Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 131 - Trey Discusses his Upcoming 24 Hour Blow Job Challenge

Episode Date: June 20, 2016

Trey is a submissive guy who hosts events where he blows as many guys he can within a certain amount of time. He's already held a 12 hour "blowjob challenge" and now he's hosting a 24 hour "blowjob c...hallenge" and he calls in with all the details. What exactly goes down at these "events? What are the rules and regulations? How many guys did he blow at his first event? How many guys does he plan on blowing at the second event? Tune in to find out plus hear a little of the backstory on Treys submissive love of giving guys bjs. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Conversations with online strangers. We place ads online. Craigslist is definitely the gift that keeps on giving. Real people respond. You go to Singapore or Thailand. You can't not do it. The temptation is just too much.
Starting point is 00:00:18 Does your friend know that you're banging her? No, he has no idea. And anything goes. Mottow of the show, let your reflect lie. Probably the only good advice I'll ever give you is to re-hide your whips and check. Here are your hosts Kathy Kay and Tommy. Hey, welcome to strictly anonymous podcast for Kathy. If you want to follow the show on Twitter, follow the show at Strict Anonymous, or follow me at Cartoon Therapy.
Starting point is 00:00:42 If you want to be on the show, this is a call-in advice show where I give people my unprofessional advice. Also, a lot of people call in to talk about their secret lives or just to talk about interesting stuff that they do in their life, which is what I have on today. but if you're if you fall into any of those categories you want to call into the show and be a guest I'd love to have you on sending me an email at strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com again that's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com if you're a listener of the show and I know I have tons and tons of listeners I need tens and tons of reviews so if you can write a review that would be great Today I have on a guy named Trey And Trey came recommended by somebody who was a listener of a show
Starting point is 00:01:31 Who had attended one of his blowjob challenges He's hosting what he calls the 24-hour blowjob challenge But what happened was before the 24-hour blowjob challenge He hosted a 12-hour blowjob challenge Basically Trey is a guy who loves to give head I think that's like the only thing he does And he sets up these events where he blows as many guys as he can within a certain amount of time.
Starting point is 00:01:59 Like I said, he did the 12-hour, and now he's sitting up a 24-hour one, and he calls in to explain all about it. He gives the details of his last event. He gives the details of what's coming up at his new event. We talk about the rules, the regulations, what goes down. It's very interesting, and we also talk about his history, how he came out, which is interesting. to his family and what went down in high school when he first started acting out sexually
Starting point is 00:02:28 and giving blow jobs and all that good stuff. So anyway, I'm just going to get right back on with Trey. Do you have a story, lifestyle, or situation you can't talk about to anyone, to anyone? Or do you just want to let your freak flag fly and be on the show? Well, Strictly Anonymous wants to hear from you. Send us an email, Strictly Anonymous podcast. at gmail.com with your story and your anonymous name and remember everything is strictly anonymous strictly anonymous okay hey tray welcome to strictly anonymous podcast you're on the phone with kathy how are you i'm doing great how are you doing this evening i'm doing good trey so i got an email from a listener of my show who told me that he took part in an event i would say quote
Starting point is 00:03:29 unquote event. I don't know what you call it. Maybe you have a name for it. That you had a while ago that he attended. And it was, I just read back on the email just to remind myself what it was. It was like you had set up, you in one night or one day or like a lot of hours, because you give 30 minutes per blow job. You did like 24 blow jobs, right?
Starting point is 00:03:53 In a 12 hour period, you did like 30 minute blow jobs, right? And you did 24 of them. Is that how it went? Or how did it go? Or 12? That is correct. Yes, we went from about three on Saturday afternoon to about three in the morning, Sunday morning, Saturday night, whatever you want to call that. And we just scheduled people in 30-minute increments.
Starting point is 00:04:19 And it wasn't really a party. It wasn't a sex party, but it was just bringing people in one at a time. And yes, just giving them blow jobs, one after another, after another, after another. Okay, and I'm going to have a million questions for you, but let me just ask you really quick one. First of all you say, first of all, who's we? No, I have like a lot of. I have, okay, I have one other person who helps me, who he kind of helps organize everything. You know, it's, I don't want to say who he is, but he is a person.
Starting point is 00:04:57 He is a, it sounds funny, but he's a project manager. Right, no, I was going to be like an assistant. Okay, right. And so he did all of the details. And then the both of us kind of worked on scheduling and trying to get people in. And so it's basically another person. It's a friend of mine who did this as well. Okay.
Starting point is 00:05:31 Although he didn't participate in terms of giving or receiving or getting or whatever. Well, yeah. Well, he got, but he didn't receive. It depends on which way you mean that. I always say it backwards. You blew him? I blew him. Right, but just like as a thank you, like as a thank you?
Starting point is 00:05:54 Or was he a part of the whole, was he a part of the 12-hour thing? Well, he was, no, he was not actually part of the 12 hours. Right. We had, yeah, we had a whole group of other people. Right. So you just, like, gave him a tip for doing a good job. Pretty much so. Right, right.
Starting point is 00:06:14 Okay, so wait, do you? And he's, yeah. And he's helping me again. And he's helping me again on this next one. Right. How many have you have? But go ahead. I'm how many what?
Starting point is 00:06:24 How many of these events have you had so far? Is this just your second one? This will be our second. This will be the second one. Okay. And we're trying to, yeah, I'm sorry, go ahead. No, you go ahead. Well, I was going to say, and we're trying to double it this time.
Starting point is 00:06:40 No, I know. That's what I was going to get into. But let me just ask you real quick that you give, you do one blowjob in a half hour. When you say you'd get people every 30 minutes, what does that mean? Like a couple people every 30 minutes? minutes. You don't spend 30 minutes giving one guy a blowjob, do you? Well, you know, it's a funny thing. What we did last time and what we're trying to do this upcoming time is we allocate a 30
Starting point is 00:07:06 minute time slot. And some guys will get off in three to five, six minutes. Some guys, after 30 minutes aren't even directed yet. So everybody's different. And so it's, so those who get off quicker, you know, it gives me a little bit more of a break. Mm-hmm. And those who don't, then we just kind of keep going and just see where the schedule is. But we tell everybody that if you're not done 30 minutes, which is not what you want to
Starting point is 00:07:52 tell a guy because if you tell a guy that then they feel like there's pressure on them and then they go oh i don't you know i can't do that uh and so yeah there's a there's a there's a there's some pressure when we say that but uh i think i don't know somebody came and said you like a blowjob and i'd say yes and they'd go great you have 30 minutes otherwise we're done right it's it's it's It's a little bit more pressure than just enjoying it. But yes, basically we scheduled them in 30-minute increments. Right. And it must be hard to coordinate because if someone gets that in five minutes
Starting point is 00:08:36 and the next person isn't there, then you're sort of waiting around and then the next person goes late. How many people did you blow the first time again? Was it 24? Well, it was officially, we had 24 people in, but... But we actually, there were a number of people that went a second time. And so it was probably closer to 30. But it just, it all, I don't know because I don't remember because after a while you kind of lose count.
