Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1337 - Cinnamon & Florence are Into Threesomes, Cuckqueaning & More

Episode Date: January 15, 2026

Cinnamon and Florence are Into cuckqueaning, mff threesomes, and more and they called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why they decided to open their relation...ship, how and when they both copped to what they were into and how they both reacted, the free pass she gave him to hook up with guys, and his first hook up with one and what went down, how they got into pegging, their first time at a swingers club and what went down, how and why they went looking for women to hook up with, the first girl he hooked up with while Cinnamon watched and what went down, their first mff threesome and what went down, the second mff threesome they had and how that turned into a throuple, how and why they started content creating and a whole lot more. REPEAT THURSDAY EP, originally aired 07/24 You can find them here on OnlyFans with username Cinnamonbunsdollhouse420 GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To see HOT pics of CINNAMON plus see pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors: ⁠⁠⁠⁠PikaVibe.com/Strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Click to get $15 OFF your purchase ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — To get 10% off DRIVE Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2540-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠— Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:00:00 you want to leave, you could leave it on my confessions hotline. The number 347-4-203579. That's 347-4-2-0-357. You could call that number 24-7. I change all the voices there as well. Some of those confessions make it on to a confessions hotline, a confession's episode. The rest all go on my Patreon. My Patreon is a really great deal. It's only like $7 a month. And you get so, much for $7. I mean, you get every single episode now early, ad free and intro free. Okay, you don't hear any of this stuff over at on Patreon. You also get all of the hot picks of all of my female guests who call in. You get all of the confessions. You get Q&As that I answer questions on every other month. Plus, I throw in for anyone who joins my Patreon, free access to my Discord. Now, my Discord is a super fun place to join. There's over 6,000 people on there. What's great about Discord is you get to post stuff yourself. And it's super naughty over there and fun. It's a not safe for work
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Starting point is 00:02:40 That's 37112. Or just go to the description and click on the link. Okay, so today I have on Florence and Cinnamon. Florence is a guy. I called him Flores in the beginning. The whole time I'm talking to him, I'm calling him Flores. And then it turns out his name is Florence. Florence and Cinnamon, you're going to fucking love them.
Starting point is 00:02:56 This is a super young couple. Florence really lucked out because when you get, when cinnamon comes on the phone, you're going to be like, oh my God, she's just so open-minded and cool and very genuine. And you'll see what I mean. You just really get the sense the minute she starts talking that she just is as open as she is open. And you know what I'm saying? Because sometimes you get the vibe that maybe a girl's doing it for the guy or she's trying and she's hoping she's open.
Starting point is 00:03:20 This bitch is just open and cool. And Florence starts off this call talking to me for third. minutes and then I talked to cinnamon for 30 minutes. Florence talks about their relationship, how he wound up meeting her. This was his second relationship. He was married before in a sexless marriage. He talks about that. And then he went into this with cinnamon being very open about the fact that he was by. He talks about his by experience and all that kind of stuff. And then other experiences and other things that he was into that was like sort of off, that was very out of the box. And she was nothing but straight up accepting of all of it. He explains that. And then she put on the
Starting point is 00:03:56 table that she was pansexual, meaning she's into anyone. He was down with that. And then they decided to, you know, uh, open up their relationship. They opened it up first with her being totally down with him going and seeing dudes and he would. And then they got into her being with chicks. And, uh, he talks about the first experience. It was super hot. Any cuck queens listening are going to be into it because his girl cinnamon's a cut queen. And the first girl, a couple girls, they met. And she talks about that. She talks about exactly what they did with her. How much it turns cinnamon on.
Starting point is 00:04:31 She talks about all that stuff too. She gets very detailed. She's very into women. They have a girl. One of their unicorns they hooked up with is now in their life. And they're all having a relationship. And we talk about that as well. They eventually created some content.
Starting point is 00:04:46 They have a little, they have some videos on Pornhub and in OnlyFans. They give links to that. They explain what you get over there. Like I said, this is a super young couple. You're going to love them. I have super hot picks of them over my Patreon too.
Starting point is 00:04:59 So you go over there, patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. All the links of their stuff will be in the description. But anyway, I'm going to be back on first with Florence and then cinnamon. Hey, Flores. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm doing pretty good, Kathy. Thank you so much for having us on.
Starting point is 00:05:17 Super excited to be here. Yeah. And when you say having us here, it's because I am going to have your girl's cinnamon on. It's Cinnamon and Flores, right? You guys are a couple. well, you did, you did open up your relationship. You were both kind of kinky before, if I remember correctly and have done things, but you didn't make it on to one of my confessions hotline because you called in to confess that
Starting point is 00:05:39 you had been into making content and putting your stuff out there. And she didn't know about it, but you were into it and you were like sort of questioning whether you should get her into doing content. But you do have a whole backstory of opening up your relationship too and stuff. And that's where I want to start out. Okay. So you sound young to me. know how old are you in cinnamon so i am 28 and she actually just turned 20 herself 20 or 28
Starting point is 00:06:04 you're 28 she just turned 20 to zero yes okay how long you've been dating for him how when did you start dating her when she was 14 no no no no no no no so she okay so she we started dating or getting close to two years now so we just moved quickly prior to her though i was already married since obviously divorced and I was in a long term sexless secretive marriage basically prior to meeting her met her a couple years ago we started talking started dating a little bit under two years ago yeah we're getting closer to about two years now and yeah so basically is where we're at yeah wow so let me just tell you flores you you're talking like an old man all the stuff you've been through and you're only 28 every been in a sexless marriage and and now you've got a new girl
Starting point is 00:06:53 I know you have a little baby and she's super young, but you guys are super open. So walk me through your relationship. Were you guys like open from the get go or like how did it come about that you guys wound up having a non-monogamous relationship? Yeah, no, not at all. Honestly, it's funny because if you were to look at us when we first started dating and then fast forward to now, it just I would have never guessed it, honestly. And we're not fast forwarding that much.
Starting point is 00:07:17 It's two years. Yeah, yeah. And apparently we just move quick. but honestly that's been the entire, like our entire love story is both of us just moving super, super quick. Okay. We just clicked. Honestly, we just clicked on both her and I. And then after that, we just kind of just, we never really flowed down after that.
Starting point is 00:07:35 We kind of just put, you know, the foot on the gas and just kind of kept going and see where it went. And so far it's gone pretty good for us. So we're kind of just, yeah, we're just super open with each other. We communicate a lot. And we've just been having a lot of fun. Yeah, but you're not getting specific. How did you go from being this regular young, constantly? couple that's dating and totally into each other and banging each other to opening things up.
Starting point is 00:07:57 Yeah. So, oh, man, I guess it all kind of started. She had started being super open with me and all that her talk about her previous dating stuff, but she hadn't really had a chance to be open with anyone about what she was into as far as kinkwise, as far as her pansexuality, her attraction to woman. And I had already been honest with her because of my last relationship, my last failed marriage. There was no honesty. There was no communication. They had no idea. I was bisexual. I dated them for about almost eight years and they had no idea. To this day, I don't think they know. And then with Phenomen, when I met her, like I said, we clicked and I was just like, you know what? I do not want to do the same mistakes I did with the last relationship. I much rather just be myself, be honest.
