Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1377 - Kinky Katie Loves MFM Threesomes, Orgies, Being a Dom & More

Episode Date: February 23, 2026

Kinky Katie loves mfm threesomes, orgies, being a dom, orgies and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when she brought up swinging to her husband and what went down when they started and why it didn’t work out for them, how and why jealous would come up for the both of them, when she brought up interracial hotwifing and what went wrong and the affair that ruined their marriage, how and why she decided to do an Onlyfans and what she gets off on doing on there, who she started hooking up with after her divorce and all the apps she went on including the BLK app, the black guy she was with who brought his friend and what went down during their threesome including her dp, the threesome she had in a car with two other guys and what went down, the DVP she had and what went down, how and why she defines herself as solo poly and what that means, why she enjoys being a dom, the “slutcations” she’s had and what has gone down at them including an orgy, how she got into doing some professional porn production scenes for her Onlyfans, how having not a perfect body online has been empowering for her and got her a ton of followers plus a whole lot more. GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To see HOT pics of KINKY KATIE plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2540-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠— Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠PikaVibe.com/Strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Click to get $15 OFF your purchase ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://LoadBoost.com⁠ — To get 10% off LOAD BOOST by VB Health use code: STRICTLY Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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And, you know, I'm in the top 1% everything. But like, let me tell you, she's like been in the swinger world, in the lifestyle. She's, yeah, she's creating content, but she's really doing what she loves. And that's to have sex. Okay. She loves nothing more than a big cox. She loves black guys. She loves women. She's had a lot of three. She's been in orgies, and she talks all about it. First, we go through her whole story with her guy. She was really trying to get him into swinging and stuff, because she was really like into being non-monogamous.

They eventually ended. She cheated on him with a guy that had a BBC, and that's what got her totally into black guys. And after that, she left her husband. She went crazy. That's when she had like all her threesome. She had crazy experiences. She talks all about them.

a lot of threesomes with two guys dvp dp you name it she has done it she's fucking into it and then she decided to join only fans and she's been there done that with that as well she's become very successful on there uh because she really like is doing what she loves it's her with girls with guys the threesomes and moresums she's filmed professional shoots and she does all this stuff because she loves attention from guys and she loves sex okay you're gonna get that when you hear her episode, okay? Like I said, it's not like she's content creating to make some money. She's making a lot of money because she's content creating, but she's really doing it because she loves to fuck around. She's got a high sex drive and Kinky Katie is the best name for her.

Okay, wait until you hear her whole story. It's super interesting. I have picks of her over on my Patreon, all of her, her links to her website and her only fan's name will be in the description. So anyway, I'm going to get right to be right back on with Kinky Katie. Hi, Kinky Katie. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you? today. I'm good. How are you? I was commenting on your little girl voice. I was like you kind of sound like you're five and then I change it to 11 and maybe it's 14. I don't know, but you sound like a little little girl, which guys love. Yeah. Oh my God. Well, you call yourself Kinky Lady, Kinky Katie. That's your name. You are an only fan's girl. Your story is this. This is the very

short story. You're going to tell me the whole long story. We'll start at your toxic marriage. You were married. You sound super young. You were married. You were married. You were in a toxic marriage. You got yourself out of that. And then you went on to OnlyFans. And like your top 1%, you're doing really great. You've, you know, sort of been taking picks with all these. You're like I took picks with this guy and for BBW models.

I don't know. I'm supposed to know these names. I think I'm assuming they're big people, you know. And you feel like empowered by all of it. And you've kind of come into your own. But like, how old are you, by the way? Let's get a snapshot of where you're at right now. I'm 35.

Oh, okay. You sound super young. Okay. So you're 30, well, that's young to me at this point. Okay, so Kinky Katie is 35. How old were you when you got married, Katie? 22. Wow.

Okay, and how long were you with your guy before you got married to him? I think I was 20. Okay, so, and then how long ago did you get divorced? Like four years ago. Okay, cool. So you were married. Do you have kids with him? Yeah, we have one.

one together and then I had one from, because I got up pregnant at like 17 with my other kid. Okay. That's okay. You know, I have a, I had a cousin who got pregnant, I think like 14 or 15. Yeah. To each their own. I was the opposite. I had a baby at 46, though.

You got to be, you know, same shit, you know, really early, really late. Babies come when they're supposed to, you know. I'm sure you can't imagine your life without that child. For sure. Exactly. And it's fun being young and having teenagers. Like. Yeah.

And I would say the same thing. that it's, well, maybe not for me. I wouldn't say the same thing because I'll be like a grandma when my son's a teenager, but I would say it's fun being an old person and having a child. It keeps me young. It like reinvented me in a weird way, you know? I think there's pros and cons to doing it really early and really late. But so you have two, you have one kid with him.

So you were married to him for a long time. Yep. I don't even know. I think 14 years or something like that. Yeah, yeah, a long time. Really fucking long time. Right. toxic the whole time?

So the biggest thing is we were both really immature. Of course. We didn't really, like we were growing up, we didn't communicate, and then I was repressing a lot of things. And around 28, I started like having an itch for women again. Oh, okay. We'll go there. Okay.

Again, because you said again, so obviously you had fooled around or hooked up. with women before him, right? Yeah, which is funny because on our first date, he told me later that he thought I was a secret lesbian because I talked about women so much. But he was still down. But did you cop to him that you were into women? Yeah, he knew it, but I guess it was just one of those things if you're monogamous, you just don't do anything.

