Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1341 - Beau & Serena are Into Swinging, MFM Threesomes, Hotwifing and More

Episode Date: January 19, 2026

Beau and Serena are into swinging, mfm threesomes, hotwifing and more and they both called in to talk about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how Beau got Serena talking more about and opening up to sex, the role playing scenarios they started to do and what it evolved into, how HRT changed the game in the bedroom, how and why they both enjoyed posting naughty pics online, theer first swinger resort experience and what went down, Serena’s first hook up with another guy and her husband and exactly what went down, their first mfm threesome with a cowboy and exactly what went down during and after the hook up and how they both felt afterwards, their second hook up with him, their second trip to a lifestyle resort and what went down, their first swap and how and why that led to them focusing more on hotwifing, her first dp and spit roasting experience and exactly what went down, the next few bulls they met and hooked up with and what went down, how the reclaiming is great for them and why its their fave part, how opening things up has brought them closer plus a whole lot more.  GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To see HOT pics of BEAU & SERENA plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors: ⁠https://learn.nocd.com/strictly ⁠If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — To get 10% off LOAD BOOST by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠PikaVibe.com/Strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Click to get $15 OFF your purchase ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2540-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠— Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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They were sitting next to each other. They would throw the story back and forth to each other. They had so many great stories. They were a vanilla couple married forever, decided to change things up. And, you know, it started with one thing and then went to another thing. And then eventually they crossed the line and they were doing all those things in real life. you're going to have to hear the whole story. They tell it so well.

Their story is so interesting. They've kind of been there, done that now. They're very into like the hot wiping thing. They've been to resorts. They've been to parties, all that kind of good stuff. You're going to love their story. I have like really great pictures of them over on my Patreon. So if you want to see their anonymous picture on my Patreon, but anyway, I'm going to

get right to be right back on with Bo and Serena. Hey, Bo and Serena. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. I like your guys' names. Thank you. Yeah, they're hot. Bo and Serena, listen, you guys are a couple married for a long time, right? Many, many years, 25 years.

We're one of those kinds of couples, which I love. And you've, and you decided to change things up like recently. So you were like vanilla for a very long time. And then, you know, for the past two years, you guys have been in the lifestyle, doing all the things that everybody, all the lifestyle people do, right? Yes, we definitely have spent a lot of years being very vanilla and then decided to mix it up and have some fun. Let me ask you this. Like when you say vanilla, because there's two kinds of vanilla flavors that exist out there. Vanilla, we barely have sex. It's not that great, whatever. And

there's also vanilla. We never tried anything like on your show vanilla, but we were very into sex and we always had great sex. Like, which kind of vanilla flavor were you guys? I would say the second part. So very, very sexual, but just outward and how we went about our outward life and trying to new things and being around sexiness, that was very limited. So you were, but you were very into sex like both of you and you had a good sex life together this whole time. Yes. Yeah.

We didn't have. Yeah, it really started to, even before we really ventured into the lifestyle, we did a seven-day sex challenge and then we're like, okay, we can do this. Let's do a 30-day sex challenge and see what that looks like. Did you guys do it? We did. Oh, my God. And did you find Serena, like, as a woman?

Because I think it's very true, like, the more you get it, the more you want it. Did you find, like, after a couple of days, you were like, oh, this is fucking easy? Like, I want to get fucked every day for, like, a month. Absolutely. Yeah, I had no idea how much I wanted sex. Until you started, like, doing it more, right? Like, that's a real thing. Yeah.

For sure. Yes. Yeah. Oh, my God. Bo, you must have been so happy. That's smart. I think things like that definitely keep the spark going, right? Because you guys been together since you're 25.

Have you guys? I mean, now you're with other people. Like, were you guys with a lot of other people before you guys met each other? I was the guy that moved around in a lot of relationships. And Serena had those two or three steady eddies. Serena was a relationship girl. Okay, so you guys get together. You're having a good sex life.

What happens two years ago or two years and six months ago that, you know, there's like this big shift? I started listening to podcast. And every now and then I'd put one in front of, Serena and she'd be like, okay, this is getting a little weird. I don't know what you're wanting from this. And I think she even thought my agenda was a little bit different, more personal for me versus for us and really ended up being a lot on her channel. And then we even got curious where we started watching porn together and doing some role

playing. And our mind started opening up to even a whole other level of sexuality. Wow. Well, listen, let me ask you this, Serena. Like, when he was turning you onto podcast, he said, like, you were, like, thinking maybe this is just all about him. Like, what kind of stuff was he passing along your way and how were you feeling about it? A lot of different things, kind of more just there was a little bit of, like, a bowl that we would listen to a story or there were, you know, couples that would hang out together and their stories. And, you know, I kind of thought, gosh, am I not enough for him?

Why is he needing to add more to this? But then as we listened to more of them, it kind of intrigued me and made me go, hmm, that could be really sexy. Isn't that interesting? Because like in the beginning, you're saying like you were totally like, what the fuck, like you weren't open to it at all. But because you didn't just like shut it down and just continue to listen, like you started opening up.

And I mean, we all know where you wound up like you're doing call, kind of crazy things. But that's like what the sort of takeaway is for people who are still on the vanilla aside. Like, you know, you just never know. Yes. Yes. We've learned to never say never for sure. Obviously. Okay. So now, yeah, so then you start watching porn and like what kind of things were you into? Like, because I know you do like the threesomes with two guys and he was, you know, you guys were listening to the bull stuff? Like, did you like that kind of like porn or were you looking at all kinds of things? And what were you role playing? I would say it really just

started in that traditional where you just see male, female and, And it started there, and just because that's where kind of moving up that ladder of opening up our mind, and then all of a sudden it became more of a few guys. She would be very sexually turned on watching and almost as if she was the center of attention in that what we'd be watching and masturbating. And me, they're just totally in awe of watching her do that. So we definitely love mutual masturbation and me watching her and pleasing her what she's doing that. Okay. And so now who changed, like, okay, so now then you start watching that.

