Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1390 - Super Hot Threesomes, Spot Orgasms, Nipple Play and More Q&A w/Luna

Episode Date: March 8, 2026

Luna Robbie called in to join Kathy in answering a bunch of questions including your fave threesome story, the fastest way you orgasms, whether or not you enjoys a quickie, how sensitive are your nipples, when and if dick pics are ever appropriate plus a few more. Tune in to hear her and Kathy discuss Luna’s three threesomes that stand out for her and exactly what went down during each one of them including all the double penetration she had as well as the time a dogies cage was involved, how Luna found her Gspot and what her Gspot orgasms feel like, the different moves a guy can and should implement when performing oral on a woman, how Luna feels having her breast and nips worshiped, how and why Luna loves a dick pic, what she does currently on Sex Panther and what she gets off on while on there plus a whole lot ore. GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors: ⁠https://beducate.me/pd2610-anonymous⁠⁠⁠ — Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://LoadBoost.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — To get 10% off LOAD BOOST by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠PikaVibe.com/Strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Click to get $15 OFF your purchase Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Okay, today I have a fun Q&A with Luna. Last time I had her on, everyone got so mad at me that was so rooter. So we do discuss that in the beginning. We talk about all the guys getting triggered by the way I talked to her. And she talks about how she wasn't triggered at all. We talk about that a little bit. And then we get into some sex questions. We talk about so many different things as well as like her favorite threesome.

She's got a bunch of stories as well as like orgasms and which ways she comes the fastest. We talk so much about oral, about anal, about fingering and hands. and then we talk about kink and because she's into that kind of stuff. And then we talk about quickies and nibble play and breastplay. We talk about so many different things. You're going to love this conversation. It's super fun. It's like just listening to two girls talk about SEX.

Girls do talk about sex a lot more than guys, okay? But I think that guys could learn a lot when they listen to girls talking. You're going to learn a lot from us. So stay tuned. I'm going to be right back on with Luna. Hi, Luna. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. Kastari, today.

Oh, hi, Kathy. I am awesome and happy to be here. Oh, my God. I'm surprised you're happy to be here because so many people trashed me last time you were on acting as if I was so mean to you and you're some weak victim, which is kind of insulting to you. They insulted me, called me rude and whatever. And like, we talk like 10 times since and we'll like, even you are surprised that people

like were sticking up for you as if like you didn't hold your own and we had an argument. We just, we just had a passionate debate. Yeah, well, and. It's so funny. My cute little brain didn't even clock it as a debate. I was like, we have different opinions, I suppose. And honestly, I love people that have different opinions. You know what's sad about the general public, though?

I have to say, I do believe that I do. It's at a surprise that people would react that way because a lot of people, like, they don't allow themselves to like, you know, sort of go there or whatever. You know what I mean? And it's just like, why not? Like, I think it's okay to agree, to disagree. what I what actually trumps everything for me is someone's conviction I don't give a fuck if my best friends have the total opposite opinions of mine I will spar with them if I can't change their mind I like respect them more like conviction is it trumps everything to me so what does it fucking matter at the end of the day we had like a really good heated debate we were both strong minded and neither one of us wavered in our thoughts or things that we thought about yet I was but but what's interesting is I was looked at the bad one in this situation by everybody. Nobody said you were being mean to me.

Everyone was saying I was being mean to you. But maybe it was because you were on my show. Maybe that. I mean, also, I think I've spent the last decade researching people and my, you know, I think all of this comes from trauma patterns, right? Like, and I mean, lowercase T capital T where I'm afraid to make people mad. I'm afraid that's my whole life accidentally exploding people. So I really do try to soften things and make it nice and not, you know, I think one of the things that I love about you and that I learn from you all the time is you're like, well, I'm me and my actual speak for itself and I'm not a bad person and I'm just going to say it like I think it. And I think I have, you know, I'm still learning to let go of some of my softening skills.

But it's scary for me because I'm like, I don't want to make anyone mad. And I think that's what it's thinking to learn about you. But that's like a girl thing. And I think at the end of the day, so many guys were triggered. But like, and I said this to you and I'm going to maybe put us at the end of this episode. I did say to you that if I changed our voices in that conversation to be two dudes, me, Joe Rogan and you, his guest, okay? And we had that exact conversation as two men.

Not one guy would be triggered by it. Not one guy would think anyone was being rude. They just think it was two dudes having a heated debate. Okay, I just want to let everybody know that we, I did change the voices to me and Luna talking. Oh, my God. And no matter how deep I made her voices, we totally sound like dudes.

We sound like two gay men having a petty fight. I can't even tell you. If you were annoyed with two chicks having this kind of debate, oh my God, when you hear us as men, and for some reason, no matter how much I change our voices, we sound like gay men.

It sounds so petty and a thousand times more annoying. I posted the whole argument with voice change over my Patreon. So if you want to check it out, go join there. also going to get intro and early and ad-free episodes, picks of my guests and so much more. Anyway, back to the episode. I've told people this, and I'm going to tell my audience right now, if you were triggered by me, and I told you this before we even had this whole thing, remember I said to you, I get these comments on Spotify. You're so rude. I'm like, I'm going to refer them to your podcast

because you're a lot nice, quote unquote, nicer than me. You're way more sugary nice than me. That's not my style. I love Judge Judy for a reason. I would not describe myself as sugary nice. I would describe myself as maybe so wide open-minded. It's hard for me to choose a strong side sometimes, because I can see all sides. Yeah, I know, but I can see all sides of fairness. But when someone's lying to me, I'm going to back them into corners. I'm going to laugh at them. Like, I'm going to tell them. Yeah, yeah. I'm not good at seeing that. I'm going to go there. That has nothing to do with not being open-minded. It just has to be due with being a little bit cut to the chase. I'm a Virgo moon. Sorry, it's not, it's horrifying. I don't have, I have an edge. Moon, literally the opposite. Like literally the opposite. Yeah. So you are softer in that way. You know what I mean? And it's all about delivery and my delivery can be harsh.

I always say that's why I've always had a lot of guy friends. But I don't think that there's anything wrong with communicating like that. And like people need to know, me and Luna have talked 10 times. She doesn't understand why you people are triggered by the way I talked to her because she wasn't. You weren't. And listen, they're going to be triggered now because I'm going to make fun of all your questions you came to this podcast. with. So I told Luna we're going to do like questions. That's like making fun of the people though.

