Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 132 - To Peep or Not to Peep...That is Peeping Tom's Question
Episode Date: June 27, 2016Tom calls in to confess that he can see his new neighbor sleeping naked when he walks his dog every morning and he stops to check him out. He recently started snapping pics of the naked guy and he wa...s wondering if it would be wrong to start posting those pics online. Should he be even peeping in on him in the first place? Is it wrong of him to take pics of the guy? And even more wrong if he posts them online? What would you do? Tune on to hear what he thinks as well as the people on Craigslist who have chimed in with their two cents. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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And he was like curious of how far he could take that sort of experience.
And that's what we talk about.
He went on to Craigslist to get other people's sort of ideas.
I mean, typically I don't like to just debate like a subject broadly.
I like to pick a part of person.
This guy, it was like a little bit different.
So, but I went with it.
And I think it's interesting.
I think it's something that, you know, most people will probably have their own opinions of.
And I'd love to hear it.
So if you listen to this podcast and you have your own opinions about the topic and the subject
and what this guy is talking about, send me an email at Chickly Anonymous podcast at gmail.com.
Like I said, he's a peeping Tom.
And he's wondering, I mean, the basic premise of the podcast is he's wondering if, like,
he took pictures of what he sees during his peeping.
If it's cool to share that with the world, to post it online or whatever.
And that's what we discussed.
And it's interesting.
And his name is Tom.
We call him Tom, peeping Tom.
He let me choose his name.
So what the fuck are you going to call him?
It was like so easy.
So it's peeping Tom.
And that's his deal.
And I'm going to be right back on with him.
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Hey, hey, Tom, welcome to Strictly Anonymous podcast here on the show with Kathy.
How are you?
I am doing great.
How are you doing?
I'm good.
So Tom, aka peeping Tom, is what I'm going to call you for this show,
because that's what this is actually about, right?
That is correct.
Yeah, you have a situation going on that we are going to.
going, like kind of like I have a debate about it because you've been debating it on Craigslist,
right? And I'm dying to hear what people's trying to say.
I have, but I've had a lot of responses.
Yeah, explain, though, the whole situation.
I've had a lot of responses, but yes.
So I'm moving into a new apartment complex about a, about a month ago,
we're between houses, and we're moving in for about a year into an apartment complex.
And it's a brand new apartment complex that has never had anybody lived in these buildings,
before. And it's, my building has about 16 units in it. And I think about four or five of them
are rented out. So it's basically still kind of doesn't have a lot of people in it. But it's in a big,
it's a big kind of a perimeter. You kind of have an inner circle and an outer circle. We're on the
outer circle. And the back of our house faces basically a nature preserve. So when I look out the back door,
I see trees and rocks and the wonderful landscape.
But we have, right behind us, we have about 12 feet of grass that the complex is put down,
and they put down the little doggy bag so I can go pick up the poop after my dog goes out
for his morning constitutional every day.
And so I noticed when I took him out,
Probably on the second or third day, I took him out.
And I usually go out early in the morning about when the sun is coming up.
Still not bright, totally bright, but the sun's coming up.
I've noticed that there is a man who is sleeping in the nude with his TV on,
and he has sound asleep, and I walk by.
And so just so you know, I am a game well.
And so I'm looking at that going, you know, he's not, you know, he's not bad looking.
He's kind of nice eye candy.
He's probably 40 years old or somewhere.
I don't know.
But he's kind of in shape and, you know.
But I've noticed one day that I just saw him there and I thought, wow.
So, you know, my dog is, we just walk by.
The next day I come by and he's there again.
And he's not under blankets.
Sometimes he's pointing towards me.
he's pointing away from me.
I was going to say is he laying on his stomach.
Is he up on his back?
He's in every position you can imagine and in every state of eroticness you can imagine.
What do you mean?
Like with legs spread?
I don't know.
What's erotic for a guy?
I mean, he could be having an erection or not.
Oh, so you've seen him hard, sleeping hard.
Yeah.
A lot of times, you know, I mean, you know this.
A lot of guys wake up with their morning erections.
You know?
And he is, he is totally asleep the whole time.
I mean, you can tell he's sleeping.
It's not like he's trying to be an exhibitionist.
Totally.
But so now I'm starting to make this a part of my morning time is going down there
watching this.
And he has no clue.
And so I went out to Craigslist and I just,
ask the questions and and I was surprised by some of the answers but I'd love to get your input on it
any of your listeners inputs if they ever want to contact you or me or whatever to let me know but
it is uh first of all is it just unethical to know that he's going to be there he thinks he has the
privacy I'm in a public place I'm in a place that has been allowed by the facility to be there so I'm
down they're doing it all the time.
Right.
Then the other question I asked was, and this is what cracks me up, this is the funny thing
that the Craigslist and the argument about all this was, is I asked, can I take pictures?
And I know everybody goes, no, no, you can't take pictures and you're crossing a line there.
And then after they tell me that, everybody says, but if you do, can you send me?
them to me.
Hilaria, of course.
Some other words.
Right.
And what we realize nowadays is that there's reality TV, which is a difference between
reality TV and unscripted TV.
When you watch reality TV, it is still well produced, well documented.
But there are people that just want to be voyeurs and look into people's lives.
That's me.
Totally.
I love reality TV.
But I'm not, but I'm talking reality, reality, not just this fake reality.
Well, look what I do for my podcast.
I mean, you can don't get any more reality.
That's what I love.
I love, I love getting, you know, to the nitty gritty.
Yeah.
But the difference between, say, you talking to me and me taking pictures of him is,
I'm doing this.
Totally.
Right.
And so it makes it, it makes it in some degrees even more.
of a reality TV show
is that
every day I can
you know
I could for the next year
take morning pictures of him
and share them with the world
he would never know that I'm doing it
he would never know who did it
or anything like that
and so that was my question
and people
and I got to yeah
let me just ask you this okay
first of all
is he on the low like the
floor, what is that called?
The first floor, like, ground level?
He's on the ground.
Okay.
So, I mean, in a certain way, you have to,
no one's sleeping in his bed with him.
What size is his bed?
Is it a king-sized queen-size?
Is he sleeping in a single bed?
Like, does this guy have, like, no partner?
I would assume it is a queen-sized bed.
Right.
I have never seen him sleep with anybody in them yet.
Okay.
And have you ever seen?
For seeing him walking around awake.
