Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1265 - Stephanie and Jason are Into Swinger Resorts, Threesomes, Hooking up with Virgins and More

Episode Date: November 3, 2025

Stephanie an Jason are into swinger resorts, threesomes, hooking up with virgins and more and they called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how they wound up at their first swingers club and why it wasn’t a great experience, their first couple swap experiences and how they both felt watching each other with other partners, their trip to Hedonism and how and why that changed things for the better for them, their trip to Desire Resort and the naughty photo shoot they took part in and what that led to, the virgin she hooked up with and what went down, how and why they decided to "do" a ton mjore virgins, how Stephanie enjoys their ffm theeesomes and solo hook ups with women, how and why Jason enjoys couple swapping the most, Stephanie’s dvp and gangbang experience and what went down, the ages of the virgins they’ve been with and how many she’s been with as of now plus a whole lot more. You can find them here: https://virginitysnatchers.com **To see HOT pics of STEPHANIE & JASON plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON https://beducate.me/pd2536-anonymous  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Use code: ANONYMOUS69 to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14-day money-back guarantee ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://brooklynbedding.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use my promo code STRICTLY at checkout to get 30% off sitewide ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To get 10% off Drive Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://uberlube.com/discount/Strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code: STRICTLY for 10% off Uberlube aka the BEST Lube EVER To get $15 OFF your female oxytocin arousal tablets and more, use code STRICTLY here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/xLQ3Jv⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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All you got to do is use code 37712 on SDC.com or just go to the description and click on the link. okay, today I have a super interesting story. Jason and Stephanie are on. They run their own podcast called The Awkward Pillow Talk podcast. They're very much swingers. They have a very open relationship. But it didn't start out that way. They have been together a long time. Stephanie was very reluctant to enter into the lifestyle. Jason was the one who guided them into it. Their story is super interesting, I think, because, you know, Stacey was very reluctant. and their first few experiences were very bad, but she continued on. And their first visit to a swingers club is like a very funny story.

But they kept going at it. They eventually started like couple swapping and hooking up with men and then women. And then they really love lifestyle resorts. They go through their whole chronological order of like how they tried everything and what, you know, turned them on and who they hooked up with and all that kind of good stuff. And then they wound up getting in, doing like a photo shoe just for fun when they were at a lifestyle resort and they decided to post that stuff on. And then it turned into something where they were content creating online as well. And they stumbled upon this whole thing where Stephanie fucks virgins. It's a whole interesting thing. I mean, it comes up in their story. I'm not going to tell you their whole story because I don't want to give it away. You're going to have to hear how it comes up in the story kind of by accident. And now they do a lot of that. She's been with a lot of virgin. She's done DVP, she's done gangbings. And she is very much like a very shy, quiet girl, Stephanie.

That's what kind of what their podcast is about. They talk a lot about, like, anxiousness and entering into lifestyle and all that kind of good stuff, but there's no anxiousness in their videos and their content. I'll put links to all their stuff in the description, but you're going to hear their whole story, which is super interesting. I also have pictures of them over my Patreon. So anyway, I'm going to get right to it and get right back on with Jason and Stephanie. Hi, Jason and Stephanie.

welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you guys doing today? Pretty good. Thanks for having us. Well, listen, I got to say, Stephanie didn't even say hi. And when I was trying to do sound check before, I'm just going to let everyone know, I was like, Stephanie, do you talk? Because you guys are a podcaster.

Do you have a podcast called, let me just first explain who you guys are and then talk about how Stephanie is a little bit more quiet than Jason. But you guys do have a podcast called the Awkward Pillow Talk podcast, right? That's what it's called? Yes, it is. Okay, there she is. Stephanie, talk a little louder yourself. So low.

Talk a little louder. You guys are podcasts, but you're swingers, right? You eventually started like an only fan and stuff like that. You also do content. What do you talk about on your podcasts? Is it just like, what does awkward pillow talk mean? Like, you know. I think he's going to fit in perfectly with you talking about Stephanie being quiet

because it's literally about her anxiety of getting into the lifestyle. Oh, I like that because I listen, probably a lot of women are in that same position, you know, or people that want to cross over think that they can't because maybe they're like Stephanie, right? But Stephanie made that leap. So I think Stephanie's story is super interesting. Yeah, it's the timid housewife that is, you know, maybe the image isn't quite there for society. They don't look at her and say, hey, she can be a, you know, a sex symbol.

She can want to have sex. And that's kind of what she became and what she talks about with other people now. And she is very outgoing. You just got to get her warmed up a little bit. I'll warm her up. But listen, doesn't everybody want that girl? Isn't that girl the hottest girl? Like the librarian, you know, quote unquote, or like the quiet girl that's like a

fucking slut in the bedroom, you know, like someone that's so not overt that you would never expect it. I think that makes her hotter, right? That's the dream. Yeah. Well, you live in the dream. I mean, let's get like a snapshot of where you guys are at now. Like, are you married or are you dating?

What's your deal? I'll let Steph answer. we've been married for 13 years and we've known each other way longer than that and it was what probably 11 years 11 years ago that he brought up joining the lifestyle in initially I said absolutely not like no way because the way I was raised was you know you you stay with the person that you're married with you don't go outside your relationship and he did some convincing and And for his 30th birthday, we went to a swinger club. We were living out near Nashville at the time. And we decided to just go look at it.

We weren't going to, like, do anything. We just wanted to just see what it was all about. And it was an experience. It was not great. So he, uh, wait, well, wasn't great about it. So he reached out to the owner and said, I have one shot. My wife wants to him. I want to take my wife.

Jason's funny. Jason's smart. He was like, I have one shot. And, you know, I need to know the best night possible to come. And the owner responds back and he goes, Thursday's a perfect night. We're like, great. So we went out to Nashville. It was about a 45 minute drive to where we were at from where we were at.

