Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1410 - How and Why Most Men Don’t Even Have ED?! w/Dr. Elliot Justin

Episode Date: March 28, 2026

Dr. Elliot Justin’s dick data has show that most men don’t even have erectile dysfunction and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including all the crazy “dick data” he’s collected from thousands of men and what it’s taught him about ED, how erections really work and why men lose them even when nothing is “wrong,” why cock rings are way more important than people think and what they actually can do to help, the hands-free Firmtech add-on that stimulates a woman’s clit and how it works, the new tech device he’s creating to measure female nocturnal erections and ow that data can help women, why knowing your testosterone levels BEFORE menopause matters, how TRT works for both men and women, the penis pump he fully believes in and why it works, what Botox can do for penis size, the exact questions doctors should be asking men but don’t, how data is changing sexual health completely, how he got into sex tech in the first place and what he’s learned along the way plus a whole lot more. ⁠⁠https://myfirmtech.com/?sca_ref=5975696.wjjtV4eCQW ⁠⁠Track performance and nocturnal erections w/Firmtech, 10% off use code: STRICTLYANON GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://LoadBoost.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — To get 10% off LOAD BOOST by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2610-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get 10% OFF your first month of Bluechew GOLD! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://inda.shop/STRICTLY!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you’re 21 or older, get 40% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code STRICTLY Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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All the links, everything I told you about, including my Patreon, is in the description. So anyway, okay, today I have one of my favorite doctors on Dr. Dr. Elliott, Justin. He said I'm one of his favorite hosts. I don't know if he says that to all the hosts. go listen. But he's been on my show many times. I love what he's doing. He's in sex tech. Okay, he's a real doctor. He got into the sex tech area. I finally got on this episode, the story of how he got into creating a cock ring that measures men's nocturnal erections.

We get that story. But we talk about so much more on this episode. He's been on the show before. They do have a new add-on device for female pleasure. That goes with the cockering that he created, the Firm Tech Cockering, which is designed to measure men's nocturnal erections, which tell you a lot about your cardiovascular health. He's talked a lot about that product on other episodes. I'll put the link or the number to those episodes in the description. On this episode, we talk about so many different things.

We talk about TRT. We talk about nocturnal eruptions. We talk about the fact that all the data and all the research that he has gotten back from the thousands of men, who have used his product has come to show that most men don't have erectile dysfunction. Most men who use his cockering find out, even though they thought maybe they had some issues, that they don't. And typically, a lot of guys are being given that diagnosis ED. And that's what's amazing about us Cochering. It can not only find out if you have a problem. And he talks about the three different

guys that, like, the Cochring, like, saved their life. They found out that they did have problems. but he talks about the many guys that found out that they didn't. He talks about that. Like I said, we talk a lot about TRT, HRT, as well as HRT for women. He has a new product coming out that is going to get women's nocturnal erection data. And I was like, what? Women have erections at night. So he explains all of it.

He's a doctor, so he knows everything. So we talk about so much more on this episode. I don't want to tell you everything that we talk about. Look in the description if you want to know, but it's a super interesting episode. you're going to learn so much about erections and hard-ons and having sex in the bedroom and making it better than ever. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Dr. Elliott, Justin. And the link to everything he talks about will be in the description. Hi, Dr. Elliot Justin.

Welcome back to Strictly Anonymous podcast. How are you today? It's great to you back. I love talking with you. And I've always found you to be one of the best, maybe the best host I've experienced. I love that because, you know, I'm genuinely interested. I don't even have a penis. and I still like talking about even guy medical stuff,

and I love talking to doctors. That's why I started my whole sexual health Saturday series. Let's be candid. You might not have a penis, but I bet you own some penises. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, and basically I act probably more like a guy than a girl, so I'm like close to having,

I should have a penis probably. Anyway, so listen. Yeah, what are you saying? You have an advantage. I think, you know, the clitoris is a better organ for sexual pleasure than the penis. Yeah, totally. You know, this is very often.

topic, but I just had a guy on, I literally, for my Fetish Friday episode, it was a guy that was into small penis humiliation and he had a micro penis and he was saying it was so small that he just like, because I was like, how do you jerk off? And you know, what do you do? And he's like, I just rub on it. I'm like kind of like a clit because the truth is and you know this because you're a doctor, right? Like, and I think I'm right and seeing that aren't we all born with the same thing and then like the same tissue gets formed differently? So the really small dick is a clitoris and a clitoris is kind of like a dick, right? Well, you can basically describe the penis as a prolapsed clitoris. Oh, interesting. Okay. That makes sense. So basically, you know, there are these two tubes in the penis called the Corpus Cabinosa, and they fill up with blood and light balloons. Well, they quill them for that, and the clitoris are the bulbs of the clitoris.

They're invisible. They're tucked behind the labia menorah. And they fill up with blood. So we, do you know, the most vaginal secretions are actually blood. What do you mean? I never heard that. Yeah, as these bulbs fill up.

So imagine two balloons that I get like really going like a flat balloon and suddenly it's filling up to maybe three centimeters by about half a centimeter on both sides. They fill up with blood. And then the blood, the serum, not the blood cells, the serum, blood fluid, transudates into the vagina. And it mixes with the arm, of the outside of the vagina and then there are

mucosal glands around the G spot. But vaginal secretions are predominantly a blood product. And that's why going forward, we're working on device for now called the critique. It's going to come out probably in November. And it's the world's first monitor for health of the clitoris. What are we expecting with that? We want to measure

decreased blood flow, the impact decreased blood flow in women on terms of their sexual health. Yes. That's a big thing. Because it's kind of the same thing in men. Men get diabetes, hypertension, orthodoxis. Well, women do too. Men have heart attacks. Women have heart attacks.

And less blood that goes into the cleris, the less secretions there are. And also less arousal there is. So measuring the health blood flow in the balls of the clitoris, which are invisible, is going to be really important and really valuable. It's going to take the treatment of women with sexual health, sexual issues from an area where we're just kind of guessing, oh, you know, I don't know what the problem is, but take, you know, get a vibrator. We'll take some hormones. We're going to be able to make that objective.

