Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1350 - Ethan Got his Wife Into Pegging Him

Episode Date: January 28, 2026

Ethan got his wife into pegging and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he realized he was into anal, when he told his wife about being into anal and how she felt about it, how and when he brought up her pegging him and how she responded, his first time getting pegged and what went down, how his wife reacted when he told her he was into guys and how she reacted, their threesome in Amsterdam and what went down, their soft swap with their friends and what went down, how they both went online looking for hook-ups and what they’re looking for and what they want to try, the guy they picked to hook up with and what they plan on doing with him, how he has a prostate orgasm and how it felt plus a whole lot more. GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To see HOT pics my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://learn.nocd.com/strictly⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started ⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com⁠⁠ Get the BUtter massager and get 20% off your whole order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — To get 10% off DRIVE BOOST by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠PikaVibe.com/Strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Click to get $15 OFF your purchase ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2540-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠— Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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I'm like, what the fuck? He never brought it up when he did start out. Talking about the main thing that I had him on the phone for on the podcast for is because he's like a guy who's very into anal action. He had an experience with a guy when he was younger. When he shelved that experience for a while, but he did get into anal play with himself and then with a girlfriend. And then he brought up to his wife and him and his wife have like gotten into pegging and using vibrators and rim jobs and all of that kind of stuff.

His wife is very open-minded and very down. Like I said, he does cop to the fact that they had like some threesomes with a woman on a vacation. And then they did some soft swapping with a couple. they knew it was only oral but he goes into all those experiences threesome in Amsterdam the swaths with their friends and then we talk about the fact that he

had a prostate orgasm through pegging we go into specifically like all the details about that because that's always super interesting and he's here to say like you know pegging by itself is great and he don't play by itself is great but a prostate orgasm is like nothing you've ever experienced before I say it in my butter ads and it's the fucking truth

okay he'll explain how his legs were like couldn't even walk after it. And then they're literally on the apps now looking for guys and girls. He wants to be with a guy again for the first time in his life. They have a date with a guy tomorrow. So we're going to get his wife to call in next. I'm going to get this whole story from her as well as hear all about the first experience with a guy because she's down. She's into it. He talks about how she felt when he told her he was into guys. She is into it. They're going to be with a guy soon. We're going to get the update. But this whole episode is super interesting. His whole story with anal play and then playing with other people and all that kind of good stuff. So I'm going to get right to be right back on with Ethan. Hey, Ethan, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. How are you today? I'm good, Kathy. Thanks for having me on. No, thanks for calling in. I like to talk to straight guys. I'm assuming you're straight, right? Do you consider yourself straight or hetero-flexible? I don't know. You tell me.

Yeah, there's so many weird labels and like I just, I'm like an evolved human, I'd say. You know, like as I've gotten older, I've like my tastes have changed and definitely my like pleasure seeking has changed and has evolved with my wife at Jenny. And yeah, it's awesome and exciting. And, you know, we've been together for quite a long time. Well, the truth is, well, I thought we were going to be talking about it. And we will be talking about it. Maybe this ties into your evolution of what you're into and maybe guys come into play because you are into anal action. right?

Yeah, totally. Yeah. Totally. And I do. I've been for like a very long time too. I think a lot of guys are like I think, you know, half of the guys that don't, out of all of the guys that say they don't do it, I think more than half of them have, they just don't cop to it. And then maybe there's like a bunch that maybe really have never gone to that area and sort

of weren't curious and tried something. You know what I mean? So let's go back to when you did get, well, first let's get a snapshot of where you're at, how long you married for to your wife? About 20 years. Okay. We've been together like 25 years. So you married 20 years, together 25.

When did you get into that part of your body and like empleasureing yourself that way? When I was a teenager, you know, I think it was like, you know, like I think like you were saying there's a lot of men don't cop to, you know, having that. But I think a lot of men don't cop to the fact that their first sexual experiences were with, like, like boyhood friends or whatever and mine was you know like I had a boyhood boyhood friend who you know like showed me how to jerk off and so really a lot of that goes down too that's a common yeah totally I've heard I mean I still it's like vivid memory of that first time I like like busted a nut and it's you know it's like holy shit what's going on you know but we like kind of messed around and stuff and it was always I always felt weird about it just be

Catholic upbringing, Catholic guilt, all that horse shit that goes along with a lot of religions. So, you know, like, I was just kind of pushed it to the back of my mind. And then I guess, like, later on when I was in, like, late high school, I had a girlfriend and we were sexually active. And she put her finger in my ass full. She was giving me a blowjob one time. And I was like, that was fucking rad. That was amazing. Did we ever date?

Maybe that was me. That was used to be my mood. I don't know. It definitely wasn't. No, it's okay. I'm joking. Go on. Yeah, it was a, you've talked about that.

I've listened to your show quite a bit. Yeah, but I give her credit. She just like turned me onto your show. Yeah, yeah. But I give her credit. She just like shoved her finger in your ass while she was blowing you. I wasn't like shoving. It was definitely like, you know, tickling, teasing.

And then it went in. And I was like, hell yeah. You know, this is awesome. And it happened a couple times and then like, you know, life moved on. Other partners, maybe like one other woman I was with did that. And I've always been, you know, like when I would masturbate, you know, I would definitely, you know, finger myself or whatever. And then as I get older, I had like a vibrator that I would put in there. It feels fucking good, you know.

