Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1511 - Hunter Was Cheating on his Girl with Guys and Now She Joins Him?!

Episode Date: July 7, 2026

Hunter was secretly hooking up with guys and now his girl joins him and he called in the talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when he started cheating on his wife with guys, what went down during his first hook up with a guy, how and why he wound up divorced from his wife, how he wound up dating one of his booty class when he was younger and how she found out he was secretly hooking up with guys and how she reacted, how she wound up getting involved and what went down during their first mmf threesome, what went down with the guy they met on Sniffies, how far they both go with the guys they hook up with, where they find the guys and the type of guys they both dig, how he feels watching his girl with another guy and why he couldn’t have done this with his first wife plus a whole lot more.  GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  or Pre-order audiobook version ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beduc.at/pd2626-anonymous⁠⁠ Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized SUMMER roadmap to sexual happiness ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://Rythm.Health/STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠for 15% OFF your first month  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://LoadBoost.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - To get 10% off LOAD BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY   ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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the end. We talk a lot about how that first relationship ended in why. And then what went down during his first blood job where he found the guy and then why he kept doing it. And then he talks about how he wound up back with an ex or not an ex, like a girl that he was friends with when he was very young. And he talks about how he was still seeing and blowing this guy. while he was with her and then she wound up catching him. She went through his, and he talks about how she caught him and then how she reacted, which was very surprising to me. And then what went down afterwards.

I don't want to give any more details. I feel like it's much more fun if you don't know and you hear what happened. But it's such a super interesting story. This is a guy that's kind of been there, done that. He was like, you know, towards the end we start talking about because he mentioned he was in Juve yet sometime when he met this young girl, like the girl that he's with now because he knew her when he was younger. When we talk about why he was a juvie and all his shit that was going down when he was

younger. But most of the whole conversation is about him with guys, him with his girl finding out, how she reacted and what happened afterwards. That's all you're going to get. You're going to have to listen to the story. But you're going to love it. It's super interesting. So I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Hunter.

And by the way, Becky, quote unquote, you know, it's all fake names. His girl Becky, who he's with now is going to come on the show too. So stay tuned for that. But here's Hunter. I'm going to be right back on with Hunter. But you're going to hear Hunter. story first, so I'm going to be right back on with Hunter. This is the strictly anonymous podcast.

Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Hey, Hunter, welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast for you today. Good, good, are you? Good. I kind of like your voice. It's a little raspy. Yeah, it's pretty unique. I get comments on it all the time.

Yeah, I dig it. It's a good voice. I'm going to have to change it so that no one knows who you are, you know, and you don't want people to know you who you are. I mean, you just got outed by your girl. You don't want to make it outed by other people. I mean, this is the short story, and then we're going to get the long story. I kind of like a gone wrong story because I feel like people could learn from it.

And I don't know where you are at after things went wrong. But, you know, you are a guy who sometimes kind of, you know, you like to suck a dick every now. You're not into guys. You're definitely not gay. You're like a lot of guys who call into my show. But you did get busted by your girl. She found out, correct? That's a very short story.

Yeah, that's a, that's a. short end of it. All right. I don't even want to know if you're still with her because that'll kind of give away the ending. I don't know if there's a positive ending to that story or a negative. I don't know if she found out and you guys work through it and I don't want to know just yet. I want to, I want the story to unfold as we go. Okay. So you'll, we'll get there. We'll get there. So how old are you around Hunter now? I'm around 39 years old. Okay, 39 years old. And you're not married? I'm not. Okay. So you're not married. That's cool. So, How long have you known that you've been into dudes?

I don't know. Maybe three years ago, I got really curious about giving head. Just three years ago, nothing before that at all, for real. No, nothing at all. Interesting. What do you think happened? Like, were you, like, were you, like, drunk one night and went down the rabbit hole on, like, a porn site or something? Like, what happened three years ago?

I don't know. That's interesting. I actually have no idea. Yeah, it's weird. It just kind of gradually just built up. I know, but sometimes guys don't really put things together, and girls are better at putting things together. So let me just, like, question you a little bit more

and see if we could get to, like, what was going down three years ago? Like, you said it kind of gradually built up. Like, what does that mean? I don't know. I just had, you know, it was on my mind a lot, the thought of, you know, meeting a dude and giving him head. All right, but why do you think it was on your mind?

Did you come across videos where you like Googling that on porn sometimes to get off where you were thinking about it when you were jerking off like for some reason? Did you see a scene in a movie? No, no, no. Maybe me and my girlfriend at the time were going, we're kind of on the verge of splitting up and I don't know if that had something to do with it. Right. But we were in a 20 year relationship where we lived together for 20 years. I have two kids. Wow.

And then so she left me like a year and a half ago. And then I met that. I mean, so then I got with this girl who I've known since fifth grade. We went to fifth and sixth grade together. We were best friends. We talked all the time. Oh, even throughout that whole 20-year relationship. You were still friends with her?

No, most of the relationship. Most of the 20-year relationship is mostly like, you know, we were probably friends on Facebook. Okay. That was the, yeah, and then she has been married and has a kid. So we got together. We happened to be single at the same time. And I was actively blowing a dude. So the first guy I met, I met him on Reddit.

And he lives one town over. And he had never, you know, been sucked by a guy. And so it was perfect. We kind of just got, you know, we, we, we're on the same exact level. And so yeah, so that guy I see all the time. Yeah, but no, you're getting to the guy too fast. I still am trying to suss out where, how the fuck this came into your head.