Starting point is 00:09:13 But you're just kind of going from one person to the next to the next to the next. But sometimes if they, if you'd be amazed, some people, some guys will come in five minutes and they're ready to come again in another five minutes. Right. Uh-huh. Another ten minutes. And I know a lot of times guys don't think that, you know, women don't think guys can do that. But trust me, they can. And they do.
Starting point is 00:09:42 And sometimes they can turn around. Sometimes guys, once they come, they're going, I'm out of here. I'm going to sleep. Thanks. You know, I mean, everybody's. Or they're going to take a shower. I mean, where do you do this? Right.
Starting point is 00:09:59 Where do you do this in a hotel room in your house? We're doing it in a suite downtown. And we're doing it in a two-bedroom suite. and so we're allowing people to if they want to we're bringing in lots of towels and they can shower if they want to beforehand afterwards but we do it in a suite downtown and we make it as as fun as we can can, but it's not a party. That's why when you first said an event, I think it's more than an event. It's not a party.
Starting point is 00:10:47 We're not trying to get 40 people, 50 people there all at once. What we're trying to do is to schedule them out. But what they can do is they can come forward and they can get there no more than 30 minutes before their time. We actually bring in, and I say we, it's basically me. Right. But I'll have alcohol, tons of alcohol, tons of non-alcoholic beverages. We have porno playing, and they can sit in the front room and wait.
Starting point is 00:11:31 And so if they want to shower, they can beforehand. They want to shower afterwards they can because there's a shower off the main room in the suite. and then when it's their time, I just bring them in and they come in and they we do our things. Right. So now, I can't wait to go back and like sort of get all your history and like how this all started and stuff, but really quick, like is your co-pilot, that guy, what are we going to call
Starting point is 00:11:59 him? What's his name? Let's call him your helper. Let's call him, let's just call him, John. Okay. John. I'm speaking of regular name. John, okay, so John's out in the room, like managing those other people. So there's probably no more than two people in that room at a time ever, right? Or you try to keep it at a minimum out there, right?
Starting point is 00:12:24 Because you don't want those guys, like, sort of hooking up or anything, or do you even care? Okay, so, okay. Okay, you've opened up another good question. Because there's two rooms to the suite. I mean, there's a main living, the main living area. You call a living room. I don't know, just with a couch and the TV and the balcony. But then there's two bedrooms.
Starting point is 00:12:50 I'll be in one bedroom. And then what we have in the other bedroom is we've asked, and we're going back and asking people from our last party if they are willing to spend up to three hours. just eating, drinking, and being married in the other room. And the reason for that is because, and you may know this, you may not, but a lot of Craigslist people are flaky. And so what we get is they are, in essence, the backups.
Starting point is 00:13:28 And so every, so we have three people every four hours that we are trying to on board. We haven't, we haven't filled it up yet. This is again not going to happen until the end of July. I don't know when you're going to air this so it may have already happened by the time people hear this, but it's not going to happen until the end of July, but we want to have people on standby so that when something, somebody doesn't show, there's somebody else there. Right, because this time you want to do 50, right? It's fifth, right?
Starting point is 00:14:14 Explain what the next event is going to be about. We're trying to do 50 people in the 24-hour period. And what we're going to do this time, we didn't do it last time, but we're going to actually ask them, we're going to use
Starting point is 00:14:32 lipstick, not Sharpies, but lipstick because it can wipe off a lot easier than a Sharpie can, but we're going to number them and take pictures. And everybody can see, everybody can see that we have gone through this. And so what we're going to do is this. We're going to go for 24 hours or 50 hours, whichever is the greater of those two. You mean 24 hours or 50 people.
Starting point is 00:15:03 You said 50 hours or 50 people, right, whichever is the greater, right? I'm sorry. Yeah. Yes, I'm sorry, 50 people. Right. Yes, whichever is greater, which means that if I, if I can do 50 people in 12 hours, we're going to do 50 more, right. We have 12 hours more to go.
Starting point is 00:15:18 Mm-hmm, totally. And after 24 hours, if only 34 people are done, we're going to try to keep going. That is our goal, is to reach those two goals. with minimal breaks and just keep it pushing and going along just to see what we can do. And why do you have this goal? Like, is this something that your document, like, are you doing a documentary? Are you doing a porn? Like, are you shooting this, writing a book?
Starting point is 00:15:53 Is this just for your own pleasure? Like, I'm just a pervert. You don't sound like one. It's like it's so interesting the way you're talking about it. sounds so not perverted yet it is right i mean i mean i mean not that it doesn't sound perverted your voice and the way you're talking about it doesn't sound well the thing is is that i've you know i have you know i've and again this is bad sexual behavior your listeners shouldn't do what i'm doing and you need to preach that but i have worked i have worked glory holes i have done everything
Starting point is 00:16:29 but what we're trying to do now is just to set it up and we're trying to wonder if this can't become more of a common thing. We did the last one in April, I think it was, I think it was at the end of April. We did the last one. And then if this one works, we're going to try to do another one in August. We have a lot of people coming back,
Starting point is 00:16:55 and a lot of those people coming back are inviting other friends to join us. Where do you advertise to get these people on Craigslist and assume it? Typically Craigslist, we go to a grinder. We also have a ton of gay bars and we also have bookstores that allow us to post things. And we have cards that we've made that go out to the bookstores in our city. Oh, interesting. So book, I'm assuming gay.
Starting point is 00:17:28 people that are like in the gay community or guys that, you know, look for this kind of action know that that goes down in bookstores like that or that you could find, get that information in a place like that? Because I would never know that you could get that kind of info at a bookstore. You know, at that kind of bookstore.
Starting point is 00:17:46 But I would, I will tell you the last party and this can be an entirely different conversation, which I can't tell you about. I would say about how of the guys I blew had a wedding ring. Yeah, but why is that in a separate podcast?
Starting point is 00:18:03 You know how many podcasts I've done with those guys on my show? I mean, yeah, I mean, that's what we're going to get into all that. I love that kind of information. It's so interesting. I don't know. Yeah, I'm just saying I just don't know anything about, you know, why or how or whatever. I mean, you know, they just do. I mean, I know why they do.
Starting point is 00:18:23 Yeah, yeah, totally. I'm just saying, you know, but, you know, but about half of them had, wedding rings on. And it's funny because that's one of the things I notice when they come in is, you know, wedding rings. When you're a turn on, you can't tell. Right. That is a turn on? For me or for them? For you? I mean, for me, it's, you know, I don't know how graphic to be, but to be a cock is a cock is a cock. Oh, okay. So if you're married, if you're straight, I don't care. if you're 18 or if you're 65 I really don't care but you what you do like though but what does get you
Starting point is 00:19:08 because different things turn different people on right so like some people would maybe get into the fact that like oh I'm you know blowing a guy that's married and he has a wife you know some people would get I would assume there would be people that would get totally turn on for you though it must be you like the number thing you like to know that you're like you know you have 50 cocks in your mouth right like in one day i'm a submissive person right i'm a submissive person and that is what it comes down to is is is just and that's why we kind of when uh what was his name joe is that what we said joe joe or john
Starting point is 00:19:51 something with those two names that we talked about before the podcast the boring names the people choose John or Joe, it doesn't fucking matter. It's the same shit. Okay. The John guy. Yeah. It was John. It was John.
