Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1261 - NAUGHTY CONFESSIONS: She's Having Threesomes with her Wife and Other Men, He Just had his First MMF, She's Into Watersports and More w/Lara

Episode Date: October 29, 2025

Tune in to hear a bunch of naughty confessions and then hear Lara and Kathy’s take on them. You’ll hear first from a guy who just had his first surprise MMF threesome, then from a guy who enjoys online camming behind his girlfriend’s back, then from a guy who enjoys sniffing his wife’s panties and last from a woman who is having threesomes with men with her wife?! Then you’ll hear Kathy talk about the confessions as well as discuss Lara's threesome experience with mfm vs. mmf threesomes and which one she enjoys more, her exhibitionism and how far she can take it, when and why Lara goes to porn and her fave go to porn star, the extreme things she enjoys watching, how and why Lara loves he sweating ball smell? Lara’s water sport experience with her bf and exactly what went down, how Lara accidentally became poly and how she deals with it and keeps both her hubby and her bf happy, her fave threesomes and why they are her fave plus a whole lot more **To see HOT pics LARA plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://uberlube.com/discount/Strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code: STRICTLY for 10% off Uberlube aka the BEST Lube EVER ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2532-anonymous⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Use code: ANONYMOUS to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14-day money-back guarantee ⁠⁠⁠https://brooklynbedding.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use my promo code STRICTLY at checkout to get 30% off sitewide ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To get 10% off Drive Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order To get $15 OFF your female oxytocin arousal tablets and more, use code STRICTLY here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/xLQ3Jv⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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with my favorite confession co-host, which is Erica. She's the best. She always adds a great confession of her own, which is super hot and has to do with the water sports. We go through four different other confessions. There is a lot of sniffing of panties going on, but we do start off first with a guy who thought he was just going to have his first experience with a guy, and it turned into his first threesome with a guy and his ex-wife. And the whole way it came about that he found out it was his ex-wife and that he found out it was his ex-wife

and that he found out he was having a threesome is kind of funny, and he goes into details about that whole threesome and what happened. And like I said, it's kind of funny, the ending. And then we have a guy who likes to go online behind his girlfriend's back and just chat with strangers and jerk off while he's on webcam with them. Whenever he has a free chance, he loves to do that. I'm sure that's like a thing that plenty of guys enjoy. So that's that confession I added in because I think it's probably not so as rare as you

think. You know, I'm sure, you know, his girlfriend would be horrified, but I bet you a lot of guys might wind up doing that kind of a thing. Then we hear from a guy who loves sniffing panties. Now, that's another thing that I know is a thing, so much so that I talk about what I used to do with my panties just because I thought, like, guys were sniffing my panties. Erica is funny with this one, because she talks about how she totally gets the whole sniffing things and feels like she'd be into that if she was a guy. And then she gives her great confession and that has to do with water sports. She also confess, as I got to say, to being into this porn store called Rebel Rider and actually

talking with her and they're going to hook up. So we need to make that happen. She talks about that. And then we end with a confession with a girl who's married to a woman. So it's, you know, two lesbian and a lesbian wife and how they're having like tons of threesomes with other guys that now they even have a quote unquote boyfriend kind of and lots of other guys and they're doing it a lot. And let me tell you, I have their whole episode on tape already. So you're going to get the whole long story here. Me and Erica will talk about their short story.

And it goes into a lot on polyamory and having extras in your marriage and bringing a third in. Because Erica does have a husband and a boyfriend. And she talks a lot about that stuff. She always gives hot details on this. You hear all these crazy confessions. And then you hear lots of crazy stuff from Erica as usual. So it's a fun episode. I'm going to get right to and be right back on with the first confession. And then after each confession, me and Erica talk about it. Here's the first confession. Hey, Kathy.

So I have a confession about my first MNF threesome. I had had two MFM threesomes where the husband and I just pleasureed the wife, but no contact. But this was my first MNF where the guy and I played. And it was a surprise because I've been curious about playing with guys, but hadn't pulled the trigger. But listening to your show, I really wanted to experiment, and I heard about that app snippies. And so I was on a work trip and had finally gotten up the courage after chatting with a guy on there and said, okay, come over. I'm on a work trip.

coming to my hotel at this time and let me know when you're here because I had some co-workers who were also staying in the same hotel and I wanted to know he was here so he could just flip them in very quickly but so he messages saying I'm on the elevator up and I'm watching to the people and because I'm very close to the elevator and two people like walk up to my door and I first like this person's got the wrong room where these two people but then he like watch and I quickly open it and he says, hey, I brought a friend and it's a woman that I'm seeing and I'm like, oh, and I was a little thrown off and he said, she really would like to watch us play. And in my head, I'm like, shit, the first time I'm playing with a guy I've got an audience,

but I say, oh, I'll come in and not make yourself comfortable and there's a little couch that's right across from the bed and I kind of follow his leave. We get naked and he starts sucking me And then on the bed, I switch and I'm sucking him a little bit. And we start 60-90 kind of. And I catch my breath and I look up and she's standing right there at the edge of the bed. And she's biting her lip and just like really looking like she's enjoying it. And like make eye contact with me. And I said, oh, do you want to join in?

