Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1385 - Dan is an Accidental Cuck who Shared his Wife with Other Men
Episode Date: March 3, 2026an is an accidental cuck who shared his wife with other men and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including why he thought his girlfriend was cheating on him, how he f...ound out and how he felt about it, how and why he never confronted her about it, how her cheating led him to being into the hotwife kink, how he started fantasizing about hotwifing with his wife and how he got her to go from fantasy to reality to finding a guy to hook up with, the first guy she met up with and what went down, the rules they had going in and how and why he wasn’t involved at first, the time he did participate and what went down, how he enjoyed being the “clean up guy,” when and why he started fluffing guys, his first trip to an adult bookstore after his divorce and what went down, how he started hooking up with guys more and what he does with them now plus a whole lot more. GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To see HOT pics of BROOK plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON https://LoadBoost.com — To get 10% off LOAD BOOST by VB Health use code: STRICTLY https://beducate.me/pd2540-anonymous— Click here to take the quiz and get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness PikaVibe.com/Strictly — Click to get $15 OFF your purchase https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ X https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else: https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Okay, today I have on Danny. Danny has a super interesting story. He's called himself an accidental
cuck. He found out he was into being cucked when he had a girlfriend who cheated on him. He talks about
how he found out, how he reacted, what happened afterwards, how he realized he was like fucking
into it. It's a whole funny story, that whole story. I was like, you're giving guys Woody
Woodies right now. That's what I think you're going to, if anyone has that kink, they're going to be
into the story. And then he winds up ending it with that girl and winds up with a woman he was
married to. It's his ex-wife now, but he talks about when they were married. He did get her into
cockleding and hot-wiping for him. And he was like the cock at home. Most of the time he was at
home waiting. He loved hearing about the story. She wound up fucking a ton of guys. Sometimes he was
involved. Eventually he started fluffing guys. We get into that towards the end. He, and his wife was
down for it. They eventually separated. But now,
He's just like having fun by himself.
He eventually hit up like some adult theaters or no glory holes.
He did that.
And then he like bought him for a guy and he's been with guys like fully.
He's definitely into guys now too, he thinks.
And so he's living his best life trying out everything.
He's kind of been there, done that everything.
You're going to get the whole story.
It's super interesting.
So I'm going to get right to be right back on with Danny.
Hey, Dan.
Welcome to the Strictly anonymous podcast.
How are you today?
Good.
How are you?
Good.
So your story starts off.
The first sentence of your book was, like, I accidentally fell into cuckolding.
Yep.
I like the accidental.
Well, and maybe the book title is the accidental cuck.
I like that.
Yeah, I like it too.
All right.
So listen, that's all I know.
I prefer to go into my calls knowing fucking nothing, right?
Because my curiosity is just going to run the call.
Let's just get a snapshot of where you're at now.
You sound kind of young.
What's your deal?
Are you like, how old are you and are you married in a relationship?
I am currently, uh,
46 and not married, divorced.
Did your cuckolding get you divorced or did you start cuckolding after you got divorced?
So it was the prior to my marriage was when I kind of fell into cuckling's with a partner I've
been with for a while.
Yeah, I just kind of had a suspicion.
She was seeing this was probably early third.
for me.
And one day she was having me set up her new phone.
No, no, I don't want to get into your story yet.
Okay.
I just wanted to know as if was you're cuckolding something that you made you leave your wife?
You're divorced.
Why do you and your wife get divorced?
It just kind of grew apart.
It was nothing to do with the sex stuff.
Yeah.
Okay.
Did you cuckold with her?
Were you a cuck with her?
Yes.
Okay.
So we'll get to that.
Okay.
So let's go back in your story.
So are you?
saying that like in your 30s one of your relationships people that someone that you're with cheated on
you and it made you horny that kind of story is that how it starts yeah basically okay so let's go there
okay so was it a girlfriend or our first wife uh it was a girlfriend we've been together for a long time
just never pulled a trigger on on marriage though okay cool now before this scenario that we're
going to get into when you caught her cheating had you ever known that you had this kink or anything
Were you a jealous guy?
Were you not a jealous guy?
Did you love when people augled your girls
or were you really possessive?
Like, how did you roll before all this came about?
Not a kink I had at all.
Never really gave any thought to it.
I wouldn't say I'm super jealous or anything.
It was always just kind of more really just pretty normal
as far as relationships go and stuff like that.
Nothing extreme.
Nothing extreme.
Either way, meaning like not totally jealous.
jealous, not not jealous, like just the normal average dude.
Yeah, exactly.
Okay, cool.
So you're dating a girl for a long time, you said, correct?
Mm-hmm.
And did you, like, one day just started thinking she was cheating on you?
Like, what happens?
Yeah, I was suspicious.
And at the time she was...
Why?
Let me just ask you, what were the signs?
Because I think it's always good to let other people know what the cheating signs are.
Yeah.
So at the time, she was back in school, but she was also kind of bartending at night and just started, I had worked in restaurants for a long time. I got I know how people are there.
But yeah, she started hanging out. They all fuck each other. Absolutely. So like, you know, it would be she would come home later or sometimes it was going over to her friend's house and she started kind of staying out sometimes or coming home later.
