Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1356 - Brian is a Bull Who's in a Throuple with a Couple

Episode Date: February 3, 2026

Brian is a bull in a throuple with & he’s in a throuple with a couple and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why considers himself a sigma male, how and when and where he got into he lifestyle, the first hotwife event he attended and what went down, how he evolved from being a bull to being the stag with his new girl, how he got into banging couples when he came back to the states and where he’d find them, tips on how guy’s should act when hooking up with a couple, what a guy can do to get his wife into hooking up with a bull, how a couple should proceed at their first time at Splash Mocha,  how his family found out what he was into and how they reacted, how he met the couple he is in a throuple with and how their feelings for each other evolved, how he loves seeing the wife with other guys now, the ways the hotwife life can change a relationship and why he recommends it, how he helps couples the lifestyle plus a whole lot more. You can here him on his podcast here Bull Brotherhood GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors: ⁠⁠https://www.promescent.com/STRICTLY15⁠⁠ For 15% off Promescent's Delay Spray ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://learn.nocd.com/strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started ⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com⁠⁠⁠ Get the Butter massager and get 20% off your whole order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — To get 10% off DRIVE BOOST by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠PikaVibe.com/Strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Click to get $15 OFF your purchase Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠t Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you want to be on the show, it's called Strictly Anonymous because I change everybody's voices and everyone's name. So if you have an interesting, naughty secret life that you want to talk about while remaining anonymous or not anonymous, you could be on the show. So me an email, Strictly Anonymous podcast.com, or go to my website, strictly anonymous podcast.com and click on Beyond the show. If you have a naughty confession that you want to leave on my confessions hotline, you could call 247, the number C47, 4203. 5779. 3474-2-03579. Call in, leave a message. Some of those confessions, make it on to a confession's episode, and I talk about them.

The rest show up on my Patreon. My Patreon is a great place to join. Right now you could get in for just seven bucks a month, and you get for just seven bucks a month early and add free episodes, every single one of them. You also get access to every single confession that ever came into my line. plus you get all of the anonymous super hot R-rated picks of all of my guests, mostly. Every one of my female guests has set me in a hot pick of her. So if you want to put a body to an episode, they're all on my Patreon.

You also get Q&As that I do where I answer really personal questions. We do a lot of polls. But I think the best thing about my page on is you get access to my private Discord, which is a super fun community I have built. there's over 2,500 people on my Discord and everybody gets super naughty over there. You want to see pics and videos of not only my callers but also of other listeners. Well, that shit is all on my Discord. Like, you will not believe what's going down there.

There's tons of stuff. And what's great about my Discord is you get to interact with other like-minded people. So anyway, get all of that when you sign up to my Patreon. It's Patreon.com slash strictly non-me. Podcast. Now listen, I wrote a book. It's called Strictly Anonymous Confessions, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. It's on Amazon. It's on Simon & Schuster website. The link is in the description that you could get it. And then screenshot your purchase and send it to me at strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. That's strictly anonymous podcast at jemal.com.

And I'm going to hook you up and give you free access to my Discord. I think this is a really great deal. So if you want it, get my book. Send me the screenshot of your purchase to my email strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. So last thing I want to tell you about is if you are into the lifestyle or you want to learn about the lifestyle or you want to learn about all the, you know, swinger clubs or gang beings or swing or events that are going on in your area or you want to meet other swingers or you want to start having three sons yourself. Well, right now I could give you a free trial to SDC.SDC.com is like the world's largest adult dating website. Now, it's not just a dating site. It's so much more. You can find out about all the events,

the gangbings, the meetups, the hotel takeovers going on in your area, as well as anywhere else. This is cc.com. Use my code 37712 or just go to the description and click on the link and you're going to get a free trial to check it out. Okay, today I have on Brian. This Bill Brotherhood podcast I love the guys from that fucking podcast. They're so cool. They got the best voices. And you know, you really could tell that they're guys, Socrates and this guy, Brian, having talked about them,

but they're really sort of doing a podcast because they not only like playing the lifestyle, they really love the lifestyle. It's like their life and they really are interested in really like sort of educating people on it. We do get Brian's whole. And that's why you should check out their podcast. It's called the Bull Brotherhood podcast. But on this episode, I talked to Brian about his whole back. story, which is super interesting because he got into the lifestyle in Germany. He lived there for a long time,

and he became a bull back then, like kind of by accident. He talks all about that. When he came back here, he got into the lifestyle here. He had to relearn it all. And then he started to hook up a couples again, because that's what he was doing in Germany. And then eventually he started going to clubs and to splash mocha and he's kind of been there, done that. He's currently in a thruple with a couple. He's been with that couple for many years. We talked about how he met them. We talk about. We talk about, you know, how he navigates couples in the lifestyle, what he looks for in couples, what are red flags for couples. He talks about how couples could vet bulls and what they should do to get a bull and, you know, and all that kind of good stuff. Like I said, he's very into

educating others, so he gives so many great tips about the lifestyle and hot wiping and all that kind of good stuff. They talk more about all this stuff on in their podcast, the Bull Brotherhood podcast. I have pictures of him over my Patreon. You could see him and find their podcast at boldbrotherhood.com, but I'll put the links in the description. But anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Brian. Hey, Brian. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today? Hello, hello. How are you? Thank you for having me. No, thanks for coming on. You're going to mesomerize everybody with that voice of yours. You've already put me into a hypnotic state. I'm obsessed with your voice. And you know, all you guys, I mean, you're from the Bull Brother podcast, too.

I've talked to Socrates more than once. He's got the same kind of fucking voice. I love it. You are on that podcast We will put a link to your podcast Because you guys talk about all kinds of lifestyle Bull stuff and guy stuff Right today I'm going to get your life story About being in the lifestyle You are you do consider yourself a Sigma male

And I need you to explain what that is I always thought that there's only Alpha and Beta And before we get into your whole life story What the fuck is a Sigma male? Could you explain? Well a Sigma male Sits outside of the male hierarchy Okay, we all know what an alpha male is

He's a lion He's a king of a junk of the jungle. Well, a Sigma male is a tiger. Equally is powerful. Okay. But he never runs with a pack. That is why I am definitely the lone wolf or the introverted out, as I call myself. Now, although I do have my boys who you have talked to, from Socrates to Mr. Moka to Dimitri, and I think you talk to Michael C also, correct? Not yet. I don't think I've talked to Michael C yet. Okay, okay. But those are about that's about as many as you're going to ever see me with all right they they are the book they are the brotherhood and i love them all uh but even they say brian you are the lone wolf you're the

you're the you're alone yes yes are there sigma women are there sigma sigma female i think that's what i am you know what i do believe that there are sigma females i've heard some women uh actually talk about that, you know, or say, ask me the question. Yeah. You know, can't, can't, can't can't, you know, can't, yeah, interesting. And here again, you are, you are, you are a rare breed, if you are one. Yeah. Very rare breed. Yeah. Some people will call me a bitch or, like, annoying or, you know, opinionated, you know, and I'd say that's, you know, unfortunately, sometimes that's a rare breed for a woman, because if you're all those things, you know, you get some backlash if you are, right? Like women aren't supposed to be that way. And so,

you know, for God, so there's a beta, there's an alpha, there's a Sigma, or are there any other ones that I don't know about before I care your life story? Because I never heard of the Sigma. There are, there are others here again. I can't necessarily give you the definitions on them, but you have your gamma males and there's like two others. I can't remember what they are, but they are all in that male hierarchy. But as I said before, the Sigma, he's always outside of the triangle. He's right there beside the alpha. Do you have a partner? As far as what?

