Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1523 - Anal, Water Sports, GangBangs & More a Q&A w/Billy
Episode Date: July 19, 2026Billy from the Manwhore Podcast called in to answer a bunch of sex questions. Tune in to hear all the details including how long he likes penetration to last, whether he'd choose oral, anal or vaginal... sex if he could only pick one, his all-time favorite sex position (and why you might want to try it), how often he masturbates and what he actually uses, whether he thinks about other people while having sex, what the bases are according to him, what "having sex" actually means, whether he'll sleep with someone on the first date, whether he prefers hand jobs or blow jobs or cares about deep-throating, whether anal feels better than vaginal, whether he's ever played with himself anally and how many guys he thinks secretly have, whether he prefers younger or older women, what body type he's most attracted to, whether he has sensitive nipples, his first water sports experience at a swinger club, whether he's into snowballing and cream pies, the most people he's ever slept with in one day and at one time, his gang bang experience and what went down, whether he's ever been with a guy plus a whole lot more. GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd or Pre-order audiobook version here To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://LoadBoost.com- To get 10% off LOAD BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY https://bluechew.com — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON http://bollandbranch.com/strictlyanon Use code STRICTLYANON for 15% off https://beduc.at/pd2626-anonymous Click here to take the quiz and get your personalized SUMMER roadmap to sexual happiness Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ X https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else: https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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the strictly anonymous podcast on Instagram or Twitter, follow the show at Strict Anonymous. Okay, this is a Sunday
episode so I don't get into everything that I normally get into. I'm just going to get into my
guest. It's a Q&A with Billy from the Manhor podcast. I like to do Q&As with people that are my friends
that I really know because the chemistry is there. I mean, you know that I really know Billy
because literally the minute he gets on with me,
we start going off on each other.
Billy is cool.
Like he could do the hang.
Like we could like yell at each other like for five minutes
and then just go back to being buddies.
He's cool like that.
That's the way I roll.
It doesn't mean anything to me.
He starts talking about something that I think is like really gross
in the beginning when we first get on.
I'm like, shut the fuck up.
So we have that little thing.
But literally after two minutes of that back and forth.
He gives me such a good Q&A.
He just answered questions and like really well.
I don't know.
I was like, wow, Billy gives really good answers.
Okay.
let me tell you. I ask him all different questions. I'll list most of them in the description,
but it's like oral, anal, or penetrative sex. How long does he like to pound somebody? What kind of
bodies are his favorite if he likes younger women, older women, if he's ever snowballed, if he's into
water sports. I ask if his nipples are sensitive. I ask if he ever played with himself
anally. I mean, I really, how many times he masturbates and what he uses. And let me tell you,
what his favorite sex position? There's a lot of answers that you're going to get like, like,
ideas from him, like, because sometimes he answered questions with very interesting
answers that I was like, oh, I feel like you're going to give people like really good ideas
about something to try, right? And that's why, like I said, he gives really good answers,
and you're going to enjoy this episode. I had so much fun doing the Q&As with him. His answers
were good. He's very hardcore. So like at the end, I do, you know, it's snowballing. Is he ever
done cream pies? How many people he's gang banged and or how many people he banged in a day? And then
He talks about his gang banging.
So he's been there, done that, and you get a lot of great stories from him.
It's a super fun episode.
So I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Billy.
This is the strictly anonymous podcast.
Strictly anonymous podcast.
Hey, Billy from the Manhorror podcast.
Welcome back to the strictly anonymous podcast.
How are you today?
You know, this Legionnaire's thing is everyone's got diarrhea in this town these days.
Oh, my God.
First of all, I hate that word, the D word.
I call it the D word.
The D word.
Oh, my God.
Let's not start all.
talking about, yeah, I'm not into body functions. There's a crisis going on for the anal community right now in New York City.
Listen, we're doing a Q&A here. People are suffering. I don't care. People are suffering. First of all, these podcasts live forever. We don't need to remind people of this little time period that happened at some point. Like just so you know if this was, you know, if this was anal sex, no, it's not about anal sex. You're talking about gross bodily functions. Like if this was a Q&A for me and someone said, do you care if your guy like does bodily functions in front of you and shits and for, like I am not into.
any of that stuff.
Like I would prefer a bathroom down the hall from somebody.
I don't want to hear a guy fucking burp or chew loud.
I am so anti any of that shit.
I don't even say the D word, okay?
But if I'm, if I'm having the,
if I'm having the D word,
I can't get fingered in the ass.
Okay, but we're not, but you don't, right?
And like, no, what we've talked about this.
I like ass play.
Great.
That's going to be one of the questions.
But if I've got.
word, I can't indulge.
Billy, please don't ever start one of my podcasts off talking about disgusting things.
It's just current events.
I'm giving people mild woodies here on my show.
I am not grossing them out.
Okay, so let's do a Q&A where I'm going to ask you questions.
Now, I've done Q&As with my podcaster friends and my friends.
That's what I like to do because we have chemistry.
I'm very comfortable talking to you.
And so it's always my favorite people to do Q&As with are people that I know.
you know me we talk off air plenty of times right we've been done a lot of podcasts together i have done a lot of
q and aes with adam you know adam from you know new york we we all we kind of all live around the
same place right so you know him but he's so much older than you that i love to get some of the same
questions but i'm going to do a lot of new ones with you uh but you know listen i could ask the same
you know different people the same questions and i'm going to get totally different answers and
i can't wait to get your answers to some of the questions i have for you so we're going to do a
Q and A, you're going to answer them, and you're pretty hardcore.
So I'm assuming you're going to have some funny stories to go with this.
I mean, you do have your own podcast, man, or a podcast.
It was all about all the people you fucked.
I remember once you told me that you, like, set up some sort of weird thing where you
were, like, getting blow jobs by strangers in a park or some shit like that, or you signed up
to show up with a girl.
Yeah, you did a makeshift glory hole during COVID.
I mean, if people want to know about Billy, go listen to his podcast.
He's been there, done that.
So, you know, these might be really tame questions for you.
I don't know, but let's start. Okay, my first question that I always love to ask people is like,
you know, if you're going to pound a girl, like by the time you get to sex, and I'm assuming that sex is at the end,
okay, like we're ready. You've been doing tons of oral. You've been like making out, you're doing
everything with this girl that you're with, right? And you get to the point where you're going to pound her to,
you know, orgasm. How long do you like to pound somebody? How long do you want that to last?
as long as I can
Right, but how long is long?
20 minutes?
Like, what do you think?
Well, you know, something I know this with myself is I tend to last a consistent amount of time with specific people.
So with some chicks, like, I'm a solid 5 to 10.