Because she looked like she was just like really like enjoying it and wanting in on the action. And she, like, quickly takes the clothes off and jumps in and she starts sucking me. And he's laying there watching. And then she sucks him some. And then she jumps up and starts riding me. And then I'm laying back. She's riding me. And then he goes around back and starts fucking her in the ass while she's riding me.

And it felt amazing. I'd never done D.P. before and and then he stops and she's riding me I come and then he starts fucking her again and she comes while she's still like on top of me I'm just kind of like sucking your tits and making out her he comes and she comes and then they get up they start getting dressed and he's like hey I hope that was a nice surprise for you and she goes surprise you told me that he was on board with this He said, well, I mean, I was just kind of nervous.

I didn't know, you know, want to overwhelm him being his first time. And then she said, you just, you never can communicate. If you had to communicate when we were married, then we would have been able to have a lot more fun. And I said, oh, you guys aren't married. And he said, we used to be. But we split up because I wanted to go play with guys and I didn't have the nerve to tell her. And she said, I always knew it. I could always tell that you liked guys that you had, there was something to you.

And look, we could have been doing this a lot more that you had. I've been a good communicator. You can't even communicate with the guy who's cocky about to suck. And he goes, oh, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I hope you're not mad. And I said, no, I mean, it was a nice, yeah, it was a nice surprise. But yeah, I think she's right. Just be up front and hope you guys have a good day.

And I'm about to start grabbing my clothes to get dressed. And he goes, real quick, before you get dressed, can I just lick her pussy juices off of your cock? And so, yeah, so I just laid back and he sucked. was stuck in me and some more, and I started getting hard. And then she sucked me a little bit more. And then they say, okay, thanks a lot. And they get up and we say goodbye. So that was my first M.M.A.

threesome and my first guy on guy type of action, which was, I don't think I'll be able to top that one again. But all right, thank you. Okay, Erica, this is the first one. I always like to kick it off with like a good story. I mean, you've had a lot of MMF threesomes. I'm going to end with some threesomes with a woman, okay? But this is a threesome with a guy.

I mean, there was a woman involved, and it's kind of funny because he, like, didn't know there was going to be a woman involved. He just wanted to play with the guy. And then the funniest part to me was at the end when the woman's like, oh, yeah, used to be my husband. And, like, you know, I want to know that whole story because, like. Oh, my gosh. They used to be husband and wife, but he turns out he was into guys or didn't tell her.

So they got divorced. But now they're back at it. And they're like, seducing men together, but she didn't even know that the guy didn't know. Oh, man. Let's go. I mean, like, would you ever, like, are those, like, red flags in a threesome when you're, like, thinking to have a threesome that, like, this kind of stuff goes down?

Yeah, for sure. I could see a lot of red flags right there. But you also don't necessarily know going in. Like, if you're just chatting with somebody on an app and they're, you know, saying what they're into and then you set up a play date. You don't really know their backstory because they are really still a stranger to you. No, I know. I mean, and it really is.

It always is a crapshoot. I think it's kind of interesting that I get so many success stories on my show because there's probably so many, you know, fucked up stories out there of people like literally being catfished or winding up like things going very awry. I love those kind of swing or gone wrong stories or hookup got wrong stories, you know, for sure. But I mean, like, what do you prefer? because this guy said he's done some male female male threesomes, but this was his first male, male, male, female threesome.

Like, do you prefer a male, male, female threesome? Because, like, there's no holding back. Like, that's what I've heard that those kinds of threesomes are really great, because everyone could do everything with everyone. Yes. I mean, it's definitely, like, a higher degree of, like, erratic energy when you have just total exchange of, you know, whatever goes. Yeah, yeah. So I've only been an MMS with like oral. I've never experienced anything beyond oral, but it's definitely a different vibe than MFM. The one thing that like I like both,

I wouldn't really want to do an MFM with somebody who wasn't comfortable with like DVP or like that incidental dick touching. So like the person needs to at least be open to Oh, even in an MFF. Even one where they're not hucking up. You don't want, you want someone that's okay with like guys cross-a. And what do you find like real quick?

Like, do you find that most guys are okay with that or do you feel like most guys are really freaked out about that? No, I would say most guys are into that. Exactly. You think when their dick is hard and they're horny, they're going to be like, oh, I can't depee you because God forbid my leg might touch another guy. Like they're all sort of reason goes out of your head for every. Everybody within men. You know what I mean? It's like when you're horny, you're like drunk and out of your mind that I think most guys are like forget about crossing swords.

Even if they think when they're totally sober, they wouldn't be into it. Yeah, I think, I mean, when you're when you're horny, you, we call it like spaghetti straight. Like, oh, once you get a little wet. Oh, I like that. Did you make that up? Or did you hear that? I don't know. I mean, that's just what my husband and I say.

I don't know if he like made it up or not. But yeah, we say spaghetti straight. And I remember the very first time that we experienced that. We were, we had an MFM with a guy who, you know, didn't make any sort of inclination that he was anything but straight. And after it was kind of over, I think that the other guy came, but my husband didn't, which is pretty typical in our threesomes. And then we're just kind of laying in bed.

