Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1518 - Ed is Super Young & is in a Very Open Relationship with HIs Fiancé

Episode Date: July 14, 2026

Ed is super young and in a very open relationship with his fiancé and called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how he met his girl and when they both copped to being bi to each other, when they got into pegging, the app they used to open up about their kinks with each other, their first hook up with anther guy and what went down, their first full threesome they had and exactly what went down, the rules they had going in, the emotions they both had afterwards, the two couples they hooked up with and what went wrong in both scenarios, the bi single guy they hooked up with next and what went down, how and why they don’t consider themselves in an open relationship, how “opening up” has helped their relationship plus a whole lot more.  GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  or Pre-order audiobook version ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beduc.at/pd2626-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠ Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized SUMMER roadmap to sexual happiness ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://Rythm.Health/STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠for 15% OFF your first month  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VB.Health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - To get 10% off DRIVE BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY   ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Ed was super nice. He's a cool guy. He has a really interesting story. Him and his girl are super young. They're like in their early 20s and they've only been together about three years and they recently opened up their relationship. It's interesting towards the end. He doesn't see them as having an open relationship, but I see it as open in that they do bring other people into the bedroom with them, right? But they don't play solo. Their whole story about how that came to be is interesting. He realized he was by very early on when he was younger. He wound up copping to it to her. He talks about that, how she felt about it, and then he was into pegging and asked her to do it. You know, it was his first time getting pegged by her. And then, you know, he talks about how she reacted and

then what it was like to get pegged. And then they started talking about like having a hookup with another guy, you know, preferably a by guy. And they did just that. They wound up eventually, she wound up saying, okay. And he talks about all those experiences. He starts with like the first one with the by guy. And then they saw him again. And he goes through all the details with that. And, you know, his girl like he loves seeing her get pleasure so she does hook up with the other guy. Sometimes he hooks up with a guy viz by and then they had a slew of bad hookups and he talks about why. They tried couples and all that kind of good stuff and eventually his wife realized she was or wife

to be. She's this fiance. I realize she might be by too. So that might be on the table in the future. But their whole story is super interesting because like I said, they're young. They're engaged, but they're not married yet. But they're definitely having fun together. and this is something very new for the both of them.

So, I mean, they were doing it for a while, but I'm just saying, you know, it's not something that either one of them ever did before they got together. So it's a super interesting story, and I'm going to be right back on with Ed. This is the strictly anonymous podcast. Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Hi, Ed. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today?

Hi, I'm doing fine. Listen, Ed, Ed, you told me in your email, you and your girl, you're young. You've been doing a lot of crazy things. You've had a bunch of hookups. You're in an open relationship. How old are you, by the way? I'm 24. My fiance is 25.

Okay, so you're super young. How long have you guys been dating for? We've been dating for about three years. We just got engaged this past fall. Oh, wow. Congratulations. What are you going to get married? You're waiting a long time?

Are you going to do a quack? We're actually waiting about two years from now. We're going to do a winter wedding. Oh, nice. Okay. So let's get to. your open relationship. Now, you know, you guys are super young now. I always tend to think that the younger generation is so much more open-minded that it's a little bit more common. Is it in your,

like, with all your friends and people that you know and your age range? Is it more common that people have open relationships nowadays, or am I thinking wrong? To be fair, like, out of my friends, I don't know anybody that actually has an open relationship. Okay, cool. Yeah, that's good to me. Everybody's really cool with it. Like, there's a couple of my friends that actually know that we do this. Oh, so that is a big difference then. Because in my generation, if you told anyone, everyone would talk about you, you'd be ostracized. Like, you know what I mean? Like it would be a big thing and nobody would even cop to it.

So what you're saying is maybe not everyone's doing it, but people are cool about it and you could be open about it and your friends won't judge you. Yeah, I would say a lot of kids our age are a little bit more open-minded and like accepting to different things. Yeah, that's awesome. Or maybe we just don't surround ourselves with people or not. No, I think I thought no, I noticed that it's much more and I think it's better. So anyway, so you guys been dating for three years. When did you decide to open up your relationship? And like before this, were you guys both vanilla? I mean, what was your histories before? Both of you. Well, we actually both came from like pretty shitty, like abusive relationships and then we met in college. And we were very vanilla before that. Okay. Like I had very terrible sex with, uh, my, my past partners, but I was always like a super sexual person. And I really wanted to like, I felt like I was kind of like caged all the time. And then we, I ended up meeting my fiance in college.

There's a whole story about how we met and it's kind of crazy. I don't know if we want to get into that. Yeah, I like a crazy story. I listen, I could go on and on about you choosing the name Ed. I like to hear about everything. I don't care what anyone else thinks. Tell me your crazy story. I guess it's not super crazy, but it's just a little odd.

Like we met in college. we ended up becoming friends. We talked a little bit. At this point, I was still with my ex. So we, like, kind of formed a friendly relationship. And at that point, my ex had, she had cheated on me a couple times. And so I felt like this relationship was over. She was, like, in a whole different state than me.

I started to, like, kind of come on to my current fiancé. And she stopped me, and she was like, I can't do this. You're with. You're currently with a partner. You need to break up with her first. She drove me to her college in like multiple other, like multiple states to go break up with my current girlfriend. And then drove me home. Oh my God.

