Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1342 - Mr. P & and HIs Wife Are Into Swinging, Hooking up with Other Guys and More

Episode Date: January 20, 2026

Mr. P got his wife into singing, hooking-up with other guys and more and he called in to talk all about it. Tune into hear all the details including his previous experience in the Lifestyle and when he decided to bring it up to Mrs. P (ep #1313) and how she reacted, their first few swinger club experiences including Trapeze and what went down, Mrs. P first experience with a woman and her first threesome with a couple, their first bull they experiences and what went down, how and why he enjoys watching her more then participating, their first house party and all the guys Mrs. P hooked up, the one hook-up she had that made him jealous and why he felt that way, the second time he got jealous and what went down, the unicorn they met that he hooked up with and what went down, how he allows Mrs. P to play with guys solo and why she digs it, his first experience with a guy and what went down, the all bi-guy swinger house party they went to and what went down, their threesome with her best friend and what went down, how and why his wife being into being in the lifestyle is the most importantly thing for him plus a whole lot more. GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To see HOT pics of MRS. P plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors: ⁠⁠https://learn.nocd.com/strictly ⁠⁠If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — To get 10% off LOAD BOOST by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠PikaVibe.com/Strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Click to get $15 OFF your purchase ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2540-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠— Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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could hook up with people in there, but you could also get in the know of all the swingers clubs and the meet and greets and the munches, all the meet and greets and the sex parties and all that kind of good stuff in your neighborhood. Or if you're going away on vacation and want to play, you're going to get to find out what's going on wherever you're going on SDC.com. You get a free trial over there. All you got to do is use my code 37712 or just go to the description. Click on the link. The link to my Patreon is there. The link to buy my book is over there. Everything is in the description. Okay, today I have on Mr. P. Now his girl has called in already. Mrs. P. is in a stagg vixen marriage. That was episode 1313. Her episode is great. He called in today to tell

their story from his perspective. And it's super interesting. Like, I love to do couples like this where I hear one person's story first than the other person's because he get a totally different perspective. He got his wife, Mrs. P., that Pee's for Passion Fruit, into like, you know, getting into the lifestyle. he was in the lifestyle previously before her, which I don't think I remembered. So he talks a little bit about that. He talks about when he brought it up to Mrs. P and how he got her into trying out the lifestyle. And once they tried it, they were like in it. And they're super open. He talks a lot about how they started out, what they did in the beginning. He goes through all their different stories. I mean, he's very into the hot wafing thing. He really enjoys seeing her be pleasured, having her have her have her. experiences, but, you know, they've done more than just the hot wife thing. They've done a couple swaps. They've had a lot of threesomes with women. He has hooked up with a guy. He talks about them being, you know, open to being fluid. He's a super interesting guy because he was in the military. And so he's got a

lot of like really good one-liners that they live by. And you could tell that the things that he lives by has really helped him and his wife be successful in the lifestyle. So it's a super interesting story. Everyone loves them over on my Discord. They're they engage a lot. People love Mrs. P. and her hot picks over on my Discord. He's going to send me more hot picks of her over on my Patreon. So if you want to join the link to that is in the description. Or get my book. If you buy my book, it's on Amazon, Strictly anonymous confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. You'll also get the link to my Discord and you could see Mrs. P and Mr. P in action. But anyway, I'm going to get right to it. You're going to love a story. I'm going to be right back on with Miss

Mr. P. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm fine. Thank you for having me. I'm a huge fan. So I'm actually kind of thrilled to be here. Oh, I love that. Well, you got your wife on first to call in to me, right? I've already talked to Mrs. P. And I remember when I first talked to, I'm like, are you guys into water sports? Is that way? You know, which would be a dumb name, really. But like, no, it's Mrs. P. Mr. Mrs. P. P. stands for passion fruit. Are you guys like on only fans or something as Mr. Mrs. Passion Fruit or Reddit? Like, where are you guys located with me? No, we're on, we're on SDC and Cassidy. Okay. As Mr. And now Discord. I love it. But she picked the name.

She liked Passion Fruit. So she picked the name. So that's how we got it. Well, I know my audience loved her. And you guys are over on my Discord. I just taped somebody who had a whole story about hooking up with a bull for my Discord. I'm like, people are like fucking hooking up over there.

It's like a whole scene on my Discord. of it. People could see you guys over there, but I'm going to get the story from your side now. I mean, I typically always feel like I get a totally different story from both sides, which is always interesting. I talk to two people a day every day. I'm always rolling with like 60 episodes tape. So I don't even remember Mrs. P's story. What I remember is she is a hot wife. You guys got into hot wife. So why don't you tell me, like remind everybody how long you guys been married for and all that kind of good stuff. Okay. Well, we've been married 15 years. We've been in the lifestyle for seven. However, what I've come to find out is being in a lifestyle is like dog years.

Just because you've been in it, a certain number of years does not equate to your experience. So, well, I think of dog years as like one year equals like 10. It feels like long. Correct. That's right. Yeah. Lifestyle years are the same way. One lifestyle year, depending on your experience, can be like five vanilla years. Oh, okay. But, You know, and it really depends on your experience because we've met people that have been in it longer than us, but have only, like, done half of what we've had done. And so we're pretty adventurous. So, yeah, so we've been in at seven years. But if you're meeting us or whatever you're talking to us, you'll be like, God, you guys been in this like 20 years. We'll be like, no. Well, I think seven years is a long time. Like there's one thing, like, I feel like newbies are newbies for like about a year or so. And then after that, seven years, 10 years, 15 years. What's the? I think seven years. difference, you know, kind of been there, done that. Yeah, it all has to do with what you're doing in those years.