I know because I'm a three and a girl. Yeah, I think that's one thing that girls and guys could relate to, right? Because we all have one, right? It's like one thing that I know exactly what it feels like, except you guys have a prostate. So I think it's probably even more intense. Yeah, and that's been within the last few years. You know, we'll get to that. But that's like when I had my first prostate orgasm and all that.

But, I mean, we'll get to that. But yeah, I've always been like, I mean, I'm definitely like an anal enthusiast and, you know, love butts and buttholes and stuff like that. And it wasn't, I think when I met my wife and we started dating and stuff, we would do stuff. And there was rimming and everything like that, which is always awesome. But it was always kind of like here and there. And I never, I would say never, but I didn't fully like say, hey, I really like this, you know, let's do this. I don't know why, but, you know, because of the stigma. Stigma, for sure. There's a, societal stigma about, you know.

And you don't want the girl, the first thing the girl might say that you just assume, and I think 90% of the time she's going to be like, are you gay? Does that mean you're gay? You know what I mean? Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Yeah, and she was definitely like, one of my favorite quotes from her ever was like, she's like, you're the pervious boy I've ever met. And that was a good thing. She married you. Totally. You know, that's like a badge of honor. Yeah, that's good. I got to get a little star and stick it on my jag. it's pervious boy ever. Yeah. But yeah. And then, you know, like we've, we've always had a really good physical relationship of very, like, we have had really good sex and no complaints in that

department. And, you know, we've definitely had ebbs and flows. We've been together for, you know, over 20 years. So there's like high points and low points. Of course, yeah. Kids, kids come into play. Yeah. Yeah, we do have, we do have a kid. And so that's, you know, you have a child so you know what the head socket can be being a parent and finding time to do what finding time for yourself and for your partner I guess in your case your booty calls it's easier for me listen it's easier for me than your wife your wife is the is the one that has it harder than me yeah a little bit yeah she's got the pervious guy and a baby yeah yeah got to keep you both happy yeah but she

knew like i mean you let her know about this early on yeah and like you know like there was rimming and involved and then like we would put it like a vibrator in there every now and again and you know it was but i i was always like a little you know like gun shy to be like you know like yeah this you know let's do something i also had never really considered the whole pegging thing either you know it was i'd obviously seen it i've consumed porn i've seen it in porno and had been like she knew she was and that was one thing too it was like when we started dating I was like straight up front with her I was like I like I like have a subscription to hustler I'm gonna like I'm gonna be reading porn and she's like awesome whatever you know just

just don't don't compare me to anybody you see in that magazine I'm like not gonna you know yeah that's it's a fantasy it's but she was always like open and cool with that and she's a super open open minded woman and Did you tell her about the guy experience? What's that? Did you tell her about the experience with your guy friend? Yeah, about like five years ago. Okay.

So we'll get to that point, right? Yeah, yeah. Yeah, I definitely, you know, talk to her about that at one point. And that I think is like evolution of evolution of the human pleasure seeker, you know, and just kind of like opening up to death. And, you know, we've had, not just telling her, but maybe it's coming back around for you and this might be something you want to try again or something like that. Okay. Yeah.

Yeah. So let's go back to pegging. Somewhere pegging's going to come in, right? Like you've heard of it. You've done it, but you still haven't done it with your wife, but you guys are doing other things. Right, right. Fingers and vibrators and stuff. And there was never any, like, I definitely didn't have a prostate orgasm because it was just like the sensation of that, you know, like.

the anal experience was just awesome and it was exciting to like have it happening to me. She was always like a little bit like a little into it, not, you know, like for herself, you know. And I, you know, like you've said a million times like when a lot of women are just like not into it because their experience, first experience was just some dude trying to shove their dick and their butt. And it's there's a lot of like preparation and intention. and relaxation that needs to happen to enjoy it and to get the full like experience where it's not going to be like a traumatizing thing. Okay, now listen, anyone that listens to my show knows I'm always talking about anal action, why it's so good, how much I love it, and why I think every guy out there who hasn't tried it should try it. And that's why I'm excited to tell you about the butter wellness perineum massager because their perineum massager is only meant to be used on the outside.

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I mean, and that's like definitely involved in the last few years for her. Meaning she's become a three-up of a girl. Hell yeah, which she's super excited about too, which excites me, you know, because I'm always,

like, pleasure first for her. That's the way I am. That's the way I think I've always been with any partner I've had was always like, I want them to get off because I know I will. Yeah. You know, and I also get a lot of pleasure out of giving pleasure to the partner. So that, yeah.

