Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1399 - Sporty Wife is a Queen of Spades Hotwife

Episode Date: March 17, 2026

Sporty wife is a queen of spades hotwife and her and her husband called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the deals including how and when Jay brought up his hotwife fantasy to Sporty Wife and how she felt about it, how they decided to turn it into reality and the first app they went online, how and why she eventually became a queen of spades hotwife, the first guy she met and hoked up with and the rules they had going in and exactly what went down, how she fell after her first experience, how he felt and why he got upset with her the next day, the second guy they hoked up with and what went down and why Jay doesn’t get involved, what went down when they hooked up with their first couple and why they had to end the hook up, their first experience with a unicorn and what went down during their mff threesome, the sex party they went to ad what went down, how and why did they started an Onlyfans and what they decided to post there, the hotwifing course they offer and what it entails plus a whole lot more. Her Onlyfans name is Sportywife GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors: ⁠https://inda.shop/STRICTLY!⁠⁠ If you’re 21 or older, get 35% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2610-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://LoadBoost.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — To get 10% off LOAD BOOST by VB Health use code: STRICTLY Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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He loves for her to be with guys. He likes to sit back and watch. He doesn't really get involved. She's definitely into black eyes. She considers herself a queen of spades. They eventually turned their passion into an only fan. And they became very successful on there. She's super hot.

They talk about the whole experience. or they also offer courses. They talk at the end how they do have like a private discord where they help people that want to get into hotwifing and people that are into this lifestyle and just have questions and stuff. They're very open to doing stuff like that. And they have their own discord and they give all the information of how to get in there or how to get their course or have them, you know, mentor you if you want to get involved in the lifestyle. They're super fun couple. I felt like at times it was hard for me to get answers out of them. So you might be like, Kathy, shut the fuck off.

I don't know. But there's a couple of times where I was like, I didn't feel like I was getting the straight answer. But you get the whole story. Okay, I always make sure I get the whole story. It's a super interesting story. So I'm going to be right back on. And Sporty Wife is hot.

Okay, I have pictures of my Patreon, but, you know, they're going to give the shout out of where you can find them so you could see her all over the place. But anyway, I'm going to get right to be right back on with Sporty Wife and Jay. Hi, Jay and Sporty Wife. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today? Good.

How are you? Thanks for having us. No, thanks for a comment. on. I saw you guys follow me on X today. So typically I don't see anybody before the call. You know, sometimes afterwards, right? Because people send me pictures. But you guys follow me on Twitter. I'm going to follow you back. But I was like, I checked you out. And you guys are, well, you know, Mrs. Sporty Wife is super fucking hot. You are a hot wife, the real deal hot wife. You're a queen of spades hot wife. So we're going to get your whole story. Your husband is on with us. I saw one video where he's like watching from afar. So a little bit of like you like to, you like to. I mean, you're probably not an extreme cuck, but do you like to, like, sit back and watch? Are you typically not involved, Jay? Yeah, I mean, it's been an evolving thing, but usually I like to kind of just sit back and enjoy the experience. And my biggest thing is just like the anticipation leading in and everything afterwards with the reclaiming side and everything like that.

But during the play, I usually kind of just like kind of like to sit back and watch my. my favorite porn star in action. Yeah, there you go. I've heard it before. Okay. And yeah, and then that just drags out the experience, right? Like, it just gives you, like, pleasure for way longer that way. So let's go back, though, and let's get, like, the whole story.

First of all, how long have you guys been married for? We have been married for 12 years this year. Okay. And together for 22. Okay, great. So when did this whole, like, I mean, what were you guys before you were, like a queen of spades, hot wife, and you were sitting there watching your wife, like, you know, did you guys have a vanilla sex life? Were you always kind of kinky? Were you open before? Like,

what was your guy's deal before this all started? We were, we were vanilla. I mean, I, before this started, I didn't know anything about this lifestyle. I knew nothing. So after we got married, it kind of came about from him. And I thought he was crazy. Out of his mind. Of course. Wait, but how long after you got married did he bring it up? And what did he bring up? Oh, it was two weeks after we got married.

What did he say? I think it was just, I actually came across something on his computer that I had to question. And that's kind of when it came out. And yeah, I was blown away because when you're together as teenagers and, you know, your boyfriend even looks at another girl. You can't imagine ever, you know. being in this sort of lifestyle or that it's even a thing. Or even the opposite.

I mean, you're talking about a girl seeing their guy with someone else. I'm sorry, but like typically you think your guy can't handle it either. You know what I mean? Here he is kind of telling you he wants to see you with another guy, correct? That's what he was proposing. Yes, that's how it came out at first, yes. Okay, but that's a long time ago because you said you've been married for a while. So, you know, have you been hot-wifing the whole time for 12 years?