If your current girlfriend only knew that she's facilitated the fucking breakup, she'd kill her. She like drove you and forced you to break up with her. Oh my God, if that other girl knew she'd be like, what a bitch. But very smart of your girl. You know what I mean? I mean, you were breaking up anyway, correct? Yeah, honestly, I'm very thankful. Of course.

Because I needed that push to get out of that relationship. I feel like I was like, I had an unhealthy attachment to that relationship. Yeah, I hear you. I've been in many of those. Okay, so when you guys get together, how do you wind up, be coming up? And was this something that was discussed early on or did it happen after a while? I would say we kind of slowly progress to it. I mean, slow as in like not very slow, but for our timeline slow.

Because as soon as we started talking, I told her that I was by. She was the first person I ever actually told that to. So we already like kind of opened up like we had clear like communication with each other. Like we definitely trust each other a lot in that sense. Yeah. Well, let's get to your little bit of your buy story though. How did you, when did you realize you were by? What kind of experience?

And what does buy mean to you? Does buy mean that you like to hook up sexually with men? or does bi mean that you will date either a man or a woman? Because it's different to most people, and everybody has their own idea of what by means. Yeah, yeah. I would never date a man. Okay, it's a sex.

But I would definitely, yeah, I would definitely hook. I have hooked up with a single guy before we started dating, and that was pretty much my buy experience, but I knew that I was by since I was like an eighth grade. Because you just knew you were like attracted to men in a sexual way? honestly I think I was more attracted to like a penis than a man you laugh but you know how many times I've heard that it totally makes sense listen to me because I've been doing this for 11 years it totally makes sense to Dr. Joe court that my famous episode with Dr. George court it totally makes sense it totally

makes sense to every other guy like you out there but it's not going to make sense to anyone else okay but I totally get it like a lot of guys would be like I like to fool around the guy maybe he's like a dick but I'm not into guys and I'd be like be like, what do you mean? If a dick is a, you know, a dick is on a man. Then you like, it's like, no, you don't understand. Like, I don't like anything else about it. Just that, you know. And so I totally have come to understand that guys like you. You're not the only one. Yeah. So I told her that stuff. And then we were, we started playing around like with toys and stuff. I, at the moment, at that time, I really wanted to try pegging. And she was totally down to try it.

Okay. Had you ever pegged yourself with anything? you know, around the house. Yeah, I had toys before. Oh, you mean like objects now? You don't have to. I've heard the weirdest objects. But anyway, so you have, you used to, you had already pleasureed yourself that way is what you're saying.

Yeah, yeah. I'd already experimented with that in like high school and stuff. Okay, cool. And it's great, right? Can you tell guys out there like how great it is? A lot of nerve endings. It feels really good, right? Oh, it's amazing.

I have trouble like making myself come from that alone. but I commend guys that can. It's definitely like an amazing feeling. Yeah. Okay. So you tell her that you'd like to get into peck. And how was she, by the way, when you told her you were by, was she just like totally fine with it, right?

Yeah. She was like on faiths, which kind of, I was kind of like, damn, what the hell? You're the first person I told. You want a little bit more drama? Maybe not, but like, I don't know. I was just like, it almost, it felt like so easy. Yeah. And I was like, why did I wait this long to tell anybody?

Yeah. You were just lucky. Yeah, and honestly, I think she's a very comforting person, so I don't, I understand why I would have told her. Yeah, it was more about her than it was about, right? Like, it's very specific to her that she gave you that such a great reaction. Okay, so now, was she just as cool about doing the pegging when you brought it up? Was she just like, okay, on phase? Like, let's do it?

She was definitely like a little, like, taken aback, but not. Okay. She wasn't like, she wasn't going to do it. It's just she was like, I've never done it before. I don't know how, but like I'm definitely willing to try. Yeah. After she tried it, then she ended up actually loving it. Interesting.

She brings up like wanting to do it more than I do. Oh, interesting. What did she, I'm assuming you guys talked about it. Like, what did she love about it? Like, do you know? I think she, she kind of like has learned to enjoy being more dominant sometimes. Yeah. And that helps her like be in that dominant role.

Yeah. And she really loves my ass. So it's like, yeah, she gets to kind of get the view that I usually get. So when I rave about like when I'm, when she's in doggy, like I rave about the view from mine. Yeah. And she was like, I totally understand now. Oh, that's so interesting. So wait, is she come from a very vanilla background, by the way?

Did she cop to like being into chicks too? Or are she just like more vanilla than you? Not that you're not that vanilla, but. that's a it's funny because when I first met her I was like oh she's definitely like she's definitely by like I got that vibe from her yeah and I asked her like early in our relationship I was like are you by and she was like no like I'm I don't think so and I was like okay like I didn't bring I didn't want to push that on her of course she actually told me that she thinks that she's by like probably only like a year ago interesting she waited all this time yeah I think it was after uh

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or anything, like growing up. Like, I think her mom told her once, like, she would be so disappointed if she was gay or bye. Oh, so she would have repressed it regardless, right? And maybe she had repressed it, and it came up in that moment when she was with the couple, right? Yeah, yeah. That's probably more likely. Yeah, interesting. Okay, so let's get back to the pegging.

So you tell her you want a peg. She winds up doing it, and she winds up loving it. And how do you feel about it? Because that's the first time you did it with somebody else. And you said that when you did it for yourself, it was like good. but it seems like, because you said you could only really have orgasms when the other person is doing it, or it feels better when the other person is doing it? Was it like the most amazing thing when you first got pegged?

