Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1263 - Creating AI Erotic Stories About Your Fantasies, Kinks and Fetishes w/Cat from Redquill
Episode Date: October 31, 2025Cat called in to discuss how you can live out your fantasies, kinks and fetishes through generating your own erotic AI stories on her app Redquill. Tune in to hear all the details including how and wh...y she and her team built Red Quill an app that uses AI to create user stories that can be personalized to users fantasies, kinks and kinks, how users post and share their stories, how people can interact and respond to each other’s fantasies, what kinds of fantasies, kinks and fetish stories are most popular, the data and differences between male-driven fantasy stories created by men vs. the ones created by women, how AI storytelling can help people discover new sides of their sexuality, how exactly you create your own erotic AI stories on Redquill, how and why she believes storytelling and self-expression are powerful tools for understanding your sexuality plus a whole lot more. You can sign up with Redquill here: https://www.redquill.net **To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://brooklynbedding.com Use my promo code STRICTLY at checkout to get 30% off sitewide https://vb.health To get 10% off Drive Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY https://butterwellness.com/ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order To get $15 OFF your female oxytocin arousal tablets and more, use code STRICTLY here: https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/xLQ3Jv https://uberlube.com/discount/Strictly Use code: STRICTLY for 10% off Uberlube aka the BEST Lube EVER https://bluechew.com Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON https://beducate.me/pd2532-anonymous Use code: ANONYMOUS to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14-day money-back guarantee Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website: http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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So today I have on Kat. Kat is someone is one of the founders of a website called Red Quill, Red Quill.net.
You can want to check it out after she talks all about it because really what Red Quill is is a place where you could go and craft your own AI erotic story. It generates it specifically to you. Like you could go in there and create a whole book. Like it goes chapter by chapter. She explains the whole process. It's super interesting. And you can make it very specific. So you could live out all. You can live out all. You can do. You know,
your fantasies there. It's a not safe for work site. Everything is open. You know, you could talk about all
different kinds of things. There's fetishes. There's kinks. People even go on there and create stories
that have nothing to do with sex. You could do stuff that have a little bit to do with sex. And then you
could create really sexy stories on there. It's a really cool concept because it is using AI so you could
get so specific. You could change things. She talks about the whole process specifically. She talks about
the whole process of how you generate these stories. And then what's super interesting
about Red Quill is it became like a community. It's not just a place where you create your own stories.
You can share them and then other people like them and people like talk about them. So it's like super
interesting what they built. She explains it all. I think you're going to be super interested in checking
it out. And what's great about their website is you can check it out while you're listening to this
episode. You don't have to sign up to see everything that's going on. You could read stories that people have.
And then if you're down to create your own, there are memberships. There will be a link in the
description to the website. So I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Cat.
Hey Cat from Red Quill. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. Your cat, like quote, unquote.
That's like your online name. Yes. I like that. Yes. I'm cat and I love, love, love cats. So it's a
representation of that love. Well, listen, you are a part of Red Quill. And why don't you just explain,
you know, like exactly what Red Quill is? Because it is AI powered, which I love. Like I'm very, I've
gotten into chat GPT recently and I'm like fucking blown away with the stuff that all this stuff can
do you know what I mean it's like really amazing and now you are using AI to create erotic stories
why tell the long story got it exactly right yeah thanks for having me again I'm cat I'm one of the
creators of red quill red quill red quill is a AI powered app for turning any of your fantasies
into stories. We're focused on erotic, romance, kinky stories, but they could be vanilla,
any fantasies that you want. What we have is a easy way, if you want to do this privately,
to turn any of your ideas into a story. It generates chapter by chapter and even gives you
almost like choose your adventure like options at the end of each chapter. But what our vision is,
is that in this sort of fantasy, sexual exploration content,
your experience is magnified by other people.
It is not just, you know, you alone kind of imagining your ideas.
You could definitely do that on Red Quill.
But as you can see on the Internet,
we love seeing other people who share our same fantasies,
kinks, ideas.
and we often read them as well.
And so Red Quill provides a platform to read other people's stories that they generated with AI,
as well as host your own and even remix those fantasies that are posted into your own stories and ideas.
So it's kind of like a platform, like it's kind of like a community as well, right?
It's like not just stories.
It's a whole platform that you're buying into.
Do you have to do both?
Can you just do the stories?
You can just do the stories and you can just keep all of your stories private.
But what's so interesting what we found and we didn't even advertise this to our users
or say, hey, please go post your stories.
But when we turned on the ability to publish stories, so many folks just wanted to do it.
