Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1537 - Rob is a Hoser who Wears Pantyhose Out and About 

Episode Date: July 31, 2026

Rob Speedking is a Hoser who wears pantyhose out in public and he called in to talk all about itt. Tune in to hear all the details including when he fIrst wore pantyhose and how he felt about them at first, when his feelings about them changed when and how he was open about his love of them on women with both his mother and his girlfriends, what he loved about wearing them, how he told his wife he was into hose and how she got him into wearing them in front of her, how and why he wound up wearing compression hose and the first time he went out in public wearing them and how people reacted, how he also started being open about his fetish and how people reacted to that, how and why he started wearing kilts, how he got involved in the Hoser community and started posting online, the specific brands he likes to wear when he’s not wearing compression hose as well as his fave colors he likes to wear plus a whole lot more. You can find him here: linktr.ee/speedking2112 GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  or Pre-order audiobook version ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To see HOT pics of my female guests + get exclusive FETISH episodes + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $8 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beduc.at/pd2626-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized SUMMER roadmap to sexual happiness  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://LoadBoost.com⁠⁠⁠- To get 10% off LOAD BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY   ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://bollandbranch.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code STRICTLYANON for 15% off Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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The motto of the show, let your freak flag fly. Probably the only good advice I'll ever give you is to re-hide your whips and change. Here is your host, Kathy. Hey, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast with Kathy. If you haven't followed the strictly anonymous podcast on Instagram or Twitter, follow me at Strict Anonymous. If you want to be on the show, it's called Strictly Anonymous because I keep everyone anonymous.

I change people's voices. You can email me from a phony email, call me from a phony number. I just want to hear your true story. And since this is a Fetish Friday episode, I love to hear your story about your unique fetish. Whatever you're into, if you got a fetish, you could be on. on the show. And if you have a pantyose fetish or a cross-dressing fetish and you call in, I will give you free access to my Patreon. Now, on my Patreon, I have two tiers, one for cross-dressers and one for

hosers. Those are guys who like panty-hose. On those tiers, you get every single episode, early ad-free, plus intro-free. Also, you get all the picks, anonymous picks of all my guests, plus you get exclusive content over there. And since I've been doing this for many, many years over on Patreon. There's so much exclusive pantyhose fetish episodes and cross-dressing episodes that are only available on Patreon. The hoser tier is $8 a month. The cross-dressing tier is $10 a month because cross-dresses also get the hoser episodes as well. But if you call into my show, you're going to get a whole year free. So if you want to call into the show, because you have a fetish that you want to talk about, send me an email, strictly non-miss podcast at gmail.com. Or go to

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post whatever you want there and everyone posts and talks to each other. And there's a whole community over there. It's private. It's free. But you could only get the link through me. I throw it in complimentary to anyone who calls into my show, joins my Patreon, or buys my book. So send me a screenshot of your picture to Strictly Anonymous Podcasts at gmol.com. There is a lot of fetish and kink channels over on my Discord. Okay, today I have on Rob Speed King. He's Darth underscore Rob underscore Speed King on Instagram. I found him through panty hose king.

He's definitely into hose. And what I love about Rob is he's very out and proud. He doesn't just wear tights and panty hose. He also wears kiltz. We talk a little bit about that. But on this episode, you hear his whole journey, which is kind of interesting. It's a little different than a lot of other journeys I heard. I mean, he started wearing panty hose when he was young.

The reasons why were super interesting, but it didn't like turn into a fetish or become something that it was very into until he was like a little bit older. And he talks about that. He talks about when he started secretly wearing them. He talks about how he was always open about loving them on girls. And he talks about what he would do with his girlfriends who wore them. And then he talks about when he met his wife and how open she was. And then he talks about a medical diagnosis that he got.

That forced him to become much more out and proud with wearing them himself. Okay. And that's when he started to go out and about wearing compression hose. He started being open about not only wearing them by wearing them out and about. He also started telling people this was a fetish that he had and being very open. He talks about how people, you know, acted when he brought it up. He also talks about how it led to him wearing kiltz because if you go on his Instagram, he wears like kilts and stuff.

He talks about the brands he likes. He talks about the kind of hose he likes. He talks about how he loves shine on his hose. He talks about how he got involved in the community, the hoser community. He winds up. He does sometimes speak on Panty Hose King's podcast called. a tight frame of mind. That's a great podcast if you want to listen to it.

He also has a Patreon, which he told me about, and we talk about that towards the end. He started on OnlyFans. His wife is very supportive. He was also very involved in the community. He talks about that too. There's so much great stuff to this episode. We finished the conversation because we were coming up to an hour and I was like, oh my God, there's so much more we could talk about.

So we wound up doing the second half for my Patreon. I do have a Patreon that has a hoser tier. you get all kinds of exclusive content. I talk to him more over there for the exclusive content. If you want that, the link to my patron is in the description. He also has a Patreon and we talk about that as well. You're going to get that information also in the description. But anyway, I'm going to get right to it and be right back on with Rob Speed King.

This is the strictly anonymous podcast. Strictly anonymous podcast. Hi, Rob Speed King. Welcome to the Strictly Anonymous Podcast. podcast. How are you today? Doing great. Thank you for having me on. How have I not talked to you so yet? I don't know why. I found you through Pantyhose King who's been on my show forever. He's got his own podcast. He's the best. I love him. He turned me on to you. You are very, and I saw, I went through like your Instagram when he told me and I'm like, oh my God, you were like so out and proud as a hoser.

