Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1497 - Elizabeth Started Having Foursomes with Het Bf and Now she’s Swinging Solo

Episode Date: June 23, 2026

Elizabeth started having foursomes with her boyfriend and now she’s swinging solo and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in the hear all the details including her first foursome with her boyfriend and exactly what went down, their first trip to a swingers club with him and the full swap foursome they had with another couple, her first solo swinger event she went to and how it was set up, exactly what went down including the guy she played with and the two separate couples she hooked up with, the dom she met up with and exactly what went down when they hooked up, the apps she uses to find hook ups and whys enjoys Fetlife, how and why she doesn’t think she can ever have another monogamous relationship plus a whole lot more.  GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  or Pre-order audiobook version ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To see HOT pics of ELIZABETH plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠VB.HEALTH ⁠⁠⁠- To get 10% off DRIVE BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY  ⁠⁠Shamelesscare.com⁠⁠ - Use code STRICTLY for $15 of all products ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beduc.at/pd2622-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://Rythm.Health/STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠for 15% OFF your first month PLUS FREE shipping Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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it all on SDC.com. Like I said, you get a free trial if you use my code 37712 or just go to the description and click on the link that's 37712. or just go to the description and click on the link. Okay, today I have on Elizabeth. Elizabeth is, you know, one of those girls I'm, like, really impressed with because she's like a young girl in her 20s who, like, was started navigating the lifestyle by herself.

And it's done a lot of things in the lifestyle by herself. But she didn't start that way. She started with a boyfriend of hers. When she was with a boyfriend, they wound up hooking up with a couple once. And she was always the one in charge and making these things happen because she's a girl, a woman who has been curious about the lifestyle and doing all kinds of alternative things since the get-go. She got her guy into hucking up with a couple. She tells that story.

And then they wound up after they broke up just as friends going to a swinger club together. That was her first experience. She talks about that. They had a hot four-sum with another couple there as well. And then she talks about how after she broke up with him, she went on apps and stuff and just started to live her best life solo. and that's where she went to a sex party by herself. She's been with a dom. She, you know, at the sex party,

she hooked up with two separate couples. She talks about that whole experience. She's done a lot since by herself. And she's looking to experience more. She's into kink. She's into BDSM. She's into hooking up a couple. She likes, you know,

hooking up with both the male and the female gangbings and more stuff are on her bucket list. She just kind of started in a couple of the past few months, But she's been a lot. She's been there, done that. And she did it all as like a unicorn, solo unicorn. They do exist, but they call them unicorns because it's rare, right? I mean, I say this to her, like, not many women would go to a swinger party or a sex.

It was like a house party, sex party alone. But she did, and she's young. And I give her credit. And you're going to love her story. So I'm going to get right to be right back on with Elizabeth. This is the strictly anonymous podcast. Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Hi, Elizabeth.

Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. podcast. How are you today? Hi, Kathy. I'm good. How are you? Good. Well, you're kind of like a self-proclaimed slut. You said you're just like living your greatest like after post-breakup slutty phase era. Is that true? Yeah, I'm, I'm having the time in my life these last couple months after a breakup and living my best slutty life, like you said. Okay, but did you do stuff before as well? Remind me, like what's your story here? Did you do stuff with your boyfriend? friend too or you just got slutty like the past couple months? No, I think I've always been this way. I think I'm one of those people that's kind of wired for it.

Let me ask you this just so I know where to start because this is still the beginning. Like, is a Swinger Club your first sort of like foot into like this alternative lifestyle world or was there other stuff before that? Well, when we were together, we had played with a couple before. Okay, why don't we start there then? And you say he's a cucked. Does that mean you fucked other guys for him and stuff like that? he is I would say a cuck it never got to the point where he was watching me with other men but he gets off on it a whole lot and and I do too I really But let me ask you this. I get it. But you never like screwed other guys, even when he wasn't around for him, correct? That's correct. Okay. But you did a couple. Let's start with the couple thing. Like how did, because you sound young. How old are you? I'm 26. Okay. And so you're your young couple and your 20s. Like how do you wind up with fucking a couple? Like how does that conversation happen? Or was it like a drunken night?

No, not a drunken night. It was very intentional. It's something that anything lifestyle I've been interested in since I was 17, 18 years old. I think I had a threesome around that time. With a girl or a guy? With a girl or a guy? It was with another girl, girl and a guy. Okay, okay. So you've always been, since you're, like, you know, ready to get going. You're, like, interested in getting into the lifestyle and everything included.

