Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1408 - Jane is Into Gangbangs, 3somes, Foursomes, Orgies and Moresomes

Episode Date: March 26, 2026

ane is hardcore and into gangbangs and threesomes and foursomes and moresomes and she called in to talk about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and why she was hooking up with women and multiple men and having threesomes and moresomes right from the get go, the couple she met in NYC who she hooked up with, how she then started going to swinger parties and then became a unicorn and loved it, the female she dated and all the crazy hook ups they had including her first double penetration with two cousins, the dp she set up for her dying friend and what went down, the details surrounding her 12 guy bukkake gangbang, how she met her husband and all the crazy stuff she got him into including threesomes, foursomes, orgies and more, how he dealt with how open she was, the change she’s gone through in the past couple of years and why she’s’ toned down her slutty side, how she’s in a new relationship and why they’ve decided to be monogamous for now, how and why when she looks back at her promiscuous past she has zero regrets plus a whole lot more. To read more about her marriage buy Seek the Risk  REPEAT, originally aired 09/24 GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To see HOT pics of JANE plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://LoadBoost.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — To get 10% off LOAD BOOST by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2610-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://inda.shop/STRICTLY!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you’re 21 or older, get 40% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code STRICTLY Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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This is cc.com. Use my code 37712 or just go to the description and click on the link and you're going get a free trial to check it out. Okay, listen, today I have on Jane. I was dying to talk to Jane ever since I talked to her boyfriend, her husband, her ex-husband, Adam. Adam was on the show previously. If you want to hear his episode, I'll put a link in the description. Not a link. I'll put his number in the description, but he called in to talk about how he was with like this really hardcore girl married to a woman in a very open relationship and how he used his rock climbing abilities to get him over the jealousy that he felt with how hardcore and open she was. It was a super, it was a super, interesting episode when he told me stories about Jane and how hardcore she was. I was like,

oh my God, I need her on my show. This is one of those girls that you just don't hear about often. Okay. Well, she finally came on. She did not disappoint. She talks all about, you know, how she was promiscuous from the get-go. This was a woman who was having threesomes and four-sums and orgies when she was super young. She grew up in Europe. She came over to the United States. And once she did, she wound up bumping into a couple who she started to hook. up with and they got her involved in the lifestyle and she continued to have threesomes and foursums and orgies she's done dp she's hooked up with women and men and all kinds of and cousins she's done bucocchi gangbangs okay been there done that you're going to hear all those stories and what's interesting about jana

she's had like you know she's been doing this since the get-go and she's grown and changed she does talk about the fact that she is currently in a monogamous relationship. But they plan on opening their relationship in the future, for sure 100%. And she describes all of that. It's a whole journey. And her journey is super interesting how she has grown, evolved and changed over time. But she still is that hardcore girl. Trust me, you're not going to believe her stories, the stuff that she's into, the stuff that she's done, and how open she still is. So I do have a hot pick of her if you want to put a pick to the episode. It's over on my Patreon.

Patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. But you're going to love her story. So I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Jane. Hi, Jane. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? Hi. Doing well.

Thanks for having me. Well, listen, Jane, I don't typically go after people to be on my show. Most of the time I'm just emailing people back who email me. But I was obsessed with getting you on my. show because I had a guy on called, we'll call him Adam, okay, you dated Adam. He wrote a book about your relationship because it was the first, well, it wasn't the first open one for him, but it was the most long term. And he was with you. And he came on the show to talk about it. He wrote a whole book about it called Seek the Rest. He was very jealous. He had issues when he

was in the open relationship with you because you are so like hardcore. I was slightly obsessed with Jane when I was talking to Adam. I was like, oh, my God, I want Jane, quote, unquote, on my show. Because really, who you are and who you went into that relationship with with him. And it's why he wrote his whole book about it because he had to really conquer a lot of parts of himself to be able to even be, like to date you because you were just so super open minded, totally open sexually, no shame, no guilt, hardcore, right? Which I love. I love women like that because I think it's not the norm. So I was like, Adam, get Jane on the show. And I do want to promote his book, okay, because anyone, all of my, I got a lot of

listeners to buy the book. And so many people wrote in and told me that they loved it. It's called Seek the Risk, people who have read it, really dig it. It's a really interesting concept. What he did and what he talks about in the book besides your guy's relationship, right? It's how he used his rock climbing experience and things he had to use to get over his fear and everything. In that way, he had to use those same tools in the relationship with you or just navigating non-monogamy, which was super interesting and cool. So I'll put a link to his book in the description. And they'll get a lot of stories about you in there, too, because you guys had a very long relationship together, right? How long were you with Adam, total? We were married for

about eight years. Okay. And dating before that or just like together totally eight years? We dated for a relatively short period of time before that. So yeah, about eight years total together. Okay, cool. Oh, so you got married early on. Mm-hmm. Okay. About a year. About a year in. Yeah. And how old were you at that time? I mean, no one knows who you are, if you don't mind telling me. 28 or so. And now, like, I know from him all these, like, crazy stories and stuff that you were into right from the get-go when he met you.

So, you know, what I was so interested in is, like, learning your backstory. Because you came into that relationship super open and wanting to have an open relationship. But, like, when did that start for you? Were you always very sexually curious and open-minded? about sex when you were younger? Yes, I was. I was always a highly sexual kid for as long as I can remember. I started masturbating really young, maybe three or four, and then went on my entire preschool years and into my school years.

And, yeah, I was incredibly curious. I started having sex early. I started having all sorts of events. adventures early on and had lots and lots of adventures before I moved to the U.S. and from Europe. And, yeah, managed to get into all sorts of kinds of experiences. Well, when you were in Europe, though, what's the attitude there regarding women who are very promiscuous and down to fuck whoever they want? Was it worse than it is here in the United States or better?

