Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1273 - Brad is Bi and in a Very Open, Poly Marriage

Episode Date: November 12, 2025

Brad is bi and poly and he’s in a very open marriage and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why they decided to have a open relationship, how he dealt with his jealousy in the beginning, when he realized he was bi and how is wife felt about it, how and when his wife gave him a free pass to hook up with a guy, his first gloryhole experience and what went down, when his wife started copping to having feelings for another guy and how he felt about it, their first mmf threesome and what went down, the poly throuple they had with a woman and exactly what went down, how and why they are now looking for other partners, why they have zero rules plus a whole lot more. **To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:  ⁠⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠ For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2536-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Use code: ANONYMOUS69 to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14-day money-back guarantee ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://loadboost.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To get 10% off LOAD Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://brooklynbedding.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use my promo code STRICTLY at checkout to get 30% off sitewide ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://uberlube.com/discount/Strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code: STRICTLY for 10% off Uberlube aka the BEST Lube EVER ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/xLQ3Jv⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠To get $15 OFF your oxytocin products, STI panels and more, use code STRICTLY Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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So just click on the link in the description to find my Patreon and it'll take you where you need to be. Okay, today I have on Brad. Oh my God, Brad in the beginning. I was having such a hard time understanding his whole relationship because he has a very open relationship with his girl. And I think because he told me, he called it Polly early on,

I got really confused and thought it was something very different. And it turns out I don't really necessarily think that they're really that Polly. What they really are is very open with each other and down to try everything and anything. His girl is very open-minded, especially when it comes to sex. She was the one that came to him when they were super young in the beginning of their marriage. Their marriage, but they got married when they were like 20 and said to him, she wanted a free pass to go fuck other guys. And then she started to do that. And then he told her he was by and he had always thought about being with a guy.

And then she's like, go fuck guys. And then he went to adult stores. And then they had a thruple with a girl that lived with them. And he started seeing guys solo. And she can continue to see guys. And I don't think any of their relationships ever became very Polly, like I said. And that's what confused me in the beginning. And you'll hear me ask him a lot of questions and not really understand it at first.

And then I get a much clearer picture as he goes on. Because like I said, I don't necessarily think that they're very much a Polly couple. But they are a very open couple. They don't, they've never had any rules or regulations and they've, but they've really never had any issues or problems. He did have a slight jealousy in the beginning and he talks about that and we go through everything in details. Even though it sounds like I gave you all the information I did not. You're going to have to listen to it. So anyway, I'm going to get right to and be right back on with Brad.

Hi Brad. Welcome to the Strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I am doing well. Thank you. Thank you for having me. No, thanks for calling in. Before we started taping, I said, what was your topic?

again just remind me because sometimes I'm taping two or three people a day and you're like, oh, I'm a poly and then you just lose me after polly because all of a sudden my brain gets so confused. But I love Polly stories because I really think anyone that could do Polly successfully is pretty fucking amazing because I think it's hard to do, you know? I don't know anything about your story, but you said you were guys who are poly. List the other things that you guys are. I'm bisexual as well. Okay.

So you guys are you married? Yes, we've been married for almost 12 years. Oh, okay. You sound super young. How old are you, you guys? I am 33. Okay, cool. Wow, so you've been married since 21? Yep. Where do people live that get married that young? Where are you from? I am from the middle of Pennsylvania.

Oh, okay. It's interesting. Okay, so been with your girl since the dawn of time, like really young, right? You're one of those. And you're married for 12. So now you're Polly and you also, you're bisexual. Have you guys been Polly and have you been bisexual this whole time? For the most part, yeah. Wow. Okay, so let's go all the way back. So since you guys met, were you like

open to all this stuff? I mean, you met when you were 21, you know, so that many years ago. So like, did you guys go into it when you were 21 super young being like, oh, we want to be Polly and let's have an open relationship? I mean, is that how you started off? No, it wasn't. It wasn't. Maybe

two years into our marriage that that became open. Okay, so let's go there. Okay, so now you're, you know, you're dating this girl. You guys are super young. You must have met her before you got married at 21, right? Like, how long were you dating her? About a year.

Okay, so you were just married a year. Did you guys get pregnant? Is that why you got married after a year at 20? One? We were pregnant as well at the time, yes. Okay, that makes a little sense. Okay. All right, so you meet this girl, you guys are dating.

You have a baby very early on. And two years into relationship, what goes down? down that you guys decide to open up your relationship. Because you do have a little baby, right? Because, okay, so like what makes you got, like, what happened at that time? So at first it was more my wife was the one going out and having fun. She wanted to open a relationship. What does that mean?

She was going out and having fun and she wanted to open the relationship. She was going out and fucking other guys. What do you mean? Yeah, pretty much. Yeah, she was going out. She had a few different people. She met regularly. Wait, no, no, no.

But that sounds like an open relationship. already. What do you mean she was going out and had people she was hooking up? So you were already in an open relationship? Well, that's how it started. She wanted to go out and explore and have fun. Okay, but she didn't, but you're making, okay, let me just try and tell you how to tell a story because you're confusing everybody. At least you're confusing me and maybe people are getting irritated by me. But like what you're saying is like she had these regulars and she was going out and having fun and that's why we opened our relationship. Like did she start fucking other guys and then she came to you and said, by the way, I'm doing

all this so we should just have an open relationship? Or did she say, hey, listen, I'm getting a little restless in this relationship. And I want to go out and, you know, fuck other guys. Can I do that? Will you give me a free pass to do it? Like, which came first? She asked for a free pass, basically. Okay. So she comes to you as a very young girl. And like, listen, I mean, you guys are, this is why I don't know why people get married when they're 21. I mean, at least you guys are doing it the right way. You have an open relationship. But like, you know, imagine you're going to stay with the same person your whole life, just one person. You know, this is a young girl. She's only 21. She got pregnant. really early. You know, she's got all those burdens on her. How many guys did she sleep with before you? Do you know?