Starting point is 00:08:42 If she accepts me. Awesome. If she doesn't, great. I don't have to waste another almost decade of my life now that I'm a little bit older. I definitely don't want to waste. any more time. So yeah. Well, who rose their hand first and said, hey, I want you to know that I'm into, like that I'm by? Yeah, I did. Okay. She wasn't very closeted. She never really spoke about it, but I was the first one to actually say it out loud. Just so you know, I am bisexual. I am into guys. I am pretty open into what I'm into. I'm into some non-traditional things. So that might pop up in the future, are you okay with it? So like even after, so after I had divorced, I quickly just typical guys they, okay, well, now I'm free. Now I get to bang whatever I want. And so I started doing a lot of
Starting point is 00:09:26 that. And so I started working out a lot. I started training a lot. And I started bumping through a lot of guys at the gym. I started bumping into a lot of girls at the gym. And I went from like random dates to random hookups. I even have a story about a hookup at a gym shower. I was working out right before work, went into the shower. This one guy kept giving me the Google. eyes. I kept giving them back. And then we just bumped into into each other in the shower. And it was like four in the morning. There was like nobody there. And we kind of just went at it right there. My goodness. Only in the gay world do things like that go on. Only guy and guy action works like that. No girls work that fast. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. Yeah. No. Yeah. And honestly, I, again,
Starting point is 00:10:04 I don't think in a million years I would have done that. I think it was just the fact that, hey, you know, I was in sexist marriage for so long. I'm willing to accept whatever comes my way. So when we, when I had split up. Again, I was doing, I was, I was meeting a bunch of new people and then one woman, for instance, an older woman, she had started talking to me about pegging, about being more submissive, about more kind of kinky play. Light, light impact, you know? And, and so I never really tried it. Again, very vanilla up until this point, but I met her, went to her place because she was going through a divorce herself. And yeah, she restrained me. She was the first lady to really do any type of anal play. She didn't peg me, but she did do anal play with me. And then at that point,
Starting point is 00:10:47 I just, I just loved it. So I'm like, okay, so it doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman. It feels amazing. I definitely want to dive into that. So you like to be bottom, though, but you like to be the bottom and a little bit submissive, too. That's a little bit of a sometimes. I'm more, I'm honestly, I'm more of a dom, of a top. I am versatile. It's just the fact that I think since I was married, I was at top and for so long, I never really got a chance to experience the bottom that I just went full blown into bottoming for a year or so. And I'm just like, okay, I like both of them. I think I'm a little bit better at the top than I am as a bottom, but I definitely love both of them. And when it comes to dating women, I have found at least
Starting point is 00:11:23 in my experience, most of them are a little bit more submissive. But I don't think I've ever met a woman who didn't love pegging a guy or the idea of pegging a guy. It always give them like a kind of list. They say it makes them feel empowered. It makes them feel strong. And I've always enjoyed that too. And so I kind of told her, I don't know what you're into, but these are kind of some of the things I found out that I'm into, like even once I went to Vegas by myself. I went completely by myself. I don't know anybody there. I went during a holiday weekend.
Starting point is 00:11:48 It was super packed. It was super busy. At that point, I was working out a lot. I was super in shape. And I had long hair at the time, like really, really long hair. And it was a little bit, it wasn't peak COVID, but everybody was still wearing masks. It was still super common and wear masks everywhere. So this lady told me, why don't you try cross-dressing?
Starting point is 00:12:06 You like playing dress up. You like being bottom. you have no problem with your feminine side. Why don't you try cross-dressing when you go to Vegas? And so that's what I did. Honestly, I went ahead. Yeah, I shaved everything. I bought a bunch of skirts.
Starting point is 00:12:19 I bought a bunch of crop tops. I did my makeup. I put on a mask on. I put almost a little jacket over because I'm a little bit broader on the shoulders, but I figured I put a puffy jacket. You won't be able to tell. And then, yeah, I would just walk the strip and just go out on the town. And I got a lot of looks and I got a lot of guys hitting me up.
Starting point is 00:12:37 and I had a lot of guys copying fields and this and that. And I don't know. I liked it. I don't know what it was. I liked the attention. I liked being able to walk anywhere and not worrying about me expressing this side of myself. Obviously, I was mass, so I guess it's kind of like cheating, but I was out in the open. I was out in the public. I was in casinos. I was in the street. I was surrounded by people when people were like looking at me, looking at my legs, looking at my butt, looking at looking at everything. And I really, really enjoyed it. So you're into all this stuff. And you put it on the,
Starting point is 00:13:07 the table to cinnamon. How does she react when you say, hey, I'm into like dressing up sometimes as a chick. I want to get, I want you to peg me. I'm, I'm into dudes. You're like, how does she react? She was very accepting. Honestly, she listened to me. She heard me out. She didn't really judge me or make any type of it faces or anything. She was just like, oh, wow, it was more interesting to her than anything. And I think she was also just unexpected about it because I don't really present that on my day to day life. If you see me out in the street on like regular clothes, you will not guess that on bisexual. You will not guess that I'm into any of it. I'll be like, okay, that's a straight dude.
Starting point is 00:13:41 If anything, he might even be one of those dudes that it's a little bit more against that kind of stuff. Just, that's the way I present. Anytime I do tell anybody that I am by or I am into these things, they're always like, oh, I had no idea. Legit, you do not look like it at all. Okay, I'm going to tell you about Pika Vibe. They sell sex toys. And I am going to recommend my new favorite sex toy by Pika Vibe. It is called the Flora Pro Licking Rose Toy.
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Starting point is 00:15:29 It's going to be automatically applied at checkout or just go to the description and click on the link. Just, that's the way I present. Anytime I do tell anybody that I am by or I am into these things, they're always like, oh, I had no idea. Legit, you do not look like it at all. Yeah. But let me just tell you, that's so many guys that are into all the things that you are,
Starting point is 00:15:49 but people just have this sort of idea in their head, and it's not true. Some people, it's true. They present very much on the outside, what they are on this. But a lot of times it's not the case. I have so many guys that will be like, I'm an alpha male, but I'm into this. You know what I mean? And nobody in my regular life would know. So she was open and curious and totally. Okay. And then she copped to stuff too, right? She was also by. Oh, she was pan. She was pan sexual, which is she's into anyone. So now, so when did opening things up and maybe exploring other people come into play? I think after we had that conversation, we were a little bit more open as to if I thought a guy was attractive, she would kind of tease me at that. Oh, I saw your boyfriend was here that day. If I need, she found a girl was attractive, I would tease back. And then after a few weeks of teasing, we kind of started maybe not teasing more frequently,
Starting point is 00:16:41 but talking about what if, what that would be like. Yeah. And then we started going on social media, and I'll let her tell it. But she saw a certain video on TikTok where it was a scenario like that. It was a very old, old movie. And basically, the guy ended up being caught. They had a second secret family and the girls confronted him. And he basically, the way he confessed.