So she's down. Okay. So when did, who brings up pegging? I did. It was, you know, we had, we had dropped our kid off at a summer camp and we were on a road trip together, just the two of us. And, you know, long hours in the car. We had had, like, an amazing night of sex at an Airbnb that, you know, and we were like,

driving and and we just started talking and the I think it started with like she was asking what type of porn I was into watching lately and I I straight up was like you know what I've been watching some some trans porn and it's really hot and she was like really and so I like ballsy to put out there yeah totally you know it totally was and it kind of shocked me that I said it out loud you know I was like who was that actually came out of that my house. That's interesting. Yeah, so I told her that and she's like, hmm, and I was like, look up this performer and she Googled the performer and she's like, who's the performer, by the way? Because there was somebody that brought up one person once. Who was the performer? Do you know the

name? Do you remember the name? Yeah, it was Chanel Santini. Okay. I don't know if that was that one, but there's someone that like a couple people have mentioned before and I'm like, I wonder if it was the same one. Anyway, go on. So you tell her to go look up this trans performer, right, that you're into. Yeah. And we're, you know, we're driving along and she looks. it up and she's like, whoa, she's actually, you know, she's hot. And I was like, yeah, it's, it's pretty freaking cool. And she's like, would you want that? And I was like, maybe I think so. And then she's like, what other things would you like? And I was like, I don't know, what would you want to try pegging? And she was like, what's that? And I was like, it's you wearing a strap on and

fucking me in the ass. And she was like, yeah, okay. And I was like, really? You know, and it was like, okay, cool. Let's, you know. And so we were driving and we had like, I think maybe one or two nights left on the road, maybe one night left on the road. And I was like, let's go to a sex shop. You know, we got a hotel. We got a really awesome hotel room in the next city.

Let's go to a sex shop. And so we were just like scanning the highway for like billboards. And lo and behold, there was one right outside of the city that we were going to. So we went to the sex shop and like, found. one and it was like it was pretty funny just to like be in there because I had gone to sex shops by myself we had usually just would like orders when we would get toys for each other we had just order them online but this was like a new experience with her going into a sex shop and it was so funny her eyes were just like bugging out of her head and yeah and so we picked one out and it was

you know it was like it was about the size that I am so I was like I you know Like, that's, I can, you know, I can, I can deal with that. And, you know, we get to the hotel. We have dinner. We have a nice evening. And then, yeah, the first time was clumsy and was like, wow, that wasn't really cool. You know, it was just because I think we were both really nervous and didn't really know what the hell to do. Yeah, of course.

So, so, but it, but it wasn't like, okay, we tried that. Let's throw the thing out and never try it again. It was just kind of like, I was like, let's figure this out. And we had a few weeks at home alone. And we had a few more tries and things got good. You know, it's definitely, it's definitely clumsy at first. I did an episode with Wio recently. And she's like professional pegger.

And she was like trying to tell me that it's like it's not that hard to figure out how to peg. Like I'm like, I'm sorry. And I've never pegged anyone, but I've heard for many people, especially like for your wife, right? Like she's putting on something. She can't feel the appendage, right? So it's like hard to figure out how. to maneuver it, right? Mm-hmm.

I would think. Yeah. And that's... Even putting, like, the harness on and stuff, it was fucking hilarious. Yeah, I can imagine. I'm, like, on the floor on my knees, like, trying to figure out where all these straps go and, like, all these different things

and, like, fucking banging the dildo into my head. And, you know, I'm just like, what God, this is... God, I hope there's not, like, security camera in this freaking room. Yeah, right? I can imagine. But at least you guys didn't give up. No, not at all. It was more like, good try. You know, let's go team. Let's get back into the locker room and figure it out. And so, yeah, so there were a few more times that we tried and until we kind of got it

right. And there was also stuff with me where I had to figure out like, you know, I know my butthole's accepting. I know I can take like a certain amount. I'm not, I don't want like, I'm not like, I don't want something huge in it, but I figured out like the good prep to do before, before we have a session, you know what I mean? So it's, and that comes down to like cleaning myself and because just, just to be, you know, that that relaxes me. It relaxes her. I know I'm clean inside and out. Right. You're not in your head about it at all. You don't have to worry about anything. Exactly. I can just, I can just like get. And then, and then also like the stepping. up the little sizes. I had a couple different, like a couple different butt plugs and like a very small

dildo that I can just kind of like relax the muscles and get everything until it's time to really take it. Yeah. And she's gotten really good at it. And she enjoys it. Like if I were talking to her, because she was maybe going to be on the call with us, like what would she say about pegging? Like, was she surprised that she liked it? Did she always know she was a little dumb? Does she switch into that roll and she digs it? I think she was like she didn't know if she would like it. Yeah. I don't think she's definitely not like, there's not really like a Dom situation with it where it's

not like, I don't know, I get so confused with or we get so confused with like BDSN. Those roles, right. Yeah. Those roles and stuff where it's just kind of like we're in this together to like please each other and she's not like calling you a bitch and, you know, smack me around and stuff. It's more like she see she she also loves the like the pleasure that I get from it. She's she kind of like internalizes that and loves that. Yeah.

And yeah, I think she's really, she's really enjoys doing it and because it brings us because we have just like amazing nights of sex when when it's on the table. You know what I mean? And it's not like an every, it's not, it's not an every time thing. It's, you know, sometimes it's, yeah, it's just not in the cards. But the nights that we do, do that or the days or whatever, it's, it's always, like, incredible. Right. Okay. Interesting.