Yeah, so what did you start out doing? Like, how did this all come up for you and Mrs. P. so many years ago? Okay, well, this is her third marriage. It's my second. I was in the lifestyle in my previous marriage. Oh, that's always interesting to me. Yeah, we dabbled in it, but it wasn't real successful. and, you know, we divorced after 27 years, and it was for a variety of reasons, not just anything,

but there was not a lot of real good communication when we were in it. And when we got into this, and I'll get back to that, I just go back to tell everybody that's listening, communication. Well, why don't we talk a little bit about the marriage that didn't work out because the communication wasn't right because I think that that's super important. Yeah, it was, you know, it was. not, we didn't get, we debrief, Mrs. P and I, we debrief heavily after every, even if we just meet somebody for drinks. We're talking about it. We talk about it before. Right. We talk about it after.

We figure out what, what did we like? What didn't we like? And the previous one, we didn't talk a lot. We kind of did it? And I had to kind of guess, well, did you enjoy that? Did you not enjoy that? Well, what is it you don't? To me, it's like, give me some rules. Tell me what you don't want me to do. And there was never really any good feedback. So we had a lot of encounters where they were hard swaps or cuckold experiences, hot wife, where I'd watch her or whatever. I never really joined in. And they were kind of awkward afterwards.

And then we just realized, well, maybe this isn't for us. And then I come to realize, well, it wasn't it wasn't for us. It wasn't for you. is kind of like I found something I kind of liked. It wasn't for her. Yeah, it wasn't for her. So when Mrs. P. and I met, you know, I was like, I'm prior military. I did 23 years, a high-ranking officer, came out, and so everything for me is like kind of military jargon.

I like it. So when I saw her, a friend, a mutual friend brought her by my office. and unbeknownst to me at the time that friend was was trying to give me some pussy. I really didn't because she was a lot younger. Wait, was she in the military too? No, no. I had retired. I had my own business.

Okay, you were out. Yeah. And she brought her by because I was mentoring to this young lady and she was young, very young. And I took an interest in her because she was trying to start up her business and I do a lot I'm entering. So she brings Mrs. P. By, and I had just gotten off a red eye from Chicago, and I mean, I came straight to the office. I was not in the best of moods. I wasn't expecting any visitors. She brings her in, and it just went terrible. Oh, I feel like I'm remembering a

little bit. Like, you were kind of like a douchebag, right? Yeah, I came off like, I was a dishback. And so when they left, after I had time to, like, decompose, I was like, man, that's, that was like a that was a good looking woman and I said I kind of liked you know talking to her so I asked for a do-over through the friend well she kind of set everything up she shows up we end up up having a great conversation that night to three of us and then I asked her that night I said I got to go to another city here and I think you would enjoy it and whatever so she goes she goes with me and on the way back, I pull over at a rest stop and she's like, what are we stopping for? And I just lean in and we kiss.

And she doesn't, she kisses me back. We kiss for like 10 minutes. And then I go, okay, I got that out of the way. I said, that's, you know, tension's broken there. And then we came on back. And then we just started seeing each other on a regular basis. When did you tell her? I mean, do you wind up with getting involved in conversations?

about the lifestyle, by you revealing your past to her? Is that how it first came up? Well, yeah, when we, after we kind of got our groove and got our rhythm established, then we started talking about past and she, you know, she asked a lot of questions and, and that kind of thing. So I told her, I said, yeah, we did this and it didn't work. And this is where probably like two or three years in. And oh my God, you don't tell, wait, wait, you don't tell her. You guys date for two years. before you start talking about your mask? Correct. Because we had a lot, you know, again, this is about the lifestyle. You got a, number one, it's not something that you just spring on someone.

Because if she wasn't interested in it, I was willing to go into this relationship and never look back at the lifestyle. If that's how it was going to be. You didn't care is what you're saying. I didn't care. Okay. It is still interesting that here you are, these two people that are connecting and you don't wind up having conversations about your past until two years into it. That's kind of long. Well, not about

the lifestyle past. Right. Right. Conversations about our past. I know, but you never revealed it to her for two years. That's kind of interesting to me. No. Yeah. So we started talking and then one day we were, we were looking at a TV show or something and the topic was lifestyle swingers, whatever. And I asked her, I said, what do you think about that? And she was like, she gave me this deer in the headlights look. And then I said, okay. And then I said, well, you know, I did that. I did that before. And then she was like, really, tell me about it. And what did you do? And then all the questions came. So one of my philosophies I have is in this whole thing is try something one time. And if you don't like it, give it some time, then try it again. Okay. Not just one time. You're saying you got to do it

twice you got to do it again because then you have to again military terms you got to adjust for fire okay you got to figure out what is it i didn't like what didn't go wrong you make some corrections and then you do it again okay now after the second time if it doesn't work then you have to say okay maybe this is not for us so i said well you know what there is a uh there's a club here in town let's go and you know it was a little hesitation and then she was like oh because i told you know Number one, if we go, nobody's going to die. You know, there's just, we'll either have a really good time or we'll have a really bad time. We went and we had a great time.

We didn't play. We just went. And we found out that we're, we term ourselves sexual vampires. We feed off the energy of everybody around us in erotic situations and so on. So we had, you know, we came home charged up upon that night. And I mean, we had, you know, great sex. that night and for like a week or two after. And then we went back again and kind of repeated.

