Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1398 - Harmony is Having Threesomes with her Husband & his Married Best Friend

Episode Date: March 16, 2026

THIS IS A GREATTT EP! Harmony is having threesomes with her husband and his married best friend from college and she called in to talk al about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when her husband was having an emotional affair and how they got through it, how the affair led them to fantasizing about bringing someone else into the bedroom, how and when her husband brought up having a threesome with his best friend and how she reacted, how his bestie reacted when he proposed the hook-up, how they wound up having a threesome with him night before his wedding?!, exactly what went down and how she felt the next day at the wedding, the second time they hooked up with him and exactly what went down that time including her first dp, how and why the second threesome was way better then the first, how she eventually started sexting naughty pics via snap the the bestie, the third time they just hooked up with him and exactly what went down and how and why it ended prematurely, how and why they think it ended plus a whole lot more. GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors: ⁠https://inda.shop/STRICTLY!⁠⁠ If you’re 21 or older, get 35% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2610-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://LoadBoost.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — To get 10% off LOAD BOOST by VB Health use code: STRICTLY Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Well, I don't have it. Harmony has it. Okay, my guest Harmony today called and what's such a great story. And she's like, I didn't know if it would be good for this show. I'm like, are you fucking kidding me? Oh my God. At this point, you know, to come in with the story I haven't heard before. It's kind of hard. I've been podcasting for 12 years. I have like 1390 something episodes and this girl. Her and her husband are like in a three, an an a threeple with his best friend and the naughty shit they have done. You just can't make this shit up. I was kind of like at one point in the story because of like the timing of. things. You're like, you can't make this up. This would be in a porn and you'd be like, yeah, it's so unrealistic. But it's no, it's true. Like they fuck their, his, their husband's, her husband's best friend on the night before his wedding and then afterwards and then in a car and then he might have cop feelings. And the whole long drawn out story is like fucking killer. The title says it all. What I just told you says it all. But the details are what kills this, that what, not what kills it. what makes it killer, what makes this whole story killer. Like, you know, how it started, how it progressed.

Oh, and it started actually a couple of years before with her husband having an emotional affair. So that's even an interesting part of the story, which I forgot about because I just hung up and we talked about the whole other part of the story. But, you know, they talk about how they got past her husband's affair as well as how they wound up in bed with her husband's best friend the night before his wedding and then again in their house and then again in their car. And then how and why it's stalled at this point.

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Link is in the description. But anyway, I'm going to get right to it because it's such a fucking killer story. And I'm going to be right back on with Harmony. Hi, Harmony. Welcome to the Strictly anonymous podcast. Kess, how are you today? I'm good. How are you? Good. You have like a really interesting, salacious story.

I mean, it's just like, it's about one thing, but it's happened many times. And really the short story in the title of the episode is going to be like Harmony and her husband are sleeping with her husband's best friend. And like, he's married, right? So like, there's a wife involved and we'll get into all of that, you know, but you're having threesomes literally with your husband's best friend. and we need to know how that happened and that happened right before his wedding and then it happened after the wedding and now it's like a fucking throuple's going down?

Yeah, I guess. I'm not really quite sure what you would consider it. Oh my God, I like the word thruple so I just like to throw it in. Okay, so let's talk about this friend. First of all, how long you and your husband been married for? Yeah, so we've been married since 2012. So, well, actually, we've been together since 2012.

We've been married for like, I guess, yeah, 12 years now. Okay. And is this one of his like lifelong buddy friends from like when he was younger, like typical guys? Met him in college. Yeah. Met him in college. And yeah, they've been best friends since. Okay.

Now, how well do you know his girl? Pretty well. I mean, I know her like, I guess I know her because, you know, he's introduced her to us. She's, I don't know. She's different. Like, I'm not like friends friends with her, I guess you would say. You never clicked on that level, even though they're friends, you guys didn't become besties, but you know her. Okay, cool.

Because, I mean, I just think it's kind of interesting because you do know this girl and you are a girl and you're fucking her husband behind her back. So, you know, people want to know, like, how close are you? Like, are you like literally her bestie looking her in the face lying all the time or like, you know what I mean? Hell no. Do you like her? I mean, I don't say I don't like her. I mean, yeah, I mean, I'm just not like friends with her, I guess. Okay, so you just didn't connect, though, because that's important. Not that you don't like her, but you don't really connect with her. She's not your type of girl. Because typically, if like your husband's best friends with somebody and they marry someone, a lot of times those two girls become good friends. Sure, yeah, but not this case. Not this case at all. Okay, good. Okay. So now, did you and your husband before this guy ever had three sons or anything like that? Like either one of you ever do it together or separate? Never. So we were like super vanilla, I would say.

like basically you know I only had sex with a few people and he had more experience than me so he kind of like taught me the ropes you could say and what kind of really changed that whole thing for us was my husband had like an emotional affair and with like a co-worker and I found out and then you know we talked about it and did some therapy and I basically was like kind of obsessed with the whole idea of him like you know like knowing what he said and all that jazz and And then it was kind of like a thing we talked about in the bedroom and it kind of made our sex life like amazing, like the best it had ever been. And so years passed and like he had said, you know, hey, have you ever thought about this? And I was like, hell no. Wait a second, but I would assume he wasn't cheating with a guy or emotional affair with a guy. So what's getting you off? Okay, but let me ask you this. What's getting you off in the bedroom?

