Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1383 - Fingering, Mutual Masturbation, Findom and More w/Samia

Episode Date: March 1, 2026

Samia called in to answer a bunch of naughty questions and winds up talking about so much more. Tune in to hear hr discuss how long she likes to be pounded and how many times she can orgasms in a day and when she became so multi-orgasmic, her and Kathy’s fave role play scenario that include cops and dingy hotels, food and sex and whether they’re hot together, mutual masturbation and how and why it can be super fun, Kathy’s dirty prank caller and who it turned out to be, how many fingers does Samia like when being fingered and how and why fingering skills are key, 69 position and how to do it successfully, how Samia now likes to be degraded and the time she engaged in Findom with a partner and what went down, tease and denial and the halfway in game, exactly how to play the half way in game and how and why its great plus a whole lot more. YOU CAN FIND HER PODCAST HERE: ClosetEd GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://LoadBoost.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ — To get 10% off LOAD BOOST by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2540-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠— Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠PikaVibe.com/Strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Click to get $15 OFF your purchase ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What I do want to do on Sundays that I've been thinking about is have like very regular stories, but captivating stories. I do love to talk to people about their interesting life stories. It doesn't have to do with sex, okay, for my Sundays. I'm looking to do like super vanilla, regular stories that you think people would be interesting, interested in hearing. I know I'm always interested in hearing everybody's life stories because I'm like super curious. So if you think you have like an interesting life story, that has nothing to do with sex and want to be on the show and tell your story. You could do that now for my Sundays. Just sending an email strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com.

That's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. Or go to my website, strictly anonymous podcast.com and click on be on the show. Okay, today I have a Q&A with Samia. Sammy Amounts. She's been on my show. I've been on her show. She has a great show. It's just like mine.

She talks to open-minded people about their secret sex lives. Her show is called Closited. I will put the link to. in the description to her podcast. She came on the show to answer some questions. And she's a horny girl. Oh my God, wait until you hear.

She could come multiple times. She had a lot of stories she told while we were asking some questions. She's into sex. And while I was asking her some questions, we talk about 69ing. We talk about sex props. We talk about role play scenarios. We talk about mutual masturbation.

We talk about fingering, degradation, tease and denial. We end with the halfway in game. I talk a lot about that. And then she had to drop out at like, 45 minutes in the convoy. I talk for an extra like 10, but mostly it's me and her answering these fun questions. If you want to like hear women talk about sex and learn about like what women like, uh, you're going to love this episode because me and her are very different. That's why I have

people on all the time because everyone is different and I think it's great to hear the differences. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Samia. Hi Samia. Welcome back. Samia. Welcome back. Samia has been mounting people. Such a legend. Samia might be mounting my friend Adam who I've been trying to pimped out a long time ago on my show. I'm hoping you guys hook up. Am I allowed to say that or should I edit that out? You can leave it and he's so cute. I'm going to meet him tonight. But can we say what you're trying to do? Listen, this is I, this is why you're calling in to do my Q&A episode with me about hot like questions about sex with a girl because you're more like a guy. You're the one like going after what you fucking want, which I love. I was like,

Like Adam, she's the girl in the real. I mean, she's the man in the relationship. You're like, just making shit happen left and right. That's how you kind of roll. I mean, people could hear your backstory. I have your episode before. You've been on my show before. And you wait, let me just introduce you.

You do run your own show. You do exactly what I do. You're very super curious. You talk to people about their secret lives. It's called closeted. That's your podcast. I'll put a link to it in the description. But you happen to be very open-minded.

You're not like me, a vanilla person talking to people. You're like right up there with my guests. I don't know that you're 100% vanilla, Kathy Kay. I would push back on that a little bit. Maybe after we answer these questions, right, go on. You know, I just feel like I'm a woman who has eradicated her sense of sexual shame. And recently I've turned her corner with my relationships with men. And I'm just on a killing spree, Kathy Kay.

What do you mean turned a corner? Like what I see, this is the problem. We're supposed to do a Q&A episode. And now I have, I'm so curious. I'm like, got to go down your whole life story. What do you mean a different? you feel differently about guys, what do you mean? Yeah, so like I've just had one too many serious partners do this patriarchal fucking thing

where I trigger them somehow not by doing anything wrong or bad, but just by being myself, just by being sexually autonomous and independent about my sexuality. They feel a feeling and they can't just like feel their feeling and process it. They have to attack me. And so I'm now at a point where the first time that happens, I'm like, you're out. I don't even care. I don't care if I've been in love with you for decades. You're out.

The first time it happens, I'm done. I'm cutting shit off, like, I'm nipping it in the bud. It's great. It feels so good. I love that. And let me just tell you. No, I love that because I have been trying on my show to hook people up.

Okay, for some reason I want to be like a dating show slash confession show. I wanted to set up Luna's been on my show. I've been out her stats. Anyone email me. And then Adam's been on my show. And I'm like, I want to pimp him out. And then, you know, I like... And he's sexy.

He looks like a giant redwood tree, but like in human form. Oh, my God. Sammy, my question should be, are you attracted to inanimate objects? Like, he looks like a tree and you want to fuck him? The world is pretty much a turn on. No. Oh, my God, I love it. I like a metaphor.

Well, listen, this is a plug to Adam. I mean, he called into my show. And he was on your show, too. And he is a guy. I have to say that's very opposite your guys, because he navigates. because he navigated a girl that was so open sexually. I mean, you don't get more hardcore than his wife of like seven years. And instead of him attacking her when he got feelings,

and I'm going to give props to him because he wrote a whole book and I'm going to give a shout out because he helped me with my book. Seek the risk. Seek the risk. And he talked all about, you know, how he dealt with all the feelings that came up for him during his non-monogamous relationship with a woman who triggered him a lot because she wanted to fuck whoever.

