Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1290 - Horny Women in their 40's, HRT, Slow F*cking, Dry Humping and More w/Layla

Episode Date: November 29, 2025

Layla and Kathy discuss horny women in their forties, HRT, slow fucking, dry humping and more. Tune in to hear all the details including how women in their forties are hornier than ever and why, how and why pellets are a game changer when it comes to sex drive, how peri-menopause is a woman’s ovaries hurrah and how that plays into why women are so horny during that time, how and why you don’t need to lose your sex drive after menopause, HRT and sex drive after menopause, how to get your sex drive back without hormones, the O Shot and what it does to your orgasms, slow fucks and why they’re so good, the halfway in game and why you should try it one day, Kathy’s experience of pellets, hormones during perimenopause and injections and which one she prefers, losing muscle tone and what to do to get it back plus a whole lot more. You can find Layla here: https://www.thecuriousgirldiaries.com To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord!  MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712  Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.  Sponsors:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://motorbunny.com/strictly⁠⁠⁠ — Black Friday Sale PLUS $50 off! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Use the code STRICTLY at checkout for 30% OFF your entire order⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — To get 10% off LOAD Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get your first month of the new Bluechew Max FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://brooklynbedding.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Use my promo code STRICTLY at checkout to get 30% off sitewide⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2536-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Use code ANONYMOUS69 to get 50% off your yearly pass plus a 14-day money-back guarantee⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://uberlube.com/discount/Strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Use code STRICTLY for 10% off Uberlube aka the BEST Lube EVER⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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The link to buy my book is over there. Everything is in the description. Now today I have my Fave co-host on with me, Leila, and we are talking about horny women in their 40s. We're talking about palettes. We're talking about hormones. We're talking about perimenopause and menopause. We're talking about injections.

We're talking about o-shots. We're talking about slow fucking and dry-humping and all that kind of good stuff. Girls are going to learn a lot from this episode. And guys are going to learn about it to take this information about women that we're giving to and take it back to your girl. Because it's super important, very informative and fun, okay? We talk about so much, like I said, I gave you the list there. So there's really no reason for me to go into a long ass intro. But I will tell you that I talk about the hormone place that I go to in the podcast, the link to D5 Medical.

That's the telemedicine company that I use to get my injections. I talk about it in the podcast. I have a code from them. It's Anonymous 24. You go to D5medical.com and use my code Anonymous 24. You're going to get 15% off your first hormone panel with them if you sign up. That link will be in the description. And I talk about them during this episode.

But it's super interesting. You're going to love it. So I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Layla. Hey, Layla. Welcome back to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you, you're like my co-host, my new co-host. I know. I feel like it.

I love it. It's fun. I mean, I like to do my Girl Talk episodes with people I know. You know, we could just like rap and you're my favorite. my listeners love hearing from you. Today we're going to talk about, you know, people have really wanted me to do like a hormones episode and talk about hormones and pellets and all that shit because I have so many women that have called into my show and been like, oh, I went on pellets and now

I'm having gangbanks. And I've also talked to a lot of guys who call in and email me or talk on my show about how their women are in menopause and haven't fucked them in 10 years or won't blow them, have zero sex drive, right? I've talked to those people. And then I've talked to women. I get the same too. Yeah, and then I've talked to women that are horrier than ever for some reason because they're in their 40s and they're like, they can't stop fucking.

And they're like, what the fuck's going on? I'm like, oh, that's perimenopause. You know what I mean? Like, that's like your last hurrah. That's what's happening. So that's what I want to talk about. Like, I think we should start from like the point of where women get so fucking super horny in their 40s. And that's why like so many women in their 40s are dating like 20-something year old guys because I'm sorry, I don't know about you, but I noticed in my 40s that guy.

in their 40s, even like the biggest players, when they get to like their late 40s. They can't fuck that much. They can't fuck as much as they did when they were in their 20s. You know what I mean? But when a woman is in her 40s, she could fuck a lot. Like she, you know, you want it a lot.

It's like, so I think that there's a perfect match between a woman in her 40s and the guy in their 20s because of what's going on hormonally. Same shit, right? I think. Oh, totally agree. Totally agree. Yeah, I definitely saw a big uptick,

you know, when I hit 40. in my just sex drive, it feels like, I don't know if it's your body's last hurrah or what the hell's going on, but, you know, I'm masturbating all the time. I mean, sometimes I can't stop fucking myself, you know, if nobody's around to fuck me. Well, I got out you. Wait, I have to out you. When I told you that this was the topic that I want to talk about, you're like, oh, I'm like, because I'm like, oh, you're still in that phase, right? You're like, oh, yeah, I fucked myself three times today or something like that. That's what you said.

