Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 151 - Host of the Manwhore Podcast Attends Orgies and a Whole Lot More

Episode Date: November 7, 2016

Billy Procida, host of the Manwhore Podcast calls in to discuss what he discusses on his podcast. Which happens to be all about his past hook - ups and what he's into sexually. From orgies, to craigslist hook ups, to bukkake parties, to a gig getting paid to get guys off on webcams, Billy has done it all and he's extremely open about it. Tune in for all the details plus a whole lot more. **To see anonymous pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at [e-mail] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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like this is a guy who, even though we got a late start with SCX, he's had a lot of experience in his in his time since he's been doing it. And he talks all about that on his podcast. That's the gist of his podcast. He goes on on his podcast, he talks to like ex-lovers and people he's hooked up with and they talk about like what they've done sexually. And because he's been around the block and then some and he's very open-minded, he's got a lot of interesting people on his show when they talk about a lot of interesting things. And that's what we do on my podcast as Well, we talk about his history, what he's done, how he's done it, and there's a lot of interesting stories.

I think this intro sucks, but I'm not going to redo it because my baby's going to be up in two minutes. So anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Billy from the Manhorror podcast. Do you have a story, lifestyle, or situation you can't talk about to anyone, to anyone? Or do you just want to let your freak flag fly and be on the show? Well, Strictly Anonymous wants to hear from you. Send us an email, Strictly Anonymous podcast at gmail.com, with your story and your anonymous name. And remember, everything is strictly anonymous.

Strictly Anonymous. Hey, Billy, you're on the Strictly Anonymous podcast with Kathy. How are you? Oh, hello. I'm quite well. I'm not so anonymous anymore. Well, you're not going to be anonymous. And I have a couple of people that were anonymous, like people with the name and some of my friends that I did like sort of in studio things.

You're not, I'm anonymous to you. I mean, we've never met. You wrote in to the show. But the deal is that you have your own podcast. So I was like assuming and of course that's the case. Like you want to be you and we're going to talk about your podcast. So people will know who you are. And your podcast, you're not anonymous.

You do, your name is Billy, right? How do you pronounce your last name? Prosa. Billy Preseda. You're a comedian and you have a podcast called The Manhorror podcast. Is that what it's called? That's correct. Yeah. So there you go. And like the whole gist of your podcast is, you know, you're in the sexuality department too, right? Like my podcast. Because what you do is you chat with your exes about all kinds of sex stuff. Like and I'm assuming it's maybe past and present. I listen to a little bit of like one or two of them, right? So, you know, how many exes do you have that you're not worried that you'll run out of, you know, guests? So the premises that I talked to women I hooked up with about sex, dating, sexuality, gender, love, sometimes butt stuff. So the reason I started the show is because women would hook up with me, but they wouldn't date me.

And so I, like, I wanted to find out why. And what is the reason is because they just, is it like the girl thing? you're just a whore and like that's why man-hor? I mean, I did feel like a little bit like, you know, reverse slut shaming in that sense. Totally. But, you know, at the end of the day, it turned out there really wasn't one answer. Spoiler alert is just more like it wasn't happening. And I mean, at the time I was 20, I was 24 when I started the podcast.

So maybe I should have just kind of chilled the fuck out. But, you know, it was really stressing out about it. And, yeah. Let me ask you this. No, because this is interesting to me. And I think it's interesting to a lot of guys at there because if, like, listen, I was a girl like that, but like, you never think that there's guys like that out there. I know that there are because I've had one or two friends like that.

But, like, it's not a common thing, but I do think it exists, right? So. Yeah, it is like a typical gender role reversal. That's definitely true. Right. But so if you exist, there's got to be other guys out there listening that are like, oh, my God. Like, so what is, so you say that there, like, there was a couple.

answers for it, but there had to be something underlying in you, right, that you figured out for yourself that made you sort of not seem like boyfriend material, okay? Even though you got like 15 different answers probably from 15 different girls or more than that, right?

A lot of times people don't know how to explain something. It must have been something that you were putting out, right? Did you ever figure it out yourself? I don't, I mean, again, through talking to these women, I mean, again, not everyone I've looked up with, I wanted to date. So sometimes those conversations are not as deep and meaningful, but they're fun. But, you know, the episodes I've done with people who I really fell for who I wanted to date seriously,

there really wasn't like a hard answer. Like a lot of the times it's just bad timing. You know, like you meet someone who just got out of a long-term relationship or is, they were dating two guys and they end up choosing the other guy or they were not to move to Germany. I mean, that's like the type of luck I would have. Right. But what's your dating history? Like, when did you, What's your longest relationship that you ever had? Well, up until the current, the girlfriend I have now, the only girlfriend I had was when I was 18 for 14 months. Okay, that's a solid relationship. No, but that's like, listen, that's young to have even that.

I mean, that's not bad for 18. When did you lose your virginity instead? Like, sexually. When I was 18. When you were 18, that's kind of a late start. Considering that you go to orgies now, I mean, because like, I was. I'm going to talk about a lot of interesting things because I know. I've been on an accelerated path.

Yeah, exactly. Because I know one time I asked you like, oh, can you do the podcast like this night? You're like, oh, I would, but I'm going to an orgy. Yeah. Kind of like I'm going to the movies. I'm going to the movie. I'm going to an orgy. I was like, okay.

So wait, you didn't lose your Virginia until you were 18. How old are you now? I am 27. Okay. So yeah, you are an accelerated path. So you lost your Virginia to the girl. you dated for 14 months? I was supposed to,

but I made poor decisions and lost it to a different chick who I fully regret. And then Arissa, who's my ex, she was number two. Okay, why do you regret that you lost your virginity to the first girl?

Like, what do you even care? Because the first chick, I didn't really want to have sex with her. Like, I wanted to pull around, but I didn't want to lose my virginity to her. I was sort of seeing this other woman at the time and she was like away on a family vacation and we were both virgins and we both like kind of understood like we're just eventually we're going to lose virginities to each other

and so but then i went up to like connecticut and went to some party that i got invited to and because i was just thrilled that like any woman i was not good with girls up until like i was 18 and some would argue i'm still not good with girls in some regards but like you know but like i someone said like come to connecticut i i want to get naked with you. I'm like, okay, yeah, sure. I'm just happy someone's giving me attention. And I go up there and just, you know, it kind of evolved and we had sex. I didn't want to, but that's what happened. And, you know, I just kind of wish I waited an extra like three weeks for a risk of to come back. But were you dying to like have real, like just have sex?

Not really. I mean, I was like really, I mean, I'm not your typical like needs to get it in all the time, dude. Well, that's interesting. I mean, I just had a podcast with a girl who's dating a guy who never wants to have sex. And I'm like, that's like a thing. But you have to be totally different now. Like, you're still not the guy that needs to get in all the time, but yet you go to orgies and do all this kind of freaky stuff that we're going to talk about. I mean, just because I go to a sex party doesn't mean I'm having sex with everyone there. It also doesn't mean I want to have sex with everyone who says yes.