I need details on the cheating thing because that's always interesting to me too, especially because you guys were able to work through it. I always feel like that's interesting. story. So I guess like, you know, like I just wasn't into him as much at that point in our life. We were just kind of going through the motions of life. And he had connected with a lady that he had worked with and they had just texted back and forth. And I don't think she went on anything more, but he kind of did. And I guess I found out about it. And so basically he would just like, after a while, he would just bring it up. He'd be like, oh, do you wish that I was banging her? So it was like you being, it was a little bit of.

of like the cuck queen scenario for you. Yeah, kind of like that. Yeah. And then he started telling me like about the past and like what he did in the past with other women prior to me years and years before. And I kind of just really like enjoyed hearing that and it really got me going. Is that interesting? Yeah, it's crazy.

Yeah. And I wonder if it's like, you know, I wonder which came first. Like did you always have that kink in you or did the cheating kind of feeling? then get flipped around and sort of redirected into being turned on because a lot of times guys who are really into seeing their girls with other people, they have like a cheating background somewhere back in their story that happened to them and they were devastated and then it's like sort of taking that same energy and turning it into a turn on. When I heard that because I've been cheated on, I was like, what a fucking brilliant thing to do? Like I'm never going to be jealous anymore. I'm just going to be

fucking turned on. You know what I mean? And why not it's so much better than being crazy in your head probably like you were after it happened, right? Yeah, exactly, exactly. And so I kind of just changed the whole way I looked at it and it made me feel better and it made our sex life so wild. And yeah, and let me ask you this because, and I love that you were honest and obviously got to the point where you were able to sort of look in the mirror and say like, you're part in the cheating thing that happened, the affair, right? Like you weren't that into him anymore and he was feeling it. I mean, And typically, you know, because a lot of times I feel like in cheating stories, and I like to have cheating stories on my show, because I feel like you really learn from them, you know, and a lot of times in cheating stories or most of the time, it's not like, you know, someone's doing it when everything is great at home. So the other partner, the person who has been cheated on, you know, after they get over feeling terrible and they're the victim and all that stuff, they have to take some accountability for like their part in things, right?

A lot of times it's because they haven't been fucking their partner or they haven't been complimenting them or talking them. or talking to them for the last five years. You know what I mean? There's always a reason. And I think at the end of the day, after you get past that, you have to, you know, the other person, the victim has to take some accountability to. And I love that you did. Like, you threw it out there.

Like you were able to say like, yeah, I took a part in this because you weren't even into him anymore. So what was he supposed to do? And that's, like, like, that's my workplaces when people used to go into offices. So many affairs happen there because it's, of course, like if you're not getting the stuff at home, whether you're a man or a woman, and there's a woman. and there's like someone in the office that you're talking to all the time. He spent so much time with those people.

Like that window of opportunity can happen. Exactly. Yeah. So were you able to come to that conclusion over like therapy? Like how did you get to the place where you were able to be honest about it, understand your place, forgive him for what he did and like move past it? I mean, it probably helped that he didn't physically cross the line. Right.

I mean, yes, but it still felt like it. Do you know what I mean? Yeah, yeah. Therapy. Like, I mean, we did like only a couple. months of therapy and honestly like the guy that we worked with was amazing and I basically just said yeah like I was disconnected from him for a while I didn't want to have sex and I just was like I wasn't happy in my own skin either like you know and so I was just at a point in my life where I just wasn't happy and you know so this it was a turning point and honestly like I don't want to you know wish that on like myself again but like I mean it basically made my sex life amazing and so I don't regret it I guess you know no obviously like look like I mean listen I always sometimes see things that way like sometimes like the worst times in someone's life are

actually the best because it's finally like the truth like what was better you living in a marriage where you weren't even into your fucking husband and you didn't even want to fuck him you know what I mean would that have been better for you to do that or was the better scenario that he did this and then the truth came out you know yeah in real life like everyone's going to be like oh it would have been better that she would have said something to him or just change or, you know, but like real life is fucking messy and sloppy. Whatever. We're talking real life here. I'm a realist. I don't get into that bullshit that people still always make out. You shouldn't cheat. Just walk away. It's like easier said than done. Okay. People fucking cheat all the time. So, you know, it's, uh, but a lot of

times that, like, all that did was like bring everything to the surface. Now, it wasn't the right thing to happen, but it did bring all the truth in your relationship to the surface and really made you guys face it and make those changes and you're closer now because of it, which is amazing. Yeah, exactly. Which is how it should be if you can work through it. Now, I get why people sometimes have to leave because they can't take it. But I also appreciate when people can stay and explain how and why they did it. And like I feel like most of the time when people do get through it and get together and take ownership for both of their parts, I'm sure your husband was very upset and

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Or else he would have to get past it. Yeah, no, he definitely did. Yeah. Yeah. And so, and I think that that's great. And that's what it takes, you know. But most of the time those couples are closer because of it because you fixed your problem. That girl wasn't, that affair wasn't the problem.

That was a symptom of the problem. The problem was you guys were not connected anymore, you know? And so it got you back connected. So now you're like a cuck-queaning out, like you're fantasizing about all this like kinky stuff in the bedroom. Because so there's not a guy involved. Did he ever start talking about you like fucking another guy? Because you're like talking to him about him with other women. But really what you guys wind up doing is bringing another guy in.

Yeah, never. Like we never talked about that. I mean, this probably went on for like, you know, three years, three or four years. Okay. And, you know, my husband watches, like, porn occasionally. Like, and so I guess, like, you know, he was watching it and he was like, I have this wild idea. I don't know how you're going to feel about this. And because at that time, I'm still pretty vanilla.

Like, you know, like, I haven't really come into my sexuality, I guess. Like, and so he, you know, just like one day in the kitchen threw this out. He's like, how would you feel about threesome? I was like, absolutely not. What are you talking about? And then I was like, well, maybe. A threesome with a guy. Yes, a threesome with a guy.

Okay. And I mean, and so you weren't surprised because you had seen the threesome porn and stuff like that. And you guys were like open with each other at this point. So it wasn't like shocking to you. Sure. No, it wasn't shocking now. Okay, cool. So you weren't like immediately no.