I have, yeah, and I'm the one you kind of brought everything up to him. Hey, I'd like to try this. What do you think about this? Was he like, you know, was he so excited or was he hesitant? I mean, you never know. Everyone thinks every single guy would be just so so into it. but maybe some guys wouldn't be. No, he was pretty hesitant.

Yeah, exactly. Yeah, just nerves, not knowing what to do and not knowing anything about it. So a lot of research and a lot of conversations and boundaries and things like that were discussed. And we ended up meeting a couple online, meeting up with them and having a for some. How was it?

And why did you pick the couple and what were your boundaries? Those are three separate questions. Tell me at all. Well, the forrestment was great. There were cool people. It was kind of a nice dipping the toe into the lifestyle, group play, all sorts of things like that. And we didn't have too many boundaries. It was more of a, it was definitely not a no kissing role.

That was, I was pretty clear that didn't love that role. It was going to be really hard for me to follow. Did that go out the window anyway? Yeah, yeah, there was definitely. kissing and there was no issue on either of our ends with that because we had discussed it all before and it was going to be good. The only boundaries was just like if anybody's not feeling something, if anybody wants to change your mind, all we need to do is give each other, you know, the look and that's it. Things are done. Right. How old was the couple that you chose?

Same age as us. Okay, cool. So you're both obviously all attracted to each other. Walk me through that first experience. Well, that first experience was pretty great. We, we, we, we, we, we, we, we, We had hosted and they came out to see us. And I think it started with me and the girl in the couple making out. I think we had all played, you know, some games, kind of break the ice a little bit. And then before you know it, I'm making out with her, got her tities in my face. And we're moving into the bedroom. We're draped across the bed and all sorts of different positions.

The couple starts fucking each other, me and my boyfriend at the time. are fucking and it ended up kind of being a side-by-side thing. I think I ate her out, maybe just a tiny bit. Mm-hmm. And that was a great first experience for us, just enough to kind of get us comfortable having sex in a room with other people. Right. And he performed way better than I thought he would.

I kind of thought he would get a little nervous, but he really did a great job. Quick question. So is that what led you guys into thinking, oh, now we should like go to a swingers club? because I'm assuming you guys didn't do any other couples, correct? Like you went straight to the Swinger Club after that? No, we had a couple, like, failed attempts at meeting another couple.

Right. We just couldn't find the right one that we vibed with, finding one that was maybe closer to our age. You know, a lot of the couples in the lifestyle are 30s, 40s, older than that. And I didn't have a, we didn't have a problem with that per se, but we just had more in common with couples who are younger, you know. Of course. And so it wasn't until that idea of going to a club had been something at that time

I wanted to do and he just wasn't quite ready for it. So we never ended up going to the club for a couple of years while we were still together after that point. No more threesomes, no more couples, no more nothing. No more nothing.

Okay. And so then when do you wind up going to a bunch of years goes by and how does the swing or club thing come up? Well, a bunch of years goes by we break up fairly amicable, just wasn't working anymore, but the sex was still really, really great. And of course, like a lot of people, we still kept sleeping together after the breakup. And I kind of realized I had this newfound freedom of, hey, you know, I kind of did what a single guy might do after a breakup, which is fuck everything on the planet.

I have all this freedom. and so I decided I was just going to go to a lifestyle club, a swingers club, thought about it, doing it by myself. That idea kind of really made me nervous. Wouldn't it be nice if I had somebody to go with? And, you know, him and I had talked about going before. And so I was able to invite him and say, do you want to go with me? We went on a New Year's Eve party just this last year, which is, I think, a great time to check out a Springer's Club for the first time. New Year's Eve and Halloween are kind of the big shindigs.

Okay. And so we went together as a quote unquote couple with some predetermined, I don't want to call them rules because you're not really together, you know, where there's two single individuals who happen to come together. But we just kind of determined neither of us was going to abandon the other, just totally dip out. And we ended up meeting a couple and having a foursome and a swap with them, which was totally unexpected. Very last minute, we didn't think we'd end up playing with anybody but ourselves. We hadn't set ourselves up for any sort of expectations.

We go, we have a good time. We play with each other. If we meet other people, that's great. If we don't, also great. And we ended up having quite a bit of fun at the club and going. back to the hotel and looking like rabbits after. After you did the couple, but the couple with the couple was full swap this time. It wasn't just side by side, correct?