What is really going on? If you are taking hormones, what's the right dose of hormones? Because right now, I have prescribed tea to women, and I've recommended two to women, and the postmenopause of women. And the results are really dramatic. You can restore, you know, if you optimize a woman's free testosterone with, with, you know, And I believe it has to be done by injection. I don't think the cream's that effective. I do the injections, yeah.

Yeah. And you can then, you know, precisely take post-menopause of women and restore her to the health of some, you know, the sexual initiative and openness of a woman in her 30s. Yeah, no, it's very true. Yeah, it's dramatic. But because you don't, unless you don't really know what the right dose is because you have no way of, you can only,

right now, Kathy, like. with you or my wife, you know, it's subjective. Well, you know, but if you can actually assess the blood flow into the clitoris, well, now you're making an objective. You can also mention the, now for post-men, premenopausal women, they take birth control and they take antidepressants, you know, way more than men do. And obviously men aren't technical and most birth control. Well, those things, both those things have a negative impact on a woman's sexual performance.

But what's the right dose? We don't know what the right dose is. Right now it's kind of one size fits all. hey, you want broken control, take this pill. Hey, you're depressed, take this dose. Well, maybe half the dose would be effective. Maybe you don't want to take it all because the device, the monitor, the wearable, is showing that it's wiping out your erections.

You're not getting, you're not getting female equivalent of a hard on. So it doesn't matter. All these other things aren't going to make that work, right? Like, you need that data first. And that's what you are. I mean, I just need to introduce you in case other people have it. heard your other episodes. I mean, you are in sex tech, right? I mean, you have created this of me. And that's why I had you on the first time, because I felt like, oh my God, this is so fucking

great. And I'm like, if I was a guy, I'd buy this, you created a cock ring that is not just for pleasure because I think cock rings are pleasurable, even for a female, I like them, but that actually measures men's nocturnal erections because their nocturnal erections, what's the correct word? It's not correlates, right? Like, what is it? They're not telling erections that are actually a leading indicator of a man's cardiovascular sexual health. Yeah. So we joke about morning wood, but one is not enough. And actually, there are men who don't have a morning or a morning wood, but they're having erections while they're sleeping.

So they're actually healthy, but they may think if a doctor says, gee, you have morning wood, the guy would say, no, I don't have it. But no, doesn't. If you have, what we've discovered, we've documented 200,000 erections on, uh, uh, uh, you have. close to 4,000 men. It's the largest dick data set in the world. I like that. And with that data, we can now come to some conclusions about what really works and what doesn't work. You know, I'm a conventionally trained doctor.

And one of the terrible mistakes that doctors make is we have one side fits all solutions. You know, hey, you have high blood pressure, take this pill. Well, maybe it's the wrong pill. Maybe it's the wrong dose. but that's not how we, that we, how we, how we, now we, now we deal with things. We look for one, hey, you have AD or claim, I think you have AD, take this pill. What's the right dose? Is this the right pill?

We don't know. And that's what data is profoundly valuable. Because with data, you can say, one, do I really have the problem? Two, is this the right dose to me? Is this the right pill for me? Yeah. So by leading into, go ahead. No, I was going to say, I just can't, like the fact that this kind of data is available now,

And you don't even have to go to you who's a conventional doctor and get a script for it. Like you could literally buy that Cochrane, get that data yourself. And then take those results to your doctor, right? And move forward is amazing that it's available nowadays, that we're in a time where we could get that kind of information ourselves. I love it. Here's the value of cap that at both extremes. We've had two men who, you know, have E.D. Excuse me, three men who have E.D.

Who will blame me it on their wives. Hey, you're fat. You're blow job. You can't give a blowjob. Whatever. Blamey on their wives. Yeah. Their wives bought them the tech ring.

And one guy had only one nocturnal erection, well, healthy man has four. And the other two guys had really, really weak, let's call one minus. Yeah. And these guys end up getting cardiac catheterizations. They had significant heart disease and they wouldn't have known. Instead, they're blaming their retinal dysfunction on their partners. By the way, two of the three of those women divorced the men. And at the other extreme, we've had now four men.

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Yeah. And so they were spared potentially, you know, very damaging surgery. Yeah, that's amazing. And you said something to me and this is why we're talking because I think the statement that you made was that actually like what,

because you have been collecting data, Like your dick data report that you have, you've learned a lot. And one of the things you learned and you told me that you guys learned from your data is that a lot of guys don't have ED who think they do, correct? Yeah, we've really fucked people up with the definition. That's major. So the international, and the same thing is going to be true on the female slide too. But the international side of the sexual medicine defines erectile dysfunction as follows. First clause, difficulty, achieving or inability to achieve an erection.

Well, that's a big problem. If any of your listeners are, you know, have that problem, you need to see cardiologists, then they're a urologist. You have a significant problem until proven otherwise. Yeah. But that's only about 12 to 13 percent of men. But the second clause is difficulty sustaining a reaction. Right.

Well, that's a totally different group of men because these are guys who are getting hard and then losing the erection. Right. So for one thing, all men are going to experience this in their life. And so we need to, one, people should especially manage they get old, but they shouldn't have the expectation, especially they're dating strangers with a lack of trust in a relationship. They should have the expectation that, oh, I met this girl at bar or I went online and I'm going to get rock hard. Well, that's not the real world.

Right. So why is a man lose, why does a man get hard and then lose an erection? Well, it could be There's a lack of trust. It could be that maybe he's cheating on his partner. Maybe he's cheating on him. It could be that the baby's car in the next room or he's worried about paying the mortgage

or maybe having that third cocktail or smoking two joints was a mistake. But if he's getting blood in, then the primary goal of therapy should be to keep blood in. And what pharma has persuaded the world and doctors as well too is just take a pill. well if pills put blood in and that's nice

but they don't keep it there and only an erection ring will keep the blood in and Kathy if you told me four years ago before I got involved in this Dr. Justin you're going to spend the rest of your life talking about the benefit of erection rings I would have no fucking way I would be like

most straight guys I don't need that I was wrong it's not about need it's about what right yeah do you want to rock harder last longer have more intense orgasm be more confident have that third cocktail, put a ring on, and take a pill.

