Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1243 - GIRL TALK: Blowjobs, Anal Action, DVP vs. DP and More

Episode Date: October 8, 2025

Tune in to hear both Kathy and Erics talk about blowjobs, anal action, DVP vs DP and more. Tune in to hear all the details including how Erica feels about blowjobs and why she prefers giving over receiving it, deep throating versus regular blowjobs, eye contact and dirty talk and why its sometimes hard for a woman to talk dirty during sex, anal sex and when Erica first got into it, how she goes about doing DP with her bf and husband, how she’s tried double anal and why she hasn’t mastered it yet, which she prefers DVP vs, DP and the difference in the organs from each,  Ericas prep routine for anal, her airport bathroom squirting quickie and exactly what went down, morning sex, fave times to have sex and fave positions as well as fave places to touch that turn women on plus a whole lot more. **To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://uberlube.com/discount/Strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code: STRICTLY for 10% off Uberlube aka the BEST Lube EVER ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2532-anonymous⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Use code: ANONYMOUS to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14-day money-back guarantee ⁠⁠⁠https://brooklynbedding.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use my promo code STRICTLY at checkout to get 30% off sitewide ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To get 10% off Drive Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order To get $15 OFF your female oxytocin arousal tablets and more, use code STRICTLY here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/xLQ3Jv⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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She talks about all the crazy things that she does DP, DVP. She talks about her anal prep. She explains a lot of really interesting things, like the difference between a DVP orgasm and a DP orgasm. She talks about how much she loves blowjobs. We talk about favorite sex positions, erogenous zones, orgasms, lube, you name it. We talk about it. It's super interesting, I think, conversation. Of course, Erica never disappoints in all her crazy.

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But anyway, I'm going to get right to and be right back on with Erica. Hey, Erica. Welcome back to the Strictly Notomous Podcast. How are you today? I'm doing well. Thanks for having me yet again. Oh, my God. You are like a co-host.

The co-host that keeps on giving. We normally do confessions. I have you on this time. We're going to do a Girl Talk episode. And we're just going to talk about sex. My guys love nothing more than girls. Hearing girls talk about sex. You're kind of a professional, you know.

When it comes to sex, I mean, can't you orgasm through a blowjob? I don't even know if that's a question for anyone except you. I have, yes. Yeah, I definitely have before. And it is, I love giving blow jobs. So I just get so turned on doing it. But sometimes I do come from it. Yeah, that's weird.

And you learn to do that by touching the top of your mouth, right? Isn't it something like you put the dick on the top of your mouth and it stimulates you or something? Yeah, it's like that little soft spot, like right past, like, the curved part of your palate. Right. Kathy, you just called me weird. I just want to, like, go back to that. Wait, what did I say? What did I exactly say?

When you said, I can come from a blow job, you said, yeah, that's weird. I mean, maybe that's, yeah, maybe I'm just jealous. I'm sorry, maybe I'm just jealous. There's a lot of things I wish I could do that you could do, like, deep throating. Can you deep throat, too? You can talk about that a little bit more. It depends on the guy as well. Oh, really?

You mean on the shape of the dick or whatever? I mean, we could like, let's, you know, we're going to answer some questions. Let the first one be all about blowjobs, okay? Let's start with blowjob questions. Okay. So you could, you love giving blow jobs. We know that. So that's a great topic for you.

So you could orgasm from them. I cannot. Okay, I'll answer some of them. But I feel like your answers are going to be so much better than mine. Do you swallow or sped? I know what the answer is. I mean, I'm a good girl, so I swallow. Yeah.

And do you enjoy it? I love it. I love giving blow jobs. It's just, you know, it's like floorplay for me. Like if I'm giving my guy a blowjob, I get so wet and turned on. Like, I just, a lot of times my husband will be like, oh, like, come sit on my face. And I'm like, no, just put your cock inside me because I'm so turned on. That's interesting.

So, you know, so maybe this could just be an oral sex section where I do answer the like going down on girls questions too. Like, so you actually prefer to give an orgasm over having him go down on you. Yeah, I definitely prefer to give oral versus receive it. Wow. My answer would be the opposite. Though I don't, listen, I don't mind giving blow jobs. I give great blow jobs. I love to turn a man on, like pleasing someone turns me on, but I'm not like, oh, my God.

put your cock in my mouth kind of girl, which, you know, I know that guy's love. And that's why I think in a blowjob contest, you would win because I think, you know, across the board man or woman, I think anything that you, like, if you love something so much, you're going to do it great, right? Like, you don't need any kind of skill or tricks or anything. Like, if you love nothing more than a cock in your mouth and you love swallowing cum, you're going to give the best head ever. You can't, even if you're not doing it, right? Because that comes through, I think. I mean, I think enthusiasm is like half, you know, half of the effort. And I do think that it just comes through.

I mean, it's all about like the eye contact, the enthusiasm, like how just kind of like greedy you are for the for the cock. Like men love that. Yes. And they do. You mentioned something that I'm not really that into, which is eye contact. You like, oh, love it to you. You like, like, you like to make eye contact when you're giving a guy a blowjob. It's kind of like teasing him.

