Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1557 - Harlow is Hotwfing for Her Bi Husband

Episode Date: August 17, 2026

Harlow is hotwifing for her bi husband and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including their first threesome with a female friend and why she got jealous, how her husband asked for a free pass to hook up with guys while he was away and how she reacted, their threesome with a lesbian that her husband set up and what went down, why she enjoyed that threesome so much more and how and why she continued hooking up with the woman solo, how and when her husband brought up wanting to see her with another guy and how long it took her to agree, their first two failed experiences with guys and what went wrong, where they go to find guys, how her husband vets them and why she prefers him to take charge, the older bull they met and their first hookup with him and what went down, the rules they had going in and which ones quickly went out the window, exactly what went down the next time they hooked up with him and why she loved watching her husband with him, how and why they film their experiences and why she loves watching the videos afterward, why she started an OnlyFans and what she gets out of guys watching her, how she got into pegging her husband and how she feels about it, why she now calls their bull her “boyfriend” and what that actually means, the fantasy she and her husband have about getting “caught” with their bull and why they haven't pulled it off yet, plus a whole lot more. GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  or Pre-order audiobook version ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To see HOT pics of HARLOW plus my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[e-mail]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:   ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beduc.at/pd2630-anonymous⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Click here to take the quiz and  get your personalized SUMMER roadmap to sexual happiness  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://LoadBoost.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- To get 10% off LOAD BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY  Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ X  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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pegging and they started having threesomes with women. That happened very early on. She tells the story of all the threesome that they had with women. She had one threesome that didn't go so well. And then her husband went away for work. And then they were really communicating about having more threesome than what they would do. And her guy asked for a free pass to be with guys. while he was away, which is that's where I'm like, wow, I give him credit that he was so open and honest. And she gave him a free pass and she talks about that. And then they had a threesome with a lesbian and he came home even though she wasn't into the first threesome and got jealous. She was down for the lesbian threesome. And then she continued with that girl. And then eventually came out that he

wanted to see her with a guy. They had two failed experiences. She goes through all the stories. You're going to hear a lot of stories from her. The two first guys that they met, she talks about where they found them and how they would vet them and how and why her husband did most of the work and how she rolls and what she was looking for in guys. They have the same taste in guys and so they were always looking for guys where her guy would be with the guy too. She is turned on by seeing her guy with other guys. The third guy was a charm. He's their bull to this day. She calls him her boyfriend. We talk about that towards the end. Like, what the fuck does that word mean? And they hooked up with him a bunch of times and she gives all those stories. It was like a great

experience the first time they hooked up. She did DVP. She talks all about it. She eventually started an only fan. She only does like solo stuff there. None of this stuff, even though she tapes the stuff with her ball. She doesn't post that over on only fans. It's just some, private stuff of just her. If you want to see her, she's super hot. She gives a shout out to her only fans on my, uh, towards the end. We talk about her pegging him as well, as well as like, like I said, why she started content. And then we do just. discuss in detail, like why she calls him her boyfriend and what that means and what they plan on doing with this guy. It's a super interesting episode. So I'm going to get right to. And she's super

hot. So you can see pictures of her over on my Patreon or on my Discord because like I said, her husband's my Discord moderator. So she'll definitely be posting over there. So but anyway, I'm going to get right to and be right back on with Harlow. Hey Harlow, welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. Where are you today? Good. How are you? Good. So listen, Harlow. I know your guy. Okay. He was a listener and then he was on my Discord and then I made him my moderator. I don't even know how that happened, but he's been my moderator on my Discord. And he's been kind of keeping me posted about like, you know, getting you into the hot wafing thing. And I think that that's always like super interesting to get the story from the woman who's like, I'm assuming guy came to her one day and, you know, said this is what I'm into. and then, you know, how you felt about it, and then, you know, how long it took before you got into it. So let's start out with, like, you know, how long you guys been together and all that kind of good stuff.

We have been together, I think, oh, God, I think we're married eight years this year, so together nine. You sound super young. How old are you, Harla? 30. Okay, so you're young. So you've been together for a long time since you're very young. Yeah.

Right? Like high school sweetheart or how did you mean? No. No, no, I met him in college. We actually are a Tinder love story. Oh, you're kidding. Like a Tinder, like, let's just fuck story, but we wound up pulling in love. Yes. You were both on there just looking for booty calls. Yep. Like a one night stand? Yeah. No way, Harlow. What was going on with you? Had you just broken up with a boyfriend or were you just like that kind of girl that's like, oh, I'm just looking for some fun sex and I don't want to get involved? No, actually, I am like, tragically just a long-term relationship person. So you were trying to break your spell? Yeah. Yeah, I got out of a really bad relationship and was kind of like left in the dust. So I got on the Tinder.

Oh my God. You thought, okay, I'm just going to live it up and not get in a relationship, but you wind up on there back in another relationship. Yep. That's what happens to relationship people. You know what I mean? It's like you're either a relationship person or you're not. And there's nothing wrong with that, you know, because you guys have been together for a long

time. So how has like, you know, before we'll get to the point where he winds up asking you like, like, or revealing that he's into like this kind of thing. But like, you know, what was your sex life like in the past nine years? Are you both very, were you always very vanilla couple, where you're very open and curious and trying everything? Like, what was the deal? So I think in the beginning, I was very vanilla coming into this. I've never had anybody who was like ready to explore and like try new things and like just be anything other than missionary, I guess. Right, yeah. But he has never, I don't think ever been very vanilla. So he kind of like suppressed a lot of that for me. And then we kind of just started introducing like the possibility of maybe doing a threesome, you know, when we were like drinking or out with our friends or whatever. And kind of eventually led into us, you know, going to the bar one night with one of our friends. And she was kind of into it. We were into it. So we ended up having a threesome. And with a girl. Yes, with a girl. Now let me ask you this, Harlow, had you ever been into girls in the past?