Starting point is 00:20:05 It was John. The helper. But when we sat down and started to discuss this, this was all about, you know, let's just, he was like, let's just see how long we can go. And then he was like, no, let's actually set a goal. Let's actually make it something that we can measure. And spoke it like a true project manager. Right. Exactly.
Starting point is 00:20:32 And he was like, let's do it and let's get through it and let's see where it goes. And then at the very end, let's talk about, you know, how tired you are, how tired your jaw is. How do you feel what's going on so that do we do it again at the same rate? Do we try to raise the rate? You know, the level. I don't mean rate because we don't charge anybody. But the rate so that it goes up a little bit higher or what do we do? So obviously at the end of that first one, you guys discussed, you know, how your jaw felt.
Starting point is 00:21:11 And you must have felt fine because you were like, I wanted to. Right? I want to like almost double it next time. Like that was cake. Yes. I mean, that was not a problem at all. Right. Let's go through the rules.
Starting point is 00:21:23 You send me a bunch of rules, and I don't like the less information I have before a podcast, the better. So I barely read them because I just want you. You know, I want you to explain them so my listeners could hear them because they were pretty detailed. And you send this out to everybody, right? Well, we have a lot of rules that we just want to keep everybody confidential safe and protected and have a good time. That's our ultimate goal by doing this. And so one of the things we've done, before I talk about the rules, one of things we've done is this time we have a friend who is a security guard and he's going to actually be at the hotel door. And I know that sounds weird, but he's going to check everybody's ID to make sure they're 18 or over.
Starting point is 00:22:11 And people can cover up their names and addresses. We don't care about that. We just want the picture and the date to be okay. And then we have no guns allowed, no weapons, no knives, nothing like that allowed in. No drugs whatsoever allowed into the hotel room just because we can be liable for that. And people can smoke. When I say no drugs, I understand alcohol is a drug. but we mean you know what I mean by drugs yeah um and so we don't allow that to come in and then um then what
Starting point is 00:22:57 they can do is uh and and those are basically the majority of our rules wasn't there a jizz rule wasn't there a jiz rule of like whether you come on someone's face or in their mouth or well yeah i was gonna i mean that's not a rule but yeah that was going to i was going to go into the bedroom in just a moment. That was just in the outside, but in the living room area. But then once you and if you know, if you
Starting point is 00:23:24 and so people can show up 30 minutes early, they can sit down, they can watch TV, they can watch porn. We're going to have gay and straight porno playing. And they, and there's food, there's alcohol, there's all sorts of stuff. And
Starting point is 00:23:41 and so people can at least sit there for a few minutes ahead of time. There's a bathroom there. They could, again, they can go to a bathroom, they can shower, you can do whatever they want to do. Then we also have, we're going to buy, we already bought them, but we have a stack of masks that look like, I don't know, they're just plastic masks that go over your face. And so when you walk in, you can wear a mask.
Starting point is 00:24:13 so if you want to be totally anonymous oh I'm thinking like I was like what is the mask for like some sort of cleansliness thing I'm thinking but you mean a mask like to cover their face yes and we also have bandanas we have masks for bandanas and so if because
Starting point is 00:24:33 you know if if you're going from one to one 30 and somebody gets out or somebody came at 1230 they get out one you guys are going to pass each other in that room. And so maybe you just don't want to be seen. Right.
Starting point is 00:24:52 Now, did you have that rule in the first time? Or did you pick that up? No. Right. So did people get freaked out about that the first time? And that's when you realize? Yes. Yes.
Starting point is 00:25:01 People, there were people that put their t-shirts up over their nose and kind of going, I don't know you, you don't know me. And so now we're trying to make it. So now we're trying to make it like the mask is, I don't want to say, we're trying to make it part of it so that people can go, this sounds better and it looks better and it feels better. You can stay, dare I say, strictly anonymous as much as you can. However, the security guard, he doesn't have to know who you are, but he is going to look for, you know, your date of birth and weapons and drugs and things like that. Right.
Starting point is 00:25:48 But apart from that, where there's everything else is totally anonymous. You don't ask for pictures, because you said a cock is a cock as a cock, right? So you don't care what these people look like. Do you post a picture of you? Do these people want to know what you look like? Or nobody really gives a shit about that kind of detail in this situation? Some people do. some people don't. So we're going to, we're going to, let's get into the rules inside the room in just a moment.
Starting point is 00:26:19 But let me just tell you just so, so your listeners know, because that's a good question. You know, I'm in my young 40s, I've been, I've been doing this since I was, and maybe this is a longer conversation. Maybe I should finish the rules first. But I've been, I started sucking cock when I was 13 years old. Yeah, we'll get into that. after the rules. I won't forget. Okay. Okay. Just remember that and we'll go down that path in just a moment. But, okay, so when
Starting point is 00:26:51 they come into the room, they get to it's basically up to them and everybody's different. Some people, they just like to unzip their fly and that's all they want to do. Sometimes they want to drop their pants and that's
Starting point is 00:27:07 what they do. Sometimes they want to strip down completely and that's what they want to do. Sometimes they want to stand, they want to sit, they want to lie down. Sometimes they just want a regular blowjob. They want deep throating or they want a face fuck. And so you have all these options and it really is just totally 100% up to them. And so when you saw that email that I sent you, which is what I send to them,
Starting point is 00:27:36 it's telling them they have all these options of just making it their phone. fantasy and they can put me in any position they want any way they want and and just having I hope one of the best blow jobs in the world one of the things then I ask is that they could come back afterwards and go could you email me back and rate me and tell me what I could have done better. Just give me a rating. This is a submissive in you likes all this stuff, right? I mean, that's why you get, yeah.
Starting point is 00:28:20 It is. But I want to know how I could, I mean, what, you know, everybody likes different things. Totally. And so, you know, and so I can, so I want these people to know that this can be the best you know blow job and if you don't like it you don't like it maybe you don't like the way I did it tell me how to make it better and just give me your input and so I do that as well and so I think that's what kind of input did you get the first time
Starting point is 00:29:00 did did you get anything like I'm saying it wasn't so great or you should have done this or anything no okay we got we got nothing we got absolutely was messing the first time. Everybody was, you know, I, you know, show, blow, go. And that was it. And that was it. And it would have been nice just to hear
Starting point is 00:29:25 how to, you know, just different styles, techniques, just different things people like. But you must know, if you've been blowing guys since you're 13, years old and you've been doing this and you've probably super promiscuous as your whole life right you probably know how to give a good blow job and as a woman I've given a lot of blow jobs right like and I give good blow jobs and like I've been told and like I think that if you're really
Starting point is 00:29:58 into blow jobs like you could sort of figure out like there's not a lot of different I mean there are different things right when you're blowing someone but there's the basic stuff and if you could really pick up the vibe of the person you kind of know but I mean it's not like there's a million things to do that it would be like oh every person is so different you know what I mean? Well
Starting point is 00:30:21 yeah but you'd be surprised you'd be surprised how many people how many guys don't like to be deep throated oh no most guys don't even care let me ask you this can you could do that and you like that you could deep throat yeah uh-huh okay
Starting point is 00:30:39 And so, but when I deep throat, they're like, ooh. Yeah, a lot of guys don't care about it. I'm surprised. But other guys are going, you know, I've never been deep-throated. So what does it feel like? What is it like? And other people are like, I've been deep-throated and I hate it. And other people go, it's the greatest thing in the world.
