Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1278 - Jen Cheated on Corey and he Got Turned on & Now She’s a Hotwife

Episode Date: November 17, 2025

Jen cheated on Corey and he got turned on by it and now she's a hotwife and they both called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when Corey realized he was into sharing his partner, Jens poly relationship when she was younger and the group sex it led to, how and why she was cheating on him galore, how he found out and how he felt about it, how they used her cheating to get into hotwifing, how Corey turned his jealousy into a turn on, why she was afraid to start actually hotwifing for him, her cheating past and how she stopped, how and when Corey realized he was hetero-flexible, their rules they had going in to, their first experience as well as their second one and what wend down, their hotel threesome with a guy with a big dick and how and why it was so great, plus a whole lot more. To see pics of JEN & COREY plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠ To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠[e-mail]⁠ or go to ⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed. Sponsors:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Use the code STRICTLY at checkout for 30% OFF your entire order⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get your first month of the new Bluechew Max FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://brooklynbedding.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Use my promo code STRICTLY at checkout to get 30% off sitewide⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! ⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2536-anonymous⁠⁠⁠ — Use code ANONYMOUS69 to get 50% off your yearly pass plus a 14-day money-back guarantee⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠http://loadboost.com⁠⁠⁠ — To get 10% off LOAD Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠https://uberlube.com/discount/Strictly⁠⁠⁠ — Use code STRICTLY for 10% off Uberlube aka the BEST Lube EVER⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/xLQ3Jv⁠⁠⁠ — To get $15 OFF your oxytocin products, STI panels and more, use code STRICTLY Follow me! Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠ X: ⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠ Website: ⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else: https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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I don't know if they sent me along with an email. I don't really tend to read them. I want to just like give me one sentence. And you know, my curiosity typically runs a call. So I never know what's going to happen. And I'm glad I did it on this one because I just thought they were like a newbie couple that's like into hot wiping. But there was this whole other backstory about cheating. And she sort of threw it in there that Jen like cheated on him while they were dating.

And I was like, oh, I'm obsessed with a cheating story. So let's go there. But it turned out that the whole cheating thing was a big part of their story. And that's when things turn into this being like a very fascinating episode because, you know, they were like dating long distance. Jen was like fucking cheated on him. cheated on everybody. I mean, she was very honest about who she was and what she was doing. Corey kind of knew. It was driving him a little crazy, but he was kind of turned on. He was always into hot wiping. We talk about his like backstory on how he got his first wife to do it. And he's always

known he's kind of into his girl being with other guys since he was in high school. And then when he found out Jen was cheating, he talks about how he felt about that. He didn't really know for sure until wait later on and eventually they came clean and the whole but it's so much more than what I'm telling you like I know people are going to be like counties don't tell us the whole fucking story but I'm not trust me you have to hear the details and the emotions and her you know how honest they are about everything that they were feeling through that whole time and eventually they moved in together they got married and when they worked through all that stuff they decided instead of Jen cheating and having her cake and eating it to be in his back she got to do it in front of him and they

just started hotwifing about a year ago. They've been with like a bunch of guys and they talk about those experiences too. Talk about the first one and then the ones that followed. Like I said, it's so super layered. It's so super interesting. I didn't know. Like I said, it was going to go into the whole cheating thing. But that becomes a big part of this episode. But that's what makes it fascinating. So you're going to love their story. I have pictures of them over on my Patreon. So you want to check those out. or my Patreon, patreon.com's last strictly anonymous podcast, or just go to the link in the description and click on it.

But anyway, I'm going to be back on with Jen and Corey. Hey, Corey and Jen. How are you doing today? Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. Doing well, thank you. Doing good. Thank you. Oh, my God.

Why are you guys laughing already? They're like on stage. Okay, listen, Corey and Jen, you guys are newbie swingers, which I love. I don't know. Do you call yourself swingers or your hot wifing? What do you guys doing? together now that you've crossed the line? I think we would put ourselves more in the hot lifeing category.

Oh, okay. Okay, that's a very common thing. Who knew? I learned on my show. Okay, so you're a couple. You just turned the leaf like a year ago, right? How long have you guys been married? We got married actually last year today.

But we were together for five years before we got married. Oh, so today's your anniversary. Congratulations. But you met five years ago. Now, was this the first marriage for the both of you? It was my second and his third. Corey, so let me ask you this real quick. Let's start with Corey.

Corey, in your past two relationships, did you ever bring hot wifing into it or did you ever do anything like that wasn't vanilla with your previous wives? Yes, I did it with both of them. Oh, you did? Well, I need to get that story. Like, how did that come up for you?

Were you just always like a little freaky and got your girls into it? Or like, how did it come up even with your first wife? so like back in like high school i guess i started like thinking that was hot and then i got married kind of young and probably like i don't know i just like fantasized about it on my own for a long time and then finally i got the balls to just say something and my first wife was like okay like she was instantly into it and we experimented and then i experimented with my next wife a little bit but like after the first relationship that I did it with, I was very open, going into my next ones,

that that was something I was into because I didn't want to hide it forever. Well, you never hit it, really. I mean, you're saying, like, right from the get-go from high school, how do you remember, like, finding out that you were into, like, how did you find it out, find out that you were even into this? Like, that you liked seeing your girl with another guy. I lived at my friend's house in high school, and her uncle had, like, tons of porn. And there was like these fuck my wife videos.

Oh. I would watch them and like I thought they were hot and then I just started fantasizing about it on my own. Well, you know, I'm sure you didn't listen to my last week's Fetish Friday episode. It's better that you stumbled upon that porn than the porn that this poor guy stumbled upon because he got literally roped into the weirdest fucking fetish. I felt so bad for him and he was like hypnotized by what the videos he found and then he just got wired into this awful thing.