Yeah, triggered him a lot. And it was a revelation for me reading his book, honestly, and like talking to him. This is why I'm interested in him because I got to read about his emotional process and how he handled everything. And it's so hot when a guy is like, yeah, I'm having really overwhelming feelings. I'm going to ride my bike for a while and work through this. And what I'm not going to do is lash out at my female partner because she didn't actually do anything wrong. Yeah. Well, Adam is not Neanderthal man. He is a way more evolved than that. So he is the type of totally. going to be more the type to sort of go introspective before he lashes out. He's just very contained. He's not that type of dude. And yet he's very classically masculine at the same time. And there's this idea in society that you can't be both of those things at the same time. But you fucking can. Adam is showing the way. He's teaching the others. We're very grateful for him. So he might get laid. No, no. Not just late. You're going to, you told me you're planning a threesome with him. Sorry, I got to out you. I'm not planning. You're thinking maybe it's going to happen. and didn't. Is that what you told me?

It could happen. I have laid the ground work. Yeah. Yeah, I'm excited. Okay, so let's talk about little stuff about sex and get, and like, let's, and then I'll tell Adam to listen to this, so he'll get to know you a little bit better. I'm going to grill you about sex. We're going to answer some questions.

I'm going to ask you a question that he asked me. I did a Q&A with him. I've been doing Q&A's for bonus episodes for my Sundays. And it came up like how, I don't know that the question that he asked me is how long I like to be pounded. I mean, when it comes to sex, like, after the foreplay's all over, after all of that, like, and the dick goes inside of you, right? This was very controversial, my answer to this question.

Somehow, he asked, like, when is enough, like, for you? And I'm, like, you know, five minutes of pounding, like, enough, you know. And people were horrified by my answer. He was horrified. A lot of women, though, then started to agree with me. Some didn't. I'm wondering how long when, after you've done for play, right, you're all ready to go. You're like, okay, now climax me and get me, you know, over the mountain with your cock,

inside me. How long do you want it? How long do you want the pounding to last for? I said five minutes. I'm going to fuck this question right up. I'm going to fuck this question right up. I love it. All right. Listen. So first of all, I don't understand this delineation between foreplay and pounding. I feel like there should be a continuous cycle of like, you know, yeah, go down on me. I'll go down on you. Then fuck me for a while. And then maybe we take a break and then we do it all again and we do some fingers and we do some toys and we move locations. We change positions. So like there's no. delineation. For me, there's no delineation between those two things, like foreplay and, and I know, but when I, I'm sorry, when I set up scenarios, they have to be like specific or else I'm

never going to get a fucking answer. So I get that. Go back and forth. To answer the question. One. Yes. I like to go back and forth. My best sex has multiple rounds. Um, so like just one round of pounding. Yes, to orgasm from it. I, well, so, okay, here's the thing, Kathy, I have orgasm every couple of minutes. Fucking ass off. Yeah, if I cut it off after an orgasm, that's not very long at all. So normally we'll go for like four or five orgasms. So I would say 10 minutes.

Okay. Yeah. You know, per round of pounding. Yeah. But I want multiple rounds of that. That's fine. I'm just set. That's fine.

And you know what? Guys will love you because there are so many guys out there and I call it the fucking show. It's the show. Guys love to please women. They love to put on a show. and they want to give a woman four to five orgasms. They would love you. You know what I mean?

The fact that that's what you want to. Like to me, it's great in the beginning because, you know, you're so super turned on in a beginning of a relationship. Like I could get off five times with a guy in one time

because we're just fooling around all the time. But after a while, I don't want the show anymore. I don't want pressure to come five times. Okay. I have shit to do. I'm not, you know,

I'm not that horny for you after. It's not the beginning, you know? So I think it goes out of the window. But I think that, that if you are a multiple orgasmic woman, though, that is great. Because I think at the end of the day, why guys like to put on the show and they like to pound for a long time is because they want to please a woman and they want them to have as many orgasms as they can. It makes them feel good. You know, it's hot.

Absolutely. It's super hot. And like, yeah, you're absolutely right. Like, guys love me for this. Yeah, I can imagine. I go into sexual encounters saying like, hey, if you made me come two or three times, you actually did a bad job. Like you, because I can come like 30 plus times in one sex session if you're doing things well. Wow.

So like don't get complacent because I came a couple of times. Like there's a lot more in that drawer if you keep it open. Wait, were you always? I'm like forgetting about my questions. I have questions for just for specifically. Yeah. Were you always so multi-orgasmic? No, I wasn't until my 30s.

It all everything. My body changed. I'm not sure. I think it might have been a combination of things. I've heard that like the skin of your cervix gets thinner as you get older. So like G-spot stimulation can get more intense as a woman ages. I don't know how the true that is, but I've heard that. But I think also I just came into my own sexually and was a lot more relaxed about sex and comfortable in my body.

So I think it's probably a combination of those two things. And I've gotten more, I'm better and better at choosing partners. So they're just better at pleasing you too as well on top of it. of that. Yeah. And I'm also better at directing them. Yeah, as you should. I've always been great at directing, but I'm more a one and done. And I like to draw it out because I'll have one big, amazing orgasm. But it feels great the whole time. You know, I could drag out foreplay for a very long time because it's like the greatest thing ever, right? And I don't want it to stop and go back and forth. And I like tease in denial and all that stuff. But once I have my orgasm, I'm not orgasming again

right away. And I certainly don't want to be pounded until I could get to the next round. You know, I always admire women that can do that. I said five minutes pounding to orgasm. Adam thought I was fucking crazy. So did every other guy. But there was a lot of women who agreed with me and they're like realistically 10 minutes. So I say five to 10 minutes for one orgasm, right? We're kind of agreed like 10 minutes, one orgasm. Pounding? Yeah. I mean like for I would have four to five in that time if it was if the cock fit right. But like yeah. Are you like big cocks? Do you like big ones? Are you a due care? Actually, like, you know, there's such a thing is too big, I think. Yeah. My perfect cock is like maybe six inches and has nice girth.