Oh, okay. Well, there is just what. I mean, you're just, I'm not going to read them specifically. You did come with all these questions. I said, let's do a Q&A for guys. You know, we'll talk about sex and everything. And so you come with all these questions from all these guys with the saddest story. Like no one's fucking and no one's having sex. People are like hugging their dogs. I mean, I was like, we can't do this. Let's do a fun episode where we just, I'm going to ask you questions about sex and you're going to answer them. Just fun questions, like two girls talking because girls talk about sex more than guys do really. And guys want to know what girls think about sex. Yes. Guys don't really talk about sex. I feel like I spend, I guess with me they do though. Like most

of my life is talking to men about sex. Yeah, because you're a girl, but they don't talk to their guy friends about it. You know what I mean? Like they'll be like, oh yeah, look at her nice ass when they walk by. But they don't get explicit. Girls, I mean, I've had all my girlfriends would be like, oh, like, what should I do with this vibrator? And I couldn't have an orgasm. and he had a really small dick or he was like really big or like we get into details with each other. I think just girls talk more in general. You know, so we talk about sex more in general.

One of my favorite things about being at the ranch is hearing ladies' stories, especially when they're fresh. I mean, like, it's the best, like sex stories, the podcast is great, but I still don't know how much people are filtering themselves. You know, and oftentimes they want to impress me or whatever. When I am around my lady friends and they have a juicy story, especially one that just happened, it's my favorite. My favorite. Yeah. I used to be, and it's like funny because I didn't sit out to have a sex podcast. I just like went on Craigslist because it was free and then I got all these guys emailing me and

then it turned into this because I was like a vanilla person. But, you know, I was always the person that would talk about sex with my friends and was very open-minded about it because a lot of girls would be a little bit more shy and or they needed advice and stuff because I was always able to have an orgasm. I used sex toys. I was like very free with like screwing guys and stuff. And a lot of my friends back in the day were those women like, oh, I can't have an orgasm. I don't know what to do.

I remember I once put a friend a vibrator and she's like, you want me to put this inside? First of all, that's like the smallest one they had. Yes, that's going to go inside of you because a real dick is going to go inside of you and it's going to be way bigger than that. So start somewhere. Oh my gosh. Also, this is funny because again, exact opposite. I was like asking everyone I could.

I was a person asking everyone about advice for sex to the point where my first college roommate gave me a book called Hot Sex, How to Do You. it by Tracy Cox because she wanted to stop asking her questions. I know. And then, and then so that was like freshman year of college. And then I like kept asking other people. And the reason I started sex stories is because a lot of my friends were, you know, partnering up and they didn't want to share as many details now that they were in more intimate connections. Like they weren't. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. And so it's just funny because once again, I was like, I did to have a podcast. And I was the one who felt like I needed the advice.

Yeah, that's so interesting. Well, it's funny because one of my friends. questions was something that somebody asked me on another podcast and I wonder what your answer would be because I've been going on other people's podcast to sell my books is a strictly anonymous confession secret sex lives total strangers I'll put the link to the book in the description but anyway I you know and the woman said oh like what is like you know the one sexual experience you ever had that like really blew your socks off and you know I was like I can't really answer that because I was like having great sex from the get-go I I was like always like sort of able to come having great sex. I never felt like, oh, there's one standout moment because I fucked tons of guys.

I had a lot of sex. I always had an orgasm. I always, it was always great. I'm like, there's nothing one thing that stands out. But like, could somebody else answer that question? Like, do you have one sort of sex session or thing that stands out that like blew your mind? I'm like, that is such an absolutist question. I have hard to answer.

I mean, I have handfuls, and I would say I have ones for different chapters, you know. Okay, let's do this. Let's do like, what was your, okay, or like what, because I was going to ask you, like, have you ever out a threesome? I know that you haven't, like, what was your favorite threesome? You know what I mean? Like, we could do it like categories, you know what I'm saying? Well, one of my, one of my standard experience, two of my standard experiences were

fantastic threesome. Okay, so why don't you tell me those? Okay. One was this couple who. Oh, and by the way, I have a funny. three some story. So go on. Okay, I'm so excited. Okay. One was this couple who were so my vibe, so my wavelengths, and they were fellow butt sluts, and they were so thoughtful. And, you know, sometimes with

couple, there is sort of like, okay, so you're showing up for us. La, la, la, la, here's what we want. And it's like a unicorn hunter experience. And I'm talking out in the wild, right? Like, I'm not talking at work. And this couple was worshipful and a appreciative and made sure I felt special. And they, you know, we had talked with their amount about. This one, these ones they did meet at the ranch. Oh, okay. But, like, out in the wild.

But these people were, they came to see me. So they knew a little bit about me. And they knew that I was a butt slut. They were both butt sluts. And they had never had an experience with another person playing with asses. And so first, we spent a long time, like, preparing her. her and we were playing with glass toys. That was where I started to get really obsessed with glass toys.

And so we prepared her together, like me and him were like massaging and doing a lot of like anal play and playing with the pussy at the same time, you know, never going back and forth, always keeping it separate. And then we switched and they both took turns preparing me. Oh, but the session started with them bathing me, like worshipfully bathing me in the jacuzzi tub. Like I was there, you know, special. sacred creature.

It was so, yeah, it was so hard. And then once she and I were both plugged, we had a lot of really hot experiences and I got really excited. You know, when I am with people, I kind of really responds to their energy in real time. So there was a moment where I, she and I were touching each other

and he was kind of just like, fondling us from the side and I was like, touch both our nipples, do this. And then he put one hand in each of us. And so we were both like getting fingered. and then there was another, I had just such a hot experience. She and I both took turns strapping up and like strapping each other while we were like filled with a plug. And there was a moment where she was fucking new with a strap on and I was blowing him. So it was like a hot spit roast situation.

And I came like crazy during that. Like I came on. I came so much during that. And I'm not a person that even like prioritizes orgasms above all else. But the three of us just had such an awesome wave. And then I got to, then we switched after I like came back to Earth. And I strapped up and we gave her her first DP experience. And so I got to be in her ass and he was her pussy anchor.

So it was really hot. What's the position for that? How do you do a DP as like with two women and one guy? Like is he laying down on his back and she like paint the picture. Yeah. Yeah. There are different ways to do it. The way that we did it in that one is she was on top.

laying on his back she mounted him from on top and then i went really slow and i had her sort of back on to me because it's you know in a situation too where it's a new sensation for someone it's really great to let the asshole control it yeah i know that's more of course yeah um and then and then typically once the comfort is there because because oftentimes especially in a new scenario like that there's a mental block and she was familiar with her butt like she and they were just so sweet and hot and so it was really really cool to take this experience to the next level for them and And for me, you know, because at that point, I had had many, many, many great anal experiences with one partner. But that is, I think that's the only one so far that I've had with two.

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Yeah. What was the second hottest one? Oh my God. The second one was so hot. This couple, we just vibed so hard. And I'd also met them at the ranch. They had gone through all of my how to brothel episodes. You know, they had really done their research. And they were such good vibes. they showed up so well communicated. Like the other couple had dabbled a little bit with other people. They were a little familiar with their, you know, with what that was like for them. This couple, this was their first time together being with anyone else. They've been together over a decade and I felt so special.