I'm like, it's kind of fucked up. that sometimes porn can wire you into something especially when you're really young and just like your dick is hard all the time you know so like right you just happen to find that stuff i wonder if you would have ever been into it if it wasn't for that porn you know so all right so that was what you saw and you and it was like hot right for you yeah okay okay and so then when you brought it up and like the first time do you remember when you're with that first wife like did you ever have any kind of jealousy or was it just like everything you imagine right from the get-go do you remember back then?

I just, even to this day, it's always like a nerve thing. Like I never get jealous. I just get nervous every time. About what? Just like the experience before it starts. Like I get really like anxious about it. But like once it starts, everything's cool

usually. Yeah, but like what are like I know that sometimes guys don't know how to explain things, but like where are your nerves coming from? Like what are you nervous about? Things not going well. The guy not performing. everything not sort of running the way you wanted to. Like what's the nervousness about? Do you know?

Like if a guy was to like break a rule and having to like deal with it because I don't want to just set a rule and then not like deal with the consequences if someone breaks it. So it's like I just don't want to deal with bullshit. Like so that makes me nervous. And then I want them to be respectful of my wife. I get it. I mean you're sharing your girl and you're super, you want to take care of her.

So that's what you're nervous about. just like not being in control of like a bad situation because you're the one kind of taking care of your girl in that situation. That's how you see yourself. Yeah. I think that makes sense from a guy standpoint. Yeah. Yeah. Okay, cool. So now let me ask you Jen real quick. Like, did you do anything like before you met Corey like in your last relationship or any of your other relationships? Absolutely not at all. When I was, I definitely have been. freaky, like love sex, love group sex, love all these different kinks. But then I got married and for 15 years just kind of self-satisfied a lot. Wait, but did you have group sex before you got

married? Yes, and then after. And after. Okay, where were you having group sex? Was it like when you were young? I was just like drunk and parties. Yeah. Young single. And then after, I always tell people if one of your friends gets a divorce, just start following them on social media because they go insane. And I was going through my insane ho phase for a while. And what did you do? Like where was these? Okay, because like I wound up in orgies too. Like in my drinking days young and bars, everyone winds up.

You know, so I, you know, it's a little bit different when you're way older. Like, so after you get married and you get divorced, where are these group sex situations happening? It's a little bit different than when you're in your 20s. I actually met people off of Tinder. Okay, so you went looking for it then. Yeah, more open-minded. I think at the time I met him, I was definitely jaded with the whole dating scene and was more, you know, very open. Like, I'm just here to have some fun and got to meet some like-minded people that way.

Okay, but how old are. Yeah, yeah, please. Sure. So when I was on Tinder, because I was getting divorced and all that, like, I hadn't really done the social media dating thing. And I did not know that Tinder was just basically like a hookup thing. Where do you fucking live? To me, it's like, you know, Tinder's like a fuck site. You know what I mean?

Like, I don't know. I think everyone knows that. I figured it out pretty quick, but I was like, I did not know. Yeah, but you probably, Corey, the way you roll and the stories I've heard from you so far, you were like, where you needed to be. Probably. You were, you were,

it was much better you were there than E-Harmony, okay? Exactly. Tinder was exactly the place for you. Wait, did you guys meet on Tinder? Yeah.

We did. Okay, but wait, before we get there, okay, I just wanted a couple more questions for Jen. Like you said group sex. I still haven't heard the story.

Like, I mean, you're on Tinder and you're just like looking for like hot guys just to have sex. It's like, how do you,

like, how do you wind up in a group sex situation? I was in a very interesting kind of polyamorous relationship. See, this is why I have to ask these questions because I would have not got this information. Okay, I'm pulling it out of you. Okay. You didn't say that before.

No, I was in a polyamorous relationship and two of my partners. It was my birthday. And we went out and partied a little too hard. We had a threesome. There was another person, casual friend who played with my nipples. we didn't have sex, but the other two. I had a lot of fun with. But was the other casual friend, a girl, or a guy?

It was two guys and a girl. Oh, okay. So now, had you ever hooked up with girls before? Was that the farthest you've ever gone with a girl? A handful of times. I wouldn't say that I'm super experienced with women. I really enjoy the feminine form, though, and I love the way it feels on my skin.

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played with my nipples. We didn't have sex, but the other two. I had a lot of fun with. Was the other casual friend, a girl or a guy? It was two guys and a girl. Oh, okay. So now, had you ever hooked up with girls before? Was that the farthest you've ever gone with a girl? A handful of times.

wouldn't say that I'm super experienced with women. I really enjoy the feminine form though and I love the way it feels on my skin. So like even small experiences like that just really get me going. Okay. So how was that first experience? Before we get to you meeting Corey, like that's your first experience with two guys. Like how was that for you? Before? Yeah. No, it was it was the one off of Tinder. It's evil anxiety inducing actually like performatively. I had never really been more with more than one person. Yeah. And I know it's for me, there's a little bit of a performance to it. Like, that's what makes me feel hot and sexy is that like I'm really good at what I do and I really know what I'm doing. And so kind of the performative act was very anxiety

inducing for me. But then when things started really feeling good, it was just like, what the fuck ever, let's go. Yeah, like you because now you got to like perform and be killer for two guys. But You know what? If you could do it for one, you could do it for two. You know what I mean? Like you're either great in bed or you're not. So you were great in bed for both of them and you gave a great show. And was it super, was it a great experience for you? It was. It was. Definitely would try different partners. But it was overall a really different experience. They weren't the best guys. No, but still have fun. Okay. So, and why polyamory were like, why did you get into that? Was that something that you met someone and they were like?

into it or did you want to sort of get into that? Because sometimes I get a headache when I start talking to people that are doing poly shit. I was like about to get my talent all. No, I, I met a guy and he kind of was like, hey, this is what I'm into. And I thought about it and I was like, I don't really want to be in a relationship with just one person. And I think that I like mentally confused a little bit with what I wanted versus what that relationship was offering. Yeah. And I also found very quickly that I am someone who loves attention. And when I want attention, I want attention.

