Strictly Anonymous Confessions - 1561 - XXX Slayer is Into Trans Women, Pegging, Hardcore Latex, Femdom & More
Episode Date: August 21, 2026XXX Slayer is into trans women, pegging, latex, femdom,and more and he called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including when he realized he was into trans women, how and why h...e got into content creating and started out on OnlyFans exclusively with trans women, how he landed collaborations with some of the hottest trans creators, how he branched out into pegging, femdom and other fetishes, what he enjoys about bottoming and being dominated, how and why he got so into latex and his elaborate outfits, how he feels about wearing a chastity cage and the couple he recently hooked up with who put him in one, how his vanilla girlfriend reacted when she found out what he does for a living, why he loves interacting with his fans plus a whole lot more. YOU CAN FIND HIM HERE: https://linktr.ee/thexxxslayer GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY HERE: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd or Pre-order audiobook version here To see HOT pics of my female guests AND XXX SLAYER + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com — Buy 2 months of Bluechew GOLD and get the third month FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON https://beduc.at/pd2630-anonymous Click here to take the quiz and get your personalized SUMMER roadmap to sexual happiness https://LoadBoost.com- To get 10% off LOAD BOOST by VB Health, use code: STRICTLY Motorbunny.com/Strictly — For $50 automatically applied at checkout Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ X https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else: https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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the link. Okay, today I have on a really cool content creator, the triple X Slayer. Do you know him?
He used to be the TS Slayer. He started out making content with trans women. He was always very
into trans women. Like that was his history before. And then when COVID hit, he got into doing
content while he was working his other gig.
And he was doing just, you know, him with trans women at first.
And then he broke off and started doing all kinds of things like and got really into like
femdom and very big into latex and chassis play and cuckold stuff.
And he really like took it to the next level.
And that's why he changed his name to the triple X layer.
His latex outfits are off the charts.
Okay.
Like totally.
He's like extreme.
and it looks super cool.
Okay, he does all kinds of like really interesting content.
He's really into the latex.
Like I said, once he got into it.
He got really into it.
He's got a very big following.
He's all over the place on Fansley and Only fans.
He's on Instagram.
He's on X.
He's on loyal fans.
He's got many vids.
He does all kinds of like super hot content.
He also does pegging content.
He's into being pegged.
He just considers himself a switch.
And he would talk all about it.
He talks about how he got into it.
he's really into. He's got a relationship with a vanilla girl. We talk a little bit about that. It's
very interesting how it's set up with her. But he's somebody who has like worked really hard to
create this whole brand. But he's into everything that he does. And I think you're going to be
into it. If you like like, like it's very specific and very niche. It's like a lot of fetish.
Femdom, latex, pegging, trans women porn that I just have a feeling that there's just like a lot of guys
that are into that. That's why he's super successful.
So if you want to check him out, I'm going to put his link to his link tree in my description.
But anyway, I'm going to be right back on with the triple X layer.
This is the strictly anonymous podcast.
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Hey to the triple X layer.
Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast.
How are you today?
I'm doing great.
How are you?
Happy Friday.
Good.
So you're pretty fucking hardcore when I look at you on Instagram.
You're like a fetish.
guy deep into it in that you produce content you perform right and obviously you're into
kink and bdsm of course but you've taken it way further right and now it's like your business it's
what you do and we'll work up to that but i'd love to get like your whole life story on how you became
the triple x slaya i just want to say slaya uh slayer what how did you know let's go all the way back
first of all how old are you now and are you in a relationship
I'm 38 and I am in a relationship, yep.
You got a great voice.
Do I have to change your voice?
Do people know who you are?
Or do I keep you anonymous and change your voice?
I change most people's voices.
I don't know.
You can keep my voice as there.
Is your voice out there?
Yeah, yeah, my voice is out there.
Okay, good, because you do have a good voice.
Okay, so you're 38, you are in a relationship.
Yes.
Okay, cool.
And what is it, an open relationship, close relationship with a man or a woman?
With a woman and open.
open okay how long you've been with her for four years okay always open always non-monogamous with her
yes okay you met her in the world in the fetish world no she's completely vanilla oh i like that supports
supports what i do great so she we'll we'll get to the point where you're going to date with her and
tell her who you are how she reacts so let's go all the way back though because before you met her
I'm assuming like how old were you when you realized you were into kink and are you
into BDSM? Are you into latex? Like, what's your thing? What are your fetishes?
Yeah, so my fetishes would include latex, BDS, role play, cosplay. I incorporate a lot of
latex into my content. I create characters. I don't show my face, but I use latex to create
characters. Yeah, it looks cool.
Whether it be like a latex doctor, a latex prisoner, a latex clown or a latex made, and I create
scenarios that you know include you know pegging or female domination and or just straight boy girl
vanilla content but i think my femme dom fetish content uh is more of my niche just because in this world
boy normal boy girl vanilla content is oversaturated every woman is getting fucked and every guy is
fucking so you know when you have that role reversal it's something that is not as common in the industry and
I think I do it at a high level.
Yeah.
And listen, one thing I've learned from my show is that so many guys love to be dominated
by women, but a lot of times they won't even cop to it.
That's what I feel like.
It's much more like they're like, you know, oh, we're so dom and everything.
But so many guys want to be dom by women.
So I'm sure you have got a big audience with that niche, right?
