Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1289 - Tucker is Into Adult Arcades, Gloryholes, Gangbangs and More

Episode Date: November 28, 2025

Tucker is into adult arcades, gloryholes, gangbangs and more and he called in to talk all about it. When did he first realize he was into guys? When did he go to his first adult arcade? What exactly d...oes he like to do when he’s there? Tune in for all the details including the first time he saw a guy showering when he was younger and how that effected him, the bathhouses and arcades he frequented while in college, the first time he went into a gloryhole and exactly what went down, how his ex wife caught him cheating on her with men and how she reacted, how he used aol chat rooms and craigslist ads to meet up with guys, the types of guys he met at these places, the couples he hooked up with as well and why he enjoys them, the gangbangs he’s been to, including one with thirty guys that ended in bukkake, the make shift gloryhole he uses at home for hook ups and why he digs that experience so much, how and why his fave hook up is a married guy, how and why he enjoys face swapping, how many men and women he has hooked up with over the years and a whole lot more. To see HOT pics TUCKER plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord!  MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712  Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.  Sponsors:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://motorbunny.com/strictly⁠⁠⁠ — Black Friday Sale PLUS $50 off! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Use the code STRICTLY at checkout for 30% OFF your entire order⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — To get 10% off LOAD Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get your first month of the new Bluechew Max FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://brooklynbedding.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Use my promo code STRICTLY at checkout to get 30% off sitewide⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2536-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Use code ANONYMOUS69 to get 50% off your yearly pass plus a 14-day money-back guarantee⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://uberlube.com/discount/Strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Use code STRICTLY for 10% off Uberlube aka the BEST Lube EVER⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:02:47 know of all the swingers clubs and the meet and greets and the munches, all the meet and greets and the sex parties and all that kind of good stuff in your neighborhood. If you're going away on vacation and want to play, you're going to get to find out what's going on wherever you're going on SDC.com. You get a free trial over there. All you got to do is use my code 37712 or just go to the description. Click on the link. The link to my Patreon is there. The link to buy my book is over there. Everything is in the description. Now today I have on Tucker. Okay. Tucker is a straight guy, but we're going to put straight in quotes. He doesn't like labels, but he's like, you know, I'm kind of straight, but he really likes to suck a dick. He's one of those. And I talk about this on the show.
Starting point is 00:03:28 In the beginning when I did my show, I had so many guys calling in who were like married and blowing guys or having guys blow them on the side. It was a very hot topic. I haven't had one on in a long time, I don't think. And he wrote in and it was like, I haven't heard somebody come on that really spoke about that as well as like adult theaters and glory holes. I mean, this guy is very hardcore into adult theaters, but they don't call where he lives. They call them arcades. He's very into arcades and backrooms and glory holes. So much that he has a glory hole that he made at his house. He goes to people's houses where they have glory holes. He also has this whole gangbang situation going on. Okay. We talk a lot about that. And gangbangs with women that he gets
Starting point is 00:04:13 invited to. There's a whole gangbang community that he has met and he is a part of. And he gives very specific stories about all the gangbangs he's been involved with. One was like 30 guys. Okay, that was like the best gang bang he ever went to and there was like a Bukaki at the end. He gives details about that. But he starts off talking about how he was married at one time, how his wife found out as well as that's where we start off. But then we go back and he talks about his first experience of seeing a guy and how he felt. And then he started thinking about that. And that's when he realized he was into guys. And then how he started to go to these. arcades and stuff and he's very into and only into oral. That's what he does. That's what he's like
Starting point is 00:04:54 a giver and he's a receiver. Only of oral. He's never done anything else. But he's been doing that, giving guys head and having guys give him head since the get-go. I think it started before he went to college. And when he went to college, he started getting on all the apps and not apps like all the chat rooms and stuff like that. And like I said, eventually he did get married. That wasn't a good marriage and it ended. We don't harp on that too much. He found out. okay but he's been single and he's been hooking up he's been with I he gives numbers a lot there hundreds of guys as well as lots of women like I said gang bangs lots of gory holes glory holes he talks about what it is about the glory hole that he really likes how many times he's bumped into
Starting point is 00:05:41 somebody he might have known and all that kind of good stuff there's so many interesting stories Like I said, this is not, he does give the demographics. Oh, sorry, he does give the demographics of the guys that he typically meets. Who's better at giving head, gay men or straight men? What do you think? He tells you. But anyway, there's so much in this episode. He does give out his email at the end.
Starting point is 00:06:08 So make sure you listen all the way through. You're going to want to because the stories just get better and better. Like I said, eventually he starts talking about all this gangbang sexy hat. We start talking about gang bang organizers in the gangbang community. And then all the way at the end, he does give out his email. So if you want to hit him up after listening to this, whether you're a woman or a man, email him. It's at the end.
Starting point is 00:06:31 And he does give the pick, remember? So you could get a pick of him. It's an anonymous pick. He calls himself a seven. But he says he's very in shape. So if you want to see his in shape body, you could go to my Patreon, patreon.com slash Strictly Anonymous podcast. Anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Tucker.
Starting point is 00:06:49 Hi, Tucker. I like that name, by the way. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm doing great. Thank you for having me. So listen, Tucker. You emailed me saying like, hey, I hear a lot of secret lives on your call,
Starting point is 00:07:03 but I don't hear many people talking about, you know, like straight guys talking about like really what goes down in like a dull bookstores and stuff like that. And I have to say that when I first started doing my podcast, that was probably something that I had on the most. Like nowadays it's a lot of swinger stuff and cuck stuff. But in the beginning of my show, I had a lot of guys calling in who were like sucking dick on the side.
Starting point is 00:07:30 You know, because I mean, that's basically what you're going to talk about is going down. You're straight, quote unquote. But you have this whole secret life that's going on. So why don't you just tell your story? Okay. Yeah, so I guess what would I call myself? I guess mostly straight is I guess what I refer to.
Starting point is 00:07:51 I always think labels are kind of silly, but what I mean by that is in every other aspect of my life, I'm typical straight male into women, into dating women, get romantic towards women. But I absolutely love dicks. I don't know sure I was to put it. Wait, you sound young. How old are you? 41. Okay, so you're 41, okay. Yes.
Starting point is 00:08:15 But I've been doing this since I was a teenager. Yeah, that's what we want to start there, okay? So, kind of a crazy story. I want to bounce on too much. But so basically I used to be married when I found out. Oh. Not the greatest move on my part. But one of the things that was stuck with me in that was, oh my God,
Starting point is 00:08:41 it's so disgusting. I can't believe you would do this. And the one thing that I always stuck out in my head was, oh my God, lady, if you had any idea how common this is and how many people do this. Right. Yeah. It would be shocking. That's how I got to tell you. That's how I felt in the beginning when I was doing my show. I mean, like I said, that was the trend that I don't know whether, whether, because I got a lot of
Starting point is 00:09:05 people from Craigslist and I was responding to a lot of ads. So I saw what was going down. And there was a lot of it going down. And, you know, I'm not thinking that it went away. The trend didn't go away. I just didn't have as many people calling in to talk about it. But it is happening more than people think. Unfortunately, a lot of women's guys are blowing guys on the side.