Starting point is 00:17:03 to it and spun it as to why it was a good thing. She, I guess it resonated with her. And she's just like, well, the guy's making good points. I could see how that could work. If you do have two wives and you do have a big family and you have one husband and everybody knows about it, I could see how that could work with the right people. And obviously, my initial reaction was like everybody else, is this a trap? Are you setting me up?
Starting point is 00:17:24 Are you testing me? Is this a trap to see, oh, so you would fuck other girls? Or is this a setup to make, let me think about fucking other girls so that way you could fuck another guy? kind of scenario thing because again we were not open at all prior to any of this so I was still very much thinking monogamous closed relationship just us too and now this kind of maybe not out of left field but it kind of caught me off guard so I didn't know what to expect was she saying let's bring in a woman or let's bring in anybody because she's pan and she's down for whatever
Starting point is 00:17:54 so she was more interested on the woman's side because she had dated other men she never again I'll let her tell that story but she was saying for you for sure if you want to talk to other men, go for it. And then if I want to talk to other women, go for it. But then as things progressed, she started noticing, for instance, I always hear women say, I'm attracted to woman. They're hot. I might be by this and that, blah, blah, blah. And I'll even tell my female friends, are you by, though, because it's one thing to recognize the beauty and the sensuality of a woman, because they are beautiful. So that's that's one thing. But now picture yourself like underneath another woman. Like, exactly. Could you eat her out? And then they're just like, ah, I don't know.
Starting point is 00:18:32 Yeah, every girl's like, oh my God, when it became very popular for girls to be into girls, every girl's, oh my God, I have a girl crush. I'm like, yeah, but do you want to eat her snatch? Because if not, shut the fuck up. I don't have a crush. Yeah, exactly. Yeah, because the female body is beautiful.
Starting point is 00:18:44 You can look at breast and be like, oh, wow, that's beautiful. Her butt, oh, that's beautiful. But are you actually going to go down there? Yeah, exactly. No, well, then you're probably not, you know? And so, like, guys will draw dicks all the times even as kids, but does that mean, would you suck on one? Probably not.
Starting point is 00:18:58 And if you would, you would. But you would, and you're, girl, though, did want to explore being with a woman because she had never been with a woman, right? Is that what you're saying? Correct. Right. Okay. Yeah. Correct. Okay. You know, and then, and so, and similar to me prior to my divorce, you know, I had, you know, a little crush and a little flings, but never really anything became anything until after the divorce, after I started exploring. Similar thing to her. She had stuff, you know, that her talk about it, but she never actually got to do anything physical with anybody. So she's like, I would like to see what that's, because
Starting point is 00:19:27 I never really got to experience that. And if you're open to it and you're okay with it, I would want to see if that's an option for us. So after a few of these conversations and figuring out what our boundaries are if we were to do it, we kept talking about as if it weren't going to happen. But if it did, this would be our boundaries. And then finally, enough of those conversations happened. And we're like, okay, awesome, we're going to open it up. So we're both allowed to talk to whoever we want. But she told me right off the back, I don't want to talk to dudes. Like I've been with dudes. Dudes are assholes. Dudes are this. There's nothing that another guy's going to show me that I haven't already seen. I'm going to focus on girls. Now, if you want to do dudes,
Starting point is 00:20:01 in girls, that's fine. I don't care, but I'm going to focus on girls. And I'm like, okay, cool. And so that's what we ended up doing. So we started with just like hitting up regular apps or whatever. I started doing research on social media, started ending, ended up finding podcasts through certain clips. That's how I found your podcast and a couple other ones. But yours, yours always really dove deep into the details as to the why, as to the how. And I was also, I love seeing people telling their stories from the beginning and to the end where it went wrong. if it's working out right, you know, and I'll just say, okay, awesome. Like this show is really like dropping some knowledge.
Starting point is 00:20:36 You're not just romanticizing it. They're not just over sexualizing it. They're telling you like all the details about it. So I was like at work. Yeah, I was like at work. I literally went all the way to episode one. Oh my God. I would listen to you.
Starting point is 00:20:48 And you have a shit ton of episode. Yeah. 800 or something. Yeah. 840 something. Yeah. And so like I would literally work like 10, 12 hour days. And I would listen to you on the way to work at work at lunch on the way home.
Starting point is 00:21:00 And if I was working out, just trying to catch up and trying to soak all the knowledge that I could. So I'm just like, well, what's what's the unicorn? What's a dragon? What's a cuck? What's a cuckold? What's a cuck queen? What's a swinger? What's a this?
Starting point is 00:21:12 What's a that? And I would slowly start kind of learning. And so when I called about the confession, again, we were already open to it. We were already okay with it. I had made like a Snapchat and a Reddit where I was posting videos of myself doing certain things geared towards men. I wasn't really doing it for a woman. I was more like, okay, well, let me explore the, the men's side, like the man on man's side. And I got a lot of attention. I know. I remember that
Starting point is 00:21:35 part, but before we get to that, at that time, was she actively looking for a woman as well? Yeah. And she actually had a couple of crushes from her current workplace that she was kind of see if she could lean into. But she was a lot more shy. Like you said, I think guys just move a different way than women do. So it took her a little bit longer to kind of get to that type of conversation or try to gear the conversation that way. Where me, on the other hand, since I kind of just put it all out there, it was very easy for me to just skip to that part with other men and just go full blown out. And you had the permission from her.
Starting point is 00:22:08 This was like all on the up and up. But you guys hadn't playing with other people yet. You hadn't played with other people yet. But you were able to sort of do online stuff for guys and get off that way. And she was cool with it. Yes. And then started meeting guys that were local in the area. We started setting up dates and stuff like that.
Starting point is 00:22:26 So, yeah. And so again, she would always tell me whatever you do with a guy, I don't really want, again, she said she wasn't interested in the guy aspect. She wanted to explore her sexuality towards women. So whatever you want to do, you're allowed to, just be safe. These are our boundaries. I don't need to see it. I just, I already know as long as it doesn't get serious, as long as there's like that typical, no kissing, no emotional connection, whatever, whatever, then it's fine. Everything's on the table for you.
Starting point is 00:22:53 I don't care. Go for it. I support it. Go have fun. just be safe. And that's pretty much what we did. So if I did have a date with somebody, I would tell her, hey, you know what, I'm going to go meet somebody today. And she'd be like, okay, cool. And she wouldn't ask for details. However, we went to the strip club one time because I was like, okay, like, I see you talking to girls. I don't see you doing anything. Are you sure you're attracted to them? Let's find out.
