Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1528 - Alexis is a Hotwife & a Cuckquean

Episode Date: July 23, 2026

Alexis aka Sindywife is a hotwife and a cuckquean and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how her husband started setting up guys for her to hook up with by surprise and exactly what went down, how she set up her first guy as a surprise for him, what turns her on about the hotwife scenario, how and why her husband typically doesn’t get involved, the kinds of guys her husband likes to see her with, how they started going to swingers clubs and what would go down why she got mad during their first full swap experience, their second full swap and exactly what went down, why she calls herself a cuckquean, how and when she realized she enjoys generous men and the gifts she has gotten, the gloryhole experience she set up and how it went, how and why she loves watching her guy with other women, how her husbands ex wife found her Fansly account and how she reacted, the neighborhood guy she sneaks in and bangs and what goes down with him, why she prefers older guys over younger ones plus a whole lot more. REPEAT THURSDAY, originally aired 2/25. You can find her on Fansly @SindyWife GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  or Pre-order audiobook version ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To see HOT pics of my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:   ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://LoadBoost.com⁠- To get 10% off LOAD BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY   ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://bollandbranch.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code STRICTLYANON for 15% off ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beduc.at/pd2626-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized SUMMER roadmap to sexual happiness Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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she talks about how she got that name cindy wife she's a hot wife and she's got a boyfriend that loves i'm not a boyfriend husband that loves her fucking hot wifing and they have a really interesting start to her hot wifing experience she talks about how they met they were both with other people she was in an open marriage. He wasn't, he was in a sexless marriage. They came together and, you know, things got pretty spicy over time. And she talks about how they made the leap into hot wifing. He's very into seeing her get off with other guys. She loves turning him on by doing it. We talk about all, you know, how it all started, all the first guy she was with and then what she started doing for him. She's always doing solo play. He's rarely there. Sometimes he does video for her. Eventually she started

doing some content creating and he does videotape and once in a blue moon he will take part but most of the time she's playing solo she's got a lot of guys she told me at one point towards the end that her guy takes a lot of data and he realized that like and like and he keeps a spreadsheet on everything and she had like 133 guys last year so she's got a lot of quote unquote boyfriend she fucks a lot of guys for her husband they have also got into swinging and she talks about their swinger club experience and hotel takeovers uh they've fooled around with couples she talks about about those experiences and, you know, through those experiences, she has realized she's like a cuck queen. She does also love seeing her guy with other women. And she talks about that journey and how that came

about for them. Because the first time they hooked up with a couple, she didn't like seeing her guy with a girl. And she talks about that. But that changed over time. She talks about that too. She talks about how when she started her Fansley account. She has that. She's got a Twitter. She's super hot. I have like hot pictures over on my Patreon. my Discord. The links to all of her stuff as well will be in the description, but you're going to love her story. So I'm going to get right to be right back on with Alexis, aka Cindy Wife.

This is the strictly anonymous podcast. Strictly Anonymous Podcast. Hi, Cindy Wife. How you doing today? Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast. Thank you. You're Cindy. Well, you're Alexis, right?

That's your fake name. You're also Cindy wife and only fan. Cindy with an S, right? That is correct. You got it. And there's something behind that. It's like where you're from with the Windy City maybe? I don't know.

Yeah. So my husband kind of came up with that. It's Cindy for South Indy, but yes, a lot of people just assume my name is Cindy. Oh, it's not the Windy City. That would be Chicago, right? Oh, it's Cindy. I like that. Yeah.

So we live in Indianapolis, so it is South Indy wife. Yeah. Oh, okay. That makes sense. Okay. So anyway, you are a hot wife and we're going to get your whole story will eventually get to the part where you start content creating for your, you know, as something that you do. Everybody does that nowadays. I'm assuming you were hotwifing

before you started posting or did it all happen at the same time. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, that's what, I mean, it's typically the case. And a lot of times it's like so weird like some of my listeners or will be turned off like, oh, it's a content creator. Like, why don't you have regular people anymore? It's like all regular people. That's what every fucking regular person is a content creator. today. Okay, like welcome to the real world. That's just the way that it is. It's not like 10 years ago. I've been podcasting for over 10 years. So yeah, years ago, nobody was doing it. But a lot of those people that were are now content creating because you can make money off of it. There's not so much of a stigma around it because like everybody's kind of doing it. So even like celebrities, right? So everyone's like jumping on the bandwagon.

And I don't think there's anything wrong with that, you know? Well, and unbeknownst to me. Actually, my husband was posting photos of me before anything. That's like what's. sorted everything in the very beginning. And I was like, oh, I love that. We're going to have to get there. Pictures of me on a, like, and I don't even remember where it was, like, maybe Reddit or like some chat groups. And he was like, uh, maybe.

Yeah. Because he was getting off on guys liking my photos or saying, you're, she's hot or whatever. So, yeah. Sorry, newsflash. That's what I always say to girls. Like, make sure you keep your face out of it or any kind of, um, tattoos that you got. If you did, because most guys, because I have guy friends and if they have gotten a ping to their phone.

with a pick of like the girl they're banging not never like their wives or their girlfriends a lot of times it's not that person but they will be like oh look at thee look what i just got you know what i mean totally show me so i'm sorry you're gonna be passed around so make sure you look good and make sure you're anonymous if you want to keep it up because i do think guys do that and we'll get to that part of the story where you find out so now you are a hot wife now how long have you and your guy been together not just married like the whole time like how old were you when you met him and how long you've been together and then how long ago do you get married so we have been together, gosh, five and a half going on

six years now. We met in a really we met online, but we were both in other relationships, so not a super like a popular thing. But at the time, I had told, no, I was, I was not, I guess he technically was. I had told my husband at the time, you know, that we were trying an open relationship, so he was very

aware of everything. Oh, okay. He was in a relationship where they had had children, they had gotten pregnant right away, but there was, they hadn't had sex in a few years. And they were eventually started sleeping in separate bedrooms. So when I met him, it was supposed to just be for like for fun, for play. And it was, uh, COVID. And I remember we met at a hotel and I left after and he texted and he was like, well, aren't you going to stay? And I'm like, am I supposed to? I thought this was just like a see-a-later thing. Yeah. And so it just kind of evolved into texting and, you know, a relationship. So, and then we've been married just shy of two years.