Do you know his face enough to be able to recognize him?
Yes.
I know his car.
I know which apartment number he's in.
You know, I, yes.
And now you've seen him.
I know a lot about him.
You've seen him dressed up doing his business like in the regular time as well.
Does your guy know about this and does he in on the action or is this a secret?
he knows about it.
My partner knows about it, but he's like, you know, he's kind of like, yeah, go whatever, you know, I mean, you know.
Right.
You know, I'm 31 years old.
We've been together for 10 years.
He's kind of like, you know, if you're out there getting your jollies, you go for it.
We've been in a monogamous relationship for a long time, so he doesn't care.
Right.
But, I mean, you know, and so we both watch porno on a regular basis.
This is just, I don't say live porno, but it's just, it's a different kind of pronoun.
Well, it's like voyeur.
It's like, you know, it's like a voyeuristic kind of turn on, right?
Like, I mean, and a lot of people are really into that.
And I would say, like, I mean, for you, you know, I'm assuming that this totally turns you on and it's like something that you use when you like.
I enjoy watching it.
Right?
I mean, do you stop for a long time and, like, peer in on the window or do you keep your distance?
Like how much of a peeping time are you?
Could like other people look out their window and see you doing it?
Are you pretty like laid back about it?
Well, the thing is no, I don't go up and put both hands around my eyes and push against the glass.
You know, because you don't know if there's another peeping Tom.
You know, there might be a peeping Tom too.
Like that would be me.
I'd be looking out the window watching you look in the window.
You know what I'm saying?
Right.
No.
And that's very possible.
But no, because again, it's a new area.
So there's not, there's almost nobody back here.
They haven't leased out these places yet.
And so I'm out here, but yet it's still a place for the dogs, but you have, you're forced to be close to the buildings.
You only have literally about 12 feet of grass.
Right.
So we're kind of forced to be in.
And then, you know, and I have, and it's for a whole different set of reasons, but I have a pair of glasses that have camera and
video, you know, I can take pictures and video built into the glasses.
Oh, if you had these, before this, peeping.
Oh, yeah.
Yeah.
I've had these a long time ago.
Not a long time, but four or five months.
But you can sit there and just take pictures, take videos, and nobody would ever know.
And so even if, even if I was just out with the dog, just walking down, if I just looked
over, the camera can take it and just, you know, you tape it.
and then, you know, for like five, ten seconds,
and I could pull, you know, three, four, five pictures out of ten seconds worth of video
and have the video.
And it's funny because I've got to tell you,
I've had so many people tell me that is wrong on so many levels,
send them to me when you get them.
Right.
Right, of course.
It's like, yeah, please.
You know, I mean, we all know it's wrong,
but we all like to see kind of reality.
Yeah, but like, okay, this is...
I've even had straight guys.
I'm sorry.
How do you know they're straight?
I mean, well, what do you mean, straight?
I mean, they obviously have a little bit of a byside maybe if they're asking for, you know...
Well, no, I had one guy who responded on the Craigslist argument going, who said, he said, you know, he goes, I'm totally straight, but he goes, I really enjoy reality.
stuff. He goes, it could be a 60, 80 year old man. I don't care. I want to see it just because I enjoy
watching that. Right. He goes, I just enjoy it. He's not copic. Yeah, he also doesn't understand that he's
by, okay. And I've had a lot of people on my show. That literally had dicks in their mouths,
men who have had dicks in their mouths and said, I'm not gay. Okay. Like, I can't tell you how many times
I've had people like that on my show. So that guy's not totally straight. But let me just tell you this right now,
though. I am 100%
gay. I've never been with
a woman. Don't want to be with a woman.
I find beauty in women.
Of course, right. Right.
But, yeah.
But I will tell you
this, if
the shoe is reversed, I would probably
go, yeah, I'd want to see that.
But that doesn't mean I'm by.
Right. I'm just saying
that. I'm still just going
Okay, but what is the ad on your Craigslist ad?
What's the tagline on the top that this guy responded to?
Do you remember?
Is this illegal and unethical or something like that?
And what section is in?
Okay, and what section?
It's in the man-for-man section, right?
Well, it's in many different sections because I put it in many different sections.
Well, you could see that straight guy, okay?
You get back to me on this, okay, because we're on a live call and, you know, whatever.
I want to know what section.
You could always see what section someone looked at by when they respond to you, right?
Like where that ad came from.
Right.
Where that guy.
I just know Craigslist by now because I've been doing my show for over two years and that's where I get all my callers from.
And I just think most likely, and who really cares about this?
I don't know.
Most likely that guy is not just into reality.
He doesn't want to admit that he's kind of by and he's probably good.
We'd be very turned on by seeing that picture and that's the deal.
It's not like you seeing the woman like.
I don't believe it.
I think that that guy just isn't copping to it.
That's what I think,
personally.
Well,
he could be.
He could be.
But I have to tell you,
but,
you know,
I've had women,
I've had guys,
I've had,
I've had everybody come back going,
you know,
just, you know,
yeah,
tell me,
tell me how to get the pictures.
And so then I'm going,
do I,
create a blog?
Do I do a daily blog?
Which would just obviously put me in jail.
We all know the answers to that.
But,
but the same token
you can still get away with it
it's the internet
well let me ask you this why
okay
okay because I
this is how I feel like
you know I mean
if you took pictures
right for your own
personal enjoyment right
like you snapped a couple shots
and you went home and jerked off
when you were like whatever
you know what I mean
and then deleted them
or maybe showed them to your partner
and like your best friend
and that's about it like
I don't necessarily
think that I mean it might be kind of wrong right but it's not like that wrong even though I know
people are driving in their cars listening to me right now saying like I'm so out of my mind okay that's
you can hear him typing right now yeah yeah yeah yeah that's fucked up right because it's totally
wrong and whatever but in reality when you maybe snap a fix if you told me if you were my best friend
and you said oh my god I was walking the street and I saw this guy and he was naked and he was in his
room and I took a picture and then I jerked off I'd be like I could understand that right
But where I personally think, and this is just my opinion, where it crosses a line to be like, oh, that's not cool, as if, like, why do you need to take those pictures and share them with the public?
I get sharing the debate with the public.
I think it's really interesting to take the picture to not, to look in the window to not, but to actually show the pictures to tons of people and really put it out there.