Some chicks I can go a half hour.
There's like, I remember dating a few women or hooking up with some women where like, no matter what, I just every time I was in them, it would be a minute or less.
And there was just like nothing I could do about it.
Why was it, do you think?
super wet, were their pussies tighter?
Like, were they, like, where they did?
I mean, my therapist, with one woman, my therapist had the, had the theory that because this
woman would fuck me, but she wouldn't date me and I was falling in love with her.
It was my body's way of saying, fuck you.
I'm going to come quickly because you won't give me the intimacy that I'm looking for.
That was, that was what my, that was what psychoanalyst thought.
Oh my God.
I love, you know, I love the psychoanalyst, like, view of things always.
That's so fucking interesting.
I was thinking it was the opposite that you were so like maybe commitment phobic that because
she wasn't interested in you, you got even more horny for her because she was completely unavailable.
But no, your girl was saying because you were unavailable, you're like, fuck you.
I'm going to come and be done.
Commitmentphobic.
Have you met me?
I love love.
Oh, okay.
Women will not, they don't love me bad.
Well, you know, listen, everyone has that friend that's always like, oh my God, I can't
wait to date someone they never do and they talk about how much they like it.
If you've never had any long-term relationships, then your commitment fell back.
I've had a couple.
I've had some long-term relationships.
Really?
I can't get them to go past two years.
Okay, well, that's enough.
That's what I'm trying to do.
Yeah, that's cool.
Okay, so if you could only have one tonight with the girl of your dreams, like you're,
you're interested in this girl in every way.
She's, you fucked her in every way possible, right?
But tonight, there is a rule, and I'm creating it.
You could only get oral from her, fuck her anally, or have penetrative sex with her.
which would you choose?
And all are on the menu.
You know, she's down for any of it.
Yeah, I'd fuck her in the vagina hole.
Penetration.
No brainer.
It's the number one.
Yeah.
Oh, okay.
I don't think it's the number one for everyone, by the way.
Yeah, it's my favorite hole.
I think the, I think the guys who pick blow jobs don't actually like women.
And the guys who pick anal want women to hurt.
This is why I love to ask.
So they also don't like women.
Yeah, this is why I love.
asking different people different questions because I just I just hear so many different things.
Like it's fascinating. So you think, you know, because listen, I used to think that guys that like
to jizz on, I used to have like this Q&A that I used to do and I would meet people or even my
friends. I'd be like, do you like to jizz on girls' faces and stuff? And I'd always feel like,
they like hated women guys that did that. But I was completely wrong. You know, being degraded has
something to do with that. But you think that if a guy wants to only fuck a girl anal-y, he like
secretly hates them or which is the guy that hates the women to you?
I think the guy who picks the only blow jobs.
Yeah.
He doesn't actually like pussy.
Oh, okay.
Right.
But it doesn't mean he hates them.
He just means he doesn't like them.
And then the guy who only wants to fuck ass, I think he doesn't like women.
Oh, my God.
And then the guy who picks pussy like me is just, you know, I like the cuddle ball.
I don't know.
That's just my favorite of the holes.
It's pretty great.
Yeah.
I would, I would, you know, yeah, it's pretty awesome.
You know, maybe the asshole, if the asshole self-lubricated like a vagina,
maybe we can start to have a debate and discussion.
But, you know, head only lasts for so long.
Jaws only can endure for so long.
Yeah, yeah, you're good.
This is why you have a podcast because you can fucking talk.
And that was a great answer.
I love it.
Okay, what's your favorite position?
Ooh, ooh.
I'm going to, this is up there.
Okay.
I'm going to throw one that no one's talking about.
I don't know what's called.
I think someone called it the Amazonian, but like, okay,
It's kind of like missionary, but it's missionary with the genders reversed.
Bees on top of me.
And the way it works is like she lowers herself onto the dick.
She gets the dick in her, right?
She's got my legs up in the air.
And then she's thrusting as if she's thrusting into me.
No, no, no, wait.
Start that over again.
Are you on your laying on your back?
You're on your back, right?
You're on the butt.
I'm on my back.
I'm on my back.
So it's missionary, but gender's reverse.
Okay.
It's not like cowgirl.
It's like mission.
if I'm getting fucked.
Okay.
So you're laying down.
So my legs are in,
yeah, my legs are up in the air.
She then like gets it.
She gets my cock into her.
Okay. Where are her legs in front of your legs or behind your legs?
He's like she can either be standing like on front, like on next to the bed or she can be like on her knees.
Okay.
In front of me.
But she's got my legs up.
She's got me in her.
But in such an angle as if she, when she's thrusting it looks like she's fucking me.
But she's not.
She's,
she's fucking me into her.
Does that make sense?
Yeah, totally.
I think you're going to make,
I think you're giving people like a great idea to go home and try this position.
It sounds kind of fun.
Yeah.
Once you get it in,
then she can,
and she's pretty much in charge of the whole thing.
Right.
And so unlike,
you know,
cowgirl where she's on top and it's like all on her like knee joints.
Yeah.
This is like her thrusting was hit.
Yeah.
Who brought this up to you?
Did you figure this out?
Did one girl do it for you?
Like, how did you even figure out this position?
I saw, like, a video clip I scrolled by on Reddit once.
I was like, that looks hot.
Yeah.
And then I brought it up with a woman I was madly in love with.
And now I don't know if I can ever do that position again.
But, like, yeah, that was amazing.
I have, like, a video of her doing it to me.
Like, I feel, like, I think she's holding the camera.
And then, like, at some point then she hands me the camera.
So I'm about both angles of her fucking me in that.
this position. And like if you told me I could only like watch one sex video for the rest of my
life, I'd probably pick that one. Oh my God. I love it. You've got great. You're a great answer.
Is that a word? I don't know, but you give good answers. Okay, let me ask you this. How many times
I would say a week do you jerk off? And when you jerk off, do you use your mind or do you use porn?
Ooh, I think it personally depends on how busy I am because I definitely get busy enough that like I'll go
four or five days a week and a half
but that's, you know, if all things are equal...
Let's pretend a regular week.
Yeah, a regular week, not too busy.
Yeah, I mean, like, I get busy pretty frequently.
I don't know if you know this, but I'm kind of like a naked comedy mogul out here.
So, you know, but if I'm not like super busy,
just out there's time to, you know, for example, I was just out of town like on the road.
I can't really jerk off in the accommodations I was given.