Yeah, that's what people don't understand. Like, they just think that like, oh, you don't give someone sex. That's just about sex. But, you know, not having sex for many years, you know, creates a lot more problems than just no sex. You know, that guy was obviously looking not just for sex, but for a connection. Like, there were disconnected. Like, there was no more connection.

No more sleeping in the same room, no more sex. Like, that's a lot more than just no fucking sex, right? Yeah. I mean, they were together five years. And he's like, I can count on. two hands how many times we had sex. Yeah, and that ruins the intimate. Where's the intimacy?

Sex is important, not just to get you off, but to create a closeness between a couple. So if you don't have that, like, look, he got fucked by you. He got the sex, right, that he wasn't getting at home. But he wanted more because that, yeah. That's true. Okay. So now you were like separate, you were like in an open marriage. Like when did you guys, how long did you guys fuck and bang and hang out together before

you both left your partners? I left my partner, gosh, almost a year and a half before he left his. So of mine and just was living on my own and it was difficult. I mean, obviously my friends were like, he's never going to leave. You're crazy. What are you doing? And my family thought I was crazy, you know, and eventually he did. He left.

I was kind of shocked. It wasn't easy, though. That transition was very difficult and, you know, trying to blend things together in households and families in real life. and it was a rocky time, but we did eventually kind of figure it out. I sold my house. He got rid of his. We moved in together.

And then that's kind of when the whole hot wifing thing started. Right. But let me ask you a question. You were very brave to tell all your friends and your family that you're like banging a married guy because you know they're just going to like hate your guy and be anti him. Do you know what I mean? A lot of them, yeah. Well, he wasn't married, but I mean, he was, you know, in a committed relationship.

Oh, right, right, exactly. Yeah, but yeah, no, I mean, yeah, it was not a popular opinion by any means. And I think a lot of people like, oh, yeah, you know, he says he's not banging her, but of course he is. And I'm like, no, he really isn't, you know. Yeah, yeah, it just, yeah, it was not popular for sure. And it was, it was difficult because, like, how do you, you know, sometimes you're, you know, you want to talk to your friends about things or your family and they're like, it's kind of hard to support you when you're doing that.

Yeah, once they get a judgment going, they don't let up, right? Even if you're, you don't give a shit. And then, so how long into it did you start copping feelings? for him. Do you remember? Oh gosh, probably like six months, to be honest. I remember at one point I went back and looked at some of our text messages, even like three months in and I was like, I'm keeping you. And he said, I'm okay with that. But of course, neither of us had any clue what it would actually turn into. Yeah, yeah, that's interesting. But he knew you had an open relationship. So he knows you're kind of freaky. I mean, you're like the opposite of the woman he had at home,

right? Yes. And he always says that he does not like good girls. But he married one. Right, exactly, sort of. Yeah. Okay, so you wind up together and you guys are together. Now, how does the hot wifing thing come up? Is it because you already were in a relationship? Like, you guys were open like that about stuff together?

I don't know. Because it's not like you started out vanilla. Yeah. He and I had not been open with other people. Oh, okay. Ever. And so when we were actually out at a bar one night and came home and I had sold my house. and moved. And so I lived in an area where I didn't really know anybody. Yeah. And so we were out and

we had come home. I was sitting on the couch just like on my phone, not really paying attention. And the doorbell rings. And I was like, I had had enough to drink where I was like, that's weird. It's kind of late at night. But again, not thinking much of it. And he, we had like sort of a long hallway from our foyer. And this guy walks in. He's like, hey, babe, someone's here for you. I'm like, for me, I'm super confused. Like, nobody here knows me. And he was like, yeah. And this guy follows behind him. And he's like, you're going to suck. his dick. Wait, this guy that you're with.

Now, are you guys a couple at this point? You're a couple at this point. Yeah, we had just moved in together. Oh, okay. Now, had you ever discussed freaky things? Like, role-played other guys? Nothing? Nope.

This guy's got balls. He brings another guy there. He obviously knows somehow you're going to be into this, though, because some women might be like, what the fuck? Because a lot of women are wired in that they would have to, like, get to know a guy before they just like fuck him. Like, maybe that's not your thing? I don't know.

You know, how does he know you're going to, like, dig this guy that just comes over. So, you know, it's funny, in a way, we are slightly traditional in like, he's the man of the house. Like, I, you know, certainly if I ever was against anything, whether it be in this life or, or outside of it, you know, I would say, hey, I don't, I don't agree with that. Let's talk about it. He's open to that. But, you know, he jokingly will say, you know, I'm the man, what I say goes or whatever. And so he was just like. And it's the truth. Yeah. And, but he's like, I just knew you do it. And he was like, but he also knows that I get nervous about things. Yeah.

He's like, I'm just going to throw your ass into the deep end. And I'm like, okay, so that's what he did. Because I look, I remember looking at him like, are you fucking serious? Am I being punked right now? Like, what's happening? And he looked, and I was like just staring at him. He's like, well, what are you looking at? Get this fucking dick.

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Of course. I've never seen him again. He was very sweet. And but yeah, it was, so that's what happened. So I was just like, all right, got on my knees, sucked his dick. And my husband recorded it. And I was like, that was kind of hot. He was like, that was so hot.

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And I'm like, hey, my husband wants to watch. Apparently he's like, yep, he told me everything ahead of time. And I'm like, okay, so we go up there and he's at work. He puts his headphones in and he's like watching me from work like fucking this dude at the house. And now in between the blow job and this time, had you guys had conversation or like what the fuck's going on here? Or are you just like the type that doesn't ask questions? Because I would have a million questions after I blew that guy if I would actually listen to somebody and do what they said and blow them like. After he left were you like, oh, I didn't know you were like into this?