And I think part of it is, you know, you can see how many people viewed your stories.
stories. You can see if anyone else is remixing your stories as well. So I think there's some
sort of like, you know, when you said the community element, seeing if there's a bat signal of
other people or just being curious of, hmm, I wonder if someone else could be interested in what I'm
thinking about. And I do, we are seeing that. Yeah, that's so interesting. And I got to say,
like when people are like sharing their stories and you get to see or like do you get that like data on your end like can you see like what kinds of stories are the ones that are most like and stuff like I'm always interested in that kind of data like I get it from my show right because I get downloads of like and I have all kinds of topics when it comes to sex on my show you know fetishes kinks regular stuff but you know across the board all the different topics and I know the things that people download more than the other things you know do you what are can you tell me the things and
the trends that you have seen on your site?
Absolutely.
And it's very, very interesting.
And there is differences for sure between men and women's preferences.
What I will say, though, first of all, is that our data is very secure and private.
So whenever we have data analytics, it is anonymized.
It's not tied to the user.
So it's in this sort of broad way of, okay, there's this many stories.
we're going to, you know, automatically tag them or we're going to, like, look, you know, tag,
tag them to come up with, what are the trends.
So I want to do, I want to emphasize that.
The data is very secure.
Of course.
What we're seeing, I would say, is fascinating.
First, I think there is a very deep interest in what you would call, or not you, but
people might call taboo subjects.
As I've been working on Red Quill more, I think I am desensitized to what taboo.
what's not.
But what a lot of people would say taboo.
And so what I mean by that is a lot of the male oriented, who we think are male oriented
are very interested in cheating stories, by the way.
There's other more kind of taboo like areas like chastity or going harder into like BDS.
there's even sissy, you know, subcontents for men who loves them, Dom.
Very, very interesting.
And I, by the way, cheating is actually quite, you could almost say like not taboo,
but I mention it in taboo because it's one of the more, I guess, broad mainstream things that you don't think of like,
oh, I'm locked in a sex dungeon, but it's still, you know, it's still naughty.
No, no, no, but, listen, because what you're saying is people are coming, it is taboo,
because what you're saying is people are coming on there to listen to cheating stories and get off on it.
I mean, it's not like, they're not listening.
They're not, it's not about tragedy.
You know what I mean?
They're not watching a day-wide episode.
It's not about tragedy.
No, they're not.
They're like these cheating stories.
It is taboo because it's like people are getting fucking turned on by the cheating story.
And that goes into the whole hot wiping thing that is like very big, you know, it just is.
Very, very big.
And that's, we, we can tell and through just also seeing online.
Reddit and the data there that it's very male oriented, that sort of kink and fetish.
By the way, I will say, as I've talked to some of our users and it's always been anonymous,
always just through voice call and whatever people are open to sharing, I think that a lot of
folks use our products to work through issues too in their relationship. I think a lot of
is being aroused by the fantasy that one may never do, you know, in real life.
Yeah.
But I also think the more I've learned about the preferences of our users, like, let's say cheating,
I feel very empathetic and why I feel so passionate about building what we're building
is we provide this sort of almost like canvas for working through and expressing ones
ideas. Like, you may never do this in real life, but what if you have issues with your wife or
girlfriend and you don't, you know, you're just working through things and, you know, both sides
are unhappy. So I think that there's a very interesting part with the AI element of inserting your
own exact interests and desires because we see a lot of the stories be a mirror to
what people are dealing with, you know, and therefore also being aroused by, but what folks are
dealing with.
Yeah, listen.
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Both sides are unhappy.
So I think that there's a very interesting part with the AI element of inserting your own
exact interests and desires because we see a lot of the stories be a mirror to what people
are dealing with, you know, and therefore also.
being aroused by, but what folks are dealing with.
Yeah, listen, I was just...
And I think that's fascinating.
Yeah, and listen, I was just talking to someone else about this because a lot of times,
like, listen, you look up with the titles of my show, it just sounds like all this
like dirty shit's going on and everything.
But I know how to create a title to get people to click, okay?
But what I'm really doing on my show and I get tons of emails from people on a daily
basis about like, thank you so much.
You made me feel like I'm not alone, blah, blah, blah.
Like, when it comes to sex, people just think it's like this joke kind of a thing or
They disregard it.
But at the end of the day,
these kinds of things,
what I'm doing,
what you're doing,
what other people are doing,
like you are helping people.
And that's what you're trying to say.
Like,
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because there's still so much
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and people are still so free
to say things out loud,
you know?
Exactly.
And I think on the women's side,
you ask about trends,
I'm happy.
women have a lot more avenues at times right now.
Yeah, this is a great way for women to figure your stuff out.
Yes, and talk about sex, whether it's romance novels, but with the AI element, what we see are things like a lot of self-inserting for women of saying, I'm the main character now.
So it's very interesting, but it seems different than what we think are who are men users because there's a desire maybe at times to feel more seen.
maybe it's not necessarily the chinks like okay we we all know we all love like the dragon kings
and things like that so there's definitely a little bit of that but i would say the main trend is
more first second person and almost like being the main character like just seeing maybe
romance books today and saying well they seem to be just one type of person and i don't look like
that person or I have a job, you know, I'm not just like some person or I'm a single mom who is
like the maid and then gets like swept up by the billionaire. I think that's a lot of romance
tropes, which I by the way love and indulge to, but in a sort of this kind of fantasizing
content, which is really enabled by for us, like the AI element, the choose your own
adventure element of Red Quill. Yeah. You often think that's not me.