What was the vibe there in Europe? Because that's interesting that that's where you grew up and that's how you were there. I don't know what it's like there. Well, Europe is, may not be that big geographically, but it has lots of different countries and lots of different kinds of social systems around it where I was growing up, it was fairly traditional and conservative and definitely the lifestyle that I wanted to live and then actually lived was not something that was socially acceptable. So it was something I was told.

I can't have or shouldn't do that nobody would marry me. Oh, yeah, true. True story. Yeah, if I were to be as slutty as I wanted to be. And, yes, I experienced a fair amount of slut shaming for that. People didn't really understand. And it was always the double standard that guys could do it, but women could not. And I was like, what the fuck?

Why not? Why can't I? I know, it's so weird. So it was the same shit over in Europe. It's not, I didn't know whether it'd be better or worse, same shit that you were dealing with over there as a woman who was open sexually and curious. But that didn't deter you, right? Obviously. It did not.

For some reason, it did not. I kind of reveled in that identity as a rebel. I knew I was a rebel. I knew I was breaking the norms. But I just didn't agree with the norms. They did not make sense. And for some reason, I felt like I, I was. would rather be a rebel and deal with some of that social disapproval than cave in and live how

live the way other people wanted me to live as opposed to how I wanted to live. What I've always said, and maybe it'll ring true to you, I think. I was always like, listen, it's not like I don't care what people think about me. I do on some level. But my desire to be myself is like my need to be myself is stronger than my desire and need to be liked. And that's what wins over people. Most people's desire and need is to be liked by other people, not to be themselves. You were probably more wired. Like, you just had to be you. You didn't know how to do it. And that was the way I was. Yeah. And I was obviously aware that not everybody was going to like me, but I was also perfectly happy to not have everyone like me. I thought that was an unreasonable

expectation to have that everyone's going to like me. And I was pretty sure that the world was large enough to find some people who were going to like me. And I wanted to be liked by those people. I didn't want to be liked by the people who were going to judge me. Those were not my people. And that was something I kind of realized early on that there are different kinds of people out there and we need to find our people.

And I knew my people were out there. Even if they weren't where I grew up, I knew there was a big, wide world out there. And that... You'd find your place. would be able to find it. Yep. Yeah. And did you find that more when you came here? And did you find it in the lifestyle and the Swinger community or like how did you find that? Yeah, for sure. When I moved to the U.S. and especially New York obviously has a big scene, big sex positive community culture scene that I became a part of in different ways. And there was. There were plenty of people who were living a lifestyle that was similar to mine. And I'd find my people. Yeah.

So what were those first experiences like? I mean, you said like you started being curious when you were super young. So obviously you're sleeping with men. Were you sleeping with women? Were you having threesomes and doing all that stuff when you were younger? Or was it when you got into the lifestyle? Or had you had already done that in Europe before you even got here? Oh, yeah.

I had done a lot before I got here. Yes, I was definitely having sex with men. I was having sex with women, which was looked. very much down upon. Oh, really? Yeah, growing up, probably I got more shit for that than I got for just being regular slutty with men. I, yeah, had threesomes with guys, had threesomes with women.

I'd had stuff like public sex in places where we could be seen and caught. I had sex with people who are much older than me because I was still in my teen years and having sex of people who are much older. Age of consent is teen where I'm from. So it's a little different than here. How old were you when you lost your virginity? You remember? Younger than that. Younger than 14. So you were super young. Okay. So when you got to the city, when you got to the city, did you seek out like swingers clubs? And do you remember those first experiences that you had or were swingers parties? Did you go online? Like, how did you get involved in the lifestyle? It's funny. The first time I went out in New York, I was with some people I knew from back home because I didn't know anyone when I first moved there, except for these people from back home. And we went to a club in New York that no longer there. But I met this gorgeous man. I mean, one of the most beautiful men I've ever seen in my entire life and kind of start flirting with him.

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where I'm from, but other parts of Europe. And so I knew that that world existed, obviously, in New York as well, but just literally, I found people who were part of that world on my first night out in New York. And you weren't even in the world. No, no, that was. Yeah. It was crazy. This was a regular club. We went there for dancing. Yeah, crazy. And I meet this couple, and this couple, they're swingers. And they're like, well, next time you come and visit, because I wasn't, I didn't live in New York when I first moved to the U.S.

I lived elsewhere. And they were like, when you come back to New York and visit next time, maybe you should stay with us instead of your friends from back home. And I was like, yes, I would love that. Did you sleep with them that first time you met them, like that night? Or did it happen when you came back on your second? trip. It happened when I came back because they already kind of had plans for that night and I had plans with my crew that I was out with. So yeah, I got their number and then on my next trip to New York, I stayed with them. And actually, that night, after we hooked up and it was really fun,

we were going to go out. And before we went to, we went out to the clubs, they were like, we got invited over to a friend's house. They just finished him and his girlfriend. just finished renovating the apartment and they wanted to invite us to kind of take a look and then we're all going to go out. Well, that friend was Adam. Oh, you're kidding. I don't remember like exactly how you met him. Oh, interesting. Yeah. And that Adam and his girlfriend at the time had been a couple that this couple had been hooking up with. So I met Adam through a couple that we were both hooking up with. Oh my God, that is hilarious.

But at that time, he had the girlfriend. I remember one of the funniest things in his episode was that you had always kind of looked at his girlfriend like, I don't get it. You know what I mean? And then like, way later, you were like, oh, my God, now I see why she's so fucking hot and that you were into her. Like you kind of got it later, right? Yeah, she was not my type physically. So they did that night, at the end of the night, Adam did approach me to offer, to invite me to join them. but I wasn't quite into her physically.

And so I said no. And then there was probably like three years before Adam and I actually got together, started hooking up. By then, he was no longer with her. And a lot of time had passed. But yeah, that was one of my first, yeah, one of the first months that I was in the U.S. is when I met Adam through that world. And then through that couple, I ended up going to some of these swinger parties, meetups.

kind of get-togethers, meeting other people, and so on. And how was that for you? I mean, were you, like, did you feel like you were a unicorn? I mean, you were like a single girl navigating the lifestyle? Yes, I was a total unicorn. I loved it. Yeah. Well, people high demand, high demand for you.