We went to strip clubs and like all the strippers would end up making out with me, bringing me on the stage and he'd get jealous but turned on at the same time. Okay. And you had fooled around with girls before him? Yeah. So when did that start for you? Did you hook up with girls before you hooked up with guys or did you start at the same time being like active with both?

Probably girls before guys. I mean, I had a playmate friend when I was like an elementary school that we would hang out in my closet and play Barbie. we called it. Yeah, a lot of kids play around when they're super young. But like, when were you old enough that you actually, like, legitimately hooked up? It was 13 to 15. And so you lost your Virginia or a girl before a guy?

Yeah. Okay. And you always, now, did you, at that time, did you know what that meant to you? Like, do you consider yourself bisexual, heterosexual, had a real flexible? Did you think maybe you were gay? Like, because, you know, here you are a young girl. into women. You knew you liked men too? I knew I liked men. I mean, I was always boy crazy

and I was more so like searching for the attention. I liked the attention from men, but I always connected better with women. Emotionally and sexually or just emotionally? Yeah. Both. Oh, both. Okay, interesting. If you had to give a percentage of like into men, into women on the kinsie scale, you know, would you be like 80 women, 20 men, 50, 50, 50, 40, 60, like, how would you rate yourself? I mean, they're pretty equal, but I would say women's probably 60. Okay, so a little bit more.

Okay, cool. So you hooked up with women before your guy, he knew it. And basically, like, the toxic kind of a thing was you were just like both super young. I always say, like, listen, and I was in my 20s too, and I get it. It's like, you know, when you're in your 20s, you're like amoebas. You're not formed yet. You know what I mean?

You try on so many different masks. You're trying to figure out who. who the fuck you are. I think 20s should be the best times of your life, but they're actually, it's really hard to be in your 20s because you really have to figure a lot of shit out about yourself. You don't, that's when it all starts. So, and being married and having kids at that time, I think is like, it just makes it 10 times harder. So I give people grace when they talk about how fucked up they were in their 20s. Some people don't, but I'm like, give them a fucking break. Like, I was a crazy person when I was in my 20s compared to now, you know? So like, was that's

what was toxic about it? Like, you guys were just like young and dumb? Oh, he was very controlling. And it started getting really bad. Whenever at 28, I decided I wanted to experiment. And I was like, can we try swinging? Once we opened that door, things got really, like, all of our demons came out. Oh, I love a swinger gone wrong. I love a swinger gone wrong story.

Tell the story. I'm always telling positive stories. But I think the negative ones exist out there. And they're important to tell. Like, what happened to this young couple. that thinks they just want to go and have fun and start swinging? Yeah, I thought I could like bring it in with, oh, we can get a threesome, not realizing how hard that is. And we would, the funny thing is we would go to like meet and greets.

And I think we met two women, but we were so dysfunctional. We would get them to our house and nothing would happen. Why? How were you guys dysfunctional in a threesome? We just were like, it was like we were so afraid. We didn't know what to do. Like, we just didn't communicate before about like what our boundaries were. And then like everything was just awkward.

And then the, I don't, the, the girl, the one girl we did get to our house, that just, it, she was kind of wanting more of a Polly thing. And we didn't really know what to do with that. So we just kind of talked and then she left. but and then the girls we would talk to just online or whatever I think they kind of like snuffed our bad dynamics out what was the bad dynamics was it just that like you guys weren't ready you guys had you weren't communicating properly with each other you had no rules and boundaries even though you knew that at the time or maybe now looking back you knew

that but you didn't know it then so you never communicated about what the fuck you were going to do yeah I think the biggest problem was I'm an all or nothing type of girl and my ex-husband is not like he wanted to go very slow and I'm like I've been repressed I'm over here like masturbating to lesbian porn every single day. Like come on. But he wanted to be included. He didn't want me to like go and do my own thing. So we tried that that. I mean it just wasn't working.

And so I'm like, can we try couples? and he was very, he just didn't know. He was so insecure. He thought someone was going to come and take me. I don't, listen, is that insecurity or is that just a natural feeling that somebody would have if they love somebody? Maybe that is insecurity. I don't know. But I think a lot of people would, I think, and it's, and listen, it even happens with guys with, like,

watching their girl with another woman. You think every guy wants that. But plenty of guys would be jealous of that, too, or maybe not feel right about it or feel worried about it. I think that that's, you know, a lot of people would understand that. You know, it's like a threat, especially he's like super young and you're together. And he knows how you're furiously masturbating to women. I mean, that might, that could be a big threat to him. Yeah, this is true.

Yeah. I mean, I guess I never really thought about it because you have to worry about losing her to men and women. Yeah, yeah. There's, listen, it's very loaded and stuff, you know, and you guys are super young. I think I've talked to a lot of couples who do it. successfully. And I think one of the things that comes with success is like a very strong foundation, a lot of communication. I mean, you guys had none of that. You were just too young, you know, and maybe doing it for the wrong reasons. You know, maybe you really want to do it. Maybe he wasn't

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Because you have to worry about losing her to men and women. Yeah, yeah. Listen, it's very loaded and stuff. You know, and you guys are super young. I've talked to a lot of couples who do it successfully. And I think one of the things that comes with success is like a very strong foundation, a lot of communication. I mean, you guys had none of that.