So her sort of day-to-day, her every day-to-day life routine seemed to be changing for no reason.
Yeah.
Okay.
Yeah, absolutely.
I think that's a big sign.
Mm-hmm.
Mm-hmm.
Was sex with her and you, okay?
Everything was status quo in the bedroom between you and her?
Yeah.
I mean, it probably could have been better.
I think for her, honestly, I think she probably probably.
just hearing her talk about previous partners
was probably a little more like on the size queen side
and I'm absolutely not going to live up to that
so I imagine she probably just wanted a little more
it wasn't bad it just probably wasn't
knock her socks off right yeah yeah and listen
if she's a size queen and someone at her work talks about their big dick all the time
she might be like start to get curious
yeah
I know I fucked a guy about my work
bar work where I worked just because all he did was talk about is big dick and I was like I got to see that.
You know what I mean? So I had sex with him and he had a really big dick. All right. So let's get to the
point where you find out she's cheating or does she tell you like what happens? So she got a new phone and
she'd asked me to set it up for her because she is anything tech, she was terrible. So I was doing that
and I get it set up and literally a text came in.
from one of the other bartenders, who I already was a little suspicious of, partially because
she used to kind of mention the guy in terms of, you know, oh, I'm out with so-and-so and this dude.
Do you know what I mean?
Or then just kind of stop mentioning him at all, which kind of not also being a little suspicious.
Like, okay, so he's still there, but now she doesn't have anything to say about him.
And I was Snoopy and, you know, I know it's not right, but I still opened up the text and it was literally
he had sent a video to her of him jerking off.
Oh my God.
Well, first of all, let's talk about that snooping thing for one second
because it is like a, it's like it's such a great dear Abby question.
I'm going to do a poll on my Patreon.
Like, I just wonder like if, all right,
if all things are fine and everything, why snoop?
But typically people are snooping when there are all signs pointing to something's
fucking wrong here, right?
And then they go look and that's what makes them look.
Now, is that right or wrong?
you know, I don't know.
Yeah, absolutely.
That's exactly how it happened.
Like if it was,
I didn't have any little sneaking suspicions or doubts.
I probably would have just been like,
oh, you got a text and handed it over.
Yeah.
So the moral of this story is,
if you're cheating on somebody,
lock your fucking phone down because, you know,
if people, partners start having questions,
they go snooping.
We snooped on my brother's phone once
when his wife wasn't out of town
and she left her phone home
and found out his wife was cheating on her
and he just couldn't take it anymore.
it was a lot of signs pointing to it
and it was the only way to get the truth
and he needed the truth to get out
does that make us fucking assholes? Maybe
but you know people do it
so you know like I said if you're on the other side
of things lock it down so you see
he literally sent her a video of him jerking off
yeah
I mean honestly
I probably watch the video
on a loop
for like
minutes
but why
like in like you were so livid or you were so curious or you were so horny because oddly horny for it like why were you watching it on loop
literally i was mad i was like hurt but also like you know you have that feeling in the pity your stomach
like it just kind of falls out but then i was also like getting turned on by it isn't that crazy
it's not the first time i've heard that it's crazy having all those emotions at the same time you
know? Yeah, and it was confusing, but it was like super erotic and, you know, like, I'm watching
him, like, that cock image is like seared into my brain forever. If he only knew. Do you know what I
mean? And I'm looking at it and it was big. It was super long. Not like crazy girthy, but I'm looking at this
like dude stroking his like big old you know uncut cock until he comes oh my god so wait did you
confront her like what happens after you see that that whole thing uh i literally just did nothing
with it because i was like i have to think about this i don't know what's going on and i was just
like i never actually with her never even brought up the
cheating?
Wait, wait.
You saw that video,
but you never confronted her about it.
Did you leave it on her phone?
Did you delete it?
I left it on her phone.
Okay, but you never said anything to her,
and let me ask you this,
was it because you were thinking,
oh, maybe he sent it unsolicited
and she didn't want it,
because you didn't see any interaction.
Did you see other interactions between them?
Or just this video?
Oh, I read through other texts.
It was clear.
All right.
So you knew for sure she was fucking cheating on.
He was fucking him.
And you kept your trap shut.
I did.
Do you know why?
And I think, oh, go ahead.
Do you know why?
I'm saying, do you know why?
I'm not telling you why.
You have to tell me.
It's a question.
Honestly, I think a part of it was just trying to come to terms with how it may be
feel and being turned on by.
And honestly, I think looking back, I don't even know if it was conscious.
I think part of me was afraid that it would stop.
if I said anything.
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Honestly, I think a part of it
was just trying to come to terms with how it may be feel
and being turned on by. And honestly, I think looking back,
I don't even know if it was conscious. I think part of me was afraid that
it would stop
if I said anything.
So like your spank bank would be gone.
Like you kind of enjoyed it. You didn't want it to stop.
I didn't.
And like if I
like it actually made our sex life better, I think.
I mean literally she would come home if she, you know,
she came home late from work or she went out with friends.
I would always make a point of like going down on her
because I was like,
I wonder if she was fucking him.
And I wanted to see if I could tell.
You know what's happening right now?
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from your story right now.