And went out, got everything all set up. And the guy was showing us around. And we just kind of were like wandering around. and we were noticing there was a lot of guys around. And there wasn't a lot of women. There wasn't a lot of couples. And there was really, it was one woman. And she had slut written on the back of her like pants.

And so I was like, okay, this is a little much. And so, you know, we just kind of, we got a tour of the area. And, you know, we were like nervous. And so there was a pool table upstairs. And so we just kind of sat down and started playing pool. And this one guy came up to us. He was a very large man. And he was like, you know, I'm the owner of the nudist resort, like the local nudist resort.

He was like, if you need anyone to watch you have sex tonight, I will volunteer. And we were like, okay, you know, probably not going to happen, but appreciate it. And then I was like, I think I need a minute. So we went into one of like the rooms. And we barely got that door closed. And we hear a knock on the door. It was the guy. He was like, are you ready?

Oh, no. Like, we are not ready for you. And so I was like, okay, I think I'm ready to go home. Like, this was just, it was very overwhelming because there was, there was no women and there was no couples. And so as we were getting ready to leave, some other guy, we sat down in a booth. And some guy came up and he was like, hey, I'd love to, you know, play with you. And we're like, nope, not, not interested, appreciate it. And like, nobody was taking no for an answer.

Oh, my God. And so as we were leaving, we ran into the owner. and he was like, how was your first experience? And we're like, you know, oh, no, I'm sorry. Let me back up real quick. As we were leaving, we heard noises coming from a room. And so Jason is a very curious guy. So he was like, let's go see what it is.

So we go over there and it's a bunch of guys just all staying in there. And there's this one woman just going to town on probably four or five different men, if not more. And then they see me and they start like shoving me closer to like get in on the action. and I'm like absolutely not. Like I am mortified. And so that's when we started to leave. And the owner of the club was like, how was your first experience?

And we were like, you know, it was pretty terrible. Like nobody took no for an answer. There was no women. Like it just all around was not great. And he was like, well, what'd you expect? You came on gang bang Thursday. What?

And we were like, are you fucking kidding me? Because I'm like, we had one shot at this. and Jason was mortified and somehow he was able to convince me to come back and give it another try and here we are. Well, listen, you really know how to tell a story. I'm glad you left the night that he told you to come to the end because it's so fucking funny. I'm slightly obsessed with your first Swinger Club experience because it's like, you know, it's kind of like a great story. It's hilarious. I rarely hear that story, but it's so fucking funny.

And because I really feel like Jason was doing the right thing. It was very smart of him to call ahead and be like, you know, he knew he had like one shot. And the guy is like the worst person to receive this information because he tells you to come on gang bang night. Like, what the fuck was he thinking? So dumb. Like, it was so ridiculous. Oh my God. That's great.

That's great. So you wound up, though, going back. Did you go back to the same club just on a different night? I believe we did go to the same club. And there was a couple of them in the area where we were at. So we kind of like tried them all. And they were all, okay. They weren't like.

She hated them all. Really? Why were they all? Like, what was the vibe that you didn't like as a woman who, you know, was just coming into this? That's not really that on board. And, you know, what was it that was like turning you off instead of turning you on? I think it was just the, it was just overwhelming. Like, there was just a lot going on, a lot to see, a lot to like just take in.

Yeah. And it just was too much. And so we realized. Everybody was 30 years older than us. Yeah, because you guys are 30. You're only 30 at this point, right? Yeah, we're mid-30. She was off.

I was, I was, I was, I was, I was, for my 26th birthday. Oh, God. So you guys are still. Sorry, it wasn't your 30th. We went to a Swingers resort for my 30th birthday. That's right. You're a mid-20s. Okay, so you're fresh meat.

You're fresh meat in that Swinger Club for sure. Exactly. Oh, my God. So it just gets to be a little too much and we we've come to realize that we are not really like the club people. Yeah. I mean, we enjoy going, but we, it's just too much. And so we like doing like the smaller intimate like groups or we go to like a resort like hedonism too in Jamaica where it's just a party. Like we go both ways.

But like the actual clubs itself, I think are not quite our scene. Let me ask you a couple of questions, though, and then we're going to get back on track to what you did, you know, after the clubs. Like, what were, did you have any rules or regulations going in or were you, like, had you not even discussed that because you were just going to kind of look and you didn't plan on playing or anything? Like, what was on the table and what were you guys looking for to do? The rule, in order to get her to agree to go to that, the rule was that we were just going to look. Nobody was going to touch her. and we she probably wouldn't even know what a soft swap or a full swap was at that point in time because she was like vanilla vanilla so vanilla okay uh so no i don't i don't think yeah i think we had

discussed that and she knew that there was you know no chance that i was going to you know change my mind but i think i was probably hopeful when i got once i got her into that situation that something magical would happen and she would just open up and be this crazy slut. And that's just not a thing that happened. In fact, it took a very long time to get her to the point to where she's at. Okay, so what happens after those swinger clubs? Because they're all kind of not great experiences,

and I'm assuming that you never played, even with each other in front of people during those experiences? So I think part of what we enjoyed about it was that we could laugh about it afterwards. because the experiences were so bad. Yeah. And there are things where you're just like, I almost can't believe that I actually got to see that in real life. Yeah.

And then you start switching things out, be like, all right, well, if it wasn't that weird old couple banging in the corner, you know, if it was a more attractive couple, would that have made the night better for us?

Heck yeah, it would. So what if we, you know, what if we switch this bad part out for this good part? And we tried to begin with a different combination. and every time we did one of these things, we walked away with a story because we're awkward as fuck.