You know, like I'm not the maid and then all of a sudden the billionaire sees me and then just like
So you're kind of like one person removed, but in your story, you could be the person.
You could tailor it so that you are living that out for real.
And I think that that is like really heavy even though it doesn't seem like it would be, you know,
because like you said, every book that's out there, there's some you could kind of relate to some things.
But something will take you out of the story because it's not totally you.
but this could be like exactly you to the T.
And what I love about AI stuff,
because it's like same with chat cheapy T is the more specific you get,
the more specific it gets with you.
Like you could really hone these stories to be exactly what you want.
Exactly.
Exactly.
You can hone it to whatever you want.
And we have our main core medium is text,
but we also allow for folks to listen to their stories too.
And so that gives a different and another level of immersion.
The other thing I would say is we really, you're spot on about the more you are specific,
the more the story or the content becomes exactly what you want.
And so we try a lot to try to figure out how to ask the right questions or elicit
sorts of things like that, whether it's trying to understand one's preferences and kinks,
you know, offer, we offer, like, ways for people to even, I didn't mention this before, but not just
post their stories, but post, like, tropes. So, for example, I think one of the most popular
used one that you can see is, like, cum dumpster or something like that role play.
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That is so funny. So by the way, someone in our community, it's almost like a tag or a concept,
a capable little concept that you could use. Someone, because we are truly a platform, as you said,
we allow people to make those for themselves, but also share to everyone else. And so like,
what we've seen is that people have made those and we did not expect what other people have been
using and been inspired by.
And so that helps too with our platform in understanding, right?
Like if you're using the cum dumpster, if you're using first time gay experience, right?
Something like that.
Yeah.
We want to help almost hone you in on maybe some of these things that you're very interested in.
And then another thing that we allow for is you can, you know, me, you, anyone can create characters on our site for free.
Like, it's almost like your brain saved into our product.
Oh, I love it.
Yeah, it's crazy.
You know, like drafting and things like that.
And like you could save Kathy or you could save like Kathleen, you know?
Yeah.
Or, you know, the alter ego.
And you can use Kathleen in the stories.
And then we'll start to be able to pick up, oh, Kathleen is being used.
a lot and like what if we recommend some other ideas involving Kathleen?
Let's see if, you know, this user likes them.
And so that's, that's, you're so right of like the more you are exact, but we believe
our job is to figure out like how to also elicit that information out.
Like in the quickest way.
You mean, like, so in the quickest way so people get what they fucking want instantly because,
you know, that's what we all want nowadays.
So let me ask you this. Walk me through exactly how it goes. It's interesting though. And I love that you guys literally are on the back end sort of watching everything that's happening and then like recoding or whatever. So to make it so that everybody gets to where they need to be quicker. That's what you're saying, right, basically. So you're taking all that data, learning from it and then just feeding it back into the system so it works better for everybody. Walk me through exactly how it works. Like if I sign up and like how it goes like is it like a thing where it's, like a thing where it's,
could create a story and then you could like, oh, well, no, can you change this about it or blah, blah, blah,
like, you know, I don't know if you should answer that or just walk me through the beginning process.
Totally.
So you come into our product and we ask you, hey, what are you thinking about right now or what's
some spicy thought that you have?
And so you can enter it in.
And then what happens is we actually create these tailored questions to ask for more
detail. So it might be, you know, you type Kathy and Kathleen go into the closet. And then
actually we have a next step where it's like, oh, how do Kathy and Kathleen know each other?
Oh, so it's prompting questions. It gives you questions to set the same. Okay, go on.
Yes. And then there might be a few more questions. And then we're like, how spicy do you want
this to be? And you get to adjust and control because that's part of what we want to provide.
you know, you getting the exact kind of vibe.
Of course.
Right, because maybe a woman doesn't want it to be as explicit as a guy or vice versa.
I totally understand that.
But wait, when you first go in, are there certain categories that you go to or you just start from scratch?
You start from scratch, but we're adding things like the categories that you exactly mentioned into our onboarding of say, hey, what are some of these ideas that you're curious about?
It could be kinks.
It could be sexual acts.
It could be, you know, dynamics.
It could be like, you know, male, female, male, things like that.
And so after that, after you do that selection process, we generate a new, unique story for you immediately.
And it's the first chapter.
So the chapter starts generating like Chatsinit in front of you.
Okay.
Yep.
And then it's actually quite a lot.
It's almost like 800 to,
a thousand words. So we do give a lot. And right after it ends, like you can go read it,
you can do anything else. But we give three, by the way, generated story options for continuing
what's next. And you can use those, by the way, but you could also not use them and totally
change the direction for your story of Kathy and Kathleen. Like maybe we'll be like, and by the way,
it's tailored to the context of that story that was generated. So it's like,
It remembers.