Now you're going to like role playing. What kind of other, like what kind of scenarios were you playing role playing out? Sometimes we would go on dates and even meet up at a bar or a hotel. Oh, this is real fun role. Yeah. Yeah, I like that. as if we would form our own stories and all of a sudden we found ourselves up in a hotel room having hot, steamy sex.

Like stranger sex. Like you pretend that you guys don't know each other and you meet in a bar and you're like, let's just go fuck without two words or something like that. I don't know if it'd be without two words. But, you know, five words. I'm saying like, what was this setup? What was this setup that you guys don't know each other and you met in a bar? Yes, absolutely.

I would go to a bar and just sit up at the bar and he would come in. and visit with me and flirt and pretend that we didn't know each other. Yeah, that's a hot. Yeah, that's like stranger sex, right? Like you're just a clicky, like a hookup, no strings attached hookup. That's fun. Yes. Yep.

And then, yeah, this just kept evolving and we kept talking more and more. And then all of a sudden a couple things simultaneously happened where she chose to go on testosterone pellets. Oh, here we go. that opened a whole new world that neither of us knew and all of a sudden this whole other level of confidence and sexuality started coming out and that's when I started exploring okay let's get an Instagram account and just start posting some of your sexy pictures okay so you liked for her to get male attention you liked that whole thing right like you were in to that? I find it hot. Okay. And how did you feel about that Serena? I mean, now that you're on

pellets, you're just like so horny that you're like, yeah, let's do anything? Well, initially, when like years ago dating, he didn't like me to get other guys' attention. Of course, that's what we all think. Yeah. Yeah, it was a big switch for him to be like, oh no, I like it. That's really sexy. And yes, going on the testosterone, it was, I love flirting and I love the fun of it. So, So it's been really, really hot to have guys that you know that want you. Yeah, that's so interesting. How long did it take you? Was it your first round that you got like super horny or did you take a couple rounds?

I would say it probably took two rounds. Okay. And then did it hit you like, oh my God, I remember I went on them once and I was like out of nowhere like horny like a man. You know what you mean? That's how I felt. Yeah, it kind of goes along with that. The more sex you have, the more you realize you want it. And it was just constant.

Like I would be coming home for a nooner. I was like, yeah, we're going to. Oh, my God. I remember when I had a woman on. I forget. Linda, Linda, she went on, she was like 60-something and she went on, you know, pellets. And she started having gangbanks. That's when I ran out to get pellets.

And I got so many women like hear these kind of pellet stories. And they're like, email me right after this because of what you just said, Serena, people are going to be emailing me. Like, where do you get their pellets, you know? You still get them to this day? Yes, they do. Okay, cool. All right, so you're on the palettes. You guys are really horning. Now, you go on to Instagram and you're both enjoying this whole thing, right? Like her being a little bit of an exhibitionist, getting guy attention. Now, do you start like role playing like her being with another guy? Is that something that you guys get into? It kind of ended up going there. Once she started having a little bit more of that guy attentions, we would actually use them in some of the scenarios when we would be role playing and sex. And I found that super hot. And I think she's,

even found that hot, even to a point as that grew during the day I'd be at work and it would be okay, who'd you fantasize about today? And it became, and it still is today, a guessing game and it's part of our turn on. Oh, that's fun. I just did, I'm releasing an episode tomorrow about like role playing and how like, you know, how really intense it could be if you could both like stay in character and really go there or not make it uncomfortable. You know, because I think some people are uncomfortable because it is kind of like acting and stuff and you got to stay in character. But like, if you're really could go there and both stay in the zone. It really could be like as close to real life as possible, like if you do it well. Like it sounds like you guys were doing role play the right way.

Yes, it was, it is a little uncomfortable at first. Right. I was, right. I did a little bit of giggling and wasn't quite sure. But yeah, you're right. When you kind of put yourself into that character and really enjoy it, it is definitely sexy and hot. Yeah, like it. And then it made you start to think about crossing the line and doing it in real life. Is that what eventually happened? I would say yes, for sure. And what ended up happening, we started getting a lot of private messaging on

Instagram by couples and or individuals. And all of a sudden we found ourselves flirting. I'd give the phone to her and all of a sudden she's having conversations with guys or we are with other couples. And it just all it really opened our mind to this whole world that we didn't, we knew was out there. But we really were so green. We didn't even know what was the next step to approach this lifestyle. And how did you figure that out? And then what was the next step?

Did you just go back to podcasts and be like, okay, let's listen to find out like what the next step is? It ended up being a little, almost a couple blind dates via Instagram met couples. And it really started out with no intentions. One was more of just a couple that we know that are awesome. And they've been in it. And they were kind enough when we were on vacation, met us. And we end up having a drink. We didn't know what to expect.

We thought the next thing we know is be having a drink, we can come back to the room. And that is where we open our mind that that's not really the lifestyle. there's amazing people that you develop amazing friendships with. And really what they did is opened up our mind to what this really was and challenged us to maybe try a lifestyle resort or even a lifestyle event. And that really opened up our mind going, okay, let's maybe try this because we had booked a lifestyle resort three times and got scared and canceled. Okay, guys, let's talk about,

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That is where we open our mind that that's not really the lifestyle. There's amazing people that you develop amazing friendships with. And really what they did is opened up our mind to. what this really was and challenged us to maybe try a lifestyle resort or even a lifestyle event. And that really opened up our mind going, okay, let's maybe try this because we had booked a lifestyle resort three times and got scared and canceled. Oh, really? Yes.

