Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1344 - NAUGHTY CONFESSIONS : She Jerked Off Where?!, He Got Pegged by a Lesbian, He's Hooking Up with a Naughty Couple from Vegas and More w/Layla

Episode Date: January 22, 2026

Tune in to hear a bunch of naughty confessions and then hear Kathy and Layla's critique of them. First, you’ll hear from a guy who got a naughty massage that led to something he’d never experienced before, then from a guy who accidentally hooked up with a guy and now considers himself pansexual, then you’ll hear from a guy who got pegged by a random lesbian he met, then you’ll hear from a guy who has been hooking up with a very naughty couple for years and then you’ll hear Layla’s confession about the naughtiest place she secretly jerked off. Then you’ll hear Kathy and Layla discuss Layla’s fisting experience and her prostate orgasm tips and tricks, what pansexual really means, how and why just because you s*ck a d every now and then it doesn’t mean you’re into guys, how and why being pegged by a female doesn’t mean anything about your sexuality either, how and why the stigma around guy on guy action perpetuates cheating, how your sexual fantasies change over time and why it's super important to discuss them Layla’s golden shower experiences, all the places both her and Kathy secretly rubbed one out in plus a whole lot more .REPEAT THURSDAY EPISODE, originally aired 08/2024 GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors: ⁠⁠⁠https://learn.nocd.com/strictly ⁠⁠⁠If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — To get 10% off LOAD BOOST by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠PikaVibe.com/Strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Click to get $15 OFF your purchase ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2540-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠— Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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or just go to the description, click on the link. The link to my Patreon is there. The link to buy my book is over there. Everything is in the description. Okay. So today is a confessions episode. And I have my favorite co-host on, which is Layla. Everyone always writes in and says they love the Layla

Girl Talk episodes. And this is like a Girl Talk Layla episode. We listen to a bunch of confessions that people left on my Confessions hotline and then we wrap about it. And now, moving forward, I thought of a really great idea is I'm going to ask my co-host, who's ever running the Confessions episode with me for them to confess to me something that they've never confessed before. And I got something out of Layla that she was like really embarrassed to share. I leave that towards the end, for the end, of course. I'm going to tease you for that.

But we do start out with a guy who got a naughty prostate massage and he talks about how great that was. And then we hear from a guy who accidentally started hooking up a guy's and now he believes he's pansexual. He does other things too. So you got to listen to that. that confession. Then we hear from a guy who got pegged by a lesbian, okay? He met a lesbian couple and they got pegged by one of them. You're going to hear that whole long, detailed confession that he left. And then you hear from a guy who has the craziest confession. Okay. He's a guy that drives back and forth from, I think, L.A. to Vegas. And for many, many years that he's been driving back and forth, he has been picking up a couple, a guy and a girl, a couple. And he's a guy and a girl. A couple. And he's

has been having sex with them, the both of them, all over the place, doing all kinds of crazy things. And he talks specifically about all the things that they do. And they've included others in their their meetups. Okay. So you got to listen to that one. And then after you hear that, you do hear Lela's confession. And then I wind up deciding to confess to something myself. Okay. What's fun about these episodes is not only do I post these confessions afterwards, me and Lela talk about it. So me and Leila do get into her experience with fisting guys. She has a lot of anal action experience with guys. Like I said, she's fisted guys. She's given guys prostate orgasm. So she talks all about that. She has no idea what pansexual means. So we do go over that. And we do talk about the whole

erotic orientation versus sexual orientation debate. I explain that to her. It's super interesting. You're going to want to hear that. We also talk about how stigmas around guy and guy action only lead to cheating. Of course, we all know that. We talk about the advice she talks about on her show to help couples reveal their fantasies to each other. We do talk about pegging guys. She's very into BDSM, Layla. Okay, so she talks about her anal experience. Like I said, with guys, she talks to her golden shower experience too, because that did come up in one of the confessions. And then we talk about jerking off in inappropriate places because that was Layla's confession. I'm not going to tell you, exactly where she jerked off, but it was very inappropriate, and she talks about that in her confession.

And then we talk about other places that we've jerked off. I name one. She names a bunch. And then I give my confession about something that I heard on a podcast recently that I was like, oh, that sounds hot that I decided to buy. And you might think it's hot too and want to go out and buy it, too? I don't know. You're just going to have to listen. It's a super interesting, fun episodes. So I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with the first confession. Kathy, guess what? I have been curious about prostate massage. So what I did is I went to my local massage parlor that I frequent quite often. And I went in there this week and got a massage. And on the flip, when she had me flip around on my back, she started working on my cock,

I said, hey, can you put your finger at my ass? I was prepared. I brought a leg to a glove. And she said, yeah, that's wrong. And like she's done it before. So she put on it. the glove, she moved it up and stuck her finger at my ass with her right hand, jacking me off their left. And I tell you what, when I came, it was like nothing I've ever felt for my life. My body was tremoring. My heart was racing. I was breathing heavily. It was so, so hot. It just felt so great. I'm kind of hooked now. So anyways, I thought I'd share that with you and rest of the guys, you do prostate massage. That's what's that, man.

Anyway, Kathy, love your show. I love you. You're so wise, smart, funny, and I just enjoy listening to you every week. All right. Have good night. Bye-bye. Oh, my God. So the first thing I'm just going to say, and then I want your opinion and maybe your

experience with us, I don't know, because you do a lot of, like, ass play with guys. I rarely have met a guy that lets me play with his ass, but I don't understand why not, because let me tell you, besides this confession and this. guy saying it was like the most craziest orgasm he ever had. Every single guy who has called into my show who says that they've had a prostate orgasm, say it is like the most craziest best orgasm they have ever had in their whole life. And I do have a sponsor of Butter Wellness. And I say this in every ad, because it's not fucking not true. It's true. Like it really is. And like the Butter Wellness thing, the reason why I like to promote it is for guys that are afraid to put anything inside to get off with a

prostate massage. Like with Butter Wellness, you just press it on your taint really hard. and it's like a vibrator and could give you the prostate massage. But it is like a thing and more straight guys, quote unquote, should get into it if you ask me. Do you have any experience on this or what do you think of this confession, Layla? Well, I'm not surprised at all. I have seen this in action. Everything he's talking about, I have seen it in action. And yes, I concur with you guys absolutely lose their minds when they have a prostate orgasm.