Like as far as relationships. I am actually involved in a thruple. Oh, okay. I love it because I wonder where a Sigma male likes to exist within a relationship. We'll find out. Don't ruin it. We'll get to your thruple. But let's go all the way back, Brian.

I like to sometimes get a snapshot of where you are now. How old are you? Like are your 40s, your 50s, your 30s? Like, how old are you now? I am the elder statesman of the brotherhood. And next Saturday of the good Lord lets me see it, I will be 59 years old. Oh, okay. Awesome.

Okay, so you're currently in a thruple. Let's go all the way back, though. Like, when did Brian get in the lifestyle? Brian got into the lifestyle while he was serving his country. No way. In the United States Army, I was actually 26 years old. Oh, my God. Oh, yeah.

Oh, yeah. That's a long time ago. Yes. Yes. is like 19, what, 94, 95, something like that. Yeah. Out of my 20 plus years serving, 14 of them were overseas in Germany.

And there, while I was there, I was, I met this beautiful 48-year-old Russian business woman. Oh, my God. I don't know if she's still alive today, but if she is, she would still be gorgeous to me. But I actually met her while detailing my car. at a car wash. And I'll make a long story short. I won't get all into the long details because I can really talk a lot about it. But thanks to her pretty little dog that got out of her car while she was

over there vacuuming her vehicle and made a beeline about 25 to 30 yards straight to my car and into my arms. I picked the dog up and I'm calling the dog chief. Like, you know, hey chief, how are you doing chief? Yeah. Well, here comes this beautiful. blonde with this dark color business suit on and had the prettiest set of legs with some fishnets black fishnet stockings on and some black pumps that I'd ever seen in my freaking life here again long story short we started talking but wait a second this is in Germany this is in Germany yes okay this is in Germany well listen there those you don't make hotter girls in Russians like those women are all fucking drop dead and

And if she's still alive, she's still dropped dead. They're all gorgeous, right? Yeah, exactly. How does she get you into the lifestyle? Well, here again, after we hooked up that night, it started to become kind of a regular thing. Yeah. And about, I'm going to say, a month after that, she took me to a party. She asked me to want to attend an event with her.

And I did. I met some people. Was it a sex party? It wasn't necessarily a sex party. It wasn't. It was just a regular like galley event. I mean, I had to dress up, you know, nice and everything. But I met some people there and I didn't, I hadn't started looking at German television at that time. But later on, I realized that some of the people that I met were actually on German television. So from there, we started going to events. I went to my first, I guess it was considered a hot wife event at the time. I mean, this is 1990. Like I said, this is 1994, 95. The terminology we didn't necessarily have then. We didn't have what a hot wife was.

Right. Or what a, you know, stag, vixen, we didn't have all that. Yeah. But I ended up going to a party. And it was about six or seven couples, very, very beautiful couples, and about four black gentlemen to include myself. Mm-hmm. And that was the first party that I ever attended. We were the entree as well as.

as well as, you know, dessert and everything else. For all the women that were there? Yeah. And they were all there with their husbands, and you don't realize this, but all their husbands wanted them to fuck you. They were there with the husbands. Yeah. And the husbands were all sitting around and watching,

and they were some of the happiest men that I had ever seen in my life. And I'm sitting there when it's over, we get back home. And she's looking to me like, are you okay? and I'm like, what the fuck does happen? You know, what was that? I've never been to anything like that before. Yeah. And that is how I got into the hot wiping lifestyle

and I became a bull. Yeah, that's crazy. Because, you know, listen, I wonder if it was more prevalent over there in Germany before it hit over here. Because Germans are very open-minded when it comes to sex, way more than Americans.

Europeans come over here to events and although they do enjoy them, Yeah. They say, they will tell somebody, especially if they hear somebody maybe speaking some German or, you know, they sense that you have been in service. Yeah. They'll let you know, we enjoyed it. But if we had this party overseas, you know, how it would be. And that's just how it is.

They are so uninhibited. Exactly. No shame. No shame whatsoever. Yeah. Of course, you know, the interracial has been going on forever over there. I mean, they, you know, they just love black men all over. Yeah.

And, I mean, they just wonderful. You know, had it not been for something happening and I had to come back to the United States, I was still, yes, I still be there right now. Yeah, I remember in my drinking days when I used to like fuck around with all different people, I used to have this one German friend who was here writing for magazine. And I'd always call them up like, oh my God, I fucked this person. That person last night, I can't believe. And he'd be like, I don't understand why you care so much, Kathy. Like in my country, nobody would give a shit. Like he was always like, you made me feel better.

He didn't understand like all this nonsense because we were so uptight compared to everybody else when it comes to sex. Especially for women. But even the women there are so much more open-minded. Oh, God, yes. Yes. They take charge if you're at a club or if they see you in the gym. Yeah. They will come up to you.

If they like what they see, they will come up to you. They will start a conversation. Do you think it's because maybe they don't have like that whole term for like women like, oh, you're sluts and everything? Like there's so much of that that goes down here. I think that's what inhibits women the most. Maybe they just don't have that kind of wording out there, and they never put that on women. So women could just be into sex, like, you know, men are.

Do you know, in all of my years there, which were 14, I didn't, I never encountered where I heard a lot of men saying, you know, calling their women. Yeah, yeah. I didn't. I didn't encounter that. Here again, they just think they love sex. Yeah, men and women. They're just open and they want, you know, they like what they like.

And when they have sex, it is so, shoof, it's passionate, it is volcanic. Yeah. It is, I mean, when you finish, you're like, God, damn, I'm tired. You know what I mean? You're like, God, I love this shit. You know, and over there, a marriage, it's almost like the husband is maybe expected to have, say, a mistress on the side. And maybe, you know, the wife has a boyfriend also, you know what I mean? So here again, there's your hot wifing right there or maybe some swinging or whatever.

But you have that. You have that over there. And there's not the first issue whatsoever if the wife has, you know, the black boyfriend. Yeah. I mean, the husband is expecting that. Wow. He really is. Hey, guys, this Valentine's Day want to last longer in bed without having to worry about lasting longer

in bed and waiting for your girl to come? Well, let me tell you, every girl loves it when her guy comes at the same time as her. At least I know I do. That is like the best thing ever. And that's why you need to check out Promescence delay spray. Okay. Their delay spray is clinically proven to make you less longer in bed without totally numbing you out. And it's not going to transfer to your partner. They have a delay spray and they also have delay wipes. Okay. They also have a new product called Go Solo, which is a lotion that guys could use to masturbate that never goes away.