Right, right, right. And how was that experience for the both of you? For you, I mean, you're not really with the guy anymore, so we don't care about him, but like, how was it for you? For me, it was great. It was the best experience I could have asked for for my first ever trip to a swingers club. The couple was great. It was very hot.

I got to play with the woman some more, which is great because I've been wanting to play with more women. And it kind of turned into, at some points, into more of a threesome with my ex watching, which was fun. Because he never got to really bring out that full cook experience when we were together. Right. So for him, he enjoyed watching you with the guy this time. He did. Yeah. And I checked with him after like, you know, how are you feeling? What do you think about that? He was like it was hot. He liked it. And so you enjoyed all of it. And did you guys ever go back again together? No, we haven't gone back again together. Not since then. But I have gone solo to a house party since then by myself.

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So what did you do? Go on apps or something? Like, how do you wind up getting more involved in the lifestyle yourself? Oh, yeah, going on the apps and started with, you know, just booty calls and single guys because that's pretty easily attainable. And do you have some good? hookups with single guys that you met on those apps? Yeah, yeah, it did. I had some good hookups. Ended up seeing somebody that I hadn't, kind of a friends with benefits that I hadn't seen in the last five years, I think reconnecting with them.

And that was really fucking great. And I forget your question. I'm saying, you know, so like what did you start to do when you got single? Like you went on to the apps and then, you know, how did that lead to you into getting going to house parties and all that kind of stuff? I mean, it's one thing just fucking guys, but you do a whole bunch of other stuff. Like, how does that happen, you know, once you're on those apps and stuff? How does it all start? Yes. Getting on the apps, meeting a couple vanilla booty calls, and then meeting a couple really kinky people on the apps helps too.

Having kinky friends is always nice and friends who want to talk about this stuff who like kinky sex, who maybe have experience in the lifestyle themselves. And I think fed life events, events on the, on the, the site. I had a free weekend and I was looking for something to do. It was feeling a little slutty, feeling like having some fun, seeing what's out there. And I saw an event happening in the nearby city for a house party run by a private like members only club. I had to apply. It was a little nerve wracking and ended up getting accepted and deciding to go as a single one. Okay, so tell me real quick, like, how did they vet you?

Did you have to send a picture in and stuff? Yeah, I had to send in pictures. I had to send in, of course, my full name, everything that matches my ID, which is a little nerve-wracking because everything so far has not had my name attached to it. It's just been sex. Of course, yeah. But pictures, I had to answer a bunch of questions, write in a little bit about myself, my interests. and yeah, I got accepted. Was it a kink party or a swinger party?

It was a swinger party. Okay. Okay. And so you get accepted because you're a single girl. I mean, single guy might be a little bit harder to get in, but you get accepted as a single girl going to this party, correct? Yeah, I do. Okay.

And so tell me what happens. Well, I decide to make a whole thing of it. I get a hotel room. It's in a city that's a little further away from me. and I get down there and I get ready for the party. I have to psych myself up a little bit because I do kind of want to chicken out the last second. I can imagine.

You don't really know what you're walking into. I'm by myself. I don't have a partner to fall back on. I don't have anybody I'm guaranteed to play with. So maybe things don't work out. What were you playing? Like, what were you hoping,

like if you had to think about it before you were going in to do? Did you really want to hook up with women? a couple be a part of an orgy was like there anything that you were dying to experience that first time, but alone? Dying to experience was another male, female couple, be able to play with both of them. Okay, cool. Okay, so you're very nervous going in. I can imagine, I don't think I would ever go to a swinger club by myself as a woman.

Like, I really don't. So I give anyone credit that does, especially at your age. You got balls. Yeah, yeah. I was surprised how the crowd was fairly young. The crowd was more so 30s, maybe a couple in the 40s. Oh, that's perfect for you. Yeah, it was.

And it was a great turnout. It was a beautiful place. It was very well hosted. What kind of place was it in? Was it in somebody's house or was it in like a venue? So it was in a house, but it's, it was like rented for the occasion. It was like an event venue house. All right.

Okay. So tell us exactly what went down. Well, I show up by myself, of course, and immediately. I'm a little off put by the fact that everybody there is a couple. I'm the only one walking around by myself. You're the, yeah, but you know what? That makes you the hottest bitch in the place, okay? They call it a unicorn for a reason.