But typically I'd say, like, I'd probably jerk off about like five to seven out of the
seven days. Like, I'm not going to be jerking off all day one day, but I probably, um,
about once every day or two. Do you use lube or no lube or spit? Like, does every guy use
loop? I don't really know. I'm not really a spit guy. I'm an adult. I have a, I have a credit
card, right? Spit and shampoo that is for teenagers. Oh, really? I don't make a lot of money,
but I make enough money that I can buy some loop. Uh, it's, I go back and forth between, I
the coconut oil or UberLube.
I really like Uber Lube.
Or any sort of like a silicone-based lube.
I like a silicone-based lube.
Uber Lube just happens to be really slick.
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You're fucking funny.
Okay.
Spank, pink, or porn?
Most of the time I'm just scrolling through Reddit
It's not like I'm not like clicking through
The whole things
What's on Reddit?
Porn?
I'm really saying
What?
You can have porn next to conspiracy theories
Next to updates about what that big
And slogan was in your neighborhood
Like all three things are on the same page
No no no I know what Reddit is
But when you're scrolling for porn
Why Reddit and not Porn Hub if it's the same shit
It's videos right?
Well, I gotta go keep picking videos.
No, I'm just scrolling through a feed of all the, like,
the various foreign subredits I'm, like, subscribed to on there.
And it'll just give me a bunch of things.
And sometimes I might click through and read this text post.
Sometimes I might click through and, like, see some more or enlarge it.
But most of the time, I'm just kind of, like, scrolling through all these, like,
gifts and, you know, videos that are on silent and pictures.
And every once in a while, you know, a text post about, like,
oh, my God, I made out with my cousin.
and ah, you know, and it's, you just go through it.
Okay, I get it.
Okay.
It's a freaky place and it's all free.
And it's also gives me a place where I like sometimes will discover new creators.
So if you want someone new to subscribe to one only fans, but like it's very rare that actually like go to porn hub.
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Yeah, I love that.
I feel like you're giving people so many new ideas because, like, you know,
and I'm projecting as if I'm the listener, you know, me listening to you,
like, you're telling me a lot of things that I would never know.
Like I've never gone to Reddit to jerk off.
You know what I mean?
I always use porn.
So maybe.
Do you still jerk off?
Of course.
What do you think?
Kathy,
how often do you jerk off?
You know,
we've known each other all these years and I don't know this about you.
Yeah,
I'll tell you.
Like,
it could be,
it depends like,
because I'm on hormones,
right?
So sometimes I feel like I get horny like I got horny when I was
younger like or sometimes it's like,
oh my God,
for no reason the wind blows and I'm fucking horny.
And that day I could do three times a day.
Or I could go two weeks without doing it if I'm dealing with
massive stress.
like, you know, lately there's, you know, there's like fucking fires in my life at times, you know,
there have been. And when stuff like that happens, I could go two weeks without even thinking
about sex, like that really affects me. But, you know, because I'm on hormones and when everything
is fine, you know, maybe sometimes, maybe three times a week, I'll always use porn. I used to use my brain
a lot more when I was younger and I always felt like when I would use my mind, it was always better.
But, you know, we are like, I would always be just like lazy and just use porn because it's easier and
faster. And I think I just don't have the time at the end of the day being a mom and everything to,
you know, use my mind. So I always use porn. It's quicker. If I'm in my bed, I almost always
am like at my desk. But if I'm in my bed, like, I don't know, like I just woke up and I haven't
got out of bed yet. And for some reason I want to or if I'm going to bed and for some reason,
I'm like, you know, then it's, then it's my mind because I'm not going to get up and walk across
my laptop. And again, I don't watch porn on my phone. I'm an adult. Like what?
It's a tiny ass screen.
So if I'm in my bed, lying horizontal, I'm using my mind.
If I'm at my desk, then like 95% of the time, it's, well.
Okay.
So now listen, this is a question, not about a girl that you just met.
This is a question of any of these girls you've been with for a year or something,
like eventually over time after you've been with someone for a long time.
Do you think of other people when you're having sex with them?
No.
Or other scenarios.
I mean, you're just thinking about them always, even if you're dating them for two years,
a year. It's not even about
thinking about them. It's like I'm just
I'm looking at, I'm in the moment.
Like, I don't need to think of something
else. I've got the hot thing right
in front of me. Right. Right there.
Okay. Now, there was, after that
one big breakup that like sometimes we've
talked about after her
for like probably a year or so
yeah, like for a couple years
I sometimes would think about
her. But most of the time
like I don't, I tend to not fuck people.
I don't want to be fucking. So I don't
need to usually, like sometimes I think people will start thinking about somebody else because
they realize they're not actually into the person they're in bed with at that moment.
But I just try to forego that by not being in bed with people I don't want to be in at that
moment.
Right.
Like, you know, if I'm at a gang bang and it turns I'm not really into that chick, I don't know,
maybe I'll think of something else.
Also, I look around.
I'm like, oh, I'm at a gang bang.
This is already pretty hot.
Yeah, right.
I get it.
I'm talking about more if it's like you're with someone maybe five or six or seven
years. I think a lot of people do start to tend to think about different scenarios or maybe it's not so much, oh, I'm thinking about Brad Pitt, but I have long term booty calls. I like to fuck the same person a long, long time. You know, it's like easy, like kind of just have that on side. I've had a lot of long term booty calls. And after time, I can't be thinking about them. You know what I mean? It's like, I've been with them. It's not thinking about how. It's like just being in the moment. It's not thinking about them. I'm in the moment. Sometimes you're making up naughty scenario. I'm just telling you about other people. Okay. I get you. I'm just.
This is what other people do, because I've asked other people this question.
This is how I ask.
Something people can do is put themselves in hot scenarios.
Of course.
You know, like instead of thinking about when it be hotter if we were doing this like this,
then go do the thing this like that.
You know what I mean?
Okay.
Then you don't have to fantasize because like you're doing the fantasy.
Yeah.
Most people aren't lone wolves being able to fucking gang bangs and are, you know,
single still at their eight.
You know, a lot of people are in long-term relationships where they're banging the same
person for, you know, 30 years. We're talking about the majority of people. Not you. You're like
the exception. That's why you have a whole podcast. I'm advising people to not do that. I'm advising
them to stop banging the same person for 30 years. Okay. That's good. I love that you have that.
You're giving them that angle. I typically am talking to people like in reality. You know what I mean?
You're giving them a different way. Like leave your partner and go go do some gangbanks.
Okay. What are the bases according to you in your generation? First base, second base, third base,
home fucking run. What are they in now?
Like I know what they were in my day.
I want to know what they are in your day.
Hey, I don't, I can't speak for everyone because as you clearly made out to be, I'm a total freak and individual.
So man, it's my own individual basis, I guess.
No, I would say first one is like making out, you know, like as soon as someone's tongue is in someone's house, we're playing baseball, right?