And was he talking real life? Yeah, he was talking to real life. He's like, would you do this? And I was like, I know, no, no, no. And then, you know, I gave it a couple days. And I kind of was like, well, tell me what you're thinking about. Okay, what did he say? So he was like, well, you know, it's all about like what you want.

Like he's like, I feel like you'd be more comfortable with a guy after what happened before. And I was like, you're right. I would, you know, at this point. And so he was like, do you find any of my friends attractive? and I was like, I don't know. And I kind of was like, maybe there's a few. And then he's like, well, I have a guy in mind. And I was like, who?

And he's like, my best friend. And I was like, what do you mean your best friend? Oh, my God. Is he hot, by the way? He's like his best friend good looking? Or like, oh, you're trying? They look super similar. Like they have the same body types.

And yeah, and they pretty much act the same. So it's kind of like a twin, but not really. Oh, my God. Okay, go on. So he literally brings us. up his best friend. I wonder if they had ever talked about it secretly between themselves or shared a girl in the past or anything like that. No? I don't know. Well, I had asked that, you know, like, and they said no. But he was like, so I'm going to just ask him. And I was like, how are you

going to ask a question? And he was like, at this point, he was not married. Okay. So he was, he was with this girl that he's with now. He was with her. And they've never, like, I mean, I don't know, their relationship they've never really talked a lot about. So like I can't speak on that. But they, you know, he said, he asked his best friend and his best friend was like, are you serious? Like, you want me to bang your wife? And was, wait, was he in your guy's wedding? He was in our wedding. Okay. That's, that's a good. That's just good to add to the salaciousness of the story. He was in our wedding. We've hung out with him for years and years and years. Just the three of us never once did any of. of us when we've talked to them about this did we ever think about this never once yeah yeah and he was single for years and years and years like you know this is like a girlfriend that he you know had not had that long at this point when he brought this up but then he like knew that we were going to see him soon because you know he was getting married in like a few months wait so okay so you say yes you could totally ask him like if he says okay I'm down to do it with him he goes tells the guy

comes home and says the guy's down like he thought it was crazy but he's into it yeah and so this guy does live like oh like far away right so he lives like 10 hours away so it's not like you can just go and hook up with somebody like you know yeah a couple hours like that's not that possible okay so yeah so he just asked him and he was like yeah he's like i i'd be open to it and i was like no fucking way now it could actually be a reality were you even thinking that it could yeah i was I don't know. So, you know, I was like thinking about it, thinking about it. And I was like, well, maybe. And so like, you know, we drive all the way there for the wedding. And like we, you know, I just act like nothing's wrong to everybody else. And like, I'm not thinking anything crazy, you know. And so that night we went to the bar with some people and we came back. And he was like, I'm going to text him. And I was like, no, you're not. He's like, I am. And he was like, I am. And he was like, like, I am. And he was like, Like, so if you're up for it, we're game if you want to come over. Wait, wait.

How long will be, is this during his, like, where's his wedding in relation to this trip again? It's happening? Yeah, this is like at his wedding the night before his wedding. Oh my God, I love it. This is like, you couldn't make this shit up. If you made a movie about this, like people would be like, yeah, but it's like it's true. I know. I know.

I know. I know. I mean, it would be like so cheesy cliche. Oh, yeah, the night before the wedding. It's like a fucking poor. Uh-huh. Oh, I get it. And so.

he like 10 minutes later he came knocking at the door and I was like I don't think I can do this I was like this is just too much like and they were like well it's up to you and I was like screw it let's do this so wait paint the whole freaking picture okay so you're in this hotel with the whole wedding party everyone's there no we literally are in our hotel with so it's just me and my husband and then his best friend came and knocked the door but I mean I mean Is this a hotel that everybody's staying in where the parties taking place? Everyone's there, including his soon-to-be wife and her parents. And no offense, I'm going to make you feel bad. Like, they're all in that area. Oh, yeah, all in the same hotel room. Oh, my God. Not same hotel room, but same hotel.

Yeah, yeah. Oh, my God. He's naughty. Like, I would be, I don't know, I think things through too much that I'd be like, oh, my God, someone's going to see me go into the room and blah, blah, you know what I mean? Like he's kind, how does he sneak away that week? You know, it's crazy.

kind of that day. Was it the night before? It was the night before. Oh, wow. Was it after like the, you know, the dinner before? Don't they do that? Oh, yeah. It was after the rehearsal dinner. It was, we went to the bar after that. I don't know where she was. That's what I mean. She was probably like having drinks with her friends and, you know, she had, oh my yeah, poor thing. If she only know. Okay, so her husband to be fucking the next day. Oh my God. So he comes knocking on the door. He walks in and like had you had you had a couple drinks that you're like a little loose to this situation? Yes. Okay. Yes. So I had a couple drinks knowing that like we were talking about it and potentially. And so I was like the only thing that was like talking me through this at that point was

like, well, he's technically not married yet. So it wouldn't be, you know, the end of the world, I guess. If you did this. The way we all try to frame things. and her had to make it okay. Correct. Yeah. And so then I guess we just like, so how it started was my husband and I just started fooling around and, you know, having sex and he was just watching us. And then he just started joining in. And I mean, it lasted for like a few hours, like maybe like two hours like the whole thing.

Where the fuck did his girl think he was? Oh my God. And he had to come back with a sex smell all over him. Did he take a shower at your place? Uh, no, he didn't, but he was in the room by himself. So the night before he was by himself. Oh, you're right. Oh, you're right. Okay, that saved him. Because there's no way you can walk out of that room with you all over him and him and all that fucking threesome sex smell. Like, you could smell that shit. You know what I mean? Totally. I get it. Oh my God. So I was just like after the whole thing, like I don't even know. Like I was just like in a different world. I felt like I felt like did this just happen? Wait, but explain like the naughty details a little bit. We need a little bit of the story. I mean, because this is like your first threesome, your vanilla girl, you've never done anything, and you're doing like the most craziest thing ever, considering all the circumstances together. We just set it all up.