That's just who we are. And we're people pleasers to a certain extent. We don't want to hurt people's feelings. And this, going into these swingers clubs aren't something that you were taught how to do. You know, there's no etiquette on it. So we're trying to navigate this as awkward-ass people. And every experience ended up being. hilarious to us. And we had sex in front of people, but I don't think we ever actually swapped with

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And this, going into these swingers clubs aren't something that you were taught how to do. You know, there's no etiquette on it. So we're trying to. navigate this as awkward-ass people. And every experience ended up being hilarious to us. And we had sex in front of people, but I don't think we ever actually swapped with anybody at a club. Yeah. No, I, listen, your stories are hilarious. And I have had, like, I remember having one woman on who gave sort of all the, like, Swinger in-house rules. And I was like, how would people know this stuff? You know what I mean? It's not like it's out there. Most clubs don't print it up on it. There's no menu when you walk in like and you know there's a lot of maybe like you have to reject people

if you're not turned on right because there needs to be that consent and people will ask you and you know so i i can imagine it being uncomfortable if here you guys are like super young and hot and like everyone's like way older than you and you're not into anyone that you have to just keep being like no thank you you know you feel bad right i don't even think we were getting approached that much i think we look too standoffish to be honest and looking back on it now we probably We're just in our own heads staring out at people, you know. We also didn't realize how clicky a lot of these clubs are. Yeah, I've heard that before.

Not often. You know, like little text groups and stuff. So that way when they show up at the club, there's already a group of people that kind of know who each other are. Yeah. And we missed out, I think, on those because we, you know, we're parents on top of all this. So we had to, you know, it was last minute for us to be able to go to a club. We didn't have weeks ahead of time to be, oh, we're going to have a sitter.

you know, four weeks ahead of time so we can go to this event and we can be part of this text group. So it was all random for us when we walked into the clubs, I'd say. So it's clicking. Okay, so what did you try next since the swingers clubs like, you know, wasn't sort of panning out. It's interesting though, Jason, you must have been happy that Stephanie was still kind of on board and not turned off even after all of these bad experiences. There was always something. I know Steph is my best friend. So I know when she's annoyed in things, and I also know when she's still curious about things. And I could see I was riding that line of her being maybe annoyed, you know, depending on how far I pushed it, but also super curious about the things that were happening.

So we just focused a little more on the curiosity of it. And when opportunities arose, I'd take it. I would never push her into, you know, not doing it. because if she was not in the mood, there's no point of us going at all. Exactly. Nothing good was going to happen. Yeah, exactly. So what did you do then?

What was your next idea since the Swingers Clubs wasn't panning out? The next idea was to see if we could actually just curate our own fun at home and host. Yeah. And that started out with just another couple coming over to our house and doing some side-by-side play where we watched them and they watched us. And then, you know, that progresses from there to the next couple. Hey, what if the girls touched? And then it went to, you know, well beyond that. I think we've just experienced just about everything.

But it started slow. And what we realized is that Steph enjoys having a game plan for the play. So something in her personality just doesn't allow for the randomness of the situation to unfold. She wants to know, hey, you're going to come over and you're going to fuck me like this, like this, like this. and then we whatever she she wants to be able to actually like fulfill whatever it was in her mind and uh that's kind of what we started figuring out was hey we can actually just have people over and be like hey this is exactly what she wants to have happen this is the scenario we want to play out whatever that might be i love that listen i always say like my favorite saying is know thyself you know what i mean

if you know exactly who you are and what you fucking want like that's how how much how great is that you know and i think any guy that's going to come over that's going to be, you know, hook it up with a new woman. If you can tell him exactly what that woman wants, like, isn't he happy? Like, I think that's easier for him. I agree. Yeah. Absolutely.

She's, by honoring this system of her being able to basically decide what she wants and having, like, almost scripts for it. Yeah. It's allowed her to open up and be able to do more spontaneous things, too, because she's been able to experience the things that she's wanted to experience in her own time. So now she's not worried about them if they pop up. in a different scenario. Well, I know that there's a whole virgin thing going on here where you like to fuck virgins,

but let's not get over to that point just yet. Like, let me ask you, though, Stephanie, that first time you're, like, banging your guy in front of another couple and then the first time you guys do swaps, like, how were those experiences for you guys? For me, they were good because we always do same room play. So, like, he was there the entire time. So I could watch him. He could watch me.

and like he said he knows me I think better than I know myself so he could he can see like if I start to get uncomfortable or things are going like progressing too quickly for me like he puts a stop to it instead of me having to like vote like voice my like concerns

here he knows them and so he stops things before I even have to like say something so it's I never like once we started the like slow moving through like the swaps and all that I never really worried because I knew that he was there and he was going to take care of me regardless. But it is nice to watch.

Yes. Yeah. Yeah. No, I do like watching him with, you know, another woman. And he enjoys watching me, you know, with another man or another woman. But it's, you know, there's just something about it. Like, you know, you're sitting back and watching or even if you're still playing with somebody else in looking over and seeing them have fun too is.

It's pretty awesome. That must have been surprising for you, the reluctant vanilla girl, right? I mean, did you have any clue? Were you nervous going in, like, the first time that he was going to, like, fuck another girl in front of you? Were you afraid you'd be jealous? Or did you know that you wouldn't be? Like, how were you feeling before? I mean, I think there was always that hint of, like, I could be jealous.

Yeah. But after seeing it the first time, I was like, oh, I'm okay. Like, this is fine. And we always talk about it afterwards. like what did you like what did you not like what could we do different like how would you have handled or not handled but like how would you do these scenarios you know another time and so we are like such an open book with each other that there there's no room for jealousy we spend all of our time together we are with each other 24-7 so there's no like room for jealousy at all in our relationship which is

nice yeah i love that jason how did you did you just know for sure that you were like down to see stephan with another guy? Was that one of your kinks, something that you wanted to experience? So, I mean, I think, you know, every guy that grows up watching porn just, you know, probably fantasizes about it at some point. I was definitely worried about the jealousy aspect. Yeah. You know, I'd had ex-girlfriends that cheated on me and stuff. So I didn't have control over that situation, but I knew that Steph was 100% into me, like, could not live without me. So I wasn't really worried about somebody stealing her away. You know what I mean?

