Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1330 -Scissoring, Pegging, Sex Toys and More w/Layla

Episode Date: January 8, 2026

Layla calls in to talk all about girl on girl action, pegging, the best sex toys out there and more. Tune in for all the details including an update on whether Layla has gone down on a woman yet, Kathy explains her experiences with woman and what kind of female she’d be into now, how great scissoring can be and how and why Layla is going to try it, how and why Layla is very into pegging and how she plans to peg her new sub, how and why pegging can be a super turn on for women, how and why most guys don’t request pegging, how Layla fisted a guy, exactly what went down and how and why she loved it so much, anal butt beads, how to use them and why when it comes to anal beads bigger is better for Kathy, the huge dildos that they both have bought and tried and how and why they really liked them, the best sex toy Kathy ever owned and why it was so great, why Kathy loves vaginal suction toys, Layla’s fave sex toy the wand and how and why it so amazing plus a whole lot more. REOEAT THURSDAY, originally aired 03/23 You can find Layla here: https://www.thecuriousgirldiaries.com GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To see HOT pics SAMIA plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — To get 10% off DRIVE Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Use the code STRICTLY at checkout for 20% OFF your entire order⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2540-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠— Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://motorbunny.com/strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Click to get $50 off! Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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I will put a link to her podcast or her website in the description. Today we got a little update on Layla's thruple that she's in. Last time we spoke, she hadn't like gone down on the girl or done anything with her really. and I was like a little disappointed. So we talk about going down town, girl on girl action, because I've had some and she didn't know about that. So we discussed that first. Then we talk all about how she's really into pegging.

She's going to be pegging a new guy that she has, the guy she talked about on the last episode that she's doming her little sub. She's going to fuck him in the ass. He's looking for that. So we talk all about that. And that then gets us into talking all. about sex toys. Start off talking about anal butt beads, then we talk about large insertions and huge dildos that we both have had and played with. We also talk about my favorite sex toy, which is

the clit kisser. I am on a hunt for one. I'm looking for it. We talk all about that, why it was so good. And then I talk about my other favorite sex toy, which you'll have to listen to. I just I'm going to gift it to Layla. I'm going to send her one because it's so fucking good. You're going to want to listen, girls, if you've never used this. It's a type of sex toy that I think a lot of girls haven't used. But I think you should because it's fucking good and I've used it and I know it's good. So you want to listen to that.

And then Layla talks about her favorite sex toy, which is the wand, which I'm going to try. I've never tried that. So we talk all about sex toys pegging, girl on girl action. and all that kind of good stuff. It's just two girls talking about sex, but it's a fun combo. So I'm going to be right back on with Layla. Hi, Layla.

Are you still going by Layla London? Just Layla. Okay, yeah, Leila. Okay, hi, Leila from Curia's Girl Diaries. How are you today? I am great. How are you? I'm doing good.

So you're back for Girl Talk. Everyone loves me and you do Girl Talk. You know, and I do think it's great. to do a girl talk with girls I know, right? Because it's easier to have like a convo. This is going to be a fun combo between me and you. I know a lot about you. You're a fellow podcaster.

You have a podcast called The Curious Girl Diaries, right? People could go listen to that if they haven't yet. You talk about all your sex capades there. I keep track of them here too on my girl talk Fridays. last we spoke to you, you had a couple that you were in a, like a thruple with as well as

a, you know, a guy who was into like, I don't know, what was he like into tease and denial and cockcages? Oh, you were doming him, right? But the one takeaway I got from that episode that I wanted to do an update on was the fact that you were fooling around

with this couple and you were like fucking the guy, his wife had been they're done that were girls, but you and her had done nothing. You're very much into her boobs. You're like, I love that, but you still hadn't gone down town. And she hadn't got down on you either. So I was like, you need to come back on. Give me an update. And we're going to talk about this because like, to me, I'm kind of like, what the fuck's going on here? Now, I have a feeling that you, I don't know why, what my guess would be that you have still not gone down on her. No, I have. I have.

I never said I wanted to. I guess that's why I think you're not going to. But why not? Okay. Like, why the fuck not? I don't know. It's a mental thing. I don't know.

I just, I don't have the desire. Is that like, I don't know. Is that weird? I just don't feel like. No, no, no. No, I mean, listen, you don't have the desire. You never thought about it. It's like right in front of you.

You're there. You have like zero. dress like have you ever when you're watching porn like watch lesbian porn and been into it or is no yeah it's no i've watched it and it's like it's hot but i'll have you ever yeah bitch i mean kathy had a threesome didn't you i mean listen i won't hold it against you you don't listen to my podcast i don't listen to yours right i forget like we're podcasters like i don't listen to any other podcast of my category nor do you but yes of course and i've talked about it many times on my show well i'm my 500th episode. Yes, 100%. Many times, not just once. How was it? Like, what did you like about it?

Oh, what did I not like about it? What was it all about? Like, you know, I had my first threesome, you know, one time somebody set it up. I didn't know it was going down. It was all sort of done and set up for me. I was like really drunk. It was like a really funny episode. People really need to, I'm not going to tell the whole specific story because I think a lot of people have heard about this whole story is kind of crazy and it's on my 500th episode where I talk about it. But, you know, a lot of my experiences with women happen when I was drunk. I am the type, though. And this is why I think I give you shit about not going down that like if you're just going to do something like, do it all. I don't have many. Do you know what I mean? Like, I don't know. Like you're like there. You done the guy. Like why not?

Just try. Well, wait a minute. Wait a minute. Why wouldn't you apply that to a guy? then because you certainly have limits with men. No, no, no. I, no, not with me and a guy. I've tried everything, anal, but, you know, every kind of thing. It's not like many things have been put that I said no to, except there have been, there were only a couple times that one boyfriend in particular, all the time while we were banging, like his friends would walk in. I felt like it was like maybe a setup, you know, looking back now that he was always like his friends just thought that they could come in and fuck me too. was trying to get like a threesome going and I always shut that down. I was not into it. But there was no conversations or anything, you know, but no, I, I, there's not really

much when I was with a guy solo that I didn't try. And anytime I had a threesome with a girl or was with a girl solo because I've done both, you know, it was to just fucking do it. You know, commit, go there, do it. We try it. I mean, how, okay. I'm a, I'm a slacker. I'm an underachiever.