I do. I love it. Especially when you get that feedback of like, oh, yeah, look at me, baby. Oh, that just gets my. I'm getting wet, just thinking about it. That's how much you like it. Now, I would feel the same way, like, about oral sex for me. Like, I, like, to me, if a guy loves going down on girls, which most guys do, you know,

but you know that one guy that, like, fucking loves it. like he's this like a favorite thing he could just do it all day long and I could just sit there and read the paper those are my favorite guys you know and that guy is always so good at it do you know what I'm saying like I actually always talk about bedricated I think it's like my sponsor this week too and I they do have an oral set their oral sex courses by the way I'm just going to tell you about like you could like there's a blow drop course I just watched it they show you like it's a real girl blowing a guy like in real life you know and they show you different moves like sucking on the tip of the cock and they teach you all these different tricks and stuff to do and you could see it

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it's not necessarily like a warm up for me oh I like that that's interesting part of the flow And then once I've already like come a few times and just really, I'm like really turned on, then I love having him eat my pussy. But it's just, I guess I should say like it's not a four play thing. Yeah, it's interesting because I do have different sections of questions, you know, and one is for play, one is anal, one is just like basic sax, you know. And so we'll get to like what then is your favorite warmup. So remember that you'll be answering that.

It's interesting that it's not that. and but you love so let's stick to the blow jobs do you like so you do swallow and you enjoy it and you can deep throat and do you feel like a guy enjoys it more than regular like blowjobs like do you notice the difference between how the guys react to deep throating and regular blowjobs I mean I would say that it's if I'm deep throting my husband it's usually like in the middle of more of like a rougher scene. Like I might be like my head might be off the bed. Maybe my hands are tied up and he's like fucking my throat that way.

Yeah. If I'm just full up like if I, if he's just laying there and I'm sucking his talk like every like once in a while I'll take it all the way down my throat. But I don't necessarily do that as like my normal, you know, blow job routine. You know, listen, I was surprised to, like, it's part of a scene. Yeah, and I was surprised to hear that. Like, some guys have told me, like, oh, it's not like it feels that much better. It's just different, you know? Whereas I think, especially if you watch that thing I'm educated and it shows you all these different, like, kind of flickers and moves and sucking things and using your hand at the same time and doing it all the right way, just a regular blowjob without any kind of deep throating is killer.

Because most of the sensitivity, you know, is in the top part. Yeah. One thing that my husband in particular likes is right past that spot, like where the skirt button is in your mouth, like where your mouth kind of goes up. Like he likes if I kind of put his cock there and like kind of, I don't know, like, stimulate the head of his cock with that like little space up there. Wait, wait, wait, right on the top. No, that's a great tip. It's like past the palette, like right kind of where your throat starts, but like at the top. of your mouth. He likes it if I'm kind of like jerking his cock. And he's really big. He's like nine

inches. So there's a lot of cock to work with. So like the head is up kind of in that nook of my mouth. And then I'm like stimulating the base with my hand and just kind of like moving my head to stimulate his the tip. Oh, interesting. So it's like rubbing around it or something? Like what's going on for him? Yeah. And then my tongue is kind of like, you know, licking the. bottom. Interesting. It's like a full like hand mouth movement. Yeah, which I think should always be done.

Do you know what I mean? I think like using your hand. And do you grip the whole cock with all your fingers or just with the one finger and the thumb? Because I feel like that's two different moves. I use my whole hand. But he's also both of my guys are really thick. So I feel like I need my whole hand to get around.

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fingers or just with the one finger and the thumb? Because I feel like that's two different moves. I use my whole hand, but he's also, both of my guys are really thick. So I feel like I need my whole hand to get around thorough dicks. No, but like, you know how if you use. I haven't such a small pack in a long time. No, because sometimes you could just use just your pointer finger and your thumb, right? So you have this like thing going up and down as opposed to like if you use your whole hand, it's much more of a tighter kind of a feel.

And I think switching off and off and all. You know what I'm talking about. Right. So I don't think I've ever used two fingers. You use the whole thing. I'll have to try it. Yeah, but I use my whole hand. I think the whole thing is way better. That takes it over the time. That's what everyone wants. I think you could start with the little thing and then you get to the whole hand because that's really like what anal sex feels like. Do you know what I mean? Like it's that whole tight feeling. Yeah. The whole flinch. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's funny. Yeah. So I just think that like I also like to ask my partners like what feels good. good. You know, like, not like, does this feel good? Does that feel good? But like, if you are kind of doing a move, then you look up at them, you're like, you know, do you like that? She's kind of like sexy. I'd like to get that feedback from my partners. And so you obviously like, you obviously like dirty talk. I love dirty talk. Yeah. And guys love it. There's no guy that doesn't like it. Do you find that they always feel comfortable talking back to you? Oh, yeah, for sure. And I think that like, I'm more of a risk.

seever of dirty talk because in my mind I might be thinking a bunch of things and it's not because I'm like embarrassed or intimidated to say something in the moment. It's more of I'm so wrapped up in it that the words are not coming out of my mouth. But I absolutely love dirty talk. Yeah, I think and that makes sense I think sometimes and I don't know what it's like for a guy when they have sex, but I think for women, I think in order for us to really get into it, why it takes us a little bit longer than guys is that we have to really get out of our heads, right? Because our heads have a million things going on.

