Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1334 - Siren is Into G*ngb*ngs, “Slut Weekends”, Being a Cuck Sitter and More

Episode Date: January 12, 2026

Siren is into gangbangs, Splash Mocha parties, being a cuck sitter and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including her first sexless marriage and how and why she eventually got divorced, how and why she use to get hit on by a lot of couples,how she met her current husband Socrates (ep 1279) and how she found he was in the lifestyle, the first sex club she went to  with her husband and all the hardcore things they did that first night, how and why they communicate with each other about everything that went down after every night they go out, the local gangbangs she started going to and what goes down at them, how they wound up at Splash Mocha events and what went down her first time there, how she gets flown out for gangbangs, her “slut weekends” and what goes down during those weekends, how her and her husband both play solo and how they make they communicate about their solo experiences, how she enjoys being a cuck sitter and what that means,how both her and her husband enjoy helping lifestyle couples and how they both do that plus a plus a whole lot more. You can find her podcast here: The Siren of Freedom GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To see HOT pics SIREN plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors: ⁠PikaVibe.com/Strictly⁠ — Click to get $15 OFF your purchase ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — To get 10% off DRIVE Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2540-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠— Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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oh my god siren's like just throws like i don't know there's so many times on this podcast that she just threw so many hardcore things out there like it was like no big deal you know like oh and then you know i had some gangbangs and then oh yeah i had like 17 guys in one days and i'm like what the fuck you know let me tell you you're going to feel the same way about siren because like she really does a 180 on this episode we of course we go through her whole life story. And I mean, she's somebody that really went from like one end of the spectrum to the other. Siren is Socrates's wife. Socrates was on my show before he runs the Bull Brotherhood podcast. His episode was great. I'll put the link to, I'll put the number of his episode because his story is

great and his podcast is great, the Bull Brotherhood. She has a podcast called The Siren of Freedom. They both really like to help people in the lifestyle. But really what we talk about here is her life story, which is like I said, super interesting because she goes from like, you know, being very religious and being a virgin for a long time and then being in a sexless marriage to meeting Socrates and like you won't believe what went down her first time she went to a Swingers Club. I mean she just fucking went for it and she's been going for it ever since. She's a really good storyteller. She has really come into her own her and her guy have a very open relationship. She now plays solo all the time. Like you know she like gets flown out to do gang

bangs all over the place and they love Splash Mocha and she talks about all of it. She's down for a lot of different things. She's pretty hardcore. She's happier than she's ever been. She, you know, is married to Socrates for a while. You're going to hear her whole story. I do have pics over of her over on my Patreon. Like I said, she runs the secret. She runs the Siren of Freedom podcast. I'll put a link to her podcast in the description. But anyway, I'm going to get right to be right back on with Siren. Hi, Siren. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm doing great. How are you? I'm good. I ready. You know, I kind of forget your whole life story.

I heard a little bit of it because I recently talked to your hubby with Socrates, your right-hand man. Okay. Not only is he your husband. He's also a co-host on a podcast. You're on his podcast called The Bull Brother podcast. You chime in over there. But you also have your own podcast called The Siren of Freedom. You are a siren, okay?

And you and your guy, I remember in his story, like you guys eventually met, you have a very open. Are you married or are you dating? I forget. Are you married? Yeah. We're married. So a very open marriage. But I'd like to get your whole life story and then work up to when you met Socrates, because I don't remember everything about you. I remember a lot about him. So why don't we go back, Siren, to like, I don't know. By the time you met Socrates, was he your first like marriage or second marriage? Or was he the first person that you got together with and had an open relationship? He's my second marriage. Okay. I was previously married for 10 years and had some. children. I prefer not to say exact numbers

on podcasts of certain things, so I just say, you know, I had children or I'm from a very big conservative family in the Pacific Northwest. Grew up homeschooled, very religious, was a virgin until I got married to my first husband. You're kidding.

No. Did you, were you masturbating furiously before that and always knew you were very sexual or did you have, like, were you totally repressed? I don't think that I really masturbated furiously. I didn't even, I didn't I think I tried, but I did not have successful masturbation actually

where I achieved an orgasm until I was pregnant with my second child. Really? So did you have any orgasms before that even from sex? Yes, but it was very, very difficult to come by. If I could get one, I was lucky. Yeah, well listen, I mean, here you, How old were you when you got married? 21. So here you are, 21's totally inexperienced when it comes to your own body. And for women, I think it's very important that we know our bodies and know how we get off and we orgasm.

And so how would you know how to have an orgasm? You never like went there yourself, you know? And there was very little education. Oh my God. No, there was the opposite. Which is very common. Yeah. It's very common. Almost all of my listeners that I interview on my podcast, which mine is completely

about sexual freedom. And we kind of do the same thing. Go through your upbringing. How did you learn about sex? What was your first sexual experience? Things like that. And it's very common that people have no education on sex. And my first husband, he was also a virgin. And so, you know, just common that we just, we didn't, you know. And then I thought, oh, we get married. Now we can have sex six times a day. It'll be great. And he was more like a once a week. Oh, my God. And it was like a lot of trouble for him.

It was very exhausting. We already did it once this week. You know, so I, I just, I took that all very personally. I could imagine because, you know, we all, as women, we always think like guys are just like horny. And most, you know, because the majority of them are, right? But that's weird, though. It is a little odd that this young guy who was a virgin finally gets to fuck and he's not interested. Like, you know, is he like gay now or something?

or is he still like, I just don't know. Maybe he wasn't into women, but, you know. At one point I did ask him, I did, still be your family, we will still love you, or are you just into men? Yeah. And he swears he's not. I've never really met another guy like him since or interacted in that manner.