Okay, you never need more. Just put some on, start doing your thing and you're good to go. They also have a whole line of women's products. They also have a great killer supplement called Vitaflex. This is going to make both you and your partner more horny. and they also sell sex choice for both men and women. I totally recommend Promescent products and my listeners do too. I have heard back from so many of my listeners who have absolutely loved it.

So what are you waiting for? Go get yourself some promescent. All you got to do is go to promesson.com slash strictly 15. And you're going to get 15% off your whole order. That's promescent.com slash strictly 15. go there now for 15% off or the best thing to do is just go to the description and click on the link and 15% off is going to be automatically applied at checkout. Okay, guys, I got something that you need to get because Valentine's Day is fast approaching.

And that is Blue Chew Gold. Blue Chewold is new, okay? It is the newest innovation from the number one chewable. ED brand Blue Choe. Okay. Blue Choo Gold has two ingredients for blood flow to keep you hard and they added in apomorphine and oxytocin to turn up the arousal and connection in your brain and body. This is like a full stop. And the good news is blue chew gold dissolves under your tongue and works in as little as 15 minutes. That means you could get it on quicker and stay in the game longer. Okay. So what are you waiting for with Valentine's Day fast approaching?

Go check out Blue Chew Gold. The process to get it is always super simple. All you got to do is sign up at Bluetooth.com. You're going to talk to one of their licensed medical professionals. And once you're approved, you're going to get your blue chew gold delivered right to your door in a very discrete package. You don't have to go to the doctor's office to get it. You don't have to go wait in line at a pharmacy. Okay.

Make your life easier by getting harder. and discover your options at bluchu.com. And I've got a special deal from my listeners. Get 10% off your first month of bluechew gold with code strictly anon. That's promo code strictly anon. Visit bluchu.com for more details and important safety information. And I thank Bluchu for sponsoring the podcast. So, you know what I mean?

So here again, there's your hot wishing right there or maybe some swinging or whatever. But you have that. You have that over there. And there's not, and not the first issue whatsoever if, if the wife has, you know, the black boyfriend. Yeah. That's, I mean, the husband, the husband is, is expecting that. Wow. He really is.

Isn't that crazy? Were you blown away, though, as like a young guy to realize that, like, there was, like, because, listen, I didn't realize that there were so many guys into watching their girls, fuck other guys, until I started doing my show. And that was, like, one of the first things that came up, because I was getting colors from Craigslist. because I started podcasting like 11 years ago. And I always say this. Like I had a lot of guy friends that I was very open to about sex.

And not one of them ever told me or cop to the fact that they want to see their girl, fuck other guys. So it was very new to me. Even when I had like my first caller who called in and talked about hot wifing, you know, back in the day 11 years ago, I was like shocked because to me it was like so backwards. Like typically like guys are so possessive over their girls. The last thing they want is for their girl to fuck another guy.

But it turns out so many guys are into it. Like weren't you surprised? that all these husbands were like happy watching you fuck their girls? I think a lot of husbands and boyfriends now are really coming around and saying I am enjoying watching my better at watching my better. And here again, I'm talking about myself now too since I've been involved with, you know, with, and I can say her name on the show, Lindsay. Yeah. She's my baby girl and her husband, Philip. But since I've been involved with Lindsay, I have evolved so much now.

I have evolved into that guy who really wants to see her just have an absolute ball. Right. And she knows how to go out and pick quality guys. As a matter of fact, she just fucked my best friend a few weeks ago. And I sat there and Philip was on one bed and I was in a church. chair and we watched them do their thing and it was freaking exciting. I mean, we took pictures and recorded the whole nine yards, you know, and it was so damn hot to watch. Yeah, but it's kind of interesting because you're saying that you evolved into this. So you're saying like back in the day,

even though you're like fucking these guys' wives, you couldn't imagine being the guy though back that. No, no, no, no, no, back that little young 20, 30 something, I was like, oh man, And if I had a wife or a girlfriend, somebody banging her out like I'm doing her right now, no, I don't think I can handle that. You know, I don't think I could handle it. And I knew I wouldn't have been able to handle it back. I knew I wouldn't. But now, though, you know, Socrates and I always talk about the evolution, the evolution, as you get older, you know, being a bull, you're going to change.

And now, you know, here I am in my late 50s, almost 60 years old. I have definitely changed now. I still love to play. Don't get me wrong. I love to play. But I can go to an event now with them and unleash her and sit back. I might play three or four times in a four-day period. And I'm fine. You know what I mean? But to watch her do her thing and even to talk to other people now about the life. It's very seldom that I say lifestyle. Because to me, this is the life that I live and love 24-7. So I always say the life, you know. And I love talking to others. But it's interesting that you, you know, you live that life over in Germany for 14 years and for some reason you had to come back. When you hit the United States again, like how did you get into the lifestyle here? Because that's a whole different scene.

I didn't know. I didn't really know that it existed here at first. Yeah. What happened was here again, my best friend, he and I touched base again after a little while. And he said, man, he's like, let me tell you what's going on out here. So he tells me about this hot wiping deal. And he was on a couple of sites, i.e. SLS, swing lifestyle, SDC, etc. So I looked at his profile and he was like, man, let me hook you up a profile.

I was like, well, okay, cool. So he did that on SLS. And I was able to get some hits pretty quick from couples and some single ladies. Yeah. But I was more intrigued by the couples. You know, let me see what you're all about. Yeah. Now they were, I had some hits and I had some misses.

I had some good times. And then I had some that I was like, okay, maybe your pictures are like a few years old. It's not to say, you know what I mean? Yeah. But I'm still very, very nice. Very, very nice. Yeah. But that is, that was how I got started back here.

I didn't know anything about the other events like, you know, Splash, Moke or anything like that until later, until later on. But you went on to the sites. I always say I have a free trial code for SDC. If everyone wants to use the 377.1,2, you could join. But those are like the popular ones, SLS, SDC, there's Cassidy. You got on. And because you were used to like screw, like you knew about the whole hot

wiping thing from being in Germany, that's why you got into, like, you were looking for couples then. Yes, I was with couples. I mean, like I said, I would take, I would take, you know, a gorgeous single, you know, unicorn. Woman too, yeah. But that is very, very rare. That's few and far between right now. I really do like to spend time with, with couples.

Yeah. And how do you roll? I mean, I know that like, you know, being a bull, you know, there's, you don't just, it's not just about finessing the girl and, you know, banging her out. Like, you mean, you have, you need to like, make friends with the guy, right? I mean, there's an art to it, correct? Oh, absolutely. And let me say this. And I'm speaking not only to you, but I'm speaking to,

the guys. Yeah, some of the bulls that hear this. Gentlemen, whether it is the first time meet and greet or it is the 100th time that you have done a meeting greet with a couple, never ever go into that situation thinking about having sex. Right. Interesting. Never. Never ever. You are there to, first of all, Be courteous. Yeah. Be kind.

Please be on time. Okay, if you tell somebody that's going to be there at 2 o'clock, be there at 1.45, sit there, I actually watch them walk in and then come in out of the down. Yeah. All right. But get to know the couple. Give a brief description of who you are and then become the greatest listener in the world. Yeah.