Right.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah, I love.
They start going at it.
Option two, like one of them starts crying.
You know, option three, a male enters the closet.
Something like that.
We make it really, like we've been tailoring it to make the options kind of like spicy,
interesting, diverse and also surprising.
And so you can choose any of them or you can continue.
And when you continue, it does the generation again in its chapter two.
then it can be chapter three.
But what you said about editing is totally right,
as in, like, let's say you look at chapter one,
and this is where we've seen a lot of our users
love actually reading and rereading and making that fantasy
they're really their own,
because we have editing tools that are also AI empowered
that allow you to reimagine or change things.
So instead of, like, having to type,
like, you know, maybe let's say in chapter one,
you guys go into the closet and then have this like dialogue and you say oh that's too slow you can highlight
parts of it and say like hey can i can we like amp that up or uh give me just give me new paragraphs
where Kathy Kathy like escalates the the the the sexual tension you know yeah yeah because yes and
then that really makes it your own in this more edit edity way
of course.
And then finally, you can even actually remix or branch off of your current story.
So like, let's say, and this is very common, you really liked your Kathy and Kathleen first chapter story.
Yeah.
And you're like, I just, I want to keep this one.
But I want to also use this as a base for something else.
Like I want Cass in this like just separate universe, Kathy to ditch Kathleen and go for Mike instead.
Yeah.
But you really still want to keep the base of the first story.
We give you tools to basically like branch off of your stories so that you can keep the old ones,
but like still retain these like new ideas.
And we see that's used a lot.
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Kathy, to ditch Kathleen and go from Mike instead.
Yeah.
But you really still want to keep the base of the first story.
we give you tools to basically like branch off of your stories so that you can keep the old ones
but like still retain these like new ideas. And we see that's used a lot. That is so interesting.
And how long for it, say you stick with the first book, right, or whatever, like how long does that,
how many chapters will it typically give you? So you can, there's two things that you could do.
you can either just do it yourself.
So you're reading it one chapter at a time and then you select things and type in whatever
you want.
So it is one chapter at a time or if you just push essentially like continue automatically,
you will see chapter one, then chapter two, then chapter three.
So it won't give you, let's say five chapters at time.
But it will, we do have an option for you to almost like play through.
however many chapters you're interested in at the time without you even typing.
However, what it will look like, because, you know, we want to make it unique to that story is it will go one chapter at a time.
It will.
Yes.
Once you play it through, so let's say you continue the first one, the first chapter, automatically you press that and then the second one and then third one, you will be able to go
back, it's all saved down, and read those three chapters again.
Like, no cost.
Like, that's, like, that's yours forever.
And I think that's often what we see.
Our users are going back and, like, reading and rereading and reliving that,
sort of story.
And then, as I mentioned before, if you so dare, if you're so, you know, interested,
you might reread it and say, okay, I kind of want chapter two to be different.
Let me branch or fork off of this one.
this time around.
Yeah, oh my God.
And do most people, like, if you had to put a percentage,
like do most people wind up sharing their stories,
or do most people keep them to themselves?
Most people keep to themselves,
but we've seen the percentage increase.
And it's been very interesting
because we've attracted a lot of folks who say,
hey, I've always thought about writing erotic stories,
maybe even doing it as a career,
but like, you know, I never had the confidence
or just, it's more, you know, like normal folks,
like non-writers.
And like by, I guess, seeing that more and more people
are sharing their stories,
I think there's this increase of confidence
of saying, like, I will also start sharing my own things.
And so there's a lot of work that we're starting to do
that I think you actually like pointed to a great question
that we want to have.
help nurture kind of the creator spirit because because we don't we are not like kind of an
AI writing tool so it's like you know like AI writing tools are like authors are coming in writing
their books we have more I guess like casual people who I think are starting to become more
more curious of saying I could be a creator on Red Quill actually whoa a lot of people are
reading my stories oh that's interesting like a totally different you're creating like a whole new
world really because it's like a whole new category of people because listen writing's
fucking hard for anyone who isn't a writer okay I can't write for shit and I just had a book
published okay it's coming out October 18. The hardest thing I've ever done I had to be on the phone
with someone else helping it's torture for most people unless they're a writer but you have like
you created like this whole world it's super interesting where people are sort of creating right
maybe not in that they're writing every word they are crafting it
and it is a part of their own creativity,
and they can kind of get a name for themselves, right?
Like you said, like, oh, all these people like my story,
like, I did good.
Like, that was a hot one.
So it is a part of them creating something.
It's just in a slightly different way,
but it is still like their own art
because they're the ones that are really,
like they might not be writing it,
but they are crafting the story.
Absolutely.
And in what we even see in the data,
we're not asking,
our users to write certain categories.
Like we really are trying to give the tools,
the platform, the enablement to write whatever you want
because that's exactly what you want.
