Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1357 - Ryan is into Prostate Massage and Couple Swapping with his Wife

Episode Date: February 4, 2026

Ryan is into prostate massage and couple swapping with his wife and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when he got into prostate massaging, exactly how he had his first prostate orgasm, how even just playing with his taint increases the strength of his orgasms, how him and his wife wound up in their first hook up with their neighbors and exactly what went down, why his wife shut it down and how and when they started things up again, the first couple they hooked up with and what went down, the next one they hooked up with and played solo with  and what went down, the second and third time they hooked up them and exactly what went down including the overnight and solo play between the couples plus a whole lot more. GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.promescent.com/STRICTLY15⁠⁠⁠ For 15% off Promescent's Delay Spray ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://learn.nocd.com/strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get the Butter massager and get 20% off your whole order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — To get 10% off DRIVE BOOST by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠PikaVibe.com/Strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Click to get $15 OFF your purchase Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠t Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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They started role playing. And then they eventually went and sort of meeting couples out and about. They've had two separate couples they've hooked up with one more times than the other. And we talk all about it. And that's where to me, the story started like turning. And I don't know. When I was questioning him, I started, I started fucking laughing. Like, I think it's kind of entertaining at a certain point.

I'm like, are you fucking lying? because I don't know. I was like asking him questions and the answers I were getting like to me did not make any sense. So I just like kept asking him questions because like there's something fun about that for me and you'll hear me to talk all about that. He was a good sport. I told him I'm not going to put this out as a factor fiction episode. But I'm wondering if everybody winds up feeling the same way I do towards the end. Like I said, it's not most of the episode that I'm questioning him. But once I start to think like his stories don't make a lot of sense. I ask him more, you know, just to sort of trip him up. And I feel like I kept tripping him up, which I think was like kind of funny. And he thought it was funny too. So it's all good. I'm wondering, though, if other people think I'm right to have felt like the way I did or not. You know, I could take it if you think I'm fucked up and he was totally telling the truth. And I just made him nervous. Let me know because that has happened before. So anyway, that's an interesting part of the episode to be, actually. That, you know, happens like way later in the episode. But

Everything else is super interesting. So I'm going to get right to be right back on with Ryan. Hey, what do we call you, Ryan? Everyone's using fake names I always forget. It's like, how you doing, Ryan? Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you this morning? I'm doing great.

How are you? Good. Now, listen, Ryan, tell me if I'm wrong or right. I always like to give this short story, then I'm going to get your whole life story. But like you are a quote unquote straight guy that's into anal action or maybe you're not, I don't know, but you are a guy who has gone into that area of your body and explored, which I always like, I like talk about a lot on my shelf.

Yeah. Yeah, for sure. Definitely sure. It's funny, like back in the day, I remember we had a neighbor and my wife came home and was like, hey, guess what? I just talked to, you know, the neighbor. And she told me that last night that they had like, you know, did some anal action. I was like, oh, what the heck?

I would never. That's weird. And look at me now, like, all about it. Oh, okay. So wait, that's kind of interesting. It's not like, because listen. And I always wonder, like, you know, when I'm talking about it, when guys always are like, no, I would never. I'm always like, yeah, right.

Like most of you have tried when you were home alone, you know, when you're younger, just curiosity. No, but like you had never up until, like, until you were married even at that time. Yeah. It wasn't until, like, recently, to be honest. Oh, good. I like that story. It's interesting because I do think, like, I always kind of say this sometimes, like, when I'm talking about it, like, I think, like, out of all the guys that are out there that say, no, I would never. Like probably 50 or 60% of them really have, but they just won't cop to it.

But so, so you had never gone to that area ever, never. No. Okay. Not even thought about it. You sound kind of young now. How old are you? I'm 39. Okay, you're 39.

You're married. So how long ago did your wife come home and tell you about this crazy thing that happened that you had never done before? Like, how long ago was that? Let's see. It had been probably, probably, it was early. So like 13, 14 years ago. Okay, cool. So you guys been married since how long? You've been married since you're like in your early 20s?

Yes, we've married 16 years now. Okay, cool. Good sex life, everything fine? Yeah, we're real vanilla for a long time. And then we'll probably get into it later, but like we've kind of opened up our relationship. Oh, okay. I love that. That's kind of interesting. I like that kind of change from the vanilla relationship couple to changing things up. So let's wait to get there. but it'll come up chronologically. So wait, so your wife comes on and tells you, like, somebody brought up that they were into anal at a party? No, well, she was like talking to the other wife, the neighbor next door. Yeah, yeah.

And she's like, hey, guess what? And I was like, can you believe? Yeah, can you believe that, by the way, like, I don't know about guys. I don't know that guys talk so much about sex with their guy friends, but girls do. Okay, we tell each other everything. I know. Yeah, no, for sure. I'm a guy that's all about sex.

I love talking about it. So I'm like, I'm like the odd one now. I try to talk about it with my friends and they're always like, oh, I don't know, it's a little pregnant. Yeah, that's what I mean. It's the girls that do it more than the guys. It's so funny. All right. So, okay, so you're like, oh, my God, that's fucked up.