Some people like, you know, I might be attracted enough, but that I want to like, for, around with them, but I may not want to, like, have intercourse with them, or I may be like, let's just make out and do some hand stuff, uh, because I don't know that, like, I really want to put my drink inside you, uh, which I say in my head, because you say that out loud, it usually doesn't go very well, and you get like zero hand stuff. But yeah, no, um, I've always, you know, I try to be choosy, I guess, uh, but I mean, at the number that I'm at this point, I don't know, like, if it sounds choosy, but to me it sounds choosy, uh, because I've definitely turned people down for sex at times.

Because listen, you've lost your virginity, what, so we're talking nine years ago. How many people have you had sex within the nine years? Sex. I mean, like put your dick inside them. Right. And so I assume we are, we're considering penis and vagina. That's what I mean, yes, when I say sex, yeah. Okay.

I believe it's at 79. Okay, so that's not really that much. Yeah. Right? I mean, or maybe it is. Maybe I'm making, I'm saying making myself sound like a whore. I know. I believe the average amount of sexual partners,

and I'm not sure how the study defines sex, but the average number of sexual partners for a man over, like in a lifetime, I think, was like seven. You're kidding. Stop. Where did you read seven? Where did you read that? I mean, maybe because we live in New York,

we had no different, like, I'm sorry. I know seven is sometimes in a week or in a month. Right, right. I mean, come on. In a lifetime? I think New York operates on a different schedule. Also, there's, you know, changing views on casual sex and say, like, the couple, my generation and the one above it. And maybe the average is being brought down by older generations that got married at 22.

Right, right, right, right, maybe. So, wait, let's get back to you. So, okay, so 79, maybe that is a lot, okay? because that's about 10 people a year? Sure, yeah, something like that. Not even like, yeah, like eight people. So maybe almost once a month, if that, like, what you took? Yeah, I mean, if we're talking like full, like making out or hooking up or anything naked like that, the numbers in like the, I think, closer to 300.

Yeah, no, no, no. Because no, only, the only reason why I ask that is because you said you were picky and choosy, right? So maybe I was thinking you would say 10 people. I don't know. Yeah, but it's not picky. Like I go, oh, she's not hot enough. It's more like, I don't know, I prefer to fuck people who I feel comfortable with and have a connection with.

And for me, like, oral sex or fooling around is, like, way low pressure. It's, like, low stakes to me. Like, I don't like the fuck just anybody, but, like, I'll kind of go down on whoever. If, like, we're having a fun time. I was like, yeah, sure, I'll eat your pussy. Why not?

Like, that seems like a funny thing. So, but when you go to a sex party, right? Right? Like, you went to an orgy. recently you told me, and I need to go back and get the history on that kind of stuff. But how do you know whether you have an intimate connection with someone that you're going have a second? So I'm assuming then when you go there, you don't fuck anyone?

It doesn't have to be super intimate. But one, I don't usually fuck a bunch of people at the parties. Like, I may fool around with people. But I've only, like, fucked a handful of girls. And usually there are women I've brought there who I've already had. Like, I've never fucked anyone for the first time. at an orgy. At a gang bang, that's a little different.

But at the orgies, like, at the orgies, like, it's definitely just fooled around with new people. Okay, when did all this stuff start? So, like, you lose your virginity. No, because you sound a little bit, like, you're interesting because you have, like, an interesting concoction because you have this, like, sort of people would think maybe very guy sort of side of you that's, like, out there doing all this kind of crazy sexual stuff. But, like, to me, when you say things like, oh, I was upset that I lost my virginity, you have a girl side too.

Well, you have a little bit of a, you're a little bit, but you're a comedian. I know comedians. They're always more complicated and they have a lot more layers than the average person. It just goes with that territory, okay? So, and they're always a bit twisted with sex in one way or another. Let me tell you. I know a lot of them. So, and twisted in different ways.

I'm not, like, you know, so, but with you, you were, like, when did all this stuff start after you had that 14-month relationship and it ended? Is that when you started doing all these freaky things? Did you have a girl that you hooked up with that turned you on to this stuff? I didn't. I went so when, over a sudden I broke up my sophomore year of college, I went to school here in the city. I went to NYU. So, you know, they kind of have a lot of options. I got a, I got college with a three girls, the one guy ratio. I've got a, it's a New York City. that it has an ample number of women. So, I don't know, first I started getting comfortable with women

and I was hooking up with people, just like a college kid sometimes do. And I started kind of poking around on Craigslist, my junior or sophomore year. And what were your ads all about? What were you looking for? Or you were looking for people or you were posting ads? I think it was a mix.

I think, I mean, obviously, I was having more success answering ads than putting out ads in New York City. but you know it was funny because like you look for w for m ads in new york city or any major city like in l.A or chicago you know most of all the women for male ads are going to be box or sex workers and that's typically what that is right uh so i did this weird like game theory in my head that i came to was like oh if i answer ads for like mf for m or mf for m m or w for m then And like I have a higher probability of getting chosen because they need multiple dicks, not just one.

And so I was like, so I realized at like the age of 20-ish, oh, if I'm just comfortable that there's another dick present, I can increase my chance of getting my penis sucked. By a real girl, not paying for it. That's a good tip for my listeners. Yeah. Yeah, absolutely. And that's slowly like, I mean, the first thing I went to, was a failed gang bang that just went awry. So you started answering those ads and you were like,

so how come if you're in New York, right? And like you could go to any bar, you're young, right? And get a girl drunk and bring her home. Like what made you go like onto Craigslist and think like, oh, I want to go there and like get involved in that whole world? Do you remember? I mean, I was still meeting other girls in college in class or at a party or something.

But I was just like also looking elsewhere. Also, as I got older, just as I was on there more, I really was only on Craigslist looking for something interesting, something. As I got more sexually experienced, I was like, okay, I don't need Craigslist to get late as much as I'm looking for new experiences. Right. So like different. Like, I don't answer ads just for any old threesome. It's got to be a special threesome. I need a bell and whistle.

I want a narrative, God damn it. Like what would make it special in your mind? Like for you at this point? Well, the first one that I was supposed to go to was an ideal scenario. I feel in that, like, there's a narrative, there's rules. I like rules. I like a script of sorts, not like a speaking script, but like a game plan, you know? Right.

I was just talking about this last night with someone. The anticipation of a very, like, a planned out encounter, super hot, super erotic. Like if I know exactly like the lead up to it, that like the anticipation is the foreplay. Like for you. That's interesting. Yeah. Like if I'm reading what the rules and the boundaries are and here's what you can expect, do this, don't do this, she'll be wearing this. I'm like, oh my God, this is super hot.

And I'm like, I'm really hard at my desk. Right. And that's what happened with your first one that didn't really, I guess, happen? Yeah. It's very, very specific. Like, this guy, this couple was posting saying, or no, I think it was a woman was posting for multiple men. And she, and I got selected. I got chosen.

And the scene she wanted was, I was to go over to this guy's apartment. And I think four or five of us, she wanted us to watch porn and jerk off while we wait for her and leave the door propped open. And then she would eventually walk into the apartment, quote unquote, catch her boys in the act. And then this weird mommy son's role play, incest scenario, she would like punish us by sending us to the bedroom and making us have sex with her.

