Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1369 - Fave Sex Position, Naughty Fantasy Hook-ups, Threesome Sex? and More Q&A w/Kathy
Episode Date: February 15, 2026In this episode, Kathy asks herself a bunch of sexy questions she thinks every couple should be asking each other. How old was she when she first had sex and what was her first time like? What’s her... favorite sex position? Where does she most like to be touched? Has she ever had a threesome? Sent naked pics? Been caught having sex? Fantasized about someone inappropriate? Tried BDSM? Had sex in public? Regretted sleeping with someone? Plus, she answers and talks about soo much more. GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns https://VB.HEALTH,com — To get 10% off DRIVE BOOST use code: STRICTLY https://beducate.me/pd2605-anonymous Get your personalized road map to pleasure https://butterwellness.com Get the Butter massager and get 20% off your whole order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ X https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Today, I am doing a rapid-fire Q&A.
I'm doing it with myself, but these questions are questions you should ask your partner.
Okay, asking your partner questions and prompting conversations about sex is the key to changing shit up.
If, like, this was a domino game in your bedroom, it's the first domino that knocks all the fucking rest down and could lead at the end to you guys in a fucking orgy at a swingers club.
I've heard it before on my show.
Okay, and even if it doesn't get you to an orgy or swingers club,
it will always lead to better sex when you start talking about sex with your partner.
Because a lot of times when you start asking questions and you start revealing things to your partner
that you didn't even realize you'd never reveal to them before,
they then do the same back.
And then before you know it, you might wind up finding out that your partner is into all.
this kind of shit that you never thought that they were into. I had that experience recently,
and it literally was because I threw something out there first. And I'll tell you that real quick.
You might have heard me say it before, but my booty call guy, who I've been with for a very long time.
And he happens to be a good friend of mine. And so he never copped a certain things with me.
I know him very well. I had copped to him about the fact that,
oh, you know, when I start dating, if I meet a guy in the future that's like into hot wiping,
like all these guys are on my show, right? Because I've learned that. I was like, you know, I totally
do it for somebody. You know, I feel very differently about certain things because of it. And we're
literally like out to lunch talking about this. This was not like in the bedroom conversation.
It wasn't any kind of titillating thing. I just kind of threw it out there that I would be down with
somebody else. I didn't even propose it to him. I had never said that before. I always thought actually
between me and you and the world that's listening to this, I never thought I was into that at all. Okay.
But I, and even when I said it, it wasn't that I was like into it. I said like I would totally do it for my guy.
Because I really do believe that there's a lot of guys out there that are into that and like, why not?
You know? And so literally after I told him that, like two weeks later, he sent me a video and he was like, I'd like to see you do this too.
and I'm like, what do you mean?
Like me be with somebody else or you watch me?
Like, I didn't understand.
But really what it came down to is he copped to the fact that he would totally like to
see me with another guy or see a video of me being with another guy or me double dipping
in the day and being with somebody else with him and telling him about it.
Like the whole thing that all these guys are fucking into.
He copped to me.
Now, this is a guy I've known for a long time.
There's no way that he just thought of that.
Okay.
It's honestly, obviously something that he was always into, but he never felt comfortable
telling me or bringing it up because I never showed any kind of interest. But the minute I did,
and I don't think it's anything wrong with him like jumping through the little window of opportunity
I gave him. The minute I gave him that little window of opportunity, he jumped right in. And why not?
Why shouldn't he? And the weird thing was is when he jumped through that window of opportunity
and told me he was down with it when it became a reality, okay, the thing that I thought was
something that I was going to do for my guy if he wanted it to be nice. You know what I mean? Like,
why not? Turned into like a fucking immediately turn on. Like the thought of like double dipping or have
something over and then telling him about it and blah blah blah. Like the whole thought of it was like
instant turn on. I was like more turned on than I have ever been in my whole life like recently.
Right. Like it just added this whole other layer, uh, to my turn on and attraction that I didn't realize
ever existed, okay, and would, and the thought that it could actually be real. It wasn't like a
fantasy anymore. It was like something that like we could actually do. Just turned it fucking up and hodge.
I literally went out looking for somebody to make it happen. I couldn't make it happen. I started
emailing my ex-boot call guys trying to get somebody, you know, into the mix because I'm just not one to like,
you know, find a stranger off the street. I thought, oh, you know, it would be great to get somebody like a good
all faithful. You know, I have those guys out there, but no one was available.
dwindled down, but for weeks after this sort of proposition and this opening up of both of us
sort of copping to something that we were into, it had me go and entered on for a very long time.
And that just goes to show that communication is key.
Now, I wasn't very direct with him.
He's not my partner, you know, but I think people who are in long-term relationships should
really set aside a time to really have these conversations and really ask each other
questions because you just might find out that you or your partner are into things that you never
realize. Like I never realized I was into the hot wiping thing. I swear to you. Okay. I admit it.
And I did once it became a reality. And once he admitted it and all that thing. It was definitely
like a domino effect. Okay. So I have a bunch of questions I'm going to ask. Some of them are
questions that you can ask so you could get information on, you know, what your partner is into when it
to sex and all that kind of good stuff. And then there are some have you ever. So I've made a mix
of questions. I'm going to ask them. Okay. And then you, I'm going to answer them to make this
episode interesting. But these are questions you need to ask your partner, whether you're a
woman or a man. Okay. The first question is, uh, how old were you when you first had sex and what
was your first time like? Now, I think this is always a fun question. You know what I mean? What is,
what, what is someone's losing virginity story? I think it's kind of interesting because it kind of tells you
what kind of person they are, I think personally, because if you heard my losing my virginity story,
which I probably should just tell, I have like, you know, doing a whole episode for you guys,
and I'm talking to myself, is so fucking interesting.