Yeah, I know. I know. I did. That was yesterday or whatever it was. I know whenever we said that. But yes, I mean, you just, I don't even know. I feel like what I've asked myself, is this what it's like to be a man, like the wind blows. And I feel like my little click gets an erection. You know, and I'm like, oh, got to go home. You know, like, either I need to get my hands on somebody or I got to get my hands on myself. I think it is what a guy feels like. It's the same thing when women go on pellets. They're like hornyer than ever. There are people that. never had it like vanilla women that never did anything are now begging their husbands for gang bang like I've it's not like I only heard that once you know I heard that more than once from multiple women it's crazy and that's just like high testosterone and what what's going on it is a last hurrah I specifically read that in a book once about peri menopause I called it peri fucking menopause I went through it I'm on the other side I'm still as horny as you are now because

I take injections and I'm on hormones and we'll get to that because that'll get all that shit back when you finally lose it. But right before you lose it all and you flatline, it is the last hurrah. Because think about it. Remember, like, I don't know the guys know this, but like when women are ovulating when you're getting your period and you're just a regular age, you could be like late for work because you got to bang one out because you are so horny. Like you wake up needing to get fucked. And it's the animal in you that needs to procreate. Like your body is saying this is your time. You're fertile. Go out and fuck. And so I think. think what's happening in your perimenopause stage is it's like your body saying this is your last

chance as a female animal to do what you're supposed to do and have a fucking baby okay even though your eggs are busted by that age right you're gonna go out and fuck so and your hormones are they are I never realize this but you know your eggs are as old as you are by the way I don't think weren't you clueless I don't know about you but when I started to try to have a baby when I was like way older in life, I didn't realize that I wasn't like making eggs every month, like guys make sperm every month. I didn't realize that my eggs were as old as I was. Do you know that they are? Like, you're born with your fucking eggs and then they all go through and then you're done. So if you're 42, your eggs are fucking busted. They're 42 year old eggs. I'm sorry. They're old.

As old as you are. I never knew that. They didn't teach me that in school. Okay, I'm sorry. I don't know if I'm dumb or women are just clueless about their bodies. Seriously. I didn't know that, yeah, no, I didn't, I didn't know that either, but I definitely, what I am grateful for is knowing that, knowing this stuff now and being able to sort of tackle it preemptively because I love the fact that I'm super horny. I love that I love sex and I can have all these multiple orgasms and that sex is this much fun. And I don't want to lose that. So I've been able to sort of, I guess, get ahead of it. That's kind of how I look at it where, you know, go in, talk to your OB, get your blood pulled, see where your levels are at right now, and then make sure that you're maintaining that. That's been my whole push for, you know, when I went and got a pellet, was I just told her, I said, you know, look, I'm not in menopause yet, but I want to be preemptive. I love the way I enjoy sex, the way it feels, how into it I am, the sex drive that I have, and I just don't want to lose this. And I don't think that women have to lose it. You know,

I think you can be proactive about it and maintain it. Well, let me just tell you, there's two different ways to keep it. One is to go on hormones and remain on hormones. And another one is to be fucking during the transition. The reason why most women lose it is because it's like the perfect storm. At the same time that you're losing your hormones, you're stuck with this person that you married when you were 25 or 32. No, I'm sorry.

And you're like 20-something years later, three kids later. that guy is sniffing up a storm and flemy and he's got hair growing out of his ears and you're just like not interested in fucking him anymore and that's and so people aren't fucking their husbands like all the time what happens is it's kind of like if you don't use it you lose it and it's a very true statement I talked to a woman the other day and it was a crazy story about a woman who's hot wiping a regular vanilla woman off the streets and I loved her story because she was a woman who went through menopause flatlined had zero sex drive and it was the type of thing where when a woman gets in menopause, this is what she'll say. And I was at this place before I went on hormones. It's like you're not horny at all. You never think for sex. But if you're a guy like starts to go down on you, you'll get like wet and you get into it, right? But you'll never think about it. And that's where she was at. And that's where a lot of women are at in hormone in menopause. It's like they never even think about it. But if you start having sex, you're like into it and you can have an orgasm, but you just never are going to think about it. Right. Like that's the problem. The urge never comes over you. It's like weird. It's like you're like, you're like, you're like, dead on that part of your body. And she was that way. But let me tell you, her husband got her into

hot wiping. And she started to fuck like a mad woman and fuck a lot of guys. And the more she started to use it, the more it came back. And now it's like she's on pellets. She's like fucking tons of guys. Her sex life is back in overdrive. And it just goes to show that she just rebuilt that connection. She's on no hormones. She's on nothing, except she just started to have a ton of sex, right? Instead of just, oh every now and then when you like decide to give it to your husband kind of thing you got to go into overdress so it's like use it all the time like just fucking masturbate constantly that's what i tell my single friends like if you're not partnered up when you're going through that change like you lila you got to be fucking yourself three times a day every day as you're going through it and then you

won't lose it right that's it's about totally that's what it's about there's physical things that we won't get into in pari manipause that are negative like besides the positive where you're just fucking horny and that's what we're going to focus on. to the fun parts of perimenopause. Hey guys and girls want to boost your sex drive and your overall experience in the bedroom with your partner naturally? Well then you need to start taking some drive boost

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I did. I did. Tell people about that. You know what? It's so funny. I've got to find a way to upload this to my private podcast because I recorded the whole process videoed of me getting the O shot. Oh, really?

That's interesting. Yeah. I'm, you can see my legs up in the stirrup. You don't get to see what the doctor's point of view is, but it was, let me just tell you something. First of all, it is painless. Okay, they shoot it in your G spot and they shoot it in your clip. What they do is they take your, okay, hold on.

I know that sounds awful, but listen, they take your blood, they spin it down, they take the platelets out, and then they inject them into. your G spot and directly into your clit. That's why I recorded this because you go in, they numb you, and they just numb you with the topical, which I was a little leery of, I gotta admit, because I'm like sometimes that topical shit doesn't work. Well, I'm just here to tell you, it worked.

I didn't feel one thing. That's why I videoed it. I'm sitting there talking to her the whole time. She's like, okay, we're done. I'm like, we're done. I did not feel it going into my clit. I did not feel going into my G spot, but it works. What does it do?