Everyone wants it and it's so illusive and it's hard to find. I'm sure you were like the hot piece of ass in there. Well, that is the mindset that I was trying to stand. Don't freak out, you know, I'm going to be just fine. Yeah. Worked up the nerve to make some conversation and mingle. And once you get past like that first conversation, it became so much easier. I was like, oh, people like me here.

They want to talk to me. I can go talk to them. They're interesting too. Yeah, and they're super friendly, right? Oh, yeah. Everybody was great. Right. Okay.

So I ended up flirting with a handful of couples during the- Let me ask you this because I've never been to Swingers Club. Like, you know, when you're walking around flirting with couples in the regular area, are you like wearing clothes? Are you wearing lingerie? Are you naked? Like, what's the vibe? Like, what's the scene?

So in my local club. This one, let's talk about this one that you're at. Yeah. Okay. So for this house party, the rule about attire is anybody can wear anything anywhere, pretty much, both men and women. You can be full dressed. You can be completely nude lingerie. So for the first, I don't know, hour, hour and a half of the party,

there's no play allowed until they have a consent talk. So it's just strictly mingle time, flirting time. And in that time, I was wearing a short little black dress, just kind of dressed nice. And then after the consent talk is when I went and changed into some lingerie that I brought. Oh, okay. And did other people do the same? They did, yeah.

And there was, I don't think anybody was really in the mood or wearing lingerie. prior to the consent talk. But as soon as that happened, immediately there's women running over to their bags and everybody just gets dressed anywhere because you don't want to take up. There's only a couple bathrooms in this house.

Yeah, that's what I was going to ask you. There's no locker room because it's a house that's not a venue. No, no, no, no. So I asked one of the ladies next to me, she's titty's out. She's getting dressed. I'm like, so what's the vibe?

Am I just getting dressed out here? She's like, yeah, you don't want to take up the bathrooms. I'm like, oh, I guess. I just, I can look. kind of weird when I get dressed. I do weird movements. Yeah, it's weird to get dry. You know, it's not like hot really unless you're like, you know, you got it down and you're like, you know, got the whole strip t's going on. Okay, so you, so now the consent talk happens and then what goes down? Now everyone's dressed sexy. You've got on your lingerie. You've talked to a couple

couples. Yeah. And so during that consent talk, they had asked, you know, if the people in the crowd wanted to volunteer this information, would any of the single men like to raise their hands? And there's one hand raised. Then the question came, and of course I kind of scoped that person out, everybody's looking around. Then the question came, any single women want to raise their hands. I was one of two. I introduced myself to the other single woman because I'm like, oh, finally, somebody

was something in common kind of feels like me here. And we all break up. people disperse. I'm downstairs. There's a pool table hanging out, playing, and I see the single guy. And I remembered his face from the consent talk. And so I introduced myself. And it's just a little less intimidating, right, when it's just one on one and not one versus two, trying to flirt with a couple. Yeah. And so I just kind of eased myself into it. He offered him to massage. And we went upstairs, and I had the best massage, I think, of my life from this strange man at a swinger's house party. And there's couples in the couches and the massage table next to us fucking all over the place.

It's hard not to get extremely turned on. I didn't really want to fuck this guy at first. He wasn't super my type. He was okay. I said, yeah, you need me a massage. And I ended up blowing him on the massage table. Was he like fingering you or something? No.

No, no fingering. It was just, I was so turned on from this very sensual, very relaxing massage and then watching all of the couples around me, screwing on the massage table, on the couches, on the chairs, girls on their knees, blowing their guys, and just gets you in the mood. No, I know. So what was he do? What did you do with all this horniness? I mean, I know you're blowing him, but like, were you playing with yourself? Like, how do you, how are you turning yourself on? I know you're hornyness. but like do you wind up? Yeah, I was. Yeah, I was. I was playing with myself and and starting to masturbate while he massaged me, trying to give him a little show. And after we, we had played, I just kind of walked around and looked for people that I had flirted with earlier in the night,

ran into the couple that was around my age that was there. and I think they said they were on their way to do something. I was like, oh, I'm just walking around. They're like, do you want to come with us? And I said, sure, let's go. And this place was a little short on bedrooms, not a lot of beds to go around, and a lot of people who want to have sex. So people are finding spaces.