Yeah, yeah.
Most men are, a lot of these men that even enjoy porn, even if it's just vanilla porn,
They don't got big dicks.
They don't got the energy to really dominate a woman anyways.
So they probably prefer a woman.
If you think about the psychology, they prefer to see a woman in the dominant position
because they will never achieve, you know, being a man that can perform in the bed like, you know, most male important stars.
Well, listen, right now you're turning the cucks on because you're kind of like humiliate.
You're talking down to men.
But what I would say is that I think a lot of guys, you know, role very dominant in around.
regular life. So it's super fun to be fucking submissive in the bedroom. It's like an escape. And that's
what I think it's typically about. I don't think most guys are losers that can't dominate in the
bedroom. Most guys love to pound a girl. I don't know. Yeah, yeah. You have that. But I'm talking about
most of the fans out there that really. Yeah, those are your cuck fans. Or whatever. You know what I mean?
But I'm saying, if you talk like that to your fans, I know that cucks just got a woody when you say that.
regular guy, you know, wants to believe he could dominate in the bedroom.
He never wants to be told that he'll never achieve that.
You know what I mean?
Right.
Like, it sounds like you're dissing them.
Okay, so let's go back, though, for, like, how did you turn, go from like a little kid to
Triple X player, Slayer?
Like, when did you first realize?
I've loved porn since I was, I've loved porn since kindergarten.
Oh, my God.
I found my dad's playboys in a closet.
Uh-huh.
I took him to kindergarten and got in trouble.
So that was my first.
Wait, did you hide them in your book bag or you brought them to show people like you didn't realize it was wrong?
Yeah, I brought them to show.
I think I was so enamored by it.
I brought it to show people and I got caught immediately.
Oh, my God.
Okay, but that's like regular porn, just naked girls.
What you're into is so much more further.
Like when do you first get a clue that you're into like way kinkier stuff?
the internet came out in what the 2000s and i had a computer alone in the bedroom in my uh not bedroom
office or my office at my parents out of the basement and i just was going down rabbit holes of the
internet and i think you know i just you know my mind opened up to a lot of different types of
kinks and fetishes and types of porn and when i first started i lost my job during the pandemic
and i was like well you know actually let me back up i've been hooking up
with trans women for the last 15, actually 18, 20 years of my life.
So I have built a lot of relationships or connections with trans performers and friends.
So then when I was looking at when I lost my job and I wanted to, you know, get into creating content,
I started initially as the T.S. Slayer and I created a brand where I was filming.
Yes.
So I was filming scenes with trans women helping them create and produce content.
that was just a bit higher quality than what they were doing at the time.
And then I kind of like, you know, I branched off because I realized that guys are like a trans woman,
would also like a woman with a strap on.
And I like a woman.
I like, I just, I'm attracted to femininity.
I don't know what label you want to put on me, whether that's straight by, you know,
I wouldn't say that I'm, you know, attracted to men.
But I just like femininity.
And so, so I film with both.
you know, trans women and cis women today. And, you know, it's been a great, you know, there's two
kinks or areas of porn that are kind of like overlapping. Have you ever been with a dude?
No. Okay, for sure. I've done like, I mean, I've done like cuck holding scenes. Yeah.
You know, the dude is a cuck. And I may like, you know, make him taste his partner's juices or
whatever. But I've never like had sex with a guy. You never blew a guy.
a guy blow you, any of that kind of stuff?
No?
No.
Okay, cool.
So you start hooking up with trans women a long time ago, right?
You weren't out about it.
Did you ever date a trans woman or were you just like having sex with them?
Yeah, I've dated a number of trans women.
Okay.
I've taken one to Jamaica, met my family in Jamaica.
I've lived kind of, whatever, when I said I ever had a lease with a trans woman.
But yes, I've dated trans women.
And do you tell your friends and friends?
family that she's trans now? Is it like, did you do that like more recently that it's more accepted
or were you doing it even back then? And then did you hide it? Yes, I told people back then.
What's your longest relationship with people before your girl now? Anybody?
I mean, longest relationship is now, is the one I have now, four years. Okay, cool. And you were
never married or anything like that? No. Okay. So did you have,
Have you consider yourself someone that has any fetishes?
Like, did you have fetishes before you got into the world of content creation?
Maybe that's the better question.
I think I've gotten into it a lot more as I've learned and explored the industry,
working with different models and different creators.
I've been lucky to, you know, work in many dungeons, work with dominatrixes, work with
milfs, hot wives, muscle mommies.
Right.
Okay.
So you got into this all through producing content.
So it's COVID.
You're broke and you're like,
let me make some money on OnlyFans like everybody else.
Never was broke.
I was just say that.
I did get another job within a month of that layoff,
but I had already started the OnlyFans.
And I actually juggled my other corporate job
for two and a half years.
Yeah, I would assume.
Right.
Just eventually I realized that, you know,
I was tired of the fake corporate bullshit.
it and I enjoyed the creativity that content allowed me.
So I went full time into creating content.
Okay, so it's COVID.
You decide to go on to OnlyFans and what do you wind up doing?
And how do you decide to be like a Triple X Slayer or does that come later?
Like did you just start off as a guy banging women on?
Like what did you start off on OnlyFass?
Yeah, I started off.
As I mentioned, my name was the T.S.
Slayer.