I mean, it just sounds so opposite of what should happen in reality, but there are guys that are
wired in this way, do you know what I mean?
And this is like fucking porn for them.
You know what I mean?
Like other guys, this is torture.
They find out their girl's cheating.
The guy's dick is bigger.
She's coming home after she fucked him.
And here you are, like, not wanting it to stop going down on her.
And I'm telling you people listening are like getting Woody's from your story.
Well, I mean, like I've had friends in my life.
life, you know, when they're girl cheats on them and, you know, you take them out for a beer,
but they're like crying about it.
Yeah.
And I was, I was mad and I was hurt, but I was just also so turned on.
It was such a weird thing.
And I think it kind of flipped a switch in my head in a lot of ways that it's not just like,
concrete, but I got like more and more, I think, kinky and started really exploring a bunch
of other stuff.
I realized, you know, maybe I'm actually pretty submissive.
right but do you ever want to throw it in her face
like were there times where you like were so pissed at her
like that you just wanted to be like I know what you're fucking doing
but you just kept it inside
yep wow interesting
and like I think it just flipped
the weird kink switch in my brain
obviously which is weird to have happened in your 30s
I think I probably always thought like oh yeah I'm kind of like a
I'm a, you know, I'm a kinky guy or whatever.
Then you realize there's like levels to it.
You know what I mean?
Like, oh yeah, nothing I was doing before is anything like I got into.
And that relationship, I mean, a big part of it probably ending was just that I was
holding on some stuff and some resentment and just, you know, it's not going to work if
there's no honesty or openness about any of that.
So it was kind of doomed at that point.
Yes.
Yeah, it makes sense.
But it was still incredibly hot.
Yeah, it makes sense that both parts of yourself existed, right?
The horny part was like one out for a little while and you fed that part of yourself.
But the part of you that was upset and jealous and mad for the betrayal was still there.
That didn't go away just because you're fucking horny.
Like one has nothing to do with the other.
But that's what's so interesting that they could exist at the same time.
And one doesn't take get rid of the other.
Like just because you're fucking horny for it doesn't mean that it lets go of all the,
sort of anger and resentment like you said that you had. So you guys break up. She never knows that you know or any of that shit.
I think she probably knew that I knew, but she didn't say anything and I didn't say anything.
There were times where like, you know, she would come home and I would, you know, she wouldn't want me to go down on it.
I was like, oh, that means she probably. Because she loved that. Do you know what I mean? And it's like, you know, so I'm sure she knew.
that I knew or at least suspected, but...
How would she know that you know?
Why would she think that she knows?
No, she was just probably feeling guilty
and she didn't want to do that to you
because she knew that she just fuck someone else
and she didn't know that you would be turned on by it.
Do you know what I mean?
I don't think she knew.
Yeah, yeah.
You know, no, I don't think...
How would she know?
Last question about that whole scenario
then we're going to move on.
Did you ever go snooping in her phone after that
just for like, you know, like porn,
you know, to see more talking and everything
like to get your rocks off that way?
or did you leave her phone alone?
No, I did.
Obviously, that's what I would think.
Yeah.
If you said no, I'd think you were lying.
Yeah, no, I did for sure.
Yeah, I would think so because, listen, you know,
when you were so supercharged for something, right,
like your dick got immediately hard when you saw that.
Like, there's no way you wouldn't be wanting to go back for that same fix.
You know what I mean?
And you got it through looking at that stuff.
So I would assume whether right or wrong,
like your dick is going to,
send you to snoop in her phone again to get that same kind of reaction and feeling again.
Absolutely.
Yeah, it makes sense.
I mean, it's not right.
We're not saying it's right, but like this is human being behavior.
We know.
All right.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So, all right.
So you get rid of her.
Now, when does the cuckolding rear it's had in other areas in your life?
Is it when you meet your wife?
I don't know.
You tell me.
Yeah.
So I think after that relationship, I,
didn't have a serious relationship for a little while, but a big part of it was I was really kind of
also just exploring all sorts of shit. Do you know what I mean? Like I was seeing Domainatrix
and, you know, hookups I was on at the time. It was like, you know, an adult friend finder and stuff like that.
And, you know, it was pretty open about it. You know, it started me kind of bringing some stuff up
during, you know, during sex or things like that, like fantasies and then actually had some
some good talks about it.
But about what, though, specifically?
Like, what are you telling your girl?
Like, oh, I get turned on by you cheating on me?
Or is it, oh, I, you know, I'm like, the thought of you being with another man is hot?
Like, what are you discussing in these, like, scenarios with her?
Like, what specifically is it?
A lot of that, you know, like, you.
the idea of her with somebody else hearing about other guys.
Not about the cheating thing.
I'm just saying if you're really putting that on the table,
that might be a little bit like, what the fuck.
Yeah.
And she was definitely more dominant in the bedroom,
which was great because I really found I'm much more submissive.
So we already were kind of exploring stuff like that.
Okay.
There was all sorts of stuff.
I mean, whether it's like pegging or SPH or things like that.
Do you have a small penis?
SPH is small penis humiliation.
Are you very small that you like to be humiliated or you just like to be humiliated so you make her pretend that you're small?
I am, I had it described by a girl as on the small side of medium or the large side of small.