Like, I mean, were there any kind of conversations before the next guy shows up and it's going to bang you? I mean, I've known he's kind of freaky and he's kind of known I'm freaky. So in that regard, no, but I was also like, you're slightly crazy. And he just, like, laughed. He's like, oh, you're fine. It was enjoyable. You enjoyed it. Like, we're fine.

So I think he just, he knows my boundaries to, in all reality. I think it comes down to just knowing each other really well because he's never put me in a situation where I was like, no, or I don't feel comfortable or anything. So we didn't have a lot of conversation I just was like you're crazy But that was kind of fun Maybe we'll do it again I don't know How old are you guys? Are you guys in your 20s?

No, we're in our 40s Oh my God because I mean I think like people in their 20s Don't think things through That's like the fun The funest part of being in your 20s You know you don't really think a lot You don't mean you just fucking do shit Which is like the best part of being that age

But in 40s I would be thinking way too much Like I can't believe like This is just like happening And you're not even really discussing There's no rules You're like he's down with this, a guy comes over, and now he's like, fuck him, and you're like, okay. Well, I think the questions I did have for him, I was like, doesn't it make you slightly jealous?

He's like, nope, I like watching. And that was weird for me because I didn't like in my mind at the time. I was like, I would never want to watch him with another woman, which is not that way now. But I remember thinking like, you're crazy. There's no way. And looking back, I get it now, but I didn't at the time. Yeah, that's what I'm talking about. Like, it's that kind of stuff that is typically the conversations that people

have like before they get into this because you know who knows it just that's why I was like oh maybe you guys are really young and you're just not thinking but just maybe you guys are like fun 40 year olds that don't think you know what I mean I think that's great I think I overthink everything we have we have these busy jobs and corporate jobs and so it's like sometimes it's nice to just let it go but I remember thinking like the next one I found a guy online and I was like okay I'm going to hook up with this dude and I'm going to record it and send it to him as a surprise but I remember thinking what if he gets pissed like this was a very big big like what if for me and I was like I'm sure he won't but what if he does and I didn't want to like because for me I wasn't necessarily like I mean not that it wasn't and like fun but it was more about doing it because it was turning my husband on not because it was for me per se right and so I like find this guy in line and met him in a parking lot one day like at lunch and blew him in his car and then sent the video to my husband and he was like that was so fucking hot and I was like oh thank God so it just

like kind of just kept growing from there and then it was like a month later he sends me a text he's like hey go to this parking lot and meet this dude and I'm like what and so I end up in the back of this dude's minivan and recording him fucking me from behind and it just like it was like kind of that it just kept evolving in that way let me ask you this because I don't know I think most women are a lot more picky than men, right? So, like, is he just, like, picking you, like, super hot guys and you're down with them? Or, like, you know, I know that you picked the last guy. I mean, what are these guys like that are showing up? Are you, are you not picky? Like, what, like, or does he know your type? Or is he just sending guys that he knows are, like, fucking hot? Because he said the one guy was, like,

super jacked up and everything. Yeah. I mean, I am picky, like, to a point, he's actually way pickier than I am. When it comes to women or men? When it comes to women. Yeah. But like I, he just in general, like he's just very picky. He's like, I'd rather have no sex than not enjoy, you know, than with somebody I don't enjoy it with.

But I, for me, again, it wasn't really about what I was enjoying out of, like, I was getting my enjoyment because he was enjoying it. So. Right. It wasn't about you enjoying the guy. It was more about you knew, like you were hot for it. because you know you're turning your guy on kind of thing. Yes.

And then I would go home after. And then it was like, he'd be like, I'm, you know, I want to eat your pussy after you have that dick in you. And like it was like the turn on piece of it. But he likes black eyes for some reason.

He likes watching me with black eyes. And so that one in the minivan was a black guy. And then same thing. The next one. He was like, he'd go to this dude's apartment. And he was very nice, but he had a much bigger dick than I was used to.

So that was my first like, okay, we need to talk about this. see I can only do so much. It can only take so much. But, you know, he, again, it just, like, the black guy thing really turns him on. So I've had a mixture of all of it. But if I let him pick somebody, he's going to pick, like, a super jacked black dude.

With a big dick. Yes. Isn't it funny how these guys want guys to have bigger dicks than them? It's like the opposite of what you would ever think. I know. It's weird, right? Well, and actually, I'm lucky because my husband is pretty well and now. Yeah.

So I'm like, thank God. But he still likes a guy to be huge. Yeah. Yeah. Yes. Yeah. Yeah, you're lucky you got that. So do you consider yourself a size queen or does it not really matter to you?

It doesn't really matter to me. I mean, at the end of the day, I think like I like them thicker. Like, girth is probably more important to me than anything. That's a typical answer from, that's how most women feel, don't you think? Yeah, I think so. Wouldn't you rather have five or six in thick than like nine inches and thin? Yeah, because I'd like to keep my insides and I just don't feel like, I think it's just a novelty. thing. Yeah, yeah, totally. Okay, so now you're going back and forth. Now, the reclaiming is like that he's like really into it. You're obviously into the compersion of it all, right? That's what they call it like when you're sort of really turned on by turning your partner on, right? Yep. So you could get into these guys because it's like a part of the scenario for your husband. You're thinking like, oh, I'm sending this to him. Like that's what's turning you on, right? Correct. Yeah, that's interesting. Okay. So he, and you're filming a lot of stuff like and you're doing a lot of solo stuff. Does he ever get.

involved, like, and be there, like, and have three-somes with you, or is it always solo play? He actually doesn't really prefer to be involved. I've had him record a few times, like, when we've done content stuff, or I've, like, asked him to be, we were coming back from, I'm jumping a little bit ahead, but we were coming back from a club one weekend, and he's like, I had fallen asleep in the car because he's like a five-hour drive. He's like, hey, when we get home, we need to get changed and get in some lingerie because there's a dude coming over to fuck you. And I was like, what? I was like, it is Sunday. I'm tired. He was like, Like, you know, he's like, it'll be great.