Starting point is 00:09:28 I had a co-host in the beginning named Tommy. And he owned a very, very big gay bar here in the city. So he saw it firsthand. All the guys coming home. coming after work to his bar to have their little flings with their gay guys and then going home to their married wives, you know, getting the train out of town, yeah, two hours later. Exactly. Yeah. Yeah. And, you know, the arcades in theaters, it's mostly arcades around here, but they just, that's basically what they're there for. And guys go and meet up and do their thing and then bounce and then go home. Okay, first explain to me what an arcade is. I mean, here in the city, we have like bookstores, adult bookstores.
Starting point is 00:10:14 And in the back rooms, people don't understand. There's like live action going on back there, right? Is this, what's an arcade? It's like video games, but in the back there's live action? Well, see, that's what I thought. I thought it was like, you know, kinky video games. And I remember when I was, I saw when I was a teenager, but couldn't go in until I was 18. And then on my 18th birthday, actually, I was like, I got to go.
Starting point is 00:10:37 check it out. I wanted to buy a porno for my 18th birthday, you know, because this was back before internet porn was really a thing. So I go in and no, it's not an arcade. It's just like a small maze of private booths. Some of them just have curtains, but most of them have like doors that actually latch. And it's just, it's just porn playing. You can flip through different channels of porn. And yeah, so it's, they say arcade, but there's no games. Right, right. Okay. But wait, I want to hear the quick story about how your wife found out. And then I want to go back to the start and the beginning of this when you were a teenager. First of all, my first question is how long ago did your wife catch you and how did she catch you? So it was about a decade ago. Oh, okay.
Starting point is 00:11:25 So long time. Yeah. And I just, you know, typical got lazy. A voicemail dinged on my phone and she got my phone before I did. Then she found my Craigslist account and it was all downhill from there. Oh, you never got an email from me asking you to be on my show. I used to, I was, I went to every city. I, you don't even know how hard I used to have to work to get people to call into my show. So I had like Craigslist in every city like on my phone and I would be sending out emails and soliciting people and stuff. Okay, so she and she found out that you were fooling around with dudes. So that was divorce immediately? Oh, yeah, pretty much.
Starting point is 00:12:08 And did you have kids? I'm sure she told, no, no kids. Okay, so it was a clean break. But yeah. Let's go back to when you were a teenager, like what you started doing stuff and acting out on your desires back then? Well, I mean, ever since I was very young,
Starting point is 00:12:28 started going through puberty. I was always drawn to, you know, naked men like whenever i remember the first time i ever really saw a guy jerking off you know it's actually a creepy story i was in the seventh grade and i went to the there was a high school football game and right next to the stadium was uh there used to be at rec center and so i ran in there i had to use the bathroom real quick and i'm like in the stall and it was facing the showers and it was one of those old school like communal showers there's a bunch of shower heads in one room and i'd I'm sitting in that stall and I look and I see this guy and he's, you know, facing away and really soaping up.
Starting point is 00:13:10 And I was like, I was so young at the time I was thinking like, wow, this guy's really clean in his dick, you know? Yeah. And the whole time I'm thinking, he doesn't know I'm there. He doesn't know I'm seeing this. And it was like 10 minutes. I sat there and watched and finally I was like, okay, I got to go. And as I was leaving, he started talking to me. And he said, hi.
Starting point is 00:13:29 And it's like asking questions about the football game. And I was just like, oh, he's just a friendly guy. It was like years later before I realized what that really was. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And I think that might have been where it started because it was like just a few days later, I started thinking about that again. And that was like, that was the first time I ever jerked off. So that vision of that guy.
Starting point is 00:13:53 Yeah. So the first time I was doing that, I was thinking about that guy. So that might have been where it started. I don't know. Maybe it's just jerking off to guys. but you also know that you like women at this point too as well. Well, and that was kind of the funny part is I wasn't, I just kind of thought about that guy and I was more like going,
Starting point is 00:14:12 what was he doing? And then I, so I did it and, of course, that's how I wanted to jerk off. But I wasn't like necessarily jerking up to him. I still jerked out to girls. I thought was cute.
Starting point is 00:14:22 And, but I always noticed it. So anytime I'd be like in the locker room or friends over at the house changing, I always looked and always noticed, noticed a difference. and, you know, but even to this day, like, I'm not into gay porn. It doesn't do anything for me. Straight porn is always what I go to. But, and like when it comes to guys, it's like, excuse me, I'm not, I never get, like,
Starting point is 00:14:49 romantically interested in guys. I'm not into making out. I'm not into kissing or anything really just oral. You blowing them, their dick in your mouth, or both. Okay. Yeah. Okay. guys, let's talk about anal action. Anyone who listens to my show knows I'm personally a three input girl and I'm totally into anal
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Starting point is 00:17:02 I'm not into making out. I'm not into kissing or anything really just oral. You blowing them, their dick in your mouth? Or both. Okay. Yeah. So,
Starting point is 00:17:15 so yeah. Yeah, but how, so how did that happen? So you're, you know, you're, you know, you're watching some porn,
Starting point is 00:17:23 you're, you thought of that guy. I mean, when do you start going to these kind of places, like the arcades? yeah okay so like i said when i turned 18 that was when i first saw them but when i went back there there was no one there and i didn't really think a whole lot of it um and then i think didn't really
Starting point is 00:17:42 i don't know the whole me going down on guys didn't really start happening until i was 19 and then i uh when i was going to college i found out that there was another one of those arcades um just a like a half mile from the college and i was like i want to go check that out again. And I went and it was actually kind of a, it's hilarious how cliche the story is. Yeah. So I went in and again, there was nobody there. So I was just like, I screw it. I'll just pick a booth, wash and pull and drink off and head home. And I'm sitting there and I hear the booth door next to me close and latch and I look over and I notice, that's when I noticed the glory hole was there. Oh, your first one? That didn't happen in the other ones.
Starting point is 00:18:25 Okay. No. And so I just kind of sit there like, oh, weird. And, and, and I just kind of sit there like, oh weird and uh you know five seconds later guys sticks his dick through and i was like oh my god i just kind of stared at it and then reached out and grabbed it and uh i grabbed it for like five seconds and he and he came in my hand so i was like oh and i just thought that was the hottest thing ever so i kind of freaked out and left and then it was not too long maybe a week or two after that I got on AOL back in the day. And they had a lot of men looking for men chat rooms. And so I posted in there.
