Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1232 - Abby is a Hotwife with a Stag/Cuck Husband

Episode Date: September 25, 2025

Abby is a hotwife with a stag husband and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including her and her husband's first threesome and exactly what went down, the rules they had going in, how and why her husband eventually just started watching instead of participating, the younger guy she was hooking up with and why she loved banging him so much, how she enjoys when her husband is there involve as much as when she plays solo, the day she did two guys together at once and how that happened, the one night stand she had with a guy with a huge d*** and what went down, the day she recently had where she did four guys in one day and what went down, their experience in the swinger community, how she enjoyed seeing her husband hook up with another woman, the unicorn they met up with recently and what went down, their couple swap with a guy with a micropenis and a whole lot more. REPEAT THURSDAY, originally aired 02/2024 Her Youtube channel: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmy3kcn1lrfrVswaEnF2aWQ⁠  **To see HOT pics of ABBY plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To get 10% off Drive Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2528-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Use code: ANONYMOUS to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14-day money-back guarantee ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://uberlube.com/discount/Strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code: STRICTLY for 10% off Uberlube aka the BEST Lube EVER ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order To get $15 OFF your female oxytocin arousal tablets and more, use code STRICTLY here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/xLQ3Jv⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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or just go to the description and click on the link. Everything I talk about is in the description. So today I have on Abby, Abby Hout. She has her own YouTube channel. She emailed me to be on the show. Her YouTube channel is kind of cool. A lot of people email me and ask me for advice. I'm always like, I don't do advice like via email. Listen to my show. That's where you get the advice. You can learn from other people on my show. On her channel, you could learn from her. But she called in to talk about her whole backstory, how she became a hot wife. She was a very vanilla woman with her first husband, never did anything out of the box at all, straight up missionary, first husband. Second husband comes in the picture and she decided to try all different things with him. It first started out just doing

all kinds of sexual things with him that she had never done. And then she told him about one of her fantasies, which was to be with two guys at once. and he was down for it. And that started their hot wifing experience. She talks all about that first experience with her. The first reason they had and how he participated. Eventually over time, it evolved into him not participating in a lot of times being out of the room or him being downstairs or her going and seeing one of her regulars at their place

while her husband is at home. But he very much gets off on her coming home and telling him all the details. He likes to hear her having sex. He likes her to report back. He likes to be the cleanup guy. He definitely has that compersion thing. She talks about all kinds of different experiences. There was a time where she did two guys in one day.

At the same time, there was another time where she did four guys in one day at different times. So three guys and her husband, she fucked like four different guys in one day. Towards the end, she talks about how they recently started to get into swinging and have hooked up with couples and as well as a unicorn. and she talks about those experiences a little bit. She gives a shout out to her YouTube. She sent me picks.

They'll be over on Patreon. She also will be on my Discord talking to people. Her story's super interesting. So I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Abby. Hi, Abby. Abby, Abby Hout. I think I'm saying it right. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast, Abby.

You emailed me. You have your own YouTube channel. We're going to plug everything. We'll talk about it right now. you'll give out a shoutout, quick shout out at the end. We'll talk about it too. And I'll put links to your YouTube channel. You are a hot wife.

You've got a husband. I don't know if he's a stag or a cuck. I was asking you before we start taping. You're like, it's kind of evolved into that. So we got to see, did he start out a stag, became a cock, a cock, a stag? I don't know. I sometimes get confused on the terms, but you're going to tell me your host, whole story.

You do have this weird smoking thing, which I do not understand. We can maybe talk about that later. You've got like, on your videos, you're like the smoking hot wife. I don't know. Is there like some sort of weird kink that there are guys out there that like the fact that you smoke? Can I just ask you that? Because I was like a little mesmerized by that weird thing that you throw in there. It's like, why the fuck is she smoking?

But then I realized it's like it's like a thing. I'm like, what's the thing? This is not 1987. Nobody wants you to smoke. Yeah. Are there people? Yes. That is like a thing.