Right. And is straight up and down, doesn't lean in any direction, and doesn't taper. Yeah, I got it. I got it. Yeah, they're all different shapes and sizes, right? It's interesting. I mean, but there's a cock for everybody. But I happen to like the ones that are just sort of like a baton, like they're really uniform.

those tend to feel the best for me and are least likely to get painful. And the other thing that happens with me and I wonder if this happens with you or other women is when I come when a guy is penetrating me, I squeeze so hard that I often kill their erection. So it often necessitates a short break if I've come four or five times

in the 10 minutes of pounding. Like by the fourth or fifth one, their erection is getting killed by your grip. Me squeezing them. The same. Samia death grip. No, I don't think that that's the norm.

I've never heard of that. But it's a great way to extend sex. As long as he can keep getting hard again, it can make sex take hours because we just keep going. Yeah, that's so interesting. Let's talk sex props or sex toys. Are there anything that you want to try that you haven't? And for me, it's like a spreader bar.

Have you ever used a spreader bar? I didn't really know that they kind of exist. What is that? A spreader bar? What is a spreader bar? Exactly. I didn't really know. But I was, I have always been the type of girl that for some reason, and I don't know why it's like, like I like if you just hold my legs down and don't let them move. You know what I mean? As wide as they could go spread them out, hold them down to me when you're having sex with me. That's like something that adds to my experience. So a spreader bar is like a bar that you put on where you could like spread the legs and it attaches to the bar and then they stay spread. You can't move them. It's kind of like doing the job of the person holding down because the guys always get annoyed. It's hard for them to keep them held down as long as I want. them and I'm kind of moving to get them to go close, but I don't want them to close those.

You know, it's hard work. So the spreader bar keeps them spread. That's what I'm interested in trying. But is there any kind of props or sex? It's not the ones that you've used, but that you want to use that you never have. That I want to use that I never have. Yeah. Huh.

Okay. You know, this is a good question. I'm trying, I'm now wrapping my brain because I'm pretty ready to jump in and try things that I want to try. So there's not too many things I've thought about that I haven't actually done. Exactly. Yeah. Oh my goodness.

What about a spreader? Well, the thing is, is I really actually enjoy, like, giving myself a flexibility challenge in sex. And so I'm constantly trying to do the splits while they're fucking me and, like, holding my legs out. And I'm, like, showing off and being a yogi and stuff. Wait, can you do an actual split, though? Like, no, but I can spread my legs pretty fucking wide and straighten them out. and like it's more flexible than most people, I would say, who are not dancers. Yeah.

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in sex, and so I'm constantly trying to do the splits while they're fucking me and, like, holding my legs out and I'm, like, showing off and being a yogi and stuff. Wait, can you do an actual split, though? Like, no, but I can spread my legs pretty fucking wide and straighten them out, and, like, it's more flexible than most people, I would say, who are not dancers. which I'm not a dancer. I think I would love, actually, you know what? Here's one.

I've dana-sized for ages and I haven't ever done. I would love to get with somebody who's really good at Shibari rope tying and let them and that I'm also like supremely attracted to you and let them have their way with me. Right. I would love to do that and I have not done it yet. It requires effort and I have a partner right now who's interested but he doesn't know anything about it so we have to go to like a workshop and I think that'll be really fun. Yeah, I get that.

And so that's the property mantra. What about role play? I've talked a lot about role play on my show. I have talked about a couple of my role play scenarios. They always sort of, you know, involve like just picking up someone randomly and fucking them. Like, what about for you? Like, what are your role play scenarios that you think about that you would like to live out that are fun for you? Or ones that you pull out and have roleplay better, you're sort of go-toes.

I know what my go-toes are, but I want to hear what you are. Okay. Mine are like so basic, but I'm not ashamed. You don't have to be. You're not basic at all so far. I love the role play where the guy is like your massage therapist, but then he like keeps going too far and like you end up fucking on the massage table. So that one I've actually done once. I really loved that I would do it again.

I would do that forever. I mean, you get a full body massage and sex in the same session and you get like the taboo of like, oh, a stranger who you're paying is taking advantage of you. But you like it. Yeah. I love that one. And the other go-to for me, which I've never acted out with somebody, but I would like to, is getting pulled over by a cop on a remote rural road and talking your way out of the ticket by sucking his dick and letting him fuck you against the car. Oh, I like it. Well, this is what rural plays for, right?

Stuff that you can't do in real life, but it's like for some reason that scenario is hot to you. You like a man in uniform? I don't necessarily like a man in uniform, but I do think it's the power dynamic. Yes. And I think it's the, I'm going to get you to compromise your ethics and your integrity by being a total slut. Mm-hmm. Yeah.

And also there's a broad daylight aspect of it, like outside against a car where like people could drive past. Like it's all so hot to me. It hits multiple buttons. Yeah. So I really like that one too. Okay. Mine always involve hotels for some reason.

Like sometimes I would think like, oh, I just. just want to like pretend that I'm like fucking like when I did it with the landlord and the guy comes up and fixes my something and you know and then we hook up and I fuck my landlord you know he just comes up and then there's one where like I'm in a cd hotel and I fuck the guy who uh is at the front desk you know and then sometimes it's the guy in the hotel bar that I just take up and fuck him and I don't even know him I just saw lots of cool you know it's for some reasons like a hotel and a stranger sex you know it's like those two things are combined because hotel sex I don't know do you get horny and I don't I put in CD hotels because I like five star hotels but like I there's something about hotels that do

make me horny. What about you? Oh yeah totally. I love hotel sex. There's something about just like not having to deal with the cleanup like I don't have to deal with the sheets. I don't we can order room service like this is in our space so we can really defile it. It's great fun. Yeah totally love a hotel. Yeah for some reason. I like getting fucked against like the window like of a hotel room that's really high up and you can see the whole city that you're in and like you know imagine that people in my in other building with binoculars might be getting off to you. I don't know. There's an exhibitionism and luxury aspect to it that's all very hot to me.