Starting point is 00:19:09 And within a couple hours, I had met up with a guy. And he actually came over to the house, which is stupid. Why, you were married at then? Or you were with college roommates? No, no. No, no. I was college roommates. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:19:22 Yeah, it was college roommate. And no one was there. And, yeah, he came over and we traded off going, going down on each other. And from then, from there on, it was, it was game time. I loved it. I was so into it. I kept going back to that bookstore or that arcade and just kept doing it.
Starting point is 00:19:43 And now, have you ever done anything besides oral or it has always just been oral? Did you ever try anything else? I've tried guys rimming me, you know? And that's okay. It's not my thing. But no anal action? No, not into it, not into anal. Now, what was going on with girls at this time?
Starting point is 00:20:08 I was dating girls. I've had several, you know, really good relationships with women. But you were always cheating on them with guys? Well, technically I only cheated on two people with guys. But my first girlfriend out of high school, I was dating the first couple of times that I did that. And then my wife. So once everything went to shit with my wife, I decided I got to stop being quite such a dirt bag. So whenever I was in a relationship, I stayed away from it.
Starting point is 00:20:40 Oh, that's cool. So you have been able to stay away when you're dating a woman. I mean, did you ever think about being honest with a woman and letting her know that you were into guys? Yeah, I have. I have done that. The first one, she mentioned how she, the first girl I ever told about it, she mentioned that she gets really turned on by gay porn. Oh, okay. That's good.
Starting point is 00:21:05 And I was like, would you ever like consider doing like doing a threesome with two guys? And she was like, she was like, it sounds really hot. And I, so I flat told her, I was like, I'd totally be down to having another guy and he and I just going down on each other. And she looked at me like I was a creep and she says, that's gross. I thought you were joking. And then that was it. Oh, wow, really? A little traumatic.
Starting point is 00:21:29 And then I did talk to a woman that I met online. We talked over the phone for a couple weeks, and she was very into it. She actually wanted to do the whole hot wife kind of relationship. And I was very into that. That sounds awesome. But it just never happened. And then she ended up ghosting me. Well, because you always used, you know, all the way back in time when you were doing AOL chat room,
Starting point is 00:21:56 you were doing Craigslist. I would think that same person now would be on apps like Fat Life or Adult Friend Finders. I mean, have you upped your game and like you put yourself out there as a guy on the dating apps that are more alternative looking for a girl that's like perfectly suited? I have. And that's the first person that I, or the second person, excuse me, that we talked on the phone and it just never happened. We met on Adult Friend Finder.
Starting point is 00:22:23 And I've tried Fat Life. vet life is a little more, it's a little more kink oriented. Right. Yeah. Yeah. I've only been on that one for a few months, so I haven't really had much luck there. Okay. So now tell me though, so like you're, so you start, you're in college and you're going
Starting point is 00:22:44 to those booths and everything. Is that when you eventually meet your wife around that same time, like after college, like right out of college, were you one of those that got married young? Exactly. Yeah. I met her. my senior year of college. And then how long into that relationship did you think, like, oh my God, I just have to have a dick in my mouth?
Starting point is 00:23:06 How long were you able to be faithful for before? How long did I think that? No, how long before you, like, you know, gave into it? It was probably about six to eight months, probably. Oh, I thought you were going to say six or eight years. No, I wish. But it was, we were good friends and decided to give it a shot at getting married. And there was just zero sex life going on.
Starting point is 00:23:32 It was just a very unhealthy relationship that I, we both tried to make work for way too long. And so it wasn't good from the get-go is what you're saying? No, no. It was not a good call on either one of our parts. But still, it was still a rotten thing for me to do. Yeah. I mean, what's, what's dumb is like, why did you get married to begin with? I think that's what a lot of people just read the book.
Starting point is 00:23:52 and they think they have to do it because everyone does it or something because, you know, why? I think people do that last now and I think people that did do that and they're older now probably look back and like, why did I, you know, do that? It's just so young and, you know,
Starting point is 00:24:08 and you didn't even marry someone that you liked. I mean, it wasn't even good sex. Normally sometimes it's just like the sex is so great. You think, oh, I'm going to hang my hat here and then that goes out the window and there's nothing else going on, you know. You didn't even have that. You guys were, but you guys were good friends.
Starting point is 00:24:22 Is that what it was? Yeah, we were very good friends. And just, yeah, there's not a whole lot to it, really. It's just, you know, kind of a kind of a crudy relationship that just started off bad on both of our parts. How long did it last? Like a long time. We were together seven years. Right.
Starting point is 00:24:40 Okay, seven years. And now the whole time were you seeing guys? Pretty much. But, I mean, I would go like a year without doing anything. And then I'd have a month where I just kind of went for it. And then I'd stay away from it for like six months and then come back to it. You know, so it wasn't like just constantly every week. But yeah, it did go on throughout the whole relationship.
Starting point is 00:25:04 And what was the demographics of the guys that you were meeting as far as like their relationship status? Were they mostly married guys? Were they single guys? Were they gay guys? I would say it was probably 90% guys in the same situation as me, other married guys. right that's what I thought you would say that's that kind of seems to be like the makeup of the crowd at least in the arcades and theaters that I go to it seems to be probably I was going to say 90% I'd say probably about 75% straight guys just trying to get off and get out and then the rest of
Starting point is 00:25:43 it is actually gay guys they're just having a great time right and do you find a difference between them like are the gay guys are way better at head than the straight guys? Oh 100% yeah. Yeah. I didn't know that there would be a 100% answer to that. I thought you were going to be like, no, they're just as good. But yeah, so the gay men like they give the best hat. Oh, by far. Yeah. In my opinion. Really good. I mean, as a, the whole, there's always that joke about, you know, gay guys give a better head than women. and from my rather large sample size, I definitely would have to agree with that. Right.
Starting point is 00:26:26 And now I know that you did say that you were with sometimes one guy, sometimes many. I mean, like, have you been in like orgy situations with guys at these arcades? Or where has the many come into play? Yeah. I mean, sometimes just a group, something, like, you know, a group thing will break out in like a theater or something.
Starting point is 00:26:44 Or, you know, they also, you know, used to have, like, uh, bathhouses around. Yeah, you've gone to those too. Sometimes we go to. Mm-hmm. Yeah, they don't have any more, not anymore in the city that I live in, but, uh, I did go to those a couple times, not that many times, but they would have these, uh, like, map, like, mask parties where it was like, and that's where, like, a lot of the, like, married straight guys would go
Starting point is 00:27:11 because you could, like, wear a mask and no one knows really who you are. So it's like the anonymous three. is like really big especially with the married guys yeah now have you ever in your all of your time of hook going to these places bumped into somebody that you know twice or one time for sure um i saw a guy that i uh work with and not like daily but same office building and i know 100% that it was him and i'm pretty sure i ducked away and he did excuse me and that he didn't recognize me And then another time there was a kind of a distant friend of a friend that I'm pretty sure it was him because I recognize like his jacket and watch. But I don't know for sure.