I don't know a number now. It's up there in the 20s. Oh, so she was like, she was getting it on before you too. She was like she like, so she was married when we met. I was the other guy when he was before we met. How old was she if she's married a 20? She was 21, 22 at the time when we met. How old was she when she got married to her first husband? What's wrong with people? How old was she? She was 20, 21. They were only married for, I believe, nine or 10 months. And she was cheating on him with you? He knew, but yeah, essentially.

Oh, my God, I'm so confused. But interested, you know what I mean? I like this kind of sloppy stuff. So wait, she's, why did she marry him? I don't know at the time. I need to talk to these girls. Any girl listening that's too young to be listening to the show, don't get married so young.

Look, and she's already, she's only 22 years old and she's already on her second marriage. I mean, you don't think it's a little crazy? Oh, yeah.

I mean, that's life, I guess. No, that's her life. It's interesting, though. Okay, so here she was a girl that was kind of promiscuous,

but for some reason she also wants to, like, marry every guy she meets. So she meets her first husband. She marries him and only stays married for nine or ten months. Why is it such a short marriage?

they weren't really compatible not just in the bedroom but in life in general okay so she dumps him for you yep okay and you marry her one year after dating is because she's pregnant no no we were just we were in love I mean it wasn't necessarily just because of the pregnancy there were I mean we were just compatible we enjoyed being with each other how long how many girls had you been with before uh two before her or one All right. I got to stop projecting because I never had the marriage gene. So I just don't understand why people are so young in the prime of their life ready to live the best years of your life before you settle down and have all adult stuff hit you. You know, to why would you do that at such a young age? Okay.

So I'm going to let go of that because it's my own problem. All right. So you guys get married. Now this is a young girl. She's got like a little baby. I mean, she's only two. And when your baby's still young, she says to you, hey, listen, I want to go fuck other guys? Yeah.

She just told me that she wanted to go out and have some fun with other guys. And at first I was, you know, jealous. And I was like, oh, okay, I'm not enough. And then we started being open about it and talking about it. And I kind of understood where she was coming from. Where was she coming from? She just wanted she likes to get away and have some fun and not think about things. And that's the way she enjoyed having fun.

She can't like go on a vacation by herself and like read a book. I mean, like getting away and like was not. I mean, because she's not just talking about getting away. She's like talking about fucking other people. Like, that's a whole different story. Yeah. So that was her thing. Like, I just need to get away from my life and I want to, and the only way I could do that is by fucking other guys.

Yeah. At that time it was. Okay. And you understood that? Yeah, I did. Okay. And you were okay with that? Absolutely.

I was. Okay. So she, so you just, and now do you, this start. thinking to yourself like, hey, I want to fuck other people too? Or did that thought not even enter into your mind? That thought didn't really enter into my mind at the time. How come? I think I was just comfortable. I was content. So you were content with her, like, just banging you. Now, let me ask you this. Did you, like, worry that, like, maybe something was missing in your relationship that she wanted to go and do this? I mean, or was everything super great in your relationship? Like, were you guys having the best sex ever and everything was cool? yeah we were we were having pretty good sex then okay so now when she goes out the first do you remember the first time she went out with another guy

like did she tell you did you have a don't ask don't tell did you have a come home and tell me every fucking thing i want to hear about it turns me on like how was it set up this free pass in the beginning i it was more i wasn't gonna ask don't tell okay and then later on as we progressed i found i enjoyed her telling me what what happened what they did okay so me through those first couple times like would she say hey by the way babe I'm going out tonight to hug up with another guy or she just like be like hey I'm going to be out tonight busy and I'll tell and I'll see you later she would tell me she was going out with another guy and would you sit home and be bothered by that or were you able to just like compartmentalize it and not even think

because this isn't the don't ask don't tell time period like what what would you do while you knew she was out with another guy did you care in the beginning I did and then not super long into it. I didn't. I kind of just did my own thing. Let's just talk a minute about you caring. So, like, what was it? Did you feel jealousy? Were you, like, feel FOMO, like, you were missing out on something? Like, what were your feelings

about it? In the beginning was definitely jealousy. Right. And what would you do with those feelings? Like, when she got home, would you tell her, hey, like, I hope you had fun, but, like, I just felt like shit, or would you keep it to yourself? Yep it to myself. Yeah, it's interesting.

You know, listen, I was young once, and I remember, Like I just had a guy on that let his girl go fuck other people, but he's way older than you and it's his second marriage. And when he woke up in the middle of night and had problems with it, he like spoke to his wife about it and they talked through it and worked their way through it. And like, that's like the healthy way to do it. But it's, but I think when you're younger, you know, you don't know to do shit like that. And so you just like, like, we're jealous and everything. But you just allowed her to keep doing it and you kept all those feelings inside? Yes. Did you ever like act out and be rude to her because you were like kind of jealous, but you didn't want to tell her. So it would come out another. ways because I just feel like suppressing that kind of stuff might make you, you know, sort of act out in other ways because you're not expressing yourself. I think at times I was passive aggressive just throughout there. Yeah, like you root to her for no reason. She's like, where the fuck is this coming from? Yeah. Yeah. And that's the problem with people not really like letting their feelings out on the table. And like I said, I get it. You guys are super young. I'm not going to judge you for doing things that sound crazy because I was 21 too. I mean, you're not like 40 years. year old people on a second marriage. You know, this is all new to you. So you'd be jealous. You just, and I personally, I honestly think for guys, it's harder to be vulnerable and be like,

oh my God, I felt jealous and stuff. You know what I mean? Like, guys don't want to say shit like that. Absolutely. Yeah, it's like your ego, you know, I totally get it. So you don't tell her, she's doing it. You feel a little passive aggressive sometimes that's pissing you off. So when does it make that turn where you start to like secretly start thinking like,

oh, this is kind of hot? around 2018-ish. But how long was that into her banging all these other guys? Like, how long did she bang other guys before you start to realize, oh, I might kind of like this? So she did it for about a year off and then we kind of stopped and then it picked back up. She met another guy and kind of had a relationship with him. And that's when we started talking about, you know, me being bisexual and then she would show me pictures. and it started to turn me on so she would tell me about it.