They also had like, you know, pampered me with gifts leading up to it, really beautiful communication, really thoughtful and they were so clear on their boundaries and what they wanted. And they brought me this awesome toy that is a double-ended dildo that can like lock together. It's an independent toy brand called Banana Ram. They're not my sponsor, but they're by this Saffic, you know, Sathic folks like lesbians. And it's so hot. So they brought one for me, one for her. We locked them together and we like scither fucked each other with dicks inside while he was playing with our clits. And that was so fucking amazing. because it's like I don't usually come just from vibration inside of me like I have to have multiple

stimulation and then but I came even within the parts where he wasn't touching our clits and then he was like worshipping her but yeah well was she because you were scissering was her clit touching your clit is that where you were getting the stimulation oh interesting no no no no no because we can't like we can't like mix fluids like that at the ranch and so but so we like kept a little bit of distance but the base of this toy flares out and so and it was just the rocking motion and I think it is we were also in this vibe of hotness. You know, we had taken some time to drop in. We had really connected with each other, you know, and both of these people, or both of these couples showed up prepared enough to have an extended session together. And so we were able to take time and space

and, you know, we're all really attracted to each other, which was really helps. But there was also a foreplay, like you said, for you as a one man, that foreplay of them and the communication ahead of time and stuff and all of that probably added to it for you. Like you said, it was a connection added to the whole scene. What about in your regular life, threesome? Yeah, in my regular life, the first threesome that I ever had was with two of my really good friends. And it's so interesting to think back to that. It was a man and a woman.

And, you know, I'd known them all throughout college. And it's so funny, Kathy, because, like, looking back, I'm like, oh, my God, there was that one time in college where they both slept in my bed and I was like, I wonder what's going to happen? Is this thing? And we just all cuddled and I was kind of confused about it. You know, like, and then my best friend was like, yeah, they were going to like blow your mind sexually. Didn't they tell you that at one point? And I was like, I think I might have been drunk at a birthday party at that point early on. And at the time when I had that first threesome, I wasn't sure, you know, because I was a very different person when I was 24. I didn't, I hadn't learned about polyamory or open relationships. I had a pretty normative frame around

things. Like I just didn't, I hadn't, you know, I hadn't explored. I hadn't lived. I was just trying to get laid at all. And so I still was like afraid that one or possibly both of them wanted to cheat on each other and like maybe it wasn't healthy or good. Like I had such a judgmental frame around it, even though I was really excited and attracted to both of them. Did you have it? And they're fine. What? Did you have the threesome? Yeah. Yeah. Oh yeah. No, but it was building over the course of four years is why I shared that experience in college. It was mind blowing. Like it was so fun because by the time I got there, I was like, oh, okay, a woman, we can, I do love having sex with women, but even then it took me another year to, like, identify as bisexual, because I was

like, well, doesn't every woman love nipples and soft lips and curvy bodies? Like, how could you not? And then I started talking to more people who identified a street, and I was like, oh, okay, I guess it's not. You know, it was like an all night long, up all night taking turns situation. You know, And I'm really good friends with them. They're still together to this day. Like it was not about cheating on each other or, you know, it was about bisexuality and expanding exploration together. And I saw them off and on for years.

And they were also the first people to tie me up. You know, they're not kinky really, but like they tied me up because I wanted to be. And then I was like, I think I needed to try this with someone who like really wants to do this. And that was when I went and started exploring cake. Right. So they were like my gateway. Right. Right.

But your top two, though, are ones you've had in the ranch. Yeah, I mean, it's also because I've had so much more experience. Of course. Yeah, you're a different person. I did have a good, I had a couple decent threesomes with my first dominant partner, but they were so emotionally fraught and they ended in bad sub-drop because he didn't follow our like agreements at the end. Like he went to go drive her home instead of staying with me for aftercare. And I was like, wait, what? And he was like, I already told her I would. And I was like, get her a lift. And he didn't. So I was like really upset the next day, even though that was when I had my

double penetration with him and her and she was in my pussy and he was in my ass and that was really hot and I was in a cage watching him fuck from across the room like you know I was edging but I wasn't supposed to come and it was like a really hot you know that was my case my first cuck-sled experience what was in a doggy cage oh my god yes it was a folding dog crate like the extra large folding dog crate and I had it in my house I finally got rid of it a few years ago after we broke up because he broke up with me he got so mad and now I'm like oh I think he was mad that I was going to the brothel, but it was a week before I went, but I don't, I didn't connect it at the time. I was just like, he is mad. Um, you know, so that, that was really, really hot. And then I also, actually,

oh man, I don't know, there was another hot threesome. My first kinky threesome, this couple, oh, that was so hot. I actually met them from inside a cage when I was at a dungeon open house at Mistress Justine Cross dungeon east that's now, now closed. But, um, yeah, they were, they were really kinky and hot. And then that's when I learned about cuckslut. things from the other side. Like I was the, you know, she was the denied one and I was the one getting fucked in her place. But they also didn't talk to me about that dynamic ahead of time. So in the session, I was like surprised by that dynamic, which was a little jarring. But like they were really, really fun and creative. And he was like a domly dom, like very, very

daddy dom and very serious and very formal. And it was hot because we went to dinner, like before we ever played together, they invited me on a dinner date. And, you know, the protocol was wear a butt plug, wear no panties, make sure your dresses or skirt is short enough. And it was so funny because I was wearing this heavy metal butt plug and I had only ever worn it in play space, but it was like the only butt plug I had. And I did not realize that like walking down the block from where I had parked with it in was a totally different experience from being in my apartment. We're wearing this jeweled butt plug with heavy and metal. It was like trying to fall out and I had no panties on. And so I was like, you know, like trying to hold it in as I walked.

It was so silly. But it was really hot. It was really hot. Let's get on to my more. I have other questions for you. Like, okay, what makes you come the fastest? If it's oral sex, vaginal sex, anal sex. And name them in order.

Okay. But my answer is not even on that list. Hands. If we're looking at speed, if it's a competition. Oh, good. Okay. I like that. Okay. Oh, really? Hands where? Where's the place that someone could touch you that's going to make you come the fastest with a hand?

Okay, it's actually, it depends on the day. And it's kind of a boring answer, but I get so turned on. No, I get so turned on when someone makes a fully flat but relaxed hand. Like all the fingers are together. And they just put it over my mound. And the tip of the like middle finger is by my vestibule, like the opening into my cunt. And so, So they're not, it's like teasing me about fucking me with a finger, but it's not. And then I might beg for that. But then like pressure and shaking literally. Like, and sometimes I might beg them to put like a finger or two in the middle and like shake the whole thing. But like that, because my clit is so sensitive. So if someone tries to like rub a hand across it, like if the skin is moving across skin, that's very painful for me.