So first one, first base making out, second base, Sini Pry or yeah, that's probably it.
And then third base is oral, fourth base is fucking and, you know.
Okay.
Do you want to know what the bases were?
There's only four bases in baseball, right?
No, I know.
But you want to know what the bases were when I was growing up.
First base was makeout.
Second base was going up the shirt.
Third base was going down the pants.
So it's fingering or a handjob.
And fourth base is like, fucking you fucked.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Somewhere in between you and me, there was that meatloaf song.
And then the up the shirt thing.
got blended into first bass.
You're right.
Oh, my God.
I love that song.
I love that song.
A great fucking song.
Yeah.
Really teaches you about baseball.
I've been,
my son has the best taste of music for a 10 year old.
And I don't think I've ever turned him on to meatloaf,
but he knows everybody fucking else.
Oh,
it's a great album.
The whole album is great.
The whole album,
we're talking about,
oh, is it bad out of hell?
Bad out of Hell,
yeah.
It's all about,
like teenage sexual angst.
Oh my God.
Yeah, you're right.
Like, that's the whole thing.
Yeah, you're right.
It was so fucking good.
I have to, he knows all the greats and he fucking loves it.
He's literally at his like guitar lesson right now.
And I have to teach him about, I have a never turn around to meet Lleffe and you just reminded
me.
Okay, what does like sex mean to you?
Like if you said, yeah, I had sex with that person last night.
Like, does that mean you fuck them or like would 60, if you 69 them, you'd say sex?
Like, because I feel like a lot of people feel something different about this.
I'm trying to be more expansive.
So if I say sex and I'm talking about, you know, vaginal,
penetration. I try to say PIV to normalize that more things.
No, but if you told me, Kathy, I had sex last night. What does that mean? I'm telling you what I would
do. This is like, this is what I would say. Like, I would say, oh, I had like PIV last night or I
PIV sex. Like, I try not to say sex to mean only this one thing. It's very heteronormative.
And there's like, look, oral sex. Sex is in the name. So why am I not considering that sex?
So if I say sex, it means we've like done something where someone could get an SCB.
Right. So that could mean oral and or penetration, right? You totally can mean oral, right? Yeah, I like that. Yeah. Like, it's like it's inclusive for the queers and all that shit, right? But yeah. Yeah. Sex used to be just BIB. I encourage everyone to be a little more specific. Because if you tell me you had sex last night, come on, give me a visual.
What do you mean? Let me fantasize about this with you. Yeah, yeah. I get it. Okay, good. Yeah. Because I feel like people get that. Everyone, it means, you know, says it means something different. So I think it is.
to be a little bit more specific, right?
Because it does mean something different to so many people.
So and so many people just use it, you know?
And like people will be like, oh yeah, like they had sex and they didn't, you know,
and you didn't call me or, you know, like whatever.
Do you fuck people on the first date?
Do you like to wait?
Do you care?
I have been flow with this.
I most importantly, I try to just like stay in touch with like how I'm feeling.
And am I about the, am I about the escalate?
the PIV because it just feels like what we're doing next or am I like like yeah I definitely
want to do this I try not to fuck somebody unless I'm a at a sex party or B or like some kind of like
like pre-worked out sex event or B if I like I know I want to have sex with this person a second
time if I go eat someone out and I'm like I don't know I'm feeling it I'm like I don't need to go
back. I'm good. But if I fuck somebody, I'd like to know that I was going to probably fuck them
a second time, even if it doesn't work out, you know, whatever. I, so, so I generally try not to
fuck the first time I go home with somebody, but like sometimes I do because I just, I know I'm really
into it. Right. So it depends. Right. But I don't do it like automatically, no. And like,
are you, because like, well, girls are typically, right, a lot of times, like, if we really like someone,
we might not fuck them on purpose
because we like like them, but you meet a guy
and you're like, oh, he's like fucking hot
and I know I'll never date him.
You might be more likely, a woman might be more likely
to fuck that guy the first night because they don't care.
You know what I mean?
Do you feel that way at all?
Like if you meet a girl that you think is like,
you know, relationship material versus one that you know
for sure, I'm never going to date her.
No, that doesn't play.
The only factor that could play in is if I like him on a
first date and it's like one of those things where the sparks are so fucking strong,
there's a very good chance that like I would be more open to fucking that first time.
Yeah.
Yeah, I get it.
No, no, it's I don't parse that out.
I really just try to like stay in touch with my body.
Like what am I actually comfortable doing in that moment?
Sometimes I don't want to fuck that first time because like I'm, I'm maybe I'm nervous.
Maybe I'm really pent up.
Maybe we've been making out and like half sucking each other.
for like three, four hours.
Well, if then she says she wants me to fuck her,
after three hours of buildup,
I don't know how long I'm going to last.
I don't want the first time I fuck you to be like really quick.
So that would be a reason why I wouldn't want to,
even though maybe I do want to,
I would choose not to.
So I really,
for me personally,
I try to stay in touch with a lot of those factors.
Yeah,
I like that because that gives girls like an insight
to maybe why a guy wouldn't,
you know,
but a little bit more insight that she would never think.
You know what I mean?
A girl might never think that a guy is thinking,
that way, you know what I mean, which I think is super interesting. Okay, do you prefer hand jobs or blow jobs?
Depends how they are at each of those. I know. It's hard. Because the hand job could be good,
right? The best flow job is better than the best hand job. However, a great hand job, I think is
easier to come by than a great blow job. I'm obsessed with your answers. Does that make sense? Does that make
sense? Yeah, duh. I just said, I'm obsessed, yes. I'm more likely to come across a great hand job. But if you
gave me the best hand job and the best flow job, the best blow job wins because the best blowjob
involves in part a hand job, right? Yeah, you're right. You're right. There would be,
there's no great blow job that doesn't involve the hand, right? That's the key. Yeah. Man, my landlord
upstairs is hearing all this. It might, so like, you know, there's two sides of the building and
those are all fine and like secretive. But if you're in the middle, if you're in the kitchen,
all three kitchens for all three floors, like you hear literally,
conversation happening. So it's just like direct. It's almost as if like I was talking into a microphone
into upstairs. That's good. So they don't have to listen to your episode because you're given great
answers. I'm obsessed with them. I hope they're learning something. Yeah, they should be. Yeah,
they should be. And I think what you said was like perfection. Like seriously what you just said about
the hand job blowjob that. I feel like so so many guys are listening to be like, oh my God,
I wish I said that. You know what I mean? That would be exactly you express like what so many guys feel.
Okay. Do you give a shit about deep throoting? Like is a deep throat blowjob best?
better than a great blow job?