And I never really knew it. Yeah. until my husband actually pointed it out to me at one point. And so I started looking into researching this and I'm like, this is a whole thing. So you decided to make it like your thing kind of to stand out. Yeah. Yeah, it's interesting. It's weird.

I don't get that. And I don't know. I think you're turning off more people than you're turning on. I don't agree with your husband. He's your husband. Yeah. It's like you got this, but I looked over some of your stuff. And recently you had on another girl who's like a smoker.

I'm like, oh, there's a whole bunch of women that realize guys like girls who smoke, and that's like their niche. But we're not going to talk about that. I just had to ask you that because it was interesting to me. But let's talk about your hotwifing story. You're married. How long, Abby? Well, this is my second marriage.

I have been married to my current husband for eight years. And probably about a year or so into the actual marriage portion or marriage. or marriage. And really, it just kind of came about with us just laying in bed one night. And we had our fun. We had our sex. And he said, are there any fantasies that you've ever had that you would like fulfilled? So I thought about it. And I told him, I'm like, yeah, I'd like the opposite of what most men want, I want to be with two guys at once. And much to my surprise, he was on board 100%. He's like, let's do it. Was the response I got. And I thought, no way, he's really going to do this sort of thing. But wait a second, you have a marriage before this

guy, right? And was your marriage always vanilla? Did you not bring it up with your first husband? Why this one? I did bring it up at one point with my first husband in conversation because he had mentioned about being with two women and we never really pursued it. It never came to fruition for either one of us. We were married sort of young. We were both 22 when we got married. So when we got divorced for me, it was just kind of like, okay, the sexual gates have opened and I'm ready to explore. But you wound up meeting another guy to get tied down to and then you wound up with him. Now, is he freaky? Like, how does it come up one year?

Was it one year into your marriage or one year into your relationship? Did you get married right off the bat? No, we dated for a couple years, and then we decided to get married. But the whole couple of years, because you did go into this kind of being like, oh, I want to be more sexually open and everything. But the first couple of years with this guy, are you guys having kinkier sex? Is the sex better with this guy? Yeah. Yes.

I would definitely say kinkier, better 100%, not afraid to explore. You know, one day we were laying in bed and he's like, is there anything you would want to try, any fantasies you want to fulfill, anything you haven't, anything else you haven't done before that we haven't done sort of thing. And that's how it came up. And I was like, well, I've always wanted a threesome with two guys. and he was just all on board. He's like, let's do it. It's great. Wait, so now, I typically hearing it from the opposite way, like the guy brings up

and the woman's like, oh, my God, is this a trap? You're just saying this because you want to fuck a girl. And if I fuck a guy, you're going to want to fuck a girl. Was there any talk about him being with women as well? I know here you are saying, hey, I want to fuck another guy. Does he say, oh, yeah, I'd love to fuck another girl too? No. That was never discussed or on the table.

No, not at that point in time. know. It had never been for quite a long time, actually, it had never been discussed or on the table. We had this threesome and it was great and I thought, oh my gosh, this, this is awesome. Two deaths. I love the attention. Yeah, yeah. And it kind of evolved from there. It kind of turned into what I actually thought was a cuck-holding type relationship.

for the longest time I thought it was that. And I recently, through my YouTube channel and doing my homework, come to find out the true definition and the meaning of it versus being in a hot wife situation. There's the difference between the two is cuck holding involves humiliation. Yeah. Yeah. Let's go back to that first experience, though,

before we get to what happened, how it progressed. that so you guys are in bed you're like I want a fuck another guy and he's like I'm down for it where do you guys go how do you find that first guy and what goes down that first experience so we just went on apt and we started looking at people and messaging people and chatting with people and we found one guy who had been in it he was a little older and had plenty of experience in it And it was just kind of like, okay, look, this is what I'm looking for. I want to try this. We want to try this.