Okay, but all that time for that whole year, you kind of sat around being kind of jealous and she just kept meeting guys. Would she do it often? Did she have a lot of guys? Or was it just like a couple times that year? A couple times within that year. Okay, but there was no like Polly relationships going on at that time.

Was it just sex that she was having? Yeah, it was just sex. Okay, so now which comes first? You tell, like you figuring out that you're hot for it or are you realizing your by and telling and you tell her? The bisexual came before I realized I was into everything else. All right, cool. Let's talk about that.

Like, now, did you always secretly know that you were into guys? Had you had any kind of like experimental experiences when you were younger? Or was this something new for you? I kind of knew it back around junior high. I based off the porn I was watching then. Uh-huh. And I never did anything. I just always kept it to myself.

As our marriage progressed, I opened up to her about the desire to try some things, and we would use toys, and she would peg me. And then eventually she's like, you should try the real thing. I think you'll like the real thing. But like, so you realize because you've just been watching porn and stuff, like at that moment, it was the right time to bring that up to your wife? Like, what do you think changed in you that made you feel like, oh, I want to put this on the table now?

I think it was that we had a really close relationship. And I was tired of hiding it. And I wanted to talk to somebody about it. Okay. So you told her and she was totally cool with it right from the get-go? Oh, absolutely. She embraced it right away. What did she say when you told her?

Like, do you remember that conversation? I would assume you'd be nervous because did you have any idea of how she'd react? I didn't. I was scared to tell her and scared to talk her about it. But she was like, okay. She's like, let's buy some toys. What do you want to do? How do you want to try it out?

Okay, so she started pegging you. How was that for you and how was that for her? I loved it. She enjoys it because it turns me on. We still play with toys to this day. Were you one of those guys that I always talk about like you were like, you know, shoving shit in your ass but just not telling anybody about it? Like you had explored that area or had you not even like tried anything on yourself before she went to try the toys with you? I tried toys and obviously my finger and then kind of left

all that behind when we got married and then finally you know my up to her like hey let's try this and she was very open and all right we'll try it okay so you're doing toys she's pegging you you're obviously a bottom you enjoy that yes okay and then eventually she's the one that brings up hey let's do it in real life yeah she kept telling me you should really do a try go find somebody in I think you like the real thing over a toy. Which is true.

There's a very big difference. So, okay. There is. So now she, at around the same time, she gets a guy and then you start to realize that you're like turned on by it. Does that happen around, like right after you tell her this whole thing? Yes. Okay. So what went down with that?

Like, did she come to you and say, hey, I have this new guy and I kind of like him? Like, is this where it turns Polly? Yeah, because we both knew the guy pretty well. And we knew that him and his wife were in an open relationship. Okay. And he would talk back and forth. And she's like, hey, I want to go meet him. He wants to hang out.

And then she came home and she was talking about it. And she told me how big his dick was. And I was like, oh, that's pretty cool. I wouldn't mind seeing that. So then she got pictures and showed me pictures. And it just kind of progressed from there. Well, wait. So this guy, does he become a guy for her and a guy for you?

No, he was just a guy for her. Okay, so when she started showing you the pictures, because you're now openly by and you could be like, oh, that's like a hot cock and everything. Like, that's when you start to get more interested in it because you're kind of more included now because you could be like, oh, yeah, I think he's hot too. Yes. Yeah, I became more involved. Even though you're, but you're not going on her like hookups with her anymore. No. Okay.

No, I'm not. Okay. So she starts going out with that guy. Now when she starts coming back, do you start asking? for information? Yeah, she starts telling me what they did, which positions they did it in, and how it felt,

and those kind of things. Okay, did she ever offer up or say to you like, hey, babe, do you want to hug up with girls? Like, would she be okay with that? Yes,

I've actually had a, we had a threple at one point. We had a girl as a really good friend of ours that lived with us that I slept with. Okay, cool. We'll work up to that. Okay, so now she's like super open.

She's continuing. to see like guys and now she's playing with you and she's giving you a free pass to go hook up with a guy too. Yes. Okay, cool. Now, do you take her up on that offer? I do. I go to a local adult bookstore and they have the video booths in the back section of it.

Yeah. So I go and I explore with complete strangers, you know, in the different booths. They had a glory hole set up. I do that quite often for a while. while. Were you on the giving or the receiving end? The giving end. I was always the one blow any other guys. Yeah, most guys like to suck the dick. I always tell my straight friends, I always try to tell my straight friends, if you want a blow job, like there's so many guys out there that want to just suck a dick, like they'll just suck your dick and they don't need anything

in return. You don't just close your eyes and pretend it's a girl because so many guys, and they don't care about like, you know, having their dick suck, right? Like, you just like to be on the receipt. You like to be the giver. Correct. Yeah, they don't care if you do anything. I don't care if they do anything to me. I just want to suck as many dicks as I can when I'm there.

Yeah, you're not the first guy I've heard this from. It's common. Okay, so how was that experience for you, your first time that you were with a guy? Because this is something you've been fantasizing about for a very long time. It was pretty hot. I really enjoyed it. I believe the first time I wanted to. there, I stuck three or four guys and got home and told her about it.

And that was probably one of our best mice we had with sex in a long time. Wow. Because she enjoyed it as well. She liked the details. Oh, she loves the details. So, okay, so she starts enjoying the details. Okay, so now eventually we're going to get into a thruple and there's going to be like some poly stuff going around.

Like, does she continue to see this one guy that she's with that you're getting details and does she wind up like kind of falling for him? Like how does Polly become a part of your guy's marriage as well as all this other stuff? She was with him for probably about six months. Mm-hmm. Just like banging him. That and they would go go do stuff during the day. They would go hang out during the day, go for drive, go do different things throughout the area.