And so why is my wife like the rings? Well, one, she's more confident in me. So what's the usual? Let's get real. Let's talk about the usual sexual situation in a committed relationship. Or even the non-committed relationship, heterosexual. Yeah. Love could be gay.

Guy, guy gets hard. Guy goes down his partner because that's how she comes. Maybe there's a vibrant involved too. with her fingers but you know guy goes down on her and he loses erection while he's doing that and then she's in her post-orgasmic bliss doesn't want to pay much attention to him and he's he's struggled he's oh i got to get hard again well if he's 20 years old he just gets hard again and pokes but if he's 50 years old that's probably not going to happen and then that guy gets diagnosed with ed but doesn't really have ed he's got a problem and it's just and it's normal if he if when he get if

when he got harder originally and then went down on her. If he put on a ring, he's going to be hard 20 minutes later with minimal stimulation. Right. That's the game changer with rings for guys. I hear about from our gay customers as well, too. They go to a party. What do they want from party? They want to be hard for an hour.

And what's the normal situation? While they come too quickly or whatever the scene is, yeah, you're with strangers or getting spank. You'll lose your, no, they lose their erection. Well, but the ring then, keep them hard. a good ring. Of course, and ours is the only ring. Ours are not these hard silicone

sex toy store rings that are cost 1095. Our rings are designed to be worn safely for, you know, for prolonged periods. So I got into this of the data. I wasn't, didn't get into this for the rings. I got into it because I want,

I wanted to give men data about their sexual and cardiovascular health, primarily by measuring the nocturnal reactions, but also the sex reactions. But I wanted to give them the data that could give them along a life of lovemaking, which we all desire. But then I realized that we'd come up with a fresh form.

In order to come up with a cochrane that could be worn overnight, we have to change the material and change the form and make it safe. And by the way, Kat, here's the big news. My wife is in the room right now. The female device actually functions as sex toys well, too. The new one that's coming out? Well, the ringmate, you know, we came up one device called the remade. Yeah, that's a

good one to talk about. You have to explain because that adds on. So that's for her pleasure as well. So you just like double the pleasure. I'll stop with that one first. Yeah. Then I'll get to the future.

So the ringmate, we relaunched. If people got the original one, it was noisy. And we've fixed that by security, by, you know, this is an engineering thing, by securing the battery

a bit and a bit more securely. It's whisper quiet right now. And my wife invented that because she wanted an attachment to go on and off of our rings that will allow for hands-free sex. Especially with the woman on top. Well, it works really well.

A matter of fact, it works so well that my wife's complain about it. And we've heard about other female customers as they come too quickly. Then the guy doesn't need the ring. He's like, oh, my God, I'm still hard. So actually, but it's modular in that it can be slid off. Yeah. And we actually, if we're on a video right, I'd show you, It's actually functions as a finger vibrator.

So it doesn't, you don't get your wrist fatigue like you do with a wand. It, it has three speeds. You can control it with, I use my middle three fingers. And it solves a couple of problems. One, if my wife is wearing it, she can put it exactly where she wants it at that moment. Right. If I, if, if, if we're having to be graphic, and I love being graphic with you, because I can have that kind of conversation.

Yeah. If I'm, you know, if I'm, if I'm fucking, if I'm behind, if she wants to touch her clitoris, I want touch her clitoris without the device, I get risk fatigue. It's just an awkward position to be reaching around. Totally. I mean, it's fantasy and it looks great and porn, but it's not, you know, hey, you've been there too. Yeah, of course, everybody has. But if you have a finger vibrator, well, now you're like Superman. You know, it's so easy.

Right. Because you don't have to move your wrist, it's vibrating. But here's the way, which we both prefer using it, which we hadn't thought about it all. But once you know how you get toys and you play with them, if we put it inside the vagina, then, and it has a couple loops on, so it can't get lost. It's really easy to pull out. But you put inside the vagina for the man, well, the head of your dick is now against the vibrator. Now, I don't know about you, Kathy, but I know my wife's vibe, but a vagina does not vibrate naturally.

And I suspect the most women's don't. So now you actually have this vibration against what obviously the most sensitive part of the penis, which is the head inside the vagina. And it's vibrating that the pub, the vibrations are going through the pubic bone into the clitoris. It's also for her, fresh sensation as well. So the remates, we sold over a thousand of them the first couple months. It's been, it's been moving well. Yeah, I remember that was the future the last time we spoke. And now there's the new, now there's something else in the future.

you're saying the data for the women, which I can't wait for that. You got it. It's called a critique. And the issue, you know, the male devices was relative easy design because we anchor it to the balls. We anchor the balls, not just the platy, we anchor the balls because we didn't want rotational artifact from the senses around the shaft of the penis. So how do you hold it in place in a woman? And because we want, our thesis is that women have nocturnal erections. We know from that St. Johnson, they do. And that the number, duration, and if you will, the firmness, though we're really talking instead of firmness talking about, uh, engorgement of the bulwleris, that those three factors are going to tell a woman about her sexual health and a cardiovascular health. I can't, first of all, I didn't even know that men had nocturnal erections. And do you find

that most men even know that they did? Did all for a guy, does every guy know that he has nocturnal no? No. And I would never know that I had them as well. Like, that's fascinating to me. I mean, young guys no, but then they kind of, you know, they get, they just kind of, you know, they sleep through them as they get older. Yeah, that's what I figure out. So women, and I call it the night shift. You know, I talk with guys. I talk about, what can you, what is your penis is trying to tell you something on

the night shift. Yeah. And you're not paying attention. And you can't pay attention unless you have the device. Right. It's going to be the same thing with women. I'm confident. I never do.