We just have a lot. We're like doing a lot more at one time and our brains are full of it, you know? And so I think by the time you let go of all that and you're so freaking horny, it makes sense that it's hard to like go back to that part of your brain and think of things to say and whatever because you're like fucking gone. and just in the moment and between your legs where you need to be. Don't you think? And I think, yes, I think that getting to that point, I mean, that is probably one of my number one goals of sides is just to get to that brain turnoff moment.

And I will say it to my guy. I'll be like, oh, my God, like I'm fucking out of my mind right now. And he knows, my husband knows that means that he's really gotten me to that place that I need to be. and it it's just the best yeah and that's not like right before orgasm that's like when we're just like to me that's like where I just want to start

and then I want to drag that shit out because that's the best place for a woman to be considering all the shit we have in our head all the time like eventually when you get to that place where it's when you can really lose your fucking mind that's like ecstasy right and I've dragged that shit out I know I mean that's and it's hard to do I mean

if you're just fucking your husband on a Tuesday night, it's very hard to get to that point. Like, the sex might still be good. But I love sex when it's like a, you know, Saturday morning and you have some time just to enjoy each other and relax. That, that to me is just top of the mountain. Yeah. Oh, my God.

You're answering so many of my questions that I have written down. But let me, let's go to our next category, which would be anal sex. You are a three-impical girl, right? I am. And when, do you remember when you tried it like your first time? Oh my God. I think I've talked about this before, but I had a boyfriend in college who was six foot four.

He was a really big guy. He had been a college lacrosse player and, you know, very muscular. But he had a really small dick. And I didn't think you were going there. I don't know why. At first, like the first couple times we hooked up, I thought it was an optical illusion because he had big balls too. It was like everything about him was big except for his actual penis. Wow.

So we started doing a lot of anal and found that, you know, his balls were so big. Like he stuck me in the ass from behind and his balls would slot my clit and it was really great. So that's how I kind of first and like kind of got into anal. And then I'll say I kind of gave it up for quite a while. And when my husband and I first started seeing each other almost five years ago, he and I got back into it. Oh, so you went a very long time. It was just not something that you did with any guys. And now with your guy, because you're very into D.P.

And all that shit. So you're doing anal all the time. Yeah. Because you got two guys to satisfy. So you need to use both places. I do. I do. And my boyfriend's favorite, like his all-time favorite thing is anal.

That's his number one kink and preferred, I'll say. So when you do D.P. Is he always on top? Yes, always. And is your guy fine with that because he likes the regular sex? Like, I mean, he's not so obsessed with anal himself? Yeah. I mean, he's not as obsessed with anal and he likes, if we're doing giddy pee, for example, he likes to be on the bottom because he likes to be like kissing me and watching my face.

So it's a mutually, you know, everybody has kind of their favorite. And so we're able to work everyone's favorite into that scenario. Oh yeah, that makes sense because you're facing him in that scenario and then your boyfriend's on top of behind. Yeah. And that's where he wants to be because he loves anal. Yeah, so it works out quite well. We've tried, I know we talked about it one time, but we have tried double anal again. Oh, you have. You're crazy. But we haven't mastered it. I'll say it's still an emerging skill that we're working on. It's hard is what you're saying to get them both in?

It's very difficult. It's very difficult. It's so like DVP, like two hawks in the vagina, like logistically is a little bit. easier because that classic DP position works really well for DVP. But just the way I think my anatomy is, it doesn't work as well for like me to be facing my husband and then my boyfriend from behind and get two cocks in that way in my ass. So we have to do it where it's like reverse cowgirl and then I'm like leaning back. And that position is so popular in porn. But in reality, it's like not that comfortable.

or that easy to go off. Yeah, I can't even imagine it in my head. But I didn't even think about the DVP, like two dicks in your vagina at the same time, like being the same DP experience. That makes sense. That's an easy way to get them both in. I was always assuming that there's two guys between your leg, shove on the bin at the same time. And I've always wondered like, how the fuck does that happen? And I feel like some people that told me that they haven't been able to master DVP, they don't realize that's the way to do it. The guy on top, guy in the bottom and they both put in right there. And I feel like that hole is like right in the middle. So it's perfectly easy to do it. Yeah. I find it very easy. We don't have any trouble like transitioning to that. Like a lot of times

if we're having a threesome and we're spit roasting or I'm sucking both of them. I'll just tell them like I want both of your dicks in my pussy and we just we know what to do next. And it's pretty simple. This isn't a question that I would ask anyone else except you. Like what do you prefer deep or DVP? It's different. So, like, I love my pussy being stretched. Like, I love being fisted. I love that, like, kind of more extreme deal.

So DVP definitely fulfills that. And I love having, like, both my guys summoned my pussy at the same time. That, to me, is so fucking naughty. And we've gotten it kind of down to a science, and they will come, like, almost simultaneously and feeling two Cox in the same hole at the same time is fucking unbelievable. And that must push you over the edge, too. So that's all of you coming at the same time, right? It's like a triple.

It's like a triple orgasm. It's pretty crazy. I personally think that when you come at the same time as your partner from whatever you're doing, that is like the hottest top of the mountain moment. It is the hottest. Yeah. For sure. It's so hot.

And you get three people doing it. I know. It's great. I'm a lucky girl. And I would say D. D.P. is also amazing because you're feeling both holes, you know, being stretched, being fucked.