Like I'm kind of selfish in that aspect. So it didn't really work out for me. I think though, yeah. No, it was an experience. Sorry. Did you not like being Polly? I mean, like, did you just want to like have an open, like sexually open relationship? Because to me, Polly isn't so much about.

sex, it's like that you could be romantic and have a full-fledged relationship with another person at the same time. To me, that's very different than, you know, being able to fuck other people. I honestly think I just wanted to date around with the security of saying, this person is here for me. Yeah, I love it. Yeah, it's very honest of you. And I didn't really know how to label that. And I'm sure I'm, you know, the whole thing got mislabeled in the end. But, yeah, no, I'm one of those people that need that. No, but I did that when I was younger and I never labeled it and I found that like and I always say this like I feel like because I would date a couple guys and just, you know, but I would tell them all I'm dating somebody, you know, and do what I want just because I didn't really feel ready to hang my hat with anyone but I didn't want to lose any of them. And I found that like everyone was always like super cool because I was very honest. I'm like, it's almost like as long as you're honest with people like they're fine. You know, my friends would always be like, how did these guys stay your friends and they're cool? I'm like because I just tell them the fucking truth. You know what I mean? And everybody's happy. So,

it's not that hard. I think it's like maybe when you label it and you're like, oh, now we're polyamorous. There's all these expectations and then things go awry, you know. You just wanted to be straight up like have your cake and eat it too and that's the phase you were in. And trust me, a lot of guys would sign up for that. Yeah, no, it was a good phase. But definitely, like I said, I am someone who needed someone who was actually there for me. And I was finding that in him way more often than my polyamorous relationship for sure. Oh, okay. So wait, is Corey, the person that came in as one of the other guys when you were with the Polly guy? No, I had kind of been at the end of that relationship.

That relationship ended. We were still friends, but that relationship had dissolved in terms of being labeled as a relationship. But he was still sexually active. We were still sleeping together. You and her. Well, yeah, but let's get to the point where you met each other because we haven't even, I don't even remember you guys meeting each other.

Let's go there. Okay, because I know you met on Tinder. So you're with those other people, Jen, but you're banging Corey too. He's in the mix. Yes, yes. And I, we both had, when we met, we had talked about, I actually had wanted him to continue dating other women at the time when we started talking and dating and not labeling things, but hanging out.

Because you didn't want the pressure of him thinking that you were going to be serious with him because maybe you weren't ready. Yeah, definitely. I guess that. I'm in the stubborn one. through this whole relationship. Yeah, I'm a little bit more like you, so I understand that. So, Corey, by the time you meet Jen on Tinder, are you like with a lot of people?

Are you having fun? Are you looking for somebody maybe that you could get more serious with at that time? I was just having fun mostly because I just had got out of a really, like, long, bad relationship where I just lost who I was. and I was honestly just having fun and I saw her profile and I thought she was super hot and her profile was like,

I'm really weird if you think you can hang and I was like, well, I'm fucking weird too. I hit her up and we just started talking. Yeah. But now you're banging and I'm assuming this ex is great but she's kind of telling you like, listen, don't get too close like I'm not looking for anything. How do you feel about that?

At first I was like totally like in agreement with that. I was like, like I'm having fun dating and all that. It was kind of like we're just going to be fuck buddies. And like our first date, she made it very clear when I told her I really liked her that like she couldn't give me like a relationship relationship. Yeah. So, but we just kept hanging out and like she lived three hours away from where I lived. Oh, okay.

That makes sense. So it wouldn't be so realistic at that point. So when did things change and you guys like, you know, it started to get serious between the two of you? we met in like July that year and then for Thanksgiving we decided to like to spend Thanksgiving together and I was starting to really get the feels around then and at Thanksgiving time I told her I loved her oh did you get scared Jen that didn't go well yeah I know I've been in that position like uh oh Jen oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh my god that's so funny Okay, so obviously, though, Jen, you come around, right?

To Corey. And now do you guys, are you guys talking about all this stuff that you guys have done with previous partners like this whole time? Yeah, so he was very upfront with me. He's, you know, I'm into this. I've done this before. It wasn't anything that I had done before, but was definitely thought was hot. So I made sure he knew that I was down. Okay.

Yeah, sorry. Okay, so like she thought that I was like, she used to say I was like Danny Tanner from Full House. Okay. I was just like this. She couldn't picture me being like certain ways like sexually I think at first. And like I'm like no, like I'm Danny Tanner and Bob Saggett. Yeah, I was going to say he doesn't sound like that way to me. Not when I hear his backstory.

When we first started talking, he was so sweet. And he was the one person I would get up at 4.30 in the morning for work. and he would get up at 4.30 with me, and it was just this sweetness that didn't exist in any other relationship that I had until that point. And I definitely, at that point when I had met him, had decided these were all the things that I wanted to try sexually, and I was going to do that, and found what I enjoyed and definitely felt like, based on our conversations and his sweetness versus my jaded ass, that I was maybe a little, quite a bit more experience. than he was.

What was on your bucket list at that time? You know, he said he was into watching, but, you know, you hear that. And then it gets into the situation and guys get really jealous or they get awkward. But I wanted to have like a one-on-one where my partner just watched. And the, the voyeur aspect of it was very, like, turned me on a lot. And the performance, remember, you say you like to perform. So there you are really performing while he's sitting there. You have an audience at this point, not just a participant.

That's perfect for you. Yeah, I get it. And you didn't think he would be into it? I mean, did you propose that to him? No, he told me about it, but I was like, yeah, okay, a little bit because people say those things. And then you do it, and then it just kind of gets ruined and it makes you very self-conscious to ask for it again. So I know our very first time, I was very, very nervous. like what if I fuck this up?

Yeah. And we don't have a pleasurable experience and it doesn't happen again or I've ruined something that he really enjoys, you know, at that point I started to believe him when we had something set up. But it's interesting because you said you didn't start this until a year ago and you've been together five years and it sounds like we're like we're talking like in the beginning when you first met. So all of this is like out in the open.