Starting point is 00:27:59 Where was this in like a theater or something? Did he see you or he didn't see he didn't see you seeing him? That one was through a glory hall. Oh. He had a very specific jacket that he liked to wear and a watch that I'm pretty sure it was his. You're kidding. Wait, so this guy was through the glor hole and did you hook up with him? Yeah, I did.
Starting point is 00:28:22 Was that like a hot scenario because you're like, you know who the fuck he is and he doesn't know who you are? Like, did that add to it or? Oh, yeah. Yeah. That's one of my favorite encounters I've had. That one. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:28:34 And now do you see that guy all the time? I've seen him maybe a half a dozen times since then. So it's not a guy I see frequently. Yeah. And like, do you think, because now you're a guy that's posing as a 100% straight guy, but yet you suck dick every now and then. And you know that guy sucks a dick. And you're hooking up with a lot of married guys and you're kind of professional.
Starting point is 00:28:57 Would you say that most of these people that are walking around, these guys that are doing this? Like, would you, you'd never think that that was the guy that was hooking up with guys. Yeah. A lot of times that's how it works. Like, I've seen, like, you know, burly biker type guys in those places. And they'll get out, they'll pull up in their Harley. They'll go in. They'll get sucked off real quick.
Starting point is 00:29:25 And then then driving down the road, you'll see them at the closest bar to see that same motorcycle park there. And that's always kind of fun. I think that's kind of interesting. So the scene has kind of died down in the last few years, mainly because of COVID. But before, the prime time to go was always right after work. And you'd always catch the business guys going home. So you see a bunch of just like white-collar guys with button-ups and ties and slacks. And they're just trying to either get off or get somebody else off real quick.
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Starting point is 00:33:22 So you see a bunch of just like white collar guys with buttonups and ties and slacks. And they're just trying to either get off or get somebody else off real quick. And those are the fun ones. Those are the ones I go for. How come that's fun for you? Because you know that they're married and you're like doing something so dirty. Yeah, it feels like it's closer to my situation too, you know, where it's like, you know, you don't really, because there's some really gross guys that go there. And there's guys that'll go there and they just, they call them cum dumps.
Starting point is 00:33:56 They just want to go in and just take every load that they possibly can bear back, you know. And to me, that I'm not. to that. That's kind of gross. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I mean, what I'm doing is risky anyway, but that's extra risky. But a lot of it's just like that. Yeah, it's just married guys, just looking for fun. So besides that type, what else do you look for?
Starting point is 00:34:18 Or do you like a big dick? Do you like a small dick? Do you like, I mean, what's your preference? Do you have any? Or because you're always in glory holes, you rarely see that? Yeah. Yeah. Well, usually, because usually the way it works, there are,
Starting point is 00:34:33 some guys that they'll just go into a booth and just take whatever comes through the hole. Yeah. But what I would say most guys do is you kind of, you kind of meander the halls, you know, the little maze of booths, make eye contact with someone and then head for an open booth and then they'll go in the other side. So it's not like completely anonymous. Right. But you're not like exchanging names or even saying hi or anything.
Starting point is 00:34:57 So and I do that because, you know, I'm, yeah, I like to suck up. strangers, but I still want to know what they look like and see if they're sketchy or, you know, drugged out or whatever. Yeah, if that's, you don't want the come dump guy going in next door to you. Right. You know, and I'm sure it's happened that I've gotten that guy, but, you know. Yeah, but how did you get the guy with the jacket and the thing? Do you think maybe your friend knew who the fuck you were?
Starting point is 00:35:23 Like, how did that happen? The guy that you knew the jacket and the bracelet or whatever, the watch? He very well could have. I don't know. Yeah. No way of knowing. Do you look at you funny the next time you saw him? You'd know.
Starting point is 00:35:37 Nope. Nope. I didn't get any recognition in either one of their faces. Oh, okay. Yeah, I think that if they did, they would have gone it, don't you think? For sure. Oh, yeah. Have you ever hooked up outside of these things?
Starting point is 00:35:50 Like went to a guy's house and like, have you ever been involved with a couple? Oh, yeah. Yeah. A lot of guys, a lot of guys set up like a little private glory hole in their house. and I've done that too, you know, where you just post something on Craigslist used to be really awesome for it. I know. I saw those fucking ads. I had a guy on that built a glory hole or he used to, he brought it to like a hotel and he had like a glory hole party.
Starting point is 00:36:16 Like, but he built it and everything. I have one of those episodes. I found him on Craigslist. Yeah. Yeah. I've done that. I've hosted one at my house, not a party, but just one-on-one. I actually have one guy that, I guess you would call him a regular, comes
Starting point is 00:36:32 over every now and then. I've got a couple guys that I go to once a month or whatever. And yeah, it's pretty simple. You just show up at their house and you walk in and there would be a doorway or just a sheet hanging with a hole in it or something and do your thing and then bounce, you know. Now, do you prefer, I'm assuming you prefer it that way. And that must be a thing that all these people that are doing it and making these at their house and having people come over that, that it's, there's something about that glory hole.
Starting point is 00:37:02 aspect to it that is a part of your guys kink yeah you know a lot of guys they just want to they just want to get off and go and they don't they don't really care who's on the other side or you want to see but for me it's like i'm totally fine just doing it in person face to face but there's something about it's like a sensory deprivation kind of thing you know where you're just standing there you can't see what's going on and it just for me it just adds to the experience and it's great. Yeah, it must be because I remember seeing those ads on Craigslist and people having them and it is a thing. It's not just like people doing it anonymously and that's the reason why everyone does it. It's probably more so they're all into it like you are to become something
Starting point is 00:37:48 that there's an extra thrill to it because you can't see the person or something. There's something about that glory whole thing that I think women don't get. I mean, are there ever women in there? Yeah, sometimes. It's definitely rare. I would say for every, I don't know, 30 times that I go, there's a woman there. Yeah, with her husband. Mm-hmm. Now, tell me.
Starting point is 00:38:12 There was one time I went and there was just a woman in there by herself. And she was just taking on all comers, you know. Really? Blowing them? Yeah. Yeah. And that's more rare. Usually it's a husband and wife or a man and woman.
