Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1266 - Mike Jones Went from Being a Bull, to Navigating Sex Parties Solo, to Content Creating in an Open Relationship

Episode Date: November 4, 2025

Mike Jones went from being a bull, to navigating sex parties solo, to content creating while in an open relationship and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the detials including how he met his first couple he hooked up with and exactly what went down, how and why he decided to continue hooking up with couples,  where he went looking for couples and the demo of the people who hit him up, how and when he started going to sex parties, his experience being a solo guy in the lifestyle, the couple that got him into content creating, how he met his current partner who is also a content creator, how their very open relationship is set up, how and why they both enjoy seeing each other with different partners and get off taping it all, how and why he doesn’t hide his face in his videos now plus a whole lot more. YOu can find all his stuff here: https://linktr.ee/blackingproductions **To see HOT pics of MIKE JONES plus my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠https://beducate.me/pd2536-anonymous⁠  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Use code: ANONYMOUS69 to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14-day money-back guarantee ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://brooklynbedding.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use my promo code STRICTLY at checkout to get 30% off sitewide ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To get 10% off Drive Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://uberlube.com/discount/Strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code: STRICTLY for 10% off Uberlube aka the BEST Lube EVER To get $15 OFF your female oxytocin arousal tablets and more, use code STRICTLY here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/xLQ3Jv⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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SDC.com or just go to the description and click on the link. Okay, today I have on Mike Jones, the real Mike Jones. Mike Jones is awesome. You're going to love his story. The short story is he was like a single guy. He wound up fucking a couple. He became a bull to couples. And then he decided to get into the lifestyle. And he was a solo guy in the lifestyle. And then he stumbled upon content creating and he did that. And then he found a content creator, a woman. And he started content creating with her. And then they fell in love. And now he's living happily ever after with her. He's still content creating with her. You could see him all over all of his sights, but he tells his whole journey and his whole story on this episode, and it's super interesting. The way he wound up falling into being a bull is super interesting. He talks about the first couple that got him into it, and then how he went looking for it after that, you know, and he was super young when he started. He was like in his 20s. And then once he was doing that for a while, he realized there was a whole world called The Lifestyle and he got into that and started going to sex parties. And he talks all about that in detail. And then he talks

about meeting his girl who's another content creator. She's super hot. Hopefully she's going to call in too. But you could see them over on his ex and stuff about it. He talks about their relationship. And besides creating content together, they're still involved heavily in the lifestyle. So they go to parties and do all kinds of things and have a very open relationship. And he talks about that as well. It's a whole interesting story. He even says it kind of comes full circle because now he enjoys watching his girl with other people and all that kind of stuff. And before he used to be like, fucking other couples. Now he understands what all those guys liked about him. But anyway, his story's super interesting. I have picks of him over on my Patreon. You could see him over on his axe. The links will

be in the description. But anyway, I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Mike Jones. Hi, Mike Jones. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm doing pretty well about yourself. I'm doing good. Listen, I'm not changing your voice. I'm not changing your name. The end of the story is you're currently a content creator. And you did, find the love of your life, but before all of that, that's where we're going to wind up ending at. But before all that, you were a bull. You started out, like you've been in the lifestyle for a long time, like 16 years, and you started out as a bull, hooking up with couples, and then you were a single guy in the lifestyle, and then

you started content creating, and then you met the love of your life. So I'm going to get every single detail about every one of those phases of your life. All the juicy stuff. Yeah, it's all good. it's all good and I like that it has a happy ending, you know? So let's start though at the beginning. How old were you and how and why did you become a bull for couples? Okay, so interesting story. So I think I was probably in my early 20s, maybe. I always been out there kind of, you know, exploring life and enjoying things. But I've never

like thought about couples or anything like that. It was just more or less just like me, having a good time with people. And it was kind of weird. It was always funny when you look back on these things. Yeah. I'm at a bar, just having a normal day, normal, you know, evening in Hawaii and outside, and it's just, you know, full of people and guys. And we're all watching, I think we were watching a football game or maybe a basketball game or some type of sports on TV. And I don't know if they were visiting or if they lived there. I really don't know. But I'm talking to an older gentleman, maybe in his 40s, maybe. I say at that point in my 20, I'd say 40s is older. Yeah, for sure. When you're in your 20s, 40s, 40s. Like over the hell. Yeah. So I'm sitting there and we're just having a normal conversation just about sports and where we're from and things like that. And as the night ends, he's getting ready to leave.

I paid my tab and I'm getting ready to leave and I'm like, all right, man, I was going to talking to you. And he looks at me. He said, hey, man, I got a question. I was like, shoot. He's like, would you fuck my wife? And I said, excuse me? Because his wife's nowhere around. It's just him.

And I'm like, oh, I said, I'm sorry. He's like, no, he was like, if I offered an opportunity for you to have sex with my wife, would you take it? And like, once again, I am, you know, I've been out there for a little while just enjoying life. And at that point in time, I'm like, what? I'm thinking he's bullshit. And so I'm like, yeah, man, yeah, of course I would. But not, knowingst to me that he is dead serious. I know, because before you get involved in the lifestyle, before I got involved talking to people in the lifestyle,

I would have bet a million dollars that not one guy would ever want to see his girl get fucked by another guy. Like that was like, there's no way. And then it turns out so many guys love it. Oh, they love it. Yeah. I mean, when I say they love it, they loved it. Yeah, yeah. So this was your first learning of that. Yeah. Okay. So you're like, let me just try this out. Maybe he's actually serious. Yeah. And let me just try it out. Yeah. And he shows me a picture of her. And I'm like, okay, now I think it's no way he's serious because she's probably a gorgeous. I mean, he's getting more hard to believe. He's not a bad looking God. I love it. I'm like, come on.

Like, this is not whatever. I'm like, yeah, I'm like, here's my number. Usually at these points of time, maybe everything works off for a reason, you know. Yeah. At these points of time, I'm going to give a fake number or fake this or whatever. And back then, Twitter wasn't big. And, you know, other stuff wasn't, social media wasn't as it is. Now, I think back then it was like, Greg's list and like MySpace probably, who knows?

