Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 150 - Tommy Lee's Girlfriend Likes to Call him Daddy

Episode Date: October 30, 2016

Tommy Lee calls in and explains that he's involved in a DD/lg (Daddy Dom, little girl) relationship with his current girlfriend. What does that exactly mean? How does that play out in their relationship? Is it just a sexual thing or something more? Tune in to find out, plus hear all about the recent fight they had because he texted another girl, how that got resolved and a whole lot more about how guys and girls are different when it comes to relationships. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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I found him on Craigslist. And he had a regular problem. It was kind of like my girlfriend caught me talking to another girl or saying some shit and she's really super jealous. And I like problems like that because, you know, I think some people think I only like to talk about sex, but that's not really true. just like what I typically get on my show.

But I like these regular problems because I think that they're very common and a lot of people go through this kind of stuff. And I like to analyze it too because that's just like what I like to do. So anyway, we talk about that issue. We talk a lot about like, you know, guy-girl stuff. So I think it's really interesting. We also get into his past and his issues with his mom and her issues with her dad. Because the other thing that he has going on with those girl, that's like a weird

twist is they have what's called a D-D-L-G scenario. I think that's what it's called, a daddy-daughter, little girl thing. I don't know. It's some sort of phrase that he talked about that I'm like, what the fuck are you talking about? And he explains it on the podcast that this girl that he's dating and he has this issue with is into him being like her daddy.

And I've seen this stuff on Craigslist a lot. There's a lot of daddy father, daddy. son, mommy, son shit going down. I mean, a lot of people have this kind of fantasy. And it's interesting to me. So we talk about that too. His name is Tommy Lee. That's what he said he wanted to be called. I was a little surprised that he even knew who he was, but we talk about that as well. It's Tommy Lee, the Tommy Lee. It's Tommy Lee, just a regular young guy who calls in to talk about his shit. So I'm going to be right back on with Tommy Lee. Do you have a story, lifestyle, or situation you can't talk about to anyone, to anyone?

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Hi, how's we doing? Good. So you're Tommy Lee, but you're not the Tommy Lee. I'm surprised at 20 years old You know who Tommy Lee is Is that because, like, your parents listen to Tommy Lee? Like, how do you know who Motley Crew is?

Or do you know him from, like, his current bands? I listen to Motley Crew, actually. You do? But who turned you on to it, like your parents? No, actually, I won free concert tickets when I went when I was, I think, 18. And you like them? Yeah. I was already a big fan of ECDC, so.

So you like that kind of rock-roll kind of music or whatever you want to call it, I don't know. Yeah. That's cool. Yeah, and they don't have much of that now that's new, right, in your time period. And like now, that comes out, right? Not at all. I like classic rock, so. Cool. So this is your deal, okay?

And I'm assuming it's probably there's more to it. I don't know. That's what I'm here for. And I'm going to ask you a lot of questions. So you posted an ad on Craigslist, right? What section was your ad in? Do you remember? Because I answer ads in all different sections.

Do you remember what section you placed your ad in? I think it was, I think it was, um, I forget what section it was in, but I posted that I wanted advice on a situation. Right, but was it in the casual encounters section, right? Like men for women, women for men? No, it was like in general or something? I think it was strictly patonic. Oh, okay.

So your deal is you're 20 years old, right? You have a girlfriend. You called it some sort of relationship, D, D, D, L, G, something. I didn't even know what the hell you're talking about, but you'll explain that in a second. But you have a girlfriend. How long have you been dating your girlfriend for? Almost a year. Okay. So you're dating some girl for about a year. And there's another girl that you're friends with and she saw, your girlfriend saw you texting the other girl. And you said something like I'd like to see you naked or in a bikini or some shit like that. And your girlfriend

saw it and freaked out and now she totally doesn't trust you. But like you had really no intention of really ever crossing that line. It's just something that you said. Right? Is that like the gist of it? Yeah, basically. And now is she just going mental and she doesn't trust you? Why are you on, like, Craigslist looking for advice? I wasn't sure how to handle that situation. She wasn't really trusting me.

After she found out? Or, like, before. Did she trust you before? Like, how did she go into your phone and find that text? And why would you, like, leave that? We were just watching. We were supposed to put on a movie, and the text messages were already opened.

So when you open the phone, you know, you open an iPhone, you can see whatever the last thing they had opened was, usually. So she looked at your phone and saw this text. Now, did she know that you're friends with this girl? Yes. And how long have been friends with this girl? I'm assuming that this is someone that you were friends with

before you met your girlfriend? yeah we've been friends since high school okay now have you ever hooked up with this girl or is she totally just a friend always been a friend totally just a friend okay and now let me ask you this why i mean do you guys have like a like any kind of chemistry between you that you would be sending like flirtatious texts like that like how did that come up and text with this girl if she's just strictly your friend um well and she's lost a lot of weight and she sent me pictures and then I you know quickly responded with just you know with the comment that I made previously and what was the exact comment was it I want to because of I'm a guy so just seeing anything like that

that would be my own mic response yeah but what was your response again was it I'd like to see you naked or I want to see you in a bikini like what did you say back to her I said I think I think you would look sexy in a bikini. I think that's what I said. Oh, that's not that bad. You were being nice. I mean, like, let me ask you this, really, between me and you and the people listening. Nobody knows who the fuck you are. Right? You're Tommy Lee, right? Nobody knows. So did you really mean it? Like,

did you think, like, she kind of looked hot? And you were like, wow, she looked hot now in a bikini? Or did you just say that to be nice? She lost a lot of weight, and I was, I'm not, I'm not, I'm not, like no model or anything, but I surely don't have the six pack or anything. And so I was kind of like more or less envious, but she, um, went through all of that to lose all that weight and, you know, over the years. So you were trying to give her like kudos. You have, had respect for her. Like, I'm just trying to see where you were coming from. It wasn't more like I really wanted to see her naked or in a bikini or anything like that.