Yeah, you could do that in New York City easily, you know what I'm saying? Because we all have windows. What about? I've done it in Chicago. Oh, really? Is that where you live? Oh, yeah. No, I was visiting Chicago to see a friend in a play who I was hooking up with and he fully

fucked me against the floor to ceiling windows in the skyscraper they had put him in. And it was very exciting. We loved it. Okay. Do you like this dumb thing? Because I don't find this hot at all. But I wonder if you do. Do you like to incorporate food and like whipped cream chocolate or edible shit like in your sexual escapades with a partner?

Oh, you know what? It's not like an every time thing. But I actually did that recently. Really? I have this new guy I've been, yeah. I have this new guy I've been fucking that we have this incredible chemistry, wonderful connection. It's so hot. And one of our long marathon sessions, we busted out the bottle of whipped cream. And it was funny, actually, because you cover a cock and whipped cream and then you lick it off.

And you're like, whoa, that was actually a lot more whipped cream. Yeah, that you put on it. Right. Right. You think, yeah, if you're covering the whole cock, I hope it's bigger than what you put on your ice cream. And like, he put it on my nipples and on my And we were both like, it was so much more whipped cream than me. But it was really fun. Really? Yeah, see, I think it would be like. But we laughed at it.

Because I think, I just feel like body's skin has a certain taste to it. Not necessarily negative, but it's not like there's no taste to a dick or a nipple without anything on it. So I don't know. I'm such a foodie that I don't want my whipped cream to taste like whipped cream and fernones or whipped cream and, you know, four skin or. whipped cream and nipple stuff. Like, I don't know.

Maybe you need something a little bit more advanced. You need like a brown butter sage reduction. No. It goes with the omami flavor of skin. No, I think I just don't like it. I think that's why I wanted to ask the question because I was wondering, because I feel like you see it a lot on TV and you see it, you know, and people think it's like kind of hot.

It's so not for me. I would never want to do it. But I feel like that's like my own weirdo thing because I'm such a foodie and I just don't want food there. I don't know what it is, but I don't think that makes you a weirdo. It is its own thing. I find it kind of fun and playful as an occasional novelty, but definitely not something I'm doing all the time. Yeah, yeah.

Oh, do you dig mutual masturbation and have you done that recently? Oh. So listen, I think that mutual masturbation is a great way to have a sexual encounter without touching each other. If anybody is super scared of catching something or just want to be. wants to take baby steps, like it can be really hot. Personally, it's not something that I, like, seek out, but occasionally it happens organically. And are we counting, like, being on the phone and masturbating at the same time while talking to each other?

Does that count as mutual masturbation? Or you mean, does that be a person? Well, when I used to do it, I had one boyfriend, we would do it all the time and we would get, like, in a really cool position where, like, we were on opposite ends of the bed and we go, like, my pussy was really close to his dick. And, like, watch each other? No, we were, like, sort of connected and he would jerk off and I would, you know, at the same time. So like it was that kind of mutual masturbation is what I'm thinking of like in person watching each other. You know what I mean? I have a couple of fast. Okay. Well, I'm going to do that now. Yeah. Yeah. Try it. I'm going to try it. I'm going to try it. It's going to lead to fucking but. Because it's not one because I feel it sounds like an appetizer to me is all I'm saying. Well, I feel like guys do like to see a girl masturbate, right? Like I know my guy was always like asking me to send a videos of that and whatever, you know. And I think if you're just doing it for your guy, it's. It's. It's.

It's a little, it could be a little bit like, oh, performative. Like, oh, my God, he's just watching me while I'm drinking. But if you're doing it at the same time when you're watching him and he's watching you, I think it's like a hot, fun thing to do. There are so many hot, fun things I used to do when I was younger and had all the time in the world to like fuck my boyfriends. And that's all we did was just like sit around and bed naked and do all these kinds of things that I miss out on now.

Do you know what I mean? Because I don't have all the time in the world. Do you? The other thing, I don't have all the time in the world. Yeah, it's trouble. I was going to say the other thing that mutual masturbation could be good for. is if you've been fucking for a while and your pussy is done taking poundings.

Yeah. Like that does happen to me with my better partners. Better is mean. With my more stamina-e partners. And I could get to a point where I'm like, I can't take any more dick, but let's jerk ourselves off together and like let's get you to come.

I could see it as a tool for that situation. Yeah. Well, you reminded me When you were talking about doing it for like safe sex, you reminded me of like when I was way younger and AIDS became a thing in my lifetime and then all everyone like fucking freaked out. You know what I mean? Because everyone was like fucking without condoms. No one cared or thought about it. Yeah. It's the worst thing you could get as herpes, right? But when AIDS came out, I was like, oh my God. And so and I'm a total hypochondriac for anything I die from that I was like, what the fuck am I going to do? Because I was like kind of slutty and I like to just hook up with guys. So there was this move that I was doing for a long time with this one guy. And we would do this in the car. And he would just like, we'd go in the car. And he would just like, we'd go in the car. And he'd go in the car. And he'd just. just like jerk off while I like raised my shirt and he looked at my tits like we would just do all these things that like instead of like actually sleeping with each other he had a micro penis by the way I think that's why I was doing it too but that's the way I had safe sex with him I he would just look at my tits and he would jerk off and I would watch him jerking off while with my tits is like this weird

thing that you just trigger that I remember what I used to do with this guy dirty prank frank he actually you know he's an episode on my podcast he actually turned out do you know this was a guy with micro penis. And he, uh, I thought that he was like, I was getting prank phone calls from a guy for, for a really long time for years. And it would be like, what kind of panties are you wearing? Like constantly calling me, asked me what kind of panties I was wearing, you know, and it turned out so many years later, like, right after he got married to somebody, like, I was like, wait a second, this guy sounds familiar. It's the same fucking guy, right? And I'm like, is this Frank? I'm like, I'll tell you, like, my friend, you know, I'm like, I'll tell you what color

panties I'm wearing if you tell me if this is Frank and he admitted it. And it was him. It was my friend this whole time, this guy with the microbeast. Wow. Yeah, it was kind of crazy. And I had him on my show. I think we actually talked all about it because I eventually forgave him many years later. But anyway, I might even edit the I was going to ask if you were upset about that because that's a little rude to do you. What do you mean? What are you kidding? I was like, I'm going to call your fucking wife. You just got married. I was just at your wedding and you've been doing this to me. And now, and then he stopped changing his voice. He didn't even care. He's like, hey, it's Frank. What kind of panties are you

wearing? Like he was so boundaryless. Yeah, it was a real fucking problem. It's like finding out your friends a murderer. Like it was like crazy. You know what I mean? Crazy. And I didn't, I think a 10 years went by that we didn't talk. And then we did. And then it came on my show and we, I think the episode is dirty prank, Frank.