I think that's really bad.
that is the line crossing is what you're saying
that's my line crossing i think we all make our own rules and regulations right in life like
you don't it's not like right i don't know where your line is like what your gut tells you
like where's your line what i would love to do i mean that sounds funny and and it sounds horrible
and again i'm not saying like what you like what is what what do you feel comfortable doing
Well, what I'm going to say is that, and you're going to, then you're going to judge me.
I think it would be awesome to get 365 days and do the, you know, the eight-second video or the 10-second video of it.
Right.
And I just think, I think that would be awesome.
But now, you know, I could do that with myself or a partner or somebody who consensually knows that.
but the fact that I see it every day as I'm walking by,
I'm just going, I just, I don't know, I don't know.
I mean, I thought everybody would just come down on me.
And I have to tell you, on the Craigslist thing,
I've had so many people just tell me, like, as I said,
three or four times now, it's horrible, don't do it.
But if you do it, let me know where to get it.
Totally, because everyone has the line like I have.
Like they could understand that you would do it and take the picture and they'd want to see it once and they'd want to jerk off and like and then call it a day, right?
So I think that that's understandable, right?
But they're not doing it.
So it's like it's kind of like, you know, you don't mind eating the hot dog, but you don't want to kill the pig, right?
Like you're killing the pig.
They'll eat the hot dog.
Like what's, you know, so they're not so bad.
So they're not really.
I'm not sure people.
Yeah.
But I'm not sure a lot of these people want to jerk off necessarily.
I totally, I disagree.
I think that they're totally looking to drink of it.
What do you think that they're wanting it for?
Just the curiosity like you, like, because you feel that way because you said that if
someone did it with a woman, even though you're totally not, you know, straight at all,
like you would be interested just for the curiosity.
But again, I think there becomes a difference between sexuality and nudity.
I think there can be nudity without it having to be sexual.
Okay.
Sometimes, you know, I watch a thing.
Kardashians and I go, great, my life is in sync because I can see what they're doing.
But I think that some people can separate those two out.
And other people, they don't.
In our society, I think we link those words of voyeurism and exhibitionism with sex.
Totally.
But reality TV and other things have changed that.
for us.
Yeah, but sex tapes, but, okay, listen, you're talking, reality TV, okay, they're not showing
them, like, sort of naked, and the ones that sort of teeter on that, maybe some people
do get sort of horny when they watch that, but, I mean, like, when Kim Kardashian had her sex
tape, that was, like, reality porn, right?
But, like, people didn't want to watch that for, well, maybe some people watch it for curiosity,
you know, well, but you know what?
I can go out and watch.
I mean, there's video cameras right now in people's homes where I can watch them eating breakfast.
What do you mean?
I'm not jerk enough.
There's cameras.
You can go out.
There's a whole number of websites.
Oh, right, right, right.
But those are people, those are people inviting it, right?
Those people that are saying, you watch me.
Yes.
Yes.
That's the difference.
This is not reality TV.
This is peeping Tom shit.
Right.
Yeah, I mean, because that is consensual there.
Right.
But this has become, but I think there are a lot of people who come forward and go, you know, I just don't care.
I don't care if you watch me eating breakfast or not.
Yeah, well, right.
But I would think that that guy.
Okay, but that's not the situation, right?
Let's, I like your situation.
Okay.
I like your situation because your situation isn't so black and white and like you feel differently than I do.
and everyone and you've had a lot of people sort of chime in.
Your situation is you see somebody that has no idea that you're seeing them totally naked.
They're not eating breakfast.
There's a big difference between somebody like, you know, do you know what I mean, eating breakfast?
I don't mind if somebody takes a picture of me eating breakfast, but if I'm like changing in my bathroom when I come out of the shower and they take a picture, that's a different kind of thing.
That would be a feel very violating to me as a woman.
This guy, though, let me ask you this.
Is his window, is like his blonde.
lines totally down and you're peeking through a little bit?
Are they completely open?
They typically, 90% of the time, the blind are down, but they are at, they're parallel with the ground.
So you can, you know, you can just look through them.
Because again, the other thing is we face east.
So you get this wonderful sunrise that comes up over the preserve.
I do the same thing.
I'm not on the bottom floor, but I do the same thing, which is,
It's great to have the blinds open because the sun comes in and we get a beautiful, beautiful sunrise coming up.
But you kind of have to squint to see through because you're looking through the blinds is what you're saying.
I mean, it's not like his window is just totally wide open.
No, these aren't like the little plastic blinds.
These are big, thick wooden blinds.
And so they're probably two inches apart.
Okay.
And so you can easily, you can easily see through.
I mean, no problem at all.
But do you think he could see through, like, because to me, like I was thinking, oh, if his window
is totally open and his stuff, like, maybe he's a little bit of an extra business himself,
and he doesn't care that people look in, right?
I live in a building in Manhattan, right?
So I have buildings all around me.
And I happen to have an apartment with huge windows, like almost floor to ceiling windows.
And I have a friend who takes pictures of naked people all the time, and he came over my house.
He's like, do you walk around naked?
I said, no way.
Like, look at all those people that could see me.
He's like, why?
I would do that on purpose.
And I'm sure there are people, right, out there, 100% that would do it because there would be some sort of turn-on or something, some kind of gratification of them thinking that other people are watching.
So I would say if this guy, his blinds were totally open and he was totally naked, like on some level, maybe he is welcoming something like that, right?
But if his blinds are kind of closed.
Well, he could be, but the reality is there's a huge difference between.
But there's a difference between being in Manhattan versus being in a nature preserve where you have 67 acres of land and nothing out there.
Right.
That's what I'm saying.
So it's not like he, at first I was thinking maybe on some level, he's like he doesn't mind, right?
Because if he like knows people are walking by and he's leaving it totally open and he's on the ground floor, then you have to say, oh, and he's totally naked.
He doesn't have covers covering him.
He doesn't give a shit whether people see him or not, right?
But, you know, if his blinds are kind of closed and he's naked, he probably thinks he's in, like he's being private, right?
He's in the privacy of his own home.
That's how he might feel.
So would you say, if you think that he's totally being, if he's totally okay with being nude, I mean, because you sort of made an or situation there.
Yeah.
so are you saying that if you think he's okay
totally being made then I'm okay with taking pictures
and sharing them? No, like I said, my line goes there sharing.
You would have, like what I think is that you would have to
approach him and ask him if it was cool if you want to do a project.