No. So I kind of, when it came out, it was, I was so blown away that I was like, you know what, everyone that has their thing, and we can watch porn. And that's what we did. I didn't never think that we were going to play it out like we did. But it was, you know, I made him feel better. And we watched a lot of porn. And then it kind of evolved from there after a few years. We had some kids. Yeah. I mean, we have to balance everything with. the family life too. That's a whole other thing. But like after we got married, it was probably a couple years after we got, at least, no, at least like three or four years before we actually kind of dipped our toes into like having an actual experience. Yeah, well, that's kind of a long time ago because you've been married 12 years. So we're talking like, you've been doing this for a long time. This isn't, you're not like newbies like just hot wiping for a year or anything. No. Oh, okay, great. No. Yeah, I would say like COVID is really like when we kind of, you're, kind of, you're

started to actually get into it more. Oh my God. And that's like at this point, that's six years ago. It seems like that was last year, but that's like a long time. I know. Yeah. Okay. Well, wait.

Our kids were yet. Yeah. Let's not get there yet. Okay. Let's go back. Let's stay in the beginning. For you, though, Jay, like, how did you realize that you were into, you know, seeing your girl with other guys and you had that kink?

And what were you watching or doing on your computer that she found out, that she saw? Do you remember? I mean, yeah, it was just, I mean, I think it was just like porn, you know, just it was either, I can't remember specifically what it was. But after, you know, she found it, we had some deep-rooted conversations. And, and, you know, I don't know if it was always wired in me that way. And I had just kind of, and it just kind of like came to epiphany at some moment in time. Like, and I think as we were engaged and like kind of getting closer to like,

actually being married. I think part of that maybe triggered it for me too. Like I was just more turned on by the idea like once we were married. That's interesting. Like it was more, it was more, it was even more naughty like now I'm sharing my wife instead of just like my girlfriend. Yeah. And like and then once, yeah, yeah. So like it maybe it was always wired in me. Maybe it'd come out with a few, with a combination of things. And, and, and, you know, know, we had, during our past, like, we've always kind of been, we were in and out of a relationship a couple times, so she had been with other guys. And I had, and I had been with other women, like, we had kind of found each other again after college and reconvened. And so, I don't know,

just wanting to, like, be present in that experience with her with, like, a bigger guy or just wanting to fulfill some sexual desires that she might have. Like, I wanted to bring some of those fantasies out of her too because like we had a good enough solid connection solid marriage relationship that I feel like we could be more open with each other than what we were at the time and and it's been good it's worked out so okay but I still want to stay in the moment where you're kind of like telling her like I want to see you fuck other guys because listen porn could just be like tons of people fucking each other like I mean like but hot my thing is very specific like did you sit her across and say like oh I'm just

dying to see you fuck other people because sometimes people like that open up their relationships they turn into swingers they do couple swabs they go fuck other people together you know what you did and what you guys are into is very specific like when did you hone that down and how did that come up i do remember like having these conversations and she was like blown away at first you know but as as she did some research and i would you know send her some podcasts here and there that i was into like i had been more educated about this, right? So like I knew that at this point, like this was kind of something I wanted to try. And so like I just wanted to get her like up to speed, educated on like what it was to see if she was even interested in it.

You know, and it just took her some time. I think that I, I think that I was upset that I, he was so into something that I had no idea about. like I thought our sex life was completely different than what was going on in his brain, I guess. So it took a lot of sit down conversations. And yeah. One of her friends was also kind of in like the lifestyle as well. So like she was bouncing things off of her because she was, her husband was kind of into some of the same kinks that I was into, but with variances.

But she would, she came up to me one time. in the bedroom she was like do you know what hot wiping is and like in my head i was like yeah i've known what hot wifing is for a couple years but like i've never like said it to you because i kind want you to just like get in trance with the idea before i scare you away with like these terms and all this so eventually you put a word to it and said hey i'm into hot wifing and you had and you sporty wife were talking to your friend about it yeah my friend was kind of going through kind of the same thing with her husband where she was finding some things out that he wanted to do

that were new. So we were kind of talking back and forth about it. But at that time, I was still like, what is this? Like, what, where's this all coming from? All right. So, what did you guys start roleplaying when you were role playing two weeks into your marriage? What did you start role playing? That took three years to get into. Like, what were you role playing that time and watching on porn?

Two weeks into our marriage, it came out. And we started talking about it. And I was upset about it. And so you said you got pissed, but you just said, let's just watch porn and play together, and you just mocked it up at home? Yeah, we had toys. We introduced some toys to the bedroom and, you know, turned on some porn that were mostly like the outwifing scenarios. And we just, we would just have fun, enjoy it. And the more we did it, the more time went by. she became obviously like more receptive to it and just we started finding going on that in that digital world and exploring that side of it and she started exploring flirting with another guy that we had found okay three years goes by she's mad at you but eventually she starts you know she starts role playing with you you're using toys the kink is i want to see you fuck other guys you're talking to your friend you realize this has a name

you guys finally know what the fuck you're talking about. And you decide to go online and like what like what's that decision like because you Sporty wife, did you like decide that you wanted to do it in real life? Like what was that first step into sort of going from four play like you know role playing to reality? Oh, I don't I feel like that's a question for you to answer. No, that would be a question for you because you're the one that was like pissed off about to, you know, it's always the woman takes the lead.