Yeah, it was great. I mean, I've been wanting to do that since I was like probably in high school. And I asked my ex before that. She was like, absolutely not. So like I was so excited to start that like no matter how it felt, it was going to be great. Man, it was great. Do you ever have prostate orgasms? I have not. I mean, I don't really, I don't think so because I've heard that it's like this insane sensation. Yeah, yeah, no, no, no. That's like a girl that doesn't think she doesn't think she's had an orgasm. Any one of my girlfriend that ever told me when I asked me if they had an orgasm that they said, I don't, I think so. I'm like, no, you didn't have one. Okay, because you wouldn't think, you know. So yeah, you haven't had it yet. It's okay. Yeah, I have not had it. I mean, it's definitely, it feels much better when I do come from, like, anal stimulation. Yeah.

like physical, but I don't think it's like to the extent what most people are experiencing. Yeah, not yet. Listen, you'll have it one day. Like I said, it's hard to figure out where your prostate is. It's kind of like a girl with a G-spot orgasm, you know what I mean? It's not like so easy, but I have heard just like with squirting and stuff. It's the same thing where prostate organs, like once you figure it out, it becomes much more easy. So you'll figure it out eventually. Okay, so you guys start pegging. Where does it go from there? Because you wind up doing couples and having all kinds of experiences and everything. Yeah, from there, I think it was about two years ago.

So that all happened within about our first year of actually dating. And then after about a year, we were studying abroad together in Italy. We came back and like we didn't get to have, we barely got to have sex in Italy for like three months. And at that point we were having sex like every day that we could see each other. Right. So we came back from being like totally repressed in Italy. and I found this like app or something

for both of us so that we could like explore each other's like kinks and desires and stuff and one of the questions was like I think it's called Spicer okay I love apps like that it's really great right to get the conversations going and stuff right yeah it was great yeah because we we got to learn like so many

so many different things about each other totally amazing yeah I love and we ended up like matching on like I mean I'm like crazy. I'm like, I'm into trying like literally everything at least twice. So I end up saying like yes or maybe to pretty much all of those questions. Oh my God, that's so funny. Do you remember what you said no to? I'm not into like anything regarding like feces or anything like that. So that was definitely a no. Oh my God. I love that they included it. I love that it was on there. They put everything.

It has everything. okay cool go on uh so one of the questions was like would you ever like have a threesome and what kind of threesome whatever and i said yes she said maybe and like that's something i always wanted to try so i questioned her on it and she was like yeah like uh but i'm just i'm not sure how that would like affect our relationship and stuff so i put it on the back burner for a little bit and then we talked probably like a month after that about it and i'm like you know i think we're like extremely solid like i can see anything possibly affecting this. Like she was worried it's like cheating and stuff. Of course. And I totally understood. I was like,

you know, this is something that I thought about for a while, but she hadn't had the time to really like, really think about it. Of course. So I understood that took a little bit more time for her to like, really like actually allow herself to think about it. Yeah, of course.

Uh-huh. I totally understand too. Yeah. So I guess eventually we came around to the idea of like, okay, let's, we can think about it a little bit more because she understood like it wasn't cheating. You know, we were doing it together. And our first like kind of like tiptoe into getting into threesomes was I wanted her to feel comfortable like other people seeing her.

So we actually ended up going to a nude beach. What a great idea. What a good sort of segue into it if you wanted to, you know, to like that was just very smart of you. Yeah, I mean, I also, I think she's like the most beautiful person on this earth. And part of like my thing is like I want her to be able to like, like, I see like guys check her out all the time. And I'm like, hey, like that guy just checked you out. And she's like whatever. And I'm like, no, like people are looking at you all the time because you're beautiful.

So I also want to take her to the nude beach so that she could like see like when you, because most of the most people at new beaches are like old guys. I'm going to nude beach. I know. Yeah, go on. So like she immediately realized that she was getting like so much attention there. And she started to get a little bit more confident in her body and stuff. Because I think she just needed to feel more confident in herself to be able to think about doing something like that. So we went there for like the rest of the summer.

And then towards the middle of the summer, she like started to open up to the idea of talking to a guy. So I ended up finding our first guy on Reddit actually. Now let me ask you this though, because you're into guys too. Are you looking for a buy guy or are you like just looking for any kind of like, you know, threesome? He doesn't have to, you want him just with her or do you want him with her and you? I wanted more of like the threesome. Like I did want the guy to be by at first. Later on in our journey, we found or we tried like just a straight guy.

And it was like a good experience. It was definitely a better experience for her than it was for me. But we were kind of open to both, but it completely. depends on like the chemistry and stuff. Well, so that first time going in, what did you put in there that you were looking for? Buy guy or not by guy? Yeah, we were looking for a by guy at that point. Okay, cool.

Okay, so go on. So we ended up messaging with a bunch of guys, ended up getting like flaked by a few guys, which seems to be like just the story of doing this. Of course. Which is, it's okay. We've like come to terms of about it and we've like found ways to like not like kind of like figure out who's going to flake and who's not going to flake. Yeah.

So we ended up meeting up with this one guy at like a bar in between, like, where the two of us live. We talked a bit, like, we hit it off really good. I was like super into him because he was attractive. She thought he was very attracted to. We had a lot of common interests. So we met up with him. Then we started like sexting a little bit.