Now, at this point, you haven't told her yet about the guy or anything about guys, right? Okay. So I had before the, before, like, I brought up the pegging thing. So, like, I had told her that story. When you told her that story, like, how did she respond? she was like oh you know that's what you know i'm sure a lot of boys do that she's right she's no jolly yeah yeah you know she was i think she was like a little bit i think she was just a little bit surprised by it just because it's like she's known me for so long we're pretty much an open book

you know and i i just was like i've always been i've always had shame in that you know and it's you know, societal shame because of that or, and didn't ever want to say it. And when I finally said it. It wasn't about your feelings for her or you didn't think, it wasn't about how she would react. It was about your own feelings to it yourself. Right. Right. Yeah, that makes sense.

Because I figured she, you know, I know her. We know each other. I, you know, I figured she'd be like, all right, that's cool. And then, you know, like, that's also evolved to the, to where she's like, like, I want to see you with a guy, you know. Interesting. All right. Cool.

But so that he has evolved into that. It has. Yeah. Yeah. And for, for me as well, you know, I've, it's, I wouldn't call it like a midlife crisis. I'm in my late 40s. You know, it's, I, because I don't want to call it a crisis, but it's like, why, why hold back from experiencing something or trying something that I could derive some form of.

pleasure and give some form of pleasure to another human being. I definitely have my type that, you know, where we have our type that we are looking for and stuff. So. Oh, that's where you're like, we might have a part two coming up. So that's going to be, because it is on the table that you guys are going to start playing with guys from what I hear from yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And we're actually, we have a, we have a, I guess a lunch date today with a guy that. Oh my God. Okay. contacted. So yeah, we're, you know, and, So we kind of like when we got together, this was before dating apps and stuff. So we're so like it feels, it feels so weird, but like trying to navigate dating apps and stuff.

But we got on a dating app and it's just we're like we have profiles and we're just kind of, it's just super weird to navigate that. Especially because you're looking for a guy, not a girl. But wait, let's go. We're actually looking for both. Okay. Well, we got to get it. We're jumping the gun here because let's get back to here.

Because where you're out right now is like today, you're going on a lunch date with a guy and your guys are currently looking. But let's go back to you coming to the conclusion or like what happens to you. Like you said, it's not like a crisis, but at some point in your life recently, you started to like, what was it? Like you got the desire and you started thinking more about that experience and wanting to actually be with a guy. had you always been thinking about guys secretly, like, or did it just come back to you? I think it's been in the back of my mind a little bit, but I think I've just become more comfortable with the fantasy. And then the idea that it could become a reality, you know what I mean? And that's like an exciting thing.

And then discussing that with her and her being like, that would be super hot, you know, like I would love to see that. And I'm like, cool, but I'd like to try it with her. We definitely want to like play together when we do this. So yeah, it's just become, it's like turning fantasy to reality where it's and then becoming more comfortable with that idea. And yeah. Do you plan on fucking this guy today that you're meeting tomorrow? No, no, no, no. It's just a lunch date.

Yeah, it's just to say, hey, see if we're like. see if we're compatible, see if he's cool, see if he's not just like wants to fuck her. Yeah, that's what I wanted to know what's on the table. So it's not just you being with the guy. You're looking for a guy that would be with the both of you? Potentially, like more softer. She's not really wanting to, I guess like the situationally, it would all depend on whether she would want to. No, but let me just ask you this.

I need to be more specific because we jump to this. I don't have like many details here, so I'm confused. because it started out like you're looking for some anal action for some guys and now it's like soft play with your wife. Like I like what did you go when you went on to the apps and it started to become this thing where oh she'd love to see you with a guy. Then did you start talking and you said oh I'd like to see you with a girl like what's the whole evolution of you guys going out and playing with other people? So we've we've had three sims and fours earlier in life just some soft swapsing. Tell me about that. I mean, you think that's not important to this conversation.

Do you know what podcast you're on? Don't you know that I would love to have threesomes and foursms in the title? Right. Yeah, I mean, they were like all soft swap stuff and everything. And they were fun. And, you know, she and the girl, you know, she's definitely like, by curious, bisexual, wants to like be with a woman again. and, you know, that it's, yeah, it's just kind of like that was pre-child and then once you have a child and then

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visit nocd.com to book a free call with their team. That's N-O-C-D.com or just go to the description and click on the link. It's, yeah, it's just kind of like that was pre-child and then once you have a child and then that all changes. And then it's like we're at a point now where, we can start moving and exploring a little bit more. Okay, well, we're only at 25 minutes and we need an hour. So we could explore a little bit about these threesomes and foursums you have before. And then I want to get back to what you're going to do in the future as well as how you literally had a prostate orgasm and what you did to get that because I think that's always super interesting. But let's do it.

Let's talk a little bit about your threesomes and foursums. I mean, you didn't even bring that up. That's kind of like not the norm, by the way, just so, you know. Sorry. We were so focused on pegging an anal, you know? I took you off the top. But like, I mean, you stayed on track, which was good. But I think it's kind of interesting that you guys did do this.

Like, this is early in your relationship. Was it your, like, was it your open-minded girl that, like, got you guys into those situations? Like, how did three-somes and four-somes come up in your guy's relationship early on? Yeah. So the first, the first one, we were on a trip in Europe and we were traveling around and we were in Amsterdam. It was like the last couple nights we were in Amsterdam.