But it doesn't sound like you guys acted on anything until way later. I know a lot of it had to do with like the long distance aspect of it. That makes sense. You guys, how long were you away, like a part or how many of those years were you like three hours away? We dated long distance for like a little over a year. And then I moved in. I moved to where she lived for a year. Uh-huh.

And then we moved back to where I lived when I met her and we're being there since. Okay. But like, was it that the sex between the two of you was so? that you didn't see the need? Because sometimes I think new couples, like, that you're so horny for each other, that you don't even need to add anything into the mix. Is that why you didn't sort of go to all these places that you guys had been before and was, you know, into? I really enjoyed the dirty talk for a very long time. Like, it was very hot.

I do think that some of my issue came from the trauma of, like, not being true to him while we were in our long distance relationship. What do you mean? I definitely had, I had cheated on him. You didn't mention that, yeah. Justifying it in myself as, well, he's told me that he's into it, but like not sharing that with him. Yeah, that doesn't count. Yeah, definitely wanted to make this a good experience, our first experience, a good experience.

Okay, I sometimes harp on cheating stories. I can't help out. We have to go there a little bit because it is a big part of your story. And I love the fact that you guys were able to obviously work through something like that. So I think it's always always always interesting. You know, your long distance, you guys are definitely dating at the point when you go like, why if you had, okay, let me ask you this. Because I'm always like, want to get in the mind of somebody who's like can do something. They know the person's into it yet they do it without telling the person. Like it doesn't really make sense to me or anybody else, you know, but it made sense. to you. So like explain to me you're dating this guy, right? Long distance. You guys are pretty open with each other sexually. He knows what you're into. You know what he's into. You know that he would be down for you to fuck another guy. Why do you fuck another guy without telling him?

I think that it had been ingrained in me for so long that cheating on him would be wrong and that it was wrong that I was doing it even though I could have just been open and asked and said, hey,

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Like, you don't cheat on someone. But, so, okay, I think I'm not, I don't think you're explaining it correctly. But maybe it's, this is what you're trying to say? Because is it that you felt like even doing it with his permission would be cheating? So then you just cheated on him? Like, I don't know. Because he did cheat on him, right? And you're saying, I didn't want to cheat.

I was afraid to cheat. But you cheated on him. That's the problem here. He would have been okay with you fucking. other guy. So the problem is that you didn't tell him. Why did you do it without telling him? Because you just thought it was too good to be true and he wouldn't, it would be cheating. I don't understand. That is a good question. Maybe it was too good to be true. I don't really know the answer to that. That's something I should think on too. Wait, sorry Corey to bring this up because,

you know, it's never fun when someone chees on you. But like, could I just ask you a question like the cheating? Was it a one time thing? No. Okay. Was it a long-term thing with the same person? Was it a two-month thing? How long did you, was it one person? Was it more than one person? It was casual hookups. With multiple different people? Multiple people, casual hookups with multiple people. And were you in a full-fledged relationship with Corey at the time? Yes. Oh my God. Had you cheated on people before? Yes. Oh, okay. You're just a cheater. I had a best friend to Holly. Oh, my God, in high school. I think she fucked everyone in my boyfriend's behind my back, but she was so much fun to hang out with. I was like, whatever. She was like, but she would fuck everybody behind her boyfriend's back. Cheers to her. We would have been good friends.

Nice. Cool. Wait a second. Okay. So did you eventually cop to the fact that you were doing all this to Corey? Yes. But it has been more, it's been more recent and kind of an interesting journey using our hot whining experiences to kind of come to terms of it. Yeah, I love this. I didn't know that we were going to get into all of this. This is fascinating. And a lot of times, you know, I don't know if you listen to my Dr. Lay episode, he was the one who wrote the book on hot wiping, like back in the 90s,

circa 1990s or something. And it was like really, you know, huge that he did that back then because now it's so much more. But like a lot of times, and not always, there is cheating in someone's past or whatever or sometimes like there's something about cheating and jealousy and turning that energy into something else that could happen. It's interesting. And listen, I mean, Jen, at the end of the day, like, I'm assuming now that you could just like fuck other people in front of him and like everything like, isn't it so much better to just do it like in front of your guy than behind his back? And like you're really with the like the right person if you like variety and like to fuck a lot of guys because your guy likes it, right? Oh, absolutely. 100%. Yeah, it must be freeing for you to finally be maybe really who you. you are without like doing these you know secret things that maybe you didn't on some level didn't feel right about oh yeah there's definitely no like there's no shame exactly it's so enjoyable and afterwards like the aftercare that i get with my husband yeah versus by myself and and it's just

so much better okay let's go to corey now when does when so you this is all on the d l you're doing this while you're with him right he doesn't know and doesn't find out when and how does this come up where you either copped to it or Corey finds out, like how long into your marriage that this cheating thing like came into be, you know, Corey's life? So I knew when we were dating that she was cheating on me. How do you know? I just had a feeling sometimes, like there was a bunch of incidents with like the biggest one was we went away for Christmas to another state.

like I took her to her sisters. I took my son to his mom's house and we all like carpooled and we came back. And when we got back to her place that night, there was a guy in her apartment that had just been like staying there. So she's like, oh, no, he's just a friend. That's not maddening to you. But it doesn't matter. It was. It was.

It was. It was. It was. It was. It didn't make you mental like when you kind of know on every level and they still like look you in the face. and like, no, and make you feel like you're the crazy one. But here's the thing, though, like, yeah.

Yes, she cheated, like, a lot more, but that same weekend where that happened, I was planning on telling her that I cheated with my ex when we went out of state. Oh, okay, so you cheated two just once or more than one? Yeah, it was the only time that I cheated. Okay. And I was, I, the whole way back, my son was in the car, so I was like, I'm not, I'm going to wait until we get back because I don't want to cause, like, a big ordeal with my kid in the car. Yeah.