The woman takes the lead. So it's always like the woman, your guy wants to do it since two weeks into your marriage. Okay. You're the one that doesn't want to do it. So why do you suddenly decide to say, hey, let's like take this out of the bedroom and go do something serious? Like, why did you go online? What was your decision for that? What did you, what changed in you, sporty wife?

And what did you want to do at that point? I guess that it, after all that time of it being, you know, role playing or whatever. I guess I realized that it was something that was going to happen. It was something that he really wanted to do. And through all that time, I wanted him to be happy. And I wanted his fantasies to come true. So you weren't totally on board, but you're like, you post us up online and see if you could find a guy and I'll, I'll throw you a bone. Exactly. Exactly. Okay. That's honest. Okay. All right. So what, so what are your, and so what's the deal? going in? Like what kind of conversations did you have? Because this is a big jump. You know,

you're now you're going to be doing this in real life. He's going on the apps. I'm assuming he's taking the lead and finding a guy. Like what was on the table? What kind of guy were you looking for? What app did you go on? Oh, we were on SLS in the in the very beginning. Okay. That was that that was where we kind of, because we wanted though the like the swinger specific. We didn't want to go off into like a Tinder situation. We wanted to find someone that was experienced that had been with couples before and someone that it was just a little bit less risky. But we found, it wasn't long, obviously.

We put our profile pictures up and she, we found someone that had some certifications and she was attracted to. And she basically, we basically just set up a group chat. on kick. I think we're using kick mostly at the time. And we're using, we're just setting up a group chat. Like everything was transparent. And I would, I would get really turned on, like, watching them do their thing just flirting back and forth. And I could see that she was getting into it, like the actual idea of the real thing. And that we were putting kind of a foot, one foot in front of the other to make it happen. We had, we had an event coming up. It was a friend's

wedding and we had gotten an Airbnb so we had found someone in the area that she was attracted to and and you know at the time she hadn't ever been with a black guy is that where you guys started though or did it just it was yeah okay okay so how come sporty wife like was that always like your fantasy like why going in is that your thing or is that another like your husband wanted to see the interracial thing and you decided to go there because it was what turned him on was it you or him I I think that what started it was when we did have some porn that was interracial and I was always just like blown away at how beautiful it was and I think I think I talked about that a lot and I think that's

kind of where it shifted unless you think something different I think that no I think it was just it was what she was most receptive to like we're in those role playing like portions of this whole evolution you know I bought like a you know, BBC toy, and it just seemed to be like, it's, it just heightened the experience even more. So when you went on the app, so when you're looking for guys, are you guys looking together? And because did you say, oh, let's only look for black guys? Or did you get like, because I'm assuming if you put your wife on, because she's super

hot on, you know, SLS that you're going to get a ton of guys interested in banging her, you know what I mean? Like, were you looking through the pictures too and you only responded to the black guys? And that's when you realize that's what you wanted? Or did you only go looking for that and advertise as that? No, in the beginning, it wasn't specific to that. But it was because in the beginning, like the first, the quote unquote, like, bowl, we had was black.

But we had been like after that, you know, we played with, it wasn't always like just strictly, you know, black men in the beginning. But it was just what after. after we had like gone through a few experiences, it's really all we wanted to go forward with. Like, I mean, eventually down the road, we wanted that we got into couples and like we had a couple

experiences with single women, but like down at the root of it all, what turns us on, both of us on, was that it was that interracial experience. So that's always something that we just like kept coming back to. And eventually it's just really become mostly everything. Let's go to that first experience. So the first guy happened to be black, right?

So let's go to that first bull and like what went down? Oh my gosh. It was so scary. I remember being in it. I was I was so nervous. And we had him coming over after to our Airbnb. And I just remember being so nervous. And the whole time too.

Like the whole thing made me so nervous. But were there any rules going in like no kissing only condoms no anal or was everything on the table? And did you know that your husband didn't want to? Was he like, was it known that he wasn't going to participate and just sit there? Like what was like your deal going into that experience? And then give me the details of what happened. I, we didn't have, I don't feel like we had a bunch of rules like laid out. I think we learned a lot of things after that. But. Yeah. Yeah, kissing was never, never been. I know that's the thing for some couples, you know, kissing is not. Kissing actually heightens things for me. Well, he, yeah, he told me when it first started to kiss the guy. And I was like, whoa, whoa, whoa. I was like, don't do that again because it put me on the spot and I was already nervous.