But also, I kind of go by this motto is that every guy wants a girl like me until they get a girl like me. I've never, I've never had a sexual partner that could keep up with what, my, you know, appetite is. It's the Madonna whore thing. When they finally get the horror, they're like, oh, you know. But it's kind of, I don't understand why guys are like that. It just works against them. But you, so you are saying that when you started having sex,

you had a massive sex drive, like high sex drive. Yeah. And I always felt like I did. Like, I was always like trying to masturbate on like stuffed animals and stuff. Oh, okay. So you were curious. I was asking. Okay.

I was trying to. but I was trying to, you know, or, you know, but I just wasn't, it wasn't successful. Yeah. Well, so that's, yeah. So the answer would have been, yes, you were like kind of furiously masturbating. You just weren't successful at it, but that doesn't mean that you didn't want to be. You were trying at a young age. I probably would have been a lot nicer, which, you know.

You mean if you were coming all that time? Doing it then compared to now is definitely a different story. Right. So now with your, so with that husband. you're basically like in a sexless manner. You're rarely having sex, right, with that guy. What did you do considering you're such a horny woman at that point, like throughout your marriage, a whole 10-year marriage?

I was just very frustrated and crying a lot and just trying anything I could. I would ask him constantly like, hey, what can I do? I tried outfits and role playing and, you know, all different kinds of things to just be appealing to him. Yeah, of course. sought anything elsewhere. I've actually, to this day, you know, I'm in my 40s to this day, I've never, I've never cheated on anyone. You know, I didn't seek outside validation at all, because that's just not how I was raised. I was raised to be, you know, very monogamous. And, you know, I asked advice

from other women, like how to, you know, give a better blowjob, how to do this, how to do more enticing. And it was just really hurtful because, you know, and then I think there was at one point I was pregnant with one of our children and I woke up and he wasn't in the bed and I went upstairs and snuck up behind him and he was watching porn and masturbating. And I just was like, hey, listen, even if you just want to have sex quickly, please masturbate in me. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You know, it's hurtful, not that you're doing this. Like, I don't think that it's wrong that you're doing this, but I think it's wrong that you're doing it in place of me. Yeah, we're not including you. And that's that's a problem. Like he was like obviously right there like horny for something, but he, you weren't

included in it. And that's like the whole point of being married with somebody. You know, where's the intimacy? Like in his room alone when you're sleeping, you know, that's like a problem. You know, maybe he had so much shame because he was, I'm assuming that since he was a virgin to, maybe he was from a very religious background as well. And maybe he had like so much shame around whatever he was into and sex and stuff. Because it doesn't make sense that he was like so horny and involved in porn. But when the time came with you, he wasn't interested. And that's like I said, never about the woman. Never the case.

Yeah. And that's what, there was a lot of shame around, um, there was no shame around sexuality in my household, even though we were very similarly raised. Uh-huh. My parents were very open to talking about it, but it was just kind of like awkward. Like my dad was just sort of like, like, very like, uh, there's a hole and there's, you know what I mean? Like very crude about it, maybe.

Yeah. And my mom wanted nothing to do with talking about it. But my dad was like, oh, yeah, I didn't want to say something. So it wasn't, there wasn't any shame, though. And he said, and if you masturbate, he's like, that's fine. You know, you want to explore the body that God gave you. He's like, just don't do it with porn and don't do it in groups. Yeah, but you know what I got to say?

Because you did say, like, you never cheated and you said, I just wasn't raised that way. You never acted out sexually. You know what I mean? Like, he did give you a lot of good things with those kinds of conversations. So let's get to after, so you wind up getting divorced from that guy, right? You did say like most guys. Yeah, after he had two affairs. Wait, wait, wait, wait, what?

You're kidding. Which is so crazy. What a mind fuck. But also, I see full circle, you know, for him. It was a lot more of emotional and mental connection with these women. Yeah. You know, it wasn't really about, because to me, I'm like, oh, if you would have just been like, hey, I just want to go fuck some bitches.

Like, I could have understood that a little bit more than, you know, the connection that he needed to have. So for him, he just, he was probably more sapio-sexual, more, you know, who knows what. But me, I was just raw, animalistic. I was joke, like, I'm the dude. Like, I'm ready anytime, anywhere. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You know, here we go. You know, anytime anywhere you're ready for it, like, I could be ready.

So I don't need a lot of, you know, like warming up like a lot of women do. So it's just a very unique, you know, situation for me. Okay, let's get real, guys. Sex drive matters. And the truth is it can wax and wane depending on what's going on in your life or how you're feeling about yourself at the time. And that's where VB Health comes into play. Want to boost your sex drive in the bedroom naturally? Then you need to try VB Health's Drive Boost.

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do is visit VB.combe.com and use code strictly for 10% off. That's VB.com. Health. Use VB.com. Health. code strictly for 10% off or just go to the description and click on the link. Like I'm ready anytime anywhere. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You know, here we go. You know, anytime anywhere you're ready for it, like I could be ready. So I don't need a lot of, you know, like warming up like a lot of women do. So it's just a very unique, you know, situation for me.

Yeah, but the fact that he was like the girl in the relationship, you guys probably like you, it's funny that it didn't work, you know, because he was a little opposite. Sometimes opposites attract, but he wound up having two affairs and then you finally left him. You left him. The first one I didn't, I knew about it, but I didn't like have all the things lined up for like, you know, proving it. And then he copped to it when he was having the second one. Oh my God. And it was really about all the lies.