And I'm like, oh, fine. But I was like, only if you're going to like stay in the room and join whatever. And he was like, fine. So he recorded a little, but then he also was like joined in a little bit. But he said for him, he likes to record. And he doesn't really pay attention in the moment because he likes to go back. And he'll edit all my videos for me for, you know, when I do post him online. Yeah.

And he's like, I like watching your face, like when I can pick out certain pieces or I can slow the video down. he's like, that's what's hot to me. Yeah, because he's getting off on your pleasure. I mean, that's what it's always about, really, these hot wife, these guys that are into hot wiping. So, all right, so you're going back and forth. You start also going online and looking for guys too, right? That's where you were at in the, like, chronological order, if we want to keep going from

there. And is that what starts to happen? Like, you also start picking guys for yourself? Do you continue doing that? I only did it a couple times. I just, I honestly kind of preferred for him to pick them. I like to sort of stay out of it, so to speak, because I think part of the hot, I just, I did it a couple of times to surprise him, but in general, I sort of let him pick him.

But then he came to me, it was like, hey, it was looking online. And, well, he had been posting a lot of stuff on Reddit. And just a lot of, yeah, let's get to that part where he's just showing your picks without you knowing or something, whatever. Well, that was actually way before any of this ever started. But he started posting more on Reddit. But it was like we'd get hundreds and hundreds of messages, but it was just like dudes who just wanted to endlessly talk.

And I'm like, this is exhausting. And so he ended up, and I actually told him to, I was recognized in public a couple times. And because at the time he would post my face for a little while and then take it down. I was like, you've got to stop posting my face because I had three people recognized me in public. You're kidding. No, I mean, we started doing Reddit because it was to feed my content creation at the time.

and part of, and I always joke that my husband's kind of like a genius marketer because he's like, I think that part of what these guys think is hot is that you're local. Like they could run into you. And yes, so they did. But they were actually, everybody was very respectful. They never came up to me until after they would send me a message and say like, hey, were you at this restaurant or hey, were you at this golf course? It was true.

And it was true. Oh my God. Yeah. And they were like, you're so much hotter. person. I was like, oh, God. So I just was like, you've got to stop posting my face because that's just, that could just get bad. So we stopped doing that. Okay. So now he's posting you on Reddit. You become now, are you that big on there that, or he's just posting you locally, specifically, so that, so that that's why people found you, right? Yeah, correct. Mm-hmm. Right. Okay. So now people,

so now you go back to being anonymous. Yes. So now it's like lips down. So, just, you know, there's no full face of anything. And then it was, you know, he, we just kind of had like hit a lull, I guess. And just nothing was really exciting anymore because it was kind of the same old, same old. And then he was like, hey, I found these clubs online. And I'm like, what are you talking about? So that was my first, like exposure. I didn't really realize swinger clubs were a thing. Oh, interesting. Yeah. You had said, oh, we're coming home from a club. I was going to ask you if the club, quote unquote, was a swingers club. Yep. And so I sort of. And so I sort of. And so I sort of. And so I sort of, remember going to the first one. And again, I was still so nervous. I remember I thought I was going to

like throw up. And I expected to walk in. There was going to be this massive orgy. And all these women were going to start grabbing my husband and I was going to freak out. And I was like, we made it almost there. And I was like, you know, five hours away. And I was like, we need to turn around. He's like, are you kidding me? But of course, I walked in. It was a gorgeous club. It was great. It was not at all what I had expected. And so we've been doing that lifestyle for about two years, but we don't play with a lot of couples, to be honest. We haven't had a lot of play within the lifestyle because my husband is so picky. But we've met some fantastic people. We've had a lot of fun and just enjoyed it in that way. But it definitely opened my eyes to a lot more and

just kind of what's out there and different kinks and stuff like that. So let me talk me through that Swinger Club experience. Like now you guys are going there. Like I'm assuming at this point, you've never seen your guy with another girl. You did say like that has changed over time. So, you know, I don't know if that's where he fucked another girl or if you guys are just talking about that now. But like going into that first swinger club experience, did you guys have any conversations about like what you were going to do, what you weren't going to do?

Were you going there to look to like hook up with a couple? Or was he just going to want you to see you fuck other guys? Like what was the, what was the conversation? I don't think he had any expect. He's the type of person that has zero expectations ever. It doesn't want to plan anything. And I want to like plan everything. Yeah. And it kind of ruined our first. We did hook up with a couple and not the first time, but I'd say maybe on our like 10th trip. And it kind of ruined it because I like tried to plan everything ahead of time. And he's like, you just took all the sexy out of it. I'm like, I'm so sorry. But for me, I just felt like I was so nervous as to where my boundaries were and I didn't want to like make anybody else feel bad too. I don't want to get into a situation that I wasn't comfortable with and then offend somebody else either. So we had a million conversations about what we're comfortable with. And he's

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Okay. So you would be banging there in front of people. Yeah. Okay. And how was that for you? Do you get off on that or is it just his thing that he gets off on? No, I enjoy that too. Yeah.

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And so it was nice. It was like for us to just get away and do something and try a new club. We've done a few out of states. We haven't done any here in Indiana because we've heard they're horrendous. Oh, really? Yeah. So we always, you know, get a little bit of a weekend away when we go. Now when, so what was your first experience like when you did hook up with a couple?

Do you remember that time? Because you said it took like 10 times before you kind of did something with somebody else. Was it a couple? Was it a full swap? Was it a soft swap? Like what went down when you finally did hook up? Yeah, it was a full swap and it was, they were great. They were good looking.

It was, you know, because it was one of those things, getting my husband to find somebody that he's attracted to do as well. But I just, it was okay. But again, I think I ruined it because I just thought too much about it ahead of time. And I've learned that not planning and not thinking and not really having rules per se, He knows my boundaries deep down and he's not ever crossed the line or done anything that's made me upset. So I'm grateful for that.