Okay. Hoser slash kilt influencer, which I love. Yes. You know, not only do you wear a hose, you wear kiltz and you're fucking out and proud about it. And I love that because, you know, the more that people sort of are out and proud, the better for everybody else, right? It kind of helps take away the stigma. I mean, I do know that when I first started doing my show and I was like looking for people on Craigslist. Like, that's when I found out as a woman that like so many guys like had this fetish for pantyhose, right? Like, who would have known? And I feel like sometimes some people still don't even know that this is like a real thing that exists that so many guys have, right the Panios Fetish. Oh yeah, absolutely. I mean, I mean, for me being a Gen Xer, I grew up being around around it all the time. Yeah. Yeah, everything from, you know, from my mom all the way to, you know, my girlfriends to, I mean, you name it. I mean, growing up through the 80s and the early 90s and everything. I mean, I saw it all the time. And the thing is, it's like the first time I ever ever wore, I mean, believe it or not, it was primarily for a school play. And I was about maybe six years old, maybe.

really? Yes, but the bug didn't hit me until I was about roughly 12. Okay, well, I like, that's where I like to start. I like to go all the way back, right? And I'm going to get your whole life story because the pictures on your Instagram, you're with your wife. She obviously knows we're going to go through your whole sort of journey, right? And, you know, so let's start, you know, your six.

You wear it for a play. Do you have any, like, strong memories of that experience that stand out to you? Like, that sort of bring, okay, talk about that. Let's start. So what it was, it was for, it was for, I was in first grade and it was for, I was playing a royal soldier or a royal guard or something like that. And so all the kids, all the boys that had that had that part, we had to wear these opaque navy blue tights. And, and, and, but the thing is, at that time, you really, you really don't get that imprint or whatnot. But the thing was is that I do remember having to wear them and, and us giggling.

and laughing and whatever just pointing at each other yeah and and so it said but like i said but the bug didn't really start hitting me until like about 12 but going but going forward from that time at the time i was living my mom my mom and she had you know gotten to divorce and everything so it was just her and i for a while and and growing up whenever it snowed here in virginia now i didn't have long johns and my mom didn't want you couldn't you know wouldn't buy long johns or whatnot so what she had me do she would have me wear tights or panty hose under my clothes in order to keep warm. You're kidding me. I'm dead serious.

That's fascinating. That was like, listen, that was kind of smart of her, right? Can't afford her, but this will keep them warm, right? Yeah. So put these on. I got them around the house. Interesting. Yeah.

Yeah. And she wore them all the time because, I mean, it was part of, she was primarily like a, like a secretary pretty much wherever she worked at. Yeah. So that was kind of like the dress code. Yeah. You saw it on TV. but what fascinated me the most was during the summertime I would uh you remember the the exercise

craze back then you would see the the uh in the early mornings and you know you see these buff guys with the women you know around them and they would have these you know shiny tights on and that really struck out with me oh it's stuck with me yeah but it wasn't but it wasn't until i was in sixth grade uh right around when i was about 12 years old uh when i really you know that's of course all the guys are starting to notice the girls and that's when I really started noticing it and I remember this one particular girl who uh the way our their way our desks were set up she was facing one way I was facing right directly towards her and she would this is one you know girls are finally starting to get their big girl hose and all that stuff they're getting out of elementary school no

longer wearing you know the the white tights or the opaque black tights or blue tights whatever and and and I just remember it just kind of you know it just caught with it and she's like look at me going, what the hell are you staring at? Because it was like her legs, her feet, the whole thing? Yeah. The whole thing, she had on the suntan hosier and everything. And I remember how it caught my eye and everything. And it just, I became, over the years, became more and more and more obsessed.

And during the summertime, I remember, and I've told the story a thousand times. Yeah, but not on my show, so tell it again. Not on your show, of course, yes, not on your show. But I remember during the summertime, you know, when my mom was, would be off the work and everything. And I would, yes, I would go and steal, you know, steal her, her hosury and everything, try it on. And just to see, it's like, what's the big deal? What's it all like?

And eventually, and I make sure mom was very particular. So I had to make sure I put it back and where it looked all makes exactly how she left it. So, and I remember I would wear them all day long, you know, I wouldn't, you know, haven't, you know, it just, and just the allure of it just drove me crazy. But you were wearing them. That's when you're wearing them secretly. Let me ask you a quick question. We'll go right back to this point. But like when you were wearing them for warmth, were you sort of putting it together that you liked the way that they felt at that time?

Or was that just like just not register at that point? At that point it had not registered yet. It wasn't. Yeah. It had not registered just yet. It wasn't until like I said, right while I was right about 12 years old. Okay. So that was before.

When it finally started registering. Yeah. So that was before. And it registered first and you seeing the women doing it, right? And then you started to put them on yourself. Yes. What an interesting progression. Yeah.

But what the funny thing was is like, and I would still do it in secret, you know, throughout, you know, my teenage years. Now my girlfriend's on the other hand, they didn't know. I was very secret about it because nobody, I didn't want nobody to know or, you know, all that, all that, you know, BS and everything. Most guys are, you know, very self-conscious. well the one thing that my girlfriends always knew that I had a thing for it that's how they would say oh he has a thing for for Panios you mean what did word get around in your high school or something like how did people know the girl the girlfriends I am all my female friends they all knew that because I would I would encourage them I'd always compliment them I would always

and I would always show them a lot of respect when it came to that and I would not you know treat them in any type of derogatory way. I would, you know, it's like, and I would always say, you know, everything matches, everything looks great, you know, I was very complimentary. And when I would start dating and everything, and of course, by that point, you know, you're getting active, you know, sexually active and everything. And that's one thing. I was always rubbing their legs and everything.