Same thing. Never played with anybody locally because, again, we both operate businesses here. And I did have a scenario where one of my largest contracts here in this town, I went to the club, previous marriage, and I run into my contracting officer. Oh, my God. At the club. And she tried to pretend like she didn't see me. And I went over and sat down.

I said, okay, you know, we're here. We're adults. I said, you don't have to wear by saying anything to me. And it was awkward when I would meet with her in meetings and stuff like that. But, you know, we worked through it. So we said, okay, we're not going to do anybody here. Hey, guys, it's confession time. Have you ever been on a perfectly fine date, either with a new person that you're looking to hook up with

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saying anything to me. And it was awkward when I would meet with her in meetings and stuff like that. But, you know, we worked through it. So we said, okay, we're not going to do anybody here. So we went to a trip to Atlanta. And I think she told me, went to trapeze. And it was a great experience. We ended up meeting a couple in the playroom.

And we were sitting there. And once you get past the sort of the main part and into, the playroom part, all the men have to be naked. And the women can wear lingerie, whatever, but the guys, you get a towel and that's it because they don't want looky-lose. They want either you're here to be like everybody else or you don't come back here. So we're sitting in a playroom and we're watching people and we decide to. I tell them, well, there's an empty bed over there. Let's go try it out. So we did and we're on the bed and we're fucking and we're having a great time and the guy next to her, his hand comes over and he starts caressing her leg. So she kind of

freezes up and I tell her, it's okay. I said, I'm right here. I said, if you don't want him to do that, then just tell me. So she didn't say no. So he continued to caress her leg and we continued on. And then we got finished and we go and we sit on the side. We're going to be spectators now. And a gentleman comes over and he just says, oh my God, my wife has been eyeing you from across the room. and she wants to know if she can come eat your pussy. And she gives me this look and I said, well, do you want to or not? And she just says, okay. So she comes over, she kneels on in front of her, eats her pussy out.

And she's grabbing my hand the whole time. Lady gets finished. She stands up. She kisses her and said, oh, this was great. Thank you so much. And they go off and she goes, what the fuck was that? I said, that's kind of like how this stuff. stuff happens. And I said, you have to tell me when enough is enough. I said, I'll be the,

I'll be the gate guard here. And you just tell me. You don't have to worry. You just tell me. And we have developed over the years. We've developed code words and signals. It's like watching a baseball first base coach. Sometimes, you know, we've got the hand signals down. So we got all that. So she's like, no, I'm having a good time. I'm having a good time. So we walk around and we run into the same couple. And so they end up, we ubered over, they ended up taking us back to our hotel room. We all got naked and the three of them kind of start to make out. And I'm just kind of sitting back watching a little bit up. The woman was not that attractive to me. Well, I shouldn't say not that attractive to me. I was not that attracted to the woman. So I was just kind of sitting back

And I was watching Mrs. P because I'm like, this is, I'm enjoying watching her. And they got ready to fuck. And the guy, I watched him and he slipped his condom off. And I just tapped him on the shoulder. And I said, that's a no-go. I said, you know, thank you very much, but you all need to leave. So they left. And she's, again, she goes, what was that all about?

I said, he was going to fuck you without a condom. And I said, you know, we still have a lot of. rules to discuss but I said that's a rule that you have to be the decision maker in that if you want to got to fuck you without a condom then that needs to be stated up front if not the default is always a condom for a lot of reasons she said okay but great experience so we we come back home and then we start really talking about it about what is this what what can we do so I said well there are some websites so we got to on SDC and we met a bull on there and he came across very respectful said all the right things had all the

right validations everything so we agreed to meet him and we did we met him in the bar of a hotel out of town and we went back to the room and I didn't participate in that one I watched she kind of let him take the lead he undressed her he kissed he did all of the right things and they fucked and she had a good time. So after he left, she says, I'd like to do that again. And I said, with him or with someone else? She said, well, with him. So I got in touch with him and we had set up a time. We'd be back. And it turned out he was not going to be available. But he said, but I got a friend who, you know, he's just as experienced as me and whatever. And you guys would love him. So we said, okay, so based on that, we meet him. Absolutely phenomenal gentlemen, had a great time.

When we go to the room, I participated this time. And one of the things I'd like to do is video. So we always ask, are you okay with video? And if they say yes, then, you know, I'll video it. So I videoed us in all different aspects of it. And again, she had a great time. What about you, though? I mean, it's like make sure you just remember. because we're talking, this is like your story. You don't need to tell her story. What about you? Well, I had a great time.

No, but I mean, is this like your kink? Like, because it sounds like she's getting all of the action. So let's talk a little bit about how you figured out that you enjoy mostly seeing her with other people. Well, I just enjoy, I enjoy seeing her, period. I follow her around with a camera. You mean the stories we have to tell her. she'll just tell us. I follow her around with a camera. I will take pictures of her. I just enjoy her period. Watching her with someone else, especially as she has gotten more confident and gotten more

assured and embraced the whole hot wife thing, it's even hotter to watch her with someone else. So I enjoy that. And I will pick and choose when I participate or not. Sometimes, I just like, I forget that I have the option to participate and I just get totally like enthralled and watching the whole encounter. And then after the gentleman leaves, I'll be like, oh shit, you know, I could have gotten in on that. And I'm like, well, that's okay. I still enjoyed it. But yeah, I enjoy watching her. She, she will dress like if we get a chance to go out or whatever, you know, she dresses.

She will ask me. She goes, do you want to come fuck me business look or just a come fuck me look? And I'll say, I want to come fuck me look. And that's how she'll dress when we go off. And then I just enjoy having her as my date for dinner and watching her and whatever. So it has, I have found that it has sort of, it is my kink, so to speak. Were you always like that with women? Like even you're like, you know, early on.