What can I... No, you're not committal. I'm not saying you're a slacker. I mean, I was always like really drunk. I mean, are you drinking when you're with these people? No, of course not. I wanted to be like, you know, everybody's on the same. They don't want some drunkards showing up at their door still.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. See, I did all this shit when I was like young and drunk and, you know, having fun. And honestly, my hookups with girls were always, a lot of times when I was like broken up with a guy and it was kind of like my revenge fucking and instead of being with a guy. Yeah, instead of being with a guy, I always felt like being with another guy right after me and a boyfriend that I really liked broke up would be too reminiscent of him and make me so depressed. So it was like the girl was like the best thing because it was like kind of revengeful and I'm doing something else but it didn't remind me of him. You know, so somebody once pointed out like

Kathy, do you notice that you always like hook up with girls when you're like, just broke up with some guy? And I'm like, oh, yeah, like, that's what I do. And that's. Yeah, but also if it was like, you had to do it with alcohol, then, I mean, how do we know that authentically this is really like a Kathy Kay, you know, thing? Yeah, well, this. Yeah, no, absolutely.

It's true. And I would say that when I did go down on girls, I always remember feeling like, oh, there's kind of something missing here. Like the energy is too similar to mine. There's like that masculine energy thing or the energy exchange is something that I am definitely interested in. And I felt like when it wasn't, you know, when I was with a woman, it always felt like something was missing. And that's what it was missing. But I have thought, because I haven't been with woman in a long time, but I have thought that like maybe, because I was always with like lipstick lesbians and like hot girls, you know what I mean? Very feminine girls. And I was like, oh, if I would ever do it again,

or what I think maybe I'd be more down for is like a very handsome lesbian, like a butchy lesbian. Like I never had that. Do you know what I mean? Like I bet you that's an energy that might be different than the girly girl by girl lipstick, you know, drunk only when she's, you know, lesbian only when she's drunk girl. I don't know. Okay. You just struck the cord with me because I, I always feel that when I'm, you know, with Jill, like her energy is like my energy. And it's very, although I feel like I'm more masculine than her. She's very soft. I feel like when I'm kissing a guy, like let's say he's kissing me really passionately or I'm grabbing me passionately. I feel like I match his energy. Yeah. With her, with her, I feel kind of masculine in the sense that she, when I go to grab her,

I feel like, oh, I grabbed her too harder. Oh, I'm kissing her too harder. She's a lot softer. And then I kind of slow down and just sort of match her energy, but it is different. Right. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's different. But you feel like more like the guy in that relationship. You're the more butch. I feel like I In real life I'm totally not But I feel like yeah I feel like I am when I'm with her

I feel like Jesus okay I'm I guess I'm the guy Right but you don't like that But I'm just saying because you didn't really realize How much you liked tits right I mean that was a big revelation for you Once you got there that You know I personally think

Yes I though personally think You should just actually try it Because maybe you would if you tried it's possible it's totally possible i mean i might uh just so far i've just enjoyed kind of playing with hers and touching you know touching on the outside i just haven't put my mouth on it do you finger her on the i have not put my fingers in her yet it's just on the outside what about scissoring i think i scissured somebody once. Somebody told me I think that we scissors. I told me I told me I want to sciss her. Oh my gosh. So scissor her. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. Oh, okay. So you would be

into you doing the scissoring action with a girl. I mean, that's girl on girl contact. I would totally be into the scissoring action. Absolutely. I mean, maybe. Maybe. I'm, maybe she's used to butch women and I'm not butch. I don't know. There's something, something's weird. Now I'm questioning our whole relationship. No, I think what's weird is that I think she's being respectful and she's picking up on your vibes of not really knowing what, you know, what you really want and stuff. You have hesitations and she's completely respecting your boundaries. And I think that that's cool. And that's like a woman thing. Like, we could pick up those vibes, you know, and she's a woman. She knows what it's like and she's gone down town on girls.

Okay. She's probably scissured. She's probably been there, done that. Oh, she's full bisexual. Right. But she gets that you're not and you're not comfortable and she's obviously picking up on it because she has not made any passes that you or tried to push that boundary that you have. And I think some people sometimes, you know, we put out those kind of vibes without realizing it. she's probably picking up on your hesitancy. And she probably is like, okay, she's not down with that. So I'm not going to fucking push it. You know, she's got a good thing there.

You're giving her, you know, you're fucking her guy sending picks. Anyone wants to hear that story. You have that story on your podcast. I have it on my podcast, right? I mean, you have a lot of stuff going on with them that she's into. So I think she doesn't push the envelope. But I think if you said, hey, let's scissor or you moved down to go do it. She'd be into it.

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So I think she doesn't push to the envelope. But I think if you said, hey, let's sciss her. Or you moved down to go do it. She'd be into it. Yes. I agree. Yeah. And everyone on my show was like, you know, the comments were really funny.

They're like, Kathy, you always say you're not a dom, but you're like trying to dom Layla into going down on that girl. You're bullying me. You're a bully. No, they say it in a much better way. It probably is more of a bully than a hot scenario. The guy see it like, oh, you just want it. Like, I'm like, no, it's more like I just can't believe like you're just not fucking doing it because I would. But maybe then you try scissoring.

That's hot. Do it. I know. Oh, I've always wanted to scissor. Yeah. No, definitely. Really? Oh, fuck yeah.

Yeah. Okay. So, yeah, I think I've done that. So I think that you then should absolutely try that. You have to let her know that you're down with it, though, because I don't think she's ever going to make that pass on you. You know, that's a move you got to let her know that you're down for. Yeah.