You know what I mean? Of course. That is more hurtful than anything. And that's what I love so much about the relationship with Socrates is that, you know, we do a lot of different things, but there's no lies. We, we tell each other as little or as much as we want, as the other person wants to know about the encounters or the people. And, you know, our phones are open. If we want to read messages, you know, or look at pictures or videos or whatever we want, it's all there. It's all open. There is no hiding things, you know. And that took me

some time to acclimate to as like, oh, this guy is really not hiding anything, you know. Yeah, well, and I would think. And I think a lot of men, too, don't understand, you know, that, hey, you can actually just tell us. There's a lot of women actually that if you just told us, you know, and talking to my other girlfriends that are in the lifestyle, it's like, we just want to know. And if you're like, you know, but I remember one of the days, you know, riding with Socrates, driving down the road, I was looking at my phone. He was driving. And some ladies jogging down the road. And he just bursts out, wow, look.

at that fat ass. And I looked up and I looked at him and I said, nice. And then I just went right back to my phone. And he looked at me like, oh, okay, she didn't, you know, have any reaction to that. And I was like, we just want to know. You know, you're a human being. You have these thoughts. You have these desires. It's like, you know, I don't, now I'm like, you know, I don't need to hear every thought that comes into your head about other women. You know, I just don't have time for that. It's more of a time issue than caring about the content. But, you know, it's just, it's just nice to know that you can't have access to that information at any time. So Socrates and I met on the Bumble app. And I was kind of, I had broke up with a guy that was a long distance relationship.

And I had broke up with him in June. And then I said, you know what? I'm going to give these apps one more try. Regular apps. And Bumble. You're on Bumble, right? Like so you're on, you're on a little. Right. Because I wasn't, I wasn't in the lifestyle before I met Socrates. Now I had been approached by about 12 different couples asking me to be a third. When? Before Socrates? Before Socrates. So over the course, I was divorced for about 10 years before I met him. Oh, okay. And over the course, I was very involved in our community and some adult sports leagues and met and got to know a lot of people. So people from there, you know, just got to know me. I was single. I was just outliving my best whole life, you know, to being single. Because I got divorced. I was like, we, now I can just.

really get my needs met because, you know, I can just go fuck whoever I want. No deal. So I had a great time being single. I, you know, I started to like crave like the, you know, the intimacy and wanting that, you know, partner. But I also was like, dang, I'm just really enjoying this part of it too. So I don't want to give it up. But I think just me being just kind of an open, at least sexual person, you know, in that realm, people just kind of could feel that sexual energy coming out of me. So, you know, several, like I said, about a dozen over the course of two or three years approached me.

And I always just said no, because there was people I knew. And I wasn't quite sure how it would work. And I also was like, what if the husband's dick is trash? And then I have to see these people again. And it was just very selfish. I was just like, well, I like these one-night stand situations because if the guy isn't any good, then it doesn't matter. I don't ever have to talk to them again. I was very compartmentalized about sex. I didn't need like a lot of intimacy or, you know, get to know you situations to just

get in there and enjoy it. So I felt like this was a little too involved, you know, with the people. So I never said yes to anyone. But were you curious? I was, I don't know if I was curious so much is flattered. I was like, this is awesome. People are asking me. This is cool. And I asked the last couple, I said, what is it about me? Because you're not the first and I'm sure you won't be the last. And they said, you're just so energetic, so peopley, so bubbly and just have great sexual energy, you know? So I was like, okay, well, I said, you know, I just, I appreciate the offer. I just, you know, several people asked me. But I didn't really explore it because I was still just like, oh, okay, I'm just enjoying what, just being a regular hoe, you know?

So about that same time, this June of 2021, when I had broke up with this long-distance relationship, my friend also was going through a divorce and she was hopping on the apps. Well, in her area of the country, she was running into a lot of couples that said they were ethically non-monogamous. And she talked to me about it. She's like, do you even know what that means? And I was like, I really don't. I've never heard of that. and so one of the couples recommended that she read the book, The Ethical Slut. So she said, this is interesting.

Do you want to read it with me? And I said, oh, sure, I'll love to read it. First time I read it, I thought it's because it's a lot about polyamory, but there's so many good principles in it that really just apply to like every, any way that you want to live the lifestyle, because there's a hundred different ways to live it, right? Yeah. And Socrates and I are not polyamorous. but, you know, it was just a great book with a lot of information.

So we recommend it also to everyone. So after I read it the first time, I was like, eh, I don't really think so, blah, blah, blah. Well, books, I usually read them twice because the first time I kind of don't get as much, the second time I'm able to absorb a little more of like what I want to get out of it. So I was about three quarters of the way reading it the second time when Socrates and I met on Bumble. Well, I am a busy business-owning woman, and I love efficiency, and I don't like to waste time. That's why I'm very compartmentalized about the sex thing. Okay, I don't need to talk to you for a month to get some dick, you know?

Yeah, I get it. Yeah, me too. Type situation. So I paid for what's called the B-line, and that is like 10 extra bucks a month, and you can see who swiped right on you. And then that way, you don't have to spend all night swiping left and right on people. you can just see who's interested in you and you can just pick from there if you want to. So I paid for that. I immediately sorted out, you know, who I would be interested in who and I pretty much was just into dating black men.

My first husband was white. After that, I interacted with, you know, all different kinds of men and just that just settled on being my primary preference. So Socrates' pictures were, he was not that good looking. He put up bad pics. He doesn't know how to take pictures of himself. So I tease him that he reversed catfish to me because, but I was like, I'm going to give this guy a chance because he's filled out his profile very completely. Yeah.

And at the time, he actually was just looking for more chicks to fuck. He was trying to, he was trying to do some polyamory stuff himself, but it wasn't really working out so good for him. And he was kind of just in this transition of like, I don't really know what I want to do, but I'm in the lifestyle. and this might be a thing and well I'm going to hop on this app or whatever so when we met well we started talking and I was getting ready to go out of town and so I said hey I am going to go out of town I don't really want to chat with you while I'm out of town I want to focus on my friends that I'm

visiting and and I wanted to go date and fuck a bunch of people where I was going to visit So I didn't want to deal with anyone else. I just wanted to, I wanted to bumble it up in the state that I was visiting. But when the date came, he hit me up. He put it on his calendar. He hit me up. And I was like, oh, this guy followed up. That's awesome.