And I told them, said, look, I really love it when you wear them. It drives me crazy. It pushes my buttons. And they, they would constantly, would wear all. the time because they knew it pushed my buttons and they loved it they they they was like they wouldn't I could not keep my hands off of them and they loved it and but you know what what became interesting is that you know later on down the road when I got to college you know it was I didn't wear as often if anything I didn't wear at all yeah but what was going on when you were secretly wearing your moms and stuff like what was

going on for you then? So for me, it was, it was the, the look, the feel. Interesting. Okay. It was, for me, it was more of the look, the more of the perfection and trying to get that sheen, that shimmer that you would get out of it. It drove me nuts. Right. And the ironic thing of it all is I had a best friend and his dad worked for legs.

you're kidding he had the legs van there at his place and everything and I would go play and everything and his dad would sit there and hand me a couple boxes

and here go take that to your mom wow true story would you tip into that do you remember after the fact I didn't really start buying my own until

but I mean like at that point you could have stole but you were you were giving them to your mom but then you were going and taking them secretly and then putting them back, right? Wearing for a little while, putting up. Yeah, I was a good boy. Don't get me wrong.

I was a good boy. Right. But the thing was is that, you know, when you put them on and you want that perfection, and it's all about the perfection and the way everything looked, everything was in place, and you felt like everything was put together. It's almost like, for me, it was like putting on armor. Even for your legs is what you're saying, right? When you're talking about the perfection, it's not just for the women, right?

It's also like the perfection that it's giving to your legs as well, correct? Exactly, exactly. And then then the feel of it. And just when you look at the details, and that's the one thing, when I talk to other hosers, it's all about the details. Yeah. And even with the curiosity of it all, and even when dealing with the details and all, it's like, you want to be open, but you know you couldn't. At that time, you really couldn't because a lot of that was not tolerated.

Yeah. Even my mom knew I had a thing for it because I, you know, because I was, I was open with her and would talk to her. What did you mean? What would you say? But she didn't know how war, though. That's the thing. So, oh, okay.

So you were open about liking them on women and loving them. Yes. Oh, okay, but she never knew you wore. So you were open to that extent at that point in your life. Correct. That is correct. And that's an easier sell, right? yes for sure much easier it's a much easier so yeah and and she and she was like well what is it

about it what you know what what draws you to it what you think what what's going on and i and i told it it it's kind of like what i was telling you and you know now was she judgmental about it no yeah that's great and was it for you was it that it made like do you consider yourself because one of my hoses like he believes that sometimes like all hosers are kind of like leg guys you know what i mean and because like the hose makes the legs look perfect So it just takes the leg up and notch where you let are you like a leg guy? I have always been a leg guy. I was also a boob guy as well.

Well, you know, that's a given, just a lot of times. But you are like, I mean, and that is though what it is with the pantyos, right? It just like elevates legs and makes it look perfect. Yes. Right. It just, it made the, it made the shape that, that you were looking for. It made everything that much more elegant. And for me, it was a big draw.

It was a massive draw for me. And it's like if I knew a girl that didn't wear it, I didn't care. I didn't mess with them. It's like if the girl wore hosiery, I was there. And then they were all wearing, right? So it was kind of easier at that time, correct? For some, for some. Right.

At least where I live, I mean, it wasn't always the case. But with the girlfriends that I had, they wore. almost all the time. Some of the girls that were at my school and everything, yes, they wore all the time. And so, yeah, it was really hard for me to concentrate sometimes. You mean, just because that's how, like, mesmerized you were by them, which is, I think it's very interesting.

That's, like, the pull. I mean, that's, like, really powerful. Correct. Yes, it was very powerful. Because a lot of times men might feel that way by a pair of big boobs or whatever, but, like, to feel that way about panty hose, which is, you know, something that you would never think that someone would have that. it is interesting, but anyone with the fetish understands.

Oh, yeah. Anybody who's got the same fetish, they will totally understand where I'm coming from because it's like, like from other hoses I've heard on your show. Yes, I do listen to your show. Oh, okay.

Why have you never emailed me to be on my show? What the fuck? Why have you been holding out? Because I always consider myself so vanilla compared to most people. But this is the thing with fetish episodes of people, And I need to give this shout out to people that have fetishes on my show. Like my fetish episodes are don't have to be about sex for real.

Like they're really more so about the fetish, the psychology behind them, the experience what you're into, what you're not. You know what I mean? That's the shit that these fetish guys that are listening want to hear. They're not tuning in to be turned on. You know what I mean?

They're tuning in to relate to somebody else, to hear somebody else that's like them. You know what I mean? So to me, the brands you like, the visions you had, the feelings. Like, that's the stuff that's super interesting. So vanilla is

fine. The fact that you have the fetish is all you need to be on my show. So that's what you need to know. So keep going with your story. So to continue on. No, but you were saying what you've heard other hosers say on my show. Right. And so I've heard, you know, from what other

hosers, I mean, a lot of them had a lot of the same experiences that I had. Yeah. But then there were some people who were more, as one, the hosier put it, years ago, was it It was a tactile thing. For others, it was a visual. For the others, it might have been a cross-dress type deal, which there's nothing wrong with it.

Yeah. I'd say, hey, if you can do it, you know, go it, flaunt it. Do what you got to do. Yeah. And so, I mean, there's so many different aspects to it. There's so many different nuance. My God, the nuance for some, it's crazy how many different nuances you can look at at one specific thing and how it could either turn you on, turn you off, or if you look for that one, like,

one little, little iota of something. And it just, if it's not there, it just totally, you know, it's like game off. Yeah, well, that's why I can have a million hosers on my show. I've been doing my show for 12 years. I have 1,500 episodes. I have tons of hosers on my show as well as on my Patreon. And I'm always hearing a new story. And people are always like, oh my God, I love this episode because of this and this and that. And it was like different than the other one. You know what mean because each person is so specific. The fact that we're going to eventually get to like you putting on kiltz is super interesting, right? And totally different than anyone else. Also what I find interesting already about your story is like sort of the trajectory of how like you did wear them a

bunch of times when you were younger but didn't really click. Yeah. Like what did it click with you wearing them? Was it like when you were like high like when you were like 12 that you said? That's when you start to be like, okay, now I get it. You like it felt like armor you said, right? Yeah. It was like armor. It's if the curiosity, it's like it when the curiosity really hit hit me and I was like, okay, what, in my mind, it's like, okay, what's the deal? What, what's, you know, why, why are they wearing this? Why, you know, okay, what's, what's so great about it? So I had to try it myself. Right. And then you learned you liked it too. I was on, I was hooked. I mean, on day one. Interesting. But it's interesting that you didn't get hooked when you were wearing them for the cold and all that stuff, right?