It turns your, it supercharges your pussy. It makes you super sensitive. Okay. Yeah, I mean, super wet, super lubricated. If you talk about horny and throbbing, like that will get you going. You will want to rip strangers off the street and hump their legs. I mean, you're just, you're fired up. And I love the sensitivity.

And speaking of that, I've just got to go get another one. But there, it really is amazing. It does what it does. It, let's see. It probably lasted about four months, you know, to where I was just super. Yes, yes. But here's the thing. Now, this is not some wackadoodle science.

You know, the using your own platelets for healing. They've been doing this with athletes forever. It's regenerative. I mean, it just, it has all these wonderful things that it's, used for medically. And so it makes sense that, you know, it's going to stimulate that area, get the blood flow going, get some growth, you know, if there's any nerve endings that kind of need to reconnect. It's just, I don't know, I don't know all the ways it works, but you could Google it, Oshott, it's amazing. And I would, I would tell every female like, run, do not walk, get it done.

Wow, I've never heard of that. I never got that. I stayed like through pari menopause, like I was like horny as shit. I was like banging Jim from the gym. G. I am from the G. Y. I am. Right.

Like that's what I. He was perfectly. I love that. He was a slow fucker. I told you he's fuck slow. I was like, you told me a slow fucker. I need it.

You know what? You never had a. You never had a slow fuck? I did have a slow fuck. I called him golden retriever. And, um, yeah. Yeah. My little golden retriever and he was a young guy and he did.

He loved it was the, we did the slow morning. fucks. Oh my God. I just and his, you know what his dick was it was just average size, but it was perfect. It was something, he knew how to use it and oh my God, we did these slow fucks. Yes, that was my guy. I think he fucked Jim

from the gym. My guy was young. Okay. His dick was not that big. Did he move to Florida? No, no. He, his dick wasn't that big and maybe it even looked smaller than usual because he was so jacked up from the gym. He was a big, beefy, dude right i loved his body and he so he just had a regular size dick right and but he fuck slow

and he fuck slow all the time not just in the morning and it was just very slow and i never had that before and it was the hottest thing ever it was great like he never just like went faster it was little like this slow fuck and for some reason it really works and so i suggest people try the slow fuck for guys especially like even if you're like your regular fuck you know every now and then throw in a slow fuck it's super hot oh It is super hot. And you know what? It's underappreciated.

So we need to bring back the slow fuck. Slow fuckers to the front of the line, please. Yeah. I mean, it's nice. It really, you know what? I love a good slow fuck. You know, because you can feel, you can actually feel every part of his penis. The whole shaft, the head, every ripple, every vein.

And I like that. I'm all about that. It's true. That's what I think it's about. Do you know about halfway in guy? Did I ever tell you that sad story? That's not sad, by the way. No.

No, no. I don't. I think that a Mormon's called this soaking or there's like a term for it now, but I used to call it the halfway in game and people would be like, why the fuck do you even bother? And I'd be like, you don't understand. You should try it. So I had this guy. He was like my best friend. We were like the best friends.

And we were like all of a sudden we hooked up one day. And he was so petrified because he had like commitment issues to like actually go all the way with me or start dating me because he was like, oh, you're my best friend. and we have all this chemistry, and the minute we fuck, like we're just gonna get married. I don't know, he was like a fucking psychopath. And trust me,

I was a psychopath then too. So we started dating. And we have this incredible chemistry, but he won't fuck me because he's like the minute we fuck, it's so serious. So let's wait. So what he would do,

because we would be so horny for each other, is he would take his hard dick. And he would put it in halfway into my pussy, but he would not move. And he would not allow me to move. And he just keep it there. inside without moving and we would just make out and I'd be soaked and it would be so fucking hot and I'd just like cough or kind of move him slightly and that the slightest movement of anything

would throw me over the edge and people would be like what the fuck that's so boring I'd be like no it's so fucking hot that I would literally play the halfway in game with other guys in the future and be like let's do this thing where you're just going to put your dick inside me and you are not going to move for 30 minutes and we're just going to make out and touch each other and be dying to fuck each other. And then the minute you move even the slightest bit every now and then, it takes you over the fucking edge. Because you know, if you think about it, when you're actually regularly fucking somebody, you're like, you need it harder and faster. Why? Because you're getting used to whatever is going down. So if you don't have anything like you just said with the

slow fuck, the slightest thing becomes so fucking intense. And so I think like Mormons, like I said, call it soaking. Like they do the halfway in game. And I'm telling you. I'm telling you. you, it is like super hot, like play the halfway in game two after you slow fuck one time. It really works and it's the hottest thing and you need one stroke will throw you over the edge after you're sitting there for 30 minutes with a cock halfway in you and like doing nothing. It's like the slightest movement is like a haven't. I'm totally down for it. I would so do that.

I'm going to put that on my list. I've got to find someone that's going to slow fuck. Actually, I know who can, I know who I can do that with. Nico, my little submissive guy. Yeah. Let him slow fuck you. And then, oh, yeah, well, so he's a submissive. So he's into denial.

So you're going to be denying him by that halfway in game. That's what half, like, I realized when I was doing my show that I am very into tease and denial. Like I have dry humped as an adult, okay? And people would be like, people made fun of me for that too. And I'd be like, oh, yeah, I dry hump this guy for like 45 minutes last night. I was like soaked. You don't know what I mean? Like wet spot on my pants with clothes on.