You were just too young, you know, and maybe doing it for the wrong reasons. You know, maybe you really want to do it. Maybe he wasn't ready. And or maybe just not the type that was going to, is wired for that world, you know. yeah for sure did you ever have a three-sum with a guy i did after not not before him and not really during him okay so you guys could never make it work even though you're going to all these meetups and doing all this stuff and looking for girls like it never worked out for you guys nope i don't we did we swapped twice maybe three times but those usually ended up pretty weird too

Why? Someone always got jealous or upset, but like it just changed the whole. Would somebody, when you say somebody, is that you and him, is that somebody in the cup and on the other side too? I mean, like, who is getting, were you getting jealous too sometimes? I didn't get jealous like when we were swapping. I would, the time I got jealous is him. And a girl were like talking a lot on Snapchat and he was this, it was more of the emotional connection. I got jealous over.

And then other times he got jealous of the physical thing. And then other times it was other people and the couples got jealous. Yeah. The first couple we swung with, I, there wasn't like all mutual attraction and I was more attracted to the girl. girl and the guy felt that and so he got pretty you know jealous about that and then they left and my ex there was one couple we had over and the guy was really into me and he got jealous over that but like which is normal it was just the way we handled it after we we would just not talk about it and or like say everything's okay and then it's not

okay, but then like talk about it two weeks later and just explode. Yeah, yeah, that's typical if you're holding it in for sure. Yeah, so you guys didn't know what the fuck you were doing. You were making all kinds of mistakes. Everyone was in this story. Sure, sure. Yeah, yeah. So then were you the one that left him? Is that how things ended? Yeah, we went back in force. that happens? Well, okay, so he did it. Couples wasn't working. So I'm like, okay, well, what about, I really, I wanted to do the hot wife thing.

I'm like, well, what about that? And I was just throwing everything at the poor guy. Any other guy in this situation wouldn't be the poor guy. He'd be the fucking lucky one. But it just doesn't sound like this was for your guy at all because you're like the dream girl for a lot of other guys. yeah it just wasn't his thing and I think he he wanted it to be yeah yeah that happened sometimes he was trying to make it work because you wanted it too and he probably figures this is what everybody would want but he just wasn't he just it wasn't right for him yeah for sure

he happened with the three so you were just about to tell a story at cockbacked you what was the final straw or something that happened so yeah I was like, let's try guys. Specifically, I, I love, I love some BBC. And I really just checking off all the boxes for people on my show. You want a hot wife, you want a, you want a BBC, you want to fuck girls. You're just so, you're swinging. You're like, you're like prime to be on my show again at some point.

Anyway, go on. There's a reason I go by Kinky Katie. Yeah. Totally. Check, check, check. Check all the fucking terms I use on my show. Sorry, keep going. So I found a few guys.

He was a little insecure because, you know, penis size, the guys get insecure about it. And I was bad and I cheated on him. With the guy with the big dick? Yeah. Oh, my God. You guys, golden rule number one. I always wonder, like, why does somebody who has a free pass? to do whatever the fuck they want.

Cheat. You know, he's letting you fuck the guy. He let you fuck the guy right in front of him. Like you guys did a threesome with the guy? We were supposed to. We were supposed to. We never actually got to it, but he was allowing me to talk to him.

And that's where the cheating started. Because then once we started to have an emotional thing, he was like, no, I don't think so. And I just wanted to fuck him. And for me, I kind of need a little. bit of an emotional connection for it to be really fucking good. And yeah, he told me no. And I was already checked out, I think, at that point, because it was just everything

that was going on, it was just tearing us apart. And I just wanted to be done. But. Yeah, I don't really think most people, like, I don't think, and maybe I'm wrong. I don't know. Someone will write it and tell me I'm fucking wrong. But I don't think that somebody could have. this unless you're very Polly and some people are Polly right but most people I think if they are

fully invested in love 100% in feelings with somebody else right fucking love I don't think that they like could just be drawn into somebody else like that I think when that happens like something's lacking over there for whatever reason you know it doesn't mean it's your husband's fault it's just you weren't totally in love with him anymore and that's why you started you had the capacity to fall for this other guy, right? For sure. Yeah. It had died a long time ago.

Right. That was just a catalyst. Yeah. Well, you checked off another box for my show because I have a lot of cheaters on my show. So another check for Kinky Katie. It's a fucking cheater. I know. I have, I've learned I have a weird cheating kink.

Like, I don't, like, think it's great to do. But I do think it's a little bit. It is a kink. It is a kink. And that's the unfortunate thing about cheating. Like sometimes the sex is like really fucking super charged. And there is something called a cheating kink for sure. It's the tabooness of it is just exhilarating.

Yeah, the naughtiness for kinky Katie right up there. Okay, so did he find out? I mean, this turned, that one turned into a whole affair. Like I tried to leave, but then he would like beg me to say. I'd come back and this moving on for a while. But eventually you were able to come fucking clean and he found out about the affair?

Yep. Yeah. And then I left I did go back one more time after that and then I was just like we would think we could fix it or that we could try again because I wasn't willing to give up

non-monogany. I just that was where I was stuck and he He kept trying, like we would have time apart. And he would keep trying. And I got to the point where I'm just like, no, I have, we got to be done. This is just unhealthy. And that's, you know, when it ended. Last question about him.

Do you have a good relationship with him now, four years later after you're divorced, you're single doing your own thing? I mean, you still have a kid together. Do you, like, co-parent well? Are you friendly? Yes. We're actually really good friends now. Like we do really well when we are not together.