You got to take a little control of her, too. Well, I do with a lot of things in the bedroom. I love to, she loves to be submissive. but I love to take control of her. I guess I could probably do it in that playful way. Get a little dominant bossy. Just be like spread your legs and then just get in there and start scissoring. Exactly.

Lay there, bitch. I'm going to scissor you. Cisertown here I come. Yeah. So wait. And now I do know though that you have a guy that you're going to be with. And when we were talking about what we were going to talk about on our Friday episode, you were, I was like to, you know, we're going to talk about going down and then you're like,

oh, I want to talk about pegging because I'm interested in pegging this guy. Now, have you pegged your guy? You have a guy that you see. He's a little sub that likes you to put him in cock cages and you're doming him. And now he wants you to fuck him in the ass. Have you done it yet? No, but I'm, I just was talking, doing a little research, had a gal on my show who that's, her whole thing. Pegging. So, you know, I wanted to actually get a good recommendation on a good strap on because I want it to feel good for me while I'm doing it to him.

So I just want to make sure I get the right one. Well, what is the right one? Like one that has something that's inside of you at the same time or like that's running on your clit or like how what's the right? Absolutely. I want to be getting off while I'm fucking him. Yes. I want every stroke to feel good for me too.

Right, yeah, because I remember I had one girl on, I think it was this girl Frenchy, who said that, you know, she was like fucking some guy's wife with a strap on. And she's like, and it's kind of weird because you don't feel anything. You know what I mean? Yes, you want something inside of me at the same time. So it's kind of, I don't know what it's called. It's called a, I want to say a fieldo. I don't know if that was the right term. But yeah, it doesn't matter what the name of it is. But what it is in the apparatus that she recommended is one that has like a little. plug that's going inside you or a full blown dildo going inside you at the same time. Yeah. I want something inside me at the same time. Plug, dildo and also maybe a vibrator on my clip. Right.

And then you're going to fuck him in the ass. And this guy is down for it. You've never done it before to anybody. No, I haven't. And I'm worried that I'm, what if I suck at it? You know, like it's a lot of coordination.

Guys are doing the heavy lifting. you know, when they're fucking us. And I appreciate them for that tremendously. Now I have to do it. And I'm a little, you know, nervous about it. I know. But, you know, listen, there's no heavy lifting as far as I'm concerned when it comes to anal because how long could you really last with adult sex?

You can't fuck anally for like two hours. It's just too much sensation. It's like always really quick. Isn't that the case with you too? And Nico is like literally this guy, he cannot last. I put his butt plug in and he spools everywhere. Like there's just no way he's going to be. He'll be a two pump chump.

Like I will. That's what I mean. You're not going to be fucking it for 20 minutes in the ass. I can't get fucked in the ass for 20 minutes. Can you? I mean, to me like two minutes tops. You can. Yes.

Yeah. Absolutely. Someone's doing it the right way. Fuck yeah. Yeah. No, to me the right way. I can't last for more than two minutes because it's too sensitive. It's just too good.

It's just like I just can't. I can't drag it out. I can. Oh, I can drag it out. You can. Yeah, I can drag it out. I can keep it right on the edge. Yeah, I mean, I'm loose.

Yeah, I'm edging myself. No, just edging myself. Right. That's interesting. Yeah, I always think that anal, for me, is always like the fastest way I come. And it's like, I think I take it very slow in the beginning because you don't want it to go in so much. So there's a lot of that in the, but once it starts thrusting. and that's where I'm thinking like you're talking about the heavy work,

like the thrusting, it's like a couple times. You know, it's like, you know, so I don't think you'll have to fuck him in the ass for a long time. He'll be like, and you said he comes really fast, so it'll be like a short thing, right? For him, well, for sure. I mean, I don't, I guess I shouldn't even, now that I think about it,

I probably shouldn't even worry about having, what's stimulating me because it's going to probably be his mouth as soon as he's done coming again. you'll make him go down on you right after yeah he has to go down on me a lot do you bring sex toys with him too I mean are all these like anal toys and stuff

like you play with him anally as well just with butt plugs or dildos too you know yes and fingers yeah oh yeah I love to get in there so but you guys and he but you fucked him in the ass with dildos though right they're just not strapped on no I haven't no I haven't done to dildo just fingers and butt plug

Right. And that's what he's looking for. He wants a dildo. He wants me to like full on, grab his hips, get behind him and fuck him. And let me tell you, I've had some girls on who have never, like, who were very into pegging. But they told me like before they ever had done it, they just didn't know whether it would be good or not, you know. But I would say every girl that calls my show and then winds up into it, she's like, they just were like, oh my God, it was so, interesting how much they took to it right off the bat and they didn't realize that they were going to feel that way. There was some sort of power in it that really turned them on that was unexpected

for some of them and it was way better than what they thought. So the gal that I interviewed today for myself said the same thing. She said that almost verbatim, like that this is what the feedback that she gets is that women, when they finally do try it, are really surprised at how much they just step right into it. They love it. And it's just like a new way to connect to their partner that, you know, they never have before. And obviously, and the guy receiving it loves it, you know, so that makes it even better. Yeah, for sure.

And the power in it, there's something about it that I feel like the girl. always say that they fucking love and especially the ones that didn't realize it. So, you know, maybe I like you should try it. I never have. I've never. I can't believe you haven't. I'm not a dog. We've talked about this.

I'm not a dumb. Guys would line up if you had a strap on that they could have you used on them. While I'm berating them. Totally. This is wide up your alley. like why wouldn't you see yourself doing this? I could totally picture it. Yeah, well, okay, I'm going to say this.

I never was with a guy that ever asked for it, you know, like ever. I only had one guy that was ever into anal. No, two guys. Two guys let me do anal stuff to them. One boyfriend let me put anal butt beads in him. I used to love anal buttbees. We're going to talk about some sex toys because we got to get into fucking anal butt beads.

