Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1394 - NAUGHTY CONFESSIONS: She’s Now Hotwifing, he Shares his Wife with his Stepbrother?! His Wife Forces him to Hook Up with Guys Plus a Whole Lot More
Episode Date: March 12, 2026Tune in to hear a bunch of naughty confessions then hear Kathy’s take on them. Tune in to hear from a woman is is now hotwfing for her husband, a guy who’s wife “forces” him to hook up with ot...her guys, a guy who hooked up with his friends mom, a guy who’s wife is on HRT and is super horny, another guy who is bi and wants to tell his wife, a guy who shares his wife with his stepbrother, a guy who knows how to have hands free orgasms and then from a guy who wants his fiancé to hotwife but she’’s not into it. The you’ll hear Kathy discuss female led relationships, perimenopause and the horny-ness that ensues, her young booty call guy when she was in her forties and what he allowed her to do to him. How and why women lose their libido in menopause and how they can get it back or not lose it at all, the perfect toy to use to have a hands free orgasms plus a whole lot more. REPEAT THURSDAY, originally aired 06/24 GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://beducate.me/pd2610-anonymous — Click here to take the quiz and get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! https://bluechew.com — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON https://LoadBoost.com — To get 10% off LOAD BOOST by VB Health use code: STRICTLY PikaVibe.com/Strictly — Click to get $15 OFF your purchase Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ X https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else: https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Today is a confessions episode and I have a lot of good confessions for you.
I start out with a female confession.
She's hot wifing with her partner who happens to be older than her.
She talks about that.
That's I kick it off with hers.
Then we hear from a guy who's got a hardcore wife who forces him to have sex with other guys.
And you got to hear the details of that one because she's super hardcore.
Then we hear from a guy who slept with his friend's mother and had an affair with her,
was banging her.
You hear that salacious story.
And then you hear from a man whose woman got into HRT and now she's super horny and they're
like having sex with black guys.
He talks about that.
And then you hear from a guy.
Oh my God.
Him and his wife are swingers.
But they do a lot more.
And one of the most craziest things that they do is he shares her with his stepbrother.
Plus, she's into gangbings, and he talks about what kind of gangbings she's into.
You got to listen for that one.
Okay.
And we hear from a guy who's bisexual and is dying to tell his wife.
Then I talked to a guy who has had hands for orgasms.
And he tells you how he does that.
Okay, that's an interesting one.
And then last, we end with a guy who used to have a girl that would like a hot wife with
him, but he's no longer with her.
His new girl isn't into it.
And I give him some advice.
Now, the way these things are set up is I air the confessions. And then I talk about them and give my
critique. And then you hear a lot of my stories. I do talk about female-led relationships. I talk about
perimenopause. I talk about women in their 40s and how fucking horny they are. And I talk about how
horny I was. And I talk about my 25-year-old guy that I was banging from my gym. I talk about my
experience with hormones and how they totally change the game for me. I talk about how to open up to
your partner and put stuff on the table. I talk about how I've had hands-free orgasms. Okay,
that guy tells you how you could have hand-free orgasms. I'm going to tell you about my hands-free
orgasms. You're going to be interested in that one. And then, like I said, I end with giving advice
on the guy who wants his girl to hot-wife for him. So anyway, it's a super fun episode.
Hope you enjoy it. I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with the first confession.
My name's Amy. I have been in the lifestyle with my husband.
for 24 years now. Started out as a person that just wanted to explore my by-side and did that and
moved on to couples and then moved into the threesomes and now I, hot wife, but it's been a long
journey. My husband is 20 years older than I am, so there's an age difference in all of that.
so it's been an interesting experience.
I'd love to tell you more about my journey through the lifestyle.
Thanks.
I love Amy's confession.
I like when it sounds like the girl takes the lead.
I just aired a couple this week where it was definitely like the girl taking the lead.
Now, I don't know if Amy took the lead in this,
but I'm assuming she did because she said it was she will really want to explore her by-side.
so they started doing all kinds of things and went from one thing to another.
And I wonder if they eventually got to hotwifing because her guy is 20 years older and did he like slow down?
And she was like at her prime and need to fuck more guys.
So hotwifing actually would be a good dynamic for them to take up if her guy slowed down.
Because listen, women in their 40s are really horny.
So if she's like it was in her 40s at some point and her husband was 20 years older,
he's whined it down and she wants to fuck like rabbits.
So it would be great to be able to take hot wife at that time.
I wonder if that's the reason why they did it.
It sounds like they were just exploring anyway and did all kinds of things together.
I'm going to get the full story.
I sent Amy the link to call in to get all the stuff that she did.
And I always love to get it from the woman's side.
I love that she was bi-curious and decided to put it out there and then start doing all that stuff with her husband.