No, no. Or were you a jealous guy previously? I never thought I was jealous. with my previous marriage. I didn't get jealous at all. Okay. I didn't get jealous at all. I came into this and when we first started, she said,

are you going to be jealous if you seem? I said, no. And then it caused, well, why not? Are you don't really care about me? Yeah, of course. Get jealous. And I said, no, it's just, I'm just not wired that way. Mm-hmm.

Well, I thought that was the case. and I have experienced jealousy. The first instance I had was we went to a house party. It was set up for housewives. This was so interesting. And they would bust these men in. They'd bring them in by a bus load. Wow.

And I mean like even I was going like gorgeous men, good looking men, good young, good looking. I'm going like, damn. So the first time we went to one of those. She found a two gentlemen and one was a sky marshal. One was a nurse. Very nice guys. I was taught. Well, she gave me the hand signal and she went to the bathroom.

So I said, you guys have been selected. You know, if you want to go, here are the rules. And so I give them the rules. And we went upstairs and I watched. I just watched her because part of me on the first time we're with a guy, I am in hypervigilant protective mode. Yeah, I get it. I want to make sure that she's going to be completely safe in whatever she's doing.

So that's usually one of the reasons I don't participate early on. So she had two guys. She had a great time. We're leaving, going back downstairs, and there's another guy that had been looking for her. And he says, I was looking for you. I thought you guys had left. So he's talking. I just, I nudge her. I said, babe, he wants to know if you want to go, you know, go back upstairs.

So she goes, yeah, okay, what the hell? We're going up the stairs when a new group of guys come in and she turns around and she sees this guy. And she just stops and she stares and then she taps me and says, I want him. Now, this was so out of character for her. I was blown away. I was like, oh shit, she has really gotten into the, she's got into the role now. She understands this. So I go up to him and I just said, you know, you've been, you've been chosen and he just came on upstairs.

So she did the two more guys that night. Well, the guy that she picked, we ended up talking to him and I could just tell she was really infatuated with him. So we get his number and things like that. And then we arranged to meet him outside of that party, which we did. and I didn't participate and he shows up and it was a little awkward but she got into it and they they had a good time and he left real quickly right after he didn't he didn't stick around they fucked he came he left so we come back to a second house party and he's there again so I'm like this is your lucky night so this time I said I had

felt comfortable. I'd seen them together twice. I'm like, if you want to just go upstairs with him, I'm going to be down here. And I'll be right here at the base of the stairs. You go up. So they went upstairs. The two of them did. And that's when it felt like somebody had punched me in the stomach. I had like anxiety. I had, I broke out in a sweat. Interesting, right? I was like, what the fuck is going on and I thought maybe am I having a heart attack? Then I realized I was experiencing a real round of jealousy. And it's interesting because this guy, she's been with him before. It's like it doesn't make sense.

But this time they were out of sight. Oh, okay. So part of it was the separation of, is she okay? You know, is he going to treat her? And I told him and I got right up in his face and I said, you treat her right or you and I are going to have a talk after this. And I put my finger in his face. I just like, I don't fuck around if you're going to do anything to my woman that you need to treat her.

He says, no, I got her. I got her. I was like, so they go up. So about 30 minutes later, she comes back down. And things didn't go well at all. It turned out another couple came in the room, caught his attention. So he ended up fucking the other girl. And then she just got dressed and came on back downstairs.

So I said, well, I'm so sorry. But then we talked about what I was feeling more so than her for the first time. I said, okay, you always wonder if I was jealous. Well, I got jealous. Yeah. And so we talked about it. But then as she began to describe what she was feeling and how things were going before the other couple came in, I began to get turned on by that.

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And then there was another instance. We were at a private house party for the weekend. And a couple locked on to her. And they came and approached me and they said, we'd really like to play with your wife and so on. I said, well, you know, its decision is hers. I'm okay with it if she's okay with it. So they said they had already talked to her.

And she said, you have to go talk to my husband. So they did. So the four of us went to our room. And I sat on the sofa and I watched them. And I got my second round of jealousy because I was watching the husband-wife kind of do their interaction. And they were including her. And they had a real nice time. But I was a real spectator.

Meaning like they were not paying you any attention at. all. Yeah, I was like I could have left. I could come back, nothing. So I really, again, felt a real pang of jealousy, but then it turned funny because after the first round they had, the wife came and sat down next to me and the two of them continued. And he just kind of went a little crazy. He was a big guy, so she climbed on top of him because what we've learned, I'm not a real big guy, but what we've learned is if it's a big guy and she's tiny, she's five foot, nothing. Yeah. It's, it's, she has to control their weight and, and distribution and all the physics involved. So she will tell them I'll climb on top. So she did, they fucked. She was

fuck. She was fucking. I could tell. I've learned her. And she was enjoying it. Well, when he came, he had a real strong come. She climbed off and he sat up. He didn't even know where he was. It was kind of funny. Well,

the wife didn't like that. Oh, now she's having a little jealousy. Yes. And I will, I will, I will, I will refresh. We had, we had met them previously at another function in passing. and then they came to this event.