And it says so much about who I am.
And I don't think, like, let me know if you know anyone else that has this losing their virginity
story.
I don't think anyone else lost their virginity in this manner.
I really think I am that unique when it comes to losing.
my virginity and you know so my story goes like that's okay so like I was like super young and I think
maybe it was illegal to when I was like 15 or 16 to be dating a 21 year old but I went into this
restaurant bar thing in the mall because I was like I'm like a little bit of a foodie and I was
obsessed with the French onion soup that they had in this French restaurant in this mall
by my house and I used to go there all the time with my girlfriends right I was super young like
15 16 years old we would always walk over there and we'd sit down at the restaurant and have this
French onion soup because it was like to die for
and I was obsessed with it. And one day the bartender, who worked there on the separate section,
came over and he was like, oh, aren't you so-and-so's neighbor? Now, I had a neighbor who was way older,
right? He was like 21 or whatever, and all his friends were always over his house, and this guy was
always there. And I knew of him, because I had seen him, and he knew of me. And I said, oh, yeah,
I am so-and-so's neighbor. And he said, oh, why don't you guys come into the bar area when you're done?
Okay, underage girls, this fucking bartender bringing us in there. Not allowed. It shouldn't have done that,
you know, we were young and dumb. And he wasn't obeying the rules. So he went in there. And he started
to give us drinks, okay, which we're not supposed to be drinking. We started drinking and we got so
drunk that by the time he asked me a question. He asked us like, oh, are you girls of virgins?
I was like, no. Okay. Now, I am, I was a virgin, okay, at that point. And this is why I don't
fucking lie. I hate lying. It is so exhausting. You make one lie. You have to do
10,000 lies. It comes back to bite you in the ass. I don't know how, like, because there are
professional liars out there. I've known them, right? What are they called pathological liars? I don't
know how they fucking live, okay, because it is exhausting. I told one lie to this guy and it turned
into big fucking mess. Okay, so I tell this guy, yeah, I'm not a virgin. I just think it was trying
to act cool. You know, I was like super young. This guy was like, hi, he was a bartender. He's
older than me. He was my neighbor's friend. You know, you get it, right? But the minute I said it,
I was like, oh, fuck, why did I lie? My friend gave me a look like, what do you?
you talking about, but we were like slightly buzzed, you know. I didn't think anything would come
of it, but actually at that same meeting, he did give me, what are those things called that you used
to fill out? Like, oh, an application to work there. They needed a hostess. I was like 16 or turning
16 like a month from then and it was going to need to get a part-time job, okay? That's when like,
you know, in my generation, we started working fucking early. So anyway, 16, I was like, oh, I need a
job. Maybe I'll be the hostess. And I wound up filling it out, giving to them.
called me up. I wound up getting the hostess position there and I started working there. And this guy
started hitting on me. Okay. I mean, we all saw this coming right. I didn't. But anyway, he starts hitting
on me. And then, you know, fast forward like one month in, we're making out in the back after shifts and
stuff. And I realize, oh my God, I'm going to have to start dating this guy and I'm going to have to
fuck him. And he doesn't think I'm a virgin. So I need to like lose my fucking virginity fast. So he does not find out
that I'm a virgin. So we start dating, but we haven't gone all the way. And I like immediately
call up my best friend. And I'm like, listen, I need you to do me a favor. Like, I need you to fuck
me until my cherry pops. Like, I need to bleed. I need my cherry to pop so that like this guy that
I'm dating doesn't find out that I lied to him about being a virgin. So of course he was like,
okay. And it's interesting that he said, okay, because it turns out that that guy right now is
currently gay, married to a man. Very handsome, by the way, but, you know, he wasn't even into
chicks, but he did. At that point, he was still straight. He said, sure, you know, we wrote letters to each other
on typewriters. Those were things that existed back then. I literally still have those letters that we wrote
back and forth, all these instructions. This was a friend that I had always liked, by the way, before I started
dating this older guy. He was so when I always had a crush on, he was like super gorgeous and hot and so
nice, and he was a good friend of mine. I really liked him. And we had fooled around before,
but never gone on the way. So, like, I was happy to be, you know, going all the way with.
them but it was really for the other guy you know so I wrote these like naughty hilarious uh notes to
each other back and forth and um I went to his house and we fucked and we fucked once and then I went
to the bathroom and I'm like oh there's no blood and then he fucked me twice and I said thank you and
I took the bus to my friend's house and no one ever knew and that guy never knew that I was not a virgin
and I had lied and that's why you don't lie and that's why losing my virginity story and I like to tell
it because I think it's kind of interesting but it does really tell you like to me it does
really tell you a lot about my personality. Like I will, you know, if I have a problem, I will
fucking solve it in whatever way I have to. I solve that problem. He never knew that I lied.