it's so that to me is what's interesting about your story. I haven't heard that before. But at that time, you know, when you're when you're that young, it really didn't really dawn me per se, because you're not thinking, and I'm going to be, I'm going to be honest with you on this, I didn't learn that that what I had was a quote, quote, fetish until, like, I was in my 20s. Yeah, right, of course. If that tells you anything.

Yeah. I mean, it just really did not dawn on me. It didn't really register with me because as a kid, you're more focused on getting outside and playing in the snow than what you're wearing because you're like, well, you know, you're wearing, yeah, you're wearing this, but you're wearing also all those, you know, bulky pants and and everything else. And you're not focused on what you're wearing. You're focused on just getting out there and playing with your buddies. Yeah. But some hosers were, though. That's the whole difference.

But that's what's interesting about. you that you didn't come together but you did have it in you because you always like to see the women in it right and that's the that's the that's the that's the like listen not every hoser wears themselves but every hoser likes hose on women right that's something you all have in common you have the fetish right there's no guy out there wearing only on himself and he's not obsessed with girls that wear them you know so you had that right from the get go and so like oh yeah point like when you're like in your teenagers and in high school, you're wearing secretly, right, but also at the same time letting girls know, including your mother, know that you do like women to be wearing them.

Yes. I would only secretly wear it home, but I didn't wear it to school because of, because you had to dress out and all that stuff for PE and all that. So it would only be like, like, whenever, whenever, you know, my mom was off to work, I was at home by myself, that's the only time I would really do it. and then when you go further on from when I went off to college at that point that's when I actually had stopped wearing altogether yeah but I was still but I was still pursuing the girls who wore it okay but it wasn't until way later this is going back uh going back to my early 20s

and everything I mean I would secretly wear on and off my wife knew I had a panty-hose fetish and if anything she was the one he's like oh you got a fetish then okay great oh she's She's the one that let you know that word and let you know what you had. Interesting. So you got married early, you got married to your wife early on. Yes. I was, gosh, I was about what, 22, 21, 22. Okay. So I got married. And so at that point she didn't know that you were into wearing, correct? Because you weren't really wearing at that point, right? No, not full time. I was just off and on one. Okay. But did she know? Yes. So walk me through that conversation. You meet this woman. You know, you're young. You don't even know that you have a fetish, but you know what you're kind of into. Like, how do you bring it up to her?

Come to find out she was a very open-minded woman. She, and there was a one, there was one moment where she had these stockings. And she's like, if you want to put them on, put them on. Go right ahead. And she's, you know, if you like doing stuff, like, that go right ahead. Yeah. And,

but she's like, but don't, whatever you do, you know, be honest and open with me. So she was the one that brought it up. She was more open than you. She brought it up first.

Crazy. Yes. You're like, I hit the fucking jackpot. No wonder why you put a ring on it. I mean, that was like the perfect girl to marry. I mean,

come on. She, she, she, she, she, she, I put her on a pedestal. She is the,

the most wonderful woman. As you should. She is my, she is my, she is my, she is my, she is my, She's my Croatian princess.

She is my everything, my world. I love her dearly. And she is the most amazing person you'll ever meet. Not just being a wife, but a business owner. And also, and a mother. And just she is a wonderful, wonderful person that can always confide in. And I trust her immensely. She trusts me immensely.

And it's like, I have no reason to do anything else but be with her if you get what I mean. Yeah, but you're so lucky to have all of that and you're able to be fully yourself because there's plenty of guys that call into my show that have all of that. It might feel that same way. But yet, their wife doesn't know that they have this thing. You know what I mean? And it's amazing that you got the full package, you know? Oh, yeah.

What's incredible is that she was the one that was like, you could put them on. And so did you have, is that when you started to wear again when you were with her or you still were that into it? So what got me into the full time and really being open about it, it really came down to a medical issue I had. And so I was, you know, having a hard time sleeping. I was, you know, kicking at night. I was having, or we would be sitting on the sofa. Now, I am a recovering heavy metal drummer. So just understand that.

Oh, I love heavy metal. My son now loves heavy metal too. So, I mean, I was used to, you know, having both my feet, you know, going up and down, up and down all the time. And I always thought it was more like a nervous tick and everything. But when I was noticing, I was, you know, sitting down watching TV. And I swear, I would feel these little zings in my knees or in my upper leg, upper calves and stuff like that. And it just felt like your skin was crawling or like somebody was trying to stab me with a needle, whatever. and I felt like I wanted to just like completely twist my legs off.

Yeah. And that's when I found out I was diagnosed with, with restless leg syndrome. Oh, interesting. That's what that was. That's how it presents itself? That's how it presented itself because it's on it, it presents itself in several different ways.

And it's more prevalent in women than it is in men, but it does happen to men. Uh-huh. And so for me, it was, it was like I was having such a hard time just sitting still. I was constantly having to shake my leg for or get up and walk around and move around for relief. Yeah.

And so and I try and I try doing, you know, the medication and everything. Now, understand, I'm also, I also work for for a major telecom. And so it's a semi-dangerous job. And the medication just, I tried it for two weeks. I'm like, no, this is affecting my job too much. Right. I got to have my wits about me. I mean, I drive a very big truck and I don't want to have something happen.