I don't have a big clitoral hood. But pressure and like movement will definitely do it. And I love feeling like I'm on the end of someone's hand. just being like shaken and it's like and then it makes a whole like it's a whole pelvic orgasm through the whole thing because it's because it's being shaken inside outside and that's how you could orgasm the fastest that's the fastest yeah okay what's like if i'm second uh everything else really depends on what the foreplay is because that's um like if i have i guess if i have vaginal sex with a butt plug in that's probably a pretty good bet um oral sex if the person is good

at following directions, you know, because again, if they're not, like, then they, and I'll slow people down. Like, I've gotten really, really good at being like, like this, do it like this, even slower, even lighter, because I really need warm up orally. And then if they do that, if they are good listeners, oral might be a little bit faster than the butt plug thing, because if I get a mouth that's, like, suctioning my entire pussy and then going back and forth with, like, the details. work, I guess. Then my clip will get warmed up enough that kind of, it's almost like giving the cunt a little blowjob, which is my favorite way to receive oral. But it's not favorite because it needs to be part of everything. You know, like it's not, don't only do that on me, right? Like there's, I want

the whole kind of like the warm up and everything with it. But yeah, what's, I mean, and then yeah, I mean, I will come from, but you know what, Kathy, it also depends on the shape of the person and their cock because I do have a partner who has a curved cock not too big, not too small, and he has a belly and I ride him and come so fast and so many times I think it's the most I've ever come on a cock. And so like that is an exception to the rules. So it's like I don't, the answer could be different next time you ask me to. But it's so it's like because the way it's like what word's pushing on you on the inside is it curved towards your G spot? Like what position Do you need to, is that the way, is that curve?

I think it's, I think it's honestly that it's the curve toward my G spot mixed with the pressure from his shape. Because he's just the right shape. Any guy who's like, oh, I don't know, I'm not perfectly cut. I'm like, honestly, I'm much more likely to come if someone has a little belly, like a little bit of girth on them. Because then I can grind against, you know, pelvic bone, pelvic bone. And that creates like the internal and external stimulation that, like, really, really. really, really does it for me. Have you found your G spot yourself? Yeah, yeah. I mean, and we can talk about what a G spot is, or I don't want to get it too nerdy, but like it's the urethral sponge, and so it's

different in every person. Yeah, we know. We don't need, I don't need Susan Bratt in here. Just tell me what, like, how you have found it on yourself, like with your hands. Yeah, yeah, yeah. One of my favorite ways to come is like just sticking on my left hand two middle fingers in and then like playing with the outside parts with my right hand. And so creating that pressure too. And then I'll play around with just like loosening the pelvic floor and that's how I can make myself squirt a little bit if I'm hydrated enough too. And so relaxing into that and just feeling into it and, you know, finding, finding that spot and finding where it feels good is how I like to play. Right. But you, does it feel like a mound? Um, no, it feels more like soft and squishy. It's, um, and,

and honestly it's hard question because the texture changes with arousal. Like it depends on how much blood flowing is to that tissue. Okay. Let me. me ask you this, how do you know that you've got it? Do you feel a sensation that you could explain? Let's see, it's hard to put that into words. Yes. Well, it's a, it's a, it's a, it's, it's the feeling of there's like an intensity for me. And like I'm not a person that like the spot, it's not the spot that will make me come by itself. If that's, that's, it's the only thing that's being stimulated, not necessarily. But it's the feeling of intensity that leads to, I'm like, yeah, spooking.

It's, for me, not necessarily. Like, I can have a full G-spot experience and it will cause me to squirt. Like, I've been on the end of a partner's hand who finds it, you know, who can really pop into that your reful sponge. And with the right relaxation, it's like a really intense experience of arousal. And I can have that without orgasm. I also can have it with orgasm if I've been warmed up long enough and then if everything's getting shaken in the right way. And then, you know, I can just feel the texture of my own

tissues inside kind of changing and morphing. I feel like when I do it myself, I can't, I don't know, the angle is different from if I'm playing with somebody else, you know? Right, but you could direct them because you kind of know your body yourself. Yes, but for me, the G spot is not your biggest point. It's the most important part of my sexual experience. Yeah, not at all. Yeah. And do you have the best orgasms when you squirt or not necessarily? It doesn't sound like it. Uh, not necessarily. No. Okay, guys, want to have great sex like all the time. We all know that great sex doesn't just happen automatically forever, you know, things change. Libido changes, hormones change. Life happens. And sometimes you just might need a little help. And that's where Drive Boost by VB Health comes in.

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experience. Yeah, not at all. Yeah. And do you have the best orgasms when you squirt or not necessarily? It doesn't sound like it. Not necessarily. No. No, I've definitely had some great ones.

But it really honestly has more to do with how much time we've spent building up the arousal. Like I'm a big edge slut. I love to get to the edge and not come. Also because sometimes my orgasms are so powerful that I get so sensitive that I need a reset or a break or some slaps. And I am learning differently because I'm studying tantra right now and learning more about breath orgasms and building energy through the breath and through focus of attention. And that has led to the really hot orgasms. So I'm excited to play with that more in partnered space.

But so far, the G spot for me has not been. in, it's not the thing. It's not the end-l for me. Yeah. But I have a really sensitive opening. A lot of people don't. I have a really sensitive opening. Like if you just tease the outside of my vaginal canal, like I call it the vestibule,

I get so turned on. Oh yeah. No, you know what I like is when a guy's going down on me, if they have like a solid chin and their chin is like just going right into my hole, right? Yes. And you feel that pressure. You know what I'm talking about, right? I do.

Yeah. Like I try to push on it. I like a strong. jaw for those reasons. Yeah. But I also like the belly, like you said for those reasons too, because sometimes you can feel it like on your clip, right? Like you get it. If you could give guys like three moves that are good when they go down on you. Like I don't know, to me like oral sex is like my end all be all favorite. I love it. Okay. And if I were to say like, oh, how do I come? I come to. I guess I would

say quickest is anal sex. Like once I'm horny and want you inside me pounding, like I can't last long. It's like two minutes. I'm losing. That's it. I can't be pounded. Oh, you could be pounded in your ass for a long time. Yeah. Like a long time.

And I would need to have an ascasm. I would need to be. No, no, but I'm playing with my clit. No, no, no. I'm not just having an orgasm with it going inside my thing. I'm saying,

but playing with my clit at the same time. You know what I mean? And being in my ass totally turned on. It's like, it's so nerve sensitive. It's so nerve sensitive. I get distracted. Like,

if someone's inside me and is also trying to play with the outside of my pussy or is like, touch yourself. I will get distracted because it's too much sensation for me. And so it's really hard for me actually to do that. Yeah, well, that's why I can't, I comment like one second because it's just so many nerve runnings. But I typically won't have the thing go inside me until I'm so Uber turned on. That's when I completely loosen.