Okay.
Lengthwise, it's probably pretty average.
It's just also very thin, which is like the exact opposite of what you would want.
But, you know, I once had a friend who was always, like, talked about how she loved guys with small penises because she had a tiny vagina.
So there's somebody for everybody, you know?
Mm-hmm.
Yeah.
So, okay.
Go on.
Oh, go ahead.
Oh, I was going to say.
So I was very into, like, that kind of stuff, just being teased, anything like that, any sort of, like, humiliation stuff.
And you hit the jackpot with this girl because she liked to dom you, right?
Like, she was down for all this.
because sometimes a lot of women don't want to,
they want to be the submissive, right?
It's like typically opposite.
So you really hit the jackpot with that woman that you met, don't you think?
Mm-hmm.
Oh, absolutely.
It does make dating trickier when you're like layering,
layering like the kinks like that.
Yeah, especially because typically the woman wants to be dominated.
So she liked to, she was down to do all that stuff in the bedroom,
like she was open?
Mm-hmm.
Okay.
Yep.
Okay, so I mean, I know that she gets with other guys at some point.
So why don't we talk about that journey of like you fantasizing about all this stuff and, you know, having all this kinky sex with her to her getting to the point where she's actually banging other guys for you.
But talk about the journey.
Don't just go right to her banging other guys.
Talk about how like you got there.
It kind of took a little while because I think there's naturally a lot of reluctance sometimes from a woman.
be like, okay, yeah, your, your horny brain says this is great.
Your horny brain wants to see, like, me get railed by a huge cock, but in reality,
you're going to, you're going to come and then resent me for it.
So it took a lot of not just, a lot of starting with, like, fantasies in the bedroom,
but then talking about it, you know, over dinner the next day.
You know what I mean?
Stuff like that.
Like, so it took a while.
And, you know, for her, she was like, well, not just going to go.
you know,
fuck a dude at the bar.
Like,
I want to find someone that I'd be interested in.
Mm-hmm.
Which she,
you know,
eventually did.
How do you get from, like,
just talking about her saying yes?
You know,
I think it just,
it was just a lot of time.
And, you know,
a lot of her really checking in
and a lot of like,
okay,
but do you actually want it?
Would you actually be okay?
And for her,
like I said,
it was,
it took until she found someone,
I think that she was like,
oh,
I actually really want to fuck this guy.
Okay.
So,
I guess, yeah.
I mean, but she didn't go out looking for that person.
It wasn't intentional at that point?
Or was it?
It was, I think she probably had like,
knowing that there was permission to do it,
probably led her to maybe look a little bit.
Because you were telling her straight up,
like, listen,
you got a free pass to hook up with a guy.
Whenever you're ready,
it's cool with me.
Yeah.
Okay.
So then she comes home one day and says,
hey I got a dude?
Yeah.
Yeah, literally she was like
talked about a guy she had met
and even from there
it wasn't like right away.
And then it was like setting like
ground rules kind of
because I was also like
I don't want to
sabotage a relationship
and I wanted to make sure
I was actually
emotionally okay with it
and not just you know
horny brain okay with it.
Were you guys married at this point?
Yeah, we were at that point.
Okay.
Yeah.
And, you know, she talked to the guy for a while.
They were flirting.
They were texting.
And once she knew that she was comfortable with it and that I was comfortable with it, it was, you know, she literally went over to his place.
But wait, what are the rules going in?
Like, already you're going straight to solo play.
Like, you want her to do this without you.
Has that always been the case?
I like watching absolutely but I think for her it was something where she was less comfortable being like
all right I'm going to find the guy that I really want to fuck but now I have you in the room
and is he okay with it and is she going to be in her head so it was her that said hey listen
when we do this at first I want to do it alone without you that's how the solo play came to be
Okay, that's important to the story.
This is why I'm a part of these conversations, okay?
Nobody, everyone that complains that I fucking interrupt or talk too much.
Sorry, this is how I get the details that matter because a lot of people don't.
That's why we love the podcast.
Yeah, a lot of people don't jump to go fuck a guy when I'm not around.
You know what I mean?
A lot of times that's like way later in the story, but that's how you started.
And I certainly have heard stories of women that do prefer playing solo because it makes them more nervous, you know, to have somebody.
you know, an audience, even if it's her husband in the room.
You know, everyone's different.
So that's how you got, so now when you were, so that first time that she goes,
do you see pictures of the guy?
Like, I mean, you know, tell us the whole first experience because this is probably
your dream come true, correct?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I mean, I was, you know, she'd clued me in on their conversation.
She talked about them.
I'd seen pictures.
You know, they had some sex things.
so I had pictures of his also pretty large cock.
So I'm like, I'm just geeked up all to hell.
Like I'm nervous.
I'm, you know, that you get that feeling in your stomach.
And, you know, my cock is hard like for fucking hours while she's gone.
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So I'm like, I'm just geeked up all to hell.
Like, I'm nervous.
I'm, you know, that you have that feeling in your stomach.
And, you know, my cock is hard, like, for fucking hours while she's gone.
So this is all good.