Yeah. That's a good sign. And it was late at night when he was, he had a business. He was also Ubering part time. And he said, well, I can't, I can't hang out to like 10 o'clock at night. And I said, okay, well, so I go to the place where we met. And I got there probably. probably two seconds before he did.

I sat down at the bar. He put his hand on my shoulder and he said my name and I looked up at him and I said, well, you're hot because I was so surprised. Yeah. Because his pictures, he just wasn't very good looking. Okay. And so he was much better looking in person and I was kind of just shaking up after that because I was like, oh, then he had brain cells and we talked to business and

the conversation flowed really well. I forget, can I just ask you a quick question? And I have to like, because we're going to get to the hot story soon. But like, was he involved in the lifestyle before you? And if so, did he bring that up, like on that date? Did you know that about him in the beginning? No, I didn't. He was involved in the lifestyle, yes, for several years before.

He had been a single bull. Oh, right, right, right. And then he had been involved in it with his previous wife. But he's not telling you this on the first date. I mean, you think you're just meeting this regular single guy, Uber driver. Right. Oh my God. Uber driver slash business guy.

Little to you now. Little to you now. And so it's no big deal to me because I'm like, well, great, if I just can fuck this guy and like move on his life, like, I'll be fine too. I'll get something out of it. But I knew immediately, though, that I liked him for a little bit more than that, at least. I knew I didn't want to just hit it and quit it or I probably would have figured out how to do it that night.

But I ended the date. And then two weeks later, we had been seeing each other. I think we had sex after a week. And then I walked into his room in the daytime. And there was all these hotel key cards lined upon his window still. And I said, I said very excitedly. I said, ooh, what are these? And he said, you don't want to know.

And I said, yes, I do. And he said, okay, well, do you know what being a bowl is? And I said, oh, yeah. I was like, isn't that when like a couple gets? you and you go to a hotel and the husband watches or records and you fuck the wife and it's great time. Yeah. And he's like, yeah, how'd you know? And I said, well, I love black porn.

Oh. Like, I love black porn. Like, I just, so I, so I knew about it to some degree. And then over about, took me about four months. He said, well, is that what you're doing right now? And he said, well, I stopped when I met you because I wanted to get to know you and I wanted you to decide for yourself if you wanted to do this. Interesting.

So it was kind of up and down, you know, for four months of me, like, listening to him, asking questions, doing my own research, listening to podcasts, et cetera. And then I just kept thinking, I need to talk to another woman about this. So I finally figured out there was a woman I knew from a Facebook group and I was like, I think she's not to this. So I talked to her for a few hours and she basically just, you know, reiterated what he said from a female perspective. And I said, let's go. So it was about four months after we met. And then we went to a club outside to Seattle called Sapphire. And wait, this is going to be your first time in a sex club, right?

Right. Okay. But I watched like all their videos that they had on their website and saw if there's anything on YouTube, you know, just to kind of see what the layout of the club was. So I wouldn't be blind walking in. Yeah. You know, a few other things. And then I went in and I was just sweating bullets, you know.

But the boyfriend, the boyfriend that I had before him had also been a bull in the lifestyle before me. And so he kind of said a few things, but he was like, slow rolling the whole get into the lifestyle thing. But he told me something very important. He said, he had asked me about going to hedonism. And I said, well, do I have to do this? Do I have to do that?

And he said, in life, you never have to do anything you don't want to do. He's like, always remember that. So I carried that with me. So when I went to Sapphire, you know, Socrates was like, hey, we can, we kind of, we had like some ground rules, like, want to do this, want to do that. It mostly was just about communication. and if we get in a situation, we'll just say, I need to take a break.

And then we'll pull to the side and talk about whatever is going on. Oh, but no, we went in there, we got dancing, and I just got antsy. And I said, let's go in the back and get the show on the road. So we went in the back, all these couples were fucking in this huge playroom. And I said, let's just do our own thing. So it was so cool because I could hear everyone. The couple on the bed next to us was, you know, fucking and having a great time. They didn't even know we existed.

And then I had seen a very sexy black man with nice arms. And so after we were done, Socrates and I said, I saw the guy and I said, can I just go up and ask him if I can touch his arms? And so everything, we'd like, hey, is it okay if I do this? We would ask each other. And then we would ask whoever we were approached. So we asked, asked, asked, asked, ask. So we ended up, I, then the guy was like, hey, do you want to suck my dick?

I was like, hey, Socrates, can I suck his dick? he's like yes so then the guy's like you want me to fuck you and I was like can he fuck me so he bent him me over I suck socrates dick why he was fucking me from behind oh my god these other two girls came up we ended up playing all five of us first time there was like a couple yeah this is my first night and then there was like a couple that was in there too like I totally ate her pussy and she was like oh my god and I was like well I've only done this once like 12 years ago oh my so I hope it was okay and then uh we ended up like full swapping with them that night and then I think we I can't remember if we went back a

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It's not near us. So we went, that was like Friday night, and then we went back Saturday night and, you know, a whole bunch of other experiences. So for a while we went to Sapphire, that would be, you know, we'd have to take a trip there. And there was kind of the closest thing to us. And then later on that year is when we kind of got into the big leagues with going to hotel takeovers and such. Wait, let's just stop there. I got a couple questions for you for that first experience because you went all out, right?

Like, I mean, were you just like on board right after that? Like, no looking back. Is that just the way you roll? Yeah. When I decide something, I'm ready. I think he said that about you. That's what he, I remember him saying that.

And so, and like, do you guys after that have any boundaries? Because I don't know which, because he said we kind of had some boundaries going in, but it sounds like once, you know, you were there, it was like a free for all.

I mean, were you asking anything else? Or like, did those, a lot of those rules and stuff go out the window? No, we didn't, none of the rules went out of the window because it was all rules like just about communication mostly. So there really wasn't any rule. There wasn't physical stuff.