The only rule was you can't fuck in the bathrooms and not on the pool table, which is very disappointing to me. I really want to the pool table. That's funny. Yeah, so we ended up finding a free spot on like a patio, a balcony. This this male-female couple and I next to a couple who was already playing by themselves on the patio furniture. And we had the male-female threesome that I kind of wanted that night. Now, how do you know whether that woman's into women or not?

Like, is it negotiated ahead of time? Do you know? Because I know you're into women. Yeah, so I asked her. I think point blank when we had met upstairs, like are you, are you by? Are you into women? And she said, yeah. Okay, cool. So you knew? I knew. I knew going into it. And they knew too, right? That's typically how I think it has to happen. So how was that threesome with them? Oh, my God. It was the best. It, it was amazing. It, I've had a couple threesomes before, um, both with two males and a male, female. And sometimes they can feel a little bit. Listen, I'm sorry, I'm interviewing you here. And I've asked you a million questions, and you never told me you did two guys at one time.

And I really felt like I asked you for all your stories before you get here. When did you do two guys? During, if you could call it that, during the foursome at the swingers club, there was different points in that where I was. Oh, okay, but that's on a separate time. It was during, okay. Okay, so that's on a separate threesome. No. Okay, okay.

Okay, so sorry. Okay, go back. I was going to say, like, I didn't think. I missed anything. I'm pretty thorough. Okay, go on. So this threesome is was the hottest thing ever. It was. Yeah. And I swear to God, I don't think I've seen a dick bigger than that. Oh, is that what made it so great? Well, that and the fact that the woman was gorgeous. Both of them were super great people. Both of them very hot. And it felt very balanced. You know, it was never, there was never a moment where one of us felt like. left out. We all felt very, very symbiotic. Everyone was in sync. Right. Everybody's in sync. Yeah, which I think sometimes is hard to do or hard to manage between so many different.

You know, you want, of course it's easier with just one person, but with two, you know, with three all together, that's amazing that it was in sync. And I would think that that does make it way better than something that, you know, isn't in sync for sure. Totally, totally. And playing with another woman is kind of one of the things they had wanted to do that night, too, that we talked about before, just making conversation and introducing ourselves. I said, you know, what are you into? Are you looking for singles? Are you looking for couples? And they said that they were friends who had met at another party and were open to other couples, but they would really love to have a single woman. So it was really fantastic that we got to check off both of those boxes.

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I didn't, but one of the couple I played with after them, I did end up getting contact information. Oh, okay. So walk me through that. So you wind up having like a great threesome with them, but you're not leaving the party yet. You're not, you're not, things don't end there. No, I'm just getting started.

Okay, keep going. And I end up, it's really interesting having crazy sex in a crowded venue because after sex, you're tired, you're sweaty, you need some water. And so I make my way back up and I'm like, water, I need water. I get water. I'm up there. I run into one of the gentlemen that I had flirted with prior to the consent talk, older than me, maybe 30s, 40s. and he was just so smitten with me. He, early on when we had met in the party and was flirting,

he had asked, you know, can I kiss you? Can I touch you here? Is this okay? And I'm like, yeah, go for it. And he said, I really want to introduce you to my partner. She's over there. And she was tied up. We didn't end up meeting her at that point.

Later down the road, I'm getting water. I end up talking to the both of them. they're both super hot. The woman is about his age to late 40s, and they were just a smoking hot couple. And they said, you know, we're going to be downstairs. We're going to be playing. If you want to come by later on, please do. And so that's exactly what I did.

After I had my little break time and mingled some more, I went downstairs and found him in a bedroom and jumped right in and said, hey, can I join? Oh, my God. And now was that woman by too? Yes, she was. Oh, my God. So you really had a great time. I did.

I had the time of my life. How did the three sit with this couple go? That was really great. You could tell that they were maybe a little more experienced with couples, even though the first one was fantastic, no notes. But they had a little more of an air of confidence to them. And that was really hot. I was eating her out while he was fucking her.

and then he was fucking me and her and I are playing together. And then before long, that single guy that I had played with at the very start, he's in the corner kind of watching. He's loyering off to the side. And the woman in the couple goes, you're wearing too many clothes. To him. To the guy.

And invites him in. She said that to the guy. Yes, to the guy. And end up inviting him in. And so it turned into another foursome and the single guy is fucking the wife. I'm fucking the husband. And we're all just having a grand old time together. And that's the guy that gave you the massage, right?