And life went on. And I'm so glad that I lost my virginity to the friend because my boyfriend
was like, oh my God, that biggest cheater player. He was so terrible. He cheated on me with
fucking everybody. So at the end of the day, I didn't lose my virginity. That's come back. I lost it
with my best friend. So I was happy about that. Anyway, so let's get to the more interesting
questions that you could ask your partner that are interesting besides that one. But I do think, though,
that asking your partner when they lost their virginity, you know, I like to ask people that. And sometimes
when it's like they're way older or way younger, I like to know sort of why you waited so long or
what made you do it really early. Like I couldn't wait to lose my virginity because I was like super
interested and curious about sex, you know? So it always baffles me when someone waits till they're
20 or 17 or 18. So I like to ask those questions, you know. What is your favorite sex position?
I've done polls on my patron.
I love doing polls and having people chime in on what your favorite sex position is.
And we're talking about females here,
but it's always good to ask your guy.
I think most guys like to fuck a girl from behind.
One of my friends once told me that there's like a reason why a woman being bent over from behind
with no clothes on is like for the animal male,
like the most enticing sort of vision that he could see.
But it's like this animal thing reason.
I forget what the analysis.
was, but it made sense, you know. So I think most guys love it from behind or love it when the girl is on top. So for a girl,
like what are the options, right? Like missionary from behind or on top or reverse cowgirl. Now, I remember when I did this poll,
so many women love to be on top because I think that that's how they could get like in the right position to have like an inside orgasm.
But I have never liked being on top. I don't know what it is, whether it is. Whether it's,
It's like the person's looking straight at me or I'm like on display or it's like pokey,
if it's like a little dick.
I don't know.
I have never liked to be on top at all.
I prefer like to be on top laying down where the guy is underneath me.
I prefer from behind only if the guy doesn't have a big dick.
Okay.
I don't want it from behind if the guy has a big dick or a long dick because I don't like
cervical touching of my cervix.
Okay.
But I always used to make a difference.
joke like if I told a guy to like fuck me from behind. It meant that he was a little on the small
side, but which is fine, you know, and I don't mind being pounded from behind, but not as someone's
too big. So I always liked a missionary or I liked if I laid down on my belly and flat, right? And the guy
entered me from behind or I loved when the guy laid down and I laid down on him on my back
and like fucked him that way. Does that make sense? Try to picture it. Those were always my favorite
positions or from the side, I think from the side, like, say the guy spooning you in the morning,
because I do like morning sex. And I think one of those questions is coming up, when do you like
to have sex? From the side, when they're like holding your leg open, like a scissor, you know,
and they fuck you from the behind. That is a good way. That's one of my favorite sex positions.
And I think that this is a great one to ask your partner because, you know, people like to do what
they like to do. And you need to know, right? Okay. Because most, because a lot of times,
maybe your partner is doing something all the time because they think you like it,
but it's not necessarily what they like and they're just not telling you about it.
So it's good to ask.
Where do you most like to be touched?
Now listen, this is like, there's so many places to be touched that aren't obvious that I feel like I should answer those.
But first of all, like between my legs, okay, that's always a hot place to be touched.
But I think like with somebody's mouth, there are so many like weird places to be touched.
There's this weird place on my back in between like my shoulder blade and my spine.
where like if someone like makes out or like gives me hickeys in that area like I can like come from it you know I don't know I've had guys go down on my armpits and I've done armpit like stuff to guys and that's like super hot there's a lot of places to be touch that are super great I'm thinking about mouth right but I think it's two separate questions like where do you like to be touched on your mouth I think kissing is really hot and touching with your mouth there's so many parts of your body besides the obvious places that could be super hot if it's just fingers and
hands, you know, if you go really slowly, like the side of your sides and, you know, anything
close to your erogenous zones, you know what I mean? Sort of teasing and that kind of a thing
with your hands is like always super hot and prolongs things. And that's like really great.
What is your favorite time of day to have sex? Now, this is really subjective too. And everyone,
like, remember Erica that used to call the show all the time? She loved like 11 a.m. or she had like a very
specific time that she liked. I get horny like at night. Sometimes during the day, like if I'm like really
stressed out and trying to think of something or in a mode where I'm stressed, like I could get super horny
and I think it's like a distraction of my body's way of like distracting me to just like take a
fucking break. I don't know. But I do like also like groggy sex. Like I like if my guy wakes me up
in the middle of the night or in the morning when you're with the guy.
not if he comes over in the morning after you're woken up two hours later, you know, more so
like in the morning when they wake up and you could do that move that I just said was like
from behind scissors sex, spoon sex, scissors sex, spooning scissors sex. And you could do it.
Because there's something about like in the middle of the night or right in the morning where like
I said, you're a little groggy. When you're a little groggy, it's like you're fucking high.
And as a sober person, I think maybe that's why I like it. I don't know. But sometimes
Sometimes it's random during the day out of nowhere where you could just get like a really fucking horny, right?
You just don't know.
But the other thing that actually really makes me horny is a hotel room.
And I think that that's true with a lot of people.
I don't know what that's about.
A guy told me recently on a call that his wife gets really horny when they go away.
And he's like, you know, he attributed to the fact that, you know, she's out of the house.
There's nothing there to remind her that she's a mom, you know.
And I think that there's something to say with that.
Like I never put that together.
