Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1371 - Josie is Into Pegging her Guy, Threesomes, Fisting and More

Episode Date: February 17, 2026

Josie is into pegging her guy, fisting, threesomes and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when she met her husband (ep #1350) and how she knew he was open minced in the bedroom, how she feels about anal herself, the threesomes and couple swaps that they had when they were first married, the unicorn they shared for awhile and what went down, the naughty massage massage they recently had overseas and exactly what went down, when they got into pegging and what went down, how she felt about it at first, how she felt the first time she saw him have a prostate orgasm, her first time she got fisted and how she felt about it, the suction toy she is into and what it has done for her, how they’re now looking for men, women and couples, the unicorn they met recently and why they didn’t hook up with her, how she uses toys on her husband to stimulate his prostate plus a whole lot more. GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠347-420-3579⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. All voices are changed.   Sponsors: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VB.HEALTH,com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — To get 10% off DRIVE BOOST use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2605-anonymous ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your personalized road map to pleasure ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get the Butter massager and get 20% off your whole order Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠t⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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just go to the description and click on the link. Okay, today I have on Josie. Josie is a lot of fun. She's got so many great stories. She's funny the way she tells her stories too. She is Ethan's wife. Ethan called in a while ago. His episode was 1350.

He was a guy that got his wife into pegging. But she tells me so much more. Like there are a couple that had like, you know, a lot of fun. They were like super open and had. all kinds of play with other people. They've had nodding massages. They had threesome with their friends. They went to Amsterdam and played with some people as well. She talks all about all that kind of stuff. They're both consider themselves hetero-flexible. She talks about her experiences with women. He's open to being with a guy. She was always like a little bit of a freak waiting for to meet like her match. And she did with Ethan.

They have tried everything, including fisting. I mean, wait until you hear her stories. And then eventually he bit it to being into pegging and they're into that. And she's so blown away by his prostate orgasm. She explains all of it. It's a super interesting episode. If you want, we talk about so much. I mean, she explains herself as someone being down to try anything and she's always open and interested in doing something new. And she really is.

Like I said, when you hear what she has tried and she's always open to do stuff and they've done a lot. And now they're back at it. I mean, they took a break because they had kids, but they're back at it. They're online looking for people. She explains all that. It's a super interesting episode. So I'm going to be right back on.

So I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Josie. Hey, Josie. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today? Good. Thank you for having me. Now listen, Josie. I thought you wanted to call yourself Jersey and I'm like, that's a terrible name. Think of a hot girl name. And I like Josie. That was the name that you really wanted. And it was actually a cute name. I don't know if I've ever had a Josie on, but I like the name. You are Ethan's wife. Ethan was on my show recently. His episode is 1350. Ethan got his wife into pegging him. Okay, so Ethan was a guy that, you know, is open to anal play. I love guys like that because I'm always kind of trying to promote it.

But I do think it's super interesting to hear from a woman that's with a guy that's into it. Because I think the reason why a lot of guys either don't go there or would never admit that they're into it with their partner, because they're so afraid of what a woman would think, right? Because the first thing is going to be like, oh my God, are you gay? Because you want something in your ass? Like, it's so stupid, but it really has that big stigma. right? True. But at the same, okay, so all the guys that I had dated before Ethan, I was like always trying to put my, my finger in their ass. I, oh, listen, if you were sitting across me,

we were having coffee, I would high-five you right now, Josie, okay? Because I was that girl, too. I always went there because, like, why not? And, you know, but let me ask you this, Josie, how many guys allowed you to do it? None of them were really. into it. Like all my boyfriends before Ethan were kind of vanilla. Like, sex was good. I would orgasm. You know, it's not like it didn't feel good, but it wasn't like super exciting. And yeah, so when I met Ethan, it was different. Like, I tell him he was the pervious boy I'd ever dated. And you like that because you were a pervy girl. Like, you were down to try everything. That's why you just assumed that the other guy on the other end was just like you. I mean,

you were really projecting when you were doing that to all these guys, right? You just thought that they would be open because you were. Yeah, yeah. But he also like opened my eyes to other things. Like he was very sex positive and just talked openly about sex. He told me he was into porn. I was like, okay, I honestly don't even think like a couple of my long time boyfriends from before were even end to porn. And maybe they didn't tell you. Come on. honestly I just like based on the sex we were having like just I don't know I can't like like I said like I would have orgasms it would feel good but like I'm just anyway. Anyway you can talk about what were you going to say guys love to hear girls opinions about like sex and guys and stuff I think it's kind of interesting your take on things. Yeah they just weren't like pushing the envelope or like interested in I don't know I guess they just weren't like pretty enough from me.

They weren't interested in being, but you just thought that that meant that they weren't doing they were probably watching porn. They just probably weren't interested in living it up. You know what I mean? Like maybe they didn't just need all of that stuff when it came down to it. But I'm sure they were watching it. I'm assuming you're watching porn. Like what were all the things that you were fantasizing about that you wanted to do that you were

into as this kinky person that none of your guys were into? I wasn't watching porn. Like basically like Ethan tapped into something. Wow. Isn't it interesting that you're like saying these guys were no fun? They weren't even watching porn when you. you weren't either. So like attracts like.