Like, were you, like, ever with a girl? Or was this going to be your first time? Or maybe you weren't even with her? I don't know. First time. I've always been, like, attracted to women. I think women are beautiful, obviously. I never really thought that I would be into a woman sexually.

I was very into it in the moment. And then kind of, like, in the middle of things, I got really uncomfortable and jealous and, like, shut it down. Interesting. Well, listen, that could happen. Happen. You never know, you know what I mean? So what happened? Because so like you go into this, let me ask you this, because you guys are young. How old, how much older is your guy then? Yeah. He's four years older. Okay. So he's not that much older. So you're both like super young. And I'm assuming maybe you don't create like you don't really think it through so much or what were there like rules or

boundaries or you're just like go in and have this threesome without really even preparing for it. Yes. Yeah. I think at that moment in time I was kind of like doing it because it was something that he really was into and like she was really into it. and we were all drinking and it was fun and having a good time. So yeah, there were no rules. We didn't really discuss anything. It was kind of just like a whisper in my ear at the bar. Hey, we're going to bring her home. Yeah, I'm cool with that.

Let's do it. And then just kind of was not into it. And it was known though, like, I mean, that he could fuck her too. It wasn't just going to be like you're going to hook up with her. I think so. But I mean, but he fucked her and you got jealous, right? I mean, is that what happened? Well, so, no, actually, I was riding him and she sat on his face and we went to make out and I was like, oh, I don't like you sitting on his face.

Okay, so, but wait, let me ask you this. Was it kind of like you can't fuck her, but you could do anything else? I think so. We really didn't discuss like anything. We were kind of just like, you know, going through like the motions, just trying to have fun. Right. Okay. So, and that's there and lies the problem.

So the minute. she starts going for your guy because you're all having a threesome and she thinks he's on like he's not off limits really right right right up into that point she sits on his face and then you realize you're jealous yes okay and then you stop it all you shut it down this is this your good friend no we actually haven't spoken since oh but okay but before she sat on your husband's face was she your good friend um like kind of i mean we were like college acquaintances i wouldn't say we were like best friends or anything. Okay, but so this got you guys in a fight to the, to like so much so that you haven't talked since because of it? No, I think it just became kind of awkward and it was just

one of those friendships that like it wasn't really like that big of a thing anyways. So it kind of just fizzled out and it just it is what it is. Okay, but in that moment, did you freak out and kick her out or like how did you deal with your jealousy in that moment for that threesome? I don't remember like freaking out. This was like in the beginning of, our relationship. So it was like a long time ago. I don't remember freaking out. I think I just kind of sat back and I was like, hey, I don't really like this.

Like, could you maybe leave? Yeah, yeah. Okay. And so you and him, I'm assuming, discuss it. And how do you work through it and pass it? Do you decide you're never going to have a threesome with a girl again? Like what happens after that? So we kind of talked about it.

And I think that's when we decided like maybe this isn't what we should be doing right now. And he, we ended up like getting married. and he went overseas and stuff. So while he was overseas, he was, you know, we would talk about, you know, the idea of another threesome and him hooking up with other guys while he was over there and how I felt about it. Oh my God. But wait a second. You got to slow it down. So had you always had you known that he was into guys before or was this something that he brought up like while you were chatting once he was away?

Or was he always open about that? Yeah. With me, he's, he's always been open about it. awesome that's great so you knew going into this relationship that that's who this guy was yes okay was very different and open minded but also very honest and i give him credit like he put that on the table he was never doing shit behind your back which is typically the case oh my god i mean yeah especially with guy on guy action a lot of people are like hesitant to tell people that you know because they're afraid of uh this because they're such a stigma you know but he was like yeah he was so

open and what what's amazing about him is that he's away and he could be like blowing guys in the barracks or doing what he's doing, you know what I mean, but he actually asks you for permission. Yeah. Oh, absolutely. Yeah, that's pretty amazing. And what did you say? Oh, it was always, yeah, you know, as long as you're safe, like I would like to know, like when you're doing it, that way, you know, I can report if you're missing for too long. You're smart, smart girl. Yes. And so did he hook up a lot when he was there? Did you ever have, like, did you, did you, let me ask see this, did you ever have like any regrets allowing it or were you always totally cool with it? Totally cool. Okay, cool. So the guy and guy thing was fine with it. Did you like details were you

turned on by it? Or was it just something that you allowed him to do? At first, it was just kind of something I allowed him to do. He would tell me about it, but it wasn't like something, I wasn't there to witness it. So it wasn't like a big to do for me. Yeah. He had he had his fun. He enjoyed himself. He's getting something that I can't personally give to him. Yeah. So all, by all means, you know. Go ahead. And in a weird way, like, you know, because listen, when you're living long distance like that and a guy's over there, you'd rather him be like telling you he's screwing a guy than doing

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Todd and the bedroom. Okay, so all right, so keep going. So, you know, in the beginning you didn't, like, maybe you've had threesomes with guys and him since. I don't know. We'll work up to that. So he's away. He's asking you.

