Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1525 - Ana Went on HRT, Left Religion & Started Hotwifing

Episode Date: July 21, 2026

Ana went on HRT, left religion and started hotwifing and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when Ana went on to HRT and gave up religion, how horny she got on pellets, the tantric massage that led to her husband copping to being into hotwifing, the first bull they met and exactly what went down, the next guy she hooked up with and what went down with him, their reclaiming sex and why she enjoys it so much, the third guy they hooked up with from my Discord and exactly what went down, how her husband joined in that time and what they did together, the time she played solo, the couple they decided to hook up with and why it wasn’t that great, her first experience with a woman and what went down, the black bull she has who is very well hung and what has gone down with him, their married guy friend she hooked up with when her husband went to sleep, why opening up has made them closer, plus a whole lot more. GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://a.co/d/088QIMkO⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  or Pre-order audiobook version ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To see HOT pics of ANA plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:   ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://LoadBoost.com⁠- To get 10% off LOAD BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY   ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://bollandbranch.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code STRICTLYANON for 15% off ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beduc.at/pd2626-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized SUMMER roadmap to sexual happiness Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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they hooked up with a bunch of them. She talks about all the experiences they've had. They've had many, and they've only been at this for a couple months. They've seen a bunch of bulls. They also hooked up with a couple. She tells that story. Her husband, husband had a good time. She didn't have a good time. That's her bad story that she tells. It's super interesting. They even met a bull to hook up with on my Discord. Okay. So that's a super interesting story. Her husband really likes to watch. He's only joined in once and she talks about that. Most of the time he's watching and sometimes she's playing solo and she talks about that. Recently they hooked up with a friend. That's a whole interesting story. Sometimes she tells her

stories kind of backwards. I don't know. I had to pull out a lot of details from her on this episode, but I got all the details. It's a super interesting story. You're going to love it. You could see Anna and her hubby are over on my Discord. You get into my Discord by joining my Patreon. I send the free link to you if you join my Discord. I have my Patreon. Or if you get my book, Strictly Not in a Miss Confession,

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Hi, Anna. Welcome to Strictly Anonymous Podcast. How are you today? I'm good, good. Good, you're good. So listen, Anna, you and your husband recently opened things up, right? I mean, I don't know how recent it has been, but things changed. How recently did you open things up?

You and your... Okay, we started talking about it in... Let me see. August? Right, because you've done a lot. I mean, it was really like September to this amount of time. It was like a bunch of months, but you've been with a lot of guys and stuff and done a lot in that short amount of time, right? Right, right.

We didn't, like the first experience was at the end of September, but we started talking and doing it. Well, yeah, we're going to get the whole, yeah, we're going to get the whole trajectory, but you still work fucking fast, okay, August to September doing stuff. Yeah, yeah, I went all in. Yeah, you guys definitely didn't play the long game. And I like to have every different kind of story on my show. I mean, you guys are newbies, but you've been there, done that a lot of things in a very short amount of time. You also are newbies that didn't play the long game like a lot of couples, right? Right.

Which is super interesting to me. So let me just ask you, how long have you and your guy been married for, you and your husband? Three years. 33 years. Okay. So, and you've always been monogamous, just been with each other all those years. Either one of you had, like, a lot of people in your past, or did you guys, like, were you? No, we were high school

sweetheart. We both had been with like, you know, one other person. Right. So you've been together almost forever, right? Like Yeah, it's interesting. A lot of couples are like you guys. I mean, and I think those are the, you know, you're more likely going to be successful when you have that

strong of a foundation where you just you know, you're one of those people that I call them the lucky ones. Like you just knew since high school who you wanted to be with for your whole fucking life. I kind of grew up together. I couldn't imagine that. So, all right. So what happen. Okay, so like, let me ask you this. Before, all these 30 years, you know, you guys have been together, has the sex always been great? Like I said recently on an episode,

like there's two kinds of vanilla. Like vanilla, like you guys were having great sex and you guys were open-minded and had fun and all that kind of stuff, but you weren't like, you know, fucking other people yet. And then there's vanilla where like it's not so great. It's missionary. It's no one's really having that much fun. And, you know, it's not that often. Which vanilla were you guys? Okay. We were. be the fun vanilla because we've always had toys. He's always like doing pictures and, you know, like sexy pictures of me. We've done, you know, we've had great sex and we just never had opened it up.