Like, are you doing like spit roasting? Do you have sex with both of them? Do you do any kind of other crazy things? Like what kind of happens? Like all of it. Basically. So how it started was my husband is like, you know, banging me and I'm sucking the best friend's dick at the same time. And then rules changed.

And then like, he like doesn't. this wild thing with his hands and I like boobs and like I just I guess it makes me go crazy and like yeah I don't know like it just continued like we just kept you know trying different positions and seeing what everybody liked and yeah he and he's not using a condom no he is oh okay he did okay okay so you just did all of that now after he goes do you and your guy have like really like great sex as well afterwards or you just spent because you just fucked two guys for two hours? I'm spent at that point. But for days and weeks and months later, that's all I could think about.

But back to, so, you know, that whole night, like, I just couldn't sleep. Basically, I was like, what is wrong with me? I can't believe I just did this. Did you feel guilty for the girl? Like, I mean, what were your feelings? Or was it just guilt that you fuck two guys? Like, what were you feeling bad about or weird about? I guess I felt guilty.

I felt guilty because it was, like, the day before his wedding. And then the, I feel like this is just the icing on the cake. So like the next day, like, I didn't have to hang out with, you know, his girl. Like, I hung out with somebody else, so I didn't have to, like, see that. But I had to then sit in a church to watch them get married. Yeah, imagine. We all knew that was coming, didn't you? I mean, yeah.

So I had to sit there and be like, well, I am going to burn this place down because of what just happened. Yeah, you were totally going. to hell. Yes, I am, right? Yeah. And so I think that was like the whole, I mean, just like, I don't know. I felt, I felt awful in that church. Like, I just felt terrible. Like, I mean, what I just did, like, I don't know how anybody else felt because they didn't seem to, like, show anything, but I was just, like, beyond myself. You mean your husband and the guy that was getting married? Oh my God. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. So did you just drink a lot? I mean, how did you get past those feelings. Yeah, I just kind of, I avoided eye contact, like completely with him. I just drank

and kind of just, you know, stood, like, kind of stayed away from him because I was just like, this is awkward, you know what I mean? Like, you know. Yeah, totally. Of course. Of course. Okay, so you may get through the wedding, though, I assume everyone's happy. He goes off and gets married. And then once you get past the guilty feelings, it's hot again to you. And you start to have, like, all this reclaiming sex with each other for like weeks after. Yeah. And honestly, it went on for, you know, quite a while. I mean, even a couple years, like, we never, like, the three of us never discussed it. We kind of just left it, like, lay there. And we, like, we discussed it. My husband and I, we talked about it all the time about how we would love to do it again. And we were just kind of like, it's kind of like a sticky situation because he's married. And, you know, like, you know, like, we don't want to, we don't want to like, say something to him. then him get upset about it and then him lose his best friend. So it's kind of like a, we're just going to see how things go. And I guess like four years in four years after,

they came up here, him and his wife for a little trip and they stayed with us for the whole weekend. And like I was, you know, I kind of was like over it at this point. Like I was, you know, just trying to be nice and not think about it. I mean, as hard as that is. And it was just weird. Like she had gone to bed. We all hung out. out for the rest of the night and he was just like making like sexual like comments to me. I was like, well, I think I know where he stands, I guess. What kind of comments? Yeah, like something about like, oh, I wish I had my dick sucked like that.

Like it was on like a movie that we had been watching or something. And then he was just like, those jeans look good or something like that. And I was just like, oh, okay. Like I guess I know where you stand on this. Like just sex is coming up in the conversation. Like he's probably trying to like throw things out there to like get something going. And I kind of was just like, okay. Like, and I just blew it off kind of.

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And I said something to my husband about it. And I was like, did you pick up on those things? And he was like, absolutely. He definitely wants to bang you still. No offense, but there's no way they're not discussing this ahead of time behind your back. Sorry. They probably are. I'm sure.

But they're respectful of you. They don't throw it in your face. They leave it up to you. But they're in on it. Okay. Exactly. Yeah. So, so yeah.

So it kind of just, I was like, okay, like nothing happened. like I just, I mean, his wife is around. Like, I'm trying to keep things, you know, like, very, like, vanilla. Like, nothing, like, I don't want to cross the line, you know. And so I kind of just left it at that. And then they decided that they wanted to do a guy's trip. And so, like, a couple months later, he came back out and I, we invited both of them. And he was like, she's not coming.

And my husband's like, oh, okay. And so I was like, really? Like, do you think this is going to happen again? And he's like, I don't know, but she's not coming. And I was like, hmm, interesting. So I basically, I don't know, I bought like this really like low cut body suit. And it was kind of like, you know what? I'm just going to wear this and see where it goes.

You know, see. So, you know, he got here. And we just kind of all hung out. They did their thing the next two days. And then they came home that night. And, you know, we went out to dinner and I wear this, like, low-cut body suit. And apparently that made him go crazy, I guess. He really liked that.

But he didn't say anything that night. And we just kind of all went to bed. And then the next day, they, like, were watching, like, that 365 days movie, like that sex movie, which is a crazy. sex movie in my opinion. Oh, I don't know of that, but anyway, go on. I talk about sex for a living, so a lot of times I don't watch the movies. Yeah, it's kind of like 50 shades of gray.