And I was really quite nervous. I thought to myself, I'll be real honest. I thought, oh, my God, should I really go through with this? I'm having doubts. It's a great fantasy and all. But I'm like, is this going to trash my marriage? Here goes marriage number two down the tubes. I was so worried that that was just going to.

be the demise, the beginning of the demise of our marriage and our relationship. Do you guys have any rules going in? Because this is a big jump. And of course, you're going to have that fear. But do you guys discuss like what you're, what's going to go down? What's on the table? What's not on the table? Were there any rules? Yeah. There were some. It was kind of like, okay, well, condoms is a must. And just like personal rules for me, I, don't like anal sex. It's very painful. And that was discussed with the three of us. And the guy that we had the threesome with, he knew that we were new and just dipping our toes in the water, so speak. And he was very patient and understanding and knew how to work with us, I guess you'd say.

We had our rules where, like, no one is coming over without meeting them. somewhere in public first. Just for safety, no one will be at our house unless he's there for my safety. Just a few various things. And as it evolved, the rules evolved,

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We had our rules where like no one is coming over without meeting them somewhere in public first just for safety. No one will be at our house unless he's there for my safety. Just a few various things. And as it evolved, the rules evolved because you become more experienced and you know what's going on and what to expect and what have you. Yeah. So but going into this with this first guy where you like, oh, I want a guy with a really big dick. A lot of times the husband in these situations wants a guy that's got a bigger dick than him. Was the big dick thing a part of your guy's hot wife experience? I just have to ask because a lot of times it is a big part of it.

You're right. It is. With him, it was, he was big. I'm not going to lie, he really was big. Is your guy big? Your husband? My husband, he's average. But the guy that came over to have the threesome with us, he was bigger.

He was fairly big. Well, because he was big and your husband saw it and everything, did that become a part of the dynamic because that first guy was like really big? Because typically that's what it's about. Yes, that is a part of how it evolved. And as time went on, it kind of became he would be in another room in the house or just sit on the bed and watch. But that first experience, did he get involved?

What actually went down at that first experience? You said you love all the attention, right? So I'm assuming your husband's there at some point. Do you all fuck each other? What went down? Yeah. Well, my husband is straight, so there was no guy-on-guy action. Uh-huh.

But yeah, I started, it started with kissing the other guy. They took parts and taking my clothes off and one fucking me while I'm giving the other one a blowjob and it just it was great it was amazing once i got over my fear and inhibitions it was fantastic i loved it now were you able to pass through push through your fears and inhibitions the minute your clothes were off and you were horny in that situation or what did it come over time of after a couple guys it took time and i really much preferred to have what i like to call regulars. I'll have two or three quote unquote regulars that we play with and that I fuck aside from my husband because I don't want a revolving door. It's not about a million notches on my bedpost for me.

It's the fantasy, the play. And if I have a guy that is a regular and we mesh well and the chemistry is there. Cool. You can come over. We'll have fun. Whatever. Just keep coming over. Because I will admit, like, meeting someone, it's just like dating. You meet someone, you're a little on your guard, you're shy, you're a little timid, and then you get to know each other, and you have a little more freedom and your inhibitions are gone.

the more you're with that same person. And then the sex gets better. So there you go. Exactly. So you have your good old faithfuls. All right. So that first time, though, your guy did get involved and it was hot. You did spin roasting and everything.

Obviously, you haven't done double penetration yet or anything. But like what? So was it everything you imagined and more? Yeah. It really, it really was. And it was hot. It was hot. I'm not going to lie.

It was freaking hot. And I thought, oh my God, I could totally get into. this. Like, we need to do that again. And what about the reclaiming? Because everybody talks about the reclaiming sex. This is the first time you and your husband engaged in something like this. I know you got a lot out of it. But like when you went back to your husband, it was just you guys. Did it supercharge your guys' sex life? Yes. It really did. And really much to my surprise, I was so nervous about the whole, this is going to be the demise of our relationship, our marriage, or marriage or what have you.