I have given several. And I've never seen the guys come so hard. Their body convulses. It's a ton of cum that's pouring out of them, like more than they've even ever seen. And they all tell me, like, it's just the most amazing experience and strongest, most pleasurable orgasm of their life. So I, I'm all for them. No, but, okay, but you got to, let's get specific here, Layla, because you're a girl and maybe girls are listening like, oh, I want to, like, get my guy off like that. or a guy at home is like listening is like, I want to do that to myself.

What move did you do or how have you gotten a guy to have a prostate orgasm? Be specific, maybe about one or two scenarios. Well, one of them was I was fisting. So I don't think a lot of people are in. Oh, my God. I mean, did you work your way out? Wait, did you work your way up to the fist? Yes.

I know. Sorry, I just dove right into the fisting. Yeah. Because that was actually my first experience. was the fisting. A guy was like, will you fist me? I said, I've never done it, but yeah, let's do it. So anyway, that was that. But you don't have to fast forward with that. I mean, it is kind of interesting. I mean, were you doing other things with that guy? And then eventually he was like, I need something bigger, like putting in your whole fist. No, he went straight for the fist me. Yeah.

Oh, my God. Yeah. But the other guys, you can, you can start with it, like you said, stimulating the taint. that will get them and it's putting pressure on the taint. And the taint is like the place. Explain where the taint is for people who don't know. Yeah, that's in between their balls and their ass. Yeah. Yeah, asshole, I guess. And you can kind of feel, if you feel your way around down there, you can kind of feel

on the other side, there's a little, it's kind of like about the size of an almond is the prostate. So you can feel it. It's easier to feel when they're on their back. And if you put a finger in, obviously, you can feel it. But anyway, so yes, you can do the outside stimulation. You just kind of, I just kind of push, put pressure on it and then move in like a small circle and just kind of, I mean, feel around and see how your partner's reacting to it. I mean, you'll get a response pretty quick.

One guy, he just literally, I touched, I started touching him down there and he just came. He was like, whoa, what did you do? I mean, so I'd love that reaction. And again, don't you love giving you. your partner great orgasm. That's one way. Just on the outside. So for the guys that don't want you stick in your finger in there. And I don't recommend surprising them with it either because if you're a girl and you don't want somebody sticking something in your butt, you know what I'm talking about. Exactly. Especially if Layla's around, but she's going to put her fist in you so you better

make sure you got permission for you gave her permission first. Yes. I mean, I wouldn't normally go for that. But that's what he wanted. We agreed on that. But okay. And then the other thing is you stick a finger in there. Just make sure you got a lot of loop, nice and nice and looped and get a finger in there and feel around for that and think. But let me ask you this because, and I feel like I have done this poll on my Patreon. I'm going to do it on Spotify. Because I mean, I've hooked up with a lot of guys, okay, and I've known a lot of guys in my life because that's just the way that I've rolled. And I have tried to stick my finger in like most guys assholes because I'm always trying to get them to push the boundaries, give a great blowjob. I know that a little knuckle.

a long way in the ass while you're blowing them. And most guys, I could sneak a knuckle in there, right? But God forbid, you try to put a finger in there. And I do believe that most guys at home by themselves have been curious enough to sort of explore that area. But do you find that most guys that you hook up with are very anti-put-anything in my back door? Or do you find that most guys that you hook up with are like, okay, like how do you get them to allow you to put your finger in their ass? Okay, most guys, Yes, I find the same that you. Most guys are like anti-backdoor. Please don't put anything in my ass because they still, it still has this gay stigma attached to it. And it doesn't, you know, it's kind of ridiculous because everyone's got a prostate. It doesn't signal which, which way you lean sexually. So you may as well play with it. It's there. It's a pleasure point for you. And I'm surprised guys that are really, really horny won't do it. Now, maybe they just do it and they won't admit it. I don't know. That's what I think. And as a girl, but like, little, literally. like for advice for guys out there. Like, I know that there's a stigma in your own brain.

But if you're doing it secretly at home and you've gotten past a stigma yourself, is there a stigma with women? Like, I would not think twice about a guy that allowed me to do it. I wouldn't think anything different of them. Like, maybe they're thinking like, oh, if I let a girl do that, she's going to think I'm gay. Well, do you think that about a guy if he allows you to do it? No, right?

No. I don't. Not at all. And I think there's probably also something that goes through a guy's head, like, where they might feel like they're in the submissive role. if they're letting a girl essentially penetrate him in some way, shape, or form, right? Even if it's with a thinker. Do you know what I mean?

That's interesting. Yeah, I think a lot of guys have a hard time with it from their masculine male, alpha male standpoint. They prefer to be the doms. Yeah, they're just, I think instinctually, I don't even know if they're even thinking of it that way, but they just. Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, just like most women like to prefer to be subs. Like I always say, you're like super hot as a girl because you could really take. happen to your dominant side. And a lot of girls can't.

They're very sub. So I think like the flip, like you're saying, is probably true about guys. Most guys feel much more comfortable just or are very in touch with their dom side and not so much their sub side. Though both of us probably have both sides in us at all times. Yes. Yes. Yes.

Interesting. Yeah, you make a great point. All right. Awesome. You want to go to the net. Let's go on to the next confession. Hey, guys. It's confession time.

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Let's go on to the next confession. What's up, Kathy? Love your show. My confession is that I am a guy in my 40s, I'm married, but after listening to the show for a long time and learning about these new labels, I think that I'm pansexual because I definitely love women. I'm attracted to women, but every now and then, I love playing with a good dick. I, for a long time, was in a dead bedroom, and one time I asked my wife for an open marriage, and she said, I just could not operate knowing that's what was going on. And so in my mind, I was like, well, don't ask them And so I travel and back in the Craigslist days, I would find a woman looking for a hookup here and there and have my knees met that way. And I had a couple affairs with people and friends and things like that.