And I'll say is it's very interesting because we see
like what gets searched a lot on our site,
what get, like how people come to our site.
And we've seen that some of the stories
that just a regular user probably who do not think that they're a writer
or intend to ever be a creator or anything published,
has driven high traffic to our site
because I think other people maybe are searching those terms.
Like maybe they're searching best chastity story
or chastity whatever story or cheating, whatever story.
And the red quill story comes up on Google search.
Oh, you're kidding.
And so it's really cool.
Yes, I'm not getting, it's like, I remember looking at our Google keywords
and I thought,
what is this story that is sending us traffic?
And it's more and more.
I'm like, what is this other story
that people are coming into Red Quill for?
And these are just posted stories
that our users, it's just their interest
and they just happen to publish it
onto our site publicly.
So I'm really grateful to the people who are brave
and I think what I think a lot of our users
are starting to see and realize,
lives is like people are reading them.
Yeah.
And we're going to start trying to nurture them as like more creators.
Because like YouTube, like TikTok, I think what's amazing about platforms, like creator
platforms is the people who rise up were not for YouTube like videographers and like for
TikTok.
They were not like an expert short form content, you know, creator.
They just happened to film things that they were super interested in, make really good.
stuff and then people came.
Yeah, and I even tell you with the podcasting world, like I started podcasting 11 years ago
when nobody was, you know, and I pinch myself.
Wow, that's early.
Yeah, I pinch myself every day because I have a very big audience and I do very well.
And I'm so happy because this is like my God-given talent, what I meant to do and I love it.
And, you know, but if I started now, I'd never be able to build my audience because
there's so many people in.
So I feel like because you guys are still kind of new.
Like it's like, you know, getting in early on platforms and making a name.
for yourself. There's something to say for that, right? Because sometimes, like, you know, who knows
where you're going to be so many years from now. And these people that are crafting these stories
and getting successful over there, you know, like, who knows what could be happening for them, right?
I mean, it is a, that is something that happens. You want to get in early, I think, on platforms,
for sure, especially because this is one. How do you guys survive, though? I mean, like, literally
right now, because I always have to sleep with one eye open because I talk about sacks. And even on
my Squarespace website, I didn't realize, like, I couldn't start using those,
words that I have in my episodes on there because Squarespace does not allow adult content.
You know what I mean?
Like, how the fuck did you guys lock yourself down in the right way?
Like, I mean, I get, did you realize how much you'd have to do to get the okay for this
kind of content to exist on a place and Google and all this kind of stuff?
Because there's a lot of like anti-sex everywhere you turn.
Absolutely.
Absolutely.
And it's, it is, it, it makes.
makes me more interested as the days go on in free speech.
It makes you want to scream it even more.
Yeah.
And freedom of expression because you see stuff online where you say that's very violent and hateful.
And yet you do not allow for sexual content.
Yeah, yeah, you're right.
So I would say one of the reasons why I think we're able to tow the lines and romance books, too, by the way, are quite smutty.
And that is all over TikTok.
And there's a little bit of a, if you know, you know, is what I will say is, yeah.
Yes.
It does help that we have no explicit visuals.
So like images, videos, we do not do.
And also, even though our product is focused on romance and erotica, we do also have content.
And this is so fascinating to me, despite our.
branding, we have stories and people who use our product for not at all sexual content.
It's just because of the storytelling, the intimacy, the tools, like you kind of like asked
about the platform.
Yeah.
And so we have been able to straddle that line of we are a story product, a story building
product.
We are focused, however, I want to still be clear.
You know, while I'm chatting with you, Kathy, it's like we're focused on this.
sort of your fantasies that can be anything.
But actually what I've seen is that some fantasy are not sexual at all, which is very,
very, very fascinating.
Like some cheating stories don't involve sex at all.
They just involve cheating.
You know, isn't that interesting?
Yeah, I love that.
They're still working out through something or they want to tell a certain story and you guys
have a specific way of doing that.
That's so easy.
using your tools.
Yes, exactly.
Or things like, you know, we talked a little bit about femdom.
And femdom could be sexual, but there's also just, you know, a woman being the
dominant to a submissive man.
Yes, that's a big thing.
There may not be sexual acts.
Yeah, female-led relationships.
I get a lot of that.
Yeah.
Exactly.
Exactly.
So luckily, we've been able to straddle that line and communicate a lot more around
our story and I think that's why it's so important for us to do that more because when when someone
lands on our site they might be like oh my god that is just like what is this you know this like
this thing but there's so much more to it and so that's one thing that we're working on what you did
mention about google and these other places you're totally right they're very sensitive to that
when we've like looked at keywords and things like that they've marked us at times oh
you're like adult content, you're this.
And I do think that's something that we're trying to figure out more of, you know,
how do we,
how do we showcase more sides of our product that are, you know, romance oriented or what I
mentioned to you, that are the fantasy content so that we can reach more people.