He's wanted to, but he never really talked about it. Right, right. Straight up until recently. Right. Now, okay, we have to add in here. And this is a common thread too. I forgot to mention this in the beginning that you did go on. H.R.T, which a lot of times, like, I mean, it kind of changes the game. Did you, like,

is that what really, like, started things off? Like, because he's holding this stuff in that he's into, right? Was it when you became, like, super horny on H.R.T that he started to cop to things? Yes, it was like this perfect combination of I started the H.R.T. We had just gone through this long process of deconstructing from a super, control religion and the little that we live in. Oh, okay. And you both decided to get away from it at the same time, which is very good because if one person wanted to leave and the other didn't, that would be like, oh, maybe you're

going to go your separate ways. It was, yeah, it was really kind of odd because we were just talking about it on that and we had both been going through this on our own and then we're like, oh, you feel like that too? Oh, yeah, me too. Like it. So yeah, thank God. And then we went to from that. Yeah, I can't imagine not doing that. No, well, that would cause a big risk. Yeah, that's the reason why some people wind up going their separate ways because people wind up feeling differently about certain things and the partner doesn't, you know? And so it's great, though, that, you know, so many years later, you guys

were still on the same page even about that at the same time, right? It's like it is kind of like a perfect storm, right? Yes. Yes. So you decide to give up your religion, right? And then what kind of hormones do you go on? Like, Did you do pellets? Did you do injections? Yes, it's pellets. And I started, it's been like a year. So it was a year, you know, in January.

Mm-hmm. And tell everyone about the pellets. Does they make you immediately horny? Like, what happened? Like, where does your story start there with the pellets? Pretty soon after, actually. Yeah, it didn't take long before that, the horniness kicked in. Right.

Like, that did not. That did not. It was actually pretty soon after. And that's also kind of what. He was like, I can't keep up. Yeah, so tell me this story. So it starts there. So what was going down?

So you're like really horny. Yeah, you keep going. Yes. So then we were, I guess it was maybe in August. He actually, I was going somewhere. He texts me and asked, well, would I be interested in doing like a forehanded massage? I was like, what is that? So he's like me bringing in somebody else.

I love massages, by the way. Like we have a massage table upstairs in our hands. house, that's just a thing. And so I was like, so you mean like, you bring in somebody else that I might not know? And he's like, yeah, which then became talking about a tantric massage, which he had actually heard a couple on one of your podcasts talk about. And so I start, you know, Googling and looking up videos. And I'm like, oh, okay.

So these tantric massages, these people get, and these women get really horny. when they're doing that and often have a happy ending. I said, are you good with that? And he's like, yes, because that's what he's been wanting. And so we thought, well, we'll just, he had heard of the SDC and the SLS sites. And so he was just going to see if we could get somebody off of there that would just want to come do a massage with him, like, with him, like the forehand. and massage thing. We got it.

And so the more we started looking, it kind of just started turning, started talking about it. And he was like, well, would you be interested in just having someone come over and, you know, have sex with them? And he started telling me about like the hot wife thing. Because to be honest, I did not even know that. I had never heard of the term hot wife before. for like I knew of swingers and some lifestyle stuff but not actual that term. Right. Most people have it.

I wouldn't have, I wouldn't know what it was if it wasn't for my show either. Yeah, I just, I was like, what is that? Anyway. Right. So at first he's asked, let me just help you. Okay, because you're like, I don't know if this is how you normally talk, but you're talking very slowly. And like, let me just ask you this.

So like, really what's going on is you first think it's like a, just a massage, but in you're like maybe possibly going forward. Now he's asking you straight up. you have sex with another guy in front of me? And explaining to you that, like, he actually would be turned on by that. Right. And I was, and that, yeah, I was like, okay, which surprised him to death that I was like, okay with it. But I think it was just that, you know, combination of everything I was doing at the time.

Yeah, but let me ask you this. Were you surprised that he was into that? Did you have any questions or were you just, like, so horny from the pellets that you're like, let's fucking do it. I really wasn't that surprised, to be honest, because he's always been, he's not a jealous person at all. And he's always wanted me to dress sexy when we go out. He likes it when other guys look at me. Like, that's always turned him on. So it wasn't like a huge step.

I wasn't that surprised. It wasn't out of character would be the right term. Right. It wasn't out of character. No. Okay. That makes sense. Okay.

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Definitely. Have sex with another guy. That's kind of an interesting move for your husband. It worked. Because he knew you loved massages. He was smart. Yes. And first he actually even had that in the like description of what we were looking for.

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seemed super nice even like called and talked to me so I could hear his voice we met with him this was the end of September. So we met, we went to a hotel in the town he lived in, which was nearby, bigger, bigger city, and met at the bar, had drinks, and then he, he had done this before. So he was, we were the newbies, he was not. So went up to the hotel room. I was super nervous because never done anything like this before, but he was. very good about making me feel, you know, calm. Let me ask you a quick question, though. I'm

going to help you here, okay? What were your, like, going into this experience, was anything not on the table, was anything off the table? Like, was there anything you really want to do? Anything you didn't want to do? Like, did you have, like, conversations about any kind of rules or boundaries going into that experience? Biggest rule was no anal. I was not into that. And, and, And I like giving blow jobs. And so I was like, I'll do that, but don't come in my mouth. Okay. So no swallowing.