Yeah. house. So the next day, he gives me a call, and he's like, hey, we're going to be at the beach. We have a local spot that we like to go to and, you know, talk to the wife. She wants to meet you. And I'm like, sure, I'm not doing anything. I'm not working. I'm just like, and it's Hawaii. Why not? That excuse to go to the beach. And as I'm getting out there, I'm walking down the beach. And he calls me on my phone and I'm talking. And he's like, hey, about as true. This makes it like the situation is so awkward. He's like, I'm by this tree that we usually sit by.

It's like this tree that's fell down on the beach, like this wood, the log, or whatever. And I get out there and in my mind, I'm like, okay, this is not, whatever. Just do what you gotta do, Mike, get the hell up out of here. It was fun, blah, blah, blah. And I get there and once again, it's just him. Oh no, where the fuck is the wife? I'm like, oh, what the fuck is going? on here. He's like, oh, and at that point, he already

seen me, so it wasn't like I can turn around and run. Yeah, shit. I just tail and fucking ran out of there. So I sit down. He's like, oh, man, have a beer, blah, blah, and he's just talking. Once again, we're just having normal conversation. Not about his wife, not about situation,

just normal conversation. And then he's like, oh, yeah, she's getting up for it pretty soon. She's going to meet us out here. So then all of a sudden, he gets a phone call. He's like, oh, she just parked. She's walking down. I'm like, okay, now we're about to see. Robert meets the road here, like, if this is real or not. And if it wasn't the exact same person in the picture,

I was walking down the beach. And I'm like, you've got to be fucking kidding me. This shit is fucking real. Like, you kidding me? Yeah. But she sits down. We all just drinking. Once again, having a conversation, normal conversation, not about sick,

not about anything else, just normal stuff. And then he says, all right, man, we're going to get out of here. She's had a long day at work. And I'll catch up with you. I'm like, what the fuck? I don't went through all of this and it's like, this is how you meet and then we're out of here.

Within 15 minutes, you know, they leave and within 15 minutes it gives me a call. He says, she likes you, she wants to meet tonight. So that's when I kind of understood that in my mind, what was going to happen isn't what the lifestyle really is about. In my mind, I'm a single guy and I'm just like,

oh, we're about to meet up and we're about to have a good time. And no, they have a good time. Yeah. They had to go. There's dynamics. They had to go. She had to discuss things with him. He had to discuss things with her. Maybe they wanted to decide how the situation should play out. That's not, that wasn't my portion to be part of. If I could make sense. And they made the decision to bring me in. And then they made me call to call me back. So that's what I understood. Like, ah, this is how this works. I'm like, okay. So I mess. You know, we played a couple times why they were there in Hawaii. So we met a few times. What's that first night like, though? Like, first time you go to this hotel, that hot-ass wife is, like, sitting there? Does the guy get involved? Like, walk me through that first experience. So they came to my hotel.

So I had a hotel downtown. Sometimes I like to do little staycations. Oh, okay. So they came to my hotel. And I had a beautiful hotel. And I think it was the fact that she was so beautiful that almost really, it really didn't affect me to the point where, like, he was watching and taking pictures. Because he asked me beforehand, he said, hey, it's kind of like our thing.

Do you mind if we take pictures or have a video for his own personal use and things like that? And I said, hey, man, the long as it's for your own personal use, that's fine with me. And at that point of time, I kind of told him, hey, I really know how to please a lady. And I was kind of being arrogant a little bit too. I'm so, again, I'm this young guy. And I say, so just let me take care of what I know how to do. care of. And he was like, oh, no, he was like, just think that I'm not even here. And that's kind of like what I did. So then it was like, oh, after that I was like eyes wide open. And you met up

with them how many times? At least in that month, I think they were only there for like a month, maybe two months, I think at least five times. Okay. Okay. Yeah. And did he ever get involved? Was it ever like a three-some or was he just always there watching was like he, you know, on the side tape He was, he, he never joined. He never joined. She would call me when she would want to meet up and then she would bring him along. It was more or less like she was in charge almost. He was the initiator to find.

It's his wife. That's nothing I've realized. It's like, you know, a lot of people, people look at the people in the lifestyle, like, oh, I can't believe this man lets his wife do this. And this, you know what? I find out these men, and that's what they are men. they love their wives to the extent that they're willing to do anything to make them happy. Right.

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Did she call you today? He's like so happy when she's reaching out. So I don't know. I think he may have got some rewards too. No, you know what it was. It sounds like he was like a cool guy that didn't want to push his wife to do stuff, but he wanted her to always be doing it. You know what I mean?

So he would be like checking in with you if she was like ready again because he was probably jonesing for it. He was obviously like very into the whole hot wafing thing. Oh yeah. But it was a good experience. I must admit. It was not that experience at all. We asked you this as a young guy, 20-something-year-old.

You got friends. I mean, like, are you running back to your guy friends and being like, I can't, you guys will not believe what just fucking happened. Oh, I told everybody. Yeah, that's what I would think. Oh, no. No, I told everybody. Were they like, what the fuck? No.

And then the thing was, the guy sent me some pictures. I even asked them because her face was, I said, can I show these pictures or somebody? I was like, because they don't fucking believe me. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, man. He was like, there's no face showing. And I went back out. I was like, remember I told y'all because they all thought I was lying.

Exactly. Exactly. Here I am thinking I'm like Superman. I'm like the best man in the world. I'm like, look what the fuck happened to me? Yeah, she's hot.

She's super hot. I mean, it's like it's so crazy from the outside, right? Like you learned now at this point, you know that guys are into it. But your friends don't. They're like regular people. They're like,

what the fuck? That's so funny. All right. So then did you just start going out looking for couples? Like, how did you become a bull to more than just that? So at that point, I didn't go out looking for couples.

But I think the worst part the body was, since I had that experience, I just assumed, you know, I start making assumptions like, does everybody do this? So I'm like, look. So I'm like at the store, I'm looking at couples like, I wonder, should I go up and make a concert? Should I start a conversation or should I not? Yeah. So, but no, because the way it happened was so I was like, well, maybe it was just them. You know, I didn't really still didn't understand the lifestyle. I just knew that that incident happened. And I didn't, you know, so I didn't really understand a lifestyle per se. But then I think, I think I put a post up and I think this is I can't the tale of truth.