And one time I stumbled upon fucking guys by accident because a guy responded to my Craigslist ad and said, look, you don't have to do anything. I just want to give you a good massage and fuck your dick. And I was horny and was in need of a release and said, well, let's see. speak if this guy's any good and it was really good but I was like well that was a nice one-time thing and a couple years later I got a similar reply to an ad and I walked in and the guy said you mind if I get naked and I said know that's fine and he dropped his pants and I don't know what came over me he had the best looking cock I've ever seen and I just walked over got down and started sucking his cock I'd never slept the cock before and I just couldn't believe how good it

self and then he sucked me off and then I realized that sex is just sex. So over the years I've had affairs with women. I feel like sex with women is more intimate and you know I've had kind of some long-term affair partners that I've had stuff going on with. But every now and then I get the hangling for a dick and so after this new show I learned about Smithies and so here and there I'll need some quick dirty sex I'll find a guy on Smithies and when I see guys walking around, I'm not attracted, so I'm just get that urge every now and then. So I say I guess I'm pansexual when I have my knees met. My boxes checked in a variety

of ways and I just lost having sex with people of all sex, shapes and sizes and genders. So that's my confession. Thanks. Okay, my favorite part about this one, and I titled it on my Patreon, like, he accidentally found out he was pansexual, because I love like, he kind of like, in a lot of times of this confession, he kind of like passive aggressively takes leaps forward, you know. That's why? He's like, oh, by accident, a guy respondent. So I'm like, why not? He's like, oh, my, I told my wife about my fantasy. She said, no, I don't want to think about it. So I figured, oh, I could do it without telling her. Like, I mean, he just like, I don't know, he just kind of goes with things. It's kind of funny. But I do have to say that I understand him rolling the way that he rolls in

that he's kind of horny. He was looking. It was like a guy. He wrote that wasn't what he was looking for, but he's like, why not? What's the kind of difference? And he came to that place. Like, I just did a poll on my Patreon. If you were stuck in jail after three years and you're there for 10 years, you know what I mean? And you couldn't be with anyone else. Would you hook up with the same sex partner? And I can't tell you how many people said no. And I just don't understand that mentality. Like, I'm just kind of like, what's the difference? I don't know. I understand his pansexual mentality a little bit more now than I do somebody that was like just takes the whole, how, how. of the population and says never ever would I ever. I mean, I don't know. What do you think? Well, first of all, I'm ashamed to admit. I've never really known exactly what the definition of pansexual is. Should I Google it while you're talking? There's my confession right there. Okay. I know, the girl with a sex podcast doesn't know all the terms. It's okay. I'm going to do a labels episode coming up soon. Go on. Thank you. I might need to, I might need to listen to that. I actually know several guys that when I was listening to this, the way he was describing it,

I've heard this said before. It's that these guys get really turned on, they love women, they don't consider themselves gay, or homosexual, but they love dicks, and dicks are masculine to them, and dicks are sexy, which I can relate to as a female. And so he just, he likes dicks every once in a while, but he doesn't want the emotional bond, like he's not going to fall in love with a dude. He just wants the animalistic sex part. And this just helps me understand how men, I guess, break down the two.

You know what I mean? And listen, I had a guy named Dr. Joe Corton. I've repeated his episode many times and talked about his episode many times because he really broke down exactly what you just said, but he had actual terms for it. And he said there is a big difference between your sexual orientation and your erotic orientation. Your sexual orientation is like, say, you're a guy who does. like guys and you are attracted to guys and you see them walking down the street for a fact that they do turn you on or you're somebody like this guy where you walk down the street you're not attracted to men at all you're not interested in all but when you are horny and in the moment

just because you're like living through this like kind of erotic scenario or moment you go for it because it's there kind of thing when it's that and let me tell you when he explained that I was like, oh my God, so many guys fit into that category because I can't tell you how many guys have called into my show and said, listen, every now and then I might suck a dick, but I'm not into guys at all, just like this guy. I know, and I've heard, again, I have run across so many guys that say the same thing. And I've always been like, for a while, I was like, huh, how is that? But now I get it.

The more, the more I understand guys, it's like, they just separate the two. I mean, it's not, he's married to a woman. He emotionally, he loves her. her. That's who he wants to spend his life with. But sexually, it's like, it's like when I flip around and I'm masturbating and I don't know what kind of porn. Sometimes I start watching something that I never thought I'd start watching. And I'm like, this is fucking hot. And I go with it in the moment. And I'm like, I would never do that in real life. But that's your erotic orientation right there at that moment. Right. Yes, but right here in the moment, this is going to make me come. And I'm

going for it. And I do. Yeah. So, yeah, I get it. I totally get it. But, hey, I didn't know. Is Craigslist still a thing? No, no, but he's just, listen, what he's saying right there, what, you know, if you read between the lines, he's been cheating on his wife for a long time with guys. And that's the fucked up thing. And that's why I believe the stigma that is attached to guy and guy action needs to be fucking gone already, okay? Because the girl on girl thing went away in my lifetime. I was alive at a time where it was a big stigma on that kind of action to. and then it all changed in like the 80s when every girl had a girl crush and things really flipped and now it's cool for a girl to be into girls and even some people will still say I have guy friends

like it's natural for a girl to be into girls because they're so hot but it's not natural for a man so the guy guy thing I think with the younger generation it's different they're all like fucking pansexual they're down for anything but there is still a big stigma attached to it and what that breeds is this kind of shit so many guys doing it behind their girls. friends or their wives' backs. And that's the thing that's fucked up. That's the thing that these kinds of stigma breed because people are who they are. They're going to do what they're going to do. And because they can't be out about it, they do it on the DL like this. And that's the fucked up thing. And maybe it's not the case with this guy because he said he's cheating on his wife with

women too. He might just be a fucking cheater. What are you doing on Craigslist looking for all this kind of stuff? And then you stumbled upon guys. But I think the bigger thing here to talk about My dick fell into his mouth. I don't know what happened. Oh my God, I love that. He accidentally found out he was pansexual. I think that's how I titled it. But I just think that that's the problem with the stigma because I can't tell you how many confessions I have of guys saying I secretly suck dick on the side and how many episodes I have.