It's similar to that. Okay, go on. And so then we just kind of, like, he made some comment about, like, getting blown on how he doesn't get blow jobs. And I was like, oh, you can be next as a joke, like, kind of joking, but kind of serious at the same time. Yeah. And he was like, okay.

And then I just like left it be, you know, because I still didn't really know exactly where he stood on this whole thing now that he is married. Mm-hmm. And the next day, like, my husband was like, well, if you're going to ask him to play with us, like, you better ask him now. This is his last night here. And so I, like, was super scared and nervous. And so then I went down to like the spare room that he's staying at. And I was like, hey, if you want to join us, you're more than welcome. Like so why do they put that way?

But why did they, why did your husband put that on you? Was it because they wanted to respect your boundaries and have it be your decision? Like, I mean, because it's like your guys, you know, like, why didn't your guy take charge of that? Do you know? I don't, I don't know. He's like, he's like, you're the one who wants this, you know, you're the one who really wants this or something like that. And I was like, uh, okay. Yeah, maybe they just don't want to take responsibility for it in case you freak out.

I don't know. It's interesting. But, or maybe they just think it's hotter. You know what I mean? I'm sure it's a hotter scenario for him to have you knocking on the door saying like, oh, by the way, I want to give you a load job than your husband. You know what I mean? So I went down there and I was like, hey, if you want to join us, you can.

And within like 30 seconds, the door comes flying open. And I'm like, okay. I was like, okay, I guess I know where you stand is what I said. And so, yeah, we went to the spare, like, we went to that room and like no time was wasted. and just like, I mean, we had sex for like three and a half hours, like just back and forth and like blow jobs and anything you could think of. We tried it. Like, I was deped. Like, it's just wild.

I was. I'm a little jealous because I used to always mock that up. I've never done it in real life because I'm like, I don't even know if I do two guys at the same time. But I always like to know if a girl did it and was it like amazing because it always seemed like it would be. It was amazing. And I didn't, I wasn't like prepared for it. I was like, yeah, I'm not doing that. And then it just happened.

And I was like, holy shit. Oh my God. And you loved it? I mean, the whole experience was amazing. Like just the dirty talk, the like the penetration, like everything. Like I can't, I couldn't complain about a single thing that happened. Oh my God. Would you ever have thought, you know, you, this girl that was like totally vanilla and not really

come into her own sexually would be doing two guys at once? never never ever and people would never guess that of me they would they would never guess that of me yeah that's what makes the story even hotter yeah you know what I mean the innocent girl turned naughty yeah yeah totally okay yeah yeah so literally like three and a half hours yeah like so yeah and like it was just and then we never talked about it so that then we just didn't talk about it again I mean he's obviously there in the morning you making them breakfast, like you're all eating together? Like, it's just no discussion. Is it weird?

Yep. I just don't have eye contact with him again because I just felt like guilty again. This experience, this time, was a thousand times better than the time before, which I didn't even know it's possible. The first time, he was super gentle and like, you know, like, just kind of, I guess, trying to figure out what I like. And this time he was, like, super rough and, like, very, like, controlling of the situation, which my husband actually liked.

and he said he didn't think he would like, but he did. And I kind of had boundaries, I guess, the first time. Like, I didn't want kissing because I didn't want it to be like super like intimate. And like I just felt like that was a line for me. And I didn't want him to like go down on me. And then like the next time I was like, no boundaries. Just whatever. Oh, I'm glad you brought that up. I forgot to ask those questions because I'm just so enthralled with your story. It's so interesting. But yeah, so you did have those boundaries at first. But the second time, And it sounded that way when you talked about it. I mean, it was like anything goes.

You guys just fell into it. I would assume you'd feel more free and everything being in your own house. He's far away from his thing. It's not like the day before our marriage, right? Exactly. Like there was no way like, yeah, he was going to get cough. Right, right. So this time there was no holding back.

And that just took it to another level. Yeah, yeah. Like we didn't have to be quiet or, you know, anything like that. Yeah, oh my God. Did he use a condom again? Yes, yes. Because, you know, I just don't want. You know.

Yeah. Okay. So the next morning, though, you can't look at him and then does he go on his merry way? He goes on his very way. And him and my husband talk, you know, periodically. And he doesn't say anything to me, really. We've never, like, texted or, you know, anything like that because obviously we don't want to be caught or anything like that.

And I've kind of just left it be like those two times. And then my husband is away for a work trip. and I was sending my husband some pictures of myself or something in, like, lingerie. And he was, I guess, apparently talking to his friend on the phone. And he was like, he's probably going to ask you for some pictures. I'm like, pictures. What are you talking about? He's like, yeah, I told them you'd send them.

I was like, are you okay with that? And he's like, yeah. I was like, how am I going to do this safely? Yeah. And so we found like a way to do it safely. What is that way? So we used Snapchat. Uh-huh.

I mean, it was the safest option, you know, that we could come up with. No offense. I've never, I don't know why you'd be offended, but like, no offense, anyone, like, or I sound like an idiot that I don't even know anything about Snapchat. But I've been a mom for the past 10 years, so I'm not really in that world. Like, what the fuck goes down on Snapchat that makes it so great? Does a picture disappear? They can't hold it. They can't take a screenshot of it.

Like, what's, how and why is Snapchat so private? So I guess like you you can make it so you're like automatically like if a message comes across once you read it it It deletes it. Okay. So that's that's a safe option. Yeah. And also if you screenshot something that other person knows that you screenshot it because it like sends them an alert. Oh, that's good. That's good. That's major. And I knew that he wasn't going to do that. Of course. He doesn't want to get caught, you know. Did you include your face in the pictures? Absolutely not. Okay. That's good. Nope. Okay. Now are you the type of person that was said? nudes and stuff to your husband before? Yeah. I mean, I only started doing this probably, you know, like after that emotional affair. I started.