And you just, it's like that. It's more of an overwhelming feeling than DVP is for me. Oh, that's interesting. That's a good way to explain it. Yeah, I like both. I probably slightly prefer DVP, but it just kind of depends on the moment and the vibe. Oh, I love that. I mean, you know, did you always, when was your first DVP?

Like, was that something you did when you were really young, or was it when you just got with this guy that you're with? So I've done DVP and DP with a couple different, like with my husband and then other partners. maybe like three or four other partners, but it's never been as regular as it is now. Like I would say we probably do either DEP or DVP like once a month now. Well, who was it about your life? Like who was the first person that rose their hand and said, hey,

this is what I want to do? Like was it you because you were like fantasizing about it and suggested it or was it the guy that you were with and then you realized you fucking loved it? It was, I think it was definitely with my husband. And he and I just kind of talked about different fantasies. And one of them was D.P, I think. And then I think D. I think we did D.P first.

And then we did DVP. But he was probably going to listen to this episode and be like, Erica. This is actually how it went. Yeah, I get it. I get it. It's hard because you're also, it's like this is something that you do all the time. So it's not like so stand out for you. You know, what before that?

Because like I've always mocked up D.P. And I was always like, oh, that's like the hottest thing. It feels really amazing. I know what it feels like. But never with like real, you know, two guys, you know, but I would lock it up with my guy and a toy. So I'm like, were you, did you do that like in your relationships before you did it in real life? No, never.

Oh, interesting. I mean, I don't think I ever. So, you know, prior to five years ago, I was just in a very vanilla marriage. And so for since I was 21 years. years old. So I hadn't had a lot of naughty experiences. Like my ex-send and I, we never played with toys. We never fantasized. We never dirty talked. We did do some like girl on girl play very, very, very early on in our relationship. But we never talked about it. And then after we started having kids and like life got really busy, we had just maintenance vanilla sex once a week. And that was it.

We didn't ever explore. I don't know that I didn't really realize that about you. I know that like, you know, because I got a little bit of your backstory, but it was just a little bit of how you met your new husband. You know, so let me ask you this though. Was Erica, even though you were having vanilla sex and weren't using toys where did you know that you had all of this inside of you? You just kept it to yourself? Or did you not even know that you could be this hardcore and into all the stuff until you sort of, you know, got with this guy? I definitely would have never imagined that I would have, that I would do the things that I do now. I think I had some fantasies. I definitely had a Gang Bang fantasy. I had some like rough sex fantasies, but I never, ever would have imagined, you know, being where I am now. Okay, guys, want to give your partner mind-blowing orgasms with like the best oral sex they've ever had. Well, then you need to get Bejicated. Bejicated is like the Netflix of sex education. They have hundreds of courses to choose from on sex all in one place. They have all kinds of oral

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I definitely had a gang-bang fantasy. I had some like rough sex fantasies, but I never ever would have an imagined, you know, being where I am now. Yeah, that's so interesting. And let me just ask you this because so many women, like for me, I was like, oh, I love DP, like, you know, mocked up, but I would never do it in real life. I would never be with two guys. And now I feel like very different from hearing some of people that do it. Like, did you have any sort of shame about doing stuff like this in real life beforehand just because of all that sort of stuff and stigma that's put on a woman or once, like, were you like never felt any of that? No, I mean, I was actually just talking with Layla at the other.

other day and she and I were discussing just the society like the stigmas with women loving sex and like the like the normalcy of a woman rejecting her husband constantly and all those type of things and I will say I still struggle with having a another partner I still struggle with even wanting sex as much as I do I would you know, I'm probably the initiator in, you know, sex or like, you know, fooling around with my husband, like 90% of the time. And it's not because he doesn't want me. It's just that I have a very high drive. And I enjoy having sex every single day with my husband. So, you know, I, you know, since we get into that at night, I'm kissing him, you know, putting my hand in his box.

like I'm just ready to go. And I struggle with it because I think that that's not what we see normalized day to day. And I don't think that enough women kind of talk about being the ones that want sex all the time. Yeah, no, that's why it's like such a joke that I always talk about how like I was considered a whore and very slutty when I was younger. Because I don't do and never did really anything that people I talk to talk about on my show. I was like amateur hour. Like I had a three somewhat girls a couple times and stuff. But like never did I do anything that much.

But what I was was a girl who loved sex. I had a very high sex drive. I fucked whoever I wanted. I talked about sex and I didn't. I fucked guys that I wasn't dating. I fucked more than one guy at the same time. Like you know what I mean? I would have two guys that maybe I was banging because they weren't my boyfriends or you know what I mean?

Everyone knew and I was honest. But like that was so quote unquote slutty, you know, because it was like, like you said, just liking it and being open about it. was is even sort of looked at in a weird way because you're a check. I did a whole audiogram recently about this guy who called it and he's like my wife's not a slut walking around. He's like a guy literally calling me up and talking to me about his wife who's a hot wife who's fucking his friends and his coworkers and all that stuff.

And at some point during the conversation, just like, you know, and my wife wasn't like a, you know, she's not a slut. She's not like fucking every guy and walking around. I'm like, what are you talking about? Like, how can you even use that word? First of all, the definition, she kind of is a slut, and why is that bad? You know, and I literally post it as an audiogram because I'm like, I got to stick up for the sluts because why do women get shamed like that? And why does that, why is there that person that still exists in guys' mind that like, oh my God, she's such a slut, like she's untouchable, you know, she's a score.