Did you have fun that first time? Or was it just a little freaked out? Were you just too freaked out and in your head to really enjoy it? I think I enjoyed it because you use the word I think and I guess a lot it's like kind of cute but it's kind of funny like don't you know what you feel I was I could tell I don't understand that but I get it it's like your vibe especially that first time I was so nervous and so scared but I was also so I felt so

good because we were doing it and I knew that's you know he had wanted that for so long but it was enjoyable and he was really nice and we've met him a couple times after that and I mean yeah it was it was fun okay so so you didn't you you were like really nervous and in your head that whole first experience you've had many experiences so we'll get details and other better ones but like so after that experience though for Jay I mean this is like your first time watching your wife fuck someone were you nervous or just warning for the whole situation what was your experience that first time oh I mean during it I was I was super into it and on a high, you know, I can really just compare it to like a little bit of a drug.

You know, it's, it's a like just such a dopamine surge that, you know, I can only compare it to a high, you know, that that that, that I get during the experience leading up to when I see her flirting with another guy, you know, texting him or sending him, you know, pitchers and getting into it leading in and then you know during the experience obviously and then after i mean the first time it that was that was a learning curve for us because she just she was obviously like sore the next morning and just wanted to relax and i wanted to be all over and so it's just i wanted that reclaim moment like right away And I didn't even understand what that was. And she wasn't, she didn't understand it fully at the time and neither did I. So the next morning was was more emotional, I think, than we thought that it was going to be.

In what sense? I woke up feeling wonderful and great, like I can't believe we did this last night and whatever. And he woke up just wanting to fuck. and I physically felt like I couldn't. I was sore and, and, you know, I wanted to take my shower and be happy and excited about the whole thing. And so that ended up making him upset, which was a huge, huge learning experience for us.

And I needed to actually, you know, I kind of researched it a little bit, like, why is he upset? Like, he should be on top of the world, you know? But he was very emotional that next morning. Why were you so emotional? You couldn't just give your girl a break that her pussy hurt too much? I mean, you don't have a pussy.

You don't understand. She was in pain. I know. I mean, in high, in high. I'm no offense to you, Sporty Wife. But your husband was not the victim in this situation. Okay. You should have been Googling.

Why the fuck does he fucking care that I can't fuck him tonight? I just fucked another guy for him. Sorry to say. I know. I don't feel sorry for Jay. It's like I feel. You're right. You're right.

You're right. In hindsight, I mean, obviously, like, since then, we've had these experiences and, like, you know, I can, I'm more in control of my needs. Listen, I could, I'm sure after she fucked a bunch of guys of big dick, she doesn't get sore anymore and everything and all that kind of stuff. And you guys have great, you know, reclaiming sex. I'm sure the reclaiming sex isn't an issue. But that first time, I mean, you know, come on. It's kind of fun. Oh, I get it.

I'm with you. Yeah, but it's, you know, your girl is so, like, nice. The fact that she's like, it feels so bad for you. She's not thinking about herself. You know what I mean? You got to, I wouldn't be like her. She's nice. Her sporty wife is nicer than me.

She's like feeling all like, why is he so sad? I have to go to Google. Yeah, it was like, what did I do wrong? Yeah, that's what I mean. Yeah, it's like, no, he was wrong. Okay, but anyway, let's move on because you guys got a lot of stories to tell. So after that first experience, you know, you're learning as you go and that's like typical, right? I think sometimes people think you got to like know everything going into anything,

whether you're starting a business, hotwifing, or starting anything, right? You're never going to know until you just fucking do things and you start learning as you go. So what did you like, so how did you guys proceed after that? Did you stay at SLS? Is that where you're always meeting your guys? At the time, yeah. That's where we were going to. I don't even think we knew anything about the apps at that point.

SLS was kind of just where we went. So tell me what, like, so how did it progress from there? Like, what was your next experience? When did you start seeing couples? You said you saw a girl. Like, just go chronologically. Yeah. All right.

So, I mean, we started using, like, we kind of got more comfortable as time went on with, like, venturing outside of, like, the typical swinging platforms. So, like, she would be, there's a, there's a couple apps like that she would be, just dating apps that she was on that she would find, you know, certain guys. and we we did like for couples like there was specific swinger apps like three fun like uh i don't know there's there's there's a bunch out there but you know the couple thing was always difficult for us like we tried it a couple times well we went on you know dinner dates to meet couples dinner dates we had a couple we had a couple experiences but it just there was never that like strong

four way connection and that was always and it just wasn't and honestly like there was one time we were with a couple I was more into just like wanting to see what was going on on the other bed yeah of course you know so I'm distracted on my side

you know so like you know and we've been to parties like where it's kind of like a group scenario and we've had a lot of fun we met a lot of great people in the lifestyle. But like at the heart of it, like we've always wanted to come back. And then we started, you know, on the content side with our platforms. And that was always leaning towards where we were rooted with, with the Queen of Spades,

you know, her just being with on the interracial side of it all. And so that's just like, it's just always where we had our best experiences. Like we've had. Talk about some of those. So you have your first experience. Not so great, you know, reclaiming. sex, but like, what's your next experience? Or, you know, how does it progress from there? You go back on, you meet another guy? We, we did meet one other guy. Yeah, that was. That was a much better experience.