Swallow your husband or you just didn't want to swallow him or you just don't like to swallow. I don't like to. Okay. Okay. So you don't swallow anyway. So no swallowing and no anal. But kissing everything else is okay. Right.

Everything else was good. Okay. Cool. Okay. And what does this guy like? Paint the picture. Like, what did you pick? Okay.

I'm white, he's a black guy. Why did you pick this guy? Like, what was it about him? Were you looking for an interracial experience? Like, what, you know, did he have a big dick and you're a size queen? Like, what was the, why pick him? Yes, kind of. And then he was just one of the first ones that kept messaging.

And he just had a, like a very easy personality. like he made me feel comfortable. Yeah, I think that's very important for women. You know what I mean? That makes sense. That was more important to you than like it wasn't just the way he looked. It was the way he made you feel, right? And making you feel comfortable.

Yeah, that's a big thing. I think that makes sense. And I'm, that's very big for me anyway. Like, I have to have a connection. I think most women are like that, don't you think? Guys don't understand that because guys aren't like that. They don't need a fucking connection. But girls do.

Yeah, totally. I do. I need a connection of some sort. Yeah. Okay, so he was like, he just knew, he had game and he knew how to make you feel comfortable, and I think that that's really huge. So you get there, the only thing that's off is no anal. Is your husband going to participate or is he going to sit there and watch? So he was just going to sit and watch type pictures.

We had asked if that was okay, you know, ahead of time. And he was like, oh, yeah, that's fun. Just, you know, send me some. So we did that. He did, you know, video took pictures. we started out just making out kissing that kind of thing

then I'm dressed he started I'm trying to think how it all went down I mean you had sex He was a big oral guy So he did a lot of that

Okay Which I love He's very good at it In fact he's He's the guy still see fairly often. Oh, okay. So he started off going down on you and that's a big thing.

And you like that and he was good at it. But you did wind up having sex with him, correct? Yes, yes. And now did your husband join or he's just watching taking videos? He just, for this one, he just watched and took videos. And how was it for you? Were you able to like relax and get into it? Were you super horny for this guy?

Was the sex really great? Because this is like the first time you're with a new man, your husband's watching. he's videotaping, like, how was it for you? Actually, I was pretty nervous, of course, and he was a lot rougher than what my husband is like. So that was different for me. He did a lot of, like, ass slapping and, like, pulling my hair, stuff that I wasn't used to. That's just not what we do.

Yeah. And so that was different for me. He was kind of rough a little bit, like, with my nipples. he would almost bite them when he was sucking on him. So that was, I have very, very sensitive nipples. So that was kind of like I did not

orgasm or anything, which to be honest, I didn't think I would because I knew I would be so nervous for the first time. Of course, I totally understand. But how about, was that experience good for you?

It was, there was good parts and then there was some parts And I was like, oh, that was just a little match. I don't think I like that. But then there were things that I did like. So I'm like, okay, well. And so since I've seen him a few times since, he's gotten better too.

Yeah, because maybe you communicate it. Yeah, maybe you spoke up and let him know. Yeah. But the first time I didn't want to say anything. Right. So how would he know? Get through this. Listen, the key to good sucks is like, you know, communication, right?

this is a strange guy that has no idea. He likes it rough, you don't. If you don't say stop biting my fucking nipples, like he thinks he might like it. You know, how does he know? So it's like you gotta tell him. Yeah. And so, I mean, listen, you're still seeing him to this day.

So obviously, you know, but I can understand not wanting to speak up or feeling nervous too the first time. So that was your first experience. What happened after that guy? Okay. So then there was another guy that was even a little more local. And he's six, nine.

big guy like got a big cock. I'm little. I'm five feet tall. I'd also been talking to him at the same time. Like we've been texting and stuff. And so it wasn't maybe the next week. We met him, had dinner and drinks. And then he had gotten a hotel room.

So we went to the hotel room, kind of started the same way. Was this another black guy? No, this is a white guy. Okay. This is a white guy, just really, really tall. Yeah, okay. And so went to the hotel room, same, like, started out kissing. He was, he's a little rough.

I guess that's, I don't know, not like the first guy, but he did, like, pick me up, kind of pin me against the wall, fucked me like that and then on the bed and it was a great time I really in fact I also see him too still except now I go to his house

well is your guy watching this time or is he participating yeah the guy he was my husband was watching again okay so it wasn't until the third guy that he joined in okay but the second experience

did you have an orgasm that time no I did not But I did later when I started seeing him. Again. More times. Okay. Yeah. When it was, it was just that, I guess it was just that first time thing.