Oh, my God. It's so funny. I just had a podcast on where the guy, it was like a mommy daddy, it was a daddy daughter thing. And I was just like, I see that shit on Craigslist all the time, like that incest kind of thing. I mean, you'll see I think the daddy daughter stuff can

sometimes be more like like BDSM oriented than incest play. but like I see your point. No, this was the girl wanted to be called Daddy. I wanted him to call him Daddy. His girlfriend. Ah. So I was like, what's it all about?

He didn't really understand. Yeah. But no, so. But I got there. Yeah. And that was the scene. And I'm like, this is hot. And I think I'm 20 or 21 years old.

So I'm like definitely a little young. This is like varsity level, you know, sex. stuff. I'm definitely not. I'm maybe just trying to be JV. And I get there and I open the door and this older dude, like he's in his like maybe early 40s, like Super Tan. There's porn playing on the flat screen behind him. Everyone's close. I don't know if you ever watch porn if you're not jerking off, but it's unsettling. Right. It's like it's kind of odd. But I did it. Like I got naked with these grown adult men. I don't know. I've never been naked around men before, but I did it and like we're watching the porn, we're jerking off.

I'm doing my best to get hard, but it's kind of weird for me at the time. But then like 45 minutes, an hour later, like I'm stroking my like really noodily limp dick. Yeah. I'm looking around like, hey, where's the chick? Yeah. Oh, you're kidding. There probably never was one. That guy who answered the door was probably just looking.

watch you guys jerk off. Who knows? What do you mean? You haven't figured that out? You didn't figure that out after you left? It's certainly a possibility. So she sent, quote unquote, she sent like emails later. This is eight years later, 10 years later.

And you still think that she did just, she exists? I didn't say that. No, I am leaving it as a possibility that lets me sleep at night. Come on. Listen, that's like a great story that you got duped. I mean, that's like a great like intro into Craigs. Like that's the shit that you have to go through to learn your lessons in life. Like that's how you become a professional, you know, sex expert.

Craig's a fucker? Yeah, totally. That's what you have to go through. That's like the hazing. You got totally fucked in that scenario. That guy, what was going on while you were jerking off? Like, who were you with jerking off of the room? I mean, there's me.

the dudes whose apartment it was and it was a nice apartment it didn't like feel like a creepy spot and then there was like two other men who were like they were also waiting for the girl yeah yeah yeah i was there was no girl it that guy that the guy you let you in to be determined i i'm sorry but anybody listening to my podcast right now if you're looking if you're like secretly gay and you want some guys to come over and jerk off like that's what you do you place it at online No, no. You're doing that guy did and have that cover.

Because look, you didn't even know. You still don't know. You still don't know. Well, I don't know either way, but that's the, to tell them to do that would be so shitty. Oh my God, it's hilarious. Stop, you're taking it too seriously. It's hilarious. You fell for that shit, okay?

Just so you know, there aren't that many real women on. Like, that's where you, like, it is very interesting. Because I've had so many Craigslist experiences just like that that did work out. I know, but the fact that it didn't is hilarious. It's such a good story. Yeah, no, it's a very fun story to look back. It is. Don't get upset about it.

You're taking it too seriously. I'm not upset. I'm chilling. Come on it. So much more interesting. If you just copped to the fact that you were like totally answered an ad for a gay guy that wanted to watch you jerk off. Like that's the story.

And that's an interesting fucking story that you could tell on your podcast. The fact that you tell the story that the lady didn't show up, it's so lame. that's not the story yeah what's I like I said after reading the emails and interacting with her further after the fact made me go like eh this could have been him it could not been it doesn't really stop it does matter it's so hilarious it does matter it does matter how could you say it doesn't matter it's so if it's funny I think only matters if I think only matters if I go back to the apartment and then we can say like shame on me you know I guess I guess maybe a guy as a guy if you're not gay or you're home like I don't know

does it like bother you if you think that like you were like jerking off in front of a gay guy and like getting him off like like like is that like I used to I used to jerk off for guys for money on webcam so I mean like I don't really mind that. Okay that's okay great that was a great intro so it's not you're not getting upset

because you seem a little defensive stop listen okay I know you run your own podcast but this is my podcast just listen to me for one second okay you seem like you're getting a little defensive like for some reason you don't want to believe 100% and live in reality because to me reality is there was no woman

it was a total scam and you fell for it and I'm just trying to figure out what part of that makes you like why can't you cop to it like and I thought maybe you were like a slightly homophobic but obviously you're not because you how did you get into when did it get

when did you want me answer the first question and then the western question yeah sure First was why I wouldn't cop to 100% Because I've had experiences since then Where people have at the zero hour canceled You'd think, oh my God It was a fake, you got catfish Holy shit, that's hilarious

And then I've like been hit up by them later on And we actually ended up did meeting And that's how I had sex with some randomization With the guy coming in and saying Oh my God she's this, she's that Like nothing was happening, right? Like nobody was saying anything You're just saying they're jerking off

no all of us i think after like the first like 20 30 minutes through all kind of like because this was like pre everyone has a smartphone time this is like a lot of us still at flip phones so there wasn't like this immediate communication so it wasn't until like i think like later that night she sent us all an email no no but the guy was at the house like he was the one coordinating everything was he giving you updates i understand no it's like we're all sitting there kind of being like where is she but we're all kind of like still holding out for hope because because we're like we're there, we're naked, our dick are half hard. We might as well like stick it out another half hour.

Of course, yeah, I totally get it. You think that if there's even a 1% chance that a real chick is going to show up, you're going to stay. I get it. Many men will do so many things for that 1% chance. Of course, of course. Yeah. Yeah, no, I get why you stayed.

I get why you believed it. I get why you're there. You know what I mean? I was just saying that I would say I would say I'm 7525 that like it was real. first fake or fake versus real. Yeah, just throw the other 25% out and make it a good story and just say like you got that's like the perfect intro into your Craigslist life. But how do you get to the point where you are being like and let's just jump right into

this that you're getting paid on webcans to jerk off for guys? Like when did that happen or start? my summer after sophomore year I'm a summer birthday I'm a summer birthday I'm a Gemini no big deal

that means nothing astrology means nothing everyone if you believe in astrology you're fucking stupid okay oh I like astrology I mean I buy into it a little bit I mean I do

I mean you just can't tell me that it doesn't exist it's a little bit true not like I don't read my horoscope in the paper but like you could find out someone's I know a couple things about them. Anyway, go on.

I got like birthday money. You know, I'm like 20. And I thought like, you see the ads for webcam people like all the time. And so I thought like, oh, let me try that. Sorry for the coffee. I like signed up for an account to like pay to watch women get naked and do who knows what. And I try like one or two sessions paying for that just like watching. And I'm like, this is like really expensive for nothing.

It's like strip clubs. Like, I'm not into strip clubs. You're paying a lot of money to not really do anything. Right. So I'm like, no, thank you. But I did think I was like, I could do that. And at the bottom it said, like, you know, if you want it, so you can just sign up. You don't even have to apply.