Starting point is 00:23:14 Let's go to the strip club. And if you don't mind a girl opening, like, her legs in front of you, rubbing her pussy on your face and stuff. And if you're attracted to it and not disgusted by it, then okay, then you probably are down. I'm like, have you ever had a woman rubber pussy on your face? And she's no. I'm like, well, then let's go find out. Okay. And so we went to the strip club. She had a blast. Like, she met a bunch of girls that she was really, really into. She had a couple of girls actually tried to hit on her. And it was a missed opportunity. I always nag her about that. I mean, you should have given her your number. You should have talked to her afterwards, this and that. But I think she was just like, it was also brand new to her. So
Starting point is 00:23:49 exciting. Is cinnamon hot? Oh, yeah. To me, she's the finest fucking thing I've ever seen. Anytime we've gone anywhere, a sex club into anything, she's turning heads everywhere. Obviously, she's young and everything, but aside from that. Oh my gosh. She's 20 years old. And aside from that, she's just phenomenal. She's got the tiniest body. She's got abs.
Starting point is 00:24:07 She's got a nice little perky butt, nice fucking tits. She's gorgeous. She's adorable. Yeah, for sure she's hot. All right, cool. So she got a lot of attention at the strippers club. I mean, at the strip club, but, and she realized like, yes, I definitely am into women then. Correct?
Starting point is 00:24:24 Exactly. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. And then it even got to the point where we went home that night and had a really hot sex and it was funny because instead of moaning each other's name or that we love each other or what we finished, we ended up moaning the stripper's name, like both of us. Like we're just like pretending that she was there.
Starting point is 00:24:38 Imagine if she was here doing this and that. And then we're just like, okay, yeah, we're definitely into this. And so I was just like, all right, well, I'll leave more into girls then since she, she also told me during the strip club visit that she enjoyed watching me get dances. She enjoyed me being aroused. She enjoyed watching me with other women. She just actually did enjoy that. So I think I might like to watch you with other women.
Starting point is 00:25:02 I think I might enjoy sharing you with other women and just watching too. Because for some reason, that was super hot. And so I'm just like, interesting. She's the cuck queen. Yeah. Yeah, pretty much. And we ended up discovering that was more so our thing. It was more cuck queening than it was swinging or swapping.
Starting point is 00:25:17 She was more into cuck queen. Now, we always had a fantasy of doing like a gay swap with a couple, finding another couple our age. and then me going with the guy, her going with the girl. But as far as like an actual swap swap, she wasn't interested. We'll do a gay swap and I'll watch you with other girls, but I don't really have interest in swapping with another guy. And yeah. And so then after that, we started talking, well, I started talking to other girls.
Starting point is 00:25:40 I downloaded the apps. I'm not going to lie. Like you said, most of the community is a little bit older than us. We're talking 40s, 50s. Something we'll get some people in their 30s, but very rare to find other people in their 20s. Very, very rare. find other people. Majority is older, yeah. Yeah, they're having fun. So you go on the apps and what do you wind up looking for?
Starting point is 00:25:58 What do you find? We basically wind up looking for women that are trying to have fun with a couple and then we quickly find out that apparently that's shunned upon in the community. They call it unicorn hunters or whatever and apparently we're like, we're just not really looked at that positively. So we kind of pulled back from that. I'm like, okay, you look for girls separately like you've been. I'll look for girls separately like I've been. And then if we need a girl that's open to it, then we'll, we'll pitch it that way. And that's, that's pretty much how I met a lot of these girls is they would have a connection with me. We might talk to each other a lot. I'm not going to lie. I'm pretty good as far as talking to girls. I know how to, how to,
Starting point is 00:26:36 we call it riszing them up. And I knew how to risen them. I was like, all right, cool. Yeah. And so they would start talking to me a certain way, start sending me pictures. We'd start doing long distance relationships, making plans to hook up and stuff like that. And we would. And then, I would tell Cinnamon, hey, do you think you might be interested in this girl or that girl? And then one of them, she actually, she was a little hesitant. She wasn't sure, but I had already talked to this girl plenty of times. I'm like, you know what?
Starting point is 00:27:02 Personality-wise, I think you guys would hit it off. Like outside of bedroom stuff, I think you two would hit it off. And so I introduced them to each other on a date. I went on a date with the girl and I introduced Cinnamon to the girl that I went on a date with. And then we all went to the movies together. And it was a really nice day. We got along great. We kept talking.
Starting point is 00:27:20 And then Cinnamon's just like, okay, yeah, I feel good about her. Go over to her place. Hook up. Go fuck her. And then tell me what it's like. And so I go over to her place. Cinnamon tells me to go over to her place. I go over her place.
Starting point is 00:27:31 I get there. And then we talk, whatever, whatever. Go to a room and we start hooking up. And so as we're hooking up, the girl tells me, I really thought I was hoping I'd get to see her girl as well. Like in the middle of it. And so I'm just like, well, if you want, I could definitely bring her over next time. And she goes, well, yeah, it's cool. And all.
Starting point is 00:27:49 but I also kind of want her to watch. And I know cinnamon wanted to watch. So we just ended up FaceTiming her while we were fucking. And so Cinnamon was at the house is kind of watching us do what we were doing. And I go for a while, whether it's an hour, hour and a half, sometimes two hours. So we put on like a whole show for her. Oh my God. And then one someone.
Starting point is 00:28:07 Yeah, this is for cinnamon. Yeah. I remember there was even a point where I wanted to put a condom on and both cinnamon and the girl told me, no. And we're going to do this. We're going to do it raw because it's hotter that way. Right. And I was just like, okay. So I was just following instruction.
Starting point is 00:28:20 And so at some point, cinnamon's just like, okay, I need you to come home now. And so I'm thinking, oh, fuck, I'm in trouble. I think I took it too far. So I'm like, okay, I got to go, whatever, whatever. I go back home and I go to cinnamon. I'm like, is everything cool? And she goes, yeah, it got really, really hot. I couldn't handle it anymore.
Starting point is 00:28:37 Now I want to get into it. So then I ended up hooking up with cinnamon while I'm still dirty from my date, I end up hooking up with cinnamon. And she goes, next time you're going to bring me over and we're all going to have fun. And literally two days later, That's exactly what we did. We went over. We all had fun.
Starting point is 00:28:51 We had a blast. And then we met a couple. We met another girl. Obviously, I met other girls as well, but she ended up finding out that's really what she was into. She definitely wanted to have one, watch me with other woman. And then two, have that girl that she connected with that she could also share me with. So definitely, again, leaning into more of a cut queen kind of thing. And then after that, that's pretty much just anything and everything that we were going for.