All right? Because you want to know everything that they are comfortable telling you at the beginning. And then you want to be able to blend in, okay? Because believe me, they've already discussed exactly who they're looking for. What type of bull they're looking for, height, weight, et cetera, how they want them to dress, blah, blah, blah. That's why they chose me. Okay? So I'm just coming in there.

I'm just trying to blend in, make them feel good, make them feel comfortable. If they're veterans and, you know, they immediately want to, and, you know, hey, we don't need to talk. and you're ready to do this. Still, find out the do's and don'ts. Okay? Find out what they want to do. Find out what they do want to do, et cetera. They have a very, very good rapport with that husband.

Okay. Don't sit here and think that the wife is mine now. You know, I don't have to talk to you anymore. No, no, no, no, no. I'm there to make both of them happy. And what I mean by both of them happy is I want to make her happy physically, as well as, you know, some emotionally. And, but I want him to look at me and be like,

that guy right there just took my wife and he did three things. He respected her, protected her, and then he loved her. I mean, these are all really important things. Because that's what a lot of guys get the, get wrong, right? Yes. Yeah. And how did you learn that just by being with so many couples? Do you know what?

This is going to sound crazy. Yeah. I have a 90-year-old father who is still living. And I have watched one of the greatest. One of the greatest, I'm not going to call him a bull or anything like that because he's been married to my mom for 60 years. But I have watched one of the greatest alpha slash sigma guys around. And he taught me, he taught me a whole lot. And I have listened.

I've learned. and I've applied those principles that he taught me, and it has turned me into what I am today. Yeah, I love that. So it helped you. Little did he know he was grooming you to be a bull at SplashMilke. I had no clue. I had no clue.

If your mom only knew. Well, she does know. Oh, she does? Okay, we'll get to that. Wow. Let me say this. My family, my parents, along with my sister, my daughter, and my aunt's, know of my life. You're kidding.

They know, yes. How do they know? You told them they found out. Like, how do they know? Well, I came back from Splashmoker Atlanta. This was three years ago. And, of course, you know, I had my little accessory bag from there. What's an accessory bag?

Oh, just like your travel bag? Yeah. Yeah, just a travel bag. And I had some, you know, some Splashmoker items in there and everything. So I noticed that. Excuse me, what are splash mocha items? Condoms, lube. Like, what are you talking about?

Yeah, condoms, lubes. I mean, just different, you know, just different things. Okay. And I noticed that my bag had kind of not been looked through, but, you know, I know how they are. You know, if they see something sitting around, they might look through it. So one day everybody's kind of sitting in the TV room. and my sister and my mom both asked. They were like, well, what is this event that you go to in Atlanta?

Oh, my God. So I just said it rather than to tell them what the event is, I was like, y'all, do you want me to tell you about my life? And they all looked at each other. They were like, oh, Lord, you know, yeah. Okay. And I told them. I came out. I told them.

Well, I asked the question, do you all know anything about the term called hotwifing? And I was like, Google it right now and read it. Well, my sister Googled it. My aunt, she and my aunt looked at each other. They were like, what? Oh, my God. And from there, it became one of the best two hours and some change conversations that a family could ever have. Oh, my God.

The answer to have a million questions. I told them everything. I told them absolutely everything. From there, my daughter, she got the, she, she found out about it through me. And she, now that was the one that was like, I knew. She said, I knew. How old was your daughter? My daughter's 38.

Okay. So she was like I always knew. What about her mother? Like, was her mother in the lifestyle with you? Say what now? Her mom? Yeah. No.

No, no, no, no. Okay. No, her mom. But the mom didn't tell her. No. No, I mean, no. I'm not married. I'm not married.

No, but you had, that woman that you had sex with and had a baby with, I mean, did she know you were in the lifestyle and you were bull and living as well? Oh, no. Okay, so she never knew. No, she didn't know. But the daughter knew. My daughter put it together. She put it together. Because she, she used to ask me, she was like, okay, you're over in Germany. Do I have a little sister over there? At the time, she didn't, but now she does have one. Okay, guys, I got to tell you about the best supplement. ever that's not only going to boost your sex drive, but also increase your overall experience in the bedroom naturally. And that is VB Health's drive boost. Drive boost is not some sketchy supplement. Okay. It is doctor formulated with four science backed ingredients specifically made for sex drive that are safe and effective. And it's not just safe and effective for you. It's safe and effective for your girl too. For women, drive boost contains several ingredients that have been shown to mitigate some symptoms of perimenopause and menopause. And for men, it's going to boost your sex drive and overall experience. And the good news about drive boost is it works super

fast. Some people see results within one to two days of taking drive boost with most people seeing results after just one to two weeks of daily use. So if you want to naturally enhance your libido and sexual desire, as well as your girls, then go get yourself some dry boost from VB health. They also have other supplements. They have load boosts that's going to increase your sperm and make it taste better. And they also have a supplement for women called soaking wet. Okay. So what are you waiting for? Go check out VB Health and get yourself some drive boost. All you got to do is go to VB.B.com health and use code strictly to get 10% off drive boost. That's vb.health. Use my code strictly or I made it really easy for you.

All you have to do is go to the description and click on the link and use my code strictly at checkout. Okay, guys, I want to give yourself or your partner like the best orgasm ever. Guess who have called into my show have said that prostate orgasms are like the best orgasm ever. And that's why for this Valentine's Day, you should get yourself or, your partner, a butter wellness paranium massager. The reason why I love their massager is because it is designed to only be used externally. Okay. There is no need to put anything inside of you. All you got to do is take the butter massager and use it right on the outside of your taint. And if you don't know where your taint is, it is that super sensitive landing strip in between your balls and your asshole. I just

taped a guy who said that he had been trying to have a prostate or a girl. for a long time and tried so many twice, and then he got the butter wellness massager, and it was the one that sent him over the edge. Okay, now listen, the butter wellness perineum massager is not only going to give you stronger orgasms, it's also going to help combat ED and promote prostate health by increasing blood flow to your pelvic region. And their massager is not only great for guys, okay? Your girl could use it.

I have a massager, and I use it as a vibrator. It is very powerful. Okay, and right now, Butter Wellness is having their Valentine's Day sale and offering my listeners 30% off your whole entire order when you use my code strictly at checkout. That's Butter Wellness, B-U-T-T-E-R-W-E-L-N-E-S-S dot com. Use my code strictly at checkout for 30% off your entire order. So make sure to order up. But the daughter knew.

My daughter put it together. She put it together. Because she used to ask me, she was like, okay, you're over in Germany. Do I have a little sister over there? At the time, she didn't. But now she does have one. What do you mean? You didn't know?

You didn't know? I mean, did you go back to Germany? No, no, no, no. I found out a little bit later that. You did have one. Yeah, I do have a child over there. Okay. I have two beautiful, I have two beautiful daughters.

And my oldest, she was just like, tell me about Germany. Tell me. So I just told her. I told her how beautiful Germany was and I told her exactly what I was into. And she was like, I knew it. I knew it. You know, nothing, nothing like phases her with me, you know. She does her death.

She herself is very, very sexual. So she was like, I got it from somewhere. She's got your jeans. She was like, I got it from somewhere, so I know now. You know, I know. And your mom and her parents were and your aunts and everyone was accepting. Obviously. Yeah.