I feel like there should be an application. Like there should be an audition, a jerk off audition and be like, let me see. Like, how can you flex that forearm? Right. But no, I signed up and I just started kind of doing it. And I just would sit there. It was actually a great gig for a college kid, you know, because I'm just sitting there playing PlayStation or doing my homework

or playing online poker while my windows up. And if I hear someone ping in, I just hit pause. I turn. They're like, oh, hey, what's going on? And, you know, then whenever I'm done, two minutes to an hour and a half later, I just go back to writing a term paper on the history of communication. I don't know. And how much would you make?

Yeah, the beginning's slow, but at the height of it, I was getting checks every week for anything between. And you have to understand, I wasn't committing a ton of time because I was doing stand-of-comedy. I was a full-time college student, and I was also an underground poker dealer. So I was like splitting my time around, but I was doing it very like half-assed. I was making like $100 to $500 a week. Right. That's not bad. And when you were like just jerking off?

Like did you put your face on there that they could like totally see you? You were you were cool with that. Like you weren't afraid that like maybe it would be someone you knew or somebody because you're going to be a comedian, right? Like you don't want to one day have that come back to you or maybe you don't care. But that's the thing. I think like with being a comedian, I don't think that actually hurts the career. You know what I mean?

Like I wasn't going into anything serious. I was like, what's the worst thing that happens? It's a news story that only like boosts my visibility. like if someone even cared enough. Like if I got big enough that someone like was able to post news of me from when I was 20, like that's probably a sign that I made it, right? Right. No, no, no.

I would think why am I like so paranoid about stuff like that. Like so I would think not that the people. We all got news. No, no, no. Like your family would find it. You know, like that's the reason. Not because of the public or whatever. Right.

It's that like you care that your parents found out. I guess not. Well, that's the thing. I don't know. we got everyone has sent a nude pick almost at this point like in 30 years we're going to have a president who has sent a dick pick or a kitty pick like that's a reality but i'm sorry but there's a very big difference sending a nude picture to someone that you're hooking up with then going on a webcam and being like a webcam person and chart especially doing it for guys like would you like

all i'm saying is that like i would worry i overreacted thing thing. So I would worry, right? If I was going to business, like with Merrill Lynch, I would agree. But like I felt like I'm just trying to tell dick jokes in basements. Like, this can't possibly hurt me. It's not about your career. You're not hearing me out. I don't care about your career. I know. I'm saying if it got out, then everybody that you know, all the people close to you, your family members, your cousins, your grandmother would know that you stroked your dick for gay men from money on webcams.

And I'm saying that that didn't bother you that they would find out. That's all I'm saying. I guess I didn't think they'd find out because I don't know. I just didn't think anyone would care enough to do that. Because like what's the worst? They take like screenshots and post them on like porn hub. Yeah, no, I don't know. I think it's great when people don't think too much.

I think too much so that I would be so paranoid to do it. So that's why I asked like, you show your face. Like you obviously weren't concerned with like thinking that maybe. somebody you would know who would know you would find out. Yeah, no, I wasn't really interested, like, concerned. Okay, that's cool. I got it. That was my, like, going all in moments.

I wasn't thinking about family and such. I was just thinking, like, career, and that was kind of when I was like. Career, you were thinking money. You just needed some cash, right? Yeah, and I was thinking, like, okay, let's hope we make it in entertainment so that at least this doesn't hurt because any other job, it could hurt me. It's like. Right, right, right.

I get it. Yeah. So, so. Yeah, no, it was a good gig. Mm-hmm. Yeah, not bad for anybody that wants to do it. I'm sure women probably make even more money, don't you think? Oh, way, way more.

Yeah, yeah. I just, you know, as a dude who's just like, I was going to jerk off anyway. Right. Right, exactly. It's nice to get some cash for it. Yeah, why not? Did you have any girlfriends that you turned down to any of your girlfriends that you were dating or hooking up with since you talk about this stuff openly.

So, you know, like, did any. girl that you know sort of go on and do it herself and did you ever find out how much girls make I mean I knew how much girls made just because you can see what people charge and I can imagine they got more traffic than I did because like they're way prettier than I am right but none of the girls ever that you were friends with ever jumped on the bandwagon did you tell anybody that you were doing this or was it like a secret thing uh yeah I was pretty open about it I didn't really I thought it was a fun thing. So your friends knew.

Everyone knew. I don't know if my friends knew. I forget when I told them. I mean, people all know now. Like, they all know all the things now because with the podcast,

like all the things are on the internet. And I'm like, it's fine. But at the time, I think like people I was hooking up with or dating knew at some point because I had this weird thought. I was like,

ooh, I'm going to be vulnerable and open and chicks dig openness. And I was like, I don't know if that's the right kind of openness, Philly. Right. Yeah. Yeah, that might have to do with the reason why some people didn't take you seriously. I don't know.

If you kept, you know, sometimes when you lead very strongly with sex, right? And that was my problem with guys. Sex was like the only way I knew how to be comfortable and close with people because I had like issues with other kinds of feelings, right? So I could be very bold and very everything sexually. that was something I had no fear with. So that was the only way I could really be comfortable with the guy. So I would lead with that.

You know what I mean? And that was like what I sort of came into the relationship with and thought that was the most important thing and that guys would like that. You know, but I didn't have, the other stuff was difficult for me. You know, and that's why I led with the sex stuff, you know. And so that's why nobody really sort of saw me as that material. And that's my own thing, you know.

And I think that it's the same for guys when you lead and you're so sexual. And that's all you have and you sort of put that out there so much. And it's probably because you're lacking other things, it, you know, girls then tend to maybe not take you so seriously either. Same thing. Yeah, I mean, I was a very emotionally open person. I mean, I think part of, I don't think it's why the women would date me, but it was definitely something that led me to get hurt.

Was I, like, I'm the type I'll fall for someone a lot easily, you know. They could pass me to bread up, I've been like, oh, my God, I love you. You gave me carbs. You're amazing. Let's get married. Yeah, I'm very emotionally open. So it's not like I would lead with sex, at least not for sex sake.

If I love with sex is because I picked up a sexual vibe from them. And I was like, cool, you seem to like talking about sex. I like talking about sex too. Like, let's talk about sex. And if they want to talk about sports or musicals, I was like, let's talk about sports and musicals. I don't know. I'm very reactionary when I, excuse me,

when I date. Right. So let's go back to your, so your first like man, woman, woman, incest, fantasy goes bust. Let me ask you this. Was it a turn on for you to like fuck your mother too or was you just wanted to fuck somebody? No, no, I just wanted to be part of the gang bang. I was like I can agree to that rule. Right, right. I get it. Right. So it wasn't like you were into mommy thing. No, no. I was just answering like a gang bang ad and then that happened to be the rule, the scene that they were. wanted and I was like I could call her that. Right. So now what's the one? So I'm assuming you went back out there because you said you've had a

bunch of experiences right. Like what was the next one that happened that was like that actually happened? I had some credulous meetups that were more one-on-ones. I got very lucky. I just happened to catch like real women who are not posting for money or for webcams or whatever. By senior year, I ended up in my first Bukaki. That was pretty cool. Bukaki, wait, what's Bukaki again? Like everyone choosing in the face? Heavily debated definition.