You're like the typical person out there that like, oh, that's gay, quote unquote, whatever, you know? And so like, how does you go from that guy to a guy who's like, you know, using shit up your ass? sorry no you're good let's think so I'm the type of person where like I don't really like doing things inside yeah you know I've tried here and there

it just never really works out I just I don't know it just doesn't work for me but what got me into it was I think it was like my wife like just you know I was playing around in the room and her touching down there and I'm like at first I was like well

oh wait that actually feels kind of good keep going and it kind of evolved And so, but wait, so what was she doing pressing around your taint to explain exactly? Because listen, I think what's kind of really interesting about your story is that you are a guy that gets into that kind of prostate action, but you're not interested in anything going inside, which I think is kind of a really interesting option for a lot of guys out there, right? That's why I love the butter toy because it's like it's not, it's not allowed to go inside, right? And so it is for like a lot of guys out there who are like you, right? Because the prostate massaging are. or getting feeling there is amazing, right? You're going to explain it. So what was she specific? So wait, before, though, we get to exactly what she was doing, and I'll remember to ask you that, what, like, when you say,

oh, I knew that I didn't want anything inside, like, had you tried? Like, why did you know, or were you just against it, like, in your head? Right. No, I've tried. So, like, you know, jerk an off or whatever. Okay, so you had, like I said. That's what I meant. But I was saying that earlier.

Like, I think, like, most people, when they're home alone, Right? Curious? Yeah, yeah, I was thinking more like toys. But like, yeah, I guess I use like a finger and I was like, you know, kind of put a little bit in. I was like, ah, that hurts. Stop, you know. But with her, you know, I was more relaxed, obviously. I think that's what made it better.

And, you know, she would caress it and feel it. And I was like, okay, I kind of like this. Would she give you room jobs? Yeah. Yeah. You could admit it. Loved it. Okay.

Yeah. Yeah. Was she the one pushing the envelope for things like that? Or like, you know, because... No, not really. So how did it come up? It was weird. I don't know.

It was just like a random thing. And I don't know. Maybe you'd have to talk to her. She has a memory of an elephant. I can't remember shit for... No, but she's the one that went there is what you're saying. Really? Yeah, yeah.

Like she was just, you know, stuck in my dick and then went down. And I was probably just like, you know, moving along with it. Like, okay, I can do this. Here you go on. Yeah. When you mentioned the butter toy, that thing is, amazing, by the way. Oh, you're kidding. You use it? Yes, yes. Tell me about it. Explain it because, you know, a lot of times, most of my products, by the way, like, I love when people like email me or

DM me because I can't use the products, right? Like, I have the buttertoy I use as a vibrator, but I can't, I'm not a guy, right? So it's always great to hear from a guy. Do you know what I'm saying? Yeah. To my other listeners, tell them for. I will. Yeah, so listeners, listen. So I. Straight guy here. I tried a couple different choice. talking about it. Yeah, go on, sorry. Totally straight. What do you call it?

I've used other different toys here and there. And like they just, so this butter wellness toy, it's, it fits, small, fits your hand. The texture of it is pretty good. I love it. It's really strong. What I really, what really surprised me was, like, I took it out of the box and I used it like the first time without even charging it. And I think it lasts like almost two hours. Yeah, that's great.

Don't you hate in the middle of it if it goes dead dead? Yeah. Oh my gosh, the worst. Yeah. And I never really knew that. Girls know that more than me. Yes. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Okay. But, you know, for me, like I said earlier, like, you know, inside just doesn't really work for me. But the outside, though, it's, like, real sensitive. And I, like, I love it. And the vibration of that. And there's so many different, like, you know, variations of the vibration that you can get from it.

Right. So, like, I was trying different things and different angles. And for me, I have to be like, like, a real powerful. Yeah. And I noticed for me, like, I have to kind of be, like, aroused to use it. Mm-hmm. I can't just, like, use it with nothing. Right. Of course.

Yeah. And it just, it makes it so much better. So I'm pretty excited to, like, continue using it. I just got it recently. Oh, okay. I love that. But wait, so it's powerful. And you just, like, I mean, you just push it down on your taint, correct?

Like, that's what you do? Is it, you have to, like, move it around to find the exact spot? is that how it feels? Because I don't have a prostate. I don't know. You have to explain it. Yeah. Yeah.

That's what's really hard. Like, so it's hard finding it. Right. How do you find it? Right. You know, I just started slow, started on a low setting and kind of just like lightly pressed against the team and kind of just felt it and just gradually would like, you know, rotate it around, move it and raise the vibration up a little bit.

it's like kind of found the one spot where I was like okay this feels good and so you know that yeah so when you feel like you get to like what for a guy like look it around like will you kind of know when you hit the spot because it feels different is that how it works yeah it feels different but you like you feel it and then it's like it's gone you're like oh my god where was that yeah yeah let me get that again yeah yeah it's like you start back at square one you're like okay here we go again start over yeah yeah that's why I liked it lasted two hours the first time. So I was like trying to find it.

Yeah. Oh my God. But you can, but then you have to go back and find it. So it's not like once you find it. It's like there and it's huge or something. You really got to maneuver around and go in there and keep looking. But you will know when you hit it. Right.

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But you can, but then you have to go back and find it. So it's not like once you find it. It's like there and it's huge or something. You really got to maneuver around and go in there and keep looking. But you will know when you hit it. Right. And I think over time I might find like that one spot that I know every time we'll be good. But like I said, you know, 39.

I'm young. But I just started doing this recently. And you like it. Do you have prostate orgasms? I've had one. I've had one. And it was actually with a toy. So I never really had one before I thought I did.

Yeah, that's like girls when they say, I think I had an orgasm. I'm like, no, you never. If you think you had an orgasm, you didn't have one. You will fucking now. And I would assume it's the same thing with a prostate orgasm, right? Exactly. Yeah. I was like, what?

I was shaking. Like, what is going out of my body? Oh my God, you're kidding. Yeah, it was great. And yeah, like, I'm trying to think of... But was that with the butter toys, how you had it? Yeah, yeah, it wasn't with anything else, yeah. And I've had other, like, massage guns that are, like, obviously way more powerful

that just did not do the job. Interesting, like the wands and stuff, like powerful, like a wand or whatever. And that didn't even work and this did. That's super interesting. Right. And because this is small. all I have it and it's very smooth, right? Mm-hmm.