I eventually changed it to the triple X layer as my content kind of like brought in.
And I started filming more fetish and more vanilla or more Flemdom content.
It wasn't just trans content.
Okay.
So in the beginning you're like having sex with trans women, right?
Yeah.
And how was that?
Like did you see like the minute you put that content out that like there were so many guys signing up for your page?
Yeah.
It just grew, you know, I started working with some of the most beautiful trans women in the industry that are out there.
I did a trip to Brazil, worked with some trans women there.
Right.
And it just really just started to grow and grow with every collab.
And, you know, I was really helping, you know, what I thought was, you know,
helping promote the beauty of trans women.
You know, a lot of the trans women that I work with,
most guys don't get to see those type of trans women.
They normally see they might be more used to the local cross dressers or sissies.
And they're not like, you know, exposed to beautiful trans women.
So I was doing it in an adult context and filming adult content with really beautiful trans women.
But, you know, letting guys know that it's, you know, okay to be attracted to trans women.
How did you get those really hot trans women to collab with you and stuff?
Did you build a name for yourself?
Because, listen, it's not easy as a newbie to get like a huge performer to collab with you.
Like how did you like set that up?
Yeah, great question.
I, as I mentioned, I had a number of, just from dating and hooking up based out of Miami.
So there's a lot of girls in Miami that I was already cool with.
And there's always girls coming in and out of town in Miami.
So, you know, I just put in the world.
Yeah, I was in the right place at the right time.
The most beautiful women, whether they're trans or not, in Miami, right?
So you just like, all hot people, right?
So you're just like, if you're in that world, you're going to know them.
So you were like living in that world of those people before you even started
it anyway. So you had access to them because they were like your friends or hookup buddies already.
Yes. Yep. Right. Okay. And so what was like your audience that started? Like it's mostly men,
right, tuning in for that content? Yeah. I think for the most part it's men that are transomires that like
that branch of my catalog. Yeah. Okay. So and then how did you get into other things? Like what came
next and you know, tell me some like all the fetishes that you started tapped into and go into details.
Yeah, so I kind of started tapping into strap on and pegging content.
I had never, you know, done that in my life prior with cis partners.
And, you know, from there, it kind of, you know, I started reinvesting in latex.
And my latex fashion kind of really stood out compared to, you know, within the scene and the industry
and the fetish world.
And, you know, doing other fetishes, whether it's chassis play or my, or I'm locked up or cuckold,
where I'm a bull and I'm working with a performer that has a cuck or squirting, you know,
edging, jerk off instructions are really, you know, sometimes I stack multiple fetishes in one scene.
You might have a pegging scene that has chastity play, that has come eating instructions at the end.
So yeah, and then interracial because most people, I'm a black man.
And so most people I work with are,
really not most people.
I work with,
you know,
black women,
white women.
But, you know,
when you have that,
you have that interracial dynamic sometimes as well.
So that's a fetish.
So,
yeah.
Let me ask you this.
When it comes to,
like,
let's start with the first one.
You said,
like you got into pegging.
Like,
when you say pegging,
are the girls pegging you?
Yeah.
Okay.
And how was that for you?
I mean,
had you been pegged before?
Because you were with,
I'm assuming you were doing,
like you were bottoming
with the trans,
women that you're with? Yeah. So, you know, I started off small with the dildos and, you know,
worked my way up. But I think I had already been, you know, I had at least, you know, maybe 14, 12 years
of anal play with trans women off and on. Right. So I wasn't a virgin. So you like bottoming and you
like something in your ass. Like it's like it's, I'm a three input girl, so I get it. You know what I mean?
I don't know why more guys don't try it. It feels fucking great. You know what I understand it. But like,
you always were into anal play for yourself.
I'm a switch, so I could be, you know, dominant, I could be submissive.
I think, you know, when I first started doing anal play with trans women, what I liked about it was,
you know, as a black man in this world, I'm seen as, I carry myself, you know, as a strong
man walking around.
And it's just, I think you touched on it earlier about, you know, you know, being, giving up control
in the bedroom and just
because giving up that control
and just allowing a trans woman
or a woman just to kind of
take control and dominate the situation.
So I think I've always enjoyed that exploration
of submission just because on a day to day
I don't get to, you know,
submit I have to dominate.
Yeah, that's a totally.
Listen, there's always so many different reasons
for why people are into it, but that's a big part
of it, you know, and then you have like your cucks and stuff
but like a lot of guys are like you, I think for sure, you know?
And a lot of guys wind up getting it to pegging and realize like they really do love it for
that reason, you know?
And sometimes they don't even know that about themselves until they try it, right?
And then what about the latex?
Because like, you know, it's one thing to just sort of think, okay, let me just try this.
Like did you wind up like actually enjoying it?
Yeah, yeah.
No, I love it.
I'm addicted to it.
Obviously, because you got really into it.
Because I see your pictures, right?
It's like hardcore.
or you look like you're in a Marvel movie kind of, you know?
No.
Right?
So how did that come to be?
Yeah, my first latex outfit was frigging terrible.
I bought it off the rack.
Yeah.
I bought it off the rack at a local sex shop.
Nothing was really fitted.
It was like loose.
And it just, it didn't look good.
I remember I think I still had that picture somewhere of my first latex outfit.