So it was like a relationship for them. And how were you feeling about that? Did you ever question it? Were you ever leery about it? or were you, like, did you know that that was happening? Were you okay with it? I knew it was happening and I was fine with it. Okay.

You weren't concerned like, oh, God, what if I lose my girl to this guy? She started, not only is she banging him, she's like, you know, caring for him. No fear of abandonment at all. I think in the beginning there was. But we hung out with him and his wife a lot. Oh, yeah, he's married. He's married. I forgot about that.

That makes sense. It's a little bit different than a solo guy. Yeah. Okay. So, okay, so eventually though, do they start develop feelings for each other? Yes, they did. And did she tell you? Like, how did you find out? He was pretty clean. So I knew he had feelings for her. I mean, he was very cool. Guys and girls are so different than when I grew up. Like, the guys are no offense to the guys nowadays. But from what I hear, okay, and what it seems like is like the women hold all the power and the guys don't, you know? And when I was younger, it was the opposite. You know? I mean, girls were so whipped to guys. They treated us like shit. And now it's the reverse. And you know what I'm here to say that means? Because when we were younger, everyone would be like, oh, guys are fucking assholes.

You know, look at what they do. Like, they're such fucking assholes. Like guys are just jerks. It's like, no, you know who's jerks? Anyone in position of power, now that the girls have all the power, they're like assholes to guys. You know what I mean? And it just goes to show it's not a man, woman thing. Everyone's fucking assholes when you give them too much power. It's like that movie, that movie Lord of the Flies or whatever the fuck it was where they all fought on. the thing. You know what I mean? Anyone that has power, they abuse it, right? The girls are so mean to guys nowadays.

But in my day, it was the guys. So what the, you know, same shit, different day. Okay. So this guy was like clinging to your girl. Now, did his wife have a problem with that or was she okay with it? I think she was okay with it because he left her alone. So they were in their

40s, 5th, like 40s. Oh, they were older. Okay. Yeah, she's a thing for older guys. Your girl. Okay. It's almost always an older guy. okay so and his wife was fine because she's just like oh he gives me my free time so go spend time with her i don't think they ever had the conversation as to what he was doing okay but she knew because they had relationships in the past with other women and i think she was just he left her alone and so she knew

like oh it's okay he can go do those things and i won't say anything because i don't have to deal with them okay so when she tells you that she i'm assuming at some point she tells you like she's starting to like this person romantically and you're okay with it by the time she told you? Yeah, because I knew she would never leave. We became pretty open. I mean, communication is everything and we talked about everything. Okay, so did you ever have any weird feelings about it or no? Because this was a guy, like you said, he was with the wife so you knew that she wouldn't

leave you. So, like, was it ever, there was no fear for you as far as, like, her allowing herself to fall for this guy? No, no fear at all. Okay, how long did their Polly relationship work? How long did it last for? They were together for six or seven months, and then they talked again a few months later, and he started being real cleaning again right off the bat, so she ended it pretty quickly.

Oh, so the Polly thing didn't really last. I mean, she started liking him, but he was too much? Yeah, he became too much. To the point if she didn't call him or text him first thing in the morning, he would throw a fit, and she just got tired of it. Yeah, this is where Polly. I don't know how people do it because you're not just struggling one person and all their nonsense, whether it's a male or female. You're dealing with more than one.

You know what I mean? So it just brings up all the stuff. You know, it's like double or triple. Okay, so now, do you guys ever play together? We do, yes. What do you do together? We've had a few threesome with other guys, three-sum with the girl we were in a thruple with. So why don't you explain those situations?

When did she decide to join you on an out-ing? with a bye guy? When I was messing around with guys at the adult bookstore Mm-hmm She wanted to watch me Suck a Dick

Okay Bought him Completely bought him For a guy And so we got on I believe With Grinders What we used

Mm-hmm And we found a guy That his ad said He was this tall Or He had pictures on there And I think we got Catfish

Because he didn't Look anything like them We showed up So rude Yeah But he showed up And we both blew him and he had sex with her while I watched,

and that was kind of the end of that one. How was that for you? I enjoyed it. I thought it was great. Yeah. I enjoyed it too. Yeah, she must have enjoyed it too because she was always like really super hot,

you know, thinking about you with other guys. Yeah, she enjoyed it. She actually, we're trying to make plans to do something again like that that she can watch. Okay, cool. So you had that experience and a couple other experiences with guys as well? Yeah, but they were mainly just, we would both be at different ends and we would both have sex with her and then they were separate ways. There was never any male and male contact with those ones.

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Use it after you click on the link in the description for 65% off your yearly pass, plus their 14-day risk-free money-back guarantee. Experiences with guys as well? Yeah, but they were mainly just, we would both be at different ends and we would both have sex with her and then there are separate ways. There was never any male and male contact with those ones. So that's, this is what I've learned from my show. There's MMF threesome.

That's where the two guys actually hook up as well as hook up with the girl. And then the MFM is where the two guys just fuck the girl. So those were the other two. So you've only had one MMF threesome. Now, when does the girl come into play? Let's talk about your thruple with the girl before we get into more of your wife's other Polly relationships. That was probably about three years ago.

It was a really, really good friend of ours, and she's always been flirty. I mean, just that's her personality. And we were talking back and forth and then finally, you know, just say, hey, we know, we should hook up. And we talked to my wife about and she's like, go for it. Why wouldn't you? And then she ended up more or less living with us for five or six months. Okay, was she hot? Oh, yeah.

She was very good looking. So you knew that. Okay. So now when does it come into play like, oh, let's see. Let's, like, wind up, like, making a pass at her and hooking up with her. We hung out a lot. One day, her and I were just hanging out, and we were joking around, but, you know, hey, you know, all this time we're together alone, we should just hook up. And we should just hook up and she joked around about it.

And then I'm like, you know, why not? And then my wife was sitting there. I'm like, what do you think about this? You know, do you think we should hook up? And she'd be kind of hot to watch you two hook up. And then what happened? Walk us through that story. The first few times was just me and her.