And you have, God for a bad, I could be 20 feet up in the air or 20 feet down down below. Yeah. you got to have your wits about you. So I went to two different doctors and everything, and they both basically recommend doing compression therapy. Okay. As they put it as like, do you have an open mind? Or would you be interested in compression therapy?

Would you be interested in doing this? And it was almost like a perfect storm, really. Yeah. And I was like, okay, well, you know what, I'll give it a try. And I tried doing the knee high stockings and everything. I hated it. And I went ahead and went with the full deal. Now, they said that what I had wasn't as bad, but they recommended what levels I need to wear, where I can I get it, get measured, all that BS.

And, but they said, all you had to worry about is wearing either, you know, medium to full support. You don't need something too terribly, you know, restrictive unless you're really having a bad day or something like that. Yeah. And so that, that came in, in the play. and I remember coming home I had just got home from the store and had picked up at the time was that

they had the legs active support at the time and I'm coming home and I'm putting them on and my wife had just come home for where she opens up the door and she's like, why are you doing? Is there something I need to know?

I'm like, no, no, no, hold on, hold on. And so I explained it to her and she was like, oh, okay. But her biggest concern was more, us, our kids. So when you say that she was freaked out because she was the one that told you to wear, and I'm assuming you're wearing in front of her, but she was like, why she freaked out is because

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at the time a forum called Leguarez Unix Fashion or LAUF. Okay. Probably heard of it. No, I had never heard of it. That's where I, that's actually where I met Panty Hoax King for the, for the first time. Okay. Yeah. So I met him and a bunch of other hosers and come to found out there was many other guys that were just the same as I was.

Because I kind of felt like an island in the stream here. It's just like, I, you know, I know I'm not the only one around here. and I learned from from that form and talking to other people. It's like, yeah, you can be open about it. You know, just you don't have to be, you just got to act normal, dress normal. Most people are not going to care if you just have your wits about yourself. Right. And so from that point, that's when I had started wearing a little openly.

And I remember it was Thanksgiving Day, 2010. And I go out to the store to go get some stuff for some plates and glasses from the dollar store of all places. Because we had company coming over and I'm wearing shorts. That was my first time going out in public. With shorts and hose. Like compression hose. Shorts and hose. But the compression hose, correct?

And nobody said anything. Nobody even noticed. Yeah. Interesting. And I come home. She's like, why are you going out like that? You should have told me you're doing it. I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

Nobody said anything. Nobody knew anything. Yeah. And so I proved it to her and the kids by going out to the mall. And we went out to the mall. I was in, I think I was wearing like nude, nude legs at the time. Nobody said anything. The only thing that looked odd was the fact that I'm wearing a jacket in shorts in the wintertime.

Right. Mm-hmm. And from that point on, it just became kind of old hat. And then we started, I started wearing other colors. Like, uh, wittling off black, you know, jet black. And at that time, I would still would put on pants because I didn't, my neighbors really didn't know anything at that time. And one day I had on jet black, uh, hosiery, and we were going to go next door.

And I was so, all right, well, I'll go, I'll go change. She goes, I don't, no, no, no. Keep your shorts on. Just let's go on over. Sure. Okay. So paint the picture. You're wearing shorts.

Now, are these still like the, This whole time that you're wearing, is it always compression hose because of your problem? Okay. But they're black. They're black. They're black. And you're wearing shorts with black leggings, like our tights. Correct.

Right. Okay. Okay. Go on. So we go over next door. Now, my neighbor, God bless her, love her dearly. And we're sitting there. We're talking.

And I kid you not, about 30 minutes into it, she looks over. She goes, I got to ask you. So what's going on with the, with the, who's here. I got to ask. Oh, I give her credit for asking. Why not, right? I don't mind that. God bless her. I'll love her dealing. I mean, she

she's one of my, one of the my biggest proponents when she understood what was going on. Yeah, she's just going to talk about the elephant in the room. No judgment. Just curiosity, right? Why not? Correct. Yeah. And I can tell you funny story after funny story after funny story.

And, but the biggest but the biggest thing for me was when I came out to my co-workers. Right. But wait, let's stay at that story. I love all these stories. Let's stay at that story that she says to you, you know, when you're over the house with these tights on, like, what the fuck is with this? Like, what's going on? And what do you say? And how does she react? And so when I, when I reacted and I didn't react, I just acted nonchalantly. I was like, yeah, I said, I'm wearing, yes, I'm wearing panty hose. Yes, I'm wearing these are,

compression hosury. As then I explained to her what was going on. She was like, oh, okay. Well, all right. Well, that kind of makes sense. And she goes, does it help? I said, yeah, absolutely. They help. They're at God's end. I can sleep better at night.

I'm not coming home with sore legs all the time. I can sit down in peace and not constantly have my leg shaking like crazy. Yeah. And I said, but I told her, I said, also, I do have a fetish for panty hose as well. So I said, we'll be opening arms with you. Oh, why do you think you were so bold to do that at that point? Because I wanted to be open. with people to know that it's not just one thing.

There is other underlying issues. And I have people that I know would use that information as blackmail. So you wanted to say like you wanted to get ahead of it. You're going to be the one to tell people what it is instead of them sort of speculating. Is that what you're saying? That's correct. And same thing with my social media. And the way I did my social media, I just, you know, the very first picture I,

ever posted of me in Penaos is me in front of my Christmas tree with gifts and I'm wearing shorts. I'm wearing like these like basketball shorts or something like that. And you and you look closely, you can tell plain as day that I'm wearing. So I would constantly, you would post pictures of me just doing mundane things with my family and with my kids and doing you know, stuff that I would do like with my band if I'm playing with my bands or whatnot. And so if anybody say anything. It's like, well, it's no big secret. You can check my social media. It's already out there.