I just always got horny in hotel rooms for some reason, but I think it is because you're just like out of like all these other, these places where you're wearing all these other hats. You know, as a woman, especially when you get older, like when you're young and your 20s, you know, all you are is hot, right? Like it's everything about you is like, I'm just a fucking a hot chick, right? And then maybe you have a side job that you're doing. But you don't have your career yet. You know, you're just fucking hot. And that's like all of you. You know, and then as you get older, you just take on all these other responsibilities and you have all these other masks. And you're
a mom and there's nothing like hot about being a mom you know what i mean and then you have a career and
there's nothing sexy about having a career you know and then you have a household to take care of and
that's not hot either you know and then you have your hot side of you but it's now mixed with all
these other things so you know a lot of times you forget about that part of who you are you're not
walking around as a hot 25 year old all the time feeling fucking hot right so i think when you get to
the hotel room you're back to just like being fucking hot you know there's no house to take care of
Hopefully you're on vacation without your kids.
There's no kids to take care of.
You know, there's no job.
You're off work.
And you could just be hot, right?
Like when you were like 24.
So maybe that's it.
I don't know.
But so I think a good question would be like, where do you get horny?
Do you get horny in a hotel room?
And if they say yes, take them away on vacation a lot.
Okay.
Do you like to have sex with the lights on or off?
I prefer in between.
like if the lights are off, I want to see something.
I don't want pitch black, right?
But I don't want bright lights either.
I'm not interested in that.
Never happened even when my body was perfect, okay?
I like like candlelight, dim light, even turn all the lights off.
You're going to still fucking see everything, but you're not going to see every nook and cranny.
Not in yourself and not in your partner, okay?
Who wants to see everything?
Not me.
I don't really know.
I can't explain it.
But like, I kind of like to set the mood with like nice,
lighting that makes everything look super hot. And I think, you know, bright lights are the opposite of that.
Totally off and pitch blackness. Who's into that, you know? But I think some play where in the middle
is super interesting. Do you like erotica? I think a lot of women like erotica. I don't. So this is when I
think I was like definitely born with more testosterone than most women because I never really liked
erotic eye. Even when I was writing my book, I kept, you know, I had someone helping me write. And every time he put in all these adjectives, I was like, oh, take that out. It's so stupid. Like, he would use words like twirl around and all this, like, stupid shit that I was like, oh my God, that does not turn me on. And I always make jokes. I always say, like, you know, if I ever went to a hotel with a guy where I typically get horny, but he took, like, flowers and put it like they do on these TV shows that I watch, like from the door to the bathroom.
tub or to the bedroom like that would not make me hot like that would make me not hot like that's not
hot to me I'm not like into erotica in that way or romance in a way to and I think erotica is like really
like a flowery in that sense and it's just not for me but I'm going to tell you something most women
fucking love it so if you're a guy and you're listening it trust me your girl likes erotica and
this is what comes in it does definitely comes into play with the next question which is do you
watch porn I do like porn. I do like porn.
And I think that's where I'm a little bit like a guy like that.
I just want to get to the fucking action.
I don't even need the setup.
Do you know what I mean?
I just want to see the shit going down, you know?
I do though think that, you know, hearing people talk about sex is hot, but I don't like it in erotica format.
But a lot of people do, you know, and I think a really great question that isn't on this list that I found online is like, you know, how do you get turned on by what you hear, by what you see, by what you smell, by what you touch?
I mean, I think that there's different ways to get turned on.
I'm definitely visual, you know, like get me a mirror and where you can watch sex or
videotape yourself like that's super hot or, you know, talk about it, hearing about sex,
someone whispering shit in your ear, talking dirty, or like listening to audio porn that's like super hot and not too flowery,
which I don't like, you know, I think is like really hot, I think.
But everybody's different.
So I think you need to ask your partner how they get to.
turned on, but I think watching porn or if you like erotica or you like to listen to sexy stuff
together, always can add to the mix and, you know, you don't have to do it every time you have sex,
but to do it every now and then could be fun. What makes you feel sexy? I'm going to tell you what
makes women feel sexy is like compliments, a guy that really fucking wants them. That's horny for them.
I mean, as long as it's not annoying them when they're not in a time where they want you,
it could just be annoying, right? But if they're kind of in the mood and you just, and you just
just make them feel like the hottest piece of ass of the planet.
They're gonna fucking love it.
Okay, at least I do.
I like compliments.
I like to feel like somebody is really fucking into me and horny for me.
And that makes me feel sexy.
Let's get to some have you ever questions.
Have you ever been caught having sex?
I mean, listen, remember my little guy, not my little guy,
my old guy from the bar.
Well, he lived with it.
He was like 21, but he still live with his parents.
I obviously live with my parents because it was like 16.
So we fucked in his car all the time.
That's all we ever did was fucked in his car.
You know, and we fucked in his car in front of my house, parked in front of my house on my cul-de-sac.
We fucked in his car in parking lots all the time.
You know, I miss car sacks.
I think I say it all the time on my show.
I think just a regular couple that is listening right now that has fucked in the room for the past 30 years,
keep in married. I say go out tonight and
fuck in your car. I live in New York City. I actually do
have a car because I have a son
and I do like to take him out of the city and
we drive around and go on an adventures, but I
haven't used my car for sex.
But if I lived in the suburbs and
had a guy right now, I would just go out
and have sex in a car even
just because I
remember car sex to be super fun.
Like you get in like weird positions and
you know, it's kind of naughty and you might be
caught, but you don't want to get caught. But I was caught
actually with that guy, that's the whole point of this.