They were like my favorite things. And they got stuck in him. once, right? When he was about to come, we were like, oh, that fucking sucks. But he, that guy, and then I had another guy that, uh, we did butt plugs together and he let me do butt plugs. But I never had a guy that would cop to the fact that he wanted a big dildo up his ass. And trust me, all the guys that I've been with and slept with, like, I'm sure there was many of them that were into it. But I think a lot of guys don't feel comfortable copping to that at all because they're afraid. It makes them gay.

It's so ridiculous, you know, but there's a big stigma attached to any kind of anal play when it comes to guys. And so I just think it's common that most girls haven't done it because most guys haven't asked them to, you know? I mean, how many guys have asked you to peg them? Probably none before this guy. Well, right. I mean, the only other thing I did was fist a guy that I would kind of like paying. Oh my god, you're so funny. Kind of like pegging.

That's so much more hardcore than pegging. It's hardcore. I know. I mean, I don't have big hands. Thank goodness for him. But yeah, I fisted him. Wow. Lela.

Had my whole fist in there. I know. Isn't that crazy? Were you into it? Yes. Yes. See, this is why I know I'm going to love, I know I'm going to love pegging. Because it really.

is and again this lady just took the words out of my mouth when she was describing like you know why men love it and the types of orgasms they have and I'm like yes because I've seen it I've given one with my fist and these these prostate orgasms are a lot of guys say like 10 times stronger than their regular orgasms you know and you're not even a lot of times having to you're not even touching their dicks I mean there is just it's all prostate and it's really amazing to watch a man respond like that his body twitching and convulsing. I mean, this was a seriously strong, and I'm inside of him. I could fucking feel it. You know, it was crazy. Yeah. Did you do it more than once with that guy or just just once? Wow. Yeah, that is real. It's just funny how you expressed yourself like, oh, you know,

I fisted a guy once. That's kind of like pegging. No, it's like a fucking, oh my God. That's like taking pegging to a whole other. It's funny that you fisted before you pegged. I know. Well, he asked me to, you know? And I was like, sure. But that same guy, though, never asked you to peg him. And you had never done any other kind of anal play? You went straight to fisting? Yes. He wanted me. That was on his bucket list. You know, we were like comparing things on our bucket list. And he was helping me with some things. You know, we were seeing each other for a while, right? So we were scratching things off. And then he had always had this on his list. And I'm like, okay, let's do it. Okay. Now, did you ever get fisted by?

Did he return the favor? No. Was that ever on your list? No. No. No. Was that ever on your list? That is not on my list.

No, I do not. I don't want a fist in any of my holes. None. Did you ever try anal butt beads on any guy or on yourself? No, I've never, that's, I've never done the anal beads, but I, I hear they're quite pleasurable. I have had a butt plug get, you were talking about his anal beads getting lost. in his ass or whatever. I've had a butt plug get lost in my ass. Yeah, I remember that. You used to

walk around with butt plugs in Target, right? I mean, you, people have to listen to your other episodes with me. At church. At church. I wore them to mass. I mean, like, oh, I was awful. Right, but no, anal puppies are great. I used to love them. I haven't played with a lot of toys because, you know, I've had my son for seven years and I haven't had, like, I've had booty calls. the same ones, but I don't like get as creative with them because they're more like service calls. You know what I mean? But like when I have a guy that I'm really with and I like like I like to play around with toys for sure. It's like fun and I always loved anal butt beads. They have to be pulled out like at the proper time. You know like you really like putting them in is a lot of fun right because you feel them going in and your partner's pushing them in and you put them all in. And then you know you got you pull them all. And then you got you pull them all. all out while you're coming. So you feel the sensation, you know, of them coming out while you're orgasming. And oh my God, it's like really fucking good. As long as everything's timed properly, right? You don't want to lose

the butt beads in there and then you miss the orgasm and now you've got to pull them out after you came. Not good. You want to, but if you do it properly at the right time, they're good. And I suggest to anybody if you want to do anal butt beads for the first time, buy the biggest ones they have. Like, don't go for the little tiny ones go for the big the biggest size aren't even that big but the big size is good you know and just like the shove them all in there and then pull them out when you come and they're good it feels really good wait are you telling the butt that you know ass play newbies to get the biggest of course because the biggest yes because they're not big they're not like the size of a fist they're like they're good they're big they're but they're the bas yes go for the biggest i don't know

i don't even like one finger in me i want three i'm just like you know, maybe that's just another part of me. That's like, go bigger, go home. Yeah, well, I don't think everybody wants big, big three fingers in their ass either. Maybe just getting one in. Just getting one in is like pushing the limit. No, in my pussy, I don't like one. I call it pokey, pokey.

I want like three. I don't want one little thing probing me. I like big toys, big fingers, you know. And I like big buttpeeds. Yeah, I am telling the people like, I like big butt beads. Maybe that's what I'm going to title this. I love big butt beads.

She likes big butt beads. No, but I mean, I just remember like I went for the biggest things and they're not that bit. Like there is like a small, median large, if I remember correctly. And the big are not really that big, but they're very pleasurable. What's your ass is open for business? It's, it stretches. it's good to go.

I mean, it's not like, it's not like, Oh my God. Listen, you fisted a guy, you know. I mean, it can accommodate. It can accommodate if you're really turned on. Right, but that takes, so, yeah, I mean, to get, we had to really warm him up to get the fist in there. I mean, it took, we started with the butt plugs.

Then we graduate to glass dildos that got bigger and bigger. And then slowly, you know, with, with him getting more and more turned on. and relaxed. Then, you know, I mean, it didn't, it didn't just go right with the fist, right? It took me like 15 minutes or so to get, get them all warmed up and then, you know, make a kind of a cone shape, kind of smush my fingers together and kind of like start going in. And I had to kind of work him in. And then I finally got him all in. It was like, oh my God, his sphincter is closing around my wrist. Holy shit. And then once he was like loosened up and you were doing it like were you like festing him for a long time or did he come like so fast?