Were you able to get your money back or did you just have it on hold like as a credit? I think we got our money back both times and then we end up going, know what, let's do this. We met with this couple and they said, you guys, lifestyle is just like going to amusement park. You're going on a ride and you go home. And that's really what all this is about. Oh, I kind of like that. Yeah, and it was amazing. And so we end up having the courage.

And it was almost year and a half ago, almost two years ago, we went to a lifestyle resort in Mexico. And I'll let Serena kind of tell that story that opened up our minds to a whole other part of lifestyle. Yeah, Serena, walk us through that whole experience because that's like pretty major. This is like your first step into like crossing the line from, you know, role play and fantasizing to reality. Yes. And we didn't quite realize like that we were taken kind of a big jump. We thought it was a little step and got there and both of us were a little terrified at first and we're not sure what to think and we're shocked at what we were seeing. and it was a, but we said, you know what, we're just kind of the type that, well, we might as well

jump in and really ended up meeting some amazing people and had some fun experiences and we're just surprised by how much it turned us both on and we had the most, our sex was already good, but we just could not stop having sex the entire trip. You mean because you're seeing everybody else have sex and all there's all these naked people around you. It must be fully charged for sure. Yes. But did you go into that experience saying you're not going to do anything with anybody else? Like did you guys

just like fuck in front of people? Like what did you guys wind up doing there? Like how far did you go? The interesting part of that was we went into it and we were like well maybe we'll do a little touching but we are not kissing like we're not kissing other people and that was

what everybody did. People came up and were like can I kiss you and we were both like, oh, what do we do? So that's where we learn never say never, because we blew that rule right out of the water the first 10 minutes. Oh, my God, that's so funny. So you guys just like make it out with strangers. First thing.

First rule out the window. It is crazy. And I think I just always thought, okay, that's too intimate. Yeah, yeah. Touching and all of that. I could wrap my brain around, but I don't want you intimately kissing another guy or girl, for that matter. And so that was something that was.

We talked about the whole plane ride down, and little did we know within four hours. We're already kissing people and getting to know amazing couples. Because the truth is kissing is only romantic when you're kissing someone that you feel romantic with. Like kissing is hot when you're kissing someone that you're just like hot for. You know what I mean? Like it's not about kissing that makes it romantic. It's about your feelings for the person. Yes, definitely.

It's just, and for me, that was kind of the initial like, oh, am I going to be into the this person or not into this person was can we kiss and enjoy that to see where it goes after that. Yeah, that's like that typically is the way you know how some how good someone's going to be in bed, right? When you're dating. Same shit. Same shit. You guys are like dating again.

All right. So you guys are making out when you first get there. What else goes down? I would say, yeah, we met like two or three amazing couples and all of a sudden, yeah, they obviously they have this hot tub. like, oh, I don't know if we can go this hot tub. That sounds like we're not ready to graduate up to the upstairs hot tub. But all of a sudden, we're finding ourselves up the hot tub and getting to know a lot more people.

And I think the part that Serena loves so much is just being topless. She had no idea the freeness that she would feel and the sexiness that she would feel. And just along with that, all of a sudden, she's having guys walk up to her pretty much the whole trip. and there was this one particular guy that had a little bit of this fire that took a liking to her, and all of a sudden, pretty much every day and morning and afternoon and evening, she's making out with him. And then one evening, they're doing the, he's on the stripper pole and brings her over and helps her with that. And we find ourselves back at their room with almost eight other couples.

Oh my God. Are we going towards an orgy? Well, this is where us being green horns and new, we ended up, there's like eight people in the pool. And Serena first went in the pool with this guy and all of a sudden passionately making out. Then all of a sudden six more people show up and you have six, eight people in a pool all making out, flirting and a whole bunch of stuff. and hands everywhere going on and it ended up being kind of a crazy party. I could tell we both, because this is brand new, we just now just entered into this new world. I looked over and could see she was a little bit of deer in the headlights. I realized that, okay, we're kind of went to that edge where we're comfortable.

We need to exit stage left. Oh, okay. So we exit stage left, but then we end up going out and having probably, who knows how long, it's probably the best sex we've ever had. And the charge that we got from that was incredible. It was unbelievable. We've never had that sex,

that type of sex after being in an environment like that. Because you were so close and you're like right in the middle. I could see how that's a turn on without doing anything, right? Absolutely. Okay. How long were you at the resort for it? Not long enough. Yeah, there is a pretty quick trip.

It's about three days. And but once, the last day is when we started downloading when we were about ready to leave everything about it saying, okay, we could come back here almost two times a year. This, we jammed with everything about what that created for just our sexuality, our marriage, our confidence and just fun. Yeah. And how were the people in the whole vibe of the place? Because I've heard that it's like really great. You know what I mean? Like people are very welcoming.

People were really cool. Was that your experience? Definitely. I mean, people, there's no judgment. And that's what I think I love the most. Like, people don't care what you're wearing, not wearing, you know, like what you're doing. If you're new, if you've been doing it forever, if you're young, old, married, whatever. People are just nice. They were friendly. They were welcoming. They were fun. We met the most amazing people. We have a lot of good friends here that we still call our vanilla friends. but it was just really fun to be open sexually and flirting, but respectful. Like it just was really awesome people. Okay, so now did you, okay, so you get back from the resort, you guys had a great time. You definitely crossed the line a little bit. So now you know you're kind of like you're committed to, you know, going further, right?