I think it was Craigslist. I really think it was Craigslist because I think that was the thing back then. And I put up a profile there and I realized that they had a section that was male for couples. So it was like, you know, a different section. They had men for men for women. I was like, man for, you know, couples. I was like, you know what? Since this has happened once, I was like, maybe people actually respond here.

So I put up a post in that section and I got, you know, people that will contact me. And I was like, this is, this is real. And I liked it. So, and that's, so I just kept doing it. And I still have my post for the, you know, the men for women section too. But I think I got more responses from the couples than I did from a single lady. Of course, of course. And was it always like, okay, so like how many couples did you meet on Craigslist?

Oh, I'm on the sound like a, my girl calls me. manhors. That's good for my show. I don't even, I can keep count. Like too many to count. Yeah. Yeah. It was easily. Yeah. I was, I would probably meet up with a couple. I'm not saying a lot, but I would say once every three months, maybe, once every two months, I would meet a new couple. You know, obviously you meet these people and you have repeats, you know, people that want to see you again if they're in the area, things like that. But yeah, probably once every three, every two to three months. And what was like, what was winding up in your inbox when you went on to Craigslist and put that out? Like, what was the demographics of the people?

Were they all, you know, like, was it across the board? I mean, you laugh. I want to say it was across the board. But I want to say that demographics is mostly older white gentlemen. Maybe their wife's about the same age as them. Sometimes their wife's a little younger. That was the majority. Yeah, so I think that was, I'll look back at it. Yeah.

They're looking for the interracial thing. They're looking for a guy to come in. And that's what you were proposing. I mean, so everyone knew what everyone was looking for there. And then, so how would you hit up couples? Would you be like, let me see a picture of your wife or something? Like, how did you vet people and pick people? Well, usually they would send a picture with their initial email. Right. I was saying, like, hey, we're such and such. We live here. We see your profile. We're visiting the area. And that was another thing. A lot of people that I met, almost like wherever I lived there, they were visiting the area. Yeah, that makes sense. How many people lived in the area?

And I can understand why. But if they didn't send a picture, the first thing I would ask is, you know, hey, thank you for reaching out. Always be a gentleman first. That's always tell people, gentlemen first always, no matter what, even if you don't like somebody, gentlemen first. Yeah. And I would say, you know, thank you for reaching out.

Thank you for reading the details of my, you know, my post. And if you don't mind, you share a picture of you guys. And I always ask for a picture of them together. I never asked for a picture of a wife alone. Is that because you want to make sure that this was a real couple, not some single guy catfishing you? Yeah, two reasons. Because in my other world, before I didn't glass now, I had a lot of catfishers. Yeah.

So many to count. But two reasons. Number one, to make him feel comfortable, even though he may be reaching out for her, I still want to make sure he feels included in the whole process. I don't want to isolate him and make him feel like, oh, this is all about her because it's not just about her. It's about both of them. Smart. And them building a bond between them two.

But at the same time, I am an enhancement to that. That's how I look at it. I'm an enhancement to their relationship. And number two, like you said, make sure that this person is with the person they're telling me. I don't want to see a picture of a woman. And I need to see both of you guys together. Yeah, smart. Do you remember the first couple that you hooked up with it?

I'm assuming they all had to be very different in what they were looking for. Like, did you eventually start hoagging up with couples? I mean, I know I'm asking you more than one question. Were like the guy got involved in stuff? I did have, I think I'm trying to remember the first time that the man was involved. And they didn't use the term. Like I say, it's amazing how terms developed. Yeah, totally. Like stag fixing and things like that. It was more or less like he reached out and said, hey, I want to introduce you to my wife and things like that. And then he's like, but the way we handle things is I kind of sit back and enjoy, but then I join in as well. And I said, I would love that because sometimes, and I don't know if it's just me as an individual, I don't want to feel like, and I think of it, I guess, from a man's standpoint, like, do I want to join in? Do I not want to join in? Do I not know where the moment is to join in? or I'm not, you know, so I look for those opportunities with the guys like, yeah, I love to join in. I'm like, awesome because I want to see the happiness in him as well.

Uh-huh. At the same time, there are certain dynamics where it's not about him at all. And when the situation, and you're in that environment, you're within that couples, you know, their realm where it's all about her, even though it's about the love that they have for each other. You know it. Yeah. I mean, you know it for sure. And you like that. And you like that.

I don't understand. I do. what, I kind of like it. The first time it happened was kind of weird. I was like, oh, okay, I kind of like this. It's kind of like, okay. She was like, he's here to serve us. Like, he enjoys it.

Right. I'm like, are you sure? She's like, don't worry about it. And I'm like, okay, and this is what we're going to go with. And then, you know, I say, okay, I can like this too. So, you know, you got to be able to move within, I guess, different dynamics and be, you know, okay, and be fluid with it. I think that's how it works. Any couples that stand out during that time period that you could,

Tell me about? Well, I can't. I'm going to measure their name. Yeah, no, no, of course not. We don't care about names here. We just care about details. They live in Canada. Okay.

They live in Canada. I met them at a party. And so we go back and when I first met, I'm like, man, I'm like, man, she looks pretty young. I don't see, she's a good-looking woman. I didn't know, like, their dynamic. I just know they were a lifestyle. Uh-huh. And when we went back up to the room, it was like they had, they have gotten so

comfortable within their situation and their dynamic. Like, they had, I don't know if it was in my head, but it had like signals. Like, she would do something, he would go open the window. Oh, hilarious. He would bring water over. Wow. Something else had happened, and he had changed the song, like, changed the song. She didn't like the song that was on that.

You know, she'd do something, and he would change the song. Or he will leave out the room, and he will come back. He would bring her a towel. He would bring both of us things. Like, here's your drink. Here's this. And I'm like, are they sending like non-verbals to each other? Or is she actually showing him or telling him or pointing him what I don't really know because I was so invested in her.