You know, all of a sudden we're like having sex in the car.
And we see like a light shining on us.
It was a police guy.
Okay.
Now my guy, okay, was a bartender.
And so he knew like everybody in town.
He was also in a band that was very popular in our town.
So the guy kind of knew him.
He asked me my age.
I lied.
And he just like sent us on our way.
I told us to stop, you know, get it together.
And we like left.
but we did get caught.
But I don't think that that stopped us
from having sex in the car.
I mean,
that's where all young people do it
because you have no place else to go, right?
Like I said, he was 21,
but he didn't have his own place.
So we were like begging in his car all the time.
Like I said, go try car sex.
I think it's kind of fun.
Have you ever watched somebody having sex?
No, but because I'm very visual,
I think like, oh, just going to like a swingers club
and just watching people and seeing people
is probably like super hot.
Okay, some people,
I love to ask these questions.
to people who have been on my show, especially women, because I'm a woman and I want to know what they
felt. And some of them go and they see people all having sex around them. And, you know, they could take it
or leave it because they're just not wired that way, right? Everybody's different. For me, I am very
wired to be turned on by what I see. So I think watching people have sex is like super hot. And I,
I've always known I'm a cuck queen since I started doing my show. Somewhere along the line, I realized
I was into that. So I would love to see my guy with another girl and watch the whole action and sit
there, not even participate, actually watch it. I think that that's like super hot. I also heard
somebody once and got like oddly turned on. Like, have you ever been in a hotel room? Like, I have
been in hotel rooms where people were like banging in the next room or watching porn super loud and I've
just been fucking irritated by it. But there was one time where I was in a hotel and it was like,
it wasn't so loud. It was like kind of low. All of a sudden I'm like, oh, I hear something like,
what is that noise? And I put like my head to the wall to hear it because it wasn't like,
so loud that you could totally hear, but it was obvious something was going on. And when I put my
ear to the wall, I wasn't like thinking they were having sex for some reason. I don't know what I was
listening for, but it was that they were having sex. And the moaning and the shit that they were doing
got me like totally horny, like, which I never experienced before. I was like, oh my God, that's like
kind of interesting. It's kind of naughty, right? Because you think you're just like listening in on somebody else
or anything. I don't know. So I've never watched somebody, but I've heard someone, the people
in the next hotel room and it was kind of fun I have to say I have to say have you ever
sent naked pics to somebody yes the guy I see now that I just flew around with he loves
dirty pics it's a little exhausting because he wants them all the time and I mean how many
different fucking variations can you send of the same shit you know but I do send them
I will send them I don't mind sending them I put a lot of effort into sending them I
I mean, it's never like take one shot and just send.
It's like take 10 and pick two and then fix them up and then send, you know, kind of thing.
But yes, I will send naked picks to someone for sure.
Have you ever made a sex tape?
For sure.
I like stuff like that.
I think that that's fun.
I mean, you do have to be careful.
Like I remember with one of my boyfriends, we called him Big Dick Nicky.
He was one of my first boyfriends.
There was like no kind of video cameras at that time, but there was like Polaroids.
And we used to take Polaroids and I don't know, the thought of him like, and he used
have to take them to stores and he would drive like over the border into another state to take our
pictures. He would take all kinds of like a hot picks of us together, you know, and take him to the
Polaroid shot and then bring them back and imagine what those guys that worked in Polaroid stores used to
see back then. I mean, we obviously weren't the only couple taking pictures, you know, but I think stuff like
that is fucking fun. You do have to be careful. Like, listen, I was like banging this one guy who was my guy for
a long time. And, you know, when I was over his house, all of a sudden, I'm like, what the fuck is that? He was like filming me without me knowing it. Like, what a fucking scumbag, right? Like, I was like, get that shit out of here. I mean, that you have to watch out for that kind of stuff. You have to make sure if you're going to do any kind of sex tape or video or pictures with anybody. You do it with somebody that you fully trust. Because that kind of shit is nobody's business, you know, and it's super fun to do with a partner, right?
and super fun if you are both visual to watch it back and see it.
And it's fun,
but you don't want that coming and biting you in the ass later.
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I mean, the sad thing is is that sometimes you don't know who you're with and how they will behave if things ever end.
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But I do think it's fun.
I actually bought a little camcorder off of Amazon recently because I was like, oh, wouldn't it be fun if I put it in my room?
And because like it's the type of camcorder where it's, no, it's not a camcorder.
It's like a nest cam kind of a thing where it was like a baby cam, right?
And I'm like, oh, wouldn't it be hot when my guy comes over, we could put it on and then you could stream it, right?
Like action.
So you could be fooling around.
You could be watching it and thing.
And he was like, I don't want to see myself.
I was like, okay.
But I like that.
You know, but he did it.
And that's what's so interesting about.
these questions is because like you know you might think that oh every guy is going to want a
sex tape and make it you know and the girl's going to be like no I'm too self-conscious but in my
situation it was the opposite so you never know you got to ask your partner but I think it's fun to
make one as long as you fully trust each other and you're cool with it um have you ever tried
or wanted to try BDSM no I have never tried it um I the thought of like a spreader bar is like
interesting to me because I always liked if like a guy like pushed my legs apart and kept them there and
wouldn't let them move like when he was going down on me like I like that kind of feeling so I think
I would like a spreader bar is that a little bit of like BDSM I don't know I like tease in denial
I like a little spanking like that could be hot right like very light I'm not into total pain
but there's such different variations of BDSM and you know when you really get into BDSM I learn for
my show it's a lot more mental than it is even physical and there's so many
like I said, different variations and different extremes of it that I don't even know what this
question means, but a lot of people are into it. Like I said, there's different variations of it.