Yeah. So like, whatever. Yeah, but we didn't start there. We're still at the place where you just started to open up about it. You're with your neighbor and you say, but it's also, it's not just that I wear because of this restless leg syndrome. I also have a fetish for Pinoos. And what is, how is, what's her

reaction like? She was, believe it or not, it was almost a non-reaction. She was just like, okay, well, that's, that's cool. That was her reaction. It was, okay, that's cool. Yeah. There you go. She's like, they help out? I was like, yeah, they help out there.

Godson. And she was like, okay, well, that's all it matters. She goes, she goes, I've known you long enough. I mean, you're cool. You're good guy. You always, always helping us out when we need help or are you there when, you know, whatever. I mean, they knew the content of my character. So they understood that, look, I'm being open with you about it. So, and they respected it. And that's what was what matters. is the fact that they respected it. Yeah, and don't you think that that, like, that you sort of putting it out there yourself and telling them while you're sitting there

that, that demand, like that sort of demands the respect or like that gets you the respect more so than if like everyone was like whispering about it. You know what I mean? Like you were smart to get ahead of it and be honest and lead with it yourself. You know what I mean? Because then I feel like you give it like no shame.

And that's what I always feel like you, you get back whatever you give. Right? If you feel really shameful about it and you're hiding, you're going to sit across from people that might feel that way as well. But when you're okay with it and clear with it and you're ready to be straight up, this is who I am. This is what I am. And you respect yourself and what you're fucking into and you're not hiding it. People are going to see it in a different way. Right? They're not going to judge you. They're just you less. I mean, there might still be that one or two crazy people. But most likely you're going to get people like exactly like react the way you said that they did where they were fine with it. Yeah, she was completely fine with it. Yeah. I mean, and not only that, but also she had like a get-together, like, not even like the next weekend. And she had all these people over her house. She had us over for the cookout.

And I'm out there with the guys with her husband and, I guess, her father-in-law and everything. And just sitting there on the front porch and wearing black panty hose again and shorts. And I'm just talking with them and talking with them. And not once did they say anything to me. But yet, but the daughter-in-law, you know, comes up, she's like whispering to me in front of these three, four other guys with me. She goes, are you wearing peony hair? I'm like, yes, I am. I said, as you can see, and I'm sitting there and I pull it and pop it right there.

Yeah, there you go. Yeah. She was like, oh, oh, okay. Yeah. You took the steam right out of her. Yeah, because you took away the thing. She was like ready to let. And it really does go to show that the way you reacted back to that,

really made all the difference, right? If you got embarrassed and taken it back, you know what I mean? She would have kind of won and it would have been a totally different story, you know, but you were like, fuck yeah. And so where does she go with that? There's no place else to go. It's all about how you carry yourself. It's about how it carry yourself with confidence.

Yeah. And if somebody asks you or say something to you, you know, you respond back with confidence. Or sometimes in me, I have very, I have self-deprecating humor. So a lot of times, they're like, hey, are you wearing a hoax? I'm like, where, where? What are you talking about? Oh, you mean my socks? Okay, got you.

Yeah, yeah. But you never had any shame for, like, you were always, like, very clear about it, like, no shame or, like, was it just at that point in your life you got to that place? Like, had you had shame earlier? And then, like, what do you think changed in you that you were able to be so open and honest about it? It wasn't necessarily a shame thing. when I was younger, it was more of a curiosity thing that led to a more sexual thing when it came to my girlfriends.

But then as it became where it was my everyday dress, it was more like, this is my everyday dress. If you don't like how I'm dressed, oh, well, tough. Plus, you had no choice because you needed to wear them for the restless leg syndrome. So you were like in this like interesting place. It kind of, right? I mean it kind of forced you into being open and it was like the best thing that could have happened to you because you get to wear and you kind of have a reason for wearing you know what I mean but you also can be also honest about your fetish so you don't have to feel bad about it at the same time yes that is correct and not only that and and there was there was times where there's one story we have a kind of a local legend here and here and and Richmond and he he lives a little out he lives outside of Richmond and him and his wife were known to he he's a known cross dresser and I mean he and honestly I'll he had some damn good legs

I'll give him that even his wife had good looking legs yeah but they were known for you know dressing up very outlandishly and they would have these bells all over and they would you know kind of march up and down the the mall or the local Walmart and I remember with being with my my kids and when my kids were still young in elementary school and they saw these two walking and they were like like dad they all they're wearing the same thing you do i was like yeah they they are well how come everybody's laughing at them but not at you i said well because i'm not dressed like them but they have the confidence to dress like that right so the lot of people don't understand why they dress like that right and then and and uh and uh And my son was like, oh, okay. Well, why are they dressed like that? I said, because he wants to. And his wife wants to support him.

Exactly. Oh, okay. Where do your kilts come into play? So the kiltz came into play. Oh, my gosh. I got to thank my friend Steve for this one. So I have a friend, an old college buddy that I have known Kylie since 92. When we first met at Old Dominion University, he has always worn kiltz.

And there was a, there's a Celtic festival that would, and Highland Games that would come to Richmond every year. And for a while, it went away for about 20 years. And I do have Scottish heritage. On my mom's side, I had, you know, Scott's Irish. On my father's side, you know, the Stevenson name is, you know, the Stephens were the seps of the McTavish family back then. And then it all rolled down to, to me and my dad and all that stuff.

well, nobody in my family really wore kiltz whatsoever. And I wanted to pursue my heritage, so to say. And so my buddy, he was like, well, you know, you can always, you know, get yourself a kilt or something like that. But I was like, well, I don't have $500 to spend or whatnot. Yeah. It was, oh, no, and he showed me where I could find some online and everything. And so I started kind of going crazy because when you buy one kilt, you kind of want to buy a, more and it's more like a drug.