It's funny because my booty call guy was talking about my asshole being so tight and he loves it. I'm like, wait, but like are anyone's like, isn't everyone's asshole tight? He's like, no, not necessarily. I was like, oh. He's like, they're not like loose, but they're not like, not everyone's as as. like that tight. I was like, oh, maybe I just have a really tight asshole. Oh, that's so funny. I didn't know. Like, how could a girl have a not tight ass? I think everybody's asshole is the same. He's like, not necessarily. I was like, oh, that's kind of interesting. But it takes me a while.

I have to be very turned on to get totally open and fine and okay. And then once that goes, that's the quickest. And then oral sex is the second and the longest would be getting pounded. But that's, I never go to that place until I've had oral. because oral by far is to me my favorite thing. Like if you had to say like you could only do one thing tonight with somebody, I'd be like, oh, have them go down on me for a fucking hour because I could, I like you like to be teased and I could drag that shit out and feel on the edge and good the whole fucking time.

You know what I mean? I'm like I'm always making jokes like I could read a paper and be turned on at the same time and just relax into it, you know? But, and I personally think, you know, all oral sex is good. But until I had a guy that had every move in the book down when he went down there, you know what I mean? I was like, oh, I think he kind of spoiled me because it's like there are different things to do on a girl. And I always sort of promote, oh, bedricaded. Take pedicated course for oral sex because they do give you 10 different moves.

And there are a lot of things that a guy can do down there to really change it up. Like I do not like. And I could always tell when my guy starts sucking on my clip that he just wants me to come, like because that's going to like, that's just going to take over the edge. and just like, I don't want that the whole time. You know what I mean? Like, you want different moves. You got to pull out different moves, right? Yeah, yeah.

Like, if someone went straight for my clit to suck on it, they would be, I would be like, okay, we're going to do something else now. Like, you're not allowed down there anymore because that would be like, yeah. So what, what, you were going to say your favorite move? Tell us more. All different. I'm just, I was going to ask you, what are your moves. I do like to be, like, I think I'll, I'll tell my like, like, oh, fuck me with your

tongue. Like, put it inside. I like that. I really like that. I like when they're just flicking slowly. And then I like when they devour the whole thing in their mouth. And I think what you just got to change it up and do all different kinds of things. Like the flicking is good, but it's not like one move the whole time.

You know what I mean? It's like different things. I like you flick a little, then take the whole thing in your mouth, then tongue fuck me. Then you know what I mean? Like all that kind of good stuff all at the same time. It's just, it's so fucking good. And like I get really turned on and I like to feel myself. turned on and I do like to edge because I'm a one and done orgasm person, even though my orgasms

are 10 times better now that I'm older than ever before they go on for longer and everything, but I'm still a one-timer, right? Yeah. So I don't like it to be over, you know, so I do like to drag it out, right? I like tease and denial like you and stuff. So I think that guys need to do more moves when they go down. And there are moves, like I said, I'm beducated to take the course. Both me and WIO both have links to bedricaded. in her description. So go there and click on it and sign up and take the oral class because they have 10 different moves and you really got to incorporate them and change them up, you know? Like I said, I always know when my guy's getting sick of it and he's like, all right,

come Kathy and when he goes to the move where he's like sucking on my click is that. He's like, okay, now I can't hold it anymore. You know what I mean? But I don't want that the whole time and I don't just want flicking and I don't just want tongue fucking the whole time. I want it all different stuff, right? I want and you just want it to be devoured. So, you know, you got to be into it. I don't know. I've had like one guy, my booty call guy Tommy who was like, you know, master of quickies and he was my favorite. Like I called it Steak and Potato Sex. It was like very basic. It was quickies. I never kissed him. No, or. And he never went down on me ever. He wasn't into oral sex. I just don't understand it. Oh, wow. But, but he fucked so good and ever,

and he had dick fingers and the, and his cock was like not too big with perfectly size. So it was all perfect. For me, it worked for a very long time. But it just, that's what it was. You know what I mean? And that's where it was. So it's just like everyone is very different. Do you like a quickie? Because I love a quickie. Oh, yeah. But first I just want to say, I hope that someday you write a book and there's a chapter called Dick Fingers. I don't know. Let me just tell you, by the way, you know, when you get your Spotify wrapped at the end of the year, the year that I put out that episode with Layla where we talked about Dick Fingers, that was the number one downloaded episode.

The one with Dick Fingers in the title. That's so good. Have you ever been with a guy with you? dick fingers? I'm sorry. No, I haven't. And now I want to. I'm like, ah, you got it's something that's not on my bucket list, Kathy. I don't like, I don't like girly fingers. I don't like thin fingers. I like big dick fingers. He was the one person I loved. Like, I could blow him while he fingered me and like come that way. And that's like not something I could do with many people because his fingers were so thick. Each one was like a dick, you know? So it was like pretty, it was pretty great. I love that. I love that. love getting fingered while I'm getting. I mean, it's like a mini one person spit roast.

Yeah, yeah. I love it. I love that. I love feeling. Oh, yeah, you're right. It's like maybe that's my like fantasy of having a real spit roast because, you know, I've never done too guys ever, you know, but that, yeah, that is maybe what is so hot about it, right? Totally.

Totally. Yes, I like quickies, but not on oral. I really think that mouths, like you said, like they need to make love to the pussy. Like it needs to be warm and slow and have everything, you know, and I think you said it. do, like the desire. They have to have the actual desire and not the desire of like, oh, I love to please you. And then they don't, it's all like about getting points and not about actually like the physical sensation of getting me pleasure. Do you know what I'm talking about? Well, maybe they don't know because I think most guys do like to please. Like that's a thing in guys. And women too, right?

Like don't you want to turn a guy the fuck on? Like I think we all have egos and we always, it's so hot to make your partner feel hot. I think both men and women feel that way. And I think maybe sometimes guys are just clueless. Yes, and sometimes it's, it really feels like they are giving lip service without proper lip service, if you know what I'm saying. Yeah, that's not good. That is, and listen, that's no different than a girl blowing a guy just because he wants to and she's hating it the whole time.

You could pick up on that. Yeah. Yeah. And so that's, that's the main turnoff. But, you know, and like you said, like the different moves, flicking will actually usually not be okay for me. Like, if it's, unless I'm really, really, really warmed up. Maybe.

I don't know. Well, you have a sensitive clip. You have a sensitive clip. It's really sensitive. Yeah. And, you know, and I want someone who's paying attention to my body and my words because it's like my body is different every day. So what about breast play?