Yeah. And you had your pick. Does you feel that way? Absolutely. Yeah. It's so much fun with it. And, yeah, the different parties, the different events. And then I branched out.

It wasn't just those events. I had this girlfriend for a while and she was a wild one as well so we would go to the summer events with her but then we were also just to pick up people from bars and regular clubs and give give them the night of the nights of their lives like a show because you and your girl were hooking up and then you'd fuck whoever you brought home kind of thing and turn them on to an orgy or something for them they'd never get it before we'd pick up a guy or a couple of guys or something like that. I remember my first DP happened in that context. We picked up these two cousins. Oh my God. They were cousins? They were cousins. Yeah. And you brought them over to her place. She was a big squirter. And so that was kind of a mind-blown for them. Because she was squirting left and right. And then at some point, that was something I'd wanted to do for a long time and just hadn't happened. And so we

We had the DP and my girlfriend was like, oh my God, your moans reached a whole new Octave woman. And the guys were like, you should be in porn. Yeah. I mean, do what they say, do what you love and the money follows. I mean, you like sex. You love sex. Mm-hmm. Yeah.

But porn was never appealing to me because in porn, you do what looks good on camera, not what feels good to you. and I had no interest in that. I wanted to fuck for myself, not for other people. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Did you ever figure out how to squirt, by the way? Yeah, I've squirted it a few times. It's not my favorite thing. It's not really pleasurable.

For me, it feels more of a party trick. Yes, that's what I was always obsessed with being able to squirt or add deep throat, like certain things that people, and multi-orgasmic. Like, I'm not, none of those things. And I'm always like, I just want them in my back pocket for like, to me, it's like a party trick because I do think people are impressed by it. Like you were impressed by your girlfriend that could squirt, right? And those guys were.

In the beginning, I was impressed. Yeah. And I was like, oh, my God. I mean, she came. She was super multi-orgasmic. Yeah. She would come like seven, eight, ten times each time we had sex. And each of those, she would squirt.

For her, always orgasm went with squirting. And at the beginning, I was like, oh, my God, this is amazing. Scouting in my mouth, squirt in my face, squirted all over. And then it became like, I want to sleep in dry, like, on dry sheets. That's so real life. That's just real life. Not get you from squirt. Yeah.

That's hilarious. So, yeah, squirting, take it or leave it. I do like dry sheets to sleep in. And that is more important to me than seeing someone squirt. The other things you talked about, I mean, those are some of my staples. I love deep throating. That's something I learned a long time ago. How did you learn it?

Do you remember? I don't know. My throat just opens up. That's not learning it. You're just a natural. I mean, yeah, I don't have much of gag refree. flex. I never have. And I love getting my face fucked. So deep throating is great. And it's a, it's kind of a point of pride to be able to get almost any cock down my throat. There are,

there's some that I can't, the ones that are too wide. Yeah. But I can get any length. Really? So like 12 inches, nine inches. They could go all the way down like into like maybe I don't even know where and you don't have any problem. Oh my God. Yep. Yeah. As long as they're not, again, as long as they're not too thick because that's a limited resource, the thickness piece, but the length is pretty unlimited. So yeah. Yeah, that's crazy. And then multiple orgasms is huge.

That's another thing that I learned very early on. I mean, unlike many women who have casual sex and don't get to come much, I've always come with almost every partner every time. And that's because I know how to make myself come. I don't really rely on them as long as they have. have somewhat hard dick and... Yeah, you can make it work. I can work with myself.

Yeah. And I've always been multi-ogasmic. So, yeah. Were you like a one and done and then you became multi? Or were you always kind of multi? Because I wonder if you can learn it. I don't know. Yeah.

I think some people are wired differently than others in terms of our refractory periods. Yeah. And I honestly don't remember exactly when that switch. which happened, but it definitely was pre-moving to the U.S. So it was still in my teens when I would have these multiple orgasms. It wasn't when you got DEP'd. It wasn't like two dicks inside of you made it happen. No, no, no, that was there before.

Right. For sure. Yeah. I remember Adam Tau talking about a story where I just thought of this because of the D.P. That you had a friend, I'm assuming it's a girlfriend who was like dying or something. And her dying wish was to have. a DP and you set it up for her. Is that a real story? Yeah, that's a real story. It's a, it's beautiful and a really sad story. But yeah, one of my best, or at the time she was my best friend and got a cancer

diagnosis that didn't leave much time for her. And one of the things she wanted to do on her, that were on her bucket list. Yeah. Was to have a DP and she knew I'm the one to help her set it up. So, yeah, we did that. I had kind of a plan A and a plan B. Plan A was to go and actually plan A, B and C. Yeah. Plan A was to go and pick up someone from the bars or clubs. And we did that.

We picked up two people and it failed because when one guy's dick would get hard, the other one would lose it and vice versa. It was one of those scenarios where we just could not get both of them hard at the same time. Then we tried, I tried finding people on Craigslist at the time. This was a while ago. Yeah. It was pre-apps, casual encounters on Craigslist, and that didn't work out either. And then finally, I reached out to some of the people I knew in the sex positive community, and we made that happen.

And it was pretty spectacular. She fucking loved it. Wow. And you always, I'm assuming you like DP. Have you ever done DVP? Like two dicks? I'm assuming you have, right? Is there anything you haven't done, by the way?

Maybe I asked you that question. That's on your bucket list? I don't think so. Oh, God. There's not a lot of things I haven't done, but certainly I haven't done double anal. And I don't think I ever wanted to do that. But you've always been a three-input girl? Mm-hmm.

You've always been a three-in-put girl, though, I'm assuming. You like anal. I do like anal, yeah. I know that Adam said that on his, I remember I'm saying that on his second date with you, you told him that you got Bukakkeed and gangbing by 12 men already by the time you met him. Tell me that story. I mean, how did that get set up? Because I've heard from real gangbang girls.