Like we even, we go on dates here and there. That's awesome. Yeah, that's great. That's what I would figure. That's how it should be. I mean, you liked him for some reason. It sounds like you were very incompatible in certain ways that was just very key for the both of you. You know what I mean?

Neither one of you was right or wrong, but you just were the way you were and it wasn't a good match at all, right? You were never going to connect on the same page. but it's great that you're able to be friends and know that and be well in every other aspect of your life just because you don't have to be in a relationship doesn't mean that you guys can't be great friends now especially because you have a kid so that's that's great all right so after your divorce you start having three you did say i had a threesome after that like did you just like continue on in the lifestyle as a solo person like now tell me your whole story of what leads up to only fans and all that kind of good stuff Okay. So when I had cheated, I started a Snapchat premium. And that's when I really started getting into content. I had an only fan's, but that one I just didn't know what to do with it. So fast forward, I think it was like 2021. I was like, okay, I really enjoy making content. I was working at a call center as a state farm.

representative. And I have chronic pain and I was always calling in because the job was super stressful. I'm like, I need to find something else. Like, what can I do? And then I'm like, well, I have a friend, a couple friend who they made good money doing only fans. And I'm like, I reached out to him and he like, he gave me some tips and like a structure of how to get into it.

And then I just went in my free time, just really put my all into it. And within six months, I was in the top 5%. And is that, is that like major for OnlyFans? I don't know that platform. I mean, yeah, it was. Like were you doing more money than at State Farms by that point? Yeah, in six months, I was making, yeah, probably four times what I was making. Yeah, amazing.

But, I mean, it did take you sort of investing all of your time into it, right? I mean, that is the truth about these kinds of things, right? That you just want to get out there. Oh, 16 hours. Yeah, of course. Yeah, yeah. It's like full-time work and constant tending to it to make it successful, right? Absolutely.

Yeah. Go on. I was on Reddit. Like, that's how I really kicked it off at first was like I lived it, ate it, breathed it, whatever, just constant. and then, you know, what you have to do on the platform to make money. It was a lot. Yeah, that's amazing. And you love it.

You knew, like, when you were doing the Snapchat thing that you enjoy making content. Like, what is it about it? Is it that guy attention that you said you liked in the beginning? I love attention. Yeah, it's just, I get so high on just so much adrenaline. I am a total exhibitionist. Like, that's my biggest kink at my core. Okay, everyone, listen, I've had so many stories about vanilla couples and singles who have totally changed the game in the bedroom and are having way better sex than they've ever had in their life for the first time in their life.

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the description and click on the bedricated link and it's going to take you right to the quiz. Guy attention that you said you liked in the beginning. I love attention. Yeah, it's I get so high on just so much adrenaline. I am. a total exhibitionist. That's my biggest kink at my core. So you're enjoying yourself while you're doing this. I mean, you are making money out of it, but it's also feeding into like your very sexual side that you have. Yes. Yeah. Definitely. The hardest part was and still is whenever I need to just start going safer work social media because I'm very sexual and I have a hard time putting a cap on it,

even with my mouth, like I have a hard time abiding by social media's rules. Yeah, of course. And it's terrible. I mean, I got kicked off of YouTube when I had like 57,000 followers. And I tended to YouTube like you tended to OnlyFans. I put my all into it in the beginning to build it. And then once I realize, oh, this is going to be fucking taken away from me at any second, I stopped investing all my time because I realize.

And what I would say to you with like the social media stuff that's very, very much. vanilla like Instagram. You know, don't put all your eggs in those baskets because you can be deleted in two fucking seconds. You know what I mean? You want to put all your work and most of your time in the places where you're the safest and you're making the most money. Yeah.

I've figured out Instagram quite a bit now. And like you really have to just think of it as it's an ad. Like you don't have to go hard and like say all these things. Like you just need to put yourself out there. and listen to the rules, give them a seven-second reel and some pictures. And it brings you, it brings them to where you can really put your whole personality on that platform. Right, of course. So, but let's just still talk about, like you said you had some threasons and stuff like outside of like,

and we'll get back to the only fans and like all the content that you do there. Why don't you, and then we'll give a shout out to it and I'll put the link in the description. but like were you still like like did you hook up with couples or something like you said you had a three-sum after your husband like what did you what were you doing in your private time now that you're single and can hook up with anyone did you start hooking up with women like what were you doing so once i was free i was fucking every bbc i could find together what do you mean together two guys at once yeah two three uh uh uh Okay, how could you skip all this?

Okay, go, yeah. Really? Yeah, I did some risky shit. I had one guy meet me in my little town. I met him at 7-Eleven. I got in his Prius, and we went to some neighborhood, and I gave him head in his Prius in a suburban neighborhood in the dark. And then I was still living with my ex at that point,

but we weren't together, and he'd go right back. Oh, yeah. So, wait, so you started with that first guy because you were with him when you broke up. But that became like your thing. And then just what were you like on an adult app that you were meeting all these guys? Or did this guy bring his friends in? Like, how did you start doing groups and doubles and all that shit? So that one was, it was like a Swinger site.

I don't even remember the name of it. But it was one of those local Swinger websites. I met him on there. I did that. Oh, then I got on dating apps. And I was just sending people to my Snapchat and I was always, I was on the app, BLK. And that was my favorite app in the whole world. What is that?

Is that all BBC? Like, is that all black eyes? It's all black guys. Mm-hmm. Okay. Yep. And I was meeting a lot of people there. Oh, and then the weed guy in my neighborhood.