You weren't really that into him. So I'm assuming you didn't fuck him. No, I didn't fuck him. Wasn't super duper my type. But he did give a great massage. Yeah, there you go. That's cool. Oh my God.

So you got their contact information, this couple. I did, yes. I got his number. Okay. And so did you do, how many other people did you do at that party or was that the end of it? I mean, that's still a lot. That was the end of it. That was kind of like, okay, I think I've had my fill and time to go catch some Zs. Yeah. Oh my God. So what a great first experience, I'm assuming, solo experience? It was, yes. And I'm not afraid in the slightest to go back again by myself. Right. Okay. So what do you wind up doing after that? it's like you're kind of like at the top of the mountain yeah i know um after that i end up uh seeing the friends with benefits that i had several years ago in the past reconnecting with him and just playing the two of us him him and i solo um we haven't done these things yet but there's been some conversation he's got he's non monogamous and he has i think two two primary partners one of which is a cut queen and so there's an offer on the table in the future that there might be a situation where i forget what it's called when it's a girl she's not a bull she's a oh they call it a cutcake that's what it is cutcake where all fuck him and she'll watch so that's an offer that's that's on the table and there's some more group play involved and and this gentleman used to be involved in the lifestyle in the lifestyle several years ago so but but

And just reconnecting with old flames and old friends with benefits, having fun out there, I did meet on one of the apps. I met a dom, a very dominant man, and had a scene with him for the first time as a submissive, which was really interesting for me. So tell me that experience. So I have been, I call myself a switch. I've been a switch for some time. The Cuck X, right, that I went to the club with is very submissive. He'll say that he's a switch. I think he's maybe a little more submissive. He's into chastity. I did the whole keyholder thing. I did the Femnom thing and got really, really into it. It was something I'd never done before he introduced it. to me and but I still loved bringing out my subside sometimes it just feels really good to be taking control of to let it all go and so I ended up meeting this fellow on one of the apps and who came across as he very much knew what he was doing was very involved in kink and bDSM and was strictly dominant there's not a submissive bone in his body and it was very appealing because

I had been with somebody very submissive for such a long time. So we end up meeting after quite a bit of back and forth and talking and a couple of FaceTime calls and going over everything related to Kink and BDSM. What are your interests? What are your limits? You know, and that was a lot of fun. He ended up bringing this rack. He brought a coat rack or clothing rack.

This assembled and assembled it in my house in the living room because it's like the only space that was big enough. He scoped out the house first looking for this place to set it up. And I ended up bound to the clothing rack. We brought out floggers and all sorts of toys and restraints. and I had an impact play session with him that was one of the more intense ones I've ever experienced and it was mind-blowing. It was amazing. And we ended up having really great, rough, hardcore sex at the end of it all. And I hope that I'm saying, like, subspace. No, not to that point. I haven't gotten to that point ever. And that was a lot of fun. There was a lot of fun. There was a lot of

There was some breath play involved. That was kind of a first for me with the level of intensity that it was. And that was awesome. Got to bring out my submissive side, which is a little hard at times. Again, because I was more in the dominant role for a couple of years. I was the Femdom key holder. And so I tend to be a little bradier when I'm sub. I don't want to give into commands.

I want to make them. Yeah. But I just kind of let it all. happen and enjoy the experience. And I haven't played with him again since. We've both got very busy social calendars. But I hope to in the course of the next month or so. Yeah, I think that, you know, being a dom and, you know, being that type of woman, like a lot of times it's like a control thing, right? So the more you fall in, and I've heard this from people, you know, the more that kind of person falls into a submissive role and lets them really go there, the more hotter the experience, right?

because it's really releasing all of the control and all of that stuff. And that's where you wind up like in fucking subspace. Right. And that's something that comes with with time. Of course. You just get right off the bat with somebody. And not only that. If you're like a control for it, you know what I mean?

If you're like someone who's very in control, you know, to get to really let go is a very, that's something I think you have to learn how to do because it's all about trust and it takes a while to build that with somebody else for sure. Right. It does to really be able to fully immerse yourself. I agree. Yeah, of course. I mean, that's like the key to all that, that world, you know, for sure. A hundred percent. But I think, you know, you going in that direction is kind of smart. Like, that's probably you'll find like intense bliss for yourself. That's kind of what I'm hoping for. I'm not setting any, you know, expectations for myself. Oh, I have to get into stuff space. I don't want to put that pressure on me or my Dom or anybody.