You went from like I was breaking up with a girl and maybe that's what I had to do with to, you're already broken up with her. You're with this other girl and you're on. No, no, before we broke up, I was already on Reddit doing this. So once we broke up,

I was, I had already been doing this for about six months. Okay. But let's go back to the six months. So you're like, like, do you think maybe it was like, Kind of like an acting out because you were like very emotional because of what was going down. I mean, you're losing a big thing.

Like whether it's the right thing to do or you couldn't stand her anymore or you guys like didn't like it. You know, it's still very hard to leave a 20 year relationship, especially the, you know, the woman that you've been with that's a mother of your children and everything. Like so do you feel like maybe you were like acting out sexually and instead of going with women, going with men, it was like a way of like distracting yourself maybe from what was going down? It's partly that. Yeah. I was drinking a lot.

I was a bartender for an event company, so we did a lot of venues, big concert venues, you know, and I ended up running one of the bars there. So I was a bar lead, and I just drank way too much. Right, right. And listen, I know that guys are not as much in touch with their feelings as women are right, but they have them. I'm sorry, like you have feelings just as much as women do. you know, but guys are much more like, oh, everything's fine kind of people, right?

But you probably weren't, it was probably like a very emotional time for you, right? And maybe that's why you were drinking more. Definitely. Right. Oh, definitely. Yeah. That also added to the problem, though. Of course.

That doesn't help. Yeah. It doesn't help at all. No. Yeah. No, I lost a good thing. That was a. Why did you lose it, though?

What happens? Can we just say about that real quick? You don't have to get that deep into it. Was it just like a. Like were you guys on separate paths for a long time and slowly like, you know, we're disconnected? We grew apart. We grew apart. Yeah.

We were together since the day we met, we moved in together. The first day we ever met each other. Wow. So we moved in together and we lived in. That was when we were 18 years old. Yeah. We lived together until we were 38. Wow.

Wow. And had two kids. I had two kids. And yeah. And then she just called a quits. Right. But a woman never just calls it quits, newsflash. No, she had been one.

She had planned this. I mean, she was on her way out. Yeah, but even way before she planned it and was on her way out, there's no way she wasn't complaining to you and telling you everything that she was upset about in the relationship. And you just thought, oh, it doesn't matter. Like, this is what happens with men and women all the time. A woman complains for a very long time, right? And even if she's only 5% left in, okay, she will try as hard as she can by telling the

fucking guy every single day what the fuck she wants what she's pissed about what she's not happy about and the guy just goes about his day and thinks everything's fine like he doesn't really take it seriously and then by the time she's done by the way because she's been so trying so hard and probably at that 5% by the time she's zero percent you're never getting her back and and then the guy's like what the fuck okay i'll do everything you know what i mean it's like no you needed to do that three years ago when she started complaining listen to your fucking they're going to tell you exactly what they're pissed off about from day one. But guys just don't listen sometimes.

It's unfortunate, but very common, right? It's 100%. Yeah, 100%? You're 100% correct? Yeah. I took it for granted and I didn't think she'd ever go anywhere. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 20 years and I was sorely mistaken and she's gone.

There's no getting her back. That's for sure. Yeah, once, like I said, once the woman is zero percent, you're fucked. She's never coming back. And the guy is always like, what the fuck? And that's when he starts to be like, no, no, no, now he's back peddling and trying to get it back. But it's never going to happen once you lose her totally. No, I know.

And now I'm doing the best in my life. You know, I got a great career. Yeah, yeah. Well, that's good. And she just doesn't, she doesn't care, you know. That doesn't mean nothing anymore. Of course. Yeah.

No, she tried. She had that, like I said, women have hope. We try and whatever. And that's, it's very common. You're not the only guy who's been through it and took it for granted. Okay. So you're like literally, like, by the time you realize you're really losing your girl. So, of course, it's a very emotional.

time because you didn't see it coming even though it was like obviously coming. Oh yeah, it was in my face. She told me every day. Yeah, yeah, exactly. Yeah, okay. All right. So while you're like, is it like when you're kind of like drunk and a little bit out of your mind, you start thinking about dues?

Yes. Okay. And then you have the, like, and then one night you literally like, are you wasted the night that you go on to Reddit and looking for someone? No. No. No, no. We have been, me and this guy have been talking for like, I don't know, a few days.

Okay. And then we just planned it And I came over to his house And yeah It was I actually didn't like it the first time He was pretty rough But what did you go on there looking for? Like just like did you know for sure

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I'm good at it. How do you know you're good at it? I don't know. You just thought I want to be good at blow job? Like, I don't understand. No, I don't know. I think it's just more or less the, you know, the getting them off. I don't know.

I have no idea to say the truth. I don't really understand it myself. Yeah, it's so interesting. Are you a pleaser when it comes to women too? Yeah, definitely. Right. Okay. So you find this guy.

So, and this guy on Reddit is like, hey, I'm looking for a guy to come over and like suck me off. Yes. Yeah, definitely. And he's a, he's a, uh, uh, he's a, uh, he's a, you know, a black guy. Yeah. And that's what I was looking for. Okay.

Are you a black guy yourself? No, I'm not. Okay. Okay. Okay, cool. Okay, cool. But you're specifically looking for that. And let me just tell you a lot of like this black guy knew what was going on.