Oh, okay. Right. To spice things up and get more connected. Yeah. Okay, cool. So do you, is there a chance that your husband had shared some pictures of you before that? Absolutely.

I'm pretty sure he probably did. Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly. I've talked about this on my show before. Somebody was like, oh, you're promoting that someone should share pictures. I'm like, no, I'm just being realistic because guy friends of mine. I think that's what guy do. Yes. They're bragging.

Guy friends of mine have showed me pictures. Plus it's not your, but I mean, plus this guy already banged you out. Okay. So it's not like, you know. At this point, it is what it is. Yeah, he's already been there, done that. So, okay, so now you start sending him, dudes? Yeah.

And he sends me stuff and, like, he basically sexed me back and forth, like, for like two hours. And he's like, I got to get off. My wife's going to be home from work. And I was like, oh my God. Okay. And then nothing gets said for like a week or so. And then we did it again. Like he always initiates because like, you know.

When he's horny. And when he's available. And when he's available. And I mean, my husband knows about it. So I'm available whenever, you know? Yeah. And then yeah. I mean, that next time, same thing.

And yeah, like I saved the picture. So my, like I could tell my husband and I showed him the conversations because he's all about like reading what, you know, conversations are and right like that he gets involved in it he likes it turns him on correct it does yeah yeah yeah exactly does he help you take the picks uh yeah he offered to take some of them and you know at first i wasn't like you know showing everything because i was still like nervous you know about it just being caught you know yeah of course but yeah i just made sure my face wasn't in it and he did the same And yeah, so that, you know, continued for a while and he would just send random things to me.

And I guess it was fun. It's been fun, you know. And then a couple weeks ago, like, my husband had a business trip and he and I actually tagged along because there was some free time that he was going to have. And we ended up meeting up with this friend again, posted where he's from. And we, like, hooked up in the back of the car. And you're like making me very, car sex is like my thing. I'm like, I wish I could have car sex again one day as a grown up. It's so much fun, right? I don't know why. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, it definitely was, it was fun for sure. Yeah, but you need to like slow that story down. Okay. So this guy's coming. You're doing a work trip with your husband. Why are you in a car? Yeah. So we basically went out to dinner, had a couple drinks. I wasn't actually like thinking like I had no intentions of doing anything. anything with him. Like I was just thinking like we're friends too. Like we're gonna go out and have some drinks and we're gonna have dinner and we're gonna go back. And like he didn't have that much

time because he had to be home. And I mean, she's at home, you know? And he's just out for dinner. So he can't be gone for like three hours in a hotel room. Right. Yeah. Exactly. And explain that. Yeah. So, you know, I was just like just this is just friends, right? And I didn't say anything about this. But I told my husband that. I was like, yeah, this is just, we're just going to get dinner and some drinks. And so he had picked us up because we didn't have a car because we, you know, we had flown there. And what kind of car does he have? A small car, like a smaller car. Oh my God. Okay. Yeah. And how tall are these guys? Oh, they're like six one, six two. Oh, my God. Okay. Yeah. And so, you know, we ended up getting kicked out of the restaurant because it was

closing at like 9.30 or something. And so we were going to get in the car and I wasn't going to say anything. And my husband was like, so are you going to blow my best friend? And I was like, are you serious? And he's like, yeah. And so he's like, I don't want to drive. He's like, he says to my husband, he's like, I want you to drive and I want to sit in the back seat while she blows me. And I was like, oh. So do you get in the back? So I get in the back seat. He gets in the back seat and I start giving him a blowjob and they call me a blowjob queen. I don't, they think I'd be a good blow job.

You probably do. And so, yeah, I did that for a while and he was just rubbing me and telling me like, you know, all these things that he wanted to do. And yeah, it got, it was really like hot and bothered and we were actually going to go to a hotel. And then like probably like 20 minutes into the drive. He was like, can't do this anymore. And we're like, what? And so the whole story like changed. And he was like he just felt guilty.

What? Wait, wait, that's interesting. Yeah. Why do you think? Because he's in his own car, in his own town. Is he close to home at this point? I mean, he's like an hour probably from home. Oh, okay.

Maybe it's his car. Yeah. And he was just like, I feel good. bad about this situation. And it's like, I don't know if I can do this. I didn't see this coming. No, we didn't either. And so we were like, okay, then we're done.

So we had always said, like, you know, if you wanted to not do this anymore, you just have to be honest. And communication is key. And we still want to remain friends. And, like, you know, the weirdest part was like, though, he was like, telling me he didn't want to do this, but said, like, you know, held my hand down. on the seat and was still like rubbing my leg. And so it was like a very mixed emotion like feelings about this whole thing.

I was like, wait a second. Like, what? Like I'm not understanding, you know? And then we got back to our hotel and like he gave me this weird awkward hug. And like it was just kind of weird. And like his friend like my husband and him were like, yeah, like we're still really good friends. Like nothing's wrong. Like he's just like I feel guilty because I'm married.

And we're like, we get it. We understand. Like, you know, we respect you. Like, we respect your boundaries. It's fine. And so then fast forward a couple weeks later. You know, they talk all the time. But a couple weeks later, it gets brought up.

And he was like, it was the best experience of my life. He was like, it was amazing. Like, he's like, I just feel guilty. So, yeah, that's where that's at. I mean, I mean, that's where you're at now is what you're saying. Yeah. And I think, I mean, maybe we think he might. come back around because like it was such a good experience you know let me ask you this like did his

wife get pregnant did you just have a baby did do you think there was any changes in his marriage that because listen the fact that he fucked you the night before he got married and couldn't think twice about any of it and didn't feel guilty yet he feels guilty so many years later while you're in his car i'm like i'm trying to put together what's going on with him that suddenly it's hitting him now listen, I do believe that that kind of guilt or feeling could come out at any time. It could just be random. Like he just suddenly kind of faced what he was doing and he didn't feel good about it. Like that can happen at any moment.

