping was until my buddy came on and told me about this girl, that his friend, that they did the blindfold thing with. but she's
Starting point is 00:28:57 the classic, you know, librarian, good girl. Nobody knows she has a naughty side, which makes it even hotter. Right. Because, you know, she's not a slut and just goes around
Starting point is 00:29:08 and fucks everybody she knows. And so... Well, what's wrong with that girl either? I mean, come on. Give the sluts a break. Every guy wishes their wife was a slut, but then they use the word as a negative term.
Starting point is 00:29:18 It's so fucking hypocritical. I know. Your wife is a slut, okay? She's fucking all your friends or co-worker. She's banging guys beyond your back. Okay, that's the definition of a slupah. Why is that bad?
Starting point is 00:29:29 You love that. That's what you're into. Why are you trying to put down other women's sluts? Like, how is that bad? I don't think it's bad. Sorry, I'm sticking up for the sluts here. It's the double standing. Yeah, but you just used it yourself.
Starting point is 00:29:41 Right. But anyway, she, you know, she goes, why do you know, the sharing, the whole sharing thing, I'm like, I'm not sharing you with other guys. You've been sharing her with other guys since the dawn of time. You're so confusing to me. Well, but the way I look at it is I'm sharing them with her. Okay. They're like a live sex toy.
Starting point is 00:30:02 Instead of some plastic piece of crap, she gets a real thing. Okay. And so she, you know, I don't want her to think that I want everybody to fuck her. It's, I want her to have the pleasure of enjoying herself without any stigma to, you know, that, I want her to experience things that a lot of, woman fantasize about but don't get to you know and I care enough about her I don't want her to miss out on any of that well it does those sound like you guys have experiencing those things since you guys got together I don't see how you're not like I you know it's not like this is something new that she started when she was 66 I mean she you guys she's been able she's had a free pass for a very long time with you you had a
Starting point is 00:30:46 15 year break but before that she was with a lot of guys it sounded like and you guys did a lot of stuff now yeah yeah much, you know, but in the beginning, it was kind of like I was kind of doing it so I'd get my turn. And now it's kind of morphed into where I don't care about my turn anymore. I just want her to have a good time. And when she has a good time. Yeah, and I got to tell you, that's typically like every girl's fear, like, oh, you want me to go out and fuck a guy because then you're going to turn around and be like, now it's my turn. You know what I mean? And that typically is what every woman doesn't want, you know, because some people are jealous like your girl. So did you
Starting point is 00:31:23 harass her all that time for your turn? No. Okay. No. No, because she's not the type, you know, I'm, she's much happier and I'm much happier if we're not fighting about it. And so, you know, we're in a place now that these last five years, our marriage is so much, the communication, you know, I hear that a lot. We communicate more now. We're closer now. Okay, let's go, but let's get the like to now okay but not when she's 66 because i don't believe that 66 is 15 years ago okay so like let's get to the point where 15 years is stop you know is over she stopped how do you guys get back into it well the just uh you know when i gave her the hall pass i printed up the hall pass that didn't happen early on that happened after the 15 years another hall pass came into play
Starting point is 00:32:18 yeah yeah yeah yeah that was after the 15 year well it was actual I actually printed up a hall pass and made it kind of humorous and gave to her and she thought was cute. And that was like the green light. Like that was like kind of saying, hey, let's start this back up again. Just kind of plant the seed. And it probably. How was it though after you were able to do all those things and share her and have all that kind of sex with her doing all these things to going to being vanilla for 15 years? Well, I mean, it wasn't a lot of fun.