I wasn't worried about her being able to go get better than me necessarily. So it was more so, hey, let's just go out there and just see what happens. And thankfully the first time it happened, instead of feeling jealousy, I felt, you know, just crazy horniness instead. Yeah. Like there's your own porn star right there in front of you. That's what you were saying about the guys watching. Listen, before I did my show, it was very, I never thought any guy would want to. to see their girl, fuck another guy. And I always

may say this, like, the truth is I was a very open person. I always had a lot of guy friends, and they told me everything, and I talked to them about sex. So I was very, like, so I feel like, you know, if they maybe were into it, they would have told me, but nobody ever caught to that. And then when I started do my show, I realized this is like this big thing, and it turns out so many guys are

kind of into it. Yeah, I mean, I think it's one of those things where you're raised, and it almost feels like it's supposed to be emasculating, but to me, it's not, like, I'm not saying, hey, I can't provide for you. I mean, Stephanie and I have sex three times a day. Still, oh my God.

Yeah. And she still is wanting to go out and get, you know, more. It's not like she's lacking anything. It's that she wants something just a little different. Yeah, not bad. Okay, so now what kind of couples are you hooking up with? Like, you know, were they younger couples? Were they super hot?

Like, what were you looking for in the couples? Did you have the same taste? we have a pretty similar taste on people in general it's harder for us to find couples than it is for us to find single women that we like we do pretty well with single women

the couples are usually a little tougher because Steph usually is not as into the guy that always seems to be the case where the woman is always the one that is pictured and she's attractive yeah she's attractive and then the guy is this, you know, he looks kind of like a keyboard troll. And it is. It's just that un-heededness to it. Yeah.

I mean, listen, there's a lot more hot women than there are, you know, good-looking men. And that's because we have filler, we have, like, highlights. We have a lot to work with to change our appearance. We didn't have any of that shit. We'd be just as ugly as most guys out there. Do you know what I'm saying? Like, guys just have what they're born with. That's it.

Okay, sorry. I always make a joke, like, you know, Lori Vallo, she was like, that woman who murdered her kids and she was like a fucking 10. She was like a beautiful milf before she went into jail, you know, because she has all those things available. And then she goes into jail and she comes out and she looks like a four. And you're like, yeah, that's what we'd all look like if we didn't have, you know, stuff.

And that's why guys look like that. So it is harder for women, I think for sure to find guys that they're attracted to. Now, do you guys start hooking up with solo women because like Jason, Stephanie winds up thinking, realizing she's into women or are you into women? and do you hook up? Are you into women, Stephanie? Do you hook up with them? I do. At first, I was against it, but then we, I gave it a trial one time and I was like, oh, I actually like this. So we do hook up with the single women or even if they're married and I'm not necessarily into the guy. We'll say, well, is your wife interested in just playing with us? Like, we try to be respectful about it, but like we're not going to, like, I'm not going to take one for the team and sleep with the guy if I don't find him attractive. at all. So we try to find different ways around maybe getting with

the husband in the group. I would say we do it respectfully. We're not trying to get behind anybody's bag. We're not trying to ruin marriages, but there's plenty of guys out there that would be more than willing to lend their beautiful wife to an attractive couple. And then what happened in those scenarios? Do they watch? Do they just sit there and watch? Or like what happens in those

foursums or threasons? It's usually they report back. We haven't had them watch yet. That's actually one of my goals is to get one to just be like, hey, here's a camera. Like, you direct us. I think that would be a lot of fun. Yeah, but what's with the virgin thing? What's the fucking virgin thing?

Well, so that kind of comes down to, that comes along with when we started kind of exploring the single guy aspect. at one point how do we back this up yeah you don't have to listen you don't have to go there yet I mean you could keep going in chronological order it's up to you guys you know your story I don't well we're close

let me let me add two more little life-changing things in there and I think it'll make sense so Stephanie and I started going to these resorts probably maybe what five six years ago the Swingers resorts and hedonism was our favorite one for my 30th birthday we went to heat years ago it was eight years ago because

i am you're right i'm 38 now or almost 38 so eight years ago we went to hedonism for the first time and that was the game changer for step that was the first place where she realized hey there's normal ass people just like to get down yeah and she felt like that kind of gave her the pass of being like okay, I'm not that freaky. I'm not that weird. We saw some of the most incredible things ever. Like, I tell everybody, the most amazing ass I've ever seen in my life was on this 75-year-old black woman at hedonism. Really? I've just, she had a limp. And every time she limped, it wiggled a little bit. And I was like, I can't look away. Like, I wasn't trying to have sex with her. It was just, it was a sight to see.

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seen in my life was on this 75-year-old black woman at hedonism. Really? I've just, she had a she had a limp and every time she limped it wiggled a little bit and I was like, I can't look away. Like I wasn't trying to have sex with her. It was just, it was a sight to see. Yeah. But that was part of her process was going to hedonism and then realizing,

hey, there's normal people that really enjoy this stuff. I can do that too. So we scheduled another one. We think we went back six months later to hedonism again. And then we scheduled another one a year later. And then COVID hit. And we're like, great.

Now we, I have no way to basically, release this sexual energy that we've been building up at places like hedonism. I have no way of getting there. We're stuck home with the kids. How do I get this, you know, energy up again? Because we still weren't really having swingers over to the house either. That wasn't really the best time where we were living.

So we ended up finding a place that was open during COVID, and it was a swingers resort called Desire in Mexico. and we were there probably the first week that it reopened or one of the first weeks that it reopened after COVID so service was terrible food was terrible our experience was just not great but we did book a photographer while we were there and the photographer was phenomenal I was expecting it to be boudoir like couples boudoir like you know I'd do some stuff like hey I'm covering her nipples in the shadows, you know, that type of thing. Instead, it was, okay, get his cock hard, stick it inside her.

Okay, you know, I want to do it. And it was, she was getting close-ups of like the pictures that I want to see, you know, like the good pictures, the stuff I can't see on my own. And I ended up doing a cum shot on her back and she's like standing over me, taking pictures of me coming on her back. And we got this little, like, photo book of it. I think I spent $1,200 on that photo session. Yeah, it was ridiculous.

