Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1393 - Stripping, Phone Sex, Swinging and More w/Marcela

Episode Date: March 11, 2026

Marcela went from stripping, to phone sex, to swinging and more and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all thee details including when she started stripping and where she danced, how she met her friend Ava Devine the porn star, what she loved most about stripping and why she stopped, when she started doing phone sex and how that led to her being on Sex Panther and how far she goes on there, her three marriages and how and why they all ended, how and why having mff threesomes with one of her husbands led to their divorce, the swinger clubs she goes to in NYC that she loves as a single woman and why she loves going there, what she has done at the swinger club when he friends join her, the issues she has had being a unicorn for couples, how she has a high sex drive and why she wants a cuck boyfriend, what she does on her Onlyfans as well as on Sex Panther, her podcast Get Schooled with Marcela Alonso and who she interviews on there plus a whole lot more.  GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To see HOT pics of MARCELA plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors: ⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2610-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://LoadBoost.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — To get 10% off LOAD BOOST by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠PikaVibe.com/Strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Click to get $15 OFF your purchase Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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She's like really into it. And now she actually does it over on sex panther. She does like real full on phone sex. But nowadays, like, you know, you could like see her and do it. She's got a very big presence on Instagram. She has a very large platform. She, you know, after she got into stripping, she stripped all over and then she got into doing like content for herself. She's very close with Eva Devine, who was like her bestie and very into six panther. And nowadays like over there, it's not just like straight up phone sex that she does. She does like video work and stuff. And she loves that. She loves talking dirty to guys. She's very open minded. She's married, been married a bunch of times she talks about her swinger experience she does consider herself a swinger we talk about

the swinger club she's been to the swinger resort she went to should we talk about the threesome she had with one of her guys you know i try to get as much info out of her as possible i mean she's been there done that a lot of stuff you know so we had a lot to cover i covered a lot of it you'll hear about her marriages you'll hear about like how she rolls you'll hear about like what she's into uh and you'll also hear about her podcast she's got a podcast she's got a podcast called Get Schooled podcast with Marcella Alonzo. She talks to all kinds of people over there. I was on her podcast.

She talked to me. She talks to people in the adult industry. She talks to experts. She talks to a lot of people over there. You could hear her over there. I'll have links to all of her stuff if you want to go find her afterwards. She's got a website. She gives a shout out to all that at the end, but you're going to get her whole story on

here. I was trying to pimp her out to a guy. She's looking for a cock because she likes to have her. She likes to be able to do what she wants and sleep around and stuff, but she wants to be with one guy. So if you're a cock and you like her, I was pimping her out at the end of the episode, you'll hear that too. So anyway, I'm going to get, she's super hot. You can see pictures over on my Patreon, but you could Google her and find her anywhere. I'm going to get right to be right back on with Marcella Alonzo.

Hi, Marcella. Marcella Alonzo, correct? Is that your name? Is that like your adult name? Like, weren't you in the adult business? Like, I kind of don't know that much about you, but I'm going to get your whole fucking story. but I feel like you were in the adult business or maybe you just know a lot of people.

I've done everything except for work for a porn production company. Oh, okay. So you've been it. You've done porn yourself. No, I've started it like myself or myself for my only fans for content for myself, but I've never worked for production company. Oh, right.

So you have only fans and you produce your own porn, but you like do it like most people do it now on only fans and stuff. Yeah, yeah. I've been approached by company. but I just never had... Why should you? I think that's for... You know, I just talked to a girl

and it was super interesting. She was like, she didn't feel like doing that because it's like a lot of work and it is. You know, you have to tend to it all the time. You make a lot more money when you manage it yourself, right?

But I think going with the big companies is good, right? Actually, I'll be honest. If you do work for a company, you do have the incentive because it will monetize you way better. If I was to go work for a company like browsers has approached me or VIX,

you know, that would totally like it would blow me out of the park, but then it's a very, you know, it just, I feel like I'm too old at this point. No, I love it. Well, let's go back to when you weren't too old. Like, how did you wind up where you're at now? First of all, let me just get a snapshot of where you're at now, Marcella. Are you married? Are you in a relationship?

Are you single right now currently? I'm single, single, single, single. But you, because I was on your podcast, you have a podcast, by the way. Let's give a shout out to it. Give a shout out real quick to your podcast. Get schooled with Marcel, Marcella Alonzo. And you talk mostly to porn stars, right? so people could hear like a lot more about the business over on your podcast, correct?

I want to say 75% of porn stars. I started because I wanted to tell the truth about the adult industry as a whole, sex work in general. Yeah. But I also have experts. I also have people from the swinging community. I have people. I do want to explore like polyamory.

I've had hot wives on. I've had other podcasters that have different, you know, different types of podcasts that deal with sexuality. And it's called get schooled. I will put a link either to that or your website, you know, in the description, right? But I want to talk to you not as a podcast. I was on your podcast, by the way. You interviewed me yesterday.

Now I'm interviewing you. And I want to get your whole life story. So like you're single now. What you didn't mention to me when we were talking that, you know, you're like when I'm on STC, like the single guys over there, hit me up. And when I'm on Hinge. So I assume that you, when you are in a relationship, you will live, you have a, you're into nonmonogamy. I consider myself more of a swinger, and I always have considered myself a swinger because I was a stripper first, and I understand the whole openness of a relationship, but I also

consider myself a frying pan, meaning if I'm in a relationship, I say it like this, you better do your shit right in front of me, or I'm going to pull out the frying pan. So, no behind my back. Yeah, totally. No behind my back. Like, no texting somebody. Like, I personally, I think we talked about this yesterday about the polyamory. Like, I just personally could not do polyamory.

I can't be emotionally tied. However, though, I'm saying that. And now I'm finding myself liking like two or three guys at once. But polyamory, like, I can't be with a guy and then he has somebody else. So if I find out about somebody else, then that person's got to go. But you're down to go to a swinger club with your guy and watch him fuck another girl and have a couple swaps and stuff like that? Okay, that's interesting. Yeah, yeah.