Starting point is 00:31:05 Yeah, but I have found with most of my guy friends that even the, ones that they have they don't really care that much for it how come have you ever been deep throated like as a guy like from another guy I mean I know you're submissive yeah and do you like it um no I just prefer
Starting point is 00:31:23 I mean I mean the reality is this and you know I don't mean to be too graphic but the reality of a the reality of a blow job is that if you're good at it all you're doing
Starting point is 00:31:39 is you're sucking blood to the head. And a lot of people don't suck the blood to the head. But if you suck the blood to the head, it makes the skin expand, which means the nerve endings are more exposed. And then you use your mouth or your mouth in hand, and you're just giving them a mask. They could do it themselves.
Starting point is 00:32:04 It's just basically masturbating somebody, but they're just lazy. Right. You know, I don't mean to sound quite that way, but that's really all it is. But the mouth is involved. There's like, you know, and the mouth is very moist and it's wet. So it maybe like is kind of like, you know, there's not just the hand. But I could use, but I could use oils and stuff.
Starting point is 00:32:27 I think the main thing is. Oh, guys love happy endings just with their hand too. I mean, I've had guys tell me that two hands could do shit that no mouth or pussy could do. Right. But I think for most guys, eventually the blowjob ultimately, and I can be totally wrong, but I think ultimately it becomes a head game. It is them just feeling taking care of. And I think it's more mental than, I mean, I don't want to say it's more mental than physical because it's, you know, And I don't mean emotional because once they come, they don't give a shit about you. That's not it. But I think it becomes more mental.
Starting point is 00:33:18 It becomes the blood job is the thing that makes them feel really good is the fact that you've taken care of them. They didn't have to do anything in return, in my case. you know and that you're down there doing something and and I think for a lot of them it's just the mental head game I guess what do you mean like yeah I guess I mean I think isn't all but you could say that about all sex you know what I mean it's but I think that you know guys love a good blowjob I mean you're like you're not you don't just give right like you receive to right I'm assuming you consider yourself gay right and you're out of the closet. Yes, but
Starting point is 00:34:04 yes, but the ratio of giving to receiving is very off-balanced. Because you're submissive, right? And have you always been submissive? Yes. Right. So I think that you, I think
Starting point is 00:34:21 the more of the mental mind fuck is with you, like, I think you need it, I think it helps for you to believe it's that way or in your mind to frame it that way because that's the turn-on for you as a submissive, right? Because that's what it's all about, right? Sort of servicing somebody else and doing what they want, right? Yes. But I also think that's, but I honestly think for a lot of people, a lot of guys, that's what it is.
Starting point is 00:34:47 And I may be wrong. I mean, I'm not, I'm not diminishing the physical part of it. But what I'm saying is that there is a, there is a, I think there's a mental part of it. well. And that's, and I think for a lot of guys, that's, that's what it's about. You know, I think particularly in the gay community, in the, in the straight community, I think guys are just going, my wife doesn't want me anymore. And therefore, just come on over. And, you know, I could, I could bring over an oven and oil and just go to town. And they would be happy. because it's something different. But I think for particularly the gay community
Starting point is 00:35:41 that after something much deeper, but I don't know that for a fact. Well, you've been, I don't know, because I'm not in that community, but you are, you've been, have you always been out of the closet? Let's get some of your backstory. We got all the rules, right?
Starting point is 00:35:56 You don't mind if they come on your face, right, and you swallow, I'm assuming, right? Correct, correct. and you don't there's no other sex going down right like you're not getting fucked in the out like you're not into any of that other stuff right that well that that is correct yeah all I do is just blow jobs and that is it but in your regular life when you're not at these events and doing hosting these events like when you're with your lover like is the guy Joe or John your helper like your lover too or do you have a partner no
Starting point is 00:36:29 no have you ever been in a long-term relationship No. Okay. And I feel bad for that because I feel like I could have been and it can be, but I don't feel like, and you know this, and I think your listeners know this. I mean, I think many gay relationships can be very long-term and endearing. But I just haven't been. No. All I do is just, all I do is just suck people off. Just get blowjohn. But that's where I find my pleasure. Right.
Starting point is 00:37:04 But how come, when you say you feel bad that you've never been, how come you have, like, have you ever been in love with a guy? Have you ever dated someone for any length of time? No. How old are you again, 47? Yeah, no, 44. Okay. But no, there's, no, but you ask me two different questions.
Starting point is 00:37:27 Mm-hmm. Because have I ever been in a long-term relationship or have I ever been to love with somebody? Yes, I have. But I've been in love with them because they were, they had a beautiful cock and I got to suck it. It wasn't because it wasn't because I wanted them to come over and exchange Christmas gifts with me. Right. So you've never been in love, love, love. I don't think I've ever been in love, but I've had relationships for longer than, you know,
Starting point is 00:38:00 three days, you know, longer than a blowjump. No, but let me tell you, yeah, I've had people I've sucked off for, you know, 10 years. Right. And they've had those long-term booty call situations. Yeah, and you get to be very close with those people and love them like a friend. Yes, but still, I don't love them. And we're not in a relationship. Like I said, don't come over at Thanksgiving.
Starting point is 00:38:25 Don't come over at Christmas. Uh-huh. You know, unless you're coming, unless you're coming over. Do you ever, so in your personal life, like with these guys that you're, you hang out with and you screw, like have you ever had anal, like you don't do anal sex at all with them? No. Have you ever had anal sex? I really don't.
Starting point is 00:38:49 With a guy? Yes. Okay. Do you like it? No. Have you, were you a receiver? Were you like a top or a bottom? you don't like you don't put her either you don't
Starting point is 00:39:00 no I was the bottom and I just didn't like it no I just didn't like being a top um well I mean isn't that like how it goes like if you're not interested in being a bottom then you like are a top like you've never been into like sort of being the top I think it goes back to
Starting point is 00:39:21 you know um um um just you know there's this whole I think there's this whole thing of, you know, what you just said is, and there's nothing wrong with this, but you're just, you're applying labels to words.