We would, she would, no, you're there, hold on a second, though, but you're there and your wife says, like, yeah, you guys should hook up. I, you know, I'd love to watch that. You don't hook up like right then and there in front of your wife. You wind up doing it a different time. Not that night now. Okay. We do it a different time. Okay, cool. So one day your wife's not home. You guys are together and it goes down. Yeah. And pretty much. We, she goes me and we end up having sex and I tell my wife about it. And she's like, all right, cool. That's awesome. And that night, I think we all had dinner together. And it was like nothing happened. It was just very easygoing. Okay. And then what happens? Because it winds up turning into a thruple. Well, because she ends up sleeping in our bed with us.

And they would both end up blowing me back and forth. My wife and I would have sex and I would have sex with her 20 minutes later. It was never all of us together right at first until later on in that relationship. but we would all hang out together, we would sleep together, just sleep in bed together, and it was just kind of, she lived with us,

she was part of our relationship. You would fuck her, and you would fuck your wife, but at this point in the beginning, the girls weren't hooking up with each other, but they were both kind of sharing you. Yes, correct. Okay, and did you start to have feelings

for the other girl, or was this just like a sexual thing with her? There was feelings involved. Okay. When does your wife and her start getting involved? One drunk a night. Oh, one drunk. Yeah, we were all drinking one night and we ended up all hooking up that night together.

And was that your wife's first experience with a woman? She had experiences with three sons with a woman before me with other people. She's dated in the past. Uh-huh. So it wasn't anything completely new to her. So how was that experience? That was a pretty fun evening. Everybody really enjoys themselves that evening.

So what happened? Why don't you give me some details? So they both blew me back and forth and then I had sex with our friend. And then my wife watched and she was laying in bed and she reached over and started playing with her as I was screwing her. And then I was,

I pulled out and then started screwing my wife where our friend watched and then after that we all kind of laid there and my wife fell asleep and then my friend our friend blew me while we're laying in bed next to her okay is that it? That's that's the majority

yeah that's it okay okay so this becomes like a thruple how long did she live with you guys for about six months it was the total time that we were involved with her And why did she leave? Is it because she just found her own place or what and she didn't need to live with you guys anymore? Or, I mean, was there any issues?

She had some other personal issues in her life with, she was actually in a relationship at the time. Oh, my gosh. Another guy. Did he know? Did he know? No, you had no idea. So she, oh my God, I want her in my show. So she's literally having a thruple with a couple.

Like, she's cheating on her boyfriend by having a thruple with a couple. and he has no idea about it. Correct. He had thoughts. To this day, he's accused or cheating with so many different people, but I was never on his radar.

He's never once accused me of it. But you think that he thought it. Yeah, he tried catching us doing, you know, kissing or making out or stuff like that when he's been like at our house and the two of us kind of ventured off

and he would try to catch us in the act. Yeah, obviously, people aren't stupid. You know what I mean? Like, I think, whether it's a girl or a guy, I think we kind of like sometimes, you know, it's like a subconscious thing, like you kind of know something, but if you don't have proof, you don't know and you feel like you're going crazy, but he had the sense that something was going down, right? Because something was. Correct. And ultimately, the funniest part about all of it is at that time, he had

slept with my wife twice without her, without our friend knowing. Because he knew we were in an open relationship and he took, he was like, hey, why don't you come down and hang out? And they slept together a few times. Oh my gosh. See, this is where I start to get a headache with you. I don't know if it's the younger people or Polly people that just roll like this. Like there's just so much going on. Do you know what I mean?

It's hard to keep. Yeah, it's very hard. I don't know. I, you know, I think I did a lot of the same shit when I was super young. I mean, okay, so who becomes Polly? I mean, do you ever start falling for guys or having relationships with other women? Like when you say we're Polly, me and my wife, like who's Polly and how are you guys rolling today?

I mean, we're still only at 30 minutes. I need him so much more. But like, why Polly? Like, who's having relationships with other people? So we say we're Polly because we're both the type of person that I don't typically go out and just hook up with somebody. I have to have an emotional connection with them too. My wife's the same way. She doesn't want to just hook up.

She wants a emotional connection to somebody. Says the girl. Now, says the girl who came to you one day and said, hey, I need to have fun. and I just want to relax and check out so I need to just go fuck some random guys that girl needs a connection well it's evolved over the years that's how it was in the beginning

and now she'd rather have like one person that she can just that's like another venture for she can have another relationship within our relationship okay so she did change is what you're saying it wasn't like this is how she always was eventually things change and she said hey you know I'm not into just going out and having her free

like she didn't want the free pass anymore because listen she's morphed, like, but you didn't really sort of say that. All of a sudden, you're like, oh, she needs a connection. No, she actually changed, which is, I think, super interesting, right? Like, here she was this young girl at one time wanting to bang all these guys, got that kind of out of her system, started having a throwout ball doing all this stuff. And now, you know, so many years later, after having, like, been there done that, she

feels like she wants to do it in a different way. Correct. Okay. And does she. Yeah. So does she come with to you and say, hey, I want to find one guy? I think I just kind of, we, as it of all, we just both knew that she was more comfortable, because I'm the same way, I'm more comfortable with somebody if I, if I screw around with them

or I have an emotional connection multiple times. Rather than just one time and done, I'm... Rather than glory holes. Yeah, you get better with time. It always, I mean, I fuck the same booty cold guy for a long time, not because I have no other options, but I think that, you know, sex is always the best with, like, people that you know for a long period of time. All right. So does she wind up getting a boyfriend? She hasn't had one in a while.

She's had a few guys that she has met with a few times that she's comfortable with, but she doesn't have a boyfriend currently. Okay. But those guys that she had, those few guys that she had, those were guys that she was, like, trying to date. No different than any other kind of dating. Like, she's married to you, but she's, like, dating these other guys. trying to look for that one, the one, another one, quote unquote, right? Yes, yes, exactly. And you're cool with that?