That is a buggy. Okay, so we'll get into that because obviously you've probably had some experience. But let's go all the way back. Like, was it stripping that was like your gateway drug into like the adult world? Yeah, I started stripping actually at 17. And I went into a club at young, but then I didn't go back. And then right when I turned the day, I turned 18 because I had a child at a, I had a day, a child day after my 16th birthday. Oh, my God.

Wow. Yeah, I was a young teen mom. And then. So that probably. helped you pay your bills, right? Strip, like, oh, yeah. Yeah, that's a lot of money for you needed that money at that time. Right, right. I got off welfare. I actually paid for my own college. I don't have any student loans. So I have a four-year education. And so stripping was the first thing I did. And I lived in Tampa, Florida. Then I went to, they started having rates.

And I actually danced with my cousin. I danced with some relatives of mine, too. I danced with my cousin was on my podcast because I needed like somebody to talk like because I'm guest dependent and I brought I said to my cousin one day I go you're coming on my podcast you technically you worked with me so and we actually had the raids that they were doing what do you mean raids oh it was so stupid they were one so that's what brought me out of Tampa which was a blessing in disguise because it opened me up and that's what brought me out it's a long story why brought me out but the mayor in the town his name is Joe Redner and he owns Mon's Venus which was a big strip

club back in the day and he wouldn't shake the mayor's hands so we were giving full nude lap dances and back in the day and so because that all of a sudden they made this law where we couldn't do lap dances and they started raiding the strip club and one day they raided

us and there I get taken to the paddy wagon and my cousin's all worried and she goes oh my god what's my father going to think as they're taking me in the paddy wagon I go what What about me? You know, as my cousins watching me took in the body wagon. Oh my God.

I would die. Did you, I mean, did you get charged with anything? Lab dances? I don't know. They like the, I'll tell you one thing. The owner was wonderful. So it never really followed me. I didn't really get in trouble.

I just, it was more of something for them to put in the news, but I got tired of it. And so that's when I decided to go to Las Vegas to go and dance. Oh, okay. And there you must have made a shit ton of money. I'm, made a shit ton and I met my one of my best friends. Her name is Ava Devine, who's a crazy porn star.

A lot of people, if I mention her name, before she actually got into porn. So that's when I met her. Dancing. She was dancing too. Yeah, she was dancing too. So that was a start of a crazy friendship, you know, crazy, crazy days and all that other stuff. So I went to Vegas. That was a start of me being in the West Coast. Okay. And I danced over there and then I ended up in L.A. But let me ask you this. you're dancing and doing all the stuff and moving around. You're young, right? You're hot, obviously. Like, I mean, are you me, are you, like, dating during that time? And how did guys feel about, like, what you were doing, like, at night and stuff? It was very, very, when I was younger, it was very, very difficult dating because a lot of guys could not handle what I did. Yeah, that's what I would think. And so that was what made me realize, I need to find people that are open-minded. I need to find a guy that's like, going to be, that's kind of what led me to the swinging world because I was like, I can't be with just like a normal guy. Right. I can't be with somebody normal that they have to, they need to realize like this is a job because every guy that I was finding, they didn't, they would just

get so jealous or passive aggressive and it was so many different things. And it was especially we're talking about a long time ago. There's, there was such, there was, I mean, nowadays it's so much better, I think for women who are like open and, and sexual and like sex. Oh, yeah. But back then you're talking about, I mean, it was really still like the olden days the way it was. It was ridiculous. Yeah, it was, and I've actually been married three different times. It was always easy for me to get a husband, but it was the fact that, you know, just the jealousy or the fights or being with a boyfriend or then just a headache of it. So it was like, you know, for me to get with a serious relationship, I had to be with somebody open-minded. And it led me to getting in the world, but then I,

when I finally got with somebody I thought was open-minded, they really weren't. Yeah, I get it. And those three times you were married. But when you meet your friend, Ava, who got into porn first? I mean, because you guys are friends. I mean, you're both just stripping, right? This was before either one of you were into doing porn, right? Yeah, I remember walking in the bathroom and I looked at her and she had these gigantic boobs.

This was before she was ever in porn. And I said, are you a point star? And she was just so sexual and she was so meant for. it and eventually she just got into it. She was just made for sex and we were just wild in the crazy horse too. And we had fun. We were crazy at that club. We had fun at that club.

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It was like the best. So she got into porn first and she was just wild. Right. And we were, when we gave lap dances, we were just the dirtiest talkers ever. We love to talk dirty. Oh my God. The guys must have loved you. Yeah.

Yeah. Yeah. It was like a group of girls that we just loved to talk dirty and I just enjoyed it. Right. It's not even like you're doing it just to make the money. I mean, you guys are just like highly sex. sexualized beings, right? And so you're kind of like doing the perfect thing for both of you.

Not just her. You too. Yeah. She was meant for porn. I just, I don't know. I will forever identify as a stripper because I just like, I love lap dancing. I love dressing up like a stripper.

Oh, I love it. I miss it. But it is a young girl's game because physically your body, you know, you can't really like keep on doing it, you know, so. But I just love like grabbing. the guys and we would grab their cocks and all they're like come over here you know and that was that was a fun thing to do like stripping and stuff like that and that you know it eventually we i quit you know stripping and went to other stuff and what was other stuff i got into domination because

i was like a dominant person i did bachelor parties which i enjoyed quite a bit um i love doing bachelor parties and that's when I was in Los Angeles. But then like, I want to say like a 20, 17, 2018 is when the online work started coming on. What do you mean by online work? Snapchat. Oh, okay. That's when we sold the Snapchat premium. I remember like, I want to say 2017, 2018. Oh, wow. That was way before only fans and stuff. Right, right. Well, actually in 2012, okay, because I remember, because I was, I was done stripping because my body. physically couldn't handle it. 2012 is when I discovered like phone sex.

Oh, okay. And there was night flirt, right? And I had, I still have a night flirt account to this day. And I discovered phone sex. And then I want to say 2017, maybe 2016, people started doing the Snapchat and selling the Snapchat, which is before OnlyFans. You're right, before OnlyFans.