It no, I mean, maybe like 10 minutes. Wow. So he was like just fucking loved it and he was able to last. Yeah, yeah. He was he was fucking loving it. I mean, that's what I was just in awe just watching it. It was incredible like just to witness. Yeah.

I couldn't believe I was doing it. And then like he said. I have seen lots of men come. This was something like otherworldly. Like he, his body was just reacting all over the place. It was incredible. Yeah, that's interesting. Does your new guy want a really big dick when it comes to like the pegging scenario that you're going to have?

Has he put in a request? Is he looking for something big or is he looking for something regular? Small. He's nervous. He doesn't want, you know, he's like being like a chick who's worried about getting her ass blown out. I mean, he does a lot. Which I don't blame him. Not like me.

Get the biggest one. He's not asking for the Kathy special. Oh my God. Oh my God. One time I, you know, because I always like, you know, thicker. I like girth over length. So whenever I was buying toys, like I said, I love toys. I'm looking to sell a toy on my show.

If I can't get Adam and Eve as a permanent sponsor, I'm going to. I used one. one? What? A used toy? You're going to sell it? No, I want to, I want to create an actual sex toy for my company, for my, for my podcast and sell it. You know, my strictly knowledge. Oh, okay. You know, I want one for my brand. You know that I want to sell. But I'm looking for. I thought you were saying, you were going to sell a used sex toy on your show. I was going to sell you. People would probably pay big money for that, Kathy. Yeah, they pay, but they offer me a lot of money for things already. I never say yes. No, so I want to sell a sex toy, but like I want to sell something that I love so I could really

fucking sell it. You know what I mean? Because if I love something, I could fucking make you love it because I know it's the best. And I love Adam and Eve. I loved sex toys and I always tried many different things. I'll get to my favorite thing that they had that I'm trying to find to sell to my people. But one time I did. So because I liked really big girthy things, I always looked for.

or big dildos if I was going to buy them. I never really liked vibrators because they kind of like numb me out if I'm using them for day after day. And it's not really like the real thing. I always kind of liked just more of a natural kind of a thing. So I always like dildos, right? That was always something I preferred. And I always went for girthier ones at one time.

I didn't really realize the way they're measuring their measurements. I don't know. I got one that said it was like three inches wide. So I'm like, okay, that's not really. But I mean, when it showed up to my house, it was like the size of like a fucking Coke can. I was like, how is this measured? I don't know. The girth measurements are very confusing to me.

You know. It was like a Coke can. I mean, did you get that? Did you get that in you? I did a couple times. And I had to like, I had a gym friend of mine at the time. And I was like, can you please throw this away? Like, because this is going to like ruin me.

and it's kind of hard. But when you did put it in, and I feel like maybe it's like that fissing thing, because I think, and, you know, when you're putting something in that big, it's just hitting everything. So it's super charged.

I have a big, I have a big dildo like that with a suction cup. It's like the Coke can. And I can only use it maybe once a quarter because it's literally, I'm not kidding. Like, and it's, the second that it's in, it fills every part of me and I squirt everywhere. Exactly.

Yeah. It's just really good. But I try not to use it too much because I just don't want to get wrecked. Yeah, yeah. That's what I mean. But so, so you have one too. You're like laughing at me as if you've never heard of it. I felt like.

No, I didn't. That's what I was asking how big it was because I thought, well, maybe it was bigger than the one I had. I mean, you know, there's bigger sizes than cook cans out there. Yeah, but it is like that huge, the hugest one they fucking sell. It is, you know, I didn't think I was getting something that big. It didn't look at that big in the picture, you know, and the measurement didn't sound that big. But of course I tried it because like, I do commit and I'm going to do. And anytime I used it, it was like fucking insane.

It would take a long time to work up to it going in. Yes. Right. Yeah, like, yes, you had to sort of move your hips and you need to really be open and relaxed. Yeah. Almost like breed like some Lamas exercises to get it in. It was, yeah.

Yeah, it's very time consuming. But once it would go in there, it was like. Unbelievably satisfying. Yeah. And explosion like nothing because I think it's touching things and everything all at once, probably just bought, you know. Everything. And the orgasm is like nothing, but I do remember asking one of my guy friends to take it from

my house and throw it the fuck away because I was like, this is going to ruin me, you know? And it is too time consuming. It was just too big. Yeah. But fun. Yeah. Interesting to try, right? You like yours.

You'll do it like once or a couple times a year, four or five times a year. It's like, yeah, it's like I really, if I'm really, really in the mood for it, like I just, want to be totally filled up. Yeah. Then, yep. Then I go for that. But I try to leave it as a distant treat, but I don't, you know, indulge in very often because it would just like, I could wreck myself with that thing.

Yeah. Well, this is what I did wreck myself with. And this is though what I want to sell to my fucking audience because to me, it was the best sex toy ever fucking created. and I cannot find it. I was once, you know, shopping on Adam and Eve like I would. Every now and then I'd just be super horny and going on to even just order tons of things. You know, I just love toys.

And one time I was like Googling, what should I buy, you know? And I'm like, okay, I'm going to go to their top 10 toys list. And on the top, the number one thing they had on their top 10 list was something called the clit kisser. Now, it's not like these clit kissers nowadays. like little suction cup air thing that's like sucking your clit in. This was a big like cup that went over your whole pussy right. Like you put it over and it was yeah you held the thing and you suction it. So you would suction yourself up so you would you would you would be coming gorge like

you would you know just fill up the whole fucking thing. But also besides just being one of those right because you could get that. I could find that alone just a suction thing that you suction yourself out and I personally find that hot. I like that feeling. I like to do that to myself. If anyone hasn't tried it, you fucking should because it's kind of hot in a weird way. So I've never tried. I've used those. I've used the other things that you mentioned, like the womanizer where it just goes right on your clip. But doesn't, I'm not talking. I haven't used one that's like suction on your whole. Oh, you should. There's something hot about it. I don't know what it is either. But it, there's and there's a lot to it.