We had a night shift. Yeah. So, you know, the only sign that the most women have is, oh, I got a little wet last night. Well, how many times you get wet? How long will it last for? You don't know, because you're, it's a night shift, and you're sleeping. You're asleep on a night shift. But your clitoris wakes up.

So, periodically. So the device is going to keep that information, plus it's going to measure what's going on during sex. The women can get the same benefit for men. Hey, you don't really have female sexual dysphoria. FST is a doctor who like to call it. You just got a problem. Let's figure out what that problem is. maybe it's alcohol and drugs, maybe it's a partner relationship.

More likely it's due to medication or age. Let's sort that out now. That we have data, we can start to sort that out as opposed to generalizing and say, hey, take, you know, get a vibrator. You're getting older. Or trying so many different things, you know what I mean? Like you said, even if it's a testosterone, if it's not the right amount, you're going to go crazy with blood tests and different amounts and you're not going to know, you know.

And so it's such a great place to start with the data because then it just like narrows it down better. What exactly is like when you say, oh, it's a, you know, measuring for women, you know, or erections. What is that blood flow? Like, is it measuring the blood flow? It's blood. We're measuring blood filling up into the bulbs of the clitoris.

Right. Okay. Interesting. These sacks behind the lahan liby menorah. They're internal. And since women, let me just ask you this if you know, like since women, unlike men, men, men don't go through menopause. I mean, they do say they go through manopause, right?

But guys definitely slow down, you know, but a lot of women shut down at menopause. if they're not on hormones and everything. Is that all like they just lose their blood flow? Is it all blood flow loss in that region? Or does that have nothing to do with it? Do you know? No, no, the blood flow is a big part of it. So it's multifactorial.

Yeah. But the major problem is they stop producing significant amount of testosterone. Okay. So one of the tragedies for women, most of my medical career, most of my old Korea, people say in the HR, T, hormone replacement therapy for women, which predominantly estrogen progesterone. Yeah. That that is, that's dangerous.

Now they say, oh, no, it's not dangerous. Thank God. We were mistaken. But now the challenge is, yeah, but there's a missing hormone, and that's testosterone. Yeah. And if there are women listening to this show who are premenopausal, insist that your doctor get a total testosterone and a free testosterone and a binding lobuline. Because if you're 40 years old, you're going to go through menopause. And when you're 50, you'd be good to know what was your blood level?

like when you were happy with your sexuality, when you were interested, when you're initiating sex in your phrase before you shut down. Because then when you start, if you start testosterone therapy, you can target that number. Oh, I love that information because then how do you really know, you know what I mean? Otherwise, just guessing. It's one side of it's all. So, so, so what, how does someone like you approach us or how did I, how did I approach us with, with my female patients? Yeah, tell me, please. It's interesting. It's, it's, it's, it's, it's guess work. Mm-hmm. Yeah. So because, um, and what, and in general, uh, it's what I've noticed is that the, the

dosage that's necessary in order, let's suppose you, obviously if you know, Kathy, if you postman or Paul's woman or guy for that matter, and you told me, gee, I want to initiate sex 20 times a day. Well, I ain't happening. But what, you know, what's, what's reasonable is for someone, especially, you know, for women or for men too, for the low tea guys I treat us, I want to be initiating sex three or four times a week. Yeah, you just want to feel the desire. Because a lot of what women will say in menopause and it's very true, like they just never think about it.

But if the guy initiates and they cave into it and stuff and they get going, they're fine, right? They can't find. Yeah, they're fine. But what you want and what I wanted and what I lost because my menopause specialist doctor who I paid a lot of money for in New York 10 years ago when I was going through peri menopause and wanted to go on hormones. And she wouldn't give me testosterone. And the minute she did it went high, which of course it's going to be for my age, she took me off of it, you know.

But I got to that place where it was like, oh, same thing. But I want to feel horny. I want to feel like I was when I was there. That's the where you want to be. That other thing is not good enough. You want to overcome that mental resistance, which is that I'm tired. I'm tired. I had that.

And a guy wants you to initiate. Your partner wants you to initiate. You know what I mean? That's a part of it too. Well, in my experience, it sounds like yours too, that can be achieved by right dosing testosterone, and it can't be done with the cream, it has to be done with injection. Yeah. And the doctors don't understand it.

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Exactly. Exactly. Exactly. And a guy wants you to initiate. Your partner wants you to initiate. You know what I mean? That's a part of it too. Well, in my experience, it sounds like you also, that can be achieved by right dosing testosterone.

And it can't be done with the cream. It has to be done with injection. Yeah. And the doctors don't understand it. On the male side, when I'm taking care of low tea guys and I got a bunch of them who are in their four guys right now who are in their late Thursday, early four. who've got the sex drive of post-menopulsa women. They're initiating sex two or three times a month.

And their marriages are suffering, as is the self-esteem. Well, if I optimize a testosterone, try to get their three testosterone in the 25 to 30 range, they feel like men again because now they're initiating sex three or four times, you know, a day. Now you can go too far and you can play with it. I have certainly done that with, you know, know, myself and my wife, but, you know, you want, I don't want to talk about this as a party drug, because that's, it's, it's, it's, there is that aspect as well, too, you can, but it's put, but the self-esteem and the intimacy and the deepening of relationships that happens, because it's not

just about climaxes, that happens when people are initiating, it's profound. So I've been, so on the female side, you know, women go from what you just said. You know, you're, you're young than this, but you know, I'm 65 years old and I, I, yeah, I can get turned on. If I get into it and I got a vibrator, but I really, I don't look at my husband the same way. And you write, you write those, optimize that testosterone and now they want to down their, their initiating sex two or three times a week. but you've changed their self-esteem, happiness, their partners, their relationship with the partners, and you're also probably helping their cardiac health. And also for women, you're fighting osteoporosis and muscle wasting, which postmenopause

the women get as well, too. Women need tea. Oh, my God. When I, because I did it, I did, you know, I started in pari monopause. I always believed in HRT. I knew the minute, like, that was happening for me. I was going to get on it. I wasn't scared of that study, which was all bullshit.

and we know that now. So I went on it, but I told you, like, my doctor didn't give me tea at the time. She wasn't, you know, nowadays it's hormone, instead of hormone replacement therapy, it's a hormone optimization therapy. Right. She wasn't optimizing me. I do that now, right? So, but back then, I was, I've always been working out with free weights since I'm 26. No girls were when I started. All girls do that now, which you should, but I was always doing it. But when I got into perimenopause, like, no matter how hard I worked out, I wasn't seeing the result. And that was because I did not have the tea. The minute I went on it, it all came back.