I mean, it's not that easy to set up a gang bang. Like, how did you get in with 12 guys? It's not. That's true. Yeah. It was set up by someone who throws sex parties. It was kind of the probably the first sex party crew

that I met and they were a mix of like swingers and BDSM folks and honestly it was this sleazy old big very unattractive man who I was like you will never touch me. So it would just make that clear but yeah I was like I want to do this

and he was willing to set it up for me so he did all the grant work I gave him the specifications for the kinds of men I wanted. And what were those? Tall, hot, and ripped, like six-pack. So six-pack has been kind of a non-negotiable for the most part in my life. I mean, I fucked a lot of people and probably maybe five to ten percent of them have not had a six-pack. Oh, wow. You're lucky. Yeah. You're lucky because there's, I don't know why guys don't think they have to stay fit, but they don't as much as women think about it for some reason. Well, a lot of

Women don't, I guess, have that criterion. Yeah, yeah, yeah, but you do. I do. It's funny, people often think of promiscuous women as, or promiscuity in general, as indiscriminate. Yeah, not the case. You fuck whoever, whatever, whatever. And that may be true for some people, but it's definitely not true for me.

I've been very, very picky about who I fuck. It's based, it's been based on this physical, specific physical, appearance criteria that I have. Well, then you move to the right place because I feel like you're going to find more hot people in New York. Sorry, everybody. I live in New York City. It keeps you on your game, right?

Because it's like a lot of attractive people. So, all right, so it was like you wanted them tall. You liked tall. You wanted six packs. Are you a size queen? Do you give a shit about size? Are you one of those? Yeah.

I mean, not, it's not necessarily the bigger is better. Yeah. There is a limit. But I definitely like them on the, on the, bigger side of things. So above, somewhat above average and above is ideal. So yeah, that was also part of the criteria

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happy. Are you a size queen? Do you give a shit about size? Are you one of those? Yeah, I mean, it's not necessarily the bigger is better. Yeah. There is a limit. But I definitely like them on the, on the bigger side of things. So, somewhat above average and above is ideal. So yeah, that was also part of the criteria, I believe, for the gang bang. So does he like send you picks, though, ahead of time? Or does you give him the, so he did, right? So you get all the picks?

So he did the first round of selection. Okay. And then the ones he thought I might be okay with, he sent those to me. And then I did the next round. And he invited those that I okayed. Wow. And that was 12 of them.

Yeah, I think it was 12 of them or something like that. And then he also found two fluffers from the crew. I've heard about that. They need the fluffers. Yeah. And there were the fluffers who initially they started just prepping the guys for me, but then they ended up fucking everyone. Oh, they did?

Or a bunch of them as well. Yeah, they ended up fucking too. So it was, it kind of turned into an orgy down the line. But it was definitely focused on me for a while. And you did want through Bukaki as a part of it because that's not necessarily always involved in a gang bang, right? I mean, that was a part of it for you, though, in what you wanted?

Yes, absolutely. Because you love calm all over you? I mean, guys love girls that love comp, just so you know, okay? It's not very common. I may have noticed. If I put the word come, like, if I put in Jane loves come as your title, it'll get highly downloaded. Great.

Yes, I do love calm. I like it everywhere. And it's funny, I said so many guys, I can come anywhere. I'm like, yeah, you can come anywhere except inside of me. Oh, wow. And so because obviously we were using condoms for the gang bang and they couldn't come inside me, I thought it would be a, it would be a total waste for them to come inside condoms. Yeah.

So, yeah, that was, the Bukaki was part of it. So how was that for you? Because I was very surprised. I had a woman on who started Afterglow, which is like porn for women made by women company. And she was telling me that besides lesbian porn, the most highly downloaded porn for women was gang bang porn. And I was surprised because I know it's very highly downloaded by my audience, but I think I have a little bit more men than women. But there's a lot of women that have the gangbang fantasy, right? Obviously, you were one of them.

Yep. It was amazing. Yeah. It was amazing. I mean, my favorite group play scenario is multiple men, multiple decks. I love deck. I like a lot of deck. And there are a number of different holes that can be filled.

And so, yeah, it's super, super fun. I would highly recommend it to anyone who wants it that turn it into a reality. And now before you met David, I mean David, why did I say David? Before you met Adam, did you have any other relationships? Because I would feel that probably a lot of guys would be very intimidated by you.

I mean, unless you met them in the lifestyle, maybe that's the only place you were meeting guys, I don't know. Like, how did guys feel about you before Adam when they met you and they found out about your lifestyle and how you were, open you were? Yeah, I had a long-term relationship with a woman back home for a number of years. And then when I moved to the U.S., I was a kid in a candy store, so I was not really looking for a relationship. And I mean, there were certainly a few men over the course of those three, four years until Adam and I started to hang out that I thought, hmm, there could be something more here. Yeah. But, yeah, I was too wild for all of them.

Yeah, I could imagine it would be super intimidating for a lot of guys. I mean, and even, I mean, this is what I think, thought was so interesting about Adam's story and why his book is so interesting. because he found a lot of it difficult too, because you were really extreme. You wanted to, you were who you were. It didn't sound like you wanted to compromise. You knew exactly what you fucking wanted. And if he was going to be with you, this is the way it was going to be. And he was on a mission.

I mean, you guys were in love. He really wanted to make it work. And he was able to really conquer a lot of parts of himself to be able to do things the way you wanted them. But you did go into that relationship. Like you want Dick and you want it with whoever, whenever. And a big thing he said that was a part of your love language. And I think we all have a different love language is you loved sharing your stories when you were with other guys. Like he didn't mind you playing with other guys.