You know, there's, it's not just about like what you do when your suction did so much that it's so fucking big and swollen. It's like getting there and it's edging and it's really good. I personally like it, but what this clit kisser did at the same fucking time is it had a big vibrator on top of it. So that was like moving in there. So it felt like someone was going down on you while it was suctioning and you were getting in. It was number one for a reason. And that's another one. I had to throw down my garbage suit because I wouldn't leave my house.

My friends would be like, Kathy, like, what is wrong with you? I'd be like my clit kisser like I cannot. I would use it like 10 times a day. I'd be like, I'm not going to leave my house. It was literally that good. Seriously. Oh, my gosh. The garbage heaps in New York, they're full of big dildos and click kissers.

My garbage one. Yes, that's when my garbage compactor is filled with. Huge insertions and clit kissers. And let me tell you that because, you know, that clit, I was like, I'm going to look like really bad down there because, you know, I'm suctioning the shit out of my lips and the whole thing all the time. And then the vibration, but it was so good. And I would use it like maybe eight times a day every day.

And I kept it for a while. And then I had to throw away because I'm like, I'm really going to look really bad down there after a while. And I went back many years later to buy the Clit Kisser again because I was like, I want that shit back. And people were complaining. I looked at the reviews and people were complaining that it wasn't the right thing. It was made different. The suction didn't stay on. But I bought it anyway.

And sure enough, this is what I love about Adam and Eve. I have to tell you. Like, their reviews and everything are real. Like, you could trust them. Everything that is, when people said it was number one and it was number one, it was fucking good. When it, people said, oh, it falls off and you can't hold it on and it doesn't work and this isn't the same thing.

True story. It never stayed on. That suction part of it never stayed on. So since I've been thinking about getting a toy on my show and selling it to my audience, you know, in my own sex toy that I could say. I was looking for the clit kisser and I'm looked on Amazon because I'm like I'll just find someone in China that fucking makes it and sell it but it's got to be a good one right I'm not going to sell my audience crap I want to sell that thing that people aren't going to leave their house for you know

the thing yeah great and so I found one on Amazon the other day and I ordered it and how fucking lame it was okay so bad oh no yeah it wasn't it wasn't right I can't find the kisser anywhere. It doesn't exist. I have found the substance. You got to get to Etsy. You got to get a vintage one. Or used one on eBay. Maybe I got to go on eBay. The one you want is no classified as vintage. I have to look on Poshmark. You have to pushmark. There you go. I need someone to greet the click is there. I did get it. I did get it. another suction one though just the suction thing and I have tried that and I have that in my bag of goodies in my house and it's still fucking good if you could find one because those suction things are hard

to find to work properly ones that fit you know uh you have to really look at the reviews and make sure that it's comfortable and it fits because if it is comfortable and it fits and it works well and the one that I found isn't so comfortable but it doesn't lose its suction. So it's not ideal that I feel like maybe if I could find just the suction thing, then maybe that's what I'll sell because I really feel like probably a lot of women haven't tried that kind of a toy. And I'm here to say like it feels good and it's hot. And I think maybe I could get a lot of people to try to try it. And I had a guy that was into it. I think guys might be into it, I don't know.

I mean, now that you're talking about, it's like, I'm curious about it. I want to try it too. Yes, well, because we do girl talks. You have to now, it's your homework. I'm giving you homework, okay? Oh, shit. Or I'll just send you one. I'm going to send you one.

Okay. I'm not going to, I'll actually, you know, you're going to do homework, but I'm going to pay for it. I'm going to send you a suction card thing. I'll make sure I get you a good one. I do a really good intel. Like I said, I read reviews. I look all over.

for the best of the best. I'm going to find you one that's comfortable. The one I have isn't ideal. But you're going to try that thing where you just squeeze and take your time and use it solo alone first before you play with somebody else, you know, just because really alone, it's fun because you could just really edge out with it for a long time, like squeezing. Yeah. And then you're like there's a sec.

You know, it feels like the feeling is like a suction, but it's a suction of the whole thing. gets like swollen and all the blood is in there I guess I don't know what it is about it but it fucking feels good now what happens when you take it off like how long is it take for your pussy a while yeah yeah a while like maybe like you know minutes but like 10 minutes like I mean it goes down though I mean it doesn't last for like six hours so there's the bulge in your yoga pants like if you have to dash out the door well yeah it's not going down in one minute but it's not staying it's not lasting for an hour. And that's what I find that I like for it to last.

And then when it starts to go down, you like want to do it more. So you go back. And that's the kind of toy that I find enjoyable because you could really edge out, which I like to do. I like to prolong things that I like. So I like for something to last.

You could really make your fun time with yourself last, really long with that because the suctioning of it and then the feeling of it when it's suction is so, good and then it'll go down a little bit and then you do it again and then you could suction it and just leave it in there for a really long time and then take it off and then you know I had one guy that was really into it of how it was when it was done but I've only sort of played with that with a guy with only one guy you know I wonder I want my listeners to let me know whether they think that that's hot or I don't know like would a guy like that to see that or I don't know god they would love it

are you kidding you think yes Oh, they would love it. I mean, you get really swollen. It doesn't look normal. But it feels no fucking good. I don't care. If a guy got a chance to watch you using a device that it caused your pussy to get engorged, they would absolutely love it. You're right.

Yes. Yeah, you're right. I would fucking go nuts for it. Yeah, yeah. So I'm going to get you one and you're going to try it and you're going to do it. And then so I was thinking like me. Maybe that's what I would sell then, maybe that. Because like I said, if I really do like sex toys, I think that they're super fun.

I think they're so fun to play with other people. I always use them. I always brought them into the bedroom with partners that I had. I love to. And then, you know, I play with them on my own by myself. I just think that they're great. And I'm like, I want to sell one on my show. But it has to be something that I really love, you know?