And it wasn't, it was like, you know, I think the photo session itself was free, but then when you go to buy the prints and stuff, it's expensive. And there just wasn't a photo that I was like, you can throw this away. I was like, I have to buy it. You know what I mean? They were just so good. And we had so much fun with that. So we came back home from that trip.

and we still have this energy and I'm like what if we put some of those pictures up on online and just saw if people were interested at all? And she's like no we don't need to do that. I was like all right, that's fine.

And then about a week goes by and we hear about these people making money. I was like, babe, what if we just put your pictures up? Like I'll blur your face. It's not a big deal. I was like, but we can't go and do anything with anybody right now. Anyways, this will kind of be our way of playing online. getting that little extra kink out. She's like, all right, fine, whatever, blur my face.

So we put it up and, you know, I'd do everything full throttle. So I'm like, well, if I'm going to do that, we're going to start marketing a little bit. And then I happen to have a VR camera at the time. And I was like, let me, let me film some VR porn and put that up online. And all of a sudden, Steph started, you know, creating herself like this audience. And we didn't know where to go from there. We were like, okay, we're doing these solo things. You know, she had like 20 fans,

which at the time we were like that is the coolest thing ever. We got 20 people. We got 20 people every month that want to see her do naughty stuff. That's so exciting to us. We didn't really care about the money side of it. But at one point, we decided, hey, let's film some like real porn of not just you and I, but like, what if we found somebody else that wanted to join in? And she was like, yeah, let's,

do it. So we had, we scheduled a weekend. We had, you know, child care covered for the weekend. And we went on Reddit and we just started posting. We're just like, hey, we're looking for this, this, this. You got to be willing to show them. You got to be, you know, willing to sign these forms, provide your ID, you know, not be a fucking creep, that type of thing. And we got hundreds of responses at the time. We ended up picking, I want to say 10, 10 different people. And we had them all scheduled. Guys are girls.

Good point. Sorry, these were all guys at the time. Okay. Yep. So these were just guys that she was looking to, you know, basically try to film Hot Wife content, I think, was the main goal at the time. And so we had these guys all scheduled, and one by one, getting closer to the date, they all bailed. So one guy reaches out and he goes, hey, I'm a virgin.

would you be willing to take my virginity this way and at the time I was kind of I guess vetting the questions so I brought it up to Steph

I remember we were choosing the shower and I was like hey this dude's a virgin wants to know if you'd be willing to take his virginity says he'd do it on camera and she was like absolutely not that is too much pressure there's no way I'm doing that.

Could you imagine being somebody's first? They get all clingy. I don't want to be the one responsible for that. And all of a sudden, maybe a week later, she brings it back up to me. She says something about the virginity. And in Steff's world, if she brings something back up, she's interested.

I don't, I try not to like keep bringing things back up to her to like get her to say, yes to something she might not be into, so I'll just drop it. But if she brings it back up to me, I'm like, oh, she's been stewing on something. So she was like, you know, let's go ahead and give that a try with that virgin guy. But I want to film it. Yeah, if I'm going to do it. Yeah, he has to 100%.

Yeah, yeah, he has to 100% agree. So a lot of guys will say, hey, you know, can I do so and so but not film? Or they don't want to actually get through the ID. The story was you went out to people saying, hey, we want to film you. And you got 10 people, and then one was a virgin. Yeah. So they knew they were being filmed ahead of time. So a lot of the guys still think that they don't have to actually be a film.

Oh. They're opportunists. It's incredible. We'll put a call out. And the amount of guys are like, do we really have to film? Like, we'll go through the entire process. And they'll be like, can we just do it off film? Yeah, ridiculous, ridiculous.

Okay. How old was the guy? How old was the virgin that you pick? this guy was 20 years old okay and he was dorky like you could just really tell he was you know he was a big dork

and she felt comfortable with it because she's like okay at least if it's on film and it's a virgin first time doing something he's not going to be super controlling he's not going to you know do something to where she can't you know back out of it

as she felt uncomfortable and that was I guess a piece of comfort for her So we scheduled this guy for, I think it was Saturday morning, and Friday night, he messages us and goes, I have to veil, I got into a car accident. How annoying. And we're like, yeah, absolute bullshit, whatever, you know, we were pissed off. I think we had one other guy for that whole weekend scheduled out of the 10. So we just had one guy.

But wait, so, because I know that the whole virgin thing becomes a thing. The virgin falls out. So do you say, oh, since that was such an interesting thing, let's go looking for more virgins? So this is where it gets weird. I go back on Reddit because I'm pissed off that everybody has bailed on us. And I'm like, you know, maybe, just maybe somebody right now will be on. And it's just like in the right mindset to just say yes and just come and just do this.

So I jump on and this other virgin messages us. and I'm like, what are the chances that another guy is an actual virgin, whatever. He originally says no to the filming aspect of it again, which is like, why the fuck are you reaching out to us? Because that was the whole ask was to film. And then he messages back and he's like, okay, I will film. I'm ready to do this. Let's do 10 a.m. tomorrow morning.

So I think it was Friday night at the time. This was Friday night, yeah. He shows up to the hotel room. So it shows up Dorky. six foot tall black guy. And I mean, I say dorky. Personality-wise, he's dorky. But he's, you know, actually a decently looking dude.

He was good-looking. Yeah. And we pull him into the hotel. We sit him down on the couch. Kind of, this is like spur of the moment. We did like a casting couch type thing. We're like, let me ask you a few questions. How old are you?

Why do you think you're still a virgin? And then we just go right into it. And we, she had a great time with him. He couldn't come because I think there was a lot of, you know, pressure of, you know, pressure of cameras and me being there and all that kind of stuff. But we had a great time doing it. So did she put it up online? Was it a threesome? Was it an MFF?

She just, he was just, it was just her and him. Okay. And you just fucked him regular style. And was he, did he have a really big dick? That's a no. That's a no. He did. No, he actually did.