And we got back and that happened and I was just like, fuck her. And I didn't say anything until after we moved in together like that I had cheated on her. Is that when she caught? Is that when she copped to the fact that she definitely had and finally came clean? Because at this point, she hasn't really said anything even though you have your feelings about it, right? No. They just like sometimes I felt like I got the wrong text message. Like I would say something with her text.

And it would be like a text to do another guy. Jen, are you that sloppy that you would send text to him that you were supposed to text to your other guy? Lokey. I sent my sister, I sent my sister nudes that were not to go to him. And she messaged me back and just said, you look hot. Oh, my God. You make me laugh, Jen. Oh, my God, that is fucking hilarious.

So, yes, you are sloppy. Oh, my God, I love that. All right. So you're literally that mess up. You really met the perfect guy for you because here Corey is just sticking with it. All this nonsense. And he's like he's down. I mean, like don't ever leave Corey. Okay. Jen. Never, never. Behind all this is like she is like the most amazing woman. Like I love everything about her. And like even like when I was getting hurt like this, it was like it would hurt more to lose her than to keep going is how I felt. Well, that that's what I love too. I mean, that's what's like. super interesting because I feel like a lot of people would would fucking bail. You know what I mean? And it's interesting. And I wonder if it's because you did have that kink, right? That so maybe like when you felt jealous and she was making you crazy about fucking other guys, like did you jerk off thinking about it? I don't know. Like how'd you

work through those feelings? Yeah. Yeah, I did. I always felt guilty. We've established things that I have like a kink like with getting cheated on. I don't really want it to happen, but it turns me on. Yeah, that's sometimes the thing. And listen, honestly, I'm sorry, Corey, like at the end of the day, who'd you rather be? Like the person, I've been the jealous person that knows someone's cheating on me and it makes me fucking mental. Like, there's nothing fun about being that person.

It's so much more fun than to be jerking off like mad about your partner cheating on you. You know what I'm saying? Different side of the same coin, okay? And at least, I mean, listen, that that's why you guys are so perfect for each other because I think a lot of guys wouldn't have been able to deal. but you were like using using it to your advantage. Yeah. Super interesting.

So you were like secretly like upset, like kind of upset about it but also turned on about it. And you would like feel a little guiltier like what the fuck's going on here? Like confused about it? Yeah. I almost like mad at myself. Like that's weird dude. Yeah. But yeah.

Like I don't know. It's just this weird like feeling pain and then turned on at the same time. And then after you come. like still mad. It's weird. But like I also, going back to something you said earlier, where you were like, well, how come you guys didn't like act on any of this for years? And I think it was like, once we moved in together, there was a lot of like healing and

relationship building that had to happen before we were able to like really get there. But it was always like a fantasy, but like I don't think our relationship, we had to strengthen ourselves before we actually acted on it. Okay. I love that. let's go there. Like what? So when she moves in, is that when you start to deal?

Like, is that when you guys start to take like tend to all these kinds of like issues of trust and all this cheating? And what else was going on that you guys had to tend to before you could go out and start playing? Yeah, it was a lot of the just like learning to trust and stuff like building trust. And then just like building a life together. Because I had my son living with me and my son was like, I don't want to move in with your new girlfriend because he was 16 at the time.

So he went back and lived with his mom and I moved in with her. So it was like getting over the cheating thing and building trust. And then at the same time, I was like pretty sad that my son wasn't living with me anymore. Yeah, that makes sense. It's kind of interesting time in my life. Yeah. And so now at this point, when did, could I just ask you? Like, I don't know that I've ever got that part of the story.

Like when did, Jen, did you just sit down one day and say, like, listen, I just need to come clean about all this stuff? Or did it just like he kind of always knew and it kind of just trickled out it, but there was never like a formal conversation about it? There were a few times that he sat me down and he just said, you know, I want to know the truth. I'm still going to love you. And I let some things out and gradually notice like it hurt, but he forgave me. And so little by little, just being open and honest and building that.

trust. And then we got to a point when we were fucking and I started talking about cheating on him and just like the way he was fucking me, I knew that he genuinely enjoyed hearing about it. And I think that's when a lot of the like here's the full extent of me cheating on you kind of came out. Wow, this is like the upside down world, right? So fascinating. I love it. Okay, I get it. So like you're talking about you could tell he's like turned on and like now you know, I mean, he was secretly turned on then too and then a lot of mixed feelings. But so when you're living together though, you start to tend to like the negative feelings like the negative. Kori like and stuff like that. That's when, uh, you got serious about just like the anger and all the other feelings that you felt as well. Correct? Yeah. It wasn't like all like a negative like it was still very like happy like together. It was just like stuff would come up and she was right. there. She wasn't three hours away anymore and it would be like, I can talk to her right now about it. Yeah. So it was just a lot more like talking about stuff and working through things. Jen, could I ask you a question? Like, did you cheat on him when you moved in with him too? Or was it always when you were like far away?

When we were far away. Okay. So once you moved in, you were done with that. Yes, absolutely. Yeah. Okay, cool. So you get eventually, like how long does it take for you guys to work through like those issues and stuff? Did you have any issues with him, Jen? No. It was more me. It was really me wanting to build trust and put the work in. You mean with yourself? Yeah, with myself. And trying to like build a relationship that was solid that in the end we both felt like that we, my fear was that it was going to end and that one of us was going to have a bad experience or maybe he was going to say, hey, you're not what I want anymore. I don't know. Like seeing me find.

fuck with something that because I've always in my head thought the Danny Tanner. I still see him as Danny Tanner in some points in my head. But actually having him see me fuck another man, I was a little a little worried about that. You've got that Madonna Horror Complex before like the guy, like you can't see both guys as one, right? Like he can't be nice and bad guy at the same time. It's either the nice guy and they suck in bed or the player who's like, you know, an asshole, but he's great and bad, right? He happens to be both. And you couldn't marry those two because typically it's like the extreme opposite.

Yeah. Yeah, I get it. And so over time, you just learn to trust her. I mean, she's not cheating on you all those years that you're living together. So eventually you must not have any kind of instincts anymore and you're not getting weird text. So you start to trust her? Yeah, definitely. Yeah, that's cool.