It's hard for me. Yeah, I got it. Now, how was the reclaiming sex with your husband afterwards? Like, was that where, like, you were? Oh, yes. That's very good. Yes. In fact, with the first guy, as soon as he walked out of the hotel room, I was like, I need you right now.

Right. Yeah. And it was just, it's like a comfort. thing too. I was like, oh my gosh, I just did something completely out of character for me. And I need you because he's kind of my, I mean, he's my safe place. Yeah, that's kind of why they call it reclaiming. Some people find that word offensive, but, you know, it kind of makes sense of what you're saying you like that, that that makes you feel safe again, right, to go back to your partner. Yes, yes. Okay, what happened? What's the third time? Because the third time your husband gets

involved, right? Right. And that guy. was actually my husband found him on Discord he had posted some pictures on Was it on her Discord? On your discord? Oh my God your husband sitting right there

Is he making you nervous? Is he just like fucking watching you And making you nervous? Is that why you're stopping And we're talking so slow because you're looking at him for approval? Because we might have to kick him the fuck out. Well, I have to have him in here

because I have these little Shih Tzu dogs that might start barking and I'll need him to take him out of here. But stop looking at him because I could talk like now it's make sense of why you're talking so slowly and then you're stopping a lot. Like it's because you're looking at him, right? No, no, no, no, but it's because you're looking at him

for approval, right? Oh, probably. Yeah, don't. Walking around in here. Okay, don't. Turn him away from him. But was it from my Discord? Do what?

Was it from my Discord? Yeah, yeah. So this guy's, You're kidding me. He found on your Discord. Oh my God. I'm so excited. My first Discord story.

I know people are hooking up from over there, but like this is like a good one. And actually he knows that I'm going to be doing this. Oh, that's fun. That's awesome. Because he's always on there. Oh, my God. I've probably been with him more than any other guy, which is really weird because he lives in a completely different state, way far away. No, fucking old.

And that's how he found a. guess my husband had said something on one of the pictures about where we lived. Yeah. And his messaging, he's like, hey, I come to this town in that area for work. Like, you know, every three or four weeks. And do you want to say, anyway, so we started talking to him. And I was like, oh, this is super cool. And he's a lot younger.

He's late 30s. Oh, my God. He's going to have to chime in on Discord and say who he is. I want him to raise his hand over on Discord. So we could see the fucking hookups that are going down. Okay, so he goes into town and now, now do you know ahead of time that your guy's going to get involved this time or does it just happen?

Yes. We had kind of talked about it already. Like we had been in a group message, the three of us. Uh-huh. And then I had a message just with him. Okay. But in the message with the three of us, we had discussed that. Yeah.

that he had I wanted to have a spit roast and so I'd never done that before so he was like yeah let's do it you know he was all for it he had had experience with a couple before and so he comes into town so he comes in town same thing went and had a drink and then he has a hotel room of course because he's here working so we go back to his hotel room get a dress make out anyway we see the guy the Discord guy and I start making out and get started. And then my husband comes in and we do the spit roast, which I loved. That was something I'd wanted to do. So it got that fantasy fulfilled.

Yeah. Did you even know what a spit roast was before you started all this nonsense? Oh, no. Never heard of it before. All of a sudden, you go on HRT, now you're spit roasting. Crazy. I have learned a lot of terminology. Yeah.

Okay. Go on. So that was a great experience. And like I said, I still see him. Except now he comes to our house. Like, usually the night he gets here and he'll come here for a while. Wow. How much younger than you is he?

Oh, he's in his early 30s and you're in your 50s, right? Yeah, he's in his late 30s. Right. I'm in my early 50s. And what is his deal? Is he a single guy? Like, what's his? Yeah, he's a single guy.

you know, that's what he says. Yeah, no, that's cool. And then he works all, he lives in another state, but then he travels to a bunch of different states for his work. Yeah. So,

I'm a little just interested in there because he's like one of my listeners and you met him on my Discord, so I'm like curious about him. That's so interesting. Okay, so that was, so how was that first threesome with you? Like, because now you've done it like solo

with your husband watching. Now, you know, you've done spit roasting with him there. Like, do you prefer one or the other? or is it all like super fun for you? It kind of depends on the guy. I love doing the spit roast with this guy because he's he's comfortable with it and he enjoys it. Like he'd done my husband joining in and everything. Like he's good with that.

The other, the second guy that I go solo to his house, he's, and it's probably most guys would probably be this way. But he's way more comfortable. so he's more relaxed it's just a I don't know more it's just it's better when he's when we're alone he's more comfortable when your husband isn't there is what you're saying yeah yeah okay guys let's talk about jiz like seriously has your jiz been looking a little you know underwhelming or do you wish you just had like bigger loads all the time And better orgasms? Well, then you need to check out Load Boost by VB Health.