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And then it just kind of went from there. So even when a guy wants that kind of play, he doesn't necessarily communicate it and just, it just kind of happens, like in the moment. Yeah. And that's because of the stigma. And it's interesting, you know, I just got to do a little shout out to a Facebook group. Like, there's this Facebook group that's got like 52,000 people. It's called Upside Down Pony Porn Porn Pals. This is a great Facebook group for anyone that wants to know anything about the lifestyle.

Because what people do on there is just ask questions and millions of people answer it. And it's just a great forum like that. And I posted something about a by guy recently because I'm like, you guys, like, people in the lifestyle need to know that this exists. And I'm like really working hard to remove the stigma. It's so ridiculous. And some guy commented to me, like, it's not a stigma. It's just that, you know, people don't like it. It's a turnoff. Like, it's a turnoff for me. And that's why people don't do it because people are not interested.

And I'm just like, oh my God, I could say, like, there's like a million things I want to say back to that. Like, whether that's a stigma or not, that's still rude too. Like, so if somebody walks into a swinger club and there's a couple that's unattractive to you, it's a turnoff to see them fucking. So they shouldn't fuck. Like, it's just like, I don't think. I think that's still a stigma too. Like, it's a turn off to you. So it shouldn't be.

The whole guy on guy action thing is so ridiculous. And how it's not allowed and how, you know, and how like that guy wouldn't maybe cop to it with you guys because he's afraid that he'll be shot down. And then your your guy would be so horrified, not even allowing him there. You know, and he must have caught when that your guy was super open or something for him to like go for it. Right. And I think so there's a couple things that I've noticed in the lifestyle that are really off putting. Like one, I've seen people put in their profiles like we'll not play with a couple with them. by guy.

Wow. Even if like it's like just because you have a sexual preference, like I don't have a problem like playing with a couple where the woman is straight. If there's like not consent there, I'm not going to like start eating out a woman. Like if she's not into me or something like it's not going to be. It really is crazy. Yeah. It's crazy.

No matter what your orientation is in any kind of like not just lifestyle, but like intimate encounter, you need to, like, have that consent discussion about, like, what's what's what? And, like, with that guy that I referenced where it just kind of happened, we didn't have a consent conversation. We just kind of looked at each other and went with it. But, like, typically, we would talk prior to an experience about, like, what's okay, what's not okay. And that way, you know, everybody knows ahead of time. Yeah, which it should. And I just think it's sad that most people, a lot of people. I mean, that person that puts on there, like, we will not play. I mean, that's like just the weirdest thing. And her husband's probably like blowing guys in parking lots.

I just always think that when someone's so extremely against something, I just wonder, what are you fighting against? Your own desires? I don't under, because it doesn't make sense, really. Like if it's not something that you're into, then who fucking cares? Like you said, just because a guy's wife isn't by doesn't mean. First of all, you might not even be attracted to her anyway, even if she was by, you know, so it's just like, why are you putting that out there? But the sad thing is is that so many guys won't even cop to it and couples can't put it on their profile because they won't be allowed because there is this quote unquote stigma. And I don't care what that fucking guy says it's a stigma. You want to call it a turn off. It's fucking rude and it's ridiculous. It says it's weird. And I don't know how we got on this topic from this hot three-sum story with this funny ending. But I'm glad he called in. Let's get to the next confession. Hello, how are you going? I love your fucking podcast. Love your voice. It's amazing.

I want to share what I like to do to get my freaking nut off. I'm a 38-year-old man and I have a girlfriend and what I like to do is get online on a website where if you could chat with strangers online

and masturbate with them and I do that. I get on. I set up two computers, one with the webcam facing me on my bed with my legs right open and I talk out and I jerk until I come until somebody with somebody

watching me. And on the side of me I have a computer with a live cam girls going on. It could be a girl, girl on girl, girl on guys, guys. Those are the kind of things I like to watch on the webcam. And then the people that watch me are

usually anonymous guys and they watch the porn with me and both come together. And then I like to get my girlfriend's panties and just jerk it off until I bust all over their panties. Sometimes you get girls on those webcams and they fucking watch and show their tits and squeeze their tits together for me and show me their ass. Yeah, I do this almost as much as I can whenever I get a free chance whenever I'm alone at the house. I get on and just look for strangers to fucking masturbate with. I'm actually about to go through it right now.

It's just one of the most arousing things. It just gets me going. Thank you for letting me share my story with you. Okay, so this one I'm always like, if I was talking to this guy, I'd be like, where is all this, like, I don't know, this stuff imprinted on your computer. Because if you're gone, I mean, because he says when I'm alone at the house, which means he lives with his girl, right? So he's doing this with her panties. Oh, my God. the stuff that I have heard that guys do when their wives and their girlfriends walk out of the house is just out of control.

Like if women knew, they'd never leave their husbands home alone. I just can tell you a real quick, funny episode I had once with a guy who literally was like his whole thing with sniffing panties. And I have another sniffing panties one on after this guy. It's like the theme. But he literally had a guy friend of his and the minute his wife would go on a business trip, his friend would come over and they would like bring their wives' panties. and they would both like sniff each other's wives panties while they like jerked each other off. And I'm just like, oh my God, if your wives.