And I think it was our first, the first day we were walking around. And she, like, we had come out of a cafe. We had smoked some hash. And she was like, what would you think about going to one of these live sex shows or getting a prostitute tonight? And I was like, you know, like needle skips on the record type thing. I was like, what? I was like, fuck yeah. Like, all right, really?

And she was like, you know, would you? And I was like, yeah, that's cool. Could we do both? And she's like, sure. So, you know, we went to one of the live sex shows. It was a pretty silly experience. We had fun. It was filled with, like, Chinese tourists with hilarious.

It was, like, all, like, middle and older age Chinese tourists in this theater. And these people are doing all various sex acts on the stage. And we were just kind of chuckling. And then after that, we just went down to the Red Light District. And we were walking around. And we found a woman that we found a woman that we were. were both like, yeah, she's pretty hot. Are they literally like, they're literally like you could see them in the windows, right?

And is that how you put someone? Yeah. Yeah. So she may have been like right outside of her door, you know, like some of them are on the street. Some of them are in like a window. But we, you know, we went and, you know, did the deal. And it was just going to be like I was going to get a blow job and stuff. And so we went in and got undressed and it was kind of funny.

and then the woman started to give me a blow job and it was probably the worst blow job I've ever got my life. You're kidding. It was so weird. It was like, she was just like jackhammering my dick. And like, like, it was like, like, tried to put like a fucking vacuum tube.

You know, it was like, I was just like, this is not cool. And I was like, how about I just jerk it and you play with my wife? So they like did, you know, they like cuddled and fingered and like kissed and stuff and and I just jerked it to finish and it was super funny. You know, we like look back on that and we just are like, that was so weird and funny and non-traumatic. So that was the first one. And then we had some friends at home who were another married couple and they were cool and they kind of were, they would like hook up with people

sometimes and we had a soft the first soft swap with them it was i think they had a cabin we went up to it was one winter night we went up to their cabin and we're all in the hot tub bathing suit tops come off bottoms come off there starts kissing then man my buddy's shorts come off and then we're like all right let's go inside and you know and we had just agreed upon like it was just going to be oral and we're just you agreed with them and you guys right like everyone was on the same page it was like we're not not looking to fuck or anything and at that point there were there were no kids this was pre vasectomies for for me and for my friend so it was like we're not going to mess around and we don't think we even had condoms either so it was like it wasn't it wasn't even going to be on the table it wasn't something that any

of us wanted to do you know we didn't want to fuck it was just kind of like blood jobs and and pussy licking and you know it was it was fun like we had we had a super fun night and then the best thing about it was that it wasn't weird afterwards you know and we're like all still friends to this day and you know we did that a couple more times with them and yeah so that and and then years go on and and we have a kid and life changes and so that never turned into like a more like a more often situation or anything. It didn't like go anywhere else other than those two experiences. Well, there were a couple more. Yeah, you said you had a four. Yeah. I mean, it was like with the couple, you know, my wife and I and my friend and his wife.

So we, those were like a soft swap foursums. I suppose I don't know. There's what do you call these things? But we did know, we did a couple more times with them and it was they were always really fun, you know, and it was, and it never got weird, and that was like the good thing. But was it, like, how was it for you to see your girl? Like, did you love seeing her with a girl? Did you love seeing her with the guy, like and vice versa? Like, she liked, because you went down on the other woman, too? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It was really cool to see her getting pleasure from somebody else. Right. Both a woman and, like, a friend who I was like confident wasn't like a macho, brute who is just going to be, you know, macho and try to be like that guy, you know.

Take your wife. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, exactly. You know. Yeah. So, yeah, it was great. And she really enjoyed being with the woman.

Mm-hmm. So is that why when now that you guys are back on the absence if you're looking for a woman too because she wants to also explore that part of herself again? Very much so. Right. That makes sense. You guys are coming back into your own, you know. Yeah, there's like more time to, yeah, more time to do, to do this stuff and, and to like take our time and find the right couple. But we're also like, we joke, you know, we're like, we're getting old. We're not going to be this good looking for that much longer. You know, we're going to strike while the iron's hot. And so, yeah, so that's kind of where we're where we're at with it. So we're looking for, you know, either another couple or a single woman.

or a single guy that kind of meets the criteria that we're looking for. What is the criteria looking for? And do you have on your profile, well, first question, do you have on your profile that you're by and you're looking, like, that you're open to guys and you're looking for a guy who might be into, you know, guy and guy action? Yeah, I do. I think it's heteroflexible. I put whatever that means. That means exactly what you are. It's a perfect word. Yeah. Yeah, like if they had trisexual, that would be one because you'd try it. Because you like, yeah, yeah, I think they might have that or you just made it up.

I don't know. But yeah, we both like, so we have individual profiles, but like linked together. And so we have that like whole thing. And we're just, we're looking for something obviously like discreet. You know, we're both professionals. She owns our own business. I have a fairly public-facing job, you know, so we're, you know, we want to be discreet. And also, you know, we live in a.

city, but it's a city that sometimes feels like a small town. You know, we've definitely been on there and been like, oh, fuck, did you see that, you know, such and such. Oh, you've seen people you know. Yeah, totally. Totally. Like the first day that we, like, opened it up, we were like, oh, God. You know, but we're on it and we're, like, in an incognito mode.