Not.
Right.
And how come?
I don't care.
Hey,
if you look,
I tend to,
on the first time,
getting a blow job from someone,
I tend to not give too many notes
unless something hurts,
right?
Or if something is like,
you know,
hey,
please don't stop that thing.
But generally speaking,
I'm going to see,
you know,
you ever like go to a restaurant?
Like,
I don't want to give a lot of notes.
I want to see what you do
on your own,
naturally speak.
I just want to see
what your natural style is
with the blowings.
job and then the next time i come back i know be like ooh i wish he had used a little more hand i wish i could
have some cilantro right then i'm going to start giving some feedback yeah but you know first time i'm
i kind of want to let you do your thing i want i want to see what kind of art you do uh so deep throating
i mean look if you throw that in there as part of your your style your rhythm your playlist not going to
stop you but if you're like relying on gagging on me to get me off that's not
going to do it because like you know the most sensitive part of my penis is not the actual top
of the head of my penis right you know it's on the underside i need some suction i need some hand but
so deep throwing can be good it can also be neutral but also i know some people might be deep
throwing because it's hot for them to choke on a dick right so who am i to stop her maybe that's
she's getting off that's why i'm like let me first see how she does it then may and then let's have
the conversation afterwards it be like hey so like
So tell me about it.
Let's deconstruct this blowjob until it's not sexy anymore.
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I love it.
Okay.
Do you, does anal sex feel better than like pussy sex?
Like I always thought, you know, it's a post to do.
But it doesn't.
No.
How come?
No.
for you i think you're so good at explaining explain
alluding to earlier right like the vagina it's self lubricating i also find look i don't not like
anal sex but like i don't fuck people in the ass unless they have told me they like well let's
pretend a girl loves being fucked in her ass no no i know i know i know i know but that's what i'm
getting at is like i don't go for it it's naturally because it's like my third favorite hole it's the
most complicated, there's more work has to be done. Honestly, if I put my cock in someone's ass,
you know, we can't just simply go to other holes. We got like wash up first. Right? Bacteria is a
whole thing. So and there's a lot of prep work. I don't really like eating ass unless like I really
am into this person and they're very clean shaved back there. Like I'm not that into ass that I want to
eat ass. So there's just so much prep work. So almost at almost, almost
every chick I have fucked in the ass has been the type who not only likes being fucked in the
ass but likes it so much or has done it so much that like they don't really need the prep they're
like you can kind of just do it yeah I get it like I mean like grab lube and just do it those are
that's who I fucked in the ass the most is the ones who are the simplest as soon as they're like
I really like it but we we have to work it up and I go like ah you know there's someone in my life
right now who she hasn't done anal in a long time but like liked it back then and wants to do it more
So I know that like when we do that, I'm going to have to do work and like prep her and get it and really like it's going to be like a half hour of anal only foreplay when I and that's and all that half hour of foreplay on her asshole is time I'm spending away from like my favorite place, right? Which is so close by. It's like just all that time I'm spending at the neighbors is time I'm not spending at her place. Yeah, I got it. Where I was where I was where I was where I was where I was.
want to be.
Okay.
Yeah.
But can you explain?
Way better.
All right.
But can I can you explain to me?
And this is, I love everything else that you just talked about.
That was super interesting.
It's tighter.
That's all I want to know.
I like that when I'm inside, I can feel different parts inside you.
Just like when I have fingers, like I can feel when I'm rubbing against your G-stop versus
when I'm just going deep.
And so just even what it feels like inside, it's a little bit more.
I like the ribbing inside better.
I like again that it's slick and smooth
like it has its own lubricant
as opposed to as sex like it's tight
but almost feels like I'm trying to think of like
what I could compare it to where like you're in
and you're locked in
and then you're just kind of moving
so sometimes it doesn't even feel like there's grip
on the inside. Yeah, interesting.
You know? So the grip is just around the sphincter
as opposed to like inside
and when I'm in pussy the tightness is inside.
Interesting. I would have thought it was the opposite.
Mm-hmm.
No, like if someone's really, really tight, yeah, like you can be gripped from the outside with pussy too.
But like most of the grip with pussy is the muscles of the pussy.
Whereas in the muscular, and someone's going to listen and correct my language on this and that's fine.
But just like the thing that's gripping you during anal for the most part is the actual anus.
Whereas in what's gripping you in vaginal sex is the vagina muscle.
Yeah, the pelvic floor probably. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, for sure. Yeah, I love it. Okay.
Do you, have you ever played with your...
Get to college, everyone.
I have a degree.
It's hanging.
It's framed.
I'm looking at it.
NYU.
Spent a lot money for this.
I should do the Q&A.
I did with Adam the other day where we answered questions.
We didn't know the answers.
Like we both had to answer them.
They were like scientific questions that we had a competition.
It was fun.
I'll do one with you in the future.
Okay.
Have you ever played with yourself annually?
Like, have you gone to that area with yourself ever on you?
Yeah.
Yeah.
what kind of question is that what do you mean that's like you're like oh have you ever
no no because so many guys would say no no stop it for you they're lying to you Kathy
I know I know expand expand I love what you expand even if they don't like it they've done it
whether they were a child or an adult they they've they've explored it's like what
don't you think I think so 100% yeah yeah it's the only thing that's changed over the decades is
I've figured out how to be better at it.
I've got some toys.
So you have.
Right.
And you like it and you enjoy it, right?
Yeah.
Yeah.
And I've had women put it.
I've had women put fingers and toys in me.
I put fingers and toys at myself.
Yeah.
So you believe, let's say, because, you know, I never know how to break it down.
Out of 100% of guys out there, 50% of guys and wait till I finish this and then answer
because I can't wait for your answer.
So, you know, I always say like 50% of the guys like totally cop to it.
And then you have 50% that say no fucking way.
How many out of that 50% that say no fucking way are lying?
Do you say 5%?
I used to always be like 50% of those are lying.
90% of the 50% are lying.
Okay, okay, good.
Right.
And 10% have never really gone there because of the stigma.
So 5% of the whole probably actually haven't played around that.
I love it.
Yeah, I think you're probably right.
Don't you think?
And they just don't want to cop to it because like there's still that stupid stigma around
it.
It's so crazy.
Mm-hmm.
Right?
Okay, do you like younger or older women?
Which do you prefer?
Older.
Okay.
How come?
It's just always been older.
It's been older since I was in college.
I would bring home chicks in their late 20s when I was 19.
And I was hooking up with women in their 30s and even 40s when I was in college in my early 20s.
And the only thing that's changing now is like at some point, it's going to not be older.
It's going to be like my age.