Yeah. And so that is the beginning of like the online stuff. But it didn't really mess with it too much. to like we were you know we started doing the all I haven't only fans before the pandemic and like social media way before the pandemic but just didn't really play around with it you know what I'm saying and of course when the pandemic had that's when we got on it and then like sex pamphor I want to say I got on it like 2018 and so that yeah 2018 is when I started doing video calls and so just like Everything online. Everything you could do online.

Everything online. So it kind of brought like the strip club to home. Yeah, it sounds like it. Because you said you love like dirty talking to the guys when you were there. That's the same thing you're doing with phone sex. Yeah, yeah. So like even before I got on the phone with you, I had a guy, I have a guy that calls from Boston, a young guy that's like 20 years old. And I love it because I'm talking dirty. I get to see their dicks and they're jerking. You know, sometimes they're jerking off. Sometimes I'm talking dirty or whatever. So it brings me back to the strip club. I just can't. I'm not giving a little. lap pants. Yeah.

There's still old school. Yeah. So there's still old school phone sex. You could do like that's available for people that just. Oh, yeah. I have like multiple companies that I work for. Like there's sex pamper.

There's another account called Insta. I still have my, there's I want phone. So like listen, what if my, because my audience is going to like probably Google you and see you and when you're hot. You're not on the other side like,

you know, not looking good. So like, you know, if somebody wanted to request you when they go through those sites, can they? Oh, no. too. Yeah, yeah, they can.

I do video calls. Right. So they could so but I mean they could request you they could go on there and then request you your Marcella Alonzo on there. Yeah, on Sex Panther yeah. Okay, good to know. Okay, I'm giving you a little advertisement. Oh yeah. No, I love it. I love doing and I there's guys that I've been talking to for years before the pandemic. Wow. Yeah. Like so that's pretty much

what I do now. And again, it brings me back to the days of the strip club, except for I don't, you know, I don't have that touch physical, like there's no more lap dancing. Yeah, of course. I miss, though. I'd be honest, I miss.

Some people would be like, oh, you know, like I miss it, you know. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. Let me ask you this. Your three marriages were all of them, like, did you try to be monogamous with all of them?

Were they all set up that way? And that just didn't work? So the first marriage was pre-Obalm. I needed help insurance, and I married my gay best friend. Oh, okay, so that's not a remarriage. So that doesn't count. No, it doesn't count.

That doesn't count. The second one was my daughter's father. I didn't like him. But was it an in anogamette? Like, was it just a regular relationship like you're supposed to be just with each other? Yeah, I just, I don't know. I didn't really, I was, I think I was trying to quit. I was trying to be a traditional wife and he wanted to get married and he pursued me.

And it was, that was, that was quick lived. And then the third one was a girl. was a guy and I always say he grew on me like algae I thought he was open-minded but then it just he you know he really wasn't that was the one that he

wasn't so open minded and because you're always open about who you are what you do straight from the get-go with these guys correct? Right right well they know and the last one he knows like he was like the last one I put in so many situations it was unreal like what oh my gosh

Well, he knew like with all my friends and all that. And he would say, oh, you're having flashbacks to the days you're stripping and stuff like that. You know, so yeah, he, he just knew like there was nothing that he knew everything because I would always miss the days of me stripping and all that. So you were doing, but you and you were still like doing like phone sex and stuff. Did you have like your online accounts where you're doing like only fans as well then or no? with that in that relationship. Yeah, I was, I was doing only fans and all that, but he didn't like, it was weird because he knew, the last ex-husband knew when I danced, he knew when I did bachelor parties, but he didn't like

the fact that I did only fans. It was, that to me was very, very weird. And he felt embarrassed. And he felt embarrassed that I had like a social media presence. And so it was that that he felt like ashamed of me. And so it kind of. Yeah, that's more so that he cares about. what other people think because when it came down to what he thought he didn't care he liked you he

accepted that but somehow he was one of those people that really cared about what other people thought because that's why he gave a shit yeah that was his big thing he was so worried about what other people went what if somebody finds out about this and what if they find out about that and I'm like I really don't you know what I'm saying obviously you don't care right because you're very out with who you are and everything and you have kids you've been married before so everybody kind of knows including family, like what you've done, what you do? My kids know what's up. Both of them are adults. The only person now I hide stuff really would is from my mom, because then I'll tell you the story. Like I hide little stuff from my mom. When I was younger, when I was stripping, I would get

t-shirts from all these strip clubs. And my mom would beg for these t-shirts. She's like, I need these shirts so I could sleep in them or whatever. And I remember coming home one day from like these, because there was a time period where I was working in Miami when I was in Florida. And I came, I drove to my mom's house and I see the neighbor to the left walking up to her house and the neighbor to the right. And they're both wearing these shirts that have strip clubs that I've worked at in various parts of Florida. And I go, and I'm kind of embarrassed because the guy to the left, he's known me since I've been like 14 years old. And then the guy to the right is still like, like mom, you know, boundaries. He's like, what the fuck?

She didn't know. And my mom's got a big freaking mouth. And I said, mom, what the hell? She goes, oh, well, they did this favor for me. And the other one did this favor. And I'm like, you know, I was like, that guy's known me since I've been 14 years old. Like, you know, so that's why I, the only reason I don't tell my mom is not because I'm a shame is because I don't want the neighbors to know. Right.

She's got a big mouth. Oh, she's got a horrible mouth. Right. She's got a horrible. Okay. And your kids, like, it sounds like you started all this stuff like when they were super. young. So was it just something that they just like always knew about their mom? It wasn't like you had to sit them down one day or whatever. It's more like, you want me to pay your tuition? You know,

this is what I do. But I'm just saying, like, was there a sit-down time where you told them when they were at a certain age or was it something that they just kind of always knew because they live with you and you're there and your other mom? Like, how did they find out? Or did they just always know? Because this is like a part of who you always were. Well, the part of who I always knew. The oldest one went to Catholic school. The oldest one, like, believe it or not, the oldest one so, she is gay. She is very conservative. Like I'm going to go visit her in Hawaii.

And she's, she's read me her rights how I have to behave. That's a kid. You know what I'm saying? Like, she's like, you can't do this. Mom, you can't do that. I was like, what do you want me to freaking do? You know, no tea bags on the beach. But she's the opposite of you.