I guess. I didn't mean you guess. You weren't even watching it yourself. I needed someone to expose me to things, I suppose. You know? Oh my God. I love interviewing people because sometimes I, a picture looks so much different after I ask a bunch of questions.

I mean, you did paint your picture out to be like you're this like really wild woman that wants to do all these things and all these guys were so boring. But it was like you were also somebody that like wasn't really exploring or anything. Though there was a part of you that wanted to, right? You were waiting for someone to take the lead, but you hadn't taken the lead yourself either.

It's not like you were curious, Googling porn, playing with your asshole, or any of that kind of stuff on your own. You were waiting for somebody to like ignite it in you or bring that out. But you had those thoughts, right? I was, yes. Oh, I was masturbating. Okay. I was definitely masturbating.

I mean, like, at a young age, I started like running the water in the bathtub between my legs and having an orgasm, like, at a very young age, like maybe eight. But you were watching porn, though? You had never been curious about porn before? Not really, no. And I'm actually not, I've never, even, I'm not a big porn person. Like, I started watching Erica Lust within the last, like, year, and I'm into that. but like I'm very particular, I'm more into like sensual erotic stuff. Like I get really turned on by like movie scenes that are like.

Oh, that's very girl of you. Yeah, like in erotica. That's why they raid erotica. Like that's smut for women. Yeah. So I'm, I'm into like seeing people genuinely like lust after each other. And it has to be beautiful. I like like the nice lighting.

like, you know, like the pretty set. So, yeah. Okay, but you must think, and I'll get past my harping on the fact that you put down these guys that they didn't watch porn and you didn't either. But it must be because you have it in your mind. And it's probably not so incorrect that, you know, you didn't like it because you're a woman and you get turned on differently, but guys should like porn because that's the way they fucking like it.

Like in your face come shots. You know what I mean? Dick and pussy shots. Like you are okay with guys like that. you think that's the way they should be wired. Like that's for them, correct? Yeah, I guess you're right. Yeah.

Yeah. I was like totally putting them in a box. No, but that's okay. Like I was thinking when you were talking, I was like, yeah, I'm more like a guy because I prefer straight up porn than that nonsense you're talking about. And I do think, though, it is more guylike to be that way because I do know, like, honestly, when I was writing my book, I kept like taking adjectives out because it was

sounding so erotic a bit, you know, like so fluffy and whatever. That I know is how women like things, but I don't like things like that. But women do for sure. So anyway, I'm just, I like these bigger picture topics because I think it's kind of interesting. We got to get to your life story. I have to get past it, okay? Because I'm the one that's harping on it. So you, you were always like this little freak waiting to come out and you had never really

met your match. Because listen, sometimes I think very much so, like, you know, it makes sense that here you are this person who has all these like maybe kinky fantasies and these thoughts and these things you want to do. But on some level, a lot of times you kind of know, even without saying, sometimes you get the vibe that like somebody, you just can't go there with another person for some reason, you know? Yeah. And so you don't. But you meet Ethan and how do you wind up finding out that this is like a guy who's like, you know, down for shit? Well, he was like, I read Hustler magazine and then we started looking at it. And I was like, okay. And, and,

He just is very unapologetic. But at the same time, he is not, he's not like a typical guy in that he's not like macho and whatnot, or cliche. Yeah. Like, he's, he's very respectful. We have a very equal relationship. But, yeah, and like, he, like, I went to a strip club for the first time with him. And I got a lap dance and I liked it.

and and he just, he was more vocal about his desires. And we also were just like really horny for each other. But I also think like, listen, it's probably great on his end. If I'm talking to a guy friend of mine, they're like, oh, yeah, I met this girl and I showed her all my hustler magazines and she wasn't horrified. You know what I mean? Like, it's like, it's cool that like even though that's not something that maybe turns you on, you're okay with it turning your guy on.

you're not judgy at all about it. Like you're like, okay, good, right on. You're like happy, a guy that's finally into something. Yeah, and I also felt very secure in our relationship. I always have known that like our connection is tight and he's intensely trustworthy. So, yeah. And I'm trying to think what other kinds of things we did. I mean, how old were you when you met him? Like was, are you guys? married. I mean, was this your first marriage? It's the only marriage or you guys been together for how long? We've been together for 25 years. I was 25. Wow, you sound 22 still. And like we had phone sex. He was like on the road for a bit while we were like in our first year of our relationship and just things that like no other guy ever proposed doing with me.

And I was like game for all of it. I was like, bring it on. Yeah, that's great because I think some Sometimes some people just lack the imagination. You know, some people are more creative and kinky and whatever than others, you know. And it really is about finding somebody that's equally matched to you. And this was your match. He was the right guy for you, right? And so you've been married for 20-something years. When did like, first of all, do you like anal yourself?

Sort of. I mean, I'm getting into it more. We did it like a little bit when we first started dating because he was really into it. and I have tried it. And I wasn't like super into it. And within the last year, I've been more open to it because I'm seeing like what egging him, like all the prep that goes into it and like understanding more just how you can make yourself comfortable to receive.