And you're still talking, though, about you guys doing a threesome together again, right? Yeah. So he was coming back for like a two-week leave. Mm-hmm. And in that time, he was like, you know, I have a friend who, you know, is kind of into you. And I think, like, she's a lesbian or whatever.

she might be actually down to do like a threesome with us. Is that something you'd be okay with? And I was like, well, maybe we can explore it. Like, can I, you know, talk to her, maybe get to know her, which is how I found out that I really need to be, like, comfortable with someone in order to be able to, like, have sex with them. Let me ask you this. The fact that she was a lesbian, was that better for you because you knew that she wasn't

going to hook up with your guy? Yes. Okay, cool. So, yeah. So he actually, he came home and we did end up. having a threesome with her. And we discussed rules this time, you know, like, no kissing, like you're not allowed to fuck her. It was very, like, basic rules, but things that felt like it should be kept between him and I. And then in the middle of that threesome, I was really comfortable with her and with him and with the whole idea of the three of us being together.

And I gave him permission to kiss her and to fuck her. And we just had a great time. Yeah. crazy. Yeah. You must have even been like, who the fuck am I? You know what I mean? Because you like, you're like a total opposite of what went down the first time.

Yep. Yep. It was completely different. And like I said, you know, I think it's because I, I knew her and I was comfortable with her. And I knew like the outcome of it. And I was getting to know like a little bit better like, hey, this is just fun. We're not like nobody's loving anybody else here. Like this is still me and him at the end of the day.

We're just like bringing this person in. to have a really good time. And I also think, and it's not intentional on your part, really, but I do think that actually having conversations beforehand and settings a little rules and boundaries, whether you follow them or not, gives you some sort of sense of feeling more in control of the situation than when it happens out of the blue. And you know what I mean? And you, right?

So it's like, so I think that that played a part too, that you felt like more in control. you guys discussed it and everything. So I think there's a very different vibe to that threason than there was to the first one. Absolutely. Yeah. Yeah. So you liked it and, you know, because she was a lesbian, was she really good at like going down on you and everything? Yes.

Okay. And let me ask you this. This time you're not jealous. Are you into seeing him fuck the other girl? Yeah. I was really into it. Okay. Interesting.

A little cock queen? Yep. And then her and I actually ended up playing a couple more times while he was away as well. Oh, wow. You guys got like free passes to be gay. Yeah. You're like the perfect pair. You know, that's great.

And so you would hold up with her and it was the same kind of rules like just tell me when you're doing it, blah, blah, blah. Would you like film it or send a pics or anything? A couple, yeah. Okay, cool. So, and how was that experience being with her solo? it was a lot of fun we didn't get to do it as often as we would have liked we didn't live in like the same town or anything so it was kind of have to be like a sneaky thing here and there but it was a lot of fun and we still you know we're still friends with her we still chat with her here and there so

okay cool so you now you're down for like the um f f threesomes yep okay go on we actually have not done another three-sum with a girl since her. How come? Because you got into the whole guy thing? Yeah, he just kind of brought that up one day. I didn't think that was something he'd ever want to do. I didn't think that was something I'd ever want to do. I was like, no, you know, it's you forever.

I don't need another penis ever, you know? Uh-huh. Like so weird that he got drunk one night and he's like, you know, I think it would be so fun to watch someone fuck you. And it caught me off guard. I was like, no, you're joking. You're drunk. Like you're just talking out your ass at this point.

But no, he was persistent about it. And he kept bringing it up even when he was sober. And I was like, no, this is, there's no way. You'd be okay with that. And then so finally he talked me into it. And our first experience was kind of like a last minute thing. You know, we were at some kind of event and we were out and drinking. And he was trying to find a guy that was,

willing, you know, to hook up with us. And I ended up going up to a gay guy at the bar who kept, like, looking at us, you know, and asking him if he wanted to come back to the hotel room with us and fuck my husband. And he agreed. He came back with us. Was he going to fuck you or no? Because he's gay. No.

Okay. No. So the first threesome is just going to be, it's not giving him what he wants, which is you fucking a guy, but you're going to be there watching him. Yes. Yep. And it ended up being awful, just terrible. The guy was super drunk.

He couldn't stay hard and like he had a really hard time performing with me there. He was willing to fuck me. He did try at one point, but it just did not work at all. So we ended up, you know, sending him home and just, you know, like we'll try again. Let me ask you this real quick. How long ago was this whole change of like, no more girls. Let's bring in a guy. I'd say probably.

About five years ago. Okay, cool. So, but you agree soon, like how long after he brought it up did you say okay to it? Probably a full year. Okay, cool. So it took a full year of him continuously bringing it up. Even though you said no, which is interesting, right? And it gives other guys hope that.

Just because your girl says, no at first, like, you know, listen, I'm sure, and I'm hoping, he wasn't pressuring you about it, but every known that he would bring it up, right? Like, he played the long game. Yeah. And I mean, he just kind of brought it up, you know, as our relationship evolved and we got more comfortable with each other and like the jealousy stages went away and we're just like really established and who we are as a couple. So he would just kind of bring it up and say, you know, like, how are you feeling about it? Is that something you'd maybe consider doing? And, you know, one point I just said, you know, yeah, let's do it. Like if this is something you really want, like let's try it out. You know, I just don't want a disaster like our first experience with a woman. So. Right. So the first time, though, wasn't so great because it was the guy. Yeah. And why did you pick a gay guy that time just because he was just the only person available? Well, I think I just wanted to really see my husband with another man.