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You're like, oh, the club in my area. Like, is there a club in your area that you plan on going to? Because you went to that one house party, but have you been to the Swinger Club in your area alone? No, I haven't gone alone. That's probably the next thing on my to-do list. Right. That's the place where you went with the guy? It is, yeah. Right. Okay. So that, so you're planning on doing that. What else is like on your list of like, oh, I want to like I want to do? Like are you into gangbangs? D.P. Like I don't know. You tell me. Gangbangs are on the list. DVP. So many women love gangbanks. Yes, that was that was one of the icebreaker question answers I did. I did.

the house party was like what's the fantasy of yours i said gangbang gang bangs dvp all of these things i i want to do more uh two male threesomes to have two cox at once obviously more than that and a gangbang playing with women more more opportunities playing with women and then exhibitionist things so of course going to clubs um finding some dungeons nearby me um just i i love the exhibition as side do things. Besides FetLife, what other apps are you on? I always recommend SDC because a lot of my listeners who have called in love that one. And that's the one that I have like a free trial for for people if they want to check it out.

And the code and the link is in the description. It's 37712 or you could just click on it and you get a free trial on there. And that's the same like, you know, all the other apps where it's not just a place like where you can meet people. You could also find out about like the clubs and the events in your area. Like you said you found out about that sex party. on FetLife, correct? That's right, yeah. Yeah, what other apps are you on that you like?

I like FetLife. I like Field is okay. It can be a little buggy at times, but there's a lot of great, open-minded, kinky people on there. I was on, it wasn't SDC, it was another Swinger site. SLS, maybe. What was that? SLS? Yes, that's the one, SLS. I was on that, some, some years. years ago and I haven't been on since, but I have been listening to your show and hearing your your deal about the SDC. So I might have to go check this out. Yeah, you never know. I mean,

sometimes people will be like, oh, I like this one better because there's more people in my area. I forget like what area SDC is really great for and maybe not as ideal for. They say, I don't know. But, you know, I know that a lot of people love it. I know a lot of people love FetLife, which you're on. And that's great for you because you also like the whole kink thing. And that that's like big over there, correct, don't you think? Compared to other places.

It is, yeah. And I love showing off. It's, you know, very social media like so you can post. It's kind of like a Facebook

you mean like where you put pictures and stuff and there's interaction. You mean? Yes, exactly. Oh, I never knew that. And that's Fat Life. Yeah.

Oh, and so, and do you get a, do you have a lot of followers and stuff? And what do you like, because you're a little bit of an exhibitionist. So you like to post like what kind of stuff over there? Pictures of,

of myself, could be in La Juree, could be nude. I think there's a couple pictures of cream pies. I think I have a video or two on there. I have intended to it very much in the last couple years, but I have a decent amount of followers. I get too many messages to handle that sometimes. I need to change my settings. Yeah.

But it's a great place for events, for keeping up with people that you maybe know in real life or people that you followed online for a while. Now, two more questions. Like that one couple that you met at that party, have they ever hit you up to meet up again? Do you have any plans to see them again, the ones that you got the contact information from?

No, no plans with them yet. We did have a couple brief text exchanges, just keeping in contact with one another. But they're kind of further away from me. So we'll have to find a time and see where that goes. Did you ever think of finding a single woman to hook up with, or have you done that already? No, I've never been with a woman solo before.

form. So is that, is that like something that you would check off your box or you're open to as well? I would. Yeah. She'd have to be pretty kingy and pretty open. I don't know if I could do vanilla when it comes to another woman. Yeah, I get it. You would need a little bit more. Yeah. If the guy's not there. Yeah. Right. I get it. And so, I mean, I'm surprised. Do you get hit up by a lot of couples? I mean, do you have on your profile like your unicorn looking for couples, got two guys, blah, blah, blah, like, you know. No, I don't have all of that advertised on my profile, actually. Why not?

Like I said, I've kind of neglected the profile. Haven't updated the bio in some time. But I should. It needs a little facelift. Well, listen, listen, it doesn't sound like you've needed it. You've had, because we're only talking months here, correct? Right, right. This has just been since the fall.