Well, when they saw her, when everybody came and we had our first little meet and greet at this second event, she said, oh, you know, Mrs. P. She says, I'm glad you here because I'm tired of having to pretend I'm you. Interesting. Oh, why? And we were like, we were like, what? So it turned out that he had been, you know, been fantasizing about her for several weeks. So he got his chance with her. He lost his mind.

wife did not appreciate that so the next day it was so obvious he couldn't even look her way it's like he wasn't allowed to he couldn't come over he couldn't talk to us he couldn't interact so I just said man he's in the doghouse now and so I said see when I would joke I said see what you did and see what you did and she was like I didn't mean to do anything I said it was not you I said that's their dynamic they got to figure that out so I've had those two cases of jealousy Since then, the first guy who we met at the party, we've met him several times whenever we go to the city. And I'd leave them alone now. I'd leave the room.

Wow. Are you though, do you leave because you kind of like the not knowing and getting the details later. Is that a part of it? No. She fucks more freer and more uninhibited when I'm not there. And we had that talk because we were talking. one night and you know again we're just replaying like what was the best part about this and she said I had a really strong orgasm and I looked at I said well interesting I said okay well tell me more so then I have

to pull this out of her so now when we are with him I leave and she's able to have a much better time because she tells me she worries about me she says I'm afraid of doing something or enjoying myself too much where it's going to hurt your feelings or you're going to get jealous. And I said, don't worry about that. I said, that's me. I work through it. I'm good.

You are the one that, you know, I want to have a good time. So when we meet him, it's solo with her. We have met another bull locally. Was this with a friend? Because you were at the point, before I took you off, you know,

your story, you were at the point where that one guy said, hey, I got a friend coming in. into town. He passed her onto a friend, right? Yeah. No, different guy. Yeah, this was a guy that she picked when he got bused in with the bus. Oh, okay. This is another one of those. Okay. One of those hot guys off the bus. Yeah, hot guys off the bus. And I asked it was so funny. I said, what was it that was, because to me he was kind of nerdy looking. I said, what was it about him? She said, I was my 17-year-old band camp band nerd. Oh, it.

Interesting. And she said he appealed to the nerd and me because he was kind of nerdy. I said, okay. So I have quit trying to pick out what her type is. We see guys and whatever. And I just say, you got to tell me if he's a yes or no because I can't, I cannot no longer discern what she's going to like. Interesting. That's funny.

So we've met somebody locally that we've played with several times. He is so respectful. Met him on SDC. And we have a good time. code for SDC. I have a code. People get a free trial. 377.12 or they could just go in the description. The link is always there if you just want to join. I've loved SDC. The reason why I signed up with them is because like most of my people who call in use it. There's other sites that are great too, but SDC is great. So people

could just use my code. They get a free trial. It's 37712. But go on. And we had one girl that we met out of town. And so she came to where we were and spent the weekend with us. We got a room downtown. Spent the weekend. And we had an amazing time. But real quick, I want to hear that whole story, but quick question. Because you said she's not really into it because she's very, very jealous. So how do you get threesome of girls that you could hook up with if she's really jealous? Our goal is to be able to enjoy this non-monogamy situation in what we call a fluid aspect.

We don't like the term by or hetero or whatever. We call it fluidity because one day you might be feeling like it and the next day you might not be depending on the sex. So we go fluid. So she was in a mood where she said, you know what? I do want to try it. So we did try it with this. Well, she did try it at that swingers club.

No, or that girl just went down on her. She didn't do anything with the room. Correct. There was no reciprocal. Right. But this one, the three of us fully engaged, we had a, she came, spent the weekend. like I said and and it was on the table for you

to also hook up with her. Yes. Okay. On the table with me. Because she at one point, you know, I'm, I'm fucking her. And she's next to me and she's got her arms around me.

And I'm fucking this girl. And she whispers in my ear. Okay, I'm going to leave the room. And I just stopped and I looked at her and I said, if you leave, I'm leaving. And she said, why? And I said, because I don't want to do this without you. If you're not.

hear than then but one of my other sayings is I told her early on I would rather see you suck a hundred guys dick in front of me than one guy's dick behind my back yeah but you do allow her to play solo too because she enjoys doing it with my knowledge yeah but with my knowledge well that would have been with your knowledge if she walked out of the room she knew you were in there with the girl yeah but I don't but with her she's okay playing solo with me it's about the experience with her. It's not about the other woman. Right, but do you want, do you know why she wanted to leave? To give me that experience. She thought you'd be, so she was projecting. She felt like, oh, maybe he'll be less inhibited like I am. Correct. Okay, that makes sense. And I'm like, yeah, I'm like, no, no. You want her or

there. I said, if you leave, I'm, yeah, if you leave, I'm leaving. So I'm like, I'm ready. So I took, you know, it's that kind of thing. So I, oh yeah, and then we had another young lady. No, no, but finish that story. So you're fucking the girl. So anyway, so she stayed. She stayed and then we, I mean, it, you know, she was there the whole weekend. We'd only leave the room to go down and have dinner. But did your wife get jealous or no? No, she didn't.

No, no. No, no. No, no. No, that we enjoyed it. We enjoyed it. We were on, we were still on a three-way text with her. She lives two states away, but we still, we still, like, we'll get on, and, you know, over the holiday season. How was your New Year's?

how was your Christmas, how's this, how's that, whatever. We check in with each other. We haven't seen her in probably a year, but we're still in contact with her and still maintain that friendship. And she was down to go down on the girl and everything. That was all a first for her, but she was into it for that moment. Oh, yeah. And this one, there was a lot of girl on girl.

There was me, me with Mrs. P., me with this young lady. Well, not young lady. She's our age. Yeah. Me with this lady. And so, you know, that that was it. I will say the other part that gives me the, that wants me to do the solo, let her do the solo, is I'm 10 years older than her. So I'm 68.