Starting point is 00:39:43 Totally. I do that all the time. I mean, or to people, labels to people. You know, it's like your top or your bottom. Oh, you know what? If I get, if I get fucked 10 times, does that make me a bottom? No, but you know what's interesting? I got to tell you this is the only reason why I say that,
Starting point is 00:40:04 Trey, is because I've talked to, like, a bunch of gay guys on my show. And, like, it really, it's really interesting. To me, I have found that a lot of the times, like, more times than not, like, someone is either a top or a bottom, they don't go back and forth. Like, it was interesting, you know, and that's just the way that it goes in that world. No, you're totally right. No, you're totally right. It's like saying to a woman, a woman, you know, are you, you know, do you want to blow me or do you want me to fuck you in a pussy?
Starting point is 00:40:41 Well, both. See, and that's the opposite because, yeah, you're absolutely right. I think a lot of gay guys go, look, I'm just here for one purpose. But I look at myself, you know, I'm, you know, I don't want to give too much away, but I'm in the Chicago area. and we've got this whole Chicago thing going on right now, but it's all about top and bottoming, and I don't want to get into a lot of it because I'm not supposed to share much about it,
Starting point is 00:41:12 but it's all like, are you on the top or the bottom? They have these parties now, and I go, let's get past the labels, and let's just go and do, I mean, it's the same thing as saying. No, no, no, no, but come on, Trey, you have to understand if they're doing the same thing that you're doing and they're putting together events, okay? And they have to say that it's you're very,
Starting point is 00:41:34 you are the label person too. I mean, because everything about your event is very precise. You are very exact. You are very specific about everything. So don't you think when they are just saying top or bottom, they're just being specific just like you are for their events? Right, right. But if I were to go out with somebody,
Starting point is 00:41:56 it might not be the same way. although it is because that's all I do. But that's why, you know, you work glory holes or you do other things, but it, because you can suck cock. That's what you like. It is about, right, yes, for me. And, um, but don't you think tops and bottoms? It's the same thing for them, just like your thing.
Starting point is 00:42:20 That's what I'm, right? So that's the only thing. I want to focus on you because you're fascinating to me and I have a zillion questions and I can't make my podcast two hours and I want to get everything in. So let's get back to you specifically because I want to go back to that 13 year old that gave his first blow job. But so let's go back to that. So like you're 13, right? You've never had a relationship.
Starting point is 00:42:42 You're 44. On a scale of 1 to 10, I always ask my callers this and sometimes I forget and people get mad at me. What do you rate yourself on scale of 1 to 10 as far as like looks are concerned, like the whole package? You know, I'm 5 foot 9, 157 pounds, I think. I work out. I jog every day or not every day, but five days a week. So, you know, I try to do everything I can. So are you 8.5?
Starting point is 00:43:19 I don't know. You know what? I mean. Come on. Oh, you're such a submissive. I'm going to be very dominant. I'm going to be the, I'm going to be the. Well, let me tell you this.
Starting point is 00:43:29 Yeah. I would rather have sex with nobody else than me. So that makes me attempt. Okay, there you go. You know, I don't know. You know, because I don't, you know, I still have all my hair. I still have. So you look good.
Starting point is 00:43:47 Most gay guys look fucking good. They take very good care of themselves a lot better. than straight men, okay? At least, I don't know, gay men have like the, like, way better asses than straight men. Like, I've been to those gay parades and, like, every guy has the best ass
Starting point is 00:44:02 I've ever seen in my life. I'm like, what the hell is going on in the gay community that they all have, like, the nicest ass imaginable. I think they just work out a lot more than straight guys. I don't know what it is. Do you know what I'm talking about?
Starting point is 00:44:16 No. I'm an ass girl. Like, I like asses. Like, I notice them on people. you know and I just noticed that like gay men always have like great asses I'm just talking about like that's because yeah but that's because we don't go to the clubs because that's I mean there's there are gay places where we go and work out and and that's where we you know meet people as well right and you have to look and I hate to say that no there's nothing wrong with it I have my my old co-host that used to be
Starting point is 00:44:49 on my show with me owns like one of the most successful gay bars in the city city and he's straight. He owns a really famous gay bar on the city and that's why I've been to the parade. I've been on his float. I know a lot of gay guys from his thing and I know everything that goes down. So now you're 13 years old, right? And like, who did you give your first blow drop to? Did you always know when you were a child that you were gay and you had those tendencies? Yes, I think so. Okay. And so what happened at 13? How did that go down? Well, let me backtrack just for a second because I think even, I think as a five, six-year-old, it wasn't even that I was gay, but as a five-six-year-old, I felt that there
Starting point is 00:45:33 was a submissive vibe in me. How come? What gave me that idea at that young age? I felt like I should be, I felt like I should be working and serving other people. and that's as a kindergartner. Yeah, that's crazy. Right. Right.
Starting point is 00:45:58 And so, and, you know, and again, there's probably volumes that could be said about that. And I can't tell you much about it. I'm just telling you how I was. I was in the suburbs of Chicago in the school. And we had some kids there, and they were, you know, I'm going to be, I'm going to be totally anti-politically correct right now. And this is horrible because I shouldn't say this. But it almost was like I enjoyed being bullied.
Starting point is 00:46:33 Really? Interesting. That's a bad statement to make because I don't want anybody to be bullied. Yeah, we all know that. We don't need to make big statements on this show. I get it. That's just you. That's interesting that you felt that you're not making. a statement for anybody else we all know that okay you're you though like when that was happening
Starting point is 00:46:56 to you though on some level like that was like did you get like aroused from it yeah i'd get i would get a hard on yeah right interesting yeah so that's definitely that's interesting i wonder if other i mean i'm sure right i don't you know i have had more of the um dominant people on my show is that the name Why am I forgetting? Like there's submissives and then there's doms, right? Yeah. I've had more of the doms on my show than the submissives. So it's just like interesting to me.
Starting point is 00:47:27 I'm assuming, do you know where there's submissives? Like, is it the same thing for them that this kind of stuff went down when they were younger too? I don't know. Again, that's what I was saying. I don't know. And I wouldn't call the other people who bullied me as doms. No, I don't think that they're bullies. But I felt like.
Starting point is 00:47:48 You know, when I was growing up in this, you know, big town, I was going, God, I just, this is great, you know. And I don't, I don't know why. Because you were being really, right. And they would do things to me. And it was, it was a different sort of environment. What do you mean they would do things to the bullies? Like, would they sexually abuse you? No.
Starting point is 00:48:16 Okay. No. They were just bull to bully you and do bully things to you. And for you, you liked it. They would, yeah. They would hold me down. They would slap my face. They would, I would get hit in the gut just a lot.