Mm-hmm. Let me ask you this. Do you have any, like, if you really had to be honest with yourself and with me, do you have any kind of physical attraction to this girl, maybe now that she's lost the weight? Not really. I never really did. I like just hanging out with her. It didn't really matter, you know. No, but listen, okay, the difference between, like, friends and lovers, boyfriends and girlfriends, right? is like the difference is like the reason why you keep some people as friends and some people more than friends is like sexual chemistry, right? So maybe with this girl,

you've been friends with since high school, so obviously you guys are super compatible as people, right? And as a man and a woman, maybe you were never attracted to her in the past because she was overweight and maybe that's not your thing. I don't know.

So I'm saying now that she lost the weight, a lot of girls lose weights and they look like killer. Like you know what I mean? Like she could have had a beautiful face and she lost the weight and maybe now she's like, she went from like a six to an eight. I don't know. So I'm just wondering if now that she did lose the weight, like is there a little bit of an attraction there now that wasn't there before?

Not really. It was more. But I was shocked when I saw the pictures because we haven't really spoken in so long. You know? Yeah, no, I'm not asking about. Yeah, I'm not asking about the actual text. I know that at the actual text, like, when you just text her, you just, like, it just came up in your head, right, and you texted it.

You weren't thinking about it. I'm just saying now, thinking about how she looks, right? And knowing what she looks like now, if you didn't have a girlfriend, do you think like maybe you'd be, maybe into her? Maybe, but I don't think she's... Right, but if she was into you, would you be into her? My point is, I just want to know if like now that she lost the weight, if you have like maybe. Yeah, maybe.

Right. So it's a kind of like a different situation. And maybe that's kind of what your girlfriend is worried about, right? She obviously, does she obviously knows the story, right? Because it seems like you're probably pretty honest with her. If you let her read the text in your phone, right? You probably explained to her that she was overweight. She knows the whole story.

Right. So she's probably a little freaked out thinking like, oh, just like what I would think. what I just said. Like, you know, yeah, you didn't like her because, and you've been friends with her since high school because maybe she was overweight. And now that she lost this weight, maybe now you're going to start liking her because she looks great and you guys are great friends and all that kind of stuff, right? Yeah. So that would make her maybe a little freaked out. So what happened after she saw that text?

Like exactly, that's made you sort of, like, go to Craigslist and put an ad out there. Basically, she wasn't too happy about it. What did she say? Oh, you like her. Maybe you should start going out with her. I think it made her feel really insecure about her own. Of course. It's called jealousy.

Like, you know, we all have it. Men too. You know, it's not just women feel jealousy, you know. Oh, of course. Put yourself in that, in her position. Like, you just said you were, like, you're not in the best shape and you don't have abs and steel either. But, like, what if, like, she met a guy or, you know what I mean?

You saw a text in her phone that she was like, like, wow, your six-packs is so hot to some guy that she's great friends with, not even like a stranger, like someone that she's been friends with since high school, it would probably make you jealous, don't you think? I think that I would feel from my boy too. You would. Right. So you have to understand, even though you say stuff to her probably to try to make her feel

better, because she's not you and she's not in your head. She doesn't really know for sure. So, like, since that conversation, she was upset and she was. said that and I'm like what did you say to make her feel better like how did you calm her down basically well actually furthermore what ended up happening after is I guess she went behind my back and started messaging the other girl and the girl won't talk to me at all oh my god wait no no no no no but wait what did she go back and say to the other girl I have no idea to be honest. I have no clue to this day. I don't have any idea what she said. Well, didn't you ask the other

girl? She won't respond back to you? She won't talk to me. Oh my God. I don't know what happened between the two of them, but she doesn't want anything to do with me. How do you know? Because she just never has responded to any text back ever since? Yeah, she never, she just didn't want to talk to me after she, she just was angry. Yeah, but what did she say? What did she say specifically? I'm going to maybe help.

I have no right clue. And honestly, I didn't want to ask. Okay, but wait a second. Okay, hold on, hold on, hold on. Hold on. I just want to take it one step at a time. Okay.

So your girlfriend gets really upset. You tell her, don't worry. She gets this girl's number, I'm assuming, from you, from your phone, right? I think she got her email or something. like that and started email. Okay, let me ask you this. How do you know that she, if you don't know the details, right, who told you that she contacted the girl behind your back? Actually, actually, my friend did. My good friend told me she contacted me and she said that was out a lot in the

childish because we're much, much older now. And she was like, I don't want to deal with high school drama. Because we're no longer in high school. She's like, we've long since graduated. and she's like, you know, we're more than old enough, you know. So that's what she said to you. The girl that lost the weight is the one who came back and said, listen, your girlfriend contacted me. This is ridiculous. I don't want to deal with it.

And that's the last you've heard from her? Yeah. Yeah, listen, probably what she said wasn't anything like, she just, who knows what she said? It doesn't really matter because the problem is that, like, that girl said, She doesn't want to deal with it. She knows you're involved with this girl.

This girl, she doesn't want to deal with her shit, right? So she's not talking to you. If ever you break up with this girl, you could become friends with that girl again. But, like, right now, I think in a weird way she's doing the right thing by just staying at it. I think that maybe, I honestly, from what she said, I think that maybe she previously always had feelings for me. Oh, the friend. Yeah, as more than Somi is more than outside of friends

So I think it was her way of saying You know, and I'll leave you alone Well, maybe, I don't know Why did you lose touch with her? You said, you know, you hadn't seen or heard from her In a long time. Is it because you guys like went your separate ways? I honestly, after high school,

I left for the Army And we just lost contact We would text each other Hey, every now and then or, you know, write each other emails or, you know, and even at one point when I was in the army, we wrote letters to each other, whatever. But other than that, it just, we never really hung out, you know. Well, let me ask you this.

How did she feel when she found out you had a girlfriend? Like, how did she find out you had a girlfriend? How did she react to that news? I don't know. Like, we only recently reconnected around the same time. And when I started, you know, dating this girl exclusively, I guess she didn't really like that too much. So she kind of distanced herself again. How do you know that?