And that's the last thing you want your partner doing is cheating because of STIs and all that kind of stuff. And it happens more, I think, because guys can't cop to it. That stigma is a terrible thing. like be done with it. Yeah. Yeah. The other thing too that I want to point out about this is just my last and final point is our sexuality evolves.

We change and grow as human beings. We also change and evolve sexually. So if he's been married a long time, it's, I think it's unrealistic and people need to stop thinking that their partners aren't going to change sexually over time. There's a high likelihood of this. And that's kind of what's going on here with this guy. And what do you mean by that?

your sexuality is going to change. Think about how you had sex when you were younger, how it's evolved. I mean, for me anyway, when you look at most people, it progresses as you get into it. And so over time, you're going to be exposed to different things. You're going to be turned on by different things. I never thought I would ever be with a woman. I was with a woman. There's a lot of shit I never thought I do, right? But you are going to like different things over time. And that's what keeps it fun and exciting and how you can have a healthy sex life. trying to stifle somebody or expecting your partner to just, you know, stay in this box, always in forever, stay in the vanilla box or we don't stray outside of this. That is going to be boring if you think you're going to spend your life with them. Right, but what's the key to changing that? The key is like continuing to talk about sex with your partner and what you're into because how is someone going to understand even what you've grown into being interested in? Most people keep that shit to themselves because of all the stigma. But don't be shocked when your partner, don't be shocked or take it personally when you're, when your partner's sexual needs are changing.

It doesn't have anything to do with you. It's just natural. Right, but what comes before that, Leila, that I think most people have the problem with and is actually being honest about it, bringing those new desires to the table. Do you know what I mean? Yeah, I know.

It's a really, it's a toughy. People just don't have, it's interesting. They don't have that verbal intimacy. I don't know what the right word is for it, but they just can't open up. and share that side of themselves, which to me is always really strange when this is the person that you should want to know you better than anyone else. No, the saddest thing is that sometimes the person that they're cheating with or the escort

that they hired is the person they could feel more comfortable with. And in a weird way, I understand it because really exposing yourself to somebody that you really, really know is a lot more hardcore and exposing, yeah, than exposing who you are to. stranger to a stranger. Who cares? What stranger thinks of you? You never see them again. Exactly. But your partner that you live with, that you're stuck in this box with, what if they turn around and look at you and say, ew, that's fucking gross. And I think that that's everyone's biggest fear. But what's going on right now with podcasts? I think it's really good, because I hear it all the time with more of my younger colors, is that they are getting in conversations with

their partners about what they're into by listening to podcasts together, sharing episodes, saying, hey, listen to this. What do you think about this? And you got to create those conversation starters, even if you don't have to come right out and say, hey, listen, I'm into getting fisted. Would you fist me? You know what I mean? Like, I get that. It's scary to put your shit out there. But start light. Just start talking about sex. Yeah. Oh, my gosh. I said that. Yeah, I say that all the time. Like, sometimes people call, call my, and make me a voicemail and say, how do I get my partner? I'm into this. What do you say about that? And I'm like, play that episode that you were referencing that you listen to of mine a couple weeks ago play it with her and just say let's listen to this and just

see what her reaction is. I'm going to start it's hard easy to see how it goes. Yeah just get the conversation going because the more you talk and the more you push the boundaries the easier it is and then you could work up to the more hardcore stuff. Don't start at the hardcore stuff right. You don't have to start there. Don't start with the fisting. I'm still obsessed with the fact that you fisted guy. Can I just ask a question about that? Did you wear gloves? No. What did it feel like in there? Did you feel like body parts or is it just feels like nothing just tight? Yeah, it feels weird. Inside of an anus feels weird. It's kind of bumpy and just kind of like, I don't know how to explain it. It's bumpy? Well, yeah, it's not, I mean, it's not, it's smooth, but you feel like the wrinkles. Like you feel the, you feel like your hand in

I don't even know how to explain it, but I will say, no, no, no, he planned on this, so he prepped all day long. He gave himself an enema, like he was clean as a whistle. There was no poopies in there, nothing. Of course, okay, no, I just wanted to make sure. I just didn't know, but my last question too about the phissing thing, and then I promise we're going

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It was really crazy and intense. Yeah, I loved it. Yeah, okay. Well, I did tell you to bring up one of your confessions on this episode. That would have been a good one, but we've already talked about. I know. I know. I'm going to have to think of a better one. Anyway, okay, let's go to the next confession. Okay, guys, let's talk about Jiz for a second. Now listen, I don't need to be a guy to know that men are obsessed with shooting big loads, right? Like, the bigger the better. And that's what I assume, because as a girl, I'm totally impressed when a guy shoots a bigger load. And the good news is, I know of a supplement that is specifically designed to not only increase your load and your pre-com volume, and it's also going to make it taste better. And it is called Load Boost by VB Health.

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Hey, so I have a confession. This confession changed me from, I guess, considering myself, straight male to bi-curious or bisexual male to set the presence, you know, I am business, young, business professional. The white male, I am about 5'8, 160 pounds, very athletic build, very in shape, very athletic guy in general. I keep a ball in head and beard. And on this instance, I was traveling with business from the United States to Europe. I answered it specifically. And the flight, I got to sit next to this lovely couple, a black woman and an Asian woman, both in their mid-40s, both looked great, both very cool. sort of all three of us kind of hit it off instantaneously, instantly having harmless chit-chat,

just smiling and laughing, getting ready to travel very easy. They were clearly stoned, and so they had given the inedible to join their little vibe they had going on, and the one woman had kind of tuned into a movie, and the other woman and I continued our conversation, and the conversation was all around polyamorism and open relationships, and sort of, yeah, asking questions about that and stuff. So although nothing happened on the flight, we did exchange numbers, and we sort of texted back and forth for a couple of days before we met up. And we had decided to meet up, and in the decision to meet up,

we both sort of set our intentions. And I made it clear that we were to be physical during meeting up. That'd be really cool with me. I'd be all right with that. We sort of said how far we'd be with what the stipulations were around that. And we didn't make any hard commitments to hook up or go home with each other or anything like that. But we did make it clear that that, something interesting for both of us. Now, this woman is married. She does consider herself queer.