And I think that it's just easier to go into stuff. Like, if it happens great, if not, that's great too. And just not having expectations. But what specifically happened that time that wasn't so great? Do you remember what went down that made it not so great? Well, honestly, I was pissed off that he wasn't looking at me. Like he's getting a blowjob and he had his eyes closed. And I was like, hi, I'm over here.

And so afterwards, I'm like, you didn't even look at me. you didn't include me. Like, I wanted to be a part of it. And he was like, I was focused on my blow job. Yeah. And so, but I, because I'm like, this is something we're doing together. And it was, again, it was just me being not, I think I had expectations going into it. So the second time we played with a couple, it was so much better.

And I wasn't worried about it. And I wasn't, you know, it's like I know that my husband loves me. He's not going anywhere. I'm not. It's, it's, first time was just nerve-wracking. but the second time was so much better. Right. And that's what all those conversations are about, you know, because, listen, feelings can come up

and they do come up your human being. Like, it's okay. You know what I mean? That you got a little pissed off. It's your first time. You know, it's very, I mean, it doesn't, like, it shouldn't be a deal breaker. If you're, like, have a good relationship, you could talk yourself through a situation like that, like you said, you know, but the fact that you had feelings is not abnormal,

you know, that that shit comes up. It's the difference between the successful couples is when they bring it up to their partner. Their partner doesn't shut it down. They're like, okay, I totally understand. You know what I mean? Like, whatever. What happened in the next swap? Like, did you see him with another girl and it was just like a turn on? Like there was no problems that time? Yeah, we were at a hotel takeover and we had been talking to this on a couple kind of all weekend. They were both good looking, which was nice because sometimes it's like, that doesn't happen. We're both the husband and the wife are good looking. Yeah, no, that's a problem. Yeah. And they were like, and the wife was just like, do you want to go upstairs and bang? And I was like, yep. And so I don't. So I just like, that doesn't.

just grab my house where I was like we're going upstairs. So I mean, he obviously knew, but, and we started like, you know, we went up to their room and we started in the same room. We ended up kind of going to separate, like, it was like a side by side. It's going just because there wasn't a lot of space more than anything. But we started in the same room and that was where it, that was the first time it clicked for me where I was like, holy shit, this is so hot to watch him. Oh, so that's when you like seeing him with another woman. Yes. And now he tells me to like, He kind of rolls his eyes and laughs at me because now I almost would like to classify myself as like the quote unquote cut clean. Like not being degraded by any means.

But like, you know, we were with another couple recently and I was like beg go eat or pussy. And he was like yes dear. And I was like, oh my God, just like watching it or like watching him stick his dick in her mouth. I was like, oh my God, this is so hot. So I think that second one though was where it kind of clicked over for me where. where my nerves were gone, so to speak, and I could actually, like, enjoy it. Yeah, and you did. And you're, so you kind of have the same thing that your husband has.

I mean, a lot of times you can't call a guy a cuck because they're like, oh, you know, but I use the word cuck very, like, freely. You know, it doesn't need to be, have that degradation, like, or that humiliation thing, right? Like, I call myself a cuck queen, but I don't want to be, like, abused and be humiliated, right? It's just a matter of, like, thinking it's hot to see your partner with another woman. Now, do you ever fool around with the women yourself? Are you into women or you don't go there at all?

Like, what's your deal? I don't. I would not consider myself bisexual, but we always kind of joke that like every woman in the lifestyle claims to be. And I think some do it just because they think their man thinks it's hot. For sure. But for me, I've noticed if I'm in a situation and I'm feeling it and, you know, whatever. So the last experience we had, like there was a little bit of play with her.

But it's not something that I need to. Like, I definitely prefer dick more than anything else. It's not something I need, but if it's just it feels right in the moment and like there's, you know, then yes, I will play a little bit. But I would don't like seek out women specifically on my own. Yeah, no, that's cool. And I always think it's very interesting to, because I think some people would just assume that, oh, you're a cuck queen or and they also think this for the guy sometimes too. Like, oh, are you into guys? That's why you like to see your guy with other guys.

And I don't think that those, I mean, listen, I think sometimes that is the case. but a lot of times it's not. One doesn't have anything to do with the other, right? Right. I agree. So you're just like dick. Yeah, pretty much. And it's like I said, it's been, you know, for me, like we had a guy reach out on Reddit,

you know, kind of before I took all my Reddit sit down and he was like, I want to pay all your bills. And of course you're like, okay, this is a, we've got a scammer here, you know, somebody who's like, give me your bank account information. I'll transfer you money, you know, type situation. but we were kind of like joking about it. And so like some of my hookups, I remember my husband really likes Johnny Walker Blue. And so I was like getting ready to meet somebody.

And I was like, well, I really like generous men. And I really like this Johnny Walker Blue. And he brought me a bottle. And I was like, holy shit. Like that's an expensive bottle of scotch. Yeah. And so then again, my husband like hooks me up with this another dude. Did the same thing.

He's like, hey, I really like Johnny Walker Blue. and this dude brings a bottle. And I'm like, oh, my God, we've got like, you know, a thousand dollars at this point now of Johnny Walker Blue. Like this is, I was like, I want a gift for myself. Yeah. So then it started turning into that where I was like, well, I like generous men. And I've gotten some great handbags.

I've gotten some good stuff. And then it kind of has turned into like, okay, well, I like generous men and leaving it open ended and the good ones have figured out that I like cash. So why not buy me a cup of coffee Yeah you know it's funny sometimes I do I'll get like I'll get a Venmo and it's like and it'll say Starbucks you know I'm like oh thank you Yeah yeah but no that there's that website buy me a cup of coffee where like that's really what it's about like throw somebody like a tip Just to kind of say thank you or whatever right for it is a place but oh that's you know there is something and you know there's the extreme end of guys that like that they're called like pay pay pigs. They just like want to give women shit. You know what I'm saying? So you never know that, right. And like you said, like that one guy that you thought it's a joke he wants to just give you all his money. Like, it could be true. You never know. You might not be a scammer. I've talked to a couple of those guys. It's like a crazy thing. I'm like, oh my God. Some girl just hit the jackpot when she met. I had one guy. It was a private call. And he was like a really wealthy guy that was just dying to give his money away and had some really hot girl that he was given it all to. I was like, oh my God.