And then for you, do you feel like you're finally changing? Because it sounds like it was a pattern for you, right? Like you cheated on your first husband too, correct? Yes. You were like always a cheater. I mean, so now you're like in this totally new phase. Like you did you did the worst thing to this person. And he's still standing there and he's like a nice guy, right? And he really cares about you. Plus he's also down for you to fuck other guys in front of him. So it's kind of like this is like the perfect time for you to change. Right. So like was, is this the moment where you like you felt like you changed that part of yourself? Yeah. When he came to me and brought it up and said, hey, I actually want to try this. That's when I was like, I can have my cake and eat it too. Without lying. Yes. And it was very, it was very arousing.

Yeah. I think a lot of times that happens with girls that just like are with guys and guys will like lie about like, you know, that they want to be with them just so that the girl fucks them and, you know, but then there are fucking other people. And I'm always like, if you just tell the girl that you're going to fuck other people, should probably fuck you anyway. You know what I mean? Like as long as you just like tell her.

But a lot of people, I think it's just human nature to not believe that you could have your cake and eat it too. You know, like I said, it just comes down to being fucking honest. Like, seriously, right? Like, you had Corey in front of you the whole time. You could have been honest with him the whole time and he would have been down. You just had to learn that yourself. Eventually, you did. And I'm a very stubborn woman. Unfortunately for him. But you also said. Amen to that. And Corey, you sound very fucking patient. Yeah. You know. I have my moments. But listen, you know, you guys are so like, you fit like a puzzle, you know, you guys got like something like very specific for each other. Like it fits perfectly. Like you got this weird kink where you're like kind of turned on, you know, by cheating. And now you meet like the ultimate cheater. I mean, it is kind of like, what do they call it, Kismet? Like, you know, it's perfect time. You know, it's the perfect marriage of two people in a weird way. Yeah. Yeah. So it works. So you eventually, okay, so when you're, this whole time you guys know that this is something that Corey's. into like hot wiping and we all know Jen likes the fuck other guys so like when does it when do the

does the dirty talk start to you know turn into let's do this in real life i think i was waiting more for like we were doing the dirty talk and i kept telling him you know well if you want it when you don't have horny brain make it happen and so and that's kind of when we talk about things and new things pop up you know we make that promise to each other like let's talk about this and we don't have horny brain and if it's still something we're interested in trying, let's look into it. And so he, you know,

we were talking and I said if it's something you really want to do, I'm ready, but you have like, you put the work into it because I'm tired of apps. I don't want to talk to people. And so you were down, Corey, to do the work.

I mean, there's always one person that doesn't. And it's not always the girl. You know, sometimes it's the guy. Sometimes it's the girl. Corey, were you down to take charge?

Yeah. Okay. And you knew that you were looking for men, right? Like was it ever on the table that Corey would fuck other women too? No. Okay. Would you want him to fuck other women? I want to work

towards that. Okay. Because I enjoy, I found that I have enjoyed watching other people fuck. I would love to let him have the pleasure that I have of sleeping with someone else and me being able to watch his

pleasure. But I, again, And I just have this like jealousy streak in me that he doesn't have. And I want to work towards that because I do think that that is like a little bit of an unhealthy trait in a relationship in its own ways. I would think I think I think it's hot in my mind. But when I really think about it, it just it makes me this really jealous. Like you don't feel like you could handle it all. I think most people feel that way. And that's normal.

But I've definitely talked to people who have like been able to work through that because they consciously wanted to. and they, you know, like, that's what they intended to do. And they did, you know? Yeah. So it's possible and doable. Okay. So when do you, so what do you guys do? You start going and looking for guys.

Like, you know that you're going to get a guy. And now, Jen, is it going to be set up where like you're going to fuck the guy while Corey just watches? Is that what you guys go in sort of looking for? So he was, he was straight with me and said, I think I'm more heteroflexible than anything. I want to look for someone. that if I feel like I'm in the mood for it, that I can go down on him with you. And so that was kind of the criteria he brought forth.

And I was like, hey, get me a big dick. And we'll share it. Let's go. Wait, Corey, have you had experiences before? What guys like suck in a dick before? Yeah. It's very like infrequent with me. It's really like, if I'm in a mood.

Yeah, like when in Rome. not mood very much so it's like not like not a big part of like my turn-ons but yeah I've dabbled if like you're in the mood and the time everything's right and it's there and you're feeling it you'll do it

you're not closed off to it I get it what were your rules going into that experience the first time it's basically like nothing rough no choking no spitting no feet stuff one of our biggest rules is no kissing.

Because we've decided that, like, that's one thing we're going to save for ourselves is, like, kissing each other. You're the one couple that's kept that rule. How long you guys been not kissing? It's actually funny because guys will make comments to him about, you know, like, when I'm in the moment, but it really is my rule. And I don't know if it's a neurodivergent thing, but people kissing me really just makes my skin crawl. Do you like Corey kissing you? Oh, I love it.

I love it when he kisses me, but it's because we've built, like, he can touch me in a way that people can't touch me. He can hold me in a way. Like, I built trust in him that I don't have with other people. That makes sense. So kissing for you is definitely, like, romantic and tied to, like, intimacy and you can't do it with, like, a stranger. I can't do it with somebody with ugly lips. I'll tell you. I've had a booty call for seven years, and I fucked him for seven years.

and I fucked him for seven years and never once kissed him because I hated his mouth. It was disgusting to me. But I can't kiss somebody else that I don't like if they're a good kiss or, you know, just because it's hot. But I get it. And, you know, so that's interesting. So for you, you never kiss. And you're down with that, Corey, right? Yeah.