Wow. But here's another guy. He's got the two computers going. And then like, have you ever watched a guy? Like, would you be interested in watching a guy on Cam? I mean, he's saying like girls are on there. Listen, I think you have found something that I've never done before. It's taken how many episodes, Kathy, to get to this.

Which is, wait, which is what, watching them or cam? I have no, I have no cam experience. I think you should. You get a lot of people. Are you, I forget, are you a little bit of an exhibitionist? Do you like for people? I am an exhibitionist. I do like for people.

So I liked it for people to watch. Like, if I'm at a party and I'm like fucking someone on a bed, I love to have like the people lined up, like, jerking watching. Yeah. But like, that's more of like an overall vibe of the party. It would be hard for me to be, like, sitting in my bed on, like, a Tuesday night and just watching some. It's like that.

It's the, like, the energy of the room versus, like, your own, like, sterile environment. I don't know that I could get into it. Yeah, well, let me tell you. I have an update story for Kate. Kate was the woman that could, like, orgasm thousands of times a day. Like, I don't know. Remember her? Well, she has gone off the rails, okay?

And her and her husband crossed the line. And I have her part too. And let me tell you what she loves nothing more. And I'm not giving out way or her whole episode. But she loves, she's on Adult Friend Finder, I think it is. She loves to go on there and she goes live. Like there's a way you could go live on there. Yeah.

And she loves to go on solo. Like she started with her husband, but she realized she loves people watching her. She loves to just go on there and see like all these people tuning in. And she says sometimes she gets like 250 guys watch her. And she just jerks off on there and just knowing that all these people are coming on and watching her. She just loves nothing more. I think you might have to try it. Are you on?

No, that I really need to add another thing to my, like, sexual repertoire, but, I mean, never say never. Yeah, isn't that kind of issue?

But, like, have you ever gone on and watched someone? Like, he says, like, there's all these women on there watching. It's kind of interesting.

No. I mean, I have, I don't want to sound, like, disgusted. I have not. I will say I don't have a lot of,

like, free time where I'm just like, oh, I should explore. Maybe if I had more free time, I would have stumbled upon it, but I haven't. Do you even watch porn? I mean, because you live a porn life. Like, I wonder, do you even watch porn?

I do. I do watch porn. I do. I don't watch it super regularly. You know, I, you know what I love porn for? It's like when you first get home from work at the end of a long day and you just, well, and I'm saying you, I'm really meaning me. Yeah.

I get home. and I just need to get off. Like I need like three minutes to get myself off. And I will just put on like the dirtiest porn. Get my vibrator out and then just get off. And it'll take me like three minutes and then I feel like I can move on with my life for the evening. I get it. But it's like a stress relief for me.

Yeah, you're like a guy. Oh my God. What is like what is like the like what have been some of the dirtiest things that because I feel like it could be different on a daily basis. But like what are those like go to like extreme things that will get you off in three minutes like because you just want it to happen fast. I mean my number one porn star and we talked about this our last episode that we recorded Rebel Riders her name. And I am like all about Rebel Rider. She does it all. She's like a huge like gang bang, anal slut, deep throating.

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And I love her for that. So that, you know, when you see a girl who's just like so naughty and dirty and she's super into it, that's what gets me off. So that's like a release for. you just going to that end of the extreme, like even for yourself imagining. What do you mean where you've had conversations with her? We connected on FET, actually. Oh, she's on there.

Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. And did you say like, oh, I'm a big fan? Absolutely. And we're actually trying to hook up because, yes, because she's like, here's the thing. Like, I love doing all this stuff, but I also, like, personally love just being with a woman one-on-one and she was super into me but the timing just

schedules that's all it comes down to but just the fact that we she doesn't but she comes to the area like for different different events and things like that. You are kidding and she's like a porn star I'm trying to Google her Rebel writer. Yeah she is yep

she is a porn star yep oh my god that is so funny so she like knows that you're into her she probably gets like hit on them by so many guys. It's probably not a lot of women DMing her. You know what I mean? That she was... Well, and that was the thing. Like, I found her on there. And I've been a big fan of hers. I've told her, I'm like, I've been monogamous with you for quite some time. Oh my God. I love that. As far as my porn viewing goes. It's just I'm just all about her. And so I started liking some of

her stuff on Fet. And then she actually is the one that sent me a friend request and started the conversation with me. You're kidding. No. So, that was I was fan-girling. It happened when I was at the dentist, no less. And I was just like, oh my God. You know, when you're like on your phone waiting for the dentist to come in. And she knows like you're like not saying, oh, I love your, you're such a great actress. It's kind of like, it's inferred that like you're horny for her and she's horny for you. Right? Like this is all what this is about, right? Yes. That's, that is exactly what it's all about. This is the regular world, right? This is the porn world.

Yeah. When she's DMing you, she's just like, so have you guys, like, what about just even FaceTiming or anything like that yet? We haven't moved. No, no. It hasn't really moved past there. But I have to tell you, like, I am a terrible communicator. Like, if I have time, I will engage.

Like, that day we were going back and forth and then it just kind of dropped off. But I'm really bad about picking the ball back up and pursuing things. So maybe one day. Oh, my God. Could you just do it for the podcast? I'll just do it for you, Kathy. Okay, no one else. Well, no, for all my listeners, really.