And then we actually met up with him another time at a bar. and then at that point she ended up giving him head. We both gave head together. And that was like our first kind of like experience with another person. We just did it in the backseat of his car. Oh my God. How old was the guy yet? How old was the guy?

He was our age at the time. Oh, okay, young guy. He was probably like 22. Wow. He like hooked up with another couple around his age. What an interesting little hookup you all have. Yeah. Yeah.

I don't think. I don't think he was like fully Bopia. I think he was like more vicarious. Yeah. And I kind of like it that way. I prefer more of the focus to be on my fiance than on myself because I really like seeing her get pleasure.

So that's like kind of the main goal of it. So how did she feel that first time? Because she hooked up with the guy or you'd only blew the guy? We just blew the guy. Okay, that was it. Okay, cool. So how did you guys feel both of you afterwards? We like, it was strange because.

Because I think, you know, if I have a really terrible memory, but I think after that, we were both like very, like, that was fun. Like, it was very, like, it was kind of chill. Like, they're, I don't know, we were just kind of like kind of hyped about it that it actually, like, worked out well. Okay. Go on. She was still a bit hesitant.

Like, I remember, like, more on the, like, when we started to get closer to home, she was a little bit more like, oh, like, was that okay? Like, she was definitely, like, trying to reassure me and stuff and, like, feel out, like, how I felt about that situation and stuff. Of course. And I was like, I was there, too. Like, how do you feel about me? Like, it's, I was also blowing him, so.

Right. But girls, we think more than guys, you know what I'm saying? Like, I understand why she was, like, thinking about it. Plus, you're in the back of a car. I mean, it's a little, you know. it's the whole situation's a little seedy not but not in a bad way you know what I mean but like I you know you might question it for a second yeah yeah definitely so we actually after that we plan to actually like fully hook up with him at another date so we ended up setting that up and it was probably like

a few weeks after that we got like an Airbnb and I think I didn't happen in the car again no offense I love car sex okay and I'm like, you know, I miss car sex. I'm old. I don't do it in cars anymore, but I'm like, I'm just hoping that the second time, if you're really going to go all the way, you're not doing it in the car again. Did you guys have any rules going into this? Yeah, which our rule was that we don't talk to the other guy, like outside of the group chat that we have, like, him contacted in. Uh-huh, smart. And then it was all, originally we had a rule of no kissing, which immediately went away

as soon as we started getting into stuff. Yeah, of course. At first, I was like, no kissing because we're not like making love with the person. Like, we're just having sex. And, I mean,

my fiance is just like, she needs kissing, which is completely, like, expected. So that just like, dissolved as soon as we started getting into it. Okay, cool. So how was that full hookup with the guy? It was interesting because, like,

it was really good. The interesting part of it was that, like, I would say 15 minutes into actually getting into it. My fiance got her period. Oh, wow. So I was like, oh, man, but we actually ended up keep, like, we kept on going for like four hours. Right. Guys don't care. A lot of guys. Most guys don't care. I did it. I think I have to rerun that poll on my Patreon because most guys that I know never really cared, but some guys actually do. But you and the guy were like, who cares? Let's keep going. Yeah. We paid for an Airbnb. Like we're going to we're going to get it done. Yeah. You have all your dreams coming true. Yeah. We were super super nervous that first time though. Like obviously we haven't like done anything like that before. So

We ended up playing like a game of like strip poker to like break the ice and like kind of force us to you know like get things started. But yeah, I mean we were at it for like four hours. We kind of jumped right into it. Like as soon as we started like stripping like Brie started like giving him head. And then like very soon after that we just went straight into the bedroom and started like from both end and all.

sorts of positions. Yeah, we just like pulled all the stops out. Right. And how did you both feel after that experience? We definitely had like a lot of, a lot to talk about because it was, you know, first experience, definitely like a lot of emotions. Luckily we planned like a day. What kind of emotions?

On your end mostly. Because I, you know, like I always like to hear about the guy's feelings because I think, you know, a lot of guys are listening and it's. interesting to hear about like what this would bring up for a guy. Yeah. Honestly, it was super weird because I wasn't like jealous about him fucking her. I was jealous because like we had talked like for like two other dates before this point. And somehow like there was actually like there was a mutual friend between my ex and or between my,

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But then she was also feeling like those like emotions of like she felt bad for, you know, doing nothing wrong. Right. She felt bad that you felt bad and now and you know what she probably felt too like fuck like you know like this wasn't supposed to happen and now it did and what if I fucked everything up. You know what I mean? Like it's a it's a scary thing to feeling to have right, especially because you both, you can't, you're human beings, you can't help how you're going to feel, especially doing something that you've never done before, right? You could think about it all you want in your head, you know, but when it actually happens, you know, but the key to all of this is that regardless of how you feel or what happens, you're able to sort of talk through it and work through,

which are you guys obviously, were able to do that. So she's like talking to you and now she feels bad that she made you feel bad, right? And how did you guys get past it? we honestly we just kept talking about it like we we planned a date afterwards so that we could like have some us time afterwards like really get to talk about everything so i mean it probably took like a few hours of us just like talking and walking around in the city but you know after we've really like flushed everything out i would say it just took like we're not the type of we don't really fight with each other like if had like disagreements and stuff like that but we always talk it out right That's your guy's way of fighting.

That's your confrontation. Yeah. Right. Yeah. And we're very good at communicating with each other. We hate being mad at each other. So this was just like, it was kind of just like another thing. Right.