And it could be super fun. Like, like I said, I would try a spreader bar. Some people just want
like handcuffs. Some people like to be blindfolded. There's something to, I've had people on my
show who have talked about like denying your senses. And when you do that, it just makes sense.
Like you just make sex so much better. Like, you know, you blindfold yourself. That's
taking away your site and then some people have gone to the point where they actually put
headphones in so they can't hear anything right and so there's like if you take the senses
the way they say supposedly it makes sex better so I think that there's so many different things
to try in BDSM you just have to be on the same page like I said there's spreader bars there's
flogging there's tying up you know I always wanted to be tied up and have been tied up with
my boyfriends and stuff so I think I've tried like like BDSM but
but I think BDSM, and especially if it's extreme, and there's nothing wrong with that,
is one of those things that if your partner doesn't think you'd be into it, they might keep that a secret,
especially if they really like to be like hit hard or, you know, really like putting ball gag in their mouth.
You know, they might be afraid to cop to that.
But, you know, if they're into it, there's nothing wrong with that.
And maybe you'd be into it too.
You just never know.
So I think that that's a good thing to open up and ask your partner about because it could,
could be something that they are keeping to themselves.
Like, I had one boyfriend, not boyfriend, but he was like a booty-cull guy who was very rough.
And he was the only guy I liked it rough with because it was, he was actually like really
quiet.
And then when he got in the bedroom, it was like the craziest thing.
It was like some weird switch.
I'd never seen anything like it.
I never liked rough sex with anyone, but with him I did.
So you just never know.
And I think sometimes like questions like this in talking about it, like, you know, maybe
even if you decide you're both not into it, it might make it you guys decide to try
something, right? It gets the imagination going and thinking about things. This is a good one. Have you ever
fantasized about someone inappropriate? I think, yeah, sometimes in fantasy land, you know, inappropriate
scenarios, not someone inappropriate, but I've told this story before. Once we were driving in
the great adventure, we were like trying to park and we passed by this guy who had a pair of shorts on it,
but through his shorts, you could see the biggest dick I've ever seen in my whole life, the whole
life. The whole outline of it, I don't know if he was sitting there advertising himself. I don't know,
but let me just tell you, I thought about the fantasy of literally leaving my friends and telling them I
had to go get something from my car and then going and fucking that guy in his car. You know,
that's, to me, someone inappropriate, but it's just a fucking fantasy. And it's like kind of hot, right?
Like fucking someone behind your friend's back that they never know a random guy in a parking lot just because it was a big dick.
I think we've all thought about the, you know, the inappropriate person.
And I think what's okay about doing it in fantasy land is that you're never going to do it in real life.
So that's why it's fun to do stuff like that.
That's, you could live that stuff out in your own private head or with your partner, you know, mock that shit up.
Have you ever had sex in public?
Yeah, and all the cars, sex I've had.
You know, when I was a drinker in New York City, oh my God, there was this one bar, jazz bar that I worked in.
and we fucked in the back all the time.
I had a guy there that I used to have sex with.
And I think we would fuck.
I mean,
I think back and it's like all kind of blurry
because it was always like drinking and working.
And, you know,
I was like a cocktail which is in this place.
And like,
we would go in the back and have sex.
And I think we were like in these booths.
And other people were in booths,
but they couldn't see us.
And, you know,
we used to go in the side area of the bar
where people couldn't see you,
but it was definitely in public.
So I've done stuff like that.
Nothing inappropriate where people could see me
because that's like crossing a long.
But that's where I think like maybe car sex is kind of hot because it's like kind of public, but it's not. And you're like in the privacy and no one could see you, you know. Have you ever had sex with more than one person in a single night? No, I never have. But this is how I knew I was a cuck queen because one of my booty call guys, Tommy, he was my co-host of my show. He used to double and triple dip all the time. He was a fucking player when I was banging him. And I would know that he was double triple dipping. But he would never admit it to me.
And I would say to him, like, why don't you just tell me?
Like, maybe I think it's hot.
You know, I didn't even put it together that that's what it meant, that I wanted him
to fuck someone else before he came after me.
And I thought that was hot.
I would just tell him that because we were like banging for so long.
And it was like, why not add some spice to things, you know?
But, and then when my friend told me that he wanted me to fuck someone else for him
and I thought of like, oh, having him and someone else in the same day is so naughty
that it became hot that I have never done it, but the thought of it is super hot.
So I think it's a fun one to ask your partner because like,
maybe they'd never do it in real life,
but it is a hot fantasy, right?
To actually talk about,
because there is something hot about thinking
that you've been with two different people in a night.
It was hot to me to think that my guy
had been with somebody else before me,
and then also for me to be with somebody
before my guy as well.
So you never know.
Have you ever tried anal?
Oh my God, yes.
I was like the first one to bring it up
when I was like 16 or 17
with one of my boyfriend's like,
can you just fuck me in my ass?
I can't wait to try it.
I just wanted to try everything with sex.
I was always super curious,
but everything.