Right. At some point that line's going to cross.
Right.
You know, I'm 37. I'm in a sweet spot where like I like someone who knows how to commute.
When I hook up with someone in their 20s, I usually it's better when it's just someone
who already knows their body and they can communicate about their body, communicate about their
wants and needs. Oftentimes, not all the time, plenty of women who are older than me,
where at my age still have their hangups, but oftentimes the older you are as a woman,
if you are someone who enjoys sex or wants to enjoy sex,
you are figuring out or have figured out how to communicate how your body works,
what you like, what you don't like.
And beyond the don't like, you can communicate knows.
A 22-year-old might nervously not say no when they want to say no more so than a 42-year-old
who's like, yeah, I've told men know plenty by this time.
Right, for sure.
They've already found their voice.
Yeah.
Yeah, if someone can't say no in bed, to me, that's not a safe.
person for me to have sex with.
I know. Yeah, of course. Yeah. Yeah, I got it. Especially if you're
going to try. But older, but like I'm not exclusive.
But like I would I would choose the 45 year old version of any of the 25 year old any day
to the week. Okay, when it comes to body, skinny, sporty, curvy BBW.
Face. It's all face. It's like I got, you have a face I can't fuck you.
Oh, interesting. Yeah. You see, look at the people I hook up with. It's, it's all over the place.
It's really just kind of like, do I like your face?
Do I like your smile?
Do you tolerate me?
These are really important.
But it's the face that turns you on the most, not the body.
Absolutely.
Absolutely.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Do you think that's a case for most guys?
I don't know.
I don't speak for most men.
They don't like me very much.
But what do you think?
Did you give you opinion?
I don't know.
I make fun of men.
Guys don't like you?
I think men.
Men are some, I think there are a lot of men who are cosplaying what they think a man is supposed to be.
And they like what they are supposed to like.
So I remember being 22 years old, chick I match with on this app on this like dating site or whatever.
We meet up.
She's like a dom and that's like her thing.
It's the only way she was going to have casual sex.
And so it's okay, I meet up.
I'm only like a couple years older than her.
But really cute face, great smile.
But like big girl, you know, BBW size kind of girl.
And she's been on the podcast a couple times and we've talked about it.
I remember being nervous being out on the dates with her because I was worried what other people were going to think about me.
Because I was in my early 20s and stupid.
Right, right.
But like now like who gets me like?
I mean, Jesus, one of my ex-girlfriends is like a big time like fat model, fat activist type.
somewhat insufferable, but like she makes a lot of women feel more beautiful by being out there
because she's a babe.
Yeah.
Like if you tell me, if I show you a picture of that ex and you think she's ugly, I think you're gay.
Like you don't, you can be like, she's not my type.
I see why she's beautiful.
If you're like, I saw her and she's fat, therefore ugly, I'd be like, you're gay.
Right.
You don't like women because like she got huge fits, huge ass.
Pretty face.
Right. And just come on, man, you know, a lot to grab.
Right. So you're super open.
Yeah. But I was also four more caught up when I was in my early 20s and in college about actually in high school, even though I wasn't getting pussy in high school. But like I still thought about this. I was sometimes worried about who I had a crush on or who people would know I liked.
Of course. Yeah. What do they think about who I like?
Yeah.
As opposed to why do I give a fuck? I like who I like.
Yeah, yeah, of course. Yeah. I totally get that.
of men are so i think a lot of men especially like men with money and they're 50s i think are still
caught up with an element of that they want the model who's 24 and has like the size two and big tits
and like few opinions and i go like that woman sounds like a fucking nightmare that woman sounds like
like what are you going to talk about the only thing she knows well listen just because she
now that's not true but that's not true but that's not true either but i see what your point is but
A 22-year-old who's hot and never had to be anything but hot.
And also, like I said, I also slipped in there, didn't have, like, opinions on stuff.
Okay.
She's like, she likes to read the paper or books.
That's great.
I think these guys in the finance, you know, they don't want someone to talk to.
They want someone who's on their arm.
They want an accessory.
Like, she's a watch.
Yeah.
As opposed to, like, who are they actually getting hard for?
Yeah, I think, man.
Like, Arnold Schwarzenegger, what would that?
I mean, this might be a reference.
that's a little too old for me, but like, wasn't the maid, like, not that going on for someone who's
no, no, I have my whole opinion about that.
Like, listen, I mean, come on.
I was not surprised.
Like, that guy could fuck.
First of all, Arnold Schwarzenegger in his prime was the best looking, hottest guy, top to bottom,
fucking 100 on a scale of one to 10.
Gorgeous.
Like any girl would fuck him.
And he fucked as many women as he wanted, whoever he wanted at all times.
He saw her tits.
And he was like, I need to see those tits.
She had humongous tits.
Yeah.
Yes, that's what it was.
She had the biggest tits you've ever seen.
He just wanted to see those tits.
I just looked up a picture and I'm like,
he could have gotten a different made with the same tits.
It doesn't matter.
He obviously didn't care about the face.
Okay, he wanted to see those tits.
And that just shows that guys are just fucking down.
I remember finding BBW porn in one of my guys' drawers.
And he was like so horrified.
It was almost like he was high.
And I was like, dude, I know that guys.
No, I know, but just let me speak.
I know.
Yeah, but the whole point is like,
there is that stigma, I think, for people to really cop what is.
And BBW porn is like one of the most downloaded porn.
I'm super open.
So I was like, I don't give a shit that you're looking at.
Like, I totally understand that.
I have been there, done that with all kinds of things.
Like, I don't judge people, but I do believe that people do hide
what they're into because of what other people would think 1,000%.
So I think, you know, it's very honest of you to cop to that way that you were like that younger.
It's great that you're not anymore because I do believe like you that men hold on to that forever.
They never let go of that.
You know what I mean?
Yeah.
Yeah, but like, you know, Arnold could have gone a hotter maid first, you know.
Doesn't matter.
He probably had hotter maids, okay?
He had whoever he wanted whenever he wanted his whole fucking life.
Okay, so why not go there?
You don't want to see those big tits.
Okay.
So let's say, oh, okay, here's my last regular question.
I have a little hardcore questions because you've done a lot of hardcore things.
Do you have sensitive nipples?
I did this on my Patreon recently to see
like how many guys really have sensitive nipples
and like them to be like, you know, played with?
Does sensitive mean
likes them to be played with or do you mean sensitive?
No, sensitive means like it's a sexual turn on.
It's sensitive to me like it goes to your dick.
It's very neutral and can be a negative if you go too hard.
So I tell a chick, hey, if playing with my nipples turns you on,
go for it.
But for me, it's a neutral.