Okay. And I don't think that there's many guys that are in his position. I know more guys that are in your position. Like, I always tell my straight guy friends. Like, I'm sorry. But if you want a free blow job from someone that's not going to want you to take them out to dinner, like just put an ad out there. There are so many guys that just want to go and give guys blow jobs.

You know what I mean? And there's more guys that want to do that than want to be the guy at home. You know what I mean? Yeah, 100%. Yeah. Yeah. That I'm like, guys, straight guys should take advantage of that. All right.

So you're looking for this whole. So now even more than just a guy, you also want the interracial thing. Yes. Yeah. And so I found it first try. Okay. And then that guy, that guy, he, you know, he would just hit me up every couple days. Yeah.

So. But wait, how was the first time? The first time was harsh. Yeah, he was rough. In what sense? Was he pushing your face in like I'd do you know? Yeah. Well, yeah.

I mean, just kind of, you know, like trying to, you know, fuck my face. And that, that was, that hurt. He's big. And, yeah. Yeah. But then we, you know, that was like maybe two years ago now. Okay. Or more.

And then so it's been at least like once a week. The same guy? And the same guy. Yeah. Okay. So wait, let's just slow it down. So that first time it's like a little harsh and it's too much. But how do you feel like right after?

It's kind of loaded for you. I felt I felt pretty ashamed to myself. Yeah. I can imagine. Yeah. And then I don't know. I just still wanted to do it. You know, he was hitting me up.

And, like, you know, I tell me how good it was and he wanted me to come back. That was stroke and your ego? Yeah, for sure. But let me ask you this because you're cheating. I mean, this is why it's so loaded to me, right? Is this a lot going on that you could feel bad about, right? Like, first of all, you're like, it's confusing. You all of a sudden have a dick in your mouth and you're like a straight guy.

So like what the fuck's that all about, right? But you're also cheating on the woman that you loved for 20 years, right? Like, was that a part of like feeling bad at all? for sure for sure yeah you mean she had checked out a while you know long before we weren't but uh yeah for like six months in the last six months for sure i felt you know guilty had you ever cheated on her in the past or were you a monogamous guy so you're a very monogamous guy so of course that would be a little that would be a part of you feeling bad right yeah i never looked at any other girl but her yeah yeah okay and she never she you know we never we we we trust each other she never cheated on me

Right. We are best friends. Yeah, yeah, yeah, unfortunate. Right. And so at this point... We literally are the exact opposites now. And it's just her. She has 100% made a U-turn in what she wants to do in her life.

And, you know, even her taste of music, everything has become the exact opposite of what it was. It's weird. Well, not really. I mean, like, you knew her through her 20s. I always make jokes. And because I was 20-something years old. I'm sorry, but like, you don't know who the fuck you are when you're in your 20s. You're like an amoeba, right?

And you try on so many different things. And by the time you hit 30, 35, like, you know, you're much more settled in on who you are. And you're probably most likely a very different person than you were in your 20s. That's why I think it's hard when people get married so young to stay on the same path because we never got married. I know, but I'm just saying staying together through very early ages because those are the times when people grow and change the most. You know what I mean?

So you, the chances that. on the other side of all this growth that you're going to be on the same path and into the same things is not that high some people stay on the same you know but sometimes it is like who the fuck are you after at 35 you know you're not the same person you're 25 and maybe you're not compatible anymore happens all the time yeah okay so so let's get back to the guy so the guy calls you up again and you just keep going back yes I just keep going back and then so I get with that that girl that I've known since fifth grade right that was like a Facebook message or something Yeah, we'll call her Becky, okay?

And so I get with Becky. She, yeah, I was just, I happened to hit her up on Snapchat and I was like, look, you know, me and Jamie finally broke up. So, well, and she left me. And I was like, you know, how have you been? And she said, oh, you know, me and my boyfriend just broke up. Wow. So we were like, you know, let's go on a date. And I got with her.

Well, I wreck my motorcycle. You're a fucking mess right now. Going for, yeah, I was. Before her, if I back up, before her, I was with a Russian Mongolian girl for about, I lived with her for about eight months. That was, that's absolutely toxic. It was crazy. Was she hot, though? Oh, yeah, yeah. And Russian girls by far are like, they're always like a fucking tan. And she's mean. She's, and she's mean. Yeah, so she, me and her kept talking and Becky was getting really mad at me about that. Well, I wrecked my motorcycle. and I end up with four broken ribs, a punctured long. It's three broken vertebrae in my back. And in the hospital, I wake up to Becky with my phone going, what's this on Reddit? Who's this guy?

Wait, this is when she finds out? This is when she finds out. Oh, okay. I like this twist. I'm glad I didn't find out before. Go on. Yeah, she finds out everything. She is an investigator.

I don't know why she doesn't do that. That's like me. You cannot, you cannot lie to her. You cannot hide anything from her. I don't know how she does it. But, you know, she'll get call logs from your phone company. She's crazy. And, yeah, but she's like, you know, I'm not turned off by this.

Wow. I did not see this coming. I'm so glad I just let it unfold. It's so interesting. Yeah. Okay. So she's like. by the way, I'm not totally turned off.

Like, I think it's hot. Imagine. She thinks it's hot. And then so she wants me to keep doing it. And she wants me to make her videos. No way. By this point, by the way, by this point, are you hooking up with her and you moved out with from the Russian girl? And you're with her?