Starting point is 00:29:16 So I was still allowed to see guys. and I definitely still was seeking guys. But as far as us goes, we were mostly looking for a second girl to come and join us in the bedroom or to at least let her watch, which again, it was a little bit harder to find than it is, you know, for like. And then these abs, it gets bombarded with fake profiles and with guys that are just trying to be bulls, even though you tell them we're not looking for bulls. They're just like, well, either way, you're going to get bombarded like 50 messages a day, especially when it's like a 20-year-old girl like cinnamon, you're going to have a bunch of dudes hitting us up. So yeah, so like for us, for instance, my biggest tip for like younger guys out there or younger couples out there that are looking for people their age or not getting bombarded by goals is try the regular social media apps. Just riz them up on the regular social media apps. You'll be surprised how many women are actually open to being with another woman, especially around this age group and just go from there.
Starting point is 00:30:08 Because on the apps, you're going to get mostly 40, 50 year old couples, some 30 year old couples. But it's going to be like a lot of straight like heteromeroomers. men also I've noticed. I don't know if that's an older generational thing or what, but there's not that many bisexual men kind of putting it out there in the swing of community. Okay, let's get real. Guys, sex drive matters. And the truth is, it can wax and wane depending on what's going on in your life or how you're feeling about yourself at the time. And that's where VB health comes into play. Want to boost your sex drive in the bedroom naturally? Then you need to try VB Health's Drive Boost. VeeB Health's Drive Boost is not some sketchy supplement that you get in a gas station.
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Starting point is 00:31:46 dot health use code strictly for 10% off or just go to the description and click on the link. So it's just an older generational thing or what, but there's not that many bisexual men kind of putting it out there in the swing of community. Well, because they can't. There's a stigma still attached to it. It sounds like you guys went to sex clubs though, right? Didn't you? But you said it was more older people.
Starting point is 00:32:09 Yeah, it was more older people. There was a couple of young people too. We had a couple of funny stories that I like her kind of tell about people or age that that we bumped into. But yeah, definitely we've tried to swing as clubs. And even even when we couldn't find somebody to play with, they have amazing rooms. So they have the sex furniture. They have the lighting. They have the space, especially when you have a baby or like for instance, us, we have roommates. We can't be as loud as we want. We can't go as out as we want to because we like to dress up. We like to, when we go in, we like to go in. We like to fully emerge into it. So we like dressing up
Starting point is 00:32:41 both of us. And we like, again, I don't know, maybe it's my exhibitionist thing. I like doing it in front of other people. I think it's, I think it's hard. I think you had a recent guy who was a bull, was a little bit of a shorter guy where he would say something like people would look at him, like, you don't know what are you going to do or they didn't really think much of him until they saw him in action. And they're like, damn, dude, like you can actually get down. And that's, that's a very real thing for us smaller guys where they kind of look at us like, what are you going to do, bro. Like, you're your tiny or you're not like the alpha male. You're not like what you picture when you picture like a dom or a swinger or whatever. But then once you get down to it, you're like,
Starting point is 00:33:15 they've already finished. Meanwhile, you're still 40, 50, 60, 80 minutes into it and holding strong. Or they'll be like, damn, you brought this girl with you? We would think you would have trouble finding anyone, period, but you're bringing this girl. And I'm just like, yeah. So I like being able to show off in public and kind of see that reaction. People am like, oh, oh, okay. So he does get down. I don't know what it is for my ego. It just. Yeah, probably, yeah, your ego, why not? That's great to have your ego fed like that. Quick question before we get cinnamon on. This was the first time you saw your girl with another girl. Now you've done it a couple times and stuff like.
Starting point is 00:33:49 How is that for you? Seeing her actually hook up. Is that your king too? Are you really into that? No, yeah, for sure. It was awesome. The first time we did it with the girls consent, of course, we actually recorded it. We recorded it.
Starting point is 00:34:04 We filmed it. We took pictures. Yeah, no, they had a blast. The girl had already done it with other girls, but cinnamon, this was her first time. And just watching the excitement in her face, just watching her blush, watching her giggle watching her just have a blast i don't know it did something to me i loved every single second of it there was time where i stepped back just to enjoy the show and then she st in a move was set back to enjoy the show and then the girl would step back to enjoy the show so all of us were like equally into
Starting point is 00:34:29 watching and being involved and and being watched so it was really really fun uh with this particular girl with other girls as well it was it was always the case but with this particular girl there was definitely uh i don't know just because it was the first one but there was definitely a connection where i was just we were both hooked after that we were hooked and then yeah so it was it was really really fun so i enjoyed it i don't think i had any complaints on my end like at all any concerns any of that we did away with the with the no kissing rule like literally that day we're just we're both all just fucking making out and pretty much doing everything so yeah it was pretty fun you still see guys yeah i do up until recently i kind of stopped seeing everybody except for cinnamon and this girl that
Starting point is 00:35:13 we're now dating that I'll let cinnamon go into. But yes, yes, up until we closed it off to our current relationship, I did still see guys. I was still message guys. I would still meet up with guys. Yeah, definitely that. There was no shortage of that. Guys are. But what do you mean up until our most recent relationship? What do you mean? Until you found the girl and now you're sticking with that? Yeah, until we found the girl that we both really, really liked on a personal level and now we're just kind of sticking to just us three. And that's pretty much where we're at now. I love that. It's like what you guys really like. That's cool. Everyone's on board. Yeah. Put cinnamon on. Let's talk to her. Okay. Thanks for calling in. And thanks for being
Starting point is 00:35:51 such a loyal listener of my show. I love that. Of course. Here you go. Thank you. Cinnamon. Oh my God. Listen to your voice. You sound like cinnamon. I don't even have to make you higher. Your voice has already sounded like a little baby. Guys love that baby voice. Thank you. Oh, I'm excited to be here. I was asking him how high you already named. all these hot things about you, but he didn't say you had a hot voice. You've got the voice that every guy likes. Okay, when I change people's voice, girls' voices, I always make them sound like little babies like you. Thank you. Oh my God. I've never heard of before. Yeah, that's so funny.
Starting point is 00:36:28 Okay, so let's get your story, Cinnamon. When did you find out that you were pansexual? Because he said you kind of brought that to the table when he brought to the table that he was bisexual. When did you realize that you were pansexual? I was very young when I discovered I was pansexual. I was in my early teenage years when I came out. I was out to just like my friends and people who knew me personally. I wasn't really out to my family but I think they kind of knew
Starting point is 00:36:52 like when I was younger because I didn't really have the best home environment but yeah, I was pretty out like openly. And did you date men? Did well because I know that you just recently like when you guys started playing with girls, that was your first experience with
Starting point is 00:37:06 girls. So I'm assuming you never dated women but you knew that you would back in the back in those high school years is what you're saying. You just knew that you would be down to sort of be with whoever it was that you had a connection with. Is that what pansexual is all about? Yeah, kind of, but I have a couple little flings here and there that we never really got. It was more than like a month relationship. But with girls, yeah, but we never really got to do anything. It was really sad. And when I got a little older, you never got to pull around with
Starting point is 00:37:37 them is what you're saying, right? Yeah. I think it was a little, um, I think it was because we're young. We didn't really know. I didn't live in the most outly, um, like girls like girls area. So it was kind of, yeah, it was kind of harder to actually find girls who liked other girls when I was younger. But when I started to get a little bit older, I, I used, like, mostly stick with guys until I met Florence. But yeah, we didn't start having that conversation until we, because we're very open with each other. We basically tell each other everything and we just came out to one another. And it was actually a very sweet moment. Yeah, and amazing because, listen, he also said that he put a lot on the table with you.