Do you have a sex toy that you? you really love? Like my goat, oh my gosh. I don't know. I get stuck in ruts. I'll be honest with you. Like where I just use the same thing over and over and I have a bag of wonderful sex toys, but I just tend to, I repeat, repeat, repeat, especially when I'm

masturbating. Yeah, that's not bad. That's not a rut. That's just like you like what you like, right? I do. And so what is it that's on repeat right now? it's my Hitachi Oh the wand

I was thinking maybe a wand But I'm so not a vibrator girl That I was like oh you know But maybe I should just I never tried a wand before Is that like better than a regular vibrator? Oh my gosh you've never Yes try it

You'll be throwing it down your garbage chute someday I'm sure Why what makes it so great Like if I'm not that into vibrators. Well, but see, maybe the reason is because it's not vibrating your whole pussy. This, you know, like the other one engorges your whole pussy. This one will get your whole pussy like engorge and tingly because of the, it's, the vibration is strong enough. You feel it also not on your clip, but just in your, all the way into your like bones, into your pelvis.

All into your pussy. Really? It's very. Yeah. Yeah. And all those nerve endings, you know, you know how your clit is, right? Because all those nerve endings that go around, you know, your labia and all that. Like, it gets like all of that is shook up at the same time.

It's amazing. Yeah. It's intense. That's really interesting. So it's not like just a regular vibrator, like a little magic bullet or any kind of just regular vibrator vibrating your clit. This is way is another level like apples and orange. like completely different.

I think it's, I almost, I could be wrong about this, but it almost seems like, you know, it's a different type of vibration. And it's just, it's stronger and deeper. It travels more. You know, it just covers more ground than one, you know, than just your average little bullet. So. I love that because I do want, if I sell something, I do want to, like, I'm going to try it. I'm going to get that for myself and try it because maybe I will love it because it is different.

And I did think about that. That is something that I've never tried before. Maybe there's something to it. People go nuts for it, right? There's must be some reason. I'm glad you brought it up because maybe I'll try that. And I love that because I, and if I really love that, maybe that would be the toy that I sell. I'll find like the best fucking wand and then get some great deal for my listeners to buy it.

You know, if I can't find the poor click, like the clit kisser is really what I want to share with my audience. Yeah. I had a girl email me. she must have heard me talking about on some episode recently. She's like, have you, where could I find that clip kiss or I'm like it doesn't exist? And that's what made me go on to Amazon and try and find it again.

And I'm like, I found one and let me see and it sucks so bad, but I'm going to try a wand. Now, are all wants sort of made the same? Or is there like a best one out there that you recommend? Well, I just go with like the industry standard,

the gold standard, which is, I believe it's a Hitachi magic wand. And so that's the one, yeah, that's the one I've always gotten. I'm sure there's, you know, knockoffs that do just the same. But I don't want to risk it. You know, like I said, I know that that works. It works well for me.

And you can even, like, you don't even have to put it right on your clip. I will put it above my clip, like just on my pubic bone. And it's fucking magic. I mean, like I said, it'll rumble and vibrate through your whole pussy. It's amazing. On top, really. Interesting. Yes.

On top of your, that's where you put it. And even there. I can, I can come. Yeah, pressure on my pubic bone does it for me. It definitely, yeah. With the wand only. Or with any toy? With the wand, just with the wand.

Yeah. No, with the vibration right there, right? Right in that spot. Well, I can do pressure. You know, I can have enough pressure. Like a guy can put his, like the palm of his hand right there. And push a lot of pressure. and do it that way, kind of, I guess, officially kind of like rubbing one out, but not actually

rubbing one out on my clit directly. It's just like right there in that position. Yeah, that'll, that'll make me come. That must be hitting your G spot maybe because that's where it would be. Don't you think? No, because above my clit, not even, that's farther away. If you're above my clip, you're farther away from my G spot. No, but isn't your G spot like kind of in and then towards the back, towards the front? So like it would be right up by you? Yes. your pubes bone, right? It's, it's, yeah, but I feel it, I just feel it everywhere. Like I do, I feel it looks like G spot and clitoral at the same time with all that

vibration. It's so strong. Like that's what, yeah. And same thing with the hand can kind of, a big guy, guys with big hands can kind of mimic that too. Yeah, that's interesting. So yeah. Okay.

So I'm going to try the wand. That's what I'll do homework. We'll come back next time on our girl talk and talk about our, you know, what, more about sex toys. because I personally loved something. And maybe I've pegged by then. Maybe I've pegged someone. You will definitely have pegged by them.

It sounds like, it sounds like all you were waiting for really was to get the information from that girl that you were having on, right? Like, so that you know the best like stuff to buy, right? Yes. I wanted to know what, yes, I absolutely wanted to know like good ones,

bad ones, things to do, things not to do. So I'm definitely excited. All right. And then maybe, yeah, go on. I'm just saying like, I'm turned, I mean, I'm definitely turned on by it. You know, I got little glimpses. I get little glimpses when I'm back there, you know, poking around, doing other things, spanking him or putting his butt plug in or pinwheeling his balls or something. You know, and I'm like, this would feel really good to fuck this guy. Like, I have the urge.

Yeah, you sound like you have the fucking urge. I mean, you're really pissed at a guy. Yeah, I think you're going to listen. You already know you're going to like it. You're like just turned on by. thinking about it. So for sure it's going to be a really great experience for you. Yeah. Yeah. I hope I don't suck. That's all I'm saying. I just don't want to suck. And I told you he's not going to last long. So you're not going to have time to suck. That's true. Right? You're going to pop him like four times. He's not even to know. He's not even to know if I sucked. He just, he won't be able to stand it. He literally will come so fast. Yeah. The other thing that the last thing that I'm going to remember to circle back on is the. scissoring. Okay, like, you try to

scissor your girl. Oh my God. Okay. Or get a double dildo and do that first. That I'm down with. Oh, that I'm down with. Speaking of toys, get that. That'll bring you closer. Like you, you know, that's something that is safe, but gets you a little bit closer to scissoring, I think. Yes. No, I could definitely do the double do.

though that's on my list. Have you done that? No, not that I know of. I mean, there was one girl that I was with I remember. Not that I know of. I'm telling you a lot of my girl on girl experiences was like I was so, I was just drinking like a lot, you know, and so we'd be at a bar and it would be like, you know, let's go back to your place or my place and shit went down. So I don't remember every single thing. I do remember one girl bringing out a ton of toys, you know, and I think I got some sort of infection from one of her things. I should edit that out, but I'm not going to. But like, so I think maybe I blocked it out.