And then once the reclaiming happened, and we were just so into each other, and it just, I can't even explain in how good it felt. Like, I felt like our relationship, the depth of our love for each other, are like, I just felt even more so connected to him than I had ever thought possible. Yeah, and I think people would think it would be the opposite.

right here you are going away from your partner you're having sex with somebody else other than your partner but i do hear across the board from the couples who are successful that it it does exactly what you're talking back and and look you sound like you it sounds like you were surprised by that yourself the first time right because that was your biggest fears that this is going to drive a wedge i would assume some of it is like oh my god he's going to think i'm a whore you know i mean there's a lot it's very loaded yes what you did maybe he's going to feel different about me. That's the biggest fear for women, I think. And not only did he accept it, he, like, loved it. So I think that that's like top of the mountain. So the creek claiming really wound up to be amazing.

Yes. And I am very much a pleaser by nature, I guess. Seeing how immensely pleased he was and excited he was and turned on he was just made it that more intense and hot and made me more excited. in that moment and it was just far better than anything I could have ever imagined it would have been. And like you said, all my fears were just gone because what I had assumed was going to happen. It was the complete opposite. Yeah, that's amazing. So do you wind up sticking with that guy for a while, the first one? Or did you just go out and look for other guys?

I did. I stuck with him for a while. And then it started to become a flaky sort of thing. Due to lack of experience, come to find out that he was married and his wife didn't know he was doing it. Oh, my God. And I thought, here comes another rule. No drama. No drama.

If you're about drama and you're fucking around on your wife or significant other, I don't want some crazed woman banging on our door losing her shit excuse my mouth losing her shit on my doorstep because her husband's coming over here and having sex with me. Yeah, yeah, yeah, for sure.

So how long ago was that first experience? Like how long have you been hot wiping? Probably about seven or eight years. Seven or eight years. So now you said it like progressed with your husband. So he's that first involved, right? That first one was a threesome. How does that dynamic change over time?

Like he, for him, he has compersion. I don't know if any, anyone I was ever talked about that before. Of course. But yeah, that is his thing. So that played a large part of it. And then as it evolved after those first couple times that that first guy, he's like, I really want to see you do this. I don't want to be involved.

I just want to watch you get pleased. I want to see that look on your face. I want to hear you getting pleased. I'm very vocal. So during sex. So how was that first experience when he didn't take part? Was he like filming, just watching? Watching.

Typically, we don't film. But yeah, he, he again, loved it. We had found another, what again, my term regular, regular guy that was around for about a year and a half. And he was like the only guy that I had that I was with at that time. And it was amazing. Like he clicked and he was, because my young, my wife or my husband is younger than me. He's eight years younger than me. And the guy that we had around for a year and a half, he was much younger than me. How old was he? Oh, he was like 23, 24. Right. And I was like mid 40s. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That hot, milf experience he was looking for. Exactly. Exactly. So, yeah,

that kind of turn, that became a huge turn on for me. Oh my God. I'm 40 some years old and I can still turn the head of a 20 something year old. So yeah. So that was hot. I did really enjoy that a lot. He would just either watch or like I said, just be in another room or downstairs or whatever and let me have my fun. And when when the guy left, I would tell them what happened and things that were said and stuff like that. And that was like a part of the reclaiming thing. But yeah. You want to know how to get back your confidence in bed and be rock hard and ready at any time?

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I would tell him what happened and things that were said and stuff like that. And that was like a part of the reclaiming thing. But yeah. So yeah, did you guys ever do like real solo play with you going out without him? We have tried that. Like I've tried going to the bar and picking up guys. Not, I don't know, not very successful at it.

And I don't know, maybe I just hit the bar at the wrong night. But what about even one of your regulars? Did he ever say, hey, why don't you go meet one of your regulars at his house? Fuck him and then come home and tell me all about it. Yes. Yes. And he enjoys that too. Yes, he does.