Yeah. You know? So we have had anal a bit more. but I like ass play. Like we're really in a reming, both of us. Ethan likes to worship my ass. I know guys like that.

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Ethan likes to worship my ass. I know guys like that. We have like these long body worship sessions. And so I've gotten more into it. But it's still not like my favorite thing. I get it. But we're going to get to the point where he does like it and you do it to him. but could we just touch a little bit upon because it was like towards the end of his episode with me where he's like oh yeah we had like threesomes in Amsterdam and swap swap with your friends like didn't that kind of take place early in your relationship like he did have a little kind of fun in the beginning correct and then we'll get to the begging and stuff why don't you just give those stories because he told me those at the end I was like really you're telling me this now yeah so like our our kinky experiences with other people started when it was like early in our marriage and it was like early in our marriage and we're telling me that

We had been married like a couple years. We were in Amsterdam and I was like, do you, would you rather go to a sex show or hire a prostitute? Because I just like, I was, I'm curious. I'm kind of like when in Rome, you're there. This is what people do. Okay. And his jaw dropped. He was like, what? And I'm like, yeah. And he's like, both. So we did both. Oh, you did both? Yeah, it was funny. Yeah, I think he did. But at the sex show, it was pretty funny because there were all of these tourists, like these Asian tourists getting out of a van. And they just were very like prem looking like older people.

Yeah. And it was just funny to watch all of, like see all these different people who wanted to watch people fuck. You know? Including you. Yeah, it's all regular people. Curious. Yeah, yeah, I always make a joke. Like, what do you think they're going to look like? Perverts? You're there, too. Yeah. People are so funny the way they think of things. Anyway, go on. Yeah. And then we went in the Red Light District and we picked a girl. I think I picked her. And the, like, I wanted to see someone give him a blowjob. I was like, just really turned up. on by the idea of him getting pleasure from someone else. And so I think he told you that it was like a terrible blowjob. She was like doing it so fast and like it just there was very little nuance. And she touched me and got me off. And so we both got off or I don't, did he come? I think he did come. But it was just funny. Like the whole thing was just an interesting experience. I remember

walking in and he was hard like as soon as he like took his jeans off and she saw him and his underwear and was like oh chub chub just funny little things like that that like we talk we like joke about now you know yeah so yeah i think like the naughtiness of it was exciting and then that was in our early 30s and around that time we had a couple that we were friends with that we spent a lot of with. None of us had kids at the time. And we just, we were close. We got along super well. And I think we were just all curious and wanting to experiment and explore. And like, we would get in the hot tub naked and go skinny dipping. And like, we would end up hooking up with each other. But they were like soft swaps, you know, oral kissing. The guys didn't kiss. Like I kissed my friend,

the girl. But you didn't go all the way kind of thing. We had oral. There was no, like, like they fucked each other. Ethan and I fucked each other, you know, so the only PIV was between couples. But oral meaning you went down on her? Yeah. Oh, okay. So that's going all the way. No? Did you say you didn't? Yeah, I guess you're right. Yeah. Oh, yeah. What's more?

What would be more? Well, I thought you meant like me having sex with my guy from. Oh, yeah. No, no, no. But I mean, like, do you consider yourself by or like vicarious? I think I'm more like by curious. I'm like, I'm really turned on by women. I like having sex with women.

I've never dated a woman. I prefer men. I'm not sure I would ever date a woman if I weren't married. You know what I mean? So I don't know. I don't know how to categorize it. But a lot of the guys who come on your show seem to be the same. They're like turned on by dick, but they don't want to date a guy, you know?

Yeah, well, that's very common. When I was younger, I thought that that's what bisexual meant. And, you know, I thought, you know, that's like, oh, some people, a lot of people just are interested in the same. Like, just for fun, but they don't want to date them and it's different. But then I was told, no, bisexual means you would date both people, you know. But there's plenty of men and women that only go in that direction. just for when it comes to having fun,

but they won't have a romantic relationship with that person with the same sex. So that's very common. Yeah. So I think that's where I fall. And I mean, I think that's where we both fall. I guess calling ourselves like heteroreflexible might be appropriate.

Yeah, isn't that great word that they made up nowadays? I like it. It is. Yeah. And then around that time, we had a girlfriend who we would, have the reasons with sometimes, I think maybe like two or three times. But would you do this all the time with her? Was it an ongoing thing? I would happen like two or three times. That's it. Okay, but you both

were with her. We were both with her. Like every time all three of us were together. That's kind of interesting. How do you meet her? She was friends with our couple friend and she hooked up with them too. Oh, she's what they call a unicorn by the way. Yeah. Yeah. How was the, I was the, How are those experiences? It was exciting. At the time I drank and I don't drink anymore. And I think I was like drunk to the point where I couldn't have an orgasm when we were playing with other people. But it was still exciting and felt good.

I liked it. Like I wanted more of it. And then we had a child and it's like everything changed, you know. Of course. I have one. I get it. Okay, so that has never come back around, correct? Like that whole phase of things. Well, we're just starting to explore that happening again. Okay. Because, well, we've done some, like, we've done some things. Like, we went on a trip this summer, just he and I, and we got erotic massages.