So here it is. Two, three years later, I end up, you know, like 13, 15 of them. Interesting. And you wear them all the time everywhere with your hose. Yes. I wear it all the time. I generally try to be very traditional looking where, so

I would tend to stay with the skin tone hosiery, but I do have utility kilt that I like to wear different colors with. Like, I have a black utility kilt. I like wearing my black hosiery with. My friend on the other hand who got me into kiltz he started trying on hosiery himself especially during the winter time how did i mean did he bring it up because he saw you wearing or did he end up oh okay

so he saw you wearing and then did he say oh by the way i wear too like what how did that conversation go so he he uh wanted to he likes to go out and jog he likes to uh exercise outside he's a very outside DIY kind of guy. Yeah. So he was like, I would like to be able to keep myself warm without having a lot of bulk, like having to wear bulky leggings or anything like that. And so I said, well, have you tried wearing, you know, try and wearing panty hose or try wearing some tights or something like that that would help keep your legs warm?

And so he tried it. Oh, so he had never been a hoser before. Right. Interesting. You turned him on. So he gave a try. Yes. And so he even wore.

wore it with his kilt. And he also has a skirt fetish himself. So he would wear him with his skirts as well. Wow. He has a skirt fetish too. How did that come up? We had always talked about different guy things and everything. Like I said, we've remained friends for over 30 years. And so he got to tell him about it. And so I kind of confided in him when it came to, he knew I was open about my hosier. He knew. I was, you know, unabashed about it. Yeah. So he was, well, he goes, well, I kind of have a skirt thing.

I'm like, okay, great. That's fine. He goes, you know, because you guys, you know I wear my kilts. I said, yeah. Well, he goes, I kind of also get skirts and stuff. But he gets, but the ones that he gets are, they're not frilly or anything like that. They're more like, they look almost like a kilt, but without all the frills in the back. Right.

so it's more business-like. Yeah, have you ever, has the kilt ever progressed for you into any other kind of clothing, feminine clothing? No. Okay, because kilt isn't really a feminine piece of clothing anyway, but it never progressed. Like for him, he did quilts, but he also liked dressing up. He was probably a hoser, but just didn't, pretended that this was something new that you were turning him on.

Don't you think he was maybe doing it before? I mean, come on. Maybe, possibly. I can't speak for him. That's typically the gateway jog If someone's into cross-dressing And pantyhows comes first typically But you know what?

Have them call into my show I love any kind of story that's different If it was separate But it's just interesting that But you know the truth is There's so many guys that are into panty-hose That you'd never know, you know? Right.

And it must be so great That you are so out and proud Like have you had any other guys come up to you And admit that they're into wearing pantyhose to Because they see you wearing? I have had, Since as Panty Host King would say, I'm an OG. Yeah.

Because he's like, because he's like, you've been wearing, because I would be on his, on, on, on, on a show, tights frame of mine. Yeah, you co-hosts with him too sometimes, right? I'll put a link to your guys podcast in the description for everybody. Okay. Yeah. Yes. I was, I was one of his co-hosts for, for quite a while until my business went crazy and it's like, I'd barely have time to do anything nowadays. Right.

And so I, I have had so many people online. message me. Because of the Instagram is what you're saying. Because you came out and became like a wearing on Instagram pictures, right? Oh, before that, I mean, I had put them out on Facebook years ago. I also was

on several other different platforms. And then I even had my own website where I did, where I did the hosiery reviews. Oh my God. Well, see, these are the things you need to tell me. Well, the thing was is that the hosiery, all right, so that website, finally, that blog got

shut down because I was having to use several different platforms to do for one posting. Yeah. Like if I did videos or anything like that and I wanted everything all in one spot. Yeah. I didn't want to have to be on YouTube. I didn't want to have to be Facebook. I didn't want to have to be this, that's it. So I decided to go completely on Instagram.

Right. And so and that's, that's primarily where things really exploded from that point on. Right. And that's how you became like an influencer you said. Correct. Yeah. That's correct. but we but how tired I'm trying to think it was oh I can't remember what the name of the website it was it was where you shared your pictures it wasn't it was prior to Instagram

I can have to remember name to save my life but the fact that matter is that's where I started posting a lot of my pictures there until I wanted to kind of consolidate everything and do everything just on Instagram alone and from from there and then people started following me from from that other site and they were like finding me on there and they're oh yeah yeah yeah I knew him oh yeah I I knew it speaking, oh, yeah, he's got, yeah, if you follow him, he's got that, and he's got that, he's got that. Well, fast forward, not only did I do reviews, but then, of course, TPK, you know, who goes, hey, you know, have you ever thought about doing a Patreon? Have you ever thought about doing, you know, stuff that was a little more on the, you know, risque side? I said, yeah, I've been one to do risque. And at one point, I even, you know, got into doing only fans at one, at one point. I end up shutting that down and then going to Patreon instead, because I just felt. like only fans had too much of a bad connotation. Yeah, yeah. And for what you're doing,

probably only, uh, Patreon was fine, right? You're not doing anything that explicit that you need only fans, right? Correct. I mean, I can still do, I mean, I still do explicit. Don't get me wrong. Okay. And I do have a small, yep, and I do have a small following on there. And, and that actually stemmed from, from a point when I was like so dead broke that I couldn't, you know, I couldn't even afford to pay attention, honestly. Right, right. So you needed the cash and my and my wife and my wife and i had had this and it was a particularly bad christmas we had we we were we were all of our accounts were overdrawn we were uh didn't know when where we're going to be able to you know i'm still still working and everything mind you but when you get paid

and everything's gone and because you've been in the negative for that you know you know you desperation calls for debt from things yeah and and i remember at one point my wife you know had had a at one point she was like if I ever had to sell my body a blah blah blah to make money you know she goes I would have it I was like maybe you might not have to sell your body I said but I said I might be able to do something similar yeah and I explained to her the whole only fans thing and she was like so she had so many questions and there was a particular Instagrammer that I followed if you had it I had it on only fans I was not a member of it but I had but she had given me a like a free access to kind of see what she did in order to be able for me to set up mine. Mm-hmm. And we set up a video conference between her and her husband and my wife and I, and we asked a million questions, and we asked all about everything that was going on. And long story short, my wife's like, look, I'll be your camera person.