Like, what is that, you know, woman that's like, you know, scorned because she likes. It's like, is that what you all want in bad? Well, it's what they all want in a fantasy partner. Yeah. But I think that a lot of guys, they want that, like, virginal woman that they can take home to mom. Yeah, well, that's why first wives and second wives are very different. I love that I love the, I'm second wife material. I was never first wife material.

I never wanted to stay home and cook and clean and cook for a guy. I would have rather killed myself and live that life. You know what I mean? And so I was, and I'm fine that I was never that girl. But I'm great second wife material. I got my shit together. I could take care of myself. I got my kid already.

Your parents are probably dead. we don't have you don't have to take me home everything's good you know it's like but there is a big I do think that guys pick a certain way and that's fine you know but it is like I think that's what it's all about but second wise they pick for hotness it's a different thing yeah I think that guys they pick they pick someone and they think that over time things are going to get better yeah and then it only gets worse so I think but you know I'm kind of kind of, I am a woman who, you know, I have a graduate degree, I have a career, I have all of my shit together, and you wouldn't necessarily know that I am so, you know, wild, because I'm not

somebody who's like a hot mass, and I think that that's the connotation, yeah, like a very sexual woman with being just a disaster. No offense to anybody. But I don't know how else to put it. You know, I don't drink. I don't go out and party. You know, I'm just a very quiet person. Like pretty much everything that I do, I do completely sober because I love it.

I don't need to alter myself. Yeah. And I'll tell you most of my really hardcore women that I talk to, maybe with the, like, maybe like one or two, maybe haven't been this way, are all very sober women that don't do it that way. I don't think that I would promote or have anyone on or those people don't sort of find my show because I don't think it lasts for that person or that person is just sort of acting out in a different way. Most people that are on my show are doing what they're doing very intentionally. It's their choice. It's all done with a clear head. And that's a big difference. Yeah. And I think that the guys that I'm with, you know, not only like my partners, but like just other, you know, if we're at a play party or whatever the case is, like they recognize. you know that I'm not drunk or anything like that to do it. I'm just doing it because I love to. Yeah. And that's, I think, always going to be the hottest thing is a woman that loves sex,

no different than a woman that loves blowjuffs. And a woman that's free. It doesn't feel the shame, you know. Let's get to anal, okay, because that was another thing on my less like you are. We already started with anal, right? I already asked you three, but that we're on in. Let's just circle back to it. Yeah, I'm sorry.

Let's circle back to it. You take me down all these paths. Do you use lube? Because I never used Loub. Okay. Okay. Okay. But I can tell you like my full routine. Okay. But wait. I just need to know. Okay. Because Uber Lub just became my sponsor. And I'm obsessed with fucking UberLub. And I'm just going to tell you because I never used

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And I'm like, how different can the lube really be, right? Like, that's what I'm thinking in my mind. So when they, they want to sign up for my show, I, like, they sent me a whole box. And I was like, holy shit, I use it as, like, to do a hand job for my guy. And I was like, this is. superior and completely different. It's like apples and oranges to any other lube out there. It's like and besides this, I'm just going to give some facts. I'm just going to tell you and then you're going to tell me your experience. Like it is like it has it's very

clean right, which I like because I don't like fucking chemicals. There's zero power bins or preservatives or petrochemicals and it stays on the surface of your skin. It does not enter into your bloodstream like water based lubs by the way. Okay. And it doesn't like it also doesn't it's safe and effective to use with condoms. It works. underwater. These are all the things that are like extra great on top. But what I love is the bottle looks high end and the product is as high end as it is. Like it feels silky smooth. It doesn't feel like a sticky gross mask. The lack of stickiness is top notch for me. I actually had tried it a little while ago because you sent me some and loved it. And then I bought some on my own.

and first of all oh yeah well I I love the bottle it's so cute like the bottle actually looks good on your nightstand yeah I'm a sucker for packaging I like things that look high end I wouldn't even call it cute

it's not even the proper word it just it's very yeah it looks really aesthetically pleasing yeah it looks like really nice I mean it looks as like I said it does it looks as high end as the product like a lot of times when you get a product that like is bad packaging. It's a bad product. This is killer packaging, killer product. I'm going to send you more. And I just want to tell people, if you haven't tried UberLub or you still use it, you can

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Okay, good. Yeah. So you use it for anal? I have. So I've used it for both. Like I am on a medication now that I do sometimes have some dryness. It doesn't have anything to do with arousal for me. I have some dryness.

So I've been using it for both and I've been really happy with it. Oh, that's awesome. Yeah. And listen, I think I was just. always overly wet. Like, I don't know. Maybe I do squirt and I just doesn't squirt out and that's why I'm, you know, I don't know. Maybe I've been squirting all this time, you know, because every guy be like, oh my God, you're soaking, like, you know, you're wet before I even go down there. Like, so, but where you, but I think a lot of people use it for actual sex, right?