And that was pretty awesome. Oh, so what was how, what went down there? So we went to this woman's house in this like really nice part of town. I'm not going to say where we were, but we were out of the country. And she answered the door and was like this really cute woman. Like she wasn't wearing a lot of makeup or anything. She was just naturally like attractive. and we went into this special massage room that she had and it was funny because she said,

Alexa, play slow jams, which is like another thing we like to joke about. Yeah. And she was fully naked, but wearing like really high hill shoes. And she had... This is your masseuse? This is our masseuse. Oh, my gosh. She was really sweet.

and like, just, just darling. Was she hot? Yeah, yeah. But like, in like a, she wasn't like super made up or anything. She was just like a pretty girl, you know? And definitely a mom, because I could see that she had like a scar from birthing probably, but she had a really nice body. Okay.

And Ethan went first and she did the whole, like rubbing her body on his body thing with oil. She did that with both of us. But he, it was funny, he probably should have peed before he went in there because him having to pee made it so that he didn't come. But it felt super good for him.

I don't think either of us actually came. But it felt great. Like the whole experience was great. Full body massage. Like she, was like putting my hands on her breasts and just all of it just felt really good and sensual and exciting and I loved seeing him with her and he really loved seeing her with me so that was exciting that's super fun and and it's funny because we wanted to do it again before we left

and we went to another place that was not as good It was just not as nice at all. I mean, it's not like it was dirty or it just was not as high class and not as nice a part of town. And not what they were advertising really, you know. The women were sweet and they weren't like ugly, but they weren't at the same level. Yeah, I get it. But that's kind of fun that you tried again. Yeah, I was pretty nervous.

We were in the same room, though, and we both were laying down on a mattress at the same time and both got massages at the same time. And we both got off that time. Okay, there you go. Yeah. So that was exciting. And then recently, like a couple months ago, or maybe it's been like a month and a half, we got on field because we want to explore more. Okay, so you're going to go back to, like, things come back around when your kid gets a little

older, right? You're back to, like, wanting to have that fun that you had before. So let me ask you this, because, like, Peggy comes into place somewhere, right? Is he the one that brought it up to you or did you bring it up to him? Like, how did that come into the, into your bedroom? The Pegging? Yeah. Oh, he brought it up. We were on a road trip, and again, it's like parental freedom. We had dropped our child. off at camp and we were driving home and I mean, yeah, so we were on our road trip, basically. And we were taking our time and we had some really romantic stops. And we were having really great sex.

There was this one night where we stayed at this cabin and there were like fireflies outside and we were in the hot tub in the backyard with like a brook like at the bottom of of a hill. I mean, it was like amazing. I had the best sex. And so we were driving to the next stop and just being like super honest about what turns us on and what we're into. And he was telling me that when he that he had been looking at a lot of trans porn lately and that he was turned on by it and I'm like, well, that's kind of hot. And then he showed me the person that he was looking at. and then I was like, oh, she's hot. And then he somehow came up that he wanted me to fuck him.

And I was just like, okay, I'm game. And so we kept seeing advertisements for this adult store. So we went to the adult store and got all the gear. We got the harness, the, you know, the dick. And it was interesting to see all the other people there too, like, just like these burly men picking out like penises to get pegged. Yeah. It was amazing. And they look normal too?

Totally. Yes. And we weren't like super successful that night. We had like this nice hotel that we were seeing at. It was a little clumsy the first time. It definitely felt like I had something. on me that wasn't like I was trying to control something that wasn't a part of my body and since then we've gotten like a better harness we've just like we've found the stuff that works for us and we're

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slow about prep. So like using like a small butt plug and then like just having like a lot of floor play and now just like having a harness that fits really well. I don't know the brand actually, but it really makes a big difference. And so yeah, It's like easy now, you know. You've been walking through that first experience, were you doing it just for Ethan and then realized you liked it or you were like excited to do it? I'm like typically game for trying new things because I'm excited by new experiences. But I'm pretty feminine.

And I felt like it was a little weird. I was mostly doing it for him because I was like, this is his fantasy. I want to give him this fantasy, you know? And so, you know, I don't have, like, this energy that, like, say, like, I picture, like, two women fucking and, like, the one who's, like, maybe more mask would be, like, doing the pegging. And I don't have that energy. So I felt weird about it at first. But then I realized that, like, that's not what it's about. So, but I think also the.

Dilja that we got was a little too small. And it was just, like, I couldn't get, like, I couldn't get it to, like, not come out, you know? And somebody once explained it to me that it's really hard. What you don't think about is that, like, you don't, you can't feel that thing. You know what I mean? It's not a part of you, but it is a part of you, but you have no feeling for it. So, it's really hard to figure out how to maneuver it. Big or small? Yeah. Yeah. So, you know, it's, it just, I don't even remember like all the specifics of why it didn't work, but it just, you know, it was kind of clumsy as the best way that I can describe it. So I think we like, you know, gave it a try, did it a little bit and then like, you know, probably just like got off

our regular ways. But since then, yeah, go on. Since then, we've, we've gotten, we have like a bunch of different sizes of dildos, and that's nice. So a lot of times, like, Ethan also has this thing called an Eros that he really likes, and he'll put it in to, like, prep him before. What's that? It's a, I guess it's like, it's a prostate massager that goes inside. Okay. And it vibrates. And it just sort of is, like, really good prep. And, and, you know, Yeah, and then like we, we... Okay, hold that one second, because I feel like you don't know where to go, but I know where to go. Let me ask you this.