She's moved in with me at this point. Okay. And you still got in the crash while you were with her? Like that motorcycle. She took care of me for about six months. Yeah, so we've been together now for a year. Next month will be a year. Wow.

Okay. So you left the Russian girl. You got in that crash. She took care of you. But it was when you were in the hospital is when she found out. So she found out like right from the get-go when you were together. She found out right in the very beginning. Yeah.

Okay. And so as soon as I wrecked that motorcycle, she was there in the hospital and she was going through my phone. And so I tried to lie about it. you know, in the beginning, I was trying to make up anything I could. You know, somebody else I was doing it. You know, my friend was using my phone so he didn't get caught. And it didn't work.

Even though she said, wait, even though she said, I'm totally cool with this. You still were like trying to. No, no, no. This is before. So she was upset a little bit at the beginning just because I was lying, right? Oh, okay. Well, tell that story. Okay.

So she was like, yeah. Yeah. So it's like, you know, like a two-day, three-day process. She's telling me you're lying about this. You're lying about this. And then finally, I just come clean out. You're right. I am.

I was like, it's embarrassing. She's like, well, you know, I'm, I'm into it. I think it's hot. You don't have to lie to me. Exactly. And then eventually we meet a guy that was coming over another black guy. And he was coming over and hanging out with us. And I would blow him.

She would watch sometimes and play with herself. And then eventually she joined in. Wow. Okay, let's go back to the first time where she's going to join in. How does that all come to be? So we planned that. We actually planned it. We were like, you know, we're both going to suck you next time you come over.

Wow. How long are you dating this girl now? This would be probably six months in. Wow. Seven months. Okay. And she's, you know, she's got her clip here. She's not been with very many men, but she's very, she did info.

Like this, this girl is. ridiculous and she comes faster than any man I've ever met and multiple orgasms. It's, it's, that's great. That's great. How old is she, by the way? She is she a year older than me. Okay, cool. Okay, cool. So she's like, listen, I want to. She can come on too if you want to do. Oh, I would love that. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Let's do a separate episode with her. Yeah. Okay, cool. You would like that. Yeah, awesome. Becky, she's going to use the name Becky. Okay, so, all right, so, so you call it's the same guy right the first reddit guy that you go over to it with to his house no so not no no so sorry i i guess i skipped that so after the reddy guy she wanted me to find new guys okay she's like she's like

find like one more guy or something like that you know something new because she's been watching all these same videos okay because it started with you getting the videos and you're doing that for a while with the reddit guy right yep okay and so it's it's like i'm bringing her video each time wow this is like her, this is like payment to be able to do it, right? But she's, but she's in, like, what does she do with those videos? Oh, she watches them and plays with herself. Okay, wow. Okay, great.

She loves it. This is like every guy's fantasy to meet Becky. Every guy's going to want to date Becky. You know what I mean? Every guy wants it Becky. Oh, yeah, for sure, you know, well, you don't know until you get it. Oh. It's a lot.

Okay. She doesn't want any other guys unless I want her, you know, she has no interest in any other guy. She is absolutely madly in love with me. but uh she what's the a lot part uh the a lot you know she likes to have sex all the time you know it's almost too much she wants to be eating out for you know a couple hours and uh yeah she's she's a horn dog 100 so you've definitely met your match yes definitely definitely well i mean the 20 year relationship we you know it was it got to the point where it was no

more than like twice a week, maybe once a week. We'd have sex. And so it was pretty vanilla. We tried to do, me and my first, my baby's mom, we tried to do some like campsite stuff for a few months. And, you know, that was, it was a really basic relationship with not a lot of sex. And then to go over here to her, well, this is a whole other ball game. Yeah.

It's an opposite end of the spectrum. Yeah, she's in like pari metapause. She's pretty aggressive, you know. Yeah, it's great. Okay, so, all right. So now where do you got? So now is she involved in finding the guy that you guys wind up with or do you do all that work? Definitely.

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Save $80 with code space 80 at talkspace.com. Okay, but let's stick to the story, okay, because we're not, let's get, let's get more. So we're at the place where you go on to, she says, I want to find new guys. Yeah, she wants to find new guys. So then I find a guy that is close by as well. And he's actually a really cool guy. We both, you know, all three of us get along just in general. He's just a little bit younger than us, maybe six years younger or so.

But, yeah. And wait, is he also a black guy? Does she into the whole interracial thing? She doesn't really care for black guys Okay, but you do Like sexually, that's not how she's attracted to Uh-huh But you do, is that why you choose one?

Yeah, yes. Okay. Yeah, I prefer that. And then so she's anything I want to do. She's, that's what she likes. Well, because you're the one engaging at this point, But this time she's going to be involved, right? And how, like, what's her involvement at this point?

Like, what are you guys are, like, what is going to go down at this scenario. We're just going to both blow him. Okay, so only a BJ. Yeah, you know, switching off and on, yeah, he's only a BJ. Okay, cool. And that happened a couple times. Okay, how was the first time, though?

It was fun. You know, it was exciting. Yeah, it was hot seeing her suck him and seeing how, you know, how much he enjoyed it. And so we had a lot of fun. Okay, but who are these guys? Are these guys gay men? Are they straight men that are married? Are they single guys?