I'm assuming you met a lot of other guys, right? Well, well, yes. We did. And, and I think there was only one other guy, and then we started going on dates with couples to kind of see how that was. Okay, guys, you know what I've learned as I've gotten older? The key to actually enjoying your plans is slowing your brain down enough to be present for them. And right now with spring coming, everything gets busy again. And that's where IndyCloud comes in. Indicloud is a fully legal online cannabis dispensary for gummies, exotic flour premium pre-rolls and sugar-free THC sodas. It's a clean alcohol free way to unwind without overdoing it. Listen, I have a nanny who's totally going through a super hard time.

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I think we just were curious. And I think... Jay, let me ask you this. Sorry, I cut you off. Jay, were you, like, looking to have fun with a woman, and that's why you guys sought out couples? Like, why the couple thing? How did that all of a sudden come into play?

She became a little bit more bicurious, I would definitely say. So, like, we were just wanted to explore, just say it was kind of like a bucket list thing. Like, hey, let's just see the couple, like, see how it goes with a call. Try and find a couple. Go on a date and see how it goes. And just, it was a bucketless thing, really. Like, we see all these other swingers doing it. Let's try and do it, you know.

But the guy before the couples, how was that experience, the second bill? It was good. It went really well. Are you talking about hell? Who? You found out? Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. It was actually fun. I think I was a lot more relaxed. Was he another black guy? Did you meet him on SLS? Were you hooking up with him? Yeah, we met. He is black.

And we met him through SLS. It was an SLS. He had a bunch of shirts at the time. And he actually became like a regular, like something like a regular. like bowl. Okay, so what happened that first experience? You're still you're never involved correct, Jay? You're never like getting involved in the action you're always just sitting there watching no yeah well I mean I'll always be there like for a safety reason like at the bar like if we're like meeting for drinks like I'm there and then like during there I'm kind of just like sitting back you

know okay but you're always in the room or do you sometimes like to be out of the room and have her play solo oh I like if we have like a suite or something you know I might just dip out of the room for a little and either listen from afar or just kind of give them a few moments to themselves for sure. Okay, so the second time, were you able, sporty wife, to get more into it? Were you less nervous? Like, what do you remember about that experience? I mean, because here you are like fucking another guy, you know, you're a vanilla woman. You know, this is your second time.

Like, is it hot to you at this point? Are you still doing it just doing it for your guy? I think it was still all for him at that point, but I was a lot less nervous and I was, especially with the second guy that we met and, you know, we actually became friends and I was like, oh, okay, this can be, you know, we can get together and have fun and it can be not, you know. Not just about sex? Yeah, I think more of, yes, I think more of a different connection that, that I was starting to like and getting attention. that way. Meaning you wanted to, you didn't just want to fuck a stranger. Like you needed to a little bit

more there going on. Exactly. I think most women are like that. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. So do you remember like having an orgasm with that guy? Like does that guy turn you want? Yes. Yes. I do remember it being a much better, more relaxed sexual experience for me. How's the reclaiming sex the next time? It was good. It was better. It was much better. And I knew that after we kind of talked about it and read about it even a little bit, I mean, you'd be amazed at the details and that. Also, she would like, after like two or three experiences, she would be like, she would openly tell me like, oh, it's like it would hurt when I first, when we first started this. And now it feels a lot better. Like, it's just, I'm having a lot better time. And so, like, we would just have more fun with it.

more. Well, do you remember when the reclaiming sex was good? Was it that second time? Yeah, I mean, any every, I would say every time outside of that, even outside of that first time, like, every time has been amazing. Okay. Okay, so you see that one guy, but now you decide to try couples. Tell me, did you have any good experiences with couples?

And tell me your first experience with a woman, sporty wife, that was on your bucket list. Yes. So our first experience with a couple. was a huge learning experience. We were really just wanting to try it and we went out for dinner and drinks with a couple and just kind of brought them right back to our room. And I was not viving with her, but I was, I was going to just, you know, kind of take one for the team. And we went back to our room and I was with the husband and she was with my husband. And I had to just stop it where it like right in the middle.