You said that, like, you know, and I like you think the same way that I think the person that's doing the painting is like a dominant one, and it's very dominant position to be in, and you've got to get in touch with that part of yourself. And you said something super interesting, which was like, you know, I didn't realize until I did it that that's not really what it's about. Like, how did it feel and what was different about it? And then once it was different, was it actually more interesting to you? And did you enjoy it and started to do it not just for him and you actually like it? Yeah. I just realized that it's more, like, for instance, like when we have sex, we try lots of different positions.

And sometimes you have to, like, manipulate your body in ways and try different things. And so it's sort of, I mean, it's just. it's more about it's just trying to get our bodies to fit together really you know except i'm having an appendage and so you didn't feel like a guy you didn't feel like you needed you were like more alpha or dominant one or anything like that that you thought not really no but it just okay so the thing that blows my mind about it is that the prostate orgasm is like a whole other world and like seeing the way that he gets off from it, first of all made me,

I have never wanted to be a guy ever, but seeing the way that he gets off on the, like that kind of orgasm made me a little jealous. Because that is more the way women have it. It's all over body thing. It is, honestly, it's pretty fucking next level.

Yeah. I mean, I think any guy who's not doing this is totally stupid. I say it on my butter ads all the time, by the way. Because like I'm not. a guy, but like any guy who is called in and here you are, chicks saying you just even experiencing it and seeing it, you're like, oh my God,

if I was a guy I want that. If I was a guy, I'd be going in that area and figuring it out and trying to have one, because every guy explains it to be like the best fucking thing ever, like nothing you've ever sort of experienced before, right? Yeah, yeah. And so for us, it's like, we're all, we're just trying to get each other off and make our bodies fit together like puzzle pieces and, and this is just another way that we do it now.

That's interesting. So it didn't, it wasn't like a switch of roles or anything. It was just another sort of thing that you did, but you were still you, him, he was still him and it was just, but right,

that's all it was. Yeah, because I tried like sort of ordering him around and being dumb, and I'm just, I'm too sweet. Like, I'm too nice.

Oh, I'm glad. Can you please? It's just not my nature. But I love that, but it's super interesting that you don't have to be that way. I like that you pointed that out, you know? Yeah. So, so yeah, it's been like an exciting

development in our sex life. Like, I would say the renting has also been like more at play in the past like a couple years in our relationship. And recently, this was crazy, like we fisted recently. And meaning just him to you. or you both of you did it to each other? Like, what does that mean? We. He did it to me. I was, like, on all fours.

And he really wants me to, he wants to, he wants to, he wants me to squirt. So he was trying to get me to squirt. But I just really enjoyed the pressure. Mm-hmm. And kept asking for more fingers until finally, like, his whole hand was in me. And, like, just the, the pressure felt really good. Mm-hmm. And it kind of blew me away.

We've done it two or three times since then. Does he have big hands? He kind of, yeah, he does. He does, yeah. How long are you to take you to accommodate? Well, I think we must have done it for like at least like 30 or 40 minutes. Right. But I didn't really, the whole hand is too much.

I think like three fingers is like perfect. Yeah. But I kept thinking doing more, must be better. This feels better than the last, so let's try four. Let's try five. But I think like three is a magic number for me. But it didn't make me squirt, but it sure felt really fucking good. But three fingers was better? I think three fingers is like good for me. Okay. But you did it a couple times. You liked it. Yeah. Oh yeah. Totally. I liked it. One thing that I wanted to tell you about is that I would say

one of the things that has made our sex life really interesting in the last say like five years has been getting this womanizer suction toy the first time I used it I squirt

I was like totally fucking blown away by the sensation does it just suction your clit or the whole thing the clit okay yeah it's a small thing and it like opened my eyes to this other kind of orgasm, like this edging that I do with it. So, but like I had never

squirted it before. I've squirted it like maybe 10 times with it. Wow. But sometimes I, I prolong it and it is, I usually like prolong it. And it's basically like edging and I can do it for like an hour. And it's wild. It makes me cry. It's that intense. It makes, me cry. And it's like, it's not an emotional crying. I'm not crying because I'm feeling emotions. It's like physically, it's like completely involuntary, tears coming out of my eyes. Like, one time I thought I was going to faint. It's, it is so intense. It is a full body experience. It's the closest that I think I get to a prostate orgasm. Yeah, yeah. I know. I like suction stuff, but more that do the whole thing. And I could use those kinds of things for a long time. And I love edging and stuff and all of that kind of good stuff. I've never squirted doing it or anything. But I find pushing things and denying and edging and all of that kind of stuff just takes it to a whole other level. Yeah, completely. Yeah. So that's been, that like really just unlocked something in me because it was a different kind of orgasm, like it felt different.

I felt like waves of heat coming through my body, like just all, I explored all of these different physical feelings I had never had before. Yeah. With that. And then I was like, oh, wow, well, how well, what else can I do to get these new feelings, you know? Yeah. I mean, listen, you've kind of been there, done that.