And there's another guy on this call that's bi-curious and wants to tell his wife.
And he's going to be very jealous of Amy because, look, all she did was put on the table.
And then they did everything.
I'm going to get her whole story, so it'll be good.
So stay tuned for Amy's full story.
But I thought her confession was great.
So anyway, on to the next confession.
I'm hoping to get on your confessions line.
Basically, me and my wife have been swingers for a while now.
And recently, she gave me a rule where I'm not allowed to fuck her.
she gets to watch me mess around with other guys first.
So sometimes I'll get home and there'll be another guy there and she'll just be looking at
me expecting me to like surround with them.
And that's not kind of like making out with guys.
Because like when you make out with them.
Okay.
But how do you feel about fucking other guys?
Don't you do a lot more with these guys other than make out?
It's as funny that he ends on how he loves making out with them.
What about all the other stuff your wife supposedly forces you to do?
Where are these women?
You know, before recently, I would have been like, this guy is so full of shit.
Because I just don't think girls are really into being like that.
But I have had two guys on.
And one guy brought his wife on to cop to the whole story.
I have had two guys on recently who were in female-led relationships with women like this.
This kind of setup is like a female-led relationship setup where the woman is very dumb.
And the guy is her fucking cissy slave.
And guys love it.
I just always feel like what girl would want to do that to her guy.
But let me tell you, they exist.
Like I said, I wouldn't believe this guy's confession before I had my two recent guys on and one of them brought his wife on.
And oh my God, she like told it straight.
And the shit that she made the guy do, some might say it's worse than this.
Some might say it's not as bad because this guy's got to like fuck other guys.
The other women in the female led relationships were just like humiliating them in other ways.
but this is an interesting one where she just brings home the guys.
What I want to know, and I think the reason why I do my show,
and I'm typically talking to someone for whole hours,
like, I want to know the backstory.
Like, I know that this is what they're doing now,
but like, how did they get there?
What was that conversation?
Like, there's no way his wife just brought home a guy
and was like, fuck him or I'm not fucking him.
There had to have been some talk.
Are you right?
Like, I mean, how did you morph into this kind of arrangement?
That's very rare.
Listen, it exists.
Like I said, I've had two guys on in relationships like this.
Where there's one, there's many, right?
But it's not so common.
And I just wonder how relationships morph into it.
I get those answers on my regular episodes because I grill people and I go all the way back with this guy.
I'd go all the way back.
And so listen, Guy, if you're listening, I'm going to boss you around like your wife.
Like, email me.
Tell me it's you.
And come on my show and tell me the whole story because I want to know what led to this
arrangement. Somehow you had to say I'm down with it. Somehow she had to bring it up. And was it her? Was it you? Those are the
questions I have. So anyway, on to the next confession. Here's my confession. When I was in college,
and I was like 20. We had this place where we'd go out with the fraternity brothers. It was like a horse
boarding farm. And the lady that was running it, son, he had gone off to basic training. And we would go
out there. I kind of hooked up with one of the girls that worked there for a brief time,
but then we all kept going out there. So we were having a party one night. She was having a party
because she was going through a nasty divorce. Our husband found someone else. I don't know the
whole story of that. So we were having a party out there. And the little sisters had some little
sisters and we were drinking beer and we had some other people. Little sisters kind of little teases
or whatnot. And the mother was there too. So I had a few and we were dancing. It was getting
late. I don't know, it was probably around midnight. I just looked at her and I just decided,
I don't know how drunk I was, but I was a little intoxicated. But I decided as I went up to her and
I just planted one on her. And she was very accepting of it. We were there for a few minutes and
then she said, oh, maybe you didn't have it too much. And she took me off to the side and set me down
there. And then she came back out there and she made all the other people leave. And then she came back in there.
And she's 40 in her 40s and I'm like 21, 2021.
And we had a night of it.
I'm not going to haul of the details, but I ate it.
She loved it.
And then we did that and she got good oral sex too.
And then we had it.
And then we had a, for a month, we had this little fair.
She'd come pick me up at the attorney house and bring me out there and we do it.
And then I got to thinking, hey, this woman's son is my attorney brother.
And this is not going to work.
So I end up end it.
But she ended up having other things with the.
other brothers that were out at the party later on.
But it wasn't me, but I still get righted about what happened at the party.
So I'm kind of like a, again, a little stuff that I tell them I have some sort of brain trauma.
And I can't remember any of that.
But I have some other stories that I could tell, but four minutes is not long enough.
All right.
Bye.
Okay.
Well, I was a little confused of this one.
I thought, is this the mom of the girl that he had hooked up with or some girl?
He said he hooked up with a girl.
Then there's like a bomb of all.