Well, they were, it was, it was, it was a situation where they were like under a time crunch with the sitters. And her and I really weren't overly feeling her. But it was like, we wanted to get an experience under our belt for better or for worse. I don't know. It was, it was kind of like a rookie mistake at the time. But, you know, and then so we're kind of getting, trying to get into it on separate beds. I'm interested in what's going on on there.

bed more than what's interested in going on on my bed and then they ended up like quote unquote running out of time and we were like not into it anyways so it was just a it was just a whole bus situation really with that first couple experience but a lesson learned for sure well what was your first good like did you have any good experiences with the woman it doesn't sound like you hooked up with that woman that's what i wanted to know like when was your first experience with a woman yeah my first experience with a woman we found a beautiful girl i can't remember what i was hinge you found her and we took her out to dinner and then the second time we met her we brought her to our room and that was my was that my first experience i mean angelique was our first yeah threesome with a unicorn if you will

Yeah. And she was that was scary for me, but also, I'm saying, and that also seeing him with another woman, that's when that kind of started for me, like openly saying that I like that. Okay, well, so walk me through that experience, what went down. This is the first girl you meet, the second girl or whatever. It's not a couple, it's a, it's a unicorn. She's going to be your first time with a woman.

Did you do everything with her? Yeah, well, when we met her, it was a snowstorm. We had to drive like an hour and a half out to meet her. And, you know, we're just like in our heads out there. Out that way, we're like, well, man, we're like risking our lives right now. And I'm like, in my head, I was like, I know, but like, I feel like it's worth it. Because she, you know, she was, you know, she was, she was very into the idea and very beautiful. And we just, you know, we, so we met her.

Rare. We had good chemistry. And the next time we met, we were at the, because we went to the casino. you know, met her at the casino. Mm-hmm. And we just went to a couple different of the bars, had drinks, had dinner. I did a little gambling while they were kind of just socializing on their own. And everything was great.

Both of them looked amazing. I felt like I was doing pretty good that night. I was feeling pretty good. And we went back to the room and, you know, it's amazing. being a different aspect of it's sitting. I'm sitting, I'm watching her with another woman. She's watching me with another woman. So it's just like a whole different vibe than what we had typically been used to up to that point.

But it was, it was, it was a, it was a blast. It was, it was a good time. I mean, I'm not, hopefully I'm not speaking for myself there. Well, how did you like at Sporty Wife? Did you, were you into going down on her? Did she go down on you? Like, because you're, this is also you getting into just being with women. This was on your bucket list.

Yeah, I think I was pretty nervous, obviously, but she kind of broke the ice. I think she said, Justin was fucking her. And she said to him, tell your wife to sit on my face. And so that's where, you know, it really started. But yeah, she was very submissive. That doesn't sound submissive. You're the one that sounds submissive in the situation. I think that was the only, yeah.

That was the only point. After that, she kind of just, I went down on her and we were just, that was the, yeah, we were just, you know, tag teaming her, you know. And how was that for you, sporty wife? Amazing. Okay, so you realize like you're into chicks. Oh, yeah. Okay.

So did you continue to look for unicorns and do you do that as well, or do you go back strictly and do the hot wiping thing? Because eventually that's like what you do mostly. Yeah, we were with her a few different times and just finding a unicorn is nearly impossible. So we- That's why they call a unicorn. Yeah, we still, we're always looking. We haven't quite found something like that again since, and that was a few years ago. So we did find another couple where we kind of were invited to their place for the weekend.

and they ended up having an entire party. Oh, so this is like a swinger party or a sex party at their house. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, they took us out. It was, they had a beautiful place. They do really well. And they had another couple out. So it was three couples there.

But they also, we also went to a couple different like quote unquote house parties at the time. But they were like, they weren't lifestyle parties per se, but they were. were just like let's go get in the hot tub and get naked so we were just like go. Sex parties. Sex parties. Because everyone might get banging. Is that what goes down at these parties? Well, we were a sex party, but the people where we were was not a sex party. But you and the couple that ran the party hooked up, but nobody else was hooking up. Is that what you mean? Not where they took us. And when they took us back to their place and they had, they had another couple there and us and them, that's when we started to, you know, do some ice breaking

games and everyone was naked some people were eating snacks and some people were fucking and it was it was a really different experience for us and it was it was a lot of fun so explain what went down i mean you got three couples there correct give some stories yeah we well we were sitting we sat around in the living room for a while doing like i don't even remember what icebreaker game it was but sporty wife she she pulled something where she had to take off one article of clothing and all she had on was a sundress and nothing else oh my gosh

and she just I remember because I was impressed she just like ripped this thing off and she was completely naked and we had just started the game she just did no reservation it was just like I'm ready to go you know and we nothing really really like took place in that moment and we played for a little while and there was it never ended up

being a room full of people fucking yeah it was like sometimes people would fuck a little bit over here she was just the girl started sucking dick for a little bit there there was a black guy there and and because of that I was like they he the black guy and his girlfriend were playing like in the living room and we were kind of just watching and uh you know I was just kind of sitting back and I was like if she doesn't mind maybe you want to go into that area for a little bit. It was all in the living room. So she went over and she did suck his dick for a little while, but there was never

like, we were just kind of playing on and off. It was a very casual. So no one fucked anyone? You guys didn't fuck anyone at that party? No, it's just, it was like soft play. They ended up, the problem was, is like, there was a lot of alcohol and things being consumed at the party. which kind of

ended up derailing things. What a letdown. Six couples all naked. No one's fucking. Yeah. That's what it's weird. Yeah. Yeah.