This guy's bisexual. Okay. There's only two. There's only two so far now. Okay. The first guy from Reddit. And then now we got this guy that we met from, I think the site is Sniffies or something. Oh, I'm obsessed with Sniffies.

Okay. So that's where I believe we met, she found all these sites. Okay. And that's where I believe we met them. Okay. And what's this guy like? What's this guy's deal? He's by, you said?

He's by. Yeah, he's by. And like I say, he's a little bit younger. but he uh he's a really just a really cool uh dude okay great and we got along so uh and she liked she liked she liked his personality like she liked hanging out with him you know she's we didn't just in the beginning i'm pretty shy and really nervous and i start talking and i can't stop so like the first time he came over i'd probably talk for two hours or three hours before i even blew him yeah it's like yeah i get nervous i tell him sometimes but you know i'm like you just got to come over

He's got to pull it out if you want me to shut up. There is. Okay. I'm sure your girl helps with that. No? Sometimes she does. Sometimes she doesn't. Whatever she wants to.

Okay. But we ended up having, she wanted to be, she wouldn't have two guys fuck her. So me and him ended up, we had a threesome. Okay. And how did you feel about that? Is that like you're just like, yeah, fuck yeah? Like you're totally into it? It was fun.

Yeah. Yeah. She was stuck in, you know, me. while he was fucking her. Listen, some guys might feel jealous if they see their girl with another guy or anything. Like you had no worries about that. Like everything was on the table.

Let's just do it, right? Oh, yeah. No, I didn't bother me at all. Okay, cool. So how was that experience? What went down? Was that the second time, like right after the first beach? That was, no, that was probably,

so we did the first one with him, and that was really, really hot. We recorded it. So we watched that together a couple times. and, you know, then we invited the guy back over. And so I might have left out too. Also, so what she caught me. Let me go back to that.

When Becky caught me, she went ahead and messaged the guy, the first guy from Reddit. And she was like, you know, I'll tell your wife. He was married? I just asked you the demographics of the other guys. You didn't say he was married? The first guy, the first guy is married. Okay. Well, you didn't tell me that.

Okay, that's why I asked. This is why I need to be on these calls. It's okay. I have ADHD. It's okay. This is why I fucking interrupt people and everyone complains. It's like, please, I wouldn't get it. Half the stories I get if I wasn't involved in talking to those people.

No problem. You got to stop me. Yeah, yeah. So that guy was married. Where would you meet him if he was married? I read it. No, no, no. Not where would you perform your beaches if he's married?

Oh, okay. So he had, so over at his mother's house in the same town, he has a studio. He actually records music. Oh, so he goes there. So he had sessions, right, right? He'd like, you know, my session's about to leave it this time, you know, come over right then. Wow. And then he'd be able to do that.

And, you know, his wife wouldn't suspect anything. Hilarious. Okay, interesting. Okay. So your girl, Eam, is texting him when she finds out, by the way, I'm going to tell your wife, blah, blah, blah. Yeah, yeah. if you ever talked to him again, right?

This is this, this is while I'm still in the hospital. She's telling him this, that. Yeah, I got it. So, uh, eventually she, uh,

we were, after we did this with the guy that I met from sniffies, after we had the three seven and whatnot, we decided to go and bless the guy that I had first did it with, with me and her sucking him. And he, and so, I mean,

after she threatened him and stuff, was there no more hooking up with him, right? Oh, no, to him and did videos and everything, right? Oh, yeah, yeah.

And he was, he was like, how can I believe you? I got to trust you. So she actually texted him and was like, I apologize. Okay. I should have said those things to you.

And then so he was real nervous about it in the beginning. And then he was okay with it. And then eventually she came with me one time. And we both gave him a blow job. Okay. And so he liked that, obviously. Every time now, you know,

this is actually recently, this is just part in the not. So all this has been. in the last, you know, six months. Yeah, six to eight months. Mm-hmm. Something like that. So in the whole span, like, I was, my, my, my, my, my, my, my, uh, baby mom left me probably

about two years now on, on the dot. And then so it went to the, the Russian girl and then Becky. I know, but after you had, like, what went down at the threesome with, uh, for, with the Sniffy's guy? So that was fun. We set up a camera and, uh, the Snivies guy, he came over, he brought a bunch of condoms. he's you know he's got a big dick and it was uh it was pretty hot to see her kind of struggle with it right in the beginning and uh and then you know she like i said she orgasms super fast and just

multiple you know back-to-back and so it was fun i got to see her come on his dick and then mine and she would suck me in and suck him and we ended up both coming in her mouth so It was a really good experience, the threesome. Yeah. And we actually did that one more time with him. Right. And we have not, our schedules just haven't worked out now to, you know, have him come by again recently. But when you went back to the sniffies guys, did you ever do more than a BJ with him?

Or when you called him back after that first time, did you do another, did you do a three, more of a threesome with him or no? Yeah. Oh, yeah. Yeah, we had two, three-sums with him. Okay, so let's get started there, okay? Yeah. So you call back the Sniffy's guy and you wind up doing a double BJ. Now, when do you do this, do more with him?