She has had relations with guys and girls before, but it's been a long time since she had a guy. And one thing that she made clear to me in the evening over drinks was that the way she was intimate with guys was by trapping on a dildo and taking them from behind. And that was something very interesting to me. It sort of called me by surprise, but I guess the mood was right, the vibe was right. great conversation, were really hitting it off. Me, at this time, considering myself a straight man, was intriguing. Yeah, it was exciting, and I think the whole

presence around it was fun. I would sort of go with a manly man. The one that takes care of his woman that puts her on a pedestal, public pays for everything, makes her feel completely comfortable and taken care of. And then, you know, she basically, I took her back to my apartment and she basically strapped up and went to town on my ass.

And it was absolutely spectacular, very erotic, very sensual. lot of fun. It was an experience I walked away from and said, yeah, I'm definitely not straight anymore. I'm biased. I'm not quite curious. So yeah, that's my confession. Use it or lose it. Yeah, thanks. Bye. Okay, I love that confession. And now I don't necessarily know, listen, maybe this guy has always been kind of into guys and now he realized he liked the feeling he'd want a real cock. But, you know, I don't necessarily think just because you got pegged and you liked it and you had a fake dick up of your ass and it was attached to a woman, that that means that you are

by you know what I mean I know straight guys that are not into guys at all and are not bisexual at all and we never want to do it with a guy but they love getting fucked in their ass by a woman right and it's kind of the same thing we were talking about before you got a prostate it might feel good what is it it's a guy or a girl that depends on your preference but I think this is such an interesting kind of question to ask people like if you met a really hot woman like really fucking hot and she wanted to like peg you and that was like the only way you were going to hook up with it would you like try it out because this was a guy that had never done anything this before but he wound up being sort of taken into this experience with this woman who was a lesbian which is so interesting right because

she's not really into guys but she like fucked him in the ass and i just wonder how many other guys would take somebody up on this would take a hot woman up on this offer i know you've had guys take you up on this offer yes i think a lot of guys would take a woman up on this offer. The way this is, especially the way this is premised, he's, that's the way he's going to get access to her. He's already excited. They've been, they've been teasing and texting, and so, yeah, he's going to go for it. And a lot of guys would, I think a lot of guys that haven't been pegged before would jump into this scenario because that's how they're going to get access to her. Now, the other thing, though, is I don't think, I'm agree with you. I don't

think that he's this maybe makes him buy or he's into ass play that's what he's discovered he just he likes having his ass stimulated so it doesn't necessarily mean he wants a real dick maybe he does but i just want to make it clear that just because you like if you're a guy and you like ass play that doesn't mean that you're bisexual no because think about it tons of women who are full on lesbians butch dykes right who wouldn't touch a guy with a 10 foot pole loved for their partner to strap them on and fuck them or they strap on and fuck them. You know what I mean? Like, they use fake dicks, but they don't want a real dick on a man. Like, they're not interested in the guy, but they like that feeling. Being penetrated feels good. Right. Yes. As somebody who has

penetrated a bunch of guys, like, you've done that before, correct? Okay, well, I haven't penetrated a bunch of guys. Okay, well, how many guys? One, two? Well, I guess penetrating them both. Did you ever peg a guy? So I have not pegged a guy. I have a guy that wants me to peg him. And we're, I will absolutely do that. That's my little sub. That's the one I do all kinds of ass play with him.

But the pegging is sort of a reward for him. So he has to earn that. But let me ask you this about that guy. Is he by and into guys or is he just into being a sub for women? He's just into being a sub for women. Yeah, he's not by. So right there, same thing, right? You got a guy who likes ass play is begging for it, wants you to beg him in the ass,

but it's not interested in guys. And obviously, he'd copped to it with you, right? He's copying all this other stuff. Oh, yeah. Yeah, he would tell me. And then I have other guys that are, that I engage in ass play with or have engaged in ass play with, and they are bisexual when they know it. Or they just like, or they're like the other caller that sort of decides that

Dicks are hot and doesn't mind playing with him every once. while but absolutely doesn't want to be in a relationship with a man. Right. So, yeah, there's just a wide range of stuff. And I don't know, I think these labels kind of sometimes hinder people. It's just because you like Asplay, now this guy, he's, well, I guess I'm by curious. I mean, I don't know, is he? I don't know that we've got to give him that label yet.

Yeah, like one thing doesn't necessarily have to do with the other. I think it was like a Venn diagram. There would definitely be an overlap, right? A lot of guys who wind up being pegged also would realize, oh, I am by and I want a real guy because they were into guys too at the same time. But that it's not going to be like every single guy that gets pegged and has a fake dick of their asses into real dick. No way. Not at all. Because I've heard plenty of stories from guys that are into being pegged and stuff and but they would never do it with a guy, but they like when their girl does it. What do you, when you're

penetrating a guy besides your fisting experience, which I've moved on from, what have you penetrated them with? Mostly dildos or like anal be like anal plugs or like anal plugs or. whatever you use. They're like a tiny little vibrator that buzz is, something small that's a little bit long. It's like kind of, mostly things around the size of your finger or your thumb. Nothing. Oh, so no fake dicks. No fake dicks yet.

Oh, okay. I do have, I have a harness and I have the dildos that'll go in that harness. So I'm ready. Oh, so why haven't you given that sub? I mean, does he not live close to you? Like, why hasn't that happens? Well, no, because he has to earn it. And he's been naughty.

So he has to do certain things in order to earn that. What people don't understand is BDSM is a lot of talk, talk, talk, and writing and earning and mental foreplay, right? There's a lot of mental shit that goes into like a BDSM relationship, right? Don't you think? Yes. It's a wide range, but somebody that likes you controlling them a little bit more and that likes that, they get the release from that, turns them on. You know, they just, they want that. They want to be controlled.