But then at the end, he says this is his friend.
mom, whatever the fact is that it's someone that he knew, whether it was his best friend's mom
or a girl he hung out with, his mother, he wound up screwing. And then did he say at the end that all
his other friends screwed her two? I got to tell you that women in their 40s are just extra horny.
They're like 17-year-old guys. It's a total match up between a 20-year-old guy and a 40-year-old woman.
I've been there, done that, okay? Except my guy was 25 when I think I was like 42.
And it's because a woman is going through peri menopause.
Now, I call it peri fucking menopause because you got a lot of bad things going down during
that time.
But one of the best things you get is you are so effing horny as a woman.
Just constantly, like all the time.
Typically in a woman's life when she has her period, she gets really horny around ovulation
because that's when she could get pregnant, right?
And so that's when your girl is like all over you.
Like she just wakes up and needs to get fucked.
That's when a woman ovulates.
And that comes around like once a month and it's for a couple days.
And then a girl's like kind of horny the rest of the time.
But a woman in her 40s is horny like ovulation horny like all the time.
So a 20 year old who's horny all the time and could go five times a night is perfectly
matched.
Because let me tell you something about guys in their 40s if you're not there yet.
Even the biggest players because I fucked guys that were big players in their 20s and 30s.
And I know them in their 40s.
And they're like one and done.
done. Okay, that's what happens to guys. Late 40s, even the biggest players, they still get horny and they still
fuck once a day. But it's one time, okay? They ain't doing you four times a night, but a 20 year old will and a 40 year old woman
fucking wants it. And I don't know if he was that first guy, that first young guy that that 40 year old woman hooked up with.
And then she went on to all the other guys because she realized like, oh, this is the pool. This is the
pond I should be fishing out of, right? These are the guys that are matched up to my sex drive.
It's not a bad pairing. Okay, so young guys, listen up. You're not looking for a relationship right now,
and you just want to have sex and you want no problems. Go fuck it's 40-something year olds. Trust me.
They're still hot. I didn't even get Botox so I was like 46. I still looked at fucking great in my 40s.
40-year-old women is still hot. They have the highest sex drive. They're going to bang you out,
and then they're going to leave and they're not going to give a shit about anything else.
Okay.
So it's a perfect match for a young guy who's like in his 20s and for the women that are in their 40s and they're like really horny of your single.
Go find yourself a young guy.
I know when I had my young guy, I call him Jim from the Gym.
He was really super hot.
And I was really older than him, right?
And I was embarrassed to be seen with him.
I remember one of the first times we hung out.
He's like, oh, let's go this place like a bar with this.
I was like, I'm not going out with you.
I was very, like, embarrassed of hanging out with them because this is a long time ago, and this was
like before it's happening now. I think I'd be more out and proud now. But like back then, it was kind of like,
you know, it didn't happen much. And I wasn't there to date him. Though I did wind up liking him.
He was like the nicest guy. He was a good guy. You know, he was a good catch for the young
girl that got him. But I wouldn't go out in public with him. But I liked fucking him. And he was a great
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Hey, Kathy, it's Gunner and ZZ. New to your podcast, the last six months or so, I've gotten up to
date on a lot of things and educated myself. We've married a couple decades now, very active lifestyle.
Of course, kids get in the way and things dissipate over time and things aren't as frequent as possible.
However, recently through your episodes, I discovered HRT, researched it, got her on HRT a couple rounds now, and they mentioned about going down in her thing.
And she basically said, no, she likes where she's at.
She's pretty happy where she's at.
It's made a big difference in what's going on between her and I.
Basically, her pussy is wet every day, and she's down every day.
And we're now going from having sex weekly, biweekly to freaking daily, sometimes twice daily.
And she's loving it. And of course, I'm loving it. My libido's been pretty strong over these years.
Recently, the last couple of years, we started playing with big black dildos who are Caucasian.
And we're all playing and saying things in a bedroom to where it's developed.
We had one three-sum last year with a black guy that went so-so.
She actually has some friends on Reddit now.
She's got two guys she found this piece for this week coming up.
Two black guys. They're good friends. One's by, one's straight.
Okay, yes, HRT is going to get your girl back to being horny.
Now, I know I talked about the girl in our 40s who's in pari menopause who's super fucking horny.
Well, once she goes into full menopause, if she's done on hormones, she's going to be really un-fucking horny.
Unless she's banging every day.
Listen, women losing their sex drive completely does not happen to every single woman.
And only women that are in hormones have a libido.
There are plenty of women that don't have to go on hormones and are still horny and stay that way.
And those are typically the women who are still very connected and horny for their husbands and are still having a lot of sex with them.
Unfortunately, what typically goes down on why most people do lose their sex drive is because think about the whole thing.