But you wanted to tell him about it. And that's where he was like, no, thanks. Yeah, he definitely struggled with that. And I like sharing. And he did, I mean, a tremendous amount of. inner work to handle what he calls my extreme non-monogamy. And it was pretty extreme. And I was also not really, I mean, I was still young and didn't really have a lot of patience

and compassion for the feelings that he was having. So I was not of a lot of help. I would definitely not recommend anyone doing non-monogamy. That way. To treat their partner the way I treat it. Yeah, of course. Like when I said, oh, you were kind of like, I'm just going to be who I am and that's it. Like you have to accept it.

Like, you know, most open relationships at work, it's because you have to take into consideration maybe somebody else's feelings and whether they ring true for you or not, you have to accept that they are for the other person. And so you feel differently about it now looking. But were you in like your 20s when you were with him? How old were you guys? I was late 20s and early 30s, yeah, until my mid-30s, yeah, late 20s to mid-30s is when I was with him. And I was just not done being single almost.

Like I feel like I was very much acting like a single person in a relationship. Yeah. Oh, in marriage, even more. Yeah, we're married. Yeah, yeah. And yeah, I was not quite ready to do. take this other person's needs and feelings into consideration too much. I mean, I certainly made some concessions. I don't want to make it sound like it was exactly. You weren't terrible. He stayed

with you for seven years. He was in love with you. I mean, I think, listen, you were open and honest about exactly who you were. It wasn't like there was, but that's just where you were at. Yeah. Yeah, he knew exactly what he was getting himself into. There was no deception whatsoever. And, and I did try to, I mean, this relationship in many ways was a compromise on my part, even though it was way more extreme for him than he was imagining or wanting or could handle necessarily. I was making concessions. So that was a toned down version of me. And in many ways, especially in the beginning, because we had more rules and more restrictions in the beginning of the first couple of two, three years then later on. And so, yeah, I try to accommodate to some extent his needs and

feelings, but not nearly to the extent that I would want to do for a partner now. And I mean, that also goes back to who just I was at the time and what I was focused on and how much empathy and compassion. You could feel for others at that time. I get it. I mean, listen, You're supposed to grow and change in life. That's more normal than it's not. And I think your 20s are all about trying to figure out who the fuck you are. And we tend to be a little bit more selfish at that time, really hyper folks fixated on ourselves, right? How else do you figure yourself out?

And you get older and things change. You think about other things. Yeah. And coming from that culture that was pretty repressive. And I'd spent some 10 years or so, the first 10 years. years of my sexually active life I spent in that world that kept telling me you can't do this. It's not okay to do this or no one's going to love you if you do this and so on. And then coming to New York and seeing that that was actually possible and okay and then finding

someone who did love me. Not, I mean, despite or because of I was who I was. And so there was something really healing, I think, for me to be. be with someone who I could be this super, super slutty version of myself and feel that I'm loved and cared for. Yeah, to the extreme. To the extreme. Yeah.

And that was, I think I needed that for the amount of time that. And then you probably, you probably didn't have to overcompensate then, right? Like, that's, that's how you had to do it. You have to push them, like, kind of smudge it. Like, it was more for you, though. I could see how that would be healing coming from where you were coming from and what was put on you. And for him

he healed in a different way. He learned a lot about himself. I think that's what always what's going on in relationships when you because you guys are still friends to this day. Oh yeah, yeah. We're very close friends. He got a lot too. I mean, he got to live the sex life of his

dreams in any way. He got to check off every single thing he ever had on his bucket list and then some. And to have that over and over and over again. So what were the kind of things you guys turned him on to and you brought it? Did you bring him in to?

I mean, he was with a partner that they were having threesomes, right? And stuff like that beforehand. But what were the stuff that you did that he had never done that you turned onto? Yeah, he had had some open relationships before that. That mostly consisted of threesomes together. Yes. And not with some crazy frequency with me.

mean, we had a lot of threesomes with women and he got to fuck some some really hot women. I know you brought home for him. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Yeah. We got to have three sons with guys, foursums, big orgies. We would go to these play parties where we had all sorts of kinds of experiences. Got to fuck on.

I don't know. It was a time when he got to fuck, I don't know, seven, eight women in one night. Oh, my God. While you were there, right? Because you guys did play solo. You had that rule, right? Yeah, yeah, we played solo as well. And so he could meet different people when I was not around as well.

And he got to experience these, he got these moments of going on dates with women and being able to be the person who says, yeah, it's okay to be slutty. Or they would come to him with kind of shame or guilt about their desires. And he'd be like, my wife's fucked hundreds of people. and, you know, I'm still married to her. And so he would give them that experience that they would have never had. God, what, I mean, I don't know what else we did. All sorts of public sex. Oh, yeah.

Oh, you did public sex. Is that something that you're into, like, exhibitionism? It is. It is. I do like public. So it sounds very naughty. Yes. We never did a gang bang.

I mean, that was a harder one for him to wrap his head around. And so, yeah, I. I kind of kept, I mean, because I then at some point started organizing, especially after that experience with my, my best friend and knowing how many of the female friends in my life also like that. And then often the play parties would go to would either have kind of an even number of men and women or would be more heavily skewed toward women. And so I started throwing these super slot parties where the ratio would be. three to one men to women. Oh, wow. So there were much smaller parties that were in like big, big events, but, you know, it'd be like

three, four women and 10, 12 guys. So women could have those DPs. That's what you were living. Yes. Oh, my God. Yes. Yes. And Adam was never a part of that.

Although, over time, he started to get really turned on by it. Uh-huh. I mean, he did so much incredible, incredible work and growth to go from a place of not really wanting to hear about those kinds of experiences to getting really turned on by it. And a part of your sharing, because like I remember I'm saying that's like a part of your love language, is that also just turn you on to relive it telling your partners or something about that. That's a turn on for you as well? Sure.