Let me tell you, it's very controversial subject. What qualifies Bukaki versus a blowbang? In my opinion, a Bukaki is kind of like a blowbang, except everyone finishes on the woman's face. Yeah, that's what I would think. Or a part of the body, but some say, does it? they have to include blowjubs. So there's a camp of people

who would say Bukaki accounts if it's just a bunch of guys jerking off onto a woman. It's one of the highly contested sexual issues. What do you think? You think it doesn't have to have a blowjob or does? I think it's better when it has a blowjob. Right, but I mean Bukagi is just coming under someone's face, right?

Right, right. Okay, cool. In this woman's case, it was a specific pair of glasses. They like bought a pair of glasses, this couple. And they're like, you have to make sure you come like on their face, but make sure you get some on her glasses. And then they wanted to keep the glasses like on their dresser like as a memory. Right. To like look at 10 years from now and be like, oh, honey, you remember that time?

We invite a bunch of random strangers to jizz on my face. Right. Well, maybe they would use it as a way to get off like a future stack. You don't know what I mean? Right. Right. Yeah. So you did that.

Yeah, that was fun. There's like five of us. she picked me to suck first and made me feel special. Was she hot? She was very hot. Oh my gosh. She had this amazing like octopus tattoo that ran along the side of her body.

Like it kind of went like it was most of her thigh and like went up like the side ribcage. It was oh, she was hot. It was crazy hot. And it was cool. It was like it was her brownstone. So like she was with a serious boyfriend. And she also had a kid. I mean she's probably in her like mid to late 30s.

And so it was hot because like she's the breadwinner. So she's like, she pays for his shit. And she's like, I want a bunch of dicks. And he can't really argue. Because like, honey, you pay the red. I don't get because he wants. Yeah, you're right. I mean, he could have liked it because a lot of guys do like that.

But you're right. Like if he had no choice. He seemed to be enjoying himself. Right. He did? He seemed to be enjoying himself. Yeah, yeah. No, it was a fun time.

But, you know, like five of us. us. It was good. And that just kind of led to me looking more and more. And I started learning how to, like, answer a crisis ad and how to tell which ads are probably not real and which ones probably are. And I mean, I think a lot of it just got to take some risks and you have to be willing to show up to an apartment, jerk off with some guys, and then decide to leave without any... Sometimes I just think that you have to accept that that could happen. And it's also not like that big of a deal because it's not like I showed up the chick doesn't show up and then like I got raped it's not like it's not like it's not like I got con and he's like trying to make me let him blow me it's like it's not like it's took your wallet it's already yeah yeah it's just like it's like it's like it's like an embarrassing story you'll tell later on like it's not even embarrassing I don't think it's shit like that's embarrassing I think story I don't know I love good stories I think it's a great story and there's nothing embarrassing to me about that because why wouldn't you go, why wouldn't you stay?

Like, I understand everything about that story. I just think it's hilarious if at the end you got busted and it was a get, you know, but there's nothing, I wouldn't be embarrassed if that happened to me. I don't think it's anything embarrassing about it. Right, right. It's, yeah, I mean, it's a fun time. It's a good. It's a great story.

It's an experience, regardless, right? Any of these things, right? Like, you know, like you said, you have to, you can't go into it expecting, and then one time it doesn't work out. you're just like oh fuck it right like you you were like you kept going back i mean and like you've had all kinds of different experiences right like i'm assuming like some good some good and that's what you have to sort of like that's what you just said to people like if people are listening right and have a little safe you know take a chance but you have to keep it's a numbers game don't you

think uh yes and no like i said if you're answering like w for m as i think that's like a numbers game same way the dude who swipes right on everyone on Tinder is a numbers game. But if you're searching for quality, I think, I don't know, I think you're way better. Like, it's also about, like, how you answer an ad. As someone who's, like, organized a blowbang for someone, so I've, like, accepted the ads from the men because, like, I'm helping organize. You get very, like, event planery. Yeah, no, I had a blowjob challenge guy on. How did you get involved in doing a blowbang? Like, some girl you were dating or somebody you had hooked up? I was just a girl from a girl from Reddit.

We were talking about hooking up. And then I pitched the, I think she said something that made me think she would like that. Pitched her the idea. She said, that sounds hot. And I was like, okay, cool. Let's discuss boundaries ourselves. And then let's figure out what rules you want. And then I'm going to throw you one hell of a blow bang.

And a blow bang is, a blow bang is. So she's going to suck a ton of dicks. Right. Mm-hmm. Yeah. Yeah. And but no, like in her face. That's not Bukaki, right?

That's just a blowbang. So she just wanted to suck a bunch of dicks. And how many guys did you get to that blowbang? I think if we count me, I think at the end of it, I think we had, I know we had like nine confirmed. And I think the people, as the people actually showed up, I think we had like seven dicks total. Mm-hmm. I believe. Yeah.

And she had a good time. How long was it? How long? the whole scene like from start to finish probably like 30 45 minutes right and she just blew at each guy until they came and did they did she swallow yeah I don't quite remember I'm sure she like I think she swallowed me and she might have taken it on the face from some other guys I don't remember all the I wasn't like watching each cock so intently right as they prefer the dick myself so I'm like I'm not usually so focused but

But, yeah, I hear you. No, I just thought sometimes those are the rules. You know, like I know you said you love rules. So I'm assuming that you guys had shit drafted up beforehand for that. So I was just wondering if like her thing was like, because sometimes like the guy who did a 24 hour blowjob challenge and then he was doing a 48 hour blowjob challenge. I mean, he loved to drink jizz. Like that was his thing. He just wanted.

What was a 24 hour blowjob challenge? Oh, yeah. He did. Where? In Texas. No, like, like what was it? Oh, it was literally he, that's all it was. He just blew guys for that long.

24 hours. Not stop. Stay awake for 24 hours. Yeah. So you just, I'll give it up for anyone who does just staying awake for 24 hour. I know. And he drank all that just. Yeah.

And he sent me the breakdown like of like the, the demographics, like race, age, high, you know, all that shit. He had everything from like 18 year olds to. 72 year olds coming. And he just loved dicks in his mouth. He didn't even like to fuck anybody. But his rule, his thing was like he loved to swallow. So that's why I was

wondering, not that you would be watching it, but more so like whether that was her thing, you know, that she, not just the dick in the mouth, that she just wanted to swallow all that jizz. Like sometimes it's like a thing, you know? Was she hot? Yeah. She was cute. I think part of the reason

I pitched the scene was because, like, I don't think I would have wanted and have sex with her one-on-one. So I wasn't attracted so much just with that. I thought, she seemed game. I was like, if we can make a scene out of that, that's going to add a level of eroticism. I was like, let's put, like, let's dress this up a little bit.

But instead of like dressing her up and like makeup and stuff, I'm like, let's dress her up like in a scene. And now I can make this like a hot thing to participate in. Right. You know, it's funny because now talking to you and learning more about your stuff, It's, I understand why you sort of reserve your actual like intercourse for people outside of this. Because it's almost like it's a very different thing. You know what I mean?

It makes it a little bit like with the people that you actually like a little bit more special, right? Because you're not, because you do all this. I just don't regret, you know, like I never, ever since I like stepped up that standard. And I would say that I like really kicked in the gear when I was like 22, 23, you know, with like maybe one or two misses along the way. The idea was that I don't usually wake up after fucking somebody going, oh my God, I can't believe I fuck that person.