Yeah, I mean, you know, in the time that you, you've, you know, been at this, it's not like you've really needed to do anything or, because listen, once you open up your profile and you turn the light on with all those things, you're going to get hit up a lot, right? But it's not like you've had, you haven't had any trouble finding stuff to do on your own, right? Like you didn't really need to reach out and find other people because you did it in different ways by going to clubs and all that kind of stuff. You know what I mean? Yeah. Yeah, I've, I've been able to kind of find my little community and without having to do too much work, which is very nice. Now, do you ever think, because now that you're in this world solo and you have this side of,

you've seen this side of life and you've also been in long-term relationships and seen, you know, vanilla monogamous relationships, even if they're kinky, you know, just more so, you know, that kind of relationship. Like, do you know what your future holds? Like, do you think you could ever go back one day after you get this out of your system and have a monogamous relationship? Do you think feel like after, you know, doing all this stuff like you would never be able to be monogamous and want to find somebody in the lifestyle that rolls like you? Like, what do you think for your future now? I mean, listen, those things could change when you're, your 20s. That's what being 20-something is all about, just trying to figure shit out, you know? But like

right now, how do you feel? No, I don't think I can ever see myself going back to being monogamous with somebody. Right. At least in some aspects, at the very minimum, an open relationship. I enjoy having sex with other people. I like new experiences. I want whoever my future partner is in the future to want those things too to play together for them to be solo.

I really don't see myself ever being quote unquote tied down like that again. Right. But last question, actually, this is my last question. So, you know, you did play with that guy, friend of yours, and now you're playing solo. Do you feel like, like, if you could have anything you wanted tomorrow, like, would you find a guy who's open-minded that you could be in a relationship with where you guys could go and do all this stuff together? Or do you enjoy right now being single and navigating by yourself and doing everything by yourself? Right now, I'm enjoying the single. I'm enjoying time to myself. Yeah.

Yeah. Because you could just do whatever the fuck you want, right? Yeah. Yeah. There's no boundaries or rules to be had or feelings to be hurt, it's just about me and whatever the fuck I want to do. Yeah. And listen, I think a lot of more people would roll that way, but a lot of people, you know, wouldn't have the balls to do, to go into those situations that you've gone into solo, right? Especially women. So I think that's, if a lot, if more people were okay going to places alone, they'd probably maybe navigate to solo because it's easier, right, than taking someone else's taste and sticks, you know, into consideration. Sometimes it's really hard for couples to find people to hook up with because one's attracted and the other one is and all that

kind of stuff. You know, you don't have to worry about any of that because it's just you, you know. So it makes it easier, I think, and it's a lot of ways. Yes, it does. And, you know, there's a lot of hesitation that comes with it. But just do it. Just get your foot in the door, just put yourself out there and. Easy for you to say, like I told you, I don't think ever in my life I would have ever been able to do it. And I'm so much older than you and I don't think I still would. So I like always, you know, give anyone credit, especially a woman at your age, credit for, you know, having the balls, because I think it really does take balls to do that alone. And you're having a great time.

And I love that you called into my show and told your story. Now, can you, do you want to, hey, by the way, do you want to give out your Fet Life name by any chance? It's up to you. No, no, I'll keep that to myself. Okay. You don't want to blow it up. Okay. So if you, but if you want, I have a Patreon where like people send in anonymous picks for me over there. If you want to send a lingerie shot or a bikini shot for that, for my Patreon. you will get free access to see comments over there. And then when we hang up, you'll get a link to my private Discord, which is super fun. So if you want to join it, go in there.

You'll get the private link when we hang up from my calendar that thank you email that you're going to get. It's like a stock email. We'll have the link in there. So use it to go in there if you want, okay? Fantastic. I look forward to it, Cathy. Yeah, you'll have fun. But do me a favor.

If you're going to send me picks for my Patreon, those can't be X-rated. You can put anything on Discord. You'll see when you go into my Discord. It's fucking hardcore, okay? you could do and that's where you could post videos and stuff and I'll give you access to the guest channel so you could post in there since you're like an exhibitionist you like for guys to check you out and stuff you know my listeners will love to see you there and you could post yourself but if you're going to send me pictures for my page and you could do x-rated stuff there

but for my patreon it's r-rated just like sexy pics send me that sooner than later so I have it when your episode airs and I'll email you when it goes up okay okay thanks so much all right Elizabeth thanks so much for calling in I love your story thanks for having me on Bye. Okay, bye. Hey, y'all, it's Kelly Clarkson with Wayfair. Ever order furniture online and wonder, what if? Like, what if it doesn't hold up?

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