And people be like, what the fuck's your problem? I'm like, there's something so hot about doing stuff like that. But I am into tease in denial. Are you the same way? Are you into tease and denial? I like to be the one that's denying someone more than I'm being denied. But yes, I can get into it. I could be the one that's denied.

If I'm in the right mindset, yes, I will do that. Maybe 20% of the time I'm down for that. Well, the halfway in game is a big denial for both people. And I mean, maybe that's why I like it so much. That's why I like dry humping. I like the other day my booty call came over and I was like, I have to do all this stuff. So I'm just going to give you a blowjob and I'm not going to do any.

thing like I can't I don't have time to get off like I'll just like service you you know and he's like okay well let me just like go down on you for like one second so that I could get like hard you know so he started and then me just knowing that I wasn't allowing myself to have an orgasm that time all of a sudden I got like super horny and I was like oh my god you need to and I had like the best orgasm ever and I'm like oh I just mind fuck myself into having the best orgasm ever because I wasn't going to allow myself one and so I'm a weird person I think like I have that weird thing where I like tees in denial but That's why I think I like halfway in game, but your guy who's the sub will love it because you're going to not let his dick move. Do you understand?

You are going to forbid his dick to move, but it's going to be inside of you. And you're going to be making out with him, turning him on, making him dying to stroke. He loves the make out. I love guys that love to make out. Me too. It's hot. That's hot. It's a loft art.

It's not as appreciated as it should be. It totally gets you, especially for women. God, it will get you so wet. Like, make out with your girl. Like, give her 10, 15 minutes of it and don't do with a half end game. And I'm telling you, she's going to be. Well, listen, making out is always the first thing that swingers, like, take off the table. And they say there's no making out.

But then it's always the first thing that goes out the window because, A, what you just said, women will need a little foreplay. And kissing is a foreplay. And second, you know, I think what people realize is that, yeah, kissing can be very intimate with someone that you really care about. but it also could just be dirty and hot too when you're making out with someone. Like, don't you think it's like sex? It's sexy too.

It's not like you have to like like like like someone to make out with them and it be hot. But I get that it is intimate for some people, but it's also like super hot making out. No, it's super hot. But if you think about when when you were younger and you used to, you know, when you first started exploring sexually and you would make out with somebody, you knew that was all that was on the table. You were just making out. And it was, you know, you would get as a young.

woman, you would get excited and turned on. And that's all you needed. Like that in and of itself was erotic and hot enough. But we kind of move away from that when we get older, but I still love it. Like a guy that can make out and just do all that stuff for a good while. Oh my gosh. Yeah. That's why I like the dry humping. That's what I try to explain to people. Like because when you get older, you could do everything and you're just totally naked and you're doing everything. Like try doing stuff that you did when you were like 17. Like it's like fucking hot because you're like oh you can only dry hump you know like it's it makes I don't know if you go back and like you said like into those days where you could only make out. I had a guy that we denied ourselves and were like we can't

fuck anymore because we were too into each other and we had a dysfunctional relationship and one day and we were only allowed we weren't even allowing ourselves to make out with each other and we laid on top of each other one day and for like 45 minutes just like stroked each other and moved our mouths close. I don't know it was like. like the hottest thing, but I like that shit. I can get into it. I love that shit too. You know what I'm saying?

Yeah, you're reminding. Yeah, no, you're totally reminding me. I had this guy I made out with, and it's funny when you said 17, like I had this flashback. I was making out with him. This is before I, you know, even had sex. And we were making out. And he had this belt buckle on.

And I was sort of grinding on the belt buckle. Now, he didn't know it. But, you know, I'm just like moving my hips. And I had an orgasm. I didn't tell him, but I did. I had to get off on his belt buckle, you know, just. It did because after all that time of the making out and the slow, like, sensual touching and teasing and all of that, boy, I was ready. And I was just like, give me something to grind on.

His leg wasn't cut in the mustard. So I had to get up on the belt buckle. Of course. And you could get back that energy when you're older. First of all, listen, when you are in parimenopause, like bringing it back to what we're talking about. Like, you are horny like when you're 17. You are a horny like a 25-year-old guy. Yes.

You are. I love it. Seriously. And the good news is for women that are going into menopause too, like I'm horny like that now because of my injections. Like they do get me there. And I did go on the pellets because when I had all the people on my show talking about the pellets, I ran the fuck out of my house and got pellets. Okay. Because I was like, oh my God, like I want to see what it feels like to want to have a gangbang. I've never looked at even gang bang porn. I could care less about it. Right. I'm like, I'm going to get those pellets. But the only thing I didn't personally like about pellets, but this doesn't happen to everybody. but it happened to me because my metabolism is very fast and I work out a lot. It sort of went out of

me very quickly. Like in two months I felt like there was nothing left and I definitely felt like a roller coaster. I felt like it built up and the hormones became peak. And when it was peak, a woman walked by me at the swimming pool where my son takes lessons and I like saw her ass and I got turned on. I'm like that's how horny I was. I was like I was like a man like you said, right? I was like, what the fuck? Like that has never happened to me with like some girl's ass. Walk by. I'm like, what the fuck?

You know, and that was the pellets. But that lasted for like a short time, like at peak position. And then it went down from there. And I was like, I don't want to take that ride all the time. So I went on injections. But some people don't feel that up and down thing with pellets. But the key is like having some hormones and having testosterone in there with the estradi and the progesterone.