The worst it is, is like, I hope that with someone that I'm like, I don't know how I felt about that, but at least all it was was like some make it out or maybe I sing it her, and it didn't really click and no big deal. Like, I don't know,

having sex with someone you don't have chemistry with, fuck is that awkward. Just like, it's so weird. being inside someone looking them in the eye as you both acknowledge non-verbally we don't we don't like this but you keep going to finish and now this and now you have to like leave just embarrassed I'd rather you know and another argument to why a delay usually one time is I'm fully believed that if you we fool around the first time and roll around and like I get a chance like learn how

your body works and see what you dig and don't dig the next time when we meet up and we fuck it's going to be infinitely better because I know that's done the research on your body so you want to make sure it's someone that you want to see again is what you're saying or like you have something yes and no

I mean like I usually like if I like having sex with someone I want to have sex with them at least a second time so that kind of helps that whereas I also can't fuck someone I despise like there's a really hot comic who like I hooked up with and we thought it was fun, but then she just started becoming like, I realized

how much of a crazy cokehead nut job she was. And then like she, and then like she, and then like a, you know, she had some relationships. And then she hits me up. So like, you know, would you want to start fucking again? I'd be like, not, I don't know. I'm not really. And let me tell you. Insanely hot.

But I was just like, ah, it's not worth the crazy. It's not worth crazy. Yeah, totally. I think that I get that. I think a lot of guys are like that. Because listen, it's not like you're hurting for women, right? You're not like a desperate dude that can't get laid, right? There's always Craigslist.

I mean, you've figured out a way. Like you said, you were like working girls in class and in college and also online, right? So you know how to get your needs met. I think I accidentally fall into getting my needs met, if anything. I think I... It doesn't sound accidental. You all go on Craigslist. like you like I mean you look it seems like you know what you want and go looking for it and I think that that's great yeah yeah but so does every like internet troll I think it's a matter of like how you speak to people I think on the internet I do a good job of like knowing how to like if I answer credit with that it's not a one liner I'm gonna give you like three to six full complete sentences and it's going to include things that were in your ad I'm not just gonna be like yo I want to fuck here's my dick and then when it's like in person

that's where I think I struggle. I have no idea how anyone's wanted to hook up with me after meeting me in person. Like, not from the internet, but like if I met someone at the bar, like I don't know how to talk to strangers terribly well. I can talk to like a group of strangers if I'm holding a microphone.

But like at a bar, you know, unless we're holding the same history textbook, I don't know how to fucking talk to you. So most of those 70-something people that you've hooked up within 300 people that you fingered or whatever. I mean, were most of them?

where most of them Were most of the 300 people you've fingered or whatever This guy's weird No, not at all Were most of them online people that you found online Or would you say like 50-50 I think it's like a healthy mix I'd have to like honestly go look at the list to like

No I was just thinking of an average Because you just was saying that you fight it hard in public In real life Like in real life like in person It's probably 60s 40 one way or the other, something like that, you know. And listen, being on stage as a comedian, don't you get a lot of girls that just want to fuck you because you're on stage?

I mean, are you at that level? As a comedian, that is the only thing, that's the only way I haven't had sex for being a comedian. All my friends talk about, and I'm talking like even for years, even when we're just like nobody's doing the check spot. So I thought the guys who like hook up, they bear back chicks. after the show and I'm so what? I've hooked up with girls because I am a comedian

or for being funny. I've hooked up with girls because I was hanging out at a show that I wasn't on. I've hooked up with girls for being around the show. I've never hooked up with girls I've brought to a show. They saw me perform and then wanted to hook up. I've never picked up a woman who was a total stranger before I went on stage and then I got off stage

and then she wanted to touch me. Right, right, right. That's never happened, which is like, seems strange because that's like the one that's like the bread and butter for like the ugliest comedian your best fucking chance to get some is right after you go off stage yeah for an amazing set uh like the longer you wait after getting off stage after a good set uh to to talk to someone the less chances you have right ideally like you get off stage you hand the microphone to the you shake the host's hand and then you just tap a girl on the shoulder at the end of the stage

you'd be like, hey, how about right now? That's your optimal time. Right, that's it. That's the way it's got to go. But wait. It's never happened for me. How long have you been dating the girl that you're dating now? We've been dating since February.

I met her in December. Okay. And now did you meet her online or just like a regular, like, where did she come from? Do you say or a regular or something? Well, like, you know, did you meet her? Like, was she somebody that you met? Like, you know, you do the, you have like. Oh, no, no, no.

No, no, I got that. If you had phrased it online or a regular or something, I would have said neither. Okay. Well, yeah. I met her at a sex party. Well, that's what I meant. So, you know, when I'm in Craigslist sex party, that world. Well, it wasn't like a Craigslist thing.

It's like a sex party. I'm just like, I go to, I'm invited to. I know people. And how did you find that sex party that you've been involved with? like you saw a flyer. I mean, I know people that have been invited. No, I know people in New York City that have those things and they're promoters. We have barkers. We have barkers outside the, outside the apartment just get people in. Hey, we got free origin inside. How did you get involved? How did you get on that list? Um, I've been going to this party for a couple years now.

It started, it, this party is not from Craigslist, but the origin of getting there was Craigsness. I, when I was 22, answered an ad for Bukaki, as you can all tell, I do quite regularly. And I go there and it was, it was mediocre, if I'm going to be honest. I think like all the guys bailed. So it was just me, the guy and his girl, and his girl wasn't even something that's special. So I'm like, okay, whoever, this is going to happen. But he took a liking to me. He apparently produces storytelling shows in New York City.

Oh, I know the Moth. No, no, not the moth I won't say West But he also He would run this thing called The Bukaki Social Cloud And he just kept inviting me He liked he thought it was funny

And stuff like that So I was like cool And then eventually After doing that for a couple years He was like hey Would you want to come to my birthday orgy And the birthday orgy And the birthday orgy was being

Like underwritten By this bigger sex party That happens regularly in Brooklyn And I went to, I actually ended up not being able to go to it, but I ended up on the email list because of that. And then, and then months later I finally went to one myself. Yeah. So wait, so you go to, from this Bukaki party, right? You go to his birthday part.

What came after that? I want to go. I want to. So the party is called hacienda, the party in general, right? the group, whatever you want to call it. And sometimes they'll not have like a friend. Yeah, but what was his birthday orgy all about? Yeah, he's just like, it was his birthday and he asked hot-sand if like they would like,

I don't want to say co-sponsored, but like let him use their space and invite his friends to a smaller sex party than they normally would throw. So what goes down at that? Like how, what, like you walk? walking like what's going down like give people like the scenario walk in you check in you know hand in your coat whatever you want to drop off or not be holding around all night someone will at my party they read a list of rules the i mean it's very very short but basically like no don't be an asshole don't touch people without um asking first we practice enthusiastic consent um things of that

like uh own your yeses and your nose they uh respect the space And then you go off and you do what you want. I mean, it's really like a house party, the one I go to. It's like a house party where people are also fucking next to you. And it's pretty fun. Like, it's a type of party where if you went and didn't hook up with anyone, you could still have a good time. Like, you could hang out, socialize with your friends, have a drink,

and see some hot sex. Right. And let me ask you this. Do they charge? Yes, they do. Yeah, I would assume because how are they going to pay for everything? right how much is it cost to get in uh it's a ticket's gone up for uh recently but now they're like 60 to 80 dollars and do you have to be a couple to get in it depends on the party uh this party

no it's the party i go to is like a very like um like queer friendly party so there's people of like all makes and models and gender orient genders and sexual orientation so uh which is what i like about the party because, you know, I got bullied as a kid. I always felt left out. So actually going there, seeing, like, all the different types, all the colors, all the bits and parts and things and haircuts, I see, I see that. And I go, well, if all they are, you know, here and accepted and loved, then, like, I should fit in, too.