Okay. And just kind of like get an idea of what that felt like for me. Uh-huh. Because I'd never personally seen it. And I know it's something that he's in, you know, he enjoys and he didn't have it for a really, really long time. And I wanted to be able to provide that for him, I guess. Right. Now, I know it wasn't a good experience, but did you, was there any part of it that, like, made you realize that you are into seeing your guy with other? guys? That time or no? No, it didn't really last long enough. Oh yeah. The guy really couldn't,

he, he just couldn't perform in front of me. So no, we just kind of went back to our regular, you know, when he needed it, I would peg him. So. Okay, so you guys were into pegging. Do you like pegging? Do you enjoy pegging? Yeah, I do. Yeah. It's a little bit more difficult because obviously I can't feel things, but he really enjoys it. So I, you know, I'm really into. to his pleasure as well. Yeah, which I love. Okay, so what happens after that guy? After that guy, it took us a little while, but I think we ended up going on Reddit and asking

for a third, for some kind of event we were doing in a different, like a bigger city to see if somebody, you know, could meet up with us or something. Yeah. And my husband was like vetting a bunch of people on Reddit. And they ended up falling through, but we found one, like, close to our hometown who ended up coming over to our house for a threesome. Okay. Yeah. And that was, it was an okay experience.

I don't know. Guys really have a hard time just keeping it up for both of us. That could tell. Listen, that happens, right? And it's not like, you know, maybe you've just got a couple of bad luck. You know, you're kind of bad luck. It's like a little bit of a bad luck that you had a couple in a row. but it's actually more common than you think, right?

In the lifestyle, in threesomes, in couple swabs. It's not like it doesn't happen. You know, it unfortunately does. But paint the picture of the guy. Like who, like, because you guys are super young. Is this a young guy that's around your guy's age? Like what, what do you, you know, what was it about him that you picked him? Like, what was your type of what you were looking for?

We look for typically like a little bit more built. I think he said that he will take height. into consideration because I am a taller woman. I'm already taller than my husband. So he tries to get somebody that's a little bit taller than me to kind of, you know, play a different role than he can play. Yeah, that makes sense. Okay. So this was a tall built guy. Yeah. Yeah. Okay, cool. And was older or younger? He was, I think, younger than I am. But he just wasn't into men. So he had a really hard time with the idea of my husband participating in the threesome. You know, we were able to play some.

It wasn't like the worst experience I've ever had, but it wasn't like the best either. Okay. It was like mediocre, I guess. Okay. Go on. I'm assuming you have some good experiences. We'll get to them. Oh, yes.

Yeah, okay, cool. So that second one, not so great either. What happened back? We took a break for a little bit. We do have children. And so, you know, life kind of got in the way. But just this year, earlier this year, we were going to a concert again in a bigger city. So he posted on Reddit looking for a third, like a couple months before the concert.

Like I want to say like four months before because I personally prefer to get to know somebody before we add them in. So we ended up vetting. He vetted so many people. And typically I don't even get to know. their names or what they look like, who they are until he's fully through the vetting process. And then he will start a Snapchat with them and add me in and kind of introduce me that way. And that works for both of you? Yes.

Yeah. You prefer it that way. Yes. Yeah. I want him to be fully comfortable with, you know, the whole situation before I'm even, like, he's my protector. So if he says this guy's a good one, then I believe him. Right.

And he knows your type. And he's are all these, are you always going into these situations? And I don't know, are you finding the guys on Reddit or a different app? Reddit, mostly. Okay.

So are you going into all these situations as like a couple with a by guy? Yes. Okay. So all these guys know. So he's involved too. Like he needs to be attractive. You guys have the same taste in guys, obviously, right?

So that's a good thing. Okay. And, all right. And typically listen, if a guy's going to fuck some guy's wife, he should, you know,

he's got to be in a good. terms on good terms with the guy the the wife's husband you know yes yes respectful at the very least yeah so who's the friend any so what who's the next guy so the next one is actually a bowl that we've been playing with now and is actually I guess our boyfriend at this point I don't know what that word means but we'll we'll suss it out later okay he is older How old? He's 40. Okay, he's 40.

That's very old to you, isn't it? When you're 30? I mean, not really. I think when I was 30, I thought, into older people. Okay, I think when I was 30, I thought people in their 40s were so old. And now I'm so much even older. So I'm like, imagine what I think of myself now. I thought I was 30.

Okay, so he's an older guy, but you both were into him. Yes. Okay, cool. Okay. And he vetted him for you. He's the first guy after the second flop, right? Yep. Okay.

And so what went down the first time you hooked up with him? And what happened with the like the talking? Like did you talk to him for a long time? Because he eventually brings you into a snap, right? Snapchat with him? Yeah. So that's how I communicate with them. He communicates with them on Reddit through the vetting process.

And then he will communicate with them on Snap. And once he feels comfortable, he will add me into a group snap. Yeah. And that group snap is how I've communicated with him the whole time. So my husband is involved through every single part of it. Okay, great. Right. And he's always in there.

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and he's three hours away from us. I think we ended up chatting for two and a half months. And then we actually planned another trip for my 30th birthday to go out and meet with him. Because we just couldn't wait any longer to like meet and have our session. And just like there was so much sexual tension. We needed to like burn it off before meeting up for the concert. Right. Because this is a long time that you're talking to him.