Oh, okay. She's like, oh, my, I think you'd remember. No. That was the, that was the first black guy she fucked. Okay. That's right. So we, like, that was. Was that hot for you?

One of those things that we didn't think about it. No, but I mean, but you, Stephanie, like, where did you like, I mean, I think the whole interracial thing sometimes could be hot because of the contrast of, you know, the black to the white or I don't know, you know, you tell me, like, were you into it or it just didn't matter, but was he, and was he terrible in bed because he was a virgin or was he good because his dick was so big? Like, I mean, sometimes when, like, the dick's that big and they don't, know how to use it. It's not like as like great. But like he, I mean, he had a, he, he was fun.

I had a good time. But it was one of those things where like, I think I was just so nervous and like in my head about it that I couldn't enjoy it until afterwards. Okay. And like, then talking about it like, after he'd already left was, I think when I like fully was able to like enjoy it. But in the moment, I couldn't appreciate it, if that makes sense. Like, I was just so like, okay, this is what's happening, and I just kind of like got in my head and went from there on autopilot. Just like him. You were both a little nervous.

Exactly. Okay. Yes, yes. We were both extremely nervous. Did you just find out that your fans, quote unquote, love that content, and so you stuck with it? Is that why the Virgin thing became a thing? We threw it up online and it just blew up all of a sudden.

And we were like, okay, is that something that you want to do again? I'm very goal-oriented. So she was like, yeah, I'd do it again. I was like, okay, well, let's set a goal. It's August right now. Let's set a goal for the end of the year. How many virgins do you want to take by the end of the year? I think I said a small number.

Like, I was like... She was like, three. Yeah. I was like, we can do better than that. Let's do 10. Yeah, and I told me he was out of his mind. Only there's no way we can do 10. in the next four months.

And he was like, okay, well, now it's, it's on. Like, this is going to happen. And so he basically put something out on Reddit, and it snowballed really quickly. We made it to 10 by the end of the year. And as a celebration, we did a gang bang and invited, I think we invited like six of them back, but out of the 10 that we had filmed with, but it ended up being they kind of bailed And so we ended up having three come back and do a gangbang with Jason. And that was, you know, it was a lot of fun.

And the fans loved it because we did different scenarios in different, like it wasn't the same thing every single time. Like we had two virgins at once. We have five and six are a double virgin. And then what else did we do? Oh, number eight. It has like 10 and a half inch cock. Yes. And what else?

number nine we did a DVP in so like we did like different things for their first experiences and then it just kind of went from there and everybody loved it so I was like okay I'll I'll keep doing it as long as people like it I mean I enjoy it so I'm on as well

yeah that's what I want to know I mean you're just listing out facts of what you did but like tell me some actual stories like and you know you went from like all the like you didn't really touch on any actual experiences You had hookups with, like you did unicorns too, like you had a lot of those threesomes before you started doing the virgins. Like, and what was your first experience like with a woman? You enjoyed it, right? That's what you went through.

And then you did it a lot of unicorns. Do you still do that as well? We still do unicorns, yes. If we can find them, like they are difficult to find. But, I mean, I enjoy it. Like I said, I don't think I thought I would. But it is fun to be able to, you know, play with a woman and see her with. him and vice versa and just being able to have that, like, experience with just the three of us is,

it's a lot of fun. I like, I like playing with the women. And I don't know why I keep asking just Stephanie the questions, but Jason, you answer this too afterwards. Like out of all these things that you've done, because you, you know, you've done the threesomes with the guy, you've done the solo guy, you've done the couple swap, you've done the girls, you did a gang bang, you've done DVP. Like for you, Stephanie, if you could just have like one thing, you know, one night and you could

have your pick of anything. Like, what is your favorite thing that turns you on? I know they all turn you on, but like, what's your top of the mountain if you have to pick one? I would probably still just pick a solo woman. Like that's... Oh, interesting. Okay. I think that's what's fun to me. But like I said, they're hard to find and they're... I mean, we don't film with women generally. So that's just for us. Like, that's just fun for us as opposed to, like, filming with the virgin guys is, like, it's a whole different, like, set of fun. And so like when we, you know, get to be with the women, it's, it's just, you know, fun versus, you know, having to film it. So I think if I had to pick something, I would pick just the unicorns.

Because then you get to be with her and then you also get to watch your guy with her. Those are the two things you enjoy. What do you like the best, Jason? Forget about, like, the content creating what your fans like. What is your favorite thing? If it's something you're going to do outside of, like, taping. Yeah, I mean, I enjoy the couple swaps. we've done some, you know, really good just forcums.

And I think that's the best because then I can look over and watch her getting fuck. She can watch me get fuck. That kind of stuff is just incredible. And I think one of our favorites that we've done with that, we had a couple that was like 14 years older than us that we swapped with. And that was one of our best experiences. That's the one that I go back to. If I was to pick one style, it would be like that,

just swapping back and forth between couples. Like a hot couple that you guys both vetted and both like. And so you both get to experiencing each other with somebody else. Do you have any regulars in your thing since you've been doing this for a while and you've been with so many people? Do you have regulars that you get to play with? And then we'll get back to the whole virgin thing. But like, do you have like regular couples that you hooked up with or that you stayed friends with and now you like hook up all the time or anything or any unicorns? We'll have unicorns that pop in and out throughout the years.

We don't really do like weekly check-ins or anything like that, but it's... But I mean, you don't have any regular booty calls. That's what I'm kind of like talking about. Like any regular people in the mix? No, I don't think we really have too many regulars at all. Okay. More one-offs? Yeah.

One-offs, we'll maybe do two or three sometimes. And then usually get tired of it. It's tough. It sounds mean. We like it as people. It doesn't sound mean. When you're a swinger, it's very... variety. That's what we're going after is different stuff. So we do it a few times. And unless there's a

connection beyond just sex, we're usually done after that. Now, listen, I talk to so many couples. I'm on my like 1, 140 something episode, right? So I've talked to a million couples. And I hear all different variations. And that's why I ask the question, because everyone rolls a little bit different. Some people really prefer to have a connection and they don't want to just do a one-off and they want to be friends. And that's the only way they could get turned. And that's how they roll. You know, You know, and then there's couples like, there's some couples like, oh, the minute we fuck, I want them out of my house. You know what I mean? Like, see you later.