Do you have any kind of, like, feelings of uncomfortableness at the same time because it's
triggering like your feelings of someone cheating on you or anything like that or was it all just like
fucking fun for you uh it was all fun but there were those feelings there that were maybe a little
triggering and angsty but that's part of the fun for me i think okay so she goes now is she going
to be taking pictures videos i mean was there any kind of setup going on that you you know so that
you could you know uh like like how are you a part of this whole scenario typically maybe there's
photos being taken or video or someone's face timing or
like, or are she just going to come home and tell you about it?
Come home, she came home and told me about it.
You know, we talked about, she talked about maybe taking like pictures or video,
but they got caught up in the moment and everything and it just didn't happen.
But she came home and just told me all about it while I went down on her.
And then, you know, we fucked.
And it was just, it was really, really hot.
and she ended up seeing him for a little while off and on.
And then eventually we did start to have times where she might be doing solo play or I might be there.
Yeah, but you can't jump to that because she just met this guy out.
Like how does she wind up meeting these other people where now you're having all these excursions and, you know, sometimes you're there, sometimes you're not like, do you eventually, does she eventually go on an app?
Like, I mean, how do you start meeting all these guys?
she was basically going on like Tinder
she went on Tinder and what was she proposing on there
I'm a married woman that wants to fuck other guys or I'm single
like what was she doing on Tinder because typically Tinder I think will kick off
couples yeah oh no I was not on it
you know she didn't I don't think she specified
I can't even remember to be honest if she said she was married or single or
whatever but if she kind of connected with somebody she would kind of explain
the situation and you know what she was looking for and some people aren't okay with it and some
people were really excited about it because you like the whole thing on your girl's phone did you
like to engage in the process of reading these tinder things and all that stuff i would assume that
would be a part of your kink oh yeah so would you talking to these guys too or like reading
the messages or you know i never talked to them but yeah i would she would
would read them to me or give me your phone to look through them or look at the people.
And, you know, not every, I think sometimes people get in their head like, you know, not every,
uh, experience is going to be awesome. You know, nothing was ever like, there's never a truly,
like, bad experience, but the sex is not always going to be great. Like, there were funny times.
Well, how do you know? You're never there. She's telling you.
Well, she's telling me. Yeah.
Like there are times where it's like, oh, you're already heading home.
You know what I mean?
Because it's like, yeah, you know, I came in, you know, 48 seconds and then was just kind of done.
Well, let me ask you this.
I love now.
How many, I mean, you're divorced from her, but in your marriage, how many times did she, like, how many guys did she fuck?
I mean, how long were you married to her, too?
We were married for probably.
I think eight eight eight years eight years how long together yeah uh about 10 okay 10 years you're together
how how many guys did she fuck in that time oh maybe like 20 or 30 there were guys where it was
you know she just would uh there were a couple guys you know she met at a bar and it was fun and
she went and blew them in their car you know what I mean but probably between 20
20 and 30.
Okay.
So she goes on to Tinder after that first guy.
And now the whole time, like, she's, does she, like, what's her next experience?
Or tell me an experience where you're actually involved in.
How does that happen?
And what are you?
And, you know, tell me that first and then have a million other questions.
Yeah.
So, uh, after maybe the third or fourth time when she came home and I was going down and she was
telling me about it, she did ask.
She was like, would you want to be there if I find a guy?
Like, would you want to see me get fucked?
And, of course, I did.
And so then it was finding a guy that was into that.
And yeah, we arranged it.
We got a hotel room.
Who was the guy?
What was his story?
It was a guy on Tinder.
He was maybe like early-ish to mid-20.
like younger guy
tall
pretty
I mean he was
you know
very good looking guy
like you know what I mean he was very fit
he was taller it was
clearly like a little more
like of a dominant personality
and
yeah so we
met him
and it was some back and forth and he was cool with it
so we were like we'll get a hotel room
we all met at the bar,
had a drink, kind of had the lightbreaker.
I'd talk to him a little bit
because he did want to make sure that like
I was actually cool with it,
which, you know, looking back, I appreciate.
But we met, we clicked.
He seemed like a decent guy.
She was very turned on by him.
And then it was off to the hotel room.
it was
that was one of the ones like I said
a lot of the experiences aren't necessarily
great because not all sex is great but that
was one where I was like holy shit
well what went down?
It was a lot of
it was extremely hot she was making a lot of
eye contact with me
she's going down on him
I'm going down on her
getting her ready he's going down
on her
and I mean they just fucked
a lot.
Were you sitting there watching or most of the time
participating?
Mostly watching.
Yeah, like I
you know, in between
like, you know, in between
rounds, I might
go down on her or
whatever, but
yeah, it was just, it was extremely hot.
And
that was the first time
I'd done any, it wasn't like a
cream pie situation because
using condoms, but he did pull off the condom and come on her and cleaned it up.
That was my first time doing that.
Yeah, and that kind of became, it was, after that, there were more times where I was involved,
but it wasn't an every time thing, because sometimes the guy wouldn't want to or sometimes
she would be like, I'd rather just have it be me today.
and that's fine too.
Really?
You never got jealous.
I mean, did she ever have any regulars or was it always like a new guy?
No, she had regulars.
Okay.
Yeah.
A lot of times it'd be like the same guy for a while.
And sometimes those are the guys where eventually it might start solo play, but then I do come in.