And you're going to talk until you get to the point where it's resolved. That's the way you both are. That's what you need to do. Yeah. Which is great that you're on that same page. Because some people, everyone rolls differently and that sometimes is a big problem in relationships, right? And you got to like sort of respect everybody's way of being, right?

Some people aren't like you and your girl in that they want to just talk and talk until they're done. Maybe some people want to think about it, keep it to themselves, take a minute, you know, think about it before they talk, right? Like everyone's different and you have to respect everyone's ways, but it's great that you're both that way. It's the quickest way to solve the problem. I'm more like you, you know, but I know there's plenty of people that aren't like that, you know what I'm saying?

And you have to respect that too. So you guys got past it through talking. Was it mostly your bad feelings and her feeling bad for you? Did she have any weird feelings about it? besides your weird feelings? No, she just kind of caught my vibe and then that was her weird, like weird feelings. Yeah, that makes, okay. But yeah, she didn't have anything weird.

So now you have, I know you have like seven other experiences or something like that. I mean, you do you move on from this guy? Do you meet other guys? Like, do you continue to see this guy? Like, what do you do next, I guess? Just go chronological. Yeah, so we don't really like bouncing around, but we've kind of been forced to. Because we wanted to see this guy again, but he kind of just like fell off the face of earth.

He might have gotten like a girlfriend or something. No big deal. Yeah, who knows? So after that, we were like, okay, let's try a couple this time. So we found a couple off of a like threesome dating app called Three Fun. Yeah, I've heard of that one. Uh-huh. And so we met up with them at like a restaurant.

How old were they? They were also our age. We would try and find people like around our age just because it's easier to. I'm just saying like 30 years ago it would be really hard to find a bunch of 24 year olds on a swinger site. You know what I mean? It was typically like, Oh, it's still very difficult.

Oh, it is? Okay, that's what I thought. Okay. Yeah. We usually get hit up by people like older than us. Yeah, I would think so. Right. So you found though a couple your age.

And what were, was that guy by? No, the guy was straight. The girl was by. Okay. This was a bad experience. I like bad experiences. I like stories that have gone wrong too.

I think that those are interesting as well. Let's hear it. Yeah. So we met up with them Like the guy was great Like I He sounded like a lot of fun His girl like was not really talking at all

And I got this like strange vibe That like maybe she didn't want to be there And So we ended up talking for a little while It was just we usually just do drinks With whoever we're gonna meet up with And then after that we'll do something Just to like kind of vet people out and stuff

So we talked and then when we went to go we rented another Airbnb. We decided we wanted to hook up with them. And a day, I think it was either a day before or like the morning of the guy messaged in our group chat. He was like, okay, so like my girlfriend is actually not going to play with your boyfriend. And we had already previously said it was going to be like a full swap situation. So like he pulled her out of the situation like the day before. Maybe the wife did. I mean, you don't know that it was. him you know i'm saying yeah it could have been either but he's he's the one that like uh communicated yeah so we're like okay like we already have a booked like we'll have fun either way who's gonna hook up with who then just you with the wife yeah that's where it got a little strange because we originally went into this thinking that it was gonna be full swap like we were yeah we were gonna full swap like we would fuck our partners and then we'd swap and fuck the others and then maybe the girls would play if they wanted to

And the morning of he said, like, okay, my girlfriend doesn't want to fuck you. Right. As well? Okay. Yeah. So then it was basically going to be like my. Wait, before he can't be with her. Now the girl doesn't want to be with you?

No, I was always okay with my fiance being with. Didn't he first say, wasn't the first thing that he said like I'm not going to sleep with your girl? No. It was always my, you can't sleep with my wife. Yeah, that. Okay, go on. All right, go on. Yeah, so he decided that the day before.

And I was like, okay, we already rented the place. I feel like we should have maybe flush this out a little bit sooner, but like we'll make do. Yeah. And that like left a little bit of a weird taste in the mouth because I was like, and we had talked for probably like a month before this. So like why change all like the day before? Yeah, it's unfortunate. But it could happen. yeah so we they were like they were I think it was their first time actually doing something with a couple

so it was your first time too news flash yeah that's that's true but it was the first time doing like it was their first time with like with each other doing anything with anybody so we pulled our card from the first time we did anything uh the whole like strip poker thing and it was just odd the whole time. The guy was like really pounding on my girlfriend and her, yeah, my girlfriend at the time

and like it was hurting her and he wasn't, he wasn't really listening to her and the other girl was just like completely disconnected. Like it almost felt like she was forced to be there or something. She probably was. That's why she backed out last minute by the way. This is all him driving

the whole thing. This is like a couple that shouldn't be doing what they're doing. Yeah. So it didn't really last very long. They ended up leaving like probably an hour after we started doing anything. Oh, my God. And we just like came out of that situation. We were like, okay, like we're not talking to those people again. That was like super odd.