A lot of girls would drill over the situation, you know, because she wasn't doing anything for it. I mean, are these guys that are sending you the thing now at this point because you're a content creator too that they're just like fans or these guys you're like banging? Are these the bulls that you're fucking? Both. Both. I mean, I have like regular quote unquote, I guess, boyfriends that I see. Oh, really? My husband is like a data dude.

So he like has spreadsheets and analytics on all this shit. And he was like, by the end of last. this past 2024, he's like, you had 133 dudes. I was like, holy shit. Oh, give me all the stats. I love your husband's stats. Give me all the stats. Yeah. And then, you know, aside from, like, he just did like, you know, cash aside from like my bags or whatever, but he's like cash gifts. I, you know, he's like you did 70,000. I was like, Jesus Christ. But it's just, you know, some of these guys, like they would like to brag, like they have all this and they want that attention. And like, I really don't mind it.

They're fun because they tend to be very outgoing and very just like, you know, I mean, they'll be like, hey, come to a baseball game with me or come do this or come do that. And like, I mean, I've met some very, oddly enough, some very interesting people with interesting stories. And, you know, some of these people became really rich, really fast for, you know, selling businesses or just invested in the right thing or, you know, it just. And having a corporate background, some of these guys that sit. and literally talk business with. It's so crazy. But it's never, I mean, it's always something different.

It's, it's interesting to say the least. Yeah. So now, you say you have a couple of guys that are like your regulars or that you call them your quote unquote boyfriends. Uh-huh. And what goes down with them? Like, I mean, are you seeing people like all the time solo play without your husband, filming, not filming? Yeah, it's always solo. Sometimes I film. Sometimes I don't. You know, It's funny. Like one of my regular, like, boyfriends texted me last night. And he was like, oh, back on the black guys again, huh? And I was like, oh, my God, that's a video that's like months old.

But he follows my social media, you know? And they're just, yeah, I mean, I travel a lot for work. So they're just, they're in like different cities. And it's also nice for me because I have somebody to grab a drink and dinner with, too, when I'm traveling for work. Some of them I'm banging and some of them I'm not. Some of them just like the time and, like, have dinner and drinks and stuff when I travel. And now you call the, are they quote unquote boyfriends or real boyfriends?

Like are there any feelings being? No. Right. These are like quote unquote boyfriends, right? Like you just call them your boyfriends and they're fine. It's like slightly transactional or whatever, but it's fun. I mean, and some of these guys you're having sex with you said. Yeah.

I mean, they all know that I'm very, very happily married. They all know my husband knows that I spend time with people when I travel. Like he does not care at all. And everybody is very aware of what it is. And it is just, hey, we enjoy each other's company. And when I'm in town, let's grab, you know, dinner together. And it's, you know, and then if we have some wine, want to bang after, fine. And now let me ask you this, because it did start out where you're doing this because, like,

you like to turn your husband on. You weren't really looking for variety or anything. But, you know, like, now that you're, like, banging so many guys, are you just, like, have a really high libido and you just, like, love fucking all these guys? Like, has it changed over time for you that you're doing it also for yourself? because you're so sexed up. I mean, sometimes I think the more you fuck, the more you want to fuck. So I don't know.

I'm just asking. It's so true. And I think too, like I, um, I, just as a woman, like I'm into like hormone therapy, I take testosterone. So I can definitely tell like once I've had my testosterone too, like I'm even hornyer. But I'm like joke. I'm like, I'm the, I'm the woman who has a vibrator in her car. Okay.

So you're always horny. Yes. Yes. So you're getting 133 dicks besides the one you have had a home. I know. And, and. And he's getting it, you know, when I'm home. I mean, we have sex almost every day at home.

So when I'm not traveling. What are some of the crazy things that you've done? Have you ever done more than one guy? Is it typically just you and a guy? Have you ever done a gang bang? Do you want to do that? I mean, like, how hardcore do you get? I've never done a gang bang.

We've talked about it. We just haven't like, I think just logistics. We haven't really done it yet. Yeah. Well, we did a glory hole once. Like we bought this thing on Amazon. Just like a little like a changing, like a portable changing state. and like cut a hole in it was so funny.

And we, but I mean, it was like ridiculous trying to get these dudes to show up when they're supposed to show up and like on time and like you're coming to get your dick sucks. Like what is the issue? Like why are you, you know. So it that became kind of complicated. But so we haven't really like, but we've talked about the gang bang thing a few times. So potentially we'll get there. But.

So the glory whole thing never went through because no one showed up or did some people? No, we did. Yeah. I think we had like three or four people show up. And again, something different, something fun. Like, I'll, I was joke like, I'll try anything three times. Like, let's try it, let's see. And if it's terrible, we don't ever have to do it again.

But it was fun, but it was just logistically annoying to deal with people sometimes. Yeah. Two guys at once ever? Yep. Yes. I always, like I'll ask my husband, like, will you please, join, please, please, and sometimes every once in a while he will, but it's rare. But we had somebody come over and he did join once, like knowing that was the plan.

And I enjoy it so much. I think he's kind of like, I don't know, he's just, he's like, it's okay, whatever. But, you know, we had another couple recently and that was probably like the hottest to date for me because, and I was actually like on my monthly. So I was like, I can't even play, but I'll go and watch and just watching him get his dick sucked and watching him come and her mouth was like, holy shit, so hot for me. So I, and I was able to, you know, suck her husband's dick. And so everybody had a good time. And but for me, that's what I love to do. What?