Is that what it was? Yeah, of course. I mean, so that's one part. And the other part is just wanting to share with my partner, you know, everything about my life. and I've thought these experiences were such interesting, exciting kinds of experiences that I would want to share with the person who's closest to me. Yeah. Now, because you had that relationship with that woman and then you met Adam, this is the first guy, you guys wind up getting married. Did you have, I mean, were you just, even when you fell totally in love with him, like zero jealousy, zero issues on your end being 100% open? I mean, I don't remember him talking about you having any issues. with being like extremely non-monogamous. I know he did.

Do you ever experience it at all? No, not really. I don't remember anything like that with him. And I think a big part of that was how secure I felt in his love and commitment to me that. Yeah, I didn't feel that there was any threat that any of those sex capades posed for, four-hour relationship. That he would ever leave you for anybody. Because really that's what I think the biggest fear is, right?

Mm-hmm. Yeah. And I also, I knew how, how unique, I guess, I was and how much he valued that uniqueness. That I was like. Security. Right. How is I going to find another Jane? I've talked to thousands of people.

There's not many James. I have a handful of girls. I call them my hardcore, hardcore girls. I'm obsessed with them. I like anyone that's, like, different than me and that has balls to do. do things that like all the of my dreams. I love those kinds of people. And that's what my hardcore girls are. And I could totally understand how you would feel very secure because you're like, he's not going to meet another Jane. It's not the norm at all. And I mean, you really don't.

I mean, it's really who you are because like literally you fell in love with him. You had a real relationship with him. You were married to him. And zero jealousy. Like nothing came up for you at all ever. I mean, you really, it's not common. So, yeah, there's also a part of me there who at the time was not, like you were so in love with them. I was not so in love with them. I don't think I was fully available to be so in love. And maybe that's why you weren't open to his things and stuff. You were younger.

You were younger at that time. I got it. That's very honest. I was younger and not quite ready. Ready. Yeah. to have a fully open heart. I appreciated him immensely and I still do.

And I have a lot of love for him and care. But yeah, there was also a ceiling effect at the time in terms of, or a floor effect, I guess, and how deep I was able to go. So I think that probably helped in not feeling the jealousy. Well, since him, because you guys together for eight years, you're still friends of this day. Like, it's not like it ended that badly. I don't remember the ending. But, I mean, have you had other relationships since?

Are you in a relationship now? Have you been in real love yet? Yes. I've had a couple two, two, three. This is the third relationship that I've been in since we've been together. and my heart has definitely been opening up more over the course of those years since. And yeah, I'm actually currently in love. And how long have you been with your guy now?

About eight months. Oh, okay. And did you go into this like super open? He knew exactly what you were into. This is like a non-monogamous relationships, a non-monogamous relationship. So he, I mean, definitely knows who I am and who I've been, but in the last four or five years, I've undergone quite a bit of a change. I toned down the sluttiness quite a bit. Kind of been there, done that?

Yeah. Yeah. I went through a period of celibacy, intentional, celibacy for a number of months. Uh-huh. Months. Months. Yes, a number of months. Yeah.

No, but it's for other women, I sell this. He would be years for you, like just a couple, like some months without sex is big for you. But I get it. It's funny, though. It's huge for me. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's funny, though. I thought you were going to be like three years to, you know, you're like months.

No. I don't think that's in the cards for me. Yeah, yeah. But that is, but, you know, in your life for you, that is like another person going years, right? That's the real point. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, I was having sex three, four, five times a week on a pretty regular basis.

Going without sex for two weeks was probably the maximum. Exactly. So that was big for you. Yeah. So doing six months of celibacy was huge. Yeah. And then I've had another couple of periods of shorter like three months and then another three months. And so I've done that.

And yeah, definitely toned it down. I mean, at some point you get to a place where you're like, okay. I've done this so many times. I know exactly how this is going to play out. And I got to a place where I was like, I want to focus. Because it does take time and energy away from other things. And I was like, all right, that bucket, there was a point where I felt like that bucket was really full. Yeah.

And I didn't need to keep adding more to it. That sure, I can continue to have fun. That will never stop being fun. But there were some other buckets in my life that were maybe half full and decided to put, more time and energy into that. So that's kind of how I'm coming into this current relationship. So I'm a very different person than I was with Adam. In fact, my current partner read Adam's book. And he's like, I don't know who Jane is. Or I don't know who this person is because it's not Jane. I'm not Jane. And in fact, we've started very intentionally with a period of monogamy. So we're still monogamous. And

Oh, interesting. Now, was that something you wanted to try? Because, like, why not? You never kind of done that? Or was it something that he was like, listen, that's what I want. And you're like, okay, I'll give you that? It's something that we both wanted because he'd never been monogamous for any meaningful period of time. Oh, I love that.

He was more like you in the past. Just non-consensually. Yeah. He was a serial cheater. Oh, my God. That's so interesting. and the first time he decides to hang his hat is with the most promiscuous woman

he's ever met. I love it. I know. It's interesting. It's pretty funny. It's pretty ironic. Yeah, totally. He also had his own personal transformation and actually was monogamous with his previous girlfriend, but they kept breaking up

and then during those breakups, he would have something so. This is the longest period of monogamy that he's had. And this is the longest period of monogamy that I've had. And we were both sort of very, very intentional about, okay, let's start with monogamy. There's plenty to explore between the two of us. Let's get to know each other. Let's create a base of knowledge, trust, care, love, communication, and then we'll open up because clearly that's something that he wants

and needs and it's something that I want and need. So we're definitely going to open up, just taking your time. Yeah, I love that. I had a friend. He's been on my show a million times. I wonder if you've ever hooked up with him and his girlfriend because she reminds me of you.

She's a hardcore fucking girl. She's hot and she's a Russian hot girl. So it was this guy, I call him doctor guy. He's been on my show. He was a guy I dated and I remember looking at him one day and being like, you need other girls to come in here and help you

because I can't fuck you five times a day every day. Like he was just hypersexual one of those guys. When he had been married three times, always cheated, massive cheater. And not because, only because, you know, he had to have the white pick offense and everything, but he liked variety. And he eventually, over time, because I stayed friends with them after we broke up, he eventually wound up really just like honoring who he was and he wound up meeting a girl as hardcore as you.