Because at this point, that guy, you've been with him for a long time, but you've never done more than a BJ. Yeah, the Sniffy's guy, he's the new one. No, this is the Reddick guy, I'm sorry. When you go back to him. The Reddy guy, the Reddy guy, I've been with him for a long time, but he's kind of aggressive, so I did it. want, you know, to bring Becky with me. I was kind of hesitant. Right. I can imagine, right. So after I told him, you know, this is the way, you got to be easy to sit back and relax. And so I did bring her by a couple times. We both blew him. We both, you know, I started. And then

after I'd suck him for a minute, get him hard, I would call her over. Okay. But no, no, no, we're past the BJs. What happens when you do more with him? when we do more. So when I bring her over, that's all we did. We never, I have not, he's not had sex with her.

Only the guy from Siffies. Okay. And we had a threesome with. Okay. He's the only one that I've shared her with. But now we're looking to go to, like I said, now we're on Fet Life and we're trying to see if we want to,

you know, move forward in the lifestyle or just try everything out and see what it's fun and what's not. Okay. Let me ask you this. Did you ever go further than blowjubs with the guy? never know i've never gone further and you don't want to go further no not at all there's no there's no desire i don't want to even you know i don't want to have them touch me in any way so you never have

even gotten a blowjub from them no never right and they're cool with that right it doesn't even i don't get i'm not like getting hard while i'm doing this it's it's uh what do you mean i mean like i don't i don't get hard while I give them head. It's not, it's not like... Is it afterwards thinking about it? It's afterwards. Exactly. Okay. It's just the thought of it.

Interesting. Never during. Never during. Right. But afterwards you can. I mean, just, I guess, I guess. I don't know. Like I said, I think it's more or less I like the fact that they like it so much. Right.

And you get off on that. But I'm just saying typically, though, every time after you're done, that's when you're getting pleasureed by the scenario, correct? Yeah, yeah. So I would go home to Becky and then I'd show her the video. She'd watch it. She'd play with herself and then we'd have sex. No, but what about when you were doing it alone?

Oh, by myself? Yeah, I never, I mean, probably definitely got aroused and would, you know, masturbate. But I wouldn't watch videos of men with men. But I'm just saying after you would do these scenarios, considering you're never getting hard when you were seeing Reddit guy, right? you're there, you're blowing, you're not hard at all, you come home. Is that when you're like pleasuring yourself to the thoughts of it when you were solo when you didn't have Becky? Definitely.

Yeah, definitely. Once it was over, yeah, I would watch some porn and, you know, masturbate. You wouldn't just, it wasn't enough just thinking about the scenario. You watched porn at the same time? Yeah, yeah, the scenario wasn't enough. Interesting. But yet, you would still be attracted to that scenario. Just, yeah. More or less, it's because they enjoy it so much is what it brings me back.

Right. So just like all of a sudden, you'll get the urge and like the thought of it is horny for you, like just getting somebody off but when you get there, you're not horny. That is. Yeah. Yeah.

Do you feel the same way with women? No, you're turned on when you're with a woman, correct? Oh, yeah, definitely turned on with a woman. Yeah, that's interesting. Not turned out at all when you're there. And when you're home, it's not enough. just to, it's not like you get hard immediately when you leave the scenario after

you do it. No, yeah, but so, oh, me and Becky, though, so when we would go over to the Reddit guys' house and blow him, so we did it a few times and, uh, on the way home, oh, she would, she would, she would blow me while I was driving.

You know, we would take the country roads. I got out and, you know, fucked her beside the car a couple times. It was, it was really fun. It turned us on. Right. I can imagine. I mean, she sounds like she's more into it than you. She's probably horny while she's there. But let me ask you this.

When she got involved, I would assume when she was involved, were you actually, actually like, into the scenario while you were there with her? Definitely. Okay. Oh, yeah. When she got involved in, it was like, so that's when I, you know, that's the only reason why I even, you know,

found another guy to do it with. Because I was content with him just, Whatever he would ask me if he stopped asking me I wasn't worried about it I probably wasn't gonna go wasn't gonna go look for you know somebody else to do it with Right for her and she wanted you know that's what turns her on I was down Right but you would be horny in this you would be getting hard now all of a sudden When you're with the guy because your girl is there right that's a different experience for you 100% now are you the type of guy like if you look back at yourself how you are with women

Like, can you believe that you're like down seeing your girl with someone else? Like before you got into this with Becky, would you have ever thought that you were the type of guy that would be able to see his girl with another guy and be okay with that? Not at all. Right. Interesting. Right? Don't you think? Yeah. Oh, definitely.

I know. I mean, with my baby's mom, no way. What I ever, you know, that was, you know, she even said one of her fantasies was to have a threesome with you guys. And like, there was no way I'd ever fill that for her. If you win a $3,000 a month payday for life, what would you feel free to do? Maybe take a long weekend, every weekend, or try a bunch of new hobbies. Would you feel free to upgrade and listen ad-free? Don't worry, we get it.

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I don't know. You know, this girl is a, I can tell you a story about this girl. So when I was younger, I got in trouble a lot. And so this girl told you I've known her since we were kids. Yeah. So probably around when I was 15 years older. So she, we would talk on the phone every day, you know. And I was going, I had to go to turn myself in on a Friday.

And I knew I was going to do six months in a juvenile program. And so I called her up. And she had a boyfriend at the time. And I was like, hey, you know, Becky, I got to go turn myself in the day after tomorrow. Would you come over and have sex with me? And we had never, we had never done anything with each other. Just friends. Yeah, just friends.