I was just wondering if there was some other reason for it. But like I said, it could be random and that can make sense too. Yeah. So, yeah, I mean, I've thought about it a lot. Yeah. I think like he, in my opinion, I think he may have started to get feelings towards me. Oh, you're smarter than me. Well, you're involved in this.

You're coming up with that. You know, that is a very good analysis of the situation. Yeah. Because of all the texting and everything. And the reason I feel like, I feel like it's that is because of the way he acted, like, in the backseat of his car, he acted so much more, like, intimate to the point where I kind of pulled away a little bit because I was like, wait. You know what I mean? Like I'm not looking for exactly that. And so I was like kind of thrown off a little bit during.

I was kind of like, hmm, interesting. Like, why are you like making out with me like this intensely? Like, you are completely, I really believe exactly what you do. I got kind of like the chills when you were talking about it because I really feel like that's it. Yeah. That could very, and that would create a whole different level of feelings for him because who knows that he's never guilty for that. poor woman at home, but maybe for your husband. Like he's, you know what I mean?

Like this is his best friend and he's feeling that way about her, his wife. You know what I mean? Because he never felt guilty for his, the woman. So maybe it's because of your friend and it's like now it's like because that that's not cool, right? Like it's not about that. And that really is the one thing that makes the most sense. I think you're fucking right on the money.

And you felt it. You felt it. I felt it. And I also like when after like, like we, you know, had stopped doing stuff and we were still like in the car, driving back to our hotel or whatever. I, you know, I said like, that's, like, I wasn't, like, I hope you realize that I'm not looking for like that kind of relationship.

Like, I want to remain friends and I, we were doing this for fun. And he, the response he came back was, oh, okay. Like, very, like, bummed kind of, like, I felt. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, it was all hitting him. Yeah. And so, I mean, I feel like, like, we, my husband and I talked about this and we were kind of like, well, like, if you think about it in the big picture, like, he had a lot to lose, right? Like, he was going to lose his wife if some of this came out and his best friend if he tried to go for me. And like, I wasn't looking to do that.

And so, you know, I feel like maybe that's by, but like, I don't know. Yeah, he's in a no one situation. I mean, nothing could come of it. It doesn't feel good to, you know, for a normal person to like some, you know, some people can. it off on liking the unattainable and will fall heavy into that, you know, but that's like someone that has issues, you know, but like for a real person, you know, to start to really feel feelings for someone that's completely unattainable and continue to see them in a way that makes them only feel more feelings for them. It doesn't feel good. Yeah. You know, it doesn't

feel good. Plus he, like, I think he respects your husband more than the poor wife at home that I think, you know, the feelings thing, it was guilt for his bestie, too. because he's going to feel like he's betraying him. But, you know, and therein lies the problem. It's the fucking texting. Let me ask you this. The texting, was it purely sex? Was there other just regular texting?

Purely sexting. So it was just all sex. But there was a lot, was there a lot of texting that was going on? Yeah, a lot. Plus, you give great blow jobs and his wife never blows him. That poor wife, she should start giving him blow jobs. I mean, this is your... She also, apparently he would tell me that she doesn't fuck is good and that she never has

with them. So it's a problem. So of course he, I mean, this is the reason why things like this happened, right? Because maybe she's not doing that stuff because she's like, you know, this shit happens. It's not her fault per se. We don't really know what's going down there. But I don't understand any girl that doesn't blow her husband. What do you think he's going to do? Never have a blow job in his whole life. Like she doesn't blow him at all. No. I guess not. I mean, you got to just put the dick in your mouth and blow. I'm sorry. It's not that hard. I'm watching some show. Oh, Piki blinders. I just started watching that's so fucking good. I'm watching it like 10 years later, but there was one scene where the person's like, oh, my mother always told me like, you know, make sure to

suck them off and before they leave the house, you know? It's like, yeah, very smart, right? I mean, you do want to like, you know, because like this guy here he is, because you know what the truth is, unfortunately, and I think a lot of women don't get this, is that like guys feel loved through sex. Like women feel it through compliments and talking and being considerate and thoughtful, right? Like, men feel wanted and desired and feel intimacy through sex, right? Through blood, like through stuff that women would never think because we're not wired that, right? Just because even our guy could fuck us all the time doesn't mean they love us. We don't feel it that way.

But men do, you know, so he's lacking that intimacy at home and you're giving it to him. And it's like a right. And he knows you also just friendly too. So that coupled with the good sex could definitely make him start to have feelings for you. Yeah. And that's just my thought. and maybe I'm completely wrong on it. Oh, didn't your husband agree too?

Yeah, he agreed on it. And he's like, I don't know. He's like, I think he's going to let it lay for a while, but I bet he'll be back for more. Yes, because his feelings can dissipate if you lay off the texting and stuff. And maybe that's what you need to do. Keep it less, I mean, if you want to go on with this thruple, you know, uh, listen, that drive for good sacks and blowjobs if he's not getting at home.

It's like very powerful sometimes and sometimes it takes over. Like, you know, guys do have two different brains, right? One in their dick, one in their head. So, you know, that other brain is going to win out again. I'm sure you're going to be double teaming them soon. But I think to avoid... I mean, that's my hope, right? To avoid any complications, maybe like the extracurricular stuff outside of those times

was a little bit much, keep it more detached and just about your scenarios if you want to. Because maybe... Because, listen, you said it was just about sexting and everything. But it sounds like it was. a little bit more because when was he telling you about my wife doesn't fuck me she doesn't give me blow jobs like i mean he's actually having conversations with you too you know what i mean it's not just like show me your tits you were like talking to him he was opening up to you like so even if it seems like it's in a sexual way like he was having conversations with you and it was maybe getting too much

yeah that's kind of exactly what we thought and we you know i mean we still we're supposed to hang out with them in another like month or so. Them, meaning the husband and the wife? Yeah, and I'm just like kind of nervous like how he's gonna act, you know, around me like. Yeah, you don't know. Yeah, it's interesting. You need to let me know.