Yeah, we have a regular that occasionally I will go to his house and we'll have our fun and I'll come home and tell them all about it and we have our fun and clean up time and What's clean up time? Does he like to go down on you after a guy fucked you? Yes. Oh, okay. So he likes to be. Sometimes yes. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That's a part of the whole reclaiming thing. Yeah, he likes the fact. He likes that. Now, does he, has he ever become? really extreme in that he wanted to be denied or anything like that? No, he never really did. And like I said, I, because inexperience and lack of knowledge, that's just kind of what I thought, okay, well, he's a cuckold.

Well, we don't engage in any of the humiliation part of cuck holding, which is like the biggest thing. And I know a lot of these kinks or fetishes or whatever you call them. a lot of them overlap each other. Yeah. So, yeah, and doing a little more research, I come to discover that he's, we're more of the hot wife and Stag Vixen side of it because he will sit with me and look for a play partner for me, look for another guy for me.

He'll sit there with me while I message them and we'll meet up and things of that nature. So he's more of like the stag part where the stag, he's encouraging you. Go out on dates. Go pick up some guys. Right. You're not humiliating him by going with another guy because he's not good enough. Some guys want that scenario. That's not what he's looking for.

Correct. Yeah, yeah, I get it. I talk to more guys that are like that. I get nervous for my extreme cucks, okay? Because when there's denial, and I said this before, because most of my stories that have gone wrong have been with the extreme cucks because when there's no reclaiming and there's so much denying and the couple's not coming together after they're going to be with other people, that's where the disconnect starts. And if that disconnect,

if that happens over time, I just think that that's a recipe for disaster and it's a scary place to be. A lot of times it ultimately ruins their relationship. But it didn't ruin yours and you guys have a hot story. So let's stick with your story. All your guys, right, I'm assuming you've had a bunch of guys over time. You said you've had a lot of regulars. What are the demographics of those guys? Are they younger, older, married, single, everything in between? Most of them are younger. Single, I try to steer away from married unless their wife is consenting. And the wife plays on her own as well sort of situation.

I try to stick with single or if they're dating and they're not exclusively cheating. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, because I wonder what is that guy? that's like looking on apps for a married woman to fuck. Is it a lot of younger guys that are single and this is like the way they're getting an easy lay without all the drama and baggage? Yeah. Yeah.

Probably. Yeah. Yeah. And I think that there's a king to it, right? You're taking another guy's girl, right? I think that that's a hot part of it, vice versa. So you're all getting off on different parts of this scenario. I think that guy's getting off on maybe that you're older than him.

it's that Mill fantasy, maybe that you're another guy's wife, right? Come on. Yes. Oh, absolutely. I've had people, you know, am I better than your husband? Do you like my dick better than your husband? Do you say yes? Of course.

Of course. Exactly, right. It's part of the fantasy. You got to feed into that roleplay. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And I've had a lot of women say that they have really enjoyed doing the other guys when their husband's not even watching because they could be more free because of certain reasons. Do you prefer to meet these guys solo and have your guy in another room?

Or do you like when he's watching or participating? Or do you like all kinds of scenarios? What's your preference? Really, all kinds of scenarios. Variety is the spice of life. So you get into it all. You like when he's there. You like when he's not there.

You like when he's in another room. Like you could get down with all those scenarios. Yes, absolutely. Yeah, but if one of a, and this falls back on one of our rules, I will never be alone with another guy unless I feel comfortable and my husband feels comfortable with that guy, knowing them well enough to know that I can be alone with him sort of thing. Right. It's always a safety thing for us. That's one of our biggest rules is safety. So you're never, so that's why you play with your regular sometimes. assuming it's after you know them for a while and you know that they're cool and you could go it and your husband knows them yes now you are out on youtube like people could go people are going to see

you you're right fucking there with your face talking about this online so I have to assume you're out and proud I mean like you know here you are doing all this kind of stuff with your husband do you wind up telling people and your girlfriends and stuff straight off the bat do you not tell people and just hope that they don't find your YouTube channel what's the deal with you guys being doing this and your friends. Well, at this, you know, for the longest time with my YouTube channel, it was just a lot of the smoking fetish. And then, oh, you started with the smoking fetish.