It's like the perfect storm.
The woman is going through menopause.
And at the same time, she's been with her guy since she's like 25.
She's 50 something.
Been there, done that.
They're banging once a week.
that's probably the norm, but they might not even be doing that. She's not horny for a guy anymore
because, like, who cares? Like I said, I don't know how you could say horny for the same person
for 40 years. That's why I never got married, but I guess people do it. But you're not wanting to
jump their bones all the time. But if you're not jumping their bones all the time, but you're
just like banging once a month or barely anything, those are the women that lose their sex drive.
And most women are there, right? You got a ton of kids. You've got your careers. You've been with the same
guy for so long. There's so many reasons why the sex has gone out the window long before your hormones
have. And then once your hormones go, like I said, it's a perfect storm and you lose it. But the good news is
HRT does 100,000 million percent get it back for sure as long as you're on the right one. And I promise
I am doing that episode. This week I'm going to take my whole fucking journey. Okay. I have tried it all.
Creams, patches, injections, pellets, you name it. Been there, done that. I have a great libido and it
fucking works. I have had women. Google Linda. Linda had a gang bang. Linda went on H.R.T.
had a gang bang at 56. Okay. I had pictures of Linda. She said many face picks of her. She was like
anybody's like mom that you would see at a restaurant. You would never think twice about her.
She was literally gang banging with her husband after she went on pellets. And I ran to go get
pellets. I had my first set of pellets after that episode because I was like,
what the fuck is this? And I've had many other women on who have done H.R.T. And a total
changed the game and obviously changed the game for this woman. It does change the game. It
sounds like he couldn't be happier. I wonder why that threesome with the black guy didn't go well.
I wonder what's going to happen with the two that they met. And he did say, Gunner did say,
I like that name Gunner. I'm going to leave it in there. I'm assuming it's a fake name.
He did say that the one guy is by. So like, are you by Gunner? Is that why that guy is by?
Like he didn't really cop to anything about himself. He was really just telling the
story about how his wife is now super horny after HRT, which I love that story because I think it gives
other people hope, women as well as men, men out there who have women who just don't have a libido
anymore and the guy still has it and he's like, what the fuck am I going to do? Get your girl on hormones.
Now listen, a lot of people, a lot of women won't do hormones because of cancer and stuff and I
get that, but if they're open to it, it really does work. But I wonder, is Gunner buy is Gunner
going to do something with the guy? So listen, Gunner, when you start having some, a couple more
experiences, call in and we'll get the full story from you. Anyway, on to the next confession.
My name is Jane. Me and my wife got into the lifestyle a few years ago. I don't know what exactly
it's called, but my particular thing is I love sharing her with other than men. That's like my number
one thing. And I just want, I have quite a few stories about it. So me and the wife, we've been in
the industry for a while now. I am 28 and she's 30. We evolved into where I would like bet the guys
make sure they're tested and then watch late last and then finally why not find that then we've
all been to doing double vaginal penetration and we tried double vaginal penetration with him and no
condoms and we kept going until we both came and it was quite the experience cream pie gangpa experience
and sharing with the step really hoping to because i would love to share wow okay that's one
that's one to share because it's salacious right uh is fucking his what
like allowing his wife to bang his stepbrother?
How did his stepbrother get in on his action?
Did they always double team girls?
Like, how did that come into the conversation?
I find that super interesting.
I wonder, though, how it was brought up.
And if this was the first time, I don't know.
Like I said, I share it just because it's salacious.
DVP, I've heard that before, DP.
the cream pie gang bangs. Oh my goodness. I shared it like I said because it was salacious and I only
kept getting more salacious like cream pie gang bangs and then DVP like he said he was doing DVP
and he was like oh we'd always do it with condoms so there was no cream pie. What were you doing at
the cream pie gangbangs? Obviously no condoms there. I did email the guy the link to call in so hopefully
we'll be getting his long confession. I shared this confession. Not that I have much to say back to it
except holy shit like that's kind of crazy. It's a crazy story.
I'd love to get the long story, right?
Because it is very salacious.
So that's why I'm sharing it for you.
Hope you enjoyed it.
On to the next confession.
Hey, Kathy.
My name's Jordan.
I'm 34.
I'm from Texas.
But realize that I'm like, I'm not curious and I want to tell my wife, but I don't know how to.
And before, she's asked me before if I was by and I said no.
And I've had you feeling for a long time, but I suppress them, I guess.
But I really want to bottom for a guy.
And I want to give head.
and brought them really bad.
And I brought up pegging to my wife before, too,
and she seemed open to it.
We still haven't done it.
I just want to be fucked like a woman by dude.
Communicate with my wife about this.
I've never even told anyone out loud.