I mean, like, what did she do? What do you mean she distanced herself? Well, because prior to that, we used to talk a lot more. Mm-hmm. Because you reconnected, you were talking a lot more. And then all of a sudden she found out that you're, like, being exclusive with this new girl. And she backed off. Yeah.

Right. And I can't get inside her. head. But I was doing that's how she felt. Yeah, maybe, but let me ask you this. Do you think that maybe without even realizing it that you also distance yourself? Because like what happens a lot of times when someone gets in a relationship? Not intentionally.

I like someone who has a child. I like for companies, but I didn't feel the same way. Yeah, but listen, what I'm trying to explain to you is that girls get jealous even of girlfriends when they get boyfriends. Do you understand like girlfriends with their girlfriends? Because what happens when you have a, friend, especially this happens with like females. I've seen it happen all the time. It's not, I'm just trying to point out that it's not necessarily because she likes you.

It just might be because like this girl took away your friendship. Like you hear you guys were probably talking all the time. And then when you get a girlfriend, a lot of your attention is taken someplace else. So you could say that she distanced herself from you. But what might have happened first without you even realizing it because you were just caught up in your relationship is that you distanced. yourself from her. And she felt that and was a little jealous. It might not even be because she wanted to date you,

which just might be because you were her friend. And you, you know, you filled a purpose in her life. And now this girl was getting you more than she was. Do you understand? Like I said, girls could feel that way

when their girlfriend gets a boyfriend. Do you understand? That kind of jealousy happens, even if there's no romantic feelings going on. It's just because, you know, you kind of get abandoned even just from your friends. of times girls get in relationships or guys get in relationships and for sure your relationship will change with your friends especially when they're a member of the opposite sex changes more so you know

yeah so she i don't know i would have to ask a lot more questions than i may whether she really had feelings for you or not because like i said girls could get jealous you'll never know you might know listen you're 20 years old you you know two years from now at six months months from now, when you break up with this girl, you could hit her up and then you guys could get drunk one night and make out and date for five years. You don't know, you know. This isn't, this is just a point in time where right now you don't know, but most likely this girl, friend of yours, like if ever anything happens between you and this girl that you're dating, you guys will reconnect and you'll be friends. That friendship foundation that you have will last.

And she'll, she'd probably be more than happy to be your friend once this girl is gone. right now after that girl's emailing her and she doesn't want to deal with it which I totally understand and I think she's doing the right thing by backing off right and your girlfriend should be happy that she did that yeah well yeah we ended up not talking to each other for like a week and we ended up working things out and you know and we're happy together so

what and we're happy well we ended up with not talking for like a week Is that when you posted the ad? Yeah. She didn't talk to you for a week because of this and then you guys got back together. What do you mean by a DDG? What do you mean about the DDG relationship or something? Well, actually, I just found out about this.

I guess DDGL is very dominant and little girl. It's like, I don't know, it's weird. So that's the kind of relationship. you have like how old's your girlfriend if she's the little girl 12 you're 20 she's 22 she's 20 as well so she's a little bit older than you how is it a daddy little girl situation we're practically the same age I mean we don't share the same birthday but right practically the same age but why do you label it that um I don't know maybe it was like at first I thought it was just a joke that she said, but, like, I guess she takes it really seriously.

But she thinks that she, like, in your guy's relationship, she looks at you like a dad and she wants to feel like a little girl. Isn't that what that stands for? Yeah. Okay. And so how does that play out in your guy's relationship? I don't know. I'm really kind of just getting used to it. I didn't really know what that was when I first started dating her. Yeah, I don't. either so I want you to explain.

I need you to explain because I don't understand. Well, it's like, like, I guess, like, um, like, kind of like role playing or, you know, like, I mean, so, you know, some people like, maybe, you know, I don't know what other couples do, but, like, what do you guys do? And so this is sexually speaking is where. you're saying. So when you guys have sex... Some of it is. Some of it is and some of it's just, you know, whatever, but the majority of it is, yeah. Okay, so explain to me what that means, like, how your sex life is different because you guys are a DDLG relationship.

Take care of her. Like, it's not, you know, like I take care of her like you would have, like a young child. Well, like, I don't know. I have a young child. I change his diaper. I clean him like that kind of shit. Like what do you do to her sexually? Oh, well, not like that. Like, more like having like a five-year-old running around, you know. Like, we'll go to the store and she'll pull up candy. And when I say no, give me the puppy doll guy.

It's kind of weird. So she wants you basically while you guys are having sex to sort of treat her like a little girl and pretend that you're her daddy? Yeah. Like her dad? Dad, like, is that what she, like, does she call you that? Like, how does the role play really work out? Yeah, she'll call me that even.

Okay, and does she like to be spanked? Does she wear, like, little girl clothes? Like, how far do you guys take it? Sometimes she will. What kind of clothes? But it's not always, like, sexual either in nature. It's not always that way. Mm-hmm.

But for the most part, yeah. Right. So sometimes even when you guys are just hanging out in the apartment, or your house or whatever, she acts like a little girl and wants you to treat her like you're the dad. Yeah.

And like if I'm, if I'm not working and we're both off we'll go to the movies, you know, whatever. Okay, but the regular people that are not in that kind of relationship go to the movies all the time. How is it different going to the movies like when you have this situation?

Like, it's more like, child to the movies. Like, she's really into anime, you know, and cartoons and... Mm-hmm. And stuff that a typical, like, my 11-year-old sister would watch on TV. Right.

So she likes to relate to little kids. But at the same time, she doesn't shy away from her responsibilities of being an adult. No, it sounds like she, like, has, lives, like, a little bit of a double life. Like, she's got this alter ego or, like, this other part of her that she...

sort of like let's loose what sometimes during her regular life with you a lot sexual let me ask you this is it always like when you guys are having sex right is it always like role playing that scenario or is it's only sometimes role playing that scenario only sometimes right but that's like her thing yeah it's mostly her saying me i'm just kind of whatever you know i kind of just go along with it. Right. And like when she wants to call you daddy, like what does she want you to do as her daddy?

So like, like I said, sometimes it's just as simple as going to the store and want candy. And when I say no, she'll pretend to be like an 11-year-old kid or a 10-year-old kid who really just wants candy from a store.