Starting point is 00:38:31 I don't know if they're husband and wife. but a couple right yeah and that's one that's one thing where fat life is actually pretty good and sometimes they'll post up say hey we're going to be at this place at this time and show up oh at the quote unquote arcade yeah so tell me about some couples that you met and what happened with them well um so back in the college days um Yahoo groups used to be a thing and you know there's groups for every every sort of hobby you could find and one of them was for adult theaters and arcades is what it was called. And they would post up basically, you know,
Starting point is 00:39:09 there was one posting that I got to go to where it was at another arcade and it was just a woman there. She would, you know, she would do whatever you wanted with any guy that shows up. And so that was one. Another one was a gang bang at a house. So it was like 10 guys and one woman. But you did all these scenarios? Yeah. So the first one, that was before I was married.
Starting point is 00:39:32 Yeah, so it was just, they didn't even ask for pictures or a description. They just said reply to this ad and we'll give you the address. So I was like, oh, screw it. I'll show. I'll do it. Show up and it was like actually a really good looking blonde lady in the back bedroom, just a circle of guys. And it was just one guy after another taking their turn. And that was pretty fun.
Starting point is 00:39:53 I got to be, I got to be the second one to go. So that was pretty hot. You'd like to be after somebody. Is that what's hot about it? like being after the another person well yeah that and it was fun being watched you know uh-huh having guys watched and just like a circle of guys standing around jerking off watching yeah is that called a circle jerk isn't that isn't there a word for it or that's when you're all jerking each other off this is you're all just jerking off watching and then having sex
Starting point is 00:40:22 yeah yeah waiting for your turn so yeah that was hot so you know get a fuck her and then pull out and come all over her face and she says thank you and then that's the next guy's turn. Now are you using condoms in all these situations? It doesn't sound like it. Yeah, with all the group events,
Starting point is 00:40:42 yeah, there's always condoms. There was one that I got invited to that it was all bareback for the female and I wasn't into that one. That just sounded a little too dangerous. Right. So you're always super safe. I used to always ask about condoms in the beginning
Starting point is 00:40:56 and then I stopped asking and people have been like, why don't you fucking ask her? Some people on YouTube are very, judge you like with these STDs and I'm just like I have to start keep asking because it does sound like you're not because you're like oh and I'm coming here and I come all over her face that but you're you're pulling out taking off the condom and then coming on her face at that gang bang you're at okay cool yeah yeah I mean obviously for the oral sex no nobody's wearing condoms
Starting point is 00:41:21 yeah so so yeah so that was a fun one that was the first group thing that I ever went to the second one was probably the hottest thing that I've ever been a part of. It was a husband and wife. Okay, let's drag this one out because it's so hot. I'll edit this out. Okay, just fucking drag it out, please. It was another one where, you know, you met online and you send in your pictures and they said, yep, show up at this hotel at this time.
Starting point is 00:41:52 Show up to this hotel, and there are 30 guys in this big hotel suite. and the wife is in the back room with a blindfold on. So she doesn't want to see any of the pictures or anything. She just wanted to get gang banged by a bunch of people that she had no idea who they were. Wow. How they were. What color they were, what race they were, you know, anything. Yeah, that's a lot of fantasies in one, you know, the girl that likes anonymous sex or stranger sex it's called and gang bangs.
Starting point is 00:42:23 Yeah. Yeah. And so that one was hot. That was just like you would just basically, you know, you'd wait your turn. Sometimes you wouldn't wait your turn. Sometimes there'd be three or four guys all over her. And then at the end, it was basically a bouquet, bucocchi, I guess you say it. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:42:42 Finish where everybody finished on her face. And several of us finished twice on her face. So it was just, that one was pretty pretty good. It was all video tape. What the, where are the fucking? was she when I was looking on Craigslist. Where does she, does she have a husband there watching?
Starting point is 00:43:00 Yeah, yeah, her husband was there. He was a big dude too, so he was kind of her bodyguard. I was going to ask if there was a gang bang wrangler. Like what's really interesting, and I've almost had twice,
Starting point is 00:43:11 two different times I've been set to speak with somebody who is that gang bang coordinator. They exist. There are men out there that this is their job to set these things up, these events up. And they both can't. on me last minute. I was like, oh, fuck. Because it's always interesting. Gangbanks is a very hot topic and people
Starting point is 00:43:30 always are so curious about it. And it is hard. Listen, I've thrown parties, not gangbangs, regular parties, but it doesn't matter what you're throwing any kind of event. If you want 30 people to show up, to show up, okay, you have to invite so many more, you know? I just wonder how they were able to get that whole thing set up. I mean, that's a lot of work and coordinating. And, you know, that's a, that's a, a successful turnout. Yeah. So the ones that that I've been lucky enough to go to, they've all been organized by the same guy.
Starting point is 00:44:03 Oh. I don't know if he's like a professional or what. He's just, he's just a really cool dude that puts these on. And he never, I don't think he really even watches. He just kind of sits out by the door and just allows people in and out. Oh, God.
Starting point is 00:44:18 It's like any job. It's like the guy that works in the pizza place, Kinstan fucking pizza. People think I get turned on when I'm having these stories. No, I don't think so. Not after all this time. Like, uh-uh. You know, it's like the gang bang guy.
Starting point is 00:44:30 He just could care fucking less about gangbanks. Of course. He's seen so much. It's like his job. I can't explain it. There's like a, you know, a headspace. You're in or not in depending. So he's just always there.
Starting point is 00:44:43 He coordinates it, though. Yeah. And I've been through, uh, what, four or five of his events. So you're like on his list. He like hits you up. Like you're in his Rolodex as a guy. who's down? Well, it's more like a, it's an online group and he'll, he'll post up when there's an event.
Starting point is 00:45:03 And it's always kind of the same deal. Just reply with pictures in the description of yourself. You know, basically you're applying to get in. And then if they want you to come, he'll send you the details. Is there ever a cost? No, it's always like, if you want to pitch in 10 bucks towards the room, you can. But they don't, they don't charge for that. I think that probably a legal boundary there.
Starting point is 00:45:26 But no, I've never had to pay, you know. And when you send a pick, is it a dick pick or a whole pick or like your face pick? They just want to make sure you're legit and not a car. I don't know. Well, I mean, usually face and body and dick pick. Okay. So send those in. But what I've found after being to several of those events is it seems to be the same group.
Starting point is 00:45:50 You know, it's almost like a little community. and everybody's super cool and super chill and very respectful and it's just a good time. You know, I think if you're just throwing it out to random, you know, Craigslisters, yeah, you're going to get some sketchy folks, but these always seem to be great. And so you know some of the people. You're like, hey, saw you here last time. You're like regulars, gang bang regulars. Yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:46:15 And then so the third one I went to was it was actually, it was actually was a kind a glory hole thing. So there was two women there. One of the women was just out in the open area, just gangbanging everybody. And then there was a second woman in the back bedroom behind a glory hole. And the deal was, you can do whatever you want with the first lady, but the glory hole lady gets all the loads. So, wow. That was a, that was a pretty good one. I stayed there for about two and a half hours on that one. Meaning she blew everybody. Blue them, fucked them. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:46:53 Oh, she can't even fuck them through the glory hall. Yep. Wow. So do you know who's behind there? Or do you know, is it the same rotation of women, too, as well for these Bing Bing? It's always been different women. Oh, where the fuck do they find these people? I mean, I've had a couple on my show.