She's opposite. You know, but she is a gay. She is a gay woman. and I have a daughter-in-law too. So, but she's, I raised conservative, but she went to Catholic school and, you know, I was like one of the only single parents, but, you know, she knew eventually what I did and, you know, her college was taken care of and, you know, she, she, and when she went to school is a different era.

Yeah, yeah. Let me ask you this about, like, because, like, you know, you had those three release of, none of them were you were, like, swinging with any of them. those people, but you consider yourself a swinger. Have you ever, like, gone to Swinger clubs, like had threysms been in like those kinds of experiences in your life, whether it was like a solo or with other people that you were with or recently? Oh, all the time. Oh, okay. Every weekend. Every weekend if I could. Okay, when does that start though? I'm trying to like, listen, I can never stay totally chronological. You had like three marriages. Like, when do you wind up like getting

into the Swinger world? Like, when did that start? Even if it didn't happen. Yeah. there's been often on times. Okay. And then of course, never with family, not even with my cousins. It's weird. Like I don't even discuss shit

when my, even my cousins. Most people don't talk about their sex life with their people. Even vanilla people, you don't need to. It's not,

no one's business. Yeah. Even when my cousin that I dance with, like, yeah, even I have to tell people like that. Like, even my cousin I dance

where we don't discuss this. Of course. Yeah. Your regular vanilla cousins who fuck missionary still aren't telling you that they're doing that either.

So why should you? You tell them. You know what I mean? It's no one's business. No one talks. Most people don't discuss those things with their relatives. Right. So it's been off and on, I believe it or not, I'm not a drinker.

I don't like to drink alcohol. So I find that the swingers club are kind of better because there's no alcohol, really. It's like usually a B-Y-O-B situation. Yeah. So and it's kind of, and then I don't have an issue like going to them. Moving to New York, I didn't really find the scene. It's better. It's like when I lived in L.A., L.A.

L. had some awesome parties before the pandemic. Yeah, but how did you get into it? Like, when do you remember getting into that world? Oh, okay. I'm trying to think of the first, very first, God damn. Like, was it a guy that you were dating that got you into it? Were you and your friend from the stripper club, like, Newville Place?

Like, how did you wind up in your first swinger club? And Florida girls would go to them because it would be like an after-hour situation in Florida. Okay, yeah. Florida is a mecca. Yeah, you would go. and always the Canadians were always, I would be friends with Canadian dancers and they would, that was just the thing to go to for the Canadian dancers. And then I remember I was, when I first moved, there was a point when I first moved to L.A. that I was like in 2000, I want to say eight. And I just was like, kind of over dating these vanilla guys. And I was like, you know, I was like, I'm tired of these vanilla guys getting jealous. I go, let me go, hand. out with and I thought back to the Canadians and how open-minded they were back in Florida. I was like, let me just go and I joined a site called Lifestyle Lounge that's only popular on the West Coast.

It's not like SDC because it's only popular on the West Coast. SDC is popular everywhere. Yeah, yeah. And I joined that and I met a group of people. And I started, that's when I discovered like the California air. That's, you know, I went back again in 208 and I started hanging out and going to the California party. Right. So it started, you know, first in Florida when I was young, like 1819, took a break and then back again in 208. Okay, guys, you know what March is? It's like the month of a National Woman's Day.

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California parties. Right. So it started, you know, first in Florida when I was young, like 1819, took a break and then back again in 2008. Now, would you be going as a single woman? And like when you would get there, like, what were you down for? Were you into guys? Were you into girls?

Were you into couples? Did you do it all? Like, what was your thing? I've always fluctuated, like where stuff has changed. Very first time that I used to go, I just wasn't really like when I was, the younger I was, the less curious I was. It sounds kind of weird. No, I think that sounds more normal.

People, I think people grow and change, you know, and they get kinkier as they get older. Yeah, when I was young, I didn't really care. I would just hang out with friends or whatever. In 2008, I was more into the couples because I just, I like the security with the couples. And I thought it was like a beautiful thing with the couples. And then, you know, when I got with my last husband, I spoiled him way too much. And then I got turned off. What does that mean? Huh? What do you mean you spoiled him? Like having three sons? Yeah, he had 20 different threesomes, and it was never enough with him. It was never enough. He was never, like, he was. Was it only with women? Yeah, it was only.

And then one day I came home from work, and I was stripping. And then there was a girl sitting there, and I was like, totally sick. And then he got mad at me. And he goes, oh, you just do this because you're trying to trap me or whatever. And I go, dude, I'm sick. We did not discuss this beforehand. And I was, like, pissed afterwards. And that was the very last time I don't really follow that story.

Why is the girl there? He invited her. He invited her behind my back. So why does he think you're trapping him? Because I had all these threesomes and he thought I was trapping him into marriage. I don't even understand what that means. He's married to you. You're bringing girls into him and he thinks you're doing that just to keep him there.

Is that what he's saying? Yeah. Yeah. Oh, and he thinks you're not really into it just because that one day you were sick. But he got so spoiled and he started taking. advantage of it to the fact that all of a sudden before we you know like as a couple you want to discuss these things of course and yeah and so what he he just started like taking advantage of the situation and going behind my back and that's when when somebody starts taking advantage of a

situation and going behind your back that's when the other person like loses it and doesn't want to do it well it never makes sense to me when I hear of these stories where somebody has a total free pass I mean, here you are a woman, like bringing other women into your relationship. I mean, every guy should be fucking happy with that. You know what I mean? You're kind of like giving him a lot. So why would he ever go and do something behind your back? But I hear it all that.

Like, I've heard that story, right? And you just, I never understand it. Like, why would you do that when you have a free pass? And you could fuck girls anyway. Like, she's allowing you to. Why would you go do it behind her back? Doesn't make sense. But some people just like get off on doing what they want to do and doing it behind someone's

back. You know, then that's someone that should not be in the lifestyle. Because the lifestyle is all about trust. Like, you can't be. with something. But that kind of person is not like, it will never make it in the swing of world because it's about being open and honest and communicating. You know? Yeah. Yeah. Exactly. And exactly.