Yeah. Yeah, there's plenty of people out there like that. That's why a lot of couples wind up taking on one of their rules becomes like, let's not be with newbies. And it's sad because there's plenty of great newbies out there. But, you know, there's also those kinds of newbies where it's obvious the girl got dragged along wasn't into it. That's why she switched up last minute. They probably got in a big fight and

he said the only way she's letting him go, she doesn't have to fuck you. So he said yes. And then he's jack hammering your girl. He doesn't even listen because he doesn't listen to his wife either. You know what I'm saying? Like those are just people that shouldn't be swinging. Yeah. I felt bad from a girl and I was just like, I

like, I don't know. It was just not good. Yeah, no way. Okay, so go on. So after that, we we started looking for a new Like at this point me and my fiance really wanted to like we wanted to try like we had a good experience with the single guy We wanted to have a good experience with a couple just to see like what we like more

And so we ended up finding another couple on I think that time it was Reddit They were actually an older couple this time because we were having so much trouble finding somebody like our own age We ended up meeting them for drinks like we usually do they were like the sweetest people we have met so far like we had a great time with them uh when we set up to actually like fuck it took a while to really like get into which i was kind of uh i was kind of not expecting that because the the girl and the guy they were both like only fans people so i and they'd had like a lot of experience but it took a while to get into it uh it was a great time I had more like buy play that time.

Like I hadn't kissed a guy before and I actually kissed this guy, which was very interesting. I didn't like how he kissed, but the experience was definitely, like, fun for me either way. Interesting. Okay. It just ended up being that we weren't like super attracted to them physically, which was like, so it felt so bad because I was like, damn, like, these people are great, but like we're just not, you know, it's just not working. Right. I had a lot of, like, I had a bit of performance anxiety at that point, too. And I was like, I feel like I'm not doing my job. She's not really enjoying being with him, but we like them as people.

So we kind of just kept them as, like, friends after that. And I actually, I still, like, text the, uh, the, the, the boyfriend, like, pretty, like, kind of regular, like, every other month or so. Yeah. So we were like, okay, we're having, like, not the best luck with couples. right now. And I think we had a, so we went back to trying single guys. So we found another bisexual guy. He was actually younger than us. He was like 21 at that point. My fiance was like 24 and I was 23. That was like not the best experience either. We wanted to try like somebody being

more dominant towards the both of us like kind of taking charge. Yeah. And we ended up bringing this paddle that we had gotten and it has like these like grooves in it like it almost looks like a tire but it's but it's hard and then there's a smooth side so we've been using the smooth side and like here like use this paddle on us this is like well we're getting into it and it hurt like hell and he was hitting the both of us and this guy accidentally like grazed my balls and that was like a killer for me like he hit my balls like full force with this paddle oh my god by accident obviously but did that ruin your whole night uh it didn't ruin my whole my whole night but it was definitely like i needed to take a little breather yeah i can't imagine i mean i can't

imagine i don't have balls but i you know if it happened to my tit it would be maybe the same thing yeah yeah probably yeah but yeah you could tell like you that that guy was definitely like a little bit more inexperienced. He's 21. You guys are older. Like, you know, I don't know how you thought this 21 year old was going to come in and dom the both, you know, older people. You know, I think that that's, listen, you're going to find some real cocky fucking 21 year olds. I will be able to do it. But the average person is not going to walk into room with like two people versus one and, you know, older than him and just fucking be the dom, you know? It's too young. Yeah. I think we were like, we were trying a trues between basically like somebody like that's five years like older than us or like a few years

younger than us. Yeah. And we're like, oh, I don't know. You know. Because like personally, I don't care about age as much. Of course. Yeah. It doesn't mean anything. Yeah. Yeah. But like my fiance definitely does care a little bit more about age. So it's, you know, we stick to that. Yeah. Okay. Cool. So any good experiences though after all these bad ones? I like the bad stories though. They're kind of funny. They're interesting. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. We, we. We had a most, like, we had an experience just a few weeks ago with a guy. That was a great experience. Was he a by guy?

Was he a by far? Yeah, he was. Okay, cool. Where did you meet him? We met him off Reddit, I believe. Okay. And he was just like a super nice, chill guy. We definitely like, like, more dominant guys to join us because in the, with a guy, for me,

I like being more submissive, so it works out a little bit better. Uh-huh. And he was just a great guy. he fucked really good my fiance is super attracted was super attracted to him we had like really good chemistry in the bedroom honestly just had like a great time and we're definitely gonna what did you do with him i gave him head uh like do you top or bottom do you go that far with guys or no i have but usually i like to build up a little bit more of like a rapport with them have you ever topped or bottom anybody I have only bottomed before.

I'm not really that first experience. Right. Was it that first experience that you said you had when you were younger before your relationship with her? Yeah. Yeah. It was, I think I have to have more of trust in the guy because that first experience was not good. Right. And it was like, not necessarily, it was a little bit scarring.

Yeah, same for a lot of girls when a guy tries to top them. Same shit. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. If you want a $3,000 a month payday for life, what would you feel free to do? Maybe take a long weekend, every weekend, or try a bunch of new hobbies. Would you feel free to upgrade and listen ad-free?

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If it's the same guy, once you get to know somebody well, you'll get to that point. And you'd like to do it. You'd like to try it. Yeah. And actually, the first guy that we ever met up with, I tried to bought him for him, but he would just like stuck it in too fast, too dry and not good. Oh, God. Oh, my God.

Yeah. That's a girl's story too. All right. So, all right. So this guy that you saw, so your girl was attracted to him. You were attracted to him? Yeah, I thought, I'm usually more attracted to, like, the personality and, like, the vibe of guys than, like, their look, I guess.

Yeah. And this guy had a, like, he was, he was great. When did your girl, what girl made your girl realize she was into women? And did she have any experiences with that, I guess, was it that one of the couples? Yeah. She played around a little bit with that first girl from that first couple. Okay. But she wasn't really like reciprocating or anything.