Like if you want to be a creative person and make this whole video
and do this stuff and really put it out there, that's something
that I think you would have to get his permission.
You were at the, like I would never, like I have had people have called me and you just got disconnected, right?
And by accident, I didn't call you back because one time that happened with me and I called someone back and they flipped out of me.
And they, and I never aired that podcast because that person to me at that point had said, you know, fuck this, I'm not into it.
And I just would never go against, you know, I would never for me, right, sort of want to post something that somebody didn't want to, that someone didn't want to.
that someone didn't agree to that wasn't sort of cool, right?
That's just me.
I have very strong boundaries when it comes to that.
But that doesn't mean that I'm right or wrong, right?
None of this is right or wrong shit.
I think you make your own rules.
I have a feeling that you think it's kind of okay.
I personally, my opinion is that if you didn't get his okay, then that's not right to share it.
If you shared it with a couple people, right, and you just showed it on their phone,
but to share it publicly, like online where shit,
online like could go viral like you don't know who this person like that's where you to me you cross
a line and there's so many consequences that could come of that and somehow bite you in in the ass
as well as him that it becomes a place where I think you just can't fuck with that because nowadays
like you don't know who that guy is if that stuff gets leaked out if someone finds out who it is
I'm going to give you a perfect example really quick okay my friend who I just told you came over my house
and wants me to parade around naked so everyone could see me his name is Andrew Einhol
He's been on my podcast.
He has a show on TV called Naked Happy People, okay?
That's what he does for a living.
He's had books.
He's had shows on Playboy TV.
He's very famous for taking pictures of naked girls.
And whenever he sends you an email, he throws in a couple pictures from his books or his photo
shoots.
So there's always naked women in your email, right?
So one day he sent me an email with a naked picture and said, oh, by the way, that's
my yoga teacher below.
Now, I was working in an office, and one of the guys in the office was,
dating a yoga teacher, right, who was older than him and really hot and whatever, okay? And he had
just broken up with her. And I sent him the email saying, hey, by the way, is this your yoga?
Is this your ex-girlfriend? Like, as a joke, do you want to know what? That was his ex-girlfriend.
Okay? It caused, I mean, what are the odds of that? Like a very, you know, in one in however many
hot yoga instructors there are in New York, and that's a lot. That's many, right? But it caused such a major
problem, right? Because she got mad, because her ex-boyfriend got furious that someone's sitting
around pictures of his girl. He called her, then she was furious at this guy who she took pictures of
that they're supposed to be sort of legit in a book and he's sending it to friends in an email,
and it caused a major problem. And, you know, who's wrong in that situation? Not me for sending it,
him for sending it in the email, right? And he got in a lot of trouble. And to me, that's kind of
like the thing that could happen with you. You put it out there, a public,
you don't know, you could send it to that guy's brother or that guy, like somehow it could get back.
And if it gets back to you and you do that, like, you just don't know.
And to me, that's how my mind thinks.
I think through things like that because I'm like an over-analysis.
I understand there's a risk.
Yeah.
I understand there's a risk.
But the reality is I'm not sure that, I'm not sure other than the fact you've got my number.
I'm not sure anybody else in this world would know who did it.
So you would do it very anonymously is what you're saying.
Of course.
Okay, but let me ask you this.
So you're talking about the risk of you.
No, that's what I'm saying.
So you're thinking about you, the risk of you.
I'm also talking about like the risk for him.
Like say it gets out there and someone knows him and then they go on because people are fucking assholes, right?
And then that person's like, oh, look at this person and they put it out there.
What if this guy's like in politics?
Like you just don't know, right?
Like there's so many scenarios that it could actually hurt that person.
So forget about the risks for you.
What about the risks for that guy?
I'm sure he's some Republican doing it.
Stop.
You know what I'm saying.
Answer that question.
But that's why I...
But does, would that bother you at all?
Yes.
That's why I posted the...
When you asked me what it was on Craigslist,
and I have to go back and look at it again,
I don't remember, but, you know,
is this illegal and is it unethical?
And those were the two questions that I asked.
Because, and if you remember that,
I think, you know, when you look at that,
you could see that I'm going, okay, look, you know, there's a legality.
But even if, even if it is legal, I mean, you know, if I'm taking a picture of, you know,
my parents down in Florida and there's a big person down there and I know they're there
or not there or whatever, and I post the picture, is that now become illegal or unethical?
Or is it just a dumb thing I did?
Who's in the picture with your mother?
who's in the picture with you if you took a picture with you.
No, no, no.
That was a hypothetical.
But I'm saying if in the background somebody was topless or something, you know.
Right.
At what point?
Now, again, if you're, I understand if you're out on a beach and you're topless,
then you're taking risks.
I get that.
You think if you're in your bed.
Public beach, right.
Yeah, well, if you're a public beach and you're topples,
you obviously don't care who sees you toppler.
You're very comfortable with that.
It doesn't mean anything to you.
Right.
So now let me ask you this.
So where do we go from here?
In other words, this.
Because I'm going to tell you that most of your listeners, and I could be wrong.
Yeah.
And if they contact you, tell me that I'm wrong, but most of them will say this.
Yeah.
He shouldn't post it, but I would really like to see it.
Because I think that's going to be most of your views or your listeners, is going,
where can I get a hold of this guy to get the pictures?
Right.
But I would sit, right.
I would just love if you do a survey, if you got responses back, whatever, to communicate
that with me because I would love to know because I was surprised.
I got about 60, 65 responses.
And probably about 30% were from women, 70% were from men.
And most of the men were gay.
And gay guys are messed up.
We know that.
Or they're not messed up.
No, they're very sexual.
Right.
Yeah, yeah.
But yes, yes, yes.
That's a great way of saying it.
But even the women were like, you know, but I want to see them.
Right.
And they all kind of said just because we just want to see, you know, and people have said they would watch it on a daily basis.
They would do the same thing.
If you posted it daily, they would watch a daily picture.
Right, but you have to understand.
Of course they would, right?
But like I said, they're not going, it's like they're not going, but they're not doing anything wrong, right?
You are.
So they don't care to sell you down the river and get you, make you do something that might be like sort of wrong, right?
And you have to live with that.
They'll watch it because it's like, what are they doing wrong?
They're just looking at something that you posted.
And that's how they could justify it.
But how do you justify it to yourself?
Do you know what I mean?
And that's what you, but, but, but, but, you.