Did she ever to give you pictures or anything?
Or was it always just conversations when she got home?
Usually conversations, but yeah, sometimes she,
she would send me little pictures or, you know, quick little videos of what was going on.
A lot of times she'd have the guy take the video.
So, you know, she's on all fours and I just see this dick just railing her, you know?
And I would get that from her phone sent to me.
Yeah, we had, especially when we were able to have some more regular partners or people that were more, uh, even if it was like more like, more
a booty call kind of situation.
Eventually we did get to like,
okay, he's going to come in her
and I will eat that out.
That was always extremely hot.
There was, after a while,
there was one guy who was
just freaky as shit.
But that was, you know,
she started incorporating a lot of like,
you know, because I'm always hearing,
asking questions about like,
how they are asking all these questions
about their dick, right? Like, oh, what's his dick like? What's it feel like? And that led to
eventually like finding somebody who was open with me participating in that regard, right? Like
fluffing him up and things like that. So yeah, so there were a couple of experiences like that.
Yeah, why don't you talk about the fluffer when you were a fluffer? Because we haven't gone there yet.
Yeah. Yeah. And it's something that I think ever,
since it's funny because like now if I'm thinking to myself I'm like I would say like oh I'm a little bye at least but at the time I never would have thought that before but kind of got obsessed with starting probably going back to my that first girlfriend who kind of cucked me in that video just being obsessed with cock but yeah I found a guy who who was by and who was into it so
we you know one of the meetups it was like thought oh I want to suck a dick now and that's why you went into it or did you find a buy guy and you were like okay I'll try that I mean how did this suddenly come up for you if you had never known that she was asking me you know during like sex or she would come back and she was like oh I bet you actually you know what I bet you would actually like and I bet I think you secretly want it or if she was pegging me she would talk about it
you know, like, oh, I bet you wish this was actually a cock.
And it was just a turn on.
And then it was same kind of deal that we did with the cockling where it starts in, you know,
the bedroom and fantasies and you actually kind of talk about it.
And she was cool with it.
And she was kind of turned on by the idea.
And I was clearly more I thought about it turned on by the idea.
So we did find a guy who was by and was open to that.
Yeah.
And so that was both of us when we finally did do that.
It was both of us kind of going down on him.
It was me going down on him.
It was me getting him hard again after they fucked.
It was a lot of that.
How was that for you?
I mean, considering you had never been with a guy before.
It was weird.
But it was very, it was definitely a turn-on.
and it was one of those things where I was like
kind of in some ways felt like ultimate submission.
You know what I mean?
Like, oh, here's this guy.
He's not just fucking my wife,
but I'm going to suck his cock first.
You know,
or this cock was in my wife.
Now I'm going to clean it off with my tongue.
It just felt like that was like
10th level kink in submission.
It's more than weird.
It was a turn on.
That's what I was stuck.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
absolutely weird is the first word you use yeah yeah it was that's probably my own personal
bullshit because of that word first but yeah like it was it was hot and i could see why
uh there are women who like doing that i wasn't great at first yeah yeah and i wasn't great at
first, but I got, I got better. Do you swallow?
Yes. Okay. So that got, and your wife was down seeing you blow the guy because you're
doing it all together and everyone's like hooking up with anyone. Did you do more than oral with
the guy or just oral? At the time, just oral, but after we split up, I have like, you know,
done a lot of other stuff just on my own. But yeah, I've bottomed. I've done all that. So let's get to
those stories. So you wind up getting divorced from
your wife. It has nothing to do with the hot wafing,
correct? Correct.
She never fell for a bull.
She never left you with anyone. I mean,
however you're having, like, all this hot sex, do you
leave each other?
Honestly,
like,
she had,
uh,
there was just a lot of stuff that she was, I think,
working through
emotionally and it just
didn't, it was just, uh,
it was just, uh,
it,
became almost like emotionally too much work.
The sex probably kept us together longer.
Yeah.
Then otherwise would have happened.
Uh-huh.
Uh, I mean, we're still friendly.
She's doing great.
Uh, just were good as lovers.
Okay.
So when you get divorced from her, what do you wind up doing?
Uh, I was not, I was obviously upset.
Like, it's, it's a good place now, but I was upset and kind of went again, like,
I'm going to, I was seeing dominatrixes.
And I was, I dated a stripper very briefly, like, you know, which was a lot of fun.
But one night, I was at the strip club and I left and I was walking home and there was like an adult bookstore with the glory holes and I just went right in.
And that was the first time I was ever, you know, sucking cock and it wasn't with my wife.
So that was the first time where it was like, okay, this is maybe not a weird submissive kink.
Maybe this is actually something that I'm just going to, that I just want to do.
And were you the giver or the receiver or both?
That time I was the giver.
Okay.
And then you just continue to go all the time now that you realize you have the side of you?
I would sometimes do the glory holes and then I realize I don't have to do that.
you know what I mean?
It is funny where it was kind of a turn on at first,
but then I was like, okay, well,
I don't,
I could just meet someone.
Like, you want to be?
I don't need the like weird,
you know,
coming in out from the suburbs,
sneaking away guy.
Yeah, I got it.
So how did you start meeting,
so how did you start meeting dudes?