Not just about sex.
but about sex for sure. And so yeah, I tried anal early on and loved it. Have you ever been to a sex shop? Yeah, one of my best friends when I was little. Little, not little. When I was in like my 20s owned a sex shop on 42nd Street. So I used to always go in there. I actually duped porns for him when I was in college and he paid me. And by duping them, I meant like he would get masters. He would buy masters and then I would make copies and send them to a shop and he would sell them. And I got to tell you, I was like fucking killer at it because not only did I have to be.
make copies of them, okay? I had to take pictures, screenshots, and then create like a cover page
and a back page with like a collage of shots from the video and then write the description. And I remember
specifically him telling me that all the guys in the store were like, Kathy writes the best blurbs.
You know, it would be like, oh, watch these BBW women fucking suck, you know, the BBC guys.
And I don't know, it was like, you know, shit like that. I had to write just like this one little naughty
paragraph for these porn thing. So does it make sense that even though I didn't set out to have a
podcast about sexy kind of when you look back in my life, it seems like right on par, you know,
because I did work for him and it was a fun job. He had like a whole room, two rooms actually,
in his apartment set up with millions of TVs. And so I saw all kinds of porn. And let me tell
you the craziest porn was this Asian porn where it's like this series in all of these videos.
They were all the same. They had like all these Asian business.
men in like an audience and then they would go up and they would like squeeze stuff into the girls like
asshole or something. I don't know. It was like a girl was on a table and the guys were in the audience and
they would do something. It was like a lot of like humiliation and degradation of women. I didn't
really like it at all. It was like very bizarre to me. But I saw it all during that time because, you know,
he had a sex shop and he sold every kind of genre of porn. There's something for everybody out there.
It's kind of crazy. Have you ever had a threesome? Yes.
I had many threesomes with girls.
I did a whole episode.
It's episode 500.
You could see me talking in that episode.
You could see my body in that episode, not my face, but you can see my hair of my body
in that episode on my Patreon.
It used to be on my YouTube, but I got to lead it on there.
But I did a whole episode, episode 500, where I told all my hot stories and the threesome
stories are all on there.
You should go listen to it.
But this is a good one to ask your partner because maybe if they never had one,
but maybe it's a fantasy of theirs.
Like maybe the question is, have you ever had a threesome?
or would you ever want one?
You know?
Because maybe that's your first domino that you're going to hit down, that'll lead to you guys having a threesome, whether it's with a woman or a man.
I only had them with women, but I'd like to have them with a man one day for sure, right?
But mine were all with women, but they're all in my 500th episode.
Okay, I'm going to just do two more.
Have you ever fantasized about someone else while having sex?
Yes, I talked about this in an episode recently with somebody else.
I think with Adam or Layla, I don't remember who, but, you know, doesn't everybody think about
somebody else? And not so much someone else, okay? I'm not like with a guy and thinking about
another guy that I like better than him. It's more so, oh, if I'm with someone and I'm thinking
about the guy, a great adventure with the big dick, you know, it's a scenario that you're
thinking about, you know, like I have thought of other scenarios when I've been with somebody.
And I think everybody does, especially when you're banging the same person over time.
I mean, you know, when you first meet that person, you have that great chemistry that you have with that new person.
I'm like, you're not thinking about anybody else.
But over time, you do.
A lot of the guys that I've been with in my life, they're like,
and not long-term relationships, but long-term booty calls.
And, you know, after a while, I do have to think about somebody else.
And I'm sure they're thinking about somebody else, too.
I told that great story about Tommy.
I'll tell it to you real quick on my episode with Adam last time.
I was blowing him.
He was taking a long time.
I just wanted to go have fucking dinner.
I was just there to get some steak.
I had my period.
I didn't want to fuck him.
So I'm like, I'll just blow you.
I'm blowing him.
I look up at him because he's not coming.
And I'm like, can you just like think about somebody else so you could comment so we could go to dinner really fast because I'm fucking hungry? And he's like, do you actually think I'm thinking about you? And that's sex between two people that have been banging for a long time. You know, everyone thinks about somebody else. Okay, last thing is have you ever regretted sacks. Yes. I mean, it's one of the reasons why I quit drinking. How I got sober story. I have that whole episode. That's another episode where I talk about myself. I quit drinking when I was like 34. And it was because I started to have like wake up.
like after having sex with somebody that was like cuddling in my bed and I was like get the fuck out of here you know and they were never like strangers at some level I was always smart enough to take home like a friend and actually it was so funny because the one it's so sad because the one friend that I'd always wake up and be like oh my god get the fuck out was like a really good friend of mine and then I'd like calm up later in the day and I'd talk to him about how I regretted fucking him so much and he'd like talk me down from the cliff and then he'd wind up at my house the next day because I'd take him home when I was drunk blackout
Oh my God, like how mean. Imagine you like fuck a girl. You're cuddling her in the morning and she's like, get the fuck out. I'd be so horrified because I was like blacking out and just like having sex. Like I said, never with like strangers. It was always the people that I knew, but not people that I liked. And I started to like really think like, oh my God, like this is, I mean, there's a lot of reasons why I quit. I definitely hit a bottom. But a big part of it was like I wasn't enjoying sex. I wasn't even awake for it. I was like blacked out. And I was just having sex with any.
and that was not pleasurable.
I fucked a lot of guys I didn't want to fuck when I was drinking.