All I know is it comes shows up with a glass of wine. I'm like, oh, where did this come from? Yeah. Yeah. Interesting. Like mid, you know, mid-sex, here comes a towel to dry off a little because we're sweaty. It's like, oh, okay, this is how to see it. So it was very interesting.

But she was gorgeous. And you know what? Outside of the bedroom, he was in charge. And that's what the thing was about it. Like he was the man. He wasn't, you know, emasculated where he couldn't do anything where I was like, wow, this is interesting. And I kind of dug into that. I was like, you know what?

I like to be served. I like this, you know, so I started looking for more couples like that too. So it's funny. It's a wild roller coaster. I can tell you that. Yeah, because every couple roles different. Like how did you learn how to like navigate all the different? kinds of couples because it's not like they're all the same.

Yeah. So I kind of attribute that to my upbringing. I was kind of a low-key kind of kid and I kind of just like fit in to each crowd wherever I was at. I'm from Detroit. So if I'm in Detroit, I'm going to be Detroit. If I'm in Chicago, I can fit in. If I'm in L.A., I can, you know, so I was able to move in and out because I moved a lot as well. So I was in different environments a lot.

And it's all about listening without, I guess, trying to put your own take on things. So sometimes it's best to just listen. And listening is not just like listening to words, but it's listening by visualizing, seeing what's going on because you're learning. You read people. You kind of sit back and you kind of got to understand like where they're coming from. Oh, your first story when they, no, let me just tell you your first, the one thing I thought of is when you told me that first story where they're sitting at the tree and they're like, okay bye and then you sort of realize okay this is the way it's going to go like you know it just showed that you are cool you know what I mean you weren't like oh what the fuck like now I got to wait

because they're controlling me and I don't know what you know you were like you kind of saw it for what it was and you were very like passive to it which I think is the way you have to be like you were like very relaxed about them sort of setting the rules and the way that it goes and just being okay with that where some people would be like defensive to that but you're like built for it because you're like, okay, this is the way it goes, and I could, I'm going to go with it because this is how it's going to be. Yeah, I look at it as like, what, what good does it do me or anybody else to, you know,

go left or go right? You were begging that guy's hot wife, 45 minutes later or whatever. So you're obviously right to be the way that you wore, but that's why you're successful with couples. Most of the bulls who have been on my show that are very successful, they all have a certain way about them and they really understand the couples and the guys and their role in things and they're very into pleasing women and that's why they get called back. And, you know, I've heard from a lot of couples who look to pick up single guys.

And I hear a lot of the gone wrong stories where the single guys they meet aren't like you. They're the opposite. And that's why they don't get called back. But I'm assuming you were called back a lot of times from these couples. Oh, yeah. Yeah. I mean, to the fact that you actually call yourself a bull, like you became a bull to couples. Oh, yeah.

I have still some, even in my current relationship, I still have. You know, she's beautiful. She lets me do me, but I still have people calling days. They call all the time. Oh, your couples from the past that you've been with. Oh, past and present. Yeah. So it's still, it's a fun life to be.

I can tell you. That's a fun, it's a fun journey. But how were you with, like, crossing swords or did you do anything with the guys? like what was going on in that sense? So never had that that have it be a problem. You know, I kind of always lay down, I'm not going to say lay down the law, but I always tell them my preferences. I always say, you know what?

If you join, that's fine with me. One thing I don't do, I don't do any mail on mail. Don't do it. Just not me. Some people do it. If she wants to enjoy both of us together, that's fine. If you want to do EP, that's fine. And I think about that.

But understand that my mindset is on her. I've had some weird instances where the male kind of like, hey, can I do this with you? And I'm like, hey, we already talked about this. That is not happening. Yeah. That's ridiculous. Yeah. So, and I'm not, you know, I'm not looking down on people that do it. You know, that's their personal choice. And I always tell people in the world that we live in, there's somebody for everybody to do whatever you want to do. You just have to find them and be open and honest with them. But I never have a problem with the male joining in and things like that. But when it comes to any, you know, mail on mail stuff, that's a big note. This holiday season, instead of making a great first impression, why not make a great lasting impression? And that's where Blue Chew comes in. Blue Chew helps give men longer lasting and stronger erections so you can perform at your very best. Blue Chew is the original brand offering chewable tablets for better sex. Now, I don't use Blue Chew because I'm not a guy, but I know my brother uses it and he swears by it.

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That's what you said you got into the lifestyle. As a solo guy, is that something different? Yeah, I think it took me a while to kind of understand that I was like, you know what, this is actually a thing. I want to say about three years, three years I was, you know, see couples every nine day and it wasn't like I was going out looking for them per se outside of my Craigslist post. But then I started understanding that this was like a large group of people, not just

individual people that seek out, you know, bulls or individuals like myself. Like, this is in an entire group, an entire, like, world. Once I realized that, I was just like, wait a minute, there's parties. Like, oh, wait a minute, there's a lot of us. Like, I was like, oh, now I'm like like a kid at a candy store now or like a buffet table. Like, I can actually pick for myself and there's not people picking me. I'm like, oh, this is great. And so what did you do? Did you start going to parties or clubs? Because you realize there. There's like a world, right? Oh, you went straight to parties.

I went straight to parties. I went straight to parties. I was like, oh, I got to go see what this is about. And, you know, when you go to a party, when it's, you know, hundreds and thousands of people and it's couples and it's just like, wow, honey, you got people. You're crossing the room and somebody's staring at you and you're staring at them. But then you look over here and they're staring at you. It's like, oh, wait a minute, I can choose. It's not just them choosing me.

Yeah. And I was just like, oh, okay, this is, this is time to have a good time. This is your world. Now, how did you, what was your experience like as a single guy in the lifestyle? Because sometimes there's like clubs that don't allow it. Sometimes like people don't dig, you know, single guys in the lifestyle. Sometimes you're like a hot piece of ass in there because a lot of couples are looking for a single guy. Like what was your experience where you were at?