And if you can't communicate first like that in the swing or so you, it just, it just doesn't work. And he, that's why we're not together because every, every situation, he even did that with anal. You know what I'm saying? He didn't even discuss. And there was a point. He just shoved it in. He shoved it in. And then he's like, and I go, dude, you need to warn me about anal. You know, you can't just shove it in when you feel like anytime, you know. And I'm not a 24-hour self-cleaning onion, you know.

Yeah, no, it's terrible. I mean, that's why so many women don't like, I mean, I'm a three-hand-book girl. I love anal, but, like, I always took control. Like, that dick was always in my hand and I put it in when I, and I push it in when I feel like I were. But, like, I feel like most women out there don't like, you know, because some guy did what your guy did. And they just shove their dick in them in one second. And, like, it's like, I always tell guys. like why don't you do that to yourself?

Like go home, just shove it something up your ass like in one second before you're turned on and tell me if it feels good. Well, that's why I love SDC guys because they are the best ones because you can say, hey, give me a day, give me two days. You know what I'm saying? Like they were the best ones on SDC about anal. Any other guy sucks. Yeah, because they're like professionals and they know the deal. But you're, you are. All right.

So that guy just sounds like a jerk. But like, did you ever have a good relationship with a guy in the lifestyle? You know what? My best relationships have been honestly the friends would benefit guys. Right. It was before I was married to the last dipshit. And then recently I've come across, I don't want to say how many of them. Why not? I don't want to out myself. Why not? Because you have so many at the same time, you mean? I don't feel bad. Like, I really don't want to. I mean, you're obviously, I would assume you're not. None of them think they're the only one, do they? I don't know. They do. But they. They could.

I mean, somebody that's talking about trust and honesty. I know, I know, I know. I don't. Come on. I do kind of let them know. Let me tell you. I always had a ton of booty calls and I always told them straight to their face. Like, listen, I'm begging other people.

And no guy cares. Okay, they don't fucking care. But it's much better. And people would be like, how do you roll with all these guys and no one gets mad at you? Because I'm like, because I'm fucking honest with them. And so, and that's the same with girls. I've been honest. Yeah.

Yeah, yeah. I mean, you don't need to throw it in their face. And obviously, none of them think that you're their girlfriend, right? And so you could go do whatever you want. How many guys are you rolling with right now? Just tell us. I have to count. Like four.

Okay. So, yeah. But one of them, like, you know what? Sometimes I'll get rid of one or two. And they don't even realize, like, I'm like, oh, you just did something. Because I'm a Gemini. And if you say the wrong thing to me, you're out. Okay.

You know, like you say something wrong or you just don't respond to me fast enough. or you, then you're out. You're out. You know what I'm saying? And I'll just, and I'll never again screw you and all that. And, but you know what's, I'll have to say it's my best relationship ever. With the four guys or with one of them? There's one that's the best?

Right now there's a competition between two. And I had to tell a friend of mine, I'm like, I don't know which one. I said, well, this one's got this good going for them, but then this one's got this good going. for them and the this one's got good and I'm like in third place you know this person's got you know know like I could give medals and you know what I like is one like I swear you know how like guys lie about height yeah one I'm like you cannot be six foot one you know he seems shorter no taller oh interesting and and then you cannot be eight inches you have to be bigger you know he has to be bigger he has to be like that's he has to be like I

sort of like, it's like the opposite of like, you know, you know how the guys lie and they know. No, that's why I thought he was shorter because that's what they typically do. They say they're taller than they really are. I'm like, this one has to be bigger and taller, you know, so it's like, that's the good point. But yeah, one, right now I come like, there's two that like are my favorites. Okay. Now, are either one of them in the lifestyle? Is that? Oh, yeah, both. Okay. All of them. Oh, okay. Yeah, because you know what? I had a hinge nightmares. And And after that, I said, I deleted it. And I said, what the hell am I doing?

Mm-hmm. You know, I was like, never again. You know what I'm saying? I'm not dealing with this hinge bullshit. Right. And that's when you went on SDC because you were telling me you like SDC. Well, I've been on SDC for a while. I would just take breaks and then not pay for it.

And then I was like, because be honest, in New York, SDC, the couples are not, me and another unicorn, we discussed it, that there's not really that many couples on SDC. Okay. There's, but the single guys, and I even said this to a single guy, I go, why are the single guys better than the couples? Yeah. There's like, more couples, you know, so the single guys, they are more honest and they're transparent. They're just telling you the truth.

You know what I'm saying? And they're not douchy. So where do you meet the guys that you're with now, the two guys? SCC. Oh, okay. So you met them on SDC. And they're from New York. Yeah.

Okay, cool. And do you, do you go to swinger clubs with them, swinger parties? No, not with them. What I've usually done if I've gone with other single girls or I've gone with couples. Okay. Or I did go with one single guy to a place. Yeah, I did go with one of the single guys to a place. Yeah, I've just remembered that.

Okay, but now that you live in New York, you go to the clubs here. Yeah, checkmates. And that's my favorite one so far that I like because the owner lets the single girls like go in for free. There was another place that made me pay and I think, forget you. I've had like people from top floor on then the sanctum girl was on my show yeah yeah you know them right did they let you go into one of their parties for free no no no no I'm waiting for them to respond to me I don't know like so let's see if I go there my friend at one of my the single guys that I know asked me to to go like he likes top floor it's supposed to be a great party yeah he said it's a great party so I I emailed them, so we'll see. They've been on my show, so that's all I know. Yeah.

And then there's Sanctum. I don't know if you've had her on, Desiree. A friend of mine works for Sanctum, so I don't know too much. But Checkmates, I like, because the owner, he's been cool with me. That's the place, you know, for single, I'm a single girl in New York, and I'm going to say that I'll have to shout out checkmates as a single girl. I like that. Is that's the only one that is a single girl. They're letting me in, you know, these other places, it's like red tape.

You got to be a couple. Well, not that. It's like red tape. You know what I'm saying? No, I don't know what you're saying. They don't allow single women or single guys. They only allow couples. Well, when I say red tape is I email checkmate.