Yes, because I do the same thing. Okay, so tell me about your deal. So how does that come about for you that you're going to do the same thing? And are you doing it with guys? Are you doing it with girls? Or are you doing it with both? With both. Okay, is she doing it with both too now that she hooks up with girls or is she just into dating guys?

she's mainly into dating guys okay cool so at some point it's like you could go have a relationship to as well with a guy or a girl yes yeah I can have a relationship with a guy or a girl any questions from her or rules or regulations or she's just like down do your thing go for whoever you want date whoever you want

we don't have any rules we actually we were a couple of friends two friends of ours that we have switched with swath with a few times and they have a lot of lot of all these different roles. We don't have any of those roles. So if you're going to go out and do it, go have fun. No, no, no.

I think it's different when you were like, it's one thing when it's sex and, you know, and blah, blah, blah. But you guys are going into this thing. It's not like you have any kind of deep entanglements because it doesn't sound like anyone's been like full-fledged, fallen hard for somebody else yet. But that's what you guys are open to right now. And that's where maybe I'm thinking you need some rules. I don't know.

because I get that when she was like having that relationship with the one guy he was married and you felt safe and stuff. But like now if she's going out, hitting up guys online to try and date them, quote unquote, to get a guy that she could fall in love with. What if that guy's single? Is that going to bother you? No, because we have such a great relationship and our communication is beyond. I mean, I've never met anybody that has a relationship like ours that can communicate the way we can. And so how do you communicate about your Polly relationship? relationships that you're going to have.

Like, have you ever met anyone yet that you've been like in love with yet? No, I haven't. Okay, but do you go on a lot of dates? Have you been on any dates with girls or guys recently? Or in the past couple years? I don't know when this started. There's been a couple guys that I've not dated, but I grew a friendship with. I mean, I'm more about a friend with benefits with those guys than a relationship.

Okay. What about girls? Are you actively looking for a girl? girlfriends? I have been, yes. I mean, I haven't had any luck. When you tell them you're married, you do that's a pretty big,

I'm good. Girls are harder to find than guys are, that's for sure. Well, are you on the right apps? Because there's certain apps where you could be like, hey, I'm Polly and this is what I want and you're going to find, like,

exactly the right types of people that are open to that. We just started looking at, uh, what is that life? Okay. I think like field. A lot of people talk about a thing like field, I think it's a little bit of a dating app

that's open to like kind of pollies and throuples and shit like that. Like I always promote SDC because that's like an online swinger site but I think that that's different. You're more like, I don't see you guys as swingers. You guys are more like poly people, correct?

Like how would you label yourself if you had to? That's where we struggle with that, with the whole labeling thing because we do, we do enjoy swinging. Like we're actually planning, we found a swingers club about two hours from us. And the beginning of next month, they have a night that's kind of,

kind of for beginners. Okay. planning on making a trip up to it just to see he was listening to one of your podcasts and she's like, this girl goes to a sweater club. I want to try that. I think it would be awesome. Listen, I think, you know,

maybe you won't even ever be probably. Like maybe you guys are just so open and down to try anything and you don't really overthink it and you just kind of like do it. I mean, I don't know what happens when you wind up falling in love with another girl, but is that really your intention? Do you really care about meeting another girl that you could like

really fall in love with or do you just want to have like a connection with someone that you kind of like as a person and you just have great sex with them or do you want to romantically connect with somebody else? I think it's more have a connection and have good sex with them. Not necessarily the fall in love aspect. Because it sounds like you and your wife are very close, right? Like you kept, you've said many times like you have the best, uh, communication. It sounds like you guys just have that kind of relationship where you just so trust each other that there's no or regulations. You're so open with each other, right? Kind of been

there, done that, a lot of things together and, you know, has there been, and it doesn't sound like there's been much drama, right? No, there hasn't been much drama, and I think that's because of the communication. Right. We talk about everything. Yeah, so I'm just like, why would you want to, like, meet, like, do, you know,

what I would wonder is like, why would you want to meet somebody else to have a relationship with them, a romantic relationship if you're so close with your wife? But I think Polly people just have that capacity and want to love more than one person. I don't know you have to tell me. Yeah, I don't know that it is that I want to love another person. It's just like you said, a communication or a connection.

Like a good relationship, like a friends, a very good friends with benefits. Yeah, maybe you're not Polly. What about your girl? Do you feel like she's more Polly than you in that she wants to fall for another guy and have a romantic relationship with him on top of the sex? I think it is just the connection, not necessarily the fall in love, just to have a connection with somebody and be really good friends with benefits. And maybe I don't even know what the fuck Polly is. Like maybe all Polly, because like, listen, there's all different kinds of Polly scenarios, right?

So, you know, it sounds like some people like have a primary partner, right? Like you guys are each other's primary. And then everyone is kind of beneath that and they have those. But maybe all those Polly relationships aren't like, oh, totally romantic. but I think that they are. I think that's a difference, right? Between Polly people and people that just have like, like are just living in ethically non-monogamous relationship.

I don't know. You know, you guys just might be very non-monogamous and kinky as fucking into all this kind of stuff. You know what I mean? That could be very well. Like I said, we struggle with the whole labeling it thing. There's so many different labels out there.

It's hard to keep up with them. I know. This is what I say about labels. You know, like I said, I could really relate to you being in your 20s. because I really could look back and remember. And I feel like I was fucking messed up and doing all kinds of crazy shit.

And I feel like at that time in my life, I would have benefited by all the labels they have right now. Because when I was young, they only had two labels. No, they had three. You were gay, buyer straight. And the only kind of relationships that existed was either you're in a relationship and it's monogamous or you're not in a relationship and you're single. I did so many weird things. I had so many, sometimes I would be banging three guys and they all knew about each other. You know, and like now I could have been like, oh, I'm like, you know, gender fluid or whatever.