Starting point is 00:48:33 I would get, you know, they would trip me and things like that. Everything that should be a bad thing. And it is a bad thing. But for some reason. And somehow you were wired. to enjoy it. Something must have happened, like that wiring was there. I don't, listen, you know,
Starting point is 00:48:53 we could get really hardcore into that, but I feel like there's so many much more interesting stuff to go into, yeah. Well, let me just say there's nothing with my parents. You know, my father passed away when I was six, but it
Starting point is 00:49:09 had nothing, it had nothing to do with daddy issues, mommy issues, or anything like that because everybody always just immediately goes, oh, the parents is the upbringing. And I think what you just said was the actual answer is there's got to be some
Starting point is 00:49:25 wiring up there. Yeah, and somehow you were wired that way and then that, you know, you got that when that happened. In a weird way, you're lucky because that kind of, instead of like that bullying sort of like really traumatizing you like it would
Starting point is 00:49:41 most people, you got a heart on. The next kid next to me would have killed himself I mean if there was one he would have committed suicide and people do or stuff like that when it happens right right right and I'm out there
Starting point is 00:49:59 jerking off to it not as a five year old but right right totally so what happens when you're 13 how do you give your first blow job who do you give it to I was a friend I was over to a friend's house and and he was
Starting point is 00:50:19 we were just playing around and we were doing like truth or dare and different things and I don't remember the actual game but I got him to take his pan sauce and it was it was just
Starting point is 00:50:41 you know there's two 13 year olds just going to town and How far did it go? You blew him? Did he blow you? Did you guys have more? Like did you do anal?
Starting point is 00:50:56 Like what else did you guys do? Like how far did it go? Just blow jobs? No. We did oral. We didn't even ejaculate. We were too stupid to know that we could go that far. I mean, we were masturbating long before that.
Starting point is 00:51:10 Right. We didn't even masturbate the first time. Right. Okay. So, but then you guys started to get it on after that? um yes yes we got on up until he moved he moved to i think north dakota or some it doesn't matter right but how many years later it was uh play 15 i'm not not 15 years he was 15 at the time i think right so just a couple years did people get did people find out or do you guys keep it a secret
Starting point is 00:51:41 Well, you know, back then it was, you know, yeah, you kept it a secret, but there was, it was slowly creeping out of the closet. In the 80s, everything started to kind of go, we're getting a little bit better. In the 90s, it was, we're more accepted. But still not there yet. I mean, we're still not there now today. You know, we see Orlando. A lot more now, though, than in the 90s even. I mean, I'm 47, so I grew up in that time, so I know.
Starting point is 00:52:20 But you kind of knew that, you kind of knew the people in our school. And I graduated from a school that had 3,200 students. And so we sort of knew who was in the clique and who wasn't in the clique. and things like that. And so eventually, yeah, it just expanded and expanded. And then I went to college at Purdue. When you say expanded and expanded, what expanded? The people knowing?
Starting point is 00:52:58 No. No, the activity. Oh, I didn't know we were getting to that. Okay, I was a one. Okay. So you just started. So what people got when that you were like, you know, gay or and like so then people started late and then you got you started hooking up with them
Starting point is 00:53:13 let me yes let me just tell you the most obvious statement you'll hear in your life and you already know this guys guys want a blowjob right i mean guys want a blowjob i don't think that's changed in the last 20 000 years right and it won't change in the next 20 000 years i don't know how long there have been blow jobs going on, but I don't, I just, they've always wanted them. They always will. And so, and I'm not sure, but there's two types of guys. Those are going, I'm macho and no fucking way. And there's other guys going, yeah, I'll have one.
Starting point is 00:53:57 Right. And then you have, and then you have the religious right going, yes, I'll have one, but I'll just lie about it. Right. But So when you grow up You just When the word starts to leak out
Starting point is 00:54:16 It's kind of like The proverbial And I'm not trying to sound condescending But the proverbial slut in school You know Who was that female That was that slut in school Every guy tried to go
Starting point is 00:54:30 Well you want to go out And And the guys weren't going You look great or you're wonderful or I want to buy you dinner. They just, they have one thing on their minds. They're young teenagers and that's all they want. So you were the, so everyone sort of knew that you were that way?
Starting point is 00:54:54 No. Oh, okay. Well, not everyone. Again, it was that click. Right, right. It was that little group of people that kind of came in and go, oh, it's not what it is. And those people were into it, too, themselves.
Starting point is 00:55:11 Yeah. Oh, yeah. So they were gay, too, or did you do a lot of straight guys in high school, you know, quote-unquote, straight guys? You know, the reality is that I don't know where anybody's sexuality is. I mean, that's, you just don't know. I think most of them claim to be straight. Right.
Starting point is 00:55:34 And where they are today, I don't know. But they claimed to be straight at that time. Most of them, yes. So would you give them, like, secret blow jobs? Were you, like, the guy that, like, was giving tons of secret blow jobs to these, like, football players in your school that nobody knew about? And they were, like, dating the girl in your class. They would come over to my backyard. And, you know, I had a chair out there.
Starting point is 00:56:04 We had a swimming pool out back. and we had a chair there next to it and, you know, kind of a little nice cabana area. And they would just go in there and we just, yeah, I just, they would just call me, you know, back then, unfortunately, we didn't have the internet, we had Craigslist, we didn't have porno. Right.
Starting point is 00:56:26 I mean, we had porno, but we didn't have porno. Yeah, I get it. No, it was, yeah, I remember. I grew up in that time, too. But wait a second, so these guys, like, got your number. Were any of them like the bullies that bullied you previously when you were younger and now like you're blowing? Yeah. Yeah. Oh yeah. A couple of more. Were some of them like the captain of the football team, like the guys you would never expect were gay like but you were getting blown by you and your shed in the back?
Starting point is 00:56:54 I was never into the football. So I don't know. I don't know if any of them were in football. Some of them were in sports I think because they were they looked like they worked out. and things like that, but I don't know if they were in football. But some of them were some that, yeah, gave me shit when I was a kid. Right. And so no one, so this was like sort of on the down low for them, right? They don't want you to tell anyone, and you probably didn't tell anybody because you were, like, happy to be blowing people, right? So this was like a secret. I mean, I was, I mean, yes, I would thank them after every time and just, and just, and,
Starting point is 00:57:34 and say, you know, call me again. And again, back then, you know, you would call the house line. Yeah, right. The phone on the wall. Yep, put the cord and going, are you around? So it was a, you know. Your mom must have thought you were like a drug dealer. Little did she know.
Starting point is 00:57:57 You know, like, I mean, if he. She had no clue. Again, we were in a small suburb of Chicago. So we had, we knew some people, but it was still, you know, it was kind of a small town, but we could go out and do things at night and stuff. And so she was always kind of, you know, and we're Catholic. We have, not that that matters, but we have, I have six siblings. Yeah, no, I was going to say, do you have any brothers and sister? Do they know that you're gay?
Starting point is 00:58:27 I do. Yes, I do. Right. Yes. And now are they married? Do they have kids? Yes. All but one. Right.
Starting point is 00:58:40 But yes. All but two. I'm sorry. All but two of my siblings. But yeah, they all know I'm gay. Why hide it? If you can't accept me as being gay, then go away. No, that's cool.
Starting point is 00:58:54 How old were you when you came out to your family? I was. Why do you laugh? I think that's great. Did they find out? Is like, did they walk in on you blowing someone? Okay, that's what I figured. Yes, but they didn't find out.