I would almost be open to having a boyfriend on the side.
But anyway, thank you.
Oh, my God, his confessions keep progressing.
First of all, obviously you're a woman.
Like you say that you repressed, you know, this urge,
but really probably not that well, not that good
because your women picked up on it.
That's why she was asking you, are you by?
I mean, she was either asking because she wants you to be
and she's one of those girls who are into guy and guy action.
Some girls are like that.
Or she's like most girls in that she just could tell.
And maybe it's because you brought up pegging.
I think, listen, anytime a guy's going to say to a girl,
hey do stuff to my ass, fuck me in the ass or something. The first thing a girl is going to be is like,
do you like dudes? Now, trust me, I know plenty of guys that have been on my show that have been
into pegging and they're completely straight. One has nothing to do with the other, but sometimes it does
have to do with the other. Like in your case, you want to be pegged and you do want to get fucked in the
ass by a guy. So your wife was right to ask you. You just didn't take that opportunity. That was
your window of opportunity to be like, yes, I am. She obviously,
obviously has an inkling. She didn't shoot down your pegging thing. So this is how you need to bring it up
with her. First of all, don't ever go there and ask her if you could date guys. Okay. No. But maybe you could
start fantasizing about the guy thing with her together role playing. That's the way a lot of things
start out. And the way to do that is you got to get back up on the pegging thing. She didn't shoot
it down, start bringing it up a lot to the point where she turns around and asks you again like,
by the way, are you by?
Because I would assume that's why she's asked in the past.
You need that conversation to come up again.
That's a window of opportunity.
She is opening it and then you need to jump fucking in.
Okay, because she opened it before and you didn't take it.
But it sounds like now maybe you do want to take it.
It was exciting for you to just say it out loud on my show, right?
You're dying to talk to her.
You only live once.
You want to do it.
I get it.
You got to get her to ask you that question.
again, get her to be the one to bring it up by you talking a lot about like getting fucked in
the ass by a dildo. Then she's going to be like, what? Are you by? And then you're going to be like,
yeah, I think I'm bi-curious. Listen, the good news is you're not like a lot of guys on my show
that are already doing things. So you're going to have to lie. Like, it sounds like you obviously
haven't done anything yet with guys. You've never strayed. It's not like you're doing anything.
You're bi-curious. It's not like you've been blowing dudes behind her back. Like a lot of guys are
doing that. Welcome to the real world. Okay, a lot of guys are into guys too. A lot of guys are
by and a lot of them are already doing something about it. You're bi curious. So it's not like
when you put that on the table, you have to tell your girl that you've been doing things or that
you had done all these things and just never told her, right? It sounds like you've just
never done anything. So what are you putting on the table? The fact that maybe you want to try
something? I don't think that that's that big of a deal, especially because she brought it up,
especially because she has some idea in her mind that you might be.
And that might lead to a lot of other conversations, of course,
and you have to be ready for that.
But you need to get back into the pegging and then wait for her to ask you again.
And then you need to say, yes, I'm bicarious.
I have thoughts.
I have fantasies.
There are certain things I would like to try.
And I'm wondering how you feel about that.
That's it.
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ready for that. But you need to get back into the pegging and then wait for her to ask you again
and then you need to say, yes, I'm bicurious. I have thoughts. I have fantasies. There's certain
things I would like to try and I'm wondering how you feel about that. That's it. And then take it
from there. Like I said, at least you haven't been doing anything. So it's not like you're
copying to that much. You're just copying to being bicurious. That's just somebody that's curious.
Most people, by the way, are bicurious. There's that Kinsey scale. Okay.
on one side you have totally homosexual on the other side you have totally heterosexual and somewhere in the middle lies most people
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jump, not on the end. So maybe she'll cop to the fact that she's by too. Who knows? Why was she
bringing that up to you? Maybe she's by and she wanted to put it on the table. So let her ask
that question. Cop to it. Be honest. Tell her your bi-curious and see where it goes and let me know
how it goes. And thanks for calling in and confessing. On to the next confession.
Hey, Kathy. I've been a long time listener and fan of the show. I love your interview style and you
always ask great questions to all the guests. I just wanted to call in real quick.
with a confession that I don't think you've heard of before. I've had what they call
hands-free orgasms for men where you don't touch your dick at all and you can just shoot come
and it's a pretty crazy feeling. And so there's a thing called erotic hypnosis. If you listen to these
files that have the tag HFO, sometimes it'll work. I've probably had about four or five before
and it is a very weird and incredible feeling to come without even touching your dick.
Just wanted to call and hopefully just makes it on a confession.
I'd love to hear your reaction to it and be interested to you with the community.
Think that if anyone else's experiences before, it's a very fun thing.