So that's what I will say about.
Well, because it is a...
I feel frustrated at times.
Oh, no, me too.
Like, I was like...
Very frustrated.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah, I got thrown out of...
Uh, you know.
YouTube at some, at one point, I, I'm on Patreon there since 2019.
I started having issues, you know, I'm like, I'm starting my own site.
And then when I realize I can't be on Squarespace, I'm like, literally, that's what I've
been using chat cheap.
Like, I need the most secure adult content place, like, where I could just go and build my
shit and sleep with two eyes closed and not have to fucking worry.
Like, where could I do that?
Because that's where I need to live because the rest of the world is like cuckoo for
Cocoa Puff's about sex, you know?
Like you said, it's like, what's the big deal?
You could go on Twitter and see people like hate speech, like literally telling people to die and that's okay.
But like consensual sex is still a big fucking no-no.
And I get it for little kids and stuff.
But when you are behind a pay site, like come on.
You know, that's what I want to ask you because you guys are like 18 plus, you know, do they have to like to get into your site because you have all this kind of content you have to make like do they have to verify or just say they're 18 plus?
Like how do you verify 18 plus on your site?
That's a great question, and we have been able to talk to legal folks and people who are impugent compliance.
Yeah.
And for us, at least, and this is where I mentioned the straddling the line.
Yeah.
We don't offer visual.
So that helps.
Anything visual.
That is a whole line for me and for us and for anyone who's listening, you know, starting a company like or, or,
doing content, that is treated as very, very, very different from text.
Exactly.
And that is why we, we actually very cautious about things.
And so we do require attestation for sure, about 18 and re-appertis, re-verifying or
just saying that when you sign in.
If you have explicit visuals, that is the line, though.
But there's no visuals on your.
your site. Exactly. Exactly. And so that's when I think like you are, and it's not necessarily
required, but almost like essentially, uh, heavily, you know, you will get in trouble if you
don't verify true ID and things like that if you have these explicit visuals on our site,
on your site. And we don't. Since you don't, because I think that would be a barrier for people
signing up. Maybe they don't want to share that information and they just want to be on the DL and it's
not like they're doing anything bad. They're just creating some hot,
content, you know, like you said, text.
So they don't have to like photo ID or any of that stuff, which I think is great.
But they can go on there and write a really fucking naughty story and have some
if they want.
Exactly.
Or read some things, you know.
And the funniest thing to me is that if you look on sites like Reddit or other
parts of the internet.
Yeah.
And I know Reddit and other platforms have mentioned, oh, this percentage of the site is
you know, safe for work.
All say is go on X.
I know, I'm sure you know, go on Reddit.
Oh my God, full on insertion.
I do believe a high percentage is safe for work,
but all saves, I think a high percentage is not safe for work.
Totally.
On those sites.
Totally.
But wait, I'm on your site now and I love that I could go into fetishes and kink.
And look, the third thing in is lactation.
I, like, had a woman on recently who talked about,
about that as something that her husband got into.
And I can't tell you how many people come out of the woodwork like, oh my God, I'm into
that too or blah, blah, blah.
And I'm like, you know, I'm always sort of learning kind of probably like the way you guys
are of like all these different kinks that people have.
Yes.
Can I ask you a question?
Yeah, sure.
Yeah, of course.
Have you through your podcast journey, learned things and fantasies that you have about
yourself?
Yes, 100%.
Okay.
Yeah, I tell my audience. I'm very honest about it. Like I, because like, listen, I started my show and it became a show about sex by accident, but I was always the type person that was very non-judgmental and open-minded, but I never did anything crazy. Like, I haven't done any, half the things that my, anyone's done on my show, you know. But I, like, I love hearing the stories. And over time, it really talked to people for 11 years and people being so open. It made me, A, realize that I have a cuck queen fantasy, like, you know, and I never put it together until someone.
told me and it was about sort of taking like a distrustful nature and having a history of cheating
and taking that same energy and turning it into like more of a turn on instead of like a crazy
thing and I heard that from callers and I was like oh my god like that is kind of me and I'm kind
into that and I realize I was into that and then you know I yeah so yeah I totally have changed my
mind and learned more about myself through that just like what you were saying happens with people
on your website and that's going to happen. I was just talking talking to Dr. David Lay, who's like a big
PhD guy in the sex world, you know, sex clinical, sex therapist. And he was saying that, like,
you know, he was wondering, like, is it cuckleding and hot wafing becoming more mainstream because,
you know, more people are doing it or were they always doing it? No one is talking about it. And I was
like, I kind of think it's like more people are just realizing stuff about themselves because more
people are talking about certain things. So like, for me, I never, I never knew there was a term for it.
And therefore, because there was no term for it, it was like a secret thing in my head.
You know what I mean?
But once you hear other people do it and you realize you're that way, maybe then you could
cop to it and then maybe you tell your partner, you know.