Like you can't kiss or you can't do this. So, well, there was like minimal kissing. Okay. Can we just do minimal kissing? Because I'm like, I don't want to just watch you make out with someone. Yeah. It was harder for me to like watch him make out with someone than to eat their pussy. Yeah, I got it.

I know that sounds so weird. No, a lot of people feel that way. That was just like, you know, because we'd only been, we hadn't even been together six months. You know, it happened. And I'm new to this world and everything. And it was like no, no anal or no, you know, whipping or like, flogging or anything like that. It was stuff like that, you know, but everything else was just ask and then we would always go to McDonald's afterwards and talk through every moment of the

night and say, okay, how did you feel about this? Okay, do you want me to do anything different next time? How did this, how did you feel when this happened? So we would just go through, and we did that for at least the first year, is every time we would do anything lifestyle, we would just talk through play by play afterwards. And that really helped. And then, you know, we would go home. And he's like, okay, we always go home. He's like, we mouthwash, we shower head to toe, you know, do the whole scrub down and make sure we're, you know, we did condoms and all that good stuff. So try to keep the cleanliness and the hygiene and, you know, protection.

And then we would we would always reconnect with each other after we had that talk. So after talking about it all, you know, you're all amped up and then we would, you know, fuck each other. And then make sure. Yeah. Oh my God. I love that. That's actually really great. I'm sure you talk to people about like, you know, that's like great advice for other people to do what you guys did. I don't know if that, you know, if you did that intentionally and you had it all planned out. But it is a great, great way to roll because it is all. My husband is very intentional. And he is very consistent. And if he messes it. And, you know, it's not like we have both broken rules and then had to come to each other and be like, oh, I was in the moment. and fucked up and this happened, you know, but we know that like we're both consistent and we both love each other, you know, and it's, it's been my emotional and in many ways I, you know, it's my dojo. It's my place to work on jealousy, you know, and now I just tell him. I just be like, I'm just really feeling jealous because I want this girl to only play with us for a little while and I don't want to share her with our friends because she's so awesome and I'm being greedy. So, you know, it's been almost, it's been almost four years. Now you start to go to hotel, take over it. That's a whole other experience, right? Because is it the whole like splash mocha deal? Well, there was gangbings in between there.

Oh, okay. So why don't we go there first? We went to local gangbings. Okay, let's go there. And I'd never been to one of those. And of course, you know, I just had a blast jumped right in. And men of every shape, size, you know, ethnicity, everything. But after a while of those, like every, we went to those, like, every three weeks.

And I was like, babe, I just, he's. He's like, you're a queen of spades. And I'm like, but what does that even mean? I don't want to be exclusive. You know, I don't want to leave anyone out. And he's like, you prefer what you prefer. And he's like, and I think that we need to find a place where there's more black men. And I said, okay, well, figure it out, you know?

And so he found Splash Moka. And we booked that for Houston of so November of 2022. and I got on the group chats and a whole bunch of guys started talking to me because I was fresh meat. Oh my God. And I was kind of overwhelmed with that, but I was like asking him, okay, is it okay if I'm sending pictures? It was okay if I'm talking? You know, because it was a lot. It was a lot.

It was very overwhelming. And then when I actually got there and I walked into the building, we went there like the day the event started. Now we always go a couple days early to get acclimated. But the day the event started. So I walk in. and it's just a whole lobby just full of all these gorgeous black men of every, you know, background, every shape, every size, every height, you know, everything. Everything you could want.

It's like a chocolate shop, you know. And I just stood there with my mouth hanging open. And he's like, well, go talk to somebody. And I said, I can't. I went and sat in the corner. How come? And he's like, I'm going to get you a drink because he's like, this is not like you. Yeah, yeah.

Were you intimidated because there were so many hot. Guys? Like, what was it? I just didn't know. I said, do they choose me? Do I choose them? I don't know how to get, I didn't know how to get started. Yeah. And I was just so amped up. I said, I need you to take me upstairs. You need to fuck me. And then I will calm down. And then I can come down and like be normal. So then I just started talking to people. And then by the second day, we met another couple. Her and I ran off together. Socrates ran off with the husband and they had a great time. And we just checked in. We just played down in the playrooms. We had one experience each in the room solo with someone.

I didn't like it. How come? Because he just wasn't around. He wasn't there. Like, I just, it was weird. It was just different for me. So the first time I didn't care for that. But then when we moved into like solo play back home and after that, we just, we really

grew after that experience. And now we go to like two or three of those a year. So did that become like one of your favorite places to go? Oh, for sure, because it's just so accessible. But then, you know, I became friends and got to know so many guys. So now I fly all over and do. Oh, and you do play solo. Yes.

It took us, it took us a while to transition to solo play. Yeah, I was just going to say, because you just said you didn't enjoy it the first time, right? No, because I felt just like, you know, nervous. I just was like, oh, I know this guy's like not going to hurt me or anything or do anything. But it just, I felt like I needed Socrates there to like approve what was going on and make sure that it was all okay, even though he was always fine with stuff. You know, it was me that took a long time to be, okay, well, like, what's happening and this and that? And now I prefer solo because I, it's an escape. You know, my life is so busy outside of it.

It's nice to just be one on one with that person. Enjoy your time. I've got, you know, lots of little jokes with the guys that I play with now. and, you know, I love the different genres of music they choose. You know, there's just so many fun little thing, you know, that you can enjoy from that solo play. So we mostly do that. But we do, you know, I feel like we're very diverse. We have, we go to parties, we do threesomes.

I'll surprise him with three sums. Like, we'll do all kinds of things. Threesums with men, threesomes with women, all of the above? Mostly threesomes with other women because other men get nervous with the husband in the room. and then things don't go that well. Do you still do gangbangs? Do you like a gang bang? Are you one of those?