And I just continued to invest, learn my sizes, get some custom
pieces you know find and i found like a a look that really worked for me that kind of stood out i think
you know even going back before i did content you know there was the episode of america season of
american the season one of american horror story i think was one of my first uh exploration or you know
where i cut latex caught my eye and there was like a rubber ghost
that ended up slipping into the bedroom and fucking the main fucking the main character's wife or something
if you remember that season.
But I think a lot of people were triggered by latex from that season.
Yeah, is that interesting?
That sometimes it just like you don't even know it about yourself,
but you did when you saw that.
Because like I could tell that like maybe you're trying all these different things out for content,
but because you took the latex so extreme, right?
And you got so into it.
And obviously these outfits are probably a lot of money and everything at this point.
And you're so, you know, you're doing it all the time.
You obviously like really got into it.
You're not just doing it for content.
You know what I mean?
But I'm assuming, you know, did that like really take off when you started producing that kind of content?
Yeah, you know, it took off because it caught a lot more eyes.
I think latex is, you know, one of the best materials within the fetish and sex industry.
If you think about other materials that people wear, you've got lace, you've got nylon, you've got leather, you've got polyester.
That might be like nylon.
Spandex, yeah.
sand at latex fish nets but i think latex really is such an eye-catching material from the shine to the
uh the the the feel and the touch of it that and the way it it shapes the body and and grips the
body the curves it you know you can yeah you can make it looks good on just about everybody so
i think it really took off because it connected me with more performers that were like hey he's got
cool latex yeah we could do a video or seeing
together. So it really helped me differentiate from, uh, from just regular, you know, just being a
regular male and a mask. Right. And you've always been anonymous in your videos and everything.
Yes. Even in, even inside the pay sites, right? Like you're, you're not, you're never showing
your face. Yeah. Right. Does your family or friends know what you do? Or just your family, like maybe,
I'm sure you have so many friends in the business, but like do, does your family now? Uh, no, my friends,
my friends and my partner knows, but my family, no, they still think I'm doing a close.
Finance guy.
Yeah.
If they only know.
And listen, they don't need to know.
You know what I mean?
I'm anonymous on my show and none of my, I have a kid and none of my kids' mom friends
know what I fucking do.
You know what I mean?
And it's a secret.
His mom has a secret life.
Okay, cool.
So what do you enjoy about the latex?
I mean, you know, like, is it the sensation of feeling it?
Like, is it like, you know, does it turn you?
want, I would assume.
It turns me on, yeah.
I think I love how it looks
on me. I love how it looks on women.
Yeah, it looks hotter for sure. And it's so cool
even to see on a guy.
Yeah. I love how it makes other people
feel. Like, you know, when I
just came from FetishCon and St. Pete.
It was a four-day fetish event.
And I did about maybe eight outfit changes.
So I really just, you know, I get
a bit of a thrill of, you know,
like, you know, that fat,
like, you know, have rock, just rocking it.
just having like a piece of, you know, an outfit that is going to turn heads.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I think, you know, everybody likes that feeling like it doesn't have to be in latex,
but you know when you got that shit on, you got that shit on.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
You're the best dressed that, you know, wherever you go.
Yeah, you turn heads, yeah.
Yeah, so I think I do really like that.
I like that, that I can turn heads in latex because I know when I go out,
no one else is going to have an outfit that I have.
And it's kind of cooler to cover yourself up with that than a mask, right?
Because you got latex matte like things over your face.
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah, we call them hoods.
Yeah.
They're definitely,
these ones that I have are pretty creative ones.
Before I get into chassis and the other things,
like I see a picture on your,
your axe where you're like,
you know, laundry day, latex laundry day.
And it's like, how the fuck do you clean this?
Do you have to like hand wash?
I would assume.
Like what do you use, windax or just wash them down with a sponge?
Oh God.
It looks hard.
I actually created, I did a five-minute safe for work video, which will be on my YouTube channel later.
But how do you clean it is, it's a rubber material.
So you, and there's adhesive, though, that binds the sleeve.
The sleeve is bound by adhesive to like the chest piece.
Okay.
You know, it's to get the curves, you know, it's all adhesive.
So if you leave the shine or the dressing aid,
on for too long, it'll eat at the matita adhesive. So you want to use, you wash it with soap and water.
The soap I like to use is a chemical free, like that clear and free soap that dish soap that you can buy.
So, you know, that, you know, I do like a, you know, just a, you know, pour it in the tub or a bucket.
That's why I have that Home Depot. I had that.
I see it. I'll use a Home Depot bucket for the lights. I separate the lights and the darks.
Because obviously, yeah, just like regular laundry.
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because you might also have lube or bodily fluids or, you know, whatever cream or whatever.
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And that just kind of allows it not to be dry. And it has,
it's a nice feel by the next time I'm ready.
It's like washing a car.
Yeah.
All the stuff.
I do see you suck at a dick here, okay?
Like Paris makes me swallow come and destroys my ass.
So you are like, you do, you will suck a dick sometimes.
Yeah, but I'm only attracted to femininity or trans women.
Yeah, I'll suck a trans woman's dick.
I'm not attracted to masculinity.
I'm not attracted to men.
I can appreciate, you know, that Tom Cruise is probably a good looking guy.
But if I'm not that hungry or thirsty,
I'm not like attracted to him in a sexual way to suck his cock or do anything with him.