Sorry.
And I'm sorry.
I believe that everybody is like this.
Okay.
If nobody drank in life, everybody's numbers would be cut in more than half, okay?
I fucked a lot of people.
I would never have fucked in real life when I was drinking.
And there was once this book, it was called About Me.
And you had to put like, you had to like fill it out.
And there was one thing about like, what was your biggest regret?
And I put in there that I fucked this guy who was like my best friend.
That was another one.
This is not the same guy I just talked about.
there was another guy came in the city one night who was my best friend and I always knew he was
so in love with me and I did not like him at all like I just wasn't physically attracted to him
but I got drunk one night I took him home I fucked him he woke up in my room and I was like oh my
god biggest regret ever and I wrote that and he read it to this day he's like a biggest regret
he's still at least he gets pissed about it the other guy would just come back over my house and
fuck me the next day at least that my best friend was like he to this day still is like never
will forget how he was
biggest regret.
I mean, it is a fucking diss.
And the fact that he saw it
is so fucking funny.
And that's the reason why I quit drinking.
And like I said, I mean, I fucked a lot of people
that I didn't want to when I was drunk
and I think a lot of people do.
I remember my first,
this is the last thing I'm going to say.
I remember my first sober date.
It was with a guy from my friend's office.
My friend was very successful.
These guys that work with him
were super Uber, successful finance guys.
And there was this one guy
who was very hot old money guy not my type at all i don't even know why i went out with him but he was
like super hot he wanted to take me out and i went out with him this is a first date of me not drinking so i can't
drink you know we're having sushi and the whole time we're on this date okay this is guy works for my
friend and my friend is like a big guy at this company he's the CEO of this fucking company this
guy works for him okay he's trashing my best friend to me he's sitting across from me just saying
all this rude shit about my friend, his boss to me. And I am just like fucking horrified. Like how rude this
dude is. You know what I mean? Don't just talk shit about my friend in front of me. Second of all,
you're such an asshole. This guy's your fucking boss. You know what I mean? It's like so inappropriate.
I'm like, this guy's the biggest douchebag. And, you know, we went back to his house. He had like
the most beautiful apartment. Like I said, he came from old money. He had a lot of cash. He was gorgeous.
But I was so turned off because he was just like a scumbag.
he was boring and that I left without fooling around with him. And I remember thinking the first
thing I thought was like, you know what, if I was loaded on this date, or even not even loaded,
just buzzed, this guy would have seemed so much more interesting than he was. I realize that
actual sober dating is so much better than dating when you're fucking drunk. Because a lot of times
when you have those first couple of dates with that beginning person and you're drinking alcohol and you're
like buzzed, trust me, the alcohol and the buzz is making that person seem a lot more interesting
than they are. Okay. Like when I, I knew that if I had been buzzed with that guy sitting across from me,
I wouldn't have heard a word he said. I would have saw his nice house. I would have thought he was
hilarious. You know what I mean? You're just like half out of your mind so you don't fucking get it.
And I was like, oh, this is a lot better being sober because you really understand it. And that's why I
didn't fuck a lot of guys after that because, you know, you're getting the real deal. You're not drunk
enough to think people are interesting or hotter than they are. So I don't believe that people
shouldn't drink. Drink up. I make people drinks. I don't have a problem with alcohol. I just can't drink.
But I promote not drinking that much or not drinking at all when you first meet somebody to see
if they're really interesting without alcohol because eventually you're not going to be drinking with them.
And if they're a fucking dead or a douchebag, you might regret it. So anyway, this was exorkewarm.
Busting talking to myself for 46 minutes. I hope you enjoyed it. I'm going to have a co-host on next time.
This is too much. I don't know how people that talk on their podcast by themselves all the time do it.
It's too much. I'm not into it. I like having a co-host on. But I hope you enjoyed this episode.
I'll put some of the questions in the description. Make sure to have these conversations with your
partner. Like I said, it's the key to having great sex. I promise you start talking to them.
and I will put a link actually to this great website that I found that has all these like different
questions about sex that you could prompt, right?
There's like sex questions to get to know your partner, sex questions to reveal turn-ons,
sex questions to turn your partner on, have you ever questions?
Sex to ask marriage.
Sex questions to ask friends.
Like it's a whole different bunch of lists.
And I think it's like super fun to bring it into your bedroom or onto your couch when you're
hanging out with your partner and go through them and have this conversation.
with them. Don't talk to the wall like I just did. It's exhausting. My throat hurts. I got to go eat. Anyway,
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You could call that number 24-7.
I change all the voices on the confessions too.
so you remain anonymous. The number, the website, and the email address will all be in the
description. If you want to follow the show, follow me at Strict Anonymous on either Instagram or
Twitter. That's at Strict Anonymous. And if you want to sign up for my Patreon, you're not only
supporting my show, but you're going to get all of these episodes early and ad free. You're going to get
anonymous picks of all of my guests. Most of the girls send me in anonymous hot picks of themselves,
and some of the guys are sending me in anonymous picks as well.
You also get access to my private Discord
where people are getting super naughty.
If you sign up for my Discord,
you could post whatever you want
and talk to my other listeners.
To sign up for my Patreon, just go to patreon.com
slash strictly anonymous podcast.
That's patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast.
The links and everything else I spoke about
are all in the description.
Thanks so much for listening.