Yeah, the texture of it's like perfect. If you look at the toy, like there's two different sides to it, obviously. It almost seems like that there's different vibration settings for each side of it. Yeah. That makes sense. Uh-huh. But the tip of it is like real good, real powerful. You can pinpoint where you want to feel it.

And I also like to move around and put on my dick, on my head, dickhead or whatever. Yeah. Balls just like mess around with it. And it's great. And did you, were you using the tip of it when you got the prostate orgasm? Is that how you finally took it over the edge? Yeah. Yeah.

Interesting. Okay. And so, and what was that prostate orgasm? Like all over body, crazy feeling? Yeah. Yeah, it was all over body. So I think I realized why I wasn't really getting on prior because I was like, whenever I got close, I was like, am I going to go number two?

You're kidding. You feel that way kind of a little bit? Yeah. Yeah, a little bit. And I was like, I was like, you know what? Let me just roll with it and see. I didn't go number two and I had a pressider. That's kind of like girls with squirting.

They feel like they got to pee. That's what they say. Right, right. So that's interesting. I've never heard that from any other guy. Well, listen, that's like pretty like, listen, I don't even have to do another butter out. I could just play what you just said.

Okay, if you your first prostate doctor, it's like so fucking great. But let's, okay, so before the butter toy, you got into this, right? Like, you were, got into this with your girl because she like went down on you. when she was the one that started to do stuff in that area, and you realized you liked it. Right. Right. Yeah.

Okay. She never put a finger in or went any further because, like you were like, no thanks because you had already been there, tried that, right? Well, she tried. And, you know, I kind of was just like, all right, you know, I went, I went with it.

I'm not going to be like a weirdo. I'm like, okay, stop it. Yeah, yeah. So you tried with her, too? Yeah. I was like, all right. And it's not horrible, but like, I think,

obviously with, know, they say you need to have a lot of lube and blah when you're doing stuff like that. And I don't think we really, that one time, I don't think we did. Yeah. You know, and I brought it up a couple of times since then. I'm like, hey, man, you know, let's get into that. I just kind of like, I don't know. I'm like, okay.

You got to be really turned on, like really, really turned on and then really, really activated in that area, you know? So she tried some stuff, but like you didn't want anything inside. But so what did you just keep doing? Like, you just kept doing like, like, as far as when it comes to the anal action. And then we're going to move to how you guys open up your relationship. She would just be giving you, like, rim jobs and stuff. And then you got the butter toy because you wanted to try and have a prostate orgasm.

Is that how it worked? Yeah, well, we backtrack. So, yeah, she started. I was like, okay, this is good. And then I started buying, like, other toys and try them out. And none of them really worked. And I was just like, I don't know. And I was like, so I stopped for a while.

And then, you know, I saw the butter wellness. And I was like, let me give this a shot. Because you were on a mission, though, to have a prostate orgasm? because you've heard about them and you wanted to have one and you knew that you could. Is that like what you were looking for? Oh, for sure. Yeah. I was like, I want, it's like, I love, I love sex and I love masturbating.

I love orgasm. I was like, I want to, I want to have a better one. And I was like listening and reading and like, okay, there's this thing that exists for guys. Like a process. Yeah. How did I not know about this? Yeah. If I was a guy, I'd be you.

I'd be like, I want, like this exists and I haven't had it. Like, I'm on a fucking mission. I'd be on a mission too. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you were. So once you heard about it, you went out looking to have one, right? Like you were going to make it work. Yeah, yeah. And I was like, I'm not going to give up.

So you tried all the toys. Now, with those other toys that didn't work, like, do you, does it feel like even just playing with your taint area? Like, does that, like, are you doing that, like, when you're jerking off, like, when you're having sex, like, or you just need to do it by itself? Yeah, no, I have to be jerking off. And even having sex, like, she knows, like, sometimes if we're like, we're, you know, we're fucking and, like, I can't come or whatever. She'll know, like, all right, me tickle his taint and then he'll come.

Interesting. Because she found, she found, you guys found that area, right? Yeah. She did. Yeah, interesting. Yeah, so it's a whole new world for me. It's new. It's different.

I like it. And, you know, maybe eventually I'll explore into, like, a little bit more. But for now, I'm good with the outside. Like I said, like, I'm not, again. inside. It's just, you know, you've got to be relaxed, you know, and then... Let me ask you this. Is it still good to... It's still good even when you're not having the prostate orgasms to play with that area also anyway, right? It just adds to it even if you're not having the prostate orgasm, right? And then maybe every now and then you get that, right?

Yeah, 100%. Yeah. I, like, I will say, like, I... That's how I enhance my, like, jerking off. Yeah. Like, my orgasms. It feels so much better. The prostate orgasm, I don't only have that happened one time. Right. And I've been trying to find it since. Of course. But even when you don't have the prostate orgasm, stimulating that area with the butter,

toy or with your hand, like also is just increasing your regular orgasms, correct? Oh, for sure. Yeah. It takes it from a level five to a level 10. Wow. And that's not hard to do. That's not like, like, it's interesting that you could do that. that with just this little thing, right?

And just on your team without even going inside or anything. And so many guys have been jerking off their whole time without even knowing. Yeah. It's just on the outside. It's real small. It's, I don't know. Like, whoever invented it, smart. Yeah, or realize it.