Yeah, that's just called being immature. No, I want to know, like when you're having sex, right? Like, and she's like, daddy, like, how does she pretend to be? Because, like, it's one thing if you're out, like, I've seen girls, like, turn on that little girl thing.

Like, it's a thing sometimes that I think some women think is, like, attractive. I don't know. Or it's like their way of getting shit from guys, you know? So maybe that's how she plays it out in, you know, when she wants candy or something from you. I don't know. But when you're having sex, right,

does she just give you? you a lot like if you won't go down on her does she say oh please like a little girl and then that's how you guys that's what you call role playing or is she actually saying but role playing like how what is like a specific role play scenario that makes us something different little school girl outfits and who are you if she's the school girl who are you? I'm so bad right that's what I find you find it interesting a little bit that she wants to like have sex with her dad? I don't know. I see it on Craigslist all the time.

Let me tell you. I was watching YouTube videos on it because I didn't really understand it. Mm-hmm. You know, and I think it stems from like issues with childhood abandonment. You know, I was just found an article on it from some psychiatrist. They were saying like, you know, it's cool. I'm done with it, you know. Oh, I'm not saying to listen.

I don't know if you've listened to, like, you know, you should check out my podcast. Like, I'm like totally not judging her or anything. I find it fascinating. I've seen, let me tell you, I've seen a lot of ads on Craigslist when I go through looking for gas. So when I post my ads, like I see a lot of these daddy, girl, mommy, sex, kinds of situations. She's not the only person that has this fantasy. I'm just trying to pick your brain about it because I'm,

trying to figure out what's going on in her mind. And obviously you're as curious as I am, right? Because you've gone Googling about it because it's interesting. You know, so I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it. And I think that's great considering she's your girlfriend that you're into it, that you, that you oblige. Because that's a part of her that she needs fulfilled. So it's good that you, you know, sort of go there with her. And it's, you know, what's also great is that she feels comfortable to let you.

you know that, you know? Yeah. Because I can't tell you, I have like 50-year-olds on my podcast calling up because, you know, they like shit that maybe isn't so mainstream and nobody knows and they're doing that kind of stuff behind closed doors and, you know, nobody in their life knows about it. It's great that at 20-something years old, you know, she's comfortable with her sexuality and the stuff that she's into and she's open about it with the guy that she's intimate with. Mm-hmm.

You know, so I'm not saying it's anything bad. I'm just trying to get specific detail. Because it's interesting to me. I've always tried to get these mommy, daddy, daughter, you know, son, like people that are into that on Craigslist, that are looking for that scenario and that kind of relationship. I've tried to get them on my show because I think it's interesting. Because, like I said, I've seen a lot of people that are into it.

And you're dating one. So I'm just trying. When I'm asking these questions, this is like. Well, at first, like, the first, like, couple months or five months, give or take a relationship seemed pretty normal, you know, whatever. Mm-hmm. I guess. I mean, but, like, I guess, well, we were watching this YouTube video,

or I was watching this YouTube video that actually was sent through me through one of those encrypted email addresses. I don't know. maybe she sent it. I don't know who sent it. But I do know that I click the link to a YouTube video. I was like, okay, YouTube video can't be really hacked as easily, you know, or can't it up. And it was of this popular couple that has a YouTube channel that, you know, that does a similar type of thing, you know.

So they're a couple, and they're a couple, and they're. do the, she's the daughter and he's the father in this scenario and they like have sex with each other as and role play that way? Yeah, they have a YouTube channel where they talk about it and whatnot and like each, each little, the girls are referred to as little. Um, each little, each, each, each, relationships, each couple has a different set age, you know? Mm-hmm. And so what is your girl's age? She likes to be like five? yeah and how old are you

um well i'm still 22 no you know what i mean like so in her in her fantasy she's five and you're 22 or are you like older than that i don't know how old i am in her little world you know but how did it go

okay but let me ask you this so you watch that video right you think maybe there is a chance and that's smart of you to think that she might have sent it to you as her way of sort of like, you know, getting the topic into conversation between the two? I think it's a way of, like, because I know that she's shy as a person, you know. So I think that it was a way of her

trying to bring it up in conversation. Uh-huh. And so she, you got the video and you watched it with her. And then showed her. And what did she say? First I kind of just laughed at it and she looked at me funny. So, and then that's kind of just when I knew that maybe I had thoughts that maybe she sent it. Just because there were other things, you know, prior to that, like, kind of some, that I knew something was a little off, but I didn't mind.

Like what other things? Like I said, the whole candy incident that really happened, you know, at one point. and I was just like really and I was just like okay I'll just buy the candy but she wanted to take it right but maybe it seemed like she really wanted to like enact like you know sort of do it more yeah

and what else anything else besides and she would always give me puppy doll guys and I just be like okay whatever and but how about and I just kind of blew it off right so then when you make When my reaction to the video was different than hers, because I thought it was just a joke or thought it was funny. Mm-hmm.

And, you know, she didn't take two, like, like, like, I read somewhere, like, and I'm not saying all women are exactly crazy, but a girl once told me, you know, she's like, all women are crazy. Just pick the amount of craziness you can handle and pick with that girl. I mean, you... Did your mom tell you that? Who told you that? I read it on a friend's profile page. It was a picture they posted, and I read it.

Well, listen. Apparently they agree with it, so I stuck with it. Girl, listen, I think crazy. Like, what is the definition of crazy? I think we do seem, compared to men, way more crazy because we, and this is like a factual, thing. It's hormonal. I just read a whole

article about it. It's like we... Well, yeah, no. Hormonally, you guys go through like 70 different emotions a day. Exactly. Exactly. So if like to me crazy is we feel all of our emotions and we speak them out loud and we're in touch with them and we have them and we express them

then yeah, we're fucking crazy. Guys just aren't that way. So I think yeah, compared to guys, we seem crazy, but I don't think that... I don't think you're crazy in the sense of like, belong in a woman who's been crazy. Right.