So, this is just me, you know, speaking on my part, you know, being a single guy in a lifestyle. It's fun. Yeah. But it has its ups and its down. Because you also understand what's one of the things that I had to imprint in my mind at another old taught me was that remember who you are. That's number one. Never compromise if you are. But also, sadly, remember your place. And what I mean by that is you're not here to take over. You're not here to become her husband or anything like that. She has a husband. That's who she

loves. Remember you are in addition. You're in an engagement. enhancement. And as long as you keep that in your mind, you're good. But there'd be moments where like you want something more out of it. But you have to remember now because I think everybody, people say they can lie, they want to and say, oh, I don't need anybody. I think everybody wants somebody, that one person that they can be like, this is mine, I'm theirs. And we do this together because we love so, you know, love each other so much. So there are moments of loneliness, athlete as a single guy. Yeah, I've heard that from unicorn women too.

Yeah, so I can tell you what, it took a while for that to kick in. I was riding away. You were having fun for years, right? Yeah. Oh, yeah, I was riding away for quite a long time. And what would go down at these parties for you, like orgies, gangbings, couples, like, what did you experience in that world? So I am not, being particularly, I'm not a big gang bang person. It's just not me. I will experience it here and there. I'm more of an intimate, like let's go just us or maybe a small group maybe. But for a party, you know, like I said before, you may be, you know, you may be at the bar or you may be, you know, dancing or whatever. And you just spark up a conversation. You can tell when the energy's there. Number one, everybody's there for the same reason already. But also, another thing you realize is people still have choices. Just because they're there, they can come there as a couple.

I know people that go places as a couple, and they go for the whole weekend and don't do anything because they didn't feel that vibe. They didn't feel that connection with somebody. So understanding that as well, and I would go there and I would vibe and connect with somebody, and then you spark up a conversation. And next thing, you know, you're in the room. And then I got the reputation of being good in bed and, you know, being well endowed and things like that. So then I would have these other couples come up to me and be like, hey, Mike, we heard some good things about you. My wife really wants to meet you and all of those stuff. Or I have the husband just come out of nowhere.

Like, hey, are you Mike? Like, yeah. And I'm like, yeah. John told me that, you know, so now the husbands are talking. Oh, yeah, hilarious. Oh, yeah. So now I'm getting approached by husbands. And then, you know, they're bringing me to their wife.

Like, this is Mike? She's like, oh, you're Mike. Oh, how are you doing? And I said, you know, here we go to another room. And I'm like, okay, guys, you have to start turning people down. Like, how you're beautiful. I am tired right now. I just been with three people within the last two hours.

I need to take a break. So, again, when you get the worst, I guess it's a blessing and a curse. Because then you can pretty much have who you choose. But at the same time, you can have who you choose. And you get chosen a lot too. It's kind of like you've got to start turning people down and you don't want to offend them. Yeah, you feel bad. You feel bad.

But at the same time, I'm in one. I'm not going, if I can give you 100% of me, I don't want to give you. you 95 or 80 or any of that. Like, you deserve to me, I tell people, you deserve 100%. If I can't give you 100%, number one, I have a reputation to uphold. So I'm not going to be like, you know, who my reputation because I was tired? I decided like, you know what? Let me give it one more college effort.

No, I'm done. Like, let me get a break, and then I'll come back. And then we can reconvene in a couple of hours. Can be a break? Did you mean any single women in that world when you were single? Because at some point you said you did kind of start thinking, oh, you'd like a partner yourself. I did, I did meet a couple single women. Some were still good friends. I'd say really good friends. We're still really, really good friends today. And then one of them, you know, we're really, I think they were good friends. She always looked at me. She was like, I can tell you want somebody, don't you? But she knew it wasn't something between me and her. Right. Because of the type of relationship we had. And she would always try to get me to commit to other people. She was like, look how she's looking at you. Right. She was trying to help you.

or this. And she was trying to hook me up. But she was trying to hook me up with people in a lifestyle. It wasn't like she was trying to hook me up with vanilla people or anything like that. And I actually started going to parties with a female. And she was a good friend. But that connection just, you know what I'm saying? Yeah.

I enjoy going to the parties with her. We always had a blast when we went. So now that kind of that loneliness feeling kind of like, you know, dissipate because you're there with somebody. Yeah. It was stills a different level that wasn't there. And so I told her, I was like, I love her as a friend. We have a good time, but this is just not.

She was like, okay, fine. She was like, I'm going to find you something. I was like, you don't have to find me anybody. When it happens, it happens. And it happens. Yeah, you made them. It happens. It happens.

And when it happens, you know it happens. How did it happen that you met your girl? So how it happened. Actually, it was when I started on content. So content comes while you're involved in the Swinger lifestyle like solo? Yeah, so I met a couple. I can say their name. They don't.

It's probably they're happy because I'm giving them. You don't even need to say their names. You met a couple. Just say you met a couple. It's fine. And down in Louisiana. And we used to meet all the time. And they were kind of new to it all and being able to bowl and things like that.

And I, we talked about a year. He kept saying my wife wants a black guy. My wife wants a black guy. She just wants a BBC and she wants this. And I'm like, all right, you've been saying this for a year. Like, you let me know when you're ready. And then I'll be ready. Because I had been with a couple since I moved to Louisiana. And then it was kind of like the first couple. And so as I'm talking to him, he's like, she's finally ready. So I finally get up there and we meet up and we have a good time. And he asked me one time, he's like, do you mind if I record? I was like, yeah. He was like, well, we put stuff on Hornhub. And I was like, okay, well, you need to put my face. this is the content creating part coming into it. Yeah, okay. Because first it was lifestyle. And then they were like, well, we started putting stuff online now. So if you don't mind, we're going to post it on there.

And I'm like, okay, well, as long as you blur my face, you know, I'm good with that. I was like, oh, yeah, yeah, we'll do that process started? And then it came to me at one time. He was like, do you mind us unblurring your face? It was like, it takes us a while to edit it and then all of those stuff and it's easier. And it was like, Ashley, how about you do? How about this? He was like, why don't you create you a profile?

And we could just tag you. And I was like, I don't feel like doing all of this. I'm kind of, I'm kind of behind the scenes here. I'm not a content creator. I don't do. That's not what I do. And he was like, but, you know, he was like, you can make money. And like, people would love you.