I love her for him. She's like, you know, wants to fuck a ton of guys with him, girls with him, everything together. They have a total open relationship. But they play together and they are engaged to be married and he no longer cheats. and he's probably in love for real for the first time in his life. It was like he was cheating because he just needs that kind of variety, you know? And honestly, they've been open for so many years now. Like recently he was like, they don't even swing that.

Like they don't even fuck other couples that much sometimes. It just like it's kind of like where you're at eventually. And they're done that. But for him, I always felt like that's just who he really was. And he needed a girl like that who would play with him and be open to that. And now he's no longer a cheater. And how much better is it to be. that guy than to be who he was before. Oh, absolutely. I think there's a lot of people out there,

especially men, but women too, who have that need for variety and novelty. And they don't think it's possible to have both the love and commitment that they get through long-term reductions, which they also want, and to have that variety and novelty. Yeah. And then you get all those cheating stories. Without cheating or mine, because that's the only model that's available to us in our culture. And so I'm very happy to see more and more of these non-monogamous alternatives being offered to people out there so they can live more of honest lives. And yeah, that's definitely the case for, for my partner. And I've dated other people like that too who've been serial cheaters because they didn't think that consensual non-monogamy was available.

Available. Yeah. Only non-consensual non-monogamy. And then of course you get the male ego being often playing a role there where they with guys especially straight guys where they want to fuck other women but they don't want their female partners to fuck other men and so there's some there's some willingness to do some work on themselves to overcome that so that they can have these consensually non-monogamous relationships but we're moving in a direction where that becomes more and more possible and hopefully fewer and fewer women would would accept anything but that kind of equal treatment. Yeah, of course. Yeah, for sure. And I do think a lot of that is like the whole thing, like the badada horror complex. There's so much that goes into it as far as

with women being with other people and men accepting it and stuff. It's such a weird double standard. But I mean, I grew up a long time ago when I was called a whore and I don't know, I didn't do, I never had a Bukaki gang bang. I wish I did. Okay, now I get why you're calling me a slut. I just fucked whoever I wanted when I wanted to. I rarely had boyfriends. I loved sex. I talked about it. Who cares?

People take it way too seriously. But I love the younger generation, I think, that there's so much more open. And it's so much more realistic. Like, I have cheaters on my show all the time. I have a podcaster friend that was like, I would never have a cheater. I'm like, I have them on because I think it's important for people to sort of hear their stories because I don't think cheating is right at all. That's not why I have them on.

I have them on to show people. This is, first of all the time. And this is why. You want to know why people cheat? Your husband's not going to tell you why he's cheating on you. He's going to lie to your face. He's going to tell me the truth. Listen to my episodes.

Like people need to learn. When I think like with my friend, Dr. Guy, he's just wired a certain way to need variety. And when he finally found a girl and he could have it that way, like you said, he never thought it was possible. He married three women before her. He's living his best life. And I'm so happy for him because he's who he always wanted to be. He was like some guy that like went to med school, became a cardiology. just he was all preppy when I met him. Now I would never date him. He looks like a, like a playa.

But I'm like, that's who he really is. That's who he always was. He was like playing a role before. And to me, that's what it's all about. Whether other people accepted or not, the most important thing to me, I feel is to just be who you are regardless. True to yourself. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That was definitely my guiding light. Yeah. And I feel like you and your guy is so perfect that you met each other at the right time. How did you meet him actually, by the way? Do you want to know what to say because it's your work? thing? No, no, no. It's a great story. We met at this outdoor gym area near my house. Okay. Oh, in the city. So you guys were working out close by? Yeah, sort of. And did he approach you? Do you remember? So this is, it's an area. It's not like a big workout, like outdoor gym space

where lots of people work out. It's actually pretty sparse. It's usually some whole. homeless people and drug addict. Yeah, yeah, I know those places. And then there are a few of these pieces of equipment. And there's almost never anyone using those, the equipment, except, I don't know, the occasional odd Chinese couple. And I would always go there. Yeah, I would always go there on my morning walks to deal a couple of pull-ups because I didn't have a pull-bar at home. And he was there working out with a female friend of his and we're just chatting.

Because it's small, there's nobody ever there. And apparently they always had this kind of thing that anyone who works out in that area or walks into that space is kind of a special person. And then I walked in, I guess it was a special person. And it was funny because I thought that the two of them might be a couple. Yeah, of course. But she made it very clear that he's single. Somehow that came up in the conversation. Oh, she was a good friend.

She was looking out for him. Yeah, because she saw it. And she, to this day, claims that I went there because I saw him. I went specifically to meet him. And I was like, no, I really was going to just do my pull-ups. And then I saw a hot man. I was like, yeah, see, that's available. Yeah.

Yeah, it was. And now who put it out on the table first? Like, I mean, were you the one that said, hey, I just want to let you know. Like, I've always been into like, I've done all this kind of crazy things. And did he then copped to, oh, I've been a cheater? Like, how did that come about? I mean, we had conversations about our lives and I'm pretty open about who I am, who I've been. And that usually inspires honesty and, yeah, transparency on their part.

And, of course, the story has unfolded slowly over time. And we've shared more and more with each other. But, yeah, I'm an open book. But that's why he told you. you too. That's what I would think. I mean, I'm a very open person. I just would always be sitting across people and be like, I don't know why I'm telling you like all these things. I'm like, because I'm open to and also non-judgmental. I think when you're a very non-judgmental person, people know you're sort of not questioning or listening or asking from a place where you want to like catch them in something.