Starting point is 00:32:53 of me. We talk, I'm sure we talked about it. But I think she probably, I mean, I didn't want. You're talking like you don't even know and don't remember. Okay, let's just go on. I don't know why I don't believe you. And I'm making it worse by questioning you with it because you don't have a lot of the answers, you know, when people are going to be like, oh, Kathy, you're so rude. Like, you know, he's probably nervous, whatever. Let's just get to what you actually do know. So you print her up a pass after the 15 years. and it's like, hey, babe, let's get back and do what we were doing before. This time it's different because you've given up on the fact that you're going to get to like screw chicks or whatever you were looking for before. But you're ready and willing and able and wanting for her to go and fuck other guys for you again. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:33:42 I mean, you know, I'm not small, but I'm, you know, I'm sure she'd like to experience somebody bigger. So I'm like, okay. And I hear people say, well, if you give your wife a haul, past there's somebody that she would pick you know so I figured she had somebody in mind and apparently she really didn't but she liked this guy at work had been hitting on her so she thought that would be a sure thing and so that was the guy she hooked up with but the experience was not satisfying for her and but I got a lot of enjoyment and I really got a amped up over it so emotionally I loved it but physically she didn't so
Starting point is 00:34:23 now we're like, well, where do we go from here? How do we find another guy? And that's where when I was listening to your podcast and heard that girl talking about Ashley Madison, I thought, well, let me look, see what's on there. So that was our next step. Okay, so let's get into that. Just tell your stories. Okay, I'm not going to interrupt you anymore, but you got a half hour. So tell, you know, give some details. Okay. So I put the ad up and she's skeptical. She's not, you know, she's still self-conscious about her parents, but she's hot for an old lady. I mean, she's still a seven or eight for anybody, but for a woman her age, she's always the best-looking woman in the room. So I'm like, there's going to be guys out there here, and she didn't believe me.
Starting point is 00:35:06 But the first week, she gets a message from a kid that's local. It's 44 years old. And she's like, I can't believe this. He'd be interested in me. So we started communicating with him and set up a date and met at a hotel out of town out of town and got rooms. We actually have our rooms on the same floor. And she's like, well, I'm going to need some alcohol. And we're going to need time to talk. So we're supposed to meet at a restaurant. But since we were in the same hotel on the same floor, she goes, I'm just going to go down to his room
Starting point is 00:35:39 and talk to him. And so I waited in my room. She went down. And I said, all I want is send me a text, send me a picture of his hotel room. And then if you, if you, give me a blowjob. I want a picture of it. That's all I'm asking for. And so she's gone about an hour and I'm like dying. I don't want to call. I don't want to text. Don't interrupt her. I don't know what's going on. And finally I get a text from her. She goes, okay, we're done talking. The fun's getting ready to start. And so then about another half hour, nothing goes on. And then she texts me back and said, he already came. And I said, what? And so, a few minutes later, she comes in the door.
Starting point is 00:36:25 I said, what do you mean he already came? She goes, she came in his shorts. And I'm like, you kid me? She goes, no, he ate me out for 20 minutes. I couldn't come. And I said, don't worry about it. I don't, you probably couldn't get me off anyway. It just doesn't work for me.
Starting point is 00:36:42 It's in my head. And she says, if you want me to take care of you, and he goes, great. And so she starts rubbing him through his underwear. And he fucking comes in his pants. Poor guy. I mean, listen, you know, that might have been the hottest scenario he's ever been in. It's like porn, but in real life for him. Yeah, so she spent some time with him.
Starting point is 00:37:03 He went in and cleaned himself off, and she played with him a little bit, but he couldn't get it up. And so she finally gave up and came back to the room. And so we ended up having sex. And I thought, well, maybe, you know, you can try again in the morning, but in the morning, I could tell she wasn't happening. She wasn't dealing with it very well. And so I said, okay, we'll just let it go. Was it dealing with what very well? The emotions, because it, you know, it was something she'd never done with a stranger. I mean, the other people we've been with were close friends. No, you told me a whole situation where you went and met five couples and
Starting point is 00:37:44 everyone together. Come on. Yeah, but nothing happened. Doesn't matter. She went there thinking something was going to happen. Yeah, yeah, I suppose, but I don't know. But anyway, so I... Yeah, what were the emotions? A guy comes too fast. That's a compliment. Yeah, well, I don't know. She just, she felt mixed, I guess. Okay. Whether she liked doing it or not. And so I messaged him, I texted him. I said, listen, dude, sorry it didn't work out. She's sorry it didn't work out. You're welcome to call her, text her you know if you want to try again sometime it's cool but whatever and so i think he's just decided he can't can't do it so i come home one day and and she says look i got a text from a guy
Starting point is 00:38:37 and he's an identical twin and he wants to know if i'd be interested in in doing him and his brother at the same time and i'm like you're kidding me She goes, no. He always gets asked if they've ever done it together. And he said, no. And they were going to be local and want to know if she'd be interested. And so we kind of communicated with them for a while and then met them at a local hotel, had a few drinks. And she went back to the room with them and then sent me a couple videos.