Mm-hmm. And it's, whereas then, like, if I went to, like, a typical, like, sex club that, like, charges $200 for men and, let's. It's limiting for free. I'm going to feel like, oh, this is just very like normal people and I never fit in with normal people. I feel kind of one amongst the weirdos. Right. Well, I think that's what like New York is all about, like that first scenario that you said.

That's why everyone winds up here, right? That's why we all move to New York because we don't feel so weird anymore because that's where all the weirdos come. Quote and quote, because we're not really weird. We're just the people that feel different come here. You don't feel so different because there's such diversity. So you're, so that where you go, have you ever been with a guy? Like, considering you've done so much stuff, like have you ever crossed swords? No, I mean, like, there's incidental contact.

And, you know, in football, they don't throw a flag for that. It's just, you know, it's part of the game. Like, if you mean, like, be with a guy, no, I haven't, like, been with a man, but, like, has a man touched my penis? Yes. And usually when that happens, I just bat his hand away and say, no, thank you. Right, but it's not like you've ever had a blowjub or given someone a blowjub or any of that kind of stuff. No, I had really no interest in that.

I mean, the closest was, like, one guy grabbed my dick so he could guide it into his wife. And I just made the split second decision. I was like, this is fine because, like, you know, he's going to let me fuck his wife. The least I can do is let him dive me into her. I can't believe you've been talking for 54 minutes, and it's like the tip of the iceberg. There is just, I can't even handle. I feel like I haven't even started to have a conversation with you and there's so much stuff. It's just like there's 134 episodes of the man who are podcast.

There's a lot of years. Yeah. So wait, so let me just ask you this because people will go and listen to your podcast. They'll be going to be able to hear. So basically on your podcast, right? So all these girls that you hook up with. And I'm assuming that your girlfriend now, I mean, does she sit in on the show and listen or she's totally cool?

Like, is she in the room when you're like talking to these exes? Does she give a shit or like what's the deal? I know she's cool. I mean like I said, we met at a play party and we are in an open relationship. So she's on top of not caring if I talk to X's that I no longer hook up with. She also doesn't care like if I were to hook up with them. Right, right.

So you guys have an open relationship? She cares more about what I say about her on the show. But I try not to like dive-bulge too much. Like if we're in a fight, like I try to make sure the fight is resolved before I talk about it. on the podcast. Right, right, right. That's smart.

She doesn't really listen a lot. She only listens to a few episodes, and they're only episodes like, if I interview an iconic person that she's a big fan of. Yeah, like you had Nina Hartley on, right? That was huge to heck out of it on, right? Yeah, so like, yeah, so like,

Paige listened to the Nina Harley episode because she fucking loves Nina. She loves Nina so much before I went to L.A. to do that. She made sure, like, she forced me to get Nina to give her. a shout out on the show. Right.

Oh, right. Uh-huh. And then, like, when I made out with Nina at the end of the episode, Cager was so pissed because she's like, fuck you, I want to make out with Nina. Uh-huh. Right. So your girls buy. So do you guys have threesomes?

Uh, we, we've been in, like, group scenarios. We actually haven't had, it's a good point. We haven't, like, had, like, a typical, like, threesome. But, like, she gave me a four-sum on my birthday where we, like, fooled around with, like, her friend and her friend's guy. And we've been obviously in like... So what went down at that forcum? Did she fuck the other guy and you fuck the girl?

Like what goes down at that kind of forsoom? Well, she was... You know, my girlfriend is just such a fucking sweetheart. Let me tell you. She was trying to organize semi-secretely amongst her friends a scene that I thought was super fucking hot, which would have been

I... Because I'm like, I don't lean more submissive. So the scene was I was going to be in bed, naked, blindfolded, and she was going to have like a little salon with her girlfriends in the living room. And she just wants to hang out with her friends, like, drink some wine, chit chat. But like periodically women could just leave and say, excuse me one moment. They would go into the room and then they would just use me for what they wanted. And that could be sucking a dick or riding a dick or sitting on my face or just cuddling and making out. Right. And then when they were done with me, they would just, you know, clean me up if that was needed.

And then just, like, leave and go back and join the little party. And we thought, like, we would do that for, like, two or three hours. And the idea was, like, I would just be of use. I would be of service. Right. Because I just, like, I'm not, like, a sub that, like, I want to be whipped and, like, I want to be turned into an object. But, like, I just like to do a good job, you know? Right.

And you like to be desired, right? Yeah, yeah. So if I could just, like, you know, anonymously go down on a bunch of women and make them happy, Like that would make me happy. And so she had like five, I think, friends of hers lined up to, like, participate. But the morning of, I woke up to a text on my birthday being like, they all dropped out. Except for one. They, like, basically all dropped out.

Just shit, like just things happen, scheduling. There are a lot of poly people and poly people scheduling the whole fucking ordeal. Oh, yeah, because they have too many people in their relationship. Yeah, when you have like 13 boyfriends. Yeah, my God. I don't know how they do it. Yeah. So she started like, hey, let's go get like dinner and, let's go get drinks with, you know,

my friend and her guy. And I was like, okay, cool. And she ordered me like a cookie cake from Ensonmia Cookies. She knows me. And then, you know, she's like, hey, let's go back to her place. And we did. And it just turned into this like impromptu foresome. There wasn't a lot of like cross-pollinization.

Like, I went down on her friend because they both knew I would really like doing that. Her friend's really hot. You know, Paige, like, fooled around with the guy. But mostly, like, the fucking only happened, like, within couples. Not for, like, any explicit reason, just because, like, it didn't happen. I didn't know the guy I just met him. And that's the first time I had been intimate with her friends. So, like, I was very happy about it, you know.

Right. Yeah, I mean, for somebody who acts like you don't. But, like, she wanted me. She tried to arrange five of her friends. friends that sit on my face. Like, how nice of a birthday present. Yeah, no, that's great. But you know what's really great is that you found somebody that's like just as open as you are. I think it's like every guy's fantasy, right, is to find somebody.

And I always tell people that call in, like, you can. I think there's somebody for everybody. And it's like so great that you found a place where you could meet a woman who's like just as open and into the same stuff that you are. But yet you guys have like a real relationship. Like it's not just like a sexual thing, right? Like, you know. But you could still be your yourself, but you don't have to live like a double life, like half the people I talk to. I think that that's great. You're lucky. Yeah, yeah.