They didn't know how to get a party started. Yeah. Yeah. It was weird. I mean, because everyone's down to hook up with everyone. You're all there as kind of like, you know,

people who play, quote unquote, right? I mean, nobody's like, this isn't like a party of vanilla people. Not these people on a swinger site, correct? Yeah.

Well, I don't know. like honestly like the other couples that were there I don't know it is not like we had really talked to these couples beforehand it was very obviously it's okay let's move on from the dud party okay because nothing really happens and just move back on to like you know uh when you let's just get into when you get back into hot wiping and become like really like the queen of spades and decide to put yourself online why don't you go there that was during COVID and I think that O-F was kind of like a newer thing that we were hearing about. And at this point, are you back to, like, fucking a lot of guys?

I mean, we've only heard of two bulls, and we've heard of some couples and a thing. Are you back to, like, going on the apps looking for bulls? Is that what happens? Yeah, we're kind of bouncing around, like, chronologically. But, like, for probably the first two years of us being in a swinging relationship, but it was strictly just hot. It was hot wife scenarios. She was with these other guys.

Okay. So you had a lot of other experiences with guys that you didn't bring up after that second book. Yeah. I mean, well, the second guy that we had met became a regular guy. So we were with him fairly regularly. And then once we got the O.F. going not long after that, it was kind of like it became, you know, like once a month, we would try and get out to go to a hotel or go to visit either if somebody new or like a

regular bowl that she had been with prior to that she was already comfortable with and it was just easier for us to be with the people that she was already with comfortable with you know it just helped things go smoother especially the decision to go on to only fans was it to make money was it because you wanted to or because you get off on people seeing you was it because you were always videotaping and you just haven't told me that and you had all this shit and it's like porn and you want to why not monetize it like why the decision as a private couple doing this kind of stuff you know why the decision to go on to only fans well when we had that first experience we we didn't have an o f yet and i had so i had the video i was i took video then

and it was always super hot for us like afterwards to like watch the video together and then like once we were probably in it for doing it for like six months to a year, COVID came around and OnlyFans was taken off going nuts and I was like, well, we're doing this stuff anyways. Okay, cool. So you decide to start, because you just have all this content, you figure why not monetize it because everybody else is? I mean, I don't know if it was just, I was super into watching her, right? And having other, and showing, I remember, oh, man, I can't even remember. the app what it was.

Let me give my app that I always recommend. It's SDC and you can get a free trial if you go through my code 37712 and there's a link in the description. A lot of people in the lifestyle who like to hook up with people and do all this. It's like a great dating app. Plus it's a great app to find all the information in your area and you could go to SDC. But like you, what app do you go on for what reason? Tumblr. What are you on Tumblr for? Well, Tumblr was before we really got in a lifestyle. I was just showing, I was, I was, I was, I was, I was, I was, I was, I was, was posting like pictures of her and getting like not not like explicit pictures but and I was getting I would love just like showing her off so I was always I was always into showing her off anyways and

then once we had the video from having our experiences together and OF became such a was becoming such a widely spread thing we just I don't know we just kind of started we just got into it you know and then it because of the timing of it just kind of took off how did it take off just pop it was just pop I mean the first month did a low amount but after that first month it just seemed like it scaled so fast like without a whole lot of effort on our part and what were you posting there all of her previous hookups or were you creating content specifically for only fans at that in the beginning we stay pretty specific to just showing our hookup like her hookups and showing that off and the experience. Was it the past hookups that you already had or did you start creating content specifically to post on there? I mean both.

Okay. You started off with the past stuff and then because it did well you started creating more content and now you probably create content for it all the time. Exactly. Okay. Now was that fun for you, Sporty Wife? How did you feel about you? being out there? I liked it.

Mm-hmm. It was a lot of fun, you know, especially when that money starts rolling in. You know, you're doing this anyways. And, you know, now you're making money off of it. And other people are seeing it. And, yeah, it was really exciting. Let me ask you this, because a lot of this for you, sporty wife, is, you know, oh, I'm doing it for my guy and stuff like, what time did it change?

and it was like something that you were doing for your own pleasure. I think the biggest time was seeing him with somebody. And I think that I finally understood. I finally, you know, understood what he was feeling all this time. And I liked, I loved seeing him with somebody. And I started getting that same feeling too. And I think that's kind of where my mind opened up a little more. Okay.