Because I've heard that it's like a lot of women's fantasy. I do them at Splash Moka. Or I'll get flown places. Like I am getting flown by a group called the Midwest Bulls that are flying me out to their area in March. And I'm sure there'll be some gangbangs there, but then there'll be solo time. So basically for the weekend,

that bringing me there. Okay, you just throw this out like this is, tell me I'm pretty. Okay, you just throw that out like this is just a regular thing. Okay, like you got to like elaborate a little bit. Like is this like a content creator company or something? Like, you know what I mean? Oh, no.

No. I mean, I don't do content. Yeah, yeah. I mean. I get it. But wait. So these people like they set up, they're like gang bang coordinators.

They set up these like sort of experiences and you're taking part in a gangbang. Yeah. So it's someone we met at Splash Moka and then they will have certain women that they choose. Yeah. It's not like anybody can just get signed up for it. They get to know you. They choose you. And then just certain women, they'll fly in and do different things for.

Yeah, they have a group. I'm not in the group chat. I just made a video for them, you know, just in regular clothes, just talking to them and saying, hey, this is what I'd like to experience that weekend. excited to see all of you guys. And more than likely I've met quite a few of them at different events already. But I won't know who's actually attending until I get there. Just the main guy that my husband knows and trust.

And then he, you know, make sure the rest of the guys are good people too. So, you know, it's just building that network of friendship, of trust, of community. I think pretty much every weekend through April, every other weekend when I don't have my children, I am booked to be somewhere. Really? Doing at a party or being a, they call it being a fuck toy, like when I go to play these weekends. Or I have slut weekends where I'll go somewhere and I'll line up the guys myself, like three or four. Last year, this year for my birthday, I went to Houston. And I just got a hotel room by myself for three nights.

And I had about 17 guys come through. Oh, my God. Siren, slowed the shit down. I mean, you do not disappoint. Are you fucking kidding me? 17 guys. No, I know you're not. But you talk about it like it's like every day.

I know it is for you, but not for most people. I know. It's kind of crazy because I think at first two, I was like, this is, I get to do this too. Yeah. And even Socrates, he has a lot more on the home front because where we live. he's a lot more of a hot commodity than a thick white woman, you know? So I fly to the places that are more diverse and get most of my action out of town. Although I don't completely suffer in town.

We've built up a good little group of guys. So you really could do stuff all the time, but you've got to live regular life as well, you know. So how did you get those 17 guys to show up? That's a lot. That's a lot of work. That's a big turnout if you ask me. Well, I just put, you know, like, hey, I'm coming to Houston in the group chats. By then, we'd been to several splash mocas.

They'll tell their friends. One guy picked me it from the airport, took me to dinner, you know. Then we played that night. Then I had a few come through the next day. Then one guy brought me two up. I should include there was two parties in there. So that's not entirely fair to say 17 came through the hotel room. I went to two different parties.

But the parties weren't, there wasn't like a lot of people at the parties. And then one day in particular Yeah Well and some of the girls there I think were like at the They're just kind of like oh this is what we do all the time So it's not as exciting to them maybe Whereas me I'm like we don't get to do this where I live

So when I go there I'm a lot more down to fuck Than maybe some of the women that are just Can have access to it all the time you know Yeah that's kind of interesting So it was like Super Bowl weekend And during half time I said I'm going to be upstairs in the playroom at this house, I said, anybody who wants to come through and fuck me, come on up. Wow.

So they just came through and they just each took their rounds. And then I only had one negative experience out of that. One guy just was pushing on my back and I said, you're hurting me. And then he pumped three more times. And I said, get the fuck off of me and get out of here. But I'm very, very verbally assertive. I have no problem communicating, you know, no, I don't want that. Yes, I want this.

Yeah. Uh-huh. Yeah, that's great. I think that's, that helps also. I think my husband to feel, you know, more confident in being able to just send me out. Plus, man, especially the guys in Texas are so great. They were texting him the whole time like, okay, we got her from the airport. Okay, we got her to the hotel.

Okay. Yeah, that's nice. I'm leaving. Okay. I'm bringing your coffee. Okay. I'm taking, you know, they just took care of me. One guy in particular, I had flights canceled.

He ran back and forth. I ended up hooking. him up with a local gal who was kind of like, I don't really like local men. And now they're madly in love. And they've been dating for like eight months. And I, and I said, you don't like these guys, but I said, have you experienced this guy? Because he is amazing and he treated me like a queen the entire weekend. And now she's dating him. And so that's super cool. Like, I love stuff like that too. Yeah. So does your guy like to hear the story? Let me ask you this. Is your guy like is it just like oh freedom go do what you want i'm cool i'm here waiting for you or is he

actually into you going out and fucking these other guys and hearing about it and knowing that you're doing it or is it just like a you know a very open relationship or is it like oh he's into hot wiping i don't think he's i mean at first he used to require videos like okay when you go you got to have a video and send it to me and all this stuff well then i was asking for the same thing well we both could get caught up in the moment and forget to record or this or that. And I finally just said, do we have to do that? Like, how about we just record if we, if the moment strikes us and we can tell each other about it. So I think we're into our own experiences. And then every single night we get in the hot tub and we talk about, oh, I got this going on or got that going on. So it's kind of just

like best friends, like talking all the time about what's going on. And then he'll watch videos of me and stuff, but sometimes guys, it's not that exciting for him because he's like, oh, I've seen this a thousand times, you know. So there's certain guys he's definitely more excited about seeing a video of me fucking them than anything else. But he does love bragging to his friend. Oh, yeah, my wife, because he calls me a slut secretary. Yeah. So I put stuff on the calendar for him and get things set up. But I just recently, I'm like, you do all the communicating with these women. And then you tell me to get you the date with him and I'll put them on the calendar for you

to keep it all straight so we don't mess things up but I think too he likes me going out of town then he will usually do a bunch of stuff while I'm out of town right so he plays solo two with women yep and then sometimes they'll get

there'll be another dude that they'll give a lady a threesome or something you know and do you get off on that or you're just not like into it but just totally okay with it I'm more just like it depends on how well I know the people involved. Yeah.