If any guys are looking for something new to try, it's definitely worth trying.
All right.
Have a good one.
Bye.
Okay.
So I was like, where do you find files that are HFO?
Right?
With HFO, he said, oh, just find some files for HFO to have a hands-free orgasm.
Listen, I'm obsessed with hands-free orgasms, as everybody should be obsessed with them, right?
Who doesn't want to have a hands-free orgasms?
orgasm, it really helps if you're like jerking off right to really believe you're with somebody
else and not yourself. So I am all about hands-free. I will explain how I have had hands-free orgasms.
Lately, now I've been having them with a new toy that I got and I'll explain that in a second. And then
once I almost had one when I was meditating. But these HFO files, I was like, where the heck do you find
them? So I googled a little bit because I'm like, I'm going to help people have some erotic
hands-free orgasms.
And like when I Google, I found them on porn hub.
I found people talking about it on Reddit.
You're going to find information on it.
But where I found one that I listened to five seconds of,
oh my God, was on SoundCloud.
One came up.
And it was called Warning, Best H-F-O, Hypno, Hands-Free Orgasm.
And it was intense.
Lots of weird shit going down that I could see how it could work, right?
because it wasn't just like someone talking or anything.
There was like weird things that are going into your brain.
So I think this stuff could work.
I believe in hypnosis, okay?
I'm not easily hypnotized.
I don't know that I ever can be.
There was a time, okay?
Swear to God, where I was meditating.
Had nothing to do with sex, right?
I was like straight up meditating.
And all of a sudden at all at once, like all this energy in
my body went down right between my legs and there was a buzzing sensation that my brain had created,
just a buzzing sensation in my brain that went from all over my body. It became like a ball and it went
right to the middle of my legs. So it was right there, right on my pussy. And it was buzzing so good
and feeling great. Okay. I could have definitely had a hands for your orgasm, but I got so in my head.
I let it go for so long and it was feeling so good. And once I started to think like, oh my God,
I'm going to come from this without ever using my hands. And this is just like a ball of energy. And I'm going to have an
orgasm. And like those thoughts completely knocked me off my game. I was pissed because it was about to
happen. And I got in my head about it and it didn't happen. And I think that's the key to allowing these kinds of things to work.
Do not get in your head about it.
Like I was like, oh my God, this is too good to be true kind of thing.
When that's what you don't want to think.
I do believe you could have a hands free orgasm.
I told you like that one time I did it somehow in my brain.
I sent all this weird energy down to my pussy and it worked, right?
And I'm assuming that this is doing something like that in you where you are creating
some sort of sensation in your brain that's going to go to your dick.
And it's going to give you a hands for your orgasm.
All I would say to you is don't get in your.
your head about it. Let it happen. Don't start thinking, oh my God, this is amazing. I can't believe
this is going to happen because that kind of shit is the worst for any kind of hypnosis or any kind
of like mind-body thing going down. Like I said, I do believe in this. I've never tried it,
but I believe it can work. Why not? This guy says it's happened to him four or five times.
Please, other people that are listening to this, go listen to these HFO files, do it and email
me and tell me if it worked. I want somebody who's never tried it, who's just hearing about it first on
my show, to go and try and do it. Because like I said, who doesn't want to have hand-free orgasms?
I've heard of guys talking about having hand-free orgasms by getting fucked in their ass, right?
Because it hits their prostate. And so they're not like even touching their dick and they have
orgasms that way, which is super cool. The way I've been having hands-free orgasm is I found this
toy. Well, somebody in my Discord told me about this toy on Amazon. And,
And the only reason why I'm not going to give you a link to it is this toy after one month broke
or else I was going to order them and sell them on my show because it was like the greatest thing
I ever purchased except it's busted and it breaks in one month so it becomes useless.
I'm trying to find the exact toy made by somebody else so I could sell it to you guys
because I'm telling you it was like the clit kisser.
I talk all the time about the clit kiss or how it was like my favorite toy in the whole
world.
It was like on Adam and Eve.
it was like their number one sex toy wants on their top 10 list and I bought it thinking,
okay, I'll just try it. It's number one. How bad can it be? And it was like the best thing ever
that I literally had to throw it out because I couldn't stop using it. This thing is exactly like
the clit kisser. It's this little, it's like a tiny little vibrator that has a suction cup. And
inside the suction cup, it also has a thing that moves, right? Some of them look like tongues.
The one that I had and the toy that worked the best, unfortunately, is the one that broke.
I've tried many since.
I'm just telling you, I'm doing my homework.
I'm trying to find the best one so I could sell it to you guys.
But the one that I bought on Amazon had this thing inside the pump that moves, right?
So you're getting stimulated by this little vibrator that moves that's hitting your clit.