Yes. When you got back to the States, like, you know, because I know that you're in a thruple now. Like what was your dating life? Like when you get like heavily into like hooking up with women. I mean, hooking up with couples and stuff. Did you have any desire to be in a relationship at all during that time when you were like in the lifestyle back in the States? At that time when I came back here, I was still that same footloose, fancy, free. Of course, you're a young guy that I was.

Well, I was at that time when I came back, I was, like, 43. So I wasn't that young. Okay, I wasn't that young. But I had stuck. But here again, I had started to evolve some. I started to evolve. It was new when I first got back in 2010. Uh-huh.

It was still new to me. You know what I mean? Because I'm back in the States now. I'm like, you know, what does the States have to offer comparative? Germany. Yeah. So I was still, I was meeting couples, but I was having a good time. Actually, I would say dissecting the couples more, you know, learning more about them. What makes them tick. Like, tell me how the lifestyle has, has enriched and, you know, enhanced your marriage. I had never asked questions like that before, but I was beginning to ask them questions like

that and I noticed that couples were enjoying, like having conversations with me. So I kind of like took it to that, to that level. You know, I, when I got on black to white, I got on black to white and I started writing in the form. What's black to white? An interracial like website? Yes, black to white is an interracial website, really, really known, really known around here. And, you know, ones go up there. You have a bit more up there. You got a whole lot of kink on that site, a lot of taboo type of stuff. But I started writing in the form. And people started responding. Couples started responding. And I'm introducing myself as, you know, Brian Morgan to Sigma-Mail. And one person was like, is that your real name? I said, yes, that is my real name. And they were like, why do you, you know, why do you use your

name? I said, because I live this life 24-7 to the fullest. And if you ask me who I am, who Brian Morgan is, Brian is going to tell you exactly who he is. And obviously you were fully immersed. To be going on to that site and also wanting to blog about it and stuff like, you were really committed to this lifestyle. Yeah.

Yeah. Yes. Extremely. Extremely committed to it. That was what brought about the Bull Brotherhood when I met Socrates and Siren. Nephew, as I call him. Nephew had 50 million questions about

not only the life, but myself. Yeah. You know, he was like, he said, dude, I've never met, you know, kind of like somebody like you. And he says, you know, I might be, but he might be a Sigma also. And I said, man, there are probably a lot of guys out there who are trying to be alphas. Yeah. But they don't realize that I'm messing up because I'm not being myself.

Mm-hmm. And that's another thing that bulls have to realize and learn first and foremost, be, who you are. Don't go out here because you see somebody else at an event acting in a certain way and you think you have to, you know, imitate, I mean, emulate what that guy's doing. No, don't do that. If you are that quiet type, I call it a quiet assassin. If you know how to, if you know how to read a room, go walk around the room, let them see you maybe two or three times, then go over there to a corner, get your favorite beverage and sit there. Okay. People are going to be like, okay, who is that guy right there.

He's not really talking to anybody. If somebody comes up, he has a conversation. He's smiling. He's very, very approachable. He looks the part. You know, I want to know who this person is. That's what a Sigma male does. Let me ask you, though, because you know who's listening a lot to my episodes are a lot of guys who want their girls to haunt wife as well, you know?

Like, what would you say to the guys, you know, like as the husbands? Like, what should the husbands do and not do? you know, I know you said you had some good experiences, some bad experiences. Communicate, communicate, communicate. The guys. Yes. Yes, you cannot have enough conversations about what the both of you want out of this life. Yeah.

Not just you. This isn't about you, husband. This is about her also because that's your queen. That is your best friend. All right. She's everything to you. So you want the both, both of you. guys need to be on the same page before you ever seek out a bull. And a good bull, he could he should be

able to have a conversation with you, whether it's texting or you call on the phone or whatever. You should be able to like hear or see what that injured, what that husband is writing. And you'll be like, okay, you guys maybe need to talk a little bit more about this. Yeah. You know, you may need to talk a little bit more before you, you know. At this point, because you've been doing it for a long enough, you could tell if a couple of you need to, yeah, I'm sure, I'm sure. Exactly.

And definitely do not, if you like to go to events or you think you want to try an event, go to something small first and work your way up. Don't be like one couple that I had who I actually talked to them for maybe a week. And the next, and I just happen to bring up Splash Moka. And the next thing I know he is telling me that they're coming to Splash Moka. Oh, yeah. I was like, oh my God, you're going to the Super Bowl before you can go to the regular season. Whenever somebody brings up Splash Moca on my podcast episode, like I get like four emails.

And that's a lot, you know, like literally like, where could I find out about Splash Moka? Where do they have it? Like, you know what I mean? So I could see somebody just like running there. But like you're saying, maybe that's not the best place to start. Yes. I'm telling you. If you do come to the event, just come as a spec.

dictator, okay? Walk around, see what's going on. Believe me, the other couples are going to know that you're new. They're going to welcome you into the family. They want to talk to you. You want to get to know you. And then slowly go from there. Don't come there and just be overwhelmed by, you know, the huge hotel that is filled to capacity with all these couples and all these beautiful guys that are walking around, you know, different shades and everything like that. that it will blow your mind. It will blow your mind. And if you guys have not, like I said, really sat down and discussed exactly what you want in this life. What you want in this life. If you haven't discussed it, then you need to put it in reverse and come back and talk.

Or you can find somebody like me who does not mind talking with you. And helping you along the way. Let me ask you this. How did you wind up in a thruple? I mean, you've been, there's so much, I don't know where to go because to stay chronologically, you have like 30 years involved in the lifestyles. But like, how do you wind up in a thruple with this couple that you're in right now? Well, I tell you what, my, my Lindsay, she was scrolling through. She said it was the, I want to say it was the, either the messenger or it was some site.

Oh, telegram. It's a telegram. It's a telegram site that we have. And she was scrolling through it. and she actually saw my name. She saw Brian. She was like Brian Morgan. She was like, well, okay, now this guy's not using, you know,

dick him down, 27 or, you know, some username, you know what I wonder. I wonder is that his real name. And then she said she clicked on it. And my picture popped up. And she was like, okay, is this real? So she reached out. And we chatted. She said, she actually said that that was the first time.

that she had reached out to anyone. Usually, a Philip or husband did all the reaching out and talking. But we actually talked for a while and set up where I went down to see them. And it was one of the best meats that I ever had. And that's saying a lot because you probably had a lot of meats up into that point, right? Yeah. Yeah. What made it's so good?

There's definitely like certain things that I'm looking for, you know, when I meet a couple. certain questions that I expect to be asked maybe and and and I'm looking at body language and how you guys are you know as a couple do you really like is this really what the both of you want you know what I mean this can't be this can't be one-sided and they had played in the in the swing of world before and I think she had maybe had played with two two or three black guys and wanted to venture out into the hot wiping world so here again I I've I showed up we had a great time and I was thinking at first well maybe this is just going to be you know I come down every now and then and we we hook up and see each other but the chemistry was there the chemistry was there with with the two of us it was there with the three of us meaning like he's involved right so you're having threesomes with him he is he is the coolest husband you will ever want to meet he's the coolest husband and I am proud to call him my friend If he calls me and says, you know, Brian, I need you, I'm gone.