I show them my picture. They let me in. The other places, there's like a whole process. There's not a process for a checkmate. But, you know, you can Google who I am, Marcel Alonzo. and they do screen for checkmates and they got back to me and they've let me in and I've been there multiple times without the other places I've emailed I haven't heard back. So, you know, I don't know what the deal is. So I don't, you know.

So walk me through like your typical night if you go to like checkmates. Are you hooking up with tons of guys? Are you hooking up with couples? Or you're hooking up with women? Are you doing gang beings? Like what do you like to do if it was like the best, like one of your great experiences at your. at checkmate. It just depends.

I've gone with other single girls. One night, I usually go, I've gone with three single girls, two single girls before. One time I went with this one crazy girl from Puerto Rico, we had fun, and she was an exhibitionist. And we weren't even drinking, and we just had to go to town. We brought, like, it was the week the new mayor came into town. And it was crazy because we brought a single guy that looked like the mayor. And we fucked him. What was it, Madonna?

Right? And we fucked him. And I didn't realize he looked like the mayor until I looked at his face. And I said, oh my God, you look like the mayor. The mayor. And you both fucked him. We both fucked him in the middle of checkmates. That was fun.

Oh, funny. Yeah. Yeah. So we started. Yeah. And we were all sober. Right. Because you were always sober, you said.

I mean, you do everything. Sober, right? Yeah. Everything's sober. Yeah. Just I don't like to drink. Right. Mm-hmm.

Yeah. And so have you ever done a gang bang bang? Do you like to do two guys at the same time? I would like to do. Yeah, I've done two guys multiple times. But that's kind of hard always to find two guys. It's not so easy. I wish it was easier.

Yeah. Do you get hit up a lot because you're kind of like a unicorn? Like, do you get hit up a lot by couples? Oh, my God. Considering you're a single woman. I do and I wrote a piece about it. I have a substack. So I write a lot on my substack to give people advice on how to do that,

how to like hook up but I always get couples hitting me up but I sometimes they're like rude about it and they shouldn't do this they shouldn't be like oh I want to surprise my husband or oh like or it'll be the husband and I just I put on my profile like the woman needs to hit me up because one time I had a couple fight in my living room yeah no it's terrible you got you I think you learn everyone learns the hard way like you know you got to like sort of uh you vet them properly. And I think most people learn by having a bad experience like you had, right? Like, oh my God. Oh, my God. No, they started fighting. And that was the guy initiated it. And then the girl, the girl attacked me and she kissed me and everything. And I thought everything was cool. But the moment the guy touched me, she went bazooka on me. And well, on him and they started fighting in there. And then that's when I was like, I put on my profile as like, listen, have the female half. Reach out to me. And then I just put, please. have the female half. And then also, you know what, if the guy's reaching out to me and the woman

hasn't seen me, any guy, you know what I'm saying? Like, any guy, I can have any guy, right? But I rather have the woman want me versus the guy. Does that make any kind of sense? Yeah. I mean, that's how you roll. Yeah. And no, it's important. And you're a girl's girl. Like, you don't want to piss somebody off like that. I mean, you understand you're a woman. You don't know what, like you're projecting onto them. Like, you don't want to make them feel back. And when I was a stripper, and when I was a stripper, the way to the wallet was to go to the wife. Right. You should have said. And you didn't approach the guy or whatever.

And that's how I first learned about couples was from dancing. Right. And so the woman, it would always be, and I always called them pre-swingers back when I used to dance. But I would go to the woman and you'd always have this horny, like, bisexual woman. And she'd be before you know what she was the one and the husband's pulling her out of the strip club like no more. I love those types. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So you know, like, you're right.

Because listen, there's a lot that are like they say buy for the guy for their guy, right? They don't really, they're not really there because they're into women, but their guy wants them to. And you could smell those from a mile away, right? And that's not what you want. Right. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

And then the cock hole thing, though, has been really new for me this past couple years. And I've like sort of now, like, I realize, like, that's who I need to settle with. I need to settle with a cup. Meaning you want a guy that allows you to go and fuck other guys. Yeah, I realize, well, I realize because of the fan base that I have, like, I'm not trying to say like I'm a big, you know, a celebrity or whatever, but me, the fact that like I'm sitting home all day and doing video calls and guys are calling me and I do have guys send me stuff. I need a guy that can accept that. And maybe you get turned on by it. That would be like the plus.

Right. And I have a high sex drive. You know what I'm saying? Like I can be loyal to one guy and I can be I love being faithful and loyal to one guy But you know I need a guy that's just that knows I'm gonna be loyal and faithful to him You know but I kind of need him to be a cuck if it's gonna work out yeah well the good news is it turns out that so many guys have that kink you know what I mean like for sure like they're like really into it So I mean it's not like you know there's a girl Venus cuckledress you ever have her on her show you should go on her show That is my sister she's been on my show but but

vice versa. Oh, I was going to say, because you should be in her database. You should be in her database. She's got the cucks. No, I haven't been on her show, but she is, I swear to God, she is like my sister from another mother. Yeah, I love that. Me and her are so much alike.

Uh-huh. We both have been watching Heated Rivalry. We both love Anthony Joshua. I love her. Oh my God. I love her. Yeah, yeah. Well, she, you know, she like knows, she has a lot of guys.

And, you know, I think there's a lot of guys out that. Like, she started a little bit like of a dating service, you know, to kind of like match up women with guys and stuff. and that's what you need. You need her to send you a cock in your neighborhood. You know what I mean? I feel like there's a lot of them out there. I mean,

you have a very big following. Let's talk a little bit about, like, what you do on only fans and where people can find all your stuff? Like, what do they see on there? Like, what kind of content you do? Because you do have a very big Instagram and you do have an audience and a platform.

So, like, how did you get all that going? Well, I've always been since the Myspace days. I don't know what it is. I'm good with social media. Uh-huh. And I am good because I guess because the stripping I love talking to people. Yeah, you engage.