Like I always say on my show all the time.
Like everybody to me makes up their own rules and regulations of whatever sits okay with them.
Right.
Like, and I think that that's very different for different people depending on like where you are evolution-wise.
And I don't say that meaning that someone who's less evolved is less, you know, is not as good as somebody that's more evolved.
You know what I'm saying?
It doesn't matter.
But, you know, where you're at.
And so some people could do something and they don't think that it's wrong.
and then it's not wrong to them, even if it's wrong to a lot of other people.
And I'm not talking about murder and I'm not going to get into that shit, you know,
but like in this situation, if you don't think, right, that what you're doing,
if you don't think about that guy and what, like, I, that's how I would be.
But I can't get my, like, I can't get away with any of that kind of shit.
I have a lot of empathy for other people.
I feel shit for other people a lot.
That's just me.
But like other people, you might not be that way.
If you think it's okay, and that's what I want to know from you.
Do you, I know you're like interested in getting all these people.
I think that you're interesting to me because you're kind of like my mind.
Like you like to know, you have all the stats of how many people called you and you like to know what people think.
And I'm not the same way.
But what, I want to know you personally.
What do you think is the right thing or the wrong thing to do?
Because I don't feel like I've got that answer from you yet.
Well, okay.
When I pose the question online, I said, is it ethical or unethical for me to be looking at them?
And then could I take pictures?
And I never said anything about the pictures of what I was going to do with them.
And so, just so you know, deep down, yes, I think it's totally wrong.
I mean, you know, I know the answer ahead of time.
Of course I do.
Oh, okay.
I didn't know how you know.
No, no.
Oh, okay.
I do. But, but my
point was that I got
overwhelmed with people going
it's wrong.
Let's see them.
You know, it's, it's,
it's like,
some of the sex takes to get released from celebrities.
Yeah. Uh-huh.
That's, that was my, but
see, that's what confused me because I was
going, of course we all, you know,
I'm no idiot. I'm, you know,
I've got a master's, three, two master's
to these. Actually, I'm a smart, intelligent
person and all that stuff.
Not that a master's degree makes you smart.
I know what you mean.
But, you know, but I'm an educated, you know, whatever person.
But I was looking at all this going, everybody's coming back, going.
So then I asked myself, is it the demographic of Craigslist?
And I don't mean to be condescending on Craigslist.
People are there looking for a certain thing.
And if you're going to dish it out, they might be like,
Hey, because most of people are online looking at
Craigslist, they're kind of horny.
So you know what I mean?
Yeah. They're looking for stuff like that.
And so I'm looking at that as a demographic going,
maybe that's what made it different.
But everybody came back.
I mean, not everybody, but so many people came back going,
yeah, you know, it's totally wrong.
Where are the pictures?
Like, when can we see them?
Of course.
And I was like.
But you're a surprise with that?
So that was, well, no.
You know what?
I actually was kind of surprised.
Yeah, no, I think you were.
Yeah.
It's the celebrity sex tapes, you know, when, you know, the last one was what,
the big old Hulk Hogan, you know, his sex tape.
You know, I went out and watched it and it was like tasting bad milk.
You know, it's like, hey, this milk is really bad.
How does it taste to you?
Well, you know what?
I'm going to taste it.
Yeah, right.
Like what someone says is like, oh, that smells really bad.
then you go and smell it for some reason.
It's like, you know, we just have that.
But you know, but we still go and do it.
Yeah, it's human nature.
Every straight guy that's listening to this podcast right now has seen Miley Cyrus naked.
Now, you know, has had consensual on most of that stuff.
But they've all seen it.
And they all go out and they actively look for it and go, oh.
What about when they had those, I never talk about celebrities on my podcast,
but we will because this is a different kind.
This is like a debate kind of podcast.
But when they did that one where somebody had stole a lot of celebrities' pictures off of their phones.
Like there was numerous ones, numerous.
They got really, and like, and you could go online and look up these celebrities and find, like, private, like, very dirty pictures of them for their phone.
It was like really bad.
I mean, let's just, let's talk about Hope Solo.
Oh, yeah, that's how I found out.
Because some guy at my gym was like, oh, she's so hot.
And I googled her.
And I'm like, oh, my God, did you see these pictures that came up from her?
Like what the fuck?
And that's how I found out of the whole scam.
Yeah, they stole all those pictures.
That was pretty horrifying, you asked me.
And they're out there, and I got to tell you, I am a gay guy, and I will tell you,
I've never jerked off to Hope Solo's pictures.
Right.
And when I was out Googling Hope Solo naked pictures, I wasn't doing it with lotion in my
hand ready to go.
I was going, I'm just going to what the fussing about it.
Yeah, let's just see, because everyone was, because what happens is everyone chimes in, right?
And people were saying, oh, my God, it's disgusting or whatever.
Then you're like, you want to see if you feel the same.
We're just also, like, interested in picking other people apart.
You know what I mean?
Right.
So, yeah, if they're not doing it for, like, horny factor, they're doing it to compare, you know, to put someone down or whatever.
We're just terrible.
But at what point do we in this world, here's another question.
But at what point do we go, nudity is okay?
What was that?
At what point do we do what?
Do we just say nudity is okay?
Can we get the Amish people out of our lives?
Yeah, well, listen, there are.
There's more like Europe.
Yeah, but there's like other countries are very into nudity, and they're totally fine with it.
It's no big deal.
They're with their families.
That's what I mean.
Yeah, totally.
That's what I'm saying.
We've got the Puritans and the Amish and all the people that came over here going, you know, you've got to cover up everything.
Again, there's a difference between nudity and sexuality.
You know, I can, I can, you know, you can make, you can tell me a gay joke.
Right.
And if it's funny, I'll laugh and go, that's great.
If the intent behind it was to hurt me or to belittle, you know, the gay community, then I take offense.
It's a thing thing with nudity, I think.
If I'm naked, who cares?
That's what a doctor does.
A doctor goes, great, it's another, you know.
penis vagina whatever but but other people look at it and go oh my god it's hope so
those vagina well you know what 3.5 billion people in this world have a vagina right
why does that matter well because not all vaginas look alike and her vagina was supposedly
very controversial because it looked certain ways it were very well it was very rude I mean I would
have been horrified if I was her you know what I mean like people I mean it was
Stop.
It was.
Everyone's going to be, I mean, Googling a home solo's vagina.
I mean, it was like.