If it's like someone that I've become friends with, I get very excited about it and want to know more details and see videos and pictures. Yeah. If it's someone I don't really feel connected with, then I'm just like, okay, that's cool. Yeah. You know, glad you have. I'll be like, did you have fun? Okay, great. And that's like, okay, what are we doing for dinner?

You know, I don't really get off on it either way unless it's someone I'm, like there's a couple. We're very good friends with them now. we do very successful full swaps with them. And if him, if her man and my man were planning something for her, I would want to be involved and help get set up so it was really, really good because I'm good friends with her and I like that. But if it's just some kind of random new girl, I'm like, well, I was like, I want her to have a good time because I, you know, I want to be proud of you and that you're putting a good product out there, but I don't really have a personal investment in making sure she has, like, the best time

until I get to know her. That makes sense. Yeah, totally makes sense. What about that little? I mean, listen, you've come very far in this time that I've talked to you from, like, this young woman who is, you know, in a very religious household, virgin until she's married in a sexless marriage for so long, you know, and you're like literally like the opposite end of the spectrum, having gangbings, 17 guys in a day, like.

when you look back, are you like, I can't believe? Like, do you feel like, oh, you finally found yourself? Do you feel like, oh, you never could have imagined being like this? Like, I mean, because you really did like a 180. You went from one end of the spectrum to the total other. I honestly feel like I was born this way and meeting my husband and having a safe person, an educated person to do it with, unlocked everything. because I didn't squirt until I met him.

Interesting. You know, and now I do it all the time. You know, just a bunch of different things that he just unlocked. And he can unlock for other women, too. So I just think, men, if you're out there, like, don't be so ego-driven that you can't learn. Because if you will take the time to listen to other men, like listening to the Bull Brotherhood podcast and gleaning from these guys, that have been doing it a while, you will learn so much and you, not only will you personally have a better experience, you will be able to bring quality to these women in your life,

and you will just have such a better experience, but there's so many guys that don't want to listen. And so that's the biggest thing I do. And some guys play too, I even will use that. Like when they're improving in the lifestyle, you know, I heard that this one guy I play with, he was stepping up to the plate with his girlfriend and really like being a real man in regular life. And I used that during play because he said, you're so sexy. And I said, you know why you're so sexy? And he said, why?

And I just was grinding on him. I was riding on top of him. And I said, because I've been hearing how you've been taking care of my friend. And so I'm just talking to him about her and how good of a man he's been being to her while I'm fucking him. And then I like said one like final statement. And I said, that's what turns me on about you. And then I just squirt it all over him. Was that the.

Oh, I was going to say, keep going. Sorry. No, no, that's it. And so I checked in with her afterwards. I said, this is what I did. Yeah. What do you think about that? She's like, that is incredible.

Thank you. So I like to use it. Like, we're having fun. We're having a good time. But if they're in a relationship, I always bring something in about their partner and have. how amazing their partner is and how, you know, during it. Yeah.

You know, so to, because we want to help people's relationships become better through the lifestyle. I'm not trying to take anything from there. I'm trying to add value. And I know that's what my husband's doing as well with the married people that he plays with or partnered or, you know, whatever you want to label it. So that's really our goal is just to help people be able to grow in that and know that the different education, the play is all supposed to enhance and make their life better. It's not supposed to cause problems.

It's supposed to enhance it and make it even more powerful. And tell me so, because we're going to promote your show and your husbands, like you just said, like that's what they talk about and they're trying to help guys. Like who were the guys that should be listening to their podcast, guys that want their wives to fuck other people, guys that just want to be like, you know,

closer with their women or, you know, and have better sex like all of the above. Like, you know, who's going to benefit from tuning into your husband's show and the type of content that he creates there? Well, I think, you know, any males that are actually trying to be a bull in the lifestyle. Okay. Yeah. I mean, seriously, any man can glean from it because we just talk about so many different.

So if you want to be involved in anything besides monogamy. Yeah. Yeah, that's what I think. You know, or maybe, you know, they can reach out to us. Like I've even talked to, I'm talking to a cuck husband right now who is about to introduce me to talking to his wife. Because he's just like, man, I need a woman to help her because they've already been playing a little bit, but they want to get into the more of the bull and the cuck hole dynamic. And I do cuck sitting. Oh, yeah.

And I remember your husband. I remember Socrates talking about cuck sitting. Yeah. So I'll sometimes sit with the cucks while my husband is playing with the wife. and the wife will let me know like, hey, these are your rules, this is your boundaries, this is what I want you to do. This is what I do whatever the wife tells me. The wife is in complete power. I am only borrowing her power for the scene, I call it. You know, we're scenes, we're actors in our own movies, in our own moments. So, you know, I like to talk to the different husbands and kind of give them like, okay, if you want your wife to get into this, you need to introduce her to another woman who can chat with her, answer her questions.

Make her feel comfortable. Let her know that whatever she wants is what's going to happen. Because I think that's the biggest thing. People don't want to feel coerce. They don't want to feel, you know, they want to get edge. It's about educating them without making them feel any pressure or coercion. Like, it needs to be, if it's not fun for all, it's not fun at all. I like that saying.

You should put that on a T-shirt. Yeah. If it's not fun for all, it's not fun at all. Yeah, that's good. Did you just make that up? I think so. I don't know. I make up little funny things.

No, but it's profound. It's very profound. Well, I'm like, we should have different things on T-shirts. Like this one cuckold couple, we were staying at a cabin with them. And I came downstairs one morning. And she's like, I'm so sorry, you were sleeping, but I needed a hair tie. So I borrowed your hair tie. I hope that's okay.