Now you take let me see now say for you take that same Tom Cruise and now he transitioned to like
a beautiful woman with a cop right.
Yeah.
So I might then be attracted to, you know, their femininity at that point.
Listen, I have talked to so many guys that suck dick sometimes that don't even consider themselves
into guys.
I've heard it all.
I had a guy on Dr. Joe Court who, and he's a gay man, and he explained that, like, you could suck a dick and not be gay or bisexual or intimate at all. It has nothing to do with it. It just has to do with your erotic orientation. Like when you're in the mood and you're horny, you know, some people are down to do certain things and it doesn't mean they're even into guys at all. You know what I mean?
100% agreed. Yeah. And it really makes sense.
Yeah. And sometimes it's like just in the moment. It's just in the moment. A woman can make out with a woman and eat a pussy on a drunken night. But, you know, that doesn't make.
her a lesbian therefore she goes back in that moment she felt a bit gay or like a lesbian that's what he
says yeah you know she can go back to you know her husband and kids the next day and live a very
straight life like that never happened well because he said there's a difference between sexual
orientation and erotic orientation sexual orientation is you know you're into women and you you eat pussy
all the time and you're a check your erotic orientation is you're not into women at all but if you're
like in an orgy situation or you're at your girlfriend's house and she looks fucking hot and in the
moment you're horny, you might eat pussy, but it doesn't mean anything. You know what I mean? And that's
like, that's what he calls erotic orientation. And so many people roll that way. And I think a lot of, and
when he broke it down, it's like, I've re-aired his episode so many times because I think it's so
helpful for people to see the difference. Because sometimes they'll hear people explain, oh, I like to
suck a dick or I'll suck a trans woman's dick, but and they'll be like, well, he's gay. Like,
it's like, no. Like that's, that's not what it means. It means exactly what you just said and
explained. You know what I mean? And that's your true. And that's your true.
And so many people have all different kinds of truths when it comes to sex and what they're into.
You know what I mean?
And that's why personally, I mean, everybody like is very anti-labels.
I think labels are great because there's so many different ones because there's so many different things that people could be.
You know what I mean?
And you don't need to just be like bisexual, homosexual or straight.
You know, there's a lot of other things in between.
So what about Chastity?
Do you dig being like denied and stuff like that?
Or do you do it like just for content and do a lot of people like that content?
No, I fucking hate being into that.
So who's in Chastity?
The Cucks that you're with?
Like, what do you do Chastity in your videos?
I'm comfortable doing it for content.
Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah.
I don't mind at all, especially if it's like, you know,
I could do like two, three scenes in a day.
I mean, I might pop, you know, in the first,
I might come in the first scene.
Yeah.
And then I still, you know, working with Femdom,
you could, you know, they just swap out the strap on
and they're ready to go.
And we could change outfits and do another ones.
So say, I come in the first scene.
I'm not really that excited to get hard again.
So yeah, I'm totally down with, you know, acting.
Put the cage on, right.
Put the cage on because it ain't going to get hard in the scene anyways, maybe.
So might as well, you know, put some jewelry on it.
Yeah.
But no, I, in my personal life, I don't like Chastity.
I wake up too hard in the morning.
Because it would hurt, right?
Yeah.
It hurts, yeah.
Yeah, yeah.
But I've credit, but Bravo to the subs that do it, who can be in long-term chastity.
Can you believe?
their partner. Yeah. I have those guys on my show. Some of them stay in three weeks. I mean,
they'll take it off just to shower and stuff. But I had a, I had a threesome last week at the convention,
this convention I was at with this married couple. But they were kind of like, you know,
bringing me in slowly, teasing me for over a year. And we had two prior hookups before we actually
did something. And each time they kind of cuckolded me. So I'll just say the last,
So last week they put me in a cage and I was, I had to watch, I watched them have sex.
We eventually, this week ended up having sex with a threesome for the first time, but they put me through that trial.
And I was like so hard.
I was like, let me out the cage.
I was, I was a good boy.
But, you know, they were, they were a beautiful married couple.
And I was so happy that they let me be the first person in their marriage to, you know, that they had to share his wife.
Yeah, that's a good.
I take it as a quite up, the honor when I kept to do that.
Yeah, so now that I know that you're hooking, but a couple of times and I know you're in a
relationship, but you're in an open relationship.
Let's get to the story of how, like, you met your vanilla girl and, like, how, you know,
did you meet her outside of the world so she had no idea that you did this, or was she, like,
working in the world?
Yeah.
We met on the beach in Miami, and I, you know, approached her and started chatting up a conversation,
and we eventually started dating maybe about four, or we,
At the time I was in a relationship, but I was a relationship that was like, you know, on the rocks.
And it was on the rocks because my partner at that time was not happy with me doing content.
So that, you know, it wasn't going to work out.
So I was already starting to, you know, look.
And I met so when I ran into this girl at the beat my partner now at the beach, we didn't immediately start, you know,
we went on one little breakfast or whatever.
And then when we finally did four or six months later, just one of,
I was, you know, healed from my breakup and really ready to entertain that relationship.
I was when I was like right away, I want to share that, you know, I do content because you're either going to take it or you're going to leave it.
Yeah, you're not going to waste your time again.
Waste my time again.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And how did she react?
It was, I think, difficult at first.
And I think she went down like that rabbit hole of like looking at my content.
Of course.