Yes. Right? Yep. And because of schedules and logistics and all that. Yep. Right. Okay, cool. But you were totally into him and horny for him by this point.

Yes. Right. Because you're sexting, I'm assuming, via snap and everything. Yeah. Okay. So where do you wind up meeting up that first time and what went down? So he ended up meeting us at our hotel. And I was so nervous.

And we ended up like in the hot tub and just kind of like feeling each other under the water. and then back in the hotel room and we all kind of like we started in the shower and just kind of played in the shower and then we played in the bed and I didn't get to experience them being together that first time. Like a little bit, but not as much as I would have preferred because I like my husband to be very much involved. They are both by men. They both enjoy being with men as well as women and were very much into each other

as well. So we just had so many things to do and we just, you know, we don't have so much time. They didn't get to be with each other, but you did a lot with the both of them that time? Yes. Yes. And did you do like spit roasting? Any DPs or DVPs are like, I don't know, what kinds of configurations did you do? Yeah. We definitely did DVP. You did? I'm always shocked that. People just go for that. enjoy. Yeah. Okay.

Yeah. Okay. Did you know, like, did you mock that up with toys and stuff beforehand that you knew? Yes. Oh, okay. Cool. So you always knew that you were into that. And you did it with this guy, that first night?

Mm-hmm. Yeah, the first night. And how was it the real thing? I can imagine it would be 10 times better than the toys. Oh, so much better. Right. Yes. So much better.

It's now like a craving that I have because, you know, once you get that stretch, it's hard to get it again. Yeah, I can imagine. both parties. Yeah, yeah, yeah. If you're used to feeling that and you know what that feels like, right? Anything less might be not as great. Yep. Yeah. And it was just really great the whole time too, you know, very respectful of like all of our boundaries. And this time we kind of went into it. We didn't have as many rules. I don't do personally anal. So that was off the table for me. But as far as rules went, that was pretty much our only one. Condoms were at first or

requirement and we kind of blew that off immediately. He snipped. My husband snipped, so we weren't worried about anybody, you know, getting pregnant. And we ended up doing a cream pie situation, which they both were very, very into. So condoms just ended up not being a thing with him. He's clean. We vetted him. We're clean, you know, so it wasn't really like a big deal. Now, I mean, your husband is like getting all of his fantasies in this one time, right? Like, finally? Yes. And you too? I'm assuming I don't know. Like, did you love this whole experience, considering you finally had like somebody that you were very into, someone that could perform, performed well? Yeah. It ended up being more than I even imagined it could be since all of

our previous experiences were kind of just awful. Yeah, yeah, crazy. In comparison. Yeah. So yeah, it was a lot of fun. And we immediately wanted to do it again. So after that, he lives by you, right? No, no, no. He lives three hours away from us. Oh, he does. Okay, so it was such a good experience. This was for your birthday, right?

Yes. Okay. And so what did you wind at? Where did, like, tell me about like the lead up and everything to the next time you hooked up with him. So the next time would be the concert, which was what we originally asked for. Okay. And he ended up. So the first experience with him, we played two nights in a row.

And then for the weekend of the concert, we were also supposed to play the night of the concert and the night after. But he ended up getting called into work the night after. So we only got to play the night of the concert, which wasn't as great because it was kind of like a time crunch. You know, like he's got to work the next day. He's an hour away from the venue site. And the concert went kind of late. So it felt like a little bit more rushed, but also not at the same time. They got to play a little bit more.

I got to see and experience them being together more, which I was very much into. But you did skip over the second night of the first time you were with him. Did they hook up more of the second night or was it still just them with you the second night of that first time? Oh, yeah. Yeah. Still just them with me. They played just a little bit, but not. And what is a little bit?

Like just blow jobs? Yeah. Okay. Is your husband a top or a bottom, a switch, a verse, whatever it's called? Uh, bottom. He's a bottom. them. Okay, but they didn't do that that time or the second time that you're with him. No.

Okay, but you get turned on seeing him with the guy? Yes. Okay, it's like a turn on for you. Okay, so tell me, so that third time, it's rush, but like what goes down that time? They do more? Yeah, so I actually got to experience him, ride our bowl, which was amazing. What is ride him? What's the position of ride?

So kind of like the same as. like a man and a woman with the woman on the top. Yeah, interesting. But my husband was on the top. Oh, is that how guys do it sometimes? Yeah, apparently. I didn't know that either. Yeah, that's why I was like, oh my God, paint the picture. I don't even know. You know what I mean? You always picture like guys together like someone's bent over, right? Like fucking him in the end. Yeah, right? Or on all fours. But never did I know that? That's interesting. Does your guy ever, we'll talk more about pegging too after this. But like, does your guy ever, like, had he gotten on top of you that way? way when you were pegging him in the previously? Yeah.

Oh, okay. So he knew that move. Yes. He's a professional. We're like, very much a professional. I'm just clueless. Yes. Guys are like, yeah, Kelly, that's how guys do it all the time because I would just

never think of that. Okay, so he gets on top of him. Where are you when he's on top of him? So I was the cameraman, obviously, because we film our experiences with him, just for us and for him. It's not something that we share anywhere, but I was the cameraman. and I've learned that I'm terrible at it because I don't pay attention to the camera. I pay attention to the experience.

Oh my God. So wait. So all of a sudden, like a good part's coming and you're like looking at it and your camera's going in another direction? Like you don't even capture it? Kind of. I just, I guess I didn't get all up in the right angles and like move around. I kind of just like stayed in one spot. I think I was just like shell shocked.