Mostly online.
Like, I used to travel a lot for work.
So that,
was also a time and I'd be like, you know what, fuck it. I'm in a completely new city.
And, you know, if you're, that's the other thing. If you're, if you're really horny, it's a lot
easier to catch a dick than it is a girl because guys are horny as fucking always want to get
their dick sucked. Yeah, I usually meet them online or maybe just out at a bar or whatever.
So what apps were you on looking for dudes? I mean, did you put your face on there?
not at first
like Grindr
or sometimes
yeah usually Grindr was the main one
and at first it was no
face but after a while I was like
I don't fucking care
Would you ever date a guy or do you just like them
to fool around with them?
Just to fool around
I'm actually like not
super attracted to guys
I'm attracted to I guess I would say like
cock but not
really to the rest of the guy.
Yeah.
Like I can appreciate like, okay, they're good looking or they have a nice body or whatever,
but that doesn't turn me on.
So what made you go further?
Because you eventually do more than going down on guys, right?
I mean, at this point, you've only done oral.
When did you go more all the way?
And were you top, were you bottom, were you verse?
Have you tried it all?
Tried at all.
It was maybe like the, I'd probably at that point, like, gone down on my own.
maybe like a handful of guys and then one just asked me if I wanted to fuck and I was like you know what
and it was funny this dude actually was a full on micro penis. I was like if I'm going to have the
first time you know I've been panged and stuff before but I was like maybe the first actual
dick let's this is an easy one. Did you even feel it? Yeah but it was it I expected to feel
You know, I mean, there's a real feeling when, like, you get fucked in the ass and then you have the initial, like, entering, but that it just was kind of like nothing.
And I was like, oh, that's weird.
Yeah, for a guy who's been pegging, I don't know why you'd think that a micro penis would be good for your first time.
Yeah, I don't know.
But that's where my mind went.
Yeah.
And then after that, it was, you know, usually I bought them, but I'm pretty versed.
I know what somebody's into, but yeah, usually I would be the one.
And some, you know, a lot of times I meet the guy online or whatever and, you know, like I said, I'd be traveling for work.
So it was like, okay, cool, I'll see you at my hotel.
And, you know, they come over and usually trade blow jobs and then you get your ass pounded for a little bit.
Oh, my God.
And then they come and they go.
Do you think a lot of those guys are married or what's the deal?
I think on like Grindr probably less so but I think for a place of a glory hole I think a ton of them are
No but what about the guys you met that you're meeting like in decent areas where you're telling me about it
I don't I think there was one that was probably married
you don't ask any questions guys don't care about that
not exactly like now I feel bad like I probably should have asked
but I don't think you care you know I don't think you care
corny brains not really I might care afterwards I care at a place like now when someone
brings it up but in the moment do you ever
the farthest thing from your mind do you see chicks like do you get action from girls
now too oh yeah yeah so how do you mean women
Are you doing that kind of stuff on like alternative adult sites as well to meet women and do all kinds of freaky things?
Are you meeting women in the vanilla world and having regular kinds of sex with that?
It depends.
Like probably mostly meeting them in the vanilla world and it's kind of regular sex for the most part.
I do have enough of a circle of friends that are pretty kinky, very sex positive.
I'm in a very kinky sex positive city, so that helps.
But yeah, so I think sometimes, you know, and I should, I always tell my stuff I should get on some apps, but it just seems like a lot of work.
But when was the last time you fucked a woman?
Probably like three, four weeks ago.
Okay.
Do you fuck more guys nowadays than women because they're easier to get?
It's probably a pretty even mix, maybe even a little more women just because I'm not always like in the mood for a guy.
It's more like every once in a while I'm like kind of craving it, get it out of my system, I guess.
How do you get your cock fantasies met with guys or does it not matter because you're kind of with the guy and that's not a part of it for you?
it's not really a that's not really a part of it for me with with guys i mean every now and then like
yeah or you know every on then you get like someone who's a little more dominant you know that might
be like talking a little more vocally or something or even like comparing you know dick sizes
or things like that so you get a little bit of the humiliation there and honestly i do i'd have a couple
dominatresses that I love seeing
so I see them fairly frequently
as well. And do they do the
they get, so that's where you're, because I'm
wondering where all your kinks are going for with
women when you're doing all this guy stuff.
So you're feeding it at the, with these
dungeon people, correct?
Yeah, yeah. And with them you
enjoy humiliation.
What like, what else do you do?
Oh, ass
worship, any sort of humiliation.
Like I said, the small penis
humiliation.
a little bit.
I've done sometimes
it's whatever they're into
if it's spanking,
if it's a little
light CBT
things like that.
I have one
girl that I see pretty frequently
and she
loves to just
do weird things
to my foreskin
like anged up off of it.
I just finds up to like
hang off of it or to be like I'm putting binder clips on it. She just does like really weird stuff.
But you're into it. Which is also kind of fun. Yeah. I think I'm into it just because she's
actually seems into it. You know, it's like just her ideas and it's just kind of fun to to go along
with whatever she comes up with. But is that painful and is that okay with you? I mean, are you into BDSM or
do you like to experience pain for pleasure? Light pain? I'm not.
like, I'm never looking for like the crazy, the crazy shit.