Starting point is 00:59:15 They bailed me out. They what? They bailed me out. What do you mean they bailed you out? You got busted, like, by the cops? Yeah, I was in a public place. Oh, who were you blowing in a public place and what was the, like, give me the details. It's just interesting.
Starting point is 00:59:35 We were at a public park. That's where they say that this stuff goes down. And who were you with? Just another schoolmate. Okay. A straight schoolmate that was like, you know, doing this on the down, though, or like somebody that was like... No. Well, again, again, somebody who says they're straight and...
Starting point is 00:59:59 Is it a park getting a blowjob? But, right. But again, you can... be totally straight and, you know, I mean, let me just tell you. You know what I mean. When I say straight, I mean, like, the people that are like in their regular life pretending that they're straight, but they're getting blown by you secretly on the side. That's what I mean by straight, you know. But, okay, then yes. Because again, you know, I don't mean to sound rude right now, but if, you know, if, you know, I'm totally gay, but if you were to come up and go, hey, trade, you want a blow job,
Starting point is 01:00:34 I'd go, sure. Now, that doesn't make me straight. Right, I get guys on my podcast. They get fucked in the ass by a guy and they don't believe that they're gay because they're like have like, you know what I mean? They're dressed up as a woman. Like, I mean, there's all kinds of people and nobody wants a label. I totally get it. And labels, I hate labels.
Starting point is 01:00:55 I know. I just use them on my show because it's just easy to get the conversation. But I don't want to get stuck on labels. I don't really give a shit about them either. I care about more about what's happening to use. specifically in that park. So you get busted blowing the guy? The kid in the park was basically straight, yes.
Starting point is 01:01:12 And I think identified as being straight. And we have to get up right. The reason why I ask is because it's so scandalous. Think about it, right? Like you're in this like Chicago suburb, right? You're like blowing this guy who's quote unquote straight in a park and you get busted. Like you're gay, right? And you come out and like you know what you are.
Starting point is 01:01:34 Like, you're pretty clear about that, right? But, like, the straight guy that's with you probably isn't, right? So it must have been horrifying for him to get busted by the cops. Well, let me just embellish the story just a little bit. I'm not embellishing it. Let me just expand on it, I guess. He didn't get caught because he ran off. Well, he was smart.
Starting point is 01:02:00 Well, he saw them coming. Right. Because he was standing, you were blowing him, right. You've got the dick in your mouth. Right. Right. He was facing the right direction to see them coming. Right.
Starting point is 01:02:13 And turned around and got away. Right. And they got you. Right. So they just got you. And they got me. Right. And they came down on me like a hundred times going, you know.
Starting point is 01:02:25 They didn't ask you for a blowjob in the ride to the station? They did not. and but they did ask me multiple times for your number and who he was and I said no no no no no no no they asked me who he was and I just kept saying I don't know I don't know
Starting point is 01:02:43 you didn't snitch that's good right I was I took the high road no that's smart why would you want to tell why would you like snitch on that guy what's the point what does it fucking matter I took the full fall and but I got off but they
Starting point is 01:02:59 all they did was called parents right and so now are you like in the station and your poor mom because your dad was already gone at that time right so it was just your mother comes to pick you up yeah yes yes but i wasn't even the station they just put me in the car and they radioed it in and mom came down to the car to get me and did they have to like explain like we caught your son blowing a guy oh my god what did your mother say Was she crying? Well, at that point, because I keep saying parents, because at that point, she had remarried again. Right. Okay. And so I had another, I had a stepfather. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:03:44 And the stepfather was, was kinky. Oh, how do you know he was kinky? Well, well, I didn't know that until later on when I found his porno collection. Oh, okay. But, but, so what they did was they eventually just were like, in. know, let's just, you know, but we're just going to tell your parents and turn them over to them, and you're not allowed to do this again. We're going to make a note of it.
Starting point is 01:04:14 We'll catch you again. You know, we're going to take you in. And so that's how I came out. And, you know, coming out is supposed to be this glorious celebration. That wasn't, but that's okay because. Listen, I think for some people, in. a weird way. Sometimes I think when it's a big production
Starting point is 01:04:37 and you have to tell people, you know, it's like, sometimes it's glorious, like you said, or it's like really difficult. And sometimes it's traumatizing and it's a whole thing. Like, sometimes it's like maybe it's better. Just get busted the way you are. Let's all come over and have fun cake
Starting point is 01:04:55 and a mimosa and let's talk about my sexuality. Otherwise, we can just have the cops tell you. Exactly Exactly You know I mean
Starting point is 01:05:06 There's different ways to come out And everybody has their own way But it hopefully Hopefully Is up to the gay person To come out Nowadays I don't think it matters I just think sometimes
Starting point is 01:05:22 Like when you're for Like it's just forced on you Like you know So I'm just assuming that your parents Your parents have accepted it Like I mean How did it go down? with them? Well, my mom, I'm thinking, and I don't know this for a fact, because I don't know it. And so,
Starting point is 01:05:43 but I think my mom is submissive in nature. And so I think when my stepfather found out, he was more in the line of, I don't want to think, I think deep down he was giving me two thumbs up going good job um and then i think he told my mom to go you know just just relax it's okay it's sex you know we shouldn't have an issue with sex in this world and let's just let it go enjoy sex and right and just let it go i think that's what happened i mean i have a great relationship with my stepfather. You never fooled around with him, did you? No.
Starting point is 01:06:43 Okay, but when you found his porn, was there any bi-porn? Like, were there any gay stuff in there? No, there was a ton of, no, but there was a ton of, like, water sports. Right, right, right. Women being tied up. Right. and a lot of, a lot of S&M sort of thing.
Starting point is 01:07:08 Right. So he was open-minded in his own world. I think a lot of guys are like that, so they're like, they're not so judgmental of other men, you know? Right. Well, right, and I think so, but he was, you know, but I think I don't want to say, you know, again, it was
Starting point is 01:07:24 the 90s. That would, you know, a lot of your younger viewers or listeners need to realize that we didn't have the internet as kids. We couldn't go out and watch porno online every night. We had to go buy it. Right.
Starting point is 01:07:40 And when, you know, when you got a magazine, you kept it. I mean, it was like, wow, I just was. Right. It was like the gift that kept on giving. Like, it would just be like it was the same thing you use over and over again. I've talked about this before in my podcast. In a weird way,
Starting point is 01:07:57 back in the day, it was like, it was a little bit more hot because, like, when you had, even if you did have a porn, or you found like your brothers or your, you know, it was like the most hottest thing you've ever seen in your own life, right? Because it was like the only thing you had. Whereas now it's, I don't know, sometimes it could take you.
Starting point is 01:08:19 It's everywhere. Yeah, and it's so much. It's like you have just like sometimes it takes me 45 minutes just to figure out what I'm kind of in the mood for because it's just so much. Whereas when you just saw it one thing and it was one tape is like that was what's going to, you were so into it, right? You just, you don't get that feeling anymore from, the over saturation of it.