Muscle memory is a real thing, right? All my muscle came back. And I barely have to work out to keep my muscle now. And I can't lift as much as I used to or push my body that hard as I did. But I don't even have to. I still have killer muscles because of the tea. But I couldn't get there no matter what I did without it before that. What I encourage women to do if they're going to take tea is, among other things.

One set of goals to us to how often the week you want to initiate sex. And I mean, even my wife will say like, now she's optimized. Well, she looks in me coming out of the shower and she thinks I'm hot. She didn't think that. And I think I'm a good-looking guy. But it was, you know, she could feel that change in her, you know, in her mindset, which, like, but also you can met with muscle for women. If women put it, it's hard, you can't, with men and I have them put a tape measure around their biceps and the pecks. Women is around their thighs and around their biceps.

I expect a woman to, if she's going to do, as part of her workout routine, some resistance training with curls and with presses. I expect her to gain strength by about 10%. Now, it peaked, one mistakes that, like on the male side,

the male bodybuilders make. It's like, well, I'm an 800. What if I get myself to 1,200? Well, you have a, men and women have a limited number of testosterone receptors.

And it's not the same for everyone. So you have to, have objective, it's not just about chasing a number, a blood level. That's the mistake of my... Right, because each person is different, exactly. Right, my doctor, my Medicare urologist, do I see so I can, you know, get a prescription. Yeah, exactly. You know, he, that's his mindset.

It's like, well, we'll keep around 800 and how are you feeling? Well, no, actually, I'm 800 is good for me because that gets my free tea to about 25, and I'm now optimized my muscle resistance, my exercise regimen is all to optimize it as well. But getting back to the female device, it's going to take women's sexual health and cardiovascular health and into the 21st century of objective, personalized, data-driven care. But what we discovered with a female device,

if it needs come up with a device that could be wandering sex, it would not be expelled no matter how vigorous you were doing it, but could also stay in overnight so we can't even imagine how you, like what this device looks like. Like how does it even stay on? It's so elegant. Can you explain it to me? Can I see it on your website or can you explain it to me?

Can I see it on the website? Andy, is the critique on the website? No, we're not showing yet. Oh, okay. Explain it. I'm visual. We will show it soon. Our concern is right now is just someone making.

someone making off of the design. Totally. Because it turns out it's also a stext toy. So basically it goes behind, one component goes behind the pubic synthesis so we can measure PCG muscle contractions. What's the pubic synthesis?

I'm a regular person. That's the pubic bone. Okay. The bone. So, you know, if you put your fingers in and kind of curl them outward, you know, that's the pubic bone.

So it kind of fits in there. And then another component comes up to you know, around the clear, around the clitoris, not on the top, but around the size of the clearest. And has sensors in it. And with those sensors, we get readings for the, of the, of the, um, the ball of the clearers. Well, it turns out the device fixes one of the major problems that older couples have, which is the two things that, which is a, um, men. what works for man during penetrative sex?

How can a man come during penetrative sex to stay hard? Well, he's got to get friction. Yeah. What's he getting friction off of? Well, he's getting friction off of the pew of bone on the, you know, on the, on the top of the penis, the side of the penis that fixes the body. Yeah. Well, the other, the other, I'm the missionary position here.

Yeah. The other side of the penis feels nothing. Right. Because as, as women get older, even if they're doing kegles, and I'm assuming she's had, structured with women with had children. the penis, the vaginicus looser. And, you know, the expectation that men are going to enjoy penetrative sex, the way they do when they're younger, is just practically stupid.

Right. For multiple reasons. But, I mean, I've now spoken to, if I want to quantify it, if I want to quantify it, 183 men I've taken sex histories on the last two years. Yeah. Common complaint. I don't get the friction I did when I was younger. or I find this position where this missionary doggy to be boring.

And therefore I'm not getting a friction, I can't get off. And my partner wants me to get off in that position. The reality is, of course, is that many men would myself include, I'd rather climax with the hand or her mouth. And why is that? Because the hand or her mouth has a brain attached to it. A vagina is a tube. Nevertheless, it's nice sometimes to be able to me.

And it's shallow inside, by the way, right? I mean, yeah. It'd be not, you know, I do enjoy coming in her. And she does that as well, too. There's an intimacy involved in that. And what we discovered with this device is that it creates a friction point for the head of the penis. Now, that was cool because it's a fresh sensation for a guy. And it addresses the fact that the vagina gets looser when we get older.

And most guys don't want, as you probably, you know, they don't want to tell their partner, hey, he puts these two loose. No, my God, that's the rudest thing to say it woman. But what's amazing about that device is like you're not going to have to do what you did with the cockering, which was add something on for the woman. Like this already is like not just getting the data for the woman and doing what it needs to do. It's also pleasuring the man at the same time. No add-ons needed.

Correct. But it's also pleasure in the woman because the sensor array that are around the clitoris are also isolating the clitoris. And you know how, you know, you're a woman. You got a clitoris. I don't have one. But yeah, but I say play with play with pylera. Yeah. If you put your fingers on both sides, the clitoris, the clitoris kind of pooches is.

out, well, that's what the device does. And when it poaches out, of course, it's more accessible for erect and more accessible for either a vibrate or a finger or just even mission. I mean, friction during missionary. Yeah. Right. Yeah. That makes sense. Oh, interesting. And so that, of course. And you know, you love it. And I'm going to get to it when we come out with a test prototype, we'll get you on. That will be probably late August or September. Okay, good. And then we'll do a whole episode on it because people will love it. I love this kind of stuff. I think it's great. Everyone's trying to, you know, keep the happiness in the bedroom up over time.