Okay. So what was the first experience like? You want to talk about you talking about it? Doesn't sound great. No, it was, there were aspects of it. again, where we lay the rules out and I am very, I'm very, these are my boundaries, don't cross my boundaries. Don't touch me without telling me like, don't, I'm very consensual when I'm having sex with someone. And I felt like throughout this experience, it was like trying to kiss me and,

and it was that experience where it was like, how far does this go before I'm like absolutely not and it did create kind of a little bit of tension i think moving forward on on how do we find someone who doesn't try to cross the boundaries dick was great right yeah he it that is the first experience that that guy has become a weird a weird side quest in our lives of blocking him over and over on on apps oh yeah he he hits us up over and over and i finally was like we didn't invite you because you literally told us that it was hard to not kiss her after you were done. Oh, my God. And he's like, oh yeah, sorry, man.

Do you guys still want to hook up? Like, you're an idiot. The sex itself was good, but the overall experience was one that was like, Jesus, I hope that the rest of, like, it gets better. I hope we can only go up from here. Yeah, most likely you did, right? Oh, yeah, we found one that was a regular couple of times. that was very, very respectful, younger, hot.

And now are these threesomes or Corey, are you getting involved in any of these? On the two, she mentioned, I did oral with her on the first guy a little bit. And then the guy that was a regular, I think I did oral one time and then the other times I just watched them. Now, Jen, do you get off on seeing your guy with a guy or is it just okay with for you or is it a turn on? No, it's a turn on. I think it's really hot, especially when both guys want me. Yeah. Yeah.

Okay. And so how are those two guys, the threesomes with those two guys? The second one, he was cool. He was really cool. So my big thing is getting to look over at my husband and see him rock hard. Yeah. And like the performance of it and knowing that like the positive reinforcement, so knowing that I'm being, you know, a good girl or. or whatever, that made it super hot.

And then afterwards, when he told me he could tell that this guy was making me come better than he could, oh, that was a big turn on for me. And obviously a turn on for you, Corey. Yeah, yeah, it's hot. A little bit of a humiliation for you, right? Like a little bit of that. I dabble in the humiliation a little. I think anyone that has the cheating kink thing is going to be,

because that's, you know, that's a little bit of that in there, right? Makes sense. Yeah. Yeah. That's like being a little bit of a cock. Yeah. Yeah. So now let me ask you about your feelings about all this because I know that like, you know, listen, you had a lot of reservations about it, especially you, Jen, you know, sort of marrying the two sides of yourself, right?

You were always like this cheater living this life. Now you're being exactly who you want to be with your husband. It's all good. Like, I mean, did you have any weird feelings about it in the beginning? Like, did you distrust it? Were you nervous? In the beginning, he did all. the work. He vetted people. He talked to them. And the first time that I would meet them is when

they walked in the door. And I was, I was fine with that. We've kind of transitioned into more me talking to people and trying to get, I have no sense of self-preservation. So having me try to vet people. And that, that was where kind of the anxiety. What do you mean you have bad judge, like your bad judge of character was it? What do you mean self-preservation? Like, you'll pick a murderer. Is that what you're talking about? literally will go down the darkest alley in a city full. It could be raining blood in that alley. And they'd be like, hey, it's a shortcut.

I, he points out all these red flags to me. And I'm just like, oh, I didn't think of that. Oh, I didn't think of that. Oh, I'll give you an example. Yeah, please. That website, Fat Life, right? Yeah. She'll be like, oh, this guy looks interesting.

He seems nice. Yeah. And then I'll go look at his profile after she shows me. And you go down to his kid. and it's like fisting and all this like extreme shit. And I'm like, hey, look at this. Did you not notice? Well, listen, Jen never, Jen definitely probably never bores you.

Jen's interesting to me. Oh, no, she never bores me. Yeah, her whole concoction works. It's hilarious. Okay. So, all right. So did you pass the buck back to Corey since you're so bad at it? You know, I have so all I

Sorry, let me re-centre my brain Yeah, all of the apps like are on his phone I, we go back and forth. Part of it is him watching me flirt with other men So I share the conversations back and forth while I'm having them So that's kind of how that is set up Yeah, that makes sense. We're dabbling with it, kind of experimenting with like doing that Yeah, that makes sense and then how's like the dirty talk and the sex and the reclaiming and all that stuff afterwards.

That's great. That's the best. Also, what about the buildup and the knowing and all of that stuff too? Yeah. The buildup for me is like really exciting until like about two hours before and that's when the anxiety comes in and then once it starts, it's all good. But yeah, like the build up, it is exciting. Like all of it's fun.

What was the like the hottest experience you guys had so far? far. And how many guys have you been with so far for the past year? Like five, five, four or five. Okay, who was the best? You want to tell me your best experience? The hotel in Portland. The hotel in Portland. Oh, Portland. I love Portland. Which hotel in Portland? No, we played, where do we stay? Anyways, we stayed at the 50 Shades Hotel at one point, but that was not this, this event. But no, I think we got a hotel in Portland with the

whole point of just getting fucked okay so finding someone to fuck and part of this for me the biggest turn on there's something a little bit about corruption to me so someone being experience or someone who's recently divorced uh and so i would have i was the first uh experience after this gentleman's divorce uh and that was the the biggest turn on for me honestly going into it it and then just he had the biggest dick i've i've ever had in me and to the point that like i almost i felt like it almost couldn't fit in me and it was the first time i had a dick that big and i just remember looking over at my husband and just being like i don't know if it's going to fit in me and just the reassurance in his face that like this is hot yeah yeah yeah amazing oh and that

helped you right because that's what you're there for right like that's what turns you on is turning him on right yes absolutely and for you you, Corey, you sound like a lot of guys that are into hot. I think that you probably like the women guys bigger than you, right? Yeah. Yeah. I like a lot of aspects of it. It's like there's that that's a big aspect and then just like the fact that your wife's doing something that society says she shouldn't do, like the taboo nature of it's hot. Yeah. Just her pleasure is really hot. So you combine all that and that's the king for me. So listen, let me. Let me Yeah, last question, and I'm obsessed with your guy story.