Yeah. And I've never really needed to use lube for vaginal sex. And it's just kind of up and done for me. Like, like I said, I'm on a new medication. So sometimes I just feel like I'm not as as I would prefer to be. Yeah. So we'll just use a little bit of Loub and it's, you know, good to go. But I think also that was another thing like talking about stigma. Like once I started noticing that side effect and my doctor had actually told me like, hey, this might happen. I still started like getting in my head like, oh my God, is something wrong with me? But no, I mean, we all. We all, go through different things where, you know, our bodies might not be exactly the same as what they once were. So just use the loo. You're going to be happy. You did. Yeah, move on with it and don't. And listen,

I think the worst thing you could do is like, listen, it's bad enough if you get in your head, but if like your partner starts bringing up, like, why aren't you hard or why aren't you mad and takes it personally and everything? There's nothing worse than that kind of talk. You know, I always make a joke. I always tell the story about how, like, I had this one boyfriend who couldn't get up and he used cock rings. I was like so dysfunctionally attracted to him because he was like a fucking asshole, you know, and I was like dysfunctional like that. You know those dysfunctional guys that you want to fuck so bad because they're so wrong for you

and the sex is like insane, you know? So I was like just put it in soft. I don't care. Like that's how thorny I was for him because he was so bad. And the more I did that, like never once I look at his soft dick and be like, why are you not hard? Do you not like me? Which I think is sometimes, which I understand a lot of times what would happen in that

situation. And over time, his dick. It had no problem getting it up because I just treated him like a total sex object for so long that eventually it just stopped. It started. It was hard all the time. And then he got mad at me because I made him like sex too much. That's what he told me. How can you like sex too much?

Yeah. Well, because I personally think it was a control thing. I brought this up with a sex ever since she just like went on with it. But I think like, listen, sex is very controlling. Like look, like it made me fuck that guy that was so bad for me because I was just so horny. from and I couldn't get away. So it is very, it does control you. And if you were so Uber sort of focused on being in control of yourself and not letting go, you can become controlling that way and have issues getting off because it will control you. Look, he didn't even like me and he needed to

fuck me too. And I think he didn't like that because he was being controlled by it. I was being controlled by it too. I was fucking him as well. And he was the biggest douchebag. But I wasn't like mad about it. You know what I mean? He was. Yeah. Well, I also think that you are, you're very comfortable with uncomfortable emotions. That's a nice way of putting it. And not everybody is. Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That's a nice way putting it. I love uncomfortable emotions. It's like makes you feel alive.

I think that's an addict in me. Let's get back to the sex. Yeah. Let's get back to the sex. So anal, you love it. Anal. Anal. Let's go.

Okay. Well, so I just wanted to like give a little bit of a shout out to like my prep routine because this is something that I didn't know what to do. to prep for anal for quite a while. And I think I finally kind of mastered it. So I'm really into anal porn, too. I don't know if you're familiar with the porn star Rebel Rider,

but she does a lot of really hardcore, like double anal, gang bangs, the whole nine. And I ended up finding, like, an educational video that she had done about her anal prep routine. and it's kind of like just transformed my confidence in the anal realm. But one thing that she uses that I bought is an enema attachment for the shower. Oh. So I will use that to prep before having anal.

So it's just plain water. It's just plain water. Yeah. So after you use the bathroom and you're like getting ready to, you know, get yourself going for you know potential anal sex I will take a shower and then use that shower enema

and just that in and of itself it's kind of like more play for me because it feels so good and so I'll do that in the shower and it gets you so clean inside and like it's just deep no pun intended clean and so the confidence is really there but I've been super happy with it

You can use a little bit of the uber lube, like the silicone-based lobe in the shower, too, for the NMA head when you're inserting it. But you get super clean and just really confident. Okay, what comes next? Is that it? Is that just the only old... Well, so that's not it. So I also found this, I call it anal barbecue sauce.

It's called like anal fuck sauce or something. And it has a little bit of a numbing agent to it. Like you don't want to be totally numbed out obviously because you could get injured or worse. I just put a little bit on like the outside of my butt like just just the butt hole and that gets me ready for like a really intense anal scene with my guys. Interesting. Does it have a taste to it or just like is it, you know,

Do you know? It doesn't really have a piece because I've done like asked to mouth after. And I haven't noticed it. If you put too much, then it could numb the guy out too. So it's just like a little bit is all that you need. Okay. But also, like I was going through this thing where it was so turned on by anal that I would come so fucking hard. And then I would have to stop like within like two or three minutes of having my ass fuck.

So now I can just go, like I can still have an orgasm from anal, but it's not as intense as it was before. Oh, I like that because for me, that was always a thing. Like, and I'll ask you this question too. I would always say like when it comes to sex, there's anal, there's oral and there's regular sex. And I would say like, oh, like, you know, anal sex is the one I come the fastest from because once, like it's just because it's so intense that that's kind of interesting that that'll help you last longer. because then once you're done, it's like, get the fuck out. Yes, because there's like, you can't recover from those really intense anal orgasms. You're just like, don't touch me, get away from me.

So, yeah, I've found that the numbing gel definitely helps with that. And we've gotten to the point where I've had, like, huge gaites from the anal. And that, to me, is, like, the hottest thing, like, the gating or, like, the anal cream pies. Like we've gotten a few really hot videos of me like pushing to come out of my ass afterwards. And that is. Does someone clean it up? Dirty. Does someone clean it up?