You're engaging. Yeah, so I love, and I always remember people's names, like what they do for a living, who they are. And so since my space days, I've always been good with social media. So, you know, I built it up. And having social media, making money on it, you know how it is with a podcast. It's a daily thing. Yeah. No, but you, like you said, you obviously enjoy it.

You're a people person. You've been doing this. And, you know, you don't build a big Instagram. and a big only fans or any kind of platform on your own unless you are tending to it 24-7, right? And you obviously have that in you. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's a daily thing. Yeah, exactly. I'm lucky to bless to do it at home. You know how it goes. Yeah, of course. Yeah. And I do have an only fans. I personally, I love sex pan for over over, over, over-onle fans. Oh, good to know. Okay. I love sex. Only fans I still use. I answer or I talk to. My thing is what I like, oh, I do do customs if people ask for it. But I, I love doing my video calls. I love chatting with people. That I like more. I hate doing collabs with other, I do them, but not so much. Just because it's a pain in the ass to do collabs with people. Right. Because you have to go get testing. I live in New York. There's not a lot of other creators. I'm real picky sexually who I'm going to be with and some of the, you know, like I have to

be real, like I have a preference who I'm going to sexually be with. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, of course. It's just a pain in the ass to collab. Right. You're not going to do it just for work or like that. You're not going to create content just to create content. You want to be actually interested in the person and you're just not into anyone. Yeah. Yeah. Like I don't know.

Like I love to work out, but I'd hate to teach aerobics. Yeah, I get it. Yeah, for sure. So that's kind of why I never did porn. Like I love having sex. But like to really like perform is, you know, it's work. It's work. Right.

You know. And so, and then the guys that I've met, like I've even asked them like, hey, can I videotape the blowjob? And they're like, eh, I don't know, you know. But when someone gets you on Sex Panther, right? And they could do a video call with you. Like, walk me through, like, that experience. Like, what goes down?

Do you, are you, like, do you take clothes off? Or, like, I mean, what, like. Oh, yeah, I take clothes off, depending on how long they are. They're usually jerking off. We've gone through their fantasies. Guys have, you know, a lot of guys, they can just tell me whatever. They're comfortable. Guys have admitted their fetishes to me.

They've shared personal things with me about their family. experiences. There's even, I've had personal relationships, you know, virtually with people, people that have lost family members, gone through hardships in their life, you know, different things through the years I've talked to people. People've called me about my podcast, people, all different things. Right. You know, but they can if they want to go, because you did talk yourself up about how great you are talking dirty and stuff. I mean, they can get, it's more than phone sex at this point. It's like a, it's like a, it's like a, a lot of FaceTime call, right?

Kind of thing. It's like live cam with one-on-one with you. Yeah. And I'm good. I'm very good dirty. And like, I just love it. I miss, I miss giving the lap dances.

I mean, what is the cutoff age of dancers? Like, don't they have any, I mean, I don't miss, guys love milts. Like,

they don't have any milts in there? Physically, my body can't handle it. Physically my body can't handle it. And, you know, like I could go up in there and I did go to like a,

lap dance place in New York and I just my body couldn't stay up late and I was like I can't do this. Oh yeah I got it. Yeah. It's it's not you know it's the only reason it's a young girls game is because your body physically cannot take it right because you're up on your feet for that long. Yeah and the high heels dancing and the pole and I mean it's work it's a workout. It's up there with being an athlete. And it's nothing against a woman's age for dancing. It's sort of like playing football. You know, you don't see any 45-year-old football players, you know, getting beat up. So it's, it's, I love stripping. I miss it. I will always identify as an ex-stripper, you know, and I don't regret it, and I brag to everybody. But I love the aspect of it. But also, I'm doing a substack where I'm sharing a lot of,

like, I'm writing a lot about my stripping days. I'm sharing a lot of, writing a lot of articles about, like, when I went to Desire, I went to a Swinger's Resort. How was that? Who did you go? my ex-husband, which I want to go again with somebody else that's more fun. Yeah, so your ex-husband went with you, though, to desire. He didn't let you hook up with anyone? Oh, he just, I didn't have a very, I wrote more about, like, the inside of it and the logistics of it. But with him, we didn't, he was just no fun because he just thought I was weird because I wanted to go to his place like that. Oh, and he didn't enjoy it.

He enjoyed it because he played sports. you know, he was waking about 6 a.m. playing volleyball. But weren't there people banging around him like he wasn't into that scene? No, he was not into it. That's my scene. Right. That's me. I'm the dirty one.

I'm the dirty one. So he was the one dragged along. It's like the opposite of the man and woman, right? You were like the guy in the relationship. I am. I am. I'm the dirty. Yeah, I'm the sick one.

So what's like what do you like you're, like you have all these guys you're dating. now and I'm going to put like your sex panther and we'll give a shout out again to your podcast and all the links for people to find you but like right now like what are you looking for do you just looking for like are you happy with your friends with benefits would you like to meet like a guy who is a cook and have a relationship with him and but also get to do all the things that you like to do at the same time like what is what are you open for to right now I would love to have one guy yeah right that I could have fun with I'm not looking to get married again

yeah that would be number four yeah you know be like way too much but I like have one guy that I could go places with but he would just have to accept me but I just think it would be hard but also I don't want to you know I don't want to pressure a guy I don't want to like be you know I don't and I don't want no games or no BS so that's I would just like one guy that would be it and then we would both be you know but he would have he had to you have to be into the shit I would be into he'd have to be open and be down and be turned on by the fact of the stuff that you do and there are plenty of guys out there. I'm trying to play matchmaker for you right now because I have a lot of

listeners and a lot of guys are listening. So I'm like, you could go see her on her Instagram. If you want to hook her up, email me up. I'm trying to make a match. I'm trying to make a match for you. You are looking. I'm like, hundreds of emails and all that. And guys are like, oh, the perfect match. I'm perfect match. I'm like, no, you don't, you know, I'm a lot. I get it. I get it. Yeah. I mean, it's like easier said than done. I get it. I mean, all the start, like the reason why people hook up with people are. settle down is because when you finally meet someone like who is the one you settle down because you know it's hard to find right so but you are open to that that's the whole point you are open to that

which is interesting and you're at that place in your life where you would like another guy to have a relationship with yeah it just have to be better than the last three would you ever get married again do you think oh that would be a lot of thinking thinking thinking thinking thinking i have to meet the person have the way have to you know what i'm saying yeah it'd be a lot of thinking think you do. I don't know. Fourth time of charm, you know. I've had people on that fourth time. Oh, Lord.