Absolutely. Okay, what comes next? You guys are so good at telling your story. Just keep going. I like chronological, you know. Yeah. We keep doing a little bit more Instagram, and obviously I love taking pictures of her. It's such a turn-on.

And at first it was all awkward for her, and now it's probably one of our most favorite things where weekly we're doing fun, sexy pictures just to have. And all of a sudden, we have somebody on Instagram that wants to share her that features a lot of other women. And then you're having conversations with this person that you don't know who. who's on the other end. And we find ourselves going, okay, we made another trip. We decided to go on another blind date, meet this individual over dinner.

And consider going, okay, what does this look like with a male, male, female? So this was kind of our first little venture into what could that look like. How do we even feel about something like that with no expectations? But I think we did have still parameters. We're just going to go and meet this person. Okay. Trina. Yeah, so we meet him for dinner and, you know, we had seen pictures on Instagram, but it's funny

because people can look different. We weren't sure what to expect. And he was super respectful, very nice, very welcoming and open to, you know, whatever we were comfortable with, which was awesome. You know, we weren't sure how to, how that was going to go. If the expectation was, okay, we're going to go back and have sex or if it's like, you know, I'm open to something else. So we ended up going back to our hotel room, or back to our hotel, and we went outside by a

fire pit, kind of in the open, a little secluded away from everything else. And I had my first experience with just kissing and being touched by two people at the same time. How was that for you? It was incredible. It just, the attention, I had no idea how much I would love that. Okay. So that was the whole experience with that guy, just making out? Yeah, pretty much making out.

I mean, we're in the open and her tops down. And both me and this other guy are playing with her nipples, sucking her nipples, grabbing her lower area. And she had a hand on the outside of each of, each of us. and it ended up being more hot than we thought it was going to be. But then we reeled in because I knew, I'm like, I'm not sure if this is the person for us to continue to go to that next step. But it was very much a hotness factor of 10,

and it really opened up our mind how much she loved the attention, having the tension and having me there with another guy. Yeah, it's interesting that kissing is like your thing, considering you spent the whole flight talking about how you, you were not going to fucking kiss, right? Yes, yes. Turns out both of you love kissing. I think kissing is super hot too, so I totally understand.

Yeah, yes, for sure. Okay, so keep going. I mean, I know you eventually do cross the line and get hardcore. Yeah, so we, that really opened up the mind to us, and all of a sudden, once again, everybody that we've been talking to in a lifestyle going, okay, all of this has been through Instagram. You guys are crazy. I've never heard of that.

Yeah, me neither. Is your Instagram still out there? Do you want to give it a shout out? We might. And so we're pretty selective on who we allow follow us because it's pretty private. Well, you're going to get a lot of people if you put, you know, we'll talk about it at the end. Anyway, go on. Yeah.

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And I'll kind of let the story go from there because this is really what I think opened the door to this whole bowl and male, male, female for Serena. Okay. Serena? Yeah. So, um, did you guys prepare how you guys were going to talk in this? Because this is like, I love how you like throw it to each other and everything. Like you're like professional podcast guests.

A little bit. We kind of both wrote down things so that we would like kind of keep our brains going. And that's been probably the hugest thing is our communication through all of this. Yeah, obviously. Yeah, you have to communicate. And we, no one else knows. So it's just the two of us. So that was part of the sexy part of the podcast is sharing our story.

Yeah, I love it. Okay, keep going with your story. I just had to say that. I love the way you're doing it. it, you know? Yeah. So, yeah, so he, we had talked on Instagram and definitely some attraction being a cowboy and then watching him, you know, in the rodeo and then we're supposed to meet after. And that was when I kind of went into a little bit of a tailspin. Like, I don't know if I can do this. I'm not sure. And Bo calmed me down and said, you know what? We're just going to go meet him. So we went over.

to his trailer and met him and a couple of his friends. And he had been pretty forward on Instagram. And I kind of expected that. And he was actually a little bit shyer and his friends were a little more fun and flirty. So that night, I honestly spent more time flirting and talking to his friends and put his chaps on and saw his trailer. And then it just kind of didn't really do much. And so we went home, but then he messaged and was like, was there an attraction?

I couldn't tell. And I was like, oh, my gosh, how could you not tell? And he said, guys are dumb sometimes. You don't remember that? You haven't been on the market for a long time. You forget. Yeah. So he said, oh, there was definitely attraction, which I was surprised.

I was like, oh, you know, he didn't like me, whatever, you know. So I had no idea. So he was still at the rodeo. So we met the next night and met for dinner. And he kept pushing the time back. And I was like, he's going to back out. He's not going to show up. And then he actually showed up and we had a hotel room booked and went back to the hotel room and sat on opposite sides in the hotel room.

and yeah it was it was not one of my better moments but well it's uncomfortable the first time yeah yes yes and so he just was like an amazing guy like it just was so respectful and so kind and very sexy and then sat next to him and then bow started kind of making a move and then kind of brought him in and it was just the hottest night ever. What went down? This is a big deal. This is, I'm assuming this, you went all the way this time. Yes. Okay. Yes. So started kissing first and then Bo removed my clothes and had hands all over from both of them. And then undressed him. And then Bo said, you know, do you want to do this? And I said, yes, I do. which surprised me because I didn't think that I would want to and had sex twice.