Starting point is 00:47:09 It's like, I do know that these women exist. It's just crazy, though, to believe, especially the woman that took on 30 guys. Right, yeah. Right? Yeah. Well, that lady impressed me. She never even got tired of. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:47:21 So, but yeah, so the glory of whole one was pretty cool. And then the last one I was at was a couple years ago. It was before the pandemic. It was just two women. And I think I counted 12 guys. And it was just everybody just hanging out, taking turns. So that was, that one was the first time I ever had two women blow me at the same time. That was awesome.
Starting point is 00:47:46 Wow. So, and they both had husbands too. They were there together with their husbands? now were they together, like laying down next to each other? Like paint that picture if there's two women in the room. Yeah, so when I got there, I thought I was only like five minutes late, but when I got there it was already going. And there was one woman was fucking the other one doggy style with a strap on
Starting point is 00:48:08 while all the guys were watching. And then she took the strap on off. And then she said, okay, it's game time. And that's when everybody jumped in. And about 10 minutes into it, a lot of the guys were just kind of hanging back. you know like they're staged right or something and I was I was getting blown by one when the other woman came in with a can of whipped cream and she goes and she goes all right let's have some fun with whipped cream so I just stood up and got in between them and they like put whipped cream all up and down my dick and like sucked it off together that was that was a pretty good time I'm not going to lie that was pretty good and now when it comes to women are like these women that you go and you show for the gang wing do you get a picture of them
Starting point is 00:48:49 had a time or no. Yeah. Yeah. Usually you do. You don't always get the face, but you do. Even the girl with the glory hole, you got to see neck down. Which, I mean, honestly, guys don't really care. Yeah, no, I wonder, like, would you, if you're going
Starting point is 00:49:05 to gang bang and his girl is like that enough to get you off that you're like, you don't give a shit what she looks like if it's your type or not. I mean, every guy has a different type, but most guys will fuck anything. Usually, yeah. I mean, I mean, there's honestly what it comes down to is you know age and size to be honest you know if it's there's been
Starting point is 00:49:27 some where there's uh you know they really advertised that it's it's a very large woman like 350 pounds plus right bbbbbbbbw something shit like that and some people that's like a thing that they're into so that's why they label it because it's specific it's a fetish right yeah and if you're not into that you know don't go well um usually yeah yeah I mean, usually there's not, guys don't need a whole lot of details. It's usually she, you know, this woman's going to be here. They'll show some picks and they say who wants to come. And, you know, that's usually.
Starting point is 00:50:00 Right, but I would assume I was, I would, that's, but I did wonder whether you're seeing the body shot. You know, you, like you said, you want to know the age and the size. I mean, have you ever turned down a gang bang? Yeah. Yeah, I have. And it was because age or size. Right.
Starting point is 00:50:17 Well, the one I turned down was the woman that wanted all bear back, no condoms. Oh, right. Yeah. Which sucks because she was pretty hot. But, yeah, I mean, the large women, I'm, I don't go to those. Right. It's just not your thing. I mean, I think everybody's into different things.
Starting point is 00:50:37 And there's plenty of guys that are and some guys that aren't. And there's nothing wrong with that. Right. So. You know, it's not right or wrong. You know, you're into what you're into. I was wondering what you were into when it came to the women, or what the typical woman you find at the gang bang?
Starting point is 00:50:55 Like, what's their demographic? Is it around, always around the same age? Yeah, it tends to be mid-30s, mid-30s to mid-40s. Typically not anything older than that. And you don't really see a lot of young people there. I have seen some parties being thrown for girls that are, like, 19 and yeah but that's pretty that's pretty rare right right and so when was the last like gang bang that you went to like when was the last invite you had have they started up again since
Starting point is 00:51:29 COVID is over I've seen some advertisements for some but not not a lot um that last one I went it was literally like February of before the pandemic hit right now what about gang bangs with guys does that ever happen or is that just an orgy I don't don't know. Yeah, those are just orgies. I haven't, I haven't been to any of those except other than the bathhouses. Right. Where it's like group sex. Yeah. Because I'm more into just, like I really like the anonymous aspect of it. I like, I like that I might be around people I know, but, but don't know that they're there and they don't know that I'm there. You know, like those mask, those mask parties. I mean, you're just, you're just a bunch of naked guys walking around wearing masks.
Starting point is 00:52:17 just doing whatever they want to do. Well, that one hot experience for you was when you really thought it was a guy that you did know. I mean, that's your ultimate, right? Yeah. Oh, yeah. I've had fantasies where I know it's a good friend
Starting point is 00:52:32 on the other side. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But they have no idea, it's me. Yeah, and if you think about it, the greatest thing about a glory hole is is that you can bring any fantasy you want to that. It could be anyone behind there because it's, you know, it really allows you to go any place you want and still have the action because there is a real dick involved.
Starting point is 00:52:55 So it's, you know, but you could pretend that it's attached to whoever you want. Like you said, like your best friend or, you know, the guy at the store that you see all the time, right? Yeah. Yeah. And for me, it's like one of the things that this sounds so hypocritical, but it's like blowing married guys is. that just tracks me nuts. I love doing that. Doesn't sound hypocritical. We talked about it before. I think you like the naughty aspect of it.
Starting point is 00:53:22 Right? For sure. Yeah. I love the idea of having this little secret thing with a person that hopefully nobody knows about, you know. And it's a rotten thing to do, but it's still fun. Well, that's the unfortunate thing is a lot of times the really wrong things are really hot sometimes.
Starting point is 00:53:39 That's the problem. You know, like cheating sacks. Even like, you know, when you have a big fight. with someone you're so fucking mad at them and then you fuck them as like the best sex ever i mean why i don't know we don't know why but it's like really hot unfortunately right yeah yeah like the the regular guy that i i blow everyone's in a while he uh he's a little younger he's 30 um great body really nice body and uh but he's like my wife just does not ever suck thick and i'm like well i'll do it wow yeah yeah so i guess yeah
Starting point is 00:54:15 I mean, guys come to you with their stories, huh? I mean, like, listen, that was probably your story when you were married. I mean, you weren't having, there was no action at home. So is that what you guys, when you're with these guys and you're blowing each other? I mean, you do a little chit chat. I mean, is this is what you guys chit chat about? No sex at home? That's usually done over email.