And although I'm in pretty good shape, whatever, you know, I don't care what you say. I listen to all your podcasts and when you have people on and they're talking about erectile dysfunction and all the different podcast. When you get to be 68, your dick just kind of says, you know what? I don't care what she got. I got my own set of rules. I'm living by it at this point forward. That's your whole fucking body, by the way, right? Yeah.

It's like you can't help that, yeah. There are, and most of the guys we hook up with are younger. So I tell her, listen, you're still, you know, she's 58, vibrant. She's still got a whole lot to offer. And I just said, every now and then, whether you, want to admit it or not, you just want a good, hard dick that you can fuck.

And I said, that's okay with me. You can have it. And I'll help you. I'll help facilitate it. So we've kind of gotten to that thing where every now and then she'll just tell me, yeah, I just want a good hard dick that I could ride for 30 minutes and it's going to stay hard for 30 minutes. I look at her and go, well, you know that's not me.

That must take the pressure off of you in a weird way. If you take away jealousy and all that stuff, right? Yeah, it does. Yeah. So I mean, so we still have an amazing sex life. But again, I'm going to tell you at 68. It's not what it used to be at 58 or what it used to be at 48. So part of it when we when we get with these younger guys, they can they can facilitate that physical desire that she has, that they can fuck her and fuck her with a good hard dick that's going to stay hard and then be ready to go again 20 minutes later if she wants. So from that standpoint, the pure physical standpoint, I'm like, go for it, babe, have at it. I'm happy for you. But do you, though, like, prefer just her being with guys? Do you enjoy, like you said that, you know, when you were having that experience with the woman and, you know, you needed her to be there for you to enjoy it?

Is it because you're older and your dick doesn't work that well, that you're not really that interested in hooking up with other women, or is it just... No, I would love to. We still talk about it. I mean, we're still talking about it. And I just tell her, it has to be when she's ready. So I tell her. And then I call her Admiral Akbar from Star Wars.

Remember that guy, Star Wars? She'll tell me, she says, you see that girl over there? And I'll be like, okay, Admiral Akbar, it's a trap. And I said, are you setting me up? She goes, no, do you like, you know, and it'll just be in a restaurant. She'll just be like, you like, you like that over there? And I'll be like, yeah. She just says, okay, I'm just trying to feel.

out for what you're interested in. I'm going like, okay, you got anything in mind? She goes, no, I'm just, I'm still looking. I go, okay, you look. When you find somebody, you let me know and I'll, I'll be there. Is she looking for her and you, you alone, the both of them are solo? Okay. Has to be both of us. Okay. It has to be both of us. And it won't be so. I told her I am not interested in solo play. I am not interested in solo play. Like it would be, it could be like a couple swap or something. I just was wondering if she's looking for these girls just for her. Yeah, we've tried the couples. swap, we, we, you know, a lot of people have their preferences on it.

And I just be honest, getting four people. I know. And then it's like, who's taking who for the team? I know. And even I had to laugh sometimes. If we meet another couple, I'm going like, well, I feel sorry for her because if she's with me, she's taking one for the team. So I'm like, I don't want to put that on her.

So we just, we just don't do the couples. We tried it. We've tried it and they just haven't gone well. So we've had a lot more flexibility, a lot more fun with single males and a few single females that we've done. We've enjoyed those immensely. You did say you like to take this all on in a very fluid way. Is that you being fluid too? Have you ever been in the mood?

Yeah. I have no, no, I'll give you a story. There we go. Give you a story. Yeah, she used to work in the IT field. And before that, she was in IT sales. Then she got her own company. She started her own company.

And she worked in a warehouse. And she was a, I laugh at her all the time. I tell her, you're a ball buster. You know I'm not. I say, yes, you are. You're a ball buster. And you had to be because she was working in a very male-dominated field. Well, she would go in the warehouse and she would tell me how I'd have to kick their asses.

I'd laugh and I'd say, you know what they were thinking, right? And she said, no, what were they thinking? They were all thinking how they could just, if they could bend you over a pallet somewhere or stick a dick in your mouth to shut it up. I said, that's what they were thinking. And she's like, no. She said, in fact, one of my best friends, and she, you know, had this friend that she described and they had this relationship for several years where she would go over to his

house, she would just put on one of his t-shirts, she would walk around with nothing but a t-shirt on they would they would shower together and i said and he never like tried to fuck you and she said no we sleep in the same bed we you know i'm like okay i don't understand this i said he never never she said no if he did i would tell you he never made a move i said you how about you want him she goes no he's like my best bud i said i want to meet this guy i said tell him you know she hadn't talked to him in a while. I said, I want to meet him. But you have a head start.

You go, you meet him for dinner. I'll join you for drinks. That way you two can catch up on all of the years in between. So she says, okay. So she goes, I meet them there. I get there in time for dessert. And we chattled a bit. Super nice guy.

Very nice. Again, wouldn't have pegged him for her type at all. And so she says, well, it's not her type because she's never fucking. him or done anything with him at that point. So obviously. And she said, I'm going to go to the bathroom. I said, okay. So as soon as she goes, I look at him and I go, dude, you never tried to fuck my wife when you knew her and whatever. And he dropped his head. And it's as if he takes his phone out with a hand shaking and he shows it to me. He was taking pictures under the table of her legs

and stuff like that right then and there. This is real time. He's taking pictures of her under the table. And he says, I'm sorry, but he says, I wanted to, but I just didn't have the courage. I said, really? And he goes, you know, I know you're mad. I said, I'm not mad. I said, if I were in your shoes, I'd be taking pictures of her under the table too. I said, she's hot.