Starting point is 00:39:14 And they were identical in every way. okay so what happens well I told her I told them too I said first of all I want to make sure
Starting point is 00:39:30 that you guys are clean and safe and she's no pain no anal and that includes smacking her on the ass you don't like that I said but I want a video
Starting point is 00:39:42 of her sucking both your dicks at the same time to document that you're actually identical twins because nobody's ever going to believe this story. And I haven't, she hasn't let me come in her mouth in, like, since the bump in a road guy. Why?
Starting point is 00:40:03 I don't know. Which was about, 15 years, 20 years ago? Yeah. 30 years ago? Yeah. Okay. And so I don't push it. I don't care.
Starting point is 00:40:14 I mean, you know, she used to do it all the time, but I'm not going to make her good if she don't want to. But I asked her if she was going to, I said, if you're, I said, if you're, I don't know. Are you going to let these guys come in your mouth? And she goes, I don't know. And I said, well, if you do, I want a video of it because I haven't done it forever. And so if you're going to do it, I want a video. So she got a video for me and sent that to me.
Starting point is 00:40:35 And so now I'm kind of like it's kind of like a tease. I like the tease and denial thing. So like she'll be blowing me and I'll go, can I come in your mouth? She'll go, no. And I said, you know, the last guy that came in your mouth wasn't me. And she goes, yeah, I know. So it's just kind of a hot scenario thing that we've been playing with. But they were very nice, cool guys.
Starting point is 00:40:57 She got her picture taken with them with their clothes on. But I told them, I said she's allowed to do whatever she wants and you're allowed to do whatever she wants. And she said they were just sweet as can be and just did everything that she wanted and they all had a good time. And the funny thing was I told her, I said, okay, the 15 years ago or 20 years ago guy that couldn't get it up he had to go get the viagra and then the kid the week before that couldn't get it up I said here take take one of my
Starting point is 00:41:33 viagras with you just in case and she said that one of the brothers I don't know if he got close to coming and didn't and then couldn't get it up and she says well I got a pill and his other brother said take the pill take the pill and she thought that was cute that they were kind of watching after so she said after he took the pill he didn't have any problems. So she had a really good time. They had a really good time and they're still communicating with one another and they're planning on coming back. She had no weird emotions about that one. Now it's two strangers. Yeah. No, I think... It's fine with that one compared to the right before? Well, there was a lot of communication with one of the twins and they were sharing photos
Starting point is 00:42:13 and talking about just life in general and not just sex all the time. So she... Let me ask you that. Okay, that's fine. On Ashley Madison, what is she on there as? Like a woman who's married, whose husband likes to see her fuck guys. She's looking for young guys. It sounds like these guys are young. Okay, so she's a gilth with a hall pass. And I put ages just a number.
Starting point is 00:42:38 And then she come home and she said, you need to do something with that because I'm getting all these old guys that age is just a number. So I changed it. And I put age as just a number. so a seven or a 10 and seven so if you're a 10 with a seven or a seven with a 10 we might be a match I get and so and so most people think that's witty and she's been getting a lot of well how about a 6.2 and what's the demographics of the guys that are hitting up a gilf with a hall pass oh my god she's we've had 19 year olds right from 19 to 84 okay and so So the kid that came in his shorts, she asked him if the age was a problem.