I don't know even what the fucking names of it are. But like there's so many choices to sort of label yourself. And I think when you are very young, it's super helpful because you don't feel alone. And so, you know, so you could kind of be like, okay, I belong somewhere so you don't feel so dysfunctional and different. Whereas I think the older you get, like right now in my life, because I'm old as fuck. way older than you. I don't need to label myself. I know who I am, but I think there's a certain time and place for it. And maybe for you, especially now that you're now in your 30s, like, you don't need to label yourself, especially because you and your girl have been doing this for

a very long time, right? I mean, it sounds like you've been doing it for 10 years. Yeah, we've been for about 10 years. And has there been any kind of drama or any kind of issues with it besides that initial jealousy that you had in the beginning? In the beginning, there was a jealousy. There was people I didn't know about right away. She kind of kept it from me. Oh, okay. You tell me that. So I actually, I had some note right and I forgot it all about that. Oh. Yeah. It was one of those things that she told me later on. I'd be jealous or mad or at her first. And I'd like, well, well, how was that? What was it like? I'd start asking questions about what it was like. Yeah. Mm-hmm. Go on.

Because I was, I always tell her and joke with her, I was innocent until I met her. Because I think it wasn't only one person I slept with. before her. And then after that, it just kind of, she opened that door to Pandora's box and we never looked back. Yeah, listen, you, your girl definitely was the driver, especially because she came to you like, no shame. Like, hey, listen, I'm young. I want to go have fun. I want to check out. I want to fuck other people. Like, are you okay with this? And she, like, got you to agree with that instead of cheating on you and creating this whole divorce, you know, you know, and turning into big fat mess. She was like super honest. which I respect.

Yeah. She came to you. And, you know, I respect the fact that you were like, okay, and gave her the free pass. And even though you had some jealousy, you were able to stick it through. I think the better thing would have been to, like, talk to her about it. But it sounds, listen, what's cool about her is it wasn't like she was having her cake and eating it too. I mean, the minute you put your kings on the table, she was fucking open to anything and totally down with it. Like, she was cool when you said you were by, she pegged you, she gave you the first.

repast to go with guys. She let you go down on her girl and fuck her. She was down for, it wasn't like she only wanted to play. She wanted you both to play. Like she just wants to have fun. Oh, absolutely. She loves when I go out and play and come home and tell her about it. And with guys or with girls, you haven't,

have you done it with a girl? I have, yes. Besides the one that we were in a trouble with, I have. And when I came home, I told her, you know, exactly what we did. And what happened, you know, we started out on the couch and then we went up to her bedroom. And I got her off seven, eight times. And that turned my wife on. And then we, later on, we had some of the best sex. We always had the greatest sex when we're open and one of us is out messing around. It does add something, right? I mean, that's what I hear from everybody. And I

could imagine, I'm a little cuck queen. Like, I could see how that could be kind of hot. I think as long as you have the security of knowing that like this isn't going, the other person isn't going to leave you in any way, shape, or form for doing any of the stuff, you know, then I think you could kind of like really enjoy it for what it is. And sometimes, you know, for people that are into it, it adds a whole different layer. And really, you know, everybody says the same thing that you do is that it really makes the sex between the primary people, like you and your girl when you come home, that much better. Oh, it does. It's night and day difference.

And do you love when she goes out and fucks other guys? Oh, I love it when she goes out and fucks other guys, especially when she comes home and the guy came in her. I love that. So do you consider yourself a cleanup guy? Yeah, I do. I have some fancies we've talked about of her coming home and me going down on her and cleaning her up after another guy's coming her.

And I keep telling her, I want to watch another guy have sex with her, be right there. and be part of it and watch as he fucks her. How come you're not involved in any more of her scenarios? We're working towards that. We both started listening to your podcast about two months ago. We worked together too, ironically. We spend every minute every day together. And I found your podcast, McKay, you should listen to this.

We were kind of having a little bit of a rocky time going days, weeks, without having any sex. And I'm like, listen to this podcast and just listen to it. And then she started finding an episode she was listening to. And I'm like, you know, I think I really want to watch another guy have sex with you. And then she's like, well, I'd like to watch a guy have sex with you. So it's really opened up our horizons even farther than what they were recently. Okay.

But how come through all this? And maybe it's not as much hooking up as I think it is. But how come through all this time of all this free passes and her like banging whoever she wants and vice versa? Like how come you haven't been involved in more of her guy hookups? Especially because, you know, you don't need to fuck the guy too. I mean, you'd be down because you said you did a male, man, MFM3, some a couple times. I think you said you did it a few times, but it was never where you hooked up with a guy.

They weren't guys that were interested in any part of that. But you have experienced that. Correct. So what are you looking to experience now that you guys were talking about? about me blowing the guy getting him ready for her being there watching him real close and then either him finishing you know in my mouth or him uh topping me okay so maybe what you're saying is what you're looking for now is a threesome with a buy guy that's something you didn't have yes okay but what about what she said she wanted to see what is she looking for now she wants to see me

with one or two by or gay guys. She'd like to see me full on bottom for another guy. Have you bought him for another guy? Did I ask you that already?

Sorry? You didn't, but I have once. How was that for you? He was in a hurry that wasn't the best. Oh gosh.

Yeah? So it wasn't the greatest, but I've blown quite a few guys. I had a guy that I blew a couple times and we were supposed to get together,

but then he kind of got a little weird and I ended up gosing him because it just became too much for me. I get it. So you just haven't found the right guy, because it sounds like you guys have had your share of solo experiences. So you're just looking to do more stuff together. That shouldn't be very hard. No, it shouldn't be.

We just started looking on all the different apps. I just re-downloaded the Grindr app recently. So, and then there's a new one. Watch out for Grindr. Somebody told me, I think it was Grindr that they were on as a couple. I think it was this lesbian girl that I had on. Her and her, it was such an interesting episode.

Her and her wife were like having sex with guys, like random guys. It was interesting. And they went on Grindr that got kicked off because they were a couple. You know, certain ones are better. Try SDC. You could get a free trial, by the way, with my code 37712. That's like a swingers website where you can meet other couples and stuff like that. You know, like try that one.

that's sdc.com. Try Field or Cassidy or FetLife. Those are places where you could go on as a couple looking for whether it's another couple that wants to play with a by guy or a by guy that wants to play with the two of you guys. Like what would be the ideal thing that you guys are looking for right now? A buy guy that wants to play with those of us. Listen, I don't think that that's too hard to find.