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Right. So that kind of worked out. So that's how it started is he just dropped me off. Plus, he wanted safety reasons. Of course. Yeah, where the guy lived and all that. And then after that, the next, I don't know, two or three times, I just drove over there. And it was usually like in the afternoon, the guy works from home.

So. But he likes to follow my location when I'm doing that, see where I'm at when I get there. You can see me like walk up to his bedroom So he thinks that's That's hot for him And then I come home And we do the reclaiming And that's every time you see this guy

Okay what happened after that spit roasting experience Have there been more than these three guys? Oh yeah There's been some more Okay Well I've had some I've had good experiences and I've had bad experiences I like to hear the bad ones too.

You don't have to only tell me the good ones because I think they're learning. I can give me the bad experience then. Give me all. Listen, give me both, right? Give me all the rest of them because you still have a half hour, right? So we have plenty of time.

But I definitely like to hear the negative stories too because I think they're always helpful and learning experiences for other people, you know, so why not? It's real life. Yeah, this was a pretty interesting one. So he had been wanting to decide if he wanted to find a couple, which I was all, that's fine. It's just hard to do.

So we find this couple. They come over to our house and we've been talking to them for quite a while, you know, just texting and stuff. And so they come over. We hang out for a while. Wait, and this is a couple? This is a couple, yeah. Okay, so what's going to happen with the couple?

Are you going to be with the woman? Is your husband going to be with her? Yeah. And he's going to be with the wife. Oh, okay. Well, that's important to this story. Okay. So all of a sudden, even though your husband's really into this hot wiping thing, you guys decide, though, you want to do like a full swap too? Like you're into that, you guys?

Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Good to know. At first he wasn't. He was scared. I would not. And I was thinking, oh, I don't think I can handle that, like jealousy or whatever. Yeah. But actually, it doesn't bother me. I mean, I thought, I kind of wanted him to have an experience too. It's like, I'm out here doing all this. He needs to get to have a good experience. Okay, so you decided to start looking for a couple. So that's why we were looking for a couple. Yeah, I wanted him to have the same experience, you know, experiences I was having. Yeah. And he had a good experience with the wife. I did not have a good experience with the husband. So it started off.

We went to two separate bedrooms in our house. He went with the wife, you know, and I went with the husband. And right after we get, well, first thing, he asked me was, how long do you want to do this? Do I need to, like, go take something? I guess, like, you know, keep him hard or whatever. I don't know. Like, I don't have it planned down. I don't know. Yeah. Yeah. And it was already like 1 o'clock in the morning by the time they finally got up there. So I was already tired. Anyway, first, second thing he asked me is we're laying there and naked. He was about to, I guess, eat me out. And then he's like,

I have a question for you. Did you have your children vaginally or by C-section? I'm like, what the fuck? Why is this a question you're asking me? That is so not sexy. And I tell him and he's like, well, this guy's an anatomy teacher and he's kind of obsessed with it. So he's like, well, tells me some anatomy lesson thing. And then he's like, oh, and there's all these different juice spots.

Let me show you where they are. He did not find a single one of them. Poor guy. Yeah. He kept telling me, Thal, he always likes to make sure the woman comes eight times before he does. Never got close. And then he ended up having maybe a two-inch penis. You're kidding.

Maybe that's why he was overcompensating. with all this talk and all this, you finding two spots and stuff, because the sex maybe wasn't going to be the end-all be-all be-all. It was very sad, yeah. And he had told me he had all these, you know, oral skills. So I'm like, okay, well, this is before I'd really seen the penis. So it's like, okay, this should be good and it was not. I don't know if he did Photoshop or what, but the pictures were very deceiving that he had.

You're kidding. On SDC. Do you think maybe he wasn't totally, was he maybe not totally hard? Or did he, it was like it was as hard as a guy? Well, no, he went and took something, you know, to make him hard. Right. But he did tell me this is also a very completely non-sexy thing. He does like the Renfair stuff, the Renaissance Fair stuff.

And he said he had been wearing his kilt. And I guess I don't wear anything under it. And he didn't know. it at the time, but he had a yeast infection, had rubbed the end of his dick raw. And so he has no feeling in the end of his dick. He's telling me this story. Oh, my God.

This poor guy. I mean, he just doesn't know how to compensate for that little penis of his. I mean, like, he's making it worse. He's making it worse. He needs some coaching this poor. I mean, I kind of feel sorry for him because nothing that he's doing makes him like a douchebag. You know what I mean? It just makes

him like he just has no game and he doesn't know what to do. because he's doing everything wrong. But he's not like being mean. You know what I mean? He's just dumb. The fact that he's like, he's just way too much information.