Okay, you didn't start as a hot wife and then add in the smoking. Correct. Oh, okay. But do any of your friends know that you do the hot wiping thing that you and your husband have an open marriage? No. No. Wow. But obviously on some level, you must not care if they do find out because you wouldn't put your face on YouTube if you did, right? Correct. I have to assume. Right. You're kind of like take it or leave it. This is who I am. So not one of your friends, your girlfriends know what you do? No. Not one. And I haven't discussed it with them. And if they do know, they have not brought it up to me. But I've kind of, and I think I feel like this is.

actually comes with maturity because when I was younger, I would have just been paranoid to death that someone found out that. And then maybe that's why my first husband and I never engaged in anything like that. And with age came, you know what? Fuck it. I don't know what you do behind your closed doors, but it's probably some kinky shit too. Yeah. I mean, come on. That's what I'm always trying to say with my show. And I think sometimes people think, oh, the people that are on my show are like all a part of some weird island someplace, right? You know, like that there are these other people that we don't know. No, there are the people that walking around.

They're the people that are sitting with you at Thanksgiving dinner. Like you, Abby, people don't know that it's you. You know what I mean? It's like I had a woman named Gang Bang Betty on my show and I saw pictures of her. She's a soccer mom. You'd never know. She was having gangbangs with her husband. Like this is what people do.

Everyone has something. Some people are just vanilla by nature and that's okay too. But there's a lot of people that aren't. And they're doing it. But you don't have to talk about it, which I guess. because like I say, even vanilla people don't. But it's great that you have that freedom where you don't care if people did find out. Now, do you have a really hot experience that stands out for you?

Did you ever hook up with two guys at once? Or is it always just one guy and your husband? I have hooked up with two guys at once. And so was it two of your regulars? Was it two guy friends? Was it brothers? Yeah, no, it was two regulars. And it was kind of like a Saturday afternoon sort of thing.

And I was here with the one. Right. Just a regular old Saturday afternoon. And I was having fun with my one regular and my other regular just so happened to like text me at that moment. He's like, hey, I'm in your area. Are you free to play? And I was like, sure, come on over. And I, the other guy was, we were fucking.

And I'm like, hey, this other guy's coming over. like, okay. So he came in and we had our fun and it was pretty amazing. I think the one thing that stands out because in this lifestyle, I've kind of noticed that I've kind of become a little bit of a size queen. I think you would have even out of the lifestyle. If you fuck a guy with a really big dick for long enough, you become a size queen. You can't help it because you kind of get used to it, unfortunately. Sure. Yeah. Sure. Not to say that average isn't great because it is just as great too. But this like my husband had been on unbeknownst to me had been on one of the app sites or whatever looking for someone for me.

Didn't know he had done it. He had come home and he's like, get ready. This guy's coming over. And I was like, what? What? You know? And it was like 10 o'clock at night. And I'm just like, what? Are you kidding me?

He's like, no, look at this. And look at the size of his dick. And he's like, I've been chatting with him and saying it was you. Oh, my God. I'm kidding me. Yeah. But so I went and got ready and this guy came over. And he was gentleman of color.

I'll say that. And holy cow. I just, he is the biggest cock I have ever seen in my life. And could you take it? Was it amazing? I took it and I was like, the best way I can describe how big he was is when I went to give him a blowjob to get him hard. Once he got hard, like I couldn't get my mouth much past his head because it was just like my mouth was opened as wide as I could get it. And two hands around his shaft and he still had inches sort of thing.