This was my first time, you know, seeing him with another man. Yeah. in this very intimate way. And they were both, you know, they were both so into it. And it just kind of felt like I, not that I didn't exist. Like they both were well aware that I was still in the room. But they were lost in each other. Yeah.

Yeah. Yeah. And that makes sense because it's like very pleasurable, you know? Yeah. Mm-hmm. Did it bother you? No. Okay.

Cool. So, and do you enjoy, because you take these videos, you know, do you enjoy watching them? Is it your husband's thing that he likes watching? Or do you both like watching them together? We like to watch them together. Okay, so you get off on seeing it too. Yes.

And when you guys are both like involved, is it typically like one of you guys is filming? Or do you ever just like put it on a tripod and just film the whole thing from afar? Typically my husband is the one who's filming. He's a lot better being like in the moment, but also, you know, being the cameraman, he's a very good cameraman.

Right, knowing what guy. We do have a tripod. Yeah, we have a tripod that we put up sometimes. But he gets, you know, up close and personal. He gets the perfect angles. So it really just depends on the situation. Obviously, you know, we didn't film the whole thing, but the really good parts. You know, we have memories of those.

Yeah, so it's like your own porn. Yeah, absolutely. I don't even watch porn anymore, if I'm honest. Yeah. Oh, my God. So do you like, like, what is your favorite thing? And we're going to get more into pegging because I'm curious about that. But like what is your favorite thing?

You've had threesome with girls. You've had hookups with the guys. You know what I mean? Do you prefer the threesome with the guys or the girls? The guys for sure. Okay. So do you think you'll ever be with a girl again? Is that something that you ever think about?

Yeah. Yeah. Because, you know, I'm still evolving too. And I am still into women. I think it would just, you know, be one of those situations where I think if we really got to know her and maybe even a couple, I would. kind of be into, you know, maybe doing a swap or in the same room kind of situation just to kind of feel it out and see, you know, how it goes. Yeah, why not? Considering you were turned

on by seeing him with another woman, right? He's into guys. He likes seeing you fuck another guy. So a couple swap is like right up your alley. Are you guys on other any apps or just read it at this point? Like today, I'm on a lot of stuff now. Okay, like where? I do have an only fan. Oh, you do? Okay. I do.

So what do you shoot for that? For that, it's basically solo play. Okay, you're like a hot chick doing stuff for guys. Yeah, yeah. Just kind of something for fun and a little extra income. And so what's your, give a shout out to your only fans? It's Harlow Graves. Harlow Graves.

Harlow Graves, G-R-A-V-E-S? Yep. Okay, cool. And so what do guys get when what do you do? there and do you get off on like knowing that guys are watching you and I'm assuming your husband does? Oh yes. It's a lot of fun. I've only been doing it a month. Oh, okay. Yeah, I'm already in the top 13% of creators. How come? Why do you think? I think a lot of it has to do with just, I made new accounts. I made a Reddit, a Twitter, all kinds of different, you know, platforms to kind of

promote myself, I guess. So we've kind of gained a following through that. My sister also has an only fan, so she kind of shouted me out as well. She's been established for a little bit, so I got a lot of followers from her. What a world we live in nowadays that you and your sister are doing only fans together. I know. How old's your sister? She's 35. Okay, so she's older than you. And who tells you first that I got an only fans? I'm assuming your sister, because she had to have it before yeah because you just started yeah so she came to you one day and was like oh by the way I'm doing only fans are you and your sister just very open to eat with each other no actually we weren't very open to each other I just kind of was texting her and my other sister in a group chat one

day and I was like you know I hate my job this job's the worst and she's like well you should try you know doing porn or whatever and I was like excuse me like only fans she was like yeah so I texted her separately and I said give me the details I think this is what I need to do and what and then that's when she caught to the fact that she had one because I'm assuming you didn't even know. Yeah. I kind of knew through the grapevine. You know, she had like mentioned it to my sister and my mom, but she never directly told me about it. So I never asked.

Well, it sounds like your sister is very open. The fact that she told your mother, your sister, right? Mm-hmm. Yeah. Okay. And what does she do on hers? Same shit that you do? Yeah.

She has a different niche than I do. What's her niche? Her niche is mommy. Oh, I mean, you're like, I'm your Dom mommy. Yeah. Okay. And yours, I'm a hot chick. Yeah, just like alternative girl.

Alt girl? Okay. Yeah. Okay. And so you gave shout, do you have a big Reddit? You want to give a shout out to who you are and all these other things, too? My name is actually the same on pretty much everything. Okay, that's smart.

Yeah, that's great. So Harlow Graves, on X, on Reddit, right? And now only fans that you just started. But guys could do customs and all that kind of stuff, and then they get, like, content of you. solo playing and stuff like that? Yeah. Yeah, I have a whole menu that I offer as soon as you sub to my page, which is free. Right.

And you like the interaction with the guys that you're meeting there, I would assume. And is your husband like tending to that with you? So he's like in the know since you do everything together? Oh yes. Yeah. Right. If, yeah, nothing is kept from him. Nothing is secretive.

Like it's all out in the open the second anything becomes secret. or feels off, then we're done. Yeah, but it doesn't sound like it's ever been that way. But the fact, it's because you're both very honest, especially him with you. So, you know, and listen, because it's his kink to share you with guys in real life, like sharing you online is going to be the same, like, thing for him. He's going to get in. He's going to be into these guys wanting you. You know what I mean?

