Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1284 - Body Count, Dick Pics, Blowjobs & More...Guys Top Questions Answered w/Kathy

Starting point is 00:00:00 I had gone online and looked to see like what the top questions guys wanted to ask a woman and I answered them all. And some of the questions were so weird and I'm going to list them in the description below. But it's a fun episode. It's a short episode. I think you'll find it entertaining. I'm going to do other factor fiction episodes this month on Sundays and all kinds of interesting things I'll have out just as a bonus because it's the end of the year. I got a lot of apps backed up. I'm going to get most of them out and I'm not going to torture you with my long ass intros with all the stuff I have to promote. I have to promote that stuff because that's the way I could do my show.

Starting point is 00:00:40 One person produced six episodes. I do every single thing myself and doing my long intros help me out so much and allow me to give you six episodes a week for free and now it's seven but I'm not going to I'm not going to advertise anything I do in my intros and I'm just going to get right to the episodes. So sit back, relax, and listen to me, answer 13 questions that most guys want to know from women. Should you ask a woman how many guys she slept with? And the answer would be, no. I've slept with a lot of guys personally.

Starting point is 00:01:15 I don't even know my number. I couldn't count because, but, you know, if you think about my age, I started, I lost my virginity at 15, 16-ish. I'm 52. It's not like I had any long, really. long-standing relationships. I mean a year, two years, eight months here. You know, so I was single a lot of the times. I think when me and my friend averaged it out, it was like two or three guys a year, which isn't really a lot. Maybe it is to, maybe it is to some of you. But, you know, I'm a very open person, so I would explain to you people how many guys I've slept with. And I probably, if a guy,

Starting point is 00:01:51 my partner, asked me, I'd tell him too. But I think it's not something you should ever ask women because most women will not tell you. But most women's numbers are very low. right? Probably more so low. But I don't think it's something you should ask. Number two, do men, do women like abs or arms or more? Okay. Now, that's like a dumb question, but it was on this list. And I have to tell you that, you know, we don't really care. What do you mean abs or arms? Like, I think gay men really care. You know, I think we take in the whole picture. I think personality goes a long way when it comes to attraction for women. Women aren't as physical,

Starting point is 00:02:34 like, not physical, visual as men. I happen to be actually very visual. And like if I were to have to pick between abs or arms, I'd probably pick arms because you could see them more. I don't know, but I think they typically go together. Like a guy with nice abs has good arms, right? I mean, who just works out their abs? Maybe there are some guys that are just sitting home doing sit-ups.

Starting point is 00:02:59 But most guys with really hot bodies, they're gym guys. I know those guys because I'm a gym girl. And I always worked out where the guys worked out because I always liked free weights. And I like a guy with a nice body. I do because I'm in shape. And so I think, you know, nice arms and nice abs go together. So I would say they're even Stephen in my thing. But I would say that most women, personality really comes through.

Starting point is 00:03:24 and we see that a lot. How you dress, we see that kind of stuff a lot when we're looking at a guy. So not sure that most women are looking at abs or arms. I think they're looking at the whole package. Number three, how frequently do girls masturbate? Now, it depends on the age of the girl.

Starting point is 00:03:46 It depends on how open she is sexually. I have met some girls who have never masturbated? Like, can you fucking believe? I didn't believe it. Okay, but like seriously, that's what some women have said to me. Not a lot. I think every now and then you meet a woman that never does. And then the other end of the spectrum is someone that maybe will do it all the time. When I was younger, I was always really horny. I masturbated a lot. And you go through phases because women are cyclical, right? We have a cycle. And you get more horny when you get closer to ovulating, right? Because that's like the procreation time where you need to go out and fucking have a baby.

Starting point is 00:04:25 So, you know, nature makes you more horny. So I think, you know, on a day where a woman's ovulating or getting close when she's really super horny, she could masturbate two times, three times a day. And she could do that for three days straight. And then maybe she won't jerk off for like a week. And then she could do it every day for a week, you know. But women could do it, could frequently jerk off and masturbate. And then when they get older, okay, I'm older.