When I went through perimenopause, I will say for the bad side effects that you're going to have on top. of being fucking horny and I don't know if you have any of these now. Lela, they come and go and they're every other day and they could be like one day you could have joint pain in your body that you feel like you have arthritis or you have like cancer and you're dying because every joint in your body is so painful you don't know what the fuck it is. And then it goes away and you never comes back for three months and then it comes because what's going on in perimenopause is your hormones are so whacked every day. You cannot track them. There is no like concoction of hormones

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Go on a very low dose of hormones during paramedopause to take away the sleep problems and the little bit of the impatient like impatience that starts to come over you and like, you know, because I was having a baby when I was 46. I was like I can't be like a Karen. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. Yeah. I got to be in a good mood.

I'm sorry. Like I told about that recently I was in the store and there was like full-fledged care and that looked no older than like, you know, 48. And she was like screaming at us because we bumped her with our cart. And I told my son, I'm like, you see my injections I do every day? I do that. So I'm not like her poor woman. Like she needs some hormones. You know, you just go mental when you start losing them.

But I took a very low dose esterile patch and a very low dose progesterone cream during that time and it really took the edge off. No hot flashes, no sleep problems. None of that stuff that starts to come on along with the crazy, you know, sex drive. like eventually that stuff comes and a little bit of hormones during that time will never totally regulate you, but they will help. And it did help me take away that stuff. But it wasn't until I got on the testosterone too that I felt the best effects, which is the sex drive too. You need esteradile for sex drive. A lot people think it's just testosterone. It's not. You need some good levels of estrogen, but you also need the testosterone. And when I went on injections, which are the best,

that's what took me over the edge. And I love it. I'm horny all the fucking time. Like, Yeah, I'm, like I said, I'm moderating. It's funny, I'm going on Monday to go, you know, reconvene with my OB and we're going to talk about like what, you know, what else we can do. I mean, I'm all about it. I just want to, I just want to prolong this and maintain this stage that I'm in for as long as possible. It's so, I don't know, it's just life is so much better when you're having orgasms and you want to have orgasms and you want to have orgasms and you want to connect with other people. Because like I said, for whatever reason, I had that three and a half year dry spell in my 30s. And I don't know, like, I never want to go back to that. Like, I just don't want to go back to that. So I'm being as proactive as I can, trying to get as much information as I can. And a lot of women, you know, the information's out there.

But, you know, women need to kind of, I think, be a little proactive about it and know, hey, this is coming and you don't have to go through, you just don't have to go through all that bullshit, you know, that you don't have to suffer through it. You can maintain your healthy sex drive and good sex with your partner or your partners and keep things enjoyable. Yeah, and you don't have to turn into a Karen, you know, so he's like, you know, I don't know. That's the best way to put it. Yeah, you don't have to turn into a Karen.

No, and you will if you lose all. I don't know. It just, you know, listen, I don't think everyone. Every single person will get hot flashes. Not every one of my friends that goes through menopause. I think people that are very reactive. I'm a very reactive type of person emotionally. Like I'm a hot head.

So I am the hot flash personality type. But it's not every woman will have hot flashes. But what a lot of women will get is like you wake up in the middle of the night and you can't go back to sleep. You know, and that starts to affect your moods. Because if you don't have good sleep, like you get like fucking crabby. And that's like it's like all these things start to pile on. And it happens so slowly, I think that sometimes women don't really understand. understand it because nowadays there is more information out there. You have sent me a woman on

YouTube that talks a lot about menopause. That's super interesting. And there's so many women on Instagram that are talking about it. And Hallie Barry's out there fucking talking about it. But nobody was talking about it five years ago. Okay. Nobody. And women start to go through pari menopause. I call it Perry fucking menopause. I wrote a book with a doctor. I did the cartoon. She wrote the book. And I'm like, women need to know this shit. It's a certain time in a women's life, forget about the horniness, where women start to go to 5,000 different doctors thinking they're dying because they have 5,000 different things that are happening to them. And they don't understand it's all perimenopause.

It's all hormones. Do you know that estradiol is like a fluffer in your body, right? It's a fluffer all over everything. And so when you lose all of it, when you go through perimenopause and it starts to dip down and stuff, all that fluff around your joints goes away. And what happens is you start to feel pains in your body that could have happened to you when you were 12. Like say you fell off a fucking bike and broke your arm. That pain is that it is there that the esterile that was in your body was fluffed over and saving you from is no longer there.

And that pain comes back. Like there's just so many different weird things that happen. And women go crazy. And I'm sorry, like you, your OBGYN sounds great that you actually talk to them about this thing. But most of the time, OBGYNs are of no help. They know how to deliver babies. They know how to deal with young women, but they're not there to help you with menopause. And if you want to go to a menopause doctor that specializes in it, they're all off the fucking insurance. I used to pay $700 a pop to go see my lady out of pocket, hormones out of pocket, you know. Nowadays, what's great, okay, is they have telemedicine places where you could go and you could get all the blood work, all your injections. And injections, by the way, are very cheap, okay?

A bottle of testosterone and estrogen estrogen, like $70, $70 each one. And they last you for like four months. Okay, so do the math. No, wait, can I ask you? Let me ask you. Yeah. I'm going to ask you this. So are you, it's actually like, are you taking, drawing it out of a vial and injecting

it? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So listen, I can tell you about people that are afraid of needles. I was petrified, okay? I was a type person that would have a panic attack if I was going to get my blood work once a year to get that needle in.