Oh, I forgot about the weed guy. Well, you still haven't. tell me specifically about like your two-sums and threesomes and group stuff with the guys. So why don't you go there. We have plenty of time. You don't need to rush. Okay, we're only at 25 minutes. We got an hour. So tell me some stories of like, you know, meeting all these guys that you met online that you did two-sums and threesomes and four-sums and moresums with. So the guys off the app, this one, he asked if I wanted to link and I said yes and he got a hotel nearby and then he's like can I bring a friend I'm like okay sure why not and he told me to bring my favorite BBC Z buildo and I did but I left it at the hotel

I'm really still sad about that oh my gosh but yeah I went there we fucked and stuff and then his friend came and I think we did pretty much all the things I think we deep heat that day too. You did? That's what I was going to say. I mean, was that your first time with two guys? Oh my gosh.

Probably by myself. I mean, I did do, there was one swinger party we went to where I was getting fucked by like, I think, three guys. Who, you're your husband? Yeah. Okay.

That was a bad party after. But I do remember I was getting it. And so this time, though, was this your first DVP or DP? Which one? D.P. Okay. How was that for you? That was good. I...

It didn't last as long as I wanted it to, but it was good. One kept going limp, which happens. but that definitely wasn't the best experience but it definitely made me want more of the multiple guy thing you mean yeah and I did that I think three or four times

the guy I had an affair with I would still hang out with him and we went to a hotel and I I did it with him and his friend they were supposed to be another guy and a girl but they went and got tacos while the guys

got good tacos how many guys were you with that one was two um your guy the affair guy and his friends mm-hmm oh and there was one I don't know if this actually counts

this was two guys the weed guy and his cousin he's just like told me to pull up he had a surprise for me and it was his cousin and this is bad because we did it in my old family car and a threesome yes so he pulls up or he pulls up with his cousin that's the surprise like we're both here to bang you yep yep that was it and then they got in my car and we went to this like right in front of this cave and like it was in the middle of the fucking

day and I don't even know if you could count it as a threesome because the guy his cousin was sitting and I was giving him head the other guy fucked me like with the door open and I didn't even know the guy came because I'm still sucking his dick I just thought it was very frothy and I was like are you going to find me he's like I already came I'm like oh oh that's what that is Oh my God, you had no idea. But it is a threesome though, for sure. I mean, you don't need to bang the other guy. His dick was in his mouth.

You swallowed, okay? And while the other guys fuck you, in the daytime, in your car. Yeah, and the really bad part is when I returned the car, I found this out years later. My ex-husband thought there was mayonnaise on the seat. and he had a deep suspicion it was tough and he turns out he was right yep yep oh my god did you ever do DVP DP is one one in each hole right did you ever were you able to ever fit two in at the same time I don't know how that's even possible I did that most recently oh really yeah over the summer actually the girl who told me about your podcast uh her

man and her came over with my man at the time and yeah they're like we want to do this and I'm like I've always wanted to do that so yeah they they put both their dicks inside of me and wait no I guess that's that's DV yeah that's DVP yeah that's DV double vaginal penetration okay the last time you did DP which was like one guy was in your ass what right that's right yes so you're right mm-hmm so you're right mm-hmm Yeah, it was very intense. I think it's just like the moment they both were in there. I pretty sure squirted a lot because... You're a squirter. Yeah. Wait, who's the girl? Has she been on my show?

No, I don't think she has. She talked about wanting to. Okay, now how did you meet her? Like, how are you meeting these couples and stuff? Is it through only fans now that you're doing content creating with other people or you're still on Swinger apps and stuff like that, meeting people? well i met her through the guy i was dating at the time who he met her through a girl he was dating just like swinger community type stuff but yeah did you hook up with her what where's all your

girl on girl action because that was something that you were very into that you weren't really able to experience with your guy you got heavily into you know hook it up with black guys with big decks i know that after your thing and we were very into you're really able to experience with your guy you got heavily into you know thing and we can get back to more of that story is because you said you had group stuff so we need to know of the more than the two-sums but what about like the girl on girl stuff the girl stuff I did I did couples but I was very very shy and I still am a little shy with women but I started exploring more with women probably the past two years the girl I was just talking about she was my first girlfriend like I've ever had. We started dating and that was that was really fun. Girl sex

was awesome with that one. With her. Was she one of your firsts or? That I had an emotional and sexual girl connection with yes. I had like eaten a lot of pussy before her but never like a girl relationship. And do you think the sex with her was so much better because you did have that emotional connection as well? Oh, for sure. Are you still together? Are you just friends now? I haven't talked to her in a long time. I kind of, there was a, yeah, I kind of, after my relationship that I was in at that time fell apart. I went kind of, kind of a hermit mode to heal a lot of things, and now I'm coming back. Oh, so were you dating her while you were with a guy, were you being Polly and having like two relationships, one with a girl, one with a guy at the same time?

Yes. This past year I was experimenting with Polly a lot. I have learned I do believe I'm solo Polly. What does that mean? I am my primary partner and I like having multiple relationships, but I don't want, like, I don't want to live with someone. I don't want to have, like, a primary partner. I just want to have multiple other partners.

I get it. You're not looking for one major commitment where you're with someone. You don't want that solo primary person. You don't want a primary. You want that solo, Polly, which is you just want multiple relationships all equal at the same time. Nobody primary. Nobody heavy.