Starting point is 00:04:50 You go a long time without masturbating. You have to like force yourself to because that use it, don't lose it or you use it. If you don't use it, you lose it is very true. So women that are older should frequently masturbate too. But, you know, when you get older, you have a lot more responsibility. And that could, you could forget about it. I think women forget about it. They're just tending to their children and their houses and their careers and all that.

Starting point is 00:05:13 And then you forget to pleasure yourself. And it is very important because it keeps you attached to your sexuality and it's healthy. Number four, do girls find it attractive of a guy claims to have a lot of options? You know, if a guy's sitting in front of you claiming to have options, that might be a turnoff to a girl that hates a womanizer. But there is something about, at least for me, I'm just going to tell you from my standpoint, like, if I would like like a guy, right? And I went over to his house and I saw pictures of his ex. And if she was really pretty, I hate to say this, but it would make me like him more. seemed more desirable for me if I saw that hot women desired him. Does that make sense? I'm sure you guys

Starting point is 00:05:57 feel the same way about a girl, right? Maybe that's just like human nature. But, you know, I don't know if that's exactly like a guy claiming to have a lot of options. I know that that plays well into finding a guy to me, like more attractive. You want to know, yeah, that your guy is wanted, that other women like him. You know, you don't want to be with the one guy in the room that can't get a girl and no girl's looking at. No. So yeah, I think it is more attractive to a woman if she knows that a guy has options. Because what that means is that she thinks, oh, that guy's hot. And so then I want him. I want to beat all those girls out to get him, right? So I think it does help. But you don't want to advertise it. I think that that's gross. Like, what are you going to like act like your,

Starting point is 00:06:47 with tons of women, no, but I think I answer that one. Number five, do I pursue a girl who's canceled on me twice? Absolutely not. Fuck her. Don't fucking call her. Tell her to go fuck herself. If she contacts you, no, if she contacts you, you could play the game a little bit, but that's like, listen, a girl who's canceling you twice is not interested in you. If she's interested in you and she's canceled on you twice, she's playing games. And there's nothing more annoying than that. And she's going to continue to play games. Or she's confused or bipolar or borderline. And that's going to be a push-pull, psycho, mind-fuck relationship.

Starting point is 00:07:26 So no. Don't pursue her. Let, if she canceled on you, call it a day, find somebody else. Bye-bye. Okay? Same thing goes for girls. Don't pursue a guy who's canceled on you twice. No.

Starting point is 00:07:43 Number six. Do girls actually like dick pics? not really no we don't you know um i don't even understand dickpicks really i have to tell you i've gotten them many times i don't really to me it's like a dog that like brings home the dead bird or do cats do that you know what i'm saying like they're just like like mark it like here you go master i don't know what the whole psychology of dick picks is but it's very it is a very like neanderthal man thing to do like guys like it right there's like i don't know or what What does the dick pick really mean?

Starting point is 00:08:18 Like, hi, I'm horny for you. But do girls like it? Not really. Like, are we looking at the dick and being like, oh, my God, I want that inside me right now? No. But if you're really, really horny, there have been times where I've been really horny and I've looked at the dick pick and it's like, ooh, it made me like a little horny, right? But that's rare.

Starting point is 00:08:37 The majority of the time, you get a dick pick. You're like at the gym or you're at a meeting or you're out and about and you're like, okay and you got to like make up something to say um but you know do do we actually like it no do we mind it if you really like a guy or like I think you should cater to if you have a guy that likes to send you dick pics you don't go along with it sending back a pussy shot I don't mind do you know what I mean but I to be completely honest I don't like them it doesn't really matter to me and I think that most girls would agree 100% uh number seven is it okay to wake you up in the middle of the night for a sex session. Yeah, especially I would say a lot of

Starting point is 00:09:21 these answers are like, oh, if you're in the beginning of a relationship, yeah, I don't know. I've never been married for 10 years. So maybe that'd be annoying, you know, if it's your fucking husband that you've been fucking all your life and you feel like, no thanks. You know, you got to wake up early in the morning. But when you're dating a guy in the beginning, especially and you're really horny for them, I always liked it if I woke up to a hard on between my legs. I'd be down for it. because I don't know if you've ever done this. I have. Like having sex when you're like half asleep, it's kind of like, and you kind of wake up to it and you're horny like and you've been turned on. It's like drunk sex. There's something added to it because you're kind of like awake but not.