I know. I'm going to get a lot of messages about that. Oh my God. But wait and ass to mouth, you enjoy that? I do. Yeah. I enjoy it all, Kathy. Yeah.

Listen, I think when it comes to sex when you're in the middle of it, like, you know, because some people like, that's what I never understand. so when girls like sort of spit and don't swallow or people are like I'll do this but I won't do that because it's like sometimes like when you get to sex like I don't know I don't really have that many like ew I can't go there because like you know like I would go down and eat a guy's ass I'm not thinking about what the fuck some people would never because God forbid right no I do but you kind of got to just like you know just go for it who cares because you just got to go for it yeah if you have OCD about all of it you're not going to do anything because it is if you really think about a lot of it's fucking gross

right? And then so then I draw the line that like I will not ever share a toothbrush with my husband. Like that's where I draw the line. Like I will. Ask to mouth but no toothbrush. Exactly. Yeah. I will like fucking like lick his asshole all day long.

But do not do not even think about putting your toothbrush in my mouth. Oh, yeah. I could ask you a billion questions on this, but I'm going to stay focused on sex because I want to ask you, do you sit on toilet bowls in public, blah, blah, blah. Like I can just go on with OCD questions about dirty shit. Okay, let's stay focus. I want to stay focused because you're always, you're so hardcore. Okay, so then at your prep and then you use Lou.

And then, you know, I mean, don't you need to be very turned on too? Kathy, but the time we've done all that shit with the shower and the warm up. You're ready to go. Yeah. I mean, I'm very, I am like a mental. like just the idea like if I know like oh my god like my boyfriend's going to come over and he's just gonna like fuck this you know fuck my ass I was gonna say the shit out of my ass but that's just not a good way to put it yeah exactly he's gonna like destroy me like I'm already turned on I'm turned on just

thinking about it so you're but so that has really a part of your prep because it's just natural that just knowing that this is going to go down you've already you know that's why you're prep It is something planned ahead of time. Yes. And I don't, I mean, okay, so I was just going to say I don't always prep. So the other night, I had actually picked my boyfriend up from the airport because he had been traveling for work. And we got to baggage claim. And I had already scouted out that there was a family restroom, like right around the corner from where his bags were coming.

So as we were waiting for the bags, I said to him and I said, do you want to go to my car after this? Or do you want to go check out the family bathroom that I found? And he said the bathroom. So we went, we got his bags, we went to the restroom, locked the door. And he was already rock hard because we had been, you know, just kind of kissing and dirty talking at the baggage claim. Oh, my God. And he, I was wearing a little skirt with a body suit, which I don't, I should have just worn a shirt. I don't know why I wore a body suit, but he moved, you know, the thong to the side, pushed me up against the wall and just started fucking my pussy from behind.

And I squirted it all over the bathroom floor. And then he used the squirt in like my pussy juice as lube and just shoved his dick into my, ass and fucked my ass in the airport bathroom and gave me a huge cream pie. Oh my God. So that was a spontaneous anal adventure the other night. How come I've never got that story out of you? Oh, because it's recent. It would just happen three days ago.

Oh, my God, you never disappoint. Are you loud? I mean, this was one of my questions. Like, you know, it was, I know you dirty talk, but like, are you loud when you have sex? Like, I mean, how did you keep your mouth shut? Like, what the fuck's going on in that bathroom? Do you think people knew?

He was telling me, I was trying to be super quiet and he was like, shh, he was like, shh. He was like, baby, shh. Like, I'm sorry. You know, I was trying. But we had actually filmed a bunch of it. And my husband said that he could hear people like talking outside, you know, in the back of the video. So I'm sure people heard us in that bathroom. Oh my God.

And then see you come out. Yeah. You have to know. You know what I mean? That's so. Yeah, that's a great story. I got to tell you. that poor family. It was a really hot situation. I did clean up the squirt. They thankfully had paper

towels in there because if they had just had like a hand dryer, that would have been disaster. I was going to ask you. I mean, it just sounds like you're horny girl all the time. Like when it gets to like the sex questions, like it's like favorite position. What's what's your like how do you like to, you know, what's your first favorite four play to start things off? But it's also like what's the favorite time of day that you like to have sex? I know you have a specific time. Correct. 11 a.m. Yeah, 11 a.m. Now, was that when that flight landed?

Is it 11 a.m.? No, I did it. But I was just going to say it's 11 o'clock right now. So, Kathy, we got to go in a minute. Okay, we only have five minutes left. Don't worry. But, yeah, I think, I don't know, like, what my hormonal cycle is. Like, I mean, I have a full-time job.

So it's really only on the weekends if I have the time that I get to indulge in my 11 a.m. Forney time. but I would say I'm the least horny in the morning and kind of peek around midday. But I need, like, I love to have just, even if it's just quick, like sex right before I go to sleep. So my husband and I probably, you know, six nights out of seven during the week will have sex before we go to sleep. And it just kind of like winds me down. I love to feel that closeness with him. And it doesn't have to be like some crazy shit.

It's just. Yeah, you could just be spooning. Yeah, you could just be spooning. Yeah, I love that position. Me too. I love the spoon. Me too. That's probably one of my favorites, especially like that way, you know, the guy can be like

rubbing your clit and you're just relaxed and it's just, it just feels so good. That is one of my favorite positions too. I know you do. Reverse cowboy or facing? I like both. I love, like, if I'm doing reverse and kind of, and leaning forward, I love the way that that makes me squirt so much. But I also love facing. Like, I love, I'm a big kissers.