And that might change someday, but for now, like, my primary partner, honestly, is my work. Like I love what I do And I really want to like Put all my main focus Into my work and my kids And then you know Everybody else just adds to my life but

I mean six months into your only fans You were like top 5% right And then what happened after that? Because I'm assuming you've been at it for longer than six months now Yeah Once Once I got up to 1%

I mean I kept it there for pregnant. I mean, I've been doing this for like five or four years. That's amazing. And is it your primary, like is it your career? It's like how you pay your bills. It's everything that you do and then some. Yep. It's my full time. It's my main source of income. Yeah. And how many followers do you need to have to like make some good money? Like how many followers on there do you have? It varies so much. I'm sure. They drop off. Yeah, yeah. But around. I'd say like in top 1% and it's probably around 800, 1,200 fans. And then sometimes it drops to like 500.

But like it's hard to say because there's so many different waves of different types of fans and what they're willing to spend and all that type of stuff. So it's mainly just constantly. being consistent on social media and just always showing up and bringing in new traffic. Let me ask you this. And we'll get back to some more stories because I want to hear, it sounds like you've had some gangbangs. Maybe you won't call it that, but like you've had more guys than just two.

But like let me ask you this. On OnlyFans, like what is the kind of content you have on there? Is it just you by yourself? Is it you with other people? So I have like a video story. that has like all of my scenes which is like at this point probably like 200 300 scenes that's solos stuff I've done with like amateur local people and then things where I would go and do like professional collabs with other creators and then I and then a lot of it's just like the stuff I would

make on Snapchat just like pictures of me my daily life me dancing around naked in my bathroom like just it's kind of like a girlfriend experience like this is the shit I would send a boyfriend or a girlfriend like so you kind of get both amazing and now the content of you with people is it girl on girl guy on girls is it three sums fours is it all of that so far as you typically oh really it's everything I've done I've done some weird shit I like like what I I mean the weirdest things are probably my solos like I'm like I'm like I mean the weirdest things are probably my solos like I'm I've dressed up as a jazzer-sized lady, and I had it. Crests? No, this was just from my fucked-up brain. Yeah, no, I think you're smart, actually. You're thinking like guys love jet, like those jazzo-sized clothes, by the way. It was in October last year, and I have a 17-inch dildo, and I was using it as, like,

uh, weights, and I was, like, doing my jazz or something. size voice, swing it around, swing that dick. Then, oh my God, it was crazy. And then you fucked yourself with it? Yeah. Yep. I was writing it and all the things. And I'm screaming.

And I'm pretty sure there were like two cars that stopped at my window. Like, what the fuck is going on? Because, like, my house still wasn't very furnished. So you get here. Yeah. Oh, my God. Are you a side? Do you consider yourself a size queen?

I mean, you said how many inches was that? thing? I was 17. I mean, obviously I couldn't get the whole thing. Of course. I mean, I like all sizes, but many of my fans have said that I am a size queen. And yeah, I guess I am. There's nothing wrong with admitting it, but that doesn't mean that you only like, you're just like dick, you like sex. You're like kinky, you're kinky kitty. It sounds like you're like up for anything and down, right? But you do love a big dick. I mean, there's nothing. wrong with that. Listen, your guy was like intimidated by guys with big dicks, but a lot of times, a lot of guys, their kink is like they like girls that like big dicks, even if they don't have

a big dick. I don't know why, but they're into it. They like to see women be pleasure, you know? And so whatever that takes. Yeah, that's my goal for my next man. I need, I need cook energy for sure. Oh, is that what you were looking for like a guy that would love for you? Well, listen to you, listen to my show. I mean, there are so many out there. I can't believe you haven't found one. yet. I, well, the problem has been as I've been with very dominant men. And I'm not that a cut can't be dominant, but I, I definitely am craving more submissive energy.

Do you want to be the dominant one? Yeah, I've been playing a lot with, like, I have. And, like, I'm a switch with, like, my fans and, like, sex,ing and different things like that. but I've never had like an in-person person I could be switchy with and be dominant with. So I'm like, I want to be able to peg my dude. Like, I want to explore all that. Yeah, just put that on your dating profile.

You're going to get a lot of guys. A lot of guys love like women who want to be dominant because most women don't want to be that way. You know what I mean? A lot of guys are into being pegged, but they're not going to cop to it. you know, so if you put that shit out there and lead with that when you are ready for a relationship, I don't know if you are right now.

I don't think you'll have a hard time finding it. Do you see yourself like equally wanting to date women, men and women? No, I don't know. When I'm ready, I would like to date women, but I get very consumed really quickly. so I'm just like you want to focus on your work right now you don't want to get taken away from that and you know yourself when you fall for somebody

you're like all in and all your attention is taken to that beginning of the relationship is that what you're saying yeah pretty much yeah that's normal that's very girl of you you know what I was like I was younger you know I totally understand that but like when you are ready you want to be Polly.

Like you don't want to just have one relationship. You want more than one. Do you enjoy dating that one girl? Because that was like the only girl you ever dated, right? Like, do you see yourself dating women again? Are you open to that as well as men? Yeah. I loved dating her.

I mean, it was very fulfilling. So I definitely want to date more women and savvy guys. Right. I'm a little done with the dominance right now. What about your like multiple guys things? You've done more than two guys? Like what's the most people you've had at one time? Have you been in an orgy, a gang bang?

Any of that kind of stuff? Oh, so many orgies. When I go to... Check check. It's down in 22. I started... And that was like when I really started to get to explore more. So I went to this one called Girls Gone Wild or Girls Gone Wireless.