Starting point is 00:10:00 I don't know. It's like having sex like stoned or something. There adds an element to it that kind of half a sleep vibe. So I don't mind it at all. Like I said, if I was with somebody for a really, long time and I, you know, maybe, and I had to get up the next morning really early. It might irritate me. But in the dating phase when you're really into someone, you're really horny for them. And even if that is after 10 years, you're still horny for someone. Why not wake me up, wake somebody up in the middle of night for sex? I think girls like that if they're really horny for the guy. So I would say, yeah. Number eight, does a wedding ring on a guy stop you from flirting? No, it's disappointing if you see a guy. I mean, I don't. I don't know. I don't. I don't know. I

Starting point is 00:10:42 go to bars anymore, but I'm thinking about what I did or when I went out to business things. You know, when everyone's like congregating and there's the hot guys and girls and everyone's talking and you see this guy and he's cute and you're talking and he's like really nice. And then you somehow catch a glimpse of his ring finger and it's married. You do, you know, get a slight wave of sadness, right, for a second because you know he's off the table. But if he's really cute and you're out and he was your. you're having a great conversation with him, you know, you might continue to flirt. Yeah. But you know that,

Starting point is 00:11:20 you know, it's not going anywhere. That's me. I like, I'm a, I'm, I don't, I'm not a boundary pusher. Some women, you know, might actually flirt more. You know, there is that, that girl out there that she might, like, that might be like some sort of challenge, um, or she's looking for unavailable guys. I mean, that's like, we don't need to get in the head of that girl, but I would say the majority of girls it would stop them from, you know, asking a guy for his number or really hardcore flirting. But, you know, if you have a connection with a guy and, you know, he's married, it might actually be okay to continue flirting because you know it's kind of safe. If you know what I'm saying, you know, you're like, okay, he's cute and I was going to go for

Starting point is 00:12:03 it. And now that I know he's married and I saw that ring, I could continue to flirt, but I don't have to worry about being rejected or him not calling because it's not going anywhere. So there's like a little safety in that that you might continue to flirt a little bit. Number nine, most sexually excitable spot on your body. You know, listen, I think kissing is really hot. I think it's different for every girl, right? Kissing is really hot, so that would be the lips.

Starting point is 00:12:30 But like any part of your body could be an erogenous zone when you're hot for somebody, right? Like there's a spot on the side on my back in between, I would say, like right on my shoulder blade or like whatever. And if a guy like goes down on that part of my back, it's like connected to my pussy. Like I could almost orgasm from that. And I think that everybody has these spots all over. You know, I used to do this thing with guys and guys thought it was really crazy. But they, you know, they did it because I asked them. But I would have a guy go down on my armpit.

Starting point is 00:12:58 The armpit is a very hot erogenous zone. Think about it. Anywhere where somebody tickles you is going to be fucking hot. Okay. It's going to be excitable if you put a tongue in a mouth to it and a guy that you like. I was like, hot. Try to go down on somebody's armpit. Now, I've done it to guys, too.

Starting point is 00:13:15 I would get guys into it. I'd make them do it to me. But you got to make sure that you wipe off the deodorant because it's gross. Deodorant your mouth is fucking gross. But it actually is very hot. If you haven't tried it, try it with your partner. Have them do it to you. Do it to them.

Starting point is 00:13:30 Hold their arms down like you would hold their legs down. Don't let them move and like eat out their armpit. Sorry if that sounds gross. I'm telling you it's hot. Your girl will be so into it. I know I was. And the guys were really into it too. Like I said, you could do it to the back of the knee, the inside of the arm. Like wherever you're really ticklish, of course it's going to be hot, right? So those are all excitable spots on the body, I think probably for most women.