You do whatever you need, you know, if we need to get props, we need to do that. She goes, I'll help you out. A lot of times she's the one that's behind the camera. Right. And so in the early days, and everything did okay. I mean, I didn't make a lot of money. I mean, still a little bit here and there. So any guys that are thinking about doing it, just understand, you're not going to make a lot of money.

I just, you know, maybe you might get gas money, but that's about it. Unless you're, like, very prolific on something. And I did that for almost three years. and I finally said, you know what? I need to shut this down. I need to rethink things. I need to,

and I got very lazy with it, and I will be very honest, I was very, very lazy just because I had so much else going on in my life. I just didn't have time to really take good care of it. Right. If you get what I'm saying. Yeah, it takes a hard work.

You have to tend to it all the time. It doesn't just, you don't build it, and then it takes off and takes care of itself. you have to tend to it always. Correct. And so that's when I, a few months later, I was like, why don't I just go with Patreon?

I said it doesn't have all the bad connotations to it. I can set things up on different levels instead of just one full, you know, level. I can do like a free level. I can do a teaser level. I could do a full explicit and full explicit with videos and stuff like that. And so that's when I ended up doing it that way. And honestly, I mean, I've had more fun with that than I did with the with the only fans. Yeah, I love that.

Let me ask you this, Rob. I want to like, I want to get all your information about your Patreon and what you do over there and all that kind of good stuff. But I'm going to do that as a Patreon only episode. I do have a hoser tear on my Patreon. And we could promote your Patreon over there to my hosers, right? They're your perfect people. But anyone that's listening to this episode on my podcast could also join your Patreon. I will put your links in the description.

If people want to hear your part two, they could go to Patreon and hear the rest of this. I got your backstory. Let me just ask you a couple more hoser questions before we end this and then get to the Patreon section. But like right now, are you still like when it comes to a hose, you're still wearing compression hose always? Is it always like, you know, high den tights, like compression hoses is what you wear, correct? I do. But what I do also, I do have to have a break from the squeeze. So I do wear fashion hosiery as well.

it's become a part of my everyday dress. So like for instance, right now, right now I'm actually wearing dance skin microfiber dance tights. Yeah. And you like those? They're not compression. Yeah. Okay, cool.

And what colors do you like to wear in the brands that you prefer? Like when you're wearing regular stuff? I prefer of written natural skin tones, but my favorite color to wear is silver. Silver? Interesting. Like a gray or a silver? Is it a tight? What's the denier that you like?

Generally, I prefer a 40 denier. That's my overall favorite. I'll go as low as 20, but I won't go any lower than that just because I am a communication worker. So I kind of have to have some durability. Yeah. But I mean, like for instance, these dance tights about roughly 70 denier, maybe 80. Oh, nice.

And they hold you in. I like, I prefer tights. I like high, I like, you know, high denier. I like tight. I like that feeling of holding myself in, not necessarily a compression, right? Because that could, you know, be, that's hardcore, but just regular tights. You do have a little bit of a compression feeling. And I do like that.

Some people do. You obviously do as well, right? Love it. I absolutely love it. And if it's too light, then I won't wear it. But if it's got like just a little bit of a squeeze to it, I'll wear them all the time. And I've got, and I mean, I've got brink. brands that I love to wear all the time. Dan Skins is one of them. Berkshires, one of them.

Of course, legs. That's a true classic. I wear Calzodonia. Oh, my gosh, what else? I've gotten lately I've gotten into wearing Manzi. Oh, I just heard of Manzi a lot from somebody else recently. Yeah. Oh, I love them. They have, they have such a good stretch to them and they have a high shine. And they're cheap. They're not expensive. I bought them myself to take a shower in them for my Patreon members. Someone made me do that for them.

And I got him Manzi and me Manzi. And this is what he wears. He's like a cam guy who wears pantyhose. And he's like he loves those because he doesn't have to worry about whether he rips them or anything. You get like six in a pound for like 18 bucks. It's like that's killer. I will say this. They are not cat proof.

Yeah, but it doesn't matter. That's what's so great about them. right? They're cheap. They're very cheap. I can at least get you know, I can at least get two pair for like 20 bucks man. I can't. I can't. It's right. I got like six for like 18. No? Isn't that the same ones? No, it's probably the same ones. It's just the ones I got were like off of Amazon.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay. But anyway, so you like those and you and love them. Yeah. So we're going to finish this conversation over my Patreon. People, I have exclusive content over there and they could hear more about you. I'm going to give your link to Patreon though for people to listen there. Maybe you'll be back on on my podcast again to talk about other things. Hoser related, but we got your backs right here and give out your

shout out to your Instagram as well so people could go follow you over there. Yep. Yeah, if you can find me on Instagram now, people know I'm a Star Wars fan so it's Darth underscore Rob underscore Speed King. I love it. So if you want if people wonder why Speed King

is because you know like the Deep Purple song Speed King from their 1970s in rock album. Yeah, that's your metalhead in you. Okay, listen, Rob, thanks so much for calling in for my Fetish Friday episode, and we're going to continue this conversation over on Patreon. But thanks for calling in. Finally.

Thank you. Thank you. Thanks. Bye. Bye. Bye. Bye. Okay.

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