It was like, because the scenes that you all together are amazing and things like that. Because it was just us having a good time. It just looked good on camera as well. So, the whole story short, I made a profile. And here I am. And I thought to some friend. You're doing it wrong. I wasn't really active in it.

I just did it just so they can post their stuff easier. And I had good friends of mine, you know, male friends of mine, they were like, you need to promote your stuff on Twitter. You need to do this. You need to do that. And I'm like, what are y'all? I'm oblivious. I'm like, I have no idea what you guys are talking about.

So they kind of walk me through how to set up things. And it was like, you're already doing it. He was like, you're already having sex. Like some of these couples are recorded, even though, you know, they're doing it for their private viewing. He was like, dude, monopolize off of him. And I said, okay. So then I started shooting.

Then I saw this beautiful woman that I just definitely, I was like, I want to shoot with her. Like, I got to get her. Oh, she's a content, another content creator. Yeah, she's former. She doesn't do it as much anymore. Okay, but at that time she was. Yeah, and I reached out to her, and we just couldn't coordinate it together. We just couldn't get our schedules lined up.

And then finally found out that she was going to a lifestyle party that I was attending. And it wasn't going there for, you know, I think creation we were going to have to go. She's going to lifestyle party. She's single. I'm going as a single guy. And we said, we'll meet up there. I think we met first. Saw each other at first night.

It was a three, three day thing. We saw each other that first night. And I think we played for like 15 minutes at the most. But we have been talking for a while and like talking about meeting and things like that. it wasn't anything about nothing crazy. Just normal conversations. We met up 15 minutes, then see her again into Sunday. Okay.

We played for 15 minutes and see her again as to Sunday. And when I saw her, but we would see each other throughout like maybe a glimpse or she'll be standing there talking to somebody. I'll be standing somewhere talking to somebody else. I'm looking like, oh my God, this fucking moment is gorgeous. So finally, on that Sunday, we're leaving. I see her. We have a quick conversation, very brief. We exchange information more than just

we haven't talked, I think, through Twitter before. I think we exchanged numbers at that point of time. And we just kept in contact and just fell in love. Wow. What kind of content was she doing when she was doing content creating? Oh, almost as that opposite of me. So she was doing mostly, so she loves black men. That's her thing. So she was doing most, yeah, she's white. She's a redhead. And she was doing mostly, I think almost all of her content was, you know, BBC. Or, you know, sometimes it may be MFM or, you know, maybe some. I think she had a few already scenes out there, maybe a couple games. I don't know, no gangbanks, just already scenes.

And she was single. So she was creating that content. And she was single. She was very popular. You know, I'm talking about she had way, way, you know, to me, I thought I was, I'm trying to get a home run. Here I am the rookie off the bench. I'm like going for the All-Star, but I had confidence, and, you know, I just kept pursuing it.

And she's helped me a lot throughout my content creation. And, you know, we kind of did content together. So we were go places when she was active and I would film for her. So now where it was, here I am, this lifestyle guy, single guy before, dabbling in lifestyle before I knew what was lifestyle. Then going into the lifestyle as a single guy and then start doing content. And then now I'm contributing with my girl and now we're lifestyle. So it's like this full circle is crazy. Yeah, totally.

And I mean, it's great that you met somebody in the lifestyle. So it wasn't like, I mean, you were both. And same with her too. I almost think it's harder for a woman in the lifestyle to meet a guy that's accepting of it. But as well as for you to find a woman that would be accepting of what you would do in the vanilla world. Right. But inside your world, it's so great that you met somebody that was like-minded and open. because like would you have been able to be in a very vanilla relationship?

I was and it didn't work. It just didn't work. Right. It just didn't. And here you are for so many years living this kind of life. Like maybe you wouldn't have been able to go back to that anyway. Oh no. You know, I was kind of like living it, but I hide it at the same time.

Right. Should I like this? Should I be doing this? I'm like, well, what was it? So, but like the freedom now to just be, you know, I'm saying? And what you want to be and then still, I still, you know, a bull for couples. And it's just a beautiful thing, man. It's just, it's amazing.

You kind of have it all because you have like a single guy's life in that you could fuck couples and you're doing all your things and all that kind of stuff. Right. Like that's like a single guy's dream, right, to have whoever they want. But you also have what you always wanted, which is that real intimacy with another person. You also have a great relationship with a girl that's, you know, you're fulfilling. filled in that way too. So you kind of have it all. Yeah, I do. And I tell people all the time. And people think I exaggerate. When people see me online or see my ex post and I tell them, I'm a hundred percent authentic. Oh, there's no fakingness. Like, obviously, wait until they hear your whole story here.

You tell them this episode to listen to. Yeah. When I, when I tell people that I'm living my best life, I'm not, you know, there's still, and people, I don't want people to think like, oh, everything's great. We still have our differences and I still have problems. There's all, that's life. You know, life is not going to just turn great for no reason. But for the most part, I actually can say that I don't really have much to be sad about. But let me ask you as a guy who always was fucking couples and all that kind of stuff and, you know, going to those things. Like, do you enjoy, are you the type of guy now that enjoys seeing your girl being pleasure by other people or is that a know, like how does, how is your guy's open relationship set up?

I love it. You do? I love it. I didn't understand. I told somebody this. I said, I didn't understand it until the first time it happened. Interesting. I knew she did content.

I knew she did things and whatever. But the first time, so we were in Dallas, I believe it was in Dallas. And, oh, no, I was doing a party because I thought lifestyle parties. And that was the first party that she came to. That was our first time. I'm seeing each other. Yeah. Since our meeting at the lifestyle party that I went to.

So I have my own lifestyle parties. And I invited her to come. She came. And I wanted to see her, like, with someone. I had to, like, and I had to, like, and I can know her voice and everything else. So one time I was downstairs, and I heard her, like upstairs. Like moaning. So I stopped.

Oh, yeah. Okay. I stopped everything I was doing to run up there to find where she was at so I can watch. and I just sat back and my watch. But now, fast forward when she was shooting content one time. So now she's with a professional and, you know, they're having a good time. And I record for her and she would record for me and I'm recording for her. And it's almost like she's looking at the audience and they're watching this video.