Starting point is 01:08:38 Well, that's exactly right. It was a treat. It was a gift. It was a whatever. I remember making a joke that I could go into a 7-Eleven and almost jack off to the cover of, you know, penthouse. Right. But now, but now I can't jerk off to penthouse because the those, like he's commercial or some other
Starting point is 01:09:07 commercial has somebody who's less dressed than she was on the cover. I mean, so half of that's already come to TV, but then, you know, the inside contents were different. But yeah, yeah,
Starting point is 01:09:23 you have to walk into a store, you had to walk into a special story to get stuff. And nowadays, yeah, it's all the place. So when I told us in my dad's house, basically, I just, I knew he was of a different mind sex doesn't mean he was sick or perverted. No, he was an open
Starting point is 01:09:39 more open mind, he was curious and open sexually. Yeah, he was a sexual being and he allowed himself to... And I think he was like, you know, and I have to say this also, you know,
Starting point is 01:09:54 16 year olds have sex. Totally. You know, you'd be surprised how many people will tell you their kids don't have sex or that They shouldn't or they can't or whatever, but they do. No, I'm not saying the 50-year-old man should go with the 16. That's not what I'm saying.
Starting point is 01:10:15 But there is this whole concept of, you know, sex goes on and on and on and on. And it's a wonderful thing that this world has given us. That's why I do my show. I think sex is a healthy, great, very enjoyable thing. we all can do and I think that a lot of people put a lot of people take it way too seriously people you know and there's a lot of sort of negativity attached to it and that's sad because I think it's like it's no different than food and money like these are great things in life that you can have and you
Starting point is 01:10:56 should enjoy and there's you know people you know because people do use it negatively then people think it's just a bad thing you know where it's not I think sex is great. I don't, but, you know, yeah, and I think, though, that your whole story is so, yeah. Sex is great when it's consensual and everything is good. Yeah, of course, but we don't want to get into that. I like to keep my podcast very personal, and you are so interesting to me that I don't care about sex and for sex and all these other people and the labels and all the stuff that you always want to go to. I like the more personal stuff that's about you because.
Starting point is 01:11:35 I feel like you have like 10,000 more layers that I'd like to get at that I'm not going to have time to. What are you doing that noise? I'm sorry. I picked up a thing. Oh, okay. No, it's okay. I'm going to have to edit that out. Okay.
Starting point is 01:11:54 Yeah. What you need to do is to ask, you know, ask me back after. Well, I need, yeah, we need to do the, yeah, that's exactly what I was thinking, because I have to wrap it up. right because we're like over an hour this i was thinking what we're going to do is i need to do a tray part two okay and we need to see if you do 50 or more you're definitely going to do 50 right or or you might do more though if you have within that 24 hour period right um blow jobs that's what you're doing you're doing it at the end of the july i say we i'm going to do it yeah uh john is going to help and you know but he's just scheduling but yes it'll be me entirely me and if people are in the
Starting point is 01:12:41 Chicago area that are listening I'm airing this shit this week okay it's going to be my next podcast because this is a good one okay so um you could promote if anyone's in the Chicago area can he find can they find your ad someplace um we've been out on Craigslist occasionally we've gone out to bookstores mostly okay uh what I will do is I'm going to post another Craigslist ad and I'll even say as heard on, if you would like, as heard on strictly anonymous.com.
Starting point is 01:13:21 Yeah, strictly anonymous podcast. Yeah, let them know. So then they could hear about it on if they want to get more information. They could listen to the show. They can come because here's what we need is we need we need the original 50 people but then we also need the backups and the backups
Starting point is 01:13:39 will be taken care of but the backups don't get time slots they are just the spaceholders in case somebody doesn't show up and believe me people don't show up and we want it full we want the whole
Starting point is 01:13:55 day full 24 hours I'm going to sleep ahead of time take my B-12 pills and be phytamized and excited and all that stuff. I get two small breaks and that's it. And we're just going to go to town. And we're going to, and then, and we'll talk about this later. But then it's like, what does the jaw feel like?
Starting point is 01:14:22 Yeah, no, that's what we want. I want the call to be like right after like the next day or like we need to do it. so that you could really like because you said that's what you'd like to check in and talk about right so let's uh check in a week like within that week and and find out what your jaw is like how tired you are how many i want to know how many people you swallowed how many people jizzed on your face like all that kind of stuff i'll have a million questions for you well and that's a great thing but just know the next day i will be sleeping well you know like the next couple of days uh no but then i I will call you back and we'll have another conversation.
Starting point is 01:15:02 I can tell you all about it. And we'll get more of your backstory because I need to get more of your backstory. I got to keep you focused on you, Trey. I think you tend to like to go a little bit broader. And I get that. I'm all over. Yeah, but we'll, we're going to have a part two for Trey because there's so much more to this conversation. This was like just a appetizer.
Starting point is 01:15:25 And she's going to, we're going to put out. a Craigslist ad on the Chicago Craigslist. Yeah, so if anyone listening is in Chicago, yeah. Please, please consider coming. And please consider coming. Yeah. Because it is, thank you for laughing.
Starting point is 01:15:47 It is something that we'd love to have you come do and be a part of. And then we can maybe make this a monthly or twice. week sort of an event. It's a chance for you to come have free food, free drink, free porn. And a really good blowjob. Yeah, or two. Yep. And everything is free.
Starting point is 01:16:13 You just come and enjoy it and totally anonymous. Strictly anonymous. Strictly anonymous too. There you go. All right, Trey. There you go. I just promoted you. Exactly.
Starting point is 01:16:24 And promote me on that on your ad. And so if anyone listening, go listen to that. And we'll be giving an update for your next event soon. Thanks so much for calling in, Trey. Good luck at the end of July. That sounds great. Thank you so much. You have a great evening.
Starting point is 01:16:39 You too. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audio book. It's still not going to be out until August 25th. but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show.
Starting point is 01:17:05 I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gang being girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person. And they're all true.
Starting point is 01:17:22 I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total. erotica book think like penthouse letters it's more direct it's not so over the top like erotica i don't really like that kind of vibe right but these are true stories 17 of them they're really short chapters easy read you could read you know one or two and then skip around you could read the whole book it's available in eback format paperback format format and finally the audiobook is available coming out august 25th but you could pre-order it now Now, and if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord.
Starting point is 01:18:04 My Discord does not disappoint, okay? There's no way you get into my Discord any other way than getting the link from me, okay? I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other, and that's what you get to do there. You could post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of money.
Starting point is 01:18:26 It's a super fun place to be. It's a total strictly anonymous community and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the ebook or the paperback. Send it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com.
Starting point is 01:18:53 And I will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in. This is the Strictly Anonymous podcast. Do you have a story, lifestyle, or situation you can't talk about to anyone, to anyone? Or do you just want to let your freak flag fly and be on the show? Well, Strictly Anonymous wants to hear from you. Send us an email, Strictly Anonymous podcast at gmail.com with your story and your anonymous name. Remember, everything is strictly anonymous.
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