So we can search and we're not, like, we're not, like, visible on the feed all the time. So it's like us, basically us reaching out to people. And I think that's, it works in our advantage in some ways, but it works as a disadvantage in other ways because maybe we're missing something. Meaning some people that won't connect with people that are incognito. Yeah. And, but to be honest with you, it's, I think it's the right, I think it's the right way to do it for us. Just, just because there's, we're also, I just don't want, you know, random. Listen, you can put anonymous pictures of yourself and cover your faces, too.

I mean, you're kind of like on a hookup app. So I think people are more interested in your bodies first. So like if you kept your faces out right in the beginning, I think people could kind of gauge. And then once though people are going to start talking to you, they're going to want to see more, right? So I think that's how a lot of people play it. I don't think anybody goes on to one of those hookup apps. At least I would never and just like put their face on incognito or not. You know what I mean?

We totally did. You did? Yeah, totally. But you're on there like, but you're on their incognito. but the minute you meet anyone, you'll open up. But technically you're really doing what I'm saying. Other people do. You could go off incognito and do the same thing in that you just would have to take your

picture, your face picks out. And then the minute you start talking to someone and you vet them and you know they're not your fucking next door neighbors, you know, you could show them your picks. Either way you could do it. Or a friend of a friend or something like that. Yeah, yeah. You don't know. Yeah.

I mean, but I think it's smart to be, whether it's incognito or not put your face up there right away until you vet the people. especially if you are, you know, you have, like you said, where you guys stand in your, in your place and it is a small town. You never know. Look, you've seen other people there. Yeah. It's definitely been, definitely been eye-opening. And it's also weird, like, navigating it because, yeah, like I said, we came up in a time where dating apps weren't really a thing. They were kind of, like, chuckled at when in the early 2000s. It is. Yeah, we definitely, like, will, you know, at the end of the end of the. end of the day, once I'm home from work or something and our kids off doing their thing, we're like, did you see this? You know?

No, that's what I mean. Yeah. Yeah, it's pretty funny. We're, you know, we've got a kick out of it. It's kind of like frustrating. It's field that app. It's kind of like a frustrating interface sometimes, though. It doesn't always, it's a little glitchy.

Right. But you're both on separate looking. So, like, separately are you looking for a guy? Is she looking? for a girl? Are you just looking for a couple and you're like, I have a wife and she's like, I have a husband? Like, why separate accounts instead of a couple accounts? Because they, I don't think they do a couple account. Like, we wouldn't be able to, yeah, we wouldn't be able to like both log in and see it. So we did separate ones. And, and, but we're like linked together. So

it's like, it shows that she has a partner and that's me and I have a partner and that's her. And we're looking for, you know, we list, we're looking for single guy. bisexual or single woman or you know cool couples that kind of thing so so before we get to the prostate orgasm thing that I want to get to right away next but question for you guys is like is it is hard swap on the table now like is that what's going to go down or is it still going to be soft swap experiences it would be I think it would be soft swap I don't think we're I don't think she's really like into she doesn't really want to get fucked by another dude. It's not really like her thing. I guess it would be a hard swap if there's like anal sex involved

for like being a guy. Yeah, me and a guy and either way like I'd top or bottom. So right. I'm sure there's some other term for that. What's the term for that? Being versed for you. Yeah. I can't keep track of all these. I can't keep track of all these labels and terms and stuff. Yeah, but they help. Look, you know, because if you're on a nap, it's like how, you know, you got to pick one to explain. It's good. It's not. It's not bad. You know, I don't mind the labels. I think they're helpful. So you would top or bottom a guy and that's what you're down for and your girl's down

for that. You're not, you have no interest in like having sex with another woman, but you'll go down in another woman. If you guys find a couple, like you would be soft swapping just oral, right? And maybe you and the guy, in the best case scenario, the guy is by and down to play and you would go further with him and your wife would get off watching it. Yeah, yeah. Right.

Yeah, pretty much. And then I think we're. open to the scenario where if the if sex with a woman another woman she's like my my wife's totally you know she's not like totally opposed to that but it's just all chemistry and and the moment well isn't she into that sex of the woman with for her right well for both of us i mean like i i guess i could i'm not it's not like totally oh oh okay she's not down to fuck another guy but you fucking another girl is not totally off the table, but it's not really what you're looking for. You're looking more for that to have that experience with the guy that you haven't had in a long time. Yeah, I want to see if I

like it, you know, and see if it's, see if it's cool and as hot as my brain has made it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's interesting. I wonder. But what's the guy like that you picked? He's, he seems pretty cool. He's, he's younger, older, is he married, he? No, he's a little bit. Yeah, he's in, He's married in a, like, in, uh, what is ethically non-monogamous, monogamous relationship. So, you know, his wife or partner knows that he's by and, you know, he's on there as bisexual. And, and he's, you know, he seems cool. He seems interesting. We're kind of like into some of the same things, you know, like outside of, you know, just in general, general world.

So it was kind of, and he's got like, his build is he's not a super muscular guy. He's kind of, you know, like thin and stuff. So he's built kind of, I guess, more like me. I guess we'll see. We're talking yesterday. We're like, I don't know how tall he's going to be, you know, that it's a big deal. Do you guys have the same taste in guys? I think so.