And there's those couples. And like, you guys, like, you'll do it a couple times, but you're looking for the next new thing. That's how you guys roll. And are you both that way? So you're both on the same page? Yeah, we're both on the same page, yeah, for the most part. We both get tired right around the same time. We're not tired.

That's perfect. We're like, yeah. She'll be like, you want to do that again? I don't have to. She's like, yeah, me neither. If they were interested, great, if not, no big deal. Like, you know, we can move on. And usually the couple or whoever it is is probably right around the same page

because we don't hear from them. They don't hear from us. And we're like, okay, I guess with that, you know, that rain, it's course. Tell me about your DVP or DP experiences that you had, Stephanie, because you've come a long way since the beginning of the story, right? Like here you were vanilla girl. Now you're getting fucked in both holes at the same time. I mean, that's kind of major.

Yeah, after, you know, a couple, he was number nine, because we give them numbers so that I don't have to know their name. I don't, yes, like, so that's how I keep track of them is, like, we say they're like cattle. And, you know, they get a number and that's their number. And so number nine was the DVP. And we were like, let's spice it up. Like, let's see what else we can do. And so we, this guy reached out. And so he asked him, he's like, are you?

willing to, like, be a little experimental and try something for your first time. And he was like, yeah, absolutely. So we didn't do, like, the DVP for very long, but it was more just, like, getting that experience and saying we did it and that he did it as, you know, like a virgin was, I think the cool part about it was being able to say, like, we did something weird for your first time. But what about you? Yeah, but wait, but that's very intense. I mean, I just did a whole, I just dropped a whole girl talk episode with Erica, who's a very hardcore girl.

And she's done DP, DVP. And she talked about, like, the difference of the orgasms and stuff. I would assume it's, like, extra intense. Like, do you enjoy it or are you just doing it because it's like something new to check off your list? I think I was doing it just to check it off my list. I'm very particular with, like, how I get my orgasms. So it was more just, I knew that wasn't going to be what did it for me. It was just, let's try something fun and see if I like it.

It wasn't like a, you know, I have to get my orgasm this way. It's just. How do you get your orgasms? Oh, it's so pertinent. Like I have one vibrator and I have to be in the right position. And like, I've got it down to a science. And if one slight thing is off, it throws the whole thing off. So I'm working on being able to do it differently.

But it is a hard thing to switch out of and try different things for it. that's interesting how was your gangping experience that one was fun because like i had already been with the guys previously so i knew them a little bit i mean it wasn't like we knew each other like super well but we'd filmed you know i'd taken their virginities yeah and we but none of the guys had known each other and so they were all meeting for the first time but what was funny is that they i think a couple of them had seen each other's videos. So they felt like they already knew each other, even though, like, their faces are blurred. So they got to see each other, like, in person. And they're like, oh, I really liked that one part in your video or, oh, that was so cool. I wish I would have done that. And, you know, so it was

cool to see, like, they were not like critiquing, like, mean, but they were like, that was cool to be able to, like, see what we did in each of our individual videos and then get to talk about it in real life. So that was pretty cool to, like, have everybody together. And then, We did like the casting couch type thing again, talk to them, see if they've gotten lucky since they'd been with me and a couple of them had. So that was cool to like hear that once they got that stigma of being a virgin over, they were able to like go out and get late again. Then from there we just kind of moved into like the bedroom. I started, you know, playing with everybody. And then we did this game called Who's in me.

And so I was blindfolded and had to guess like whose cock was I was, you know, sucking on. I had to guess who's, I think it was, they were eating me out, who was a dick I was sucking, and then who was fucking me. And so I had to guess between the four guys, and I had to guess to see who Jason was. And I was able to get them all right for all of it. So it was a fun little, like, game because one's a 10 and a half inch BBC. So, like, obviously, I knew who the how one was. But do you enjoy all this? Like, I know you say use the word fun, use the word, you know, but, like, for you or, like, do you, did you enjoy?

listen, what I've heard, and I've never had a gang bang or anything, and it wasn't on my bucket list, but I have heard that, like, a gang bang is a lot of girls' fantasy. Like, did you get turned on by the idea of a fantasy? Was it, like, hot for you to be taken by, like, all those guys at the same time? Because at this point, you're kind of like a professional. You've done a lot of different things. I wouldn't say it was a fantasy necessarily. It was more, like, we called it a celebration like because i made it to the 10 at the end of the year so we're like we're gonna do this like party and i think that's what we called it for the longest time and then he was like we're gonna actually do it gang bang i was like oh this is very different than what i

thought we were gonna be doing yeah so i wouldn't say it was like uh a fantasy like i enjoyed it i had a good time but i and i don't think i would necessarily do it if i hadn't already been with the guys previously because I don't like the idea of like he said like I like to know kind of look what's going on I don't necessarily like the Dom type like people I like the more like in experience like the virgins and so I don't like people like taking control or like being super aggressive with me so I uh when I think of gang bangs I think of you know like this aggressive like you know just crazy party and so I was like Like, I don't know if I weren't that necessarily. And he was like, it can be whatever you want it to be. So I kind of, like, went through and kind of, like, played out what I would want to do for that night. And that's kind of where we ended up with the who's in me and make it make it a game instead of, like, just everybody, like, going to town, which they ended up doing. But it, I mean, I know I used the word fun a lot.