And then kind of were just hanging out. And then Bo said, do you want to do it again? And I was like, yes, I do. So then we had sex one more time. And then super respectful. He left. And then we reconnected. And Bo reclaimed me and gave us just the hottest thing to talk about.

bad and just was turned on for months after that. Wow. Like you could live off of that that pleasure. So how, okay, first I want to, both of you answer this question. Like for you, Serena, how was it like sleeping with another man? I mean, this is the first other man you've been with in 25 years. And then, Bo, I want you to tell me what was it like to, you know, finally see the real thing going down in action like your wife with another guy. Yes. To be honest, I kind of blacked out, like just kind of had to put it out of my mind. You left your body kind of thing. I did. It was like an out-of-body experience. And I think that's why I was like, yeah, I want to do this again because I want to actually do this and remember what I'm doing versus like being

out-of-body experience. Yeah, it's funny. Yeah. So that was kind of how I initially dealt with it, but then just really enjoyed once I kind of put myself in the moment. Okay. And how we'll get to more of your other experiences, right? Because that was just the first one. But Bo, how was it finally seeing the whole thing go down? Yeah, I had so many emotions. I think I wore a watch is already saying that your heart rate's out of normal. It's beeping and there's all sorts of stuff going on. There's, yeah, emotions of this is hot. I can't believe we're doing this. And then all of a sudden, you know, things settled in and it was probably one of the hottest things for me. me to watch her in pleasure and watch another guy fuck her and just see things just from a

whole other vantage point. Yeah. And being able to be part of it too was super hot. He was super respectful allowing me to be funneling with her breast, sucking her breast while he's fucking hurt. And it just like, yeah, it was like this euphoria that I had no idea. But there was no question. I thought my heart was going to be jumping out of my chest in the beginning.

And then now, did you do like spit roast, like any of those things that people do with that kind of configuration? Do you remember that? We did it in this one. We recently got to that. I come with your stories after this one. Okay. So that time, like you said, Serena, like you kind of like checked out, but you enjoyed it and you wanted to obviously do it again. Yes.

Yes, definitely. They, you know, they were, the way that they took turns and worked together, I was completely blown away. So then our second time was also with him. Yeah. Yeah, a few months had asked and kept the communication. And she kept the communication where all of a sudden he's wanting Snapchat and he thinks she's the catch meow. And that was pretty hot. And all of a sudden, the communication led to, hey, I'm back in your area again.

And I'll let you go. Yeah. So we met, we didn't go to the rodeo this time. We went after the rodeo and met and definitely just as hot as the first time. And he was the first one to actually make me squirt. You're kidding in your whole life? In my whole life. Yeah.

So that was a whole other level of like sexiness and hotness that I had no idea. And so he taught Bo how to do it. So then Bo was doing it also. So that was with his hand? Yep. Wow. Did you catch on, Bo? Oh, yeah.

It's probably one of our favorite things that we love, love, love doing. It was a hotness factor in how me and him worked so well together. All of a sudden, we found ourselves at the end of it. We're giving each other a high five, and she doesn't even remember that. And she goes, I missed you guys giving a high five above me because it was that much of a hotness. Yeah, wow. Okay, keep going. So after that, he and I have stayed in communication.

We have like a group text and we talk all the time. We have not been able to meet up again, but definitely talk and still have some fun sexting going on. Okay. Or have there been any other guys? Yeah. So then the venture went on. Okay, let's explore a couple. So we went to a lifestyle event in the fall.

and once again met some amazing couples and and then all of a sudden connected with some couples and we're like, okay, let's give this couple thing a try. So there's a period of a couple couples that were amazing people that we gave it a shot. And I'm going to put this one on me. I was more intrigued what was going on with Serena than me being in front of. another and woman, just that detachment because I love watching her in pleasure. And there's so much distraction where it almost was like, we're not sure if this is it. And we went down that road a couple times with some amazing couples. Had an awesome time at these events and met some

amazing people. But I love so much watching her be in pleasure and be part of that. It didn't go well for me. Put it that way. interesting because you you're more into watching her as opposed to the the swat the thing like it was distracting for you very distracting yeah listen you're more of like the guy that's into the hot wife I mean that's what a lot of women don't understand because a lot of guys are into that and they tell their wife like they don't want to be with other women because women think it's like a trap you just want to fuck other girls and are like no a lot of guys that are very into that could care less about them sort of being with a woman they just love to watch their wife be pleasured and be a part

of that whole experience. 100%. Yeah, 100%. It was even at a point where I'm like, okay, is there something wrong? What's going in my brain? So I'm like, I might need to even talk to a sex therapist because this is not going well.

Yeah, because I didn't want to ruin the experience for us because we were loving meeting these couples and just the whole sexiness and sexuality of it. And like, where is there a disconnect? And so we had to end up doing a whole reset because we went and went out on like three, before dates with couples and amazing people. A lot of flirtingness and sexiness. And all of a sudden, I'm like, okay, we need to do a reset. So we did a reset going, okay, that's still do these events.