That's who you're going to do it for. Do that instead of the webcaming. And we started off wondering if you'd go on webcam or, you know, but this is way better. This is way more up your alley. All right, let's get to the next sniffing panties. Confession. Hey, Kathy.

I want to thank you for your show. I like to pick my wife's dany's out of the hamper. my favorite part usually is where her ass is but it's got a real nice smell to it but lately we've got on

HRT and I picked them up the other day I guess last week actually and there's a spot towards the middle where there's not usually a spot and

picked it up, rubbed it across my nose wow my like what was that the parietal lobe it lit it lit right up and oh wow it was like a

like an electric buzz in the top of my head it was I guess because of the hormones I assume there's something going on with my reaction and what was also

inner panties. Oh man. What it is about that one day but wow. Yeah, that was an amazing feeling. It was just

like an shock in the top of my skull but lit it up. That was good. That's what I like to do. I've had ED issues in the past.

And one of the things that would get me off in the morning would be panties in my face and soak it. One of my favorite things is the way a woman smells. After just existing, thank you very much for the show and the opportunity to call in. Thanks. Bye. Okay, so here's like another sniffing panties. Like, this is not like an uncommon thing. I used to, I swear to God, this is what I used to because I would have people coming out of my apartment, especially like workers.

You know, I live in Manhattan apartment building. And so I would literally take pictures of my hamper before people would come over and then go look after because I just got wind that so many people are going in people's hamper and sniffing their panties and all this shit that I started to get there. People were rifling through myself. Even my guys that would come over like my booty cold guys, I'd be like, I'm going to see if they're sniffing my panties because I feel like it turns out. out. I don't think any guy would like admit to his girl that he's like into sniffing panties, but guys are into it. And I would take pictures and I never

busted anyone by the way. To see if it was moved. To see if it was moved. So I think if I were a guy, I would be a panty sniffer. Really? Oh, this is why you need to be on these calls all the time. Are you fucking kidding me? Well, okay, not so much for girls.

Like, I have to say like I really love And this goes for like my husband and my boyfriend. Like if we're going to fuck or I'm going to, especially if I'm going to like suck their dicks, I don't want them to shower like right beforehand. Like I love the way that like a guy is. I mean, I want them not to be like from the gym nasty, but like from like a work day coming home and like smelling them intimately like that. Kathy, this is so embarrassing, but it really turns me on. So it's like the manly, and maybe like for,

that's the same thing with the guys with the, it's like the feminines, like, the, the pheromones, I think, yeah. Yeah, but like the feminine, you're into the male. Yes. I mean, I've never had that experience with the woman,

but yeah, like the male, it turns me on. I'm like, oh, God, it's just like sucking their balls and like, Oh, so the smell down there. Yes. Oh, I'm thinking it's just like the whole body smell. You want the, you want it a little, because like this, this guy, I mean, ends it with like the way woman smells after just, quote unquote, existing. And he means like after a long day. And that's what you like, not freshly showered out of the thing, all fresh and clean.

No. It's like, do you want the sweaty balls smell? Yeah. And that gets you money. It gets me so horny. It's just, oh, and like this morning I was giving my husband a blowjob. And last night, like we had fucked right before bed and just like sucking his dick, like having kind of like the remnants of last night on it is it just. Right.

Yeah. It's so hot. It's so hot. And so I think that's probably like the root of the panty. sniffing. It's just, it's, it's that, like, very primal part of our brain gets activated. Yeah, well, you just reminded me of what we forgot to discuss on that last threesome. And I know you do have a confession you're going to give me, but like, because you always have a good one to add to these confessions. But that, that last threesome with the guys that the guy, like was like, hey, by the

way, before I go, suck you off so I could, like, get jizz from my wife off of you? He liked that thing, too. And that's what you're talking about. Like your own smell on him, or just that sex mouth. Yes. Like if my husband's been with like another woman, because he's been playing regularly with another couple, I don't want to like, that I don't want,

but like my own or just like his natural. You don't want the other girl though. Some people would, but you don't want that. Yeah, I do not want that. No, no. That might be primal too. Yeah.

Stay away from my bow, my man, my cow. Exactly. What's your confession? Oh, Kathy. Well, so this kind of goes along with like just the dirtiness. I have done some like water sports play with my husband. But only with him and it's only been him like kind of doing he play with me. Oh.

Like him giving it. But let's start the story off with a couple of questions. Now had you ever done it vice versa? Like did it start off where you did it? for him and now this is new that he's doing it on you? So it started it like he had peed on me different times. Oh, okay. Nothing recently.

We haven't done it super recently. But this past week, I actually, well, let me back up. So two weeks ago, my boyfriend, my husband and I had a really hot threesome. and after we got done, I was like, oh, my God, I have to pee. And my husband's like, oh, pee on my dick. Which he, like, kind of jokes about that. Yeah. But I was like, okay, like, go get in the shower.