First of all, it's not that kind of a needle because it's not going in your vein, right? It's going subcutaneous or in a muscle, right? And so, but when I went through IVF, and I was a very natural person, I never took one thing. I never took antibiotics. I was like a very natural, very, very healthy person. I don't eat sugar. I don't drink dairy. I don't do gluten.

Like, I'm that kind of person, right? Very, it takes supplements. So I was like not interested in needles, hormones, nothing. And when I went into IVF, I did a lot of IVF to have a baby, I had no choice but to do it, right? By the time I did IVF, I did nine or 11 IUIs that failed. So when I got my bag of. fucking medication and needles, I was horrified. I literally paid to have a nurse come over and do my first shots for me because I was so afraid

to do them myself. But once she came over and did it, I was like, that's it. Like, you don't even feel it. Like, it's no big deal. And now I got to tell you, I don't know what it is, but I'm like, I would have been like a great drug addict because I love the paraphernalia. I love getting out my needles and my alcohol pads and laying them out and going through. and then putting up the vial

and then I backload them and then I inject. I like fucking love it. Like I love everything about it. It is so much fun. I don't know about you, but that's what I am. So yeah,

I do it all myself and you don't even feel it. Like you don't. Like seriously. I do it and I do it in my shoulder because like, you know, it's going into my muscle right there but subcutaneous or intramuscular or it doesn't matter.

It still is going to go into you. So I don't even know if I'm hitting the muscle on there. How are. How often do you have to do it? Well, most people do it two times a week. I just had a meeting with my person and they said, oh, you know, you get less side effects from the testosterone because like I told you, I laser off all my hair on my body when I went before I had my baby, right?

And it never grew back for eight, nine years. I was like, fine. But ever since I was going on the testosterone, I was growing back some hair and I was like, oh, fuck, you know, I don't have time to go back to laser hair removal. But by the way, I know the best laser hair removal thing. not a sponsor. This is not a sponsored ad. It's the you like 10. You buy you like 10. You take that at home. You use it every day. Go over the same spot three times a day. Your hair will be fucking gone. It actually works as good as a place. Okay. It's like the best thing ever. I had to get that. But I was a little

freaked out that I was like growing hair back and stuff. But I wanted the testosterone there because when you have testosterone as a person that works out in the gym, I couldn't get muscle back if I worked out 80 times a week for 10 hours a day. But once I got the testosterone back of my body, I am fucking jacked up from doing nothing. Okay, wait. That is, okay, can I, that is what's going on with me right now.

You need testosterone, yeah. Losing. You're never going to get it. Yeah, I'm losing muscle. See, that's, that's why I'm going back into my OBIA on Monday because of that. I want to change some things around. I, no joke, Kathy.

I mean, normally I'm like, you know, I'm much, you know, I'm a tall person. I've always been slim, but I am in the 12, you know, 125 right now and I'm 510. And I'm just like, what is going on? And I feel like, and I feel like I can't build muscle to save my life right now. And I'm losing it. Yes, you won't.

Yeah, you won't. And it was scary because like after I went on my testosterone and I went back to my guy, I know the next year, I was like up so many pounds. And I was like, what the fuck? Like, I don't know that heavier. But it was all the muscle came back. It was all that heavy muscle. I was like, holy fuck, I came back that much muscle.

immediately the minute I got my testosterone to me. If you don't, if you don't have testosterone after you get into metaphors, you will not be able to build that muscle. I think it's impossible. I was going to the gym. Listen, I'm a working out fiend. I was working out when I was younger with the guys in the back when no girl was. I was way ahead of my time. Guys in the office where I worked used to yell at the girls and be like,

don't work out like Kathy. You're going to look like a minute. And by the way, I had the best body out of anyone. So I don't know what the fuck anybody was telling people for. Like you could have just looked at me. I looked fucking great. always because I was working out the way all girls work out now, by the way. They're all doing squats and lunges and pull-ups and working out with free weights like I did. But I was doing that

since my 20. So I was like always fucking jack because I was a skinny girl. And for me to have like a good shape and stuff, I would need some muscle. Right. I never look like a man. Okay. Sorry. If you want to look like it like any girl is afraid of working out to look like a man, you're never going to. If you really actually work out and see how much work it takes just to get the slightest curvature of a muscle in your arm, you'd have a lot more respect. for any girl that has a slight curvature in her fucking arm, okay? Because it takes a lot of work to build muscle. But if you do not, Layla, as a woman, have testosterone in you, you will not be able

to. And that's what happened to me. When I was doing that low dose stuff through perimenopause that was really helping me, my lady would not give me testosterone. She was not in that mode of giving it. And one time she actually did, actually, and she was like, oh, it's high, right? It's in the high range. You got to go off at it.

But nowadays, if you go to people, these people that are optimizing hormones, they don't care if you're high. They want you to be high. High for your age is not high. Really, it's where you need to be. My doctor was old school. She's like, you're high. Get off of it.

But now I'll be in the high range, but I stay on it and all my muscle is back. And you need muscle. It's so important for your body. And you're going to have to go on a little. You know, go on the pellets. You love the pellets. The pellets will give you that back. Or go on injections.