Starting point is 00:38:16 He really told you everything that he was into. And what I love that he said about you is that you were sort of like intrigued and curious. There was like, no, what the fuck or what does this mean or anything like that? And is that how you felt? You were just totally down with it? I was completely down. I was actually very surprised. Oh, really?
Starting point is 00:38:36 What, that you were down or that he was into that stuff? What were you surprised about? Both, honestly. I was very surprised. I was very surprised that he was so cool with me being pansexual, and I was so surprised that he was bisexual. So it was like, it was really interesting. I never really thought of it as, oh, oh, your bot.
Starting point is 00:38:56 Because most people that I came out to reacted like that. So I always thought if somebody was going to come out to me, I would never react like that because it's such a normal thing. Like, it's so unfair to just react. to somebody coming out like that. So I was very like, what's the word? Accepting. Accepting, yes, of course.
Starting point is 00:39:15 Of course. Yeah, that's amazing. And I love that. Yeah, but not only were you accepting, you also were like down to having an alternative relationship, right? Or opening up your relationship and letting him go hook up with guys, which I think is a whole other thing. Yeah, no, of course.
Starting point is 00:39:32 Because he told me that he was never really, never really got to explore that part of him. And I was like, well, you can. Like I'm perfectly okay with you exploring that part of yourself because I can't give you that experience with another guy. I can't personal give that to you. So I would love for you to be able to experience that. And he was the same with me with women. Oh my God. Guys are like, like where the fuck can I find a cinnamon?
Starting point is 00:39:55 Because I can hear how clear you are about it. There's nothing else except complete 100% acceptance. Like you don't have one part of you that even thought twice about it, which I love. And I don't think that that's common. A lot of people get really in their head about a lot of things. things because it can bring up a lot of things, but it just seems like you're just so down and open minded, which is amazing. So let's get to your cuck queening. Did you even know that cuck queening was a thing? Because I did it. I was only through my show that I learned what that was all about.
Starting point is 00:40:22 And I was kind of like, oh, that's kind of like hot. You know what I mean? Did you, like, you knew you were into girls, right? But did you know or think that you would be into seeing your guy with a girl? Honestly, it never crossed my mind. I was so surprised that it like turned me on, just watching him get a lap dance, I was like honestly shocked of that part of myself. I'd never really thought of it like that. But I was very excited. But with the guy thing, let me just ask one more question about that.
Starting point is 00:40:50 Because so you were totally down, go do whatever you want. But did you ever think to have that experience with him? Or is that something that you know you're not into and you just allow him to do his thing whenever he wants to get it out of a system? Yeah, of course. I'm absolutely 100% sure. I'm not into that really. It's just a personal thing for me.
Starting point is 00:41:08 me. I just don't really want to know, period. Just because of my personal issues with, like, men in my life, I was like, just not, I just cut off men, period. When he offered it to me, like, you could talk to guys, too. And I was like, I'm, no. I was like, I'm locked in on you. I don't think there's anything like a guy can give me that you aren't.
Starting point is 00:41:31 So you don't want any kind of threesome with a guy, but you definitely wanted to be with a woman. So that did, because he said, though, do you really want to be what girls? let's go to a strip club and you could really see. Is that when you really realized that you did having that stripper in your face? Yes. Oh my God. Because I would watch like obviously gay porn like women. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:41:48 Okay. That's really hot. But having it in your face as a first-hand experience was so much different. It was so it was just such an exciting experience because I was like, wow, I really to this. Yeah. It was just, it was just a really good experience to be able to actually see it in person before we did anything with a girl at first.
Starting point is 00:42:07 I definitely, I definitely think I would have shied up if I hadn't seen it in person first. Oh, so that was like a, that was like a good starting point. That's interesting. Oh, it was a perfect starting point. Yeah. And then the funny thing is, is you guys both use that girl when you got home, right, the hot stripper that was there. Yeah. Like a fantasy? It was, it was a perfect fantasy. It was a hot ass moment. It was probably our sweatiest moment, like in our relationship at that point. Yeah. Up until that. Yeah, right. Just thinking about that girl being there with you. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:42:42 Yeah. That's where we're kind of like, oh, us three? That's where we kind of like connected where it was like, well, what if we had like a life partner that was like with us like that? Like all the time. Yeah. So that's what we. Well, no. Originally it started with a TikTok how I came up with the idea of us being a three thing.
Starting point is 00:43:01 Because you saw what was that whole premise? Like you saw a guy talking about how it's great to have another woman there sharing. the responsibilities or something like what was that all about? Yeah. Basically what the points that resonated with that he said was that we would have each other if something happened to him or like when he's working long hours, I would have somebody there with me that would share the responsibility or just be there with me because I get lonely when he's gone.
Starting point is 00:43:27 So it would just be a perfect moment to share all three of us. Yeah, it's a little Polly too, no? It's not a little Polly? Are you open to that the relationship with the girl turning into more than just like a sexual thing? Oh, yeah. We are currently in a relationship with us just being a, without it just being a sexual thing. That's what you're into, right? Yeah, that's what I'm into completely.
Starting point is 00:43:52 Yeah, I love it. Okay, so tell me about going online and trying to find that first girl and then to walk me through that first experience. It was very nerve-wracking. Honestly, I was, because I'm a very shy person, I don't really. like talking to people in person. I much rather like text or like social media, but I would flirt with a couple girls in person. I would try at my former job. And I would just add a bunch of girls that had similar interests with me on social media. And it never really got anywhere without a little bit of a push because I don't really know how to talk to girls. I think I've gotten a little bit better,
Starting point is 00:44:30 but I'm still really bad. But it was just exciting when a girl would flirt with me. It was a lot of fun. But how do you find the girl, the first girl that you wound up hooking up with? What was it about her? What were you looking for? And then tell me about that first experience. The first experience with a girl, Florence brought in. And it was just, I didn't expect to be added into the little threesome that we had. Because at first it was just them too, which I was totally cool with.