Mm-hmm. And so we go in the shower and, like, he's in the shower kind of, like, kneeling down. And I'm kind of straddling him. But I just had so much stage fright and was, like, just giggling. Yeah. And we were all like all three of us were just laughing because we were just kind of like messing around. So I wasn't going to be able to pee. And then this past week I had an overnight with my boyfriend. And I we had been like kind of going like going back and forth like you know, we would be fucking and then we take a little break. We're talking and then fucking again. And so at one point I'm riding him. I'm like, oh my God, I have to take a break. I have to go pee. And he's like, go. stand at the bathroom door. I'm like, okay. So we go over and he's like getting the shower.

So go in and then he, I'm like standing there. He gets behind me and then he just like puts his dick in between my legs and is like, he on me. Oh, so this isn't even with your husband. This is with your boyfriend. Yeah. Oh, okay. I don't know if I missed that, but you didn't say that.

Yeah. We always forget there's all these players in your story. I have a lot of players in the game. What can I say? So we, I pee like all, all over his dick. And then he's like, get on your knees. And I got on my knees and he's like bent over. He starts fucking me from behind in the shower.

And then he's like, you need to lick it all up, like lick up your mess. Oh. So now there's P and you on him. Yes. And? And so I did. and it was very hot. He ended up coming in like two seconds after that.

But the hot thing too was my husband was actually on a play date with that couple. And after it was over, I called him and told him that story. And it made the couple super horny too. And so they ended up going for another round. Oh, my God. So they're just as naughty as you are. Does that rebel ride or do stuff like that? Oh, yeah, she's really into Pee play.

Oh, okay. So she's, she is really into it. Yeah. But, like, I'm trying to get that couple to call it because they are great and they have so many stories. So why haven't they called in? No. We're all working on it. So we'll try.

Okay. Okay. Yeah. And so there does your, so that, how long he's been seeing them? So we've known the boyfriend, like the male in that couple for quite a few. years and then my husband's been seeing that couple for I don't know maybe like four or five six months it's been a pretty a fairly regular a fairly regular thing and you never join in no so I hadn't even met the woman until about a couple weeks ago we all went out for lunch but I never join in

no how come well part of it is I think that I was would like shift the vibe of the situation. Okay. Because your guy gets involved with your boyfriend. Yes. But you don't go into that situation. No. It's not that I would like hard stop never.

It's just I don't want to impede on what they have going. And you know, when you put another person in the mix, it's going to be a different vibe. And I just don't want that like they just have a good thing going. I don't want to mess with that. Yeah, I get it. So you were so into that P-Play thing, do you think it's something that you're going to do more often or take to another level or do it more?

I don't know. I mean, I kind of feel like it's just to see how it goes. Yeah, like it was really hot in that moment. You can't really recreate that spontaneity again. It was so unexpected. Exactly, yeah. I get it. It's like chasing the dragon.

Yeah, but I know like the woman in that couple that my husband's been playing with, she's very into it. And so he's been doing a little bit more experimenting, like with her receiving. Right. Water sports with her. Water sports, yes. And your guy likes it. And you've done it with him.

I've done it with him. Yeah. It just hasn't really been like a central part of our play repertoire. Oh my God. So when you hook up with Rebel Rider, add that into the mix and then you could come on and talk about it. Oh, definitely. Yes. I'll add it to the list.

I did have another question for you about your boyfriend, but it's going to pertain to this next confession so let's get to the next confession my naughty confession is that reasons with 13 different men I had to think that for a second and yeah a couple of months ago me and my wife were having sex and I said you know what would make the season better it's all getting hit from behind and she said that is a good idea and then we're like oh how yeah are we doing this yeah we're doing this so we hopped on bumble on hinge everything all the date maps and we have built quite a roster of guys we have made quite a good few friends from it we started off

that you know we're not going to do any kissing but it's only for the dick strictly like barely any contact with the guy as much as humanly possible. And then now we've worked up all the way too. We have like a part-time boyfriend. We see like three guys on the regular. We have at least two guys over a week. And it has been a crazy experience. But yeah, it's been quite a while dear for me.

Okay. Love you show. Thank you. Okay. So this one I brought up to you before. taped this girl's episode because I was like oh my god I need to get her on like this is like super interesting like this is a lesbian couple and it turns out that she wasn't always a lesbian right like and she but the other girl was and now they're married and they're literally having threesomes

with guys and you know it's kind of interesting because they had some rules on the table but everything flew out and now they're like full-fledged like hooking up with all these guys and they've got regulars and to me towards the end it was kind of seeming like in the episode actually it seemed like they were getting like really close to one and I was like getting nervous for them because okay but you call your boyfriend boyfriend and you got a husband and it's like you know I think some people are just able to keep those lines even as close as they get with people and they're having sex with them they could keep those lines clear or those boundaries clear I don't know you tell me but like these girls are like literally it's so interesting to me I was like oh I've never had like lesbians on who have like brought

guys it but typically like the other way around our couples bringing people in but this like us. It's a great episode. I have the whole thing coming out. Well, I will answer the first thing you said. And then I'll talk to the lesbian aspect in a second. As far as lines being blurred, I think that when you are sharing a lot of intimacy with somebody, feelings can develop and you have to just kind of be cognizant of that and communicate with your primary partner about it. I would say, like, I've been telling everyone, like we accidentally are in a polyamorous situation now because it wasn't what we were setting out to. Yeah, I was intending.