Starting point is 00:54:36 But like guys you meet in person, there's really not much talking at all, if anything. Right. And then after you come, is it like every guy's, you know, I think every guy's fantasy is to like run in their cave. There's some sort of like in nature, like after the man comes, that they just want to go in their cave and be alone. You know, that's why guys just, yeah, that.
Starting point is 00:54:55 So if you're with another guy, he has the same. I think women get insulted by that or they want to cuddle and everything. And if you're with a guy, you both want to do the same thing. So is it like you come in these situations and you're like out the door? Usually. Yeah. It's heaven. Isn't that heaven?
Starting point is 00:55:13 It doesn't Yeah it's not a bad time Yeah I mean Yeah Sometimes sometimes you get Like my favorite ones are like Where you just go back and forth
Starting point is 00:55:24 You know like they call it swapping So like I would blow him until he's close to coming Then stopped and switched He blows me until I'm close And we just kind of do that back and forth Until he can't stand it You know
Starting point is 00:55:35 Oh that's kind So you're like edging each other on And that's called swapping? Yeah Yeah Yeah so that's I love doing that I could I could go for a while doing that
Starting point is 00:55:47 yeah I'm sure the other guy loves I'm sure that's like a mutual satisfaction right there going down yeah I was gonna say then you run into the other guys that I call them the greedy guys that just they they just want your comments as fast as you possibly can't
Starting point is 00:56:03 oh really how come you think they're lazy I just see they just want the load you know right but then are they are Is it always a mutual thing or is it sometimes like they just want you to blow them and that's it and they're not blowing you? Most of the time it's one way or the other, but probably maybe a third of the time you get that good vibe where you just go back and forth. Usually when we try to set something up over the internet like when I try to set something through double list or something. That's usually what I go for. I was like let's trade and swap and edge each other.
Starting point is 00:56:38 Right. That's because you know that you're into that. Or let me bring out my mocked up glory hole. Do you have that someplace in your house? I mean, or is it just something that you make one time and then throw it out? I mean, is it made out a cardboard? Is it a sheet? It's just a sheet I hang up that I keep in the back of my closet.
Starting point is 00:56:56 Wow. And how often do you use that? Do you still use that sometimes or all the time? Maybe once or twice a month. Not super often. Right. I prefer to go out to someone else's place. But when a guy comes in,
Starting point is 00:57:11 with the glory hole thing, do you, is it perfectly fine or actually preferred to not even see them ever? Like, are you behind that glory hole if you set up a guy to come over? Yeah. Yeah. So they'll walk in and the hole's right there. And they never, you never see each other. Never. Oh.
Starting point is 00:57:33 Maybe in the beginning we'll exchange, usually we'll exchange pictures because like I said, I don't, I want to invite somebody just nasty over that doesn't have any teeth or anything. Of course. I think that's important for sure. But you'd be surprised how many guys like want to do a glory hole but still want to exchange like face pictures. And I know a lot of people just rolled their head because it's like, well, the whole point of a glory hole is to not know who's there.
Starting point is 00:57:58 And it's like, well, not always. That's not the full truth, you know. Most guys do want to know who's on the other end. They just don't want to interact with them. You know, like I've had a lot of awkward blow jobs from guys where like they insist on making like the most intense eye contact and for like getting head from women that's great but for me getting head from guys I don't want that I don't want that eye contact hilarious yeah it is it's really stupid but it's super common it's very common I'm actually
Starting point is 00:58:31 part of a group on kick that's uh it's all about um glory holes but guys know who's on the other end so Oh, really? It's much more common. Yeah, it's much more common than people think. Right, that they do want to know. Right, yeah. Yeah, that's interesting. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:58:50 Because you think, like, it would be the opposite. But you still are getting something out of, even if you know what their face looks like and everything. When it actually goes down, you still are getting off on the fact that you can't see them, like you said, sensory deprivation or whatever it is. Yeah. And, like, for me, it's like,
Starting point is 00:59:09 I've had gay guys roll their eyes at me and tell me I'm fooling myself you know but it's like I just like to come and go and I like for you to just come and go I don't want to do all the chit-chat small talk you know so
Starting point is 00:59:22 oh so the gay men think that you're you want more you're looking for more oh yeah I've had them respond to my ads and they're like oh you're just fooling yourself you need to be honest with yourself and you know you're so full of shit and I'm like whatever dude I know
Starting point is 00:59:37 I've been doing this for over 20 years I know what I want. I think after you've had all these dicks in your mouth, if you were gay, you'd like to admit it. And you'd be telling me, I mean, like, what is the reason for you to be hiding it from yourself? You know, I mean, you've never tried anything else. You've never had a desire for anything else. I just think that, you know, they're projecting onto you because that's how they are. And I think everybody does that, not just gay people, straight people, everybody, you know?
Starting point is 01:00:03 It's like everyone just thinks they can't imagine anyone being anything other than what they are. they're just constantly projecting their own shit on to everybody else, right? Exactly. Exactly. So they just cannot believe that you wouldn't want to be talking to the fucking hot buff guy because they're gay and that's what they would want to do, which makes sense. But they don't understand that you're not. And there's so many people that fall into the spectrum and there is a spectrum and everybody, you know,
Starting point is 01:00:30 it feels differently depending on where they fall. You know, it seems like you're pretty clear. You have a lot of experience. you had a failed marriage. I think it's great that you haven't got married again. I mean, what do you think in your future? What do you see for yourself? Do you ever want to have kids and get married again?
Starting point is 01:00:49 And would you be okay with having a secret life again? Or would you only do it if you could have an open relationship? Yeah, I definitely wouldn't hide it. I wouldn't cheat again. I think that's not the right way to go. Yeah. No, I don't want kids. That's not going to have.
Starting point is 01:01:08 happen. No, I mean, I honestly, I would love to get in a long-term serious relationship with someone that still wants to have this lifestyle, you know? Yeah, yeah, that's open. That's in the lifestyle. I'm sure you hear tons of a couple. I mean, I have plenty of people on my show that are, have situations like what you're looking for, you know, it exists.
Starting point is 01:01:28 Yeah. And I've actually, I've had a female, you know, fuck buddy for a long time. Mm-hmm. It's probably eight or nine years now. and she's married. We're all into the same stuff. She's not into the guy on guy action, but she absolutely loves like the hot wife kind of lifestyle.
Starting point is 01:01:51 Yeah, she'd go out and fuck other guys for you and stuff like that. Oh, I would love that. I'm real into that. I really would love to have a relationship like that. We've talked about it, but she'll, she's also married, but she'll never leave her husband. Right.