We talked about it. That's pretty incredible. I love that. I love that you did that. Do you, how many fingers do you like if you get finger when you get finger? I like you to start with one. And then eventually if you keep fingering me, I'm going to want four. Right.

I'm always like, I love. like dick fingers because I don't like thin little fingers like I do not like one finger inside of me at all and I don't even like two like I like at least three and like I always talk about my one booty call guy Tommy he had like dick fingers they were like the best it was like one finger was like the size of a regular dick and three you know two fingers I have you know what I mean I've been hooking up with guys who had thick fingers so do that's yeah but you like that normally two or three but I think like it just You know, if you're really, if I'm, if my fires are going, I'm going to get you all the way to four. But I like to, I like to start slow.

If it's the first penetration of the day, start with one, maybe two. And then we keep going. Yeah, I do like a big hand. I love big hands. I think hands are so sexy and they're so underrated in the world of straight sex. Like a man who can finger you well is, oh my God. It's just as hot as when they fuck you well. Oh, it's so good.

Oh, I love it. I just feel like they're holding me from the pussy. And then they look at you all sexy and so it's so good. Yeah. Yeah. I have this weird thing. I call it pokey pokey because when I was like young and drunk, I got abused and like they used their fingers.

And like I didn't like it. So I, but I have to say like as I've gotten older, I've enjoyed it more. And the pokey pokey thing is going away as far as like figure is concerned. It's not as like, oh my God, don't put like one little finger in and shove it in there. It's like freaks me out. It was like an ick. And it was like, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Trauma, it triggered.

Yeah, it was a trauma thing. But it's going away, thankfully. But I do feel like, you know, there was one time where this guy, doctor guy, who's actually also been on my show, he was fingering me while he was asleep. Somehow he fell asleep while he was figuring me and he was like practically snoring and fingering me.

And I don't know if it was because he was asleep and I felt comfortable, but like he almost like, I feel like made me squirt. I don't know what the fuck he was doing. But it was like the best fingering like because you, and you, triggered that memory for me when you just said some guys could like finger you so good like it like it was like the best fingering I ever have okay guys want to walk into the bedroom and know you're

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fingering I ever have had and I'm like and I'm thinking to myself like was it like was there something about me that was able to relax more because he was asleep because he was asleep like it was asleep like it doesn't make sense but I'm like and was it just his fingering or was it that I was like more relaxed because he was sleeping there because a lot of times there's pressure for me if a guy's fingering me that I have to get past my pokey pokey and I have to squirt for him and I really feel like this guy got me the closest and there it was good fingering moves there are there is a difference maybe right is that what you're saying wait and he was doing it in his sleep swear to god he was sleeping he was drunk sleeping yeah he was not awake he like he was like he was not awake he like he was like he was fingering me and it was

like the best fingering i ever had trust me i wasn't drunk drinking during this time so i remember this fully this was only like 12 years ago yeah it was great wow yeah maybe you did feel safer maybe you know because he was asleep he was not a threat like you're It was, I don't know. Yeah, I'm telling you, I have a feeling. I'm like trying to think if it was the fingering and you triggered that by saying some people really know how to use their fingers for you. They do. Yeah, some people really know what they're doing and it's so great.

It's so sexy. I just recommend everybody, men, women, everyone who fucks women, learn how to finger properly because it's a game changer. It changes every. It can be so hot. Do you remember that movie fear where Marky Mark and Reese Witherspoon have this like gross toxic love affair? and he turns out to be like a killer and it's terrible. But, okay, there's this scene, though, that has stuck with me my whole life where to get on a roller coaster and she's wearing a mini skirt and he fingers her while they're on the roller coaster. And it's so hot.

It's one of the hottest scenes in a movie I've ever seen and there's no nudity and no, like, you know, what we think of as sex. Like it's just fingering on a roller coaster. I would kill for that to happen to me in real life. That's another good fantasy. when you're fingered on a roller coaster. Yeah. Haven't you ever been fingered in a movie theater? I've had a guy put his hands on my pants in a movie theater.

Like that's hot. Like it's something easy to do and it's kind of sneaky and fun because no one else knows. You know what I mean? I probably have, but I don't think it was good because I can't remember. So we're going to have to do that again. Yeah. I go to the movies. I'll go back to you.

I get horny in the movies if I'm with a guy. Do you? I totally do. Yes. But I don't, I think next time, you know what? I'm going to go to a theater with a guy soon and I'm going to make sure I wear an easy access outfit. Next time we talk, I'll have a story.

Well, nowadays, you lie back. And I think it's because I know that I can't put the guy sitting next to me that I get like fucking horny for my guy. And so we've always, like my last guy that I've been to the movies with many times, like you would go down and start fingering me in the movie theater. And I liked it because it's like, you know, it's like naughty, right? Nobody knows. It's not like someone's sitting right next to me.

I wouldn't do that. Do you get off on doing 69? I feel like a lot of guys can't get off when you're blowing them in that position. But I like 169. I literally made somebody come while 69ing. How'd you do it? You know what I'm talking about, though? A lot of guys don't like that angle on their cock.