I don't think it was invented. I think it always exists. Somebody realized that that was like a thing, right? Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But you found out now you've been on a mission. Okay. I mean, do you want to get to the open stuff or do you have more anal?

end stories. No, we can get into that. Yeah, so, okay, so you, you know, you and your girl playing around your vanilla, but like, you're doing this anal stuff, but like, how do you wind up going from vanilla couple to kind of opening up your relationships, whatever that means? Yeah, so it's funny. We, like I said, we were real vanilla, like, to the point where we weren't even, like, dirty talking.

Like, it was just like, yeah, sex, like, once a week here and there, knock it out. We had young kids, you know, our kids are older now, which is nice. and we had neighbors that just moved in and they were like full blown like swingers and like I forget me what it's called but like the husband or the wife she was a hot wife and she would go out and like these stuff and the husband like didn't care like he well he cared

but he didn't like want to have another girl and I forget what they call it I hear her a show all the time and I'm like every time you talk about it I think about him and I'm like oh yeah I remember that oh like he's like into hotwifing he wants her to be with another guy, but he doesn't want to be with the girl. Exactly. And I remember being like, I would never, like, I need to be with a girl too.

Yeah. I'm still like that. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And so we hung out with them, had a couple drinks one night. And we're hanging out in the driveway at this point. And the wife, they started talking about like body shots. And I was like, okay. And I remember they were pouring a shot like got her.

She had like, you know, pretty nice fake tis. and she was pointed down her chest. And I was like, hey, babe, to my wife. I was like, if it leaks down to her pussy, can I look at it? She's like, yeah. I was like, okay. So I made of purposely let it leak down to her. And I went down, I was like eating her out in driveway.

And I was like, okay, we need to get inside. And we went in. Did they, had they told you, sorry, I'll remember exactly where you. Had they already told you before this that they were swingers, right? So you knew going over their house, maybe something like this could happen? Yeah, we knew, but we, well, so we knew them for a few months at this point. Yeah. They knew that we weren't like about it and we knew they were.

And they probably like talked about it. Like, all right, let's get them. Yeah. And like, because like here's the vanilla couple all of a sudden going down on his wife and the outside. I mean, it's kind of crazy. Jump, you know? Right, right. Yeah.

Yeah. So then, you know, we move inside where I think, if I remember correctly, I think she was on the kitchen like counter. and my wife was like drinking a shot. I think she was like, she like licked a body shot off her like stomach area up to her chest. And like they kind of kissed. And I was like, oh my God, this is amazing.

And then they were like, all right, let's move it upstairs. And we went upstairs. I remember the other chick was like kind of laid down the bed and kind of like grabbing my dick. And I was like, okay, this is cool. I'm like my wife. I'm like, we good? She's like, yeah. I'm like, okay.

And then I started eating her out. And so I'm eating her out at this point. It's just me, her on the bed. I don't know where my wife and the guy is. And then all of a sudden, I kind of get up on the bed. I start making out with the chick. And then I look down and my wife just starts sucking my dick. And I was like, oh, okay, this is great.

And I looked to my right and the other chick's laying on the bed. The legs are spread. and her husband's like just starting to just fucking her. I'm like, oh, there you are, dude. Okay, that's happening. Yeah. And so what I think happened was maybe I was put

like a little more, too much attention on the other girl. And I think that's maybe where my wife was kind of like, I'm here, yeah. Yeah. So that's kind of like how she kind of stopped that one. Like it was like right soon after that. She's like, all right, guys, like, I've had enough.

Time to go home. Right. I guess. But she was obviously horny for the situation. situation because you guys go back home and have a hot reclaiming sex or how was it when you got home? Yeah. Oh my God. We had hot reclaiming sex. Like we went back. We were, we didn't even make it up to the bedroom. Like the kids were all sleeping upstairs. We're in the kitchen or kitchen. We're on the living room, uh, couch and fuck this shit out of her and it was like amazing and that she squirted it. I was like, oh,

this is great. I'm like, cool. So then the next morning I wake up and I'm like, oh man, this is great. We're swingers now, aren't we? She's like, never. We're never doing that again. I was like, no. I can see that. Oh no. Shit. Yeah. Yeah.

She was like, I felt uncomfortable. I don't want to do it anymore. I was like, okay, babe. In my head, I was like, go. Yeah. So fast forward. So this is, this is like back in like 2017. Mm-hmm.

And let's see, 2020, like last year, we kind of like, so over time since then, I would say, Like that's when like our vanilla sex life, obviously in my eyes was like, all right, we're not so vanilla. And so we started, this is probably vanilla to anybody else listening. But like when we're having sex, we're like, okay, we start role playing a lot. Like, yeah, for the couple that never even dirty talk, now you're role playing, it is more hardcore for you guys, right? Yeah, yeah, exactly. Yeah. And I noticed like every time when I would talk about like another guy fucking her or me fucking other girl, like she would just get like so well.

and horny. And I was like, okay, she likes this. Let me keep going with this. And it wasn't until this last year, or yeah, last year where we were sitting there talking one day. And I was like, you know what? Do you want to do it with like another person? Like in real life? You want to try it? She's like, I'd be down. I was like, oh, okay. So, you know, we got on the websites, field and what was this? SLS and Cassidy. And, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, And, you know, we're searching around. It was funny, too, because, like, when it first happened, I was like, all right, I'm the, I'm the setup guy. Let me just, let me set a lot of shit up.

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and then we finally met up with our first couple. And so we started talking to them a little bit on the chat. And then we met up with them for dinner. And so we have our dinner. We're sitting there talking. And the guy's like all about, he's like talking about how he's like so experienced and BDSM. And he's had all this experience in life. And he's like great in bed.