I was looking for a connection, but I wasn't looking to fall in love with someone. But it happened. And so for me, all along the way with my husband, I kept telling him, like, oh, I'm falling for this guy. We're getting super close. And he would see it himself because we do buy regularly. the three of us probably like once every couple weeks. So, you know, he wasn't blind to it or anything like that. I think the real problem comes in as if you aren't being honest with the other person.

Every step of the way. Right. Like you said, every step of the way, you're letting him know. It's not even like three weeks are going by and you're like, oh, by the way, now I've fully fallen. He was falling with you. Like he was learning and going along with you, which I think is important. Yes, definitely, definitely important. And that doesn't mean that you're then going to ward off every potential problem or hazard that comes along with that.

I think navigating a new setup in your relationship. And that could be any kind of shift like, you know, one person changes jobs or a kid goes to college. Like, anytime you have a shift in the dynamic of a relationship, there's going to be some growing pains and some things that are maybe a little bit difficult to work through. And so that's kind of where we're at with everything. It's just kind of navigating this new dynamic that we have kind of stumbled into. I mean, if you're going to get this girl and her, I mean, because like when I spoke, I mean, she had no problem with the fact that they're like kind of maybe have a boyfriend and they're seeing someone regularly because they're so in love and it's very in the beginning.

But like what would you be, would be your advice for people that are like going into that territory where things could cross a line because you're continuing to see like the same person. I mean, I would say honesty is always good. Making sure that everybody's on the same page, like not just for that woman, like not just for her and her wife, but also for the guy. Like, if you are sharing yourself intimately with somebody, you should feel like you can tell them, like, hey, I am feeling these feelings that are not just like a friend with benefit type of feeling. It's deeper than that. And if they can't handle, like direct communication about how they're feeling, then they might not be for you.

Well, for them, it's interesting because they're two women, so they could both fall for him. But the problem is like one of them who was more straight than the other. So that's why I worry. And with you, it is the same thing. Like, I mean, your guy isn't falling for the guy. You just are. And you just so the other person was kind of left in the dust. So that's what I always worry about. I mean, you and your guy are so close and you were so honest the whole time. And this is like his kink. all works, right? But you could see how it could go awry really easily, I think, if one person is not included. It could go awry easily under any sort of configuration, right? Because you're dealing, I mean, two people, things can go awry. Now you're dealing with three people, so you have an extra

person in there for potential for things going awry. I think that the person who's potentially not into men. There's, you have to kind of see, like, what is she getting out of it? Is she willing to kind of sit with the fact that, like, her wife is getting a lot of satisfaction from it? And that's, like, quote, good enough for her. She's a lot of factors there. And I think it's not a linear experience either. I think there's ups and downs, especially, I mean, I can speak for experience on that. Like, there'll be days where it's super easy and fun and it's all kind of, enhancing the primary relationship and then there are days when that that third person in the mix brings issues come to the surface that might not have been there otherwise. So it's not going to be

the same for every couple or thruple or polyamorous situation, but it is, I think the common thread is continuing to check in with all people that are involved and being willing to have those very vulnerable conversations in order to get like the understanding about where the where everyone is because sometimes you're not looking to necessarily shift the behavior or shift the dynamic but you're looking to understand what your partner or partners are experiencing in this dynamic this setup yeah and listen and and like with these girls I mean the girl the one who's not who is a lesbian she loves the action. She just can't romantically fall, but the other girl, I just wonder, would she?

I know that also the third person has to be taken into consideration. And I know that there was a time where your guy was kind of like, I don't really want to share you with anyone else besides your husband. And those things could happen. Like, he is copping feelings for you too. And then were those boundaries ever put on? Yeah. So I have been basically exclusive to my boyfriend and my husband for the past year, I had the one experience when I was a cupcake for a couple. Yeah. And I've had like a few parted experiences.

But other than that, I have not. And that's because he doesn't want it, right? Like that is a part of it, correct? Yeah. My boyfriend's not into it at all. And I, you know, I want to be respectful of that, those feelings. It's not like a hard boundary with him. I just care a lot about him.

And so I do try to respect that. Respect that while also fostering the kink that my husband and I share. Like I don't want to disregard that either. So my husband does love me hot wifing. He does love that sexual like experience of me being with other men. So, you know, my boyfriend and I still take lots of videos for my husband. If I'm playing solo, we also love to do the threesome. And my husband loves the energy that we have and those threesomes are much better than like any other like random guy threesome. But it's a hard balance. Again, it's been a lot of conversations with both of them. And there have been times when I feel like I'm in the middle because I want to please. Obviously, I want to please my husband. We've built this great relationship over the last almost five years. And I also want to be respectful to the.

this other, to this other person that I have brought willingly into my life. Like, you can't just shit on someone because they are not the one that you are a primary with because they're a human with feelings too. So that's a problem with unicorns. And that's what I've heard a lot. Right. People's thirds. You know what I mean? It is a thing you need to take into consideration. They don't exist in an emotional vacuum. Right. So there's a sense of responsibility. I feel a great responsibility for both the both of these relationships are separate from each other, but they also have that degree of intersectionality. So I want to be respectful to everyone involved on a human level and then also on that romantic love and like caring and nurturing for both.