So listen, give a shout out to your podcast, to your substack. Do you have a website? Like, what's the best link to give people to find all yourself? Marcella, Marcella, Marcella spelled with 1L, Marcella, S-O-B-E-L-L-com. And my IG is Marcella Sobella. And on Marcella Sobella, you will find all of my social media, you will find my substack, you will find my only fans, you will find all of that. Sex pamphor is spelled S-E-X-T pamper, like the, you know, the animal pamphor.

And I'm under Marcella Alonzo there. And they could book you for however long they want, right? Like that kind of thing. It's just like timed. Yeah. Interesting. And your only fans and they could like do custom, like where do they do customs and stuff like that? Through your only fans?

They go to I lovemarcella.com. Okay. Oh, okay. Cool. So it's all there. I bought that domain too. Oh, smart, smart. And then you have your Instagram, right?

All the links are, I'm assuming, are on your website. And then you have your great podcast where people can hear you interviewing people, all kinds of people over there. And then if they want to date you, they have to email me. Yeah. Yeah. And then if anyone wants to date you, I'm going to have them email me and I'll send them your way.

I'm trying to make a hook up here. I have a guy that I'm trying. I have a guy named Adam who's been on my show and he'll be right my book actually. and he's in New York and he dated a really promiscuous woman that was his whole thing. And I'm trying to hook him up too. And I'm like, oh, I don't think that you guys would be the right match. But I'm like, I feel like I'm trying to start like a matchmaking service now. People are hooking up on my Discord.

So we'll see if I could get you a guy. Because it's like funny that like there's so many guys that have this kink where they would love a girl that's down with all these guys. So I feel like, you know, what you're into. It's not hard to find. So, you know, we'll say. They say it. I know. I know what you're saying.

And they can. I can't, because I went on a date with a guy that said he was a cuck, but then he tripped out that I was married before. And I only shared one marriage. And I was like, oh my God, imagine if they knew. Yeah, I was like, how is this guy a cuck? And then he can't handle one marriage. Yeah, no, that's a little weird. Yeah, that's a little weird.

Yeah, well, yeah, I don't get it. Well, anyway, listen, if anyone listen to, I have a great guys that listen to my show. So if anyone's listening, like, Marcel, you can email me or go to her website and email her or get a, Panther and talk to her there. But anyway, I'm going to put your links in the description so anyone driving doesn't have to remember everything that you said. If you could send me a couple of hot picks of you for my Patreon, I mean, you're out and proud so they don't have to be anonymous, but for my Patreon, like regular picks

are good, like nothing, like something sexy, but nothing without like showing nips or anything, you know? Oh, that's easy for me. Yeah, I got funny. Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly. I mean, I could even take it from your Instagram. But if you could send ones that you want, like two or three, that would be great. and then I do have a Discord

you'll get free access to it and I don't mind like if there's a content creator section in there I do not mind people going in there and promoting their stuff you could go in there as yourself and put in your bio like links to Sex Panther and all that stuff so people can find you you know so you'll get free access to that

and like I said I have a content have so many different channels it's very X rated over there you can put whatever you want over there to tease people to get people over do your thing and there is like a whole content creator section as well as a guest channel section that you could go on to and post whatever you want and you could promote your stuff and put your links in your bio. So feel free to do that if you want. That's optional. That's for

you if you want to. You'll get free and it's private. No one gets in unless they get the link from me. But I have over 6,000 people over there. So you could do your thing if you want. You'll get free access to it when we get off the phone. You'll get an email with the link. Okay. Okay. All right. Awesome, Marcel. This was fun. Thanks so much for calling in. All right. Thanks. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it.

The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gang being girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person. And they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe. right, but these are true stories. 17 of them. They're really short chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback

format, paperback format. And finally, the audio book is available coming out August 25th. But you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint. point, okay? There's no way you get into my Discord any other way than getting the link from me, okay? I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there. Everybody shares content with each other, and that's what you get to do there. You could post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you can win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total, strictly anonymous community, and you will love it. I will be giving anyone

who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the ebook, or the paperback. Send it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. That's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. And I will send you the link to Discord. So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in. This is the Strictly Anonymous podcast.

Okay. I just want to tell you before you go. that I do have a book. The book is called Shirkley anonymous confessions, secret sex lives of total strangers. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuckold story. There's a gang bang girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person, right? So I took the interview and I rewrote it in the third person. I wouldn't call it like an erotica book,

though there's plenty of sex in there, right? But I didn't write it to sound like erotica because that's like the vibe of my show. You're going to learn a lot. You're probably going to get a little turned on. It's a different way to hear these stories, like I said, because they're written out in third person. There's an e-book available if you don't want your partner to know that you're reading my book. Get the e-book. It's available. If you buy my book in any format, I will throw in a complimentary a link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint, okay? There's no way you'll get the Discord and go in there and be like, oh, this sucks, okay? It's like pretty amazing. There's tons of people on there and everybody shares content with each other. That's what's great about Discord. You get to

post your own videos and pictures and there's tons of channels and we have contests over there. It's a super fun place to be. I will be giving anyone that buys my book at any time access to my Discord. It is private. It's the only way you could get in is through me giving you the link. And that's why I think my Discord is so great because I have vetted people. It's not like it's just open to the public. So everybody that's in there are people that listen to my show. And people that listen to my show are fucking great. So my Discord is fucking great.

My book is great. You're going to love it. If you buy it, all you got to do is send me the receipt or a picture of proof that you bought it. And I will give you free access to my Discord. Send it to Strictly Anonymous Podcasts at Gmail.com. You could find my book in the link in the description. Okay. Or just Google it.

Strictly anonymous confessions. Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. You can find it anywhere. You buy books. Send me the picture and I'll give you access to my digital. to my Discord email, strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com. Anyway, thanks so much for listening.