Because he's got that kink for it, you know, right? Yep. And so when did he tell you that he was into pegging? That actually came before. four our first threesome. So he brought that up early on. Early, very early. Yeah. He was like, you know, I just want to be honest and open.

Like, this is something that I do enjoy. Is that something that you think you could ever, like, be okay doing for me? Uh-huh. And like his experience, you know, growing up and like the experiences that he had with other men. And I don't think that he had ever really told a partner about this side of him. So I felt honored that he even. brought it up to me and felt comfortable enough, you know, with me to tell me about it.

This, I mean, this was before he even proposed. Yeah, that's crazy. So he was very open with you for some reason. Maybe he just knew that you'd be okay and down. You know what I mean? That's why he put a way. Yeah. That's why you're his wife.

Yeah. Yeah. And so, like, were you like, I would assume, I don't know, because I've heard it from a lot of women that get into pegging. Like, oh, sometimes, you know, they're not really like that into it. it, they just do it for their guy. But then sometimes when a woman pegs for the first time she realizes, like, she is into it. Like, how did you feel about it before?

And then how did you feel about it like the first time you did it? I think before it was kind of the, you know, like I'm doing this because this is what he would like for me to do. Yeah. This is something he's into. Yeah. And it was just kind of like a weird thing. I was so vanilla.

I didn't really know, you know, what to do in this sense. So it was very, you know, strange. And I was like, oh, yeah, you know, I'll do it as long as you want me to do it. But I'm not going to like initiate doing it. Yeah. And I still don't initiate it now just because it's a very specific mood that he needs to be in. Right. And I never want to like force him into feeling like he needs to do it with me.

I think he would prefer for me to be a little bit more dominant and just say no, like this is happening. Yeah. But, you know, there's prep and stuff that's involved with that. So does your sister know about this part of your life? No. Does anyone know? You guys. Right.

So nobody. I mean, listen, it's no one's business. I was just wondering about your sister because she knew about everything else. I mean, about the only fans I was just wondering. But you're never going to put any of that stuff on your only fans anyway. Because she knows you have an only fan. Like you're not going to out yourself, right? Right.

I think as of right now, no. I think maybe in the future. You might. Right. Yeah. But as far as the bowl that we're working, with now. He doesn't want any part of being on any type of platform, which is totally okay. Right. Exactly. Yeah. So I think we're okay with just keeping that part to ourselves for now and

we're just sharing me on the internet. But let me ask you this because I forgot, I almost forgot. I'm glad that I did it. But let's talk about the fact that you call him your boyfriend. What the fuck does that mean? So he's just, I don't know, we just consider him to be my boyfriend. Your boyfriend. You said our boyfriend before, but your boyfriend? Kind of our. You know what I mean? So I don't ever talk to him separately. My husband's always involved. It's always, you know, in the group chat. But it was kind of just brought up recently that I like the idea of being married and having a boyfriend. What does boyfriend mean to you? Because I, to me, it means something very specific, but I need to know what you're talking about when you use that word. Like what's your definition of a boyfriend? I guess I'm not really sure. I know that he's not with anyone besides us.

Okay. So I like the idea of that. We're not with anyone besides him. I mean, obviously, each other. But like I just kind of get his attention. Right. But is there like romantic feeling? Like I would think, like I'm just going to explain my definition of a boyfriend.

A boyfriend to me, because listen, I've had boyfriends and I've had booty call guys. You know what I mean? Like hookup buddies. And a hookup buddy is very different than a boyfriend. And the difference to me is the booty co guy. I just fuck him. But he's probably my great friend. But I'm not into him romantically.

If someone's my boyfriend, I like to fuck them. And I want to go out to dinner with them. I want to talk to them. I want them to send me text all the time. Like, you know what I mean? I like them. I get the butterflies for that. You know, like that's a boyfriend.

Like, is that what you have with this guy? Or is it more like he's a husband? hookup guy, but and you just like to use the term boyfriend. No, I would say the second option. Yeah. The second one, it's more than a booty call. Yeah.

Like I care for him. I like him. I wouldn't say that I'm going to fall in love with him by any means. But it's definitely more than just like this is just a guy that we hook up with. Okay. So what is the more? We talk to him all the time. Uh-huh.

Like daily. And not just about, And like, let me ask you this, is the talking, like, not just about sex? Right. It's about, like, life. Yeah, yeah. That's when it starts to cross the line, for sure. I get it.

That's the difference, right? Like you're, and it's not separate. It's like everything is together, right? Because, like, I have beauty calls that or my friends too. And I'll, like, sex them. But then when we're like, going to get it on, it's like a totally different thing. You know what I mean? Or not.

I'm saying, like, well, sexed. But then when we're talking as friends, it's completely separated. But this is all together in the same thing, right? Like, you're just, this is very. This is very natural. It's flowing. You're talking about everything, plus you're sexting, and you dig him. Yeah.

And is your husband talking to him as much as you? Yeah. Okay. So you're both. Does he call him his boyfriend? I don't think so. Okay. Let me ask you this.

Does your husband ever going to go away again? I hope not. No. Okay. Because I was wondering, like, if he did, would you be seeing your boyfriend? or do you know, but he has no plans to, so you probably never discuss anything like that? We have actually discussed. I think we both kind of have this fantasy of being caught with him by the other person. Oh my God, you guys are freaky. Okay, what do you mean?