But, like, I had blast. Like, I would do it again with probably other virgins, not with random people I don't know. No, necessarily. The interesting thing I got to tell you about gangbings. The interesting thing about gangbings, and I just had a conversation with a podcaster yesterday about it, and I've talked to, and I've done polls on this before, because everybody sees the girl and the gangbang in a different way. I have a chapter in my new book that's coming out, you know, and it's like Casey's

been over 50 gangbings. And I remember when she was on my show and told that story, you know, I sense that, you know, she was a very quiet girl as well, someone that you would never think was into that. and she saw the whole gang bank thing as a way that she controlled everybody as a way that she was very empowered. And I was like, that's super interesting because I feel like some people would think the girl in that situation is being taken over. And so I remember doing a poll on Patreon. I mean, like, how do you see that girl? Is she like the powerless one and she's being, and all the guys are in control or the opposite? And I would say most girls that do gangbanks feel very much in control,

like they are the ones running the fucking show. And it is very empowering for that, for them. And I think that's where that fantasy comes from, as opposed to the opposite, which you would think it's that way. Did you feel more in control than you expected to, considering you kind of saw yourself as, like, not being in control? Or is it just because you're so needy of like, and there's nothing wrong with it, but just needing to know what's going to happen and stuff that that was going to be overwhelming no matter what? I mean, I definitely felt like I was in control. And again, Jason was there. So, like, if anything was to get out of control, he would have stepped in. But I, I would say, like,

for the most part, I was not running the show, but like, it was, okay, what do you want to do stuff? Like, what is your next thought? Like, how do you want to, like, move to the next, like, scene or scenario or whatever? And they all just stood there and they're like, you tell me what to do and we'll do it. And so it wasn't like, they were like, oh, I want to do this or, oh, I want to do that. No, that's what the truth is. You're in charge. That's what I'm saying. Like, were you surprised of how maybe it was empowering or whatever?

You know, I don't know. It's kind of interesting because you are. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, no, I definitely was. Yes, it was definitely different. And afterwards, like, I, like, I was like, that was better than I thought it was going to be because I, I thought I was going to be, you know, like, tied up, no, like, no control. You know, it was one of those things where, like, I just, my mind went, like, way, like, different.

And so I was like, oh, I, I am in control and I can say no or I can say this is what I want. And so. And those guys are. I don't know. And those guys are going to be super respectful because they know that this is like they're lucky to have this fucking chance. You know, that's how I feel like. You know what I mean? So it is that way.

Do me a favor. Like so, okay, so you have all this like virgin content that people love. Like where do they find all this stuff? Because how many virgins have you fuck so far now? I'm on 23. Okay. And what are the ages of them? I did 23 recently.

Yeah. What are the ages of them? Oh. The youngest is 18, and then the oldest has been 36. And then after that, I think 28 is the next oldest. So anywhere between 28 and 18, they kind of span. But I haven't had anyone other than the 36-year-old in their 30s. So they're usually like, you know, early 20s, obviously until late 20s.

But most of them are, they would miss a social cue somewhere in life in just. just missed that, like, path to go down. And then they realized, they're like, oh, shoot, like, I miss something. All my friends have lost it. They're bragging about it. And I'm over here. You're like, whoops, I miss that. So, or they were with a girl and they were going to wait until marriage.

And then the girl would feed on him. And he's like, oh, well, I was staying faithful. And now I'm stuck. Like, I was in a five-year relationship. And now all my buddies have lost it. And I was the good guy and waited. and here I am. So a lot of them, you know, they just socially awkward, just don't know how to talk to women.

And I'm like, that's fine. I'm also socially awkward. So it works out. Yeah, it's kind of an interesting thing that you stumbled upon, really not on purpose, kind of like by accurate, but it's super hot. And obviously your audience really likes it, right? Like, that's what you saw. I mean, I know what my audience likes because I could see the downloads too.

So you get a, you know, a very, it's very easy to see by downloads and stuff when you are a content creator of any kind, like what people really fucking dig, right? So people really dig the virgin thing. Why don't you give a shout out to where people could find your podcast, all of these videos of you, fucking all these virgins, and I will put links in the

description so people can see it. Or just click on it. So our podcast is on any podcast platform. You can watch the video of our podcast on YouTube. We do it in our underwear, on our bed. And then all the links

or all the videos are either on OnlyFans, Fansley, or MiniVids. Virginity Snatchers.com will bring you to all of our sites. Oh, okay, great. Okay, so maybe that's the link that you want me to do? Virginity Snatchers.com would be perfect. Okay, oh my God, that's so funny. You got virginity snatchers.com was available? Yep.

We used to do, we used to take applications on that site before we turned it into our own little splash page. Oh my God. And so what, and just let's tell people, so everyone knows what you're into in the videos, but like on your podcast, what do you talk about, like just different stories of your guys' experiences over there? It's all about anxiety and, you know, talking about how we can get through that. We've had guests on and stuff usually talking about, you know, sex, swingers, neurodivergency, that type of thing. But it all kind of links back to Steph's anxiety and, you know, being the, you know, the good girl reluctant to get into the lifestyle. Yeah, I love that. Interesting story. Mainly our audience. Yeah, I love that. You guys should join that Facebook group

upside down, like, I forget what the name of it is, but they have like 50,000 people on there. It's a full of all like newbies, you know what I mean? They probably love your content because I can help you. We just jumped on there with Brian.

Yeah, Brian. Yeah, he was on my podcast. He reached out. And then I was like, wow, you have such a great Facebook page here. And the people there are like really super hungry for information. And the good news is people nowadays

are really looking to podcasts to get more information. and you guys have one so they could get, you know, I think it's such a great place for newbies to go, especially if they have that reluctant wife or girlfriend, because Stephanie is super relatable in that way. And I think you have super interesting content that people are going to want to go click on. So I'm going to put your link, that one website link in the description. Thanks, you guys. Thanks so much for calling in and sharing your story.

It was super interesting. Good luck with everything. Thanks. Thank you for having us. You too. Bye, you guys. I'll email you when it's going to go up, okay, and I'll tag you and everything. Are you on Instagram and stuff?

Yeah, we are. Okay, cool. I'll do that. Okay, bye you guys. Awesome. Bye. Thanks, bye. All right, bye.

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