You know what I mean? We're living longer than we used to. You know what I mean? It's just not, the fact that they used to tell people not to go on hormones or do any of this. It's like, I don't, I just think is very, it was fine probably, you know, 30, 40 years ago when people like died at 67. That's normal. Now you hear someone die at 70. You're like, oh, my God, they're so young.

You know what I mean? Because we can live till way later in life. And it's just not. there's no reason to give it all up in the bedroom either. I mean, for me, that's my mission. Yeah, I love that. My mission is better.

My mission is better sex and long lives of lovemaking. How? Well, the first thing I want to do is provide people with data. Yeah. Because the data will, the data gives them, hopefully, the data gives them a signal of a problem before it really becomes a problem is too hard to treat. Could I just ask you the question?

Like, what were you thinking? Like, what was the thought? process or the thing that happened or something that you read, like what sparked your, this mission in you to get so specific in this area and do, get this kind of data? Well, I, you know, I live in Montana. Yeah. I ride horses.

You know, my family, I say I ride horses like a 15 year old. I say more like a 25 year old. I'm an aggressive. I ride fast. Yeah. And I had a wreck and I broke six ribs and six vertebrae. But unfortunately, I didn't damage my spinal cord, but that got me interested in what's been done to rehabilitate spinal cord function, sexual function, and people had a spinal cord injury. Okay.

And I ended up conducting an experiment on two rams, two male sheep, to implanting electrode by their pudendal and cavernous nerves, which everyone's two favorite nerves, because the nurse are involved in arous and climax. Yeah. They came out from behind the bone. and the experiment was somewhat successful. We got weak erections. We did get ejaculation, but we also got defecation and urination, so it wasn't bedroom friendly.

And then I, unless you're really kinky. Yeah. And then, but I tried, then had a urologist implanting electrodes on myself. And I felt nothing. I actually don't think we know how erections are produced men and women.

I think it's really complicated. Yeah. But a urology professor heard about this, and he, four and a half years ago, he said he wanted to count the number of nocturnal erections. And I said, well, let's go for all erections. And he said, what do you mean? I said, well, we'll embed senses into a cockering. Well, like most straight doctors, he never even knew the fucking cockering in his life. But he, you know, he gave me, he gave me, he, he educated me about the significance of nocturnal erections and cardiovascular health.

And the rest is flown from that. We now have, how we have nine published papers, our device is being used to test pretty much every recommended therapy and make it objective and personal. So, for example, there's a big paper going on right now looking at penis pumps. Yeah, I love that. We talked a little bit about that last time, but explain that because that really works, correct? Yeah, and that was a surprise. The urologist didn't think that the penis pumps were going. They saw penis pumps as a tool to use after prostate surgery to treat atrophy, shrinkage of penis after.

Or, you know, they recognize that if guys insecure wants to have longer penis that you could probably stretch it out, if they pump for a long time. Yeah. They were not expecting that it would produce increased blood flow. And I mean, increased blood flow like you put your dick in a vacuum pump. Yeah, of course your dick can be big to put in a vacuum. Just state in the clitoris. I mean, it's a sting. blood flow, healthier as reflected in your nocturnal erections being lasting longer.

Wow, meaning even after that, you're not using it. Right. That's major. So, I mean, so Bathmaid's the name of the company. I'll put it out there because I'm, because what impressed with Bath made is, the study could have been negative. It could have hurt them. But they believe, they, they, I obviously put up some money, but the study's being done independently.

And I thought the preliminary data is positive. And I'm confident it's going to end up being positive. We just did it. I think I told it the beginning before we got on, we just at the International Science for Sexual Medicine Conference in Porto, Portugal. One of the papers using our device was looking at Botox. Well, we know the Botox injections can make a penis longer, but the same question is, will it increase blood flow?

Wait, wait, it can make it longer? Yeah. Okay. Okay. A Botox injection will make the, average penis, half an inch to be caught inches longer. You're kidding. Do you do that in your office?

You should get on that. I don't have an office. My practice is a ritual. But I would do it if I had an office. Yeah. Oh my God. But so the woman, her name was Greta Pickela. She's in London.

Yeah. And she did a study, a small study of six men. And they all got increased blood flow with the nocturnals by about 20%. With the Botox? What does that mean? Yeah, with Botox. Well, that means that they have healthier penises.

And that's really, as a doctor that understands all, like how all the mechanics work and everything. Can you make some sort of like guess of why that would be even? Like, do you have any clue? I mean, I know you're not making any kind of factual statement. Well, I think we're going to, you know, where we are, but Botox, we're relaxing muscles.

and not allow more blood to flow in. Oh, okay, that makes sense. So, but I was surprised by the results. Actually, if I, if I've had to guess, I would have said the impact would be at best, minimal, as opposed to significant, as opposed to 20, 25%. So, you know, that's significant. That is major.

And then, you know, we're actually launching the world's first objective testosterone program. We're doing a pilot with a full launch in June. So what's your one testosterone placement therapy? I'm on myself. Well, the doctors don't ask the right questions. The doctors are, I'm talking about for Medicare. You know, doctors want to ask three questions. How's your energy?

How's your sleep and how's your libido? Well, everyone wants more energy. Everyone will like sleep in another hour. And no one knows what the fuck libido means. So, and so, you know, the questions, and then they also, they target an act. average number for your testosterone. I don't want to be average. I want to be the top,

you know, 10, 20th percentile. So what questions do I at? Are we going to use them? Well, I want one is something you know I discussed like 15 minutes ago, which is how often a week you're initiating sex and how often are you receptive sex? Because

now it's quantifiable. So if I'm going to put a guy on tea and he tells me he's initiating sex once a week, well, let's set a goal. And a reasonable goal. Again, a reasonable goal. not, you know, 10 times a day. Yeah. You know, but, you know, if guy says he wants to be able to initiate sex

four or five times a week, I'm pretty confident, and he's low T, I'm pretty confident I can achieve that by maximizing his free testosterone. Right. And then I have guys measure their muscle, as we discussed earlier too. You know, put a tape measure on your pecks and you're on your biceps and do some resistance training, and I expect that in six to ten weeks of therapy, your body strength will increase by five to ten percent, but not pushing it that hard, just by being on the medication. Totally.