I mean, it's just your girls are both friends and guys. Uh-huh. It's fine. But the crazy comment, though, that the person's saying might be about, listen, a lot of women have daddy issues. I'm one of them. I had it. I was, I acted out.

It was totally crazy when I was younger. People probably think I'm still crazy now. But I think a lot of women, like, you know, know, have daddy issues. Guys, you know, more than women aren't so great at parenting a lot of the time. So girls get really fucked up from their dads, right? And then they act that out when it comes to relationships. So sometimes like maybe that's like, you know, guys say women are crazy. It's like when they're, and they're talking about like in dating situations. And yeah, there are a lot of crazy girls in dating situations because those girls could be totally normal in their regular life. But when it comes to

dating, all their shit comes out because that's the kind of stuff that was put on them by, you know, when they were growing up. And sometimes a lot of dads weren't so great, and that's what happens. And guys are the same way. There's a lot of guys who hate their moms because they had bad moms and they're like fucking assholes to, you know, to women, you know, and they're maybe called players or womanizers or douchebags. I have issues with my mom, the fact that my mom is technically bipolar.

Mm-hmm. So I had a lot of issues dealing with my mom, even to this day. Mm-hmm. But I don't necessarily act out about it. Yeah, that's good. You sound like a nice guy, and you're capable of having, like, an intimate relationship, even though you've had these kind of issues with your mom, which is really, you know, really great for you, you know,

because a lot of people sometimes that does happen. I don't know. How did your mom's bipolar stuff, like, sort of play out, like between you and her growing up. So much like it wasn't like an abusive dad where you just didn't want to come home from school. I'd just be cautious coming home from school because I wasn't sure if my mom was having a good day

or maybe she was having a bad day. I just kind of like... Right. And when she was having a bad day... Yeah, and when she was having a bad day, how did that, like, how did you see that? There was just a lot of yelling in the house and like, why aren't the dishes washed?

Or, no, no, no. Most of it is typical mom stuff. But the way she goes about handling the situation wasn't ideal. Right. Like, her emotions were very intense. Yeah. Right. And was, like, do you think it was, like, scary to you?

Or it was just too much to deal with? Both. Right. Both? Just because, like, when you're little, like, you can't. I don't know, you have this sense that you can't stand up to your mom or whatever. That's how you felt? Yeah, like, I would never intentionally say anything bad about my mom, but, you know,

but it was, it was just all the fighting. It was just, you know. I think, and especially growing up in a single parent home, it was like, because, like, when you have both parents, you can kind of, just get away and hang out with the other parents, you know? Mm-hmm. But you just had your mom. Did you have brothers or sisters?

I grew up with all sisters. I was a only boy. Okay. And did you get along with your sisters? Were you close to age? We were close and age, but we weren't never actually close. Right. Okay.

So you just felt like because you were like an outsider. So you were like, you were sometimes afraid of your mom. So you just like sort of like, did you, decide to like just have a lot of friends and do a lot of stuff outside of the house and like deal that way actually no i just kind of locked myself out like in my my mom calls it a man cave because i because the only like guyish room in the house or other all the rest of the house you can tell was designed or built for girls and we just have this one guyish room in the whole house Well, that's okay

There was one guy in the house So there was one room for you So, but I just kind of Just would lock myself in Right And this little man keys Yeah, you were very outnumbered Your mom has been like totally like

Diagnosed as bipolar Or do you just think she's bipolar? And my mom Is the same way And she doesn't want to admit it But everyone, even my stepdad knows You know Mm-hmm

And So, I mean, my stepdad and my mom are divorced. Mm-hmm. But, like, I'm very close with my stepdad, very close. Mm-hmm. And he talks about it with you. Yeah. You know, like, we go out for drinks sometimes, like, parents should do with, I mean, obviously not just take the kids to drinks, but, I mean, like, at my age, it's acceptable to, you know, go to a bar with your dad or your stepdad or whatever.

Right. You're all, you're over 20. Like, you're a legal. drinking age, right? Yeah. Right. So, but your mom, was she ever physically abusive

or was it like emotional abuse? No, it was just, it was just mentally, like, and even though I knew deep down she never meant it, it would just be like sometimes she'd get really angry

and then say I hate you and she would later apologize and just, you know, whatever. Right, but did that really like, but this is still, her obviously, saying that to you was probably really super hurtful.

Yeah. I think growing up with it, it's kind of used to it. I just accepted it as the norm. Right. And do you have a close relationship with your mom now? It's definitely, I can say that. Do you think it's because maybe that you're older now, it's not so like sort of scary because like you,

you get it. Like, because I think when you're a child, maybe like a lot of the stuff that she did was probably a lot more scary than it really actually is if you're an adult, right? Because she wasn't physically abusing you. She was just really acting out because she had problems, right? Right. Yeah. It's still hard.

I mean, because, listen, even if you know it, it still does affect you, you know, and, and create some problems to, you know, that you have. have to do it. For example, when I was a kid, I was, I was a preteen. I think I was like 12 or 13. It was the middle of summer in Las Vegas, which is really high and for people who don't know. It gets to be about 110. Right. I had stolen firecrackers from a thing that we went to in either Utah or another state. We had chuckle with another state. I had, you know, stolen firecrackers from that state. I mean,

my parents took me and another boy from the neighborhood because there's the other boy and his sister all of us were friends growing up

you know. They took us to another state when I went a road trip. Me and the boy stole firecrackers. Well, he kept his house and whatever. Well, I decided to test one of mine in the backyard and I guess

my parents had like a dinner party or a party where they had friends and alcohol was involved and they emptied the remaining bits of a bottle inside the wall. I set the fire cracker off in the hole, and I guess because of where the bottle was located, I hadn't fully evaporated or whatever, the whole wall, the portion of our house caught on fire.