And she goes, let me ask my mom if I can get a ride. and so her mom dropped her off. She came in and we had sex. So she's always been like a really good friend, I guess, and always been very sexually enlightened, I'd say. Right. You have to talk to her and you'll get a great episode with her. Oh, my God.

But you're like also, like you're in a real relationship with her, right? So, I mean, is it surprising for you that you fell for Becky, both romantically and everything and you're still okay with her being with someone else whereas you wouldn't have felt that same way about your other girl because I'm very I'm very confident she makes me feel very confident that I'm the only one she wants all right so that's what that's the difference you feel like that's the difference yeah for sure right right so it's not it's like you're in love with Becky the same way you were in love with your baby mama right but you just feel like you're more secure and that security is the difference between why you feel okay with that now as opposed to the other

in the other scenario. Yes, yeah, definitely. I mean, I mean, Mom, I felt always judged by her. Yeah. She comes from a very, you know, a very well-known family in our town. Mm-hmm. And, you know, important people are, so she's, you know, I don't know how, she's a brat. Right.

And she spoils. She's spoiled rotten. And she gets everything she wants. You know, her mom buys everything. Her mom gave her a business to run. And so she's very judgmental. And there was, you know, I never felt comfortable. I knew she would never cheat on me, but I knew she would leave me in a heartbeat.

Yeah. It's interesting because, you know, and the reason why I asked on and I love your answer. I never thought she would actually stay gone. I always thought that she would, you know. I get it. We already went through that. But what I think is interesting about that statement about feeling more secure with this one, and that's why you allow it is because sometimes people on the outside.

outside, like very vanilla people. Look at guys who share their girls and they think it's kind of like the opposite. Like you're so weak. Like what you let your girl go get pleasureed by someone else, blah, blah, blah, blah. You know, and typically when you're really talking to guys like you and guys that are into this kink and stuff, there takes a lot of security in allowing something like that to happen. If somebody really thinks about it, you know, a guy would have to be very secure in his relationship with his girl and his feelings for himself to allow that to happen, right? And you said it. Like the reason why this is okay for you with her is because you feel secure. It's not like less secure. It's more security is why you allow that to happen and are and you're okay with it.

And you can sit back and enjoy it. Right. 100%. Yeah. I mean, we haven't done no solo. She's never been out by herself. But you've only been with this one guy with penetration, you know, with this. But she wants to be deep deed. She wants, she wants a lot. Right. And, and you said that she's not really that interested. At some point you said she's not really that interested in other guys. Like I always worry about solo play. Like there's no reason to ever have to go there if you don't want to. We don't want to at all.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. You don't need to, right? That could lead to problems sometimes, you know. So I think it's better that you play together. And you said like she's not really that interested in anybody else. It's just something that you guys do when you're together, right? And we, yeah. And it turns us both on to see each other, you know, get pleasure and have fun.

Right. She's into it too. So what's on her bucket list? A DP? That's it. That's the next one she wants to do. Oh my God. Are you sticking with the Sniffies guy?

Are you looking for more guys? We don't know. Like I said, we're going to try and go to something like a local swingers party or something and just maybe one of their little meet and greets and just see how things go. Yeah, you should do anything. Maybe do a soft swap with a couple like same room. Yeah, I was going to ask about that. What's the deal with her with women, her with seeing you with the woman?

She's bisexual. Okay. She doesn't know if she can see me with a woman. Okay. Which is fine with me. Yeah, I'm not worried about that. I don't need another woman. Right. But I would like to see her with a woman.

Right. And has she ever been with a woman? Oh, definitely. Okay. So do you, and so, like, how, like, it must be, like, so freeing for you to be able to be with guys and not have to lie about it and be living out this whole side of yourself that you figured out, right? With the woman that you also love too.

I mean, because you guys have a real relationship, right? Oh, yeah, yeah. We live together. It's great. It's great to have that she, you know, is, that she's into it. Right. She's like your biggest sexual fantasy

and you're living at all your great fantasies with her, but you also have a, like you're obviously a relationship guy, right? Like you're in a 20-year relationship since you're fucking a kid. And then you jumped into another one. and you were living with a Russian girl for eight months. Like you like to lock shit down, right? Like you like to be in a relationship. You're that guy.

I do. Yeah. I do. I like to be a stable relationship. Yeah. There's nothing wrong with that. Yeah. Yeah.

It's a matter of just like following what you want, you know? I mean, this was like a girl that you always like, like, did you really like her when you guys were best friends back in the day? Oh, I was in love with her. I had a crush on her. She always had a boyfriend. Right. Right.

Always had a boyfriend, yeah. Yeah. And then the fact that you. You guys both broke up at the same time. It was like perfect timing. You know, this is your time. Right. This is like your time to be together.

Did your girl know her? My baby mom did not know her, but knew of her. Okay. And I got in trouble once with the Facebook. I lied when Facebook like first came out and Becky, you know, friend requested me. And then my baby mama knew everybody I'd been with. I told her everything. Yeah.

So she goes, is this the same Becky? Yes. This is the same Becky? and I was like, no, it's not. And she messaged her, was like, hey, did you, you know, have sex with Hunter in high school or middle school? She was like, well, it's not your business. So she knew right away.

She's like, what that means, yes. And you lied to me. So that was the only thing in the 20 years that she, that we, you know, I had never been, like, caught doing. Yeah. And so when I ended up with, Becky, you know, my baby mom was a little bit like, wow. Yeah, of course.