I'm just, I'm going. They are family. When I introduced them, if I introduce him on the podcast, and they have been on the podcast before you would hear me say, this is my family. Now, had they been with many bulls before you and you're just one of them that, like, stuck? Had they been what now? Say it again? With the other bulls before you.

I think, I think she had a good, you know, she had a good time with him. She's very sexual. So they had three sons with men before you, right? You weren't the first one. No, no, he actually likes to watch. Philip very much likes to watch. Yes, he likes to watch. Okay.

He's a stag. He very much likes to see her in bliss because she is. She is one when she gets going. I call it Energizer Bunny. And, you know, but she, when she met me, she met someone that, and I told her, I was like, I am going to, to, and I want to. it's to sound harsh and anything like that. But I told her, I was like, I'm going to claim, train, and own you.

And she thought that was hot. She thought that was hot. She thought that was hot. She thought that was hot. She thought that was hot. And that is what, that's what took place. And now, when you say you're in a thruple, I mean, do you guys have feelings for each other? Are they kind of polly them?

Or are you just like in a thruple in that like you're a member of their like, you know, relationship in that you have sex with his wife? Do you have feelings for her? Like how far does this Threple go? I wish she was on the other end of the line right now because she would quickly say that she is loved by two men. Okay. So it's like a Polly situation.

Yes, it is a Polly situation. Right. Interesting. And now did you start playing solo? How did it turn Polly? Because like it's one thing to just bring a guy in to fuck your wife, have a little compersion going on and everything. How did it wind up that he was okay for you guys to like, you know, for you to fall?

for her, for her to fall for you. Did you guys start playing solo? Well, they actually, they had a discussion about it. And she told me, she was like, I know he knows. Meaning knows that you guys are copping feelings for each other. Yeah, yeah. Okay. I know he knows.

And then they had a discussion about it. And then we all, what topped it off, what put the nail in the coffin was last year around my birthday. we all stepped out together to an event. We went out of town and we actually went to an NBA basketball game where the three of us were walking all hand in hand. She's in the middle and she had my right hand. She had his left hand and we were walking as that couple. I wonder how many people knew exactly what the fuck was going on at you guys. Oh my God.

Let me tell you this. Yeah. We went to a little cafe for breakfast. the next morning after the game. And, of course, she's sitting beside me. And Philip is sitting across in the booth. Well, the young man that was helping us, he just had a smile on his face. And he was looking at me.

And I, of course, you know, being the Southerner that I am, you know, hey, how you doing? You know, everything okay today. And he was like, man, I'm fine, but I ain't doing like you doing. Oh, my God. He knew exactly what was going on. They do. Yeah. Because here's a white couple with this black guy.

Now, what happened at that time? I think you were going someplace with that story. Like at that, was that when it was solidified that you guys were falling for each other and you all admitted it or something? Yeah. Yeah. After, after we went to the game.

Yeah. And of course, you know, what, we were out. We were out in public together like that for people to see. And, you know, I'm holding her hand. And then, like I said, Philip is right there. And one's looking. And they were like, okay, I know I've heard about it, but I've never seen it. You know what I mean?

Yeah. But there we were out in public. And when they came to their conclusion that they were going to be like, this is, you know, this is what we want. And I was like, yeah, because I'm, I'm feeling it. And I had never felt it before. For any of the other wives, but it was something about her. No, there was something about her. There was something about her.

She wanted to know, and she asked me, she said, I want to know who Brian is. Yeah. She said, I know the soldier. I know the cop. She was like, I know the bull. But she was like, can I, can I see Brian? She wanted to get deeper. And no one had ever asked me, no one had ever asked me that before.

Yeah, yeah. So that just shows that she's not looking like, that's going beyond sex. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And that's when things like that start to happen.

Listen, it's a good, listen, I, because I talk to couples all the time that are like opening up the relationship. And like if I was talking to this girl and her husband, I might have been worried like, whoa, watch out. You know what you're like your girl's falling for this guy. But it's amazing that,

you know, he was able to roll with it and, you know, their relationship stayed intact and everyone's happy and you're in a drop. Because sometimes that happens and the woman leaves her husband for the bow. I've heard that story.

It's a bad one. Here again, though, if that bull, if that bull is doing what he's supposed to do and he needs to, when that happens and the feelings start, that's when you, you and the wife have your sit down

along with the husband. Like you guys did. And you let that husband know, no matter what feelings we may have, I am still on the outside looking in. This is your marriage. So you gave him that, you gave him that security

is what you're saying. Oh, absolutely. And he knows I would never ever disrespect. I'll never disrespect that. See, that's where the relationship between the husband and the bull is it comes into playing is so important and a lot of times the reason why those kinds of situations go wrong is the guy and a lot of times it's when he's like an extreme cuck you know he he becomes so disconnected from the actual situation and

allows his girl to go play and everything and he's into denial and all the stuff that it doesn't be he's not involved as much anymore you know what I mean and it really needs for the it to still be about the couple together and it sounds like they are very intact and you're just like a part of their relationship too now, which is great. How long you've been seeing them for? We just hit what June will be three years. Wow. So you've been together, but you love seeing her fuck other guys.

Do you do gang bangs and stuff? Like what is the kind of stuff that you like when it comes to sex? You know, do you know what? When we attend Splash Moka in April, it is the weekend of her birthday. Oh, wow. So I am, she doesn't know it yet, but I am going to try to arrange a little something special. For her. You mean like a gang bang?

Yeah. Yeah, some select guys who I know that are going to, you know, they know they are, they are know what they're doing and they know how like I said to respect her protect her and then love her. You know, so a great time. Because I tell you what, I do love reclaiming her. I love, I love reclaiming her. Oh, God, yeah. Man, after she gets fucked really well, you know, and she's still what I call dick drunk.

Yeah. And then I come down and I'm like, okay, now I'm going to turn it up three times harder than what he just did. Yeah, but isn't that interesting now? You could kind of see it from the husband's perspective. Yes. Which maybe you never could before, right? I had never seen it before like I'm looking at it now. Yeah.

Never ever. Yeah. Never ever. So you don't, and because a lot of times I remember when I first started doing a lot of hot wiping episodes, you were like, oh, what kind of man would let his girl fuck other guys or they see it as weakness or whatever? But like, really, that's not what's happening. especially now you could see it too. Like that guy that's allowing his wife.

I mean, he's got to be very secure to be able to do something like that. It's like the opposite of what people think. First of all, I have met some of the happiest and most secure couples ever. And for that man to be able to sit back and encourage his wife to go out there and have the best time. Okay, I would be disappointed if she came back and said, you know, well, that wasn't quite, you know, up to par. I would be very, very disappointed. Not only, not only, more at myself than the bull, because I've, I have, I have really, like, taught her, like, what quality, what that quality bull, you know, not only looks like, but how he should, you know, act, etc. So she knows now, you know, what that is. So, you know, when she seeks out one and, you know, gives me that look, I'm like, hey, let's make a happen. Yeah.