Yeah. Yeah. That works. Like, yeah, it makes it a little easier to kind of, you know, trim the fat, so to speak. Yeah, not, you know, definitely not like super muscle. muscular gym bros. It's not really either of us. You're looking for guy more like you.

Yeah. Yeah. Cool. Like I guess I've been called a twunk before. That's like an older twink. Like that's my bill. That's a funny label that I've like stuck in by the back of my head. Yeah.

See, labels are good. They help. They help. They're funny. You just got to explain yourself in one word. Even if they're funny like that too. Yeah. Yeah.

So more like similar bill. You're looking for a twunk like you. Let's get to your prostate orgasm. How did you finally have one? Did you even know that they existed and you weren't even getting those before? I mean, listen, anal action, like you said, by itself is so great, right? But a prostate orgasm is a whole other experience, correct? You've had those.

Totally other ballgame. I knew they existed. It was like, yeah, it was just not really knowing how it's done. But it was during while she was pegging me one time and she had, me in just the right position and the dildo just was like hitting my prostate right and it was like body melting I guess is probably the best way to explain it where I just it was like my body I felt tingles from like the tips of my toes like ran up my legs and then like all throughout my torso it was just like this unbelievable feeling like I had never

ever experienced in my life. And it wasn't like, I didn't ejaculate at that point. I did like after, but it was just, it was intense, but not overwhelming. Mm-hmm. And, I mean, post-sex, I was like, she was like, what, like, men are so dumb if they're not doing this. I know, right? It's like this, like, this, like, cheat code in life, you know, like, you don't know

exists, but once you do, yeah. Yeah, it was super eye-opening because I've always watched like a woman have an orgasm, and it's just such a, like, it's such a cool visually seeing a woman, you know, like convulsing and like the breathing and everything. It's just amazing to watch. And then to actually like flip that, and all of a sudden I'm in that position where I'm, like, total jelly and, you know, I couldn't stand up off the bed for five minutes. And that was wonderful. It was wonderful. And you had never tried to have it before, prior to. And it happened kind of by accident.

It wasn't like you were trying, correct? Or had you tried? No, we weren't like, we're going to do this today and I'm going to have a prostate orgasm. It was just kind of like this exists. This exists. It could happen. And it just was every, all the cards were aligned. You know, the stars were aligned in it. And it just like, she was hitting it right and it just went you know went uh through the roof no it's like it's like a full body orgasm i've heard i mean every guy has explained it the same way it's like nothing you've ever experienced before you know yeah and it's happened on multiple occasions it doesn't happen every time we do it but you know that doesn't mean that doesn't mean that it was like an unsuccessful session, it was just, just like, it didn't align.

Is there any method that you think you could like it, like, or any tip you could give a guy to have it? Like, do you know what, what, what the differences on the times you have it or not? Or is it just like getting that right position and like, I think. So I, when, when it happened the first time, I was on my back. So it was kind of like missionary. And, and the, the, the, the dick had like a, you know, like a slight up curve to it. And I think. And I think, that just the way she was like going in and out and that slight up curve hitting the prostate because it's like in and up you know what I mean so it's it's kind of exactly like the G spot in a woman where it's like in and then up inside so you know it's just like the the

motion that she was doing and like the in and out of it and the head hitting the prostate just like repeatedly over and over I mean I'm not I wouldn't say I'm a pro for sure at it. But yeah, I think missionary worked really well. We've tried it. We've also done it too where like, so the Dilda kind of has a curve where we spun it the opposite way. So if I'm in doggy and she does it, then it can like curve down.

And, you know, and that's just like good because it's a different way she can grab my hips better, you know, and. I mean, listen, the prostate is like, I say this always in my butter wellness ads. I mean, the prostate is like right underneath your taint. right so it like me it's that you know if you think about it like that is in and uh you know what you mean in and like towards yourself back towards yourself so you know if you it's like the butter toy could hit it from the outside if you push down on there but of course when you go in you could look around and get it as well you know tons of guys have had that experience I have heard

and I wonder you know and this is my last question to you that like it's kind of like squirting like once you figure out how to do it it's like easier to do it like and you can't do it a lot more. Like once you did do it, I know that you don't have it every time, but do you have it often and it comes easier now because you were able to like, you know,

crack that code? Yeah, and also she's like getting, she's gotten way better at wielding the strap on, you know, like wearing it and being comfortable in it and knowing like the motion to do and everything. So, yeah, and becoming comfortable and relaxed and being in the right kind of headspace.

to kind of experience the moment. Right. For sure. But you could tell when you're having one? Yeah. Oh yeah. Oh, yeah. The jelly legs don't lie.

Is that what you feel first? I mean, for a guy that hasn't had one. Like, how would he know he's hit in? Like, is there a different feeling like that, you know,

you know that you're hit in the prostate? Like, did you get the tingles and stuff? Or did you get like all of a sudden like more intense like pleasure? Like, you know, when it was like starting to happen and she was hitting the, you know, pros? Yeah, it was definitely,

it was definitely like increased tingles in, you know, in my legs and everything and in my hips and then, you know, like traveled up into my torso and, yeah, you know it when, when it's happening for sure.