With her? Yeah, of course. Yeah. She's like the one that I've heard about since the beginning. You ended up with her right afterwards. Oh my God. But she never caught you with guys, right, the first one, right? No, no, not at all.

She never went through, well, we didn't share location. She didn't go through my. I never went through her phone. She didn't go through mine. Right. By that time she probably didn't even care what the fuck you were doing. She was so over you. She wasn't looking through your phone like Becky was.

No, yeah, no, I was, you know, the last straw was, I'll tell you how over me she was. Yeah. The last straw, the last straw was I was getting up my phone. I was having my phone's data swap to a new one in T-Mobile. And I was running a little bit late. I didn't realize. So I get home, I'm supposed to go to a Christmas tree lighting in our town. And I show up 15 minutes late.

You know, we were supposed to leave 15 minutes ago. Yeah. And she packed up the kids and said that's the last time you let me down. Right. And she left. Now is it. That was the straw that broke the camel's back. For being 15 minutes late.

Yeah, but that, no, no, no. But that, like, if you just lead with that, because, like, one time there was somebody that was always late for me, like, always constantly forever. And one day I told him if you're even, like, one minute late, like to come to my house, I am not letting you in. And he drove, like, through, like, a, like a walk. I live in New York City through, like, a fucking. hurricane to come to me. And he was five minutes late and I didn't let him in. Just like I said

I would. And people thought I was like a real bitch. But I'm like that's not like this isn't why he's not coming in. It's not one time. It's like 50,000 times. And this is when I got to say like. That's how I was. I was late. Yeah. So it's like it's not like she didn't leave you because you were 15 minutes late. She left you because you were not thoughtful. You were late. Not she left me because I was hours and hours and hundreds of hours late. Yeah. You can't that story out of context makes her sound like, crazy, but she wasn't. She had had enough. And as she should.

That's how over me she was. Yeah. Yeah. She was fed up. That was the last one. Yeah. And what is with you fucking late people? It's so rude.

I don't understand it. It's like, I don't know. I have ADHD. I mean, I don't care. So do I. I can be walking out of my house.

And I can see, oh, man, I wanted to see what that paint looks like on that. And I'll open up a can of paint. So I'm a painter. Yeah. By train. and I do drywall and whatnot. And so I get sidetracked by everything. I know, but I'm just going to tell you, this is what I think about lay people. Then I have one more question for you. Like, lay people, I feel like,

to me, because like no matter where I'm going, I'm always on time. And even if I like, I'm traveling in a car and I hit traffic, like I still make it on time. Like, no matter where I go, no matter what I do, I'm always on time. Because my intention is to be on time. It's all about intention. So it's like if you just start intending to be on time and like putting that in your head, you will be on time. You will be on time. You can make all the excuses in the world, but it just doesn't matter to you to be on time. You don't fucking care whether you're on time or not. You've got away with it your whole life, but it is very rude. And I suggest everybody that's not an on time person starts to be fucking on time. And I feel like, you know what? If you're like an on time, you're just like, you're suddenly like better than the average person. Like it's not that hard to be better than everyone. Just like fucking do what you say, mean what you want. Be honest and be on time. And you're suddenly ahead of like 90% of the people out there because it's so fucking ridiculous. to not be on time. And it just really makes you a 10 times better, more responsible person. But I love your story. Like I said in the beginning, I forget that. We were talking about your guy and guy action. But that is like super, you know, it was so interesting to me how it turned out because I didn't

really get it. I want to kind of tease it to people and not let them know as much so they could be as surprised as me because it is like a gone wrong, gone very right story. You know what I mean? So it's not like. Oh, I did. Yeah. I mean, I made some mistakes down the road, but it ended up a pretty good outcome. Yeah, you ended up with Becky. I mean, I don't know. The whole Becky thing is like amazing. So anyway, listen, get Becky to use the link that I sent you.

You should still have it in your text, right? To come on the show too. And I love your story. Thank you so much for calling in and sharing it. It was super interesting. Right on. I appreciate you to let me on. Yeah, I love it.

Give Becky ASAP. Okay, if you want to send in picks, I mean, does Becky know you're calling in, obviously? 100%. Yeah, I actually drove off. And, you know, so that I didn't want my daughter to hear. Of course, of course. But if you want to send in picks from my Patreon, you can, you know, anonymous books. Yeah, nothing X-rated, but you could do R-rated hot picks at Becky if you want.

And then you'll get access to my Discord, which is private. You'll get the link when we hang up and you love that. There's a dick pick contest going on right now. You win like 300 bucks if you win. There's like 200 dicks on there. You're not going to believe. All my listeners have the biggest, the biggest dicks. you're not going to believe the dicks that you're going to see there.

You're like, where the fuck are these? I don't get it. Where are the girl in these ones at? Yeah, they're all there. This is my second one I've done. It's now it's an annual dig-fit contest I do. And this time, it just does many. And there's tons of them.

And they're all huge. I'm like, what the fuck? Where were these when I was young and promiscuous? But you'll have fun in there. But anyway, get Becky to call. And thank you so much for calling it in. You'll get free access to my Patreon for a month to see comments when your episode goes up. I might even air it next week.

I don't know or the week after, okay? So stay tuned. I'll send you an email when that's up, okay? All right, thank you. Thanks, Hunter. This is fun. Bye. Bye.

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