Because, listen, if you're into compersion like the guys are now, you want her to see her in total bliss. So you want her to have the best time ever, you know. Total bliss. I'm telling you, I want everything. I want a squirting. I want her just every damn thing, just, you know, gone. Like I said, dick drunk. That's what I call it.

Yeah. You know. And how is she with you with other women? I'm assuming you still see other couples as well and go to Splash Moka and fuck around to do whatever you want as well, correct? Do you know what? Last year's Atlanta Splash Moka, I went there with the intentions of just being the boyfriend because that was my test. I knew if I could see her and me just kind of like chill and just talk to people. I knew that I could do this.

Yeah. So that was my test. That was my big test. I was able to watch her. She did play, you know, with some quality guys and stuff. And I was able to just be like, hey, I'm loving this. I mean, she played with guys. She had one of the greatest lesbian sessions I had ever seen in my freaking life. That just turned me to hell on. And, oh, my goodness. I don't even, I can't even talk about it. Why not? It was that. Oh, my God. It was volcanic. It was volcanic. If you think I love watching her take dick, if she's fine. Okay. First of all, she's very, very submissive with men, but she's also bisexual. And she is a dominant bisexual with women. Right. But she met another dominant bisexual woman.

Beautiful. Absolutely drop dead. Beautiful. And I'm saying to myself, okay, this is, this is going to be damn interesting. You know what I mean? I have two dominant women here that are obviously attracted to each other. Somebody's going to have to give. Yeah.

So I am actually watching, I'm watching them play. and she gives me a look and I looked at her, I said, let go. And she let go and let the other woman take her. And boy, was it beautiful. Wow. Oh, my God, it was so damn beautiful. Oh, my goodness. No, you go ahead.

No, you go ahead. Keep going. No, I'm just saying it was just so hot to, you know, to watch that, to watch her in both of those elements, you know, with the guy and then with the girl. Listen, you must really also like her too, because there's no way that you haven't seen a lot. a lot of girl on girl. Like, you've sort of seen it all, right? For that to be like one of your hottest lesbian sex experiences,

like you must really like like her too on top of everything else, right? Because I would assume you've seen a lot of girl on girl action guy. Like, you've seen it all, right? I have seen, I have, you name it, I have pretty much seen it. I've pretty much seen it. And now I'm not, you know, I'm not by or gay or anything like that. But I have, you know, anything else, I have probably done it. Yeah.

I've probably done it. So that's why I'm to that point now where, you know, like I said, the evolution of the Sigma male, you know, I'm just, as Socrates can say it, I was like, dude, you're on another, kind of like another level now. Yeah. Because now it's like I'm really wanting to speak with couples, you know what I mean? I really want to speak with couples. And that's why we have the Bull Brotherhood podcast and we're out there.

are seeking quality gentlemen to become brothers of the brotherhood, but we're also out there where we want to meet just all types of hot wife couples. We want to meet everybody. And what do you want to meet them for? Give a shout out because that's who's listening right now. Oh, God. We're here to discuss how this life can change your life. Right. Can change your marriage. If you haven't maybe, maybe it's kind of done. dull in the bedroom now, you know, you've been with each other for a long time, but you still love each other. You love each other very, very much. You're not going anywhere, but you need a little spark. Yeah. We need that little spark. All right. Let me, let me talk to you about what hot

wife can do for you. All right. Yeah. If the two of you both have fantasies, but are afraid to tell the other one, and that's something that's big. I know. That's very big. There's always, there's always a husband who has a fantasy. And there's a. And there's a friend. And They will ask me, well, how do I get my wife to, you know, to, dude, you might be, you might be shocked when you ask the question. Or if you bring up, you know, the topic, you might be shocked by what you get in return. So many times that's the case. Yeah. I guarantee you she has fantasized, especially when it comes to interracial sex.

I bet you she is, she has fantasized by having a black cock inside of her. All right? Let me tell you this. I went to a mocha a few years ago and I came back to the job that I was working at the time. And I had told a couple of the ladies in the office about what I do. Well, when I came back, there were three more ladies, five total that were in the office and I told them about Splash Moka. Oh my God. Did they sit there and they had a million questions?

and one of the ladies later on pulled me to the side and was like, do you think I could, do you think I could ask my, you know, like ask my husband or like talk to, talk to my husband about that? Yeah. I just do it. Yeah. Just do it. Don't sit here and think about it.

Just do it. Okay. I said, you'll be surprised. You'll be surprised. And that's what's wrong with, you know, with a lot of marriages and a lot of couples now. the honesty and the open-mindedness isn't there. I know, and I have so many great newbie stories and, you know, and guys who have played the long game and got there and finally did do what you said

and just brought up like their fantasy and like a domino effect, you know, so many years later, it's actually happening in real life and you wouldn't believe those stories. And I love those kinds of stories because a lot of times, like I said, it's not like the movies where a guy says it and the girl's like, oh my God, I'm horny and like they're out. fucking another guy the next night, right? You got to play it the right way. But it all starts with just putting things on the table and being honest.

And, you know, so many guys that have taken that chance have wound up it, you know, sort of paying that forward. Like, like, you know, for that really sort of paying off for them, you know. And I have so many episodes like that that start off with that. And that is a big and poor thing. And just because your girl says, no, I would never do it. And she thinks it's a trap. And, you know, the more you talk about it and the more you communicate to her about it.

And the more you educate her about it, like so many women could, you know, get into it. And then before you know it, oh, my God, they never look back. And like I said, I have those stories on my show all the time. What do you do to explain to people like what more, like what kind of info they could get from the Bull Brotherhood podcast, like why they should check it out. Like what kind of episodes you have over there? Well, like I said, we just started this and we've done. Oh, you did? How long ago did you start your podcast?

Oh, we started for it. It's been several months. Hasn't been a year or anything like that. Okay. But we have started and you can go to, what is it, Spotify? Yep. And you can also go on YouTube and you can catch some episodes up there. Well, I'll put a link for people driving to your podcast.

So people don't have to remember, but it is called the Bull Brotherhood podcast. They can probably ride at any place where they listen to podcasts as well as on YouTube. Google it one word the bull brotherhood.com and we'll pop up yeah yeah pop up yeah that is myself i.e. the Sigma male and that is my nephew the one and only Socrates and also his beautiful lovely wife siren oh yeah she's coming up on my I already have her tape too oh yeah oh yeah she has a Siren of Freedom podcast and it is awesome yeah that that is they are an awesome couple to talk to they have they are new to the hot wifing episode you know to the hot wifing life yeah but they have been around they've been around though for a while so you can talk to them about anything oh yeah

they were full lifestyle people too yeah yeah they are lifestyle they are a true lifestyle couple yeah so all of you guys involved in that podcast and stuff have been immersed in the lifestyle for so So who better than to, you know, sort of talk about it and help other people to get into it than you guys. To the main ones who I said, to the names that I said, yeah, everybody, everybody's a veteran. Yeah, I brought up to Socrates recently and I always said like, you know, I talk to everybody in the ethically non-monogamous community. I talked to, you know, swingers, vixen, stags, hot wives, bulls, you know, and I'll talk to the hot wife. I'll talk to the husband and I'll talk to the bull. And I always think that the Bull episodes are so important to listen to because I feel like these are the guys that are really giving like so much information for people to listen to.