Last year. Oh, yeah. Especially nipples. Suck my nipples. Wait, I just cut you off. I don't want to cut you off. I'm going to edit that out. I had a guy who would like make out.

Well, it's very similar to how I like my breasts played with. But I had a guy last year who I was seeing off and on and, you know, he was so good at using his whole mouth to make love to my pussy. He was like he was like making out with my pussy and I could feel his desire and I felt like it was the most I had enjoyed oral in a while, you know. And the other thing too is like, you know, for work, I use laurels. I love laurels. I have a discount code for them. They're the natural rubber latex panties. They are great. One of the biggest turnoff is if someone complains about them because I'm like, you know what? We just met like if I'm at a party or if I'm at work, like if you don't like safety practices then like we don't need to do that like I don't you know because the only times I've had like experiences of violation at work where when people died only two men try to push that boundary of oral sex I'm like you're not even allowed to I mean that's against the rules no you're not allowed to it's against the rules I kicked them out you know I was like bye right but in real life most people aren't using that they are going down on an open pussy there you go if they've been together long enough

I hope so or they have had those help and safety conversations but it's But for me, it's really intimate. It's not something I'll do right away. You know, like if someone feels entitled to that right away, especially because for me, health and safety is so important, right? So it's like, I'm like, we got to have that trust built first. Oh, before you let their face go down there. What about breast and nipple play?

Love it. You can, you can be strong with my nipples. I love, like, my nips are pretty tough. Yeah, nibble, like, don't write them off, you know, unless I'm in a kink dynamic. Unless I'm in a kink dynamic and we've agreed to that sort of thing, you know, but like, but for me to say, ouch would need to draw blood. And I'm not,

you know, I'm not trying to have that usually. And I, but I love, I love having them worshiped and sucked and appreciated and teased and all of that. Like, I'm so into it. I love the sensation.

I love clothes pins on them. Um, I don't have orgasmic nipples like some people have talked to. Do you do? No, there was only one time. I can remember and I can see the vision. No,

just, but only one time in my whole life and I fooled around a lot. Like, I mean, I'm talking like, And I could see exactly where I was a big dick Nix, a part house in his bedroom. And we were waiting for something to come over. And he was like, you know, sucking on my nipples. And I got like so super horny and had an orgasm.

I've never had that sense. Oh, cool. Never had it before. What I always, have you ever, though, had this move? And I don't get it. And I'm always like in my head when it starts to happen. I was like, well, does this guy like want a dick in his, did you ever have a guy like try and take your tits and make it like a dick? And they're like a dick and they're like a, you know, and make it.

Like squeeze them together? No, take one. Like, I used to have two guys did this. And I was like, are they trying to make my tit like a dick and suck on it? Like they're like squeezing it so hard. Yeah, that I'm like, I think they're trying to pretend my tit is a dick. It's like the dick move. I'm just like, yeah.

Interesting. I have never had that happen. But Kathy, Culler me curious. I'm like, oh, it's not good. Oh, I wasn't. That gets me in my head. I'm thinking, you want a fucking dick here and you're just using my tit to be a dick because this doesn't make any sense.

They make it like into like, you know, something a shape that it's not supposed to. And then they suck on it. I don't know. I'm over here. I'm over here being like, yeah. Let me, my money. Tid dick.

Fuck you. Take it. You take it. Take it down your throat. Like, you know, like I'm just like, ooh. Deep throat, my tit dick. Deep throat. I must see how far deeper, deeper.

Do it till you gag. Like, you know, but I'm like, good luck. My boobs are pretty malleable too. Like they're, you know, they're pendulous. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. But you've never had a guy try and turn them into a dick. Not yet.

Maybe now. I'm like, maybe my dreams will come true. I'll come back and tell you when it happens because I personally never liked it. I never liked it. It always got me thinking, I know what you're here for.

And like a guy, if he doesn't want to go down on me, I'm like, maybe you do want dicks. I think it was the same guy that never would go down on me that made my tit into dicks and I was just like, you know, I see something going on here.

Do you know what I mean? Let me ask you this because you are, a lot of guys love receiving. leaving nudes, you know, and I'm sure you don't mind sending them. But like, are there girls out there? Are you one of them that, like, if you're turned on by a guy or whatever, like you do like appreciate them sending you, either a dick pick or a video of them jerking off or some sort of thing? Because we all know guys like to get it, but do girls like to receive it? Oh, man. Oh my gosh, Kathy. You're causing me to reflect on what now

feels like a I'm in a different era in my life um what do you mean because that's what I do on the sext panther and it's so fun and I love it but I can't imagine a world in which someone I'm like maybe I would ask for that for free I don't know I really love I really love things you know because I love to watch I love to look I love to see what they're into but I'm also used to being, you know, concretely appreciated and having that attached to money. And that is part of the turn on for me. All right, but let's forget about that. Okay. I'm talking to you as a regular girl. No, no, no, but I'm talking to you as a regular girl. Okay, like in your regular. I've never been right. I've never been accused of being regular. But you are. I'm sorry, you're not working 24-7.

Okay. You're not working right now. Like right now, if you were dating a guy, I know the last guy that you were hooking up with, okay, who you really liked. He was like fucking hot as shit. Okay. I saw pictures of him. That guy. Like, so, because there are a lot of guys that love to receive stuff, but there's also some guys that just, because I've met these kind of guys, they just love to drop a dick pick in your thing. It's kind of like the animal bringing like the dead thing to your door. I don't know what it's like. It's like, hi, here I am. I don't know what it's trying to say, but they want you to tell them it's bit, you know what I mean, like that, you know? I don't know what they want, but no, I mean, I love looking. Do girls like it? But if they,

but if they, but if they sent, well, here's the thing, context is key. If they send it to me when I didn't request it, it's a huge turnoff. If they send it to me when I asked for it or if they, if they ask me, like, do you want to see what's happening right now? And I'm like, yeah, then I love it, you know, or like, like in one instance, I was on the airplane waiting to be picked up by that guy. And, yeah, and my plane was being like, delay, you know, like, it was like, I was like waiting at the gate, waiting to, like, it was like, and it had already been like an hour. late. Like there was a delayed site, so I was like so horny and ready to go. And he was like, do you want to see what I'm doing while I'm waiting? And I was like, is it erotic? I hope so. And you know, so I got a picture there and that was really hot. But I love visual stimulation. And if it comes from a person who I want to receive it from, I think it's the hottest thing in the world. Like I love looking at dicks. I love looking at pussies. Okay. So you would be the perfect person for that. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. But if it was unsolicited, because that was my early Instagram experience before I understood sex. I said a guy that you're into, not unsolicited, okay?

Yeah. That's inappropriate. It's important to clarify. Yeah, no, no, no. But I did clarify that. I said, like, if you're into a guy and you're, and, you know, he likes you to send it, are you as interested in him sending it to you? I am.