I always get that mixed up. That's smart. That's the play on Girls Gone Wild. It's Girls Gone Wild. It's Girls Gone Wireless. I can't like it. Yeah. It was, I did two of those. And what is that? So it was a content house. This performer Kinder Cox and her man, they like put this big content event together. And they had all these different content creators come to Vegas and one in Florida. And you had access to photographers. content creators these nice houses you just get so much content done and i like i call my my vacations or my little work trips i call them selectations because for me they're real experiences i'm not just going there to just like perform like yeah yeah i like the first one i did at that event was with Jay Playhard and

T.T. Pog. And they were together. And it was a real, that honestly was my first real, real threesome on camera. Like, caught on camera. Is that two guys or a guy and a girl who you just mentioned? That was a guy and a girl.

Okay. It was a point. I was a BVC and a BBW woman. Okay. Yeah. And then that scene, it was so much fun. We did our thing. first time that woman I was gargling her squirt it was great

oh my god and this is all on film like people could go on your only fans and see this shit yeah yeah it was great then then a guy Finney's playhouse

and three or two more women walked in and we just had like an impromp to Orgy also on camera wow and you're loving all this like you said You're like there because you're just like getting off on all this because you're like have a high sex drive and you're into it and you're getting the content on top of it. But this is like what you love to do.

Yeah. It's like when I go, I'm just having fun. Like I love sex. I have always been hypersexual and yeah. I was just fulfilling fantasies. Yeah. And you said you took pictures with so and so and then something be. BBW something like I'm assuming you consider yourself a BBW I never look at people before they call

into my show I know you have an Instagram and stuff I didn't look you up because I I don't like to know anything about anyone before I get on the show but you did put in your thing like I took a part with this BBW something photographer is that or work like a place what is that so pure BBW yes that's what it's called pure BV production company um that was my first I guess professional porn like production It's with Christian Wyons, I think, is how you say that? I don't know.

But he has his company and he'll fly a girls out and you do a professional scene with him. I think you do two in a photo set or something. But that was my first professional scene that I did. I've only done, I think, three. I did one with him and then

two with Jeff's models. But yeah. that I did before Girls Go on the Wireless So that year I mean they were like a month or two apart But that that that year

I was just exploring all the things And getting more into Collabs and Traveling How was the professional shoots for you? What kind of scenes did you do for Pure BBW? We did One was kind of like

it was like a POV just talking like acting like he's my boyfriend and I'm trying to go to the pool but he wants to fuck type thing and then we did two scenes one was like a school girl one

and one was just like more like I guess they call it Gonzo like more natural like just hi this is Katie and she's here to fuck type thing.

Yeah. So that's, yeah, they were all in the hotel room and pretty simple. It was definitely, he had his different angles she had to do. I think I got in trouble because I was fucking too hard. And like, he's like, let's, I was, I don't know. I wasn't slow enough. I wasn't taking my time. I'm like, I'm horny.

I'm sorry. Like he wanted you to be more produced. And you were just like really fucking into it. Yeah. Yeah, I struggle with this. This is something I still struggle with because people are always like the longer you make it, the more money you can sell it for, obviously. But I have hard times that because when I'm horny, I just want to do things and guys just pop fast because, you know, they're into it.

Yeah, but you know what? That maybe your thing is you just make shorter stuff and more of it because I think what's better than, you know, doing long form and making more money is just being authentic. you know what I mean? And if that's you just really getting off, people are going to know that and they're going to fucking love it. I think that that's better than you trying to sort of produce yourself more just to be like everybody else.

You know what I mean? Or do something specific maybe just because someone says so than to just be who the fuck you are. You're a girl who really loves sex. You come really fast. So have a lot of quick videos. You know what I mean? Who cares?

They're probably like better than something produced that's fucking fake. that's a good point. Yeah. For sure. Yeah, for sure. What rises to the top that I believe in most platforms, even in podcasting,

only fans is like, you know, authenticity, you know what I mean? Like people who are really fucking into it. Like anybody could go on there and pretend that they're sexy and ha and they're into fucking and stuff. But if they're really not,

it's like they're not going to go anywhere. Like it's like all the people that I believe that really rise to the stuff or the people that really fucking do really like it. At least those are the people that come on my show, you know? And a lot of times that's weird nowadays, sometimes like my listener, especially the older guys, will be like, oh, they're like dismiss anyone that has only fans or something. And if I have someone that's not, they're like, finally, someone that doesn't have an only fan's and really like sex.

It's like, no, these only fans people love it too. Okay, sorry. It just, why not, you know, sort of do what you love and make money for it because that's available? But it's like you were kinky Katie way before only fans became a thing for you. You know what I mean? You're just doing this because this is what you love and why not? And like this gets to my last kind of a thing with you is like, you know, hasn't it made you feel like really great because you are BBW and you have owned that and you have become successful and it makes you feel good in your own body and who you are and all that kind of good stuff, right? Oh, for sure.

And I think the thing that still keeps me going are the messages I get from women and like the comments I've seen and my scenes with other people are like, wow, I finally see my body type. Because I have a mom body. I'm not just BPW. Like I have like a mom belly, like stretchy stretch marks on my tits. Like I have a mom bod. It's not a designed BBW body. And I love that women can see themselves in me. And in their sexuality.

Like, yeah, I look like this. I'm a mom. But I can be a great mom and still have four guys on my day off. Oh, my God. And not be perfect and fucking feel great about yourself naked and guys like it and be doing well in tons of people buying that content of a woman who's not perfect. That really goes to show that I think women, you know, we tend to be so much more self-conscious than, you know, guys would ever be. You know what I mean? Like we noticed things that guys would never.