And, you know, so, you know, at first she was, but I think I, I, I think I,
always felt accepted by her.
And so I think that's why we were still together.
But what about the whole, let's, you know, because you're a hook it up in your content and
you're with other people and you're fucking a couple.
Like, I mean, you know, that's a whole separate thing where I'm just doing content, right?
So like, does she, like, was she down to being open and does she go fuck other people or
does she just allow it for you because it's what you do?
Yeah, she allows it for me and she's not interested in, you know, I would love, you know,
maybe as we continue to explore things together, you know, happy for her to find something.
I've begun to take her to some of the events and the lifestyle events that I go to.
Yeah.
So, you know, I think she just has to be, you know, her eyes have to open up more to it and want to do it.
Yeah.
What does she tell her friends what you do?
I think corporate.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah, that's cool.
So what kind of?
So I still did have my corporate job.
So it's just really as a recent that I'm no longer.
Right.
When you started making good money.
Because listen, if you want to be successful doing any kind of content, it's a 24-7 thing, right?
Like it's like, it's not.
Everyone thinks I think that people think like building anything, whether it's a huge Instagram or any kind of huge following platform.
You know, you have to tend to it on a daily minute by minute hourly basis.
It's a garden.
Yeah, you never build it and then it's done.
You know what I mean?
It's constantending and that's what keeps it successful.
So I hate when people like sort of make jokes about like OnlyFans creators like,
Oh, OnlyFans going away.
They should go work out McDonald's.
It's like they don't realize like these people are work.
Anyone making good money like six figures or more on OnlyFans is working their fucking
ass off and has to have very good work ethic to get that far.
It's not, you know what I mean?
It's a lot of work whether you think it's dumb.
Like whatever you think about the work, it's not that it's not easy.
Right.
So obviously at a certain point you couldn't do.
both if you were going to be very successful.
You know what I mean?
If you're going to be really big and work.
And X and Instagram and the content.
And I'm sure like,
do you do customs and all that kind of stuff too?
Or like how do you like what's your only fan set up?
Because you do fans,
the only fans.
Yeah.
So I've diversified my platforms.
Uh-huh.
Fans is not,
yeah,
I don't think it's going to be around for forever.
Yeah,
I'm also working on building my own website coming out later this year.
That's more.
But I don't really do customs.
I do what I want to do and my mind is pretty great.
Yeah, if you see, if you're looking at my Twitter page, you'll see that there's a one.
Yeah, it really is something for everything, everyone.
You know, I like to take women and put them in positions of power.
You know, what's funny is that I love also just doing boy grow vanilla content, but as I mentioned,
it's just so saturated that, you know, a lot of what, what mostly sells is the fetish, the
The wild stuff.
But my actual store, my only fans, has, you know, I post two to three times a week.
I'm constantly editing.
I'm chatting with my own fans.
I don't have, I haven't outsourced much of my business.
So my brand, as I call it.
So it is a 24-7 job.
But I love the freedom and the flexibility that allows me to really do what the fuck I want.
Do you like interacting with the stuff?
your fans and the people as well?
Absolutely.
I think you have to because that's, right?
Don't you think?
Like to be the one,
that's the difference between the successful ones and the not so successful.
You know what I mean?
You can't just be like,
I just want to make a buck.
You know what I mean?
You got to be really into every part of it.
Including to me,
which is the best part,
at least for what I do,
is like interacting with people
that are consuming your content,
you know?
Yeah.
No, I love talking to,
you know, guys that,
because when I started this shit,
I didn't know that there was other guys that liked trans women.
Right.
I didn't know there was other guys that like, you know, I'd never prior to in any relationship
that I had, did I ever tell my cis partners about, you know, my, me liking to do anal play.
Yeah.
You know, I just was the straight guy and, you know, strong.
I was always the dominant in the top in my relationships.
Right.
I never, like, was able to.
But now, I don't even know, I don't even know your name, man.
I'm here talking to you.
Like, I'm as a female and I'm having these conversations because I know it's okay now.
I know there's so many other, you know, women that are into it.
And I think that was the thing.
I didn't know that there were women into it.
Yeah.
And there are so many women into it.
Like, there's so fucking many hot women that are into it.
And there's so many guys that also are into it.
And I don't mind talking to the fans.
And, you know, when they see me out at events, when they recognize me, you know, I get recognized
and I'm not showing my face, meaning like, my eyes.
meaning like my outfits, my brand.
Of course. Yeah. Of course. Yeah.
So I love chatting with them and I never thought that that day would happen where, you know,
random people are telling me like, yo, I love your content. I love what you do.
Yeah. And that's great. And listen, you know, I've always like on this mission,
I always talk about it on my show. I'm always on this mission for like every guy to try anal,
you know, because and I sometimes think like out of all the guys that say they don't do it,
how many of them like, you know, really have it. I think that's a lot of times because of this
ridiculous stigma that still exists, which I don't understand how the guy on guy stigma still
exist so bad even up until now. But like, I think that, you know, anal, there's still a stigma
between a guy liking it. You know, he just assumes a few cops to it. But I feel like how, you know,
there's probably so many guys out there that have tried it, but they don't say anything. But they're
probably secretly, you know, subscribe to your only fans. You know what I mean?
A lot of, you know, they might try it and they don't have a good first experience. Well, that's like
why girls don't like it because some guy just shove their dick in their ass the first time.