So I think my fiance got interesting. She was like, okay, I could be into this, but maybe like with the right girl. Right, with a girl that's interested in it too. Yeah. Yeah. And it's funny because she has a one of her best friends is also by. She's in her own relationship. But she used to joke that like they want to like,

like do stuff with each other and I was like, go ahead. How do you know they haven't? Yeah, I guess I don't, but she would have told me for sure. Why, do you think that like, you know, listen, when people just throw things out there, like, do they both kind of say stuff like that? It's, I don't know if you like are super familiar with like how guys joke with each other, but like. No, no, but I mean, sometimes there's something behind the joking.

Like I'm saying if they're both sort of putting it out, not meaning that they're doing it, you know what I mean? But meaning that both of them maybe would be down for it to happen. I'm not saying that them saying it means they're doing it. But if they're both always joking about it, you know, you can make that shit happen. That's what

I think. No, we've talked about it before. I'm like, I'm actually like, I'd be okay. I'd be cool with that. But the problem is she's dating like one of my best friends, like would be a bad idea. No, but I mean, you never thought to do, like, do you have no

interest in sort of or maybe they don't have an interest in like doing a couple swap or hooking up like you know all together uh my fee that would be interesting if my fiancee was actually like attracted to the guy oh right but she's not but she's attracted to the girl does she say that she would be they make jokes about being hooked up i mean do you see an attraction between the two of them uh like them yeah they're definitely attracted to each other for sure yeah yeah so that that's bound to happen one day don't you think do you think that It's because she's dating this guy and maybe he doesn't like maybe, how does he feel about it? He's made, he's also made jokes that it's like okay for them to hook up.

But knowing him, like I know him very personally, he would not be okay with it. That's what I mean. Not everyone thinks I think that like, oh, you know, every guy wants to see their girl with another girl. But that's not necessarily true. Some guys would be jealous of that too and would never want that. You know, I mean, everyone's different. And there's plenty of guys that wouldn't be. down, you know? Yeah. And honestly, like, I don't really like the thought of like my fiance

getting with another girl is like, like, it sounds like super hot, but like it's not something. It's not like, I know a lot of guys are like, oh, like they watch like lesbian porn and stuff like that. Like I don't necessarily, like it's not something I think about that like would turn me on, you know? Yeah. Most of the guys that are into like the hot wiping thing and really love to see their girl get off. They like to see them with a guy. And especially if like like you think about all the things that you're into, you're into penis. says, right? Like you said, like that's a part of the guy that you like, right? Somehow that's attractive to you. And, you know, you like your girl to see her get turned on. So, you know, put a guy with your girl and you watching, like, that's like the perfect experience for you, right?

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That's what I think was most surprising about my show is learning that most, a lot of guys have the fantasy to first see their girl with another guy or to a three-sum with a guy as opposed to a girl where most people would think it's the opposite. I did do a poll. I love doing polls on Patreon. Just get the temperature of like what, you know. And just to see if like more guys wanted the female-female thing than you know, and I thought for sure the guy won't win, but I think that the

female-female won. But let me just tell you, I know for my fucking downloads, okay? I once had a guy on named Franco who he was like, he went unicorn hunting with his wife and they fuck so many girls. He had threesomes, four-s with his wife and everything. And like, my hot-wifing episodes got more downloads than his. And his

story was killer. Okay, I tried to get it into my book. It didn't make it in, but it was like killer. And even my writer was like, oh, who cares? Girl on Girl Threesome, you know, it's like it's whatever. No one's going to care. It's like all the hot-wifing stuff is what people download the most. I got to tell you. Yeah. Yeah, it's definitely been surprising, like, like figuring out that I actually like this was definitely very strange for me. Yeah. And then also figuring out that like it's as big as it is was right. Even more strange. Totally. And now how do you guys feel like, like in this open relationship. Because neither one of you ever had one before.

You know, she was a little hesitant in the beginning. It was something that you were okay with. But now you're really doing it. Like, how does it feel to be in an open relationship with your fiancé? Yeah. It's interesting that you say like open relationship because I know like a lot of other people would view it as like an open relationship. But like for us, it's still closed because we're, it's not like we're doing anything separately. Like we always do this together.

So interesting that you say this because I just said airing tomorrow. I aired on my Patreon already, but Chachi's episode. And he talked about how he was saying I'm not. And I said, are you in an upper relationship? He said, no, he's with a gay man. But then he said, you know, but now we're playing solo. So now we are in an opera relationship. But it turned out that they were out ring three seasons before he started playing solo.

But he didn't take the times that they were together with somebody else as being open. To him, they opened it up when they started playing solo. Like he saw it the same way you did. Do you know what I mean? Right. Yeah. Yeah. Because, I mean, at the end of it, like, this is going to sound like dehumanizing and I don't mean it to sound that way at all.

Yeah. But, like, if I'm, if me and my fiance are having sex and we're like using like a dildo or something as well, like it's not, we're still doing something together. Yeah. So like if we're bringing somebody in, like in a way, like they're a sex toy with emotions. A living breathing sex toy. A sex toy that's warm. Yeah. So that's like, that's kind of how we view it.