Injections are great. They're steady. They're all the time. You could change them a little bit. Like recently I changed it to do it three times a week instead of two times week because my doctor said if you sometimes some people feel the effects the negative effects of testosterone less by um you know doing it three times a week instead of two but some people don't want to do the needles i'm like no i'm obsessed with doing the needles i'll do it three times a week and i mean so

i do it three times a week yeah and it's really really good and i use defy medical they're like a well-oiled machine you could go to them they're based in florida but they're telemedicine so you do it all over the phone everything is done over the phone they send you all your scripts you pay for stuff a la carte, but it winds up to be so much cheaper than if you went to a local doctor that's out-of-pocket menopause specialist or anti-aging center. You know, it's very cheap if you ask me and you go every three months, you're always being tested. And what I love about them is I could test any time. Like now that I just changed to my three times a week, I want to check my levels. And I can. I could just go in and order the labs like 200 bucks. I don't mind doing that, but they're not

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I know. No, seriously. And it just kind of happened over this past year, I'd say, all of a sudden. You know, and I'm like, what the fuck is going on? I don't feel the strength, you know, like that I used to have and stuff like that. Yes. You don't have the strength, right? And you're not going to have the strength.

But you're going to get that all back with a little testosterone in you. You're going to get the strength back to lift like you used to. You're going to have less aches and pains. And you're going to get all, because there is muscle memory. There is something to that, right? I could take off from working out for three months and then go back. And in one month, I got all my muscle back from doing way less than somebody else because there is muscle memory and that is a real thing.

But there is no muscle memory if you don't have testosterone when you get a little bit older you need it. And you know, guys take testosterone. You know, for women they call it B-H-R-T and for men they call it T-R-T testosterone replacement therapy. Yeah. Men could use some testosterone too because they lose it as well.

That's why that guy, like I said, in their 40s, can fuck you once when in their 20s they were fucking you five times. And that's why women in their 40s, that's why when I was in my 40s, I was banging 25. year old from my gym because he could fuck like I fucked. It's 40-something year old guys were because they're losing testosterone too. Oh, I know.

That's what it is. It's true. The young guys are very fun for that because they're hard dicks. They just stay hard and they can go and go and go. And when you're horny at this point when you're in perimenopause, you just want to, you just want to go and go and go. You can just fucking fuck like these long like four hours, six hour sessions. Oh yeah.

I'm down for that. Yeah. That's like when you, it's like you come full circle as a woman, you know? and it is your last hurrah and it is a great time and then I feel like if you want to stay through it you could either do one of two things you could you either like go on a little bit of hormones like it sounds like you need them not for the sex drive but for the muscle but it's only going to keep your sex drive there or you fuck a lot like this woman that I talk to and because I always love talking to women that are in menopause that are doing like crazy things on my show right like having gangbangs

and hot wifing you know and I'm always like are you on hormones or not and it's not like of them are like the women last time so you if you're still doing it and you know because listen sometimes women in their 50s just met a new guy right and so they're having like the best sex of their life they're not with that guy that they've been with all together you know forever and they're not fucking him once a month they're with their new boyfriend right and they're fucking all the time and they're fine they don't see a dip in their sex drive so you got to keep that connection going and if you're so lost hormones will bring it back like fucking clockwork or you got to like start fucking all lot and do it like homework. Like when I wrote the Perry fucking menopause book with the doctors, the two female gynecologists, like one of them, like her summer, she would do a seminar on menopause and I went to it just to

like vet her to be one of my writers. She was kind of famous. She was a cunt though. Let me tell you. I won't say her name. She talked about how a woman needs to masturbate every single debt. Like you want to keep it. Like one thing you have to do is like masturbate every day. 30, like that's a part of the her homework.

You know, because she wasn't like promoting hormones and stuff. But, you know, do that. That'll help. Because listen, some women are very afraid of hormones. I think there's a lot more information out there for women not to be. And people are, it's changing. People's idea of things in hormones is changing nowadays. I'm never one to push anything on anybody. Right. I did my research. I'm not afraid of hormones. I'm actually very for them. But I understand if someone is and there's other things you could do, fucking jerk yourself off every single day for 30 minutes or go force yourself to fuck your husband. every single day he'll be happy and it's good for you it'll get you that back i love how you put

that force yourself to fuck your husband i don't know about you but like that's why i never got married because i'm like how am i going to be attracted to the same person for that long could you i know no yeah i mean i think it's because they love them they stay attracted to them i don't i don't i can't i can't answer it i mean we're both weirdos You and I are, we like each other so much because we're alike. The other thing, we're very much alike. And we're uniquely, both of us have never been married, which is kind of unusual. And both of us never wanted to get married.

We're both Aries, though, and I hate to say it, sorry people, I believe in astrology, not to the point where I'm going to read my fucking horoscope, but I'm sorry, I do think you could buy into it. Most Aries, like, you know, if anyone's not going to get fucking married, it's an Aries. It's a very independent personality type, you know. I never had the desire. Totally. And I also think to myself, like, could you get, stay attracted to the same person?

But you know what? In a weird way, Leila, I think to myself just now, what just flashed in my head is like, I am so boring and dull that I will have like the same booty cold guy for seven years, eight years, like, you know, and in between me and I'll be with other people. So I'm kind of like, well, I stay attracted to them. So why wouldn't I be staying attracted to the same guy? But it's like, I'm not seeing them every fucking day. So I think that that always.

used to freak me out. Like, how do you stay? And I think a lot of women aren't that attracted to their husbands after 30 years. Sorry. Right? I don't know. I agree. No, I do agree. Yeah. You just, I don't know how you keep all of that as hot and heavy as it was in the beginning. I mean, even with, you know, even with all my long-term casual relationships, you're not, it's not the same, but it's still hot, you know. Yeah. You do work at it. But I don't want to be legally, bound to somebody. Well, that's our own weirdonness. Most people that are listening are like normal people that got married,

like fell in love, like, you know, me and you, like, you know, we're very similar in that. And that's a little bit more rare. And, you know, surprisingly, shockingly, if you talk to a guy about a pre-nup, they don't like it. It's very funny. I'm like, um, why don't they like it?