So you do the only fans. Money comes in. you like it, right? Like you like for people to watch you. I mean, you're very big on Twitter, right? Like, why don't you give a shout out to all of your stuff and then let people know, like, what they get to see on there? Since you are so popular, obviously people like your content. Yeah, so we're on only fans. Obviously, we're on Twitter. We're on Reddit, big on Reddit. We recently put together like a little, like a mindset course, kind of all the things that we've learned going through our experience as far as like what things to do for your for a guy when he wants

this wait so you guys have this whole thing where you're helping other couples do what like get into hot life and get into the lifestyle like what specifically do you guys offer that help with and stuff because I think that's interesting because there's a lot of people listen to podcasts for that kind of information yeah I mean I mean we get a lot of messages from guys being just like hey or like just really dumb ways for like guys to approach her and also just like we've heard of guys doing really dumb things to try and get their wives into like the lifestyle like essentially trying to surprise them or like not talk about things before just like putting something out there for her and putting her on the spot and just like trying to just help guys circumnavigate that a little bit

better and just not make dumb mistakes. So what are there's a couple of things that you tell people? Give like your top three tips to guys and then give a shout out to where they could find like the real information and even more. Like what are you kind of telling people? So the top, top tips, like patient persistence is a good one. Like you're not always going to just bring up this topic and then just have her be like, oh yeah, like this is exactly what I want to do.

Let's do it. Like it's just not, it's very rarely going to work out that way. The second one is just transparency. Like, if you're going to bring this up, you know, don't bring it up when like your kids are screaming in her face. And, you know, and also like lastly, I would say like just like there's ways to like help her like grow her confidence. You know, let her go out with her friends and get drinks and, you know, be independent. Even though you're married, like, you know, let her see that side of herself. know she's married like go out like the independent have fun you know do a little flirting and

and it's it's amazing what that would do that'll do like just letting her kind of go you know spread her wings a little bit and just get out there again so what is it like a course and ebook that you have like how or do they just email you do you do coaching sessions yeah it's it's more of like it's a course that you can take and then those enrolled we'll just get instant access into our discord where we just do continued coaching. She's in the Discord. I'm in the Discord. Couples are in there.

A lot of, obviously, men on the couple side are in there. So, yeah, and then, like, they can obviously just continue coaching with us. Like, they have questions as they go through, like, you know, what they're doing or progress with their wives or as a couple, like, going into the into a play party or whatever it is, like, you know, just bouncing, just a, just a play party. place where people who are going through a lot of the same things that we went through, can just bounce things off of each other. Okay, I think it's super interesting. So, I mean, I have a Discord too, and you're going to get free access to it when you get off this call.

And feel free, like, to promote your Discord. I mean, you can't really put, like, links. I had to change it where you can put links in comments and stuff, but you can certainly put all of your information, like your OnlyFans and stuff and where they could take this course and then get access because you don't, it's private. Like, your Discord's private, like mine. they need the link. So you could put that information. I mean, I totally allow people to promote their stuff on my Discord. I love it. You know what I mean? It just creates more engagement. It's totally

cool. So, you know, definitely go into Discord and post yourself up and you could go also in the content creator place and do your thing and show teaser clips and send them and put your end. But then you'll also get access to the guest channel access so that when your episode comes out, you could put up picks and stuff. And then like I said, you could also say, hey, our links are in the, in our profile. You could definitely feel free to put all that info there. And why don't you just give a shout out real quick to all of your information for people that aren't on my Discord so they could like find all of your stuff? Yeah. So Twitter where she is the handles at sporty underscore Wi-E. Reddit is sporty wife and pretty much everywhere. Sporty wife is everywhere else. So

I mean Twitter and Redder are our main platforms outside of OF. So. Okay. cool. And Sporty Wife's super high. They're not going to be disappointed. You could do me a favor and send me like some rated R or just like hot sexy picks for my Patreon of Sporty Wife. Like of course, Anonymous. I don't post anything X rated on my Patreon like lingerie picks or even bikini picks are fine for Patreon. And then you could post whatever you want over on Discord. But send me that stuff if you can sooner than later. So I have it for my Patreon when your episode airs. Is that cool? Yeah. Sounds good. All right. Awesome. So, you know, listen, I always am rolling with like 10,000 episodes tape. already so it takes like weeks before people go up but your episode will definitely be up and I always put couples and women on Mondays so your episode will be on a Monday coming up but you could go in my Discord anytime you know what I mean and sign up for there okay great awesome thank you so much no thank you guys for calling in hopefully people will sign up and you can help people over there like I said don't feel don't feel about to like promote that on my Discord that will

help people you know what I mean I love giving people the resources that they can use so thanks you guys Thanks so much for calling in and get me those pictures sooner than later, okay? Just so I know that I have it, okay? Yeah, sounds good. You got it. Bye you guys. Thanks for calling in. Bye, bye.

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