Starting point is 00:44:59 I didn't mind. But then when they FaceTimed me, I thought it was, I was like, okay, I think I didn't. that I want that to be my very first experience because I would rather you be there for my first experience because I'm more comfortable with you there. And also she's really hot. Yeah, that's so funny. But how was it? Okay, let's walk it back because your first experience was actually really interesting in that your first experience really and what got you into that girl was literally watching your guy and her get it on via FaceTime, right? That's kind of hot for a cook queen. That's like what they're into. It was, it was perfect. It was, it was perfect. Was there any nerves or were you
Starting point is 00:45:43 nervous at all or worried at all that maybe you'd get jealous or anything? Or did you know by that time for a fact that this was something that you were just going to be horny for? To be honest, I was a little nervous when they went over. I was a little nervous at first because I was like, okay, what if I do get jealous? What if I don't get to see? It would just, it would just, it would just throw me off. Yeah. I would get a little insecure. But then when they FaceTime me and I got comfortable watching and I felt secure in my
Starting point is 00:46:14 relationship because he kept looking over to the camera, like knowing that I was watching, it just made me feel so much more secure and accepting that I was turned on by it. Right. Like it felt just safe. And because it felt safe, you could go to those other feelings, which the second feeling came, you're fucking horny for this. Yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:46:39 Entirely. And what were you watching? Were you like sitting there jerking off watching them? Were you directing them? Were they talking to you? Like, how did it play out? Honestly, all of that. I would tell them a position that I wanted to see.
Starting point is 00:46:52 I would jerk off a little bit. Honestly, I was just so focused. I would only jerk off a little bit. And then when I got to the point where I was like, okay, I really want to come. Yeah. Okay, come over. Come back. Come back.
Starting point is 00:47:03 That's when you told you. and he's got to come home, right? Yeah, I need you right now. Oh my God. And so, and then, so he comes home, you realize you were totally into that, and now you want to be with that girl, too. So what was that like, that first experience of actually hooking up with a girl? Because this is going to be the first time you're going downtown, right, and doing all
Starting point is 00:47:21 this stuff. And she was experienced, so she was probably a good time, for sure, right? She was very, she was very nice about it. She was very sweet. She was very, like, patient because I was obviously very nervous because I've never been in that. It's like in that scenario before. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:47:35 She kind of took the reins a little bit when it came to all three of us on like the directing and like how you wanted to go. I was very nervous about that, that she would only focus on really him or really me because I wouldn't really know what to do but there. But when she did focus solely on Florence, I kind of just laid there and watched and kind of jerked off to myself. Like it was it was not what I was expecting. I was so nervous that I would be uncomfortable or I was. wouldn't know what to do and I was just in the moment. But I really got into it while it was
Starting point is 00:48:09 happening. And it felt a lot more comforting afterwards that it didn't get awkward or I didn't feel uncomfortable that I was actually into it. I enjoyed myself. And how was it going down on a girl the first time and doing everything that you did? Because I'm assuming you did everything with her that first time. Yes. It was so exciting. I was so nervous. I wouldn't do it right. But I kind of just copied what Florence does to me that I really like. Yeah, I can't wait. By the way, I kept calling him Flores. Flores.
Starting point is 00:48:40 It's Florence. Okay, I said it wrong the whole time. Okay, anyway, go on. I can just copied what I feel he does to me, to her, and I got some good reviews. I got some good reviews for my first time. Yeah, that's great. Now, is this girl the girl that you're hooking up with still? No.
Starting point is 00:48:58 Okay, so tell me then how you get to the next girl. we met her together and that again Florence brought her in we kind of like she was our second three some that we had and she was she was like we clicked instantly like all three of us were just clicking instantly we had good conversation we hung out the first couple times we didn't even do anything we just hung out we had fun I felt really comfortable with her and yeah it just ended up of like we all fit the bill of what we were looking for, of what we wanted. So we just went for it. And it's been like about a couple weeks. How long? How many times have you guys seen each other? We've seen each other like at least three out of five days for the past couple weeks.
Starting point is 00:49:49 Wow. And now do you guys also with her like do that thing where he goes and sees her and you watch too? Or is it typically always threesome with her together, all of you guys together? Sometimes we did at the beginning of our relationship if I wasn't feeling up to it. I would send him over. They would send me videos. They would FaceTime me. But we all felt connected. There wasn't a moment where I was like jealous or insecure because I knew it was an us thing.
Starting point is 00:50:17 Yeah. And there's that, none of that kind of stuff has ever come up in your guys situation yet at all? No, not from any side. I don't believe. Listen, he even was saying that like now he's not even interested in the guy thing anymore because he's, this sounds like you guys have all come to be on the same page, right? Considering it's like what he's mostly into, what you're mostly into. And what's the girl's story? What's her story? Is she consider herself a unicorn? Is she seeing anyone else? What's going on with her? And how available is she to be like your guy's partner in the way that maybe would be ideal? She, we actually all had that conversation just the other day of how we want to be. Are we closed off? Are we, she was, she saw that she was joining our relationship, but we kind of all came together and was like, well, we want it to be like a new thing.
Starting point is 00:51:15 It's not just you joining us. It's a whole new relationship with all three of us. Right. And we were very comfortable with that. she is not talking to anybody else. We're not talking to anybody else. We're all just in a committed three relationship. Wow.
Starting point is 00:51:32 Now, how does that work? Because this is, like, emotions are allowed to be involved here. You want to fall for her. You want her to fall for you. You want your guy to fall for her. So, like, how is, like, the texting and stuff? Do you just text her whenever you feel like it? Are you guys always on a three-way chat?
Starting point is 00:51:48 Like, how is it set up? Literally, almost all of our conversations. are in the three-way chat. The only time that it's just a one-on-one chat is when the other person is sleeping or we don't want to disturb their phone or we know they're at work, something like that. But usually all of our conversations are through text and the group chat. And yeah, we just all talk to each other. When we are on FaceTime, when we can't hang out that day, it's usually all three of us just in the background or we'll add each other when we're in different rooms. She's at her place and we're
Starting point is 00:52:24 at our place, but he's in another room and I'm in another room. We'll just all connect on FaceTime and just sit in another room. Just talking, playing our games or working, whatever. Yeah. I mean, it does sound like you're turning into being like a polyamorous couple for sure. Right? Pretty much. And what about that thing that he was talking about content creating?
Starting point is 00:52:48 Is that what he wanted to do? We are, both of us creating content together. Okay, so talk about that. guys have an only fans or something that you want to promote we do we do have an only fans we do have a porn hub we have a couple videos posted on our porn hub we haven't really we're still setting up our only fans okay when are you get when is your only fans going to be up i don't want to waste your you could get a lot of people for my show when are you going to have your only fans up and running let me hold on to this episode i think we're actually doing this this weekend
Starting point is 00:53:20 actually oh okay good okay okay i have a lot of episodes tape i'm I'm not going to air yours. I'll give you a couple of weeks. Get that up and running because you'll get a lot of people wanting to check you guys out. Okay. Like I said, everyone wants to see you. You guys are a very young couple. He described you as super hot and everything and you have this interesting life.
Starting point is 00:53:37 What are people going, first of all, what do people see on your porn hub site? And what do people see, are going to see on your only fans? And then let me know how you feel about doing content. And if that's something that you realize that you enjoy as well. Okay. But basically all of our content is just us. It's just, it's not us setting up a camera for some crazy angles or crazy editing. It's just, we're just fucking and then we happen to be recording it.