I mean, you were just like talking to him and he felt calm because like I think a lot of guys wouldn't cop to the fact that they cheated in their past, right? Just like I think it would be sometimes a lot of women wouldn't cop to the fact that they've done gang bang bang boo cockies. You know, because you're always going to be the one to put it out there. He felt comfortable enough. And how great is that? Because he's going to, he's like my doctor guy, like finally living like and being who he really is without having to worry about it. So now maybe. Because like for me, my friend, to me, when I see him in love with this woman, I'm like, this is like the first time you've been in love. There's no way you were in love before living that double, triple life. So that's great that he has that opportunity. So you guys are monogamous eight months. Eventually you'll open up and you're in love. I love it. Mm-hmm. You should write a book about Jane's story. I love Jane's story.

I know. That's what Adam says. I might. I might have to. Yeah, you should because I think it's super empowering for other women, especially because, listen, I have my hardcore girls on my show. And maybe not everyone's going to be as hardcore as you, but it's not like women don't like sex. It's not like women don't have dirty fantasies in their minds. You know what I mean?

But I just think that a lot of times they're really afraid to sort of talk about it. So I think when they hear from other women doing it so boldly they could learn from it. So I think Jane's story definitely needs to be out there. Thank you so much for calling in. I was obsessed with you from Adam. I get why he was obsessed with you. I love your story and I love how it ended. It's so interesting.

I had no idea. I personally think it's more normal when people grow and change. I don't know. You see what celebrities a lot of times. I remember when Madonna would pose naked and then she had a baby and everyone's like, how could she be a mother when she was like a whore before? It's like, how could she not be? Like who is the same person in their whole life?

That's more weird to me than you being someone who fucked everyone and then was celibate and now was monogamous. I mean, that's to me real life. No, it's beautiful to be able to go through the different phases and transitions and learn and grow. And these different parts of our lives play different roles at the right time. You know, I read this article a few months ago by a woman who wrote why she regretted her slutty phase. It literally says, I regret being a slaughterer, regret my slutty phase or whatever. And I think a lot of people, especially when they hear the story where I am now, they think of that phase as something that is maybe like negative or something that I regret. I just want to make it very clear that I don't regret a single moment of that.

Oh, I never thought it sounded like that. It's like the only reason why you cannot do it now is because you've had it all and you did everything that you wanted to do, but I didn't hear one regret, which I love. Yeah, and there was, I learned so much from it. I had so much fun. I met so many different kinds of people. I had so many different kinds of experiences. And yeah, I did everything off my fuck-it list.

If I die today, I would die sexually very fulfilled and happy. Yeah, but how interesting is it that now you're sort of experiencing other things for you, monogamy is new. Yeah, that's like I might have one hardcore girl called Casey and her and her guy do the craziest thing and she met a guy in the lifestyle and he's super cool too and they're in love and I'm like, I think what you guys need to do next is just have like missionary solo sex like that would be really weird for you. It's like backwards.

This is all new. Like those phases of celibacy, that was brand new. And I do like novelty. I'm like a doctor guy. And I had had my fill of back in a novelty. And so these are now the new ways that I can get novelty because that is no longer novel. And there's no way that long-term monogamy would ever be satisfying for me. But I'm very much looking forward to actually taking our non-monogynogical.

me much more slowly and kind of building on it. Yeah, but taking it step by step as opposed to, I mean, poor Adam got the experience. Our first play party seeing me fuck three other guys. Oh my God. It really is timing. He would have probably loved to meet Jane now. Yeah. And it's funny, he was always attracted to like hot 40 plus year olds. Yeah. And he always kept saying he'll be perfect in whatever, 10 years and 7 years and 5 years. And yeah, I would have been perfect not just physically, but psychologically as well. Yeah, but he would have never.

But you know what? Like I think the timing is always perfect because you did as much as you maybe took from that relationship. Like he learned from you. And to me, that's what relationships are all about. He wouldn't be who he was. He wouldn't have a fucking book. Okay. He's got a great.

We got a book. Yeah, he's got a book. He's got some great stories. He did everything and that's just the way it was supposed to go. So listen, Jane, thank you so much for calling it. And I love your story. It's going to be up on my episode very soon. Send me a link.

I'll get a link for Adam. I'm going to put a link for his book because people will get a lot more stories about Jane in that book. And like I said, I know that the book is great. I recommend it. Anybody that read it that I know, like my listeners, I got emails from people saying, oh my God, I loved his book, especially people on my Patreon. So I'm going to put a link to Adam's book. And thanks so much for calling and sharing your story.

I love it. Now, for my patron, I don't know if you're going to be down for this, but for my Patreon, I do like anonymous picks of people, like never any faces. Just like nothing X-rated, like people send in like hot picks of them. Would you want to send in like anonymous picks of yourself for my patron? If not, that's totally fine. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and

e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like, there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gang-being girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person. And they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person. And I wouldn't really call it like a total erotica book. Think like penthouse letters. It's more direct. It's not so over the top like erotica. I don't really like that kind of vibe, right? But these are true stories. 17 of them. They're really short. Chapters, easy read. You could read, you know, one or two and then skip around. You could read the whole book. It's available in eback format, paperback format, And finally, the audiobook is available coming out August 25th, but you could pre-order it now. And if you buy my book in any format or pre-order it, I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord.

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It's a super fun place to be. It's a total strictly anonymous community and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private, like I said. All you got to do is email me a screenshot of your purchase, whether you did the audiobook, the ebook or the paperback. Send it to me at Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com. that's Strictly Anonymous Podcasts at gmail.com and I will send you the link to Discord.

So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in. This is the Strictly Anonymous podcast. Yeah. Okay. Send it for my Patreon. Okay, awesome. So I'll put those there. And thanks so much.

I mean, he talked about how hot you are and we, you know, we kind of get it. But it's always fun to put a body with the episode. My guys are going to love it. But anyway, Thanks, Jane. Thanks so much for calling it. Thanks, Kathy. Did you come here looking to hear some super hot stories? Well, then I know where you can read a ton more hot stories. And that is in my book. Strictly anonymous confession, secret sex lives of total strangers. It's finally out. It's available. Anywhere where you buy books, the book contains 17 stories I have on my show. There's a hot wife. There's a cock. There's a book. There's a book.

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