Like just, you know, for any guy that really wants his wife to get into this lifestyle, you guys are the ones that could help them the most. And that is. Yeah. And that's why they should tune in because you gave some really great points on my podcast right just here. But on your podcast, that's what you're always talking about, correct? And that is, that's the main topic of interest, you know, the actual bull himself. Exactly. Like I said, the do's and the don'ts, you know, what makes, what makes a great bull?

I mean, look at yourself in the mirror and, you know, you have to, you have to say, well, am I this alpha? You know, am I this dominant type of bull? And am I this maybe just sigma, this introverted type of, you know, alpha, the, I call it the smooth guy, laid back guy. Yeah. Or am I something else? You know, you have to find out who. you are. Yeah. You have to find out who you are first and foremost. And then, you know, through trial and error, like I did. Some people like to read and stuff and, you know, read about it. But I went out there and I, you know,

I started from scratch. And I had my beautiful Russian lady as my handler as, as I called her. And, you know, she took me through the ropes and I was able to learn. Yeah. Yeah. I was able to learn. And did I mess up? Yes, gentlemen, I messed up a few times. That's important information, and I'm assuming that's on your podcast. Those kinds of stories, too, right? Yes. I love a gone wrong story. I think that those are important to listen to because there's always going to be bumps in the road,

and you could always learn from those kinds of stories, right? Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. If you don't learn something from every encounter that you have, then you're doing something wrong, you know? You're not embracing what a true bull is. Any guy that can go and have sex with, you know, a couple, you know, with a wife. but he's not that real bull. Yeah.

Is not that real bull? Are you a content creator besides being a podcaster? Do you have like an only fan or anything like that or no? I do not have an only fan. You can tell you're just like really in it to educate people because you love it and you're like so introspective and you like to pick things apart and everything. I don't know. You're in your soccer team. You're the same sort of breed of guy, you know, in this lifestyle.

Yeah, I do. I do love that. But here again, though, as I said before, I do love to play. Believe me, I do love to play. I'm not into the, let's say, the gang bang situation like I was when I was younger or something like that. But I do love to get a beautiful hot wife, well, a beautiful hot wife couple. And like I said, I love to claim, you know, to claim, train and own. And of course, no respect, protecting love. And we have a great time. We have a great time. But I want to get to actually know the couple. I really do want to get a chance to know the couple. The days of just the, you know, the wham-bam, thank you, ma'am, that's gone for me. Yeah, well, that's what happens when you get older, like you said. I mean, you do evolve and change. Maybe someone that's 30 doesn't understand that, but it'll happen to them too.

You know what I mean? And that's like the normal progression of life, as it should be. Like, most people don't stay the same. You know, you're not going to be the same person you were, but you've kind of been there, done that. So you're really like a great person to educate others and explain all the stuff because you have such a great view of things because you've been like involved. since for so long, especially

in another country and now here, you've been there done that now you're in a fucking thruple and you're like Polly and you have feelings. I mean like and now you're like a stag yourself so you're really like well-rounded you know to help others. So you know, things? I've had a pretty good life.

Yeah, yeah. I've had a pretty damn good life. Yeah, so give the shout out again. They can find you the Bull Brother podcast. Do you have a, do you have a, is the Bullbrother dot com? Is that your, do you have a website or is it just? Yeah. What I just, we just, we just keep

Keep it with the Bull Brotherhood.com. Okay, cool. Yeah, we keep with the Bull Brotherhood. com, you know, trying to keep everything a professional and we want people to reach out to, you know, to the family. Yeah. But here again, though, you know,

my name is Brian Morgan. I am the Sigma male and I am one third of the Bull Brotherhood podcast and, you know, I am looking forward to speaking with all couples, hot wife. How do they get in contact you if they want to speak to you?

Well, I tell you what, if you want to to email me. Yeah. And I will actually give you, it's actually the Sigma Mail 27 at Gmail.com. Oh, okay. There you go.

That's the email. That's who, if you want to talk to you're going to. You're going to get hit up. You're going to get hit up. Let me tell you. I hope so. Yeah, you're going to.

Listen, I think you, did you already send me in Picks? Was that you emailing me today with Picks and stuff already? Was that you or somebody else? Did you send me picks today? Did you send you earlier today? Yeah, was that you?

Yeah, I sent you a text earlier today. Okay, so you got me, okay, so you got picks for my Patreon. So I'll give you free access to my Patreon to see the comments. Plus you get free access to my Discord. Feel free to, like, promote your podcast and stuff over there. I have a big community on my Discord as well. I'll put the links to your stuff in the description when your episode airs. Yeah, yeah.

This was super fun, Brian. Thanks so much for calling in. All right now. Bye. Bye, bye, and Merry Christmas, see you. Same to you. Bye. Have a good holiday.

Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that I do have a book. The book is called Shirkly anonymous confessions, secret sex lives of total strangers. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like, there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuckold story.

There's a gang-bang girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. They're all told in the third person, right? So I took the interview and I rewrote it in the third person. I wouldn't call it like an erotica book, though there's plenty of sex in there, right? But I didn't write it to sound like erotica because that's like the vibe of my show. You're going to learn a lot. You're probably going to get a little turned on. It's a different way to hear these stories, like I said, because they're written out in third person. There's an ebook available if you don't want your partner to know that you're reading my book. Get the e-book. It's available. If you buy my book in any format, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. That is my gift to you for getting my book. My Discord does not disappoint. Okay. There's no way you'll get the Discord and go in there and be like, oh, this sucks. Okay. It's like pretty amazing. There's tons of people on there and everybody shares content with each other. That's what's great about Discord. You get to post your own videos and pictures and there's tons of channels and we have contests over there. It's a super fun place to be.

I will be giving anyone that buys my book at any time access to my Discord. It is private. It's is the only way you could get in is through me giving you the link. And that's why I think my discord is so great because I have vetted people. It's not like it's just open to the public. So everybody that's in there are people that listen to my show and people that listen to my show are fucking great. So my Discord is fucking great. My book is great. You're going to love it. If you buy it, all you got to do is send me the receipt or a picture of proof that you bought it and I will give you free access to my Discord. Send it to Strictly Anonymous Podcasts at Gmail.com. You could find my book in the link in the description. Okay. Or just Google it. Strictly Anonymous Confessions,

Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. You can find it anywhere. You buy books. Send me the picture and I'll give you access to my Discord email, Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. Anyway, thanks so much for listening. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession,

Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August. 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gang being girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person. And they're all true. I took the interview and

rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories. 17 of them. They're really short. Chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format. And finally, the audiobook is a. available coming out August 25th, but you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint. Okay. There's no way you get into my Discord any other way than getting the link

from me. Okay. I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other. And that's what you get to do there. You could post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of content. We have lots of contest where you can win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total strictly anonymous community and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the ebook or the paperback. Send it to me at strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. That's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. And I will

send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in.