Starting point is 00:54:05 It's, I like to describe it as if you found somebody's phone, you went through it and you just found all of their, all of their porn, just made together. Like, homemade porn of just them. Like the real deal, which I think people like, I prefer that kind of porn because I feel like that really is if you're, like a voyeur. That really is like the hottest thing because people are like really into it. It's like amateur stuff, you know. Um, it's not overly produced or anything. This is just like you and him really in your most intimate moments and people get to speak in on that. Yeah. Yeah, that's cool. Our porn hub is Cinnamon Buns 420 and our only fans is Cinnamon Buns dollhouse 420. Oh my God. I love your name. Send me links to those things and get your only fans up and running. Now do you have an exhibitionist
Starting point is 00:54:51 and you too that you dig being on there doing what you're doing? How do you feel about it? My exhibitionalism is more in person. Like when we're at a sex club, I like knowing that somebody's watching. Oh, okay. Specifically knowing, like watching them watch us, but more just knowing the fact that the windows open or like the door slightly open or we're doing it on the couch or something. Now, do you, will your girl ever get involved in it too?
Starting point is 00:55:16 Do you want to show that kind of stuff? she had a only fans for a while but she has told us that she wants to take a little step back from it but she is completely okay with us posting each other she just doesn't really want to be in the scene with it she's said that she's open to it in the future but not currently at the moment and now is she polly does she consider herself polly does she want to fall for the both of you guys like when you guys had that conversation was she like oh yeah this is exactly what i'm looking for too Yeah, she has been in polyamorous relationships in the past, and she does like the fact that we like to call our families mixed together and picture our house together. And we like to have those little moments where we're just, we picture ourselves in the future all together. So I do, I do believe she is open to us being committed, committed in the future where it's like set in stone. And do you feel like you could tell her feelings are growing for the both of you and are both of you, you're going to. feelings growing for her at the same time and everyone's on the same page. Yes, I do feel we are all
Starting point is 00:56:20 on the same page 99% of the time. Yeah, that's important. Our thoughts are just always saying to what we want and like our futures and our goals. It's just been a really good experience with her. Yeah, it sounds like it. She's lucky. You guys are lucky because they call it a unicorn for a reason. What's great for her is that you both value her and you want her to have, both of you as much as you each have each other. A lot of times the bad thing for a unicorn is they kind of are like the odd person out, right? The couples together and they're kind of like coming and do whatever, but they're like, they're not a part of their relationship. You really want her to come in and be a part of it and are open. So for her, it must be ideal. Now, because you have her there and you're
Starting point is 00:57:05 doing like the only fans in the porn of, I'm assuming that you guys don't look for anybody else. This is kind of like where you're at and this is what you're doing right now. Do you still go to like sex clubs and stuff like that. We have not gone to one since we all three got together, but we are all open to going to one together. Oh, she wants to go with you. She'll go with you. Yeah, fun. Oh, my
Starting point is 00:57:26 God. You guys are working fast, okay? Because you've been together for a fucking second. You've been alive for a second. Yeah. I love your voice. I love your guy's story. You sound super cute. Please send me anonymous picks for my Patreon. That would be like really great if you guys
Starting point is 00:57:44 have that. You listen to my show, right? Are you guys down with that? You're open. Send me links to everything. I will give you free access to my Discord. There you could go in and put, like, you could post anything there you want, which is great. And I have a guest channel. So what you'll do when your episode airs is you could put up like little teasers to your porn hub site and stuff to get people over there. You could advertise it because there on my Discord, you guys could post picks and videos yourself. For my Patreon, just send me R-rated stuff. Okay? The X-rated stuff goes onto Discord. But thanks so much for you guys calling in. I love your vibe. You're super cool cinnamon. You're every guy's fantasy, right? Florence, you're really lucky. You went through a bad
Starting point is 00:58:22 relationship, but look where you wound up. You know what I mean? Sexless marriage to the best girl ever. So you're fucking lucky if you can hear me. For sure. Yeah. I always like to joke that it's sexual karma. With a drought for so long, but now the sexual karma is coming back and just flooding you with it. It all evens out in life, right? Like you had the worst case scenario. Now you're having the best. And so there you go. It's, you're not such a victim. I think the other thing, too, is for sure, let other guys and girls in these situations know that it's scary, but definitely if you put yourself out there to the right person and
Starting point is 00:58:52 you find the right person, you're not going to find the right person if you don't put yourself out there. Right, because how would you know? You knew, though, let me tell you, I always say that when people say, oh, I didn't tell this partner because I just knew they wouldn't. I think when you say, like, you knew your other partner wouldn't, like, you're right. Like, you could always sense how open and accepting something. someone will be. I feel like that's kind of like an unspoken thing. And so that's like your sign right
Starting point is 00:59:17 there for people getting into something. The best thing is to be like where you guys are at right now with a like-minded partner that's exactly where you are. And not everyone's going to be Polly, right? It's all different ways. But the most important thing is to be who you are and put everything on the table in the beginning. So you could figure out whether you're on the same page. You didn't do that your first time. You obviously weren't on the same page. You wound up in a sexist marriage. But you went into it the second time. A lot of people go into their second relationships. Like, I'm not going to make that mistake. But why can't people do that the first time? You know what I mean? Yeah. That's what you're saying to people, right? Do that the first time. Then you don't have to go through that first bad,
Starting point is 00:59:56 bad relationship, you know. And even if you're like in a, let's say you're a couple years into it and you're like, oh, well, I don't know. I don't want to. Hey, look, man, it's better to quote unquote waste a couple of years than waste almost a decade like I did with the wrong person because you're not going to get that time back. No, but I love though. Listen, I'm going to give you credit. You didn't have kids and stuff. and you were still young, so that's easier. But I give you credit for ending something that wasn't working. I'm sure you're probably both happier. Even that girl is happier without you and with somebody else.
Starting point is 01:00:23 That's more like-minded for her. And you found the right person for you. And sometimes people don't do that. They don't create that change. They're so afraid to end something, even if it's bad. And you only live once. And I love that you did it when you were still super young because you have your whole life ahead of you and you didn't waste your time.
Starting point is 01:00:39 So thank you for calling it and sharing your story. because I think it's super helpful for other people too. That is what I like to do on my show. Like when you're like, oh, I listen to your show because I learned this and that. It's not just all perfectly. That's what I love about my show. That's what I always try to put out there.
Starting point is 01:00:52 And I love your guys' angle and story. I think it's super refreshing. And people will learn from it too, just like you learn from other people's episodes. Exactly. Yeah. Yeah. Awesome.
Starting point is 01:01:02 So thanks for calling in and sharing and send me those picks as soon as possible, okay? Thank you. Thank you so much, Kathy. Bye. Bye. Bye. Okay.
Starting point is 01:01:11 Okay. That was the end of those questions. We have more coming up, so stay tuned. I'll probably air the next few episodes next Sunday. Thanks so much for tuning in. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly anonymous confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers,
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