It looked like a trick-or-treat candy or something.
Yeah, no.
It was like, yeah.
It was terrible.
So I think it's very easy to say like people should just not care.
But like some people are very like, you know, everyone feels different.
Some people probably are very comfortable being naked.
Remember Aaron Andrew?
She was a very beautiful ESPN, you know, and she had that thing.
And she looked amazing in that video that they,
But she was still horrified.
You know what I mean?
And that's her right, because it was a total violation.
You know, somebody else that maybe doesn't look so good.
Maybe they're horrified because they're not comfortable with their body and they don't want people to see it.
You know, you just don't know.
Okay.
But with her, somebody reversed the people.
And that's different than lying there with your shades open.
Right.
But is his shades totally open or kind of open?
They're not totally open.
Yeah, his shades.
You gave me the impression.
No, they're totally open. No, they're totally open. No, they're totally open. They are, I'm, they have the same shades I have, and I'm looking at them right now. They are, they're made out of wood, and they're probably three inches tall and probably about a 16th of an inch thick. But I have them right now parallel to the ground. So every three inches, I see one 16th of an inch.
And I got to tell you, if I took a pick, I mean, you can.
Okay, but this is the deal.
What time do you take?
No, I understand.
I totally now get the picture of my head.
I think I was a little confusing before.
What time do you walk your dog?
What time is sunset there?
Yeah.
Well, it's sunrise.
Sunrise.
What time is sunrise?
I'm sorry.
It's usually around, let me out, it's around 615.
Right.
So, like, maybe the guy wakes up at, like, you know,
know, 6.30 or 7 o'clock and he doesn't think that anyone would be, you know, that nobody's
like beating him to, you know, his window before he gets dressed, you know, I don't know that
he's definitely like, who the fuck cares? So some people, a lot of men, I think, are, there's less to
see on a man naked than women. I think, you know what I mean? Like a men, I think are more
comfortable being naked than women because I think it's a different kind of situation with them. So, like,
there are, there is a good chance that maybe he doesn't give a shit if you're looking, but maybe if he's
homophobic, he might be like, oh,
my god, a gay guy's checking me.
You know, who knows?
There could be a lot of things that's going through his head.
But, you know, I don't necessarily think by the information I have from you that you could
really know how this guy sort of feels.
Is he cool?
Have you ever, like, chatted him up?
No.
No.
Can you tell whether he's gay or straight?
I think he's straight.
I have seen some women over there, but never in bed with him, at least not in the morning.
Right.
But I see some women.
I see some women in and out.
Now, yeah, once you get, once you get the male and female in there, those pictures are definitely going online.
I'm kidding.
I'm kidding.
But, you know, but it's just, I don't think so, but, you know, but I know exactly what he lives.
I can, you know, I know what car he drives.
I know what he wears to work.
I don't know what he does for living.
I've never talked to him.
but, you know, it's...
Listen, I think that the whole human being thing that you talk about is a lot.
Like, you could, it's like, it's like, you could say the same thing about regular porn.
Like, a lot of people think, like, women are very exploited in it.
And maybe there's sometimes you're watching and you're like, oh, this person's so high on drugs,
they probably don't even know what's going on yet.
You still watch it, right?
But you weren't the person that got that person involved, right?
There's a difference, like I said, you know?
So I think that that whole thing of people saying, I think it's wrong and you shouldn't do it.
but if you do it, I'll watch because they feel like you already did something wrong.
And so then they could sort of partake and do it, but they don't have to feel guilty about it.
So that's just like human being shit.
That's the way we justify things.
Isn't that the whole concept of myex.com where they post it's myx.com.
I'm not trying to promote a website.
But it's where people post pictures of their exes.
Naked.
And so they can say.
to the photos, they just didn't consent.
Oh my God, that's terrible.
That's terrible.
How is that legal?
Like, can't you go after the people?
Well, see, that's, okay, but you see, but that's, but that's, I think that's the argument you were trying to make.
You know, is, is, all right, so I've given consent to do something bad, but you're going to take it to another level of bad.
No, you give consent.
to somebody that you were dating
to take a dirty picture of you,
you didn't give consent for that person to share it with the world,
even though we all know that that's what happens.
I mean, come on. There's a very big difference.
Yeah. Yeah, I think
nowadays we do. Yeah. I mean, yeah.
Nowadays, yeah.
I'm sorry. Any girl, if she doesn't realize,
you know how many, I have a lot of guy friends.
Okay, I've seen every one of their girls naked.
Okay, they literally, they show me
their naked picks of their girls constantly.
That's what they do. They just show it to
whoever's by sitting next to them when they get it in.
This is the way that it goes.
That's the deal.
So like don't put your, I always tell girls, like, don't put your face in those shots.
If you have tattoos, make them out if you don't want anyone to know who you are.
I once, okay, I was dating this guy.
And I once, he wanted dirty pictures, and I sent him some really good dirty pictures.
And I had this very turk, I had this nail polish on that was like turquoise, like very turquoise.
And it was like before anyone was wearing this color, except me, I was the only one, right?
And I swear to God, it was like a couple weeks later, we were having dinner.
I was having dinner with him and his best friend and his wife.
And me and his best friend were talking and I was wearing that turquoise nail polish.
And it was very much in my pictures like next to like my pussy.
Okay.
Like it was really, you know.
And all of a sudden I saw him look at my hand because I was holding a cup of tea.
And I saw him get completely distracted and he was hyper focused on my nail polish.
And I was like, oh my God.
He fucking showed those pictures to this guy.
Like I just busted him.
And of course he denied it.
But I mean, come on.
You know what I mean?
And this was my friend before I dated him, and I always saw all the girls.
So, of course, he would show it.
And would I even get mad because it's like I feel like guys do it to brag?
You know what I mean?
They're not doing it to put you down.
So whatever.
You know what I mean?
And that's the risk I take if I send a naked picture to a guy.
I have to know.
Yep.
You have to know.
It's intent.
Again, it's intent.
As long as the intent is not there to degrade or humiliate, you know, it changes.
But again, then, you know, I'm not.
tell me about this guy.
I'm not there to degrade or humili him.
I'm there to go, look,
here's a wonderful looking guy lying in bed.
Yeah, but, okay, let me ask you this.
Would you, if you, this is the deal,
if you cover his face and black out his face
and nobody knows who he is
and don't leave anything in his place
that is incriminating, like don't show the building,
so nobody could really pin on, pin it,
and you do it very anonymous.