You just got to put that out there, you know? And you're going to weed out all the trash saying that you're by so that anyone that's into that and they're only into an MFM threesome is going to be weeded out because you've been there done that. What you want is to be able to everyone's going to hook up with everybody. Yeah, that's what we ultimately want is the by guy for the hookup. Yeah, and you know what I've heard from those kinds of threesomes are the best from people that have had all the kinds because they say like in that time there's no like, oh, you could hook up with him but I can't hook up with you. You know, there's no boundaries, right? It's like a free for all. And you would assume that that

would be probably the hottest threesome because anyone could hook up with anyone. Yeah, absolutely. Yeah. And you'll probably have good luck going to Swingers Club. That makes a sense that that's going to be the next place where you guys go. I don't know that I necessarily consider you guys Polly, which is a good thing if you ask me. Polly gives me a headache.

Yeah. The more research we do, because that's the type of people we are, we research everything. I like that. Yeah. Recently I told her I wanted her to be more dominant in the bedroom. And so next thing I noticed she was doing a whole bunch of research on it. Yeah, great. I love that.

And so the more research you did on Polly, did you get a fucking headache too? Yeah, I didn't quite understand all of it. Yeah, it's confusing. It's a whole different thing. You guys sound like you're more like, and I don't necessarily think the word swingers is that great. It sounds a little outdated. And I don't think younger people really like it. There needs to be a new word.

But I don't know that you guys are so much Polly or you're just much more of just a, you know, a couple that lives an ethically non-monogamous relationship. And, you know, you're probably going to love the swinging world because you'll be able to meet like-minded people. Yeah, absolutely. And that's one of the reasons we want to go to that swingers club is, well, I might out, you know, no kid. We can kind of unwind and see how things go for the night. Yeah. How old are you guys now? 33.

How old is your girl? I'm 33. She's 35. Wow. So you live in your best life. You're your kids older now, right? Yeah. Yep. She's to the point now where she's kind of taking care of herself and we can go do our thing and not have to worry about a babysitter. Yeah, amazing. That's amazing. So you're going to be going to your swingers club next. Well, good luck with everything. Listen, I think it's, Polly always scares me a little bit because

you're leaving sort of the, I don't know, you know, when someone's allowed to fall for somebody else. Like, you just never know what that could lead to. So I think it's better that you guys aren't really going there. I get wanting to have a connection with somebody because I don't really like to fuck strangers either. In any of my booty calls, I really actually like them as people. They're my great friends, you know, but I don't love them. But I really like them. And that's who I prefer to sleep with people like that. So I understand that. And I think that that's cool. But I don't call that Polly. So, you know, so I love it. So anyway, thanks so much for calling in. I'm so glad that you found my website two months. And my website. My podcast.

two months ago. I'm so glad you called in and shared your story. I was little confused in the beginning. I think it's because I think I was stuck on the Polly thing and I was thinking it was like very different, you know, but I, you know, I totally understand your whole, I could see your whole relationship now for what it is. And you guys are just super open and really connected and really trusting of each other and you're living your best life. Oh, absolutely. We always tell people, you know, we had our kids young. Now we can live the good life. Yes. It's the opposite of of my life. I lived my life the way I fucking wanted till I was so old. I was

like, this is so boring. You know what I mean? And then I had a kid at like 46 and I'm like, this is the best times of my life. Like I love nothing more than to be with my kid all the time. You know what I mean? Because it's kind of been there, done that. So those are two different ways. Like you're living your best life at 33. Like you got, you know, you had your kid, the kids

out of the house. It's like now you're having the best times of your life. It's great. Because you had them so young, you know? Yep. I was 21 when we had our kid. that's the positive, you know, of doing that. So that's great. So anyway, good luck to you guys. I will give you free access to my Patreon to see the comments when your episode airs.

It'll be up soon. And then, but when you hang up with me, you're going to get a thank you email. And in that email will be your free access link to my Discord. And you could go in there and start posting or doing whatever you want in there. It's super fun. You could look for people in there. There's lots of people on there. And you could post anything on there.

That's like X-rated shit. But for me, for Patreon, if you want to send me, I'm assuming your wife knows you're calling in because you listen to the bar. podcast together. If you want to send me in picks and she approves, if you want to send me an anonymous picks of the two of you, send me R-rated picks for my Patreon. The X-rated stuff you could post yourself or do whatever you want over there. I don't get involved in the Discord. But for me, if you want to send me anonymous picks, anonymous, I don't want people's faces in the picks on Patreon. Just send me R-rated stuff, you know, for my Patreon. I send that to me sooner or later, so I have

it. I can do that. Yes. Yes. And she knows I'm on. I keep trying to get her to email you and have her come on I mean, at some point, didn't I say to you, like, why isn't she on this call? I think I thought it and I didn't interrupt you. But yeah, I get her to call in. Listen, I would love to hear her. I have done it many times, trust me. So I know that like hearing the same exact story from the other partner in the situation is always like it equally as fascinating. And a lot of times totally different experience.

So I would love to have your girl on if she wants to come on and talk. to me because I think the girl that goes to her guy when she's super young, just had a baby and says, hey, you know, I want a free pass to go fuck other guys. Like, I want to talk to that girl. Like, that's, she's an interesting person to me, you know, so I would love to have her on the show. So tell her, she'll hear me saying this is my pitch to your girl.

Call in. I'd love to pick your brain. You interest me. So, I will. Okay. So, and if she's down, send her the link or just text me and I'll send you the link to give it to her, okay? Sounds good.

Thank you very much. All right. Thanks so much for calling in Brad. You're great. Thanks, Brad. Send me the picks and everything soon, okay? All right. Bye. All right. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly anonymous confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available, not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audio book. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book. book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story.

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