But here's the thing. But here's the thing. It's got to be a quality picture. Because if there's fucking dirty socks or cords or ugly shit in the background or it's blurry or whatever, I get so mad. It feels rude. It feels rude to me. I'm like, do a good job.

Let me tell you should have, you should have been on the call with me and Leila. I had a whole dick pick contest on my Discord. And now the people, and I was like very surprised. Let me tell you, that contest still exists. If you get into my Discord, you could go into the dick pick contest and see all the dicks that were submitted. And there was like probably two to 300 of them. Okay.

And I was like, wow, my listeners have really big dicks. Okay. Every one dick was bigger than the next. And they were all like thick and like great, you know. But we had to analyze them. We did a whole episode. I think it was like an hour and a half. We went through and critiqued every.

single one, you would have been so much. You would have been right there with us because we were saying like, look at the background, all your fucking clothes on the floor and then you took it at the wrong angle. I mean, there really is an art to sort of take a dick pick. And the trick I'm going to give all the guys that we notice on ours, if you like lay down and slightly like lean your chest back a little bit, get hard and let it lay on your stomach and take the picture from like the balls down. You know what I mean? Kind of like a cross and you get it that way. It's such. the perfect angle for a dick pick. Like we found the perfect angle for the dick pick on my dick pick contest. Yeah, yeah. And it was good because it does matter how it's taken, right? It could really change the width of it, the look of it. And what guys don't understand, just like what you just said. Me and Layla, we notice the shit in the background.

Girls are just like that. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. I can't look past it. Because it also, it shows me what kind of lover you're going to be. Yeah, wait, I call my guy totally cheating on me. He was in the wrong place at the right time. Like, it was because he sent me a tick picket.

He was supposedly, he was like a guy that like traveled the world for work. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And he told me he was like, you know, let's pretend it was like Iceland, you know, but yet he was like sent me a picture of this five star hotel. It was all Japanese shit on the, on the betting. It's like you're in fucking Japan. Like you're not where you're supposed to me. That's so funny.

That's so funny. Yeah. Like, there's no way that a five. our hotel has that kind of thing. I'm like, I could have like Googled and found out exactly the hotel with the bedding and everything just from the fucking picture that guys are when they're horny. They're not thinking. That's the problem. Yeah. Yep. Yep. Yep. Yeah. I mean, and that's the thing, though. It's like, to me, if you're going to send a dick pick, it is an indication of what kind of lover you are going to be. And so if it's, if I, I do, and if it's not very thoughtful,

I think every interaction, that is how I'm processing, right? And I think I'm right. I mean, right for me, right? Because I have such a high proportion in my life of intuitively knowing if someone's going to be a good fit for me. I don't let anyone into my sphere that doesn't feel like a fit. It doesn't matter how much money they have to like paying me at the ranch. Like it's only, it has to be a good vibe and the appreciation concretely is part of that. But that's not all it is. You know, it's got to be a good fit. It's got to be the right level of attention and care. And you think that when a guy is horny and has a heart on and takes a picture of his dick, if he doesn't clean up ahead of time

that that means he's going to be a bad lover, because I don't think that's true. I think that if he takes a picture that shows to me that when he is not in a thoughtful headspace to consider my experience, I will... When they're more, I'm saying, I have a lot of... But that's what I'm saying.

That will exactly be the case when we are lovers, and then I will have to be, you know, and it's fine if I'm in charge and I get to control the whole thing, but like, it means that it's going to cost me more effort rather than being able to surrender into being taken care of because it shows me

that they are not able to think through my experience. Yeah, I get that, but I mean... Especially because they know, anyone who's interacting with me knows. I'm a photographer knows that I care about. Oh, how exhausted. Do you know what I mean? Yeah, well, that's, you know, Kathy, you go best and forth

between me and like, let's set you well, but then I'm exhausting. No, no, well, it is... Don't like my mom. No, because I'm just saying in the real world, if you ever get a long-term guy, unless he's a photographer himself, he might be a little lazy sometimes with his dick picks and it doesn't mean that much.

It doesn't mean that he's not thoughtful and all those things. I know. It's a love language. I know, but you know, the love language, you know, day to day when you're with a guy, it's not always there all the time. I'm just saying it does sound exhaustive over time. To be clear, like, it's not that every picture

was a piece of art that I received, but at least let it be simple and basic and clear. You know, not dirty socks and cords in the background. that's what I'm saying. Yeah, I get it. I get it. Clean up your shit if you want. Well, why don't you do me a favor?

People are going to get mad of me again because I'm being rude to you. They're going to think I'm being rude to you. No, you're not rude. No, of course not. Wait, so why don't you give a shout out now? Let's wrap it up and give a shout out because you just mentioned and I didn't know what you do on sex panther. I didn't know anything about this.

But like you said, you're on sex panther and that's what you do there. So if like all this sex dick pick talk, because listen, guys are competitive, right? I feel like you just saying right there like this is what I need and this is the only way I like and everything makes a certain kind of guy want to like fucking please you the way you want to, you know? So if there's a guy out there that wants to send you dick picks and get your approval, you know, let them meet

your standard that I think is exhausting that they want to as a man because they want to feed their fucking eagle. Like, they could do that on Sex Panther, right? Is that what you're saying? Or I can help them. I can give them feedback. They don't have to be perfect. They have to be, you know, because I have definitely done like dick pick tutorials before too. Someone who's like, you know, and I'll show, because one of the other things, going back to the angles thing,

that you were saying is it has to do with where you put the lens of the camera. And whatever's closest to the lens will look bigger. So it's like you can make it look cute. And I don't recommend making it look bigger than it is. Yeah. Like have it be, you know, and just capture the beauty of it. But yeah, I mean, I do that live on Sext Panther. I go on.