And I said, listen here, you can fuck my husband, but you cannot borrow my hair. tie. And she's like, we need that on a t-shirt too. So, oh my God. Just a little fun thing. Yeah, it's kidding. Just try to keep it fun. Well, listen, you sound like you like to educate people, too, like your husband. And that's why you have your own podcast. Why don't you talk a little bit as well about like what you discuss on your show and, you know, what people could learn from it? And I will put a link to your podcast in the description for people to check it out. Okay. Well, on one side of it, we have siren and then we have siren after dark. We don't, talk about the lifestyle on the free portion because we're not completely out in the open yet.

Like my family doesn't know, you know. Our community doesn't really know. And we will get there one day, I think, you know, within the next few years as our podcast get more and more traction. But what I do go through is just wanting to free people from, you know, whatever they're into sexually. We talk about all different kinds of things, you know, but often starting with how they grew up, you know, their experience with sex, their feeling, their shame, the guilt we have,

we'll have different coaches or therapists on there as well. Mostly women or men and women? It's mostly women, but I have had some men on there. I know a lot of couples that have listened to it together. Oh, of course. You know, and just talking about, so you're really just listening to people's stories. And then on the after dark portion, we get into how people were in the life, you know, got into the lifestyle, what they've,

learned. I'm also a coach in this area. So if people want one-on-one coaching, they can receive that. There's all kinds of options for them out there because we do just, you know, we just find it as such a powerful tool to just help people in their relationships. Some people think, you know, oh, the lifestyle causes problems and this causes problems. Well, it doesn't cause problems. It reveals them. And it will bring your problems to the surface quickly. And if you want to sweep them under the rug, then maybe you just want to be, you know, avoiding your problems, avoiding your things. My husband will say, do you want to take a break? And I will say, no, because if I'm jealous in the lifestyle, I'm going to be jealous somewhere else. If I'm having an emotion in a lifestyle,

I'm going to have that emotion somewhere else. So I might as well talk through it, you know? Yeah. So it really just has encouraged me to grow as a person and to just face. face my childhood traumas, face my first marriage traumas, you know, and work through them instead of running from them. And it just makes so much more room for so much more love and happiness. The friendships we've made are incredible. So, you know, on my podcast, I'm just trying to get people connected. Get them to just know that talking about sex is no big deal. Like we, you know, most of the population, we got here from it. So let's talk about it so that we can all have a more fulfilling and happy sex life, I often say, what if everyone, you know, that wanted to had an orgasm every day?

What a happier world this would be. So, you know, then you imagine, like, people just be smiling at each other? Because, like, how often do we jokingly say, oh, my God, that bitch needs to get laid? Totally. Because they're so cranky about something. Well, it's true, you know? and it's not perverted. It's just part of life.

And I wrote an entire thing. I have a ladies group on Telegram, and I wrote this entire thing talking about the sexual energy we have. That's actually our life energy. And when we ignore it, when we suppress it, we're actually suppressing our life. And so I'll have to send that to you, too. If you want to put that in the show notes,

it was very good. Yeah, send me the links that you want in there. Is there a link to that? Yep. Okay. Send me the links that you want. Do me a favor for my Patreon if you want to send me some, like, picks for my Patreon, like, anonymous.

I forget if Socrates should have his face. I don't know if you do, but like I always say anonymous picks for my Patreon. You'll get free access to my Discord. Feel free to go in there if you want and you can promote whatever you want in there. You know, I'll give you a private Discord, but I'll send you the free link. And then I'll also give you a free link to my Patreon. So you can see the comments when your episode does air. It'll be up very soon.

I'll also put a link to your podcast. So send me like whatever links you want included. I can't do like five links. You know, I'll do like one link to your podcast or your website. Right. And one link to your, the thing that you just spoke about if you want.

And then send me some picks if you can for my Patreon. Okay. And what kind of picture? I always say for my Patreon like R rated and then if you like, people always send me X rated stuff. And then that's why I started my Discord and that's what's over on my Discord. Everybody I would say just send me R rated for Patreon. Then they send me X rated.

So I started a Discord. and that's where I put stuff over there to have a big audience over on my Discord. So if you want, you know, send me whatever you got. I could put some on Discord yourself. That's what's great about Discord. Patreon, I could only post. But for Patreon, everything has to be like R-rated. So typically a woman sends women send me like hot picks, bikini shots, lingerie, stuff like that.

But no like pussy shots. You know what I mean? That kind of thing. Well, I think that's kind of like, I don't know. Yeah, everyone's different. There's pussy shots on my Discord. Trust me. Oh, yeah, yeah.

Yeah, yeah. I'm in all these telegram groups. It's all the time. But for me, I'm like, you know, until it's in a group of like people that are going to appreciate it, you know, I'm like, I'm in. I'm not shy. Believe me. I post a picture of some guy like fucking me on my kitchen counter, you know. That's the stuff that goes down to my Discord in my Patreon. It's more R-rated stuff. And so if you could do that, that's great. Thanks so much for calling in this was super fun. It's like it's kind of interesting the way you just like throw things out there. Like it's a very, it's a very every. It's a very, it's a very day. but you're very much not every day. You're not every day at all. We have a little saying. For us, it's just a random Tuesday. I like it. That's another one of your t-shirts.

Go write that other word down. You just said to me before it was good. Thanks, Aaron. Thanks so much for calling it and sharing your story. Send me those picks sooner than later, okay? Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers,

is now available not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gang-bang girl story. Like I said, 17 stories and they're all told in the third person and they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person and I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like Penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories. 17 of them. They're really short chapters,

easy read. You could read, you know, one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format, and finally, the audio book is available coming out August 25th, but you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint, okay? There's no way you get into my Discord any other way than getting the link from me, okay? I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares with each other, and that's what you get to do there. You can post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of money. It's a super

fun place to be. It's a total, strictly anonymous community, and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the e-book, or the paperback. sent it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's Strictly Anonymous Podcasts at gmail.com. And I will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in. This is the Strictly Anonymous Podcast.