Starting point is 00:43:28 He goes, well, it's not a kink or anything. Yeah, sure. They just find her attractive. But yeah, some guys, I'm sure, looking for older women. And the funny thing was when I went to their motorcycle training, one of the guys I ran to him when I said, you should go out with us sometimes. She goes, there's a borrower. My buddy got laid by this 60. year old woman in this tavern and he was like in his 30s. And I'm like, so that happens,
Starting point is 00:43:57 huh? And so I think she enjoys having the younger guys chase after her. She's always been self-conscious of her looks and she's always been a good looking woman. I don't know why, but I guess that's a girl thing. I don't know. What kind of guys is she like? Dark hair, dark eyes, neatly shaved, you know, beards, trim. athletic builds, but not real muscular. She don't like the bodybuilder types, but I was a college athlete and martial artists, so she likes guys that are built like me.
Starting point is 00:44:33 But what about age? She prefers the younger guys? Not necessarily. We're actually meeting a guy this evening, 55. She's looking for that giant cock thing experience. She told me, she goes, if we're going to do this, I want to do the giant cock thing one time. And I'm like, well, okay. I mean, you know, that's your, it's your fantasy.
Starting point is 00:44:56 You pick out what you like. Is it your fantasy? I don't, I'm not really. As long as they're not, you know, smaller than I am. I can do my size or bigger. But I like to watch her suck a guy that's bigger than me. She can deep throat me. So if you can't see any of it, I prefer to see some of it.
Starting point is 00:45:18 But it just sounds like all these guys that she's meeting up with. You're not even there. So you just want you, but you like to see it on video. Do you prefer to be home, waiting, being denied? Is that the way you prefer it? I'm assuming because that's the way it seems like it's set up all the time. Well, not really. It's just how it's been working out.
Starting point is 00:45:36 She would rather me be there. Some guys are okay with that. Some guys aren't. So if she finds a guy that she likes and he's not okay with it, then I'll wait for her as long as she takes some pictures. So you don't have a preference? No, not really. I'm kind of getting into the hot wife thing
Starting point is 00:45:54 where she comes home and I reclaim her kind of thing. But she wants me to be there. I mean, this sounds like what you've been doing this whole time, the hot wife thing. You think you're just getting into it now? I don't understand. You're so confusing to me. Well, I'm getting into it more now.
Starting point is 00:46:07 We weren't into it before? No, I always wanted to be there because I felt it was safer. Oh, you mean hot wifing as in not being there? Yeah, yeah. Because I think hot wifing is being there too. I mean, I don't have that clear distinction. I'm not really calling you a cuck. I didn't use that word, but you're thinking that's what I'm saying.
Starting point is 00:46:27 But she, you know, she likes to have both her nipples sucked at the same time. And I can't, you know, I can't do that. She like, I like licking her while somebody's fucking her. We did that once. She'd like to do that again. I can't do that by myself. You know, so there's things that you can't do with one person. So if she goes solo, you know, and I don't know if she'd ever go.
Starting point is 00:46:49 with two guys, the twins were just, you know, the stars aligned, unbelievable scenario and to have them be identical on top of that. You could hardly tell them apart. One was a little heavier than the other. But whether Coxor, you can't tell them, you know, in the video, you can't tell who was who. But yeah, I can go either way.
Starting point is 00:47:13 If she wants to go solo with some guy, and I'm fine with that, but she wants me to be there and we both take care of her. I'm fine with that too. Will she see the twins again? Will that be a, could that happen again? Hopefully. I don't know if both guys will be interested in doing it again.
Starting point is 00:47:31 I don't know. The one guy is definitely on board. And I told her, you know, they live west of us. We don't usually go west. We usually go to Florida. I said, but we could go west. If he wants to hook up sometime, I'll take you out there. They're supposed to be here again.
Starting point is 00:47:48 but not anytime soon. And so I'm like at 66, who knows what you're going to be a year from now, you know what I mean? Yeah, yeah. But yeah, they've been communicating and I think there's some mutual interest there. And so I'm not a...
Starting point is 00:48:07 Actually, I'd like to just find a, you know, a full-time ongoing, somebody that she enjoys being with that I trust. and then when I'm out of town, you know, she can spend time with them and just send me pictures and text and shit, and I'd be happy with that. That's what you're looking for. Yeah. We're not looking for body count.