They want to be denied. They want to be teased. and it's up to the job to decide whether or not they're getting certain privileges. Yeah, so there you go. Okay, so when you do finally peg the guide and you'll bring it up on a confession episode in the future. Let's go. I will. Yeah.

But, you know, let me just say, the last thing I'm going to say about this confession, that I don't know if you caught this or like the lack of this is I was wondering if that lesbian had the okay from her other partner. I'm assuming so because they were like talking about Polly Amory and stuff. So maybe she's Polly and that was like okay for her to do because it didn't sound like the other partner was involved. It sounds like he just met up with one of them and she fucked him in the house. But I'm wondering why the other partner was there and if she knew.

Don't you think? Do you wonder? But it sounds like they were traveling. So they were all in a place they didn't live at. So they were there just for that moment, for the moment in time, right? So the other partner would have had to know because their partner's not around that night. I know, but she wasn't there. He didn't mention her. He said they started talking, just him and that one. I just wonder. Oh, I think she knew. I think she knew. Me too. I think

because he said that they were talking about Polly and stuff. But I wonder why she wasn't there to watch or that kind of stuff. I'd want more questions. But I did email him and say, hey, would you want to come on and talk about this experience? So maybe I'll get the long story. Because the other partner is a submissive one. And so she's not, she's not going to partake in that and be there. What's her role? Right. I don't know. Who knows? Yeah. I know.

All right. On to the next confession. So hopefully this warrant says a good confession for you. I've listened to the show off and on. And so I've been a dom. Probably the last 10 years. I didn't really understand what that meant until someone I was hooking up with. It said that I was a light dom, whatever that meant at the time.

Anyways, to my confession, I drive back and forth from the L.A. area to Las Vegas for business at least twice. It's not three times a month on the weekend. and I started hooking up a few years ago with a couple that are both. I would call the husband more of a cook, and I would think that the wife is definitely borderline submissive. So it's just really a fun relationship, no titles really. But every week, I'd say two out of the three weekends, I drive back and forth, like I'm hooking up with both of them.

I pick them up. I pick them in Vegas. We hang out in Vegas. We hook up on the way. We've got our very dominant situation for me, whether it's telling those guys how I like things, them listening could be something as simple as her in the front seat, completely naked behind the limo tent,

playing with herself, or the husband in the back, jerking off, or one of them driving, and we're servicing each other. This has been happening since 2015. There was a little interruption there when I was in a pretty serious relationship for a while, currently in a relationship with a female. And, you know, I'd say if you've ever been to the, abandoned water park in between Vegas and California, I'd say we've probably been caught

fucking there, whether it's me fucking him, her fucking him, I'm fucked both of them, at least a dozen times. We've watched porn in the car together. We've even made porn in the car together. Not so much recently, but a few years ago, we got really into golden showers where both of them enjoyed it, and it's, you know, it's been pretty fun. And the reason that I decided to call her tonight is because I just dropped him off and I'm about 30 minutes away from home. Definitely therapeutic and I enjoy it. Don't plan on stopping. So last week I just left Vegas and just got home.

I'm in my driveway and dropped him off. I came up to Vegas after getting home earlier in the week. I decided to drive back up because we reached out to an older gentleman who's a older bisexual porn star that just happened to have left his phone number to play with others on his Twitter and we reached out to them, didn't hear from him earlier this week. And so then he had hit us back up. So then I made an excuse to go back to Vegas, pick them up, and then all four of us played around. So three of us guys, one of them being a very experienced gay and will buy Hornstar that I've been into for years and then her wife. And so it's a pretty hot time

and figured it would be a worthy call-in. And we plan on hooking up again, hopefully in the near future. and definitely a experience that I will be thinking about for years. Thanks. Oh, my God. I mean, to me, this is like what the Confessions line is all about. This sounds like a porn, right? It doesn't even sound like real life. Like, it sounds like, you know, hey, let's write this like porn story and create a hot video of this guy who picks up couples and fucks him in the car and outside and all this. Yeah. Yeah. Stuff and everything, right? But this is actually really going down. There's like a real guy who is driving around with a real couple for years,

and they're all like just fucking each other in the car. I mean, it's so crazy, no? How come they don't get a hotel room? That's what I want to know. I think because maybe they get off on it, right? That is a part of it, right? Yeah, I'm getting caught. Didn't he say they got caught?

He says there's some sort of, I don't know. He said that, and I guess people on the West Coast know about this, that there's some sort of park, water park on the West Coast that is abandoned, and they've been there like fucking and people, will probably have caught them because that's where they're always at. And sometimes in the car. Oh, I thought it was a water, is it a water park or a water treatment plant? Oh, I thought it was an abandoned water park, he said. I don't know. Something, yeah, something abandoned. Yeah, but sometimes they're in the car watching. She's like naked while they're driving. I think that's

another part of the kink. That is a big kink. People, yes, people like public displays. They like the thrill of getting caught. So if they're getting caught when they're going there and they keep going back, obviously it's part of, it's part of their kink. They enjoy it. Yeah, but like how did this all get set up? Did he talk about that? Like he just wound up meeting them. I just feel like this is a very specific thing. And he did say that he has a girlfriend now. And I wonder if she knows. I was waiting. Me too. I have a feeling she does not. I'm going to go with no. Right. Because that second call that he added in where he, they just brought in another guy. I mean, she wasn't a part of that. Now they're like cooking up with a gay man. And I'm assuming that he's, they're. He's, they're been hooking up with the husband and the wife, right? He said he was hooking up with the both of them. Yeah, he said he hooks up with both of them. So I'm wondering, in that threesome scenario, or sorry, the foursome scenario, does the wife get as much attention if some of these guys are bisexual? I think so, because she probably is obviously into it. I've talked to a lot of women who are down

with this kind of scenario, and if they're down with it, it is a big fucking part of their turn on. That's what I would assume, because they've been doing this for so long, right? Yes, this is 2015. That's what he said. Yeah. So I would assume it's a big turn on for her. The fact that they both listen to my show, I'm hoping that they actually call in. I want either one of it. I either want the single guy who's hooking up for them to call in as well as the couple. Because I love to know, there's no way they're just doing this with this guy. This couple rolls in like the alternative lifestyle scene, right? What else do they do? Right. Oh, my God. I know. It's interesting, though. I've also noted that it seems like a lot of guys when they all get together, when there's a lot of guys involved, somehow that equates to golden showers. I don't know why. I'm glad you brought that up. I forgot about the golden shower reference.