But literally, she's looking directly at me and we're looking at each other while we're recording. It makes it look great for the consumer who's getting this video. Yeah. But as soon as it was over with, we hit the camera, individual leave, and we attack each other. It's like primal instinct. It is amazing. And I never knew that that's, I'm like, that's how the husband's feel? Like, I can they just watch.

Yeah. But what about your girl? Does she enjoy watching you with women or couples? Do you guys ever do swaps? Or is that something separate that you do solo? No. We do it all. We go to parties and we love being in the same room with each other. Or we can go individual. It's up to us. We always communicate before we go like, hey, if you feel like taking off, just let me know because it's our thing to. Safety, when the other person's safe and kind of like knowing where each other's at so we're not kind of looking for each other because you can get lost at some of these places. They're so big. You go off one way. I go off and us. We kind of like always have a mutual meeting ground if we decide to take off. But we love playing in the same room. We can, and she looks at me in a so funny she always tells people because, you know, her man is well endowed.

She's proud. She'll always go up to girls. She'll always go up to girls and be like, girl, you got to try to stay. Oh, I got to try. She's like, get over here. She brings them over to me. She's like, you got to have somebody. She's like, it's so good. I got to share it. That's what she says. She's like, it's so good. I want other people to experience it. And I'm like, and I think the same way, we were with a couple. And I was with the wife and I'm watching her with the husband. And we both, me and the wife, stop and we're looking at them to play. And then she's like, don't that look good. Oh, they look so fucking good. And we're spending it's so funny.

We're stopping what we're doing to watch our partners with each other because we're just admiring the entire like scene and everything, admiring our partner and what they're doing to somebody else. And it's just this complexity. But yes, simplicity of it all, it's amazing. I have never experienced something like that in my life. Like you said, I don't think I can go back. I can't go back to a regular life. It's just too good. How long you've been dating her for?

Are you married? Two years now. Two years. Okay. And you are out in proud. Like I said to you earlier before we started taping, like I don't have to change your voice. Mike Jones is your name.

Like, I mean, you are to do, does everyone know what you do or are you just out with your face all over the place? You don't care if people find out. Like, what's your deal? Yeah, I don't, I don't hide. I don't promote it as like in my neighborhood. Like, hey, guys, look for me. This is new year.

But at the same time, if they come across it, I'm like, yeah, that's me. Yeah. You found me. That's what. What are you doing there? That's how I look at it. So, yeah, I mean, if, you know, it's just. How old are you and your girl?

I enjoy it out there. So I am 46. She's getting ready. She's 46 as well. She's going to read. She's going to read up in December. And I turned 47 in January. And I told her I say, and it's so funny, we were at one of these parties and we see this couple during like, at least their late 60s, probably. And we'll look at each other like, that's going to be a. Let me tell you. If you're lucky, it will be. I'm sorry. I hope so. If you're lucky, why not go out just having fun and fucking. My brother was telling me recently his girlfriend wants him to meet her family. And she's He's like a little embarrassed because she's like, my father's 92 and he just jerks off to porn all day. I'm like, what's the problem? Like, you should be high-fiving a 92-year-old that's going down, jerking off to porn every day. I mean, at that point, why not?

That sounds perfect to me. Exactly. I'm like, you know, let them have fun. I have a lot of older, way older couples I got into swinging in like their sixies. And like, why not go out like fucking the world and doing whatever you want and having fun? I think that's great. Do you guys have plans to get married? Oh, let me ask you this about your girl.

Does she out on her content creation, or is she anonymous? She's anonymous publicly, but she does have paid profile that people can go to and see her paid stuff like that. What's her name? On her on there. On X, she goes by Anna Von Dien. Okay, Anna von Dine. Yes. She's got to come on my show.

Oh, yeah. She would love to. Yeah, she would love to. Her story, because listen, she had a whole life before you. So I could, I would love to get her whole backstory of how she would love to get her whole backstory of how she wound up becoming who she is. But what about you now? All your content creating, like, where does it exist? What are all your ways for people to consume your content and see it? Yeah, so if you go on X, I'm under the Mike Jones 79. That's on my X profile. And I have a link tree there. So it's easier just to go there.

Click the link tree and it has all of my socials. It has everything under there. So that's the best way to do it because sometimes I change. I add a new platform and then I'll add it to my link and then they can go and add it from there. So that's the best way to look it up. Okay. And then you have, so what do you have besides your ex? Like, do you have an only fan? Oh, I got an only fan. I got the mini-vids.

I got loyal fans. I got fans league. I got it all. Okay. So I got the mortgage board of them all. And that's kind of hard because so I do all of my own stuff. I promote myself. I edit my own stuff about video.

It's just, it's a lot. So I always tell my fans, sometimes I get lazy. I'm sorry. It's a lot of work. It's a lot of work. It's a 24-7 gig. Do you have a, like, do you work outside of this or is this becoming a full-time gig? No, I have a full-time job.

I'm a civil engineer. So I do engineering by day and all this other stuff, any other time. Fucking by night. Oh, my God. That is so funny. So no plans of stopping. You're with your girl. Do you guys plan on getting married or do you care about that? We do. We were just talking about this other day. It's so funny because we were sitting somewhere. Yeah. And I said something to the nature of my wife this. And I'm like, you know what I meant. And she just chuckled. And you know, one time we, you know, we have those conversations. I said, you know what? I can see my, because we were both with previous married. You know, we both been married before. And we both told our son. And we both told our son. I'm never going to marry again.

But we both told ourselves, like, we have these conversations as like, wow, you kind of don't understand how you got to where you're at. Yeah. But you can look at it and say, you know what? I told her, I said, you know what? I can see myself in the future. Ask you to be my wife. Yeah.

She says, and she says, you know what? I can see this. So sometimes we just sometimes slip and say, oh, my husband or my wife or I'm married to such and such or I'm married to this because she was talking about something. And we just went to a lifestyle party in Orlando. And she was talking about, oh, these women, they're married to these, you know, this guy, this marriage. She was like, but I'm married to a man. That's amazing.