You tried fisting. You've tried suction. You're going to like, you know, he, you've done anal with him. You're into ribbing. I mean, you're looking now to get, you know, you're back online. What are you guys looking for online? A girl or a guy? I mean, because he's heteroflexible too, correct?

Exactly. And he's, like, very curious. He's very vicarious. He's, like how I said before, like, he's, like, turned on by, like, a penis, but not necessarily, like, hot on guys. But so we're looking for, like, a single guy or a single girl or a couple. But we just haven't had much luck so far. Like we met a guy. He was really nice, but like he had no Riz.

And did you get that from your dog? I mean from your kid. Do you get that from your kid? No Riz? I like that word. I love that words my kid brings home. They're so good. Yeah.

But it's the perfect way to describe how I felt about it. And we both did. I mean, it just, he was nice. We had a lot in common. Like he had the same body type that Ethan has, which I like. He's like very tall and slim. and like naturally like muscular but not like super bulky. Yeah.

Yeah. And then we have a couple that we connected with who were planning on meeting in like a few weeks. We just like have kept pushing that. And then there was a girl that we connected with that we liked. But then she told us that she had HSV2. and it just was like I was too nervous about it because I've you know I was like I'm nervous about having a threesome with a person and I it's I will be more comfortable of her with someone who's disease free you know

yeah even though like it's when it's not there it's not there I feel like unfortunately I might feel the same way and it's so sad for people that have that because the truth is because I had a girlfriend that got that like when they don't have it it it's not there it's kind of like if you have it your lips. Like it's on there. It's not, but you, but it's in your mind just knowing, you know what I mean, that you can feel like, oh, I don't want to do that. God forbid, they don't know. But I think that they do know and it is safe, but I get being a little leery about it. I feel like it's not right to be that way, but I'd probably be the same way. And I should probably edit that out. It's terrible. We think that. She just found out. She just found out that she got it. So it's not like there was

like a baseline of like, oh, I've had this for years. And this is how often I haven't helped. break and I've never given it to anyone. So you know what I mean? It's like if it would have been different, I think, if she had been living with it for a while and knew how to control it. Well, listen, thank God. All we could say about this situation, because we don't need to get in a whole thing about this because my friend who had never told guys that she was with and was unprotected with them,

which I think is crazy. The great thing about this girl is that she was straight up honest with you. I give her credit. Yeah. That's the way she should be. That's like a great of her to say something. You know what I mean? Yeah.

And we were both on the same page about it. We're like nervous about doing this to begin with. Like we don't want to add another element of, you know, stress and nervousness to the situation. So, yeah, so we're still looking. So you're all not looking for men and women. What about couples? We're looking for couples who can be like a like a, like a, our friends that we were with before. So it's sort of like people who are chill, who we have stuff

in common with, who we can have like a friends with benefits arrangement. So, and, you know, we're, we're picky. Listen, that's a harder thing to set up because it's a four-way connection, right? Not only do you guys need to be into the both of them, they also have to be into the both of you. So it's like it's hard to set up because everyone has to be attracted to everyone. You're talking four separate people. Yeah, and that's, I mean, I can just see that on the app, too. It's like, we see all of these women and then I'm like, oh, but her partner, her husband. And so, you know, it's like, oh, it's a pass, it's a hard pass. Some people take it for the team, but, you know, it's like

you don't, you shouldn't have to, you know, for sure. Yeah, we're just looking for the right connection and it's going to take time. And in the meantime, if we meet people that we know that we have stuff in common with and we're friends, then that's great too. I'm down with meeting like-minded people who we can like have more of a network of friends. That's great too. So. Yeah, perfect. So let me ask you this because I did, I really like when I have sponsors, by the way, like I'm not a guy, right? So a lot of times my sponsors are for guy products. You know, I mean, I can't use them, so I love when, like, people give me feedback, you know what I mean? Because I can then, like, speak on my ads and be like, oh, this guy said this.

I mean, like, load boost, forget about it. I've been promoting this thing called load boost, and I can't tell you how many people are emailing me, you know, like, hey, does it work? People are just emailing me, like, oh, my God, I got load boost. It's like, I'm jizzing so much. If you ever want your guy to jizzle a lot, just get some load boost. Yeah. Ethan uses it.

Oh, he did. You're fucking shitting me. That's, are you kidding? No, he uses it. Was it before my show? or like did he get it through my show? From your show. And it works, right?

Isn't it crazy? Yes, totally. Do you notice the difference in the taste? Is he one of the people that emailed me or no? I don't think so. No, he didn't email you about it. But yeah, I mean, it tastes good. Right?

Because they have that bromoline in. It's the same thing for women, supposedly. It makes you taste better there. It's like a pineapple thing. But yeah, it's so crazy. I get so many people emailing me about that. But I did send because I wanted people to talk about butter because I can't play with that toy. I have one.