And I'm like, okay. And I'm looking at the wife. I'm like, oh yeah, I can't wait to take you back. I'm like, let's go. So we leave the restaurant, get in the car, and my wife is like, you know what? I don't know if I want to do this. And I was like, oh, no. I was like, well, let's just try it out and see, typical guy.

Like, let's just go. Yeah, you don't want to stop. And what was on the table, though, this time, like a full couple swap. Is that what was going to happen? It was a, yeah, it was going to be like a full couple swap, like almost like, yeah. Okay, okay, good one. Same room. That's another thing.

Yeah. When we first started, we were like, same room only. Yeah. And so we get to their house. One thing led to another, had a couple drinks. And so I start, I start fucking my wife. He starts fucking his wife for like a couple minutes. And then we switch and then I'm fucking his wife.

And I'm going at it and having a good time. I look over and my wife's laying there. I'm like, what? She's like, he's done. I'm like, what? Oh, no. It only lasts like a couple minutes. So I was like, oh, oh. So I was like ready to go. So I'm like having sex with my wife and his wife. So like probably the next hour, hour and half. He's just like watching. And I was like, all right, this is great. Like for me. And then when we were done, I was like, hey, I know that wasn't really that good for you because you didn't really get. So when that happened, I think she was like, all right, this isn't working out. We're not, you know, I was like, you know what? How about you do the research? You find a couple. And,

We'll go from there. And she did. And yeah, so we've explored more. Yeah, we've explored more. Go ahead. No, no, no. You're going to get to another couple, right? Is that where you're going with them? Yeah, let me ask you real quick. Like when, you know, what, what are the demographics of the people that you're looking for? Do you guys have the same taste? Like, what's when you go online? Like, what was that first couple like that you picked? Yeah. Just your typical normal couple, nothing crazy, almost so we're, we're, we're, we're, we're not. normal looking couple, like just, you know, and I think that's probably what we're more into just like a normal looking couple. We're not, we're not looking for like supermodels or... No, but I mean, is there age range or, you know what I mean? Yeah, closer to R age, I would say. Yeah, our age, normal couples that are discreet as well, because, you know, we have to stay pretty

discreet for jobs-wise. Of course. So, don't really want to look into like anybody like too young or even like two, too, too old. Just close for our age, typical husband-wife. Right, but is your girl into girls or no? I would say she's by comfortable. So moving on to our next couple. Yeah, cool. So at first we were like, okay, same room only.

We're not going to like, do different rooms. We're just going to stay together. And we met up with a couple. They're great and we had a good, you know, a good weekend with them, just all of us, you know, hanging out. And then the next day we were like, let's swap rooms. Because we went to like a hotel and we were like, we each had our own room. And I was like, well, let's try it out. Like you go to the room with him and I'll take her in my room and we'll see you in the morning.

Okay. So why did you do that though? Like what was that the point of that? Like had you decided that for a reason or do you know? No, it was like, so a lot of the stuff that we do, it's almost like, like, you play by ear, kind of just like how you're feeling. And there was, it was, there was no like discussion about it before. It was like kind of like, spur of the moment. I was like, you know, I don't even know if I brought up.

I think she did, to be honest. Or no, I think I did. I was like, hey, why don't you, let's try this. Like, you go over there. I'll stay here. And then we'll meet up later and see how we like it. Just to test it out. Like, we don't want to say, we don't want to be like, all right, we're never going to do it.

Yeah, that's kind of interesting. Yeah, why not. Okay, so you go into different rooms. Going to different rooms, do our thing. We meet back up and have amazing reclaiming sex again. And I was like, okay, I really like this. What about you? She's like, I like the two.

I'm like, let's keep this going then. Did you prefer it with not in the same room because you could focus more and not have to worry or like, was it no different? Or do you like to watch your wife and prefer it when you are in the same room? like how did you feel about the difference? Yeah. So being in the different room at first, I was kind of like, I didn't know how to six. I was like, I feel like I'm cheating.

Yeah. Yeah. And for me, I like it. I like us being like in the same room together. Mm-hmm. What about your wife? You know, I do. I think, yeah, they're hurt too.

Like, it's almost like 50-50. Like I enjoy both, you know, for a couple times. we've done like separate rooms and then like when we do a like a same room type of deal I'm like all right cool I do I do remember liking this and this is cool but I'm okay with separate rooms there's no like preference really yeah okay cool so that second time was good for your wife now she's down okay and so to be honest look we just started this past summer so that's kind of the extent of our no but you said we've had some in room now it sounded like there was more. Okay, so maybe you've had single people. Is that what you're going to say?

No, so, well, we've met the same couple, like a couple times. So the first couple after that, she was kind of like, you know, like they're great, but I'm good. And I was like, okay, I can understand that. Yeah. It did take like a couple months since then to find the other couple. You know, just because of like logistics and timing and there are a lot of people that are kind of like flaky, I've noticed. Yeah, for sure. And yeah, like, you. you talk to a couple, everything's great. And all of a sudden, you're like, you stop hearing from them. You're like, okay, dude.

And then they'll reach back out like a couple months later. Oh, so sorry. We got really busy with the kids. Like, we're down. We went to hang out. I'm like, okay, tomorrow. And it's like next weekend. Like, when are you guys thinking?

And then they go. Yeah, terrible. What app are you guys on? What app do you guys use? So we're actually not on any apps anymore. How do you make? So for us, it's, we're not really like searching. for couples.

Well, where did you meet those other couples? Well, yeah, so we met them on the apps, right? But I noticed like the apps kind of just, I feel like, so we did find another. What app did you find those other couples on? The first couple, we found them on field. Okay. The second couple was SLS. Okay.