He's like just, you know, and he like I think, you know, a lot of times guys would sometimes overcompensate. Like they are very, he should be really good at oral, right? If like maybe, you know,

and he's talking. But he's not really. He really talked it up. Yeah, and he's not really. So it's just like, oh my God, this poor guy. Like, why doesn't his wife help him out? I mean, come on.

And they only do swaps, so like she can't go on her own. So I feel really bad for her. Well, listen, she could help him out. I mean, first of all, she gets that head too. Why hasn't she told him like up your oral skills? Supposedly, you can find G spots, but he's not finding any. Like, I mean, I think his wife should be giving him like some help here because if he treated you this way, he has to be this way with other swaps. And most of the time with couple swabs, people aren't going into separate rooms.

They're typically playing in the same room together. So there's no way his wife doesn't know all this shit about him. Like, doesn't she tell him to shut the fuck up about your yeast infection and your, you know? I would hope so, but he apparently didn't listen because that's what I had to listen to that. And then it was just super strange, super strange stories, nothing sexy at all. not that I was going to be turned on anyway that yeah listen like I said I mean I don't hear anything like he was being

he was like a douchebag or you know being mean to you but he certainly didn't know how to give you a good time that's for sure oh no not at all so that was a that was a one and done right okay but your husband your husband had fun why did you guys play in separate rooms just space wise like the one room with a massage table and stuff she wanted him to give her a massage. Mm-hmm. And so they did that.

And so we went into the other, like the guest room that, they're like right beside each other. Right. It was just, I guess, logistics. Mm-hmm. But do you come out? Like, I mean, did you like have sex with him and everything and just pretended like you faked an orgasm or something? Like, how did you end things with him?

I did have sex with him. I didn't even fake an orgasm. I just. I just, we just stopped. Did it. And then he was like, well, his wife is bisexual. I'm not.

And so he was like, she would really like to, you know, be with you or whatever. And I was kind of curious, like I thought maybe I might enjoy that. You know, I guess I was, I've been bi-curious. So we go into the room where they're at. And then we had this huge beanbag. So my husband and his wife are on the beanbag. And he comes in and he's like, hey, we're, sorry to bust up your party or whatever. He's like, would y'all like to lay together?

And so I'm laying on the beanbag then with her naked. And I decided I don't think I am by because I did not get turned on. Oh, no. I know. And it was super late at this point. I was just tired. I did not want to try something. So how did you get out of it? I wasn't even sure I wanted to do. So we were like, okay, let's just, you know, go to. They stayed the night. And they just stayed in the guest room. So we were like, let's just go to bed. You know, maybe another time. And they've tried to get with us again. But I just can't do it. I told my husband, I was like, okay, I took one for the team. here. I'm not doing that again. But your husband had a good time with the wife. Yes, he had a great time with her. Right. And I was glad for that. Like, I wanted him to have that. Right. Did you see any other

couple since? That's the only couple we've found. They've had a couple of other ones that we've talked to, but we've never, we have yet to meet up. And I guess that started, we started looking in October, November for a couple. So we haven't been. doing that very long. And it's really, it's just really hard to find them, especially, I guess, maybe our area. I don't know. Listen, there's, the problem is with couples, it's like, it's got to be a four-way attraction on everybody's part.

It's not like you guys just have to be attracted to them, the both of them. They have to also be attracted to you. Right. There's just like so many variables in couple swaps that have to happen. That's a reason why a lot of people start playing solo or, it's separately because a lot of times it's hard like look like you get this couple and your husband and the wife had a great experience but you and the guy didn't you know and a lot of times people do find themselves saying exactly what you said like they're taking one for the team and they just get sick of that

you know so i think it's sometimes it's harder to find but listen it exists you know for sure to find that great couple that you guys like and they like you and you have great sex and the chemistry's there and all that kind of good stuff so you guys haven't taken couples off the table, correct? No, we're still looking for couples. Right. We have like another one that we're supposed to meet up and have dinner with sometime. And then we're going this next week, we're going to one of the clubs in.

Oh, a swingers club? City. And we've never done that. Yeah, we've never done that before. So we're going to try that out and see, you know, if we have better luck doing it that way. And we just kind of wanted it. It's like they have a newbie night. And so we just were curious as to, you know, how these work.

We've never done that. Okay. What other guys have you seen? You did have more. I know that. Yeah, yeah. So there's another one. I'm trying to think of some, let me get my.

So I have had a guy with BBC and he's another guy that travels from another city, comes here for he's like a salesman so he travels around and I've been with him I think three times we met at a hotel and then he's come to our house twice and he's I really like him he's he's got like this just super great personality where he can talk to you about anything you know he's just open and great at sex he's really big do you like that Yeah, I do. Mm-hmm. Did your husband get involved with him?

No, he doesn't with him. How come? He just likes to sit back and watch. Does your husband prefer to sit back and watch? It doesn't sound like he's typically involved that much. I think he does like to watch mainly. He watches videos. Oh, we had another kind of fun experience.