I use as little as like a pocket. vibrator, you know, he is someone who likes, and what I love about the butter toy is that it can be used on, only on the outside. So for people, unlike your Ethan, who doesn't mind going inside, right, it can, you know, it doesn't have to go inside. And this is like a good first toy, I think, for people to, like, get used to prostate play and massaging it because you can do it through your taint. So I did give a shout out, like anyone wants to try one or whatever so I could get some feedback on it. So did you guys, you guys got the butter toy, correct? Yes. And actually the first time that used it. He used it on the head of his penis and it made him come.

You're kidding. Like right away. Yeah. No way. Like, yeah. I mean, I wasn't with him. But that's what he told you. Okay. And then when we were recently in bed, I was remning him and he was like super hard and I took the butter toy and I was holding it like just underneath the head of his penis. Mm-hmm. And it was making him crazy. Like, the taint?

No, it wasn't the taint. Like, I know that it's for the taint. Oh, tell me exactly. Okay, explain that because this is super interesting. So when you say the base, this is before the balls. No, I said under, sorry, I probably misspoke.

You said under the penis. It was under, like, the head of his penis. Oh. So, like, just under the head, like, on the shaft. Uh-huh. I was holding it. Mm-hmm. And he was like, oh, my God.

And just the combination of those two things was like really... Out of control. It was really awesome. So there's like different ways to use it, you know? I think it's perfect for someone who's just getting into prostate play. Because on that area, did you try it on the taint area or does he just go inside because he could get to that area easier from the inside? He's used it on the tank too and says it feels great, but he goes inside. So he's like, you know, he's beyonds. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. But it's, it feels great. It's soft. You could use it too, by the way.

I have used it. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And yeah, it's a nice little vibrator. Yeah. That's what I always say. Like, it's a mighty little vibrator. Like, I have one because it can be used on the woman. I think. it's great for guys who, you know, are unlike Ethan, like I said, that, you know, want to, uh, are afraid to go inside because it only is to be used outside. And if you really push in and stuff like guys have explained that you could really find the right, if you find the right spot, right, because it's like right about the prostate, you could really, if you push on it and use that vibration, you can also have the prostate orgasm that your husband is having from inside play, which I think is probably easier to get an inside, but like you could have them through just stimulating the outside.

I think it's really actually super interesting that he use it on the top as well as on the side and it actually feels good too, correct? That's kind of interesting. Okay, new tip, new tip for butter toys. And like, I, you know, I've heard some guys on your shows say that they're not into anything inside. But like, honestly, I feel like if you do enough

foreplay and prep, and if you were using this vibrator or like remming and you just put like the smallest bit of your finger in and put pressure down low or like even like your thumb it doesn't even have to go in very far to like make a big impact you know no I had what I call the knuckle move this is what I used to do to guys unlike you I never just stuck a finger in but this is how I would make every guy realize they like anal action. So when I would be blowing them, playing with their balls, whatever, I would take my thumb, but I wouldn't take the top part. I would take the knuckle of my thumb,

and I would move it right in to that area right by their assort while I was blowing them. And by far, every single guy, the more they got turned on, the more they would push down on that area. And it's shaped like a V, so it's going and gentle. It's only a tiny little thing. but they would go fucking nuts, okay? Yeah. And that was the knuckle move that worked every time.

So exactly what you just explained is very true because that's what I would do to every guy that was never into anal anything. Yeah, and I've used my fist, like my knuckles, I guess, for a massage, like on the outside too. Yeah. Like while prepping. And yeah, I think that, like, gosh, just seems like. They have to get more turned on.

I mean, like to me, that was always the same thing with, for me, with, you know, like you have to get really turned on, like you said, when you're ramming and doing all things and activating and, you know, you got to work it. And I think that that's what it's always about. And then once you work in, so if you get quicker, you're quicker to activate in that area once you're, like, activated. And you know how to get there. But it takes a little practice to get to that place and get it really turned on and stuff. You know, that's why, like, you say, oh, it's not always on the menu, right?

Like, for me, it was never always on the menu. but if I clicked into it and I was always activated there, I want it all the time. You know what I mean? Then I forget about it for like a year. You know what I mean? It's like, yeah. So you got to get a little activated. You have to have fun.

Like, listen, you finally met your match. You and your guy have been activated in all kinds of ways. It really does sound like you are up for anything. Like you did explain yourself that you're just somebody that always likes to try new things. It's very obvious in your story that you do. You're kind of like down for it all. Been there, done that. Yeah.

And I met my match. my guys. Yeah, see what, you know what's so interesting because, you know, here you had all these other guys before Ethan that had no idea that you were like a freak in the waiting. You know what I mean? And because they didn't say anything and mark my words, they probably wanted to, but they were too afraid, you know, because they just didn't like be honest about their hustler magazines or whatever. You know what I mean? Like they just didn't cop to their shit. You didn't cop to yours, you know, and look like how much.

like Ethan got out of you just by being open about his shit. You know what I'm saying? Like a lot of times I think guys just are so worried about the way a woman will react and just assume that their women are so vanilla and have no sense of adventure or they have no kinky sides to them that they just don't really ever bring up any topics or sort of try to open the conversation up about anything other than regular stuff. And it could completely change the game, you know? And for you guys, it wasn't like a moment.