Like, I would love for him to kind of like secretly set up a meeting with him. And then I just kind of happened to come home early from work or something. And I find, them like in the middle of playing and just get like super turned on and I just join. Interesting. And he feels the same way. Yes. Oh my God. Have you guys, why has that happened yet?

Because he lives too far away. He lives really far away. Yeah, he's really busy. We've been so busy this summer. It's been actually really hard to schedule another meeting with him. Really? Because of the distance? Yeah.

And just like life. Like he has kids too. So it's just really hard to coordinate. for somebody to have everybody's children and us be kind of like away. Right. What is his deal as far as relationships are concerned? Is he a single guy? He's got a kid, but does he have just like a baby mama or is he divorced?

Is he with someone? Yeah. Divorced. Okay, divorced. Right. He's the 40-year-old, right? He's the older guy. Yeah.

Right. And is he down to call you his girlfriend? Like, is he down to just like be like hooking up with you guys? Like you said he only hooks up with you guys? Yeah. He actually brought it up first that we are, the only people that he's hooking up with and that he's totally okay with that. Because he's so busy in life and it just like, it just felt so natural and, you know, so amazing when we were together

that he's not really looking for a replacement for that as of right now. Yeah, interesting. And he's got you guys hitting him up. You're all blowing each other's phones up. So it's kind of fun, like you said. You like the attention of this new person. It's like dating again, right? Yeah. Right? All that kind of new stuff. And you're always doing it together. Yep. Do you ever see yourself being a little bit more Polly? Or do you feel like you guys would never go there with your quote unquote boyfriend? Yeah, I don't know.

I don't think so. I think it would just be like too hard logistically to try to explain to our families and just like navigate. No, but I mean, I right. Plus he lives far away. But do you ever like do you, do you feel like you could. your feelings at a certain level so it doesn't cross into the fact that you're like really feeling this other person like a lot more than you are now? I think so.

Yeah. I think I've kind of capped it where it's going to end up being. Right. I mean, listen, the good news is he lives far away. I just always get afraid when there's like more feelings than just sex and, you know, and thank God your husband isn't going away for a really long time. I mean, that's the kind of shit that could go wrong sometimes, you know? Yeah.

without even like intentionally doing it, you know what I mean? But it sounds like with this guy considering like the way it's all set up, he's way older than you, he's lived so far away. You know what I mean? It doesn't sound like that could ever happen and you have it in check and it works for you guys. Yeah. Yeah.

Oh my God. Wait until, you know, I wish you would have set up that whole meeting and getting, who do you think is going to meet up first and have the other person catch them? I don't know. It's so hard to navigate Which position do you prefer?

Like do you want to be fucking him and your guy walk in Or do you prefer your husband fucking him and you walk in? Like which is the hotter scenario to you? Probably meeting caught with him. Yeah, right? I could imagine. Yeah. So you want to be like fucking him.

All right. So set that up. Set that shit up first. Your husband will love it. Yeah, that's true. I'll have to try that. Maybe I can do it for his birthday. His birthday is coming up.

Yeah. Well, he's listening to this. But you want to do it. Like in your favorite. fantasies of like how this is going to play out. Do you really want like the other person to really not know, right? Right. And that's, it's going to be hard to do. I mean, we're so open with each other. Yeah. We tell each other everything. So. Yeah. You might just have to like role play the fact that you don't know. Yeah. Yeah. It is a hot scenario though. I love your guys honesty and openness with

each other. I can imagine what you're going to be doing a year from now. You know what I mean? Yeah. Like besides both of you being honest, I really like admire the how honest your guy has been. You know what I mean? Did you ever like probably feel like it wasn't for him. You wouldn't be doing any of this stuff. He seems to be probably the one that was like the driver of everything. But it sounds now that you're like a willing and happy participant.

Yeah, absolutely. Yeah, yeah, there you go. So your guy's living the best life. People are going to be very jealous on Discord of Panda, at Panda. Okay, he's my moderator. Now you know he's fucking living the life. All you people on my Discord are posting pics about. So do me a favor.

Your guy knows this, that I always ask for hot picks for my Patreon, you know, are rated for Patreon, okay? And then you could do anything for Discord, okay? You guys post yourself on Discord. Are you on there or is just your husband's on there? No, I'm on there too, yeah. Okay, great. Do you have like your OnlyFans and everything in your profile, all your links in your

profile? Yeah, I think I have my link tree right in my bio. Okay, good, because that's where you put it, because you can't do the links in the things. But definitely post when your episode airs. Whenever I, you know, it'll post on a Friday on Patreon because it'll go up on a Monday, you know, so it'll post a couple of days. But you'll know, I'll send you an email when it's going to go up and make sure you post in the guest channel.

Or what's your name on my Discord? Because I'll give you guest role access so you can. Or your guy could give you guest role access. He's a moderator. Yeah, I think I have access already. All right. So he'll give, yeah, he gave that to you already. So you'll be able to post when your episode goes up.

And thanks so much for calling in. It's like such a great story. I'm glad he got you to call in and tell your story. And we'll get you some only fans followers. I'll put your name in the description or your link tree. Send me your link tree, okay? And send me those pictures for Patreon, ASEP, so I just have them, okay? Okay.

All right. All right. Awesome. Thanks so much. Untilipanda, thanks for sending you in. Thanks for being my moderator. Okay, bye. Okay, bye.

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