Oh, my gosh. And I was so scared when the fire department came. My mom never even bothered to ground me. No. She did it? Obviously, she never bothered to ground me because she saw how scared I was, you know, and that it wasn't, it wasn't like I intentionally set the house on fire. Right. So what's the point of that story to show that your mom's not that bad? She's not as bad as, you know, but, I mean. Because that's a good story. That shows that, like, she wasn't, like. It wasn't, yeah, it wasn't.

just like an intentional kind of stuff when she was thinking in a clear head and she wasn't angry or dealing with her own stuff she was she was a good mom she knew the right thing to do like right she would be sent mom i think you know i think you know yeah well listen i mean that's probably a lot of the reason why you don't completely hate you know women it wasn't like you know maybe if she was like physically abusive to you and like super mean all the time Like, I know guys like that, you know, and they have a lot of issues. That's what it was. Well, that's what what was?

But it wasn't, but I don't think she was, it was intentional. I think it was, like, for example, I am, like, me and my mom got in an argument over a class. I was family in class and I was like, Mom, I need help, you know. I was like, I really like going to college. Like, I didn't like high school. Uh-huh. I'm surprised they even graduated high school. But when I got to college, I needed help with the class.

And my mom didn't know how to react. So she got frustrated and just pulled all the classes from that semester and just canceled all of them. Oh, God. That's a little harsh. Yeah. So she lost her money on those classes, but she was just, we just got in an argument. She's like, just fork out whatever. It's been, you know, so she had all those classes.

I forget what it's called where all the classes you're canceled because you're too close to failing. Even though I wasn't found all of my classes, it was just one specific class. Right. So it just sounds like your mom had like anger issues that she never really got under control. So when she would not be able to sort of figure something out or do something, she would just react like a crazy person because she didn't know how to react. And then you were like the collateral damage. Yeah.

You know, that's probably why you pick shy or girls, you know, because maybe, you know, that sort of like a woman that maybe is a little like volatile, like your mother would be too much for you. You know what I mean? Whereas a girl who's more shy, maybe who likes to act like a little girl, would be a lot less scary to you because maybe, you know, somebody that was a little bit more like your mom would be intimidating because it would like sort of trigger that. kind of fear that you probably had a lot more so

like when you were very little with your mom when you really didn't understand what the hell was going on you know right right so this girl is probably like really good for you because she probably maybe is a little opposite of your mom you know I never thought of it probably do you think I mean does she seem opposite you are my right or like maybe she has a big personality totally the opposite my mom's

my mom was popular and out growing in here school, like she is shy and totally secluded. Right. Yeah, I mean, there's two different things. Like sometimes, you know, because we were sort of abused by one person, we seek that same thing out because we're trying to work it. But sometimes when something happens with a parent, we go the opposite, you know, kind of a thing because whatever.

And it would make sense that you would sort of choose the opposite because it's not like you need to work anything out with your mom maybe it's just that but you would probably be turned off to that or like I said I think maybe afraid I think deep down inside you were probably when you were very little afraid of that so you would probably be more attracted to a woman that's more calm and quiet which is opposite which is probably really nice for you considering how you grew up and that was your whole life was spent with sort of that kind of craziness quote unquote you know it makes me think, listen, I have a son. I'm a single mom like your mom. I'm super outgoing and I'm a little crazy. I could get angry and curse and stuff and I'm just like, oh my God, I don't want my son at 22 years old to be

talking about me like this. You know, because sometimes it's like you don't realize what like a child sort of sees, right, when they're looking at a parent, you know, and how just even like a bad mood could come across to a child. Your mom probably had no clue, you know, that her, being in a bad mood about something that wasn't even related to you, affected you so much that you were, like, afraid to come home. Yeah. Right? Yeah.

But you would never think that. Maybe she was not thinking that way. You know what I mean? She was just thinking of herself, unfortunately. You know, I think that's what, you know, it's just... And it's not... And, I mean, sometimes, I mean, yeah, sometimes I did get in trouble. I was a normal kid, you know?

Yeah. But other times it was just be like, I just feel like, what did I do? Like, I don't understand what, why just coming home from school could be, you know, could it be a bad day or could it be a good day? I don't know. Right, right.

Of course. She was like a bully. She's like a bully. Like, that's like the bully mentality. She doesn't feel good about herself, so she takes it out on everybody else, you know? And that's like her own insecurities and stuff that she, you know, that happened to her when she was younger

and probably happened to her with her parents. And if it's unresolved stuff, it just, you know, you sort of unfortunately put that on somebody else. What's cool about you is you see me, you're a guy, but like you seem very sort of curious and not to say that guys aren't curious, but like, you know, a lot of times guys don't maybe think things as deep as some other, as women do or as, you know, but you seem to. I think because I grew up in a house full of girls. Yeah, but I think that's good.

I think that's such a good quality to have as a guy because I think it makes you, in your life sort of look for answers to things that you don't understand. And I think that that's helpful for you. That's going to help you in your whole life. It makes it you more accepting. Excuse me? You know, more accepting to something out of normal. It makes you more accepting.

Is that what you're saying? Yeah. It seems out of abnormal, you know. Yeah, but it also makes you sort of figure stuff out about yourself too and it helps you learn from things and stuff. And I think that that's like, you know, really good for you to have as, you know, a part of your personality because a lot of people don't have that. Women are men, especially men.

And it's called self-aware to like being self-aware. And also, like I said, not just being sort of self-aware, but like going and looking into things and sort of trying to find out like, look, you have this girlfriend that's into this thing that you're like, okay, this is different. But you weren't, you're like not judgmental and you weren't closed off about it. You, but you went looking online to see like what it meant and why she's like that and whatever. And that's, that's like, I think that's like really healthy and good and not just in this situation with your girlfriend and, you know, your whole life for lots of different things. And even just now when I brought up the thing about your mom and compared them to your girlfriend that you like, you were like open.

Like whether I'm right or wrong, the fact that you were like, oh, that's kind of interesting and you're going to think about it. you know, it's just like that's kind of openness and sort of looking to figure things out and being open for answers and stuff is really helpful. Do you know what I mean? And I just, well, yeah, and the whole thing about person on it, I wasn't really sure how to handle the situation. And I wasn't really, I wasn't really sure how to go about the situation, you know. With the girl, you mean, when, listen, your mom probably.