You make it like what I do with my face.
show, right? I let people lie about, I tell
people you lie about your name, you lie about where you are,
you just be honest about everything else. I change
people's voices, I do whatever it is to
keep them anonymous, right? Because then
people will be more honest. If you blacked
out his, you know, face and
took anything out in those pictures that, like
I said, could, and you said he lived
in someplace where he does it and
all this stuff, like, you know, and maybe you said he was
good, like, if you hit it like that, like
maybe it would be less bad in my
eyes.
Interesting thought.
I mean, and that's,
the reality is,
I know the answer,
and I think you know the answer,
too,
and we all know the answer,
which is you don't do that.
We respect people.
I mean,
we want to respect people
and respect your lives all the time,
and that's the bottom line.
But I got to tell you,
it's just,
I was shocked.
I'm shocked,
and you were shocked.
But I think that you're like,
like I said,
I mean,
like I think that this is like I mean I talk to people all the time of my podcast like I said
and I'm like an over analyzer about everything all the time so I get into these kind of debates
constantly with people so I don't know and I'm always sort of analyzing human being behavior so
to me it's this is very obvious that that would be maybe this is your first sort of step into that
realm but I because I get the sense that you kind of have a mind like me like you like to analyze
you like to get this gather this data you like this kind of debate which which I totally get
you know, I'm just surprised that you're surprised.
Well, I'm surprised by the fact that everybody was like, again, it's horrible, it's bad,
you send them to me.
And that was just the constant theme throughout all this.
And it was, you know, it's like, can I be a bigger hypocrite?
Yeah, it's horrible.
You shouldn't share them.
What can I go get them?
And that was for, because I would just go.
and is it wrong of me just take pictures just for me.
I mean, that was kind of how, and if you read the original ad on Craigslist,
that was all I said was just, you know, taking pictures.
Right.
But then they opened it up to like, oh, I want to see.
So then it became more like, if I take the pictures, could I do it publicly?
Everybody wanted to see them.
Yep.
And it was like, but they always did.
I'm not all, but just like, ah, man.
Yeah, you know, yeah.
Just, yeah, that's horrible.
You're doing a horrible thing.
Let me ask you this.
Have you ever taken a picture of him?
I mean, be honest.
I don't know who you are.
I'm not going to...
No, I have not.
Okay.
No, I have not.
I really have not.
And that is an honest answer.
You don't know me and I can be lying, but I'm not.
Right, right, right.
But I have these wonderful glasses that we use for shooting.
And, and...
But I think what you should take out of this, Tom, peeping Tom, I think you
you have tapped into a really big fantasy that's out there, a really good idea,
something that people would be really into, something that could go viral.
I think you should start a Peeping Tom website and you could do all of this with your partner
or some paid model, right?
And you could do it legally with the consent of somebody, but don't make it, you know,
you could make it be like reality, like as if somebody doesn't know.
You know what I mean?
Create this exact scenario, but do it in.
a way that somebody, what's that noise?
Are you walking?
I'm sorry.
No, that was a fan
going on back.
Oh, okay.
So I think you could mock this up
and do it and all that,
with all that sort of creative ideas
you've thought about, you know,
with somebody that's consensual,
but don't let people know,
but don't let people know.
People want to, but see, but isn't that
what makes,
I mean, okay, all right.
Listen to me,
let me tell you this.
Okay.
think that when you're Googling porn and when people
are Googling porn and people want to see
like exhibitionist stuff, that
that's, and whether like looking up the skirt
thing, most of that stuff is not real.
But people in the moment, while they're hard
or horny, they want to believe it and they can
believe it. They believe it to get themselves off.
That's it. It doesn't have to be totally
real. Make it as real as possible.
You could do that.
People are stupid.
I mean, no, I think
not, I mean, I'm trying to think
of an example, I don't want to get overly graphic, but so I'm not going to...
Why, my show is so graphic normally. It doesn't matter. No, but I'm just, I'm saying,
I'm saying, you know, here's a, okay, okay, well, again, I apologize, I hope me to offend
anybody because it's a horrible thing, but this is the only extreme example I can think of.
It's like, if you were to watch a rape video and you see the girl walking down the
street and there's a cameraman and a gaffer and a sound guy all around her, she's walking
down the street, nobody's buying that. Nobody's...
thinks that's real. Okay, but you're not, you're missing the point. Okay, when people are horny,
and I've said this before my podcast, it's no different than them being drunk. People are not
in the right frame of mind when they're in that safe. So they are more likely to buy into something.
Okay. You're not, no one's going there like even if it's you, you're not going there with your
master's degree and your fucking logical mind. You're going there with a heart on, okay? And when
people have a heart on, they're completely different people or they're horny and their women. Okay. So
they buy into everything. Look at all the stupid porn that's on there.
A guy's jerk off to porn that has like smoke and mirrors and music.
It's the dumbest shit on the planet.
But you're in like a different mindset.
It's like you're drunk.
And so people would totally buy into that.
Why would you say that?
Now I'm going to argue with you here for a moment.
I'd love to argue.
Go on.
Go for it.
I'm totally right.
But why would you say because I'm horny, I'm not still in my right mind?
Because, come on.
Have you ever?
It's like when you're drunk, haven't you ever like, like when you're like really horny?
Doesn't your mind, like you have no control over yourself?
You're not in your right way.
You're not thinking with the logical part of your brain.
I'm sure like science could say that I'm right.
I have been horny and the person I've been with who said no and I stopped it.
Okay, well that makes you a decent human being.
Okay.
But what I'm saying when you're looking online and you're not doing it and there's no partner
there and you don't have to be, you know, and you don't have to sort of have those
boundaries because you're not doing anything wrong.
You're just going online and Googling shit.
You're allowed to be, you could be as dirty as
you want and you don't have to worry about it.
Well, no.
And so you're, so you lose all of that stuff.
I appreciate that. Thank you for the internet.
And, you know, we weren't born 20 years
earlier when we had to buy a magazine.
No, I love that. But
I still think,
I still think we can be in our right
mind. I mean, I still look at,
you know, and everybody's different.
And you're right.
And everybody has their different takes and different walkouts on it, on porno and everything else.
But I just don't, but I'm not necessarily saying, I would not quite being horny as being drunk.
I still think you have, you know, I mean, I'm a guy.