But I think our lane may be this hot wiping thing. And that's kind of, yeah, where we kind of got to after a second event that we went to this summer in June. But this event, though, what we realized, as much as we don't necessarily need. to go down the full couple lane, but the sexiness, and I'll let you talk a little bit about the event that we had in June. It was amazing. Yeah, so we kind of, we realized, like, there didn't have to be expectations. We didn't have to say, oh, we're doing this, or, oh, you know, kind of have these set things. We said, let's just kind of go in, let's be sexy, let's have fun, let's flirt and just really enjoy ourselves and what, you know, what if something happens, it happens,

but we need to really feel it versus expecting to do something. Right. So we both went in and just had fun flirting and lots of kissing, lots of different people, the topless and just, you know, hanging out and dressing up. I love the dressing up at the parties and just, you know, you almost put yourself into that character of someone else that you're dressing up as a sexy Cinderella, you know, and go into a party. And so just kind of enjoyed that part. And then, you know, we went out on the lake and had sex and had amazing sex in our room. And, you know, just all the different things, but it was more we had sex,

but we just did lots of flirting and fun, which we really enjoyed. Yeah. And where are you finding out about all this stuff? Like, you know, these local resorts, the parties, all that kind of stuff. Like, what did you use? Like, what, you know, where do you find that information? I just think that was through, yeah, these were through the, a lot of the couples that we met via Instagram. It's so crazy.

And they are, have been involved with a lot of these events because there's so many of them organizations that they put them on three, four times a year. And we have another one that's planned. that we'll be heading to. It's a cruise in February, so we're super excited about that. And then we're going back to the Lifestyle Resort here this winter as well. So we do have fun at these events just because it does bring out our sexuality and just sexiness. And it is awesome.

We do love the sexy couples and all of that. So that has been a big part of our lane that we found that we want to continue doing. And like Serena said, we're never going to say never to couples. I think it was a good pause because after we got back from Lux is when we said, know what, let's maybe go to a lifestyle site and really check and see what that is and see if we can open the door to more possibilities because Instagram is a pretty narrow lane for the lifestyle and very restricted. And so we got on a lifestyle site and put some information out there

and all of a sudden that opened the door to a whole bunch of men and couples. Really? Okay. So this is where we kind of continue going down this road. So all of a sudden we have Mr. Boltu that say he might be a firefighter. And we had a chance to experience that for really kind of that second time. and that was amazing and we've been able to be fortunate enough to be around him two times now. Oh, okay. Keep going. I'm just letting you guys go because it sounds like, I mean, whatever, you're doing the best job. Yeah, I'm going to edit that out. Keep going.

And I'll let Serena talk about that. Okay. So we went out and met for a drink just to kind of see if there was any connection at all, which is what we've realized is a good stuff. for us versus thinking, oh, we're going to go meet somebody and then go back to a hotel room. So we arranged for a drink first, super respectful, very sexy firefighter that we definitely felt a connection immediately, walked back to the cars together and just had an amazing makeout session and could not wait. Like a week later, we were meeting at a hotel room and I was able to do my first DP experience with this firefighter. Oh, wow. Is that something that you knew you wanted to do?

It's something I had been thinking about and wanting to do. Bo is definitely larger than what I was comfortable with. So it was awesome to have someone that was not as large to experience that with. So the not so large one went in the back, like in your ass? Like, I mean, is that it Yes. Okay, that was the point, right? How was that? I've always wondered. It was okay. It's definitely something I want to keep trying. It was just a little more discomfort than I thought it was going to be the first time. So it did not last very long, but it was very sexy and it was something I had definitely been wanting to try. Yeah. And I think you talked about spitrose. That was kind of our. She's like, I definitely want to do that where I'm giving you a blowjob and being fucked. And it end up being reverse and where I'm fucking her from behind.

And she's doing, giving a blow job to this gentleman. And I had never visually seen something so hot. We've always envisioned it. Yeah. And all of a sudden, I'm words come out of my mouth saying I'm going to lose my shit. This guy had no idea what he's talking about. he thought I was going to lose my shit on him. And really what it was is I lost everything and I'm done because it was so hot watching her first time doing that spit roast.

I'm surprised it took you guys this long. I mean, you did DVP on the same time you did sped roast. It's like, you know, it's kind of like you did a lot that time. We did. That was probably one of our most sexy evenings we had. And then all of a sudden, once again, a couple more rungs up ladder, our minds become more open. And we had some connect already going with another guy that we flew and met, not about a month, month and a half ago, two months ago,

a former athlete, and it was her first BBC. And that was a hot, hot night. And so it just has continued to build from there. And I can tell you if there's anything that you wanted to speak to that, Serena. Yeah, yeah, it was that was kind of something that watching the porn, like, really turned me on was watching the BBC, and we had talked about it and kind of looked into it, and that's where this website really, like, helped with finding someone to do that with. And it was just, like, unbelievable. It was hot and sexy, and he's super flirty and fun, and we definitely will be meeting with him again. Wait, did you find him on Instagram too? I forget. How did you find this guy? No, that was just a lifestyle site that we decided to get on to. Okay. Okay. Keep going. So that was an

amazing experience. Like it lived up to your porn fantasies, Serena. Oh, yes. Definitely. Yep. We still communicate weekly and have fun texting back and forth. And yeah, it's, we, we plan to meet again for sure. Yeah. And then after that, another guy came across Instagram. It was probably that week. Two days later, we're still on the trip, met for a drink. Next thing we know, he's texting us, I want to meet now. Are you guys available? And this is, so this is where we said, never say never. We usually plan and kind of orchestrate everything. Two days later, we found ourselves meeting with another guy after that on this trip and that was an interesting one. I think he came out of the gate so hot and that end up being over in about 10 seconds because Serena is so hot and I think he could not control himself

and I'm not sure if this was his thing but he entered down that road of wanting to give it his very best shot and end up being something that we were not planning on at all. Meaning it went too fast or you weren't planning on going all the way like all the above. Yeah, both. That was our first time meeting. We met and then he left and then he responded and said, hey, I would love to get together. Can I come over?