Being with other. Just for watch, to watch him with somebody. And so we're trying to explore that a little bit more. You know, we just, we've only had three couple experiences. It hasn't been very much. So for me, like, that's my next thing is I just want to keep doing, you know, meeting couples and just kind of going from there and trying new things. But yeah. So now who finds these couples?

Are you online someplace, like on an adult website looking for people? Or does your husband find the couples? Or do you meet them at the swinger clubs? Yeah, sometimes we've met them at clubs. Sometimes we made them online. We both have like our logins for any online account so we can both see, you know, any messages back and forth. So we kind of will both chime in sometimes.

Right. And now when you move to OnlyFans, did you also keep your, because like, listen, OnlyFans is locked down. So some people decide to show everything on OnlyFans because they feel like, oh, who's going to find me on there? But like, are you anonymous on OnlyFans or do you show your whole face on OnlyFans? Well, I actually got kicked out of, got kicked off OnlyFans for referencing like going on a date with one of my fans. It was really ridiculous. I was going to dinner with my husband and I snapped a photo of myself.

And I was like, I'm going to go meet one of my fans, you know, and they shut me down. So I'm on Fansley. Okay. And it took a lot longer to kind of. get that built back up. But that is where, like, you know, we post on X under that Cindy wife name. And then, you know, he'll post a lot of stuff on there without my face. But then if they do subscribe to my fans, then my face is on there. Oh, okay. Now, are you ever worried that like, you know, your brother's friend, sister, your uncle, like someone might wind up finding you or

do you feel safe over there? I mean, that's always in the back of my head. But at the end of the day I'm an adult. I pay my own bills and I don't really need anybody's permission to do anything. And if they have a problem with it, that's on them. You know, I mean, I, my husband and I have a fantastic marriage. We enjoy what we do. And to me, that's all that matters. Well, let me ask you this. As a woman, we talk to our friends a lot, you know, and I'm assuming you have a lot of girlfriends. Like, does anybody know what you're doing or is it a total secret life? A couple, because, you know, honestly, some of my good girlfriends are women I've met in the lifestyle. So.

Right. But I'm saying besides those people, people from your vanilla past. Like, did you, does anyone know that this is the road you went down with this guy? Or is it totally a secret? Very few people know. Yeah. Yeah. No, listen, I had, what's her name?

She's from a podcast and she was a teacher. And she got caught because I'm always like, you know, because I overthink things. And I'm always like, oh, are you taking, you know, are you shooting videos or putting a pics even on your Twitter of like your house because someone could be like oh I know that couch in that house you don't mean and somehow even though she was anonymous somebody found out and I actually had her on the show to talk about how she got fired because her school someone told her school where she worked she was a teacher that she was on only fans yeah it's fucked out sad you know really sad too because she loved being a teacher she was winning all these awards she you know she was

both things right and no one needs to know the other thing it's not their fucking business but someone found out and snitched on her. So, you know, that's just the thing. But you feel like if somebody found out you would be, like, you don't care if people find out is what you're saying. I mean, my husband's ex, like, found out and tried to use it. But, I mean, it's like, it's not, it's nothing illegal. It's nothing, you know, the attorneys just kind of laughed about it.

They're like, do you know, how many times in a week we hear about some ex being pissed off because the new woman's on, you know, fansly? Like, it's, we don't care. Nobody cares. Oh, you're kidding. No, wait, that is a thing that's happening nowadays. is what you're saying. Yeah. I mean, they said that they hear about it every single week. And it's like, you know, none of this is done in front of anybody. It's done in the privacy of our own home.

You know, nobody's home besides myself and my husband. Yeah. You know, it's nobody's business what we do in our home. And we live in a free country. So it's like we're not hurting anybody. You know, nobody else is seeing it. And this is for adults only. And that's what it is. And it's like, yeah, I mean, people just don't care. I mean, jobs might care. But as far as, you know, anything else, it's nobody cares right but what about kids do you both you both have kids from your previous marriages or do you have any kids together or just from previous marriages no not together just previous yeah right so i'm assuming you guys have a lot of like time off right because the other partners are with the kids right so you have that so you have that time too and then yep you know because i listen for me i'm not even

doing what you're doing but i have like a sex podcast and like none of my mom friends know what i have because i feel like maybe they wouldn't want their kids to play with my kid you know i don't know It's like that's where stuff comes into play. I think with work and with kids that, you know, because people could be really fucking judgy, you know, that's the only thing. Well, and it could just goes back to, I think so many women are just judgy and jealous. And it's like, you know, take care of your own home,

take care of your own man. And everything will be fine. And don't worry about what I do at my house with my man. And it's, you know, if children aren't around, then it shouldn't, you know, make a difference. Yeah. So when his wife found out, she was pissed. Oh, yeah.

Of course, but, you know, it's like, like I said, they just laughed. Like, there's nothing you can do about it. So. Yeah. So do you have like now, like, do you, does your husband still pick all of your guys? I mean, we still have like 10 minutes to talk. So like, I don't know if you want to give me some hot stories or like, do you have a favorite bull that you fuck or a favorite way to do it or like, I don't know. I mean, I think maybe some of the weird ones like, you know, when I started seeing, I so, you know, my husband will kind of check everybody out. for me or whatever, but he called him a day. He was like, I think we might have a problem,

but I was like, what? He was like, one of these dudes lives in the neighborhood. And I was like, what? And so turns out we live like five houses away. So I see him at the gas station a lot or yeah. And he's just in a kind of a wake, weird situation. But so every once in a while, he'll be like, can you come sneak in the back door? I'm like, sure. So I like a few times at night, I've gone over there and just snuck in the back door, go down to the basement. And like when his wife's out of town. Oh, so is he cheap? They're separated, but they still live together. I think their situation is sort of complicated with their children and whatnot.

But it's just still one of those things where he probably doesn't want to advertise it per se. But, you know, again, obviously like none of my neighbors. I always joke, I'm like, the neighbors are going to start asking questions. You know, like when they see dudes walking up to the house, he's like, it's fine. They're not watching, nor do they care. And I'm like, okay. No, he's wrong. I think neighbors do watch and do care and do talk.