You know what I mean when you're blowing them? I used my hands in addition to my mouth. Well, I always used my hands too. And I gave his balls a lot of attention as well. And also, I think that my pussy is uniquely sexy because when I stick in a men's faces, it gets some hot. So, you know, my pussy's in his face. I'm doing the works to his junk with my hands and my mouth. lots and lots of lube and saliva and yeah and he and he came and it was the second time he had come in

that session and he said that that hasn't happened since he was in his 20s well that's what i'm telling you second half of his 30s right because i'm telling you that i feel really good about that yes i'm telling you that most guys can't go over the edge in that position because the top of your i can't explain it but the top of your mouth is on there so it always takes longer you know what i mean for if you you're doing it as well as for me i don't think it's the perfect For me also to have an orgasm, it takes me longer. But once I get into it, I could get really into it. But it needs to happen for a long time to get off that way.

You know what I mean? Because it, for me, also the position of being on fours, the opposite way and him going down to me isn't always totally the best to get off. But of course, I can. And I think the guy can over time. But I think if you did it really fast, it was really good because typically it takes longer, I think. So like in 69ing, I have to decide, am I going to have orgasms or at, or, or

am I going to focus on what I'm doing to him. Because I can't do them both. If he's giving me orgasms, I get really bad at the blowjob. Yeah. So in this situation, that's what it is. The other day, the reason it worked the other day is because I was on top of the 69. And I was using my pussy to tease his face. And I wasn't concerned about my orgasm because I'd already come like 16 times.

Oh, my God. And he had already come once. And I didn't even, I wasn't expecting him to come again. When he did, I felt this incredible feeling of triumph and achievement and pride. Yeah. But no, no, but I think you said something so important. I think that's one of the other reasons why it's hard for me to come in that position because I'm focused on getting the guy off.

And typically it's not like you're both not doing it at the same time. Right. That's why it takes a long time. Yeah. Yeah, it's one of the other. And I tell them like, listen, I'm going to get progressively. said what I'm doing to you if you keep doing such a good job on me. And they never mind that. They're like, great, that's fine, honey. Come, come for me. But there is a tradeoff there.

Do you, are you into degradation, tease and denial, stuff like that? Any kind of kinks like that? A little bit, actually. And it's taking me a while to come to terms with this. Like, I really, in my new sexual relationship, I found myself saying things like, fuck me like you pay. paid for it. Yeah. So that's a role play. That's a role play you like. And, you know, I like being called like a little slut and I like being told that I'm nasty and

but I also like being told that I'm a good girl and I did a good job. So there's a lot of that sort of kinky dynamics that I enjoy. And if a guy wants to be degraded, I, if it turns him on, I can get really into it. It's not something I need. Yeah. Like it's not something that I need to do that I want to do and I seek out guys who want that, but if I get a guy who wants that, I can get really turned on by doing that for them. Meaning, like, degrading them with your mouth. Right. That's what I'm saying. Like, with words. You're talking words. Yeah, with words. Like, you're disgusting. You're only good for one thing. I'd kill you if you couldn't make me come. Oh my God. You know that? You could do a whole episode on that. You'd get like woodies across the board with a certain kind of guy. You know what I mean? Literally. I could just make it like just a spoken word piece for men who like to be humiliated. I'm good at it. I'm good at it.

I found out once a few, so a few years ago, a guy slipped into my DMs on Instagram wanting me to fendom him, financial domination. And I had never done that before, but he was, he asked for my cash app and immediately started sending money. And I was like, okay, well, cool. And I found out that I'm quite good at being really mean and cruel to guys like this. And it's fun. It's like I was tackling to myself. I'd get on the line, not on the line, but I'd get on DMs with him for like half an hour a day. over the course of two weeks, I ended up making

$3,000 off of this one guy. It was crazy. 3,000 over two weeks. Really? About half an hour a day. Half an hour to an hour a day. Literally messages. But explain what Fendom is.

They want you to take money from them. Like that's their king. Yeah. Correct. So basically I would, I would be like, yeah, that's their kink. They want to send you money and they want you to humiliate them. So I'd be like, I'm not talking to you another fucking second unless I see some dollars in my account.

And then the dollars would show up and I'd be like, that's all you got. You're pathetic. You have a tiny dick. You're so stupid. Go get that black dildo that I made you by the other day and shove it down your dirty little throat. And he was just like in ecstasy, just so happy and just kept sending money. So basically it'd be like every five minutes, he'd send another $10 to $20. And this would happen over the course of like half an hour or an hour on a daily basis for a couple of weeks.

maybe it was more than half an hour or an hour a day, but it was just messages, so it didn't feel like anything. Yeah. I'm just like sending DMs. I wasn't sending him pictures. I wasn't FaceTiming with him. I wasn't sending him videos. I was making him send me pictures and videos, but I was just sending messages and then the occasional

voice note. And that's it. And the voice notes were always just me laughing at him. Right. Oh my. Just like this. Just like that. Let me ask you this, though, okay?

because I've talked to these guys on my show. And I'm always like, you know, this is such a hard kink or fetish to have in a relationship. Because it's one thing to do it with Samia, who you have no relationship with, I'm assuming, you know, and whatever. But like, would you be able to be in a relationship with a guy that you had to part-time degrade like this on a daily basis?

Or like, to me, it's a very fine line. I wouldn't be interested. You would? Yeah. I would not be interested in that now. That's what I mean. Isn't that hard to like keep your respect and like like feeling hot for that person? Would it be hard to keep that if you're also degrading them? I think it's a very hard line for a woman to ride. I've also known like professional dominatrixes who like started seeing a guy that I was seeing and he'd be like, well, I want you to dom me and she'd be like, well, I could do that.

Then I'm not going to fuck you anymore. Sorry. Right. Right. It's hard. It's hard. Yeah. Yeah, for me, it's not a thing. But I know that for some people it is. I'm just not, I'm more of a sexual kaleidoscope than I am a true kinkster. Stuff comes out of me with different partners. And this is why I like being non-monogamous, because we get all these different flavors of connection and attraction and turn on. And there's so many parts of my sexuality that I wouldn't know about if I hadn't had sex with that particular partner who brought that out of me for the first time.