He threw that in there. Yes. And I've heard this a lot. Like when you get a bunch of guys together, they want to pee on each other. And I don't know if it's the dominant thing or I'm not sure. Because I've been peed on and it's, or I peed on a guy.

It's not really that sexual for me, but it was just kind of fun and funny. We did it in the shower. But I don't, But I've never had something to lay down and then just piss all over them. But yeah, I did it in the shower and it's kind of cute and you laugh about it. But I find one guys, when you've got guys around each other, like they want to piss on each other. I don't know what the deal is.

It's like that male dog that pisses on the trees, the Marcus Territory. You think, oh, that's interesting. Yeah, I think there's something to it. So you think that that's a big guy on guy action thing? Because I did have somebody call in recently a girl who was saying she was into Golden Show. I know a lot of girls are too, but I think that I hear this when groups of guys are together. There's more seems to be there's more peeing going on. I don't know.

I'm just wondering if you've heard that. No, not at all. But I've had, I love the golden shower conversation because it's not something that I would try. But I'm like you. If someone said, hey, would you want to do this to me in the shower or me do it to you in the shower? As long as it's not like in my face or in my mouth, like, I'd be down for it. Totally. I try it out.

No big deal. I would do it. I know. Right? I know people that like it in their. mouth. You do? Like people you've hooked up with? Yes, people I've hooked up with. They like hit in their mouth. Now, I've never, I've never peed in anybody's mouth. I don't know if I can go that far. I guess if they wanted me to, I would. It'd be like, okay. I mean, I don't need to

in the moment. I mean, my diet's pretty clean. And like, here we go. While they're going down on you. Right? Think about it. I mean, if they're like, go into town on you and they're like, okay, pee in me at the same time, like, why not? I know, I know. But that's kind of where I draw the line like I wouldn't let anybody pee in my mouth. You could pee on me if we're in the shower. That's what gets you off. It doesn't do much for me, but I would let you do it. But no, you couldn't do it in my mouth. Right, right. And that guy that brought it up to you. It was just one guy that you were with that said, hey, this is what I'm into. Was it something that he was very into or something new he wanted to try with you? No, he was into it. That was kind of one of his things. Now, there's other people that

want to pee inside you. Oh, that can't be healthy. Thank you. I know. I know. It's no. That's like a bad pH balance thing. I mean, isn't P so acidic and the stuff? Like to put that inside your vaguely, like, it's going to give you an infection for sure. Or your, yeah. No, I have, or your ass. I mean, no, yeah, I'm not, neither of those is an option for me.

Oh, but I have heard about the guys that are, want a guy to fuck them in the ass and pee inside at the same time. I've heard that. Yes, that's what I'm saying. People want to, yeah. Yeah. I don't roll like that. But, you know, that's okay. Hey, Tweed Chazone.

As long as everybody's down with it, go for it. How far did that guy take it? Was it just a one-time thing? Your golden shower experience or more time thing? We just did it a couple. It wasn't like he had to do it every time. It wasn't always part of our play. So just whenever it was convenient, we could do it in the shower.

I didn't want to be, I didn't want to pee on somebody when I was not in the shower because I need to rinse off too. Not only that. I had a friend who's got had a lesbian couple friend of hers and they were peeing on each other and they were so into it. They couldn't stop in their whole house and bed had to be like through it like their whole bed had to be thrown out because they just like reeked of pee. Yeah, because they just couldn't control themselves.

Yes, I mean, let's do this hygienically. I don't mind doing it. But there has to be some hygiene considered. Yeah. Yeah. No, totally. And I say this on every episode, but I don't know if you've ever heard of this. But this is like a move that I think you would think is hot.

and I would do it where this guy said his girl would sit on the toilet, right? And she'd spread her lips and he'd pee on her clit while she was sitting on there. So it's very hygienic, right? Because it's going into the thing. But imagine having that hot pee like penetrating your clit. If you're really horny. Don't you think that sounds hot? I could be down.

There is something hot about that. I could be down for that one. Yeah. So you're the bucket list girl. Go do that and then come back in the future and talk about it. Get one of your guys to do it. Okay, now listen, Lila, what I'm doing moving forward is every time I have a co-host on, I'm getting a confession from them, right?

And we're going to discuss it. So why don't you give me your confession now? Let's end with your naughty confession. I have one. I could confess to, too, too. But anyway, you go first. Okay, I do have one. This is super, super ultra secret.

I've never confessed this before. But I'll let it out. I was, my mom and I were traveling to my sisters and we ended up, it was my sister was getting married. So it was a full house. My mom and I were in the same bed. And I woke up in the middle of the night and I was super horny. And so an orgasm will put you to sleep. So I rubbed one out with my mom in the same bed, but she was, she sleeps like a freight train.

Oh my God, this is like the best confession ever. It was a long time ago, by the way. Oh, my God. I totally understand that because you're like super horny. You don't care. It's not about your mom being there. It's just about your moment. You're like, I hope she doesn't wake up, but I got to rub one out.

I woke up at 2.30 in the morning. I couldn't go back to sleep. By about 3.30, I was like, okay, I know what I need to do. And it's not like I was like vibrating the whole bed. I did it really, really covertly. But yeah, I did. I masturbated with my mother in the same bed as me. Oh, my God.