Starting point is 00:13:58 And then your pussy, of course. Someone goes down on most girls. They love that. That would be considered the clit, right? Number 10, why do women go to the bathroom together? And does anything note where they tend to happen in the ladies' room meetings. We go together because we like to fucking talk and we get to talk all the way to the bathroom while we're in the bathroom when we're fixing our makeup in the bathroom and then on our way back from the bathroom. That's just women where we like we're like dogs. We like to be in packs. All right? I don't know. You know, I think it's like we're just gossiping. You know, you're with your friend, you're out and you want to stay with them. But what happens in the bathroom is we talk.

Starting point is 00:14:39 We talk about the guy that we just left at the bar. We talk about people, right? We look at ourselves. We tell each other how we look. We exchange makeup. Like if I want my friend's lipstick or I don't have eyeliner on, she gives it to me from her bag, you know, and that's what we do. We gossip.

Starting point is 00:14:56 We fix ourselves up. We give each other, you know, we tell each other how we look. And we keep each other company. I think it's just about having that company, you know. Girls like to hang out and talk to each other. is the way we are. Should I tell a girl I'm a virgin or just wing it? Now I'm assuming this is a question a virgin would ask.

Starting point is 00:15:18 I don't know. I mean, you know, at my age, if I met a virgin, I would run the fucking other way. Okay. So no 52-year-old versions for me, right? Because I'm not dating 20-year-old guys. But, you know, if you're young and you're a virgin and you met a girl, I think you should be honest, okay? I don't think you should. I mean, you can wing it, right? But I think, you know, if you're a virgin, you know, and you're gonna, I don't know, see, I'm thinking of like an older

Starting point is 00:15:55 virgin. I'm not talking a 16 year old, right? I don't want to be talking to 16 year olds. I'm talking to older virgins. I think you should be honest about who you are, you know, because maybe you're going to wind up dating this person and, you know, the truth is going to come out of. anyway. So why lie? I lied about my virginity in the beginning and told my guy I wasn't a virgin when I was and it turned into a whole fucking scene. Okay. So I don't like lying. I think it always involves too much fucking work. The truth is always 100% easier. So just put it out there. It's totally fine. As long as you're not a 40 year old virgin or what was, you know, like too old of a virgin you might do yourself a favor, fucking wing it. If I met a guy and he was like 3070,

Starting point is 00:16:35 he was still a virgin, that would be a big turnoff. And it goes back to that other question. What was that question? Do girls find it attractive if a guy has a lot of options? I mean, you know, a guy that's a virgin at 40. Like, why is he a virgin? No girl wanted him. Like, you know, that's the kind of stuff that it would tell a girl and a girl doesn't want a guy that nobody else wants. Right? Okay, number 12. Do girls honestly like the nice guys? Yeah, they do. But I would say, that they start to like the nicer guys when they're older. There's nothing worse than a nice guy in your 20s. I was so fucking mean.

Starting point is 00:17:19 And maybe girls are different now. I don't know, but I'm just going to say, I was not into nice guys in my 20s, okay? Not at all. And I would say half of my 30s, I wasn't either. But eventually you grow the fuck up and you get sick of being treated like shit. by the bad guys. And I would never at this point in my life date anything other than a nice guy, right?

Starting point is 00:17:43 And they're harder to find, but you definitely like the nicer guys as you get older. I think it's nice guys don't get chosen and picked up as much when girls are younger, right? But just hold out because when you're older and when the women are older, they prefer nice guys. I just think it has to do with a girl's age. I would never date like the kind of guy I dated my 20s, right? Nice would be, not nice would be a deal breaker. So, yeah, they do like nice guys, but they need to grow up a little bit. Every girl likes a challenge when she's younger. At least I know I did.

Starting point is 00:18:19 And I think girls nowadays are a lot more like me than when I was younger. Like there wasn't as many girls like me now, but I think girls are younger are the way that I was. So I think that younger girls don't really like nice guys. But they went out in the end. that's fucking true because those girls grow up and we need to be treated like shit and go through that stuff and learn our lesson and then you know we marry the nice guy. Number 13, how does a guy politely ask for a blow job? Well, you know, there's definitely no hand involved in pushing the girl's head down. I mean, how does a guy ask for politely ask for a blowjob? Is that an

Starting point is 00:18:57 double entendre? I don't know. Like can you politely ask like is asking polite to begin with. You know, it's like weird. Like you could, you know, it all depends on where you're at in a relationship, right? Like, after you've been with a guy for a long time, like I've never had a long-term, um, relationship, right? But I've had a long-term booty call relationship. And that was really, fine.