Being in the public eye allows me to decide, am I putting it all out there? And I, like, having a sex podcast made me go, like, I think it's important for more people to talk openly and honestly about sex, especially like, non-traditional, non-heteranormative sex. I think that's important because that what happens is that makes it normal for other people to not only talk about it, but to, like, experience it. So if somebody, like, if somebody who's really into feet, you know, starts seeing some mainstream, non, like, he's actually a serial murder,

representative of someone with a foot fetish, they might feel less shameful about their foot fetish. No, that's why I do my show, absolutely, because I think that it's like what, you know, I listen, I let people be anonymous because it's the way for a lot of people to talk about their stuff and be honest because it's unfortunately since it's still not so normalized like you say you know people have to be so secretive but people wind up being really honest and I feel like other people out there listen and they're like oh I'm not like says I think people might think that they're

freaks or whatever and somebody did say recently to me this exactly what you said that just like it's so great that you're doing this and talking about these things and you know making it more normalize you know that you could normalize this kind of stuff you know because it is And you're doing the same thing with other people. Like, I'm just sharing basically my story, but like, what's great about you is that you are allowing real non-performer people, essentially, to, like, come and share these things. So that even makes it more real because, like, I don't know, I feel like you hear a performer type person.

Yeah, but you are a proper. You have different parts of your, like, you know, and everybody does, right? Like, you're this and you're a concoction of a couple different things, you know. You are a performer, but you're also somebody, you're. You're no different than a lot of people that call up my podcast. If you were in a performer and you're working at IBM, you'd be doing all this shit, but maybe it'd be a little bit more secretive, right? But you just happen to be a performer.

And I think it's great that you're like, you know, it's totally out there, right? And it doesn't matter. And like you said, it's like, it's not going to hurt your career, right? And it could become a part of it. And I think you're like, it's essentially launching the career. Yeah, whatever. And you're super young. Like it could become, listen, there's a niche for.

everybody like you know somehow your career could be will probably likely have this as a part of it in some way like I know because I worked in comedy with comedians there were comedians that people wouldn't touch for it with a 10 foot pole because of one reason or another and like you know 10 15 20 years later they're doing something that was so sort of handmade for them like you wouldn't have like been able to sort of concoct it up yourself or they probably would have never thought of it for themselves, but they wound up doing exactly what they were supposed to be doing with a little niche. You know what I mean, with a twist that works perfectly for them. Most likely for you, somehow this other aspect of you as well with the comedy will probably come

together and maybe it's that your podcast becomes really huge or who knows, you know what I mean? But it probably will go hand in hand or maybe you just don't know, you know, 10 years from now what happens down the line. But I think that, you know, for people, I mean, like, I was like, oh my God, how do you have like, you know, how do you get all the content for your show if you're only talking to your exes and about your experiences? But like, duh, after talking to you for only an hour and I haven't even, like I said, I've heard like maybe six stories. You, I mean, forget about it. Like you have like endless content because you're always going to these parties. You're always hooking up with new people. All the people that you hook up with, they're not mainstream people, right? They live sort of these lives too. who they bring to your podcast even more stories. So really my listeners, because I always listen, I have a whole other sort of spin to my show where I like to dig and get,

I tried to do it with you, but there's no reason for that because you just have one hot story after another. But like, you know, your show, you could just have like one hot story after another. Like the people that listen to my show that's looking more for that stuff, like totally listen to yours too

because they're going to get that. I mean, hey, you want to be my manager? You seem to have a good idea of it. That was always my thing. No, I'm like I'm a publicist at a heart, really. I really, I help my comedian friends with their moves and shit and their PR. But no, but yeah, like I think that your podcast, like, you know, what you, like now I realize how you could get, you know, could we do it. How long have you been doing your podcast for?

134 weeks. Yeah, so like a two and a half years. Yeah, almost three years. Same like me. because I'm at 150 same shit. So yeah, that's great. So if anybody, I mean, I always keep my podcast at an hour. I will definitely,

would love to have you back on the show again because, like I said, there's just so much more there. Next time I won't waste so much time trying to figure you out. You know what I mean? Other stuff out, because I think what's really interesting

is like if I should have just really stuck to all, the chronological order of all your sex capades because I think that, you know, I was a little bit all over the place because there's a lot going on with you, But I think what's most interesting, probably because we are in the sex category, is, like I said, that chronological order of, like, all this stuff that you sort of experience and that you got into, especially considering you lost your Virginia at 18, that you, you know, sort of really let your freak flag fly. And I've been doing it for, you know, the past nine years. There's probably a lot more interesting stuff for it that you have to say.

I mean, people, I guess, can hear about it on your show. absolutely on the man whore podcast I have to have people on my show because I don't do this stuff wait I just cut you off while you were promoting what did you say you can find the manhor podcast it's anywhere you're listening to this show iTunes Google Play Spotify wherever you like listening to the podcast except for SoundCloud because fuck those guys at SoundCloud

you just search Manhor that's me you can also find me on Twitter at Dee Billy Prasita That's P-R-O-C-I-D-A, and you can like me on Facebook, the Man-Hore Podcast. What about, and do you want to promote your comedy, too? Where could people find you as a comedian? And then you can just find me at manhorpod.com. That's where I, like, post show dates that are upcoming. I don't, I don't have any, like, big shows to promote right now, but you can go there.

No, what about just to see, like, do you have a YouTube channel, or do you have, like, your, like, your comedy on? you'd like people could see you as well or no? There's a sample set somewhere. If you search Pili Prasino on YouTube, you'll find it. If you says Family Feud, that is not a set you want to watch, because that's from when I was 20 and really, really bad at comedy. Okay, so don't watch that one. But if you search Pili Prasito on YouTube, you'll find comedy.

Because if you search Pili Priscilla and you find an old guy in a suit, that's my dad. but if you find a comedy video, that will be me. All right, cool. Orgy's and Weight Watchers and gambling addictions. Yeah, I mean, I could just imagine how much material you have. So, Billy, thanks so much for being on my show. Thank you for having me. I should have you back on because you have like endless stories.

If you'd come back on and do a part two at some point, that would be like super great. Because like I said, I feel like I cock blocked a lot of your stuff. But like that's... No, it's all right. I get it. Look, you hear, you hear man whore. you, there's an image in your head? No, it's not that.

I don't get stuck. No, I just like listen to things and I'd like to like dig deeper and analyze and I put things together in my head and then I start to think that I know everything and I question that way. It's not about like the manhor thing. It was strictly because of shit that you said. But, you know, the listen, you have to talk to somebody to really sort of get the full information.

And as I talk to you further, I saw things differently, you know, but that's just the way that it goes. That's why it's interesting, you know. It wasn't because of the name of the podcast at all It was because of things that you said But like I said as you revealed it It's like I saw a totally different I needed to see the bigger picture

To really figure out who you were You know I think there's other stuff deeper But there's no reason to go there Because I don't even know if there is maybe Because your stories of like What you've done sexually are so interesting Well we can get into the Y on part two

Whenever you're ready for it Okay Billy Thanks so much for calling in Thank you for having me. All right, Manhorp Podcast. Go listen to it to hear the part two, three, four, 134 episodes you got. Okay.

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