Oftentimes I'm in the bathtub. I get really horny in the bathtub. And so I'll turn on. You can do live calls and chats with me. Oh, interesting. I don't know why I don't know. their dot com slash lunar secrets because you you have to have a certain unclear i don't know what the threshold is but you have to have a certain level of following to be on there um and so it's like you know

it's more active than only fans it's like live like if i'm on there i'm there right you also can do asynchronous chatting like i get a bunch of people who will send me voice memos you can send videos you can send photos you can request customs there you can also do those things on only fans but if you were going to talk live and real time for short form stuff, you know, it's different if someone wants to like schedule an hour long call and then I got to put it on my calendar and show up at a certain time and place, that that's just email me. But when I just feel horny and want to play, which I've been doing more since the ranch may or may not have fired me to be determined, we'll see. You know, I am showing up there and having so much fun and I love when people, you know, and it doesn't

have to always be sexy. Oftentimes it is, but it's like just getting to know people. And I love getting pictures of like especially when people are horny. I love knowing what's making them horny, what they're fantasizing about and what they're doing about it. And you could talk to them on there. That's the whole key for it. Yeah. Yeah. Like I had an amazing hot masturbation in the bathtub last week with someone I never met before who was just, you know, I turned my thing on. I was reading a book. He's like, can we call now? And I was like, just call. You know, like it reads when I have my thing switched on. It's so fun. It's so fun. You know. Give the info of how they get, because I can't put Sex Panther in my description. I'll put

a link to your podcast. Yeah, it's in my link tree, but you can find sexpanther.com slash lunar secrets. Luna secrets. Lunar. Lunar, L-U-N-A-R secrets. Oh, Lunar secrets. So it's Luna R-R-secrets. Oh, okay. I like that. Okay. Sexpanther.com slash Luna R secrets. Yep. Okay. That's perfect. That's where I play. I'm surprised. I didn't, I don't know why I didn't know that you offer that, but I think that's a great, this was a great tease for people. I think you got some guys wanting to call in to do it. But you also, like I said, I pitched in the beginning. If you want someone who's nicer to their guests, go listen to Luna's podcast.

She does exactly what I do. Very thoughtful. It is very thoughtful. She's more thoughtful than me. She's not as harsh. I know I have a kind of harsh. It's just my delivery. Like, you know, it is what it is.

I'd have to die and be reborn to be somebody else. This is all you got. And that's okay. I aspire to be a little more like you, honestly. I mean, like, I don't, because people please, stuff is in great, you know, and it's just my trauma pattern, being afraid of people being mad. Yeah, it's exhausting. And also, like, I, people don't always treat me that well because they think I'm so nice that they can just take advantage of me. That's not true. That's when they'll,

that's when they'll meet the part of me that's pretty strong and not very nice. I don't see you as, I don't see you as a too nice people, please, or person. You, you're a very strong personality, as far as I'm concerned, that I know you. I mean, that's who you are with me. That's who you are with me. That's who you are with me. You know what I mean? I see you in that way. So that's why I'm never talking down to you, but I never talked down to anybody. I'm just like myself. But like I said, if you find me a little bit harsh, go listen to Luna's podcast. She does exactly what I do.

It's called sex stories. It's, you can find it anywhere where you find podcast. She does the same thing. She literally gets people's whole life stories or sex stories over there. I'll put the link to your podcast there. And then if they want to find your other stuff, or I could put your link tree. Just give me your link tree, right? Should I do that?

Yes. Better for you. I don't know. Kathy Kimberly does a link tree. I mean, you can find me everywhere through sex stories podcast.com. It's, you know, because I don't always show up on Spotify. And then LunaRopi.com is the hub for all of my Luna-oriented stuff. It has links to her.

Okay, that's all her information. Go find her. Go send her dick pics. Let her help you. Then you can join my next dick pick contest because we do it annually. It was such a hit. We're going to be doing it again. So this time I'll have you rate them if you want with me.

Since you're a photographer. Oh, my gosh. I can rate the photo. I don't know, Kathy. I might be allergic to rating dicks than. themselves. You rate the actual penises? Oh, God, it's the most fucking funniest. I'm telling you this hour and a half episode of me and Layla doing it. And then we had a pussy pick contest and we had to rate those and there was like a 200 of those. And now there's a lingerie contest. It's so much fun. And I do them,

I have different people critique with me. But you know, listen, when it's a contest, you have to be honest. And you know, and honest by being nice, you know, but like it's just, it's fun and funny. And, you know, it is what it is. I mean, in my way. I mean, my way, I'm not. I have a lingerie contest going now. And, you know, because I have Fetish Friday episodes, and I'm very inclusive. And everyone's on my Discord. There's like a couple guys that post picks of themselves in lingerie. Oh, I love that.

Yeah, that's a fun. I'm like, I want to, I think what I'm stepping into is more, like, I've been doing private creative retreats with like content creator friends or people who want to just book, you know, book a space and do a weekend and make a year's worth of stuff or months worth or whatever it is. But I think I'm going to open it up to groups because I, when I hear you say that, I'm like, I want to be helping people create. the images, whether it's teaching them to self-shoot or like creating a space for them to shoot.

I think that's in the theater. I'm also like maybe I should just do a reaction episode to you guys because I feel like I would kill your vibe being like, oh no, I don't know. Let's be nicer. I don't know. No, no, no, no. I think you'll put on your professional hat because that's what you need to do. And I think you'll go there as a photographer. Because it's literally, it's not a dick contest. It's a dick pick contest. So we're not just critiquing your dick. It's about the photo more so. So most of the time we're not like, oh, your dixie small, it sucks. It's more like, oh, you're messy shit in the background and your garbage and your angle and your dirty fingernails ruin this picture.

You know, that's probably like the harshest we get. Oh my gosh, I'm so glad you said the thing about fingernails because hands for me, I'm so turned on by man hands. Well, hands in general, women hands are even more beautiful. But like when the cuticles are fucked, when they don't take care of themselves, I'm like, oh, you can't put that in my pussy. Wait, listen, you don't understand on my pussy pick contest. that's still up there too. People want to join my Discord. They have to sign my page, join my Patreon or buy my book.

But I'll give you access to my Discord. It's private. But it's great. And we had a pussy pick on it. And let me just tell you, I forget who was reading it with me. But like we were, I think maybe Lila did that one too. We were like in no, in no world or like these women saying this is the pick that I want you to post.

Like these had to be posted by guys. Because I can't tell you how many picks were posted of these poor women's pussies that were like had razor stubble, you know, pimples all over. from like razor burn their nails were falling off they were dirty like I was like no girl would ever post this pick of herself like she would be like oh my god that's like horrifying you know what I mean like yeah that's crammed yeah yeah I have to do it all of so but that's what helps actually because listen when I'm getting 200 submissions for these pictures it those are the things that actually help narrow it down because like how hard is it my listeners are hot you know what I mean

so it's hard to pick the best god so when you're actually critiquing the whole pick it's that does help narrow it down because it's not just like right now the lingerie pick is not just about the lingerie it's about the whole pig it's the lighting it's the the cropping it's the the angle it's everything as well as a longer right yeah you'll do the next i'm gonna hire you to do the next dick pick contest but if anyone wants to get started go to sex panther she'll help you but anyway thanks and if anyone wants help yeah exactly yeah yeah yeah yeah and then you can participate i'm gonna i typically give 150 for the winner but i think for the next dick pick us. I'm going to make it higher. And so

they'll win some good cash and you'll be the judge. But anyway, thanks so much for coming on the show. Oh my godess. Thank you, Kathy. Always so fun to talk to you. I hope people don't get mad at me again. I think I was very nice to you this time, but we'll see. I think we did great. I think we did great.

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