So like, don't do it for me.
If you do it, like do it because you want to.
It does nothing for me.
Yeah, all right, cool.
Have you ever engaged in water sports?
And if so, details.
Like, do you, were you the one peeing on them?
Were they peeing on you?
Yeah, the first, I have not been peed on yet.
We still, I'm only 37.
We need to keep a few things on the bucket list, right?
Okay, but you're down is the point.
I get, I get diagnosed with cancer tomorrow.
You know, I might move up the timeline on this.
Knock on, expose.
brick, okay. So I, okay, or real wood, I, I peed on two women. The first time I was at a sex
party and a woman, I'm talking this chick, and it was like an afternoon sex party. I was at
Hacienda and she brings up that she's into water sports and I go like, okay, I think I could do that.
And I actually had to go to one of the guardians. If you don't know, a guardian is someone with
like an armband at a sex party. There's someone like a resource, like if you have
to make a report about somebody, or if you have a question about something, or if you're just
like nervous and kind of talk to somebody, you can go to a guardian. So I went to the guardian to check on
a rule. I was like, hey, what's still, because the hacienda, there was like three bathrooms on the
first floor, there's four bathrooms on the first floor with showers. So I, plus the three
bathrooms in the basement. So I asked when I was like, hey, what's the rule about doing water sports
in one of the showers? And she said, huh, never been asked that before.
Let me go check.
Okay. Interesting.
You know, we've both been going off the end of her a very long time for many years at that point.
Yeah, somehow that never came up.
And she was like, yeah, I think that's fine because you just turn the water on and it washes away.
So yeah, I took this chick into the, we made out.
I took her to the shower and, you know, we stripped her down.
She sucked my dick for a while.
And then at some point, you know, when I was getting close to coming, I stopped and then, you know,
eat on her all over her body and she really liked it and tried to pee a bit in her mouth.
and on her face and on her tits.
And she's like rubbing it all over herself.
And then after I was done peeing,
you know,
she went back to finish flowing me
and then I came on her.
And then we just turned the shower on.
It all rinsed right off.
Interesting.
Okay.
And you're down for the opposite.
And then I just went back in the party.
Yeah.
And then I just went to that,
have a normal party.
But I just talked to other women like I didn't just pee on one.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
But did you, like, I know she was down for it.
Were you into it?
I wasn't not into it.
Okay.
It was like a neutral.
I didn't, I don't know what, like, I don't know what you call a pissing top,
but I don't know what the piss tops, you know, get out of it.
I don't know if there's like a sense of power or anything.
Yeah, I didn't feel that.
I just felt like I'm giving this chick what she wants.
Right.
And that's fun and hot.
Yeah, I get it.
And you're down for it to be the opposite for someone to pee on you eventually.
Yeah, I can see scenarios for it.
Mm-hmm.
Okay.
Yeah.
Have you ever snowballed with a girl?
and explain what snowballing is
I just learned what this was recently
do you know what snowballing is you have you must
of course it's a it's a key clerks reference
okay good okay good anyone seen the 1994
black and white classic comedy
blurks yeah like Kevin Smith
explain what it is
snowballing is when you
come in someone's mouth
and then you have it spit back into your own mouth
during kissing
no it's called snowballing
or like you can pass it back and forth
while making out.
I don't know if I have.
I can't remember.
I'm not against it.
I just,
I can't remember if we've done it
or if it just hasn't happened.
I mean,
I have tasted my own gum.
I just can't remember if I've like technically snowballed.
Okay,
what about cream pies?
Well,
that's just coming in someone.
So yeah.
No, no,
no, no.
It's going down on them after you came in them.
And like,
yeah,
I've gone down on chicks.
I'm not a monster.
She hasn't come yet.
No, no, no, no, no, no.
No, I have to be specific.
Hold on here, okay?
You come in her, okay?
And then you go down on her because you're into, like,
your come then going in your mouth.
It's like reverse snowball from the pussy.
That's, yeah.
Not, that's not why I go down after.
So no.
Yeah.
But I have gone down and like while my cum is there and gone down on someone with my
come like on her pussy.
Right, right.
Okay.
But you're, but you're not in.
Some guys are into.
cream pies. A lot of times it's somebody else's come that they're into like sort of, you know what I mean?
They're into sloppy seconds kind of thing. You know what I'm saying? But like it doesn't
sound like you're into that. How many people, how many are like what's the most amount of people that
you've ever had sex within one day? In one day. Not together because that's going to be my second
one. Not like together in a like it used to be three for a long time. And then I went to a sex party.
Okay.
It was a gang bang themed sex party.
Oh no, you know what?
It is still three because I didn't, you know, I was in line for that fourth chick and I just, I didn't get the, I didn't get in before the timer went off.
Oh, that's a good point.
Well, because like, so the party was gang bang themed with like a sports motif and I thought, wow, you're telling me I can wear my Gino Smith jersey and it's cool.
You're kidding me.
Nice.
Not kidding.
I was like, where was this?
Where was this?
How can wear, yeah, like, when else am I going to, like, wear a Jets jersey and feel like a winner?
Where was this?
What sex club?
Is that Hacienda?
This was maybe two months ago.
Oh, my God.
This was right after it was during whenever the, that Nick series with the 76ers.
I think that was like the quarterfinals of the playoffs.
Yeah, yeah.
It was during that.
And, yeah, it was a gangbain theme party.
So the party, it was going to become a normal sex party.
But the first hour, there was like a competition.
And it was basically like, there were like seven women who all signed up to get gang bang.
They all have their own fluffer, their own person to like, you know, look out for them.
And they were, we were trying to see who could get the most individual penetrators in the one hour.
Wow.
And there was a timer.
They set the timer.
Yeah, one hour timer.
And then the winner got like a trophy.
That got made.
It was like a big penis trophy.
And so, yeah.
So I, now a friend of mine, I was different.
I got special rules, but a friend of mine, she was kind of cheating.
She only let people do, I think it was like five thrusts.
Because she was trying, she didn't want to take up too much time.
She wanted to get as many as possible.
So you've got five thrusts.
I was allowed to do what I want to because like, you know, we've had sex before.
Yeah.
Yeah.
So like I had sex with her.
And I was only the second time I fucked her.
I threw her her first gang bang like six years ago.
And she was blindfolded.
And I didn't fuck.
her but I let her think that I fucked her.
Oh, really?
And she didn't know because she had multiple.
How many guys were at that gang bang that you set up for her?
I think I had eight, seven or eight.
And there's one chick with a strap on, but I think there were seven or eight.
And basically, like, I had her jerk me off a little bit, but she, she, I allowed her.