But yeah, like I've had light pain is fun.
You know, I don't want like someone to stomp on my balls, but like a light little slap to them could be fun.
No, but you were saying she's hanging shit on your Ford skin and like putting clothes pins on it.
I would think that hurts, but I don't know.
I don't have four skin.
Maybe there's no feeling there.
There is feeling.
It's not like intense pain or anything.
Okay, let's it gets you know. Yeah, it's like a light pain. Light pain is fine. Yeah.
Like, I like that, but. Yeah. Are you ever looking to get in a relationship with a woman again?
Oh, yeah, absolutely. Do you want to get married again? I would get married again.
Do you ever have kids yet? Do you want kids? No kids. Do you want kids?
I kind of go back and forth on that. So you'd have to meet a girl and if she wants it, you'll have.
them. Yeah. Yeah. And kind of see what, what's going. But like I said, as far as finding like
an actual partner for for marriage, it's, it's trickier when, although I do find that like,
at least women in my age group currently are usually more open to some, some weirder shit.
Probably could they've been like. Not only that. You're how old, 46? How old are you?
Yeah. So you could get a 36 year old. And, eh, you could.
babies with her and be you know the younger generation are very open-minded so you know listen you found
one your ex-wife is pretty tricky she was down with that for everything she was you know so
there's another one out there for you if that's what you're looking for yeah no like i said it's
it's trickier when it's like okay there's the submissive thing a lot of women would be more
dominant and there's like the cuckled thing and that could be weird i think that's something that
with his cuckled in her hot wiping that sometimes needs to be like it's off putting it first
for a lot of people as well as and you have the guy on guy stuff you have to tell her you like
that's what i'm about to say so that's like layer on layer on layer which it's funny to the amount of
people i've met that uh like women who are like thereby they love women they love eating pussy
and then they're like oh you suck the dick which i always kind of think is funny
Yeah, but you know, that whole heated rivalry show is showing all these women that they fucking love gay porn, guy on guy action.
They're all horny for it.
I just did a sex in the news episode we taped and we talked all about, you know, how that made women search, like, searching for porn.
They're all looking for gay sex porn now because of that.
So a lot of women are into it and they don't realize.
So the tides are changing for you.
Another season of heated rivalry, you'll be able to tell any.
tell any woman and she'll be cool.
Yeah, they need to drop that season
two now then.
That's so fucking funny. Are you on my
Discord yet? Do you know? Are you on there?
I am not.
Okay, listen, when we hang up, I'm going to wrap
it up now. When we hang up, my son's coming home
by the way, that's why I have to go.
Got it's home for this. Yeah.
When we hang up, you're going to get a thank you
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Not from me directly, but in that
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but it has the link to Discord for you.
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You can't get in any other way.
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So go into there.
You'll love it being the freak that you are.
Okay, there's a lot of action on there.
It's all, you know, not safe for work, but it's fun.
And then I will, when your episode airs,
I'll send you a free link to my Patreon so you can see the comments when your episode airs.
But thanks so much for calling in and telling your story.
It was super interesting.
And I'm sure a lot of guys will be able to relate,
especially to your beginning cheating, cheating story.
I can't wait to see what people say.
What do we call you again?
What the fuck was your name?
Oh, Danny.
Okay, Danny, thanks so much for calling in and telling your story.
Bye.
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The book is called Strictly Anonymous Confessions, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers.
The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show.
I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show.
Like there's a hot wife story.
There's a cuck queen story.
There's a cuckold story.
There's a gang-bang girl story.
There's like I said, 17 stories.
And they're all told in the third person, right?
So I took the interview and I rewrote it in the third person.
I wouldn't call it like an erotica book, though there's plenty of sex in there, right?
But I didn't write it to sound like erotica because that's like the vibe of my show.
You're going to learn a lot.
You're probably going to get a little turned on.
It's a different way to hear these stories, like I said, because they're written out in third person.
There's an ebook available if you don't want your partner to know that you're reading
my book, get the e-book. It's available. If you buy my book in any format, I will throw in a complimentary
link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint. Okay, there's no way you'll get the Discord and go in there
and be like, oh, this sucks, okay? It's like pretty amazing. There's tons of people on there and everybody
shares content with each other. That's what's great about Discord. You get to post your own videos and
pictures and there's tons of channels and we have contests over there. It's a super fun place to be.
I will be giving anyone that buys my book at any time access to my Discord. It is,
private. It's the only way you could get in is through me giving you the link. And that's why I think
my Discord is so great because I have vetted people. It's not like it's just open to the public. So
everybody that's in there are people that listen to my show and people that listen to my show are
fucking great. So my Discord is fucking great. My book is great. You're going to love it. If you buy it,
all you got to do is send me the receipt or a picture of proof that you bought it and I will give you
free access to my Discord. Send it to Strictly Anonymous Podcasts. Gmail.com. You could find my book
in the link in the description. Okay. Or just Google it. Strictly anonymous Confessions, Secret Sex
lives of total strangers. You can find it anywhere. You buy books. Send me the picture and I'll
give you access to my Discord email, Strictly Anonymous Podcast at Gmail.com. Anyway, thanks so much for
listening.