I love to kiss during sex. So that's a favorite. I also enjoy, like, I don't, they call it, like, lazy dog or, like, prone, though, where you're laying, like, on your belly getting fucked from behind. that feels super good to me. Yeah, that hits a spot. That's interesting. I like that. That hits a spot.

And that is like, I know we kind of talked about like random things that turn you on. Like if we're doing that and like one of my guys like whispers like something naughty in my ear, I just immediately will come from that. Like that's just the whispering during like dirty top in my ear. That's a huge turn on. Face down. I also like the position for some. for some reason, and I think it's hitting me in a certain way, where the guy is laying down, and then I'm laying down with my back on him.

Do you get, you know what I'm talking about that? So that would, yeah, so that's what I find tricky, because that's what I need to do for double anal. And I'm, like, not good at it. You've got to teach you. You really have to, you know, you have to move, like, you know, it's really up to you to sort of do it. But I don't know why I've always loved that. But I also love the, also love the spooning one. And I do like to be woken up in the middle of the night and fucking.

because it makes you feel like you're like on drugs having sex. It feels good. I love that too. I only have one guy that would do that. You don't have to go to work the next day. Yeah. Because you don't want to stay after me. That's a weekend activity.

Yeah, yeah. I had one booty call guy that way I would sleep over and we do it. You know, now that I have a kid, I don't do any of this fun shit anymore right now. Like I'm waiting for him to go to not need me. You know, I'm a single mom. So it's like, you know, I miss those days of having that, you know, real relationship. I just have a booty call guy, you know, and I just feel like. like would have that real relationship with somebody, you know, when they're sleeping over all the time and

everything, there's so much more fun to be had. You know, I do like morning sacks. I like to be fucked with me. You know, I could get horny at any real time. You know, what is your favorite way to start off? That's my last question. Like, what, you know, what is the way to get Erica, like, so horny, you know, immediately? The thing is probably my number one turn on. Yeah. I love to kiss. I love, like, the feeling of like hands on my body doesn't have to be like touching me in a sexual way like I love a firm touch yeah you know the little things like the little intimacies and they really turn me on like if I'm at the kitchen sink doing dishes and my husband just comes up and starts like kissing

the back of my neck that is like such a turn on like that's an erratia I once had a guy go down on my back, like in a certain area. Oh, yeah. In the middle of like my spine and my shoulder on the top in the middle. And I was like, what the fuck is that? I could have like come from it. It was like the hottest fucking thing. And afterwards I'd be like making every guy, could you suck and kiss on that part

of my back? I don't know why. Same with armpits. This is my last question. Like, have you ever tried to go, like, have someone go down on your armpit? Oh my God. I have had one guy that, that licked my armpit. Yeah.

But it was part of like a great. greater like body worshiping session and it was very hot. It is. And I, you know, it's the, it's kind of like the same as being enthusiastic with a blowjob. If you have a guy who's like taking his time to like just kiss around your body and give you like a massage or you just feel like he's worshipping your body, that is such a huge turn on. Yeah, that's the stuff that I miss.

Like when I was younger, had more of that kind of sex because it's so time consuming, you know what I mean? But like when, you know, with my guys, Louie, like, you know, just, like, they could literally just take the finger and rub it, you know, run it down the side of your body anywhere where, you know, like go touch every little thing and just extend that foreplay with just light touch and teasing for like 45 minutes. It's like the hottest fucking thing. And that's like all good. And there's so many spots. I think anywhere where you could be tickled is going to be an erogenous zone. And then there's like, I mean, look, you found an erogenous zone in your mouth.

I mean, we're coming full circle here because we're ending it so you could go fuck because it's 11 a.m. But I mean, like I feel like there's so many different places on your partner and your girl that you could get her turned on. You just got to find out where those places are. But I personally think anywhere where you're tickled, you know, even it's the inside of your arm, the back of your knee, the sides of your body underneath your armpits, right?

Like those are all erogenous cells. I agree. Yeah. Yeah. I just think, you know, you have to just kind of let yourself go and like, let yourself explore and be explored and you're going to discover things. Yeah, totally. Yeah, I'm a little jealous that you have all this great sacks and I just have a booty call. We're going to end it. It's okay. I love my son. Like, I'm not focused on it right now. I'm single mom, but I don't even want to say that.

I want to end it in a different way. So listen, Erica, I need to let you go, right, so you could do your thing. You've given me another great episode. This is a great girl talk episode. I'm going to air it as a girl talk episode because it's super fun. We were going to do a Confessions episode, but we switched to this and I thought it was super fun because, you know, you never. think that you have any more stories for me, but you always do, okay? You really always do. You never disappoint. I try. We just have the best time. I always enjoy recording with you and just, you know, having that time with you. So I appreciate it. I'm going to send you some more Uber Lou, okay? Because you deserve it. I would have sent it to you if you told me. Thanks so much for calling in again, Erica. And tell me some hot picks with it, okay, for my Patreon. You're always good for that. Okay, I will. Okay. All right. Bye, Erica. Thanks. Bye.

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