I'm horny every eight minutes.
So, you know.
I'm just saying that people are kind of desperate to, like, live out their fantasies.
And if you created one and you made it real enough without it being real, people would buy it.
into it because for that five minutes
they want to. It doesn't matter
that it's not real. They're just jerking off.
It's not that deep. Okay? So they would
get into it. And that's all I'm saying is that you have
all these great ideas about it and you're
thinking about it so much. I think personally
you should create this.
You should do the 365
days, but do it with somebody that's
ready, willing, and able, but
make it appear that they're not.
You have the perfect towels with the perfect blinds.
Just do it up.
Because that's what you should take out of this.
So you should take the fact that, like, people are desperate for this kind of scenario.
People love it.
Well, I think the one demographic that I went to is desperate for.
Yeah, but that's a huge geographic.
Okay, let me tell you, Craigslist is the gift that keeps on giving.
I've said it on my podcast.
It's on my tagline, okay?
Like, you could find all kinds of stuff.
There's a lot of people in this world, and a lot of people get horny,
and a lot of people go online and they look for things.
You don't just have to put your stuff on Craigslist.
You're talking to just, like, people that are looking to get off a little bit, you know?
And that's who you're talking about Craigslist.
And that's who you'd be talking to if you put out a peeping Tom website about a guy that you've been watching for a year every day in various sleep positions.
You would get a lot of traffic.
And I just believe you could monetize that and make some money.
I'm just giving you my two cents.
I used to work in entertainment.
So I think you have like a really good idea.
I think all these people coming in.
Who cares about the debate?
I'm done with it.
I don't want to argue anymore.
But it's like so at the end of the day.
So that's it.
Human beings are fucked up.
Okay.
You're surprised by it.
You can't believe it.
Now what?
I personally think now that you know.
that so many people are into it, you should actually create it,
but do it in a legal way, you know, in the right way and but make it seem real.
And, you know, if you're smart enough, you can do that because they do it in porn all the time.
Let me ask you this then.
Yeah.
All right, let me ask you this then and then I'll let you go.
Sure.
Would you give me this?
Sure.
Would you invite your listeners to email you?
Oh my God.
Yeah, I love it.
Yeah, absolutely.
And would you make sure I get to hear those?
100%
and be honest with me back
now again
deep down I'm probably not going to do
you know
I know it's wrong from the beginning
I was just shocked
and you said that before you were shocked
I was shocked that people wanted to see them
but I would love to hear what your listeners
feedback is
right because they're not on Craiglass
so right yeah and that's what I love
about my show is like people are no people are driving in their cars
they're truck drivers I hear from my people all the time
So it's a different demographic, and you want to see if this demographic thinks the same way as the people on Craigslist, right?
So I think that that could be interesting, right?
Are my listeners going to think differently?
Are they going to think the same, you know?
But I love shows that get people talking, you know, and this will get people talking.
It would be also interesting to know that if it was a 24-year-old skinny girl sitting there, if people's opinions would have changed.
because I think you'd get a different response.
What do you think the response would be?
Not just because, well, I think, you know, obviously, you know, a lot of straight guys are just going to go, no, I don't want to see that.
Women don't want to see it and all that stuff.
But I think once you go, there's a 24-year-old girl that you're peeping on, all of a sudden, I think some people's attitudes would change.
No, they'd say the same thing that people said, too, about the guy.
They'd say like it's not right, but I really want to see the pictures.
Right now they're just, so you just said the truck driver, and there's a gay truck driver.
I don't mean it that way.
But that truck driver who's driving down the road right now listening to this going,
I never want to, you know, get a good, Jesus, dude, I don't want to see that.
Right, but this is a given, whether it's a man or a woman, right.
Okay, that's a given.
Like, how do you feel?
They would come back going, of course I want to see it.
Of course.
We all know that that's what the answer is going to be, but I want to hear the debate.
debate anyway. I want to hear what people say.
I would love to hear people that think that
what I would really like to hear
is the person that doesn't think that it's
wrong for you to take the pictures and put it out there.
Like the person that actually would do that.
I want to talk to that person because that person
would be interesting to me because I think most people,
you know, I would just want to talk to that person.
So let's see who's out there
and what people think. You know what I mean?
And I think
I personally, like I said, I just think who cares
about any of that at this point? I think you
should create it. Or since you're not going
to and it's obviously you're not going to. Anyone listening
to the show, if you are out of work
and you don't have a gig right now
and you're creative or you're
online savvy, like, you should
create this website because this is
proof that this kind of fantasy exists.
I think you've had great ideas
that you've talked about and people should steal them.
So anyone listening steal his ideas. Do with
23065 days
of a naked man and think, create this whole
your whole, yeah, and send
him the link and
let him know how much money you're making every
about that he lost doubt on, okay?
Because I want to see it, did it?
Totally.
You know, but I won't be the one who does it.
Well, I appreciate chatting with you.
Yeah, it's fun.
Like, I mean, yeah, totally.
I love this.
I think it's really interesting.
I like, like I said at a podcast, I get people talking this one.
Definitely is what this one's all about.
So let's see what they say.
I'll forward you any emails, I guess.
You are fabulous.
Well, thank you so much.
Thanks for calling in, Tom, peeping,
Tom. Talk to you soon.
Thank you.
It's so hack, I know the name, but like,
well, you said I could call you whatever I want.
I was like, how could I not call you Tom?
Okay. It's perfect.
Exactly. Exactly. Well, that's a great name, you know.
Exactly. But I'll be in touch when I hear from my listeners.
I'll let you know.
I appreciate that. That sounds so awesome.
Okay. Thanks for calling in.
You bet. Are we still in the air?
Okay.
What did you say?
Okay. What did you just say?
I said, are we still?
I said, are we still on the air?
Yeah, this is my, this is I'm saying goodbye to you.
Yeah, this is our thing.
Oh, okay.
Well, I thought we just said goodbye, but I want to say goodbye.
Oh, sometimes I say a long goodbye.
Okay, but I'll say goodbye and then we'll be off the air, but if you need to say something.
People call in, write in, email, do whatever it is.
Let her know your thoughts because I want to know your thoughts because I'm curious.
Okay, great.
And let me know who's the person that's going to take this idea and make a real website out of it.
Keep me posted and I'll keep you posted Tom
You have a great day
All right thank you
Thanks guys thanks listeners take care
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