Because you can't fuck someone who doesn't know you're fucking them.
I don't think that's ethical.
I don't think there's any ethical in letting someone think you fuck them when you did it.
Right, but to this day, she still doesn't know.
Well, then about a year or so ago, we were at a party and she's, this is how she introduces
me to everyone.
If we're at an orgy with some sort of event, she will introduce me.
This is my friend Billy.
He threw me my first gang bang.
Every time.
Can I have her on my show?
I'll see what we can do.
She's in the community.
Okay, great.
So she, she, she, and so then I did say, ha, ha, I didn't fuck you.
But then we finally consummated our friendship on Halloween.
So that was-
Oh, so you had never even fucked her before that.
I was just thinking you didn't fuck her that.
No, no.
We never even, we never fooled around.
She just asked me to throw her a gang day.
Interesting.
And she said,
she just assumed you were going to be one of the people that part,
like, was taking.
I think she just was like,
Billy knows how to do logistics.
Yeah.
And I think it was just that.
Oh, thank you.
So, so I fuck her at this, at this party.
And I didn't come because I want,
to save it, right? Because I wanted to fuck other women at the party. And so I kind of like waited in line.
And then like there was this one chick and then like I started having sex with her. And then I came.
And so whatever. Okay. And then I kind of hung around, did a lap around the house. And then I started
coming back down and fluff so I could try to get another, another shot in. And I started getting
hard again. So I was ready to like go again. And I was like waiting in line for the chick who is next to her.
and just it was it was kind of odd you know the guys were very well behaved you think a party that's
a entering to a lot of solo men is going to be a lot of guys jostling for position and throwing elbows and
be like it's my turn no no no no everyone was so cooperative everyone was trying to be friendly and help
out everyone was like oh no dude you want to go next it's cool you could go it's fine or you you
you're mine to a guy but hey can you toss me a condom or like there's a guy fluffing himself and I'm just trying to reach
underneath and around him without my dick getting too close to his face.
I'm just trying to get the lube.
You know, I'm just like, hey, I'm just getting the lube.
Just watch out.
Like, I saw a better teamwork from this group of like 50 dudes that night than I saw
from the Philadelphia 76ers that entire series.
It was incredible.
But then I just ended up never really getting to get in with that chick.
I actually fucked the second woman a second time.
And then later in the night, there's a woman I've already, you know, I've had sex with
several times in the past.
And before I left, I was getting sleepy, but we were making out.
And he got me all hard.
I don't know.
So it's still just three.
But gosh, it was almost four that night.
It really was.
Yeah.
Well, you're living the dream.
Okay.
That story didn't disappoint.
And that's just one night in your life.
Okay.
Do you take a question?
I have one last question, but this isn't my last question.
But when you were talking about all this, I was just wanting to know.
A 37-year-old guy, can he go to a club at one night and just be able to perform and do
everything that you did without any kind of blue pill?
Or do you take something because that's what most guys do at an event like that?
I don't know.
You tell me.
It depends.
You know,
you have to know your own body,
right?
Like all these like guys in their 20s are again,
the boner pills,
they don't need bonner.
They do not have a reptile dysfunction.
No,
I know.
They're using it to.
They're nervous.
Yeah.
Yeah.
They are nervous.
And they are,
you know,
kind of freaking out.
And so that's why they're getting that when really,
they just need to learn how to
regulate their fucking, you know, sympathetic nervous system.
They need to just do some deep breathing.
They need to relax, you know?
But if you know you're going to a gang bang,
are you going to take a pill just to make sure that you're not going to have any issues at your or?
I think it depends.
And I think it depends how I'm feeling.
But like, yeah, sometimes, uh, sometimes I'll take a pill.
Sometimes not for that gang bang party I did.
But like, I've gone three times in a night at a sex party without any sort of like
in medical intervention.
it just depends on like am I going with a date?
Like if I'm going with a date who like I have seamless awesome fun sex with,
especially if we're not using condoms,
like I don't need to take a pill because that's just going to be a lot simpler, smoother,
easier.
When I'm going to a gang bang party where literally my function is to help out these women
because they just all want to get fucked by as many of them as possible.
You better have a fucking hard on.
You better have a hard on a gang bang.
I know from gangbang girls,
they get really fucking pissed if you show up and you can't get it up.
Last question, Billy.
Have you ever been with a guy?
I don't think I've ever asked you this question.
I'm not attracted to the men, Kathy.
That's just, you know, it's not.
I mean, never got a blow job, never blew a guy.
I'm just asking.
I'm just, it's not my bag.
Okay.
It's all that facial hair and masculinity.
I'm far more into, I'm more easily able to get attracted to a trans woman than a trans man.
Okay.
You know, because even though it's pussy, it's like the hairiest pussy that's pussy.
Like, I go.
Okay.
Yeah.
Okay.
So you, but you would be with a trans woman with a penis.
Would you blow her?
I've been with some trans women.
Okay, good.
That's an interesting answer.
I don't need you to expand on that because I got to wrap it up.
But it's, I love doing Q&A's with you.
I think you give really good answers, by the way, like for real.
You know, and very different than I, that I get from somebody else, but really super
interesting. So I had so much fun
doing this Q&A with you, Billy.
It was fun. Why do you give a shout out to
everything that you do your podcast?
I'll put a link to it in the description.
You also do comedy and you do it fucking naked.
So give shoutouts all of your stuff.
I even do comedy clothes a lot of
time. Isn't that crazy? But
I've been doing this a long time.
No, I've been running a weekly
sex podcast called The Manhor podcast
wherever you listen
to audio. So Spotify,
wherever you listen to Kathy,
off of YouTube. You can find me. Just search Manhorror. That's me. I tell my own stories. I sit down with people
and, you know, I get their stories out there. And then I also run the naked comedy show,
which is exactly what sounds like it's me and a bunch of comedians. And we tell our jokes,
just we tell our jokes without any clothes on. Billy, what about underwear? Well, then it would
be an underwear show. This is a naked comedy show. We do it every month in New York City. The next one is
July 23rd. We do it in Philadelphia a lot. The next one's on August 1st. And I just
just launched Chicago last week, sold out crowds.
So stay tuned for more.
And I am searching for more cities to expand to.
So if you're following me on Instagram,
that's probably the best place to stay updated.
I'm on Instagram.
Do you want me to put your website?
Doesn't have all the dates there too?
Website under construction.
Oh, okay.
Cool.
All right.
So I'll put that.
You just send me whatever link you want in there.
Absolutely.
Okay, awesome.
Thanks, Billy.
Thanks so much for calling.
And this was super fun.
We'll do another one soon.
Great. Bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly
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