They don't know how to do it properly.
You know what I mean?
That's why I always tell guys, fuck yourself in the ass first and figure out how to do it for
your ass and then you'll know how to get your girl into it.
Every girl out there that hates anal had some guy that just stuck it in because he had no
fucking clue how an asshole works.
You know what I mean?
It's like you can't just do that.
If she's not turned on, it's like ridiculous.
But wait a second.
So your girl, you do like your thing and for work.
but do you also like in your private life like do you just have like a free pass to hook up with
whoever you want when you want it like or is it do you just like hook up with other people for
content for content okay so that's like your like so your open relationship with your
woman is just like for your content creating it's not like you guys you you you will go and
see somebody on the side one night no right so that's different than a regular open
relationship. And now, so sometimes she comes to the events, because you say you go to different
lifestyle events. Do you go as like, you know, the triple X layer? Like, do they bring you in as a
person to be there? Or do you just go to, you know, sort of promote your business and everything?
It varies. I think when I started my career, I just was going just to, you know, promote a business,
get that face time. Yeah. Not just with fans, but with other performers, you know, letting them see,
you know because you know in real life you know a person looks different you know and then they do
online right so when you see this latex stud walking around it you know it catches the eye versus
you know maybe what you see and you know i love to have those conversations to see where you know
our brands can fit and align with different females a lot of females you know they don't have
a guy that's down to be submissive and do stuff and shoot the type of content that I
shoot so you know it's always that's it's a great when you get to meet you know network and
with other performers at these events but now I've been brought in by you know a couple of different
events to you know work the booth for other companies oh yeah yeah I see that you do work with
do you work with motor bunny or you just an affiliate you sell them do you like do you have a motor bunny
yeah they're great friends with mine I they're awesome I've been using
their products is the motor bunny jack and the motor bunny buck.
Really getting into incorporating it into like forced orgasm, forced squirting content.
And that motor bunny jack is like this portable chainsaw thing that they gave me.
It's pretty sick.
Yeah, they sent me a regular one.
I forgot what it.
But it wasn't.
And so I like learned like I was like tilting it to the side and I just had a whole
conversation with Venus cuckled just about how like, oh my motor bunny I tilted to the side
and just let it fuck me for like, you know, 40 minutes.
And I won't turn it on high.
No, but the buck could turn over.
But he wound up, it turns out that motor bunny has like a wedge that you could use on the one that, you know, to twist it over.
So it's one.
I'm like, motor bunny is the fucking best.
They hear me talking about.
They're like, oh, well, look, yeah, Kathy.
And they sent me more attachments.
Motor buddy's fucking great, right?
It's like the best.
It's not even a sex toy.
It's like a machine, a sex machine.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I helped them out with getting into, we hosted an event together.
And we did a content.
This is this fetish takeover called Florida Fetish Weekend.
It happens every year at Memorial Day weekend.
This year, the owner reached out to me to, you know,
he knows that creators are coming in, you know, and creating in their hotel rooms.
And he wanted to use one of the ballrooms, one of the empty ballrooms,
to turn it into a content space where creators that were at the fetish weekend,
it's a five-night fetish weekend.
Complete hotel takeover.
Everyone in the hotel is kinky as fuck doing stuff all day.
So I basically set up and organized, you know,
slot hours and we decorated a dungeon in the ballroom and we brought in I have this great partners
that style fetish their BDSM company and they have furniture so they brought in a swing like a fuck
bench and then motor bunny came in and they brought their motor bunny jack and buck and people
and allowed people to use it within like you know during their shoots yeah yeah yeah they were great
yeah super nice do you know Warren over there is that who you deal with yeah Warren's great
Yeah, I love Warren.
I give him a shout out.
He was the one that I met him at.
So he's the one who came with all the goodies.
Yeah, he's always sending me goodies.
I've never met him in real life.
But when I mentioned something, like,
Warren's like, good to go.
He's like, oh, something's common.
I'm like, oh, my God, I'm getting it.
Because Warren said me your number, I thought, I was like, I thought Warren was the
I was like, oh, you fucker Warren and then it was you.
I was like, I was expecting Warren at first.
No, yeah, no, no, no.
He's like, he's hooking me up because I'm like, listen, I love Motor Bunny.
I'm always looking for people for, you know, guests on my show because I do seven episodes a week,
and I like to do episodes about all different kinds of things.
Like, your episode is going to be great.
So I like, I just love different episodes about all different people in the lifestyle, regardless,
whether it's a content creator or just a regular couple who became non-monogamous, you know.
So I was like, send anybody my way if you know, because he says he works with people.
I've been trying to get worn on my show because I think he's got an interesting story, but he hasn't come on yet.
Oh, he does.
Oh, he does.
but he's not on yet but I'm like sending me other people so okay so he's sending you that's awesome
so what would so explain like where people could go to get all of your stuff and what they get
and all that kind of good stuff and like what's the next festival what's the are you is that the
next thing you're going to be at at memorial day for the fetish uh convention or hotel takeover
in florida no i'm going to amsterdam next month for ex-vis amsterdam and oh i don't remember
one more. Is Memorial Day the one in September
or no? Which is the first?
Yeah, the next holiday is Labor Day.
Oh.
You're thinking of Labor Day.
Yeah, yeah. Where can people find you?