And then, you know, everyone's like not living these fucking secret lives because I get a lot
of those people on my show, you know.
And so I do think that people learn, like the more you live in that world and the more
open you are to learning about different things and hearing about different fetishes and kinks
and all that kind of stuff, you can't, you might wind up realizing you got one yourself that
you didn't know of for sure.
That is so,
that is so deep.
Yeah, I totally agree.
Since working on Red Quill,
I've had more of a,
you know,
language around BDSM.
Right.
And that's a very,
very wide world.
But I realized
there are parts of BDSM
that I never had the language for.
Yeah, I just like didn't know myself
and, you know,
had not read things,
read stories,
like seeing these different ideas.
And I thought, wow.
Okay.
People are getting educated probably because I know that like when I first did my show and I had my first BDSM guy on, it was during the time when, you know, that stupid book, 50 Shades of Gray was out and that was all the rage.
And everyone sort of got their education of BDSM from that book.
But it so wasn't like what my episode was.
I was like so surprised that, you know, 90% of BDSM was like fucking nothing to do with sex.
And it was like a mind fuck and it was very mental and it was very intellectual and everything.
And it was the most unsexy conversation I had, but it was so fascinating because I was like, oh my God, this book is, I get why it became so mainstream.
But I don't think it was very sort of, it didn't paint the right picture, you know, because all of the, and everyone since I've talked to since, BDSM is very, you know, in your head.
And it's a very, a lot of it has nothing to do with sex.
Oh, 100%.
Yes.
Now that I learn more, I just think,
50 shades of gray, I enjoyed reading it.
It was not really well written, but it was entertaining.
That's what they say, yeah.
I never read it, but that's what the word on the street was.
Totally.
I actually think it's a washed down version of, I don't know, BDSM for sure.
Yeah, yeah.
And I'm not even sure what version of BDSM it is,
but it actually has, yeah, anyway,
that's a whole other conversation.
But it does go, it's exactly what you were saying before, though, that you do have some stories that have nothing to do with sex, but they're still like maybe taboo, like female-led relationships and femdom and humiliation, you know.
So I talk to people and a lot of fetishes, you know, whether it's pantyhose or, you know, I talk to a guy, you know, sometimes it's just about, it does, it's not, doesn't have to be just about sex, you know, but they do want to live it out, you know, the guy that's got the female-led relationship thing going on.
they do want the woman to take control and whatever, the guy that wants to be humiliated,
he does want me to be bossy and rude to him when he calls in.
You know, it's like, I don't take that role, but that's what they, that's what they fucking want.
And sometimes, like you said, it doesn't have to do about sex, but they could go, like,
kind of live out that narrative and put themselves in the position to really believe that they're
living that out in their real life, which I think is such a great opportunity for people
that maybe don't want to, like, cheat.
I did talk to a company recently that we did AI girlfriends and boyfriends.
And I was like, I think like, you know, you're helping people maybe not cheat because, like,
I feel like a lot of people like maybe have these secret fantasies and everything, you know,
and if you could kind of like let them out and like on your site, put them on paper.
And, you know, because what you resist persists and the more you hold it in, the dirtier it gets and then you got to scratch your itch.
And before you know it, you know, back in the day you're on Craigslist meeting someone in a fucking alley way.
But maybe you could do if you're in a relationship, but you don't want to.
you could just go live out your fantasies like this.
It's like, and because it's so specific and it's, it's kind, you know, and it's, you
could make it your own.
It could really be way more fulfilling than, you know, watching a porn that has other
people in it.
Because it's like, it's really based on you.
Exactly.
And I think you seeing yourself, as we talked about, as the main character, can be very
helpful. We see in our, this is my guess, by the way, because there's no true ability.
Yeah. But I suspect there are users who are exploring their sexuality, too, on our product.
Yeah. Yeah. I love that. Because it's very typical in things like fan fiction, things, and just genres like
erotica, where they're more representation of queer folks, because often, you know,
you're exploring your sexual interests and then also your sexual orientation.
And so, like to what you said, I think there's quite a lot of this, you know, it is what you're,
what you're looking for.
And sometimes what you don't even know you're looking for, you're putting it into paper
or expressing yourself into these like narratives.
And I do think the stories that we tell ourselves or the stories about ourselves,
are very much, you know, the stories of our lives.
So it's definitely been a great thing to honestly see.
You did mention AI boyfriend and girlfriends.
And one thing I am sensitive to, and I just want to be clear is, you know, we have all these
potential AI tools and does that make people addicted to like sex?
Yeah, that's the moral dilemma.
Erotica.
Yeah.
And I want to be clear that at Red Quill, it's something I do think about.
It's not as if this is like, oh, yeah, oh, awesome.
Like, just stories and arousing people that's helpful and helping them express themselves.
So we do care a lot and think about, is this an addictive product?
Do we think we're helping people?
What are the safety controls?