Yeah, no, I know. Because one of my questions was going to be like, do you like it, you know, hard and fat? and rough or soft and central and I've had both and like I like going back and forth Yeah I like I like just regular You know but like I had one guy Who was like the hottest guy ever fucked and he was like the quietest guy with like zero personality

But like gorgeous but and when you got into bed with him and he was so passive When you got into bed with him he was like a fucking maniac violent and it was like the hottest thing I've ever experienced But only with him you know what I mean if like my guy that I'm with now all of a sudden got like that It doesn't work with him but with that guy did and then I had a slow fucker who from the gym I call him jim from the gym jim from the gyym oh my god he was a big thor looking dude like you know big bulk and he was like had soft lips like a girl and he kissed the so good and he didn't have that big of a dick at all but he had a huge body and he slow fucked me like I've never been slow fuck before it had never been slow fucked in my life and it was the hottest

thing so I think like you it's like it depends on who you're with you might just get turned on to something that you'd never been turned on to before, right? Yeah, and contrast is so fun. Like, my favorite sex sessions are, for example, perfect illustration. Like, we're doing a doggy style. He's pounding me from behind. He's, like, holding my arms behind my body, or he's pulling my hair, and it's just, like, really animalistic and crazy.

And then he stops and goes, I want to look at you and turns me over. And then suddenly he's, like, making love to me and looking into my eyes while kissing me. That is, that's the past. henical for me. Like, I want, give me a man who does both. Right, right. All in one, right. I've had them in different guys and stuff. But I've, like, I've never really sort of been, like, shackled down with one guy. So I've been able to be with many different guys and experience many different things, right? Because I've tried, you know, so I would never know that I would never know that I liked it rough if it wasn't for that one guy or I like to slow fuck, you know, I'm not, I haven't been slow fuck since him. But I was like,

wow, this is kind of great. Right. So I think it does. depend sometimes on the person. I've had some people that are very good at, I'm very interested in role play and do things. And some guys where they just have zero imagination or creativity when it comes to sex and they can't go there. But, you know, steak and potatoes kind of suck sometimes. Like, one of my favorite booty calls, you just like, I didn't even kiss him. But I loved banging him. And like he was like my favorite like wham bam, thank you ma'am. You never kissed? No, I hated his mouth. He was a booty call and you never kissed? No, I hated his mouth. He was my old coat. His mouth.

Yeah, he was my old co-host. I love you, Kathy Kay. Oh, his mouth. I called it the stamp. I called it the stamp. I was like there's, I just didn't like, I don't like really thin lips. And they weren't just, I don't know. I just didn't like his mouth.

I don't like that either. Yeah. So I couldn't kiss him, but everything else, he had the dick fingers. He also had the kind of dick I like, which is not that long. I'll take five inches, okay, with, but thick, right? Yeah. Yeah. Five inches can be totally serviceable if they're girthy.

Yeah, yeah, because then I can be pounded out. And I don't ever feel it on my cervix. I don't want to feel that shit like that. So he had the dick figures. He had that. And then he had like a beefy body. I like a big dude. You know,

he wasn't overweight or anything, but he was big, you know, all over big liquid. So, you know, but yeah, I didn't kiss him,

but I didn't like him that way. And, but I was so attracted to him. It was like the kind of, like to me, I always called it was like, oh, steak and potatoes. Like I have had way better sex with other people in a very different way.

But this was like basic. Basic sex, plain, but fucking great. And I could just like go to his place at lunchtime, which I used to do, leave my office, go, sit on his dick, get off and see you later, you know, and bring my lunch back to my office and eat it. Like it was that it could service me, like turn the light switch off. I'm done. See you later. Thank you.

It was great. And this is a great metaphor. Like steak and potatoes are great, but you don't want to have steak and potatoes for every fucking meal. Sometimes you want a salad. Sometimes you want a buffet, you know? Oh, yeah. I mean. I do approach sex and connection the way I do.

food. Like, I want a varied diet. Oh, yeah. I mean, I've had a guy where we were so physically attracted, and I like T's in denial. That's why, like, I don't like, my question to you before about, like, the degradation. I don't really like to be degraded. When I was younger, I liked more to be called a whore and stuff like that, but I just don't get into that or any kind of jizzing on my face or anything like that. But I do like tease in denial because I don't like things like that I like to end and I want to last in because I'm not multi-orgasmic like you. I like to wait. I love to be turned on really long time and not be able to come and hold off and torture myself. I played the, you know how Mormons, you know how Mormon soak? I had a boyfriend who would, we called it the

halfway in game. He was like a real weirdo and he'd be like, oh, Kathy, if I put my dick all the way inside of you, it means we're really going to like date and I can't do that. So he would just put his, he would just put his dick in halfway and we would like make out all the time and he wouldn't do anything else. And it was like the highest thing. No. Yeah, but no, I got to tell. I know it was so. He was mental. He was a mental patient. But let me just tell you, I used to play the halfway in game with other guys after him. Because people would be like, why the fuck did you even bother?

Kathy? I'd be like, you don't understand if he moved. When you just put a dick in halfway and sit there and make out and you're just soaking wet and you're more turned on because you can't do it. And they move even in the slightest way. Like the Mormons, they get their friends to jump on the bed so that it moves. And even in the slightest way, it feels like the best thing ever. Like, you know what?

you're fucking someone. The reason why you're like harder, faster towards the end is because you need more movement because you get desensitized. When they are not moving at all, there is something so fucking super hot about the halfway end game. I played it with other guys after because it was like hot. I mean, after a while, like it's fucking boring. Like you got to fuck me. This guy never did. We broke up. But like if someone's really fucking you. But extending that for a long time. Oh my God. Extending that for a while. Could you have eight more minutes? No, I don't have eight more minutes. Um, wait a second. You have to go. All right. I'm going to, I'll, I'll just keep talking when you go off. But okay. So wait, so wait, wait, wait, you tease. a denial. Try the halfway in game, okay? Like, you should try it. Try it with Adam one day. I'll tell you. If you start. I'll let you know how that goes. We'll do an update at some point soon. Oh my God. Wait, if you bang Adam,