And he ended up coming over. And so that was our first time having sex with someone the same time as meeting them. And then, yes, it went very quick. I love to ride on top. and that he immediately went to that. And yeah, it was very quick. And he couldn't go for like a second round or anything. Was it just like over after that?

No, that's where I had to take over. And he did an amazing job making Serena feel so sexy and pretty much was in love with her tits. And that went on for quite a while. So it ended up being an amazing night. and that's where I feel like I've done a good job kind of reading the room and knowing where I am able to plug in and just be a co-star at times. And you like that? I love that. Yeah.

I love that. Yeah, you really kind of are like that guy that's really into how I've. Have you done any? I mean, I don't know where you're at with your experiences and your story. Like I'm wondering, it sounds like maybe you haven't revisited the couple thing yet, but it's not off the table, correct? Not off the table. So we're continuing to talk to some couples. We even have something set up this winter where we're going to meet another couple somewhere

and been talking to them online. And we do have another couple from an event we went to. And they are all about us and the guy, the husband's all about Serena. And so we're trying to figure out what that may look like next because we want to keep an open mind to that. But it's amazing. I think every week there are one or two new guys that are curious about Serena that were vetting and talking to. We had no idea this world was going to open up and we were going to get the influx of guys coming in. Yeah, well, you keep talking about how hot Serena is.

So, you know. She definitely, yeah. She's hot. I'm going to say she's a 10. She's tall, fit, long legs, beautiful, blonde. tits to a nine and so it's it's hot i'm gonna just say hot as fuck yeah and i have to say i think a lot of guys are into that thing like if you guys are putting out there like you know that you love to have your woman be taken by another man i think a lot of guys you know have the the kink that you have and that

you want to share your wife and then a lot of guys like i think have the kink that they want to be the guy to fuck the guy's wife you know no strings attached what's it's like you know i think a lot of guys want to sign up for something like that and want to be picked. Yes, definitely. It's surprising. Like the, you know, we had heard stories and people had said, oh, yeah, you know, bulls, this and that. Yeah. We, you know, I don't know if we've just gotten lucky or I just think that there's more really

great ones out there than there are ones that are, you know, not as good. So it's been, we've been surprised how many awesome guys. there are out there. Yeah, I think you've been lucky because I've heard some bad stories. You only had the one guy that was like super quick. But I've heard some like not so great first experiences or, you know, didn't pick a good bull. But I hear more like, you know, better stories about it like, like you guys.

Yeah. Yeah, I consider them like I've become friends with a few of them. They're amazing, amazing guys. And I think that's one thing that we found. It's a lot easier to have a three relationship versus that I think that's one thing we found with couples. Before. Yeah, women have to connect, the guys have to connect.

You have to cross connect. And then, yeah, the woman doesn't like your wife or vice versa or, yeah, it just, we felt it became, there's a whole other level of connection that takes place. And I'm like, I don't need that. And I find my wife already hot. She's a 10. And so why not go down this road? So I think that's where we found this lane.

but we love flirting with other couples. Yeah, that's fun. And listen, you know, you don't, you guys is like a secret life, right? Obviously, probably nobody in your vanilla world knows about it. Like you said, you wanted to come on the podcast to talk about it. It's like hot because you can't really share it with anyone. But if you have other couple friends in the lifestyle, I think that really helps too, like minded people, friends.

Absolutely. Yeah. And I think the right bull, I mean, you guys picked like good bulls. But they, you know, I think the most, the number one rule for being a good bull is like, you know, have a good relationship with the guy. It's no different with the unicorn woman in the relationship, right? Like if she's like not cool with the wife, like that's going to be not a good experience, you know? And I think the good bulls know that they got to be super cool with the husband and as they should be.

I mean, this guy's like offering up his wife to them, you know, you would wonder why anyone wouldn't be cool. But that's the key to being a good bull. So it sounds like you guys met some good ones considering your friends with them, you know, Bo? Absolutely. It's been amazing. I have respect for all of them. I really do. And just recently, our last one was in the medical field.

And I know that was like a huge turn on. And that was probably, that was our most recent one that I think sent Serena over the edge going, okay, that was a hotness of 10 that she had been, we had been planning for a while. And that's where it kind of has left. And now we're on the verge of reconnecting with some of these recent ones and then some new ones as well. Do you want to end with that last story? Go ahead. Sure.

This one was interesting because Bo likes to plan everything and be the one in charge of where we're meeting and what we're doing and all of that. And he is really good at that and mapping everything out. And this person in the medical field wanted to plan the whole thing. So that was kind of an interesting twist of we, he told us where we were meeting. but that was kind of all we knew. Okay. So he did an incredible job. That was almost like an extra hot and sexy for me that he took the time and effort to plan

something and put something together. Yeah. Okay. So where did, so you just knew where you were going to meet. And so I'm assuming you meet at a hotel or whatever. Yes. Okay. Yep.

Like a resort. So and, you know, he was, he had, was at work and ended up running late. and then came and had an incredible room that we went back to. And Bo does an awesome job setting up like music and some fun lights and kind of setting the mood. So we started making out while he was getting all that set up and ready. And definitely it was super hot and sexy. And we had an incredible night. Yeah, it was super hot because, yeah, he's pretty experienced.

And I think that's one thing that Serena loved. He said, you just tell me when, and I will. And I don't think she's had something like that, somebody that could have that self-control and go as long or short as you want. And I would say after this one was probably the next, probably the number one hottest reclaiming. We went down to the bar, downloaded. We love downloading. Downloading is probably one of our most favorite things to do is just downloading the

whole experience over a drink. And next thing we find ourselves is hours later, we're back up at the room having sex all night. And we pretty much role played that whole evening again. And that's what I'm saying. Just the mindset and the doors that it's open to our sexuality has been incredible. Right. Like it's not like, oh, just the first time you could live off of it for so long.