You also have the pumping action over your whole vage.
And so it's like sucking you up.
And once you put it on and you suction yourself in and you start pumping, it stays by
itself because it's like really short. Now, I did go because it busted and broke and I'm like,
I'm not going to sell a piece of garbage to my audience. I have to find another one that's just as good.
And they make a lot of them that look exactly the same as this thing that I use that has a suction
as well as a little vibrator. But the reason why this one was hands free, which to me is the most
important, is because it was very small. So you could suction it up. And then the handle isn't so long
that it doesn't pull it off of you. Do you know what I'm saying? Because I wound up buying another one
that had a really long handle, the same kind of concept, and it would fall off. You had to hold it on.
I'm like, oh yeah, that's because of that long handle. So this thing was so great. Like I said,
you would pump it up and you could suction it. And the suction, like, you just press the button
and it just was suction the whole time. It didn't hurt. The suction didn't hurt at all. It was like
super killer. And the suction is what kept it on. And then you had this vibrator that would like
vibrate the shit out of you at the same time, like on your clitter, wherever you put it on you.
And you could just put it on and then sit back and relax and go to town. And let me just tell you,
I use this thing so much, just like the click kisser that when my guy came over, my booty call guy
came over recently. He tried to go down on me. And I took a really long time for me to come.
Like so long, because I'm like, oh my God, it's my toy. There's nothing that's going to give me the
vibration and the feeling and the sucking of that toy that when he went down on me, I was like,
oh, who cares?
I couldn't get off on it.
It's like really bad, actually.
That's what I never liked about vibrators, because sometimes they kind of like numb you out
to other things.
But it's still good.
I still highly recommend it.
I just say, don't use a vibrator or even a wand or anything like that too much because
if you do, for sure, as a woman, I know for me, you kind of get used to it and then you can't
get off on like regular sex.
I'm sorry, but no man is going to be able to do to me what that toy can do because it's
suctioning and it's vibrating, it's everything. And it is the most intense, amazing thing. But I would
just lay off of it for like three days before you're going to fuck your guy because nothing's going
to compare. But what's great about it is it does give you that hands-free thing. And I love
hands-free, right? I totally get why this guy has been doing self-hypnosis. I don't know how he
figure he found out about this self-hypnosis thing, this erotic hypnosis thing, but obviously he was
looking for some hands-free orgasms. And I get why he was looking for them because now that's
what I'm looking for, okay? Because if my busted toy broke, I'm looking for another one that's made
the same way, the same size, but works just as good. And I have not found it yet, unfortunately.
But once I do, I'm going to pitch a shit out of it. I'm going to do a whole sex toy episode.
because I've tried many and I have many that I could recommend now, but this is the top of the mountain. This one was the top of the mountain. I just got to find the better version. But I do highly recommend these HFO erotic hypnosis, things that are online. Go try them. And then when somebody has the hands free one, like I said, someone who's never done it before, email me and tell me about it. So I know that it actually works because I'll talk about it more in the future because I think it's super interesting. I never heard of this, but I believe in it. And you should. You should. I
too. So go try it out and email me if you have one. And I know I'm going to get emails about people
ask me for that toy on Amazon, but, you know, I'll send you the link if you want it, but I'm going to
tell you that the minute I use it like after a month, it broke. It's garbage. And a lot of people
said the same thing. So that's the problem. That's why I'm not sending it to you. But I am on a mission.
I have bought, I have purchased three more toys since that one, just to find one that works as good. I
I just haven't found one yet, but once I do, it'll be soon.
I'm going to tell you all about it.
Anyway, on to the next confession.
Hi, I heard your podcast today, and thought it'd be kind of interesting to call the
confession line.
A big confession that I had is I am a straight man.
I'm completely straight.
There's nothing at all about other men that turns me on, but I absolutely love watching the person
that I'm with, my girlfriend, have sex with other men.
I don't know why that is.
I went to me, but quite a bit.
I was dating one girl who, what we ended up getting into was me and another guy, both having
sex with her at the same time, or a lot of times just her with another guy while I was
in the room watching, and she might do little stuff here and there with me as well.
But mostly, I can't even begin to describe how hot that's something that's always kind of
got me going.
I'm currently engaged, and the girl I'm engaged to is not into swinging.
She doesn't understand that type of lifestyle and up that life, but I still go through phases
where I have these fantasies who ask somebody with...
Okay, so listen, this guy isn't alone, right?
You see a pattern.
A lot of guys are into banging a lot of other guys.
A lot of guys are into seeing their girl with somebody else.
But this guy, because he sounds young, and because he still has these fantasies hardcore
in his mind, because he's been there.
done that and he really enjoyed it. And now he's married to a woman that's not totally into it.