Starting point is 00:19:23 I didn't, I mean, all the guy had to do was ask for a blowjob. And that's like, it didn't need to be polite. Just be direct. Let me know what you want. And I'll do it for you. I don't mind transactional. sex like that. There, you know, I have been in my life, there have been times where I just want to get off and I just like tell the person and, you know, there was a great story. Remember Tommy,

Starting point is 00:19:42 my, my co-host, I might have told the story before, but I don't think recently. And he, you know, we were booty calling each other for years at this point. And I remember literally going over his house one day and I just wanted steak. I wanted a nice steak dinner. And I went over his house after work and we're supposed to go out to dinner. No, I had my period at the time and I just wasn't interested in fooling around at all. But he was like, blow me before we go. And I said, okay. So I'm like blowing him and he's like not coming. And so like I look up and I'm like, excuse me, can you like come already? Because I'm like starving. I'm like, could you? No, no. This is what I said. I said, can you do me a favor and like think about somebody else because like I'm starving and I really

Starting point is 00:20:25 want to go to dinner? And he was like, do you actually think I'm thinking about you? I'm sorry, but I was like, if I wrote movies, like, I'd write that scene into a movie because it is so, it is like perfection. Like what I'm thinking and saying and what he's thinking and saying, I like fucking high five to him. Like that was the funniest shit you ever said because it's true, right? Like I'm like, just fucking calm. I want to go eat, right? That's what the woman's thinking. And the guy's like thinking of Pamela Anderson or whoever it was at the time, right?

Starting point is 00:20:56 And I'm like thinking he's thinking like I don't know. It was just fucking great. So I don't know. You know, if a girl can't take a hit like that, right? And she needs to be politely asked. I don't know. How do you politely ask for a blowjob? Like, you know, while you're fooling around, you could be like, oh, can you like, you know, suck on my cock? I don't know. Dirty talk. I don't know that you could politely ask for a blow job. I think just ask for what you want, you know. And and but just, but just. try not to push the girl's head down. There's nothing ruder than that. Okay, remember I told you I dated the rude guys, the assholes when I was younger. There's a lot of pushing a girl's head down. You know, like that's the head. That's fucking unpolite. Is that the correct word? That's unpolite. I don't know how to politely do it, but I could tell you how to not politely do it. And that is pushing the girl's head down. Don't do that. I'm direct. I like direct things. I think you could always just be direct. If you want a blow job, ask for a blow job. I think if you're a girl listening to this, give your guy a blowjob if he just wants a blowjob.

Starting point is 00:22:00 Like, who cares? Like, take one for the team. Like, keep him happy. He'll keep you're happy. Everyone's happy. You could go for steak. He could think of somebody else. If that happens, too, that's fine too.

Starting point is 00:22:11 Doesn't matter, right? At the end of the day. Anyway, so those are my 13 questions that I answered. I hope this was fun. It was fun for me. And if you have any ideas of what you want me to do for my next Q&A, Let me know. Any other kinds of questions that you want answered?

Starting point is 00:22:29 I like answering these general ones as opposed to like questions about me. I think it's fun. So if you have any questions you want answered like about guy, girl stuff, dating, marriage advice, addiction, anything. Send it and I'll answer it. So anyway, hope you enjoyed this episode. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book,

Starting point is 00:22:51 it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gang being girl story. Like I said, 17 stories and they're all told in the third person and they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person and I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like

Starting point is 00:23:43 that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories. 17 of them. They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format, and finally, the audio book is available coming out August 25th, but you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint, okay? There's no way you get into my Discord any other way than getting the link from me, okay? I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares with each other, and that's what you get to do there. You can post your own pictures and videos.

Starting point is 00:24:30 There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total, strictly anonymous community, and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the e-book, or the paperback. Send it to me at Strictly Anonymous. Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. And I will send you the link to Discord.

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Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1284 - Body Count, Dick Pics, Blowjobs & More...Guys Top Questions Answered w/Kathy

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