And after a while, it just becomes like, oh, same old, same old. It's like it sounds like no matter how many times you experience it, still the reclaiming. and you know, you could live on it for a while and it adds so much to your sex life even after the experience. Yes, for a long time after the experience. And then as we have more experiences, it's like, oh, remember this and when this happened. And it's just kind of been, you know, we had kids and spent our life talking about the kids and doing those things. And then now this is like our new connect that just kind of sends us. both over the edge sexually, like, time and time again.

And I'm sure, because I always like to end with the question of, like, you know, like, okay, we know that it's, like, added to your sex life and everything, but I always love to know, like, what it has added outside of the bedroom, you know, like, the intimacy between you guys in the romance and the every day, like, do you feel like it has brought you closer in other ways besides sexually? Yeah, I think what we both kind of realized is how much we love the flirt. how much we love the kissing and just our communication that, you know, just being able to talk about, you know, me having sex with someone else. You can have that conversation with your person.

Like, it just brings this whole other level of comfort and, you know, just the sexiness about it all. Right. And Bo, for you, how has it changed your relationship with your life? Yeah, I would say both of us, what I've noticed is just our confidence in. each other and just watching Serena's confidence go through the roof, even just what she would be comfortable wearing just out on a dinner date today. And the sexiness that she exudes just out of the house now is just incredible. And so just I would just say our confidence in how we carry ourselves and how we're able to talk about anything from our day to, hey, what do we want to do tonight when we go home to the bedroom? And so,

So, yeah, it's enhanced our marriage, our communication, like Serena said, and our sexuality is just through the roof. It's like we can't get enough of it sometimes. Yeah, that's what I always hear. It's so super interesting. Do you still like, are you still on Instagram? Like, I definitely want pictures for my Patreon, right? Anonymous Pecks. I always say like R rated for my Patreon.

And then you're going to get free access to my Discord. Now, listen, you have talked about Serena and her being topless. So there is a big boob. There is a best boobs contest going on. He win $150 on my Discord right now. So you could join. You're going to get free access to my Discord. You could throw something up over there.

That's where like people get X-rated. Anyone could do anything over there. I am not that much a part of that. But for my Patreon, if you want to send me an anonymous picks, like something that you would put on Instagram or something, you know, R-rated, like sexy picks. That's great. I'll put them on Patreon. You'll get free access to that for a month so you could see comments and stuff.

Now, I don't know. do you want like you will I have a large audience and so like you will get a lot of people signing up for your Instagram if you want to give a shout out you know I I have to tell you like I have a Patreon filled of 2,500 of my listeners my Discord has 6,000 people that are my listeners I've vetted every single of them and my listeners are fucking cool people okay like I've never I've always had content creators tell me like oh my God the people that signed up from your audience like they're so nice respectable blah blah blah so I don't think even if you get a lot of signups you're going to have a problem with the people signing up, you know what I mean? But like if you don't want to give a

shout out, that's totally cool. It's up to you. Yeah, I'm not sure on that one. That's a great question. I mean, we're not opposed because it's not like we only allow people we know, but we do vet it just because we don't want randoms and in. Yeah, that's how I roll with my Discord, but I vetted 6,000 people and they're all cool. Wow. Yeah. So, you know, it's, you don't have to. You can, you can tell me after, you know what I mean? Like, listen, this is what I'm going to say to the audience. If they decide that their Instagram wants to be included in this episode, you know, I will put it in the description. I'll put the name, okay? If not, you know, like, you know, go sign up for my Patreon.

You'll see picks over there. Some people like to put like a body with an episode, whatever, you know, people are curious. So if not, you're going to send me picks right for my Patreon and I'll put them over there. Yeah, we would be happy to definitely send you picks because I want you to see some pop picks of Serena. Yeah, that's like your thing. Sherry, you're going to get a lot of people like, oh my gosh. Pretty sexy too. He doesn't give himself enough credit. Yeah, well, you know, I like when a couple sends me both shots, you know, just you don't have no faces, right? Anonymous. Everyone's anonymous. But listen, you guys, you guys were like the great couple to, you know, navigate this call with a lot of times people are like, besides me interrupting people, I'm an interruptor. A lot of times, you know, partners, like, three people on a call. People step on all over each other. But you guys did not. The only person stepping on anyone's words was me. You guys were so killer at telling your story. So thank you so much for calling in.

Yeah, you're very good at what you do. It's been fun listening to a lot of your podcast. So I just want to let you know that. Thank you. It's because I love what I do. Like I said, I mean, I don't know anything about you. I'm like genuinely curious about this stuff and people's lives. So it's just like, you know, so all my questions like come out of my like psychotic curiosity.

I just happen to be like intensely curious. So it's like fun. I'm still after 12 years talking to like 1, 299 people. Like I'm still interested in talking to. another stranger on a call. You know, it's fun for me. So I'm glad you enjoy it. Thank you so much for calling in and telling your story and being such great easy guests

on my Saturday morning. Absolutely. And then will you let us know what's the best way to send you some of those? Yeah, email it to me and email it to me sooner than later. Okay. Okay. That sounds awesome. We'll try to do that today.

All right. Thanks, you guys. You guys were the best. Thanks for sharing your story. Thank you. Awesome. Bye. Bye.

Bye. Bye. Okay. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show.

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