That is a really good one. And I feel like that leads to so many questions for other people. Like, where is the most inappropriate place that you ever jerked off? Because sometimes, and I've totally been there, like, as a woman, and it's all hormonal, I think. Like, you could just get horny for no fucking reason. And you just have to get that release, like right that second. And that's exactly what was happening. And I've had other places where that.

that's happened too. Okay, so let's bring those up. I'm making you bring those all up. I know. Go on. A lot of times, well, a lot of times you're out in public and you're just like, where can I go? So you go into the public bathroom. Right. A lot of times in the public bathroom, right? Yeah. Or at work, when I used to, when I was in my going to school and working my way through school, I was a receptionist. Sometimes I would sit there, I'd get so horny, I'd have to run into the bathroom and it was a single one. You could just lock it yourself. And I'd have to just get off really quick. And then there were days that I'd have to do that probably five times. No kidding. I mean, just, I was so horny. Yeah, that's like ovulation time. Obulation time. Absolutely.

Yeah. I remember being in a road trip with a guy of mine and I was driving. He was sleeping. It was my turn to drive and he was sleeping. And for some reason, the hot weather, the desert and the driving and me just sort of sitting there like I got one of those waves of horniness and I totally jerked myself off without waking him up. You know what I mean? Like he had no idea. But like that happens a lot. I once went into a plane bathroom and did it because I was like, it happened to me on a plane. I think sometimes it happens in places where when you're not thinking about it for a reason, like for some reason, like your barrier isn't up to push it down, right? And you're not thinking about it and just takes you over.

Did you ever get horny on a plane for no reason I have? Oh, yeah. I've absolutely masturbated in a plane bathroom. Yeah. Yeah, right? I mean, I think it happens like more common than not. Oh, yeah. Absolutely.

Absolutely. I mean, if I had a partner, he would have been in there with me. but I didn't have that option. So I had to just, like you said, take care of it myself. Oh, my God. Was your sister in the room, too, in another bed? Or you were on your way to visit your sister? No, no.

We were at my sister's house. She was getting married the next morning. So we were staying with her, and she had some other people there, right? So normally we would have our own bed, but in this instance, because it was a packed house. We just had my mom and I shared a bed. And, yeah, I had to. Let me ask you a quick question before we end this whole thing. I love your confession, by the way, it was really good.

How do you jerk yourself off? Are you a girl that fingers yourself or do you, like, rub your clip? Because obviously you're not pulling out toys while your mom's there, right? So you can't, like, use a vibrator. You're not doing that. But if you're using your hand, are you like, oh, you finger yourself until you come, or do you rub your clit or both? In this instance, it was just my clit.

Because if I had two hands involved, then there'd be more motion going on. I did not want to wake her up. Right. But what's your normal go-to? My normal is, it's 50-50 between fingers and me and just, just my clit. So you will finger yourself and you can finger yourself until orgasm or do you have to play with your clit while you're fingering yourself or do you know how to give yourself like a G spot orgasm with your fingers? I can't I can't get I can't put enough pressure on that with the angle with

just my fingers to get a G spot orgasm. I have to use a dildo for that. Right. But so I just do I just if I'm put my fingers in me I'll rub my clit too. Right at the same time. So you'll do both hands. Yes. Yes. Yes. But the rubbing the clit is the fastest way. Absolutely. Right? Absolutely. Yeah. Oh, absolutely. Yeah. I mean, I can make that happen real fast. That's why I just went straight to that because when my mom was in the bed, I didn't want to belabor it. I just needed that quick release. Oh, my God, that's so funny. I was thinking like, oh, should I confess something? And I was like, what can I confess? It's not I could confess some more places. But I was thinking like, oh, I could confess that like I'm currently. And then this will come with a question that I'm currently in search of a spreader bar. Someone brought it up on my, on an episode. And, And I went Googling, like, what is that? And I was like, oh, that's so fucking hot because I've been using this toy that keeps breaking and I keep buying it because it's only $18 and then it breaks on me. But it's like this sucking machine and it's like kind of hands free because it starts

sucking up your badge and then you could just leave it there and have an orgasm. And just sort of being able to just sit there and do that, I've been like kind of like while I'm involved in this whole scenario hands free, I've been thinking like, oh, if my legs were tied up and my hands were tied up. I don't know. I've been going like down that path of being very submissive tied up. And there's like this spreader bar thing where your legs are up in your hands. And this girl told me recently that I was talking to that did it,

that you could actually like use it to spread your legs even more or less. Like you could. And I was like, oh my God, I'm totally going to try that. So my confession is I'm buying one today on Amazon. Have you ever experienced that or used one of those? Yes. You have? Oh, yes.

Is it good? Yes. Well, I mean, anything, for me, anything to do with BDSM when I'm not in control and the guy's doing what he wants, like that's hot. So yes, you will love it. Do you have one in your house currently? Do you have it or do you one of your doms bring it? Yeah, I don't have it.

It was a toy that, yeah, somebody that I used it on me. And I was like, oh my God, I love this thing. Yeah. Oh, my God. Well, I'm going to get one and I'll talk about it on a future episode. But I loved your confession was even way better than mine. And I love that you came in and talked about these confessions with me. I have to say most of my callers will always be like, oh my God, I love your Layla, Girl Talk episodes.

We are doing one coming up and we are taping it. I promise my audience and you said you're down where we're going to do one on perimenopause, H.R.T. Pellets, injections, like all things for girls and they're like 40s and 50s, right? Like that kind of thing. We're doing that coming up, right? But I'll definitely have you on again for a Confessions episode. you're always fun to talk to. And thanks so much for calling in and being honest.

Yes. Thank you. I love your audience's confessions. They're fantastic. They need to submit more to you so I can listen to them. I love it. So Kathy, why don't you give a shout out to let people know

where they can go to either leave a confession or get in touch with you. Okay, well listen. Anyone could find my podcast, strictly anonymous confessions. I take long confessions or I take short ones on my confessions hotline. The hotline is 347-4-2-0-357-9.

but also to listen to my show and get more long-winded confessions, because a lot of times these short confessions, I get the whole story over my show. You could find my podcast on any podcast app. It's called Strictly Anonymous Confessions. And if you want to be on the show and tell your long story because you have a naughty story while remaining anonymous, I mean, email Strictly Anonymous podcast at gmail.com.

And Lalo, you put the link to my website in the episode. And on my website, they could find everything. The link to call in and also the Confessions Hotline. I'll do it. All right. Awesome. Thanks, Leila. You're welcome.

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