Right, right. It's like a, it's a very different feeling is what you're saying. Mm-hmm. Right. Right. And so now you know when you're getting close and you could relax.

And it is like the best, orgasm ever, right? Not that, like you said, not that like the regular orgasm through anal isn't fucking amazing too, but this is like all over body experience. Yeah, it's unlike anything, yeah, it's kind of like incomparable. It feels amazing. Every, every time I come or whatever, ejaculate it feels great, but there's just something, something like a whole body that it does releases all these endorphins and you know I'm sure there's all sorts of wacky shit going on in your brain with it too then. No yeah physically it's probably a different experience of probably you know maybe of because

you do feel it all over your whole body. I'm sure some doctor could explain what's going on a little bit differently compared to a regular orgasm. Let me ask you this because you guys are like, you know, on the apps looking for other people. Like maybe after you have a couple sessions like maybe your girl would your girl, I mean your girl someone that found my podcast and turned you on to it. it? Yeah. Why hasn't she come on for your part two and tell like about your guy's experience once you cross the line and go start hooking up with other people? I love to talk to her about her pegging you.

You know, a lot of like what we talked about. I'd love to hear from her side. And then, you know, and she could call in and give updates on like what went down with this new guy that you met and maybe if she's met a girl by then or something, you know, would you think she'd be down? Yeah. Yeah. I mean, it was right before she left to go to do some work stuff. She was like, she's like, I bet Kathy's going to want to talk to me. She was right. She probably will. And it's what's perfect is like you guys, because I was kind of like, oh, why are you

call today and not tomorrow or three days from now when you have this fucking date set up and you're about to like do this whole other thing that's going to be such an interesting chat next chapter. But you're doing it so fast. And a lot of times I love getting the story from the woman, you know, just because it's always a very different story from the other person's perspective. Like I said, she's the one pegging you. She's the one that found out you were like into dude.

She was the one that is very open sexually, obviously. So we'd love to hear her voice. And, you know, with this, you know, the voiceover from her of the same story. And then, you know, she's going to not be able to book for a couple weeks anyway. But I think by the time she'll call in, you guys might have had your first experience or experiences, right? Yeah, that would be. Perfect, right? Yeah, that would be pretty awesome.

And then I'll get you the butter toy if that goes down. you know what I'm saying? Cool. You want to do that? Sounds good. All right, get her to book, okay,

but book like a month from now. So you have some time to meet the guy. Good luck with that whole experience. Okay, you're done. Yeah, it's pretty exciting.

It's, you know, definitely kind of strange, but we're excited about, you know, like moving forward. You must be really fucking excited, okay,

because like, I would think, like, you've been fantasizing about this. You had that like super charged experience when you're younger. You've been peggy, you've been,

you know, kind of having like you're you know the fantasy of it and everything and role playing it out but like to the fact that like the real thing is on the table now that's kind of major yeah yeah totally yeah so we need to know how that goes so keep me posted have your wife keep me posted okay we'll do all right awesome what did we call you again Ethan Ethan thanks so much for calling in you're going to get free access to my discord are you on there yet yeah actually I am a patreon subscriber so yeah I had to see some some of the people that like you're always like you want to see who I'm talking to. Isn't it interesting? Don't you think? It is. Yeah. It's always, you know, I'm definitely a visual person. So I like to put a body to the face. Put a body, put a body to the voice and stuff. And then if you go, I got to tell you I had some guy go on my discord the other day. And he was like, oh my God. I was like, you should be at do ads for my discord. He was like, I've never sexted so much with anyone in the for last 24 hours than when I've been on your discord for the last 24 hours. He's like, I've had my first buy experience on there. sexting with a man? I was like, oh my God, you want to do an ad for my discur? Because there's a lot of

crazy shit going on there. But, you know, you could go and post over there when your episode airs if you guys want to engage like that. If not, it's totally fine. But you'll see comments. Yeah, we'll see. I'm not sure. Yeah, I'm not to. We'll do that. But you don't have to, everyone else is doing it over there, though. That's that's the whole point. Right. It's pretty, pretty funny to be, you know, like watch from afar. Yeah, why not? Why not? I mean, you know, you're kind of into guys. There's a lot of big dicks. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. But like I had a dick pick contest on my discord. I don't know if you ever looked at those pictures.

And there's a whole buy channel there. And it's like, I'm like, wow, my listeners have the biggest dicks. Like every single picture was like a big dick. I was like, I couldn't believe it. And then we just have a boob contest that we had. And there's like 200 pictures and they all have great boobs. I was like, my fucking listeners are hot. Okay.

Like, that's what I got to say. So, and I'm sure you guys are hot too. But if you want to send me picks, you can. Okay. If you want to put some visuals of your wife, she knows you're calling in. You know, if you guys are down, that's great. If not totally cool, it's up to you.

But if you're going to send me that sooner than later and then make sure for your wife to book her call, okay? Cool. All right. Awesome. Thanks, Ethan. Thanks so much for calling in. And then, you know, also I do the butter thing when she, when I make that deal happen.

I'm talking to them today at four, okay? Awesome. All right. Thanks, Kathy. Appreciate it. No problem. Bye. Bye.

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