I don't want to throw away my relationship with my girlfriend. I want to comment, you know. No, and it seems like she thought she did at first, but she had a change of heart too. Because listen, you know, everybody, you know, it's easier said than done to throw out a relationship, right? This girl's been with you for a year. She was really angry and she probably felt really terrible, you know, after that comment. She was jealous. She felt bad about herself.

She felt insecure about a relationship. So she thought, okay, I'm just going to leave you. and all those feelings are going to go away. But then what she had was now she doesn't have you in her life. And that's terrible too. Because when you really like somebody, you don't want to not be with them anymore. So she was like,

you know, being with you and feeling that way is probably better than not having you at all. And she came back to you, right? I'm assuming she came back to you and you guys started dating again. Yeah, we started talking. And is she cool?

Like, does she still bring up little comments about it every now and then still? Sometimes. Mm-hmm. But, and then other times she'll be like, am I not good enough for you? Like, what? Yeah, but let me ask you this. Because, listen, one comment or one thing about a girl doesn't make someone insecure. What happens is an insecure person who's a little bit, maybe more insecure than somebody else.

If something like that happens, they take it, you know, it bothers them more than someone. somebody else. Do you understand? It's not like like, you know, she's probably an insecure person to begin with, right? And then you throw in this comment and then it's just going to, you know, it's, it's just triggers that in her and now you're just seeing that come out more. But it's not like you made her. She could be a little bit more insecure in the relationship, but normal person that has a healthy self-esteem, if you explain the situation or anything, we'll be able to get over it. But if she keeps continuing to ask you if she's good enough and all that stuff, you might be have like low self-esteem and you know a lot of people have that that's a common

problem she's young you know but you might have to that's something that will play out in your relationship in a lot of different ways unfortunately but you know you'll just have to give her a lot of reinforcement yeah compliment it has to do with a lot of um you know when we first started dating I didn't know that I didn't know that she wore hearing aids so I just was like when we first started dating we would be talking and she'd be like what and then I would be like

geez are you there but oh my god I didn't meet it you know and she kind of is oh my god yeah that's

oh my god and then she eventually explained it to you yeah eventually she's like that's not funny like I really am and she pulled this little device out of her ear

that allows her to hear better Oh my God. I felt really bad after. Yeah, of course. But listen, you know, that's something most people would say without even thinking and it just because, you know, most people aren't really deaf. It just turns out that you had, oh my God.

Well, because we were like in a store and the store was, we were walking through the mall and I understand it's not even in the mall. But we walked into this, specific store with these fur coats. And I made a comment about how crazy the fur coats were, but the store was completely empty, except for maybe the guy sitting at the counter. Right.

Because nobody's going to go, well, I mean, I hope not. Right. Most people don't go into the store and spend $5,000 on the fur coat. Okay. So it's not like, especially not in Vegas. Not a topic for everybody's shop. Right. Okay.

So you're just. It was a dispersed. So my first reaction was, geez, like, are you dead? And I guess, you know, and I guess, you know, maybe that really bothers her. I don't know. Yeah, probably because she was. But listen, you know, the fact that she wasn't really upfront about that in the beginning. I'm sure that's happened to her more than when I can.

Listen, she sets herself up for that by not saying anything. The fact that that hearing aid isn't making her completely. But I didn't want to see anything up front either. Well, you didn't know. No, but I'm saying even if I was in her shoes, I wouldn't... Well, that's ridiculous. I would way rather beat people to the punch. I would want everyone to know I was deaf before somebody, like, threw it in my face with a comment like that.

What's the big deal? She has a hearing aid. But I think that, like, because she was like, one day she asked me, she said, if I am ever fully death, will you stay? Oh, God. Oh, okay. So she has some sort of like degenerative disease that's going on that could possibly take her hearing away completely? Right, yeah. Okay, let me ask you this, though, because deaf people or even people that are like sometimes they talk different, you know, or most of the time they talk different.

So you could tell that they have a hearing thing because the way they speak is different than a person, you know, a regular person who can hear. Does she have that? both born preemies. We're both born premature. Okay, but how much premature? Three weeks, two months? I don't know about her. I know that mine is like maybe a month at most.

Yeah, that was me too, and I could hear fine. So, but that has nothing to do with it. But let me ask you this. Does she have a weird way of talking? No, she talks normal. Okay, well, maybe this whole thing, like what kind of disease does she have? Is it really true that she could lose her hearing totally?

Or was she just being a baby and she was maybe role-playing with you and saying, like, maybe she has some sort of abandonment crazy thing that goes on, you know, and that's why she does this role-playing. I think that maybe she feels that, like, I think she hasn't had a boyfriend prior to me. That was a total jerk, and that, like, would totally take advantage of her. And I think that she just has abandonment issues. And I think, I don't know if her hearing will fully go away. I don't know.

Well, what is the reason for her hearing being poor now? Do you know? Just how she, when she was born. Okay. And what's her deal with her father? Not in the picture. Right. So, yeah, her abandonment issues happened probably before this boyfriend,

the first boyfriend. You know, so, yeah, she probably doesn't trust men, and she doesn't trust that you'll stay. She gets some from that and the combination of the boyfriend. Of course. Well, the boyfriend's only going to perpetuate the story, you know, and make that story that was told to her, like, as a young girl. Like, it just make that stronger, right?

And unfortunately, that's what we do to ourselves. We, you know, something happens when we're younger. And because we're trying to figure it out, we just attract that same thing. And then it keeps playing and showing up in our life. And then it only makes things worse, you know? So, yeah, she has abandonment issues. That's who she is. So that is that kind of, those kind of comments and that kind of stuff is going to come up

constantly in your relationship because like you can't really sort of give her anything to make that go away. That's something that she's going to have to fix within herself. Do you understand? But what's the good thing to do and the only thing you could do and I think you do this because you sound like a nice guy and you sound like a good communicator is a person like that just needs a lot of reassurance. You know, when they bring up their stuff that they're insecure about or they talk about these things like, go you're going to ban me, you're going to leave with it. You just, you know, tell her no way. Like, I would never leave you.