And the last thing we follow, and you can't do without the device, is I want men to have an above-average number of strength and nocturnal erections. So here's the question that every man listened to the show should ask himself, and they can't answer it. One, are you having four to five not-trial erections per night? Because you're not, you're probably sub-average. Right. Are your not-tional erections lasting at least 25 minutes? Because if not, you're probably not getting your sub-average. are your erectioned are your nocturnal erections at least a six out of ten a firmness scale because if not they should be you should be your penis your erectile health is suffering and finally are your sex erections tens a healthy man a 10 is all rock hard healthy man has rock hard erections and if you don't then you need to look for a cause is it a cardiovascular problem is a diabetic problem is it or is it I mean there are some guys who can do it on their own they can't do with a partner

been a psychological issue. But without data, you can't figure it out. And the fact is that every single thing that you just listed, right, is the kind of, is, you're going to get the data on all of those things with your ring, correct?

Yeah. That's major. That's right. Yeah. And there are 4,000, oh, actually, so 5,000 men are now getting their data. Right. And have you heard from guys who have taken, like, their data to their doctor? or their urologists and like have their,

like are urologists really impressed with this information and love when there are people have been coming in? Have you been hearing back? It's next. Oh, interesting. Because one, they're not aware of it, many of them aren't aware of it.

There are all these published papers and we have, we've been in a conference, but they're still not aware of it. Yeah. And it's kind of challenged on the guys who are kind of raise their eyebrows, it kind of challenges what they've been doing.

So let's see, you've been tweeting me without data. You've just been guessing. Yeah. And that's something that, yeah, and a lot of the guys who buy our devices, they're the skeptical doctors because this is the 21st century. People expect their care to be data driven. I mean, Kath, if you came to me with a problem with your heart or your bowel, your kidneys,

I get imaging tests and blood tests and other markers of that problems so I could follow what's going on objectively. Otherwise, I'm just, you know, when the world when it comes to men, it's like you're, you're going to a shaman who doesn't want to spend any time with you. The average doctor spends less than seven minutes speaking to a patient. Especially your primary care, who's supposed to be taking your overall health, right? How long? I mean, come on.

They don't. In and out. And that's like the main doctor you're seeing. Yeah, and they don't ask the question. They don't have the key question being, hey, Elliot, you're 73 years old. Not just like how's your love life, but are you having difficulty getting it up? are heavy difficulty, sustaining your erections. That's it.

Those are the key questions. Interesting. Then the rest of it flows from there. If you can't get it up, you've got a cardiovascular or neurological problem. You see a specialist. If you get it up but you're losing it, well, let's ask some more questions right now. Yeah. Is it when you're alone with the partner?

Is it with your regular partner or other people? Is it alcohol? Is it drugs? Yeah. Could it be one of the medications that your primary care doctors put you on? your high blood pressure or your mental health because those things can screw up people sexual health as well too. Totally.

Let me ask you this. When the guy does get that data, right, like, and he sees maybe he's below the levels of, you know, the recommended nocturnal, what he's supposed to have. Like, where does he go from there? Well, that's someone that come right to me. They do and you advise them. I mean, that's interesting. I advise them, yeah.

But most, you know, they need to, they need to. if a guy is having you know above average or above average nocturnal erections and that's a sexual problem he needs to go to his partner. There's something going on in a relationship. It's mental and not physical is what you're saying. Right. I mean it could be his personal habits

and it's quite often it's alcohol related. That's interesting. And but people need to to be able, people need to speak about these things with the doctors as well, too, because it can be medication related as well too. Yeah. But they could also, when you say they reach out to you, I mean, is that, you do like provide that for people? Like when they buy it's, it's, it's the point where I'm kind of maxed out. Yeah, I can imagine. You've sold thousands. I don't,

I don't, I don't charge anything to talk to speak to people. Yeah. So, um, I don't, it's not how I want to make money on any, any more in my career. I like helping people, but it's getting, it's getting busy. Yeah, time is, you know, valuable. I get it. But we have, we have information on the website,

but most, I mean, the two most common problems are, I can't get it up. If you can't get it up, you need to see a cardiologist, and men will deny that.

You know, like the three, like the guys who got in the cardiac catheterization, all three of them had had a significant and real genuine erectile dysfunction

for several years. They just ran the state of denial. Yeah. With, at the other, at the other end of it, where if a guy realized that, hey, when I'm asleep, I'm average or above average, but when I'm with someone, the guys can usually figure out of the wrong what the problem is. Now, if it's medication related, then they need to go to their doctor. But then they often don't, people are real reluctant to go to their doctor and say,

hey, you know, my, since you started me on this medication, my blood pressure, or this medication for my, you know, anxiety or depression, my erections have deteriorated. Guys that people are reluctant to challenge their doctors, but they must. No, I know. It's major, but I think it is very embarrassing for a guy to say stuff like that out loud. Yeah. But probably five or six times a month when I speak to some guy, I look at his medication, I think you're just, you're over-medicated.

Yeah. And now it's, now it's affected your confidence because, you know, once, guy is worried. A guy is worried about losing his direction is halfway on the way to losing his direction. Yeah, just from worrying about it in his head. Yeah. Yeah, of course. And that's what, that's what the ring is valuable too, because a guy who gets hard, but has anxiety, the ring gets, the ring will help him get over that. Right. It's going to work passes. He can't cock block himself anymore, right? That ring's going to go against his brain. Yeah, I love that. Even someone, I was talking to someone about like ED medication. You could take like Bluetooth, but like, you know,

what can happen and they see that this happens sometimes is the guy takes it all the time and then he thinks if he doesn't take it, he can't get it up and then he doesn't get it up when he doesn't take it but it's really just like placebo effect right? He just now it's in his head he thinks he needs it. But guys and women

too but people find that it's hard to accept. I just spoke to a guy this morning who wanted me to look at his data and I did and he has good function at night and he told me that he can't that he can't come without medication.