And then, yeah. But why did you get off those apps? I mean, where are all these flaky couples? How are you? meeting all these people. You're saying these people are flaky. They did it. Like, you're obviously. Yeah. So that's probably why I think, yeah, I think that's why I left the apps because it was, because from the apps is where I was like meeting a lot of flaky people.

And I was like, you know, let me just, you know, let me just not look. And, all right, let me, let me backtrack a little. Yeah, backtrack. Because he sounds like you're fucking lying. Okay. It's like, it doesn't make sense. No, no, no. Yeah, got, got off the, got off the apps because, you know, the couple that we are with or talking to, we're kind of like exclusive with them if that makes sense. No, it doesn't make sense because you didn't say it before. So to explain, how did you become exclusive with them? Yeah.

So, you know, if you think about it, like, I was like, all right, we're looking at all these couples. We're getting tested. And I'm like, if we just stick to one couple, then we don't have to like, and they stick to us. We don't really have to get tested as much or, you know, and it's safer in my eyes. And that was kind of her idea, to be honest. Okay, so this is the second couple we're talking about. I'm confused all of a seven person for some reason. Yeah, second couple.

Yeah, first couple is just a one-time thing, the same couple. Okay, so the second couple, so when is the second time you meet them? The first time it goes well, right? Yeah. Was that separate room with them? Yeah, it was, well, same room and then separate room in that same weekend. Okay, okay. And then, like I said, this is very new, so we've only hung out with them like three times.

Okay. every time we've hung out with them. So tell me the other two times. The first time it was in the room and then separate rooms at the same time. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. And that's been like that every time. Oh, okay. Every time. Yeah. Every time. And yeah, I wish I had more. I'm sorry. No. I mean, well, you don't get into details. You know what I mean? There's so much that goes into like supposedly you're this vanilla couple and here you are banging other people. I mean, it's pretty major. There should be a lot more to the story. Well, yeah, it's not, yeah, it's not that I guess a lot more, but like, it's more. So in the beginning of all of this, there was a lot of emotions going on, obviously. Like, we were like, I know went through quick with it and I was like, oh, yeah, yeah, we did it and we were done. But like, that first couple, we did it. And she was like, all right, I'm done. I don't want to do this anymore.

I was like, oh, no. And, you know, talking that took a couple months and just like finding another couple and getting to know them. And we learned after the first couple, like we weren't just going to rush into anything. Like we met the second couple Like didn't do anything the first time Kind of just like talk to them got to know them And then like after a couple months like Okay let's let's try it with them

And I think that's what made it better Instead of just like Rushing into anything and just having like a one night stand If you will And how was the communication with that other couple Like were you guys on text message? Were you emailing? Who was talking to who? Like how was that all working? Because you know you could fill up this call

with those kinds of details because I think that that's like super interesting, especially because you had a wife that wasn't really down in the beginning. I mean, she wasn't, you know, the second time she was like agreeing again, but she didn't have like a great first experience or was like, you know, on the fence, it sounds like. Yeah. No, and I hear you. So the wives actually met each other first on on the app, SLS. And they talked back for a little bit and then we exchanged phone numbers. Then we had like a group chat set up. And it was basically. maybe I think it was like a month or two of us just like group chatting back and forth with them. Well actually, no, it was about a week group chatting.

And then we met up for like drinks one night. And nothing happened that night. You just met with them and, you know, spent like a couple hours talking and then went or separate ways and then continued for another month or two on text, just getting to know them, they're getting to know us. And yeah, it was, it's crazy because I remember like back in the day, me, my wife were always like trying to find like another couple that like get along with. And now we have a couple we get along with that we can fuck.

Yeah. Hook up with. So it's nice. Well, we walk with those other two times. Like, you know, do they always come to you? Have they always been at your house? Like, where are you meeting these people? Oh, yeah.

We never met anybody at our house yet. Where is this happening? Yeah. So the first couple, we went to their house. And then the second couple. This couple. Where do you? This couple.

Yeah. Every time we do it, we just get a hotel. Okay. Okay, well, do you get two rooms because you say you play in the room and separate? So how are you playing? Yes. If you're in a one hotel room, how are they going someplace else? No, no, no.

Yeah, we get two different rooms. So, like, me and the guy will plan it. Like, all right, we're going to go to this hotel. I get a room. He gets a room. And that's how we do it. So you're like in the middle of sacks and you guys are banging in one room. And then you guys separate and they go to another room.

Like, okay, see you later. I'm going to go to a whole other room. They're not conjoining. Like, they're not joining rooms? No, they're not conjoining rooms. Because you did say you played together and separate with this couple, correct? Yeah. At the same time, on the same night.

It is, yeah. So what would happen is, for example, like, you know, we'll meet up in the hotel. I'll go to my room with- Yeah, why don't you tell me exactly the second experience you had with them? Go through details, walk me through that whole experience. Okay, thanks. Yeah. All right.

So we went to a hotel. We got separate rooms. I went to the room with my wife. He went to the room with his wife. we went to the pool, hung out, because we're in California, and hung out in the pool, had a couple drinks,

and then all four of us went back to their room, had, you know, hooked up. It was like, we didn't know what we were doing. They didn't know what they were doing. It was like a really quick, like, this is the second time. This is the second time you don't know what you're doing? What do you mean?

No, this is the first time with them. No, I said explain the second time. Welcome to the second experience. Okay, so second experience, we go to a different hotel, like a resort type of thing. And I got, you know, I had my room with my wife. He had his room and his wife. And we hung out. Like, so a lot of it's not all sex, right?