And I thought, oh, my God. But it was so fucking amazing. Like, I felt like I never thought that I would enjoy being stretched out like that. But holy shit. It was so hot. And oh, my God. Now, was your husband watching that one or did you just give him details? I just gave him the details.

He was in another room. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But I just was like, oh, my God. I have never felt anything like that before. Just like completely filled up. Yes. Yes. And it was fucking amazing.

And that was a one and done. It was just kind of like a stranger in one night and done. And that's not. typical for you. Correct. But it was hot. But it was hot as hell. Yes, it was.

And you couldn't make him a regular? Oh, my God. If you did, you'd ruin yourself. Oh, I know. I know. Yeah. It was freaking amazing. Now, do you,

you had those two guys the same day because they kind of like piggybacked and it just happened. Are there days where you do, do two guys at separate times just because they're available and you have it

and then your husband? Like how many guys in a day is the most you've ever had sex with. In a day? Yeah. I would say that would have to be recently, and it was for including hubby. Oh my God. Yeah.

How did that happen? Well, as my husband likes to say, well, they were my regulars, and I usually two or three regulars because not everybody's scheduled messages all of the time. Yeah. And it was a weekend night. and it just so happened to be all the stars lined up right. And it was just one after another after another. And for me, it was kind of like my husband likes to call it the fucket train where I just don't care.

And the fucket train has arrived and I'm on it. hilarious. But yeah. But I had a couple glasses of wine and it was just the fucket train. and I was on board and but did you set it up on purpose or was it just like everybody hit you up that day

like how did the fuck a train come about it was kind of accident because if I text somebody and I don't hear back for a minimum of while I'll text another somebody and it was just kind of like I was upstairs fucking one person and

hubby heard my phone go off and he's like hey so and so's texting, want to tell him to come over. And he just, and this happened a few times in a row. And then the one guy, he's like, hey, you're busy tonight? I hadn't even texted him. And hubby's like, come on over. And one guy left. And he's like, hey, so-and-so's coming over. He said, he'll be here in a half an hour. And I'm like, oh, my God. Yeah. That's crazy. But it was hot, though, I'm assuming. I mean, it sounds like you could get down for

all kinds of different scenarios when they present themselves, right? Yes, yes, absolutely. And one of the things, like I said, it's kind of evolved and it's been crazy like over the last year. So we started to dip our toes a little bit into swinging. Oh, okay. Really? Yeah, yeah.

Because I kind of would like to see him get pleased and have his fantasies fulfilled. And as much as I'd like for it to be all about me. I can't always have it that way. But I want him to be happy and fulfilled as well. So what have been your experiences in the lifestyle so far? Well, we found quite interesting. We found a couple that was a part of this group of couples that did like house parties and stuff. And they were trying to like socially you could tell like they were trying to break off and start their own group of people.

And they were kind of like handpicking people sort of thing. We all started hanging out and having fun and going over this one couple's house all the time, usually like once a month. But as they were bringing new people in, like my husband was the youngest in the bunch. And in my personal opinion, the hottest. And I'm not just saying that because I'm biased. He really was like the best looking. And for me, I felt like it was kind of unbalanced. because all the other husbands were like, weren't attracted, like I wasn't attracted to them.

Did your husband get, though, to have sex with another woman? Did you ever get to watch that? Yes. And how was that for you? That was awesome. I loved it. And since then, we've actually met, had one other woman that came over for him to have his two women threesome. Oh, okay.

That was new for you. Yeah. Yeah, that was new. for me as well. And that was amazing. I loved watching him enjoy her. It was great. It was great. So what went down? Was that your first time that you experienced being with a woman? Did you fool around with her too? Or was it just you two in the room? I did fool around with her a little bit too. So that for me it wasn't really that much of a turn on, so to speak. I don't know how to explain it, I guess. For me, it was the fact that he was turned on by it is what fueled my fire.