Let me ask you this. What, has your husband ever like tried to say anything to him or guys just don't really talk? Like, what is that? Yeah, they talked. Actually, they talked last night because he's away again. And he, I guess he said it was the most amazing experience he's ever had. And like he's just, he can't stop thinking.

Everybody thinks about it every single day, good and bad. And yeah, that's kind of where it was left. Good and bad, meaning he feels the guilt and the pleasure all at the same time. What's the bad? Exactly. Yep, exactly. Oh, so he's still holding onto the bad, which is maybe the feelings, the guilt. Yeah.

That needs to go away. Yeah, exactly. It needs to go away. If we want this story to go on, which I think everybody does selfishly, because we do feel so. we do have to feel sorry for the woman at home. Oh my God. I know. I know. Wait, let me just ask you this, though, like have you and your guy, and this is my last question to you, because this is like the perfect story as is, right? We don't need to drag it out any further. But like, would you and your guy, or have you considered maybe looking for another guy, or was it just strictly this scenario with this guy that

you guys were open to and you're not interested in going and having threesome with other people? So crazy you say that. So I was really. bummed about that happening and like kind of let down because like it was basically in the middle of it right and I felt just like a shitty like super shitty yeah and like kind of like a I don't know like kind of like you were just let down after you were going to have sex with someone random or even like a breakup or something that's kind of how it felt it was weird yeah and so I got on some app and I forget how you say it like feel yeah and I don't know like I've had some guys message me and stuff, but I just, I don't feel the same. And I don't know if it's because I have

been friends with this guy so long because my husband was best friends with him. And I just feel so comfortable around him that I don't have to think like safety or anything else like that. I don't know. So yeah, I mean, we're exploring that option. Listen, I understand that situation. As a girl, like for me, a guy I'm sleeping with currently was like, oh, I begin to you being with someone else. And I was like, oh, really? I'm going to like try it out. You know what I mean? And I was just like going to my old booty calls because I'm like, I don't feel like as a woman the way I'm turned on to that I could just go on an app and look at a picture of a guy and just want to fuck him. You know what I mean? And then go.

It's like I want to be with someone I'm comfortable with. So I, you know, I totally understand how and why that was like the easiest way for it to happen. But maybe if you like started to engage with somebody and someone gave you really, you know, and you started to talk to these guys online and someone gave you really good game, you know, online and messages and stuff. and then you met them, you'd have to be more comfortable, but maybe you would get to the place where you'd be open to it if you just developed a vibe and, you know, and with somebody. That's what it would take. Yeah.

I mean, I'm still hoping at some point he'll come back for us, but we'll see. I think he will. He won't be, you know, but I think that a little bit, like the more time that passes probably the better for him because, I mean, it's a weird situation. The fact that he stopped, did he come already when you blew him? Like, was he in Postnut Clarity? he was like he had pre-com like

but he didn't cause so it's for him to literally stop it before he went all the way is pretty hardcore you know what I mean yeah so he feels very strongly about whatever his feelings are to not do it right now that you might need a little bit more time how long ago was that car situation like two weeks ago oh yeah it might be a little bit more time you got patiently wait you know a couple months a few months yeah go by you know he needs some time because whatever stopped him in the middle of a great blowjob considering he never gets him at home in the hottest situation and all that whatever stopped him in his tracks still exists two weeks later it's you know yeah exactly yeah I mean I'm not to be in that position no not only that

I mean do you want to go through that again like you know sort of being in the middle of it and him saying I'm not into that like I can't do this do you want to be in that position again never no that was shitty yeah so you'd want to wait a little while until he does. And maybe, you know, in the meantime, you never know that you won't meet somebody on those apps. Your husband's down for that? Yeah, and I don't know if it's the best one out there.

Like, I don't know. I mean, you said just go explore. Yeah, like there's tons of them out there. You could get a free trial on SDC for May. 37712 is the code or just go to the description link. I always offer that one up. That's a good one. There's a lot of, you know, I feel like my show signs up a lot of guys on there.

But does he have any other friends that he's thought of? I mean, I am definitely not going for a married guy at this point. And all his friends are married at this point? Yeah, I mean, that's the kind of stage of life. No co-workers? No. Not that are young enough that are, you know. Listen, I mean, how old's your husband and how old are you? Yeah, we're 35, so we're young.

Yeah, well, listen, there's a lot of hot 50-year-old guys that could fuck you good. Trust me. So I don't know how, I forget when you're 35, 50 sounds old, but trust me, like, you know, the 50s, he's not going to have an old ass or anything like that. Like, he could still look good and fuck you, good. So maybe, you know. That's good to know. Yeah.

Maybe your guy, you know, because by that time, there's a lot of divorce guys. You know what I'm saying? That's true. That's true. Yeah. And your age, everyone's still married. But, you know, 40s, 50s, people start getting divorced. And there's a lot more on the market available people.

So keep looking around. Keep me posted. Okay. This is, you know, I want to know what happens next. You kind of left us in the middle of this. I don't, because I don't. because I don't necessarily think it's over. You know what I mean?

I wonder what happens next. So you definitely have to keep me posted about. I would definitely do a part two with you. I love this whole story. So listen, Harmony. Listen, do you want to send an anonymous picks for my Patreon? Do you guys listen to my show, right?

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