I want you guys both on my show. I've been trying to make stuff happen. I have to do Sunday episodes or bonus episodes. Thanks for answering some of my questions. I'm going to end this with myself talking because you've got to drop. But thank you so much for coming on and sharing all your stories. I fucking love you, Kathy Kay. I'll put a link to your podcast. I'm going to put a link

to your podcast. Okay. Clause it. Send me this thing. I'll send you the links. The secret private lives of totally normal looking people. There's an 11 episode first season, and right now I'm churning out bonus content while I work on season two,

and I'm interviewing people like Kathy, and other podcast hosts and sex positive thinkers, and it's a really, really great time over on my feed. So I'm on all the major podcast platforms, and you can find me on Instagram at samia.m-a-m-a-m-a-m-a-m-m-a-mound. like she mounts the horse. All the links are in my bio to find everything I'm doing. I love you guys.

I hope you're all having great sex this week. Bye. Hi. Listen to her great voice. You could go hear it on our podcast. Thanks, Samia. Bye.

Bye. Bye. Bye. Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly anonymous confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook,

but you can pre-order the other. audio book. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gangbbing girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person. And they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that

kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories. 17 of them. They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format, and finally, the audiobook is available. coming out August 25th, but you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint. Okay, there's no way you get into my Discord any other way than getting the link from me. Okay, I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other, and that's what you get to do there. You could post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of

channels. We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total strictly anonymous community and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the ebook or the paperback. Send it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. and I will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in.

This is the strictly anonymous podcast. Okay, that was Samia still talking. I'm going to just end this. What was I just talking about? Oh, Tees and not, I am just telling you,

though you really people listening need to play the halfway end game. I have a great Mormon episode where I talked to Mormons and they talked all about the soaking thing and I was like, I used to do it with a guy that I used to date the halfway in guy.

And there is something about teasing. denial that's so super hot. I feel like when you're adult, because like when you're like young, like you dry hump and you do all these like fun things because you kind of can't like just like take your clothes off and fuck sometimes because you don't have a house or you're not in a car or whatever. So like I feel like when you get older and you can just take clothes off and fuck all the time, you know, doing something where you're not allowed to do that and slowing the game like slowing the slowing the whole scenario down and teasing yourself and not allowing yourself to maybe take your clothes off. Like I highly recommend

T's and denial. I have dry humped as an older person, somebody, without like taking off clothes and just grinding our crotches together and got totally soaking wet. I've played the halfway in game with guys that they could put it in. All you got to do is like sit on your guy. The girl should get on top. I want people to try this and then email me this. Okay. Get on top. You don't have to go halfway and you could go all the way in, but do not move. Just leave it there. And while you're doing that, you need to actually make sure that you do not move or do anything, but you're making out, let him touch you, you're like whispering naughty things, like you're talking about stuff, but you're not like actually fucking no matter how much you want.

And then when you can't effing take it anymore, just move even the slightest and you're going to see like one stroke is going to take you over the edge. I am telling you when you deny yourself any kind of movement, you will find. the halfway in game is really fucking fun when you do finally move, you know, but you have to like stretch it out for like 30 minutes. Like I said, I promise you I've done it with other people. It actually works. I'm very into tease and denial. Try dry, humping. I want to actually

with a guy that was like my booty call guy or he was the guy that I liked and we didn't want to fuck anymore because it was just like a dysfunctional relationship. Like I'm not fooling around with you anymore. He's like, okay, we're not having any kind of sex. That's it. You know, no making out, no touching, no banging, no whatever. And so we wound up like on his couch.

And we, we just breathed on each other. We just like touch each other, but no mouths, no nothing. And it was like the hottest thing. Like when you deny yourself and say, I'm not going to like have sex with you and we're not allowed to do that and you sort of take things out of the equation and deny yourself, there's something like super hot about like going to the edge of that. Does that make sense? I don't know. It's hard for me to have these discussions when I'm talking to a wall and no one's on. And Sammy had to drop out.

So I'm just going to end this episode. But I hope you had fun. My Sunday episodes are just like fun episodes where I'm asking, doing cuisine. with other podcasters, my friends. If you have any ideas of what you want me to do for Sunday episodes, let me know because I'm open. But anyway, thanks so much for listening. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that I do have a book. The book is called Shirkling Anonymous Confessions, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers.

The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like, there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuckold story. There's a gang-bang girl story. There's like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person, right?

So I took the interview and I rewrote it in the third person. I wouldn't call it like an erotica book, though there's plenty of sex in there, right? But I didn't write it to sound like erotica because that's like the vibe of my show. You're going to learn a lot. You're probably going to get a little turned on. It's a different way to hear these stories, like I said, because they're written out in third person. There's an ebook available if you don't want your partner to know that you're reading my book, get the e-book. It's available. If you buy my book in any format, I will throw in a complimentary

link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint. Okay, there's no way you'll get the Discord and go in there and be like, oh, this sucks, okay? It's like pretty amazing. There's tons of people on there and everybody shares content with each other. That's what's great about Discord. You get to post your own videos and pictures and there's tons of channels and we have contests over there. It's a super fun place to be. I will be giving anyone that buys my book at any time access to my Discord. It is private. It's the only way you could get in is through me giving you the link. And that's why I think my Discord is so great because I have vetted people. It's not like it's just open to the public. So everybody that's in there are people that listen to my show and people that listen to my show

are fucking great. So my Discord is fucking great. My book is great. You're going to love it. If you buy it, all you got to do is send me the receipt or a picture of proof that you bought it and I will give you free access to my Discord. Send it to Strictly Anonymous Podcasts at Gmail.com. You could find my book in the link in the description. Okay. Or just Google it. Strictly anonymous Confessions, secret sex lives of total strangers. You can find it anywhere. You buy books. Send me the picture and I'll give you access to my Discord email, Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. Anyway, thanks so much for listening.