So we have a friend that can. came to visit us. And then we were going to go, his wife was coming in later and we were going to meet her. So after, we've been friends for a long time, my husband had gone on to bed and me and the guy were just sitting here at our bar talking. And he's always been obsessed with my feet. Like he just has a thing for feet. How did you know this?

As your friend, he's just always told you that? Yeah. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. He just, yeah, he's told us. many times. Knowing that you guys are in that lifestyle,

is he a lifestyle friend or just a regular friend? No, no. Never, his wife is not into it at all. He's never done anything. He doesn't know that you guys do this stuff. He does know, yeah, that he's my... But how did he know?

Because you guys told him, how did he know? Yeah, we told him. He would like to do it. His wife's just not. So he's just a good friend of yours that you guys just decided to tell him what you guys were doing. yes yeah we just he's always wanted his wife to do it so I told my husband this for a long time before

he told me and so I told him you know if I'd had after I'd been with somebody I would tell him about it because he likes to hear the story I mean so he yeah he knew he knows all about that anyway so we're he asked well can I kiss you So I, yeah, I guess so. And so he kisses me. We start kind of making out. He wanted, he's always been obsessed with my boobs too. Because they're pretty big.

So he wanted to touch them, play with them, whatever. I was like, okay. I ended up giving him a blow job. Could I just ask you a quick question and I'll get you right back on track? Does his wife know that he's hooking up with you guys? No. Okay. And you are friends with the wife?

Not as much as him. But the wife knows you. Like, I mean, you guys all have to know each other. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay. She ended up flying in and we'd gone out and did some stuff later in the week. Okay, so but she has no idea that you're like banging her husbands. Well, I didn't.

I blow jobs. That's all I did. Okay, but I'm just saying, you know, this is a good friend of yours for a long time and you've never met his wife? Right. I mean, she's flying, but this guy, how long have you know? I don't understand. This is a good friend of your guys. You know him for a long time enough that you know all this stuff, and he's always told

you all this day. But you never met the wife because he lives far away or something, because she comes flying into town. Yeah, he lives in a completely other state. Okay. How do you guys know him? We had, like, messaged and group messages and stuff. And so he had just come to visit. He had been on a trip, a hunting trip, and just decided he was close enough to us that

he would just come. Oh, your husband probably told him that you guys were banging other people and he flew in for that shit. I'm sorry. Pretty much. I mean, come on. Isn't that what was going down? That's why his wife was flying in later, not with him. Yes, that's probably it too.

Okay. His wife, though, has no idea. This was all on our ring camera, so my husband got to watch it later. So tell me what happened. So you didn't even tell me that your husband's not involved in this. He's not involved? No, he had gone to bed. Oh, okay.

He went to bed your husband? Did he go to bed on purpose? Because he didn't want, like, why is he going to bed when he, he knows that, you know, you're going to be banging some guy and he could join in or watch. He didn't really know. We didn't think that this guy would actually. Okay, this is like we're telling the story backwards. Okay.

We're going back. This story is being unraveled backwards, which is fine, you know. But you're not, like, given all the details. So they're coming out. And it's like, you got to go. back and think of the story. Okay, so you have this friend. He is married. He doesn't know. You don't know the like he comes in. Your husband doesn't know. Like, you don't know ahead of time that you're going to be with this guy at all. He's just a regular friend. Yes. Okay. And somehow-

He's been here a couple of days already. Okay. You and your guy hadn't discussed you hooking up with him? No. He told me though. He said, you know, he's probably going to want to play with your feet. You know, he's got that thing about your feet. And we'd already been in our hot tub. a couple of days before and he like had rubbed my feet in the hot tub, that's it. So I thought, okay, that's what he's

going to do. He's going to rub my feet. And that's what he was doing at the bar. And then... Does your husband know he's rubbing your feet? Like, there's all this flirtation going down. There's all this flirtation going down. I mean, that's not what normal vanilla people do, right? Like, this is obviously

like something's going to happen. I don't know. It's confusing. Okay, so you go back to the house and your husband, like, he goes to sleep, not knowing that you're going to go further with this guy. Correct. Okay. And he said when he went to bed, he was like, I'm just going to leave him alone.

Like, he was off for it. Like, he didn't care if that happened. So he gave you the go ahead. You could hook up with him if you want to. Yeah, so I knew he was fine with it. I wasn't concerned about that. Okay. Okay.