It's just hang out with them, get a couple drinks or get lunch, hang out. And then, you know, me and him would look at each other like, all right, well, I'm going to head back to room with your wife here's my wife we'll see you guys in a couple hours enjoy and I mean this is like a hotel you sound like you're on a vacation but you this is a hotel like in your neighborhood no not not our neighborhood like we'll go we'll go to like resorts if you if that makes sense so like how far away from your home are these resorts I'm about an hour not too far yeah and like and a lot of this is like in the summertime too so it's like real nice out okay so they're going exploring this is the

second time. So you meet them. You had lunch. I don't know. You talked about lunch like that's something you could do. And we talked like what you actually did. Let me think back. I mean, this just happened. This is right? Like recently. Yeah, it was like back in August. Okay. You think. So, all right. Yeah. So, all right, so we met up, checked in, got in the room. We all four of us met for lunch, sat down, had lunch, had some drinks. And then we went into like the hot tubs, hot tub at the hotel pool area, chatted for a while, had more drinks, talked with them a little bit.

And then, yeah, basically I would be like, all right, well, I'm going to take, here's my wife, I'm going to take your wife. I went back to my room. Was that planned ahead of time? Like, we're going to go to separate rooms? The second time, yeah, it was. Okay. The first time it wasn't.

Why am I starting to not believe a fucking word out of your mouth? Oh my God. So interesting. I don't know. It's kind of interesting. I like it. I always love a good fact or fiction episode and I like my listeners. My listeners like it too.

Oh, man. I never thought I'd be one of those. It was like, every time you say it, I'm like, I try to listen those interviews and I'm like, oh, are they, are they real? That's the whole point. You've got to have a detective mind. It's for those people. but what okay so you decided you're like oh i'm like i guess i kind of was like here's your wife

here's my wife like i mean you should remember like this is like how does it work out yeah yeah so a lot like like i said like we went like months and months like talking on the phone so like we kind of knew what's it like what we were going to like get into when we did me okay so he takes your wife you take his wife then what happens so tell me exactly what you did to his wife you know how long it lasted how do you guys meet back up yeah so the whole experience yeah go back go back to my room with his wife uh it's funny because we you know we had like really really good sex it was like i would say maybe like an hour of just sex and then when we were done i think we thought they were done or i didn't remember uh so that night there was a a situation

what happened i'm trying to think so yeah let's let's let's worry it was. So I went in, we had sex, they had sex. I don't know exactly what obviously they did. I knew we did like every position out there in the world that you could do. And when we were done, we were like, all right, let's go back to meet up in the middle of the resort at like the hot tub area. And they showed up and I was like, how was it to my wife? She's like, it was good. I'm like, all right, are you good? She's like, yeah, I'm good. And then I was like, all right, we'll see you guys in the morning, I went back to my room with my wife. He went back to his room with his wife. And obviously, me and her have our reclaiming sex. And the dirty talk from there and role

playing was like amazing because I like her telling me about it in a way, in a way. And, yeah. But you told me every time you were with them, you played separately and together. So this time you just played separately, you have breakfast and bye-bye. Like, I mean, when was the playing together? Yeah, I'm sorry. Yeah, I think that second time, it was not, we didn't do anything together. It was just separately. So tell me the time when you played separately and together. I left hearing your stories. I don't know if they're made up, but I was like, I need more just to see if you're fucking lying. I need more details. No, no, no, no, no, they're good. Yeah. We have like, let's see, so that let's see the third time. I try I remember. Oh, yeah. So basically, we met up. I got in my room. This time, I checked in my room. with her and he checked in his room with my wife.

And we pretty much hung out that whole night together or most of that day together. And then at night we all went out to eat dinner. Well, when, is he checked in with my wife and I checked it with his wife? Is that code for or that's when we did stuff separately? Like you took his wife to your room? Like, I don't understand why you're checking in with the other person's life. Sorry. Yeah.

I don't know. I don't know why I said that. But basically, like, when I got to the hotel, instead of checking in, going in the room with my wife, I went in the room with his wife. Okay. And then you fuck her? Yeah. Oh, yeah. Yeah.

Okay. Well, why would you not even say that? You're like, I checked in with his wife. He checked in with my wife. And then we're back at lunch again. I mean, so that's what I'm going. So, all right. My bad.

My bad. All right. So went in the room, you know. No, I don't know. Obviously. Yeah. Fucked his wife. and then we went back down downstairs and we went out to eat and when we went back to the room

I went back to my room with his wife for the night he went to his room with my wife and then the next morning they came over my wife and him came over to our room and we have a like a foursome okay but your wife literally is sleeping overnight with him and you slept overnight with his wife yes okay but you didn't tell me that before like that wasn't like something thing new that you did. Like that that's kind of like interesting and major. I mean, why sleep in the bed with the other role partner? What was that all about? So, so yeah, so they might have slept. I was up all night having sex. You don't know what happened with them? I mean, it's your wife. You don't grill her when she came back. Do you know what happened with them?

Honestly, like, I don't really care. I'm like, do your thing? You don't know what happened. I'm doing my thing. Okay. All right. They could have been up all night. You don't know. I mean, your wife sleeps overnight with another man in the same hotel that she's been banging. You're like hot for this scenario. You love sex. You don't like ask her what happened. You don't really know. Oh, no, for sure.

I ask. Yeah, yeah. All right. What did she say what happens with them? No, she would just basically say, yeah, I had sex. That's so much fun. You don't understand. I love factor fiction episodes because I love like asking people for details that aren't fucking doing well.

I don't know why I get a fucking kick out of it. I just want to talk to you for another hour and ask you more details. Oh my God. Because you're just like tripping up, left and right. I'm like, what the fuck? Am I?