And so that is something like, you know, I do want to mention that it's not like I'm turning a blind eye or we're turning.
We're like completely ignorant.
that. Or even using it and wanting it to go fucking like addict mode for people so that you get more
people. Like you're you're you don't want to do that like that is what you want to do because listen to
back of the day a lot of these companies that did come out these social platforms like you know
they were all about how do we get these people addicted and stay on you know I mean they they created
everything to make you not be able to walk away so you're saying like you guys are making sure that
you don't come from that place on your site. Yeah and I think and
And by the way, those patterns around getting people to pay more, you know, just at the point,
I think in some of these like AI, girlfriend companies or boyfriend companies are like, it's like,
just when the AI is going to send the dirty picture, it's like, oh, pay 10 more dollars.
I think there's patterns like that.
We're not interested in inserting into our product.
Yeah.
But I think that's why we're trying to tap into things.
like this is a story, the narrative, and it's a little bit longer form. So it does mean probably,
I want to be clear, it does mean we probably will never make as much money as these other types
of companies. But, you know, I still hope we will provide something like super valuable that
people will pay for and people do enjoy. Yeah, I love what you guys got going on here. It's not
safe for work. You could do a little taboo stuff. It's fetishes, it's kicks. It's all the stuff that
we talk about here on my show and for people that maybe don't want to go out and live this stuff
in real life. Like this is a fun place to live it out and get really specific and create their own
stories. You know, give your shoutouts to everything so that like people know how to go and sign up
and check out your website. I will put a link in the description for people, but why don't you just
explain? Awesome. So we are, we are Red Quill. We are a app for creating your fantasies and
turning them into erotic romance stories through AI.
And we're at redquill.net.
Kind of crazy, by the way, that we have a dot net.
Um, you're out, a little old school.
But we are very inspired by like erotica, old school, and also even fan fiction
world.
In fan fiction, there's a site called Archive of Our Own, A.O3, and it's dot net.
So that's a, that's a nod to that.
We will be having and coming out with the moral.
app sometimes soon, but right now we're just on web, redquill.net, but you can access it on
web, mobile web, and it's all easy to use. And what's great is like once you just say you're
18 or plus, you're like you're going to be able to see everything. It's not like a site that's
completely locked down and you just have to like go in and create a membership and sign up before
you could see what the fuck is going on. I mean, like there's a lot of information right on your
homepage to see like what stuff is going on and everything. And then if you're curious about
doing stories, there are different forms of like memberships that you could pay for and get in.
Exactly. Actually, for right now, reading is all free. So anything that someone publishes.
Yeah, that's great. Yep. It's for free. And you even get a few, you get credits for free to turn your
stories and your ideas into stories every day. But if you want to do more, we offer subscriptions
and ask you to pay. Right. And that comes after. But if people want to get the low down, what's great is that
there's so much information just like right there for free so that they could go and check it out,
read some stories.
And then once they, you know, want to make these stories their own, they could go in and create a
membership.
So I will put a link in the description.
I'm so glad I had you on.
You know, I know you guys like reached out for like sponsorship.
I'm like, why would why not have someone on from the store from the company talk?
Because I think that this is like an interesting.
I love the AI stuff that's happening now.
I think it's really going to change the game, you know, 20 years from now, like the sex and
kink and fetish world, you know, these kinds of things.
Down the line really do impact things.
I think in a positive way, I think it's really interesting.
I think it's a great way for people to sort of let their fantasies out of themselves
instead of keeping them in these dark places in their mind, you know.
So I think it's great what you guys are doing.
And thanks so much for calling in and sharing all this information.
I think it's super interesting.
And I love what you guys are doing.
Thank you, Kathy, for the awesome open conversation.
and I want to say for letting us tell our story.
Yeah, I love it.
I think it's important to get that whole backstory.
It's super interesting.
So thanks so much, Kat, for calling in.
This was fun.
And your episode will be up very soon, okay?
Awesome.
Thank you.
Thanks, Kat.
Bye.
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oh, this sucks, okay? It's like pretty amazing. There's tons of people on there and everybody
shares content with each other. That's what's great about Discord. You get to post your own videos and
pictures and there's tons of channels and we have contests over there. It's a super fun place to be.
I will be giving anyone that buys my book at any time access to my Discord. It is private.
This is the only way you could get in is through me giving you the link. And that's why I think
my Discord is so great because I have vetted people. It's not like it's just open to the public.
So everybody that's in there are people that listen to my show and people that listen to my show are
fucking great. So my Discord is fucking great. My book is great. You're going to love it. If you buy it,
all you got to do is send me the receipt or a picture of proof that you bought it and I will give you free access to
my Discord send it to Strictly Anonymous Podcasts.com. You could find my book in the link in the
description, okay, or just Google at Strictly Anonymous Confessions, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers.
You can find it anywhere. You buy books. Send me the picture and I'll give you access to my
Discord email, strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. Anyway, thanks so much for listening.