And I said, well, you could figure that out by having your wife give you the medication. You don't know what you're getting. She'd give you sugar pill. And she'd give you the Hidalphil and you can figure it out. Well, he didn't want to do that. Because he's in his head, he needs it. And I'll share with you that I do that too. I take to Dadallifil every day.

Now, there is some soft evidence that five milligrams to dallas hill in a man, it's probably to a woman, too, it's actually good for your heart. Interesting. But then I often take five, like three or four hours before I go to bed, thinking, maybe it's helped me in bed, but I know that I don't need it. Why do I know I don't need it? Because I've, because I've had nights where I don't do it, and it's just the same. But it's kind of the placebo effect.

the brain is so powerful. Oh my God. My brain could get into the loops like that and a fucking instant. You know what I mean? And then a harp on it. And everybody can. You can't help that. So I think that was a really smart with the wife thing trying a different.

And that's what you don't want to get in though, because then that's like a mind fuck. Yeah. Yeah. I actually don't want. My point to this guy really, really was that what you're doing is fine. It's not harmful.

But you shouldn't. But actually, but your data is actually. is actually saying something else, which is that you don't really need it. But on the hand, he's been taking, I think he's been taking Viagra for like 10 years. Well, you're mentally, you think, you know, that you need it. Yeah. But so it's, that's interesting that the data could not only tell you that you have a problem. It could also tell you that you don't have any issues. Most of the time, it's so major. That's the point. Most of the time, it's actually showing, showing men that they don't have a problem. Yeah. And that's what that big, like, like you said,

that's what the research showed you that most of these guys don't. And that's fascinating. Could you tell me? So you don't have any deed. So we should stop stigmatizing, man. Yeah. I'm at war with the phrase erectile dysfunction. If you're one of the guys who struggles to get an erection or can't even get an erection, that's dysfunction.

But if you're the vast majority of guys who gets an erection and loses it, that's a problem. Right. And that's a problem that could be. And that's very different than having a dysfunction, right? Yeah. Yeah. But, you know, EDs, I mean, it's really, for most guys, it's shaming and embarrassing. So guys will, guys will end up who could be having, enjoying sex, they end up putting it off and putting it off because they've lost their confidence.

Yeah. And then you have your brain working against you again. Yeah. And then you're in a bad loop. Why don't you explain to everybody where they could get that device so they could use the data as well as the add-on? And then we'll be talking soon. Sure. The add-on is called a ringmate.

So you can go to MyFirmTech, MI-F-I-R-M-T-C-H, Myfirm-Tech.com, and you'll find our products there. So my recommendation is, put a ring on it, take a pill, and if you're a man over age of 40, get your data. You want to learn about your heart health. You want to learn about your dick health.

And without the data, you don't really know. I mean, because you might still be able to perform sexually, but you could have a problem brewing. And with the data, you can actually see it before it becomes harder to treat. Quick question. I just thought of this real quick. And just so everyone knows, I'm going to put the link to your website in the description. So anyone driving doesn't have to remember what you just said.

But quick question, can somebody take the blue pill and then put it on and the data is still going to measure? Or do you need to be like with nothing? Oh, okay. No, no, you don't have, you know, no, I'm, you can take the pill and, uh, still, I mean, you're still going to get correct data is what I'm saying. In the, in the, in the app, you have the, the app allows people to write down what the medications are. Okay, good.

Yeah, right. Right. So it takes that into consideration. Right. Okay. Awesome. That's so interesting. So they get the, the ring and get the add on for your girl, right?

The ring made it's there. If you haven't got the, the data cock ring, that's what's super. impressive too. Yeah, and bear in mind, it's designed for hands-free penetrative sex, but as I said earlier, it's a great thing a vibrator. That's... Yeah. Yeah, that's amazing. So it's like a double thing. And it goes with the ringmate if you already have it. All of that is on the website. I'm going to put a link in the description. I love talking to you. I can't wait till the new women's data device comes out because I'm all over that. Like I always said, I would have this Cockering as well as the add-on. If I was a guy, I'd be getting it immediately.

Because I think it's super interesting. And like I said in the beginning, I love that this kind of data is available for people. And the more you know, the better equipped you are, moving forward. I love health data. You know what I mean? I just have Viome out. I just bought the Viome box. You know, I'm going to do that data. You're like, I'm always into looking into everything. You know, it's super interesting to me. And it's important, you know, especially as you get older. Everyone thinks when they're younger, oh, I don't need to take care of myself. But like you kind of do, it's like a car. You know, that's how I look at my body, you know, and I've always been taking care of it all my life because I want to be healthy and happy as I get older and you can be.

And nowadays, there's so many ways to do it. And this is a great way to, you know, take care of your health. And inside and out of the bedroom. Kathy, I like your car analogy, because this is one I use. We are all men and women on the road from erectile fitness to erectile dysfunction. Right. And we don't know where we are in that road because we don't we're driving our car so to speak a lot we're driving our large sexualized without a dashboard yeah what we're doing what we're doing is providing you with it with the dashboard yeah you need you know we are yeah you got all the levels all the information imagine driving your car without all that information you wouldn't know when the fucking oil's going down you know what I mean

yeah exactly total breakdown yeah I love it I was using it in a slightly different way but I love your analogy in this way too so listen I love talking to you always you know we're going to to talk in October when the new product is out. You're going to send it to me in August. Don't forget. Yeah. Okay, good. And thanks so much for calling in again and giving me such a great episode.

It was a pleasure. I love talking with you. Always fun. Bye. Bye. Bye. Bye, bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly

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