I am going to be, I'm on OnlyFans,
Twitter, Instagram,
Fat Life. I think the best way
is just to find my link tree, which is
on my Twitter, which is the Triple X
Slayer. I think it's also, well, Instagram's so
gay. They won't allow me to update links
because I guess I did something bad.
Are you serious?
My instant.
That's like a punishment?
Yeah, I can't update any links in my bio or anything.
They're so funny how they punish people.
Like, I've gotten stuff taken down and they'll be like, you can't go live.
I'm like, who cares?
I never go live.
You know what I mean?
They do these weird things.
How long did they say you can't change your links for?
It's been like a month and a half now.
It's just super annoying because I just changed my, I realized my link tree was that it was on my old name,
the T.
That's a whole other story.
When I didn't, you know, mentioned that I had changed my name, my brand.
into the triple X. I think I did actually. I did say that.
Yeah, but how long into it? Like, how long have you been the triple X layer?
Six years. I think Triple X layer came. I switched it two years ago.
Oh, okay. So it's a little bit more recent. How come you changed it just because you wanted to
rebrand and be more? I wanted to rebrand, but also I think the TS Slayer, you know, a lot of
trans women are murdered per year. I didn't want to make trans women feel uncomfortable.
So I, you know, changed my name to the triple X layer. But content header.
already grown, but, you know, I think a lot of people felt certain type of way about, you know,
the murder rate of trans woman. I actually lost a trans friend in the process, a woman I had
worked with. So, you know, I kind of understood the, you know, the feelings. And also, like,
yeah, so I think Triple X layer represents the overall brand of like, I'm slaying, you know,
adult content right? Yeah. And you're, yeah, because you're doing so much more, right? Like,
you kind of what you kind of really built your brand and became and went in so many different
directions that you really would it I think it's more proper to call yourself the the triple
X like yeah don't you think and but you have still have all that transgender stuff on there as well
as latex right you do have regular guy girl stuff right your girl is your girlfriend's never
in anything with you right she's completely right no no she's right and do what kind of sex you have
with her just regular vanilla sex yeah
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, I'm sure that's super hot after doing all the other stuff, right?
Yeah. I get it all out.
Oh my God. You should really put a ring on her finger. I mean, I don't know if you're into being married or not, but I mean, like, you're really lucky to have found a girl, right?
Who's like totally vanilla and totally cool with what you do and like not jealous and accepting of it all. You know what I mean?
Yeah. Yep. You're right. Yeah. So don't let her go. She deserves it.
I don't know if she wants to get married or whatever,
but like if she ever does,
don't fucking hold out.
There's no reason to,
you know what I mean?
No, she's amazing.
She's gorgeous too.
Yeah,
I mean,
imagine what you got because like,
like,
it's more common that a girl is going to be like your ex,
right,
who eventually got jealous.
A lot of girls might say,
yeah,
I'm down and I could do it
because it's the beginning of the relationship
and they want to make it work
and then they just realize that they can't.
You know what I mean?
A lot of people wouldn't be able to deal with
the fact that their guy is going out
and fucking all these other people,
and it's just for job.
You know, so if you have a girl that she said, yes, okay,
and even four years later is just completely, totally fine with it.
Like, you know, you're pretty lucky.
She's like, she's the one for you.
That's what I said.
Thank you.
She should thank me.
But anyway, so listen, I will put for anyone driving,
I know people are going to be dying to see who you are and look at the pictures
that I saw and check you out and sign up for all your shit.
And I'm going to put your link tree in the description.
So anyone driving,
You don't have to remember everything that he said.
Yeah, you don't have to remember everything that he said.
I'll just put his link tree in the description.
Now, if you want to send me, do you have my email?
If you want to send me like a couple of picks for my Patreon, that'd be great.
You will also get like access when we hang up.
You'll get an email with access to my Discord.
Now my Discord is not like I don't charge for it.
It's free, but it's private.
I only give it to people who calls them to my show and people are my Patreon and whatever.
But there's over 6,000 people in there.
And there is a content creator.
channel. I don't even know what their
Discord is. Oh, you'll start
one eventually. I, you know, I didn't know
what a fucking Discord was either. And I just got
some guy to set it up for me and
work it. And then over, you know, so many
years later, I know what the fuck I'm doing, kind of.
And I have like 6,000 people in there. So,
you'll get on Discord one day because
it's just another one of the things, you know. But you
could go in there promote whatever you want if you want
to. But send me picks if you can. Or I could
just take picks off your Instagram or your X
too for my Patreon too. It's cool. Yeah. If you like
any on my Instagram, feel free to
but if you still need, just, yeah.
All right, awesome.
All right, thanks so much for calling in.
This was fun talking to you.
You got a great story.
Bye.
Bye.
Okay, I just want to tell you that my book,
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Some of the best stories, okay?
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And now you could just sit back and listen
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Okay?
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it's available in ebook, paperback, and audiobook,
I'll throw in a complimentary link to my Discord.
My Discord does not disappoint.
There's no way to get into my Discord
unless I send you the link.
All you got to do if you get my book
is send me a screenshot of your purchase
to Strictly Anonymous Podcast at gmail.com.
That's strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com
and I'll send you the link to Discord.
So anyway, thanks so much for tuning in.
This is the Strictly Anonymous Podcast.
Strictly Anonymous Podcast.