And I think most women don't understand that. You understand it now because look, look, how successful you've been with your stretch marks and all, right? and mom bought and whatever. And yet there's a huge amount of guys logging and paying you to fucking see your shit. And that's that sad. That really shows that like guys aren't like as concerned with the things that we are.

You know, I think we're like most women are their own worst enemy. So you are empowering women like you said. And you get emails from women, right? Yeah. Yeah. I, female creators, just regular. Like women, it's, they,

really like fuel me because I mean yeah it's great I love that men check off to me but it's it's special knowing that I make other women feel good and that you're helping them yeah I mean I think that that's like really great so why don't you give a shout out to where people could find you tell them again what they get do you do customs and all that kind of stuff yep I do customs and video calls and all the things. Okay. My only fans is only fans Kinky Katie Cat with two T's. That's the same as my Twitter handle. Kinky Katie with the Katie is two T's? Yes, it's Kinky Katie and then Kat is K-A-T-T. I wish I could drop the cat, but I'm stuck with it. Okay. Kinky Katie Cat, K-A-T-T. And my website is kinkyKady.com, which has the link to that there as well.

And my Instagram is the Katie Cassidy. That's my safe for work name. Oh, interesting. Okay, the Katie Cassidy, but on your website, it's kinky katy.com. I'll probably put a link to there or I'll give your only fans name.

My hosting said have been like deleting only fans. They're getting weird about stuff. So I'll put your only fan's name. I'll put your website on there. And so people could go log in. I know people are going to want to fucking check you out. I mean, well. Like I said, you checked off so many boxes. I think we ended with the orgy. I don't even know if we

talked about that. Oh, yeah. Do you know what I mean? But I do it all. Yeah. Oh, my God. You pick the perfect name. So listen, do me a favor and send me some hot picks. Like, you know, for my Patreon, for my Patreon, I always say you send me R-rated pecks. Your picks, girl, so you'll have millions of them if you could send me a couple. You know, just a few, like two or three for Patreon. And then when we hang up you'll get a thank you email for me, which will give you free access to my Discord. Now, my Discord is a great place. I allow content creators to promote on there. There's a content creator channel. You could go in there, post pics. You could put your only fans link in your profile. Okay. And then, and I don't mind for people to do that. Like I said, there's a whole channel there.

But there's also like a guest channel. So when your episode airs, you could go on there and post like teaser videos or whatever to also get people. And you could say you're, you know, Kinky Katie for my episode. And I have 6,000 people on my Discord. So it's a great place to promote yourself over there as well. People are going to want to see you. You'll get access to that when we hang up. Sign up as Kinky Katie. So I know that's you and I'll give you guest rule access. Okay. But get me those picks sooner than later so I know that I have them. And just so you know what all my girl episodes go up on Monday. So your episode will be up on a Monday soon. But they typically go out on my Patreon a couple days before on a Friday. So get me your your pictures sooner than later. Okay. Like ASAP.

Okay. All right. Yeah, I'll get those to you today. All right. Awesome. This was so much fun. You're kind of funny to me for some reason. I don't know.

But thanks for calling in, Kinky Katie. All right. No, thanks for having me. Bye. All right. Bye. Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that I do have a book.

The book is called Chickley Non-Mas Confessions. Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like, there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuckold story. There's a gang bang girl story.

There's like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person, right? So I took the interview and I rewrote it in the third person. I wouldn't call it like an erotica book, though there's plenty of sex in there, right? But I didn't write it to sound like erotica because that's like the vibe of my show. You're going to learn a lot. You're probably going to get a little turned on. It's a different way to hear these stories, like I said.

because they're written out in third. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it.

The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. There's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gang being girl story. Like I said, 17 stories.

And they're all told in the third person, and they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like Penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories.

17 of them. They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format. And finally, the audio book is available coming out August 25th. But you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint. Okay. There's no way you get into my my Discord any other way than getting the link from me. Okay, I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other. And that's what you get to do there. You could post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have

lots of contests where you can win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total, strictly anonymous community and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is email. me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the e-book, or the paperback. Send it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. And I will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in.

This is the Strictly Anonymous podcast. Person. There's an e-book available if you don't want your partner to know that you're reading my book. the e-book is available. If you buy my book in any format, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint. Okay, there's no way you'll get the Discord and go in there and be like, oh, this sucks, okay? It's like pretty amazing. There's tons of people on there and everybody shares content with each other. That's what's great about Discord. You get to post your own videos and pictures and there's tons of channels and we have contests over there. It's a super fun place to be.

I will be giving anyone that buys my book at any time access to my Discord. It is private. This is the only way you could get in is through me giving you the link. And that's why I think my Discord is so great because I have vetted people. It's not like it's just open to the public. So everybody that's in there are people that listen to my show. And people that listen to my show are fucking great. So my Discord is fucking great. My book is great.

You're going to love it. If you buy it, all you got to do is send me the receipt or a picture of proof that you bought it. And I will give you free access to my Discord. Send it to Strictly Anonymous Podcasts at Gmail.com. You could find my book in the link in the description. Okay. Or just Google it. Strictly Anonymous Confessions.

secret sex lives of total strangers. You can find it anywhere. You buy books. Send me the picture and I'll give you access to my Discord email, Strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. Anyway, thanks so much for listening.