I want to talk to you like a year from now again, okay? But like my last question is like because, listen, you guys for a long time, like you said, you had to like work on your relationship, get to a good point before you opened it up. Now that you did and, you know, everything was in truck, like, do you feel like it helped your relationship? Do you feel like it could change it in any way? Like, what's the difference, you know, between before you opened it up and you started doing this to now, if there is any difference?

I think that it's definitely helped our relationship and the trust building. Just the arousal that we both feel talking about those past experiences has for sure lifted a weight off of me and made me feel, you know, like I can communicate better. Yeah, of course. The things that I enjoy, the things I don't enjoy, even if there are things that maybe society does see as taboo, but it's something that I want to see if my husband wants to experience with me. Yeah, instead of you doing naughty things on the DL, you know what I mean, and living out all your like naughty stuff and corruption that you're into. Now you could just do it with other people, but you got like you don't have to do it, you know, behind your partner's back. And so you're really doing all the things that you like to do. But before you just didn't think that you could like that there was somebody out there that you could do with.

And that's what these kinds of relationships are for. You know, it's way better than being in a vanilla relationship where you're doing all this stuff secretly. Unfortunately, that's a lot of regular people's lives. sure. Oh, yeah. So do any of your friends or people know about this or is this a secret life between the two of you? It's a secret between us. It's a secret.

You've never texted your sister by accident about your bull. No, not like this part of our life. My two best friends, they're a lesbian couple and they know that I've been into this in the past. Yeah. I think they've assumed that me and Jen do stuff, but we've never talked about it. Oh my God. Well, listen, I am obsessed with your guys' story. I've been podcasting for like 11 or 12 years now and I've talked to millions of couples and it's, you know, this was like a definite standout to me. It was very different than I thought. I talked to a lot of newbie couples. I, no offense, but I love the whole cheating aspect. I know it's not fun for you guys to go through, but it's like such an interesting part of your story and your journey and I think it's so great that you guys shared it because I think a lot of people will get a lot out of it and it just made your whole. story super interesting. I'm obsessed, like I said, with Jennifer's whole concoction of her personality.

You'd be like my best friend. I like how you roll yours in. And Corey, you're fucking cool because you could do the hang with her. You know what I mean? Like, you're just perfect for each other. So definitely keep me posted. I loved your guy's story. Thank you so much for calling in. I definitely, if you want to send me

like picks for my Patreon, anonymous picks for my Patreon. Would you do that? I, you know, I always say like R-rated picks, nothing X-rated, but I'll also give you a free access to my Discord. And that's like a whole crazy thing going on there that people post all kinds of stuff there if you want you'll get free access to that but i'll give you a free month to my patreon for you to see the comments too and i love this episode so much you'll probably play like next monday not this monday because i already edited the one for this monday but next monday so get me your pictures and stuff sooner than later if you're

going to send them in that's so cool thank you guys are the best thank you so much for calling in no it's been fun i've listened to the show for years oh really yeah well wait until you hear your episode I can't believe it took so long. Well, I'm glad you will. I mean, you got a year under your belt. So now it's like perfect, but like, what a fucking story you've been keeping from my shell. Thanks for finally calling it and sharing it. It was super great.

I just feel like, you know, I like stuff that has a lot of layers to it. You know what I mean? Like, so this one is just like one of my favorites. So thanks you guys for calling it and being so honest. Like I think like for Jen, you know, to be so honest about all the stuff that you did in the past and everything. Like I think that, you know, I give you credit for that. So, and being honest with your partner too about it.

So, you know, thanks you guys for. calling in and sharing your story and send me everything sooner than later, okay? All right. Thank you. All right. Bye, bye you guys. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that I do have a book coming out. The book is called Shirklandonymous Confessions, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers.

The book is basically seven different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like, there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuckold story. There's a gang-bang girl story. There's like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person, right?

So I took the interview and I rewrote it in the third person. I wouldn't call it like an erotica book, though there's plenty of sex in there, right? But I didn't write it to sound like erotica because that's like the vibe of my show. You're going to learn a lot. You're probably going to get a little turned on. It's a different way to hear these stories, like I said, because they're written out in third person. There's an ebook available if you don't want your partner to know that you're reading my book. Get the e-book. It's available. There will be an audio book available very soon after it

comes out. I did not narrate it. I was going to, but I passed on it because I sucked at the job. Okay, I couldn't do it at all, but I got a hot check to narrate the book. So you're going to dig the audiobook. If you buy my book in any format, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. That is my gift to you for getting my book. My Discord does not disappoint. okay there's no way you'll get the discord and go in there and be like oh this sucks okay it's like pretty amazing there's tons of people on there and everybody shares content with each other that's what's great about discord you get to post your own videos and pictures and there's tons of channels and we have contests over there it's a super fun place to be i will be giving anyone that buys my book

at any time access to my discord it is private this is the only way you could get in is through me giving you the link and that's why i think my discord is so great because i have vetted people it's not like it's just open to the public so everybody that's in there are people that listen to my show and people that listen to my show are fucking great. So my discord is fucking great. My book is great. You're going to love it. If you buy it, all you got to do is send me the receipt or a picture of proof that you bought it and I will give you free access to my Discord. Send it to Strictly Anonymous Podcasts at Gmail.com. You could find my book in the link in the description, okay, or just Google it. Strictly anonymous confessions,

Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. You can find it anywhere. You buy books. Send me the picture and I'll give you access to my Discord email, strictly anonymous podcast at Gmail.com. Anyway, thanks so much for listening. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook.

It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story.

There's a gang being girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person, and they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book.

Think like penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe, right? but these are true stories, 17 of them. They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format, and finally, the audiobook is available coming out August 25th, but you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a

complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint. Okay. There's no way you get into my Discord any other way than getting the link from me. Okay. I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other. And that's what you get to do there. You can post your own pictures and videos.

There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total strictly anonymous community and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private, like I said. all you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the ebook, or the paperback.

Send it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. And I will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in. This is the Strictly Anonymous Podcast.