And I just started laughing. And it wasn't the fact that what she was saying, I was laughing about it. I was laughing because she said, I'm married to. And she said, did I just say, I'm married to? I said, yeah, you did. We both just start cracking up laughing. So there's really no difference. But I've heard, you know, from friends who never cared about getting married.

Like, I remember one specific girlfriend and she just did it because her guy wanted to. And she said that after she did get married, she just felt a different way. And it was better. Like she actually was like, oh, now I get it. Like she really didn't care. She never thought it would make a difference. But when she did get married, she did say that she felt a different way about the relationship. And she liked the way she felt like it was better.

She was glad that she had done it. So I think that there's a different. runs? I think so, too. She even mentioned that she was like, I would assume, because now, once again, we both said that we're not going to get married ever again or whatever. Yeah. But now, you know, when we bring it up, she says, you know what, I would hope that we would.

Yeah. You know, she says that. You know, I would hope that we would. I would love to be your wife, you know, on those comments like that. And it's just weird how you feel like, even though she does content and, you know, here and there, even though when we first bet, no, she likes it rough sometimes. Oh, my God. I'm on your accent.

I can see how, I'm sorry, but I can see how fucking rough your girl wants you because there's just all these videos of you banging her out and she's got to kill her body. Oh, yeah. She is, she is something else. Yeah, anyway, she's beautiful. I mean, you're both great. I mean, like, they're going to see how rough she likes it. But anyway, keep going. What were you going to say?

But one time I asked, because, you know, once again, I said, I got a superstar here. This rookie coming off the bench. Yeah. And sometimes I would get, I wouldn't say, you know, insecure, but I would question. and like, am I enough? Yeah. Because I'm looking at her profile. Like, this is before we actually found out.

I'm like, I'm seeing these guys that she's with. And I'm like, holy shit, these guys are fucking this and that. And she's like, she likes it this one. And then she told me one time and she broke it down so simple. She says, I can't see myself having sex with you in that way. She's like, I don't want you throwing me around. She'll say, yeah, she likes when I get rough every now and then, I'll grab her neck or do this or, you know, things pull her hair. and stuff like that. But she

wants us to always have this certain level of direct intimacy that nobody else can provide for her. For sure. And she doesn't get that from nobody else. She's like, anybody can throw me around and yeah, she said, I like it, but I don't like it all the time. And it's

nothing, something that just turns me on. I said, I enjoy it. He says, but you get rough enough and that's all I need. And I'm sure you feel the same way. Like you could big tons of hot chips. they're all over your thing, but it's something different with her. Oh, yeah. It's definitely something.

We got a connection. And sometimes I tell people, I'm like, sometimes we don't even understand it. I love it. I love your whole story. I need your girl on. I'm going to put, do me a favor. Actually, I'll just put your link tree up because that has all your links on. And so people could find all your stuff to sign up.

I'll include it with your episode. I love your whole story. I love that you finally met your girl. I want her on my show. You guys make a great couple. People are going to see you all over your ex. And the link for people that are driving, you don't have to remember it like your name or anything

because I'm going to put just the link right in the description of the podcast episode. But listen, Mike, thanks so much for calling it. I love your whole story. Super great. Thank you. And do me a favor. And do me a favor.

Send me some picks for, and I could take some off of your ex, but if you want to send me some R-rated picks like for my Patreon. And then I'll give you free. access to my Discord and there's like a content creator channel there and you could promote whatever you want there and you could also post picks or anything X rated because you know you talked about how big your dick was like I could put pictures of that over you could put pictures of that over

on Discord my Discord is a not safe for work site where you could you know anything goes so uh you'll get a link to that when you get off here a lot of content who recommended you to come on a listener of my show or another content creator it was a fan oh okay cool it's a fan that listens to your your episodes. Yeah, yeah. Please have them on there. So I was like, you know what? We reach out.

Yeah, your audience is going to love it if they haven't heard your whole backstory. Because I've had a lot of content creators on that have like a really big following. And like they're going to love to get like your whole backstory. It's just going to add, you know, because they see you in this one way. And now they're going to hear like your whole story. I think it's like super interesting for people. So I'm glad that person sent you my way. Like I said, you'll get a free link to my Discord.

I'll give you a guest roll. access and you can promote over there on the content creator. You'll see everything that's going down there. But send me a couple picks for my Patreon. And I could also post picks on Discord for you too. But thanks again, Mike, for calling in and tell your girls to call in, okay? Give her the link. I will. I'm going to tell her today. Okay, awesome. You're the best. Thanks, Mike. Have a good day. All right. Thanks a lot. You have a good day. You too. Bye. Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, and Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers

is now available not only in paperback and e-book but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken

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We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total, strictly anonymous community, and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the ebook, or the paperback. sent it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com.

That's Strictly Anonymous Podcasts at gmail.com. And I will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in. This is the Strictly Anonymous podcast. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that I do have a book coming out. The book is called Strictly Anonymous Confessions, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. The book is basically seven different stories taken. from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like,

there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuckold story. There's a gang-bang girl story. There's like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person, right? So I took the interview and I rewrote it in the third person. I wouldn't call it like an erotica book, though there's plenty of sex in there, right? But I didn't write it to sound like erotica because that's like the vibe of my show. You're going to learn. lot. You're probably going to get a little turned on. It's a different way to hear these stories, like I said, because they're written out in third person. There's an e-book available. If you don't want your partner to know that you're reading my book, get the e-book. It's available. There will be an

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There's tons of people on there and everybody shares content with each other. That's what's great about Discord. You get to post your own videos and pictures and there's tons of channels and we have contests over there. It's a super fun place to be. I will be giving anyone that buys my book at any time access to my Discord. It is private. It's the only way you could get in is through me giving you the link.

And that's why I think my Discord is so great because I have vetted people. It's not like it's just open to the public. So everybody that's in there are people that listen to my show. And people that listen to my show are fucking great. So my Discord is fucking great. My book is great. You're going to love it. If you buy it, all you got to do is send me the receipt or a picture of proof that you bought it.

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