No. I have no fucking idea. Because they, oh, because they, Because all of a sudden you say that, and then they kind of turn into women. They're like, well, that's admitting that it's admitting defeat. That's admitting that you're going to be divorcing. And I'm like, no, that's actually just being logical and saying that there's certain things we should agree on because there's the love portion of this. And then there's the legality portion of this.

And when we part ways, if we part ways, hopefully we do not. But we just should agree up front on what that's going to look like. who is that great guy that we both love? I need to get him on my show. That lawyer guy. I want him on my show too. Yeah. I like him.

He's sexy. Oh, yeah. He's hot because he, you know, listen, at this point of my life, if I were ever to date someone, it would have to be somebody

that I enjoy talking to. That's really all that someone needs to bring to the day. Yeah. I just like somebody that is very into like deep talk and real talk and is fucking smart. And this guy is like the smartest dude on the planet. What's his name? James. James.

James something. Wait, James. Oh, it's like a weird. name, Sexton, Sexton. James. Yes, James Sexton. He's a New Yorker. Yeah, yeah. New York's, his Instagram is NYC divorce lawyer. He goes on everybody's podcast. I have to email him and see if he'll come on my podcast. He's a very famous divorce lawyer and he talks about divorce and marriage and he has so much experience because he's talked to, you know, these couples that are in wretched divorces for so long and not wretched divorces. You know, and he sort of has become like a marriage coach, right? Like,

he's not just talking about lawyers stuff. He's got so much insight. I love, I know. Yeah, he's interesting, not because of the legality aspect. He's fascinating his take on marriage and all the information. He's like this huge database of what he's seen over his life. Yeah. He's become like a like a life, like a marriage coach. He's like, you know, talking about other things and just like talking about relationships in general and marriages in general on how to be and how not to be and stuff. And he's so super interesting. People have to follow him. We have to get him on our show. He's just so big now. I mean, he goes on, he's like became huge because he was on, someone sent me his YouTube

video on Soft White Underbelly, right? His YouTube appearance. And it went viral because every sentence that came out of his mouth to me was like brilliant genius shit. Like so simple. So like, oh my God, why didn't I think of that? This guy is so effing smart and he's so right on the money. Like I was like passing that YouTube video onto everyone I knew.

And that's how it went viral because everyone felt the same way. No, I just, I agree. I absolutely love him. He's fascinating and I love his insights on relationship. I think he's right on the money. Why don't we get him? Maybe we should email him and see if he wants to come on and do like, we could double team him. Let's have a threesome.

Oh, I like that. And then we could say you get two for one. We'll call it James Sexton. We'll call it James Sexton's first threesome. Yeah, yeah. Let's do an MFF with James Sexton. And we can, and we could tell him like, we'll both air it on our episode. You tape once with us, but all aired on my show and you aired on his show.

And we'll have like a threesome with him. Would you be down? I would be down. Of course. Oh my God. I would love that. Yeah, we got to get him on. And that's going to be a good one because he has such great marriage advice.

Me and Layla can't give you marriage advice because neither one of us was ever married. I give it anyway. I do. I give it anyway. You know why? Because I've a zoomed out approach. People can't see the forest to the trees when they're married. They can't.

Yeah. That's why you go to other people who aren't, you know, directly involved with your problem. They can see it better. Yeah. I think James Jackson is divorced himself, but he's still giving out advice because he knows, you know, he was married, been there, done that, kind of got divorced. Let's try and get him on the show. Thanks for calling in and talking to me about all this stuff. I think it's a super helpful informational episode that people will get a lot out of.

And not just for women. You know, I think women will get a lot of out of this. Men do. Yeah. who have women that are going through this, you know, take this information to your girl. Okay. You need to know this stuff as well. So you could understand where she's coming from. If she never brings up sex, bring enough for her because most likely once you start, she'll get into it and keep doing it and pushing her to do it more because the more she does it, the more she's going to get back in touch. And if you give her that kind of

information, it could only help. And I think sometimes women just don't know enough about what's going on. at, you know, that time in her life. So thanks for calling up and discussing it. And why don't you tell everyone where they could find you? Yes. Well, again, it's always great to be on your show. I love it talking with you. This is a great subject.

I'm super easy to find. I just tell everybody, go to my website, thecurstreldiaries.com, and you can find my podcast there. Links to my podcast. Of course, I'm on, anywhere you listen to podcasts, same place you listen to Kathy's podcast. You can find the Curious.

Girl Diaries. Also on my website, you can link to all my socials. And you can also leave me a voicemail, where I, you have five minutes and you can comment on anything that you want, ask me any questions, and I get back to everybody personally. All right, awesome. And I'll let, Layla, I'll put your link to your website in the description. Yeah. All right. Bye. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now a Not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show.

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coming out August 25th, but you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint, okay? There's no way you get into my Discord any other way than getting the link from me, okay? I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content, with each other and that's what you get to do there. You could post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total strictly anonymous community and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is email me a

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