Well, that's the same thing for the guys. A lot of times, that's what it's about for the guys, the straight guys that want to see their girl with another guy, you know? The same thing. It's compersion. It's watching him be pleasure. Exactly. It pleases you, turns you on to see him turned on. But you're not into the, you're not into women. That's just, that's, I mean, you tried it. How else are you going to know? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Absolutely. But that was cool. But the swinger group thing was just crazy. Like all the women ended up like getting catty and crazy high school childish games over my husband.

And I just thought, is this what swinger groups are really like? No. I typically hear the opposite. And of course, it's never going to be 100% one way, right? But I think a lot of people in the lifestyle are typically cool. and very open and I don't hear a lot of that kind of drama or petty shit. Typically it's like people talk about how they're so it's very devoid of that. But maybe because this woman just didn't know how to set up a party or a group that she had only one hot guy. And of course all the girls were fighting over him. Maybe she needs to pick and choose her party better. But I do hear that when it comes down to couples looking up with other couples, a lot of times the reason why they start to

play solo or they or it doesn't work is because it's very, hard to find another couple that everybody's turned on by everybody, right? You got four people. Each person has to be attracted to the other person, has to be attracted to the other person. And a lot of times that's hard to find. I'm sure there were hot girls there for your husband, right? But there was no hot guys there for you. And that's going to be a problem. Right. Exactly. And they had brought in another couple that the guy was decent looking. I thought he was, he was more on the handsome side than the hot side. Yeah. And they had invited us over. over one night just the four of us to play, which cool, whatever. And that was a horrible,

horrible, horrible experience for me. Because again, and I'm going to sound, I'm going to sound like a horrible person right now. I will tell you that. But he was so small. Well, I'm a horrible person because I'm laughing. Like I. Was it a micro penis? Yeah, I can't even say that thing was about three inches hard. Yeah, I've seen one of those. Yeah, yeah, I've seen that. And I thought, oh my God, please let your oral game be on point.

Yeah, for sure. It makes this worth my while. And unfortunately, his oral game was lacking as well. Oh, my God. Are you kidding? No, I am not kidding. And all I could think, you know, I sat here and I'm like, if this isn't the biggest, I hate to say this, mercy fuck ever. You know.

Well, that's the pleaser in you. You still went through with it. You didn't say you're a pleaser. You could have walked out. Exactly. Yeah. And all I did, like I laid there. I faked it.

And all I could think is, and this is so horrible. All I think is that bitch could have warned me. And then I thought, no wonder she wants to swing. Look what she's working with. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But a lot of times a guy with that kind of small penis, a lot of them, they're looking for humiliation or there's something attached to it. But yeah, you would want to give someone that heads up. I don't know. I always assume maybe dick picks are sent. People know these kinds of things ahead of time, I guess not. But you get a lot of dick. I would assume, because listen, I think the more sex you have, the more you want sex. So you must be just like horny all the time because you just have a lot of dick. in your life. How many regulars you got right now, Abby? Three. Three, right? And your husband. So you're constantly adding action. Yes. Yeah, that's amazing. Thank you so much for calling in. Let's give a shout out to your YouTube channel. I will put a link for anyone driving. Like they don't have to remember what you say, but you'll say give your shout out of where people can find you. And then I'll put a link

to whatever you want me to link in the description of this episode. And what people could find on your YouTube is like you just answering questions about all different kinds of things, right? Forget about the smoking. She's smoking. I don't know why. But what you do there is really talk about kings and fetishes, right? Yes. Mm-hmm. Talk about kings and fetishes, all kinds. I take viewer emails and read them and respond. Mm-hmm. So listen, all you people that email me looking for advice, I can't stand typing or writing, I don't do it, I don't give advice. So go to Abby's channel and go ask her because that's what you do. Like, you like answer those emails. So questions about hot wiping, the lifestyle fetishes, like you, like you said a million

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