So how does he move? make his move and he obviously knew that you guys, he knows that you guys do this so he starts rubbing your feet again at home and then what happened? And then he asked if he could kiss me and I said yes and he

said, is it okay if I don't know if he said touch you or something with your boobs so he he, I had on like a sweatshirt and he just went up my sweatshirt and was playing with boobs and then I don't remember how we I'm trying to think of how we decided to do the

the blow job well I mean you know shit happens so you but you wind up blowing him is what happened you're making out now at this point yeah yeah you know what follows like you know second base third base then blow job you know it's okay like you could get straight to the blow job because that's as yeah that's as far as you got right with him that's as far yeah that's as far yeah that's as far as we went. And then the next morning, he had left to go to the next place they were going to go hang out and pick up his wife. So he left pretty early. I have some questions.

You know, you blow him. He comes. He does nothing for you. Well, I think he was getting nervous. You know. About what? He kept saying about his wife and stuff. Is that why he didn't go further?

Do what? Is that why he didn't go further? I think so. I think so. Because he called me the next day on his way to pick her up and was like, are we, you know, are we good? Is everything okay? Is this, you know, I said, yeah, we're all good. He said, I'm not, you know, she doesn't need to know this.

I said, okay, I'm not telling her. So he felt guilty. Yeah, I think so. Okay. But you felt fine and you were, I mean. mean, were you upset that he didn't do anything for you? Or were you ready to end it? Did he end it?

Yeah, I was ready to end it because I thought that was, I didn't want to do anything more. Because of the wife? You're right. Okay. Yeah, you know, if I'm like, and I don't want to mess up our friendship and all that. You just said you never met her before. This was the first time you were going to meet her. Yeah, I hadn't.

So what friendship are you messing up? Oh, the one was your guy, the guy friend? Do what? What friendship did you not want to mess up? The one between he and I. Oh, okay, because he was getting nervous about his friend. Listen, I know you're not lying, but it sounds, but like, you know, it's funny how I get facts from you and like very, you know, circular backwards, other kinds of ways. Don't worry about it.

Don't worry about it. Don't worry about it. Don't worry about it. Don't worry about it. Oh, I'm getting all the details. You don't have to worry about. That's why I'm here. Yeah, not the friendship with his wife.

Yeah. I didn't want to mess that up. Yeah. I thought, okay, he's getting nervous. He's feeling weird about it. Yeah, that's not hot. Yeah. And then I started feeling weird about it.

And I was like, this. Yeah, and you're not going to be turned on by that shit, you know what I mean? Someone feeling guilty is like, get the fuck out of there. Okay, so, and then, so then when you woke up in the morning the next day, like, did you, did you tell your husband? Did you guys talk? Yeah, he asked, and I told him a little bit, and I knew he would go look at the ring camera, and so I knew it would turn him on to see what happened. Mm-hmm. And it did.

Right. And so that was hot. Have you, do you have plans to ever meet that guy again, or do any? Anything with him again, the friends? Actually, we will see them again. I mean, I don't know about sexually, but we will see him again. No, well, I mean sexually. I'm not, you know.

Oh, no, no, I don't care whether you see. Probably not. Okay. I don't think so. Right, that was the one time thing. So you're going to, so you're on your way to, I'm going to wrap it up. So you're on your way to a swingers club soon, right? You're still on my discord hooking up with people.

You're seeing all these guys you have in rotation, right? How as like, you know, opening up your relationship with your guy change things for you guys. That's my last question. We feel like it's made us closer. I know that sounds strange, and you've probably heard that before, but it's just,

I think you just have to have so much trust. Mm-hmm. And, I mean, it really, it turns him on, it turns me on. It's just been a great experience. I have not had it, except for, for the bad experience with that. Weird guy.

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I have not had any, like, regrets, though. Like, I have it. Yeah, that's great. And listen, I mean, you know, one bad story. You guys done a lot.

You've kind of been there, done that in a short amount of time. I'm very happy that you gave the story for my Discord. You know, people could get into my Discord by joining my Patreon or getting my book. Okay, I'll just give that shout out. My Discord is private. I vet everybody that goes in there. And I vet it so many fucking cool people because I feel like my Discord is full of like really great people and it's like a lot of fun in there and it's so

awesome to me to hear a story that on my show that happened with some you know people that met on my discord you know like I said I know people have been hooking up on there but this is like the actual details of it so whoever you are discord guy like out yourself on discord when this comes out because I'll give you guys access to the guest role channel right so you get your husband could post your picks over there but do me a favor for my Patreon if you could send me some Like R-rated picks for my Patreon, nothing X-rated, but if you want to send me like sexy shots of yourself for Patreon, of course, anonymous, that'd be great. Get them to me sooner than later so I know that I have them, okay? Okay, just like send them to you on. Via email, just the same way you did.

On the email? Yeah, on the email. All right. Thanks, Anna. Thanks so much for calling in and telling your story was super interesting. Thank you. Thanks, Anna. Bye. I. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audio book. It's still not going to be out until August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talked about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story.

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