I think that's kind of thing is wrong. I know. I think so too. Yeah, people are fucking busypotties, especially, like, do you live in the suburbs or do you live in a city? Oh, yeah. Yeah. Oh, my God, people. Word could be on the street.

Because, listen, I feel like there was a, someone told me a story where they did see that something going down, you know, when we're concerned that and that person that got caught was let that neighbor know. Listen, I just want you to know, like, there's no cheating going on, you know, like this is what is. Because most likely the person is going to think you're cheating, right, if they start seeing these guys. They're not going to think you're a hot, right? That's what I said. I'm like, these people are going to think I'm cheating on you. Like, I don't get a shit. But the neighbor next door does know.

I've told her, well, she knows that we're in the lifestyle. So even, because her and I will sit and have, you know, margaritas in the summertime together or whatever. And so she's aware. So it's kind of like, if anyone was going to notice, it would probably be her. And she already knows. Right, right. Yeah, because I don't think, listen, until I did my show and I had a lot of great guy friends

that told me everything when it came to sex, but like it, because I was super open-minded, but nobody ever told me they like their girls fucking other guys. So, like, I don't. think a lot of people in the vanilla world, even though it seems very common and so many people love the hot wiping thing, I think a lot of people still don't know anything about it and they don't even know it's like a thing. So I think for sure your vanilla neighbors would think you're just cheating on your guy like crazy. And they don't know your husband loves it. They're probably confused though because he's like six three. He's so hot and I'm sure they're probably like,

what is she doing? Yeah, why she's cheating on him? Yes. Oh my God. How are your guys? I mean, how do they compare? Do you like, like as far as like the guys that you choose to bang or do you have like a specific age range? Do you like, you know, is there any, I know that your guy likes you to be with like a jacked up black guy, but like, do you have like an age limit and, you know, or something like that, anything like that? Not really. I think I kind of started out with one and then I quickly realized that that sometimes is just a number and that there are. guys that are older that do not look their age or they certainly don't act their age. And honestly, I've found too, some of the older guys are more interesting. Yeah. You know, they just have more

life experience. They have more to talk about. They, they're just more fun. They understand pleasing a woman better. Like, I just think so, no, not really. I don't really have any specifics when it comes to that. What about too young? Anything too young for you? I'm not really any younger guys, but at all, like, I just think that's especially just being a mom. I think that's weird. So I prefer them to be closer to my age. Okay, so nothing in the, like, you're not looking for 20, people in their 20, guys in their 20s.

I would prefer that not to know. Yeah, yeah. I get it. I was just telling somebody recently, a young guy that works real. It's like, you don't understand. Like, guys look back. To me, like, you know, guys age really well. Like, I think they get hotter as they get older, right?

Like, I always say that too. Yeah, like their little baby faces in their 20s, it's not really that hot, you know, but when they get like older, more chiseled, like I think men look more attractive as they get older, you know, too bad. It's not the same for women, but thank God we have a lot of things we could do about it now. I know, right? I always say the salt and pepper on a man is so sexy to me. And I'm like, not so much on us, but on a man it is. Yeah, totally. Yeah.

And that baby, like that young face is like is not as hot, I think, too, you know, until they get a little bit older. So I get why you don't go to the 20-year-olds. And so your guys typically bringing you older guys and stuff for you. Okay, so where can people find you? Like, why don't you give a shout out to everything? You're going to send me some super hot picks for my Patreon, like R-rated for my Patreon, and then I'll give you free access to my Discord too. I have over 2,500 people on my Patreon.

So I'll also give you free access to my Discord, and you could post stuff there and promote your stuff. And you could post X-rated stuff there. So if you want to post a video, like a teaser thing or anything, you could do it. that there. But give your shout-outs to everything. Yeah. So on X, it is pretty much it's Cindy wife across the board so that, you know, South Indie wife. So I'm on X and then Fansley, of course, and I've got two different like tiers. So if you do the higher tier of my Fansley, you get my cell phone number and you can chat with me and text and whatever. Yeah. And then otherwise,

just the, you know, the regular membership is just all the good videos and pictures and all that stuff. So you have a lot of guys blown up your phone? You know, it's funny. They're fairly respectful of that. I mean, I, you know, I enjoy chatting, you know, but I sometimes I'm like, hey, I'm working or whatever. And most, I would say most of the time, they're mostly respectful of that. I've had a few people I've had to boot because they don't like understand that concept. But, but for the most part, yeah, everybody's super respectful of that. And they, you know, we'll just send messages every once in a while, like to send pictures, you know, or I'll send them a picture. And so it's just a nicer to have a little bit of that like personal connection, I think sometimes. too and for them just like they're talking, you know, they're talking to a real person that's actually on their, you know, behind those pictures and videos. Yeah, and they get that one-on-one interaction for you. So that's the higher tier of someone's looking for that. And you just got to be fucking cool. And trust me, most content creators always say, like, my audience is like really cool and they don't get any douchebags for my audience

when you get people. So I don't think any of my listeners are going to harass you. But I think that's a great deal if somebody joined that tier, right? Because they can sort of talk with you and send picks and your, and it's really you chatting with them. It is. Yep, it's really mean. Yeah, that's cool. So send me links to everything. Because Cindy is an S, right? I just want to spell it out for people, but no one has to remember because I'll put the link. It's S-I-N-D-Y, right? Correct.

Right. And then Wife, and that's on Twitter. And then the Fansley account I will put in the description. Send me your picture sooner than later. Most likely this, I already have my one for Monday already up and edited. So probably the next following one day, it'll be up. It'll be up on my Patreon on Friday. So send me everything ASAP. So I have it. Thanks so much for calling in. I love your story. Thank you. I appreciate your time. Bye. Okay, bye. Okay, I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly anonymous Confession, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, is now available, not only in paperback and e-book, but you can pre-order the audiobook. It's still not going to be out until August

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