But no, I don't think. I think I definitely did the scissoring ones. I don't think that I ever did the double end of dildo because I wasn't, like I said, I love toys and but I tend to get into them with partners that I'm with for a while, you know, and we talk about it and then like I buy them and then we have fun and I love to have fun like that with people that I'm having sex with. in relationships with. I never had like a full-time booty call girl.

It was, I've always had like, you know, guys. So the girls were always one-offs. So it never really got to that point. And like I said, there was one girl that had a lot of toys at our house that we used. I think maybe two girls were like that. But no one had the double-ended dildo. Because the other thing, too, was that all the girls that I wound up always fooling around with and I think this was one of the things that I also think was the reason why it wasn't

ever that great or maybe something was missing and maybe it would be better with like a butch lesbian. They were all first timers. I popped all the girls cherries. They were all like, oh, the first time like let's do it. I'm into it. You know, like I got so many virgins. I think I had one or two that were experienced. Oh my God. And now I'm like remembering I did have one butch lesbian and I wasn't really that into it. But um, but they were most of the time. And, you know, most of the time, they were girls at it was like their first time at it you know so nobody had any kind of girl-on-girl apparatus going on they were virgins before me yeah there's no I'm serious it was like 80s 90s this is when like girl-on-girl action it wasn't like yet the thing it was just becoming

and that's why like so many years later when it became like oh every girl's like yeah I have a girl crush. I was like, oh, who cares? Like, I don't know. You know, it was like so much, when I did it, it was like way more naughty, which I found hotter, you know, because it was more taboo, you know, whereas now every girl's like, yeah,

I have a girl crush and I'm like, yeah, well, do you want to eat her pussy? Because if not, like, you really don't, you know, I don't know, like, I think the real deal is like, just fucking do it. Yeah. Which I did and I tried it. But it was a long time ago, you know,

a long time ago. But, you know, you could do the scissoring, and I'd love to hear back on that. That's the other thing we'll do next time we have a girl talk because I love doing the girl talks with you. I think it's always fun. You made me realize like I could get a wand now talking things out with you. Always. I know.

Well, I'm going to get my new toys. I didn't even. I'm sure I'm going to love that one. And with everything that you're describing there, I'm like, oh, yeah, I'm going to have to put that in my dumpster. too. Yes. Well, you're going to send me your address. We know each other, you know, offline. So you, you know, when we talk, you're going to give me your address. I'm going to get, I'm going to get you a good one, a better one. And then, you know, you know, maybe that or the wand is something that I'm going to sell if I can't

find the clickhisser. But you're going to report back to me about that too. And you're going to fucking love it. Trust me. I know. I know you're going to love it. Because you loved even just me talking about it. Like you could tell. Like I know. Right. Oh, No, I can tell. Yeah, I can tell it's going to be. If it's getting the suction, if it's doing what you said, yeah, that's. Yeah, it feels really good. I think other people, other girls listening to right into me if you're trying it out or you have tried and you love it or you're about to try. And then if you do, let me know if you love it. Hopefully I've turned other girls on to it. But anyway. Or they know where a really good click kisser is. Nobody knows it doesn't exist. I'm like a, I'm a master Googler. If there was a click kisser out there that existed, I would. have found it by now. Trust me, I did the deepest dive. Poshmark. No, you said Etsy vintage.

I'm going to go to eBay. Certified vintage. One last try. I'm going to try eBay. I'm going to try fucking eBay. Okay. And I'm trying to get Adam and Eve to sponsor me. Something that's like open box.

I would never. No, if I get you, if I, listen, if I find one click kids are out there, trust me, it's coming to my house. Okay, but if I find you, if I get you a pumper, I'm going to get you a good one from a real place. And don't worry, it won't be from Etsy. But anyway, Layla, thanks so much for coming on. These are always fun. My audience loves when you're on.

They should go check out your podcast, let them know where they go to the Curious Girl Diaries. What else do you want to plug like your website? You have a private podcast. Why don't you to talk about that? Yeah, just, well, I have a private podcast where, I do one additional episode, or a week rather. And it's way more spicy than what I put out there on my public podcast. But you know, that stuff's already spicy.

So it gets even spicier. I do also little like 10 second outtakes, just audio outtakes of me with my partners. So that's pretty hot. Oh, so it's like real. Like it's like erotica, but like real. Like audio. Yes. Like audio.

audio erotica correct and and then I use pictures of myself as the cover art for each episode so spicy pictures so that's fun oh okay so that's available so how does someone sign up for that where do they go because it's not your regular podcast yep they just go to the curiousful diaries.com and you can click on the exclusive content that's right there okay cool so I'll put a link to your website curious girl is it's curious girl diaries.com I'll put a link in my website. It's the curious girl diaries.com. Okay, the curious girl. That's a big, that's a big mistake I made. So it's the curious girl diaries.com. Like I said, the link, it says a direct link will be in the description. So if you want to see and hear Layla in all her glory, which you probably are going to want to after you heard about her.

Here, go to her website and sign up for her monthly thing. You give them a lot more, you give them a lot of content. I mean, it's one extra episode week, right? Yes. Yeah. And then the bonus content with the audio, you know, the little audio clips. Right. That's awesome. That's awesome. Well, thanks for coming on and doing this with for me, Layla. You're going to get your present in the mail too soon. Oh, I love it. Yay. Thank you. All right. Thanks. Bye. All right. Bye. Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available, not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out

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