Starting point is 00:48:33 I mean, we don't, you know, she don't want to sleep with 100 different people. But, you know, she wants the big cop guy one time and then maybe find somebody that we really hit it off with. and enjoy spending time together and make it an ongoing thing. Right. So you're on Ashley Madison, and that's the sole place where you guys play? We've got the guy we're meeting the nights from Adult Friend Finder. Okay, so you're there as well.
Starting point is 00:49:05 And what are you on there looking for? Same thing. Same thing. It tends to be a little harder, core, and more experienced. The Ashley Madison guys seem to be more than, Ella. Some of them are just dipping their toe in the water and or not even really serious, but we've had better luck there. Where?
Starting point is 00:49:27 At Ashley Madison. Yeah, that's interesting. You wouldn't think of that's a place. We've got a guy that's been flirting with her. That's kind of witty. And so we've been bantering back and forth. He's about an hour and a half away. So there's a nice halfway meeting point where we can go to.
Starting point is 00:49:44 So we'll probably do some meet and greets and go from there and see what happens. But it's, you know, it's by step our sex. We've had more sex this summer. We have in the last, you know, three or four years. So you're back at it. Yeah. When she gets, you know, she gets her motor run and then I get to change the oil. And she only comes with you is what you're saying, but she is enjoying this.
Starting point is 00:50:11 Yeah. So far, she says that. She can't come. And typically, if I go down on her, that's when she can have an orgasm. Very rarely when we just have intercourse. Used to be if she got on top of road me, but, you know, as we're getting older, that's harder to do. And so it's either. And, of course, even after the twins, she was so hyped up when she got home from the twins.
Starting point is 00:50:37 I couldn't get her off. I had to have some help from Duracel. So, but it was, you know, it was awesome when she goes, I got to go tonight. So I'll get the vibrator out. All right. Well, listen, I got your whole story. You guys are over on Ashley Madison. I feel like people are going to go looking for you.
Starting point is 00:50:53 Some people are into the whole gilf thing, I think. You know, I definitely think it's like a kink, especially for some younger guys or guys around your same age. That's not a kink. But there are a lot of guys, though. You know, I just did a poll of my Patreon. And it was like the opposite question not like, do you want to see your partner go with somebody else? Have you ever been the other person who's taking the other person's partner? Like these guys that are contacting your wife.
Starting point is 00:51:13 Like how many guys are into that? probably a lot. Yeah. We had guys say that. What? We've had guys say that. You know, they like that.
Starting point is 00:51:21 Yeah, for sure. I like, yeah, even one of the twins originally, they freaked out because they didn't want me around. But then after we met and talked,
Starting point is 00:51:30 he's like, I think I wouldn't mind fucking you and let him watch. I think that might be hot. So, you know, there's a possibility that could happen someday with him.
Starting point is 00:51:39 Okay, well, you could call back. But like, you gave me a good episode. I don't know how I'm going to edit this because it was a little confusing. to me, but I don't know why I didn't believe something. But, you know, you spanned a long period of
Starting point is 00:51:53 time there, so I feel like it's hard to remember things, you know, 40, 50 years ago. But anyway, Chad, what do we call you, Chad? Thanks so much for calling in and sharing your story. I'll give you access to my Discord. You could go in there. I'm not going to ask for picks of your wife because I'm assuming she doesn't know you're calling in. Like, I don't take picks of people that aren't Yeah, she knows, and you can see them on Ashley, or there are no face picks. Okay, well, send me those picks, no face picks, and anything R-rated, nothing bad, you know, nothing X-rated for my Patreon. If you want to send those, as long as she knows, that's cool, send them to me, to my,
Starting point is 00:52:26 you know, send them to me sooner than later, so I have them when your episode airs. Okay, so on the email, just send you the email, yeah. Okay, okay, all right. I got several. Okay, awesome. Thanks, Chad. Thanks so much for calling in. Uh-huh.
Starting point is 00:52:40 Thank you. Bye-bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife's story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gang being girl story.
Starting point is 00:53:18 Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person. And they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories. 17 of them. They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format. And finally, the audiobook is available coming out August 25th. But you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint. Okay. There's no way you get into my Discord. Any other. way than getting the link from me. Okay. I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other. And that's what you get to do there. You could post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of
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