But obviously we're not viewing them as objects. Yeah. No, listen, everybody has a way of framing things in their own brains for whatever reason. Like, I'm sorry, but in my mind, you have an open relationship. Open relationship to me is like when you're fucking or being intimate in, you know, with naked bodies with somebody else other than your partners. Even together, like together opening up and being. with other people together to me as an open relationship. But you know, you're not, like I said,

I just heard someone else thinking that it's not that way. And some people might see it that way too. And I think we all frame things differently and we all have our own sort of things. And I could see why you think that way, you know, about it. Though I wonder what the technical term is. But it's okay, you know what I mean? But let me ask you with it.

Whatever the label is of it, like how do you feel though now that you've had human sex toys to play with versus fake sex twice. My point is really like, how has it been that you have this maybe, it's like a very open kind of relationship, considering it compared to your friends and everybody, right? Like you live a very different kind of relationship

than most monogamous people. Like how does it feel doing something that you've never done before with your fiancé and something that she's never done before either and that none of your friends are doing? Honestly, I'm like super, proud of it and very like proud of us because I mean it's opened up like we were very good at communication beforehand but after we started doing this like we like our communication is so

much better and we I feel like we're it's kind of like opened up more avenues for us to understand each other more and I wouldn't say like it's made our relationship like a lot better but it's definitely like allowed us to grow a little bit more interesting and has it made your sex life even better oh for sure right right for sure like we're it doesn't like at this point she could tell me like she wants to try literally anything and we'll try it and same like way vice versa and that's like amazing to be able to feel like you can do whatever you want and your partner's there with you yeah totally i love that what's on your bucket list anything new that you guys want to try like what's your favorite thing to try like what's your favorite thing to try like

what are you really hoping to find? You know, we, I really want to try, and I think she's, my fiancé's definitely interested in it too, but there's like, it's kind of harder to do, I think. We want to try like multiple guys, like either a gang bang or like maybe just another additional guy. So like, two guys are you. I don't know where you draw that line, but. Yeah, I get it.

Yeah. Yeah, I don't know where either, but there's probably out there somewhere. Right. So just more than one. You plus multiple guys and your girl. I think that would be a lot of fun. She originally, when we were talking about this, she was closed off to that idea. But now she's definitely interested in it. We just need to somehow find a way to do that. Because we usually like to have connections with these people first. So we would need to find like another guy that we would probably play with separately and then bring them both together and hope they get that.

along. Yeah, totally. And now, because she does, did recently realize she's like a little bye, is it like, if I was talking to her, would she say she's looking to have an experience with a woman, or is that not that high up on her list? I would say she's more like bi-curious. So she's not really like, she's definitely not like pushing to have experiences with other women. But like if something came along, like she's definitely interested in it. Right. She's very picky with like men and women. which I take pride in. Yeah. So it's more difficult for her to like find a woman that she actually wants to do anything with.

Yeah. Most girls are more picky than guys. I mean, don't you notice that? Yeah, yeah. She's just open to trying things. Yeah. We actually, we tried to, we were talking to a single girl at one point, but that kind of fizzled out. But yeah, we want to try that too, but it's like not really high on our bucket list.

Yeah. Yeah. Like if it happens, it happens. but whatever. Yeah, interesting. I love your whole story, especially because you're like super young

and just trying this out. And, you know, very specific about certain things that I haven't heard before. Like, I love the way you don't see your relationship as open. I know that was like a very interesting thing to point out and all that kind of good stuff.

So thanks so much for calling in. You know that I do love picks, like for my Patreon. Does your girl know that you're calling in? No, I was actually going to surprise her. Oh, okay. That's,

That's fine. We were talking about, she's, like, really into, like, reading, like, erotica and stuff. Uh-huh. So, we were talking about, like, writing each other erotica, and I was like, oh, I have this call. So, like, maybe I'll send that to her first. Yeah. Okay. She's going to get mad because I called her a bitch for her driving you over.

But one thing I do got to say about her driving you over to break up, what I got to give her credit for was she wasn't down to, like, fuck you while you had another girl. Like, she was, like, no way. You know what I mean. And that's to be commended, right? Like, that's really what that said, you know, is that. the kind of girl she was. She was not going to do that to that other girl, you know, so don't be mad of me, wifey soon to be.

But anyway, she's wonderful. Yeah, so listen, if she wants to send a pick, you know, most of people want to see the picks of the checks right on my page on, you know, you could send a pick after she hears it since you're surprising with her because I don't take picks of anybody unless they're okay with it, right? So you can't send me one before. She knows, right? But if she hears it and she wants to, that's cool.

you're going to get free access. You're going to get free access. You're going to get the link to my private Discord when we hang up. When you get the Caldly thing saying like, thank you for calling in. There'll be a link in there. You can sign up for my Discord and do whatever you want in there. It's super fun. You're going to see a lot of dicks.

Okay. They're all big too. I'm like, what the fuck? I've never seen so many big dicks in my life. We're doing another contest coming up soon. So you want to go in there now. And you could post anything in there you want.

That's where you get to post your own ship. But if you want to send me something for Patreon after your girl listens to this. She can. She's hearing it. now. So if you want to send in a peck, you know, I always say something R-rated like, you know, bikini shot or lingerie, like, but nothing X-rated. But, uh, Discord, you could do whatever. But thanks so much, Ed, for calling in. I love your whole story. Yeah, thank you for having me. Yeah, this was fun. Thanks. I'll, uh, I'll email you when your episode is going to go up, okay?

Okay, sounds great. All right, bye. All right, goodbye. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called strictly anonymous confession, secret sex lies of total strangers. is now available not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show.

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