Only guys think that way. Girls are listening to this. Are like, what the fuck? Whatever. Yes, this is a guy thing. So all the guys, you all sit up and go, babe, this is what I've been trying to tell you. And all the women, don't clutch your pearls because this is how we, this is how we, this is we're wired. So a few weeks go by and they're still talking. So I said, let's, let's go over there and

hang out. I want to see how this relationship, how, what this dynamic is. I was just more intrigued. We go over. It doesn't take long. But you told her about the pictures thing, right? Like, oh, yeah. Oh, that night at the table. Yeah. I just said, okay. I said, by the way, yeah. You show her, what you, what you're trying to do. And I said, she's not going to be mad. And so again, we debriefed. on it for a couple weeks after. And I said, I was trying to tell you this is, this is how we think, right? Okay. So you go over to the house. We go over the house. He had the most extensive porn collection that I have ever seen. He had thousands of porn movies cataloged indexed on a couple different hard drives. So we got talking about porn and he pulls up this collection. And I go,

holy shit. So I said, put on your favorite one. Well, it was a lot of buy porn. A lot of some by porn. So we're watching that and we all get naked and nothing kind of sexual yet. And then I looked down and he's got a heart on and he's got the biggest dick I have ever seen to this date on a real person, not on porn, upfront. I mean, this dick was huge. Right. And I looked at her and I said, you never.

said that he had a big dick like this. And she said, well, I never noticed. And I was like, oh, my God. So they start kissing and they get on the floor. There's a blanket on the floor. They get on the floor. They start kissing. And, you know, she sucks him. He's super hard. And she says, well, I got to get on top of this because she said you'll kill me if you get on top of me so she gets on top of him and she rides him and she has an amazing orgasm he doesn't come so i'm i tell him i said man you've got some like awesome self-control and he said well that's not what's going to make me come and i said well will he goes i want to suck your dick oh i knew this so i was like oh i said okay i said okay so i stood up and he was on his knees and he was sucking my dick and she was sucking his dick.

And I ended up coming. I just, I, I, I looked down at her and I said, he knows how to suck dick. And I said, I'm going to come. So I came. That was my first experience with another man. And it turned out he never, he didn't come at all that night. And we only did that one night with him. So on the debrief going back, she was like, well, are you, you know, how do you

feel, are you okay? I said, I'm fine. I said, I don't feel like I have to turn in my man card. I don't feel like I have to relinquish anything. I said, to me, it was an experience. My first, nobody died. And I said, given the opportunity, I'll probably do it again. So we went to a, we went to a house party. We did not realize it, but it was a buy house party, but mainly for the husbands. The wives were really not by. It was all this group. And I don't even remember how we got invited to it. And it was a lot of male buy actions.

So that night, the host, you know, he came over and he was wanting to do some things with me. But we ended up, she and I ended up giving him a blowjob together. And then we left. They were all playing in this dungeon. And I mean, all the women kind of went upstairs and were having coffee and shit. And these guys were downstairs. And again, I've never witnessed anything like it. Probably about 10 guys and they're fucking the shit out of each other.

And I was like, damn, I have never seen anything like this. Probably never will again. So I'm going to just stand here and take it in because this is like amazing to watch this. We ended up going upstairs and just hanging out, whatever, until it was time to go. And we left. And so I've had those two experience. but well do you mean like when you were watching it were you turned on by seeing all those guys no I was more fascinated curious it was just it was one past curiosity it was fascinated that was only word I can put

because you see porn and then you see this and like it doesn't it doesn't even come close to what you see on porn you know when you see a roomful of people fucking yeah it is it's it's the the sounds, the smells, the, the energy, all of that. You know, you only get the 1D version on a TV screen. You get the full 4D experience in real life. And it's something else. I was just fascinated by it to be able to see that. And I was like, dang, this goes on all the time, you know, in certain circles.

So I'm like, good for them. Right. But if people see us, like we, we, the one other. sort of girl's story we have. She's had a friend that she's known for over, oh my God, 30 years. She's older than me, but about six, seven years ago, she came over. In fact, when I met her and when we started dating, they were roommates in an apartment. And so they have, they've known each other for decades. And she's become a good friend to me as well. And she came over one day and we're making lunch and I just said well you know what we should do we should have a naked

lunch I just kind of said it like that well this friend just took off her clothes man she was like ready and so it's like okay we're really having a naked lunch so we all got naked we had lunch and then we just without sort of any kind of cute we just went to the bedroom and we all fucked we all just fucked yeah yeah and and had an amazing time and it only happened that one time and we've gotten together since but not sexually. I just did it that one time and I talked to her friend about it later and she said one thing I've learned from you she said from you was listening to you talk about experiences in life and she says I to me that was an amazing experience and now she said I can literally go sit in my rocking chair

on the front porch of the old folks home now and I have an experience that I can look back on with joy and a lot of love behind it. And, you know, I wouldn't have had that if I didn't do it. So she said, I learned that from you. I said, okay, well, good. So to us, it's all about experiences. Right. And it sounds like you're both on the same page, very open to experiences and having

them regardless. Because like, listen, I think, you know, I give both of you credit for trying things out that you never thought you'd like or maybe had, you know, because she thought you she was going to be jealous, but she still allowed you to fuck that woman. And it turns out she wasn't jealous. She wasn't jealous. And with you, you faced your, you did have times where you were jealous, but you didn't put a stop to things.