So it's a tough, it sounds super hot like, oh, I get fussed by these beautiful men all the time. And I am a very loving. person. And so I love having all this extra love in my life. But it's not just a simple thing because we're three people with complex emotions. Last question. And so like if you had to choose tonight and you could only have one, would it be having both your guys together and having like the hottest threesome and someone peeing on somebody? Or would it be or would it be you just seeing your boyfriend on a solo night and then coming home and cheering it with your husband. Because I know your husband is always a part of it, you know, but like which one do you prefer

if you could have one today? I mean, today, threesome for sure. I mean, most days I would say I love, I mean, I love the threesome. I love, love, love how comfortable we are together and how playful we are together. It's so fulfilling, so fun. We're like buddies with each other. Like our last threesome we went out afterwards, like had a really great dinner. I mean, it's just a really,

free flowing energy exchange and it's it's great it feels so good i feel very loved and care for by both my guys i feel so grateful that i have the type of relationship with my husband that i can share all of this with like he just sees every part of me and i don't have to hide any part of myself from him and that is so great and and yeah i would choose the threesome all the time i mean if i could have Like the three of them every day. Two dicks is better than one. Yeah. And let me just tell you people, Erica lives a very double life, but she lives this other life on my Discord. I mean, if you do sign up for my Discord or get in there somehow. Like her guy posts, like your guy is like so great at posting. My husband will post it. And then like my boyfriend will chime in. And it's just really fun. Like that's the thing. I love playfulness and just laughing and having a great time. I love that so much. And so. that's what I find most fulfilling about the whole experience. Yeah, I love that. And people could go see that

experiences because he posts like the great thing about Discord is people get to post their own stuff and it isn't not safe for work site and it's very locked down. And you could get in through buying my book, which actually they got pushed by the way, Erica, they're redoing it. Oh yeah. To December or you could join my Patreon and you'll get in. You could see Erica in action with her two guys. I mean, she'd just all the time. Yes. Yes. Come see me in action. It's great. Yeah, yeah. Sometimes I blush because You know, like if you do me in real life, you would be so, so surprised. Yeah, no, it's okay. That's like with everybody on my show.

But like what you need to do though next is what we're, well, you know, you need to not cheat on your guys. But like the one free pass you need to get is for Rebel Rider, right? I'm sure. Oh, I have that pass. That pass is solid. I have those solid hall pass. Yeah, get that pass going and get it on with her. And then we'll do that.

That's a whole episode on its own. So it's not just going to be a confession. But thank you so much as always. for coming on and talking about these confessions with me. You always add everything that this episode needs because I don't have these stories. Oh, thank you. I'm not peeing on anyone anytime soon, but, you know, I try it. I would try it.

I would. It's not there yet. Anyway, thanks, Erica. Thanks so much for calling in. Thanks. Have a good one. Bye. All right, bye-bye.

Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. is now available not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category

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Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that I do have a book coming out. It was supposed to come out on October 14th, but there was major printing issues. I got a batch. They were not approved by me. I was like, no, effing way, please reprint these. And they actually are. And that is pushing back the date to December 2nd. Okay, so you still have time to pre-order the book.

The book is called Shirkly anonymous confessions. Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. The book is basically seven different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like, there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuckold story. There's a gang-bang girl story.

Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person, right? So I took the interview and I rewrote it in the third person. I wouldn't call it like an erotica book, though there's plenty of sex in there, right? But I didn't write it to sound like erotica because that's like the vibe of my show. You're going to learn a lot. You're probably going to get a little turned on. It's a different way to hear these stories, like I said, because they're written out in third person.

There's an ebook available if you don't want your partner to know that you're reading my book. Get the ebook. It's available. There will be an audio book available very soon after it comes. comes out. I did not narrate it. I was going to, but I passed on it because I sucked at the job. Okay, I couldn't do it at all, but I got a hot check to narrate the book. So you're going to dig the audiobooks. If you buy my book in any format, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. That is my gift to you for getting my book. My Discord does not disappoint. Okay. There's no way you'll get the Discord

and go in there and be like, oh, this sucks. Okay. It's like pretty amazing. There's tons of people on there and everybody shares content with each other. That's what's great about Discord. You get to post your own videos and pictures and there's tons of channels and we have contests over there. It's a super fun place to be. I will be giving anyone that buys my book at any time access to my Discord. It is private.

The only way you could get in is through me giving you the link. And that's why I think my Discord is so great because I have vetted people. It's not like it's just open to the public. So everybody that's in there are people that listen to my show and people that listen to my show are fucking great. So my Discord is fucking great. My book is great. You're going to love it.

If you buy it, all you got to do is send me the receipt or a picture of proof that you bought it, and I will give you free access to my Discord. Send it to Strictly Anonymous Podcasts at Gmail.com. You could find my book in the link in the description, okay, or just Google at Strictly Anonymous Confessions, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. You can find it anywhere. You buy books. Send me the picture and I'll give you access to my Discord email, strictly anonymous podcast at Gmail.com.

Anyway, thanks so much for listening.