I feel a little nervous. How long if you're super young can you go the rest of your life,
never living out that fantasy ever? Now listen, a lot of girls are never going to go for that,
right? So I'm not saying that you have to live out that fantasy in real life, but maybe at some point,
if your girl already knows about your past, you could maybe ask her to mock or
up this scenario with you. I had a couple who mocked up the scenario with other guys by buying
like a fucking machine. And once they did that, they were actually on their way to start looking
for other guys. And that's what they were going to get into because he was so into seeing her with
another guy. And in the meantime, while they were like online looking for other couples, they bought a
fucking machine. And once he started seeing her like get fucked by the fucking machine while she was
blowing him and all that stuff, he was so into it that they don't even play with other couples.
And they don't do the hot wiping thing because that was a not.
for them. They do trade pictures and stuff. Sometimes that's like a thing you could do with somebody
that's not totally down to meeting in person is just doing online stuff, sending pictures, sending
videos maybe. But, you know, maybe your girl's never going to get into that. But I think for your
sake, because you have these fantasies in your head and if you're going to sit around thinking about
them all the time, you're not going to wind up, you're not going to wind up cheating on her
to live out these fantasies. And if she's never going to get into it, I do think that there's a
happy medium. Like, why not put it out on the table that this is something I did in my past life?
This is something that I was totally into. I get that you're not into it, but can we mock it up and just role play the fantasy? Now, what I will tell you is that role playing a lot of times years later does wind up leading to the real thing. I've heard it so many times before. But even if it doesn't, if you're like super imaginative and have a good imagination, mocking it up until you come like is great. If you're. If you're like super imaginative and have a good imagination, mocking it up. Mocking it up until you come like is, it's great.
If you could really go there and your girl could go there and you could do really good role play,
it's almost like the real thing. And then you post not clarity, you're like, you're done and
your wife doesn't have to feel bad. She didn't do anything she didn't want to do. You didn't make her do something she didn't want to do and everyone's happy. So I say you might want to bring it up as a fantasy with your wife and continue to talk about it with her. Like I said, she's not into it. You don't need to push her to do it. You tell her I know you don't want to do it. And I totally respect
that and understand that and that's totally cool at me. But can we like roll play it every now and then?
And then see what she says. Because, you know, why not? If you know that it's never going to go
anywhere and it's just for fun, I role played a lot of things in my life that I would never do in real
life. But to me, it was like fun to role play it because then you don't feel weird about yourself.
Sometimes people do certain things. And then afterwards they were like, oh my God, I need to take like 18
showers. Well, if you're just like role-playing it with somebody, you don't have to do that because
it's just made up fantasy lands. And I think that might work and you might have to put that on the
table because it sounds like this is like a real intense thing for you. And like I said,
you're on your way to getting married to someone that's not into it. And I do think maybe you could
let you could get a little bit of that satisfaction that you had before through roleplay.
and I suggest that you bring that up to your new girl at some point.
But like I said, make sure she knows that she's not into it and you're totally cool with that.
And this has nothing to do with doing it in real life, but you would have fun mocking it up.
Start telling her about your past.
Be honest about it.
Anybody that has any kind of fantasy, like for real, there's nothing wrong with telling your partner that you're into something that you'd like to role play.
It's one thing to say that you want them to do it in real life.
If it's hardcore, they might be like horrified.
But if you just put something on the table just to roll play, I think, you know, there's
nothing wrong with that.
All the person could do is say no.
Like worst case scenario, they say no.
And maybe they look at you and say, what the fuck is wrong with you?
I think that's everyone's biggest fear, right?
That they're going to look at you like you're crazy for whatever you want.
But they'll get over it.
No girl's going to leave a guy because he says he's into something that she's not into.
If anything, she's going to secretly feel bad that she can't offer.
him what he wants because she's not into it and she'll feel a little guilty about that, but
she's not going to leave a guy. So best case scenario, though, is that she goes for it and she
wants to role play with you more. Roleplaying is where it's at. Because a lot of times it leads to other
things and a lot of times even if it doesn't, if you're good at role playing, it feels like the real
deal. You can have some fun. You can make up any kind of scenario when you roleplay that you want.
Okay, I like to roleplay. I think it's fun. But I think. I think.
think a lot of people suck at it and that's the problem.
You know, because it kind of is like acting, but not really.
I don't know.
But I think it's fun.
So anyway, I always like to leave the last one, last confession to be one where I give
somebody advice.
Hopefully you could take this advice too.
Anyway, thanks so much for tuning in.
If you have a confession that you want to leave on the confession hotline, call 347-4-203579.
That's 247-4-203-579.
I change everybody's voices there.
Anyway, thanks so much for tuning in.
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