You still kept going. And it turns out you're not really jealous most of the time anyway, you know, but like it sounds like you guys, what's consistent is you always remain open. And I have given her an out several times. Like, we've had some bad experiences, not to say everything we had is good. That's what we kind of love about it. We have some things that we can laugh over and we're like, okay, I thought we were never going to talk about that one again. That's our, like, we'll laugh and say, wait, we weren't supposed to talk about that because we're trying to forget it.

And I've said, you know, we don't have to do this. If you don't want to do it because if you're doing it for me and we had that early on, she says, well, I'm only doing this for you. And I said, oh, time out. I said, then this is not going to work long term. if you're only doing this for me and you feel like you're being asked to do things or you're being put in a position where you're doing things you don't want to do, I said then this is not going to last. No, I remember talking about that with her.

Like it started off that way, but it changed for her. Relationships will break over this if we don't address this. So I said, you know what, let's take a break. So we did, and then she was the one that wanted to unbreak. And then I said, well, we don't have to do it. He says, I know, but I want to do it. I said, thank you. I've been waiting for you to say that.

She said, okay, I want to do this because I enjoy it. I said, bingo, now we're cooking with gas. So it took her a while to, and it turned out she was embarrassed to admit it to me that she enjoyed it. And I said, you don't have to be embarrassed. I said, this is, you know, this is a partnership here. We're supposed to do this together. So once she came clean about how she really felt our experiences have gone, you know, to the next level.

Yeah, and you've been added for seven years, very successful, you know. What is, I mean, it sounds like you've kind of been there, done that. Is there anything like on the horizon that you'd like to try that you haven't tried yet? That's my last question. Well, with her thing, she's done the DV, done the DV. She's on the fence about doing DP. And I'm like, I said, again, we can try it. And then she'll tell me flat out, she goes, well, you know, like the friend that we're worth right now, she says, well, I'm not putting that in my ass.

I said, okay, I'll be the one to go on your ass because I'm smaller than him. I said, yeah, I'll be the one. You can ride him. I'll do it. She says, well, okay, let me think about that one. So, again, as an experience DP, and then, you know, Kathy, I don't know. I don't know what's out there. I don't know what you haven't done, really.

I think that actually you guys have been there done that. I mean, we've done it all. We have pegged, I mean, with a single male, she has fucked the shit out of a guy with a strap on on. I mean, we've done just about anything you can think of because it's like, well, let's try it. And then she'll be like, oh, here we go again. She goes, nobody's going to die. I go, nobody's going to die. And we can try it.

And if we don't like it, you know, we'll give it another shot just to make sure. And then if not, we take it off the table. But so far, we haven't had to take anything off the table. No, I love it. And listen, I mean, I just like, I don't really remember much. Like I said, I taped so many people. I do want to tell people, though, that to hear your wife's story, because maybe they didn't hear it when it first aired and now they're hearing your story and they're intrigued.

If they want to hear Mrs. P's story, it is episode 13, 13. They should definitely go listen to her side of the story because a lot of times I get a couple stories and like hearing them separately from both sides. It's a totally different experience. You know what I mean? Yeah. So. Well, I want to say before we go, you should either be working for the FBI or the CIA because I have witnessed interrogations and you can interrogate people like nobody's business.

I've listened to people, including my wife, try to get away without. You're like, oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Even you. Sorry to say, I got the I took you totally into your jealousy thing, which I was trying. I was actually patting myself on the back once I asked you that because you revealed so many interesting stories because I asked you that so I know you know by the time I decided

I should work for the FBI I was too old did they have like an age limit no no the CIA will still take you oh they would up they would up yeah it's like taking you have a certain set of skills no but one thing yeah that's good I do like interrogating people so you yes you do it very well

and you do it in such a way that you know for listeners yeah I have been a fan for over two years. Love that. I listen. Now that I got on your Patreon, you know, you get the episodes without all the ads. And I am addicted. I'm like, oh, the next one's up.

And I listen to him early in the morning. Yeah, I love that. And then she'll tell me, were you listening to Kathy again? I go, yep. And she goes, well, what was this one about? And I'll tell her. Yeah. And so that's how I, I agree with her.

Did you love listening to your wife's episode? How crazy was that when, you know, to finally hear her? I'd listen to it several times. Yeah. Oh, I love that. do I hear something more that I didn't catch and I'll be like hey wait a minute now you said this yeah yeah oh and now you're going to experience yours which is going to be super interesting because a lot of times when you hear yourself tell your story as a third person it's going to add a whole other

level to it so I'm curious what you think when you hear your episode yeah but anyway I've been a fan and I know it's a lot of hard work I listen to your origin episode yeah 500 oh my god I mean And your story is amazing. You work really hard. You make this theme easy, but I think those of us that kind of understand what you do is very hard. Yeah. And it's a lot of work. And you should be very, very, very proud of the whole platform that you've created.

The followers were passionate. As you know, on the Discord, you've got a bunch of passionate followers. Yeah. And aren't they all fucking cool people? Yes. Well, cool people attract cool people. so you attracted all us cool people because you're a cool person.

But I'm a huge fan and keep it up and we'll continue to listen. Send me more picks because your wife is super hot. Everyone loved her. I will send you some more for her for you to put on this episode so people will see her. Yeah.

Thank you, Mr. Pee. You're the best. I love your kind words. I love your whole story. I love that you got your wife to call in. I love that you participate so much on my Discord. So send me those picks sooner than later because your app will be up very soon.

Okay. All right. Thanks so much. Thanks so much for calling in. Bye. Bye. Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story.

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