It was just the way he always was with you, right? he was just open. Yeah, and I'm pretty assuming. Like, I seem pretty sweet. Exactly. Like, nobody would guess that I'm like, Hey, do you want to get a prostitia?

So listen, if I was talking to those Asian men going into the sex show, they'd be like, yeah, and it was so weird. You should have heard about this. You should have seen this couple that was going in. They look so normal. The woman looks so normal. Just like you were saying about them. It's always the way that it goes.

And that's what I'm always joking about my shower. I'm like, you know, everyone kind of thinks, I think, in their mind that people that are into all the things that people are doing on my show, which is sometimes really hardcore, including like adult bookstores, everything. They think if they just like look a certain way, like their creepy perves that look like sleep, you know, and it's just like, you know, listen, you're going to have those people and those people are, something's wrong with them. But like, it's, this is regular people are into these things sometimes. You know what I mean? And it's just they don't look any different. And a lot of times it's the ones like you that you'd never know at all. You know, and that's every guy's fantasy, by the way, you know, the girl that looks like super sweet and really nice, you know, that you'd never know, but is like, you know, the little freak in behind closed doors, which is like super fun.

Yeah, yeah. And I mean, I think the point they were at right now is like our sex life is like pretty exclusively exciting. And we want to double the pleasure with somebody else. And how great is that coming from, like, you know, because I was a mom and I remember like when I first had my kid, the first three years. years. I was like, oh my God, I felt so unsexual, unsexy. Like, it's just a mom. And that's all I was. And like, it was energetic. Like, I just all I felt was my estrogen. You know what I mean? I was just so far away from any of that. And it's like, you do eventually. And I got nervous. I was like, well, I ever find that part of myself again. You know what I mean? But it's great that. And I think some women never do, right?

Because you do get far away from it. And it is a little bit like what the fuck. But, you know, it's great that. But there comes a time, right, where your kid gets a little older and you start to get back to yourself and it's great that you guys are reconnecting and, you know, going back and doing all the things that you used to enjoy. That's important for relationships because sometimes like kids like, you know, ruin the scene and it never recovers, you know? Yeah. It's great that you guys are, you know, come full circle. Like I said, I, as a mom, you know, I felt myself coming back into my own and that phase being over when my son got older. And I think that happens. a lot of people, but some people don't get it back.

But it's great that you guys did. And, you know, we'll do a part two next year. Because imagine what you guys are going to be doing. It's like you just started. Yeah. Yeah, this is true. Yeah, you just opened up again. But you had, but you gave me so many great stories.

I love this whole episode, Josie. So I'm so glad that Ethan had you call in and thanks so much for calling in and being so honest and sharing all your stories. Oh, and listen, if you want to send pictures from my Patreon, do you know that some women send send pictures like Hot Picks? If you want, you can. Nothing. No faces.

no, you know, nothing like that. If you want to send picks, do that. Ethan probably knows about my show, but if you don't, that's totally fine. It's up to you, okay? Okay. All right. Well, thank you. All right. Thanks, Josie. Thanks so much for calling in. All right. Have a great day. You too. Bye. Bye. Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that I do have a book. The book is called Shickland anonymous confessions, secret sex lives of total strangers. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuckold story. There's a gang

bang girl story. There's like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person, right? So I took the interview and I rewrote it in the third person. I wouldn't call it like an erotica book, though there's plenty of sex in there, right? But I didn't write it to sound like erotica because that's like the vibe of my show. You're going to learn a lot. You're probably going to get a little turned on. It's a different way to hear. these stories, like I said, because they're written out in third person. There's an e-book available if you don't want your partner to know that you're reading my book. Get the e-book. It's available. If you buy my book in any format, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint. Okay, there's no way you'll get the Discord and go in there and be like,

oh, this sucks, okay? It's like pretty amazing. There's tons of people on there and everybody shares content with each other. That's what's great about Discord. You get to post your own videos and pictures and there's tons of channels and we have contests over there. It's a super fun place to be. I will be giving anyone that buys my book at any time access to my Discord. It is private. This is the only way you could get in is through me giving you the link. And that's why I think my Discord is so great because I have vetted people. It's not like it's just open to the public. So everybody that's in there are people that listen to my show and people that listen to my show are fucking great. So my Discord is fucking great. My book is great. You're going to love it. If you buy it,

all you got to do is send me the receipt or a picture of proof that you bought it and I will give you free access to Discord, send it to Strictly Anonymous Podcasts.com. You could find my book in the link in the description, okay, or just Google at Strictly Anonymous Confessions, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. You can find it anywhere. You buy books. Send me the picture and I'll give you access to my Discord email, strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com.

Anyway, thanks so much for listening. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gang being girl story. Like I said, 17 stories and they're all told in the third person and they're all true. I took the interview and

rewrote it in the third person and I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like Penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories. 17 of them. They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format, and finally, the audio book is available coming out August 25th, but you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint, okay? There's no way you get into my Discord any other way than getting the link from me,

okay? I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares with each other and that's what you get to do there. You can post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total strictly anonymous community and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private like I said. All you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the ebook or the paperback. sent it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's Strictly Anonymous Podcasts at gmail.com.

And I will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in. This is the Strictly Anonymous podcast.