Like, you just give her the reassurance that she needs. She's just going to be more needy like that because of her issues, you know? And as long as you don't mind doing that for her, you could have a really good relationship with her. And a girl like that that has that kind of issue is very loyal. Like, that's the good thing about people like that. Yeah, they might be needy and insecure. She's probably very loyal and would never leave you.

You just might need to do, you know, that kind of damage control with her. I would never make comments other women like you do with that other thing because that's not something that a girl like her could really handle. I mean, no girl wants that, you know, but somebody like her, it's going to, it's going to be longer. It was really intended to be, I think it was just more as a guy, you know, most guys think with one head and not the other, you know. Right, right.

Listen, she should have never seen it. It had no reason to be in, like, she had no reason to know it wouldn't have, it's, it's like meaningless in your relationship. But unfortunately because she found out it's going to be something. And because she's insecure and has abandonment issues, she's going to probably, it's going to be hard for her to let it go completely. But even if it wasn't that, it would be something else. Do you understand with her?

Because she's probably just like insecure. So something would have come up. or she, it is always going to be there in your relationship. You're just going to have to deal with it. It's fine. Everyone deals with something in the relationship. So whatever. Like you obviously care about this girl and you're into the, you know, her.

And it's good that she came back. So you don't really need any advice for me because you got your girl back, right? Yeah, but I didn't really know how to deal with it at the time. I was really cool. Do I just move on this now? I was like, oh, really, you know. Yeah, but now listen, that's how you learn. It's much easier for, I look at it like this, it's much easier for a guy to move on.

Mm-hmm. You know, when a guy, guys have broken hurts, too. Don't get me wrong. But when a guy has, typically when a guy has a broken heart, he'll just go to the bar, get drunk, and forget about it the next day, and, you know, move on with his life, you know. Uh-huh. Yeah, but you know how many times when I've gone to my guy friends,

like, with a breakup or a guy doesn't like me, and I'm like blah, blah, blah. And they're like, just don't think about it. Like, just stop thinking about it. And it's just like, that's not even possible. Like, what are you talking about? Like, that's where men and women are very different. You know, and my guy friends would be like, what's your problem?

Like, the worst thing to do is, like, think about it. Like, just go do something out. You know, and it's like, women aren't like that. They're very different. You know? So, yeah, it is. But I think that men get slapped in the face and it eventually shows up in their life, like when they least expect it.

that it's not that it's not there it just it's like on a delayed reaction a guy thinks that he could just forget about it and he goes to the bar and like six months later all of a sudden he like is face with like really devastated that he lost that girl and then he tries to get her back and she's like completely over him because she already moved on let's her way yeah because she dealt with the pain immediately so the timing is never it's never right but it's always there the guy always comes back it always comes up for them it was probably back four there um what isn't always on time or something like that. Right, right. Yeah. It's just the way that it goes. So like, that's why it never works out and the girl's always like done because the girl cries immediately.

She's upset and blah. And then she's over it. The guy pretends he just thinks he's over it and he's out fucking every girl and doing whatever. And then if he doesn't meet somebody else. Well, it's just there. It hasn't built up. It just hasn't gone away. And then when he's not sort of trying to avoid it, that's what happens. At the beginning a man doesn't want to feel. it so he pushes it away subconsciously in a way that it stays away. When he feels that he's safe and it's enough time away, he doesn't, it's somehow that, you know, defense mechanism is gone and then it comes up. And then they're like, boom.

And I can't tell you how many times I've gotten that call. Like, oh my God, that was the worst thing I ever did. And I'm just like completely over it, you know, and that's what always happens all the time. And that's like, you know, that's like a thing because men and women are very different in the way they deal. with breakups and the way they deal with a lot of stuff, right? And that's what we've had good conversation and good interesting stuff on this podcast about that kind of stuff.

You know, because I think to myself, like, what am I going to title this podcast or what is it about? It's a lot of different things, right? We talked about your daddy girl relationships. We talked about... Yeah, I mean... Jealousy. I don't know.

So I'll have to figure out what to title it, but it was good talking to you. I think that... Oh, you too. And I would love to be on your show anytime. Yeah, anytime you have a problem. I mean, I keep my shows at an hour, so we're at an hour, so I'm wrapping up. Anytime you have a problem, if shit goes down with you and your girl, or it gets more interesting, that whole daddy thing, or she wants to call up and explain.

Or when I find, figure out more, I don't really know how to explain it, just because, I don't, it was something interesting, but, you know. Yeah, you need a little bit more experience, but maybe when you have some, more experience with the daddy girl thing. I would actually like to see other people out there. Like I've heard stories,

but... I'm gonna get one on my show. Yeah, I tell you, I email them all the time. I just don't get them to be on the show, but it's a thing and it exists. So if anyone's listening and they're into the daddy little girl thing

or vice versa, because I've seen some men looking for mommies. I've heard about guys who are in the, like, I think it's like referred to as Mommy Dominant. Yeah, uh-huh. pray back too. Yeah, so either one. We're looking for you.

You're interested. I'm sure. I think the Guinness World Record because I get some, or no, a thousand like to die or something like that. Uh-huh.

It's on some TV show. That's how I figured out what it was. I didn't know what it was at the time. Right, right. Yeah, but I, so with it. I was in my teens, but, you know.

I'm curious, too. You're curious because you're dating somebody and you're kind of like in the middle of it. I'm curious because I'm just curious, because I'm just curious by nature. So if anyone's listening in that scenario and you'd like to be on the show, so I mean,

email it's Shickly Anonymous podcast and Chimelo-L-L-L-A-O-Koh. And you, Tommy Lee, thanks for calling in. And like I said, if you have any other, you know, relationship problems in the future

that you want to navigate and call back in, I'd love to have you back on because I think, you know, a lot of guys have the same kind of questions and a lot of my listeners are guys. So it's, like, helpful for people

to hear this kind of stuff. I would love to be on a show again. Give me a call. Okay, thanks. Thanks for calling in. Good luck with everything. All right, bye. Bye.

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