Starting point is 01:02:09 Does she have kids and stuff maybe? Yeah, she does. Yeah, it gets way more complicated like that. You're lucky that you don't want them and didn't have them with your last relationship because I think a lot of people, if you had kids, you'd know, I have a kid. Like, I think it's really hard to devastate your child
Starting point is 01:02:27 and get a divorce. Not that it's wrong. I mean, you know, I think it's much better to get a divorce than to have the kid watch a horrible relationship. But it is very hard to do. And I think that that adds a layer to just walking out that maybe a single person that doesn't have that would never understand, you know, because it's not just, you're not just
Starting point is 01:02:48 making that decision for yourself. You're taking your child's feelings into consideration. And most people, their child's feelings come before theirs. So most parents put that shit aside. That's why you see a lot of people getting a divorce when the kids are, you know, in college and stuff because they don't feel so guilty they've left the nest. But it is a hard thing to do. Maybe you'll wind up with her. But I feel like nowadays, I mean, you're a young guy. You're 41. I don't know what age range you date, but you know, the younger generation are more open-minded.
Starting point is 01:03:17 I think you could definitely wind up finding a girl that's into what you are and being honest at some point and being able to have that kind of situation for sure. Yeah, someday, hopefully. But I'm not having any pretty strong. on it right now. Yeah. I mean, do you want to send it, you know, you want to make this a dating call? Any girls? You want to put an anonymous pick of yourself. What are you on a scale of one to ten, Tucker? You got a hot name. Tucker's a good name. Tucker's a hot guy's name, I think, that Tucker's hot. What is like, what are you on a scale, though, of one to ten? Oh, my God. I don't know. I'd probably say a seven. Yeah, most people say seven. This is the one question I used to always ask,
Starting point is 01:04:03 people too and I dropped off but like I you know I'm like why not so you're seven I mean that's that's a I'm not sure how to answer that like when I if I walk into an arcade or a theater um I feel like a 10 sometimes because all I get a lot of attention I get a lot of attention from the guys yeah and I do okay with the ladies too but yeah I realistically I'd say a seven well but do you have a good body Like, are you in really good shape? I mean, what do you? Because, you know, you said. I do, yeah.
Starting point is 01:04:35 Yeah, I think that guys are looking at that kind of thing. You said, oh, you have some guy that's like in his 30s that you see and he's got a really hot body, you know. I mean, I think that that goes a long way with men, you know, men are very visual. So if the whole package is really good. Yeah, and I do. I've always, I've always stayed really fit. So I'm, well, I'm like, I'm 6 to, like, 1,95. Tall and fairly good.
Starting point is 01:05:01 Yeah, and you're young. Remember age and size. That's what you said. Guys are interested. Age and size. You got a good size, meeting body, and you're not too old.
Starting point is 01:05:09 You know, you're 41. My last question is, how many dicks have you stuck? Like, what's the most you, you know, played with in one night? In one night? Yeah.
Starting point is 01:05:20 Nine. Nine. Yeah. So you count. Oh, yeah, I count. So nine blow jobs you gave. And what was that like at an arcade, It was at that bathhouse.
Starting point is 01:05:33 Oh, okay. And now was that a turn on to have so many guys at one night and one night being, I mean, you were kind of like a cum dump that night. I'm sorry to say. Oral cum dump, yes. Yeah, that was, that's always a great night. You know, I love variety. Uh-huh.
Starting point is 01:05:52 The best I've ever done in an arcade was five. Right. So nine with the bathhouse because there's just so many more people there. Yeah, exactly. But those don't exist. So typically you can a good night at an arcade as like five guys. Yeah. Typically, every time I go, I get one, sometimes two.
Starting point is 01:06:15 Three on a good, good day. And then every once in a while, you just have that night that's kind of off the charts. Yeah. But the pandemic really slowed things down. And now monkeypox is really scaring a lot of guys off, including me. Oh, you should be. fucking scared. I wasn't scared at first. I'm like, what does it matter? Like, it's a, it's, you know, you're, it's not, it doesn't, it's not deadly. I typically don't really care so much about stuff unless you die
Starting point is 01:06:42 from it, you know, but when you start to see what it does to your face and stuff and said like, oh my God, it could like scar you. I'm like, holy shit. Like that is something to be afraid of for multiple reasons. You know, yeah. And I mean, I've, I've lived this lifestyle. this long. I've been with easily over 200 guys, probably about 60 to 70 women and have never had a single STD. So I count myself very lucky. And I'd like to keep that going. Yeah, you don't want the one thing to be monkeypox. I mean, just when you thought herpes was the worst thing or AIDS. You know, I mean, like monkeypox is pretty bad. Like I said, considering because those pictures that you see online.
Starting point is 01:07:28 Oh my God. Scared the shit out of people. So, yeah, be safe. Thank you so much for calling in. Would you want to send a pick-in an anonymous pick for guys to see? I mean, people are going to be into it. Like, you know, you want to paint that picture?
Starting point is 01:07:43 I mean, you, the guy who's been on every fucking site since the day one, I mean, you would think. Sure, why not? Yes, we submitted. And I mean, and let me ask you this, because sometimes guys would be maybe hitting me up. like, oh, I'd love to get in touch with Tucker. I don't know if I'm in his area, blah, blah, blah.
Starting point is 01:08:01 Like, you know, would you want to give out an email or would you want them to email me and I forward it to you? Yeah. Yeah, you can forward it to me. Okay. Or do you want to just give out your email? That's easier. Sure. Why not?
Starting point is 01:08:15 Give it out. It's T-L-R-Tucker at gmail.com. T as in Tucker and it's L as in Larry, right? Correct. T-L. Tucker at gmail.com. Right? This will be interesting.
Starting point is 01:08:33 Yeah. Yeah, it will be interesting. You'll get some fucking emails. But if you want to see a picture of Tucker, I have them on my Patreon. If you want to email him, email him directly. It just cuts me out of the middle. I have too many fucking emails going on. Email him directly if you want to hit him up, especially if you're a woman.
Starting point is 01:08:48 I mean, I'm assuming you're getting a lot of guys heading you up. But maybe there's a girl out there. I don't know if you want to say where you live, but like, you know, Tucker's looking for a girl that's down for this kind of lifestyle. I mean, I get a lot of people listening to my show who are regular people that just are curious like I am and like to listen, but I also have a lot of people who are in the lifestyle.
Starting point is 01:09:08 You know, so maybe you will get hit up. You never know. Never know. Yeah. Yeah, thanks, Tucker. Thanks for calling in and giving me this story. It was interesting. Like you said, I haven't had it on for so long,
Starting point is 01:09:22 but I used to, and I know that it's super common. And it'll be, up soon. Yeah. Great. Well, thanks for having me. This was fun. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly
Starting point is 01:09:36 Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story.
Starting point is 01:10:05 There's a gang being girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person, and they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like Penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica.
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