I think so. I don't listen. I always, I can't wait until I edit this back and see what's going on. But, you know, I love when people chime in because sometimes people will be like, you're such a bitch,

Cathy, it was obviously telling them to do it, no, but like I mean more details from you. I'm going to go another five minutes and make you uncomfortable because it's fun for me. So.

Yeah, you should be. I'm like fucking Judge Judy. Okay, so, have you ever watched Judy? She's so fucking hilarious. Yeah.

Okay. so yeah I like that show so wait so okay so you why did you do the sleepover? I don't know I know you don't know. I kind of just go with the flow. That's a weird thing. Who decided to do sleepover? Who decided let's sleep over with the other? I mean that's okay like I'm a woman. Listen, I'm a woman like you know as a guy maybe you think and maybe if you're making this as like you think that in or the real world. like some like a woman would want to sleep in bed with another guy overnight i don't know i would never i don't even like i don't know like your wife wanted to sleep in that guy's room all night like you guys had agreed on that yeah i i i agreed whose idea was it honestly i think it was like

everybody like i was okay with it i think i you know we spoke about it obviously and we're like yeah we'll just uh see you guys the morning and i was like cool we'll see you guys in the morning. I didn't think anything of it. I was like, cool. Okay, when did you guys get together? When did you guys get to it together? Say it again?

When did you guys have sex in the same room together? Because you said that time. Oh, yeah, yeah. Yeah, it was, so the next morning. Okay. What happens in the morning? Yeah, so the morning, me and his wife are in the room. And I cracked the door open a little bit.

I was like, all right, guys just come in. when you guys are ready. So it's adjoining rooms now? Well, no, they're just, I left the front door open. And there just happened to be standing out there. You crack the door and there they were standing outside in the hallway? Well, we have a group chat. You know, I'm like, are you guys on your way?

Okay, well, you didn't say that. We're on our way. Yeah, sorry. Yeah, we're on our way and so cracked their open and they walked in, that naked, hopped into bed. This is fucking fun. Okay, yeah. And then what happened?

So we had good amazing sex. And I remember I stood up and kind of like to the side and just like watched them three for a little bit. And I was just like enjoying it. And just like, okay, just watching. And then I hopped in. And so every time we do that for me, I'm like, this is great. Like I just, for me, I just remember like just watching her and her hooking up with the chick, her hooking up with the guy.

Okay, so now she's hooking up with girls. Like, when did that happen? Yeah, it's just with her. Well, obviously, there's only been two couples. But when did she first hook up with this woman? I would, it was that day, yeah. That was the first time you saw her with another woman? Yeah.

Okay. Yeah. I'm just, I'm just, I'm just as thinking of fiction to, like, because when I'm there, I'm like, is this really happening? Okay. Okay, okay. So she started talking up with the girl, and you love watching all of this. Oh, yeah.

Like, when I was younger, like, for porn, like, I just only watched lesbian porn. So for me, like, I like that part of it. And, you know, so if we're like, it's funny because, like, we'll have that, like, interaction. And they're like, all right, get dressed and, like, see you guys downstairs for lunch. Like, kind of go on their day. Okay. So when was a lot, is that the last time you saw them in August? Yeah, that was last time. How come? I mean, we're, just so everyone knows, we're talking in end of January.

How come you haven't seen them since August? You told me that you're monogamous with them and you don't, and you're just, that's why you got up the apps. I mean, you've been monogamous with a couple you haven't seen since six months. Yeah, well, hold on. Let's see, August. It's four months. Yeah, no, we, I'm sorry. Five months. Yeah, the second time we saw them was, I would say, around November, actually.

I'm sorry, not August. When? Oh, okay. So this resort was going down in November, not August. Yeah. Okay. Right, right. The first time we met with them was in August.

Okay. All right. Well, I'm going to let you off the hook. Okay. I'm going to let you go. I've been having fun, though. It's just because it's a Saturday. I have to go hang out with my son.

Or I'd literally make you tell me 10 more stories just to fucking. trip you up. No. Are you still recording? Yes, I am. Why? Okay. Why?

What do you want to say? No, I hang up with people when I'm done recording. Just tell me and I'll edit it out. I'll edit it out. Yeah, the reason I might sound like... No, but wait, wait, wait, before I say this, because I will never fuck somebody over and say I'm editing something out, I'm not. Okay, like I'm just going to, so let me just say this before you tell me what

you're going to tell me. If you're going to make a... a plea for like your why you told the story that it sounds fake like you should let that stay in do you know what I mean like why not let it stay in yeah yeah yeah why not so just explain no no no I know what were you gonna say um what was if it sounds you were gonna say oh are you still recording like if it sounds like I'm yeah go on it's because oh no no yeah I'm just I'm trying to protect everybody and make sure everybody's like there's no like details like that would like you know put everybody's business out there's

Does that make sense? I guess. Not really. Not to me. It doesn't make sense. But maybe to other people. Everybody's different. That's what I love about factor friction episodes.

I leave it up to people. I don't mind people trashing me and being like, Kathy, you're a bitch. You're so wrong. And like, listen, you know, most of, I love the beginning part and all the anal stuff, you know, because that's like super interesting. And then the beginning of the story sounds fine. Like people aren't going to start laughing until like way later into this episode. At least I think it's funny.

Other people don't have a sense of humor about it. I don't know. But it's, I don't know that I'll put factor fiction in. you know what I mean, but I'll just let people know it has an interesting twist. Okay. Yeah, I like that. Okay, is that good? I won't title it. But it'll probably be up next Wednesday because I'm going to do it from a better at. So stay tuned. Do you want to, are you on my Discord or anything already?

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